Unfortunately with the advent of social media and loss of face to face human conversation and interaction, it becomes lots harder for modern people to gain applicable skills to these situations - they have to be learned
Forcing yourself to be interested only leads to you being feeling tiresome because you can only pretend to be interested but you really are bored on the inside.
Just be yourself. I am pretty sure no one is genuinely boring. It's the pressure of being entertaining that leads to confusion and, therefore, boring or awkward interaction.
yeah ... I follow this channel for a while now and it's kind of depressing. I'm getting the feeling there is one way, one behaviour to be successful and even if it's probably true I don't wnt to live in a world where every one is or pretends to be always positive, is energy driven and so on ... Plus being French I(we) often see American as too much enthousiastic for us. That's of course influenced by education (where everything is celebrated), and I just feel too far from it.
Tell Me This I guess it depends and there are still helpful tips in the video, but I appreciate that you share this :) I have CFS which means that I am constantly tired and have way less energy than everyone else, so it's really helpful being reminded that being myself is still okay and that I don't have to be energetic and always positive to be interesting. I would like to add that it isn't always the pressure of being entertaining that leads to boring interactions, though, but sometimes just the big differences between people. By being myself, some people have found me extremely interesting and others have found me extremely boring (and had no problem telling me that I am, apparently...)
tbh that's not true at all. One type? Come on man, Trump , Tywin, Tyrion, Tony Stark, Wonder Woman? These are all interesting characters but they are vastly different, you just need to find YOUR interesting character.
I think this is probably true for most of who watch this video. But you have to remember that those classic instagram selfie generic long hair, green jacket, and blue jeans girls exist who do nothing but working/being in school, getting drunk and being on Instagram/Snapchat all day. I am NOT saying that most girls are like that, I think it's the opposite. I am just saying that those types of girls exist and they are somewhat more frequent than other more interesting types.
0:17 1. High energy in the morning 1:00 2. Create an "Emergency list" 1:55 3. Learn to tell a good story 2:31 4. Expand your circle of influence. 3:36 5. Spend part of every day pursuing a dream.
I really appreciate that this is different from the standard, "it's your fault for being boring, just go out and do stuff!" approach. I liked how this was more about enriching your life in a positive way - quality over quantity - instead of assuming that we are by default lacking in something. This was really uplifting to watch. Thank you.
High energy (exercise in the morning, music/motivation video), create a list of funny/impt topics, learn to tell a good story(emotions/mystersious/sharing), expand your circle of influence (know other people, do other things), spend part of everyday pursuing your dream.
Awesome video! Ever since I was a little kid, I was always shy and never was good at keeping up with conversations. But I had a desire to expand my boundaries and tried, even through embarrassments, managed to get better with making a conversation with others. One tip I have is having a genuine desire of letting the other person talk the most. Eventually they'll have an enough interest to talk with you. Works almost every time for me. :)
Definitely true!!! It's easier to be interested in other people than making people get interested in you... and one thing leads to the other one, so be it!
I would just like to leave a small note of thanks to the whole team of Charisma on Command. The confidence you have instilled in me in the past 6 months has given me confidence as an UA-camr tremendously. I can feel that my style of presentation is improving continuously. Thank you again🙌
I always think that no one is a boring person, maybe someone is just shy and being a shy person is reversible because all you have to do is build a self-confident and learn to interact with other people. Make it a challenge for yourself to always contribute in a discussion because your voice needs to be heard and your idea matters.
it very much depends on what environment you're in. If your interests and outlook on life notably differ from those around you, then you're going to struggle to fit in. The people I find boring are the ones who're hostile to anything that goes against their own thought mentality; don't want to do anything that goes outwith their comfort zone and are judgemental towards other people and things. As a result of this they only associate with people who're just like them, and will treat anyone else with hostility and suspicion.
The first point hit me. Be energetic...i think being an introvert, i have become too dull and not even enjoy when there are best moments in my life. Even sometimes i feel that whenever i go pass someone and i always look like sad guy but even though i am not but it is what it is. Being energetic solves all the problem and that cures every problem of being shy, boring, etc
I enjoy doing nothing in my free time and just be alone or even with a friend and/or partner too, doing nothing together is very calming for me. Anything can be interesting if you shift your perspective and view of the world.
The last thing is so true. About a month after starting my UA-cam channel, I became much more open and started to connect with basically everyone at school from boys to girls. Definitely recommend starting a side project particularly ones that really show who you are and what you can do. Good luck everyone
Indeed simple actions and behaviors can shape our emotions and how we feel. As Kahneman says - "being amused tends to make you smile and smiling tends to make you feel amused".
Getting people to talk about themselves by having common interests or common people you both know is one of the best ways to get people excited. People love to talk about themselves.
This was very, very helpful. I tend to have negative thoughts but I try not to share them. I’m sure somehow they reflected in some of my conversations, however....NO MORE! I’ll be watching this video several times and taking notes and applying what I’ve learned. Once again, THANK YOU! I guess I let my imperfections get in the way but they are taking a back burner from now on!
It's actually good to watch your videos because not only are they informative but we can literally all see how you have learnt and grown yourself as an individual doing it, that in itself is a valuable lesson to us viewers.
*SUMMARY : 5 Things To Not Be Boring :-* - Develop high energy : _prime yourself early in the day to feel energetic_ .Meditation, exercise, funny videos anything that increases your energy - Create a mental list of exiting Things, and subjects/topics that you can fall back to when the conversation gets boring, subjects that gets people talking , makes them smile. - Learn to tell a good story :- Good story have elements ( watch his story telling videos ) - Expand your circle of influences : Read , mingle with people that are outside tour domain - Spend part of everyday persuing a dream. Do things that make you feel alive.
Thankyou for this ...I’ve noticed a lot lately that some people interrupt me or yawn when I’m speaking ...I never say anything and initially would feel annoyed ...or think your not worth speaking with ...now I’m maturing ..it’s time to make some changes ...being a better story teller is the answer 🙏😂🤪😎💃
To anyone saying that people are never "genuinely boring", im an example. My parents are bored of me, i try to talk to them by asking questions such as how was work or any plans this weekend but it always end. Like it never goes anywhere else. Same with friends. There was a time i had a meltdown and an existential crisis, i asked a friend if i was boring. She admittedly said yes. Another guy also told me that I would be "datable" if i had personality. So he basically said i was pretty enough but i was boring and there's nothing unique about me. My family can't even tell me something im "unique" at. They don't see me growing up to become a specific profession. I don't too. That's why i want to die before i even reach college or die as soon as possible because im just a waste of time, energy, air, space, money, life etc. I am not worth anything, i wish someone would just kill me and donate my organs to people who need them. Then, i would have a purpose.
You're not a waste of time and space. God created all of us with a purpose. And I'm sure you're not boring at all, maybe it's the people your surrounded with. Let's say that even if you are, you have an opportunity to change. Find things that interest you, volunteer or work at a part time job. I'm sure doing those things will bring you to meet people why may have similarities and interests that you have.
Joining a fraternity was actually one of the best things I did when it comes to expanding my sphere of influence. I was surrounded by a lot of people that I would never have talked to normally and because of that, I learned a lot of walks of life. I’m good friends with people I would never have talked to before. Joining my fraternity expanded my horizons in such an unexpected way.
I am the high energy/laughing /jokey person... I do these things you reccomend and they definitely put me in a great mood... I always listen to music or find some type of video that gets my brain start up and going in the morning as I get ready for work... I find some things that I'm grateful for and say them out loud to myself... I'll open up the door and look at the beautiful sunrise and listen to nature for a few minutes... I find the small things in life that make me happy, and they definitely change my outlook on life... It's all about the way you think about things and your perspective on life
Videos like these sometimes make me feel like crap cause as an introvert, i really hate socializing so it’s already as hard as it can get for me. Just gonna be myself and stick to my small circle of friends. If new people wanna talk to me, then I guess we can make it work 😂
I have a tip for you guys. When i was a teen i tried to search for a way to be "funny". I tried lots of things but the thing that worked most was to analyse (not copy, analyse) stand-up comedians i try to reach for their "energy". For example, one thing that most of comedians do: Start with the phrase " You know what sucks?" And then complain about something funny. In a dayli conversation it opens a topic that can last for a very long time. Try it guys it really works
As long as we make those around us feel important we will be fine. One of the best books on the subject is "How to win friends and influence people" By Dale Carnegie. It's an old book, but this still applies today and it has sold millions. I might be wrong, but the point of Charisma on Command in this video is that we should get out of our bubble. Like he said, if we always read self-help books, try reading fiction, etcetera. To do kind of the contrast of what we normally do. If we always associate we people of like us because we define us as a brand then that makes us less interesting. However, if we associate with others that are different we get exposed to learn from others and understand why they do what they do. Most issues we all have is because of unawareness. By expanding our knowledge, culture, music, activities, hobbies and so on, we get to have more things in common with more people or at least understand others more, and be less ignorant. And in turn that makes us more interesting.
1. High Energy in the Morning 2. Create an 'Emergency List' 3. Learn to tell a good story 4. Expand Your Circle of Influence 5. Spend part of every day pursuing a dream
Thank you! When you spoke of us having just one life it reminded me of my favorite part of a Mary Oliver poem, which is: 'Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?'
This video was so inspirational... I thought I was spending a lot of time doing the wrong things but then I watched through this and it inspired me to keep going with what I love, I’ve recently just picked up youtube again and it’s really truly my dream
I'm so high energy person, like you've said and I can make my friends laugh anytime and it's rare when I'm boring to them. I know a lot of things to do to make them laugh and I really enjoy it when I make someone's mood better. BUT I ALWAYS SEEM LIKE BORING TO THE GIRL I HAVE A CRUSH ON, WHATEVER I DO :
I have a high energy around people even though I'm an introvert, I just don't show it because people might think I'm weird, and there's already "that extroverted person" who's the most energetic person in the room so I'm embarrassed to match with her energy because she's too energetic and---yeah it constantly repeats
Animations are nice and cute but now this channel looks exactly like every other...! Imho it doesn't add to your message. I always enjoyed watching Charlie explain it in person and to mimic his charisma.
I agree with all of these points. Nice video! (Sorry for the long post) One problem for me in the past was that I always looked like a boring person. I don't do too bad in English conversation... but when you're in a room full of people who speak another language and they're talking really fast, laughing at inside jokes that even with knowledge of that language, you would struggle to grasp. It's hard. You start to question yourself pretty quickly when you're not used to being such a debbie downer. You awkwardly half-laugh everytime the whole table is cracking up. Here's where people give this advice: "Well don't fake it... If you don't think it's funny, don't laugh." That doesn't really work because people start to look at you funny (you're the only one who isn't in on the joke) and if they realize that you don't speak their language, sometimes it kills the momentum of their conversation. Also people say: "Just ask your friend to explain it to you in English." That doesn't work either. Most of the time explaining the joke, kills it. It's just not that funny, and with the culture difference it's more likely to be something you don't understand. It also dampens the group's conversation because they were laughing and having a nice time and now you feel more like a nuisance, or at least a burden... After some time I learned the language (Spanish) and now when I'm in a group like this, I'm not really the life of the party, but I don't look so boring or out of place as I used to. I can have a nice time. I'm happy/fun enough. I guess what I'm trying to say is. Being boring in situations like these is one thing, but seeming boring because you don't understand a language? That's really tough. You don't have as much power as you do in your first language. Although I'm pretty much beyond those struggles, I'm sure there's other people who have had similar situations. Learning the language is the way I got out of it but that's not going to cut it for most people. My only advice would be to not take youself too seriously... even with that in mind it's a tough one. How to NEVER Be Boring Internationally would be a good video. Thanks for reading this far if you did. You're the man! Keep the good tips coming!
Charlie, you are obviously a morning person, which I am NOT. Moreover, you don’t understand introverts. I am usually annoyed by people who are energetic and cheerful in the morning. And too often the one who interrupts and tries to redirect a conversation is the only one who is bored. I save my energy for the evening when I’m most alert, and I love slow, thoughtful conversations that hyper people find “boring”. I tend to perceive consistently high energy people as insincere or insecure. It’s important to be aware of differences among personalities.
You don't need to show high energy in public and in front of others, just release the energy at your own space and stay cheerful and calm when you go out.
I love to talk about boxing i live in small city in Montenegro and people here are so limited,when i say that i like boxing they think that i'm a stupid or some thug they always roll their eyes even my family but i like sweet science because of boxers like Lomachenko,Rigondeux,Sugar Ray Robinson etc...People see just two fighters hitting each other i see poetry!!!
I feel like a robot trying to learn basic human interaction.
You're not alone.
Mood
So true
Unfortunately with the advent of social media and loss of face to face human conversation and interaction, it becomes lots harder for modern people to gain applicable skills to these situations - they have to be learned
I am literally a robot trying to talk to a human, but failing miserably because of my lack of social skills.
Boring people are bored. So if you want to be interesting, be interested.
That's how simple it is
Dang, that's some crazy realization
Keiko artz but school is boring and it takes all your time away. No wonder everyone is bored.
But I’m not interested
Forcing yourself to be interested only leads to you being feeling tiresome because you can only pretend to be interested but you really are bored on the inside.
god thanks for that because my friends think im boring while im bored of their words
Just be yourself. I am pretty sure no one is genuinely boring. It's the pressure of being entertaining that leads to confusion and, therefore, boring or awkward interaction.
yeah ... I follow this channel for a while now and it's kind of depressing. I'm getting the feeling there is one way, one behaviour to be successful and even if it's probably true I don't wnt to live in a world where every one is or pretends to be always positive, is energy driven and so on ... Plus being French I(we) often see American as too much enthousiastic for us. That's of course influenced by education (where everything is celebrated), and I just feel too far from it.
Tell Me This I guess it depends and there are still helpful tips in the video, but I appreciate that you share this :) I have CFS which means that I am constantly tired and have way less energy than everyone else, so it's really helpful being reminded that being myself is still okay and that I don't have to be energetic and always positive to be interesting. I would like to add that it isn't always the pressure of being entertaining that leads to boring interactions, though, but sometimes just the big differences between people. By being myself, some people have found me extremely interesting and others have found me extremely boring (and had no problem telling me that I am, apparently...)
tbh that's not true at all. One type? Come on man, Trump , Tywin, Tyrion, Tony Stark, Wonder Woman?
These are all interesting characters but they are vastly different, you just need to find YOUR interesting character.
I think this is probably true for most of who watch this video. But you have to remember that those classic instagram selfie generic long hair, green jacket, and blue jeans girls exist who do nothing but working/being in school, getting drunk and being on Instagram/Snapchat all day.
I am NOT saying that most girls are like that, I think it's the opposite. I am just saying that those types of girls exist and they are somewhat more frequent than other more interesting types.
just b3 urself bruh
How not to be boring: do hard things most people don't
you, I know you
Marigabi García wow, you're boring
Rusty Dreams right? 😂 But the important thing is that to me Life is exciting every day. Everyone should live by their own values!
That's actually an amazing advice
Practical Psychology Haha look who is here
3:11
*DO NOT SKIP LEG DAY*
Ahh just wanted to comment that
LMAO
😂😂😂lmfao
Frederick Ironheart JAJAJAJ OMG
Am i the only one who loves legs day
0:17 1. High energy in the morning
1:00 2. Create an "Emergency list"
1:55 3. Learn to tell a good story
2:31 4. Expand your circle of influence.
3:36 5. Spend part of every day pursuing a dream.
I really appreciate that this is different from the standard, "it's your fault for being boring, just go out and do stuff!" approach. I liked how this was more about enriching your life in a positive way - quality over quantity - instead of assuming that we are by default lacking in something. This was really uplifting to watch. Thank you.
I had to laugh at the "England is my city" clip. Great video brother!
Eyy I know you haha
thanks man
Hey dude
Brett Maverick at what minute?
Brett Maverick when
UA-cam: recommends this to me
*what are you tryna say UA-cam?!*
You're not funny
No one is laughing
Ur a sad loser
*purposely misspelled 'trying to ' in an attempt to be funny. U failed
Sir Sophisticate dang bro calm down
High energy (exercise in the morning, music/motivation video), create a list of funny/impt topics, learn to tell a good story(emotions/mystersious/sharing), expand your circle of influence (know other people, do other things), spend part of everyday pursuing your dream.
Charismatic thx
What dream might that be?
Awesome video! Ever since I was a little kid, I was always shy and never was good at keeping up with conversations. But I had a desire to expand my boundaries and tried, even through embarrassments, managed to get better with making a conversation with others. One tip I have is having a genuine desire of letting the other person talk the most. Eventually they'll have an enough interest to talk with you. Works almost every time for me. :)
So true! well put :D
Definitely true!!! It's easier to be interested in other people than making people get interested in you... and one thing leads to the other one, so be it!
Animation is plain beautiful.
Animation by Zeino: UA-cam.com/Zeino
support his channel. has a great sense of humor too!
I would just like to leave a small note of thanks to the whole team of Charisma on Command. The confidence you have instilled in me in the past 6 months has given me confidence as an UA-camr tremendously. I can feel that my style of presentation is improving continuously.
Thank you again🙌
~ That's awesome!
Usually those people who are super high energy first thing in the morning are the punchable ones.
AtlasNovack haha yes!!
Why tho
True that lol
As someone who’s been chased by the flying fists at 6 in the morning, I can confirm this.
it’s all about balance, over do r and you come off annoying and unrelatable, get it right and your uplifting :)
I always think that no one is a boring person, maybe someone is just shy and being a shy person is reversible because all you have to do is build a self-confident and learn to interact with other people. Make it a challenge for yourself to always contribute in a discussion because your voice needs to be heard and your idea matters.
it very much depends on what environment you're in. If your interests and outlook on life notably differ from those around you, then you're going to struggle to fit in. The people I find boring are the ones who're hostile to anything that goes against their own thought mentality; don't want to do anything that goes outwith their comfort zone and are judgemental towards other people and things. As a result of this they only associate with people who're just like them, and will treat anyone else with hostility and suspicion.
The first point hit me.
Be energetic...i think being an introvert, i have become too dull and not even enjoy when there are best moments in my life.
Even sometimes i feel that whenever i go pass someone and i always look like sad guy but even though i am not but it is what it is.
Being energetic solves all the problem and that cures every problem of being shy, boring, etc
If you are a weightlifter who is constantly trying to add more bulk, try leg day, it might help with those stick legs.
Squat rack is for curls.
Аh, i see you're a man of bro culture as well
Ha, i smell someone that's jealous. That's the only weapon in jealous people's arsenal.
Steven Martukovich its called a curl station
I enjoy doing nothing in my free time and just be alone or even with a friend and/or partner too, doing nothing together is very calming for me. Anything can be interesting if you shift your perspective and view of the world.
The last thing is so true. About a month after starting my UA-cam channel, I became much more open and started to connect with basically everyone at school from boys to girls. Definitely recommend starting a side project particularly ones that really show who you are and what you can do. Good luck everyone
Indeed simple actions and behaviors can shape our emotions and how we feel. As Kahneman says - "being amused tends to make you smile and smiling tends to make you feel amused".
Perfect timing :)
Kenny Paas I agree! This was perfect timing for me as well.
RRIIGHTT! JUST BEFORE SCHOOL:D HAD PERFECT TIME TO SET MY ANCHORS
Kenny Paas what are you doing here Kenny?
Charismaticizing
For me too: I had some troubles in corporate world in order to be engaged, so this was PERFECT timing. Thanks Charlie! Peace.
LOVE the concept of this channel, and specifically of this video. So interesting, informative, and inspiring!
~ Glad you're digging it!
1:40 Boy asserting dominance over family by displaying his manhood
lmao
Thats what i saw too lmao
Getting people to talk about themselves by having common interests or common people you both know is one of the best ways to get people excited. People love to talk about themselves.
This was very, very helpful. I tend to have negative thoughts but I try not to share them. I’m sure somehow they reflected in some of my conversations, however....NO MORE! I’ll be watching this video several times and taking notes and applying what I’ve learned. Once again, THANK YOU! I guess I let my imperfections get in the way but they are taking a back burner from now on!
It's actually good to watch your videos because not only are they informative but we can literally all see how you have learnt and grown yourself as an individual doing it, that in itself is a valuable lesson to us viewers.
*SUMMARY : 5 Things To Not Be Boring :-*
- Develop high energy : _prime yourself early in the day to feel energetic_ .Meditation, exercise, funny videos anything that increases your energy
- Create a mental list of exiting Things, and subjects/topics that you can fall back to when the conversation gets boring, subjects that gets people talking , makes them smile.
- Learn to tell a good story :-
Good story have elements ( watch his story telling videos )
- Expand your circle of influences : Read , mingle with people that are outside tour domain
- Spend part of everyday persuing a dream. Do things that make you feel alive.
Ur that one person who everyone copies from for a a video guide
you rock, and your ability to completely open up and be vulnerable when sharing your stories is what makes this channel so genuine .
~ Appreciate it Kimberly!
Am I watching school of life.
Yes
I thought the same thing. I’m not sure how I feel about it.
mikeframbo ig the British accent is missing 😂
Nic Dodds Nope just right wing propaganda
Guy Eliraz I had to check
Thankyou for this ...I’ve noticed a lot lately that some people interrupt me or yawn when I’m speaking ...I never say anything and initially would feel annoyed ...or think your not worth speaking with ...now I’m maturing ..it’s time to make some changes ...being a better story teller is the answer 🙏😂🤪😎💃
To anyone saying that people are never "genuinely boring", im an example. My parents are bored of me, i try to talk to them by asking questions such as how was work or any plans this weekend but it always end. Like it never goes anywhere else. Same with friends. There was a time i had a meltdown and an existential crisis, i asked a friend if i was boring. She admittedly said yes. Another guy also told me that I would be "datable" if i had personality. So he basically said i was pretty enough but i was boring and there's nothing unique about me. My family can't even tell me something im "unique" at. They don't see me growing up to become a specific profession. I don't too. That's why i want to die before i even reach college or die as soon as possible because im just a waste of time, energy, air, space, money, life etc. I am not worth anything, i wish someone would just kill me and donate my organs to people who need them. Then, i would have a purpose.
I kinda relate to you 💔
You're not a waste of time and space. God created all of us with a purpose. And I'm sure you're not boring at all, maybe it's the people your surrounded with. Let's say that even if you are, you have an opportunity to change. Find things that interest you, volunteer or work at a part time job. I'm sure doing those things will bring you to meet people why may have similarities and interests that you have.
I just realized she typed this 2 years ago. I hope you're doing well.
Joining a fraternity was actually one of the best things I did when it comes to expanding my sphere of influence. I was surrounded by a lot of people that I would never have talked to normally and because of that, I learned a lot of walks of life. I’m good friends with people I would never have talked to before. Joining my fraternity expanded my horizons in such an unexpected way.
Joining a frat? Lmao aren’t you all the same and just alcoholic, peer pressurers?
"Music video that cracks you up"
Shows England is my city
Fair enough Charlie
Fair enough
I am the high energy/laughing /jokey person... I do these things you reccomend and they definitely put me in a great mood... I always listen to music or find some type of video that gets my brain start up and going in the morning as I get ready for work... I find some things that I'm grateful for and say them out loud to myself... I'll open up the door and look at the beautiful sunrise and listen to nature for a few minutes... I find the small things in life that make me happy, and they definitely change my outlook on life... It's all about the way you think about things and your perspective on life
Videos like these sometimes make me feel like crap cause as an introvert, i really hate socializing so it’s already as hard as it can get for me. Just gonna be myself and stick to my small circle of friends. If new people wanna talk to me, then I guess we can make it work 😂
Me to I'm very intoverted
I have a tip for you guys. When i was a teen i tried to search for a way to be "funny". I tried lots of things but the thing that worked most was to analyse (not copy, analyse) stand-up comedians i try to reach for their "energy". For example, one thing that most of comedians do: Start with the phrase " You know what sucks?" And then complain about something funny. In a dayli conversation it opens a topic that can last for a very long time. Try it guys it really works
#4 seek discomfort👍
Thanks for the advice; my life needs to be shaken, not stirred.
I read this as "how not to be born" like 4 times:/
Would like to know the answer tho..
And you were so excited
The Delorean, obviously.
Haha this made me smile 💖
op please upload
As long as we make those around us feel important we will be fine. One of the best books on the subject is "How to win friends and influence people" By Dale Carnegie. It's an old book, but this still applies today and it has sold millions.
I might be wrong, but the point of Charisma on Command in this video is that we should get out of our bubble. Like he said, if we always read self-help books, try reading fiction, etcetera. To do kind of the contrast of what we normally do. If we always associate we people of like us because we define us as a brand then that makes us less interesting. However, if we associate with others that are different we get exposed to learn from others and understand why they do what they do. Most issues we all have is because of unawareness. By expanding our knowledge, culture, music, activities, hobbies and so on, we get to have more things in common with more people or at least understand others more, and be less ignorant. And in turn that makes us more interesting.
This art style really reminds me of kurzgesagt
i love how you put the main points in the description! thanks so much
1. High Energy in the Morning
2. Create an 'Emergency List'
3. Learn to tell a good story
4. Expand Your Circle of Influence
5. Spend part of every day pursuing a dream
thanks man
Thank you! When you spoke of us having just one life it reminded me of my favorite part of a Mary Oliver poem, which is: 'Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?'
There's no such thing as a boring person. What may be boring to you might be amusing to someone else.
Yeah, but the problem here is when YOU think you are boring, and thats the kind of people this video is made for.
To sum it all up, ENERGY.
The graphics in this video were really good
This video was so inspirational... I thought I was spending a lot of time doing the wrong things but then I watched through this and it inspired me to keep going with what I love, I’ve recently just picked up youtube again and it’s really truly my dream
England is my city
Camilo Diaz what?😂
Camilo Diaz dead meme
Normie memes ruin dreams
Camilo Diaz city is my england
0:50
I'm so high energy person, like you've said and I can make my friends laugh anytime and it's rare when I'm boring to them. I know a lot of things to do to make them laugh and I really enjoy it when I make someone's mood better. BUT I ALWAYS SEEM LIKE BORING TO THE GIRL I HAVE A CRUSH ON, WHATEVER I DO :
My first thought was "The School of Life usually don't use "Tips" in their titles"
You are more insightful than the average people or even some psychologists on this topic. Good.
All I do is eat, drink, sleep and study 😑😑😑
Me too sis, me too
Oh dear gurl same
This is why i am planning to rebel lmfao
Same, I draw, watch anime, play 2 games, eat drink and study 😔
@@anotherstranger1273 enjoy baby enjoy
So many gems packed in the span of 4 and a half minutes
I like the one with the pre-prepared stories, sounds like a nice advice. Thanks! BTW where is the storytelling video?
I don't think he linked it, but here's one: ua-cam.com/video/hDp9hVDL49Y/v-deo.html
Every morning i will watch charisma on command its actually fun to learn this
You said you would add the best story telling videos in the description
Thanks for the video man, really appreciate it.
UA-cam recommendations is trying to tell me something.
thank you man a person rly needed to hear this
What if..
Anxiety and depression?
so grateful to have found this channel 💖
Now i need “how not to be tired all the time” video
Do you sleep enough?
Greer i sleep for 12/13 hours and i’m still dead all the time😂
@@boza4202 woah yeah. I don't think that's a charisma issue. Maybe see a doctor. Adults shouldn't need more then 8, or 9 max.
Fix your diet and start eating vitamins, omega 3.
charlie is an actual godsend. ty sm for your unmatched amazing content man
4:00 Dude tries to roast Charlie
*Still, he's a subscriber*
Frederick Ironheart truetv
Making the world a better place, one video at a time.
Godfather is the 2nd top rated movie and considered to be the best movie to many people, I highly suggest you make a video on Michael Corleone.
M A YES! Completely agree as a kid I used to copy his body language and thought he was badass!
Dope advice! Love the one about doing things that "aren't you." Thanks for the amazing content!
~ Glad you're digging it!
WOW! I never thought nutting standing in front of my group of friends would be i great way to raise enthusiasm. i hope it works next time.
I have a high energy around people even though I'm an introvert, I just don't show it because people might think I'm weird, and there's already "that extroverted person" who's the most energetic person in the room so I'm embarrassed to match with her energy because she's too energetic and---yeah it constantly repeats
I feel highly attacked that this was recommended to me but it’s ok cuz it’s true.
Beautiful animation! Good job Zeino!
I love the animation 😍
Animations are nice and cute but now this channel looks exactly like every other...!
Imho it doesn't add to your message. I always enjoyed watching Charlie explain it in person and to mimic his charisma.
Animation sucks! You should see The School of Life's animations.
Deds Bebs School Of Life has warming animations, and it's soothing to watch. What's wrong with that?
Introvert here. Thank you so much for your videos man. They do help!
~ Glad you're finding them helpful!
High energy in the morning people? I wanna slap them. I don't admire them. Lmfao
I pay 1 dollar for a good hard slap in the face
I agree with all of these points. Nice video! (Sorry for the long post) One problem for me in the past was that I always looked like a boring person. I don't do too bad in English conversation... but when you're in a room full of people who speak another language and they're talking really fast, laughing at inside jokes that even with knowledge of that language, you would struggle to grasp. It's hard. You start to question yourself pretty quickly when you're not used to being such a debbie downer. You awkwardly half-laugh everytime the whole table is cracking up. Here's where people give this advice: "Well don't fake it... If you don't think it's funny, don't laugh." That doesn't really work because people start to look at you funny (you're the only one who isn't in on the joke) and if they realize that you don't speak their language, sometimes it kills the momentum of their conversation. Also people say: "Just ask your friend to explain it to you in English." That doesn't work either. Most of the time explaining the joke, kills it. It's just not that funny, and with the culture difference it's more likely to be something you don't understand. It also dampens the group's conversation because they were laughing and having a nice time and now you feel more like a nuisance, or at least a burden... After some time I learned the language (Spanish) and now when I'm in a group like this, I'm not really the life of the party, but I don't look so boring or out of place as I used to. I can have a nice time. I'm happy/fun enough. I guess what I'm trying to say is. Being boring in situations like these is one thing, but seeming boring because you don't understand a language? That's really tough. You don't have as much power as you do in your first language. Although I'm pretty much beyond those struggles, I'm sure there's other people who have had similar situations. Learning the language is the way I got out of it but that's not going to cut it for most people. My only advice would be to not take youself too seriously... even with that in mind it's a tough one. How to NEVER Be Boring Internationally would be a good video. Thanks for reading this far if you did. You're the man! Keep the good tips coming!
well, what can I say, a good video as always!
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Charlie, you are obviously a morning person, which I am NOT. Moreover, you don’t understand introverts. I am usually annoyed by people who are energetic and cheerful in the morning. And too often the one who interrupts and tries to redirect a conversation is the only one who is bored. I save my energy for the evening when I’m most alert, and I love slow, thoughtful conversations that hyper people find “boring”. I tend to perceive consistently high energy people as insincere or insecure. It’s important to be aware of differences among personalities.
You don't need to show high energy in public and in front of others, just release the energy at your own space and stay cheerful and calm when you go out.
In short, Dont be boring xD
Lol 3 years no likes
Lmafo
Thanks for all your tips! I hope I am not boring.
I'm from the future, 2022 is gonna be the worst year ever! It's 2020 version 2 i guess 2021 is just a break from all of it, you've been warned
Pff... That doesn't sound so bad
You're extremely good at giving advice. Thanks so much
That weight lifter seriously skipped leg day
You're such a brilliant guy, your videos and thoughts are amazing, truly inspiring!
~ Appreciate it man!
Great animation.
~ Glad you're digging it!
I love to talk about boxing i live in small city in Montenegro and people here are so limited,when i say that i like boxing they think that i'm a stupid or some thug they always roll their eyes even my family but i like sweet science because of boxers like Lomachenko,Rigondeux,Sugar Ray Robinson etc...People see just two fighters hitting each other i see poetry!!!
Very inspiring with the animations! Keep up the good work!
~ Glad you're finding it inspiring Emil!
Thank you so much! This channel has helped me and your book is really great too. Keep up the great work! POSITIVE!
~ Glad you're finding our stuff helpful! Will definitely keep going :-)
Love your videos!
I hate them because he spelled Toronto wrong.
This is sick advice, I think it's exactly what I was looking for
Tiege the type of Hanley to be a charismatic pomade
Fabrobin the kind of person to use proactiv
Dan O'Connor Ew no Tiege Hanley is better than hanley other skincare products in the world. Stop tieging me how to live mate
i really love this video. thank you so much
Loved it!!!
~ Glad you're loving it, man!
Thank you for the video buddy,have a good day. 😄
My mom say's i'm boring bc i always like being in my room ;_;
*I'm anti-social moooom*
Brianna Amador *NOT WITH THAT ATTITUDE YOU’RE NOT*
You’re asocial not antisocial. There’s a difference
Patrick Cotter big difference lol
I feel like this was a direct message to me
But dude, how you spelled Toronto wrong?
I watch your videos often. Very handful at times. Keep the good job going :) and btw thank you so much:)
~ Awesome! We'll definitely keep going. :-)
*Give That Graphic Designer a Payrise!!*
You’re great man, don’t listen to the haters