You Sir are spot on. A friend was accused. I had to do the leg work for him. He was a wreak. After two years it was over and he was cleared. He was looking at 40 years. These women need to be prosecuted. Final point is don't sit on your arse. Work with the attorney as a team.
In this backward degraded society, women have been by the balls, and they know it. I don't blame them as it is human nature to take advantage of situations, however unfair.
@@naomidurrence I got my friend a lawyer from a prestigious law firm and I paid for it. Because I knew Anthony would never abuse a child. I paid all of his legal expenses including private investigators and medical doctors who were Pathologists to check his DNA against the alleged victim's claims. With the absence of DNA we petitioned the court for the victim to be examined by our doctors. No signs of penetration were found. It was that medical report that caused the victim to recant his story and expose the FEDS. Unfortunately the District Court judge sealed the records. I have absolutely no faith in the American Criminal Justice System non whatsoever. It's another reason why I left the UNITED STATES. I really regret serving this country.
@@davidh7799 I'm sorry, but that's not taking advantage of a situation, that's blatantly lying and filing false claims to wrongfully accuse someone of something they didn't do.
@@bohemoth1 I’m a criminal defense attorney. Your comments are understandable. I’ve been able to get better deals for my clients largely, I believe, because I’ve been able to build up a relationship with the prosecutor. They just don’t want to fight sometimes. But the whole system stinks of “if you have the money, you get better justice.” It cheapens the word, frankly. I’m consulting with people who have been accused. You can’t make the money you otherwise would giving full representation, but it’s a little easier to live as a human being. This disease in the system is spreading all over the world. I’m taking to lawyers in India, Europe, Australia…woke-ism has taken over the narrative completely.
It won’t, to many people are virtual signalist, and will says it attacks actual survivors lol In the meantime a dude who served 16 years for false accusations of rape just was released. The woman who had made the lovely bones handpicked him out in 1981. And all he got from her was an I’m sorry. Can you imagine the abuse and ridicule behind bars the he received?? That’s why it’s bogus when they bring up that 10 to present of are sex as accusations are false bs. People are barley finding out that their innocent today
@@moonycorn4914 First, look into what constitutes consent. If you feel that any of these boundaries have been crossed, proceed with charges if you are open to it. Do know that people will try to gaslight you into believing that what happened to you either did not happen or it wasn't as bad as you thought. This is a common way survivors are treated. Look into consent, listen to your gut, don't let people gaslight you and move accordingly. Good luck with everything.
A long time ago, I was falsely accused by a crazy, vindictive chick in college! The campus cops called me in for an interview and I did the smart thing that this guy talks about - I kept my mouth shut and refused to answer any questions without an attorney present! It saved my rear-end. The cops didn't have any evidence against me other than her complaint and were forced to drop the issue. Never, ever talk to the police. They might not have a case against you but you can sure as hell give them one if you open your mouth and start talking.
Depending on what she is complaining about, her statements are considered evidence and can lead to charges. Evidence of her motives to fabricate can be the real game changer.
Over the years I've learned that doesn't matter, if you're called down to the police, take a lawyer. The lawyer isn't an admission of guilt like it once was. You are protecting yourself from something you don't understand.
When it comes to being accused of a sexual offense, automatically in the eyes of law ENFORCEMENT officers and PROSECUTORS YOU ARE GUILTY. In most cases even the judge thinks that you are GUILTY. The law enforcement officers will go around your community and literally destroy your reputation with vague questions about you. And the most horrible thing about it is that even when you are cleared of all charges and accusations, the shadow of guilt hangs over you in your community. Your reputation is tarnished forever. I know that personally because a friend of mine killed himself after he was found not guilty of being a pedophile. But during the trial the damage was done. It left lots of innuendos about him. He walked out of the courthouse and purchased two packs of BIC DISPOSABLE RAZORS. Then he went to a hotel. Now this was before cellphones were popular. I was in court with him and I knew he was really shaken by the charges which really was an extortion plot against him. In the hotel room he disassembled all of the plastic from the razors. He wrote on a big sign board that he hung around his neck. """THANK YOU JURY, I AM NOT GUILTY. BUT IN THE EYES OF EVERYONE ELSE THEY HAVE CONVICTED ME.""" He tied the bedsheets to a sofa leg. He broke out the window. He wrapped the bedsheet around his neck. He stood on the ledge and swallowed the razor blades and then he jumped off the ledge from the 7th floor. His body was hanging out over the main entrance to the hotel. The boy who accused him testified at the trial under aggressive cross examination by his lawyer that Police and the FEDS concocted the story and paid him to make the false accusations. Come to find out that the feds had made a COMPLETELY FALSE DOSSIER ON HIM. It was in every law ENFORCEMENT database. Later in my life I got my degree in FORENSIC LINGUISTICS and I then read a book written by David Balducci entitled THE WHOLE TRUTH. It was a FICTIONAL story that skirted reality. It exposed THE GRAND SCHEME OF PERCEPTION MANAGEMENT VIA THE MANIPULATION OF LANGUAGE AND IMAGERY, VIDEO SEQUENCING AND DATA ANALYSIS. My friend's SUICIDE was the most DRAMATIC THING EVER SEEN.I got the call and rushed to the hotel his body was still hanging from the ledge. The autopsy report was a nightmare to read. In my personal opinion ANY person who falsely accuses a person of sexual assault or a sex related offense should be shot.
@@matty7dream1 He had a friend who was a big time drug dealer. Even though he wasn't involved in drugs, the feds wanted him to get incriminating information about his friend. He refused to cooperate with the feds and the Police JOINT NARCOTICS TASKFORCE. So they threatened him for him to cooperate with the feds. He refused constantly. The Police caught this kid who was an arsonist. They told him that they would give him a break if he worked for them. The way they did it was so convincing. But the defense attorneys destroyed the prosecutor's case. My friend was held in jail without bail. They say that being a pedophile in jail is a death sentence. I really don't know what happened to him in jail. But when he was found not guilty. He looked at the prosecutor and gave them a very weird smile. I was on the Expressway when I got the call that he killed himself. I got to the scene before the medical Examiner so his body was still hanging out with hotel window. This all happened in the 1970s. To this day I still have the image of him hanging from the hotel window and reading the autopsy report. I pray for him and his soul because the religious beliefs of most people is that if a person commits suicide their soul goes directly to hell. So he is proof that people cannot trust the Police and other law ENFORCEMENT agencies. I don't even trust a judge or prosecutor. Especially THE UNITED STATES ATTORNEYS. The most strangest thing about this is that the Assistant UNITED STATES ATTORNEY who framed my friend later on became a UNITED STATES DISTRICT JUDGE! So I ask you: In law enforcement and Criminal Justice System who can you really trust?
bohemoth1, your full of shit, LE do not get pleasure fucking over good people, they uncover the lies of accusers regularly… stop believing the news and TV
@@kelly8431 Hey you don't even know me to call me names. My friend Anthony Paudau was falsely accused of molesting a child. He knew a THIRD MAJOR FACTOR in the drug trade. Even though he was not involved in the drug Trade his friend was involved and the FEDS wanted him to infiltrate his friend's organization which the feda called A CRIMINAL ENTERPRISE. I'm still in contact with his family. It has been and still is very traumatizing for me and his family. Even though it happened decades ago. The fucking judge called him A CHICKEN HAWK! Back then I didn't know what a Chicken Hawk meant when applied to humans. The judge called him that during a hearing before the actual trial! When he was acquitted, he was completely destroyed. You don't know how bad the impact of being falsely accused of a sexual crime has on an innocent person. So please stop being a keyboard asshole and a TROLL. Our government is really screwed up. I know personally because I am a BLACK retired Navy combat veteran who served in Vietnam all the way to the Persian Gulf War. Unfortunately for you in a few years you, and others WILL EXPERIENCE EXACTLY HOW CORRUPT OUR GOVERNMENT AND WESTERN COUNTRIES ARE. Especially if you were vaccinated. And if you are a devoutly religious person, you will be very disappointed that the alleged doctrine of salvation is an INSTRUMENT of oppression and suppression. You need to travel the world and experience other countries. Because what the media is feeding you is an illusion. To understand what I am telling you. You should read the book entitled THE WHOLE TRUTH written by David Balducci. Though it is FICTIONAL it skirts the realm of reality. You will discover how the government, media and powerful people work together to destroy the common person. Because they are all about CONTROL. So read that book. Because you are living a lie. You don't want to believe what other people tell you. In AMERICA you are GUILTY until you use all of your resources and money to prove yourself innocent. In the meantime you will loose lots of so called friends. Some of your own family members will abandoned you if you are falsely accused of being a sexual offender which labels you as a PERVERT. Yes your family and friends will call you a PERVERT before you are acquitted. Their doubts about you will eat your soul. Get out of the basement and see the world! Ps I don't even have a television. Got rid of it years ago. So DON'T TOUCH YOUR TELEVISION. THEY CONTROL THE TRANSMISSION. THEY CONTROL THE VERTICAL...now for the next hour sit QUIETLY as they CONTROL everything you see and hear from the MINDS INNER SANCTUM to the OUTER LIMITS. Those lines and the audio ASSOCIATED with the opening NARRATIVE was very hypnotic back in 1963. Now with DIGITAL SIGNALS they are very controlling. Welcome into the realm of BIG BROTHER.
It depends. If you need it in a close future is sad. But Im just taking notes and getting ready for when this happens. Since it has turned into a matter of when not if
Hi Jessica, I am currently being falsely accused and I could face up to 11 years in prison if I'm found guilty in a few months. I have sexually charged texts with the girl that's accusing me and she also sent me nudes. I'm not sure if that will be enough to get me out of my mess. I have always asked her for permission when touching her. I'm just so lost right now.
@@user-qy6tu9ip9v This is how it goes down, if you are a high value man and you decide to break up with a low value w0m@n, or even reject a low value w0m@n, She feels that she is losing an asset that could have guaranteed her future financial, emotional and social acceptance security. That anguish in h£r mind, drives h£r insane. That's when sh£ eventually decides on false r@p£ allegations. The best you can do is to shut up and acquire the services of a lawyer to talk on your behalf. If you are asked why you are silent by the police or prosecutor, say you are exercising your right to remain silent to avoid accidentally 1ncrimin@ting yourself. Don't cave in if the prosecutor threatens decades in prison or even the De@th sentence. Start gathering all the evidence you can possibly get and also gather enough funds for paying your lawyers.
@@dwightthomas1426 turn those suicidal thoughts to something more useful. What will ending yourself accomplish? Use that energy to instead end your accuser!
When I was 17 I was accused of sexual assault. All my friends left me. There was no trial. I attempted suicide, almost went into a coma. My father hit me while drunk for a whole two weeks after I got out of the hospital. I still go to the school with the girl that accused me. That is my story.
@@deeznuts-rg9kp Personally, I was falsely accused of sexual harassment when I was in college! The thing is that I was studying to be an English teacher. I had the bad habit of complimenting women's physical appearance in an effort to be nice, but it backfired on me. Plus I thought that I had become friends with the American teacher in my second school internship. The other thing is that my university chose me to give the FCE exam , so I needed to practice my English as much as possible. The other thing that happened is that my mom, told me to bring the American teacher of English over to our house, because my mom had also lived in a foreign country (Greece) for 25 years! So, my mom was gonna treat her good, because of that! And I also asked the American teacher out, not a date, but as friends, because I wanted to practice my English no1 because I love the English language and no 2 because I wanted to practice for the FCE exam! Additionally, I was totally stupid, because I made a comment about liking blondes and the American teacher happened to be blonde! But I didn't like sexually, nor romantically anyone from that school! I remember that they would smile at me, and nobody told me that they had a problem with me! If they had told me, believe me, I woulda changed my attitude right there on the spot! Because a couple of my female friends had asked me to quit complimenting them! And I didn't like them either, sexually, nor romantically, I was just trying to be a gentleman, but since they asked me to stop complimenting them, I did exactly that! The people from the school went behind my back, and they metood me big-time! Everything was a lie, because that was not my intention! I'm not a sexual predator or anythying like that! But, I still passed that course and finished college! But I quit trusting women that I don't know! I see them as potential enemies! For example, at checkout lines, in supermarkets, I prefer to be served by male cashiers! I was accused of something that I didn't do but it backfired on them because I still passed the course and finished college with excellent grades! And I learned my lesson the hard way! Don't compliment women, especially in professional settings! Not every woman is a snake in the grass but you never know!
@@deeznuts-rg9kp Did you have to go to court over this or was it a rumor she made up? I'd talk to everybody about it and tell them you will take a lie detector test to prove your innocence. People will say polygraphs are not admissible in court but in our case we did it and passed causing 'reasonable doubt.' Please let me know what I can do to help you. Good luck and don't let that girl get you down. If it's just a rumor, you cam squash it down. If she is saying it and getting the cops and the courts involved, hire a defence attorney and tell them you are willing to take a lie detector test to clear your name. Wishing you the best of luck!
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
I’m going through this right now. It’s the worst thing I’ve ever experienced. They even ‘outed’ me publically on Instagram 8 months into the investigation saying I’m all sorts of things and warning the public. A desperate last ditch attempt I assume. But it was seen by hundreds of people and i lost so much. Fortunately, when I tell people and show them the proof they ALL believe me. But I’m 9 months in. No charge. I’ve been cancelled. Lost my savings. I’m not an alcoholic. I do everything I can in order to get out of my mind. I have to work 6 days a week now in order to afford life. This is one of the worst things that can happen to a man. I’m in therapy. I’m scared when there’s a knock on my door.
Your not alone, lots of people I know have had this done to them. What’s even worse is when your close friends turn against you even though you’ve never given them a reason to believe you were what they alleged. The hardest part in my opinion is accepting that no matter what you say there will be some that still won’t believe you. In your opinion though what’s the best way to combat the me too movement
It’s been a year and a half. My solicitor expects another 6months before a decision is made. It’s going to the CPS which is normal in these things and they will have to decide what to do. I’m trying to keep sane but obviously it’s not been hard. I’m just lucky I have so many people in my corner. Hopefully it will go away soon and I can rebuild
@@aaronb6929 I hope you can stay strong, did your solicitor say what are the odds it will lead to a charge? there were 52,210 rapes recorded by police in England and Wales in 2020, only 843 resulted in a charge or a summons - a rate of 1.6%. What sort of time would you be looking at?
Agree with commenter below, spot on excellent advice here. A neighbor first accused me of sexual abuse of my daughter to CPS. That failed. The neighbor then went to the police claiming sexual abuse of her daughter. Found a good criminal defense attorney. He immediately arranged for a private polygraph. Passed with flying colors. That combined with inconsistencies of the two reports lead to dismissal in chambers before the hearing.
Wait a polygraph what the hell that's not even something that you can be used in the court of law so it's kind of pointless once it reaches to the courts
@@krislarsen6546 Polygraphs can be used as supplementary evidence but cannot be used as a focal point or key piece of evidence, this is because they are highly reliable, but not foolproof.
That woman should get the acts for being a piece of shit she should be forced to read a lengthy apology letter explain how much of a piece of shit she is in society and even her own child is better off without her and her whole legacy should be centered around that she is a lying piece of shit and they even humanity is better off without her before they give her the ax
There is actually a movie I saw once about a guy who was wrongly convicted of rape and arranged to constantly have himself video taped by one or more cameras at all times, even when sleeping for years after so that he could always prove where he was and what he was doing if ever accused again. The mindset that you're guilty until proven innocent any time a woman or a kid says you did something to them is jacked up.
@@bohemoth1 This. If you make money, keep it quiet. You don't understand how fast even family will be digging in your pockets. Just solid advice regardless of anything else. Keep your life quiet, and that way they can't use your words against you. A master manipulator will use pieces of reality and weave it into a fabrication.
I was friends for several months with a married woman who crossed the line like maybe 3 times and she accused me of being the aggressive one when it was her. Took me 4 years to get her to stop contacting me. Really thought she might pull some legal bs when I blocked her from contacting me. As she was bad news.
It is bro, I am currently being falsely accused and I could face up to 11 years in prison if I'm found guilty in a few months. I have sexually charged texts with the girl that's accusing me and she also sent me nudes. I'm not sure if that will be enough to get me out of my mess. I have always asked her for permission when touching her. I'm just so lost right now.
@@user-qy6tu9ip9vI feel your pain. To know you didn’t do something because a girl is jealous is the worst thing in the world. Can you update me? Are you in prison? What happened? What is happening? I’ve been dealing with a crazy person for 6 months as well. In Canada you are charged instantly even if you didn’t do it. So sad
i’m 14 , the false accusation happened to me when i was 12 and it still hits me to the gut , my story had multiple amounts of proof and people still bashed me down for it..
How are things now? My son has been falsely accused. The girl in question has done this before. I can’t believe how easy it is for boys and men to be accused of these things. My son is 15 years old.
Carter Enos I am so sorry to hear that. How did everything go? Did the police convict you or did your accuser get in trouble for making false accusations?
In short, I kept my freedom but I lost that child. I'm so scared to go back that way and I'm definitely terrified of women with children. I want to be in his life so had it hurts but I don't want to risk my freedom again just because I want to be a great father. to this day, I don't understand why she/they would want to do this to a good man!
Omar Tucker So sorry to hear this! Your little boy will look for you. I know how badly it hurts to be separated from a child. I will pray that you and your boy will be reunited. Stay safe and be sure to look after yourself. There are so many cruel people in this toxic world but your time will come where you are happy and without this toxicity.
Yea but it happens and you better believe it’s painful and demoralizing and you need to be a real scumbag to put someone through it but people are mean and say and do things that are negative and collectivly people get braver the more support they get
Our governments are scumbags!!! They are the sexual Predators and always have been! They allow sexualizing our children and then sit back and watch the chaos they profit from!!!!!
My cousin has accused my step dad of touching her and if I didn’t know anything I’d 100% be taking her side and I’d probably beat the shit outta him but I know for a fact he is innocent because the night she said he did I was with him all night and she might be family but I’m not gonna let her ruin a innocent mans life but it’s shit cause now my little sister is been threaten to be taken away from my mum and him
I'm here because my brother-in-law who coaches and teaches at a high school was accused of sexual harassment by a student who wasn't even 1 of his students or team member . She just randomly showed up in his classroom after everybody in his class left . I don't want to go into too many details, but he and my sister ( his wife), kept putting off getting a lawyer because of how expensive lawyer's fees can be and because they thought it would blow over, since it looked like the principal who filed the allegations against my brother-in-law, ( notice how I said it was the principal, not the student or her family?), was just grasping at straws, trying to find something concrete to hold against him . They were so confident they would win the case, since he was innocent, but they were wrong . The went for the hearing yesterday and the principal had his lawyer there and my brother-in-law lost . It's tearing us up, because he had just 1 more month to go before he would get his official teaching liscense, but now not only did he lose the liscense, he lost his team he was coaching, he has this scandal on his record and his son who goes to that school and was on the team he was coaching is now going to face even more ridicule because of the case against his father . There were several things you mentioned in this clip that I wish my sister had known sooner . The first mistake they made was talking about it to their friends . The second was in not striking the iron while it was hot, by hiring a lawyer . They talked about the case to so many people they knew and they were so confident that he would be found innocent because he did nothing wrong that they weren't cautious enough . But the principal did some things too that were wrong . Even before he filed a case against my brother-in-law, he was airing out my brother-in-law's business at the baseball game to total strangers who had nothing to do with the case . I hate their going through this, and I've been having this sickening feeling ever since my sister told us about what they're going through and it just won't go away . I wish there was something they could do to overturn this case and restore my brother-in-law's credibility and integrity, but even if it were, the fact he was accused would still hang over his head . What do you do AFTER you've been accused of something like this ? How do you bounce back ? How are you supposed to act around other students, now that you're back in your teaching or coaching position ? It's a shame that someone could completely destroy your good name, your entire livelihood with just 1 false accusation . But, I guess if it could happen to someone as wholesome as my brother-in-law, it could happen to anybody .
They best tie a milestone around their necks and drowned themselves for harming one of God’s children! We all are children and it’s about time we became adults real fast! These monsters are coming for our children and you know it!! We all allowed this!!! Sheriff’s too allowed this and they will be accountable soon!!
I had a friend who’s wife walked into the police dept and handed them a disk containing child porn stating it was his. He called me and I told him the only thing he should say was his name and a request for an attorney nothing else. I knew him I knew he wouldn’t do this. Two years later after forensic examination of every device he ever owned and six months in jail they finally dismissed the charges. His life was ruined regardless. The disk had never been in his computer or any device he owned. His fingerprints were not on it. The only person who they could ever prove had the disk was his wife who was in the process of filing divorce. She got the kids, house ect. The detective in the case actually accused me of wrongdoing after pulling phone records and knowing he called me. I td him all I ever said was not to talk without an attorney, you either have a case or you don’t.
Why aren't things like this.... how to respond to any type of police encounters... taught in high school? I recall members from the local police department visiting our high school civics class and telling the students that the right thing to do is to always just cooperate and tell everything. They even said the police "are your best friends during any investigations.... who you can always trust telling the truth to... and only want to help you." I recall the officer who visited our classroom also said "if you meet the police halfway... then we will meet you halfway." This was another way of telling the students to just cooperate with the police during any type of investigation and everything will be "fine". As we all know now from watching these videos... that is 100% not true. The police should not be going out there to mislead the public.
Can you sue that person that started it all? Cuz normally it’s the third party involved paying people one or multiple to falsely do it and plant that seed in others head!
It's a civil suit at that point. Defamation of character, perjury, lost wages, slander, emotional distress, etc. The fines will add up, but more than likely the offender will try to settle out of court, or you can have the court mandate that their wages will be garnished to compensate for all fines incurred.
The best thing you can do is that Never ever be with a girl in a place alone . Trust no one . This is what I do ! And even I keep recording myself all the day sometime to avoid this . Time is too dangerous now
Dealing with a false sexual assault accusation. The girl had a boyfriend and came strong on to me. She said the next day as I took her to her car, that she does not know what she’s going to tell her boyfriend.
Bro, I am in the same situation. I am currently being falsely accused and I could face up to 11 years in prison if I'm found guilty in a few months. I have sexually charged texts with the girl that's accusing me and she also sent me nudes. I'm not sure if that will be enough to get me out of my mess. I have always asked her for permission when touching her. I'm just so lost right now.
@@user-qy6tu9ip9vbro I just got pass this same bs make sure u got a paid lawyer and make sure u didn’t give any statements to the cops they had sweating for a year
I was falsely accused and last week my case was thrown out of court. Keeping quiet and remembering as much as you can helps to defend yourself. Time was on my side 16months complete and it cost me over 20K (but there is even more good news coming so I cannot say to much at the moment). Please ask if you have any questions anyone, happy to advise.
Absolutely! Talking to the police without an attorney when you are accused of a crime is suicide! Everything you say will butchered, warped, and weaponized against you!
Question. If a cop or detective is questioning you, should you immediately ask for ANY lawyer…….or a certain KIND of lawyer…….or a lawyer they “ provide “……..or do you have time to run out, do your research, and then CHOOSE the proper one ? Thank you !
Question. If a cop or detective is questioning you, should you immediately ask for ANY lawyer…….or a certain KIND of lawyer…….or a lawyer they “ provide “……..or do you have time to run out, do your research, and then CHOOSE the proper one ? Thank you !
If you don’t like little kids then you are good. Just ignore those retards. I am also in a similar situation with this one kid at my school. What he says is bullshit even more so that he drinks underaged and he also attempts suicide for attention to shock people.
Mark said to me “I beat these guys (meaning the prosecutor) I like winning and I wanna win”…we won our case!!!… was looking at spending a long time away he got my case dismissed…thanks Mark🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
What do I do, I'm being falsely accused of very serious stuff. I live on disability in low income housing barely making 700 a month, which the majority goes to rent alone. I can't afford a lawyer and I think Chris Rock said it best in Lethal Weapon 4 "if you can't afford an attorney, we will provide you with the dumbest lawyer we can find"
I wish I had taken more aggressive actions 30 years ago when my sister made these false allegations. Know that her allegations were false, I thought it was kinder of me to let it go instead of aggressively confronting her and maybe causing her to have a nervous breakdown. And hoping for a reconciliation at a later time. Now that she is has passed, I am not allowed to attend her funeral and pay my respects .Her husband believed her lies and has banned me from attending. Other members of the family are attending and this has hurt me greatly. Which make me feel like they are disloyal to me and will not stand up for me. My wife doesn't want any of these siblings to ever come to our home again. Now this has caused a division in the family, and I am stuck as to what to do. I guess I am stuck with the consequences of playing the good guy now that my reputation is totally trashed. Even the elders in my church can't help me with her elders. Which shows that how ineffectual Priests , Pastors and Elders are about this topic. So playing the good Guy has long term consequences!
@@camron1067 I had absolutely no idea what to do, this never happened to me before. I just did nothing, I don't know how to handle it. I just hope and pray it never happens again.
@@yayger825 can I ask, was there anything you did that could have indicated to her that it was rape or sexual assault? Or was it deadass her specifically being a cunt to you I ask because I’ve been sexually assaulted & I don’t know if I should press charges - I asked him why he did what he did and he said he did it because he thought I wanted it. Simple mistake type shit. I don’t know if I should let him off the hook or not.
@@merkaatv7772Mine has been cleared since then thankfully, but I still haven’t regained faith. I wish you luck, I suggest you find someone to talk to. There’s a Reddit sub for this kinda stuff
@@merkaatv7772 it’s r/MensRights. Just make a post explaining your circumstances, and people will walk you through it and talk you through it through the replies and DMs. It’s basically like anonymous free therapy
What he's not addressing - When applying for a job 25 years later, you get asked "have you ever been arrested for a felony?". Note I said arrested not convicted, being an honest person you must answer yes even if the accusation were proven false. Job offer is withdrawn.
2:48. This is true. Back in ‘99 I tried internet dating and met a lady who was bipolar. And this happened to me. Don’t date crazy. That includes narcissists.
I agree! A long time ago, I was falsely accused by a crazy, vindictive chick in college! The campus cops called me in for an interview and I did the smart thing that this guy talks about - I kept my mouth shut and refused to answer any questions without an attorney present! It saved my rear-end. The cops didn't have any evidence against me other than her complaint and were forced to drop the issue. Never, ever talk to the police. They might not have a case against you but you can sure as hell give them one if you open your mouth and start talking.
you are far more likely to be raped than to be falsely accused. there is a lot of fear mongering surrounding this topic. this being one of your biggest fears is not grounded in reality
I mean seriously... Protect the victim They say.. but what if the victim is the man being accused? Nope... The only verdict for him is guilty never victim
What is your advice to someone who didn't know these things, but is now 8 years into a 50 year prison sentence for a false rape allegation? Appeals have all failed so far because "issues weren't properly preserved at trial". I had no money for a lawyer so I was stuck with an overworked public defender.
Polygraphs are sometimes inadmissible due to the fact that they are unreliable due to anxiety and lack thereof and this is seen with pathological liars, white collar criminals, psychopaths, sociopaths, and those with anxiety disorders. Nevertheless, you made a lot of excellent points. Perhaps you should make a video on polygraph reliability and use in court.
I don’t trust polygraph tests at all, I took one for a job (to get hired). I lied and passed, it works because you feel guilty about something or stressed or nervose… But if not, you’re good. Now what about the opposite and you are just all twisted up about being accused, you’ll look guilty as h3ll. By the way, what I led about was if I knew anyone in a gang? I grew up in a tough neighborhood, basically everyone I knew was in a gang.
In our case it was admissible in court and caused 'reasonable doubt.' The ex got one of my husband's daughter to say to DCFS workers that my husband raped her when she was two. We found out real quick that he was guilty before proven innocent. He requested the polygraph test and when he passed it, it was game over for his stupid ex-wife.
@@24Wynn I'm not sure what to do, I am currently being falsely accused and I could face up to 11 years in prison if I'm found guilty in a few months. I have sexually charged texts with the girl that's accusing me and she also sent me nudes. I'm not sure if that will be enough to get me out of my mess. I have always asked her for permission when touching her. I'm just so lost right now.
My ex girlfriend is falsely acusing me of sexually assaulting her. She told me during and after our intimate relationship "you gave me the best sex of my life". She told the police i was having sex with prostitutes and cutting their hair off and saving it to masturbate with. I cannot understate how psychologically damaging this situation is for me. She told me all the classical lies "i will always love you"... "i have dreams of you being the father of my children" then she went and told lies to the police. I am in the process of loosing my job. Everyone has been looking at me diffrently. I have had to be treated for mental health concerns. I am genuinely considering suicide as the only way to get this situation she has put me in. I cant afford a lawyer, and the one the military provides to me is essentially incompetent and unreachable. This woman has completely destroyed my life.
I failed rule #1 I was not in right state of mind and they made me sign a statement now I’m in contact with my lawyer and will figure out what happens soon
You need Jesus. He is the only one who can liberate you from this burden. I went to him and he showed mercy unto my case. Dont hesitate. Go to God and invite him into your case. See my post above.
Ok if you see this let me share ny situation with you. "A Wichita Falls man accused of sexually assaulting a child has been booked into the Wichita County Jail. Christopher Martin Serna was booked on April 13 for Aggravated Sexual Assault. According to his arrest warrant, Serna was a friend of the victim’s mother and he would often help take care of her children. Serna stated during an interview that he has bathed the children on multiple occasions. In an interview with the WFPD, Serna denied the allegations and stated he believes the victim was being coached. The victim told family members and later forensic interviewers of encounters with Serna that led to him being charged. He remains in the Wichita County Jail on a $100,000 bond." This is my father and he has been accused of such a crime. I have been a witness when this so called "crime " happened but I know this is false because I was there. My dad is slowly losing himself waiting for his lawyers and the state of TX is against him. He plans on probably selling the house to pay his bond. And now... In afraid I won't be able to help him get out of this... Someone tell me what I should do.
So many good advices even for different foreign court systems. I reccommend to sue if aquitted and can afford it, hit them back, give them a share of the hell you had to go through. Most of them will surrender in their attorney's office ...
Remember to stay silent when arrested until an attorney is present especially when you clearly know you’re innocent for the crime whether it’s a false accusation, unintentionally committed a crime, or self defense etc. Bottom line, stay quiet until an attorney is present! Stay safe out there.
im not sure if anyone is gonna be in this comment section who might be able to help but im in a situation where a girl and me hooked up at a college party and she was originally there with another guy, we started texting behind his back and ended up together at the end of the night, turns out she was not my type and the way she acted while we were together really made me uncomfortable. on top of this she was very sure of herself and kept claiming she was hot. after we finished i suppose i rejected her in a sense by being put off by her personality and i went up to sleep in my own bed, the next morning i walk to work and my friends start texting me asking what i did? i thought they were just mad i got together with the girl another guy brought but, the girl was actually claiming that it was unconsensual. that night im brought to the station by a detective and a cop, i just tell them the whole truth and they are waiting to get ahold of our text conversation (i regretfully blocked her after we hooked up because of how uncomfortable she made me) and i am waiting on a polygram that i am eager to take. im just a college kid who doesn't do anything, doesn't go out, looks forward to bowling night every week, and has very few friends. i am also just about to graduate and have a very good job lined up after school. i've had to tell my mother what happened and soon i'll have to tell my father and everything is just not going well right now. after i was accused ive slept maybe 3-4 hours a night and eat once a day because i forced myself to. Really all i can do atm is wait until the detectives make a decision about whos telling the truth and then it'll go from there, my name will be in the paper and i might lose my job opportunity and i don't know what to do. i'm telling the truth to the detectives and cops but anything could happen and i just can't live the rest of my life not being able to get a decent job and being made fun of for something not only did i not do, but something i could never do. i don't even kill flies if i see them i couldn't do anything like this to another human being. i don't have anyone to talk to and now my mom soon to be my dad will also be worrying for the next couple months when everything pans out. thank you if you've read this and pls if you have any tips i'd love some help right now
Thank you so much for this video. Helpful and much appreciated. You are very knowledgeable. My son is facing charges because of false rape accusations in Taiwan from a woman that is asking for money already to get charges dropped or sentence reduced. Which to me seems like extortion and reporting a fake crime. We have been search for an excellent lawyer there, but having problems because of the language barrier and lawyers seem to handle everything from business law to criminal to estate under one roof. Would love to find someone that specializes like you said would be best. Do you have any lawyer recommendations for Taiwan please?
In Pennsylvania , if you are acused . The acuser is first to be heard and the defendant is not allowed to rebut . All constitutional rights are suspended .
What happens when you do talk initially but not after? It's case specific I'm sure, but what if you talk to the detective in the beginning and a couple months later he sends a warrant for your arrest based on what evidence has been established?
Never talk to the police ever!!!! The prosecutors can twist your words. It doesn't matter if you're telling the truth, whether if you're guilty or not guilty it will be resolved in court never talk to prosecutors police friends or anybody about your case hope this is advice helped
Would have been better if the 5 things were summarised at the end of the video and in the details below the video. For the record, the 5 things are: 1. SHUT UP. 2. Hire an attorney, who specialises in this field. 3. Immediately establish a timeline, now, whilst it’s freshest in your mind. 4. Talk to your lawyer about testing. 5. Compose a list of witnesses, now.
What if the accusation is from 6-8 ears ago (when the alleged victim was a small child) & the grand jury indicted solely based on this person's accusation? Asking for a friend
I’m 14 being accused by a 16-17 year old claiming I commiting an act upon her at 7 she has two photo la of me she lives liek 2-3 states down I’ve never met her in my life and accused me out of the blue and is saying if I don’t pay her a certain amount she’ll send to all schools in my state which is above 2k idk if I should be worried because it’s defamation of characters like ransom but also she lives far away I would have been 4-5 what do I do it’s over Snapchat I’m scared
5:08 Probably the best point you make is how anything your attorney says doesn’t count as an admission. It might have been good to make that point earlier in the video.
Someone very close to me is going through something similar and I want some tips and help. And I would like to know if there is any way that we can get the word out there to help other kids to stay away from this type of females.
What if you dont have money for a lawyer because the family accusing you already took thousands in the form of rent payments, free wedding gifts, (I roomed with her and her bigger husband) stolen car with a forged signature of you, etc? These past two years were a nightmare for me. The allegations were for stalking and fearing for her life, not rape, but still... I lost 50 lbs from the stress and was confined to a wheelchair til I gained my strength back. In my case, she stepped down when I mailed their own words to them exposing how careless their conspiracy attempt was, but if she hadn't, I would have lost by default. It was 5 vs 1, and I blocked her, not the other way as they claimed. The court didnt even serve me properly, yet expected me to travel 1600 miles cross country and appear in person. That wasnt possible. I changed my name, address, phone number, and deleted my social media, but I got "voluntarily involuntarily" committed looking for an attorney because I was seen as delusional, and no one would even LET me show them my tangible evidence and surveillence of her ARMY dad knocking at my door with guns and 2 witnesses present, 3 days after leaving a death threat on my newly changed recorded number (how did he get it?) The doctors tried to lie to keep me more than 2 weeks, but I gathered 3 witnesses and my surveillance (contradicting the police's petition) and they decided to discharge me. I was broke, bullied by the people who were supposed to help, withheld from my jobs, withheld from rent payments, and assumed by everyone to be guilty even though I'm a voluntary celibate virgin. It's all over now, as she chose not to attend her own case after she saw the evidence, but... what if it happens again? I... dont want to even talk to anyone new anymore, male or female. I'm scared to even post things online. I... hate the concept of sex. For my own safety, I dont even want to admit female anatomy is real because... well, I've never seen an undressed woman in person. How do I know they arent just special effects like in the movies? See, I know that sounds nuts... but what it someone going to do to prove me wrong? Strip in front of me? Nobody's that desperate, and I dont know any better otherwise. I refuse to want to know. Life experience has taught me that sex is 100% bad, and even things that sound good, backfire later with a guaranteed success rate. Its safer to just avoid it. To the people who ask why I didnt sue anyway... even if I had the money, my brain was too exhausted from this drama to even want to bother. It wasnt worth it. I was burnt out.
@@strnglhld Because she claimed intimacy between us on the petition, which was false. She also told the judge I groped her, put my hand on her leg, threatened her, and trespassed on the property, all none of which ever happened. She claimed she told me to stop, but when I pressed her on what specifically was said, she couldn't come up with an answer. I played a pre-recorded video of myself outlining the whole scenario with evidence overlayed proving at least 8 of her claims to be lies, as well as showing a screenshot of her chat history admitting to forgery, and the judge smiled from ear to ear the entire time. Especially when she claimed she had an active Restraining Order against me already, disproven by the paper I'd provided the judge stating the "case was dismissed without prejudice." I won't know the judge's verdict until it's mailed to me, but I have a good feeling about it. (After being royally embarrassed in the courtroom by the defendant's video) Judge: Does the Plaintiff have any questions for the Defendant? Plaintiff: (sheepishly) No, your honor.
Men should team up and take care of the women who lie about being accosted. I am not saying the guy who says they didn't do it should be able to pass a lie detector test and so should the woman. If either can't.. That person should be then held accountable off record and away from the authorities. Who wouldn't want that? If you were the woman and it really happened, wouldn't you wan the guy t get what is coming to him? If you were the guy wouldn't you wan to be vindicated and have the gal deal with her punishment as well? Yep, it it the honest thing to do. Women think they have the power and the courts are allowing them to screw with any man who upsets them. what happens to them when the guy is found innocent? Nothing. Nothing happens to them.
@Teto Kasame equality should exist but in situations like this its thrown out the window. 95 percent of the time they believe the woman over the man in and out of court. Which makes it extremely difficult for the man to defend himself when he’s innocent. what’s even worse is now we’re adopting this ideology of believing all women even when there Anonymous accusations with no substantial evidence. So sexism exists on your side as well assuming your a woman. Another thing is there’s hardly any backlash when the woman is found lying. In the meantime an innocent man does time and is most likely assaulted both sexually, verbally and with blades. And when they are found innocent no one rides for them when like they do for women. They fake care and comment it’s wrong but there’s hardly an action or solidarity after that. We need to bring back due process, get rid of these shitty ideology’s and keep everyone accountable until enough evidence tips the scales
1st thing you should do is gather evidence after you get released from jail for your trial. When it comes and you are found not guilty then the next step is to file a civil lawsuit for slander/defamation. You should sue her for everything she's got and call for criminal charges on her for filing a false report (there should even be made a law that makes it illegal to falsely report a sexual crime and it should be a felony that results in several years in prison). This is the only way to be made whole and if anyone else spreads that lie sue them as well. Men need to start standing up to women and hold them accountable by any means necessary.
I appreciate your advice on going to a lawyer early, but what should I do if no lawyer wants to talk to me? I was accused by an ex-girlfriend of sexual assault because I did not want to get back into an abusive relationship with her after she broke up with me. So what she did was she called the police, filed a sexual assault complaint against me, and told the police to start investigating, but she does not want to take any legal actions for now. She then contacted me and used this as a way to blackmail me for the next 2 years. During the early days, she would tell me to get back into a relationship with her and that if I get back into a relationship with her, she will not take any more actions. After refusing her every time she made those requests, she then switched to asking me for monetary compensation because I have "hurt her feelings". I tried to contact a lawyer ASAP to protect myself, but all the criminal defense lawyers I've talked to have told me 'There's nothing we can do for now since you have not been charged or contacted by the police yet. We need you to get charged and see the paperwork from the police first, at this stage we don't even know if you are going to get charged or not.' She finally told the police to press the charges 2 years later because she saw no hope of getting back into a relationship with me, and all of her later relationships were short-lived failures. I was only able to get a lawyer to talk to me when the police finally told me I am under arrest. I am now stuck with pending sexual assault charges and quoted over $100k in legal fees. I feel like some of this damage could have been avoided if a lawyer had talked to me earlier and advised me on how to prepare for the incoming charges, so I could collect the type of evidence needed to convince the police to drop the charges before the court hearings. The 100k legal fee, the long wait for the court process, the nightmare that I could get convicted, and the damage to my job and reputation really hurts.
I have a friend, who has been falsely accused, more than 30 years ago, for child molestation. He has all the witnesses statements statements now but no PSI reports, which are sealed. How do you fix this?
Unfortunately, 80% of those falsely accused of rape do not have the resources to hire a competent lawyer such as yourself, especially when we are being falsely accused.
To late for me since no stronger proof of my innocence could be obtained so now I'm suffering like millions of others who took a plea because we knew we couldn't win at a jury trial. Judge me as you will but I know I'm still innocent and it's taking a lot to not follow the law of majority rules.
@@yanitachill5707 I'm just serving my time still knowing I'm innocent yet now have to go thru my life being treated like millions of others. Polygraph tests, insane fees, and everything else. It's all cruel over something i didn't do nor know I had. Yet my defense basically is made worthless by research telling me that cases like mine have no defense. All I can do is pray, say I'm sorry for existing, and take one day at a time while tryimg not to follow the law of majority rules.
@@justinrabbitt9492 in genesis Joseph was also falsely accused of a sexual assault that he didn’t commit, and he was imprisoned so this has been happening since biblical times. I understand your struggle though, sexual assault cases are the only ones that don’t require much evidence. It’s all about who’s word do they believe. What can we do on the outside in your opinion to combat this me too
@@yanitachill5707 mine is non violent non physical offense. I didn't know the evidence was there and my words while being interrogated being used as an admission of guilt when I was having a mental breakdown with all that's happened. Before a jury trial was eben planned or anything else done I was judged as guilty by public opinion so no jury would ever believe my innocence with my defense of being asleep.
@@justinrabbitt9492 I understand, if you had a lawyer to coach you it would have been different. Just know your not alone, many will come for you, but you must stand your ground. In and outside, just don’t lose hope g.
Sounds really expensive. What if all you can get is a public defender? Do they have investigators? And doesn't the prosecution have to reveal if the story doesn't check out with other witnesses?
The chief in my town got my boyfriend for false accusation and it make us mad bc the chief tried say my bf rape me and he didnt and i knew my bf for 12 yrs and he wouldnt hurt me at all and I feel like the case ain't gonna be over bc his lawyer isn't tell him anything and Doug(my bf)didn't do nothing wrong to me and I wish ppl listen to me bout it bc the cops in my area are team up with the chief of the police
It is very odd that there is no consequences for women who lie. If it is a flagrant lie - the man can prove he was somewhere else for example, clearly this lie is an assault and the woman will be charged with assault. There SHOULD be equality in CONSEQUENCES. You want to be equal? It’s your turn to go to jail. The present system encourages lying.
most men i know have gone through such experience , and yet no advocacy for millions of innocent men, and here is the attorney telling us shut up and bow down to women. fuck this society!
No, he is telling you to remain silent to protect you. If you are ever falsely accused, you must not speak to the police. Everything you say will be butchered, warped, and used against you. They might not have a case against you but you can sure as hell give them one if you open your mouth and start talking,. Don't ever give them ammo to use against you.
THANK YOU Mr SATAWA ,,, First to even acknowledge that this problem even exists ..... I would have never believed it can happen till it happened to my brother by his conniving fiance to make up with a settlement .....
What about minor on minor lying out of jealousy? Have a friend who was adopted and added to his adopted mothers will he was adopted at 10yo she has since passed away one of his siblings is accusing him of rape that supposedly happened when he was 11 years old is there any statutes or anything? The crime supposedly happened 21 years ago
What if after 22 months in jail your lawyer has never filed a single motion? What if after 22 months your lawyer has never had a conversation with you. What if you have never been given a single offer or ever seen a court room in 22 months? What if no one, not even a family member has helped or came to visit in 22 months? And what if your lawyer goes to work for CPS after your case is plea bargained and you are now a sex offender? 24 months I signed for some 24 years ago and I am still paying for it every day. Like he said "keep your mouth shut" and maybe, just maybe, your family will be there for you. Mine still isn't because of the way people are. Every DAY!!!
This stuff it's scary, I wish I could carry a hidden device video taping and recording 24-7. So that when miss liar gives a exact date and account of events, you produce the evidence. But I know it's impossible, that's why I said I wish I could. But it could be a good Idea not just for sexual allegations but others accusations as well.
You Sir are spot on. A friend was accused. I had to do the leg work for him. He was a wreak. After two years it was over and he was cleared. He was looking at 40 years. These women need to be prosecuted. Final point is don't sit on your arse. Work with the attorney as a team.
In this backward degraded society, women have been by the balls, and they know it. I don't blame them as it is human nature to take advantage of situations, however unfair.
I know someone going through a similar situation. What we're the main things that helped your friends case? If you don't mind me asking
@@naomidurrence
I got my friend a lawyer from a prestigious law firm and I paid for it. Because I knew Anthony would never abuse a child. I paid all of his legal expenses including private investigators and medical doctors who were Pathologists to check his DNA against the alleged victim's claims. With the absence of DNA we petitioned the court for the victim to be examined by our doctors. No signs of penetration were found. It was that medical report that caused the victim to recant his story and expose the FEDS. Unfortunately the District Court judge sealed the records.
I have absolutely no faith in the American Criminal Justice System non whatsoever. It's another reason why I left the UNITED STATES. I really regret serving this country.
@@davidh7799 I'm sorry, but that's not taking advantage of a situation, that's blatantly lying and filing false claims to wrongfully accuse someone of something they didn't do.
@@bohemoth1 I’m a criminal defense attorney. Your comments are understandable. I’ve been able to get better deals for my clients largely, I believe, because I’ve been able to build up a relationship with the prosecutor. They just don’t want to fight sometimes.
But the whole system stinks of “if you have the money, you get better justice.” It cheapens the word, frankly.
I’m consulting with people who have been accused. You can’t make the money you otherwise would giving full representation, but it’s a little easier to live as a human being.
This disease in the system is spreading all over the world. I’m taking to lawyers in India, Europe, Australia…woke-ism has taken over the narrative completely.
Falsely accusing someone of sexual assault should result in 20 years in prison.
Should be lifetime in prison since the life of the person they're accusing is forever ruined
@@moonycorn4914 it's very clear you're not sure so don't
It won’t, to many people are virtual signalist, and will says it attacks actual survivors lol
In the meantime a dude who served 16 years for false accusations of rape just was released.
The woman who had made the lovely bones handpicked him out in 1981.
And all he got from her was an I’m sorry.
Can you imagine the abuse and ridicule behind bars the he received??
That’s why it’s bogus when they bring up that 10 to present of are sex as accusations are false bs.
People are barley finding out that their innocent today
@@plurallove Horrifying advice.
@@moonycorn4914 First, look into what constitutes consent. If you feel that any of these boundaries have been crossed, proceed with charges if you are open to it. Do know that people will try to gaslight you into believing that what happened to you either did not happen or it wasn't as bad as you thought. This is a common way survivors are treated. Look into consent, listen to your gut, don't let people gaslight you and move accordingly. Good luck with everything.
A long time ago, I was falsely accused by a crazy, vindictive chick in college! The campus cops called me in for an interview and I did the smart thing that this guy talks about - I kept my mouth shut and refused to answer any questions without an attorney present! It saved my rear-end. The cops didn't have any evidence against me other than her complaint and were forced to drop the issue. Never, ever talk to the police. They might not have a case against you but you can sure as hell give them one if you open your mouth and start talking.
Depending on what she is complaining about, her statements are considered evidence and can lead to charges. Evidence of her motives to fabricate can be the real game changer.
Over the years I've learned that doesn't matter, if you're called down to the police, take a lawyer. The lawyer isn't an admission of guilt like it once was. You are protecting yourself from something you don't understand.
When it comes to being accused of a sexual offense, automatically in the eyes of law ENFORCEMENT officers and PROSECUTORS YOU ARE GUILTY. In most cases even the judge thinks that you are GUILTY. The law enforcement officers will go around your community and literally destroy your reputation with vague questions about you.
And the most horrible thing about it is that even when you are cleared of all charges and accusations, the shadow of guilt hangs over you in your community. Your reputation is tarnished forever. I know that personally because a friend of mine killed himself after he was found not guilty of being a pedophile. But during the trial the damage was done. It left lots of innuendos about him. He walked out of the courthouse and purchased two packs of BIC DISPOSABLE RAZORS. Then he went to a hotel. Now this was before cellphones were popular. I was in court with him and I knew he was really shaken by the charges which really was an extortion plot against him.
In the hotel room he disassembled all of the plastic from the razors. He wrote on a big sign board that he hung around his neck. """THANK YOU JURY, I AM NOT GUILTY. BUT IN THE EYES OF EVERYONE ELSE THEY HAVE CONVICTED ME."""
He tied the bedsheets to a sofa leg. He broke out the window. He wrapped the bedsheet around his neck. He stood on the ledge and swallowed the razor blades and then he jumped off the ledge from the 7th floor. His body was hanging out over the main entrance to the hotel.
The boy who accused him testified at the trial under aggressive cross examination by his lawyer that Police and the FEDS concocted the story and paid him to make the false accusations.
Come to find out that the feds had made a COMPLETELY FALSE DOSSIER ON HIM. It was in every law ENFORCEMENT database.
Later in my life I got my degree in FORENSIC LINGUISTICS and I then read a book written by David Balducci entitled THE WHOLE TRUTH. It was a FICTIONAL story that skirted reality. It exposed THE GRAND SCHEME OF PERCEPTION MANAGEMENT VIA THE MANIPULATION OF LANGUAGE AND IMAGERY, VIDEO SEQUENCING AND DATA ANALYSIS.
My friend's SUICIDE was the most DRAMATIC THING EVER SEEN.I got the call and rushed to the hotel his body was still hanging from the ledge.
The autopsy report was a nightmare to read.
In my personal opinion ANY person who falsely accuses a person of sexual assault or a sex related offense should be shot.
I wonder why the feds went to such lengths to fuck him over?
@@matty7dream1
He had a friend who was a big time drug dealer. Even though he wasn't involved in drugs, the feds wanted him to get incriminating information about his friend. He refused to cooperate with the feds and the Police JOINT NARCOTICS TASKFORCE. So they threatened him for him to cooperate with the feds. He refused constantly. The Police caught this kid who was an arsonist. They told him that they would give him a break if he worked for them.
The way they did it was so convincing. But the defense attorneys destroyed the prosecutor's case.
My friend was held in jail without bail. They say that being a pedophile in jail is a death sentence. I really don't know what happened to him in jail. But when he was found not guilty. He looked at the prosecutor and gave them a very weird smile. I was on the Expressway when I got the call that he killed himself. I got to the scene before the medical Examiner so his body was still hanging out with hotel window. This all happened in the 1970s. To this day I still have the image of him hanging from the hotel window and reading the autopsy report. I pray for him and his soul because the religious beliefs of most people is that if a person commits suicide their soul goes directly to hell.
So he is proof that people cannot trust the Police and other law ENFORCEMENT agencies. I don't even trust a judge or prosecutor. Especially THE UNITED STATES ATTORNEYS. The most strangest thing about this is that the Assistant UNITED STATES ATTORNEY who framed my friend later on became a UNITED STATES DISTRICT JUDGE!
So I ask you: In law enforcement and Criminal Justice System who can you really trust?
@benjamin Ryan
I pray for him and his soul every single day. Because they say if a person commits suicide their soul automatically goes to hell.
bohemoth1, your full of shit, LE do not get pleasure fucking over good people, they uncover the lies of accusers regularly… stop believing the news and TV
@@kelly8431
Hey you don't even know me to call me names.
My friend Anthony Paudau was falsely accused of molesting a child. He knew a THIRD MAJOR FACTOR in the drug trade. Even though he was not involved in the drug Trade his friend was involved and the FEDS wanted him to infiltrate his friend's organization which the feda called A CRIMINAL ENTERPRISE.
I'm still in contact with his family.
It has been and still is very traumatizing for me and his family. Even though it happened decades ago.
The fucking judge called him A CHICKEN HAWK! Back then I didn't know what a Chicken Hawk meant when applied to humans. The judge called him that during a hearing before the actual trial! When he was acquitted, he was completely destroyed.
You don't know how bad the impact of being falsely accused of a sexual crime has on an innocent person.
So please stop being a keyboard asshole and a TROLL.
Our government is really screwed up. I know personally because I am a BLACK retired Navy combat veteran who served in Vietnam all the way to the Persian Gulf War. Unfortunately for you in a few years you, and others WILL EXPERIENCE EXACTLY HOW CORRUPT OUR GOVERNMENT AND WESTERN COUNTRIES ARE. Especially if you were vaccinated. And if you are a devoutly religious person, you will be very disappointed that the alleged doctrine of salvation is an INSTRUMENT of oppression and suppression. You need to travel the world and experience other countries. Because what the media is feeding you is an illusion.
To understand what I am telling you. You should read the book entitled THE WHOLE TRUTH written by David Balducci. Though it is FICTIONAL it skirts the realm of reality. You will discover how the government, media and powerful people work together to destroy the common person. Because they are all about CONTROL.
So read that book. Because you are living a lie. You don't want to believe what other people tell you.
In AMERICA you are GUILTY until you use all of your resources and money to prove yourself innocent. In the meantime you will loose lots of so called friends. Some of your own family members will abandoned you if you are falsely accused of being a sexual offender which labels you as a PERVERT.
Yes your family and friends will call you a PERVERT before you are acquitted. Their doubts about you will eat your soul. Get out of the basement and see the world!
Ps
I don't even have a television. Got rid of it years ago. So DON'T TOUCH YOUR TELEVISION. THEY CONTROL THE TRANSMISSION. THEY CONTROL THE VERTICAL...now for the next hour sit QUIETLY as they CONTROL everything you see and hear from the MINDS INNER SANCTUM to the OUTER LIMITS. Those lines and the audio ASSOCIATED with the opening NARRATIVE was very hypnotic back in 1963. Now with DIGITAL SIGNALS they are very controlling. Welcome into the realm of BIG BROTHER.
"It's sad we have to watch this."
It depends. If you need it in a close future is sad. But Im just taking notes and getting ready for when this happens. Since it has turned into a matter of when not if
it's called studying or survival.
I wish I watched it earlier. I never thought it would happen to me
My son is going through this right now and it's been hell. The legal system is so corrupt
Hi Jessica, I am currently being falsely accused and I could face up to 11 years in prison if I'm found guilty in a few months. I have sexually charged texts with the girl that's accusing me and she also sent me nudes. I'm not sure if that will be enough to get me out of my mess. I have always asked her for permission when touching her. I'm just so lost right now.
@@user-qy6tu9ip9v This is how it goes down, if you are a high value man and you decide to break up with a low value w0m@n, or even reject a low value w0m@n, She feels that she is losing an asset that could have guaranteed her future financial, emotional and social acceptance security. That anguish in h£r mind, drives h£r insane. That's when sh£ eventually decides on false r@p£ allegations. The best you can do is to shut up and acquire the services of a lawyer to talk on your behalf. If you are asked why you are silent by the police or prosecutor, say you are exercising your right to remain silent to avoid accidentally 1ncrimin@ting yourself. Don't cave in if the prosecutor threatens decades in prison or even the De@th sentence. Start gathering all the evidence you can possibly get and also gather enough funds for paying your lawyers.
I just got out my case this girl lied on me it was bad I had suicidal thoughts
@@dwightthomas1426 turn those suicidal thoughts to something more useful. What will ending yourself accomplish? Use that energy to instead end your accuser!
@@user-qy6tu9ip9vag if she sent you Nudes then she's a fake
I tell my son: "she can be your worse nightmare. It is the easiest trouble to get into and the hardest to get out of! Leave theM hoEs aLoNe!!"
good. now tell him that 50% of the population now has type 1 herpes
@@mikelisteral7863 herpes won''t get you killed. Prison will.
The scary part is, he could do everything right and things can still go wrong.
When I was 17 I was accused of sexual assault. All my friends left me. There was no trial. I attempted suicide, almost went into a coma. My father hit me while drunk for a whole two weeks after I got out of the hospital. I still go to the school with the girl that accused me. That is my story.
Hope you are good
I'm 14 and a girl accused me of SA and even though I didn't do anything it still sticks with me for some reason. Any tips dude on how to get over this
Fuck that bitch I've been in a similar situation in my workspace
@@deeznuts-rg9kp Personally, I was falsely accused of sexual harassment when I was in college! The thing is that I was studying to be an English teacher. I had the bad habit of complimenting women's physical appearance in an effort to be nice, but it backfired on me. Plus I thought that I had become friends with the American teacher in my second school internship. The other thing is that my university chose me to give the FCE exam , so I needed to practice my English as much as possible. The other thing that happened is that my mom, told me to bring the American teacher of English over to our house, because my mom had also lived in a foreign country (Greece) for 25 years! So, my mom was gonna treat her good, because of that! And I also asked the American teacher out, not a date, but as friends, because I wanted to practice my English no1 because I love the English language and no 2 because I wanted to practice for the FCE exam! Additionally, I was totally stupid, because I made a comment about liking blondes and the American teacher happened to be blonde! But I didn't like sexually, nor romantically anyone from that school! I remember that they would smile at me, and nobody told me that they had a problem with me! If they had told me, believe me, I woulda changed my attitude right there on the spot! Because a couple of my female friends had asked me to quit complimenting them! And I didn't like them either, sexually, nor romantically, I was just trying to be a gentleman, but since they asked me to stop complimenting them, I did exactly that! The people from the school went behind my back, and they metood me big-time! Everything was a lie, because that was not my intention! I'm not a sexual predator or anythying like that! But, I still passed that course and finished college! But I quit trusting women that I don't know! I see them as potential enemies! For example, at checkout lines, in supermarkets, I prefer to be served by male cashiers! I was accused of something that I didn't do but it backfired on them because I still passed the course and finished college with excellent grades! And I learned my lesson the hard way! Don't compliment women, especially in professional settings! Not every woman is a snake in the grass but you never know!
@@deeznuts-rg9kp Did you have to go to court over this or was it a rumor she made up? I'd talk to everybody about it and tell them you will take a lie detector test to prove your innocence. People will say polygraphs are not admissible in court but in our case we did it and passed causing 'reasonable doubt.' Please let me know what I can do to help you. Good luck and don't let that girl get you down. If it's just a rumor, you cam squash it down. If she is saying it and getting the cops and the courts involved, hire a defence attorney and tell them you are willing to take a lie detector test to clear your name. Wishing you the best of luck!
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
The infuriating thing about these situations is that you only get an apology maybe when its found out that she's lying.
In our case, we never got an apology. It was more like, "Oh, it must have been a dream." Right. Thanks for fucking up our whole entire lives.
@@24Wynnmany women are witches. THEY just want control. It's absurd!
I’m going through this right now. It’s the worst thing I’ve ever experienced. They even ‘outed’ me publically on Instagram 8 months into the investigation saying I’m all sorts of things and warning the public. A desperate last ditch attempt I assume. But it was seen by hundreds of people and i lost so much. Fortunately, when I tell people and show them the proof they ALL believe me. But I’m 9 months in. No charge. I’ve been cancelled. Lost my savings. I’m not an alcoholic. I do everything I can in order to get out of my mind. I have to work 6 days a week now in order to afford life. This is one of the worst things that can happen to a man. I’m in therapy. I’m scared when there’s a knock on my door.
Your not alone, lots of people I know have had this done to them. What’s even worse is when your close friends turn against you even though you’ve never given them a reason to believe you were what they alleged.
The hardest part in my opinion is accepting that no matter what you say there will be some that still won’t believe you.
In your opinion though what’s the best way to combat the me too movement
How did it turn out?
How are you doing now?
It’s been a year and a half. My solicitor expects another 6months before a decision is made. It’s going to the CPS which is normal in these things and they will have to decide what to do. I’m trying to keep sane but obviously it’s not been hard. I’m just lucky I have so many people in my corner. Hopefully it will go away soon and I can rebuild
@@aaronb6929 I hope you can stay strong, did your solicitor say what are the odds it will lead to a charge? there were 52,210 rapes recorded by police in England and Wales in 2020, only 843 resulted in a charge or a summons - a rate of 1.6%. What sort of time would you be looking at?
Agree with commenter below, spot on excellent advice here.
A neighbor first accused me of sexual abuse of my daughter to CPS. That failed.
The neighbor then went to the police claiming sexual abuse of her daughter.
Found a good criminal defense attorney. He immediately arranged for a private polygraph. Passed with flying colors.
That combined with inconsistencies of the two reports lead to dismissal in chambers before the hearing.
If you don’t mind me asking, did you get arrested, or charged? And how did the polygraph help ur case?
Wait a polygraph what the hell that's not even something that you can be used in the court of law so it's kind of pointless once it reaches to the courts
@@krislarsen6546 Polygraphs can be used as supplementary evidence but cannot be used as a focal point or key piece of evidence, this is because they are highly reliable, but not foolproof.
That woman should get the acts for being a piece of shit she should be forced to read a lengthy apology letter explain how much of a piece of shit she is in society and even her own child is better off without her and her whole legacy should be centered around that she is a lying piece of shit and they even humanity is better off without her before they give her the ax
Sue them for defamation.
There is actually a movie I saw once about a guy who was wrongly convicted of rape and arranged to constantly have himself video taped by one or more cameras at all times, even when sleeping for years after so that he could always prove where he was and what he was doing if ever accused again. The mindset that you're guilty until proven innocent any time a woman or a kid says you did something to them is jacked up.
Ikr? We had to always have friends and family members over whenever we got my husband's visitation rights with his daughters.
#1. Don't use a thumbnail of you laughing as the still image.
In today world,Technology is every where,Humans R depressed & alone,Relationships R just for needs,We R happy from outside & sad from inside
should he be crying ? some people naturally smile
Lmao. Good advice.
@Chut j'existe pas I guess you don't understand sarcasm. That's okay. I shouldn't expect higher brain functions from you.
@@MrWilliam8004 if someone accuses you of rape , smile like this guy , what could go wrong ?😵
#1 don't be a unattractive man being accused by an attractive woman
Even worse if you’re poor
If you are a man who has hit the lottery KEEP QUIET ABOUT IT. Or if you all of a sudden come into a very large sum of money. Avoid their radar.
@@bohemoth1 Nah, announce that shit and after kitting out all rooms with audio and video recording, hump em and dump em. Accusations be damned.
@@bohemoth1 This. If you make money, keep it quiet. You don't understand how fast even family will be digging in your pockets.
Just solid advice regardless of anything else. Keep your life quiet, and that way they can't use your words against you. A master manipulator will use pieces of reality and weave it into a fabrication.
what about the reverse?
I was friends for several months with a married woman who crossed the line like maybe 3 times and she accused me of being the aggressive one when it was her. Took me 4 years to get her to stop contacting me. Really thought she might pull some legal bs when I blocked her from contacting me. As she was bad news.
Being falsely accused it beyond devastating.
It is bro, I am currently being falsely accused and I could face up to 11 years in prison if I'm found guilty in a few months. I have sexually charged texts with the girl that's accusing me and she also sent me nudes. I'm not sure if that will be enough to get me out of my mess. I have always asked her for permission when touching her. I'm just so lost right now.
@@user-qy6tu9ip9vhey men what happened everything turn out good ?
@@user-qy6tu9ip9vwhat happened you good
@@user-qy6tu9ip9vI feel your pain. To know you didn’t do something because a girl is jealous is the worst thing in the world. Can you update me? Are you in prison? What happened? What is happening? I’ve been dealing with a crazy person for 6 months as well. In Canada you are charged instantly even if you didn’t do it. So sad
@@user-qy6tu9ip9v how has it gone for you if you dont mind
i’m 14 , the false accusation happened to me when i was 12 and it still hits me to the gut , my story had multiple amounts of proof and people still bashed me down for it..
i feel you man. i’m 15 and my ex is accusing me for sexual assault which “happened” a long time ago
@@xyu_official77 im 15 and my ex is accusing me of sexual assault. i cant contact my parents about it because they are abusive and i feel trapped.
@@SaixanMobile I wish the best for you! 🙏
@@SaixanMobile
Have you found someone to talk to.
What do i do it;s happening to me now
thank you. I had no idea what to do.
How are things now?
My son has been falsely accused. The girl in question has done this before. I can’t believe how easy it is for boys and men to be accused of these things. My son is 15 years old.
Carter Enos I am so sorry to hear that.
How did everything go?
Did the police convict you or did your accuser get in trouble for making false accusations?
Carter Enos I’m sorry I didn’t see your reply earlier- how did it go?
I pray for your protection and justice!
In short, I kept my freedom but I lost that child. I'm so scared to go back that way and I'm definitely terrified of women with children. I want to be in his life so had it hurts but I don't want to risk my freedom again just because I want to be a great father. to this day, I don't understand why she/they would want to do this to a good man!
Omar Tucker So sorry to hear this!
Your little boy will look for you. I know how badly it hurts to be separated from a child.
I will pray that you and your boy will be reunited. Stay safe and be sure to look after yourself.
There are so many cruel people in this toxic world but your time will come where you are happy and without this toxicity.
As great as this video is, the fact it even needs to be made is just screwed up.
Yea but it happens and you better believe it’s painful and demoralizing and you need to be a real scumbag to put someone through it but people are mean and say and do things that are negative and collectivly people get braver the more support they get
@@casatrinity592 Right, I totally get that.
Our governments are scumbags!!! They are the sexual Predators and always have been! They allow sexualizing our children and then sit back and watch the chaos they profit from!!!!!
My cousin has accused my step dad of touching her and if I didn’t know anything I’d 100% be taking her side and I’d probably beat the shit outta him but I know for a fact he is innocent because the night she said he did I was with him all night and she might be family but I’m not gonna let her ruin a innocent mans life but it’s shit cause now my little sister is been threaten to be taken away from my mum and him
is it possible she got the dates mixed? Has she always hated your stepdad?
@@MrEvldreamr stop trying to make excuses for a womans horrendous, evil acts.
@@tomspreadbury2915 “believe all survivors” smh
@@tomspreadbury2915 facts
CPS IS THE PROBLEM!
I'm here because my brother-in-law who coaches and teaches at a high school was accused of sexual harassment by a student who wasn't even 1 of his students or team member . She just randomly showed up in his classroom after everybody in his class left . I don't want to go into too many details, but he and my sister ( his wife), kept putting off getting a lawyer because of how expensive lawyer's fees can be and because they thought it would blow over, since it looked like the principal who filed the allegations against my brother-in-law, ( notice how I said it was the principal, not the student or her family?), was just grasping at straws, trying to find something concrete to hold against him . They were so confident they would win the case, since he was innocent, but they were wrong . The went for the hearing yesterday and the principal had his lawyer there and my brother-in-law lost . It's tearing us up, because he had just 1 more month to go before he would get his official teaching liscense, but now not only did he lose the liscense, he lost his team he was coaching, he has this scandal on his record and his son who goes to that school and was on the team he was coaching is now going to face even more ridicule because of the case against his father . There were several things you mentioned in this clip that I wish my sister had known sooner . The first mistake they made was talking about it to their friends . The second was in not striking the iron while it was hot, by hiring a lawyer . They talked about the case to so many people they knew and they were so confident that he would be found innocent because he did nothing wrong that they weren't cautious enough . But the principal did some things too that were wrong . Even before he filed a case against my brother-in-law, he was airing out my brother-in-law's business at the baseball game to total strangers who had nothing to do with the case . I hate their going through this, and I've been having this sickening feeling ever since my sister told us about what they're going through and it just won't go away . I wish there was something they could do to overturn this case and restore my brother-in-law's credibility and integrity, but even if it were, the fact he was accused would still hang over his head . What do you do AFTER you've been accused of something like this ? How do you bounce back ? How are you supposed to act around other students, now that you're back in your teaching or coaching position ? It's a shame that someone could completely destroy your good name, your entire livelihood with just 1 false accusation . But, I guess if it could happen to someone as wholesome as my brother-in-law, it could happen to anybody .
They best tie a milestone around their necks and drowned themselves for harming one of God’s children! We all are children and it’s about time we became adults real fast! These monsters are coming for our children and you know it!! We all allowed this!!! Sheriff’s too allowed this and they will be accountable soon!!
Millstone but milestone might be heavier! Lol
I had a friend who’s wife walked into the police dept and handed them a disk containing child porn stating it was his. He called me and I told him the only thing he should say was his name and a request for an attorney nothing else. I knew him I knew he wouldn’t do this. Two years later after forensic examination of every device he ever owned and six months in jail they finally dismissed the charges. His life was ruined regardless. The disk had never been in his computer or any device he owned. His fingerprints were not on it. The only person who they could ever prove had the disk was his wife who was in the process of filing divorce. She got the kids, house ect. The detective in the case actually accused me of wrongdoing after pulling phone records and knowing he called me. I td him all I ever said was not to talk without an attorney, you either have a case or you don’t.
Why aren't things like this.... how to respond to any type of police encounters... taught in high school? I recall members from the local police department visiting our high school civics class and telling the students that the right thing to do is to always just cooperate and tell everything. They even said the police "are your best friends during any investigations.... who you can always trust telling the truth to... and only want to help you." I recall the officer who visited our classroom also said "if you meet the police halfway... then we will meet you halfway." This was another way of telling the students to just cooperate with the police during any type of investigation and everything will be "fine".
As we all know now from watching these videos... that is 100% not true. The police should not be going out there to mislead the public.
Is it any wonder that the law allows cops to lie to people during an investigation, but if you get caught lying to them it's another charge?
THE POLICE ARE THEIR GUARDSMEN NOT OURS! SHERIFFS BETTER RECOGNIZE WHO MADE WHO! Fast! They answer to US PERIOD! Marshalls also!!!
Can you sue that person that started it all? Cuz normally it’s the third party involved paying people one or multiple to falsely do it and plant that seed in others head!
You can sue the person but I don't think something major will happen to them. They might be in prison for some months .
It's a civil suit at that point. Defamation of character, perjury, lost wages, slander, emotional distress, etc. The fines will add up, but more than likely the offender will try to settle out of court, or you can have the court mandate that their wages will be garnished to compensate for all fines incurred.
Yea like CPS
I feel like a suspect now that I’ve clicked on this video.
haha, so true. Imagine being accused and police sees your YT history xD
Uh, if you are a male in this f’ed up society, you are already a suspect.
The best thing you can do is that Never ever be with a girl in a place alone . Trust no one . This is what I do ! And even I keep recording myself all the day sometime to avoid this . Time is too dangerous now
It's scary just how easy a crazy woman can ruin your life with no evidence at all!
I was falsely accused of a non consensual kiss in Japan and spent 15 days in jail being interrogated with no lawyer present.
Dealing with a false sexual assault accusation. The girl had a boyfriend and came strong on to me. She said the next day as I took her to her car, that she does not know what she’s going to tell her boyfriend.
Bro, I am in the same situation. I am currently being falsely accused and I could face up to 11 years in prison if I'm found guilty in a few months. I have sexually charged texts with the girl that's accusing me and she also sent me nudes. I'm not sure if that will be enough to get me out of my mess. I have always asked her for permission when touching her. I'm just so lost right now.
@@user-qy6tu9ip9vbro I just got pass this same bs make sure u got a paid lawyer and make sure u didn’t give any statements to the cops they had sweating for a year
I was falsely accused and last week my case was thrown out of court. Keeping quiet and remembering as much as you can helps to defend yourself. Time was on my side 16months complete and it cost me over 20K (but there is even more good news coming so I cannot say to much at the moment). Please ask if you have any questions anyone, happy to advise.
NEVER trust a cop/detective who is questioning you. ALWAYS ask for a lawyer right away.
Absolutely! Talking to the police without an attorney when you are accused of a crime is suicide! Everything you say will butchered, warped, and weaponized against you!
Question. If a cop or detective is questioning you, should you immediately ask for ANY lawyer…….or a certain KIND of lawyer…….or a lawyer they “ provide “……..or do you have time to run out, do your research, and then CHOOSE the proper one ? Thank you !
Question. If a cop or detective is questioning you, should you immediately ask for ANY lawyer…….or a certain KIND of lawyer…….or a lawyer they “ provide “……..or do you have time to run out, do your research, and then CHOOSE the proper one ? Thank you !
I am being called a P word.
I am a regular 14 year old. Think about it for a moment.
If you don’t like little kids then you are good. Just ignore those retards. I am also in a similar situation with this one kid at my school. What he says is bullshit even more so that he drinks underaged and he also attempts suicide for attention to shock people.
Mark said to me “I beat these guys (meaning the prosecutor) I like winning and I wanna win”…we won our case!!!… was looking at spending a long time away he got my case dismissed…thanks Mark🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
What do I do, I'm being falsely accused of very serious stuff. I live on disability in low income housing barely making 700 a month, which the majority goes to rent alone. I can't afford a lawyer and I think Chris Rock said it best in Lethal Weapon 4 "if you can't afford an attorney, we will provide you with the dumbest lawyer we can find"
This happens ALL the time.
BELIEVE THIS ADVICE !!!
I wish I had taken more aggressive actions 30 years ago when my sister made these false allegations. Know that her allegations were false, I thought it was kinder of me to let it go instead of aggressively confronting her and maybe causing her to have a nervous breakdown. And hoping for a reconciliation at a later time.
Now that she is has passed, I am not allowed to attend her funeral and pay my respects .Her husband believed her lies and has banned me from attending. Other members of the family are attending and this has hurt me greatly.
Which make me feel like they are disloyal to me and will not stand up for me. My wife doesn't want any of these siblings to ever come to our home again. Now this has caused a division in the family, and I am stuck as to what to do.
I guess I am stuck with the consequences of playing the good guy now that my reputation is totally trashed.
Even the elders in my church can't help me with her elders.
Which shows that how ineffectual Priests , Pastors and Elders are about this topic.
So playing the good Guy has long term consequences!
Excellent presentation. Tragically, often prosecutors just don’t care.
They really don't! They keep their jobs based upon how many convictions they get!
Facts! Too much power 😒
i appreciate the video i'm 14 and it's a possibility i could have to go through this soon
What’s happened so far? Can you tell me how you are doing?
I went through it at 18, never knew it would happen to me.
@@yayger825 how did u handle it?
@@camron1067 I had absolutely no idea what to do, this never happened to me before. I just did nothing, I don't know how to handle it. I just hope and pray it never happens again.
@@yayger825 can I ask, was there anything you did that could have indicated to her that it was rape or sexual assault? Or was it deadass her specifically being a cunt to you
I ask because I’ve been sexually assaulted & I don’t know if I should press charges - I asked him why he did what he did and he said he did it because he thought I wanted it. Simple mistake type shit. I don’t know if I should let him off the hook or not.
I’m currently dealing with a false sexual harassment case against me and it’s making me lose faith in humanity
Same bro
@@merkaatv7772Mine has been cleared since then thankfully, but I still haven’t regained faith. I wish you luck, I suggest you find someone to talk to. There’s a Reddit sub for this kinda stuff
@@eanderson9599 could you point me to the Reddit im only 19 and it’s taking everything in me to just get through the day now
@@merkaatv7772 it’s r/MensRights. Just make a post explaining your circumstances, and people will walk you through it and talk you through it through the replies and DMs. It’s basically like anonymous free therapy
Either Ive watched too many videos on topics like this, or YT is sending me a warning
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What he's not addressing -
When applying for a job 25 years later, you get asked "have you ever been arrested for a felony?". Note I said arrested not convicted, being an honest person you must answer yes even if the accusation were proven false. Job offer is withdrawn.
Typically, accusations of sexual abuse are not federal charges.
@@jt4369 My mistake, I meant felony.
@Metal Sign
Nonetheless, refusal to answer would result in - NO JOB OFFER. Guilty until proved innocent
2:48. This is true. Back in ‘99 I tried internet dating and met a lady who was bipolar. And this happened to me. Don’t date crazy. That includes narcissists.
I agree! A long time ago, I was falsely accused by a crazy, vindictive chick in college! The campus cops called me in for an interview and I did the smart thing that this guy talks about - I kept my mouth shut and refused to answer any questions without an attorney present! It saved my rear-end. The cops didn't have any evidence against me other than her complaint and were forced to drop the issue. Never, ever talk to the police. They might not have a case against you but you can sure as hell give them one if you open your mouth and start talking.
These laws need a rework, why do I have to take so many precautions if I’m innocent?
This is one of my biggest fears, I have considered recording to have undeniable evidence I'm innocent if someone does this to me.
Stoicism is your answer.
you are far more likely to be raped than to be falsely accused. there is a lot of fear mongering surrounding this topic. this being one of your biggest fears is not grounded in reality
First thing to do is have a farewell party to any savings.
Fr
An article regarding a bad date ruined a comedian's career forever even though no name were mentioned except for his in the whole article
I mean seriously... Protect the victim They say.. but what if the victim is the man being accused? Nope... The only verdict for him is guilty never victim
What is your advice to someone who didn't know these things, but is now 8 years into a 50 year prison sentence for a false rape allegation? Appeals have all failed so far because "issues weren't properly preserved at trial". I had no money for a lawyer so I was stuck with an overworked public defender.
@Bare Knuckle no he’s not in jail, how tf would he be commenting.
Unless he’s in possession of a cell phone
@@bigiron7547 maybe its someone they know?
There is no way you are looking at 50 years for one rape allegation. That's not even a thing. What else have you been charged with in addition?
@@SurvivorRevive you say this but I know someone who is currently serving 4 years to life in prison why is that ?
50 years? Most murdeės get out in less time.
Polygraphs are sometimes inadmissible due to the fact that they are unreliable due to anxiety and lack thereof and this is seen with pathological liars, white collar criminals, psychopaths, sociopaths, and those with anxiety disorders. Nevertheless, you made a lot of excellent points. Perhaps you should make a video on polygraph reliability and use in court.
Never take a polygraph especially if you’re innocent.
I don’t trust polygraph tests at all, I took one for a job (to get hired). I lied and passed, it works because you feel guilty about something or stressed or nervose… But if not, you’re good. Now what about the opposite and you are just all twisted up about being accused, you’ll look guilty as h3ll. By the way, what I led about was if I knew anyone in a gang? I grew up in a tough neighborhood, basically everyone I knew was in a gang.
In our case it was admissible in court and caused 'reasonable doubt.' The ex got one of my husband's daughter to say to DCFS workers that my husband raped her when she was two. We found out real quick that he was guilty before proven innocent. He requested the polygraph test and when he passed it, it was game over for his stupid ex-wife.
@@24Wynn I'm not sure what to do, I am currently being falsely accused and I could face up to 11 years in prison if I'm found guilty in a few months. I have sexually charged texts with the girl that's accusing me and she also sent me nudes. I'm not sure if that will be enough to get me out of my mess. I have always asked her for permission when touching her. I'm just so lost right now.
My ex girlfriend is falsely acusing me of sexually assaulting her. She told me during and after our intimate relationship "you gave me the best sex of my life". She told the police i was having sex with prostitutes and cutting their hair off and saving it to masturbate with.
I cannot understate how psychologically damaging this situation is for me. She told me all the classical lies "i will always love you"... "i have dreams of you being the father of my children" then she went and told lies to the police. I am in the process of loosing my job. Everyone has been looking at me diffrently. I have had to be treated for mental health concerns. I am genuinely considering suicide as the only way to get this situation she has put me in. I cant afford a lawyer, and the one the military provides to me is essentially incompetent and unreachable. This woman has completely destroyed my life.
Spend an equal time fighting. Don’t ever fall to her. Don’t let her win.
What a crazy witch! I hope she is out of your life for good now!
🙏🏽 God is control
Do it!
Update?
I’m going through it now! Need help!!
I failed rule #1 I was not in right state of mind and they made me sign a statement now I’m in contact with my lawyer and will figure out what happens soon
You need Jesus. He is the only one who can liberate you from this burden. I went to him and he showed mercy unto my case. Dont hesitate. Go to God and invite him into your case. See my post above.
@@shynnamillion4127 that’s good, if you don’t mind me asking did you beat ur case?
We’re you charged? And how did you fail #1
Soooo how ya doin
@@mazerunner7640 He may be done. No response in two months.
I would argue that, barring a very brutal violent assault, a false accusation is worse than the assault.
after man gets not guilty he should sue her
If the Duke lacrosse team had been convicted they were looking at years of rape in our great penitentiaries.
Ok if you see this let me share ny situation with you.
"A Wichita Falls man accused of sexually assaulting a child has been booked into the Wichita County Jail.
Christopher Martin Serna was booked on April 13 for Aggravated Sexual Assault.
According to his arrest warrant, Serna was a friend of the victim’s mother and he would often help take care of her children.
Serna stated during an interview that he has bathed the children on multiple occasions.
In an interview with the WFPD, Serna denied the allegations and stated he believes the victim was being coached.
The victim told family members and later forensic interviewers of encounters with Serna that led to him being charged.
He remains in the Wichita County Jail on a $100,000 bond."
This is my father and he has been accused of such a crime. I have been a witness when this so called "crime " happened but I know this is false because I was there. My dad is slowly losing himself waiting for his lawyers and the state of TX is against him. He plans on probably selling the house to pay his bond. And now... In afraid I won't be able to help him get out of this... Someone tell me what I should do.
So many good advices even for different foreign court systems. I reccommend to sue if aquitted and can afford it, hit them back, give them a share of the hell you had to go through. Most of them will surrender in their attorney's office ...
With what money?
Remember to stay silent when arrested until an attorney is present especially when you clearly know you’re innocent for the crime whether it’s a false accusation, unintentionally committed a crime, or self defense etc. Bottom line, stay quiet until an attorney is present! Stay safe out there.
im not sure if anyone is gonna be in this comment section who might be able to help but im in a situation where a girl and me hooked up at a college party and she was originally there with another guy, we started texting behind his back and ended up together at the end of the night, turns out she was not my type and the way she acted while we were together really made me uncomfortable. on top of this she was very sure of herself and kept claiming she was hot. after we finished i suppose i rejected her in a sense by being put off by her personality and i went up to sleep in my own bed, the next morning i walk to work and my friends start texting me asking what i did? i thought they were just mad i got together with the girl another guy brought but, the girl was actually claiming that it was unconsensual. that night im brought to the station by a detective and a cop, i just tell them the whole truth and they are waiting to get ahold of our text conversation (i regretfully blocked her after we hooked up because of how uncomfortable she made me) and i am waiting on a polygram that i am eager to take. im just a college kid who doesn't do anything, doesn't go out, looks forward to bowling night every week, and has very few friends. i am also just about to graduate and have a very good job lined up after school. i've had to tell my mother what happened and soon i'll have to tell my father and everything is just not going well right now. after i was accused ive slept maybe 3-4 hours a night and eat once a day because i forced myself to. Really all i can do atm is wait until the detectives make a decision about whos telling the truth and then it'll go from there, my name will be in the paper and i might lose my job opportunity and i don't know what to do. i'm telling the truth to the detectives and cops but anything could happen and i just can't live the rest of my life not being able to get a decent job and being made fun of for something not only did i not do, but something i could never do. i don't even kill flies if i see them i couldn't do anything like this to another human being. i don't have anyone to talk to and now my mom soon to be my dad will also be worrying for the next couple months when everything pans out. thank you if you've read this and pls if you have any tips i'd love some help right now
Can we get an update?
Thank you so much for this video. Helpful and much appreciated. You are very knowledgeable.
My son is facing charges because of false rape accusations in Taiwan from a woman that is asking for money already to get charges dropped or sentence reduced. Which to me seems like extortion and reporting a fake crime.
We have been search for an excellent lawyer there, but having problems because of the language barrier and lawyers seem to handle everything from business law to criminal to estate under one roof. Would love to find someone that specializes like you said would be best.
Do you have any lawyer recommendations for Taiwan please?
Been there I had to put up with someone who committed perjury against me 50years a go and has kept me unemployed for years.
In Pennsylvania , if you are acused . The acuser is first to be heard and the defendant is not allowed to rebut .
All constitutional rights are suspended .
im 14. i got school tomorrow. everyone thinks i did it. im scared
Are you okay now?
how’s everything going now? i just got accused of raping this girl in school
@@mjtoolit3200 did you actually rape her? What did you do that makes her think you rape her
@@Apple-ei1ms after we had sex, i couldn't ejaculate and she got mad at me because she thought her women part was trash
@@leostoltzfus5766 declare war on the entire family of the accuser and win.
What happens when you do talk initially but not after? It's case specific I'm sure, but what if you talk to the detective in the beginning and a couple months later he sends a warrant for your arrest based on what evidence has been established?
Never talk to the police ever!!!! The prosecutors can twist your words. It doesn't matter if you're telling the truth, whether if you're guilty or not guilty it will be resolved in court never talk to prosecutors police friends or anybody about your case hope this is advice helped
Would have been better if the 5 things were summarised at the end of the video and in the details below the video. For the record, the 5 things are:
1. SHUT UP.
2. Hire an attorney, who specialises in this field.
3. Immediately establish a timeline, now, whilst it’s freshest in your mind.
4. Talk to your lawyer about testing.
5. Compose a list of witnesses, now.
Loss of family, loss of friends. Loss of trust, your life is forever altered. The way people see you, is forever altered, damaged, corrupted.
What if the accusation is from 6-8 ears ago (when the alleged victim was a small child) & the grand jury indicted solely based on this person's accusation? Asking for a friend
I’m 14 being accused by a 16-17 year old claiming I commiting an act upon her at 7 she has two photo la of me she lives liek 2-3 states down I’ve never met her in my life and accused me out of the blue and is saying if I don’t pay her a certain amount she’ll send to all schools in my state which is above 2k idk if I should be worried because it’s defamation of characters like ransom but also she lives far away I would have been 4-5 what do I do it’s over Snapchat I’m scared
Ignore
Kids have higher chances of getting away
Polograph? Might as well present a crystal ball
Facts
People aren’t ready to hear our plight
5:08 Probably the best point you make is how anything your attorney says doesn’t count as an admission. It might have been good to make that point earlier in the video.
Someone very close to me is going through something similar and I want some tips and help. And I would like to know if there is any way that we can get the word out there to help other kids to stay away from this type of females.
I'm going through the same thing right now
What if you dont have money for a lawyer because the family accusing you already took thousands in the form of rent payments, free wedding gifts, (I roomed with her and her bigger husband) stolen car with a forged signature of you, etc? These past two years were a nightmare for me. The allegations were for stalking and fearing for her life, not rape, but still... I lost 50 lbs from the stress and was confined to a wheelchair til I gained my strength back.
In my case, she stepped down when I mailed their own words to them exposing how careless their conspiracy attempt was, but if she hadn't, I would have lost by default. It was 5 vs 1, and I blocked her, not the other way as they claimed. The court didnt even serve me properly, yet expected me to travel 1600 miles cross country and appear in person. That wasnt possible.
I changed my name, address, phone number, and deleted my social media, but I got "voluntarily involuntarily" committed looking for an attorney because I was seen as delusional, and no one would even LET me show them my tangible evidence and surveillence of her ARMY dad knocking at my door with guns and 2 witnesses present, 3 days after leaving a death threat on my newly changed recorded number (how did he get it?) The doctors tried to lie to keep me more than 2 weeks, but I gathered 3 witnesses and my surveillance (contradicting the police's petition) and they decided to discharge me.
I was broke, bullied by the people who were supposed to help, withheld from my jobs, withheld from rent payments, and assumed by everyone to be guilty even though I'm a voluntary celibate virgin.
It's all over now, as she chose not to attend her own case after she saw the evidence, but... what if it happens again?
I... dont want to even talk to anyone new anymore, male or female. I'm scared to even post things online.
I... hate the concept of sex. For my own safety, I dont even want to admit female anatomy is real because... well, I've never seen an undressed woman in person. How do I know they arent just special effects like in the movies?
See, I know that sounds nuts... but what it someone going to do to prove me wrong? Strip in front of me? Nobody's that desperate, and I dont know any better otherwise. I refuse to want to know.
Life experience has taught me that sex is 100% bad, and even things that sound good, backfire later with a guaranteed success rate. Its safer to just avoid it.
To the people who ask why I didnt sue anyway... even if I had the money, my brain was too exhausted from this drama to even want to bother. It wasnt worth it. I was burnt out.
Why would it matter that you’re celibate if the allegations were just stalking?
@@strnglhld Because she claimed intimacy between us on the petition, which was false. She also told the judge I groped her, put my hand on her leg, threatened her, and trespassed on the property, all none of which ever happened. She claimed she told me to stop, but when I pressed her on what specifically was said, she couldn't come up with an answer.
I played a pre-recorded video of myself outlining the whole scenario with evidence overlayed proving at least 8 of her claims to be lies, as well as showing a screenshot of her chat history admitting to forgery, and the judge smiled from ear to ear the entire time. Especially when she claimed she had an active Restraining Order against me already, disproven by the paper I'd provided the judge stating the "case was dismissed without prejudice."
I won't know the judge's verdict until it's mailed to me, but I have a good feeling about it.
(After being royally embarrassed in the courtroom by the defendant's video)
Judge: Does the Plaintiff have any questions for the Defendant?
Plaintiff: (sheepishly) No, your honor.
Men should team up and take care of the women who lie about being accosted. I am not saying the guy who says they didn't do it should be able to pass a lie detector test and so should the woman. If either can't.. That person should be then held accountable off record and away from the authorities. Who wouldn't want that? If you were the woman and it really happened, wouldn't you wan the guy t get what is coming to him? If you were the guy wouldn't you wan to be vindicated and have the gal deal with her punishment as well? Yep, it it the honest thing to do. Women think they have the power and the courts are allowing them to screw with any man who upsets them. what happens to them when the guy is found innocent? Nothing. Nothing happens to them.
@Teto Kasame telling the truth and facts isn’t sexist
@Teto Kasame equality should exist but in situations like this its thrown out the window.
95 percent of the time they believe the woman over the man in and out of court. Which makes it extremely difficult for the man to defend himself when he’s innocent. what’s even worse is now we’re adopting this ideology of believing all women even when there Anonymous accusations with no substantial evidence.
So sexism exists on your side as well assuming your a woman.
Another thing is there’s hardly any backlash when the woman is found lying. In the meantime an innocent man does time and is most likely assaulted both sexually, verbally and with blades.
And when they are found innocent no one rides for them when like they do for women. They fake care and comment it’s wrong but there’s hardly an action or solidarity after that.
We need to bring back due process, get rid of these shitty ideology’s and keep everyone accountable until enough evidence tips the scales
I agree! Instead of suffering and moaning on the internet, let's zero in on the vile, lying harridans who screwed us and get our revenge! :)
1st thing you should do is gather evidence after you get released from jail for your trial. When it comes and you are found not guilty then the next step is to file a civil lawsuit for slander/defamation. You should sue her for everything she's got and call for criminal charges on her for filing a false report (there should even be made a law that makes it illegal to falsely report a sexual crime and it should be a felony that results in several years in prison). This is the only way to be made whole and if anyone else spreads that lie sue them as well. Men need to start standing up to women and hold them accountable by any means necessary.
Unfortunately, at least 75% of lawyers don't know what they are doing........
I appreciate your advice on going to a lawyer early, but what should I do if no lawyer wants to talk to me? I was accused by an ex-girlfriend of sexual assault because I did not want to get back into an abusive relationship with her after she broke up with me. So what she did was she called the police, filed a sexual assault complaint against me, and told the police to start investigating, but she does not want to take any legal actions for now.
She then contacted me and used this as a way to blackmail me for the next 2 years. During the early days, she would tell me to get back into a relationship with her and that if I get back into a relationship with her, she will not take any more actions. After refusing her every time she made those requests, she then switched to asking me for monetary compensation because I have "hurt her feelings".
I tried to contact a lawyer ASAP to protect myself, but all the criminal defense lawyers I've talked to have told me 'There's nothing we can do for now since you have not been charged or contacted by the police yet. We need you to get charged and see the paperwork from the police first, at this stage we don't even know if you are going to get charged or not.'
She finally told the police to press the charges 2 years later because she saw no hope of getting back into a relationship with me, and all of her later relationships were short-lived failures. I was only able to get a lawyer to talk to me when the police finally told me I am under arrest. I am now stuck with pending sexual assault charges and quoted over $100k in legal fees. I feel like some of this damage could have been avoided if a lawyer had talked to me earlier and advised me on how to prepare for the incoming charges, so I could collect the type of evidence needed to convince the police to drop the charges before the court hearings. The 100k legal fee, the long wait for the court process, the nightmare that I could get convicted, and the damage to my job and reputation really hurts.
THE CORRUPT SYSTEM MUST BE BEHEADED BY WE THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE ZERO FEAR!! Bring it!
Don't worry mate. One day, the truth will be revealed, and you will be saved. Don't lose hope right now. You can always be saved.
Wow japanese men are also not safe
The fact that people have to make videos like this really makes me scared for innocent Men in the future.
I have a friend, who has been falsely accused, more than 30 years ago, for child molestation. He has all the witnesses statements statements now but no PSI reports, which are sealed. How do you fix this?
Any person that will do this to people I love will be very very unlucky.
Good on you sir
Unfortunately, 80% of those falsely accused of rape do not have the resources to hire a competent lawyer such as yourself, especially when we are being falsely accused.
To late for me since no stronger proof of my innocence could be obtained so now I'm suffering like millions of others who took a plea because we knew we couldn't win at a jury trial. Judge me as you will but I know I'm still innocent and it's taking a lot to not follow the law of majority rules.
Keep your head up, we know those statistics on false allegations aren’t accurate.
Most men have to plea, just know your not alone.
Don’t give up
@@yanitachill5707 I'm just serving my time still knowing I'm innocent yet now have to go thru my life being treated like millions of others. Polygraph tests, insane fees, and everything else. It's all cruel over something i didn't do nor know I had. Yet my defense basically is made worthless by research telling me that cases like mine have no defense. All I can do is pray, say I'm sorry for existing, and take one day at a time while tryimg not to follow the law of majority rules.
@@justinrabbitt9492 in genesis Joseph was also falsely accused of a sexual assault that he didn’t commit, and he was imprisoned so this has been happening since biblical times.
I understand your struggle though, sexual assault cases are the only ones that don’t require much evidence. It’s all about who’s word do they believe.
What can we do on the outside in your opinion to combat this me too
@@yanitachill5707 mine is non violent non physical offense. I didn't know the evidence was there and my words while being interrogated being used as an admission of guilt when I was having a mental breakdown with all that's happened. Before a jury trial was eben planned or anything else done I was judged as guilty by public opinion so no jury would ever believe my innocence with my defense of being asleep.
@@justinrabbitt9492 I understand, if you had a lawyer to coach you it would have been different. Just know your not alone, many will come for you, but you must stand your ground.
In and outside, just don’t lose hope g.
Thanks for sharing
Me watching for future protection
Can the accuser who makes the false accusation be successfully sued for defamation?
Sounds really expensive. What if all you can get is a public defender? Do they have investigators? And doesn't the prosecution have to reveal if the story doesn't check out with other witnesses?
Not everybody can afford a top lawyer unfortuately.
Emma that is true, and I feel so sorry for people like that.
The chief in my town got my boyfriend for false accusation and it make us mad bc the chief tried say my bf rape me and he didnt and i knew my bf for 12 yrs and he wouldnt hurt me at all and I feel like the case ain't gonna be over bc his lawyer isn't tell him anything and Doug(my bf)didn't do nothing wrong to me and I wish ppl listen to me bout it bc the cops in my area are team up with the chief of the police
It is very odd that there is no consequences for women who lie. If it is a flagrant lie - the man can prove he was somewhere else for example, clearly this lie is an assault and the woman will be charged with assault. There SHOULD be equality in CONSEQUENCES. You want to be equal? It’s your turn to go to jail. The present system encourages lying.
most men i know have gone through such experience , and yet no advocacy for millions of innocent men, and here is the attorney telling us shut up and bow down to women. fuck this society!
No, he is telling you to remain silent to protect you. If you are ever falsely accused, you must not speak to the police. Everything you say will be butchered, warped, and used against you. They might not have a case against you but you can sure as hell give them one if you open your mouth and start talking,. Don't ever give them ammo to use against you.
THANK YOU Mr SATAWA ,,, First to even acknowledge that this problem even exists ..... I would have never believed it can happen till it happened to my brother by his conniving fiance to make up with a settlement .....
state worker for mo.got my hippa info to call me,etc.i got arrested for her felony hippa violation all in her corner!
Some girl who've I've talked to maybe twice is spreading rumors that I dated an 8 year old girl........... sucks being a man all the damn time
What about minor on minor lying out of jealousy? Have a friend who was adopted and added to his adopted mothers will he was adopted at 10yo she has since passed away one of his siblings is accusing him of rape that supposedly happened when he was 11 years old is there any statutes or anything? The crime supposedly happened 21 years ago
Someone accused me from being a p3d0 amd a gr00mer
Knew a guy who paid 12k for lawyers a test to prove his case... found not gulity, still out 12k + time... not even a nod...
What if after 22 months in jail your lawyer has never filed a single motion? What if after 22 months your lawyer has never had a conversation with you. What if you have never been given a single offer or ever seen a court room in 22 months? What if no one, not even a family member has helped or came to visit in 22 months? And what if your lawyer goes to work for CPS after your case is plea bargained and you are now a sex offender? 24 months I signed for some 24 years ago and I am still paying for it every day. Like he said "keep your mouth shut" and maybe, just maybe, your family will be there for you. Mine still isn't because of the way people are. Every DAY!!!
Sorry to hear that bro, I would love to get some advice from you 💯
😢😔😔😞
I am so sorry, man. :(
Thnx
This is for the innocent only but can you force an exam on the plaintiff? Imagine being accused of statutory rape by someone who is fully intact.
This is why I always support mens rights!We will keep fighting for this!
This stuff it's scary, I wish I could carry a hidden device video taping and recording 24-7. So that when miss liar gives a exact date and account of events, you produce the evidence. But I know it's impossible, that's why I said I wish I could. But it could be a good Idea not just for sexual allegations but others accusations as well.
If your a gamer and get accuesd print the tropthys of you fav games and show them that because you know they keep the dates of when you achived it
If someone is "sorry" or anything they're guilty