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Welcome back, my spilly tea squad! 🍵✨ Today, we're diving headfirst into the wild, dramatic, and oh-so-entertaining world of brides and weddings! 🎉💍 I've got some juicy, hilarious, and downright shocking stories for you as we try to figure out: Am I a BRIDEZILLA?! 😈👰
Join me as I react to some of the most outrageous bride behavior caught on camera! From dress disasters to bouquet brawls, we've got it all. 😂 Whether you're a bride-to-be or just love a good laugh, this video is for YOU! So grab your popcorn, sit back, and let's get this bridal party started! 🥳
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Love how the bride with the neon dress was completely fine making jabs and comments about the brides mades body but when she hit her back once she completely freaks out
Fr I’m not sure but I don’t even think she said anything about her just the dress?( the maid of honor not the bride)
Yeah honestly if the bride had been nice to her I think I’d be on her side. After all it’s her wedding it’s her dress choice. But between treating her maid of honor that way and also making her pay for the dress she clearly hates…
That neon green dress looks like a $10 dress from Wish. I would never pay $350 for something like that.
I think the bride is setting her up so people will think she went rogue by wearing a high intensity color and ruining her esthetic.
Bet you bride said "its gonna be a green dress" and you could think normal green wedding colors like jade or forest or kelly green even but bright florescent lime green wouldn't be my first assumption. Also, i think she didnt even see the style dress either. I think the bride just ordered it for her and told her how much it was. If i saw what i was getting before i ordered, i would be calling the bride before placing my order.
Yeah if the bride wants something like that she should be paying the $350
If it actually cost 350 dollars then they got scammed and the bride won't admit to it. Or she has no concept of value-for-money ratio.
It probably was
The bride is beyond crazy. The dress would be too expensive at Kmart for $12.99. I would return the dress and get my money back, block the bridzilla and never discuss her or her wedding again. There is a saying, " WITH FRIENDS LIKE THAT, WHO NEEDS ENEMIES."
It would be mire than that at kmart
@@karentucker2161it’s not worth 350 cents let alone dollars.
It’s an insult
Correction enemas 😂
We donated our honeymoon money to my fiancé's family friend that needed specialised treatment for his cancer. We got married 6 days ago without a honeymoon. But we've got something so much better, the health of a friend.
Maybe some brides should try to remember that yes that 1 day might be your special day. But don't you maybe want to still have friends after that 1 day
That is incredible and congratulations on your marriage!❤
@@devinfriedman7578 thank you 😀
I had an emergency c-section the day before my good friend was getting married. I called to let her know that I was sorry that I wasn't going to be at her wedding (I wasn't in the wedding, just a guest). Not only did she understand, she and her fiance came to the hospital to visit me, with gifts for the baby, before their rehearsal dinner. This is how a true friend behaves. Brides, let's have some love and grace and understand that life happens. Not everything is about you!
It was a guests bday on my wedding day....we sang her a happy birthday and gave her a freaking big bouquet for spending her special day at our special day. Why not share the joy 😮
Girl you have a friend to the end! Keep that girl true friends are hard to find believe me❤ you are truly blessed and congratulations on the baby❤
Oh yeah "your wedding is the most important thing for you, not others"
@@tianastapp9854Wait, what? Who are you quoting?
@@kellit6756 idk where that's come from but I've seen it around lots 🤷🏻♀️😅
The neongreen dress: she's not complaining. She's trying to not let the bride make a huge mistake. But actually i think the bride doesn't want her in the wedding or wants her to be laughed at and brought that disaster of a dress on purpose.
Apparently she does skits on her profile so it's not real
@@MissKairelle you know what That's what I'm thinking too I don't think she wanted her in the wedding... Judging by The bride's behavior oh hell no
That's exactly what I was thinking. A real friend would listen to feedback and watch out for the comfort of her friend, not try to bully her into something that makes her feel uncomfortable. And NO CHURCH would let her be in that dress without any kind of covering.
That's what I don't get. Skit or not, this whole thinking is very contradictory? People who are upset at a dress are gonna point and laugh at the one wearing it. The one who's gonna wear should have some amount of say, because you can't really make the bride be the one choosing and then the responsibility of bearing the consequences is all on the other person... If the other person is gonna be associated with that. then it's not just about the bride anymore, it's a weird imbalance there.
Yeah, and not only that but she’s the only one that’s wearing the dress? Either she’s being Pranked, which genuinely feels like that because the bride is acting exactly how popular girls do in school when they’re trying to get someone to go along to get humiliated, or she will just be cropped out of the photos later on because she’s quite literally probably the only one wearing such an ugly bright green dress. (in all honesty can barely be addressed. It’s definitely more like a shirt…)
Nah that green dress was brighter than the friendship's future. Clearly.
With the band, june 1st was date for either party to back out. Not only did band not forward info for deposit by that date but they are also responsible to inform her that they are backing out of the contract due to other commitments
The neon clubbing dress is totally not what needs to be in a church wedding. The bride is not only being a bridezilla but a horrible friend. Proud of the MoH for waking out.
I agree, Proud of MOH for both: Waking up & Walking the f out🤬
No way in hell I would tolerate any "friend" talking to me like that! I don't care who's wedding. Girl you did the right thing.
I thought it was real during the 1st conversation, but the 2nd one made me feel 95% sure it was staged, simply because the bride sounded like she was reading lines off a page and the MOH kept talking to US instead of her, which you’d think would have tipped her off that this was being recorded (which would have infuriated her).
My verdict? Not real. I could be wrong, but part 2 just didn’t feel authentic.
That's your opinion. Brides are entitled to theirs as long as they're not telling people to change things that aren't easily changeable like hair or weight
@@Katfall2012 yes but , if the MH does not feel comfortable, just morally, doesn’t give the bride permission to dress them up like it’s Ladies Night. Yeah, so, no.
I feel like the bride wants to make her look bad on purpose. I mean you have to hate somebody to make them - as the only one - wear a short neon green dress in a church wedding.
The whole "you don't go to the bride with problems" is so stupid! Who the heck else would you go to?! It's her wedding! That dress is cute for a night out but it's not worth anywhere CLOSE to $350 and it certainly isn't a suitable bridesmaid dress, especially for a maid of honor!! And I'm sorry but there is absolutely no way that any of my friends would speak to me that way because let me tell you, they would NOT be my friend anymore after telling me to "suck in my hips", how does one even do that?! Definite bridezilla and an insanely crappy friend!
Craziness 💯 agree
Not to mention wearing that dress in a cathedral! A full blown cathedral it just screams like all the bad things and gives off bad message about the maid of honor. Like people would talk
Absolutely! You have to get the bride's opinion and feedback or you can't ensure she gets the day she wants. And that dress was a joke...
100% the bride wanted her to show up like that so she could act shocked and offended
I think that goes for brides, who are wealthy and bridesmaids and maid of honors who are very wealthy so everybody has all the money to do all the things so they shouldn't bring the stress to the bride..
ITS NOT OK ALYSSA YOU HAD ALL TEN TOENAILS WHEN YOU GOT MARRIED.
IM ACTUALLY DYINGGGGG😂😂😂😂
10:29, i like her, i like that shes self aware, and to be honest her reaction was justified, that must have hurt like hell 😭 shes iconic
I’m not a bride, but my firm opinion is this:
You are allowed to be stressed, cry, vent, get overwhelmed, etc. You are NOT allowed to treat the people around you as lesser than you. Basic human decency is part of the criteria of being a bride
Unfortunately it’s not but I wish it was. We see too many of these cases where the bride just abuses everyone around her. 😢
Basic human decency is one of the criteria for being a… human. Brides are (supposedly) human. ;-)
And sure, you can pick the bridesmaid dresses or colors but you cannot make them wear something they feel uncomfortable in. The girl in green brought up the fact that it was in a church and the dress barely covered her butt, meaning she’d be uncomfortable. One of my bridesmaids had a very large chest so the other ones had her choose what would make her feel most comfortable and went with that as their choice.
@@professionalinsomniac8338 Only if no one calls them out. If you let people get away with bad behavior, they'll give you more bad behavior. Someone really needed to sit down with that bride and find out what was really going on, or if she was determined to be a witch.
@@goldengryphon I mean, someone can be self-aware they’re awful and not care. But what those brides need to realize is their attitude is eventually gonna result in them being alone after they drive everyone away :/
I think the toenail bride was actually even sort of cute with her “you had all your toenails in your wedding” tantrum. It wasn’t mean. It was pure drunk self-pitty mixed with despair and a pinch of sarcasm.
Especially since she once was sober totaly aknowledged it was a silly tanteum and reconned talking to her as if she where a child.... Like there was zero defensivness or meanness in that
Honestly love her for it and I think we would be friends 😂
@@harveybrown303 yesss lol her personality seems fun cuz even though the she wasn’t having a good time in that moment, she was still providing comedic relief lmao
And the girl she was yelling at was clearly trying not to laugh. I thought the whole thing was pretty funny all around
She was hilarious and adorable, poor thing
The girl at the end just needed to drop a "bless your heart" to put that southern stamp of F'off on it
I used to be one of the main hostesses at a popular local restaurant located within a massive historic mansion (really, though, I was basically the floor manager getting paid essentially nothing to do the job of someone who might’ve come upstairs once throughout a busy shift🙄🤦🏻♀️), and I worked with a young woman in her mid20s who had like 8 siblings and they ALL were some of the kindest, sweetest people you’ll ever meet in your life…but as sweet & quiet as Maggie was, she wasn’t going to be disrespected or walked on, either.
We had a lot of entitled customers because our owner was the owner of a few major bars, restaurants, and a giant music venue, everyone who knew him seemed to think that they could be loud, disrespectful jerks who made ridiculous demands & thought they could regularly just go seat themselves as tables were getting up, when we were fully booked with actual reservations and/or on a major waitlist, etc.
It was infuriating when we’d be slammed, trying to handle numerous situations at once, and needing to step in to help the servers if they needed it too, etc., and then we’d have someone start screaming in our faces, demanding to be seated IMMEDIATELY.🤢🤮
And Mags would just be calm AF, smile at them, and constantly respond to the yelling & demands with, “Oh, I see.”
Just that, “Oh, I see.” You really had to be there to hear her delivery of it & see how people responded, though.😂😂
It was definitely her way of politely acknowledging, “I hear you. I see you’re mad. No, I’m not going to do anything about it. Kindly, fu** off.”
And it would just THROW people. Because she wasn’t telling them outright “no”, but absolutely wasn’t telling them “yes”, either, and everyone would start to fumble & not know what to do when she just kept saying “I see”.
Eventually, they’d give up & storm off, and she kinda became our secret weapon for our most difficult customers, because she ALWAYS stayed super calm and peppy, & didn’t fold to the stress & pressure those people can & do absolutely put on service workers.
But nobody could ever really complain about how they were treated, because they couldn’t say she actually did anything to them, she was just too nice.
Always died seeing the laughter in her eyes, though, as she was being perfectly sweet & calm to completely irrationally irate people.
Sometimes the best counter to entitled, rude, disrespectful people is to simply be & show that you’re completely UNBOTHERED.
And a “have a blessed day!”
My friend’s bachelorette party was really chill, we painted pottery, went to an aerial yoga class, and got brunch. BUT, there was a lot of unspoken dramatic politics. The MOH was quietly bitchy to everyone else the whole time. It was never outright, but she made sure the rest of us knew we were beneath her in wedding status and friend status. Luckily no one gave a crap and we all laughed about it later. Not our circus not our monkey 😂
WOOOAHH… that first bride, is putting her in a dress that is that different from everyone else? She’s doing it on purpose to embarrass her. End of story. That green dress looks like something you would wear to spring break, or Vegas. I would tell her to go to he!!
Exactly!!! She secretly hates her tbh!!
To me I think they're both acting, if it was real, why would you record it, why would you be so happy, why would you post a fight with your theoretical best friend on the internet for everyone to see. Either that or their both just super immature. But I agree, the dress definitely doesn't look wedding appropriate and would probably stick out a lot
It's not even real
@@CarysRI completely agree. It reeks of staged video. This is not genuine and is cooked up for views.
It's so fake
Girl 1, get a refund, cancel that friendship.
This
But, all she has to do is suck in her hips!
Exactly what I was thinking. I'd never let a friend talk to me like that, bride or not. Crazy.
It's so fake
Absolutely, don't ever let someone talk to you like that.
The maid of honour story was a total bridezilla. I don’t even think their friends considering the way the bride talked to the maid of honour
For the girl with the "highlighter green" dress...there is absolutely no way I would insist on any person in the Bridal party wearing something they weren't comfortable with or didn't like
Somebody definitely kept the $350 and ordered that shit on Temu 😭
Or from the thrift lol
Yes, it looks so cheap.
100% I thought the same thing...
Yep as soon as she said the other bridesmaids had different dresses
It was a made up story.. Wasn't real.
We lost our youngest child a week before a Good friend’s wedding. We had a bakery and were doing the cake as well as my husband was standing up in the wedding. They asked us if we needed them to postpone the wedding to make life easier for us. We did not because at the time doing it was better than not but the fact they were willing to change everything to be there for us was everything.
I am so sorry for your loss. 😢
That is very sad, but I’m glad you have such considerate friends by your side who are understanding. I hope they can continue to help you through your grief.
@@jinx2100 it’s so nice to hear that your friends were compassionate during this awful time for you.
@@bbk2601 I wasn’t talking about myself
@@jinx2100 I was meaning to respond to the OP of this thread. I obviously didn’t do it correctly 😊
The girl that commented “agreeing” with the bride about the cost of the dress wasn’t agreeing with her. She was saying that her whole bridal outfit didn’t even cost as much as that tacky as dress and that $350 IS a lot of money
24:09 “continue to be a tourist”
I woulda said “NO. now I’m moving here. FOREVERRR”
"You chose to be my maid of honor so stop complaining."
That's not how it works. That first bride needs a serious reality check if she didn't already get one.
That was completely fake u do realize that right??
She secretly hated her "friend", and was looking to embarrass her with that neon streetwalker-core dress in the cathedral
@@carleyminsker5621, even so, it's still not something you'd want to hear.
@@carleyminsker5621 pretty sure is not fake in real life 💁🏻♀️💁🏻♀️, this story might be fake, but plenty of people is like that
@Framokamc lol it could be a narration of a real life event. However THIS actual story was completely fake
The editor throwing the maid of honor in that dress with people clubbing/at the beach and then literally at the last supper had me cracking up. 😭
😂
To bad it was a skit
Me too. That Last Supper picture made me laugh so hard. 😂😂
Let's not forget her using it as a green screen 😂😂😂
Haha! Same! The Last Supper had me rolling!! 😄 🤣
With the anonymous poster in the wedding group. I remember watching that tiktok a while back and locking my phone, putting it face down beside me, and just staring at the wall in stunned silence. Cause Christ! I've heard of childish entitlement, but that level was just 🤯
I would never tell anyone to wear the neon green dress even if it was my sisters wedding or my wedding 😂🤦♀️🤦♀️
Story 1: "It's a fashion statement", the only statement the color and dress says is "I am a drug addict street walker"
More like fake AF..... 🙄
Part of me is like is this staged
Or a Walmart shopper.
If it’s real she doesn’t need to be friends with the first one.
I hope to God that it's fake because (not to be meeeaan lol) no sane grown woman would look at that highlighter, glow in the dark, nickelodeon slime tube dress and say "Yes. This is the moh dress of my dreams"😂. But if it was real tho I wouldn't be shocked if the bride picked that ugly ass dress and chose to be so rude to op was her way of making a way to kick her out of the wedding.
Green and neon green are VERY different colors. Wearing that in a cathedral will make her stand out and look like she's stumbling in still drunk after a night of partying. I know from experience, drunk or not, having a toenail ripped off is painful af. I have a really high tolerance for pain and it still made me cry. LOL I love how those people thought that since they didn't know the bride she was automatically trespassing on property that didn't belong to them. They probably don't even know the owner.
There are SO many nerve endings in our fingers and toes, so any injury feels much much worse there
That dress is so short as she walks it will shimmy up and show more than she would want to show!! The BRIDE is delusional and TACKY!!
I wore sage green in my friend's wedding last October. It was quite lovely.
@@sunshinerose685 Sage green is a beautiful color!
Sorry, but neon isn't a colour. It's a chemical element and the second noble gas in the periodic table.
Oh my I bet Charlottes bridesmaids are going to look so elegant. Can’t wait to see her in her wedding dress 😍🫠
17:32 THEY DIDNT GIVE HER A DEPOSIT AREA
The bride fat, shaming the brides maid, then getting offended when the brides maid throws it back at her is PRICELESS!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
With the toenail bride, it seems like just normal banter between close friends when something goes wrong, also she's drunk and in pain. The bride's reaction was more comical and sarcastic than intentionally being nasty.
Also… TOENAIL DAMAGE…. ARGH!! I am getting shivers just thinking about it. That injury… yeah, I’m done, gotta think about something else.
I need 'But you had all 10 toenails for YOUR wedding Alyssa' to be the new clip that everyone stitches to their own tik tok of despair.
I’m so glad the wedding I was in was a family friend who’s known me since I was 2 but I was a bridesmaid and her wedding colors were lavender and sage, she wanted us to all have floor length dresses so we could have coverage, we got to pick out our dresses from the website and she didn’t want us in heels so we wouldn’t be uncomfortable and she was sooo niceee I love Dawn sm ❤❤❤
I can honestly say I have the best sister in the world. Her “Bachelorette Party” was at BRGR and we had food and laughed and when we were done that was it. Done. She loves simple things and I cannot agree more! We split the bill and it was like $40 per person. My so-called bachelorette party was our closest friends, my (ex)husband, and my sister and her boyfriend, and we grilled out and drank generic beer, and other drinks with phallic shaped straws, and had a blast!!! I think people lose the fun factor with spending unnecessary money. I still have great memories.
Seeing that first dress makes me appreciate my sister-in-law. She had us bridesmaids buy $80 plum purple dresses that were so simple but elegant, I've worn it multiple times since then. She also had us wear sandals that we got at Payless for $15 and then told us that if we wanted to switch them for something more comfortable after the ceremony we could wear whatever we wanted once the pictures were done. It was the best wedding ever. She was relaxed and we all had a great time before and during the wedding.
I was a bridesmaid for my sister, who is 8 years older than me, when I was 13. The other two bridesmaids were our cousins and around my sister’s age. It was soooooo drama free. My mom made very simple evening length A-line dresses in hunter green with light forest green accents. Each of my cousins gave her like $50 to help with materials and labor. After the wedding I think she even hemmed one dress to cocktail length because my cousin wanted to use it for a different event later. It was so simple and chill. Also all three of us had widely differing body types. 4’7” and hour glass, 5’6” and willowy and not super busty, and me at 4’10”and already a C cup.
The last bride: No NOTES. That response was perfection. She was very very polite to them but did not let them bully her. Did not give them her name. I loved the you have a pet peeve and you needed to stand your ground part. ❤ Perfection.
That was youtuber Taylor Skeens and she deals a lot with social anxiety. For her so speak up was a big deal, but she handled that like a pro. 🥰
@@IEATOSI Bro that's the biggest fucking win I have ever heard of!
wedding customs in the USA are always so wild to me like...
when you invite someone to your wedding here and have your marriage witness (I think that's the word) all that is required that everyone is wearing something nice/evening wear and no one is wearing white except for the bride. that's it. I often see these posts about US weddings that the bride chooses dresses of her bridesmaids (I guess that's what the word is) and I'm like ???? this is so weird to me 😂 (tbh idk what bridesmaids are)
"you came like a ugly person" she said that in such a nice voice xD love it
First story: "don't bring problems to the bride" just translates to "I know it's bad but I don't want to hear it". Why? Because real friends don't let friends make fools of themselves. If you spot an issue and there's plenty of time to fix it before the wedding, you tell the bride (& if it's on the wedding day, you just fix it and tell her later). The normal rules of friendship don't change because there's a wedding.
Yes!
THIS! weird how people let a single day ruin years of friendship.
First story was so fake! I can't believe anyone would believe it, the entire conversation sounded so rehearsed and no bride is picking that dress for her moh. I'm actually shocked Charlotte even put it in the video.
@tuttyfat Whether that particular story was fake or not doesn't really matter, as there are plenty of similar ones out there that are real. There really are people out there who purposefully get awful bridesmaid dresses because they don't want to be "upstaged" by the people who are supposed to be their closest friends and want what's best for them.
The term bridezilla is out there for a reason, because far too many people ruin their relationships with friends and family (& sometime even their spouse) over a wedding - it's insane.
She was the ONLY ONE who was supposed to wear that monstrosity too so what do you wanna bet that all the other dresses were long and a different color
If my “friend” spoke to me like that, I’d probably drop out of the wedding.
Being a bride isn’t a free pass to be a c*nt to everyone.
When I was getting married I was so gracious and constantly thanked my friends for taking the time and energy to help me.
I literally said to myself, wow she’s being a c*nt as I passed your comment 😂 like what is the bride’s issue 🤦🏽♀️
That’s what I was thinking. I also think that, if this is real, the bride was trying to set the MOH up.
So true, I wonder what the other bridesmaids thought when they saw the neon green one.
My bachelorette party was super chill ..aunts back yard, fun games, pen is cake, drinks, male blow up doll, prank calls lol it was great
15:46 she didn't know WHERE to send the deposit. How would she pay them?
for the first story: im 90% sure that the bride wants to paint the MOH as the villain and be like “SHE WORE THIS TO MY WEDDING!! HOW DISRESPECTFUL! SHE LOOKS LIKE A STRIPPER!!”
I completely thought so too!!
Thought that as well
That's probably why she recorded the conversations.
100% it’s fake
The first story is absolutely fake.
The green-screening of Charlotte’s face onto the chartreuse nightclub dress is hilarious to me! I love it!
That’s lime green. Chartreuse is a cross between mustard and bright green.
If the dress was Charlotte’s face, it would be the best
@@Jay-iu5bi It's neon green. That dress practically glows.
Fucking hilarious 😂
for the neon dress girl it may be her wedding but it is your body if you feel unconvertable showing it then that is your right
Also I love the last one cus her voice sounds so angelic but she is so savage and I love it
16:50 They DIDNT GIVE A DEPOSIT EDDDC
Story with the wedding band, she says that she forgot to send it because they never sent her information to send the deposit in the first place. This band had absolutely no intention of actually playing
Thank you my partner came in sweating because I was talking to the screen. And he said "what wedding band? What wedding???"
Oh, thank you. I thought I had a stroke there for a second!
“Is coming to the bride with problems be respectful?”
Yes it is! The maid of honour was being very polite bringing up her concerns. She didn’t insult anyone. The bride had no right to speak to her like that, she’s the one who escalated it!
Right? She was super respectful in the beginning. It wasn’t until the bride started attacking her that she stood up for herself.
All she did was ask if that was the right color at first. Given that lots of items are bought that don’t look anything like on screen that’s a fair question. Bringing up that it’s a booty dress in a cathedral (big no no) is also a valid point. Either this is a setup for rage bait (there’s no way that dress closet $350, right?) or that bride hates her.
@@TheBaumcm THat dress is so ridiculous I think this must be rage bait. I want to see a link for that dress.
Right?
There’s just no effing way that was a real story. The “bride” was rude *AF* and somehow conveniently never made it into frame. It was so insanely over the top that they were either doing satire or actually aiming for virality. Nobody but 𝘮𝘢𝘺𝘣𝘦 Pamela Anderson marrying Kid Rock would choose that Miami Beach club dress in tennis ball 🎾 green that came straight from Temu or Wish their maid of *honor.* That was so ridiculously one-sided. Ain’t no way. Perhaps @the Jersey Shore…🤔
10:24 I’ve been drinking all day got me so bad I got tea up my nose
I think the problem is the whole wedding industry. They make it seem like weddings have to have every detail perfect and that brides are entitled to expect nothing but the best. Since the 90's this bridezilla problem has been getting worse every year and in the era of social media, and photo perfection, it just made many women think that main character syndrome is what they should embody.
OMG!!!! My friend was getting married 2 weeks after my partner was told he had terminal cancer. I felt so bad but i knew we had to pull out of the wedding.
My friend was so worried about us and said it wasn't a problem and if we felt up to it we could still come.
THATS how friends should behave!
Oh my heart goes out to you both. There are no words ❤
Right!!
Exactly! Only someone who's a heartless narcissist would react any other way then with true concern and worry for their friends in that situation.. Hopefully your partner is still here, and is either still in treatment or in remission.. cancer sucks so badly ❤
A few years ago I had a friend dealing with cancer also. She told the bride pretty much the same thing; giving her the option of replacing her as MOA. The bride said that they would even wait until 1/2 an hour before the ceremony to see how MOA felt. If she felt sick another girl would be ready to jump into the job. If she felt well enough they would all dance down the aisle to celebrate. Unfortunately she was sick but all throughout the day people were recording get well wishes; she was even mentioned in the speeches. It just goes to show class will always show!
That is beautiful. I hope she is doing well. I am sure she felt loved.
(What is 'MOA'? I got as far as maid/matron/mother/man? and "of", but that 'A' has me stumped, with only naughty words coming to mind...).
This! You either love and care about the people around you, or you consider them accessories in your world, to do as you want, when you want.
Bridezillas fall into that latter category. The wedding party that your friend was due to be in are in the former category. They sound like the kind of people who deserve a beautiful day and a happy future.
I hope that your friend has had a full recovery and is now healthy and happy 🍀💕
And true, caring, friendship.
That is how friends behave!
@@heidikickhouse-maid of honor.
My bachelorette party was going for breakfast then spending the day in a 3 floor bookstore, then getting conveyor belt sushi for lunch. It was quite nice.
My bachelorette party was shared with another one of my best friends (she got married in September of 2020 and I got married in October in 2020) and we all had SO much fun. It all depends on the group of girls you surround yourself with ❤️
That last bride's response was perfection. She didn't let that bully her, called their bluffs when they threatened her, and sent them off with their tails between their legs. All while maintaining that sweet southern accent. And shamed them for their behavior as they walked off. Amazing.
Some people just have to stick their nose into other people's buisness) Unless you shoo them away like the pigeons they are they wont leave, no use talking to them politely) I had a run in with two grandmas. They were upsed cause...me and my BF were lund in MacDonald's) while odering food at the selfserving kiosk) they literally tried to act like they had the right to teach me manners) and got oh so upset when we both kussed at them) ran away in shame screeching about rude young people. Some humans just have the AUDASITY!
@@Deliar12 Those are the ones you have to give long, confused looks at without responding. I would have told them my grandmother taught me proper manners, and would be upset if you tried to mess them up.
She reminded me of a southern Cinderella with her manners. Sweet but strong.
Hillbillies and southerners have a way of making "bless your heart' and "I'll pray for you" sound like the vilest slur anyone has ever uttered without changing tone from sweet and perky.
@@petitmains Yes! The bless your heart from a southerner is the ultimate slam.
My bachelorette party was super chill. We had sushi, and cupcakes, and played Cards Against Humanity. No fights, injuries, no drama. Was great. 10/10 would recommend.
Mine was nice too! My maid of honour knew that I hate big events and I didn't want everybody to spend a lot of money on me so we just had a really nice day :)
Literally did the exact same thing, except my friends sent me to a massage at a spa first, during which time they went to my apartment and set up. They met me after the massage, we went to a sushi buffet, then to the apartment. Then after Cards Against Humanity, we all went for a long walk before going to our favorite irish pub to meet up with my husband and his bachelor party. It was great! Sushi is my all time favorite food, and CAH really set the silly party-mood for the rest of the evening.
Mine was great! We went to my favorite restaurant, then went bowling and ax throwing. Then the next day, I had my makeup trial, and we got pizza and beer, then did an escape room in the city, then found a couple karaoke bars, and had a great time. Next morning, we had an amazing brunch.
My husband's bachelor party, however, did get slightly messy, but his groomsmen took care of everything and kept it from getting completely out of control.
I hope she can get her money back for that dress. Definitely not a $350 dress.
I had my bachelorette in a Korean karaoke bar 2 days before my wedding. All my cousins who were in town came. The bridesmaids who were there already came. And my husbands bachelor party sucked so I brought him too. The theme was “space sl*ts with sailor moon vibes”. My brother wore a dress. I had my boobs out. We all sang our hearts out. I cried hearing my cousin sing. My husband got to hear me sing and be around me in a skimpy dress(two of his favorite things). It was a fantastic night.
Literally saw the neon green dress thrifting today & had a chuckle 😆 It was from Target & is EXACTLY the same!
It went over a lot of heads in the wedding band story that yes she did forget but they also NEVER gave her the information of where she should send the deposit to…
Exactly, that shouldn't be on her!
Came here to say this. It's ridiculous and not her fault.
Yeah, I have a feeling they had no intention of ever playing her wedding in the first place and this was on purpose.
Yes! That's what I was saying to Charlotte but then as much as I would like it she does not hear me when I talk to her through my computer screen. Lol
Yes, she said they didn't even send an invoice
For the band one: it’s important to remember she signed the contract and then waited for the invoice to tell her how to pay the deposit and they never sent it so it slipped her mind and then SHE had to reach out….she had no responsibility in this at all 😂
Glad someone caught this too, I was gonna mention this. She didn’t even know where to send the money at all, so there was no way for her to send it early, on time or late.
Agree! That band had a “Better” Gig and chose to take that over her wedding. That’s why they never sent her an invoice or reminder.
She does have a little bit of responsibility for it. If the electric company never sends you a bill, you still get your electricity turned off, if you don’t pay on time. Believe me, I’ve seen it happen. Not to mention that she could tell from the start that these kids weren’t reliable, yet she waited until the very last second to remind them. She knew they were unreliable and decided to rely on them anyway. Make stupid decisions, and you’re going to deal with stupid results.
So yes, the band/manager is mostly responsible, but it is partly on her.
@ILoveYou-rv3pd.
Bad example - because it it's possible to send payment to the electric company with your account number/address. Where was she going to send payment if they never provided an address or contact information? Just Zelle or Venmo a payment to the manager’s email address and hope for the best?
@@cobrakai3732 They provided an email for the manager and phone number for at least one actual band member. She didn’t even try to contact them until the day before her wedding, even though she was several months past the due date for the deposit. She expected them to act like an established corporation, waiting for an invoice, when she knew it was just a few kids. Sure, it’s mostly their fault. They signed a contract with her and then backed out without really saying anything to her. She also didn’t pay the deposit, though, which would have probably voided the contract anyway. Yeah, she didn’t know where to send the money, but she also didn’t even attempt to contact them for where she should send it until months after it was due. She made a dumb decision, which honestly is more on her than I initially thought, since I realized that it had been like six months since the deposit was due without her even trying to make contact. Those kids probably forgot she even existed, which it kind of sounds like she forgot they did until the last second.
In response to the Facebook group story: Totally ok to back down from a wedding if you need to put yourself first, she did it in the best way possible. She gave notice and health comes first. I had a bridesmaid who couldn’t attend because of school placement, I completely understood. How not to do it: When the bride recognizes that you are struggling financially and/or mentally with the responsibilities as a bridesmaid and offers that it’s okay to step down if the responsibilities are too much, and then the bridesmaid insists it’s fine but then continues to behave in the same ways and complain about the money, which one of mine did, then yes they’re an asshole.
First one was definitely a bridezilla.
None of my friends did Bachelorette parties they did an engagement at the beach and there was a gator
"You had all ten toenails when you got married" had me on the floor 😂😂😂😂
boo-boos get better! 😂😂😂
I need this as just a sound bite! It’s on the level of “Try being my size, Amy” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I lost my big toenail TWICE
The neon green dress story - when she asked why her dress was different to the other bridesmaids’ dresses I thought the bride was going to reveal it was all a prank.
Second to last video: My grandpa told me he wouldn't be able to attend my wedding because of his health, and of course my reaction was "Grandpa, I love you so much, and while I'm very sad to hear that you won't make it, I completely understand. My fiance and I will make time either before or after the wedding to come visit you (he lives in a different state) and have our own special time together." I can not imagine getting angry at somebody for their ill health that they can not control... How disgusting.
P.S. my grandpa surprised me by actually being at my wedding. I hadn't seen him in almost 10 years and needless to say I was a blubbering mess.
Last girl should have ended it with the classic passive-aggressive southern insult: “have a blessed day!”
I kinda wanna see the bridesmaid dresses to see if she's setting up her friend to be sabotaged on her wedding day by making her wear a VASTLY DIFFERENT dress from the others.
Honestly I believe that because some brides have done that before because they secretly feel the maid of honor or other bridesmaids are prettier than her.
See, that's exactly what I was thinking - why did the bride want her MOH in a vastly different, inappropriate dress?? It can't have been for any good reasons
My only thought from the bride's side is maybe she's trying to get her together with someone in the party by "looking better than the bride on her wedding night"
This was a set up , the girl didn’t fall for it, good for her for not playing Kermit
The last bride was an absolute sweetheart and told the couple where to go with a gallon of sugar. I loved her so much. You are right Charlotte. That was definitely a really good southern "get stuffed". 🤣🤣🤣🤣
They even asked permission to film.
She just radiated goodness, but she was also fierce AF. Kind of a Dolly Parton energy, and I'm here for it!
The neon green dress story, i feel like she used the dressed to make a friend the bad girl at the wedding...😂😂 the first one.... bridezilla
That neon green dress looks like a street walking highlighter!
That bride that cut her cancer stricken friend out of all those photos, should be praying that this friend isn’t cut out of everyone’s lives permanently. This one really struck a nerve with me. If I were the groom, I’d be thinking very hard about going through with the wedding. That girl has ice water in her veins.
Indeed. He should wonder if she will cut HIM out of her life, should he unexpectedly fall sick.
Can you imagine telling your family and fiance the reason you suddenly started cropping your friend out of all of your photos is because they gracefully stepped down from your wedding party due to CANCER? In what way could anyone EVER spin that in a way that makes them look good? I'd genuinely question if she was human, let alone marriage material.
When your MOH is fighting for her life, losing all her hair and sick af, and you delete her existence from your life, you were NEVER her friend. And you will regret how you treat people someday. It all comes back around.
So from my understanding of the first story. I have to agree that that dress is not exactly appropriate attire for a wedding, much less one in a church. I’m not Christian but I have Christian family and I can 100% guarantee they would not approve of someone wearing that dress in a church. It sounds like the bride isn’t religious, at least not to the point of caring how revealing your clothes are or whatever, but I say if she’s not that religious she shouldn’t have her wedding in a church. I feel like that dress would be more acceptable if it wasn’t in a church.
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Second story. Completely understandable. I’ve had a toenail ripped off before. I’ve had a fingernail ripened off before. It HURTS.
The last one was being actually nice. She didn't allow herself to be pushed around. She never let the rude people make her be rude. Also, the southern phrase you are looking for to end it is "Bless your heart."
Imagine. Oh sweety. Bless your little heart 😅😂😂😂😂
Was coming to say this lol. I'm from Georgia, US and I probably would've done the sweetheart and "bless your heart" lol
Scot here. 'Aww, bless ya wee self!' It's all in the delivery 😂
Yeah a "Oh bless your heart you think you're in charge." Followed with a sweet condescending smile. That would be a super passive aggressive southern moment.
Both she and the videographer kept their cool. I don’t think I could have.
I literally ran and hid in a corner when the bridesmaid said, “at least I’m going to fit in my dress”. I didn’t even realize they were in the same room until that moment. That dress would have made grandma cry, I’m glad she got out of the wedding and that friendship, dude.
I didn’t realize the bride was there, either, just that she could see the MOH. And how many fittings does a bride have? The MOH should have used it as the top it was and put a skirt on with it!
Honestly I was team "just suck it up and wear the dress" until I heard how the bride talked to the poor woman. Girl, that's supposed to be your FRIEND.
I think that final statement is everything I think the bride was going to lie about why she was wearing that specific dress and she would not find out about the lie until she was shunned for it well after the wedding well after all the photos well after all of the humiliation. That's not a dress. It's a slip for a sexy grinch costume.
I'm a whole month late, but all the 5 bachelorette parties I've been to were chill and nobody was injured or crying or anything. The worst that happened is that a wasp came in the room we were in in bachelorette party number 4.
My sister’s bachelorette weekend was actually very fun. No drama. Also no clubbing, so maybe that helps…? We made lipsticks, went to dinner, karaoke, and drag brunch the next day… the biggest issue was my flight home getting delayed. 😂
You can totally see the point at which the first girl had enough and was like “I’m ready to throw a grenade at this friendship, its done”
As a wedding vendor (DJ & Coordination) when someone signs a contract, we email the invoice with multiple options on how to pay the deposit. We also sent automatic reminders and follow up... we don't just get a contract and ghost.
Exactly. How do you pay an invoice that they don't send?
Same, I used to work for a wedding venue and they sent invoices payment 2 weeks in advance with 2 extra reminders. And we will call/email the day before the payment is due because thing can be crazy for them.
That band was incredible unprofessional and they had not intent of ever performing that their wedding anyway.
That bride had ever right to be pissed because she got screwed over.
that first bride hated themaid of honnor and wanted to humiliate her soo much!!
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Yeah, my sister's, actually. I was a bridesmaid, we drove four-wheelers through mud pits, essentially. There's a name for it, but I don't remember what it is. It was messy and a blast
Story 1: This is a classic example of a bride being jealous of the maid of honour and wanting to embarrass the MOH on the day. Her dress was different from the other bridesmaids, and it was basically a cocktail dress. The bride rather 1) wanted her to step down or 2) embarrass her in front of the whole church
In regards to Bachelorettes: I just had mine and no one got hurt and there was no crying! It was super chill.
That day-glo green dress was NOT a dress for a church wedding! More like a disco or Vegas wedding! And yeah, if the bride spoke to me that way, I’d be exiting…
No reason to stay in that dress, that wedding, or that friendship. "You chose to be..." No hun. I wanted to support a friend. I guess we both lost out.
would she even be allowed in a church in that dress? Isn't there usually a rule about cover your shoulders and your knees or something?
@@Nico6th Depends on the church, I guess. I haven't heard of any churches that turn people away because of what they're wearing, but they might exist. All of the ones I have experience with use social pressure to make sure people wear "appropriate" clothing like head coverings, long skirts, shoes, etc.
In The european ones you will be asked to cover yourself or leave
I grew up Catholic, and this will be in the ire of the priest and anyone in that ceremony especially if you are standing in front of everyone in a NEON GREEN SHORT DRESS. if it was my country, you will be refused entry for wearing that
24:43 no no… the ultimate southern dig is “well bless your heart.”
The "bachelorette party" for my childhood friend was just us doing an Escape Room together and going on a short walk and then in a pub afterwards, having an drink and just chatting and chilling, it was great, everyone had a great time 😄
That cancer one got me.... one of my bridesmaids 3 year old son got cancer the summer before my fall wedding. I actually went to her and gave her the option of stepping down, and she was grateful bc she didn't want to upset me, but her one and only son had just spent his 4th birthday in the hospital on chemo... I completely understood. I wouldn't expect anything else. That bride makes me sick
💯 agree disgusting person
Exactly, I would hope the groom got wind of this. He needs to know what he's in for. Let's hope he doesn't get sick, ever.
I agree that bride was a special kind of evil and is likely not a good friend to anyone.
Agree. Are you able to tell us any updates on your friend's son? I'm suddenly invested in this total stranger and her family's well-being. Thank goodness she had a friend like you!
@@NatalyaCherry yes! That was a year ago and he's been thru vigorous testing and treatment! He has children's lymphoma. But he's home! And doing well! He's done with chemo and his hair is growing back! He'll be 5 in Sept and I'm so proud of him and his momma ❤ still some of my besties 🥰
"you`re coming off as a very ugly person.
So thank you and have good wa-alk, goodby-ye.."
This girl is KILLING it - speaking up with the sweetest smile ahaha - this is how you do it ladies 😀
Yes, she's sweet... She's also VERY aware she being filmed. Literally why she's there.
She just needed to add ‘bless your heart’😝
@@heidikickhouse- true, but nevertheless: awesome self-control ! : )
@@tastx3142 😂
Yes! We played dungeons and dragons and some other party games 😂but we wanted to stay indoors cause the bride was an introvert but didn’t stop us from having fun ❤❤
The Southern "Oh Bless Your Heart, Sweetheart" (with or without Sweetheart) is basically F-You. And it is so passive aggressive. I love it.
I got married in 1992. I would have NEVER expected my bridesmaids and maid of honor to do what these monsters do!
We didn't have a Bachelorette Weekend - who had that kind of money?
We had a girls' day together. We started at the bridal shop, which we booked, and they closed just for us for my girls to try on dresses. We even had a catered brunch there, so we all ate.
Any dress they wanted in any color - I wanted them to be comfortable. My girls were sizes 00 through 20. They all chose the same dress and picked my favorite color (purple). Everyone looked stunning in this dress. I had TEN bridesmaids, and they all agreed on the same dress, complimenting each other.
Then we booked out a salon for mani/pedis for all of us, including my mom and both of our godmothers (my husband's mom had already passed).
Then we all went for an amazing dinner (no one was wasted!).
My Daddy paid for our day - it was planned in our wedding expenses.
Everyone is still friends to this day! This wedding drama and bride entitlement is ridiculous!
Same here. What is wrong with these women?
@@jenniferbrown3782back then not really nowadays absolutely
My bachelorette in 1988 was 3 hours, one evening, in a friend's home, potluck, mainly coworkers as my 2 bridesmaids were from out of town, and thankfully... no shenanigans.
My Bachelorette party was a nice dinner at a SF restaurant with my two attendants and then a club. No sash, boa, tiara, or x-rated ring pop. Also my wedding dress cost $800 back in 1993.
The neon dress is exactly why I’m setting a color scheme and letting all my bridesmaids pick their own dress 😂
Hope you said no to a cocktail dress.
That’s what I did. I gave them a color and had them match the dress they chose to the color. There was a place they could have it dyed at that had the color I wanted. It was 💜but darker.
My friend really wanted us all in strapless mid-thigh to knee dresses. But here's the thing, the maid of honor and the other bridesmaid were skinny with nice body shapes, and I at the time was at my heaviest of 337. I was prepared to wear an uncomfortable dress that would look terrible on me. But we went shopping together for my dress. I try on one strapless dress that goes down right above my knee and she's like..... Yeah, okay, let's find something that's a better shape for you. Neither one of us would have been happy if I had worn that original style. Letting people do same color, different silhouette just looks better for everything.
thats my plan too, just pick out a green color dress/outfit they like so my braidsmaids can look like a a cool forest with confidence 😤
That's what I did as well. Shades of pink. Surprise me! They all looked beautiful and I helped when they felt overwhelmed
This is where I make a backhanded comment about how Indian weddings seems like the best I've seen, especially after these because the amount of people making ANYONE their bridesmaid is insane
Like both parties don't even connect and they're standing on the same stage on possibly their most important day of their life
Like wtfh 😂😂😂
I nearly died on my bachelorette party I chocked on a chicken nugget that funnily enough came out of a happy meal, also had an argument with one of the bridesmaids 😂
“Oh, you’re calling the cops,” she said, smiling sweetly. “Well bless your heart .. and you have a nice walk” 😂😅❤😂
And you know which Bless Your Heart she meant……..😂
The last bride was so respectfully sassy, it was perfection.
I’d had radiotherapy before my brothers wedding so I had no hair.. I asked do you want me to wear my wig? As I was maid of honour.. him and his wife were like, we literally don’t care if you wear feathers stuck to your head 😂😂 respectfully of course.
@7 min. Neon Dress! She's not being a "Bridezilla" she is trying to destroy her friends reputation/character on purpose. She knew EXACTLY what she was doing by making her wear a different dress then the rest of the girls.
The woman with the band said in the video that they never sent her the information for her to send the deposit so she had to reach out to them. It also says that they thought they could get back but now can't. So that means they already had the trip to Australia planned so they would not have came even if she paid the deposit. Then she would have had no band and been fighting to get her money back.
Thank you! I was thinking the same thing. You can't send a deposit if they don't tell you where to send it. And why would there not be some sort of invoice with, you know, payment instructions? 😅
I thought the exact same thing. Also when would she have found out that they couldnt make it back on time?