Men don't, do not entertain a woman that doesn't respect you. When you look into the eyes of a man that his woman doesn't respect, you see a man that his soul is gone and it breaks my heart... Men respect your woman, and if you can't do that don't be in that relationship.. It's like trying to drive a car without an engine
These are my boundaries and they seem to push away most women. -No posting provocative pics on social media -No giving out social media to men. There are some exceptions -No flirting with men disguised as being friendly -Talking to exes who haven’t been out of your life for a while. Old exes turned friends are fine -No arguing or being disrespectful in front of company -No running to friends and family over every little thing
@@Kotramail thats refreshing to hear. I am going to keep working on myself this year because I always attract a certain type of woman. Maybe its a reflection of who i am
I made the mistake of allowing my wife to disrespect me early on in our relationship, because I was infatuated with her. Now we are in the middle of an ugly divorce because I finally had enough. Set those boundaries early. Thank you, I will apply this the next time around.
I set priorities from day 1 bcos I was and still is the bread keeper and she lives with me and I paid most of the bills and I told her many times she can leave if she wants to but shes not going to disrespect me or accuse me falsely with her insecurities.... I'm not authoritative but rather having principles and she left many times but she keeps coming back apologising...she's still with me now and she now understands that she can't act however she wants around me.....we had numerous police incidents, even took to me to family court a few times but she went back to withdraw the case everytime...bcos she knows that she was wrong and she did what she did out of emotions...all I can say to all men who want to be in a relationship, "say what you mean and mean what you say and be a man of your word" don't be fooled by a woman's deceptive ways and shenanigans....God made you to be a leader over your wife and your household and not the other way around. Unfortunately we live in a world where some women think that they can eat their cake and have it to and dumb it in the garbage and go back for it again....they are emotional indecisive beings.
I think sometime God allow Righteous men to set boundaries and virtuous women to align with those boundaries. We have to bring God in most of the things we do. Thank you Labossiere. Keep ministering sir. This is good💛🙏💪🙌
@@GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262 yes ma'am I said most of the things because he dont dwell in everything that i do. I'm just being honest. I tend to get it back on one accord with him though by repenting and turning from that way. Please sister keep me in your prayers and I would do the same for you. Thank you. Love you💚🙏.
@@cget I meant in the context of the adored and the adorer. It's better if you are the adored. It comes as natural instinct, you don't necessarily have to be macho about it, I have personally found gentility goes a long way.
I had a guy who first showed up the way he was supposed to, but after my mother passed away this year...he said if I need anything don't hesitate to ask, but when I got back home....he ghosted me, so I even reached out and he never responded, so I went on with my life and not worry about him anymore. So please guys, do what you say and say what you mean.
All it is, is focusing on yourself, your goals, and career. Be healthy emotionally, physically, mentally, financially, and spiritually. When that woman comes to test you, you hold your ground and be yourself and continue on. If you lose yourself and everything that's stated above, your foundation can crumble and fall and you'll lose that woman. I was great and confident on my own. I had everything stated above but I lost myself in trying to focus on her and not myself. With some of my foundations overlooked and I was unaware of, Im currently working on them again. I guess its all trial and errors.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Excellent Video Stephan! I agree with all of your points! Your work is making a positive difference in our lives and for that I say Thank YOU!! I would add the following: 1. Women respect men that tell the truth and communicates effectively. No lies, no keeping secrets, hiding things, no passive aggressiveness, etc. Open, honest communication. It builds trust. 2. Women respect men that makes time for them and makes them a priority. We understand work and purpose. We get it that. But when men CONSISTENTLY give us quality time...trust, trust, trust it will work in your favor! Basically men and women have to give each other what they want. Love and respect. It goes hand in hand. And if we don't consistently give/get it the relationship is done. 3. Women respect men that listen to them. That's it. Be present, offer insight and perspective. But yeah...just listen. 4. Women respect men that are neat and organized. Appearance, home, car, office, etc. We don't like dysfunction. 5. Women respect men who take good care of themselves: grooming, working out, eating healthy, taking care of their health (mental, dental, annual physicals, etc.) We all have purpose to fulfill and we need healthy bodies to do that. And seeing a man that is on top of it equals much respect! Last, women respect men that have self-discipline and self-control to not sleep around with everybody and their grandmother. That goes for women too. God made us sexual beings so wanting and desiring pleasure is natural. We just have to get it in the right context. What's done in the past is done. Can't change that but I think that waiting and honoring God with our bodies and saving ourselves for our future husbands and wives is a BEAUTIFUL thing and God will bless and honor that! Okay, I'm out! I hope this helps!
Profound video 👑❣️❤️🔥 I feel as quiet as it has been kept. In some cases, there are some women not all who seek a dominant man. I'm talking about MENTAL DOMINANCE. A man who guides her when she may be feeling lost and who puts her in her place when she's doing stupid stuff (in private loving matter), of course 😊 for some women it's an TURN ON🔥 for her. That can be her way of showing her man RESPECT as well by honoring his wishes at his loving command.🙏🏽 It's Pure Masculinity innergies. 💪🏾👑
A woman wants to be part of an adventure...your adventure you attracted her to at first if she's with you. As soon as you make her the adventure....she loses interest. Sometimes I forget it and have to start that over again. Including currently.
What can I say, you are very much bang on Stephan,👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 one of the things I find very attractive in a man is him believing in God..keep up the great work you are doing Stephan 🙏🏽💚🙌🏾
A lack of a respectable father figure is perhaps the number one indicator on whether or not a woman will disrespect men who become her partner or potential partner. Women who were raised by a single mom without a strong father figure are much more likely. Do you have all the negative indicators
So I do respect this is a men's channel, and I normally do not comment at all, let alone on here. Lol, But would love to give my opinion. 😉 This video has great points to remind that Respect is needed, desired, and can be received . Men and women both matter and need Love and Respect. It's hard to respect someone who doesn't care and vice versa. Learning about and caring for each other only benefits both parties. An individual or couples desires, needs, boundaries, ,etc.. vary from others, so decide what's best for you. Learn from others mistakes and your own. We will make them, but we can learn and grow from them. If certain things, are considered and implemented by a man, it will show, The right women who is for you, and cares for you , will respect and appreciate you and more. Hopefully the man in turn will love, respect and appreciate her as well. ❤ And of course praying is always a good idea if you believe. Let's be honest, even us believers don't always pray about things we should, but God cares and wants what's best for all of us. 😊 Omg, 😮 sorry this is so long. Lol. Have a great day.
You are true dear Stephan coz my boyfriend did it in the beginning , he is respectful loving and humble treats me like Queen 👸 I love him so much and I also respect him as my king 🤴🥰🥰
Excellent content! Gave me a lot to reflect on. Thank you! Would you consider doing a video for men about important boundaries to know for themselves before dating? Boundaries to discuss during the initial stages of dating. And possibly a separate video about boundaries for men to be prepared to discuss before becoming a couple?
I only loose respect if something major has happened in the relationship. Not to say that I would never give it back. For it lieing, abuse, entertaining other women, gohosting me, and affairs. All of which my husband did. 24 years and I'm divorcing him. I still respect that he makes money and provides, and also that he is a child of God. It's very hard for me to give respect when I was disrespected the entire relationship. I hope one day I can be in a relationship where the respect I'm giving isn't trampled on.
Ladies sometimes men don’t want you to talk about your relationship with others even when he keeps making fake promises that he never keeps, is because he doesn’t want your friends and family to help you see through his BS! I was the kind of person who never talked about my relationship with outsiders. And the games he played with me were insane! So yes don’t talk to others about every single thing but if the same issue is not getting resolved for years, he’s probably a manipulative person and you need emotional support to not lose yourself to this fake relationship
Ain’t this the truth. I messed up and let her get away with everything when she went to prison, I just hurt for her so badly. Here we are in a divorce and I can only blame myself for allowing bad behavior for so long. I lost my balls… and she fell inlove with another man.
I have seen a few of your videos.Men are tired simping. I think a lot of men will not follow the advice you are giving them because they are tired of the caprices of modern women.
Men don't, do not entertain a woman that doesn't respect you. When you look into the eyes of a man that his woman doesn't respect, you see a man that his soul is gone and it breaks my heart... Men respect your woman, and if you can't do that don't be in that relationship.. It's like trying to drive a car without an engine
Well said 🙏
These are my boundaries and they seem to push away most women.
-No posting provocative pics on social media
-No giving out social media to men. There are some exceptions
-No flirting with men disguised as being friendly
-Talking to exes who haven’t been out of your life for a while. Old exes turned friends are fine
-No arguing or being disrespectful in front of company
-No running to friends and family over every little thing
That’s a good list
This list is very reasonable.
Women here and love your list
@@Kotramail thats refreshing to hear. I am going to keep working on myself this year because I always attract a certain type of woman. Maybe its a reflection of who i am
Im an old ex she still comes to visit to get stuffed properly. Id reconsider this list, lol
I made the mistake of allowing my wife to disrespect me early on in our relationship, because I was infatuated with her. Now we are in the middle of an ugly divorce because I finally had enough. Set those boundaries early. Thank you, I will apply this the next time around.
Real talk sounds like me smh
I set priorities from day 1 bcos I was and still is the bread keeper and she lives with me and I paid most of the bills and I told her many times she can leave if she wants to but shes not going to disrespect me or accuse me falsely with her insecurities....
I'm not authoritative but rather having principles and she left many times but she keeps coming back apologising...she's still with me now and she now understands that she can't act however she wants around me.....we had numerous police incidents, even took to me to family court a few times but she went back to withdraw the case everytime...bcos she knows that she was wrong and she did what she did out of emotions...all I can say to all men who want to be in a relationship,
"say what you mean and mean what you say and be a man of your word" don't be fooled by a woman's deceptive ways and shenanigans....God made you to be a leader over your wife and your household and not the other way around.
Unfortunately we live in a world where some women think that they can eat their cake and have it to and dumb it in the garbage and go back for it again....they are emotional indecisive beings.
Lesson learned bro
I think sometime God allow Righteous men to set boundaries and virtuous women to align with those boundaries. We have to bring God in most of the things we do. Thank you Labossiere. Keep ministering sir. This is good💛🙏💪🙌
Well said!
@@StephanSpeaksforMen Glory to God💛🙏
@@denanikiawilliamsAgreed...
But, I intentionally bring God in ALL things that I do, He knows what's best✨💯
@@GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262 yes ma'am I said most of the things because he dont dwell in everything that i do. I'm just being honest. I tend to get it back on one accord with him though by repenting and turning from that way. Please sister keep me in your prayers and I would do the same for you. Thank you. Love you💚🙏.
Without respect it's not going to last, but it's also not something you ask for. It comes naturally
Disagree. Sometimes people don't know certain things they do are disrespectful, so you have to tell them
@@cget I meant in the context of the adored and the adorer. It's better if you are the adored. It comes as natural instinct, you don't necessarily have to be macho about it, I have personally found gentility goes a long way.
@@cget I absolutely agree with you though
I had a guy who first showed up the way he was supposed to, but after my mother passed away this year...he said if I need anything don't hesitate to ask, but when I got back home....he ghosted me, so I even reached out and he never responded, so I went on with my life and not worry about him anymore. So please guys, do what you say and say what you mean.
Finally someone taught on this.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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Thank you brother for addressing the elephant in the room.
All it is, is focusing on yourself, your goals, and career. Be healthy emotionally, physically, mentally, financially, and spiritually. When that woman comes to test you, you hold your ground and be yourself and continue on. If you lose yourself and everything that's stated above, your foundation can crumble and fall and you'll lose that woman. I was great and confident on my own. I had everything stated above but I lost myself in trying to focus on her and not myself. With some of my foundations overlooked and I was unaware of, Im currently working on them again. I guess its all trial and errors.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Excellent Video Stephan! I agree with all of your points! Your work is making a positive difference in our lives and for that I say Thank YOU!!
I would add the following: 1. Women respect men that tell the truth and communicates effectively. No lies, no keeping secrets, hiding things, no passive aggressiveness, etc. Open, honest communication. It builds trust. 2. Women respect men that makes time for them and makes them a priority. We understand work and purpose. We get it that. But when men CONSISTENTLY give us quality time...trust, trust, trust it will work in your favor! Basically men and women have to give each other what they want. Love and respect. It goes hand in hand. And if we don't consistently give/get it the relationship is done. 3. Women respect men that listen to them. That's it. Be present, offer insight and perspective. But yeah...just listen. 4. Women respect men that are neat and organized. Appearance, home, car, office, etc. We don't like dysfunction. 5. Women respect men who take good care of themselves: grooming, working out, eating healthy, taking care of their health (mental, dental, annual physicals, etc.) We all have purpose to fulfill and we need healthy bodies to do that. And seeing a man that is on top of it equals much respect! Last, women respect men that have self-discipline and self-control to not sleep around with everybody and their grandmother. That goes for women too. God made us sexual beings so wanting and desiring pleasure is natural. We just have to get it in the right context. What's done in the past is done. Can't change that but I think that waiting and honoring God with our bodies and saving ourselves for our future husbands and wives is a BEAUTIFUL thing and God will bless and honor that! Okay, I'm out! I hope this helps!
Profound video 👑❣️❤️🔥 I feel as quiet as it has been kept. In some cases, there are some women not all who seek a dominant man. I'm talking about MENTAL DOMINANCE. A man who guides her when she may be feeling lost and who puts her in her place when she's doing stupid stuff (in private loving matter), of course 😊 for some women it's an TURN ON🔥 for her. That can be her way of showing her man RESPECT as well by honoring his wishes at his loving command.🙏🏽 It's Pure Masculinity innergies. 💪🏾👑
A woman wants to be part of an adventure...your adventure you attracted her to at first if she's with you. As soon as you make her the adventure....she loses interest. Sometimes I forget it and have to start that over again. Including currently.
Love your channel and videos. Respect from the UK
What can I say, you are very much bang on Stephan,👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 one of the things I find very attractive in a man is him believing in God..keep up the great work you are doing Stephan 🙏🏽💚🙌🏾
A lack of a respectable father figure is perhaps the number one indicator on whether or not a woman will disrespect men who become her partner or potential partner. Women who were raised by a single mom without a strong father figure are much more likely. Do you have all the negative indicators
I'm in my season of intentionally mastering my emotions and not allowing my emotions master me❤✨💯
Thank you Stephan!
I wish someone told me when I was young
It’s never too late to make changes 🙏
@@StephanSpeaksforMen
Very much AGREED✨💯
The 1st time she act like a narc check her asap! Being nice gets u nowhere
Respect and value yourself. That’s it. Everything else flows from there. The moment you feel you need to ask for it, your lost.
A smart woman should know a man who doesn't set boundaries, doesn't really care and has no intentions of being with you long term... 🤷🏽♂️
A man can not set boundaries and still really want a relationship long term with a woman.
RESPECT!!!!!! 💯💯💯
This is a great video for everyone to watch! 💗💯👏🏼
Watch, Listen, LEARN & Apply IT!
Fully agree with everything said.
Good pieces of advice ! Definitely!
So I do respect this is a men's channel, and I normally do not comment at all, let alone on here. Lol, But would love to give my opinion. 😉 This video has great points to remind that Respect is needed, desired, and can be received .
Men and women both matter and need Love and Respect. It's hard to respect someone who doesn't care and vice versa.
Learning about and caring for each other only benefits both parties. An individual or couples desires, needs, boundaries, ,etc.. vary from others, so decide what's best for you. Learn from others mistakes and your own. We will make them, but we can learn and grow from them.
If certain things, are considered and implemented by a man, it will show, The right women who is for you, and cares for you , will respect and appreciate you and more. Hopefully the man in turn will love, respect and appreciate her as well. ❤
And of course praying is always a good idea if you believe. Let's be honest, even us believers don't always pray about things we should, but God cares and wants what's best for all of us. 😊 Omg, 😮 sorry this is so long. Lol. Have a great day.
You are true dear Stephan coz my boyfriend did it in the beginning , he is respectful loving and humble treats me like Queen 👸
I love him so much and I also respect him as my king 🤴🥰🥰
Excellent content! Gave me a lot to reflect on. Thank you!
Would you consider doing a video for men about important boundaries to know for themselves before dating? Boundaries to discuss during the initial stages of dating. And possibly a separate video about boundaries for men to be prepared to discuss before becoming a couple?
Big facts
I only loose respect if something major has happened in the relationship. Not to say that I would never give it back.
For it lieing, abuse, entertaining other women, gohosting me, and affairs. All of which my husband did. 24 years and I'm divorcing him. I still respect that he makes money and provides, and also that he is a child of God. It's very hard for me to give respect when I was disrespected the entire relationship.
I hope one day I can be in a relationship where the respect I'm giving isn't trampled on.
I Could Call You MASTER 🙏🙇.😊
Good one ❤
Ladies sometimes men don’t want you to talk about your relationship with others even when he keeps making fake promises that he never keeps, is because he doesn’t want your friends and family to help you see through his BS! I was the kind of person who never talked about my relationship with outsiders. And the games he played with me were insane! So yes don’t talk to others about every single thing but if the same issue is not getting resolved for years, he’s probably a manipulative person and you need emotional support to not lose yourself to this fake relationship
Amen brother 🙏
I love You ❤!!!
Ain’t this the truth. I messed up and let her get away with everything when she went to prison, I just hurt for her so badly. Here we are in a divorce and I can only blame myself for allowing bad behavior for so long. I lost my balls… and she fell inlove with another man.
Be Responsible
Be Respectable
All this info for free?🥳🍾
I have seen a few of your videos.Men are tired simping. I think a lot of men will not follow the advice you are giving them because they are tired of the caprices of modern women.
I never try to disrespect a man, i rather walk away.or say nothing.
She did no effort
lad...you do not speak for men, you speak to men
Haha be like a Mafia Boss:)