3 Tips to Improve Your Lower Functions

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  • What is the best approach to improving your lower or inferior or demon cognitive functions? I have to admit my approach and articulation of this process has only become more defined with time. Here is a video of 3 tips to get you there, wherever there is for you.
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  • @ryanquick1824
    @ryanquick1824 Рік тому +22

    it is also important to let go of your normal, everyday way of looking at/doing things.
    GET OUTSIDE OF YOURSELF.
    while studying personality in college as part of my psychology major, i learned that perhaps THE MOST USEFUL aspects of typology/MBTI ARE both in understanding yourself better AND in seeing where you need to improve to become a more well-rounded person than you might otherwise be.
    nearly EVERYONE starts out in some form of extreme or another and; it is ONLY by either letting go of the self or doubling down on your top functions that we change, adapt or, grow in life.
    in general, though, it ABSOLUTELY IS FAAARRRRRRR HEALTHIER to admit your flaws or where you need help and focus on those things, thus growing to be a more well-rounded version of yourself, than it is to ignore your shortcomings and somehow trudge onward to success regardless.
    ABSOLUTELY.
    FOR SURE.
    - INTJ

  • @SensemakingMartin
    @SensemakingMartin Рік тому +10

    Good vid. I've found for me I had a big breakthrough in how much I was able to integrate my lower functions from switching from a mindset of "how do I get good at this shitty function I don't like" to "how can I fall in love with this function that is apparently super valuable to other people"
    Trying to work out why others love it, and then trying to cultivate that love for it myself, seemed to really fasttrack my development in the function itself. The more I respected and loved it, the more I began to naturally want to do more of it, rather than just making myself do it because "it's a good idea"
    I studied and psychoanalysed tonnes of natural users of the functions I was trying to fall in love with, to try to discover why they loved them so much, what genuine advantages the function gave them in certain areas over it's opposite functions that I was more comfortable with, and to try to learn to see the functions through their eyes rather than my own biased ones. It was really effective

    • @InternetLiJo
      @InternetLiJo  Рік тому +1

      AGH MARTIN! Love that perspective!

    • @itssara310
      @itssara310 Рік тому

      I love this! Are you okay with sharing what functions this helped you with? I'm curious

  • @IM-uh5tk
    @IM-uh5tk Рік тому +7

    1. 1:36 self reflection - curate in your mind who you want to be in ten years
    2. 3:40 research - who does it better than you?
    3. 4:50 implement

    • @kaisfp
      @kaisfp 10 місяців тому

      This might work really well for Ni, Fi or Te users,
      but for types who don't have at least 1 of these functions high in their stack, might not work as well, or at all.

  • @rivkahreed
    @rivkahreed Рік тому +9

    I enjoyed watching this video. I’m learning how differently my husband (INTJ) and I (INFJ) process things even though on face value we’re “only one letter different!” So Fe is really difficult for him while Te is really difficult for me. I’m learning that I need to validate his thoughts as if they were emotions because he doesn’t really know how he feels other than “good” or “bad” or “okay.”

    • @rameshcppodcasts
      @rameshcppodcasts Рік тому

      I'm an INFJ and my girlfriend is INTJ. Hope this helps. Thanks

    • @maxfleming447
      @maxfleming447 Рік тому +4

      I'm a INTJ jumper, so pretty in touch with my Fi. Even so, I don't radiate what I feel unless I choose. To me Fe is a real time read-and-respond function, it needs a constant exchange of reactions. Fe is almost a observer and decider combo, like Se can be. I know I can frustrate Fe users, especially doms, because my Fi responds slower, is more carefully considered and not a quick reaction, if I share at all. Fi can be out of sync with body language, confusing as well. Fi must radiate some information, my NiFi type twin picks up my mood, my wife and Fe friends struggle with it.

  • @knowahnosenothing4862
    @knowahnosenothing4862 Рік тому +11

    Sounds like future authoring.

    • @InternetLiJo
      @InternetLiJo  Рік тому +1

      There we go!

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 Рік тому

      ​@@InternetLiJo 📍
      "ENXP cannot naturally differentiate between 'LUST' and 'love'. Their values is naturally different to that of INXJ. External influence is responsible for seeming deviation. ENXP view relationships like "food-samples". Like all sensor-feelers, ENXP have neurology for PROMISCUITY!"
      The MBTI compatibility chart is rigged by 'ENTP' and ENFP. The "manipulative" chart is tailored and authored by 'ENTP'! With their expansive "social" capabilities (and promiscuity), they are able to spread information and disinformation far and wide. ENTP are the archetypical clown/jester and they have the consciousness of one too.
      Most are unhealthy, matter of factly, and even with so-called "healthy" ENTP (lacking cluster-b) they are not naturally moral and their level of humanity is surprisingly low-they still have it; however it is initially low. Case in point, ENXP 'naturally' view romantic relationships and dating in a manner that is akin to "sampling food". ENXP and INXJ are NOT compatible!!!! Please understand that the [rampant spread of] MBTI chart is baseless (the smarter ones among them already know this-willful creatures, i.e. ENTP)! It's viral spread is nothing more than a 'global, generational trolling' and "ethical-rape". It's goal is large scaled attempt to violate other people's romantic-fate/experiences, while violating their instinctual romantic preference! MBTI compatibility chart has the psychological finger-print of ENTP. It aids the miserable romantic experience of INXJ; the clown's attempt to violate their fated destiny! ENTP are naturally unethical and promiscous. Cluster-B (add-on) furthers this.
      Look past the surface and you will realize that the MBTI chart is 'rigged' and tailored for ENTP (morality/humanity is not instinctual for them; healthy ones can understand it's value once seen, however it is not an instinct for the promiscous Jesters and archetypical-clowns [ENTP]). They've even screwed over most sensors, e.g. trying to "encourage" ESFP x ISTJ. *×Facepalm×*
      Any deviation is solely due to external influence (referring to ENxP neuro-psychology). ENxP are the archetypical thots/hoe of the intuitives. And sensor-feelers are 'naturally' promiscuous. Again, external factors are responsible for seeming deviations, e.g. parents influence, religion, INXJ instinctual moral influence. The MBTI compatibility chart was created to take advantage of the credibility of the MBTI; to exploit and violate other people's romantic choices and sexual experiences. It was designed to feed the degenerate and highly sexual 'ENTPs' and then ENFP.
      "Tell a lie loud enough and long enough and people will believe it."
      - Adolf Hitler
      The quote is likely the compounding inspiration for the collective ENTP's creating and spreading this generational lie and "ethical-rape" (violating INXJ's natural, instinctual romantic standards and requirements). Cluster-B [ENTP] is another contributing factor.
      In the end, a relationship between ENXP and INxJ ends at the introverts expense. While ENXP have the neurology for promiscuity (like sensor-feelers, ... And ESTP, to a surprisely lesser extent), INXJ risk so much more and they do suffer a miserable ["romance"] existence due to those types; their promiscous-neurology, and low levels of self-control. What's worse, is that most ENTP have cluster-B. They add to the miserable existence of INFJ (and INTJ, albeit to a lesser extent). INFJ instinctual/subconscious romantic standards is literally other [genuine] 'INFJ', and then ENFJ.
      The natural associate and partner for the ENTP and ENFP is 'ESFP' and ESTP. This is matter of fact. INXJ is only the ENXP's favourite "food"/'essence' to sample.
      PS: If nothing else, please investigate this (and you will find that it is true). You can expect the ENTP thot-network to attempt to hide the evidence. Please spread this information. It helps! The MBTI is rigged (and most ENTP have cluster-B).
      Willful, narcissitic and rapey clowns.
      P.P.S: Unhealthy-ENTPs likely manipulate and influence other sensor-feelers (ESFP; natural sexual accomplice to ENXP) into "ethically-grooming" their children for sexual promiscuity, resulting in Borderline personality disorder from the trauma.
      Sexually-degenerate as they are, sensor-feelers do not have the natural intelligence to pull off such an act or epidemic. Cultivating sexual degeneracy, and rigging the MBTI compatibility chart is the psychological finger-print of the ENTP (naturally hypersexual, and 'sociopathic' by nature; cluster-b, particularly NPD amplifies these tendencies).
      ENTP naturally view "sex" as a way to "enjoy someone". With cluster-B, they 'increasingly' experience other people as "toys"/objects to violate for their amusement and entertainment.
      Covert research and investigation will confirm all of this to be true.

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 Рік тому +1

      ​@@InternetLiJo *words of wisdom*
      FEMALE-ATTRACTION/ATTRACTION/ROMANTIC-ATTRACTION/FEMALE-PSYCHOLOGY/HOW-TO-ATTRACT-FEMALES/FEMALE-MANIPULATORS/MANIPULATE-FEMALES/FEMALE-DATING-FEMALES
      Answer:
      1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.

      2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc.
      [I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"].
      Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual.
      Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation.
      Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable.
      Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female.
      NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms).

  • @sebastiantous-bryant5657
    @sebastiantous-bryant5657 Рік тому +1

    As someone who has Ne at the forefront, "who I want to be in 10 years" is always a difficult but crucial and valuable question to focus on and can serve as a very helpful north star. By doing so inproving all the cognitive functions becomes almost inherent. Great insight!

  • @lindaward5376
    @lindaward5376 Рік тому +1

    I can relate to this. As an ISFJ-T, with Fe in the auxiliary position, I've always deferred to other people's needs and beliefs, and I've always wondered what I could do to stand up for my own needs and beliefs.

  • @adeadcrab
    @adeadcrab Рік тому +3

    i actually love her

  • @Thelasthater_69
    @Thelasthater_69 Рік тому +1

    Im glad I’m already ahead of this and figured it out myself earlier..
    ~INTP

  • @Bluerious
    @Bluerious Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing the questionnaire, it'll be extremely helpful.

  • @ellier2018
    @ellier2018 Рік тому

    Thank you for your short comprehensible videos! Also, unrelated but your eye makeup is always on point

  • @jeremy454
    @jeremy454 Рік тому

    Great video, here is a biohack that can help use your Se/Si to achieve your vision: I myself love using my Se especially around Se dominant users in social situations. It brings out a side of me that desperately needs air. I think I suppress this function because it takes an energetic toll on my Si which I pay for later and don’t even realize because it’s unconscious. A biohack that helps is to practice celibacy for 3-4 week cycles. The extra energy helps fill the Si energy gap and improves your interoception which frees the rest of your cognitve functions. Over time you can literally build a better functioning Si by building the underlying nuerological hardwarware.

  • @nickolaszissimos1189
    @nickolaszissimos1189 Рік тому

    I already know who I want to be, I see him and talk to him every day. My inner self is whom I truly want to be, a Sigma that knows how to live his life. I am not near that yet and have much to do and achieve before I can become the INFJ I am meant to be.

  • @lydiaarmour6549
    @lydiaarmour6549 Рік тому +3

    I love your channel thank you for existing really opened my eyes and helps me understand why I act this way

  • @duc_de_sel
    @duc_de_sel Рік тому +5

    I need to learnt to Fe but I hate it lmao. As much I find overly friendly people annoying, adapting the behaviour, rather than the style of behaviour, is key.

    • @cathyhart3946
      @cathyhart3946 Рік тому +2

      Clearly you need to learn Fe as your comment was pretty rude.

    • @SensemakingMartin
      @SensemakingMartin Рік тому +1

      I don't really agree it was rude. It seems like a respectful enough comment to me. A bit blunt but not in an excessive way.

    • @cathyhart3946
      @cathyhart3946 Рік тому +1

      “Hate Fe”
      “Overly friendly people annoying.”
      “Avoiding the style of behavior. “
      Sounds a bit rude to me.
      If someone used those words to me face to face I’d be offended.
      There a ways the OP could have phrased their sentiments in a less offensive manner.

  • @tedsdogwalking
    @tedsdogwalking Рік тому +3

    Is it possible to Te better. 😂 My Te is always working. Next to my Ni, I love my Te. They are all I really need. I improve the other functions through my learning and study. My lifestyle is designed to facilitate my INTJ-T personality. To maximize it to the full so I can truly enjoy all the possibilities it has to offer. Loving and accepting myself, and my unique INTJ personality provides the purpose, challenge, and fulfillment that I seek in life.

  • @RetroXRicardo
    @RetroXRicardo Рік тому +1

    Hey Lijo! Entertaining information on Cognitive Functions. Discovered you and your channel through Joyce Meng. Great stuff! 👏👏👏

  • @mohammadmahdisaeedi7739
    @mohammadmahdisaeedi7739 Рік тому +1

    This video is so refreshing... I've been procrastinating a lot these days and I always said to myself that I have bad luck and life hates me wich is so childish and immature..I should just change my habits and what I do everyday and i shouldn't be in my head 24/7... I should just work towards my goals..tnx for reminding me that

    • @InternetLiJo
      @InternetLiJo  Рік тому +3

      Reminds me of this quote from Jung - “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” :)

    • @mohammadmahdisaeedi7739
      @mohammadmahdisaeedi7739 Рік тому

      @@InternetLiJoA very nice quote indeed👌🏻

    • @ryanquick1824
      @ryanquick1824 Рік тому

      mohammad.
      getting in some good physical activity ABSOLUTELY ALWAYS WILL help you to settle back into yourself and allow you a greater ability to focus on getting things DONE when the time comes.
      its that mind-body thing you ABSOLUTELY should NOT forget/neglect.
      ABSOLUTELY.
      FOR SURE.
      - INTJ

  • @augustlorenzberoy2027
    @augustlorenzberoy2027 Рік тому

    Can you make a video on how to develop, and improve Ni as ENTJ🙏

  • @sarahberkner
    @sarahberkner 10 місяців тому

    Unfortunately as someone with blind Ni I just don't imagine myself in the future. And the idea that I'd have to wait 10 years is discouraging. But given that Fi is my lowest function, thinking about what kind of person I'd like to be now is good advice.

  • @elonmust8859
    @elonmust8859 Рік тому

    You made it sound easier than it actually is because other people and things get in the way and cause complications to accomplish those goals. They call themselves humans lol if only they knew.

  • @kiokuken1064
    @kiokuken1064 Рік тому +1

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    And thanks for reading ♥️

  • @neogeek23
    @neogeek23 Рік тому

    After watching the intro, I was expecting to hear about the cognitive functions. Something like this is what Fe is and these are the actual activities of Fe, so to improve Fe these are on boarding practices for Fe. This was just basically imagine a better you and find an example of that better and copy them. Little to no mention of developing the cognitive functions.

  • @hunter2358
    @hunter2358 Рік тому

    Please, how can we preserve a constant efficiency of the axis Parent-Inferior without getting it tired or run out of energy kinda thing to just find ourselves back to the Hero-Child axis due to overwhelming

    • @InternetLiJo
      @InternetLiJo  Рік тому +2

      We will always end back with the hero, it's to be expected. However for the sake of energy, if your hero function can backup the meaning behind why you are spending time/energy with the Parent-inferior (aka if you can get the hero on board) it can then help in keeping momentum vs waiting until you hit energy failure. Thats why this vision oriented approach is valuable because in essence it can get all functions on board with each other.

    • @SensemakingMartin
      @SensemakingMartin Рік тому

      @@InternetLiJo Yes getting the hero on board is key. As an Ne dom, encountering Jocko Willink's quote and idea that "Discipline Equals Freedom" was a major breakthrough for me as it got my Ne to get excited about investing more heavily into Si

    • @hunter2358
      @hunter2358 Рік тому

      @@InternetLiJo okay wait, so y r telling me that the switch happening between the two axis (from parent-inferior to hero-child) is not happening due to overwhelming but rather that the hero-child axis energy over wights the other axis, and if we can ensure a constant flow of its energy through orienting its efficiency to serve the parent-inferior axis we can actually preserve a constant energetic balance between the two axes??

    • @hunter2358
      @hunter2358 Рік тому

      @@InternetLiJo even tho most of my problem isn't really with the hero (Ne) but rather with the Fe child that wants to be liberated...

  • @LeeTaylor-gm5sk
    @LeeTaylor-gm5sk Рік тому

    May I clone U??? That B awesomesauce... U go grl

  • @Kalle875
    @Kalle875 Рік тому

    You are so beautiful , smart , and perfect🚶🏻‍♀️📚💯✨

  • @franciscomiranda6882
    @franciscomiranda6882 Рік тому

    Demon time😈

  • @counter-g2585
    @counter-g2585 Рік тому

    Wait a minute...
    Does Lindsey has a twin sister with her own UA-cam channel?

  • @Takosaga
    @Takosaga Рік тому

    Why you calling out my dirty apartment

  • @brocklytodd5317
    @brocklytodd5317 Рік тому +4

    I bet working on your lower functions turns you into a schizophrenic or something. We really need more studies done on this.

    • @InternetLiJo
      @InternetLiJo  Рік тому +7

      LOL still got to clean your closet eventually Brockly

  • @louisd1827
    @louisd1827 Рік тому

    Why was this recommended? Ppl in this comment section don't speak an english language that I understand? XD I saw the thumbnail and thought the letters were symbols from the periodic table lok

    • @InternetLiJo
      @InternetLiJo  Рік тому +3

      Hahah! Welcome, Louis. Drink the Kool Aid, we have fun around here ;)

  • @tarrantpresho6428
    @tarrantpresho6428 Рік тому

    🤩 Promo`SM

  • @jamesjohn3598
    @jamesjohn3598 Рік тому

    Why is it that intjs are not emotionally mature, emotionally they still behave like teenagers? Ignoring others people emotions can lead them to become narcissist

    • @InternetLiJo
      @InternetLiJo  Рік тому +2

      We are all at various stages of our own journey to consciousness and wholeness. Some INTJs may be further along than others in emotional maturity. But that same paradigm applies to all types and what still remains in a state of unconsciousness for them.

    • @jamesjohn3598
      @jamesjohn3598 Рік тому +1

      @@InternetLiJo it does not apply to all types intjs have narcissistic tendencies they can easily lose empathy and become toxic overly obsessed with themselves and don't want others around them i personally love intjs because of their understanding of things but i have Seen intj parents who end up harsh to their kids overcontrolling themselves because they think they know what is right end up destroying them emotionally

    • @SensemakingMartin
      @SensemakingMartin Рік тому +2

      @@jamesjohn3598 every personality type has unique ways it can go bad if the person doesn't have a good enough morality or maturity. That means it's the immaturity that is the danger, not any one personality type. The best thing we can do then is just help everyone on their journey to higher consciousness and maturity, and make sure to not accidentally be an obstacle to people's growth

    • @el2747
      @el2747 Рік тому

      oh people, their thinking also depend on their exp in life, some know much and some know less, what their meet in their entire life, what they most value in their life, for example if you live with monkey and learn from them, even most smart one cant reach the wisdom

    • @jamesjohn3598
      @jamesjohn3598 Рік тому

      @@el2747 are an intj?

  • @jart9193
    @jart9193 Рік тому

    Are you single?

    • @InternetLiJo
      @InternetLiJo  Рік тому +1

      Nope!

    • @jart9193
      @jart9193 Рік тому

      @@InternetLiJo Well congratulations to him. Have a very nice day to you 😊

  • @crissieroserose
    @crissieroserose Рік тому

    Iv no idea what you are talking about !

    • @InternetLiJo
      @InternetLiJo  Рік тому +1

      Haha hey Crissie! We talk about what Carl Jung refers to as the Cognitive Functions which are the pathways that allow us to make decisions, and see the world in the way we do. Knowing more about them helps us to understand ourselves and others better. Feel free to stick around and see what its all about!

  • @fedot2146
    @fedot2146 Рік тому

    To study in weak functions is useful friendship interaction (compassion, care, cooperation) with who has them strong. Among 4 types with 2 opposite functions is more pleasant to deal with 2 of types. The leading or 2nd function of which is opposite by functions and the attitude to your leading function. For ENTP (Ne-Ti): ISFP (Si-Fe), ESFJ (Fe-Si). Some other types have such helpful opposite functional pairs too. For ENTP (Ne-Ti): ISTP (Si-Te: 1st function supplementing), INFP (Ni-Fe: 2nd function supplementing). This studing happens for both, what supports mutual interest. In marriage pair are best conditions for a friendship.