My son recently graduated, but I had similar conversations with him several times. HS feels like the ENTIRE world when you're in it (because honestly it IS the majority of life at those ages) -- but once you leave it's just a distant memory and minute part of life!! I always told him to focus on becoming great because most popular kids (esp the bullies) peak in HS, and very honestly, the greatest revenge you can ever have is seeing their name/resume come across your desk and deciding to trash it!! * I'm sure choosing to interview and watch them squirm before deciding to "pass" is equally great, but personally I don't like to waste THAT much time LOL!!!
It’s insane how often I get these messages especially from people who I no longer talk to who want me to join their pyramid scheme or buy their product 😂😂
Even when she did offer, she wasn't ever really planning on paying her! She was gonna pull some bully bridezila crap and say it wasn't to her exact liking.
Exactly. The people who have lawyers will simply contact their lawyers, and if they take legal action, you'll know they're serious because you'll get a message _from their lawyers._
I work for a social media company, and I can tell you, the amount of people who threaten to sue us is stupid. These people don't understand the law nor have they read the 20 pages of legal jargon that they have to agree to, to post on our site, anyway. The sickest burn was her telling her bully, you don't have money for my services, so you certainly don't have the money for a lawyer. Oh god, I lived!
Tiffany is no longer a victim. She put her bully in place with such class. She helped a lot of victims get their own vindication through her. Triumphant successful lady.
It never fails to amaze me how mean girls can hold sway over formerly 'nice' kids turning them against old friends and engaging in nasty and humiliating behavior. 30:51 Very junior high. ( When I was growing up that was seventh, eighth, and ninth grades.)
One of the things I hate about the victim card now days is it doesn't incentivize a person to rise about it and become stronger. I was the weird one my entire life but I was standing up to the bullies by jr high because I refused to show weakness in front of them. That challenge as a child has made me strong as an adult and I can face down anyone. Victims stay weak; survivors are strong.
I met a lot of people when I was in business. If my dog didn't like them, I wouldn't work for them. Jake was a good judge of character and I never doubted him. RIP jake. best dog I ever had.
That story kinda reminded me of the "Madame/Ash" situation against a younger artist online, but Madame went so far to post the artist's fake/throwaway phone number in an attempt to get her doxxed, over the artist's accidental mistake of trying to contact Madame on her UA-cam video in the comments. I kinda get Madame's POV, but she lost ALL respect as a human being after the massive tantrums, the entitlement, gas-lighting, disrespect, theft and making Madame herself the "Victim" that she threw out there!
yes, I teach workshops for a living. When I give a quote and the person has been super rude, condescending or annoying I will charge them between 25 to 40% more. I call it the @$sh0le tax (I don't tell them that of course).
THE FACT THAT TIFFANY WAS THERE FOR AN IN PERSON CONVERSATION!!!!!!!!! YEEEEEEES!!!!!!!!! There is so much drama in all of this, and I'm here to live vicariously through all of this!!!!!! XD I barely have any drama in my life, so I'm here to listen to everyone else's!!!!
Bullies are convinced that their victims are beneath them, are jealous of them, want to be them... so she 100% thought that offering to "be her friend" would be so valuable to her that she would play for free. The narcissistic delusions are wild
@@GrahamCarle Agreed. But they have to know what they did/doing was/is bad or unacceptable behavior or they wouldn't approach with so much sugar in the beginning. Only after she had nothing to lose did she say what she really thought.
The bully has clearly since become a full-blown abuser if she's forcing her love interests to isolate from their friends. Classic narcissistic abusive behavior.
Future single soccer mom, playing the system while living vicariously through her children. Bouncing from job to job because her 3-5 babies daddy’s won’t pay child support because she refuses a DNA test…. All while chasing the latest trends and attempting to keep up with the Jones’, with a Stanley cup in her hand! 😂
Absolutely. I was saying at the screen ‘she hasn’t changed since school, you’re marrying her and you don’t even know the person you think you’re in love with!’
I hope that when the fiancé got together with the bully for their heart-to-heart he was able to see just what she's like. Oh, just got to the end and glad to see the guy dodged the bullet. Thanks, Charlotte, having a bit of a difficult time at the minute. You brighten my day. Hugs from Dublin ☘️🇮🇪
Tiffany got the golden moment all of us that were bullied fantasize about!! She's such a delight and she handled it all with dignity and grace. Nerds, Unite!!!
Tiffany ain't fiddling around! love that we got an interview! I think that, because she was so professional (no swearing, no insults), makes it all the better. she called the girl out, stuck to the truth, and just flexed her awesomeness. Nerds unite!
Such class. Very respectable. Much proud. I feel like a proud parent ❤ 😌 even though I’m a bit younger. It’s just nice to see people do so well for themselves 🎉
This is my second-favorite response to a bully. My first is comedian Sarah Millican’s response to her school bully who wrote her a long letter with updates on her life after Sarah became famous like they were friends. Sarah wrote back something like, “Lynne, this is to let you know that I received your letter. To be honest, I will likely not respond more than this, as I do not remember you very favorably.” And then she read it in one of her filmed standups! 😂 ❤❤❤
Great interview. Tiffany is lovely and handled the bully in an extremely professional manner. So glad she's done well for herself and has become a much more confident person along the way. She's an inspiration for others that have been deeply affected by childhood bullies ❤
as the friend of many artists, if i had a violinist friend and desired their services, i would ask no more than that they play the ceremony, then come to the reception as a guest, and pay their rate with an exceptional tip. Asking someone you bullied to do it for free is bizarre to me, i wouldn’t ask a friend for any of their art free
Not to mention how fucking _difficult_ violin is as an instrument. That shit is so hard to play I gave up on it after 2 years. I have a violin (gift from grandpa) but I doubt I'll ever pick it up again. Maybe I'll gift it to someone who has the discipline to use and take good care of it someday but who knows. Honestly I couldn't respect violinists more.
The audacity of contacting your victims for a free service is beyond me. Bullies have tiny brain, they are unable to process reality. Thanks for the great vid. Sad day for bullies.
From a fellow high school nerd and violinist, Tiffany rocks! She not only gave it to her former tormentor straight from the shoulder, she rescued the man, his dog, his friends, and his entire family from years of misery.
@@mishV-24 I wish more of us knew this one simple trick when in the midst of it all at that age!! I preach to be unapologetically your own biggest advocate to any young woman (and man honestly lol) I run into that tells me anything that raises my hackles
The dog is safe,🙏 the dog has been saved, the owner, as well as his family's mental peace.🎉 This girl is pure gold,blessings for her. Actions speak loudly.❤ So much healing in this interview.🫶👌
I’d have said, “okay, I’ll PLAY violin at your wedding, I’ll take the $1000 up front. Let me know the songs you’d like played.” I’d show up the day of with recorded tracks and a speaker.
Isn't this *just* the dream for anyone who's been bullied? Not just in school, but anywhere. Giving it to your bully, both barrels. Well done, Tiffany!
I was on both sides of this situation. Autistic, I was bullied at school when I was not being totally ignored. Our brothers also bullied each other and we two, but I bullied my younger sister, to my shame. When I became self-aware after college (suddenly one afternoon, as if seeing a film of my whole life with her), I apologized deeply, accepting whatever she decided to say/do. She amazingly, graciously forgave me, and the memories became goads to help me winkle out every aspect of that horrid behavior whenever it pops up. (Yes, 60 years later, it still tries to twist its nasty roots in.)
Anybody else notice she never actually apologized for bullying her? Just wanted to move past it? Classic narcissistic behavior!!! Love this for Tiffany!
I am so grateful that she modeled appropriate behavior for dealing with a bully. Everyone who has been bullied needs this kind of healing. Thank you so much. IMO.
I hear the pain in her voice when she described how she was bullied--more sadness for that young girl she used to be. I also can see how proud she is (and rightly so) that she is not only survived but has flourished.
It's awful that none of the adults involved in her church's youth group didn't step in and have a talk with the mean girl and those under her thumb. Urgh!
Tiffany handled herself like a G and fully owned her bully’s world by the end of that exchange. It’s nice to see a bully get put entirely in their place, especially when they’re begging a favor they in no way deserve. I’m glad Tiffany got some positive closure for that miserable time of her life and vindicated her self and her talent after all these years. Bully exposing herself to her fiancé and losing her wedding and ring in the same month was just the perfect icing atop the 8-tier cake. Absolute perfection, I couldn’t have executed it better if I tried.
As a freelance musician I can attest that this happens...more often than you think...just 2 months ago I got "invited" to a party...the text went something like this..."Elliot, I'm having a party on Saturday...can you come?" Sure, I replied....after a while I was texted back..."great, I also invited a few of my friends who are also musicians, so could you bring your instrument and play with them? Oh, and since they don't have any gear because they're visiting, could you bring your speakers,mics and amplifier? Plus you need to bring 150 foot extension cord. The party will be poolside in the backyard...Oh and you need to arrive early enough to set up everything BEFORE the caterers arrive....and can you bring that big canopy you own in case it rains? Thanks, you're the best!!!" Needless to say, I didn't go...😂😂😂😂
ex-musician here. yup. if the musicians were high end enough might think about it for the jam once in a while, then write the person who did the invite off.
I think I just realized why I like your videos so much. The way they are edited and narrated just appeals to my adhd because, as someone else said, all thoughts come with bonus content. Like at 4:20 when the violin with charlottes face on it floats past. That is something the editor should be praised for. Your guys’ videos are truly enjoyable.
As someone who was bullied relentlessly in middle/high school, this episode was healingggg 🙌🏼 "I'll take being a nerd over peaking in high school any day" is everything.🔥
My partner was a bully in high school. I know because after we had been living together for two years we got a new neighbour and my partner immediately went to his door to apologize for how awful he was when they were younger. The two became semi-friends for the rest of the time we lived there. I was so proud that he, without prompting, recognised what a dick he was and made an attempt to make amends. Bullies can grow up, but not all do. Also, what an absolute queen this wonderful lady is. Gracious and gorgeous.
@@xxzcfdxctrue. But like, if one of my bullies came up to me and said anything along the lines of "I'm sorry I was young etc etc" I'd think "well... so was I and I never made an 8th grader su I ci dal." Not that OPs partner said that but yeah.
@@Courtannica No, you do make an excellent point. Some people do things as preteens and teenagers that are just unforgivable no matter how much personal growth they go through. And no one can tell you what is and isn't unforgivable. That's an important part of a sincere apology, the acceptance that the other person can hear you out and still say "f*** you" and understand that is perfectly valid.
I love Tiffany’s response. She scalded the bully 😂😂😂😂😂 she only wants to be friends because she wants something from her. The fiancé calling off the wedding is chefs kiss 💋
I love that Tiffany's reply shows that she picks her own friends. This Bridezilla is deluded. If she wanted professional services, she needed to treat them as professionals and to not short-change them.
A dog not liking your bf/gf is such a big red flag. My dog never liked my ex, he would growl at him for no reason, hide from him, he even bit him once. My ex almost killed me when we broke up and he cheated on me a lot throughout the whole relationship. My now bf is loved by my dog, he gets so excited whenever he's around, he wants to be pet by him constantly, he's never acted afraid or angry at my bf. Trust your dogs.
One of my dogs has a lot of fear-based aggression and doesn’t like any strangers. But we’ve been working with a trainer and every time my boyfriend comes over, he is patient and tactful and does whatever he can to make our dog more comfortable. And they’re finally starting to bond!
Same with cats, I think cats especially are a good judge of character because dogs are usually friendlier (I mean, if such a friendly creature doesn’t like you then how horrible of a person are you omg??). With cats, they have boundaries and I think if someone disrespects a cats boundaries, they would probably do the same to a human. Or also people who hate cats, like HATE them, you know full well that person just doesn’t like things they can’t control..
When Tiffany said "delulu-land" I knew she was a fellow potato. 😅 Tiffany, I'm so proud of you for standing up and politely giving her the business. She can sit and spin. I hope that the world is your oyster and that the good days far outweigh the bad. ❤
I was friends with some people for a few years before they learned about some religious beliefs I’ve had since before I met them. Never affected the way I treated them or thought of them given they didn’t believe the same way (doesn’t bug me; everyone can believe whatever they want), but as soon as they found out they bullied and harassed not only me, but one friend that stayed with me. How did I get back at them? Smiling, helping them when the rest of their group was busy, and taking the high road. I can’t tell you how many times they SQUIRMED and were SPEECHLESS. Even some teachers found out about it; my history teacher had a lot of fun teaching about the first amendment (which is freedom of religion for those not familiar with the USA.) She ranted for TEN MINUTES while discreetly staring down my ex-friends. Loved that teacher.
Let me guess, you are not Jewish or Muslim? Cos I'm guessing if you were, the school district would have rushed to give you a few million to avoid a lawsuit.
Shout out to all the misfit girlies who never judged and were accepting of people/new friends. I'm glad you were able to find a couple friends to make life a little better, Tiffany. ❤ You are strong, beautiful and incredibly talented. F all these haters and bullys.
The most thrilling part of this is seeing Tiffany living her best life. Nice to see a bully get called out, but “living well is the best revenge.” For those of us who have been or are being bullied, take heart! It really can get better.
Not just living well. It's Tiffany having the self-esteem and the eloquence to reply as she did. This is a woman who has grown to value herself and tell off anyone who'd think to take advantage of her. Tiffany is my hero.
My daughter and son are both in the band, and have dealt with bullies until recently. Now they go to a private school where everyone is required to play an instrument, sing in the choir, and play a sport. It's a great system and the kids thrive.
I am glad they're doing well now but there's a different type of bullying in private schools, usually based on money/influence of parents. Speaking from experience. You get some schools (public or private) that are better at keeping bullying at bay.
Tiffany girl if you see this... I frequently rewatched this video... I was bullied in sixth grade and middle school for playing violin and then later on became and outcast and didnt feel excepted in the orchestra so seeing this over and over helps that younger part of me heal from all the times i wasnt able to or didnt stand up for myself. Thank you
The way I screamed "FOR EXPOSURE" with Charlotte 🤣🤣 and honestly it's a dealbreaker if a dog hates someone, they can smell how evil the person is HAHAHAH
Yeah, if Scruffy and Houdini hated and growled at a guy the first time meeting them, the relationship came to a screeching, tire smoking, brake locking stop. They were good bois.
My cat didn't like my first boyfriend much. One time my cat sprayed me in the face to mark me as his territory. It was the ONLY time he ever did that and it was so out of character of him. I should have broken up with my boyfriend then but I was a young and naive. Fortunately we only dated for 6 months but it was quite a ride... Now that I'm older, I definitely listen to animals and trust their instincts.
She quoted Phoebe Buffay!! Love this girl and the fact that she could be a classy person while turning her bully down. KUDOS and thank you from all of who were relentlessly bullied and never had the chance to give our bullies a come upance. Good for you!!!!
The audactiy of the bully to contact the person who they bullied to get their services for free is just rich. Tiffany gave God level, classy revenge. Kudos!!
What a lovely story! Not only is she a fellow nerd, but she is a hero! She saved that man’s life, the dog, and his future children! What a sad life she saved them from. I was raised by a bully and it was rough to say the least. The only people in my life that I count as my true friends, are my fellow nerds. NERDS ROCK!!!!
School bullies are horrible, but what’s worse is that she’s continued on in her bullying ways! I don’t think it’s true that “once a bully, always a bully” but she certainly is!
Sometimes that’s just how people are. Regardless of environmental circumstances or whatever the case may be, some people are just entitled horrible messes that only drag others down. Sadly others are usually willing to be dragged down, and that’s their business. But I feel like an awareness campaign is also in order 😂
👑 Queen Tiffany 🙌 you handled that with such grace. As a 60 year old former bullied kid, still with the emotional scars; I salute you, I applaud your integrity & character 🎉 Nerds of the World Unite! 🤣
As the mother of two daughters, one of whom was bullied in middle school just for being a happy girl, I really appreciate your celebrating the happy and successful survival/prospering of a former victim. Thank you so much!
My 13 yr old BAND kid was just massively bullied and physically assaulted right before school got out for summer break. He is a talented drummer for his age. Your words spoke to him. Thank you!!! ❤
Tell your son there's so many people out here who have his back. I feel like I should suggest he check out Cowboy Mouth and their drummer/ lead singer Fred. He's a beast. Definitely gave me a new appreciation for drummers the first time I saw them perform live.
I'm so sorry he has to deal with bullies. Tell him to keep his head up and that everything will be just fine. Keep working hard and just keep doing your best
Bullying isn't simply over when the bullies stop. I lashed out at people for years afterwards because I thought I needed to protect myself from harm. It takes a lot of work to overcome
My next door neighbor and best friend through middle school was a harpist and I was always so jealous of her skills but I never bullied her, only admired her and wished I could be as skilled as she was! It was beautiful when she played. I played violin in orchestra and then oboe in band but I didn’t stick with either and I really wish I would have. I hope you’re still playing!
Yall had harps? I'm jealous. I played bass in strings back in high school, and I wouldn't have played the harp but MAN it would've been cool to have one there.
I'm 73 and last month FINALLY got to say some things to a former classmate from 4th grade through high school. He'd posted something on the reunion page and I just felt the need to finally speak up. I was shocked when I started getting emails from other people feeling the same way. Some of those people were ones I considered to be in the popular group, One guy said he barely made it to graduation but went on to have a great career. I looked him up and OMG! "Great career" is an understatement. I guess my point is that it's never too late to speak up.
73 and remember something from 4th grade ?! And not only that but held onto it for over 60 years ?! What was it that happened?? Did you lose a limb ? We aren't even the same person we were in 4th grade and many can argue at that point in time you are at that time being molded . Sorry for your trauma but I think you should heal and let the 4th grade go
@@happywanderer6307 Sweet ! And good on you for letting the ole ass wipe know to prepare himself for God , love to him him squirm trying to defend himself .😃😀👍
@@Wally-pu2hh No trauma and I told him I didn't carry any baggage. I just told him that we remembered things differently. He went on to say how great school was, how awesome everyone was and that he loved those years. I told him I was happy for him that that his time so awesome, but that it wasn't quite as good for some of us. We were too thin, too fat, too pimply, too poor or too gay. Some of us might not have had bullies who physically assaulted us, but we heard what was being said. We knew which clubs we shouldn't bother to try to join. Then I wished him well and that was it. As for remembering back to 4th grade, I remember kindergarten! I still have my bff from third grade.
@@Wally-pu2hhHey Narci, you're not in the position to tell someone to heal from any trauma especially if you don't know the person. You relax, sit down, or go back to sleep.
@@Wally-pu2hhApparently 0 trauma changes people and many of them since several people also remembered. Have some empathy. I remember all my bullies.., except they learned instantly i wasn't the one. Not hanging on to it, but I remember and I'm 71. People have memories. That's how brains work. Bet you're a bully. You just tried it here.
"And my dog doesn't like her" lost my shit at that!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 That should have been his biggest red flag!! For a dog not to like you? That says a lot about her! 😅😅😅😅
He said he was Thinking about breaking off the wedding "because bullies don't change, do they?" Forget about her school days, dude just look at what she's done since you've been with her😢!!! Fog! Take off the glasses & talk with your dog🐶!...
I have pitty. She only barks at artificial noises ie doorbells and squirrels. The only HUMAN she barked at turned out to a thief who liked Hitler. All that to say, if my Maple don't like you, I don't either.
The bully actually thought Tiffany, her victim, would jump at the chance "to be her friend" 😂 I love that Tiff got revenge on a horrible person. I'm living through her on this one. Great job,girl ❤
Also, Tiffany is absolutely STUNNING! Her intelligence, skills, and endless kindness shines through so much, and this has been my absolute favorite episode - not a bad idea, Charlotte! Maybe we get more interviews with people in the future?
Tiffany seems so sweet, and seeing her talking honestly reminds me of an ex that I’m still friends with. Both of them have such great personalities and great sense of humor.
Some bullies are bullied in their own homes and don’t even realize how mean they’re being until they get out of their home and start to heal, looks like this girl never learned to not hurt others
Thanks for pointing that out. People learn how to act sometimes from how they were treated. And bullied ppl learn to become the bully to avoid being the victim. But it's an explanation not an excuse and by your 30s it's on you to do some self work and be better.
Tiffany alluded to church, youth group, and a religious college, that she and the bully had in common. As I’m watching this, I’m thinking: this is happening in a _spiritual_ environment where leaders are supposedly modeling Christian ideals, and no one is calling the bully out on her behavior…?
In middle school and early high school I was bullied. By my senior year I learned to ignore it. During my senior year I had to sit behind one of my bullies, they ignored me for the most part. It was towards the end of the year and my bully turned to me and try to talk and act all nice. I looked at them and said “you know… we’ve not really talked much and that has been just great, let’s keep doing that.” And went back to my school work… it was my best moment that I didn’t get roped into them.
Love Tiffany appearing on the video with you. Mathew clearly dodged a bullet by cancelling the wedding. Always believe your dog when they don’t like someone.
Love, love, love this! From one “nerd” who was ruthlessly bullied throughout school it’s so satisfying to see someone doing well and getting to personally deliver the karma. I’ve enjoyed hearing about some from a distance and can only imagine how empowering this must have felt for Tiffany. She is beautiful inside & out and handled herself with impeccable and professional savagery!
I've been bullied all my life, starting at age 5, and the fact that I watched this also healed something inside of me. May God continue to bless you, Tiffany. You're an immensely strong and courageous woman and beautiful inside and out. Plus, anyone who loves Charlotte is part of some of the best people. Love you, doll! 💖💖💖
For all of us who recall being labelled the term "nerd", and was bullied as a child.....girl, you are LIVING OUR DREAM!!!! I'm in my 40's now, I lived through school bullying, which manifested in an eating disorder, and sadly ended up in an abusive marriage. I left my husband, built a business and have never looked back. However...........there's a small part of me that screamed triumphantly when I saw this episode and as Charlotte said, I briefly lived vicariously through you. You elegantly responded and she dug her own pit with each response. Karma is a bitch and is incredibly patient! Kudos lady, supremely classy reply.
Tiffany as someone who was Bullied so badly I couldn’t even stand to get out of bed, I couldn’t sleep at night. Suffered for years over and over until til the boys graduated high school. They road the same bus as me even though I was in middle school and them in High. Finally after years of self destruction (mentally) I finally got to see them again 10/12 years later and wouldn’t you know it they didn’t recognize me and wanted to flirt with me. Bullying is terrible and can destroy people. I’m so proud to see you going strong and doing all the wonderful things! You’re a gorgeous, intelligent, talented woman! Rock On!!!
Tiffany’s responses are so chefs kiss. She’s not responding how the bully wants her to and is completely turning the tables on her school bully. Absolute queen. And Charlotte, your reactions and explanations are absolutely perfect 😂 👌
Not only do we get bullied by people, but also by different governments, corporations, and businesses. To have someone stand up to a bully is wonderful to see!
Thanks to Tiffany for sharing her story, she’s awesome. Narcs don’t change, mine didn’t and has been the same since 1990. Not even the divorce changed his mindset, he just got worse. Glad the groom to be has saved himself a lifetime of hurt.
TIFFANY 😮😮😮😮 WHAT A TWIST!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉 As a former bullied kid, thank you soooooo much for your amazing response to her, it always makes all of the bullied super happy and kind of help getting some sense of justice out of our pasts ❤
I’ve been a wedding photographer for 14 years, and I completely relate when she said she had done so much work to get where she was, learn how not to be a doormat, and how to recognize her worth monetarily. It’s heartbreaking and unreal how many people who seem to think they are instantly entitled to special treatment simply because they know.
This story was the best tea I've heard in a long time. Got me cheering for Tiffany and the guy and laughing hysterically at all the perfect comebacks. Chefs kiss of a story
As I RUN to follow her!!!!!!!🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️ I don't even live in the US and can never book her but still!
Hahaha, same girlll, same😂😊. I'm from Belgium. And I don't even intend on ever marrying again. But ya know, exposure 😂🤣🤣🤣. And likes and follows and whatnot, if I can never hire her, she can earn by having me as a follower 😁😊🥰
Charlotte is Canadian I believe so the crowd she has in just her surrounding areas (US included) And obviously people like you. Should really get this girl an insane following from literally everywhere. I love it so much.
@@thedarkvampress3833 my bank account says so 😂 can you imagine flying a violin player over from the states to Belgium, making sure she's accomodated well and then pay her for her performance as well. I mean, that's gonna be a weeee bit slightly more than 2,5K! And I'd already not be able to pay for 2,5K. It also has to be realistic. Not just a 'want'...
I can't believe Charlotte said "I'll take being a Nerd over peaking in Highschool," and then just brushed over it like it wasn't the most FIRE insult
Right?!! Truly gangsta! The sunglasses meme is all I could think of!
My son recently graduated, but I had similar conversations with him several times. HS feels like the ENTIRE world when you're in it (because honestly it IS the majority of life at those ages) -- but once you leave it's just a distant memory and minute part of life!! I always told him to focus on becoming great because most popular kids (esp the bullies) peak in HS, and very honestly, the greatest revenge you can ever have is seeing their name/resume come across your desk and deciding to trash it!!
* I'm sure choosing to interview and watch them squirm before deciding to "pass" is equally great, but personally I don't like to waste THAT much time LOL!!!
It's giving NPMD, I love it
It was beautifully crafted and delivered brilliantly.
"I don't know if you got the memo, but nerds rule the earth these days."
The bride didn't even get married, and Tiffany STILL GOT EXPOSURE!!!!!!!!!!!! God, I love when bullies play themselves!!!!!
No joke! And a HELL of A LOT more exposure than 300 people worth lol. 😂
How do you know she didn't get married? 👀👀👀
@@gabyaguirre3100we can link the video if you need. It's this video that you commented on lol
😂😂😂😂. Me too! 🇨🇦
@@gabyaguirre3100. Tiffany said it herself at the end!
"Hey girl! 😍 It's been forever"
Is the universal code for "do me some shit for free"
It’s insane how often I get these messages especially from people who I no longer talk to who want me to join their pyramid scheme or buy their product 😂😂
Or they want to sell you on their MLM.
Or "join my pyramid scheme" 💀🤣
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Even when she did offer, she wasn't ever really planning on paying her!
She was gonna pull some bully bridezila crap and say it wasn't to her exact liking.
"You will hear from my lawyer" is code for "I don't have a lawyer." People with lawyers don't threaten legal action, they have their lawyers do that.
Exactly. The people who have lawyers will simply contact their lawyers, and if they take legal action, you'll know they're serious because you'll get a message _from their lawyers._
I work for a social media company, and I can tell you, the amount of people who threaten to sue us is stupid. These people don't understand the law nor have they read the 20 pages of legal jargon that they have to agree to, to post on our site, anyway. The sickest burn was her telling her bully, you don't have money for my services, so you certainly don't have the money for a lawyer. Oh god, I lived!
Tiffany is no longer a victim. She put her bully in place with such class. She helped a lot of victims get their own vindication through her. Triumphant successful lady.
It never fails to amaze me how mean girls can hold sway over formerly 'nice' kids turning them against old friends and engaging in nasty and humiliating behavior. 30:51 Very junior high. ( When I was growing up that was seventh, eighth, and ninth grades.)
Right. The audacity of the bride. She didn't even apologize. That's the least she could do. SMH
As a bullied violinist, this healed all wounds. Thank you, Tiffany! And thank you Charlotte for bringing Tiffany to our attention
One of the things I hate about the victim card now days is it doesn't incentivize a person to rise about it and become stronger.
I was the weird one my entire life but I was standing up to the bullies by jr high because I refused to show weakness in front of them. That challenge as a child has made me strong as an adult and I can face down anyone. Victims stay weak; survivors are strong.
Truly great
'And my dog doesn't like her' 🤣😭 the way I screamed when he said that 😭💀
SAME! 😂
I met a lot of people when I was in business. If my dog didn't like them, I wouldn't work for them. Jake was a good judge of character and I never doubted him. RIP jake. best dog I ever had.
Always trust the dog!!!
The dog has spoken 😂 they really do know better!
@alshotrodsandratrods8780 sorry for ur loss.
"I want to be friends with you and leave the past behind us" such a convenient timing, right when she needs something for her.
And note there is no apology.
Its always easy for the person doing the bullying to "let the past goes"
That story kinda reminded me of the "Madame/Ash" situation against a younger artist online, but Madame went so far to post the artist's fake/throwaway phone number in an attempt to get her doxxed, over the artist's accidental mistake of trying to contact Madame on her UA-cam video in the comments.
I kinda get Madame's POV, but she lost ALL respect as a human being after the massive tantrums, the entitlement, gas-lighting, disrespect, theft and making Madame herself the "Victim" that she threw out there!
*Offer valid for 2 seconds only…Just like every other bully.
In other words, “I’m taking zero accountability and I want you to get over it so you can do something for me”.
What a beautiful young lady. She did a wonderful job shutting up her bully. I’m 68 and still remember the bullying I received at school and home.
tell her your service is 20,000. when she asks why, tell her its the "bully tax"
😂😂😂
😅😂❤
Ah, yes
The Trauma Tax
yes, I teach workshops for a living. When I give a quote and the person has been super rude, condescending or annoying I will charge them between 25 to 40% more. I call it the @$sh0le tax (I don't tell them that of course).
THAT'S genius business thinking! 😂
THE FACT THAT TIFFANY WAS THERE FOR AN IN PERSON CONVERSATION!!!!!!!!! YEEEEEEES!!!!!!!!! There is so much drama in all of this, and I'm here to live vicariously through all of this!!!!!! XD I barely have any drama in my life, so I'm here to listen to everyone else's!!!!
That, hands down, is my favorite part of this!!
I believe I speak for many when I say Charlotte should have her own network type show. That was an excellent interview.
This was good. Very very good. And the interview - YEEEEESSSSS🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
That's what I was thinking! @@nancyrussell4708
Whaaaaaat! love this!
Bullies are convinced that their victims are beneath them, are jealous of them, want to be them... so she 100% thought that offering to "be her friend" would be so valuable to her that she would play for free. The narcissistic delusions are wild
I think they often don't consider what they did was that bad or don't even think of it at all. Tiffany was probably one of many she picked on.
@@GrahamCarle Agreed. But they have to know what they did/doing was/is bad or unacceptable behavior or they wouldn't approach with so much sugar in the beginning. Only after she had nothing to lose did she say what she really thought.
Spot on.
There are two categories of bully, the dumb ones who don't get it and the smart ones, who are on the psychopathy spectrum and don't care.
loriwilliams5381 that is why they're bullies because that's the only people that stand them are people like them
The bully has clearly since become a full-blown abuser if she's forcing her love interests to isolate from their friends. Classic narcissistic abusive behavior.
Exactly this. HUGE red flag.
Future single soccer mom, playing the system while living vicariously through her children. Bouncing from job to job because her 3-5 babies daddy’s won’t pay child support because she refuses a DNA test….
All while chasing the latest trends and attempting to keep up with the Jones’, with a Stanley cup in her hand! 😂
Those were my thoughts as well, classic narcissistic behaviour
Absolutely. I was saying at the screen ‘she hasn’t changed since school, you’re marrying her and you don’t even know the person you think you’re in love with!’
I hope that when the fiancé got together with the bully for their heart-to-heart he was able to see just what she's like. Oh, just got to the end and glad to see the guy dodged the bullet. Thanks, Charlotte, having a bit of a difficult time at the minute. You brighten my day. Hugs from Dublin ☘️🇮🇪
Tiffany got the golden moment all of us that were bullied fantasize about!! She's such a delight and she handled it all with dignity and grace. Nerds, Unite!!!
Exactly. Everyone who’s ever been bullied was healed just a little through this story. So happy Tiffany had her moment!
She had a great teacher! 8 y we are worth. That’s a phd.
Yyyyyeeeeeesssss
@@d.b.1774Oh absolutely!!! It might be small and from a stranger, but yes it heals a part of us! ❤
Specially if some bullies watch this and feel the sudden unwanted dread of guilt.
Tiffany ain't fiddling around!
love that we got an interview! I think that, because she was so professional (no swearing, no insults), makes it all the better. she called the girl out, stuck to the truth, and just flexed her awesomeness. Nerds unite!
This comment is exactly it!!! Yessss
Such class. Very respectable. Much proud. I feel like a proud parent ❤ 😌 even though I’m a bit younger. It’s just nice to see people do so well for themselves 🎉
🤣Tiffany ain't fiddlin' around! I nearly spit my pop out on my screen.
"Tiffany ain't fiddling around"
I see what you did there
Shes bringing the violins (just not to the wedding)
This is my second-favorite response to a bully. My first is comedian Sarah Millican’s response to her school bully who wrote her a long letter with updates on her life after Sarah became famous like they were friends. Sarah wrote back something like, “Lynne, this is to let you know that I received your letter. To be honest, I will likely not respond more than this, as I do not remember you very favorably.” And then she read it in one of her filmed standups! 😂 ❤❤❤
Yess! I love Sarah Millican. (also subbed to her channel for a couple years now)
Sarah Millican is a QUEEN! 👑👑
I love her!!! She's HILARIOUS!!!
Great interview. Tiffany is lovely and handled the bully in an extremely professional manner. So glad she's done well for herself and has become a much more confident person along the way. She's an inspiration for others that have been deeply affected by childhood bullies ❤
I remember Sarah Millican's response. It was chefs 👩🍳 kiss.
Tiffany and the ex fiancé ending up together would be the ultimate plot twist 😂😂
I was thinking the same thing!!
@@Gloryb1231 Same here!
Correct! 😂
Why would she want to be with someone who was impressed by that twat?
That's exactly what I thought!!
"You're getting married on Mean Girls Day?" - I'm dead ! Glad you got to pay her back, Tiffany!
As a violinist myself, its WILD what people expect you to do for their weddings
I had no idea
as the friend of many artists, if i had a violinist friend and desired their services, i would ask no more than that they play the ceremony, then come to the reception as a guest, and pay their rate with an exceptional tip. Asking someone you bullied to do it for free is bizarre to me, i wouldn’t ask a friend for any of their art free
Not to mention how fucking _difficult_ violin is as an instrument. That shit is so hard to play I gave up on it after 2 years. I have a violin (gift from grandpa) but I doubt I'll ever pick it up again. Maybe I'll gift it to someone who has the discipline to use and take good care of it someday but who knows. Honestly I couldn't respect violinists more.
jeez I can’t imagine all the stories you have
I absolutely love her responses!
"I dont like tissues so I had to use the money." The scream I scrumpt. 😂😂
Totally stealing "scrumpt." I laughed so hard at that..😂🤣😂
I live for a good scrumpting lol
@boudicca272 do it - I've seen it all over the internet, so I stole it too. It's fun to say out loud. 🤣
@@dvs7392 It's what makes life more fun!
I scared my cat when I screamed at that! ❤
The audacity of contacting your victims for a free service is beyond me. Bullies have tiny brain, they are unable to process reality. Thanks for the great vid. Sad day for bullies.
From a fellow high school nerd and violinist, Tiffany rocks!
She not only gave it to her former tormentor straight from the shoulder, she rescued the man, his dog, his friends, and his entire family from years of misery.
100% FACTS
Standing for herself undid the evil chick's spell.
@@mishV-24 I wish more of us knew this one simple trick when in the midst of it all at that age!! I preach to be unapologetically your own biggest advocate to any young woman (and man honestly lol) I run into that tells me anything that raises my hackles
And saved the poor guy from a divorce fight and a possible custody battle (if and I mean if the bride have ever got pregnant) and a bloody big bill.
Truth!
Way to go, Tiffany. You stood up for bullied girls everywhere. SO proud of you!!!
The way she called out her bully for not being able to afford a lawyer had me cackling
Right i was bullied and wish i could have the confidence she has i still could never
@@aussiefamily4886I'm sorry you were bullied. People can be so mean. With age, you will gain more confidence. I know you will do it!!
@@annjohnson7682 thank you so much i really appreciate your kind words
NO WAY YOU GOT HER ON THE CHARLOTTE DOBRE SHOW!! 💅 This just comes full circle! And the fact the he cancelled everything is just ✨chef's kiss!✨
It's the best story ever
The dog is safe,🙏 the dog has been saved, the owner, as well as his family's mental peace.🎉 This girl is pure gold,blessings for her. Actions speak loudly.❤ So much healing in this interview.🫶👌
Tiffany's responses are on the same level as the responses you come up with 2 days later saying "wish I had said this" 😂
There's actually a name for that in French: l'escalier, or "the wit of the staircase".
Has happened to me a thousand times!
Yeah. So its probably fake
I love it when it’s a text because it’s easier to come up with something 🔥 😂
I’d have said, “okay, I’ll PLAY violin at your wedding, I’ll take the $1000 up front. Let me know the songs you’d like played.” I’d show up the day of with recorded tracks and a speaker.
Isn't this *just* the dream for anyone who's been bullied? Not just in school, but anywhere. Giving it to your bully, both barrels. Well done, Tiffany!
I was on both sides of this situation. Autistic, I was bullied at school when I was not being totally ignored. Our brothers also bullied each other and we two, but I bullied my younger sister, to my shame. When I became self-aware after college (suddenly one afternoon, as if seeing a film of my whole life with her), I apologized deeply, accepting whatever she decided to say/do. She amazingly, graciously forgave me, and the memories became goads to help me winkle out every aspect of that horrid behavior whenever it pops up. (Yes, 60 years later, it still tries to twist its nasty roots in.)
“I did it for my younger self.” I loved this so much, and I’m so proud of her. ❤🙌🏻
❤❤❤
Yes! I loved that, too!! 😊
Isolation is a huge red flag for narcissistic abuse
Anybody else notice she never actually apologized for bullying her? Just wanted to move past it? Classic narcissistic behavior!!! Love this for Tiffany!
Also couldn’t let it go, still needed to get the last word.
@@simplysandeeeand yet like a narcissist, said they were going to let it go
She was attempting to Bully her again from the first message. Completely gaslit her about the middle school bullying.
Yes, agreed!
Absolutely- total narcissist... Isolating him from his friends, playing victim.... Narcissists cannot change
I am so grateful that she modeled appropriate behavior for dealing with a bully. Everyone who has been bullied needs this kind of healing. Thank you so much. IMO.
Even if someone thinks “what is the other side of the story”, the bride really reveals herself!
Insulting me is the single best way to get luxury service
I hear the pain in her voice when she described how she was bullied--more sadness for that young girl she used to be. I also can see how proud she is (and rightly so) that she is not only survived but has flourished.
I am angry and sad about the abuse all around her. What was wrong with her family and church? No one was looking out foe this girl
It's awful that none of the adults involved in her church's youth group didn't step in and have a talk with the mean girl and those under her thumb. Urgh!
oh shut up. People like you are horrible. If you can't tell who the bully is in this scenario is it's because you are the mean one.
Tiffany handled herself like a G and fully owned her bully’s world by the end of that exchange. It’s nice to see a bully get put entirely in their place, especially when they’re begging a favor they in no way deserve.
I’m glad Tiffany got some positive closure for that miserable time of her life and vindicated her self and her talent after all these years.
Bully exposing herself to her fiancé and losing her wedding and ring in the same month was just the perfect icing atop the 8-tier cake. Absolute perfection, I couldn’t have executed it better if I tried.
As a freelance musician I can attest that this happens...more often than you think...just 2 months ago I got "invited" to a party...the text went something like this..."Elliot, I'm having a party on Saturday...can you come?" Sure, I replied....after a while I was texted back..."great, I also invited a few of my friends who are also musicians, so could you bring your instrument and play with them? Oh, and since they don't have any gear because they're visiting, could you bring your speakers,mics and amplifier? Plus you need to bring 150 foot extension cord. The party will be poolside in the backyard...Oh and you need to arrive early enough to set up everything BEFORE the caterers arrive....and can you bring that big canopy you own in case it rains? Thanks, you're the best!!!" Needless to say, I didn't go...😂😂😂😂
ex-musician here. yup. if the musicians were high end enough might think about it for the jam once in a while, then write the person who did the invite off.
And hopefully, they were expecting you to be there with all the things…and it rained😂😂😂.The audacity and disrespect of it all
Gotta love when they throw in "by the way, bring this and that" like um, NO
😂😂😂😂😂
@1984isRe😂😂😂😂al
Holy cow on the wanted a bigger ring and he had to repropose??? That's INSANE!!! 😂 I can't imagine staying with someone so entitled
Fr. That should've the relationship immediately but I guess he loved her too much and ignored that.
I immediately thought, "why did he stay?" I would have RUN
How good was she in bed for him to ignore that red flag?
Omg she got that tea PIPING HOT, directly from the source. We are not worthy, Charlotte be spoiling us! 😂 🙌🏾 Big props to Tiffany!!!
I think I just realized why I like your videos so much. The way they are edited and narrated just appeals to my adhd because, as someone else said, all thoughts come with bonus content. Like at 4:20 when the violin with charlottes face on it floats past. That is something the editor should be praised for. Your guys’ videos are truly enjoyable.
As someone who was bullied relentlessly in middle/high school, this episode was healingggg 🙌🏼 "I'll take being a nerd over peaking in high school any day" is everything.🔥
It’s the “I harassed you because your skill set is better than mine therefore you should use said skill set to benefit ME” for me 😂😂😂
My partner was a bully in high school. I know because after we had been living together for two years we got a new neighbour and my partner immediately went to his door to apologize for how awful he was when they were younger. The two became semi-friends for the rest of the time we lived there. I was so proud that he, without prompting, recognised what a dick he was and made an attempt to make amends. Bullies can grow up, but not all do.
Also, what an absolute queen this wonderful lady is. Gracious and gorgeous.
Good on your partner! That took guts. ❤
Your partner is an exception
I like that he actually realized how much of a dbag he was and actually changed for the better 😊
@@xxzcfdxctrue. But like, if one of my bullies came up to me and said anything along the lines of "I'm sorry I was young etc etc" I'd think "well... so was I and I never made an 8th grader su I ci dal."
Not that OPs partner said that but yeah.
@@Courtannica No, you do make an excellent point. Some people do things as preteens and teenagers that are just unforgivable no matter how much personal growth they go through.
And no one can tell you what is and isn't unforgivable. That's an important part of a sincere apology, the acceptance that the other person can hear you out and still say "f*** you" and understand that is perfectly valid.
I love Tiffany’s response. She scalded the bully 😂😂😂😂😂 she only wants to be friends because she wants something from her. The fiancé calling off the wedding is chefs kiss 💋
I love that Tiffany's reply shows that she picks her own friends. This Bridezilla is deluded. If she wanted professional services, she needed to treat them as professionals and to not short-change them.
A dog not liking your bf/gf is such a big red flag. My dog never liked my ex, he would growl at him for no reason, hide from him, he even bit him once. My ex almost killed me when we broke up and he cheated on me a lot throughout the whole relationship. My now bf is loved by my dog, he gets so excited whenever he's around, he wants to be pet by him constantly, he's never acted afraid or angry at my bf. Trust your dogs.
Yup!!! If my dog didn’t like my S/O that’s a huge deal breaker for me especially if on top of that my family and friends don’t like them either 🤷♀️
For real. Unless a dog just doesn't like anyone, it's a huge red flag for them to not like certain individuals.
One of my dogs has a lot of fear-based aggression and doesn’t like any strangers. But we’ve been working with a trainer and every time my boyfriend comes over, he is patient and tactful and does whatever he can to make our dog more comfortable. And they’re finally starting to bond!
Same with cats, I think cats especially are a good judge of character because dogs are usually friendlier (I mean, if such a friendly creature doesn’t like you then how horrible of a person are you omg??). With cats, they have boundaries and I think if someone disrespects a cats boundaries, they would probably do the same to a human. Or also people who hate cats, like HATE them, you know full well that person just doesn’t like things they can’t control..
Yes! Such an underrated red flag too. Animals are the masters of spotting this shit!
When Tiffany said "delulu-land" I knew she was a fellow potato. 😅 Tiffany, I'm so proud of you for standing up and politely giving her the business. She can sit and spin. I hope that the world is your oyster and that the good days far outweigh the bad. ❤
7:50 just imagine someone else that girl bullied went to law school and became a lawyer and getting a message „heeeey girl, it’s been forever 😍“ 😂😂😂
Brilliant 😂
Ashdjdkfu I had this SAME imaginary scenario play out in my head at that moment 😂
😂😂😂 probably so!
You can like lawyer for me, for EXPOSURE, girl.
This comment made me laugh WAY too hard...
I was friends with some people for a few years before they learned about some religious beliefs I’ve had since before I met them. Never affected the way I treated them or thought of them given they didn’t believe the same way (doesn’t bug me; everyone can believe whatever they want), but as soon as they found out they bullied and harassed not only me, but one friend that stayed with me. How did I get back at them? Smiling, helping them when the rest of their group was busy, and taking the high road. I can’t tell you how many times they SQUIRMED and were SPEECHLESS. Even some teachers found out about it; my history teacher had a lot of fun teaching about the first amendment (which is freedom of religion for those not familiar with the USA.) She ranted for TEN MINUTES while discreetly staring down my ex-friends. Loved that teacher.
Let me guess, you are not Jewish or Muslim? Cos I'm guessing if you were, the school district would have rushed to give you a few million to avoid a lawsuit.
Shout out to all the misfit girlies who never judged and were accepting of people/new friends. I'm glad you were able to find a couple friends to make life a little better, Tiffany. ❤ You are strong, beautiful and incredibly talented. F all these haters and bullys.
The most thrilling part of this is seeing Tiffany living her best life. Nice to see a bully get called out, but “living well is the best revenge.” For those of us who have been or are being bullied, take heart! It really can get better.
Not just living well. It's Tiffany having the self-esteem and the eloquence to reply as she did. This is a woman who has grown to value herself and tell off anyone who'd think to take advantage of her. Tiffany is my hero.
My daughter and son are both in the band, and have dealt with bullies until recently. Now they go to a private school where everyone is required to play an instrument, sing in the choir, and play a sport. It's a great system and the kids thrive.
I am glad they're doing well now but there's a different type of bullying in private schools, usually based on money/influence of parents. Speaking from experience. You get some schools (public or private) that are better at keeping bullying at bay.
Tiffany girl if you see this... I frequently rewatched this video... I was bullied in sixth grade and middle school for playing violin and then later on became and outcast and didnt feel excepted in the orchestra so seeing this over and over helps that younger part of me heal from all the times i wasnt able to or didnt stand up for myself. Thank you
The way I screamed "FOR EXPOSURE" with Charlotte 🤣🤣 and honestly it's a dealbreaker if a dog hates someone, they can smell how evil the person is HAHAHAH
💯 agree
Yeah, if Scruffy and Houdini hated and growled at a guy the first time meeting them, the relationship came to a screeching, tire smoking, brake locking stop. They were good bois.
My cat didn't like my first boyfriend much. One time my cat sprayed me in the face to mark me as his territory. It was the ONLY time he ever did that and it was so out of character of him. I should have broken up with my boyfriend then but I was a young and naive. Fortunately we only dated for 6 months but it was quite a ride... Now that I'm older, I definitely listen to animals and trust their instincts.
It’s not so much as them smelling the evil in the person as much as how that person reacts towards them when they’re not looking.
Charlotte putting this on her show gives Tiffany a lot of exposure, too!
She got the revenge all of us that got bullied wish we could get.
We all are living vicariously through her story.
Yessssss
Yes 🙌🏻
Yassssss! She just put us one up!
I love that you got to interview Tiffany. It was such a pleasure to hear from her. I'm so proud of how she stood up to her bully. She’s our bestie!
15:59 wtf this is cool, Tiffany in person!
She quoted Phoebe Buffay!! Love this girl and the fact that she could be a classy person while turning her bully down. KUDOS and thank you from all of who were relentlessly bullied and never had the chance to give our bullies a come upance. Good for you!!!!
I’m watching Friends through again and Phoebe is the ancient wise woman character!
The audactiy of the bully to contact the person who they bullied to get their services for free is just rich. Tiffany gave God level, classy revenge. Kudos!!
What a lovely story! Not only is she a fellow nerd, but she is a hero! She saved that man’s life, the dog, and his future children! What a sad life she saved them from.
I was raised by a bully and it was rough to say the least.
The only people in my life that I count as my true friends, are my fellow nerds.
NERDS ROCK!!!!
Very proud of you!! The dog didn’t even like her? That is a huge red flag!!
Congratulations to Tiffany! So very brave and honest and NEEDED!!!
School bullies are horrible, but what’s worse is that she’s continued on in her bullying ways! I don’t think it’s true that “once a bully, always a bully” but she certainly is!
Sometimes that’s just how people are. Regardless of environmental circumstances or whatever the case may be, some people are just entitled horrible messes that only drag others down. Sadly others are usually willing to be dragged down, and that’s their business. But I feel like an awareness campaign is also in order 😂
👑 Queen Tiffany 🙌 you handled that with such grace. As a 60 year old former bullied kid, still with the emotional scars; I salute you, I applaud your integrity & character 🎉 Nerds of the World Unite! 🤣
As someone that was bullied during school, I bow down before Queen Tiffany. I feel like you stood up for all of us! Thank You!
Thanks!
"I could've said no or ignored the message... but I had a little time" and that snide smirk 😏😏
SHE IS AWESOME!!
As the mother of two daughters, one of whom was bullied in middle school just for being a happy girl, I really appreciate your celebrating the happy and successful survival/prospering of a former victim. Thank you so much!
My 13 yr old BAND kid was just massively bullied and physically assaulted right before school got out for summer break. He is a talented drummer for his age. Your words spoke to him. Thank you!!! ❤
As a former band kid, tell your boy we've got his six. I hope he's doing ok.
Tell your son there's so many people out here who have his back.
I feel like I should suggest he check out Cowboy Mouth and their drummer/ lead singer Fred. He's a beast. Definitely gave me a new appreciation for drummers the first time I saw them perform live.
Never let it stop you(him)... Just keep doing ur thing.. U leave this types faar behind soon enugh... Bullies will never beat talent and knowledge...
I'm so sorry he has to deal with bullies. Tell him to keep his head up and that everything will be just fine. Keep working hard and just keep doing your best
The kids that bully these band-kids probably dang-near worship some musicians that were former band-kids too lol.
Bullying isn't simply over when the bullies stop. I lashed out at people for years afterwards because I thought I needed to protect myself from harm.
It takes a lot of work to overcome
im a harpist and played in middle and high school orchestra, i feel this DEEP in my soul.
I’m so jealous of your talents. It’s a beautiful instrument and you are so lucky to have the enjoyment of stringing your music through your fingers. 🤗
Ooh so talented! Well done you!
My next door neighbor and best friend through middle school was a harpist and I was always so jealous of her skills but I never bullied her, only admired her and wished I could be as skilled as she was! It was beautiful when she played. I played violin in orchestra and then oboe in band but I didn’t stick with either and I really wish I would have. I hope you’re still playing!
@@nopenope9118 Fellow former oboe player???? Whats up!!!! 👏 👏👏 I do miss it, though.
Yall had harps? I'm jealous. I played bass in strings back in high school, and I wouldn't have played the harp but MAN it would've been cool to have one there.
I'm 73 and last month FINALLY got to say some things to a former classmate from 4th grade through high school. He'd posted something on the reunion page and I just felt the need to finally speak up. I was shocked when I started getting emails from other people feeling the same way. Some of those people were ones I considered to be in the popular group, One guy said he barely made it to graduation but went on to have a great career. I looked him up and OMG! "Great career" is an understatement. I guess my point is that it's never too late to speak up.
73 and remember something from 4th grade ?! And not only that but held onto it for over 60 years ?! What was it that happened?? Did you lose a limb ? We aren't even the same person we were in 4th grade and many can argue at that point in time you are at that time being molded . Sorry for your trauma but I think you should heal and let the 4th grade go
@@happywanderer6307 Sweet ! And good on you for letting the ole ass wipe know to prepare himself for God , love to him him squirm trying to defend himself .😃😀👍
@@Wally-pu2hh No trauma and I told him I didn't carry any baggage. I just told him that we remembered things differently. He went on to say how great school was, how awesome everyone was and that he loved those years. I told him I was happy for him that that his time so awesome, but that it wasn't quite as good for some of us. We were too thin, too fat, too pimply, too poor or too gay. Some of us might not have had bullies who physically assaulted us, but we heard what was being said. We knew which clubs we shouldn't bother to try to join. Then I wished him well and that was it. As for remembering back to 4th grade, I remember kindergarten! I still have my bff from third grade.
@@Wally-pu2hhHey Narci, you're not in the position to tell someone to heal from any trauma especially if you don't know the person. You relax, sit down, or go back to sleep.
@@Wally-pu2hhApparently 0 trauma changes people and many of them since several people also remembered. Have some empathy. I remember all my bullies.., except they learned instantly i wasn't the one. Not hanging on to it, but I remember and I'm 71. People have memories. That's how brains work. Bet you're a bully. You just tried it here.
"And my dog doesn't like her" lost my shit at that!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That should have been his biggest red flag!! For a dog not to like you? That says a lot about her! 😅😅😅😅
He said he was Thinking about breaking off the wedding "because bullies don't change, do they?" Forget about her school days, dude just look at what she's done since you've been with her😢!!! Fog! Take off the glasses & talk with your dog🐶!...
Exactly
I have pitty. She only barks at artificial noises ie doorbells and squirrels. The only HUMAN she barked at turned out to a thief who liked Hitler.
All that to say, if my Maple don't like you, I don't either.
I was bullied in KINDERGARTEN and never forgot! I'm going to be 68 this year. Those scars cut deep.
The bully actually thought Tiffany, her victim, would jump at the chance "to be her friend" 😂 I love that Tiff got revenge on a horrible person. I'm living through her on this one. Great job,girl ❤
Also, Tiffany is absolutely STUNNING! Her intelligence, skills, and endless kindness shines through so much, and this has been my absolute favorite episode - not a bad idea, Charlotte! Maybe we get more interviews with people in the future?
Yess I love this format
"my dog doesn't like her"
The ultimate warning sign. 😂😂😂❤
Standing ovation for Tiffany! As a girl also bullied this same way in school, I applaude you.
I would charge this bully the amount of money it cost to get therapy to cope with the trauma of said bullying
I went to college with Tiffany! Wow! She is the sweetest human!
I’m glad she got through all that she went through and that she is successful 👏
Awww hi Jordan!!! 😃
Hyles Anderson?
@@blizz2795 haha yep
@@tiffanymooreviolin 🤣🤣 I grew up in Crown Point.
Tiffany seems so sweet, and seeing her talking honestly reminds me of an ex that I’m still friends with. Both of them have such great personalities and great sense of humor.
"The dog also don't like her" 🤣🤣🤣 that's gold. Thanks Charlotte for making me laugh at 4am
Dogs are the best character judges.
Some bullies are bullied in their own homes and don’t even realize how mean they’re being until they get out of their home and start to heal, looks like this girl never learned to not hurt others
Well said.
Thanks for pointing that out. People learn how to act sometimes from how they were treated. And bullied ppl learn to become the bully to avoid being the victim. But it's an explanation not an excuse and by your 30s it's on you to do some self work and be better.
Tiffany alluded to church, youth group, and a religious college, that she and the bully had in common. As I’m watching this, I’m thinking: this is happening in a _spiritual_ environment where leaders are supposedly modeling Christian ideals, and no one is calling the bully out on her behavior…?
@@TRB277Welcome to how religions function.
@user-vd5ih9tt4q the most common environment for that
In middle school and early high school I was bullied. By my senior year I learned to ignore it. During my senior year I had to sit behind one of my bullies, they ignored me for the most part. It was towards the end of the year and my bully turned to me and try to talk and act all nice. I looked at them and said “you know… we’ve not really talked much and that has been just great, let’s keep doing that.” And went back to my school work… it was my best moment that I didn’t get roped into them.
I love the "music isn't even that hard!" reasoning. GOOD! Then you have no excuse. Learn it and play it yourself!
"Music isn't even that hard"?! Fine--you, the bride, can jolly well provide it. Go walk down the aisle, blowing on a kazoo.
Love the in-studio guest thing. So glad she overcame that bully, and she did it with such class. I wouldn't have been so classy...lol.
In our household, being called a nerd is literally THE BIGGEST compliment! Love this!
We use “geek”!
And weird. When someone says I’m weird I say “Thank you! Thank you so much!” And I’m totally serious.
Love Tiffany appearing on the video with you. Mathew clearly dodged a bullet by cancelling the wedding. Always believe your dog when they don’t like someone.
Love, love, love this! From one “nerd” who was ruthlessly bullied throughout school it’s so satisfying to see someone doing well and getting to personally deliver the karma. I’ve enjoyed hearing about some from a distance and can only imagine how empowering this must have felt for Tiffany. She is beautiful inside & out and handled herself with impeccable and professional savagery!
I've been bullied all my life, starting at age 5, and the fact that I watched this also healed something inside of me. May God continue to bless you, Tiffany. You're an immensely strong and courageous woman and beautiful inside and out. Plus, anyone who loves Charlotte is part of some of the best people. Love you, doll! 💖💖💖
Best was she maintained a professional and controlled demeanor, not losing her temper and trash talking. Good for her!
I’M SCREAMING! Sending so much love to Tiffany and that poor man’s dog. The way this played out is so satisfying.
For all of us who recall being labelled the term "nerd", and was bullied as a child.....girl, you are LIVING OUR DREAM!!!! I'm in my 40's now, I lived through school bullying, which manifested in an eating disorder, and sadly ended up in an abusive marriage. I left my husband, built a business and have never looked back. However...........there's a small part of me that screamed triumphantly when I saw this episode and as Charlotte said, I briefly lived vicariously through you. You elegantly responded and she dug her own pit with each response. Karma is a bitch and is incredibly patient! Kudos lady, supremely classy reply.
Tiffany as someone who was Bullied so badly I couldn’t even stand to get out of bed, I couldn’t sleep at night. Suffered for years over and over until til the boys graduated high school. They road the same bus as me even though I was in middle school and them in High.
Finally after years of self destruction (mentally) I finally got to see them again 10/12 years later and wouldn’t you know it they didn’t recognize me and wanted to flirt with me. Bullying is terrible and can destroy people. I’m so proud to see you going strong and doing all the wonderful things! You’re a gorgeous, intelligent, talented woman! Rock On!!!
Did you tell them off?
Tiffany’s responses are so chefs kiss. She’s not responding how the bully wants her to and is completely turning the tables on her school bully.
Absolute queen.
And Charlotte, your reactions and explanations are absolutely perfect 😂 👌
Not only do we get bullied by people, but also by different governments, corporations, and businesses. To have someone stand up to a bully is wonderful to see!
Always trust your dog!!!! And Tiffany is hair goals! Just beautiful ❤
Thanks to Tiffany for sharing her story, she’s awesome. Narcs don’t change, mine didn’t and has been the same since 1990. Not even the divorce changed his mindset, he just got worse. Glad the groom to be has saved himself a lifetime of hurt.
I'm very happy for you too that you got out of that situation. Wishing you a narcissist-free life!
@@chaoleo Thank you so much! I hope you have a narc free life too. Hello from Australia.
TIFFANY 😮😮😮😮 WHAT A TWIST!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉
As a former bullied kid, thank you soooooo much for your amazing response to her, it always makes all of the bullied super happy and kind of help getting some sense of justice out of our pasts ❤
I’ve been a wedding photographer for 14 years, and I completely relate when she said she had done so much work to get where she was, learn how not to be a doormat, and how to recognize her worth monetarily.
It’s heartbreaking and unreal how many people who seem to think they are instantly entitled to special treatment simply because they know.
This story was the best tea I've heard in a long time. Got me cheering for Tiffany and the guy and laughing hysterically at all the perfect comebacks. Chefs kiss of a story
The fact that she didn’t even have to do anything besides tell the truth to get her petty revenge is the best.
Violinist is not only classy but so strong in spirit. Fantastic.
Tiffany is a BOSS! You gave her another chance to show how getting over a bully can take a long time. You are both special women!
She is a beautiful, talented young lady, as is the narrator of her story. Y'all have the best that life has to offer daily❤
As I RUN to follow her!!!!!!!🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️ I don't even live in the US and can never book her but still!
Hahaha, same girlll, same😂😊. I'm from Belgium. And I don't even intend on ever marrying again. But ya know, exposure 😂🤣🤣🤣. And likes and follows and whatnot, if I can never hire her, she can earn by having me as a follower 😁😊🥰
Charlotte is Canadian I believe so the crowd she has in just her surrounding areas (US included)
And obviously people like you. Should really get this girl an insane following from literally everywhere.
I love it so much.
who says you can't book her! She clearly has a passport so I'm sure she would love the opportunity to travel outside North America!
@@thedarkvampress3833 my bank account says so 😂 can you imagine flying a violin player over from the states to Belgium, making sure she's accomodated well and then pay her for her performance as well. I mean, that's gonna be a weeee bit slightly more than 2,5K! And I'd already not be able to pay for 2,5K. It also has to be realistic. Not just a 'want'...