YES I AGREE WITH YOU BECAUSE IF A WOMAN WILL SAY YES RIGHT AWAY TO A MAN .. MAN WILL JUST TAKING YOU FOR GRANTED THAT YOUR VERY EASY WOMAN..EASY TO GET EASY TO JUNK HARD TO GET HARD TO JUNK
Stephan... This is a very beautiful message to help the opposite sex understand each other... When it comes to chasing... But what about the 1% woman... Women like myself... Who do not feel the need to Chase... Or be chased... I'm the kind of woman that if my man is gone all day long... And he has not called... I will say something like baby I love you and I miss you... Where have you been all day.... Or how was your day... And if he asks me how my day been... And it's been a tough day... I'll say something like well it's better now that you're here... I will be truthful with him and invite him to do the same with me... When he does something that gives me peace... I'll tell him... If he should do something that hurts me... I'll tell him... When he does a good job I will let him know how happy he has made me... And all the things he give me... Right down to the validation of my feelings... I will give to him back... I do not believe in playing games... And I don't want nobody playing games with me... If you love me tell me you love me so I can tell it back to you... if I don't tell you first... If you're having a good day tell me you had a good day... If you had a horrible day tell me you had a hard day... So I can put my loving arms around you... Rub your back... massage your shoulders... scratches your scalp or something... Rub your feet... I love the truth... Even if it's not pretty... And I hate games... Mostly because I don't play them well... I believe in being who I am... Sometimes I'm silly... Sometimes I'm funny... Down right laughable...Then there's times when I'm serious... Or lovably affectionate... And then I'm problematic when I don't know who you are and what your aim is... There are so many layers to me... That I don't mind expressing to The One I Love... Women like me are the kind you have to be ready for... I don't know how to do anything but be who I am... And in the process.... Sometimes I shock myself... What kind of help do you offer women like me??? Because I'm not for a whole lot of war... I am for peace... And Love... And I really do prefer that if a man that is not interested in me even if I'm interested in him... Do not lie to me please let me be on my way... I'm not the kind that is stalkerish... If I'm not loved... It my ripped my beating heart from my chest... But I will go on down the road... While not being vengeful... Are there any men out there that just want love without some type of a game... Answer that if you dare...
Seems your vetting is specific and will come early! Ask, decide and leave early if your boundaries are not met! Otherwise, do you and call when you feel the need...be yourself.
I feel as a woman to never make assumptions about a man, unless we know for sure that there is mutual interest. I believe if the man & woman are on a spiritual path, who banks on God in every aspect of their lives. Then, that may be different in how those two will show of interest. Sometimes, without saying a word. Spiritually, they both can have constant vision of seeing eachother it's God's way in confirming that he or she is safe to proceed in connecting into their Reality. Great video 🔥🔥🔥❣️
When a woman really likes you, things are going to be easy-going and free-flowing, setting up dates, conversations, and access to intimacy. Women don’t play hard to get with men they are highly attracted to.
That’s what it’s like with a healthy, mature woman. With a hurt, immature woman, you could literally be the man of her dreams and she can self sabotage
Labossiere the 4th characteristic I love about you is that, you are so inspiring. It seem like you know what to do and what to say when I just want to break. Lol... I thank God for the goodness of you. You just dont know how that make me feel🥰💪🙌. I feel like God is giving you the permission to mold me into becoming more in love with myself❤, I will get it right🤞😊 but anyway, Thank you again for pouring and encouraging us Ladies and the guys. We appreciate it, we need it and we love it. Keep going. Continue to minister, continue to walk in favor and continue to stay blessed. GN😘💜🙏.
It depends on how one was raised! I'm a Nigerian woman, and Ibo to be specific. We just don't tell a man, hey I'm feeling you! I don't know how to, I can't! Well, I pray the man that is truly for me doesn't let me go because of this struggle ☹️
As a woman, there are always subtle ways to show interest, even as Igbo woman. However, the modern Igbo woman for different reasons has gone over the top in playing “hard to get.” For me, if I show interest in you, I expect you to show some interest in some ways, otherwise I’m gone. This “keep chasing” thing is not for me. By the way, I’m an Igbo man.
I'm NOT a fan of playing games or wasting people time. People feelings are all they got and time is nonrefundable. I think the bottom line is attraction and connection. The presence of it or the lack there of. That's it. People are attracted to different things (looks, intelligence, ambition, sense of humor, personality, purpose, commonality, money, etc.) Take nothing personally. Your Lady, Your Queen, Your Mrs., Your Future Honey is out there! If she's playing games...then chances are she's not the one.
Yes I agree 👍 and maybe chances are the man is doing the right thing . One told me he wanna be with me yet , he doesn't show seriousness. He comes to our dates late and very late , would.make me wait and when he comes he doesn't apologise, if I ask why he was late he will oh that my other friend came to my place and I couldn't just tell him to go but at least I'm here now 😂😂😂
I understand you trying your best to bring clarity HOWEVER a lot of the times you’re trying to teach us men to excuse illogical behavior and a lot of men are tired of doing that We want to date ADULT, LOGIC MINDED WOMEN that is not asking for too much
When a woman wants u 2 chase her, she wants u 2 work for it & that will be ur life with her coz She is not attracted to you. Versus that most handsome guy she is attracted 2, she will be mopping her heart on him like a willing slave. End of story. My fellow men, pliz believe me when I say, I have re-lived these nonsense for 30yrs until i made peace with the fact. “The truth will set u free, but first, it will make you miserable.”- Brian Tracy
Thank you for this video ! I love your perspective and how you're able to explore the potential causes behind a phenomena. I have one question. I heard you talked about the importance of a connection with your partner. But I wanted to know how a connection can be built. I have the impression that vulnerability play a great part but I am not sure I have the tools to evaluate the existence or intensity of a connection. Thanks again !
I haven't Heard of any situation like That before ESPECIALLY me if I am attracted to someone and i am out rather a friend family or WHOEVER introduce me to someone i already ACKNOWLEDGE the person and Go From there BUT if I am not Interested I literally tell the Man Hey This not working or im just Not the woman for you or hey I think you are a HANDSOME man Just Not for me Intimidation shouldnt be a factor Unless shes been in Abuse Like I have And yea if I think The man looks like he would hit me i ask QUESTIONS for a response as far as RECORDS or expressions in body language but yea When I do,start back dating this year NOT next thats how i am 💯
@@flewis02 No i am not but I have been in a 10 year RELATIONSHIP with a Man that dont know how to communicate but as far as a MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP no I am not dating yet because I been healing the ABUSE PART simply just means I have been in SITUATIONS where I was verbally abused mentally emotionally SPIRITUALLY and physically so THERFORE IT was a Live long lesson I will never endure again with any man So I ask Questions From the start NO games and Bs if I Like you I like you if I don't I don't BUT yea thanks for Understanding or trying to as far as my writing on here i type fast Then read it later so I can't or won't Re edit it 💯💯💯👀👀👀
It WAYS TO SPEAK ON WOMEN AND MEN THAT HAVE BEEN BEATEN ON AND OR GOING THROUGH ABUSE IT SOME KIND OF WAY BUT REFUSE TO TALK ABOUT IT WELL I CAN SEE THE UNSEEN WITH THE GIFTS GOD GAVE ME THIS ISNT A FUNNY SITUATION NOR A INTIMIDATING SITUATION ALWAYS REMEMBER PEOPLE DON'T SPEAK ON WHAT THEY SHOULD AGAIN PEOPLE DONT SPEAK ON WHAT THEY SHOULD I AM JUST THE MESSENGER MAKE IT MAKE SENSE !
Stephan is a woman playing hard to get an or pulling away a little bit the same thing jus wanna understand.when are u coming to Cincinnati Ohio for your live events
YES I AGREE WITH YOU BECAUSE IF A WOMAN WILL SAY YES RIGHT AWAY TO A MAN .. MAN WILL JUST TAKING YOU FOR GRANTED THAT YOUR VERY EASY WOMAN..EASY TO GET EASY TO JUNK HARD TO GET HARD TO JUNK
Stephan... This is a very beautiful message to help the opposite sex understand each other... When it comes to chasing... But what about the 1% woman... Women like myself... Who do not feel the need to Chase... Or be chased... I'm the kind of woman that if my man is gone all day long... And he has not called... I will say something like baby I love you and I miss you... Where have you been all day.... Or how was your day... And if he asks me how my day been... And it's been a tough day... I'll say something like well it's better now that you're here... I will be truthful with him and invite him to do the same with me... When he does something that gives me peace... I'll tell him... If he should do something that hurts me... I'll tell him... When he does a good job I will let him know how happy he has made me... And all the things he give me... Right down to the validation of my feelings... I will give to him back... I do not believe in playing games... And I don't want nobody playing games with me... If you love me tell me you love me so I can tell it back to you... if I don't tell you first... If you're having a good day tell me you had a good day... If you had a horrible day tell me you had a hard day... So I can put my loving arms around you... Rub your back... massage your shoulders... scratches your scalp or something... Rub your feet... I love the truth... Even if it's not pretty... And I hate games... Mostly because I don't play them well... I believe in being who I am... Sometimes I'm silly... Sometimes I'm funny... Down right laughable...Then there's times when I'm serious... Or lovably affectionate... And then I'm problematic when I don't know who you are and what your aim is... There are so many layers to me... That I don't mind expressing to The One I Love... Women like me are the kind you have to be ready for... I don't know how to do anything but be who I am... And in the process.... Sometimes I shock myself... What kind of help do you offer women like me??? Because I'm not for a whole lot of war... I am for peace... And Love... And I really do prefer that if a man that is not interested in me even if I'm interested in him... Do not lie to me please let me be on my way... I'm not the kind that is stalkerish... If I'm not loved... It my ripped my beating heart from my chest... But I will go on down the road... While not being vengeful... Are there any men out there that just want love without some type of a game... Answer that if you dare...
Same .....❤
Iam one of those women as well ...
Well said 🎉
@@dianajohnson3374 kudos to you Diana Johnson 💯
Simple. Don’t choose those types of men in the first place. Habits are habits.
Seems your vetting is specific and will come early! Ask, decide and leave early if your boundaries are not met! Otherwise, do you and call when you feel the need...be yourself.
I feel as a woman to never make assumptions about a man, unless we know for sure that there is mutual interest. I believe if the man & woman are on a spiritual path, who banks on God in every aspect of their lives. Then, that may be different in how those two will show of interest. Sometimes, without saying a word. Spiritually, they both can have constant vision of seeing eachother it's God's way in confirming that he or she is safe to proceed in connecting into their Reality. Great video 🔥🔥🔥❣️
Sometimes she needs to get to a place where she's not ashamed before saying welcome to my life❣️✌️🥰
Then fuq her then...we supposed to accept women as they are so same for us...if shes ashamed then she should even try to date that dude
As a man yes I want a little bit of a chase but also I expect a little bit of a chase from her too
thank you for your feedback
Good idea❤
When a woman really likes you, things are going to be easy-going and free-flowing, setting up dates, conversations, and access to intimacy. Women don’t play hard to get with men they are highly attracted to.
That’s what it’s like with a healthy, mature woman. With a hurt, immature woman, you could literally be the man of her dreams and she can self sabotage
Access to intimacy is not a given just because she likes you, don't be silly.
@@ShaneGuyton-mj1mv yes it is. And if she likes you and is withholding intimacy she’s manipulative
@@ShaneGuyton-mj1mvif she’s withholding intimacy, she doesn’t like you or she’s mentally damaged to the point of right is wrong and wrong is right
Stephan’s first example is completely contrary to your opinion. The girl really liked him and was afraid to approach him.
Very well said Stephan 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💚💚💚🙏🏽🙌🏾
I dont play those game..if we connect good lets just be open.
Labossiere the 4th characteristic I love about you is that, you are so inspiring. It seem like you know what to do and what to say when I just want to break. Lol... I thank God for the goodness of you. You just dont know how that make me feel🥰💪🙌. I feel like God is giving you the permission to mold me into becoming more in love with myself❤, I will get it right🤞😊 but anyway, Thank you again for pouring and encouraging us Ladies and the guys. We appreciate it, we need it and we love it. Keep going. Continue to minister, continue to walk in favor and continue to stay blessed. GN😘💜🙏.
It depends on how one was raised! I'm a Nigerian woman, and Ibo to be specific. We just don't tell a man, hey I'm feeling you! I don't know how to, I can't! Well, I pray the man that is truly for me doesn't let me go because of this struggle ☹️
As a woman, there are always subtle ways to show interest, even as Igbo woman. However, the modern Igbo woman for different reasons has gone over the top in playing “hard to get.” For me, if I show interest in you, I expect you to show some interest in some ways, otherwise I’m gone. This “keep chasing” thing is not for me. By the way, I’m an Igbo man.
@@cjceejay5261 Okay, thanks for your feedback, I appreciate it. Well , I can't do it and it is not coming from a place of pride.. All the best!
@@cjceejay5261let’s just keep it a hundred- a modern Igbo woman is more likely to be ashawo than a potential partner
Great video!💗💯👏🏼
What if the woman is interested in the guy but she’s too shy?
Yes, that's my problem. I have severe social anxiety.
I'm NOT a fan of playing games or wasting people time. People feelings are all they got and time is nonrefundable. I think the bottom line is attraction and connection. The presence of it or the lack there of. That's it. People are attracted to different things (looks, intelligence, ambition, sense of humor, personality, purpose, commonality, money, etc.) Take nothing personally. Your Lady, Your Queen, Your Mrs., Your Future Honey is out there! If she's playing games...then chances are she's not the one.
Yes I agree 👍 and maybe chances are the man is doing the right thing .
One told me he wanna be with me yet , he doesn't show seriousness. He comes to our dates late and very late , would.make me wait and when he comes he doesn't apologise, if I ask why he was late he will oh that my other friend came to my place and I couldn't just tell him to go but at least I'm here now 😂😂😂
this is the best of all your videos i watched this month.
I understand you trying your best to bring clarity HOWEVER a lot of the times you’re trying to teach us men to excuse illogical behavior and a lot of men are tired of doing that
We want to date ADULT, LOGIC MINDED WOMEN that is not asking for too much
God bless you dude. Keep up the good work!
When a woman wants u 2 chase her, she wants u 2 work for it & that will be ur life with her coz She is not attracted to you. Versus that most handsome guy she is attracted 2, she will be mopping her heart on him like a willing slave. End of story. My fellow men, pliz believe me when I say, I have re-lived these nonsense for 30yrs until i made peace with the fact. “The truth will set u free, but first, it will make you miserable.”- Brian Tracy
unfortunately this has definitely happened to a lot of men
Thank you for this video ! I love your perspective and how you're able to explore the potential causes behind a phenomena.
I have one question. I heard you talked about the importance of a connection with your partner. But I wanted to know how a connection can be built. I have the impression that vulnerability play a great part but I am not sure I have the tools to evaluate the existence or intensity of a connection. Thanks again !
God bless you 🙏
Plays hard to get. Find another one. Easy.
Yes I will find another one , bye 😂
There's nothing wrong with getting to know a person b4 commiting into an intimates friendship or a relationship,
I haven't Heard of any situation like That before ESPECIALLY me if I am attracted to someone and i am out rather a friend family or WHOEVER introduce me to someone i already ACKNOWLEDGE the person and Go From there BUT if I am not Interested I literally tell the Man Hey This not working or im just Not the woman for you or hey I think you are a HANDSOME man Just Not for me Intimidation shouldnt be a factor Unless shes been in Abuse Like I have And yea if I think The man looks like he would hit me i ask QUESTIONS for a response as far as RECORDS or expressions in body language but yea When I do,start back dating this year NOT next thats how i am 💯
Thats some hard to read English mam....but i kinda get u...so u saying u dont play the dating games other women do...u should be happily married then
@@flewis02 No i am not but I have been in a 10 year RELATIONSHIP with a Man that dont know how to communicate but as far as a MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP no I am not dating yet because I been healing the ABUSE PART simply just means I have been in SITUATIONS where I was verbally abused mentally emotionally SPIRITUALLY and physically so THERFORE IT was a Live long lesson I will never endure again with any man So I ask Questions From the start NO games and Bs if I Like you I like you if I don't I don't BUT yea thanks for Understanding or trying to as far as my writing on here i type fast Then read it later so I can't or won't Re edit it 💯💯💯👀👀👀
It WAYS TO SPEAK ON WOMEN AND MEN THAT HAVE BEEN BEATEN ON AND OR GOING THROUGH ABUSE IT SOME KIND OF WAY BUT REFUSE TO TALK ABOUT IT WELL I CAN SEE THE UNSEEN WITH THE GIFTS GOD GAVE ME THIS ISNT A FUNNY SITUATION NOR A INTIMIDATING SITUATION ALWAYS REMEMBER PEOPLE DON'T SPEAK ON WHAT THEY SHOULD AGAIN PEOPLE DONT SPEAK ON WHAT THEY SHOULD I AM JUST THE MESSENGER MAKE IT MAKE SENSE !
hard to get= hard to want, byeeeee, I dont care what her trauma or issues are, grow up
Ok .
Stephan is a woman playing hard to get an or pulling away a little bit the same thing jus wanna understand.when are u coming to Cincinnati Ohio for your live events
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