I have a friend who is a 911 operator. When he first started, he got a call, from himself! His Apple Watch kept hearing him and his coworkers repeatedly say "911". He took the call and thought it might be a hostage situation that couldn't talk. Listening to background noise, he realized it was in his own room.
There's so little levity for 911 operators; I hope he was able to get his laughs in after the fact. I'm going to be chuckling for a while at the idea of this poor dude whispering quietly to himself not to worry, and to just sit tight because help is on the way to his desk.
Smosh had an AITA story about a guy who would tell his girlfriend that she smelled bad all the time to the point where she was showering multiple times a day, asking her doctor what was wrong and going mentally insane and when she finally cut ties with him, he fessed up and said he learned from his father that if he made his girlfriend feel so low about herself, she’d never leave. My jaw dropped then and it’s dropping now. Who the actual fuck is so sadistic that they put their partners through this?!?!
I'm here to tell you, I had the perfect boyfriend in the 80s, everything about him was delicious, tall, handsome, in a successful band...but then the weirdness started escalating. I mean a little once in a while, but, I just couldn't.
Dont worry, the story was fake. He makes up fictional women to crap on and makes money off tiktok. Charlotte showed him before talking about the girl who stole the money he left from the restraunt.
23:26 I had a guy physically take my ponytail down saying they didnt like it. That just made me angry and want to break up more ,that relationship didnt last. If i wanted someone to berate me id do it myself
My son has hacked my locked phone and accidentally called 911! I was so embarrassed! I had even disabled the side button features but if anyone knows how to disable emergency call - please let me know!
A couple nights ago I was headed to pick up my husband from work. It is a half hour drive on a State route. My 4 yr old grandson goes with me to pick up his grandfather. A semi flew passed us. He asked me what that truck was doing. I told hm speeding. Next thing I know I hear him say call the police. I was like no don't call the police. The phone rings. He had called the police. So now here I am explaining to the dispatcher what had happened. You could hear the amusement in his voice as he asked my name and we hung up after.
Just saw a video where a little kid calls 911 and his mom was bringing in some stuff from the porch. Then, a police officer shows up saying “Ma’am we got an emergency call from here.” She was confused and said I never called you guys. She then realizes her phone is inside the house and immediately knew her son probably did. While she was stepping back into the house as the officer waits outside the porch, you can hear her say, “I’m going to beat his @$$” (black moms don’t play nor care haha). Immediately, her son came out the door and she asked “did you call 911?” The little boys says, “Yes.” The officer asked him, “Why?” To which the boy responded, “Because I wanted to give you a hug.” Damn! All kind of feelings in a span of few moments. It went from being concern, funny, and wholesome. Still the officer gave the kid a hug and he told the kid just be careful and the mom further explain to him on why. I’m not proofreading this long @$$ comment, so hopefully it makes sense. Hahah. Take care
i was once babysitting my 3 year old cousin i’m 16 and she knows if something horrible happens that is an emergency call 911. i was making a snack and i heard loud ass knocks… she called the cops guess why… she couldn’t find her toy- thankfully they were also very understanding😂
omg that poor girl who got called a clown. I like to think I'm generally pretty nice, but if I overheard that conversation, it would be so tempting to just turn to him and say "no one's ever going to love you if you act like that"
It's especially bad when you understand Korean culture. They are the plastic surgery capital of the world. Dismorphia is practically part of the culture. Teenagers are often gifted surgeries for HS graduations. So to find a natural Korean woman is somewhat rare, to have her then to absolutely try to tear her down is gross. It's not a wonder Asian women prefer western men.
The woman that said that her date was laughing at her because she’s “ugly” is far from ugly, she’s gorgeous! The ugly one is the douche that said she’s ugly.
My husband use to tell me how beautiful I was when I felt or thought I looked the worse. Made my heart melt!!!! I miss him everyday!!! Grow up boys !!!!
YES!!! Want to keep me around forever? Want to make me drop every other guy I'm interest in and focus 100% on you? Tell me I'm pretty and fascinating! Want to make me ghost you? Want me to feel a visceral hatred whenever I hear your name? Insult my appearance, call me ugly, make me self-conscious, or compare me to "prettier" women.
My husband used to but he hardly tells me I’m beautiful anymore. So it’s kind of a toss up because now I’ve relied on him to make me feel beautiful & when he doesn’t verbalize that I feel ugly. & I hate it. I’d rather feel beautiful on my own. I got used to it, maybe even under appreciated it, & now I dress up nice & still feel ugly if he doesn’t tell me otherwise.
@@rhileynnnaHave you told him how you feel? It's really easy in long-term relationships to get settled and make less and less effort. Problem is, marriages take effort and constant work to keep them happy and healthy. It doesn't have to be a row or an accusation, just two people who love each other, having a respectful conversation and saying how they feel. You may find out things he misses about your early relationship, just as he will find out how you feel. So long as nobody feels attacked and it's done in a mutually respectful way, you may find it really helpful. Trust me, every married couple have to talk to each other about things like this. But if you let it fester, you'll get resentful and it could threaten your union and long-term happiness. Wishing you the very best of luck 💖
Ikr? She looks so young and said it happened 10 years ago, maybe it was in high school? Sounds like a very immature prank that only a loser 16 year old would pull.
As a 911 Operator/Dispatcher in an 8 hour shift I answer 50-75 calls where someone accidentally called 911, 90% of which are iPhones or Apple Watches. The best thing you can do is stay on the line and tell the Operator that it was an accident, we are probably going to still send an Officer to check it out, but better that than a full SWAT team response.
When my now 26 year old was about 5, I have a heart condition, mild but it’s there, so I decided that my kid needed to know about 911, being a single mom I wanted her to know what to do if I was not responsive, it went wrong, landline era, I was fixing a broken chair and was like how nice it would be to have help today, my daughter took it and ran, right to the phone and called 911 to see if they could come help her mom, when she handed my the phone and it’s a 911 operator I realized I needed to reword the whole 911 conversation. The lady on the phone was in good humor about it.
That's so sweet! My mom at least made sure to say 911 was for Really Big emergencies only. Both my brother and I were extremely literal children - autism - and she had learned by then that if she felt she was being too specific, she probably wasn't being specific enough.
6:52: This guy has a crazy life, he's the same guy who got accused of kidnapping the girl because she got lost in Target and whose Mum ruined their baby shower by setting off the fire alarm! Or he's a liar, I'm starting to get suspicious!
@@mteig7198right?! Like me and my husband were watching and he’s like “oh she’s on something” 😅 and we’re speaking from our own experience when we were younger in our early 20s we use to party like that 😂😂
giiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiirrrrrrrl. This is why my shower curtain is always open (except when I'm actually taking a shower) because of that fear of someone or something being behind it; no one can scare me if I know my curtain is suppose to be open.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I have a clear shower curtain that I keep closed. The privacy curtain stays open until needed. I grew up in a family of pranksters so I check Everything. My youngest nephew just tried to scare me and his sister the other day but nope. I saw that he was no longer where he was and looked at the oven door. This boy was hiding in hopes to jump out and scare us. So, I tossed a paper towel near him and ended up scaring him.
Thank you, Charlotte for saying “be wary”. So many people say they are weary, when you can tell by the context that what they really mean is wary or leery - suspicious not tired. Weary means tired
No - most of us are trying to give people goals that we know everyone will be able to meet. “Be weary” is the easiest thing to know that the reader will be able to do!
I once heard my daughter talking in her room and assumed she was playing with dolls, or maybe an app as I'd given her an old phone that had no sim, and loaded it with some apps for her age. She was about 5. After a few minutes i realise she sounds like she is talking to someone... there are pauses... not like she is play acting 2 dolls talking. I go in and ask her what she is doing and she tells me she is talking to the policeman. I laugh and say oh OK, what are you telling him? She says she is telling him how our cat was missing (10 minutes earlier we had searched for our cat that got out) I'm like oh OK, we continue talking about her call to the "policeman" when i realise i can hear something coming from the phone. That's when i found out you can call emergency services with a phone that doesn't have a sim card. The officer was very nice about it, and asked me questions to make sure that there wasn't a bad situation going on and she was using the cat as pretext to get help. He asked if the cat was OK and was so embarrassed telling him that yes the cat was just hiding under the car and my husband had brought him in already.
No, Charlotte, it absolutely SHOULD be that easy for a toddler to call 911. You have no idea of the number of cases when only a toddler or small child was responsive cause all the adults were taken out by burglers of something and it saved lives so many times. It's useful, believe me ❤
Do you live in hell? I'm sorry. That explains why that girl always checks behind the shower curtain AND thinks that everybody does that. That's horrible. 😢
@@suonatar1 ooh, I meant that I've seen videos about 911 calls and some of them are actually toddlers calling, cause their parents are taken out by an intruder and they're only ones alive or concious. All of those happened in the US or in the UK, I'm personally from Hungary, so I only know about these from UA-cam.
As a 911 Dispatcher, Do Not Hang Up! We have to send someone if we get no response/hang up. Actually, we have to send people even if you tell us it's accidental (in case it ls a DV situation). That said, most 911 calls are accidental. It sucks, but that's the reality.
Yes, I've noticed the dispatchers are persistent with their questions (which is important). A few years ago, I accidentally sat on my phone and called 911 🤭 I panicked and hung up, so when they called back I had some explaining to do. The dispatcher quizzed me for a few minutes and tried to see if I was being prevented from telling her what was going on. I really appreciated that she was so thorough and concerned
It's true! They sent someone out to the house when my boyfriend accidentally hit the emergency dial button at like 5am trying to shut off the alarm. He explained what happened to the 911 operator and they still sent someone out. We suspect it's probably because they may have heard my (female) voice when he originally called and when they called back and he explained I asked "who the hell is calling at 5am?" And he shushed me because they were telling him it was 911 as I was asking and he got nervous and was trying to listen
My ex-husband degraded me all the time so I wouldn't leave. I stayed 20 yrs thinking I was too gross to get anyone else, and no one would touch me. I still have trauma. This is a thing..
Same here. It took me 6 years after he left me to even think of myself worth of love. I’ve worked on my self steen for a long time, and I’m happy to say that I have a wonderful husband that loves God and me .
I once read this Reddit of this woman saying things like "I'm too old and educated to get a great guy now" *she was 29 and had a PhD* this guy was getting credit for because he was mooching off her and lying to everyone. Recently read on BORU they broke up and despite her anxiety of being forever alone she was with a really great guy one year later. One year. Don't be negged or whittled down please.
Charlotte you speak the truth about strings attached to gifts and money!!! My mama taught me that, she warned me against accepting $$$$$ gifts unless I was already planning to marry the person, she was so right. 😅
Former 911 dispatcher here!!! PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF EVERYTHING STAY ON THE PHONE IF YOU ACCIDENTALLY CALL 911. It is way more of an inconvenience for us to have to call you back and track you down then you just staying on the phone and answer the questions. It has to be somewhat easy to call in case there is an actual emergency and a 2 year old actually needs to call.
I let my little 4 year old nephew use my phone to FaceTime his mom he was staying with us for a week. He was literally holding my iPhone for 2 minutes max. I look over at the screen and he had pressed the power button 3 times so it automatically calls 911. There was a countdown with a couple seconds left until the call goes through. I hit that cancel button so fast lol, I don’t think I’ve ever moved that fast. 😂
I’m glad the cops had a sense of humor. It’s that “easy” to call 9-1-1 because some people are in REAL trouble and have limited ability to ask for help. Do not hang up if it’s a mistake! Talk to the operator!
I learned that the hard way (to not hang up) when I was a kid. We were just being dumb kids and messing around “pretending” we were going to call 911, and of course we accidentally ended up initiating the call (it was a home phone with no call button, so it would just start ringing after you dialed). We freaked out as soon as we heard it ringing and hung up immediately, but they called us back repeatedly until my mom answered and she asked us if we called 911. Got in trouble, of course, and the operator told us if that ever happens again, to not hang up! But we never messed around like that again. 😂
@@HorseLady1109 Yeah, just explain it's a wrong # if you call 911 accidentally. I accidentally called them a couple of times trying to dial 411 (old landline days) for "information" , forgot to explain before hangup that I dialed 911 by mistake and shortly there they were at my door. They said be careful because they can charge you $$, either a fee or a fine ( I think it's a fine), I forget which, for accidentally calling. It was considered equivalent to messing around with or prank calling on the emergency fire department phones they used to have on phone poles when I was a child (even older landline days, lol). Even if it's accidental, after the first time they could fine you as if you had made a prank call to 911. So, be careful. Kids have no business having access to cell phones in the first place since its so very easy to put them out of reach. I mean, it's not like it's some heavy bakelite desk phone from the 1950s or 1960s or something ( the plug in the wall back then was NOT detachable until years later-phone guy had to go into the wall and hook up the phone and if you did manage to cut or snap the cord {very heavy duty cord, very hard to do}, there was no store where you could get a replacement for that type of cord, for even that ability came much later with the phone line jacks and the clear snap in plugs). The phone company had to send out someone who was more like an electrician to replace the cord and the in-wall plug. You can lock a cell phone in a cabinet, put it up very high, hide it, etc. Why do people let toddlers and children think that appliances and tools are toys? That's how kids get hurt. Some parents have the attention spans of fleas, too busy being kids themselves to parent properly. What happened to his wife's promise to watch them? Why wasn't the door locked, because I will guarantee it's not the first time the child has been allowed to wander from its mother's sight or care. Kids having kids. Ugh‼️☎️🏴☠️😤☠️⚠️⚡
I watched a bodycam video of swat showing up to this 17yr old kid's house, mom's at work, because he accidentally buttdialed 911 while playing a game. The kid didn't even realize it so he was so freaked out until the cop explained why they were there and the 911 operator heard. Then they were all laughing about it but also told him to be careful where his phone is while playing video games.
As a teen riding in the car with my dad I once accidentally dialed 911 Panicked and hung up. THEY CALLED BACK!! I was panicking so much and my dad took the phone to tell them his daughter had accidentally just called them and everything was okay I remember being so offended they accepted that explanation at face value, because what if I really was in trouble and my kidnapper just had to say "oops, accident" 😅
I have a friend who has a lot of kids, including a near 2yo. It was a regular late spring day of wrangling kids 2yo-18yo when all of a sudden there was a knock on the door. Police XD she was insistent they didn’t call, so they said “do you have a toddler with access to a phone?” “Yes, but it doesn’t have service.” Guys, it doesn’t matter if the phone has service or not, as long as it has battery life it can still dial emergency services! Make sure to keep an eye on those kids 😂
I just read about that. I wonder if some people got out of a bad situation getting a cheap phone, charging it up and keeping it in a safe spot so they can call the authorities when it goes from 'kinda bad' to 'life-threatening."
I dont know why many people think making their partner insecure is a sure way to keep them, that is the exact same thing as wanting to make someone sick/ feeble to keep them seeing you as a supporter
Shower curtains make me nervous for that exact reason- (it's probably from watching "Psycho" as a child!). My dad was very protective, and when he was helping me get stuff for my first college apartment, he insisted that I buy an absolutely see-through shower curtain! It really was reassuring to know there wasn't an axe-murderer standing in my tub, so I've bought clear shower curtains for almost 40 years now 😁🤣
I spent most of my life being severely vision impaired. I suspect we feel so freaked out by stuff in showers because we ARE so vulnerable while in there. I agree with your dad - clear shower curtains are a must. I’m lucky enough to have several dogs, one of which has serious separation anxiety so is always - and I mean ALWAYS with me lol. So she stays in the bathroom while my other dogs all lay right outside the bathroom door. Multiple layers of protection or at least an early warning system, lol. Since my eye surgery, I do find I’m not as freaked out during showers anymore - being able to see everything while in there definitely helps
@@foxpatternedferret476 Yes! When my father was a teenager in the 1950s, he got too near a log truck just as the ties broke. He didn't quite get out of the way in time, and a log landed on his leg and broke it in 2 places 😯🤕
“We don’t live in a Korean drama, you can’t seriously break my heart and then say, ::throws hand up:: ‘Kajima!’ & expect me to wait for you.” 😂 She’s adorable. Yes, girl.
Also, here’s a pronunciation guide that I made for anyone who may need/want one. wary (cautious): wair-ee w(air)y where + E weary (tired): weer-ee w(ear)y we’re + E
OH MY GOD THANK YOU!! It truly bugs me so much that so many people get these words mixed up or it just makes no sense lol! WEARY - pronounced "weery", means slightly tired, a bit fed up, "I'm so weary this morning", WARY - pronounced "wairy", means cautious, a little afraid or put off, "I'm a bit wary of this person". I've even heard some people say it with an L?? Saying "leery", I think instead of "wary" haha it's crazy! Is leery even a word? I know leering is a word... That means looking or gazing in an unpleasant, lascivious or malicious way. But leery is not a word, and people often just mean "wary". No idea why these words that have totally different meanings get so crazily mixed up lol
For those who aren't working through early childhood trauma, the majority of people who enjoy the parent/child roleplay stuff are looking to either feel in control or have control taken away. Really is fascinating stuff.
It is about control more than anything But... youre supposed to discuss that stuff BEFORE you pay because you are saying it is a gift and they do not have to reimburse you
That girl wasn’t just cute she was literally so sweet and considerate, talking about how she wanted to pay and she didn’t want to make a mess for the waiters 😭 like she is too sweet for this world and I feel like she’s been taught to not make a scene, not take up space, but in reality it’s an excuse for people to beat you down. This poor woman 😢 she’s such a lovely person.
The woman that had the horrible Valentine date, was absolutely beautiful! I've experienced boys, ( they didn't act like men) that have low self esteem, put me down to make themselves feel better. I was much younger, didn't realize my self worth and had body dismorphia, so I believed the lies. Thank God, today I have become a confident woman who loves herself, knows her worth and doesn't allow people to treat her badly. Love yourself first and foremost!!!
What's extra disturbing about cases like this, boys receiving suggestions like that as "advice" from others - is really that there's a whole culture of people actively teaching others abusive behavior 😢😡 as if there isn't enough crappy boys out there, someone feels the need to actively recruit members to the abusers' club.
The absolutely gorgeous woman who was negged by her date IS confident! She left, didn’t listen to his crap, and went “Nope, no, no, no way!”- that’s confidence, imo. Love her humor 💜 and she’s a queen for not taking a dig at him too!
Poor Sylvia, I had a similar experience in high school. It hurt because I thought the guy was a friend, he joked about dating me (I knew it was a joke). Somehow people thought he was serious and he randomly yelled at me during class "I wOuLd never DatE YoU!" I'm glad Silvia blocked him, that is the best way to stand up for yourself ❤
Hot take. He WANTED to date you but he was afraid of what his friends would say. Men value their friends not women. Blocking them and ending the “friendship” is always the right move
Single mom here and my son definitely did the accidental emergency services call, we had a sheriff come to the house and I had to explain what was going on, I felt so bad. Don't leave your kids unattended near your phone for sure.
The story with the dad getting the visit from the SWAT team reminded me so much of what happened with my niece. My dad (her grandpa) had just explained to her how 911 worked and to only call it in an emergency, but my niece, being the bone headed kid that she was, called it anyway. Only she did not think that anyone would actually be on the line, so she immediately dropped the phone when the 911 operator answered and asked for her emergency, causing the headset to crash and break a ceramic cat food dish before she slammed it down again. Well, a police officer of course came, and the girl was bawling at the top of her lungs because she thought that she was going to go to jail. Luckily he understood, though he did do a full search of our house even so.
The negging is SO messed up! Ladies DO NOT go out with a guy that does that! Don’t lose parts of yourself for him them! Let him take that insecurity to therapy!
Girlie at the end is hilarious. The facial expressions & the need to serve all the tea properly at the end😂 I kind of want a weekly story sesh with her.
When that emergency services update first came out, I used to sleep with my phone under my pillow every night. I was sleeping with my arm under the pillow and woke up to my phone making the scary sos noise, fumbled the phone, called 911, and had to reassure the 911 person that I was okay and really did call them in my sleep. At like 2am. Laid awake the rest of the night embarrassed and haven’t slept with my phone since.
I'm a bartender and I had a guy ask me out in front of his friend while I was working. Here's how it went: Ugly boy: "Hey you know you're real cute. Once you get those split ends in your hair taken care of, maybe we can go out?" Me, staring incredulously: "What makes you think I'd ever go out with a guy who asks me out and insults me in the same sentence?" Ugly boy: *stutters & starts to back pedal* Ugly boy friend: laughs his ass off
19:46 I am deeply introverted and non-confrontational, and I strongly feel that *most* of the time we should all mind our own business; but if I was sitting close enough to hear someone say those thing to their date I would not be able to ignore it. The things I just said out loud to my phone would have vaulted my filter and sprinted out my mouth in the middle of that restaurant.
I accidentally called 911 from the Apple feature too, the operator found it super funny but still needed to take my information. Never turned it back on after that lol
Oh, honey! I know how you feel. People have always told me I'm ugly. From the time I was a teenager and even now people still say that to me. I'm 52. Even though it hurts, I know I'm not. I have friends out there who value and love me for who I am. They know my worth just like I do, and we hold each other up when we need it.
God people are such assholes! Good for you that you know your worth now but I can’t even imagine just telling someone they’re ugly (which is subjective anyway and they say it as if it’s fact instead of “I don’t think you’re attractive.”). Even if it was someone I really don’t like it would never cross my mind to say something like that to someone. Keep living your best life! ❤
Dear gawd! I cannot for the life of me wrap my brain around anyone actually saying that to someone! The mental deficiency it must take to open your mouth and say those words to a person is absolutely mind blowing to me! Keep your head up love you're beautiful ❤️❤️
I don't know what kind of people think that's okay to do but first let me mention that this girl in the video is not ugly! And there's no way it is okay for anybody ever to say that to you! If someone says that to you you let them know that a pretty face is nothing with an ugly heart! Good people would never say that to another person just never!
Beauty is so very much in the eye of the beholder. Seriously I used to work in a scenario where looks were the primary factor on how much money you made and I learned that fact. Everyone has a different idea of what’s beautiful to them. I truly believe that there’s someone out there for everyone. So you may be unattractive to some but to others you’re beautiful. And the only one whose opinion matters anyway is you. So I hope you have a great day and never think of yourself as unattractive ever again.
@@rochellethundercloud346 A healthy dose of childhood trauma and childhood SA with some human trafficking events to top it all off. Thankfully I'm a survivor (not a victim), I've written and published my autobiography, and I've been interviewed on literally hundreds of podcasts to talk about it. Recovery is always possible. It just wasn't possible with that particular therapist.
I love how they made the number 911 specifically so it was hard to dial accidentally but easy to remember, then made it super easy to dial accidentally.
Many years ago, 26, my one year old grabbed the handheld house phone. Went under the dining table and started pushing the numbers. Well his small hands are perfect for the one and nine. Grab the kid and phone from under the table maybe a minute later. Put the phone away, take my son and husband outside to wash cars. Just finish pulling both cars into the driveway when a couple of cops show up. Yup. Even on that old fashioned handheld the one year old was able to dial 911.
My brother used to call 911 when he was younger too! Oh man we had to make sure the phone was up I hate how the phones today make EMC calls so much easier on lock screen tho Dx
you make me feel ancient. old phones to me are the old black weighs a ton rotary phone with a straight cord. at least 911 wasn't a thing but instead? long distance calls cost a whole lot of money and little kids accidentally cost their parents a pretty penny.
My daughters did this 3x in one day when they were small. We were at my in-laws so my mother & father in law plus their son and I...4 adults in the house and 2 toddlers managed to knock the phone off the cradle and call 911 3x in a 4 hour period 😂 luckily the officers who showed up had a sense of humor and made a note about inquisitive toddlers playing with the phone so they didn't have to drive back out😂😂😂
I once accidentally called 911 at work one day because we had to dial 9 to dial out of the store, and I happened to press 1 twice in a row to dial out of the city. Fun fact: it DOES NOT MATTER what you dial after the first 911. You can press whatever you want to but if it starts with 911 it will only go to emergency services. Pro tip if you need to pretend you're calling for a pizza or something but need help. And even though I explained what happened, because it was a call from a business, they still were required to send a squad car over to the store to verify nothing was wrong. I was mortified and I cried.
Damn someone tried (the lowering self esteem thing) this on me by saying, "you know, I dont like girls with baggage" cause I quite literally carried around too many bags. Like a bag for my notebooks and school supply stuff, one for the computer and one lunch bag. My reaction was, good for you, I was not put into this planet to please your eyes the fuck do you think you are? He didnt do it ever again lmao
15:27 I screamed so loud bc same 🤣 the fact that you always smack the shower curtain when there’s no one there (or maybe just a 👻). The mental image of smacking it and someone actually being there is hilarious 😂😂😂 Edit: it’s also 6am, I shouldn’t have screamed the way I did
Girl, toddlers having been calling 911 by accident long before cellphones existed. My mom used to give me the phone to play with when I was little until I called 911. After that she gave me a disconnected phone 😂.
Yep, my no impulse control having sibling use to call the police all the time, scream and hang up on them as a young kid back in the nineties. It got to the point the cops had to “scare” her that they would take her away to make her stop since she did it anytime she was alone for even just a second in the room with the landline.
That last story reminded of the drama going on in my mom's neighborhood currently. Basically, all the neighbors are waiting for the day he gets locked up because so far dude has: attacked and choked his mother, threatened to unalive her and burn down the 2 houses he owns 2 doors down from MY mom, been caught setting fires, running around in the road jumping in front of cars, leaving his truck parked in the middle of the road, breaking out the windows of one of the houses when he has been instructed to stay out (condemned property), sat with a lit citronella candle in middle neighbor's carport with her propane turned on next to him, got tased by a neighbor when he trespassed on their property, and remember the fire threat? One of the house, ahem, "happened" to catch fire. He is still free
I was staying in a hotel once, and was woken out of a sound-sleep in the middle of the night. A bunch of cops were banging on the door of the guy in the room next to mine and they were screaming at him to open the door and put his hands up. The painting in MY room was shaking because they pounded on his door so hard! He refused to open the door, so they used something to make a big crater in his door, and were able to get to him and toss him in the hallway. I was looking through the "peep-hole" on the door, watching at least 5 cops literally dragging his butt down the hall...it was pretty exciting, I'm not going to lie! I found out later that the guy had big sacks of drugs stacked up in his room. Geez, I'm just glad they didn't mistake my room for his 😲😲
@@funnyfoxbird I don't know? That certainly makes more sense, but this was a pretty low-rent motel with several exits. Maybe they thought he would run before they got to his room? I was thrilled to be checking out! (It was one of those "nowhere else to stay" kind of things). Very memorable 😁
About the first guy, there's a reason why women on a date if we don't like the guy usually won't even let them pay or buy us a drink because we don't want to feel like we owe them something or for them to feel like we owe them. Its a yucky feeling and it ruins the whole night.l
Exactly! I'd just give her the money back and block her. I wouldn't have spent the money, I'm just wiley enough to know a trap when I'm walking into one!
The last one, I had such a hard time following what she was saying and understanding what was going on - but she was so engaging I couldn't help but be enthralled 😂
I had a sugar daddy, and I ended up moving into his house, and that was a huge mistake. When I decided that the life where I had to give up my freedom wasn't for me, he wouldn't let me go, and he beat me for wanting to leave. But I finally managed to escape and I'm doing better now.
One time I accidentally activated my emergency call button while in Mexico and it contacted my parents. I had no service at the time so they couldn’t get a hold of me. My dad went full Liam Neeson . He had his cleaning lady call the Mexican police for him (cause she spoke Spanish) and was about to book a flight to Mexico when I finally got service back and could call to calm him down. 😂
For the girl who was with the guy that called her ugly: he is insane on multiple levels; she is so pretty. What would have been a great petty revenge act would have been on the way out (since he was now stuck with the bill) let the server or manager know that he wants to buy a round of drinks for everyone there. Even if it's a non-alcohol place, those drinks can add up.
One time my iPhone dialed 911 while it was in my pocket at work. Important to note: I was working in Epcot at Disney world in Orlando. Not only did a “fleet of OPD officers” show up looking for me but so did 5 Disney security guards. I told them what happened and they were upset but understanding. I didn’t kept my phone in my pocket at work for like 2 months after that 🤣🤣
I have never responded to negging. A guy who makes fun of my looks before dates or on dates, that’s a hard no. My husband never did that while we were together.
@@Roadent1241 Oh that’s fine. I guess that is a response but I meant responding the way they want us to respond. So laughing is a good response indeed.
@@felicianomiko5659 Well I don't know how they insult someone and expect the insultee to fall in love with them. I would also say "damn boy that attitude is ugly on you". Because that's what they're doing too. They expect us to change what they don't like...! There is no sense in any way that it makes us think "oh he called me an ugly b. Yeah OK I like that I'll go home with this child that insults like an angry COD player".
24:04 I feel bad for any person who falls for that, like yall deserve so much better, if a person truly liked you they wouldn’t even think about that in the first place, idc if it’s a comment about the way you styled your hair of about your clothes, if someone makes a negative comment and it makes you feel insecure, BYE BYE to the person who said that, we don’t need that toxicity in our lives
Idk. In this day and age, it would be hard to teach a toddler to dial 911 if you don’t have a home phone. My 3 year old called the cops when our house got broken into. And I’m grateful she could. So I think this feature is a good thing.
@@beverlystewart1096 that’s handy. Most of us would have to teach a child the unlock and then how to access phone. If they are under 3 they won’t be able to remember that process.
"So, he WAS squatting..." 😂😂 I once had a neighbor get arrested. Cops got called on him twice, at least while I was living there, both times for DV. First time, they just gave him a talking-to; second time, they arrested him. The next and last time I ever saw him, he was moving out 😁
I once set off the emergency call in an elevator...there was a ring on the other end of the line and then a pickup. Immediately said, "Sorry, no emergency. I hit the button by accident with my ass...the elevator is fine." 🤣🤣🤣 For the girl at the buffet on Valentine's Day, he was "negging" her.
That exact 911 scenario happened to a teenage boy. Don’t remember the state he was in, but I was watching one of those bodycam UA-cam video and the cops were sent to a house because 911 was called and overheard the kid saying he's shot three people and was gonna kill two more. Cops swarm the place, find a kid home alone, freaked out because 15 cops are yelling and have long guns pointed at him. They searched the house, it's clear. The kid explains what happened, and they had to call his mom because he was a minor. He had apparently butt dialed 911, so it's not like he was pranking the cops or something. Poor kid. Bet he'll play video games with the phone ten feet away from then all!
I feel for the Korean girl! I had a very similar experience & the comment stayed with me for 10 years. I finally have a healthy self esteem, but words can really have an effect, especially if you’re vulnerable. I was online dating a guy named Adam for 6 months. We finally decided to meet in person & he was planning on pick me up to take home for the weekend. There wasn’t FaceTime back then, but we exchanged many many photos & videos- he knew what I looked like! Well, he gets to my house, gets quiet and standoffish, loads my luggage into his truck, then we set off on the road. 20 mins down the road, he stops at a gas station for gas and tells me to get out and come into the store. He took that opportunity to yell at me in front of everyone that “I am so ugly, it’s like driving nails through his skin”. He said not only did he not want to date me anymore, but he didn’t want to take me to his house. Other people came over to console me and defend me. It was the most humiliating thing I’ve ever experienced and cut me deeper than he knew. Thankfully I am healthy, self confident, whole, healed, & happy now- but it did a lot of damage for a very long time.
Oof what a horrible man. I use the term loosely. I'm so sorry that happened to you. I caught somebody mocking me behind my back in 1990 and can still picture his face to this day!
That is creepy and terrifying, the effort to make sure he had an audience to humiliate you in front of??! What the hell! God I wish I could put him on blast to everyone who has ever known his name so they can hear what a creep and manipulator he is.
Im so sorry that happened to you. I will say you are not ugly, far, far from it my dear, and that situation was not your fault. Homeboy was probably dating around and thought he found "someone better" (which they never really do) and instead of admitting that he thought this was the solution. Or that he was insecure. Lack of emotional intelligence, you dodged a bullet.
Ok if he had an issuse why didn't he say something before you even got in the car why. It would make more sense to come up with a lame lie then leave if he couldn't stand to be with you. Sounds like a psycho
The whole ‘break her heart so she won’t cheat’ reminds me of the boys in KINDERGARTEN who would pull on my hair and bully me just to tell me they thought I was cute. In the words of Simon Cowell, “It’s a no from me.”
My sister and nephew were having a tickle fight. My nephew was screaming you're killing me. I came out and warned them that someone would call the police. They laughed at me. Not five minutes later there was a banging on the door. The duplex was surrounded by six police officers with their hands on their weapons. Sure enough someone reported them. When they found out the truth they all burst out laughing.
Former 911 dispatcher here, if you accidentally call please just let the dispatcher know instead of hanging up. We have to call you back and if you don't answer we will send an officer out to the closest location your phone is pinging from. It's a safety situation that we do not know if something is actually going on and just can't be on the phone so we have to send someone out. Please just let the dispatcher know you accidentally called.
Surprised people don't know that because that was a thing back when I was young in the 90s, I accidently called 911 when I was young and hang without telling my mom, they showed up lol.
Ambulances get sent on calls that cancel en route because someone sat on their Life Alert all the time, has happened to me multiple times in one shift.
@@GhostBear3067 I used to work for a company that monitored those alarms and had to call dispatch. lots of false alarms. if we can't get a double confirmation that they are okay, we have to send someone. family, or if we can't get ahold of them (or they don't have any), emergency services.
What if there's not much signal and it connects briefly enough to register but you can't tell them it was an accident or recieve a call back? Do you get in trouble for the govt not putting working towers up? XD I'm used to never having signal outside of cities and I live in the middle of nowhere and our country's telephone provider is getting rid of landlines while we have no mobile signal most everywhere. We're expected to have internet with no phone lines too. Guess I'll become a deeper hermit than I am already.
My teenager was home during the pandemic and was playing a similar game with headphones on. New neighbors had moved in next door and they could hear the yelling from the game play and called the police for a welfare check. My kid could not hear the police banging on several doors and ended up BREAKING MY DOOR DOWN!!!! It was not funny at the time, but at least we can laugh about it now.
When I first met my late husband, he told me I should always wear my hair long, as he.liked it and thought it suited me. So the very next day I went out and got a Pixie Cut, (which I love) I explained to my husband that he should never try to tell me how to wear my hair or anything else. We were married for almost 30 years before he passed. We had mutual respect and love ❤
I've always checked behind shower curtains because when I was a kid I was scared of murderers hiding behind them, and checking them became a habit. Normally there's nothing but one time I found a really big wolf spider 🕷️
@21:58, when the guy asked why she was leaving, someone else should have said, "isn't it obvious? It's because you're an asshole! Of course she doesn't want to continue having a date with an asshole!"
@@heatherduke7703 maybe not. But the audacity of that asshole to be such a blatant asshole to herin public. He deserves to be called out and shamed in front of everyone just like he did to her.
I think I might be more likely to find a spider behind the shower curtain than a person. I just don’t close the shower curtain in my house unless I’m taking a shower so therefore, I have no need to check 😂
The SWAT one is why I put my phone on a lanyard and wear it around my neck. My toddler always wants to press the "blue button" which is the emergency call button. 😅
I have a friend who is a 911 operator. When he first started, he got a call, from himself! His Apple Watch kept hearing him and his coworkers repeatedly say "911". He took the call and thought it might be a hostage situation that couldn't talk. Listening to background noise, he realized it was in his own room.
That could actually be low key terrifying-HAVE YOU CHECKED THE CHILDREN LATELY??? 🤣☠️
There's so little levity for 911 operators; I hope he was able to get his laughs in after the fact. I'm going to be chuckling for a while at the idea of this poor dude whispering quietly to himself not to worry, and to just sit tight because help is on the way to his desk.
@@clairepettie he said they all got a chuckle, after a few terrifying and confusing minutes.
That's good they got their laughs cus that seems like it could potentially be a very stressful job. Gotta stay centered and grounded.
The call is coming from inside the station...
Smosh had an AITA story about a guy who would tell his girlfriend that she smelled bad all the time to the point where she was showering multiple times a day, asking her doctor what was wrong and going mentally insane and when she finally cut ties with him, he fessed up and said he learned from his father that if he made his girlfriend feel so low about herself, she’d never leave. My jaw dropped then and it’s dropping now. Who the actual fuck is so sadistic that they put their partners through this?!?!
Straight up abvsers😢
I remember that story 😭💀
I remember that story, insane!!
Exactlyyy
Oh my god that is psychotic.
‘THE STRINGS ARE DIAPERSSSS!’
Honestly! 🤣
I'm here to tell you, I had the perfect boyfriend in the 80s, everything about him was delicious, tall, handsome, in a successful band...but then the weirdness started escalating. I mean a little once in a while, but, I just couldn't.
The ropes😂😂😂
I had walked out of the room during this story and came back right as Charlotte was delivering this line 🤣💀 I hit rewind sooooo fast 🤣🤣🤣
Dont worry, the story was fake. He makes up fictional women to crap on and makes money off tiktok.
Charlotte showed him before talking about the girl who stole the money he left from the restraunt.
23:26
I had a guy physically take my ponytail down saying they didnt like it.
That just made me angry and want to break up more ,that relationship didnt last.
If i wanted someone to berate me id do it myself
"Check behind your curtains cause I may be there" feels like a threat and one I cant take lightly
She would leave the house in a body bag, no joke. she infuriated me like wtf what was your point...
😂😂😂😂😂😂Not funny but how you said it
@kszoknyik She's a double idi*t, once for doing it and double for posting about it. IMO.
Cur-ans. She talks a bit like a toddler
Better not to check them, otherwise you'll get insanely scared.
My little 4 year old son called 999 once because he “wanted to speak to a fireman” thankfully they were very kind and understanding about it 😂
My son has hacked my locked phone and accidentally called 911! I was so embarrassed! I had even disabled the side button features but if anyone knows how to disable emergency call - please let me know!
A couple nights ago I was headed to pick up my husband from work. It is a half hour drive on a State route. My 4 yr old grandson goes with me to pick up his grandfather. A semi flew passed us. He asked me what that truck was doing. I told hm speeding. Next thing I know I hear him say call the police. I was like no don't call the police. The phone rings. He had called the police. So now here I am explaining to the dispatcher what had happened. You could hear the amusement in his voice as he asked my name and we hung up after.
Just saw a video where a little kid calls 911 and his mom was bringing in some stuff from the porch. Then, a police officer shows up saying “Ma’am we got an emergency call from here.” She was confused and said I never called you guys. She then realizes her phone is inside the house and immediately knew her son probably did. While she was stepping back into the house as the officer waits outside the porch, you can hear her say, “I’m going to beat his @$$” (black moms don’t play nor care haha). Immediately, her son came out the door and she asked “did you call 911?” The little boys says, “Yes.” The officer asked him, “Why?” To which the boy responded, “Because I wanted to give you a hug.” Damn! All kind of feelings in a span of few moments.
It went from being concern, funny, and wholesome. Still the officer gave the kid a hug and he told the kid just be careful and the mom further explain to him on why.
I’m not proofreading this long @$$ comment, so hopefully it makes sense. Hahah. Take care
i was once babysitting my 3 year old cousin i’m 16 and she knows if something horrible happens that is an emergency call 911. i was making a snack and i heard loud ass knocks… she called the cops guess why… she couldn’t find her toy- thankfully they were also very understanding😂
@@lisajackson605 u can call emergency without unlocking the phone, no?
omg that poor girl who got called a clown. I like to think I'm generally pretty nice, but if I overheard that conversation, it would be so tempting to just turn to him and say "no one's ever going to love you if you act like that"
I don't think this would ever happen Korean culture.
@@dudeorduuude5211 clearly not if this guy and his friend thought this was even somewhat normal dating advice
It's especially bad when you understand Korean culture. They are the plastic surgery capital of the world. Dismorphia is practically part of the culture. Teenagers are often gifted surgeries for HS graduations. So to find a natural Korean woman is somewhat rare, to have her then to absolutely try to tear her down is gross. It's not a wonder Asian women prefer western men.
I think you should😂 even tho it’s none of your business, it becomes your business when you hear some crazy sh!t like that
She is literally so pretty too😭
@3:08 right after Charlotte's scream video immediately cuts to a pampers ad 😂😂
thats so youtube fbi observation 😂
lol that must have been funny
I got some phone ad instead.😭🤣
I got a depends ad 😂
The woman that said that her date was laughing at her because she’s “ugly” is far from ugly, she’s gorgeous! The ugly one is the douche that said she’s ugly.
I know! She’s lovely. Stupid stupid man.
Exactly! Shes stunning. I’d kill for her bone structure. She’s going to age like fine wine too.
Absolutely. He's got the mentality of a 5th grader
Right?? She's beautiful!
I feel so bad for her! That guy is obviously stupid if he thinks she looked ugly. She's so much better without him.
My husband use to tell me how beautiful I was when I felt or thought I looked the worse. Made my heart melt!!!! I miss him everyday!!! Grow up boys !!!!
YES!!! Want to keep me around forever? Want to make me drop every other guy I'm interest in and focus 100% on you? Tell me I'm pretty and fascinating! Want to make me ghost you? Want me to feel a visceral hatred whenever I hear your name? Insult my appearance, call me ugly, make me self-conscious, or compare me to "prettier" women.
My husband used to but he hardly tells me I’m beautiful anymore. So it’s kind of a toss up because now I’ve relied on him to make me feel beautiful & when he doesn’t verbalize that I feel ugly. & I hate it.
I’d rather feel beautiful on my own. I got used to it, maybe even under appreciated it, & now I dress up nice & still feel ugly if he doesn’t tell me otherwise.
Like THAT'S how you keep someone! Honestly it's a new low to hear that people take advice and put effort into being worse than they already are
@@rhileynnnaHave you told him how you feel? It's really easy in long-term relationships to get settled and make less and less effort. Problem is, marriages take effort and constant work to keep them happy and healthy.
It doesn't have to be a row or an accusation, just two people who love each other, having a respectful conversation and saying how they feel. You may find out things he misses about your early relationship, just as he will find out how you feel. So long as nobody feels attacked and it's done in a mutually respectful way, you may find it really helpful.
Trust me, every married couple have to talk to each other about things like this. But if you let it fester, you'll get resentful and it could threaten your union and long-term happiness.
Wishing you the very best of luck 💖
@GrannyWells71 Your husband sounds like he was a fabulous man 💖 Sending love x
The girl who had the date with that awful guy is adorable!! I can't believe he said she was ugly. She's so pretty and cute!
Ikr? She looks so young and said it happened 10 years ago, maybe it was in high school? Sounds like a very immature prank that only a loser 16 year old would pull.
She’s precious and adorable!! He’s crazy and wants to hurt you ❤❤!! He’s will hurt somebody any day!!!!
As a 911 Operator/Dispatcher in an 8 hour shift I answer 50-75 calls where someone accidentally called 911, 90% of which are iPhones or Apple Watches. The best thing you can do is stay on the line and tell the Operator that it was an accident, we are probably going to still send an Officer to check it out, but better that than a full SWAT team response.
When my now 26 year old was about 5, I have a heart condition, mild but it’s there, so I decided that my kid needed to know about 911, being a single mom I wanted her to know what to do if I was not responsive, it went wrong, landline era, I was fixing a broken chair and was like how nice it would be to have help today, my daughter took it and ran, right to the phone and called 911 to see if they could come help her mom, when she handed my the phone and it’s a 911 operator I realized I needed to reword the whole 911 conversation. The lady on the phone was in good humor about it.
😂😂
That's so sweet! My mom at least made sure to say 911 was for Really Big emergencies only. Both my brother and I were extremely literal children - autism - and she had learned by then that if she felt she was being too specific, she probably wasn't being specific enough.
6:52: This guy has a crazy life, he's the same guy who got accused of kidnapping the girl because she got lost in Target and whose Mum ruined their baby shower by setting off the fire alarm!
Or he's a liar, I'm starting to get suspicious!
Someone else said that he made those things up and that none of this happened
I looked it up and apparently the story is fake 😒😒 the 911 call…I don’t know if the kidnapping one is also fake.
Yea I thought the same. I’m sure some of it isn’t true.
@@kyaroriina2023same. Can't believe Charlotte hasn't figured it out😂 They're entertaining stories at least
Was gonna say, either this dude has the most exciting life ever, or he's full of it
"do your drugs inside like an adult" FUCKING SENT ME
Pretty sure she’s speaking from her own experience 😜
So what lol @@mteig7198
@@mteig7198right?! Like me and my husband were watching and he’s like “oh she’s on something” 😅 and we’re speaking from our own experience when we were younger in our early 20s we use to party like that 😂😂
Same!!!
@@laughingcorrpseholly4136
I act like that all the time, but I have adhd.
giiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiirrrrrrrl. This is why my shower curtain is always open (except when I'm actually taking a shower) because of that fear of someone or something being behind it; no one can scare me if I know my curtain is suppose to be open.
Ikr!! I only try to keep it closed after my shower as well, so it doesn't get all moldy when bunched together all the time.
Yep
Yeah same! I used to always check behind, but it's easier to just leave it open
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I have a clear shower curtain that I keep closed. The privacy curtain stays open until needed. I grew up in a family of pranksters so I check Everything. My youngest nephew just tried to scare me and his sister the other day but nope. I saw that he was no longer where he was and looked at the oven door. This boy was hiding in hopes to jump out and scare us. So, I tossed a paper towel near him and ended up scaring him.
Mine are Always Crystal Clear for this very reason !
Thank you, Charlotte for saying “be wary”. So many people say they are weary, when you can tell by the context that what they really mean is wary or leery - suspicious not tired. Weary means tired
Yes! It drives me nuts.
@@ditterwhosame. trying not to be petty about it. 😂
@@Woolymina Well, if being petty is allowed anywhere, it's here. Lol
Omg. Never thought of that.
Probably because I don't use wary in a sentence.
The more you know, or me.😊
No - most of us are trying to give people goals that we know everyone will be able to meet.
“Be weary” is the easiest thing to know that the reader will be able to do!
Congratulations to Vanessa that got engaged. I wish her the best. ❤
Oh snap!!!! Congrats babes!!!! Love this for you Miss Vanessa!!❤❤❤
@@erikarussell1142 it's always good to see people being happy and in love, right? I hope everything is ok with you too. ♥️
@@Solènelamigonnelicorne c'est une amie de Charlotte.
Yeah!!!
@@dinasilva9263 yes ma’am!!! Still saving for that wedding. Lol but tbf we did spend what we had in 2020 for our wedding on an epic vacation
I once heard my daughter talking in her room and assumed she was playing with dolls, or maybe an app as I'd given her an old phone that had no sim, and loaded it with some apps for her age. She was about 5.
After a few minutes i realise she sounds like she is talking to someone... there are pauses... not like she is play acting 2 dolls talking.
I go in and ask her what she is doing and she tells me she is talking to the policeman.
I laugh and say oh OK, what are you telling him? She says she is telling him how our cat was missing (10 minutes earlier we had searched for our cat that got out)
I'm like oh OK, we continue talking about her call to the "policeman" when i realise i can hear something coming from the phone.
That's when i found out you can call emergency services with a phone that doesn't have a sim card.
The officer was very nice about it, and asked me questions to make sure that there wasn't a bad situation going on and she was using the cat as pretext to get help.
He asked if the cat was OK and was so embarrassed telling him that yes the cat was just hiding under the car and my husband had brought him in already.
No, Charlotte, it absolutely SHOULD be that easy for a toddler to call 911. You have no idea of the number of cases when only a toddler or small child was responsive cause all the adults were taken out by burglers of something and it saved lives so many times. It's useful, believe me ❤
Do you live in hell? I'm sorry.
That explains why that girl always checks behind the shower curtain AND thinks that everybody does that.
That's horrible. 😢
@@suonatar1 I'm sorry, are you sure you meant to tag me in this comment? 😳🙂
You are absolutely paranoid and have no idea how the real world works. Omg. Leave your house and start interacting with the real world.
@@MissKateWalk I was just wondering why are toddlers in danger.
@@suonatar1 ooh, I meant that I've seen videos about 911 calls and some of them are actually toddlers calling, cause their parents are taken out by an intruder and they're only ones alive or concious. All of those happened in the US or in the UK, I'm personally from Hungary, so I only know about these from UA-cam.
As a 911 Dispatcher, Do Not Hang Up! We have to send someone if we get no response/hang up. Actually, we have to send people even if you tell us it's accidental (in case it ls a DV situation). That said, most 911 calls are accidental. It sucks, but that's the reality.
The fact that most are accidental is both a good thing (nobody being hurt) and very crappy because it takes time away from real emergencies
Yes, I've noticed the dispatchers are persistent with their questions (which is important). A few years ago, I accidentally sat on my phone and called 911 🤭 I panicked and hung up, so when they called back I had some explaining to do. The dispatcher quizzed me for a few minutes and tried to see if I was being prevented from telling her what was going on. I really appreciated that she was so thorough and concerned
Thank you for what you do!
Boostingggggvgg
It's true! They sent someone out to the house when my boyfriend accidentally hit the emergency dial button at like 5am trying to shut off the alarm. He explained what happened to the 911 operator and they still sent someone out. We suspect it's probably because they may have heard my (female) voice when he originally called and when they called back and he explained I asked "who the hell is calling at 5am?" And he shushed me because they were telling him it was 911 as I was asking and he got nervous and was trying to listen
To the girl that wanted to scare someone, that was YOUR sign to stop trying to scare Teddy! Damn. 😂😂😂
This is why our shower curtain is clear!!
@@Sorchia56 what region says curtain as cur-an? Just wondering.
'Pranksters' are so freaking immature, I 100% agree with you.
@@Mahami92 I'd lock the door if I wanted to shower.
Sounds Philly. "Cur-ahn"
My ex-husband degraded me all the time so I wouldn't leave. I stayed 20 yrs thinking I was too gross to get anyone else, and no one would touch me. I still have trauma. This is a thing..
Same here. It took me 6 years after he left me to even think of myself worth of love. I’ve worked on my self steen for a long time, and I’m happy to say that I have a wonderful husband that loves God and me .
My ex did the same. I wish I had seen through it. It destroyed the person that I was. I'll never get her back.
I once read this Reddit of this woman saying things like "I'm too old and educated to get a great guy now" *she was 29 and had a PhD* this guy was getting credit for because he was mooching off her and lying to everyone. Recently read on BORU they broke up and despite her anxiety of being forever alone she was with a really great guy one year later. One year. Don't be negged or whittled down please.
I'm so sorry. I truly hope you find your value and healing.
Yep.
12 years with my ex.
He calls me a retard,free loader,useless,fat,
When I eat,he said "my little piggy,my little piggy"
EVERY SINGLE.TIME
Charlotte you speak the truth about strings attached to gifts and money!!! My mama taught me that, she warned me against accepting $$$$$ gifts unless I was already planning to marry the person, she was so right. 😅
Former 911 dispatcher here!!!
PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF EVERYTHING STAY ON THE PHONE IF YOU ACCIDENTALLY CALL 911.
It is way more of an inconvenience for us to have to call you back and track you down then you just staying on the phone and answer the questions. It has to be somewhat easy to call in case there is an actual emergency and a 2 year old actually needs to call.
Totally agree about ease of dialing for emergency purposes and also easy to remember. And thank you for sharing this.
But then again a real smooth criminal might say "oh sorry I just sat on my iphone hihihi have a good day thank you"
You people don't care for Black and Brown people regardless of it being an accident or not. Zip it.
@@luketimewalker big facts 😭
I let my little 4 year old nephew use my phone to FaceTime his mom he was staying with us for a week. He was literally holding my iPhone for 2 minutes max. I look over at the screen and he had pressed the power button 3 times so it automatically calls 911. There was a countdown with a couple seconds left until the call goes through. I hit that cancel button so fast lol, I don’t think I’ve ever moved that fast. 😂
I’m glad the cops had a sense of humor. It’s that “easy” to call 9-1-1 because some people are in REAL trouble and have limited ability to ask for help. Do not hang up if it’s a mistake! Talk to the operator!
He is also making up these stories and taking them from other places.
I learned that the hard way (to not hang up) when I was a kid. We were just being dumb kids and messing around “pretending” we were going to call 911, and of course we accidentally ended up initiating the call (it was a home phone with no call button, so it would just start ringing after you dialed).
We freaked out as soon as we heard it ringing and hung up immediately, but they called us back repeatedly until my mom answered and she asked us if we called 911. Got in trouble, of course, and the operator told us if that ever happens again, to not hang up! But we never messed around like that again. 😂
@@KayLuckyKay1212 As a former 9-1-1 operator, I’m glad you learned your lesson.
@@HorseLady1109 Yeah, just explain it's a wrong # if you call 911 accidentally. I accidentally called them a couple of times trying to dial 411 (old landline days) for "information" , forgot to explain before hangup that I dialed 911 by mistake and shortly there they were at my door. They said be careful because they can charge you $$, either a fee or a fine ( I think it's a fine), I forget which, for accidentally calling. It was considered equivalent to messing around with or prank calling on the emergency fire department phones they used to have on phone poles when I was a child (even older landline days, lol). Even if it's accidental, after the first time they could fine you as if you had made a prank call to 911. So, be careful. Kids have no business having access to cell phones in the first place since its so very easy to put them out of reach. I mean, it's not like it's some heavy bakelite desk phone from the 1950s or 1960s or something ( the plug in the wall back then was NOT detachable until years later-phone guy had to go into the wall and hook up the phone and if you did manage to cut or snap the cord {very heavy duty cord, very hard to do}, there was no store where you could get a replacement for that type of cord, for even that ability came much later with the phone line jacks and the clear snap in plugs). The phone company had to send out someone who was more like an electrician to replace the cord and the in-wall plug. You can lock a cell phone in a cabinet, put it up very high, hide it, etc. Why do people let toddlers and children think that appliances and tools are toys? That's how kids get hurt. Some parents have the attention spans of fleas, too busy being kids themselves to parent properly. What happened to his wife's promise to watch them? Why wasn't the door locked, because I will guarantee it's not the first time the child has been allowed to wander from its mother's sight or care. Kids having kids. Ugh‼️☎️🏴☠️😤☠️⚠️⚡
But this story is fake.
He's just telling stories for TikTok views
I watched a bodycam video of swat showing up to this 17yr old kid's house, mom's at work, because he accidentally buttdialed 911 while playing a game. The kid didn't even realize it so he was so freaked out until the cop explained why they were there and the 911 operator heard. Then they were all laughing about it but also told him to be careful where his phone is while playing video games.
As a teen riding in the car with my dad I once accidentally dialed 911
Panicked and hung up.
THEY CALLED BACK!!
I was panicking so much and my dad took the phone to tell them his daughter had accidentally just called them and everything was okay
I remember being so offended they accepted that explanation at face value, because what if I really was in trouble and my kidnapper just had to say "oops, accident" 😅
True!!
I have a friend who has a lot of kids, including a near 2yo. It was a regular late spring day of wrangling kids 2yo-18yo when all of a sudden there was a knock on the door. Police XD she was insistent they didn’t call, so they said “do you have a toddler with access to a phone?” “Yes, but it doesn’t have service.” Guys, it doesn’t matter if the phone has service or not, as long as it has battery life it can still dial emergency services! Make sure to keep an eye on those kids 😂
Exactly! 😂
I too found this out the hard way lol. But no cops turned up thankfully! Spoke to them on the phone.
But this story is completely fake.
I just read about that. I wonder if some people got out of a bad situation getting a cheap phone, charging it up and keeping it in a safe spot so they can call the authorities when it goes from 'kinda bad' to 'life-threatening."
Yep! It’s actually good cause even if you can’t make a call you usually can be connected to 911
I dont know why many people think making their partner insecure is a sure way to keep them, that is the exact same thing as wanting to make someone sick/ feeble to keep them seeing you as a supporter
I’m so upset that Charlotte has a friend who fell for it bc imagine having to see that scum of a husband rewarded for his behavior, ugh.
It’s called abuse. That is abuse. Emotional abuse is abuse, muchaunsen by proxy is abuse
Abuse.
Shower curtains make me nervous for that exact reason- (it's probably from watching "Psycho" as a child!). My dad was very protective, and when he was helping me get stuff for my first college apartment, he insisted that I buy an absolutely see-through shower curtain! It really was reassuring to know there wasn't an axe-murderer standing in my tub, so I've bought clear shower curtains for almost 40 years now 😁🤣
Hear you on that!
Yeah, saw movie in my late teens and for 52 years since then have always gotten clear shower curtains.
I'll forever be scared of shower curtains and mirrors because of all the horror movies I've watched
@@xxzcfdxc Or driving behind log trucks 😅
I spent most of my life being severely vision impaired. I suspect we feel so freaked out by stuff in showers because we ARE so vulnerable while in there.
I agree with your dad - clear shower curtains are a must. I’m lucky enough to have several dogs, one of which has serious separation anxiety so is always - and I mean ALWAYS with me lol. So she stays in the bathroom while my other dogs all lay right outside the bathroom door. Multiple layers of protection or at least an early warning system, lol.
Since my eye surgery, I do find I’m not as freaked out during showers anymore - being able to see everything while in there definitely helps
@@foxpatternedferret476 Yes! When my father was a teenager in the 1950s, he got too near a log truck just as the ties broke. He didn't quite get out of the way in time, and a log landed on his leg and broke it in 2 places 😯🤕
“We don’t live in a Korean drama, you can’t seriously break my heart and then say, ::throws hand up:: ‘Kajima!’ & expect me to wait for you.” 😂
She’s adorable.
Yes, girl.
PSA!!!
Weary = tired
Wary = cautious, nervous
Thanks for coming to my TED talk
Also, here’s a pronunciation guide that I made for anyone who may need/want one.
wary (cautious):
wair-ee
w(air)y
where + E
weary (tired):
weer-ee
w(ear)y
we’re + E
Thank you. I honestly haven't even listened to what the next two stories were about bc I've been hyperfocused on this.
Hahahaha yes!!!!
OH MY GOD THANK YOU!! It truly bugs me so much that so many people get these words mixed up or it just makes no sense lol!
WEARY - pronounced "weery", means slightly tired, a bit fed up, "I'm so weary this morning",
WARY - pronounced "wairy", means cautious, a little afraid or put off, "I'm a bit wary of this person".
I've even heard some people say it with an L?? Saying "leery", I think instead of "wary" haha it's crazy! Is leery even a word? I know leering is a word... That means looking or gazing in an unpleasant, lascivious or malicious way. But leery is not a word, and people often just mean "wary". No idea why these words that have totally different meanings get so crazily mixed up lol
😮@@Chelle8847 Leery actually is a word, and it means the same thing wary does. ❤️
I’m curious about the psychology of certain kinks too! Also if anyone ever says “I own you!”, freaking RUN!!!
For those who aren't working through early childhood trauma, the majority of people who enjoy the parent/child roleplay stuff are looking to either feel in control or have control taken away. Really is fascinating stuff.
It is about control more than anything
But... youre supposed to discuss that stuff BEFORE you pay because you are saying it is a gift and they do not have to reimburse you
Tbf, when she went "I OWN YOU! " and then "I'm sorry, I was just upset" I was like.. mum? 😂😂 major control issues
Diaper story guy is 100% making this up. He always has experiences like this, like, all the time, I believed it the first time too
you can tell by the lack of animation while telling his 'Story'
Its still funny
@@louisebrewster649 that's actually a really good point!
Seen him before wearing spectacles 👓 😂
Yes, I was just thinking that I've seen that guy before. He does have stupid dates. Pretty sure he makes them up, or exaggerates.
That girl wasn’t just cute she was literally so sweet and considerate, talking about how she wanted to pay and she didn’t want to make a mess for the waiters 😭 like she is too sweet for this world and I feel like she’s been taught to not make a scene, not take up space, but in reality it’s an excuse for people to beat you down. This poor woman 😢 she’s such a lovely person.
I learned in psychology that one of our senses is to be able to sense when someone/something is staring at you
The woman that had the horrible Valentine date, was absolutely beautiful! I've experienced boys, ( they didn't act like men) that have low self esteem, put me down to make themselves feel better. I was much younger, didn't realize my self worth and had body dismorphia, so I believed the lies. Thank God, today I have become a confident woman who loves herself, knows her worth and doesn't allow people to treat her badly. Love yourself first and foremost!!!
What's extra disturbing about cases like this, boys receiving suggestions like that as "advice" from others - is really that there's a whole culture of people actively teaching others abusive behavior 😢😡 as if there isn't enough crappy boys out there, someone feels the need to actively recruit members to the abusers' club.
I like how the Kylie girl is like, “you need to check for me,” no girl, you need to not hide like a five year old haha 😂❤
I mean she can ...but she needs to deal with the consequences like serious bodily harm and/or death 😂
The absolutely gorgeous woman who was negged by her date IS confident! She left, didn’t listen to his crap, and went “Nope, no, no, no way!”- that’s confidence, imo. Love her humor 💜 and she’s a queen for not taking a dig at him too!
Poor Sylvia, I had a similar experience in high school. It hurt because I thought the guy was a friend, he joked about dating me (I knew it was a joke). Somehow people thought he was serious and he randomly yelled at me during class "I wOuLd never DatE YoU!" I'm glad Silvia blocked him, that is the best way to stand up for yourself ❤
Hot take. He WANTED to date you but he was afraid of what his friends would say. Men value their friends not women. Blocking them and ending the “friendship” is always the right move
Single mom here and my son definitely did the accidental emergency services call, we had a sheriff come to the house and I had to explain what was going on, I felt so bad. Don't leave your kids unattended near your phone for sure.
“The strings are diapers!!!” LMAOOO I needed that laugh 🤣
0:20 Is this the same guy who's date robbed him and farted on his phone?
yess either he reading like other peoples stories or else he need to stay away from the dating apps 😂😂
The story with the dad getting the visit from the SWAT team reminded me so much of what happened with my niece. My dad (her grandpa) had just explained to her how 911 worked and to only call it in an emergency, but my niece, being the bone headed kid that she was, called it anyway. Only she did not think that anyone would actually be on the line, so she immediately dropped the phone when the 911 operator answered and asked for her emergency, causing the headset to crash and break a ceramic cat food dish before she slammed it down again. Well, a police officer of course came, and the girl was bawling at the top of her lungs because she thought that she was going to go to jail. Luckily he understood, though he did do a full search of our house even so.
The negging is SO messed up! Ladies DO NOT go out with a guy that does that! Don’t lose parts of yourself for him them! Let him take that insecurity to therapy!
Can we stop and appreciate that Charlotte is making the videos almost twice as long as they used to... Thank you potato queen! ❤️
Girlie at the end is hilarious. The facial expressions & the need to serve all the tea properly at the end😂 I kind of want a weekly story sesh with her.
The the one woman who was called a clown, your are drop dead gorgeous and that guy was the clown
Straight up screamed at the first one, lmao. Not to kink shame but 👁️👄👁️. Also, baby reindeer is incredible!
When that emergency services update first came out, I used to sleep with my phone under my pillow every night. I was sleeping with my arm under the pillow and woke up to my phone making the scary sos noise, fumbled the phone, called 911, and had to reassure the 911 person that I was okay and really did call them in my sleep. At like 2am. Laid awake the rest of the night embarrassed and haven’t slept with my phone since.
Omg i am not the only who sleep called them!!
But i was ordering fast food in my sleep and was sleep talking 😅
I did it the other day and woke up to it. The horror like OMG
I'm a bartender and I had a guy ask me out in front of his friend while I was working. Here's how it went:
Ugly boy: "Hey you know you're real cute. Once you get those split ends in your hair taken care of, maybe we can go out?"
Me, staring incredulously: "What makes you think I'd ever go out with a guy who asks me out and insults me in the same sentence?"
Ugly boy: *stutters & starts to back pedal*
Ugly boy friend: laughs his ass off
I always check behind the shower curtain 😂. I’ve seen enough horror movies to know there’s a tiny chance of something/someone being in there.
SAME😂 ain't nobody sneaking up on me in the bathroom
Pro Tip: if the ax murd3r3r shows up, do not run into the shed with your besties. GET IN THE RUNNING CAR AND DRIVE AWAY.
You're welcome 😅
I live with cats who will attack you through the curtains. I learned to check the curtains long before I learned about horror movies 🤣
ALWAYS.
@@itsallperfectlynormal9805 never hide behind the chainsaws.
"HeRe aRe ThE DiAPeRrrRs" lmfao
19:46 I am deeply introverted and non-confrontational, and I strongly feel that *most* of the time we should all mind our own business; but if I was sitting close enough to hear someone say those thing to their date I would not be able to ignore it. The things I just said out loud to my phone would have vaulted my filter and sprinted out my mouth in the middle of that restaurant.
I accidentally called 911 from the Apple feature too, the operator found it super funny but still needed to take my information. Never turned it back on after that lol
Oh, honey! I know how you feel. People have always told me I'm ugly. From the time I was a teenager and even now people still say that to me. I'm 52. Even though it hurts, I know I'm not. I have friends out there who value and love me for who I am. They know my worth just like I do, and we hold each other up when we need it.
God people are such assholes! Good for you that you know your worth now but I can’t even imagine just telling someone they’re ugly (which is subjective anyway and they say it as if it’s fact instead of “I don’t think you’re attractive.”). Even if it was someone I really don’t like it would never cross my mind to say something like that to someone. Keep living your best life! ❤
Damn right you're not. Whoever these people are, that are saying that... Do you really need to hangout with them?
Dear gawd! I cannot for the life of me wrap my brain around anyone actually saying that to someone! The mental deficiency it must take to open your mouth and say those words to a person is absolutely mind blowing to me! Keep your head up love you're beautiful ❤️❤️
I don't know what kind of people think that's okay to do but first let me mention that this girl in the video is not ugly! And there's no way it is okay for anybody ever to say that to you! If someone says that to you you let them know that a pretty face is nothing with an ugly heart! Good people would never say that to another person just never!
Beauty is so very much in the eye of the beholder. Seriously I used to work in a scenario where looks were the primary factor on how much money you made and I learned that fact. Everyone has a different idea of what’s beautiful to them. I truly believe that there’s someone out there for everyone. So you may be unattractive to some but to others you’re beautiful. And the only one whose opinion matters anyway is you. So I hope you have a great day and never think of yourself as unattractive ever again.
My therapist totally needed therapy. She left the industry after our sessions.
Respect🙏😂
Good God,what happened to you?;!!
Don't worry about it.
I had four therapists in two states over a two year period that either quit or transferred.
It's not us. It's them.
@@XCaptianXChaosX Aint that the truth!! Some aren't prepared for what we've got.
@@rochellethundercloud346 A healthy dose of childhood trauma and childhood SA with some human trafficking events to top it all off. Thankfully I'm a survivor (not a victim), I've written and published my autobiography, and I've been interviewed on literally hundreds of podcasts to talk about it. Recovery is always possible. It just wasn't possible with that particular therapist.
My phone is listening ….After the first segment, diapers were mentioned so much that the first commercial that played was for Pampers 🤣
I love how they made the number 911 specifically so it was hard to dial accidentally but easy to remember, then made it super easy to dial accidentally.
Many years ago, 26, my one year old grabbed the handheld house phone. Went under the dining table and started pushing the numbers. Well his small hands are perfect for the one and nine. Grab the kid and phone from under the table maybe a minute later. Put the phone away, take my son and husband outside to wash cars. Just finish pulling both cars into the driveway when a couple of cops show up. Yup. Even on that old fashioned handheld the one year old was able to dial 911.
My brother used to call 911 when he was younger too!
Oh man we had to make sure the phone was up I hate how the phones today make EMC calls so much easier on lock screen tho Dx
you make me feel ancient. old phones to me are the old black weighs a ton rotary phone with a straight cord. at least 911 wasn't a thing but instead? long distance calls cost a whole lot of money and little kids accidentally cost their parents a pretty penny.
My daughters did this 3x in one day when they were small. We were at my in-laws so my mother & father in law plus their son and I...4 adults in the house and 2 toddlers managed to knock the phone off the cradle and call 911 3x in a 4 hour period 😂 luckily the officers who showed up had a sense of humor and made a note about inquisitive toddlers playing with the phone so they didn't have to drive back out😂😂😂
Same happened at my babysitter's house. They just came to the door. Friendly luckily
My son did the same on a landline. I hung up the phone but they called me back.
I once accidentally called 911 at work one day because we had to dial 9 to dial out of the store, and I happened to press 1 twice in a row to dial out of the city. Fun fact: it DOES NOT MATTER what you dial after the first 911. You can press whatever you want to but if it starts with 911 it will only go to emergency services. Pro tip if you need to pretend you're calling for a pizza or something but need help.
And even though I explained what happened, because it was a call from a business, they still were required to send a squad car over to the store to verify nothing was wrong. I was mortified and I cried.
I know around here if you dial 9-1 and hang up, it automatically sends call to dispatch!
I think this must be pretty common. We had this happen once when my husband was trying to dial out from a hotel. 😂
@@MeowMeowMarshmallow oh no that's not good XD imagine the number of false calls
I've had this exact thing happen. It was mortifying. 😅
I used to work with an old guy who did this so many times that the police wouldn't respond unless we had a verified emergency lol
Damn someone tried (the lowering self esteem thing) this on me by saying, "you know, I dont like girls with baggage" cause I quite literally carried around too many bags. Like a bag for my notebooks and school supply stuff, one for the computer and one lunch bag.
My reaction was, good for you, I was not put into this planet to please your eyes the fuck do you think you are?
He didnt do it ever again lmao
15:27 I screamed so loud bc same 🤣 the fact that you always smack the shower curtain when there’s no one there (or maybe just a 👻). The mental image of smacking it and someone actually being there is hilarious 😂😂😂
Edit: it’s also 6am, I shouldn’t have screamed the way I did
Girl, toddlers having been calling 911 by accident long before cellphones existed. My mom used to give me the phone to play with when I was little until I called 911. After that she gave me a disconnected phone 😂.
Jokes on her if it had a battery! Even disconnected, it can still call 911 😂
@@Good.Morning.Petty.PotatoesNo, she was talking about regular touch tone phones from before cell phones.
Yep, my no impulse control having sibling use to call the police all the time, scream and hang up on them as a young kid back in the nineties. It got to the point the cops had to “scare” her that they would take her away to make her stop since she did it anytime she was alone for even just a second in the room with the landline.
That last story reminded of the drama going on in my mom's neighborhood currently. Basically, all the neighbors are waiting for the day he gets locked up because so far dude has: attacked and choked his mother, threatened to unalive her and burn down the 2 houses he owns 2 doors down from MY mom, been caught setting fires, running around in the road jumping in front of cars, leaving his truck parked in the middle of the road, breaking out the windows of one of the houses when he has been instructed to stay out (condemned property), sat with a lit citronella candle in middle neighbor's carport with her propane turned on next to him, got tased by a neighbor when he trespassed on their property, and remember the fire threat? One of the house, ahem, "happened" to catch fire. He is still free
And I think the neighborhood menance might "happen" to catch on fire soon too...
@@poisonivy745 we'll see what happens. Been a few days since I last heard anything, so somethings bound to happen here soon
I was staying in a hotel once, and was woken out of a sound-sleep in the middle of the night. A bunch of cops were banging on the door of the guy in the room next to mine and they were screaming at him to open the door and put his hands up. The painting in MY room was shaking because they pounded on his door so hard! He refused to open the door, so they used something to make a big crater in his door, and were able to get to him and toss him in the hallway. I was looking through the "peep-hole" on the door, watching at least 5 cops literally dragging his butt down the hall...it was pretty exciting, I'm not going to lie! I found out later that the guy had big sacks of drugs stacked up in his room. Geez, I'm just glad they didn't mistake my room for his 😲😲
Why didn’t they just get a key from the hotel instead of vandalism ?
Why didn’t they just get a key from the hotel instead of vandalism?
@@funnyfoxbird Hotel doors have a second lock (latch) on the inside that prevents opening even with a key.
@@funnyfoxbird I don't know? That certainly makes more sense, but this was a pretty low-rent motel with several exits. Maybe they thought he would run before they got to his room? I was thrilled to be checking out! (It was one of those "nowhere else to stay" kind of things). Very memorable 😁
@@sseonghwaa7076 that makes sense, but if their is an emergency I feel like the hotel should know how to get in.
I could watch the last one for hours. Her face is wonderfully expressive. She should go on stage.
About the first guy, there's a reason why women on a date if we don't like the guy usually won't even let them pay or buy us a drink because we don't want to feel like we owe them something or for them to feel like we owe them. Its a yucky feeling and it ruins the whole night.l
Exactly! I'd just give her the money back and block her. I wouldn't have spent the money, I'm just wiley enough to know a trap when I'm walking into one!
The last one, I had such a hard time following what she was saying and understanding what was going on - but she was so engaging I couldn't help but be enthralled 😂
Same, it’s the way she changes her tone makes it hard for me to catch what she said, but definitely entertaining
I had a sugar daddy, and I ended up moving into his house, and that was a huge mistake. When I decided that the life where I had to give up my freedom wasn't for me, he wouldn't let me go, and he beat me for wanting to leave. But I finally managed to escape and I'm doing better now.
One time I accidentally activated my emergency call button while in Mexico and it contacted my parents. I had no service at the time so they couldn’t get a hold of me. My dad went full Liam Neeson . He had his cleaning lady call the Mexican police for him (cause she spoke Spanish) and was about to book a flight to Mexico when I finally got service back and could call to calm him down. 😂
For the girl who was with the guy that called her ugly: he is insane on multiple levels; she is so pretty. What would have been a great petty revenge act would have been on the way out (since he was now stuck with the bill) let the server or manager know that he wants to buy a round of drinks for everyone there. Even if it's a non-alcohol place, those drinks can add up.
One time my iPhone dialed 911 while it was in my pocket at work. Important to note: I was working in Epcot at Disney world in Orlando. Not only did a “fleet of OPD officers” show up looking for me but so did 5 Disney security guards. I told them what happened and they were upset but understanding. I didn’t kept my phone in my pocket at work for like 2 months after that 🤣🤣
I accidentally called 911 while riding my bike. I got thanked by the operator for staying on the line to confirm nothing was amiss.
3:00 “DIAPERS!!!” I literally cried tears of laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I have never responded to negging. A guy who makes fun of my looks before dates or on dates, that’s a hard no. My husband never did that while we were together.
What if you just laugh at them? Does it discourage them? I'm doing what they do but with..... Dopamine?
@@Roadent1241 Oh that’s fine. I guess that is a response but I meant responding the way they want us to respond. So laughing is a good response indeed.
@@felicianomiko5659 Well I don't know how they insult someone and expect the insultee to fall in love with them.
I would also say "damn boy that attitude is ugly on you". Because that's what they're doing too. They expect us to change what they don't like...!
There is no sense in any way that it makes us think "oh he called me an ugly b. Yeah OK I like that I'll go home with this child that insults like an angry COD player".
24:04 I feel bad for any person who falls for that, like yall deserve so much better, if a person truly liked you they wouldn’t even think about that in the first place, idc if it’s a comment about the way you styled your hair of about your clothes, if someone makes a negative comment and it makes you feel insecure, BYE BYE to the person who said that, we don’t need that toxicity in our lives
Idk. In this day and age, it would be hard to teach a toddler to dial 911 if you don’t have a home phone. My 3 year old called the cops when our house got broken into. And I’m grateful she could. So I think this feature is a good thing.
He is also lying, so there is that.
It would be pretty easy on a cell phone. There’s an emergency combination on my phone.
@@beverlystewart1096 that’s handy. Most of us would have to teach a child the unlock and then how to access phone. If they are under 3 they won’t be able to remember that process.
"So, he WAS squatting..." 😂😂
I once had a neighbor get arrested. Cops got called on him twice, at least while I was living there, both times for DV. First time, they just gave him a talking-to; second time, they arrested him. The next and last time I ever saw him, he was moving out 😁
That girl was so pretty! How dare he say she was ugly! Clearly a case of him being insecure and wanting to make her feel bad about herself.
Congrats Vanessa on your engagement! We love our editors in this house!!
And hopefully no Groomzilla, Monster in law or Bridesmaid from hell story comes out of that wedding. But if it does I will be here for the drama!
I once set off the emergency call in an elevator...there was a ring on the other end of the line and then a pickup. Immediately said, "Sorry, no emergency. I hit the button by accident with my ass...the elevator is fine." 🤣🤣🤣 For the girl at the buffet on Valentine's Day, he was "negging" her.
That exact 911 scenario happened to a teenage boy. Don’t remember the state he was in, but I was watching one of those bodycam UA-cam video and the cops were sent to a house because 911 was called and overheard the kid saying he's shot three people and was gonna kill two more. Cops swarm the place, find a kid home alone, freaked out because 15 cops are yelling and have long guns pointed at him. They searched the house, it's clear. The kid explains what happened, and they had to call his mom because he was a minor. He had apparently butt dialed 911, so it's not like he was pranking the cops or something. Poor kid. Bet he'll play video games with the phone ten feet away from then all!
I feel for the Korean girl! I had a very similar experience & the comment stayed with me for 10 years. I finally have a healthy self esteem, but words can really have an effect, especially if you’re vulnerable. I was online dating a guy named Adam for 6 months. We finally decided to meet in person & he was planning on pick me up to take home for the weekend. There wasn’t FaceTime back then, but we exchanged many many photos & videos- he knew what I looked like! Well, he gets to my house, gets quiet and standoffish, loads my luggage into his truck, then we set off on the road. 20 mins down the road, he stops at a gas station for gas and tells me to get out and come into the store. He took that opportunity to yell at me in front of everyone that “I am so ugly, it’s like driving nails through his skin”. He said not only did he not want to date me anymore, but he didn’t want to take me to his house. Other people came over to console me and defend me. It was the most humiliating thing I’ve ever experienced and cut me deeper than he knew. Thankfully I am healthy, self confident, whole, healed, & happy now- but it did a lot of damage for a very long time.
Oof what a horrible man. I use the term loosely. I'm so sorry that happened to you. I caught somebody mocking me behind my back in 1990 and can still picture his face to this day!
What an a$$! I'm sorry hun. No one deserves that.
That is creepy and terrifying, the effort to make sure he had an audience to humiliate you in front of??! What the hell! God I wish I could put him on blast to everyone who has ever known his name so they can hear what a creep and manipulator he is.
Im so sorry that happened to you. I will say you are not ugly, far, far from it my dear, and that situation was not your fault. Homeboy was probably dating around and thought he found "someone better" (which they never really do) and instead of admitting that he thought this was the solution. Or that he was insecure. Lack of emotional intelligence, you dodged a bullet.
Ok if he had an issuse why didn't he say something before you even got in the car why. It would make more sense to come up with a lame lie then leave if he couldn't stand to be with you. Sounds like a psycho
The whole ‘break her heart so she won’t cheat’ reminds me of the boys in KINDERGARTEN who would pull on my hair and bully me just to tell me they thought I was cute.
In the words of Simon Cowell, “It’s a no from me.”
That was Randy Jackson who said, "it's a no from me, dawg."
My sister and nephew were having a tickle fight. My nephew was screaming you're killing me. I came out and warned them that someone would call the police. They laughed at me. Not five minutes later there was a banging on the door. The duplex was surrounded by six police officers with their hands on their weapons. Sure enough someone reported them. When they found out the truth they all burst out laughing.
"Nothing is free in this world."
Me screaming: "EXACTLY!!"
Former 911 dispatcher here, if you accidentally call please just let the dispatcher know instead of hanging up. We have to call you back and if you don't answer we will send an officer out to the closest location your phone is pinging from. It's a safety situation that we do not know if something is actually going on and just can't be on the phone so we have to send someone out. Please just let the dispatcher know you accidentally called.
haha, once when I was like 8, I accidentally called 911 and immediately hung up and the cops came to my house and I never told my parents it was me 😂
Surprised people don't know that because that was a thing back when I was young in the 90s, I accidently called 911 when I was young and hang without telling my mom, they showed up lol.
Ambulances get sent on calls that cancel en route because someone sat on their Life Alert all the time, has happened to me multiple times in one shift.
@@GhostBear3067 I used to work for a company that monitored those alarms and had to call dispatch. lots of false alarms. if we can't get a double confirmation that they are okay, we have to send someone. family, or if we can't get ahold of them (or they don't have any), emergency services.
What if there's not much signal and it connects briefly enough to register but you can't tell them it was an accident or recieve a call back?
Do you get in trouble for the govt not putting working towers up? XD
I'm used to never having signal outside of cities and I live in the middle of nowhere and our country's telephone provider is getting rid of landlines while we have no mobile signal most everywhere. We're expected to have internet with no phone lines too. Guess I'll become a deeper hermit than I am already.
My teenager was home during the pandemic and was playing a similar game with headphones on. New neighbors had moved in next door and they could hear the yelling from the game play and called the police for a welfare check. My kid could not hear the police banging on several doors and ended up BREAKING MY DOOR DOWN!!!! It was not funny at the time, but at least we can laugh about it now.
The first guy is always so funny😂
When I first met my late husband, he told me I should always wear my hair long, as he.liked it and thought it suited me. So the very next day I went out and got a Pixie Cut, (which I love) I explained to my husband that he should never try to tell me how to wear my hair or anything else. We were married for almost 30 years before he passed. We had mutual respect and love ❤
I've always checked behind shower curtains because when I was a kid I was scared of murderers hiding behind them, and checking them became a habit. Normally there's nothing but one time I found a really big wolf spider 🕷️
@21:58, when the guy asked why she was leaving, someone else should have said, "isn't it obvious? It's because you're an asshole! Of course she doesn't want to continue having a date with an asshole!"
I don’t think that would happen in the Korean culture
@@heatherduke7703 maybe not. But the audacity of that asshole to be such a blatant asshole to herin public. He deserves to be called out and shamed in front of everyone just like he did to her.
@@heatherduke7703 You're probably right, but we can dream.
Sugar Daddys/Mommys... it's all fun and game until Daddy/Mommy wants some sugar 😂
26:03 the "eeeerrrr Pierre you wanna come out here?" Had me fuckin dying lol I dont think most people got that
I think I might be more likely to find a spider behind the shower curtain than a person. I just don’t close the shower curtain in my house unless I’m taking a shower so therefore, I have no need to check 😂
The SWAT one is why I put my phone on a lanyard and wear it around my neck. My toddler always wants to press the "blue button" which is the emergency call button. 😅
The story was fake
@24:42.... when this chick said "the whole building has complained about this man" i immediately thought of the gross flirting stalker dude
OMG! Your reaction to the diapers had me SCREAMING with laughter. Charlotte, what the actual heck?!? XD DEAD! 💀☠🪦