Why did Allah let me make so much du’a when he knew he wasn’t going to give it me?

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  • @NurKonnect
    @NurKonnect 2 місяці тому +75

    Al-Ghazali Quote: You must convince your heart that whatever Allah has decreed is most appropriate and most beneficial for you.

  • @sanya4161
    @sanya4161 2 місяці тому +67

    There was a dua I continuously made for 12 years which I didn’t receive. At the time I was devastated extremely heartbroken but, now looking back I’m very grateful that it wasn’t accepted indeed Allah (SWT) is the best of planners. I know one day he will surely bless me and I will forget about the heartache and sadness I endured. ♥️

    • @tareenatalks
      @tareenatalks  2 місяці тому +11

      @@sanya4161 when we are going through something it’s hard to even imagine that there may be some kind of goodness in what happened. But in time we see the wisdom and khair. May Allah give you everything that is right for you in this life and the next. Ameen xx

    • @RadiaAshraf-i44r
      @RadiaAshraf-i44r 2 місяці тому +2

      امن

    • @Gary-e9q4o
      @Gary-e9q4o 2 місяці тому

      Allah was a spirit worshipped by Egyptians! One of 630!! It's just the one chosen by Mohammed when he started Islam! Do you Muslims believe in the virgin birth? A virgin had a baby! Then who was the baby's father,? If Jesus came from a virgin you'd do well to listen to him! Mohammed had an earthly father Jesus was born without Joseph's help

    • @tareenatalks
      @tareenatalks  2 місяці тому +4

      @@Gary-e9q4o Jesus came from a virgin to show that he was a messenger of god. Because people like yourself don’t believe without’miracles’. Jesus was created the same way Adam was created, so why do you not worship Adam? As ‘the son of god’. This is my page you don’t slander my religion here, otherwise I will block you.

    • @Gary-e9q4o
      @Gary-e9q4o 2 місяці тому

      @tareenatalks Jesus said I beheld Satan as lightning fall from heaven! Lucifer fell from heaven before Adam and Eve were created! Jesus said I observed this! He said I came down from heaven not to do my own will but the will of him who sent me

  • @Skippo_thecat7
    @Skippo_thecat7 2 місяці тому +16

    Im going through the same-- same story... same crying and cryingg.. still cryingg.. and i found this video.. whoever sees my comment please do pray for me that i get relief... i just cannot let him go. I dont know what to do..

    • @Queen_sparkle
      @Queen_sparkle 2 місяці тому +2

      Hope ur doing well🤲🏻 I feel the same way

    • @RadiaAshraf-i44r
      @RadiaAshraf-i44r 2 місяці тому +3

      May ALLAH give all of you what you want in the most beautiful and khair and bestest way ,ameen

    • @begumsarikaya
      @begumsarikaya 2 місяці тому +2

      May Allah accept your prayers in the best way ✨

    • @Skippo_thecat7
      @Skippo_thecat7 2 місяці тому +1

      @@RadiaAshraf-i44r ameeen summa ameeen. This means a lot. Like its so rare to get a reply in the form of dua from a stranger but I guess its also from Allah- Allah chose you to say such things to me 😭❤️ ameen summa ameen. Do remember in prayers and may Allah rewards you ameen

    • @Skippo_thecat7
      @Skippo_thecat7 2 місяці тому

      @@begumsarikaya ameeeeen summa ameeeen 😭❤️

  • @miskay5526
    @miskay5526 2 місяці тому +7

    If he didn't want to give it to me then i asked him to remove the desire from my heart but i still want it so much. and the pain of seeing others getting it, especially those who are younger and haven't prayed for it nearly as much, is an agonizing pain i cant even put into words. the grief is too much and it feels like Allah is trying to torture me. I honestly feel so abandoned by Allah.

    • @Skippo_thecat7
      @Skippo_thecat7 2 місяці тому +4

      Do not feel this way. I pray that you get what your heart desires and even if thats not good for you may Allah with His power make it best for you ameeen summa ameen

    • @miskay5526
      @miskay5526 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Skippo_thecat7 Ameen thank you sis

    • @tinkerbell3249
      @tinkerbell3249 2 місяці тому +2

      May Allah swt grant your wishes with khayr and aafiyah and may Allah be pleased with you.i pray that Allah may give you so much that you forget all of your pains and may Allah boost your imaan

    • @miskay5526
      @miskay5526 2 місяці тому

      @@tinkerbell3249 Ameen, thank you so much for your kind and beautiful dua.

  • @sarafraichi
    @sarafraichi 2 місяці тому +13

    indeed we know what we want, but don't know what we need

  • @humairamariya6797
    @humairamariya6797 2 місяці тому +15

    DUA CHANGES QADR --NABI SAW ❤❤

  • @Zainab-yp7md
    @Zainab-yp7md 2 місяці тому +4

    Jazakallahu khayran for this reminder sis. I think a lot of us need it, including myself.
    I’ve been afflicted with sihr and evil eye for years now, making constant dua for cure yet nothing has changed. Ruqyah makes me worse & more ill. But for anyone going through the same test as me or similar, accepting qadr in that this has happened for a reason is vital.
    Maybe you wouldn’t have been granted jannah or firdaus without such a test. Maybe the khair (goodness) in this test is that it brings you closer to Allah & strengthens you in faith. Allah’s qadr is superior to all else & we are on His timing.
    Timing is something I struggle with most. I compare myself to those who have been through a similar test as me but were granted cure much sooner (days or months). And comparison in this case is toxic because again, we are all different with different trials and different durations for said trials.
    Allah will grant you cure/ease based on His accord. His timing. Not yours or when you see it fit. Hang in there inshaAllah. And I pray that whatever hardship it is that we are experiencing that He accepts our Duas and that we never stop asking. No matter how disheartening it may be to not have something accepted even after many years in my case, there is khair in that delay. Think about those in 🍉for example.
    Keep me in your Duas inshallah as well as the whole ummah & inshaallah I’ll do the same for all of you too. Jazakallahu khayran💗

  • @tariqmahmud7167
    @tariqmahmud7167 2 місяці тому +1

    I used to think like this after listening to you it makes sense now thankyou for this information may Allah reward you for this

  • @nazkauser136
    @nazkauser136 2 місяці тому +4

    Thanks for bringing insight about realife situations and making duas. I feel empowered to continue to make dua but at the same time take notice of the subtle signs that we may miss which allah guides us and not be led astray by the shaitaan. 💚

  • @user238-h9s
    @user238-h9s 2 місяці тому +4

    felt like this video is particularly for meee. my story is 100% relatable with your story. And I am soooo soo much relieved after listening this. JazakAllah sis :)

    • @tareenatalks
      @tareenatalks  2 місяці тому +2

      @@user238-h9s I love to hear that it has reached who it was made for. Thank you ❤️

  • @Queen_sparkle
    @Queen_sparkle 2 місяці тому +3

    I did a prayer, and made a dua today, was very sad about my situation. This video showed up as a first recommendation. It really help me and soothe me.
    I doubted Islam, when something traumatic happened to me. I lost all my faith. I was making bad duas for the man who abused me and took my innocence. I was making duas that his sisters gets r-ape, cause he r-ape me. I had so much sadness that turn into anger. I burst anger left and right to everyone cause of amount of pain I had. This video explains beautifully that maybe Allah has better plan for me that I don’t know of yet. Maybe he has better future for me. A better man that suited me well.

    • @tareenatalks
      @tareenatalks  2 місяці тому +5

      @@Queen_sparkle I’m so sorry about your situation. Firstly Allah is all aware and the bad someone does to you comes back to them, it’s like a debt against their name. If something doesn’t go my way or work out the way I want I tell my self this “ it was allahs protection, he has saved me from something bad later on down the line he knows what I don’t know” and that really calms my heart.

  • @VerseofHope-r5w
    @VerseofHope-r5w 2 місяці тому +2

    MashAllah you have a very intelligent way of thinking may Allah reward you!

    • @tareenatalks
      @tareenatalks  2 місяці тому

      @@VerseofHope-r5w ❤️❤️

  • @aminah761
    @aminah761 2 місяці тому

    We plan and Allah is the best of planners 😊

  • @Ahtohallan.
    @Ahtohallan. 2 місяці тому

    Love it, this is so beautiful ❤ immediately subscribed after the first 5 mins of the video.

  • @iyaakarim5714
    @iyaakarim5714 2 місяці тому

    thank you sister tareena for your vulnerability and sharing abt ur experience + insights. walking away is an admirable feat, may Allah SWT grant you the best of the best in its place, ameen

    • @tareenatalks
      @tareenatalks  2 місяці тому +1

      @@iyaakarim5714 thank you for watching sis. Ameen xx and may Allah grant you all that is right for you in this life and the next. Ameen xx

  • @fathersunglasses6085
    @fathersunglasses6085 2 місяці тому +1

    Good video with some solid naseeha 👌

    • @tareenatalks
      @tareenatalks  2 місяці тому

      @@fathersunglasses6085 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @Basilicum83
    @Basilicum83 2 місяці тому

    😭😭😭😭 im going through this. I have been praying in rain, duas and tahhajud and cried and screamed. Extra fast. Im 41 not married or have children 😢 now its to late 😭 i begged for nothing

    • @icydrinks4347
      @icydrinks4347 2 місяці тому +2

      Don't say that. Khadija (ra) was 45 when she married the Prophet (saw) and had 6 children. It's never too late. All those years that you've made dua are recorded for you as good deeds and you'll see it on Yawmal Qiyamah, when you'll need it the most.

    • @aminah761
      @aminah761 2 місяці тому

      Maybe Allah has something better for u in the Akirah 😊

  • @zohasyed4905
    @zohasyed4905 2 місяці тому

    I made so much dua to receive my visa and today it got rejected. I don’t understand why? I made so much prayer I really really needed this and now it’s ruined my chances of travelling to other countries for the future. I feel hopeless idk how to have faith. Life has been so difficult for me lately, nothing seems to be going my way even though I pray and make so much dua. I want to give up.

    • @tareenatalks
      @tareenatalks  2 місяці тому +1

      @@zohasyed4905 things have gone wrong for you because your perception is that they were right for you. You assumed they were right for you, only Allah knows what is right for us. And everything happens accordingly. Things will work out for you in the best way, the way Allah has planned. Strengthen your imaan and keep going. It will all unfold in the best of ways. But until then sabr is the answer.

  • @asea1203
    @asea1203 2 місяці тому +3

    No, i can't accept it, i wont accept this explanation. If it's not good for me, Allah has the power of changing it, and making it good for me. I wont accept this explanation

    • @Skippo_thecat7
      @Skippo_thecat7 2 місяці тому +1

      Same InShaaAllah

    • @asea1203
      @asea1203 2 місяці тому

      @@Skippo_thecat7 In sha Allah

    • @JohnWick-hc8xl
      @JohnWick-hc8xl 2 місяці тому

      The problem is, that Allah can make it good for you so why not just do that. Like I think it's easy for him to do things and he SWT has the power to. The problem is that oh it's not go for me than next. And it becomes a vicious cycle

  • @BugattiChiron_SS
    @BugattiChiron_SS 2 місяці тому

    what'll you do at 1k subs

    • @tareenatalks
      @tareenatalks  2 місяці тому

      @@BugattiChiron_SS what are my options?

    • @BugattiChiron_SS
      @BugattiChiron_SS 2 місяці тому

      @@tareenatalks uh q&a maybe a vlog idk

    • @BugattiChiron_SS
      @BugattiChiron_SS 2 місяці тому

      @@tareenatalks or a house tour or sum

  • @athraahameed1893
    @athraahameed1893 2 місяці тому

    salam, i have been making dua for something and i wanted a sign as a dream and i haven't got it can you share your experience? with asking for a sign and whether you got it,

    • @tareenatalks
      @tareenatalks  2 місяці тому +2

      @@athraahameed1893 I try to encourage people not to ask for signs because there’s no guarantee it comes from Allah or that it is an actual sign. Rather read salah tul istikhara your sign will be whether the matter is easier for you or if it becomes harder. If the thing you’re making dua for goes further away, or there are obstacles in the way etc this is generally a sign from istikhara to leave it. Pray istikhara and trust Allah.

    • @tareenatalks
      @tareenatalks  2 місяці тому +1

      @@athraahameed1893 I try to encourage people not to ask for signs because there’s no guarantee it comes from Allah or that it is an actual sign. Rather read salah tul istikhara your sign will be whether the matter is easier for you or if it becomes harder. If the thing you’re making dua for goes further away, or there are obstacles in the way etc this is generally a sign from istikhara to leave it. Pray istikhara and trust Allah.

    • @H_F2023
      @H_F2023 2 місяці тому

      ​​@@tareenatalksthe person is obviously making dua because the matter is not easy and asking if they should countinue making it and you're telling him to do istikhara and then stop making dua if things go bad. Things are already bad. A person makes dua for things that are going away or going bad in the first place and not for things that are easy or falling in place. Your logic here is extremely flawed.
      ​Also, there is no such thing as doing an istikhara to continue making a dua. Stop misleading people with this. Istikhara is done before you act upon a decision. For e.g. you get a job offer you want to accept, you do istikhara and you proceed with the job offer. Or you find a house you want to buy, do istikhara and then proceed with the process of buying the house. If its good then the process will be smooth its not then it'll fall apart. Istikhara does not mean you do it and then wait for a sign whether you should buy the house or not.

  • @redred1496
    @redred1496 2 місяці тому +1

    What’s your zodiac sign? How old are you?

    • @samia6888
      @samia6888 2 місяці тому

      Muslims don’t believe in zodiac or astrology.

  • @BugattiChiron_SS
    @BugattiChiron_SS 2 місяці тому +1

    what car do you drive? Just curious

    • @tareenatalks
      @tareenatalks  2 місяці тому +1

      @@BugattiChiron_SS an Audi TT

    • @BugattiChiron_SS
      @BugattiChiron_SS 2 місяці тому

      @@tareenatalks oooooooooooo nice

    • @BugattiChiron_SS
      @BugattiChiron_SS 2 місяці тому

      @@tareenatalks i deadass thought you drive a mercedes

    • @tareenatalks
      @tareenatalks  2 місяці тому +1

      @ one day bugatti in sha Allah 😉

    • @BugattiChiron_SS
      @BugattiChiron_SS 2 місяці тому

      @@tareenatalks which one chiron? veyron? divo. Or you can buy an r8 or a huracan. THose are nice af

  • @sadiashah7027
    @sadiashah7027 2 місяці тому

    please pray for my visaa

  • @nagihancalskan7454
    @nagihancalskan7454 2 місяці тому

    There are Muslim people who has not married yet even in their 40s and they are asking for dua for marriage on the comments. Sometimes Allah doesn’t wanna give us something and its his decision, that’s it. Sometimes there is no better. There is none. Its better to accept this reality and living for being useful to world and preparing ourselves for death. Death is near inshaAllah.

  • @alwazkazi1916
    @alwazkazi1916 2 місяці тому

    Exactlyyy my situation and I found your video. Sign from Allah😢❤‍🩹

  • @EagleScully
    @EagleScully 2 місяці тому

    I appreciate the message from this video but it doesn’t always work like that.
    If Allah truly wanted for it to work out, he would have made it work out instead of giving “something better”.
    This is why I’m a strong believer of fatalism and determinism. I truly think it doesn’t matter what we do or how hard we strive for something, it’ll never ever be our way unless Allah wants it to be a certain way.
    This is why there’s debates of whether we should be accountable for anything that happens to us, when it all comes from Allah.
    I’m sorry, if the day ever comes that I get “someone better” that who I really adore then I’ll delete this comment, but I truly don’t believe it sadly.
    There’s been situations where someone who didn’t get that person, but ends up being with someone even worse.
    It really doesn’t make any sense, but ultimately we are Allah’s toys from a simulation management game.

    • @easydrawdiy4747
      @easydrawdiy4747 2 місяці тому

      Ur last line shows u have a very negative perception of Allah swt.. please don't.. think extremely positive about Allah.. try to realise that Allah loves us.. 70 times more than a mother loves her child.. please create a positive mindset and perception about Allah swt and it's guaranteed that you'll see good things happening..

  • @A.--.
    @A.--. 2 місяці тому

    Sister: a Dua CANNOT change the "Sunnah of Allah"....Quran says: "walakin Sunat-ullah Tabdeela."
    So before you make Dua guys, you need to know what Sunnat of Allah is.
    Allah has made the Universe with some laws that govern it. These laws are Sunnat of Allah. Without learning, mastering and utilizing these laws nothing you say or do will work.
    In order to achieve this you need to learn and follow Science and Technology using the scientific method that our predecessor Muslims invented.
    Dont get infected with the Sufi-Tasawuff ignorant ideas and if you have been innoculated with them please seek help to rid your mind of them (CBT therapy perhaps).

  • @P1_GTR
    @P1_GTR 2 місяці тому

    Did your instagram get deleted? Cuz i cant find it

    • @tareenatalks
      @tareenatalks  2 місяці тому +5

      @@P1_GTR I blocked you because I didn’t like your last comment.

    • @P1_GTR
      @P1_GTR 2 місяці тому +1

      @tareenatalks mb can you unblock me please ong I want comment something like that again

    • @shiratnamatovu6619
      @shiratnamatovu6619 2 місяці тому

      @@tareenatalks😂😂😂

    • @P1_GTR
      @P1_GTR 2 місяці тому

      @@tareenatalks istg i wont say anything like that again please im being deadass

    • @tareenatalks
      @tareenatalks  2 місяці тому

      @ I can’t find you now on there

  • @YoutubeAnonUser
    @YoutubeAnonUser 2 місяці тому +3

    It is FARDH to wear your hijab sister. STRIVE against your nafs. One of the reasons why our duas are not accepted is due to our sins. I wish you the best.

    • @BigBrother4Life
      @BigBrother4Life 2 місяці тому +5

      Your duas are probably not getting accepted due to you to being watching non mehrams women on youtube.

    • @whatevermynameis2852
      @whatevermynameis2852 8 днів тому

      Mind your business

    • @YoutubeAnonUser
      @YoutubeAnonUser 8 днів тому

      @@BigBrother4Lifenah. It was a video that happened to be on my feed. I clicked because my intention was to forbid evil and enjoin good.

    • @YoutubeAnonUser
      @YoutubeAnonUser 8 днів тому

      @@whatevermynameis2852no. As muslims we enjoin good and forbid evil.

  • @A.--.
    @A.--. 2 місяці тому

    If a Dua failed it likely did so beacuse you were not following the Sunnah of Allah.

    • @miskay5526
      @miskay5526 2 місяці тому +2

      a lot of haramis get their duas answered i dont think thats the reason.

    • @A.--.
      @A.--. 2 місяці тому

      @miskay5526 haramis?

    • @whatevermynameis2852
      @whatevermynameis2852 8 днів тому

      That’s not true