A man ending things with me bc he wasn’t ready to emotionally commit. My reaction: “cool”, and let him leave. Felt so good, like I can conquer anything.
"Emotional intelligence in the most simplest way is defined as having an open relationship with your emotions. When you don't speak to them, when you don't talk to them, when you don't have these open conversations with them, they will just take control."
Love The Four Agreements! I had read many spiritual self-help books before this one but The Four Agreements truly gave me a higher perspective on things. It's definitely the kind of book that you want to reread once a year. A few months ago I finally read The Fifth Agreement. It's the same but with an additional agreement which is: observe, don't absorb. Basically, this fifth agreement is about keeping your mind clear from other people's beliefs and social conditionning so you don't lose yourself and get confused by other people's messages that may or may not be true for you.
Girl I’ve got chills. This is the perfect video that popped up. I’ve been talking a lot about emotional intelligence, self awareness, and me being dismissive avoidant. And wanting to share on social media about these topics. It’s like I manifested this video lol. Thanks for sharing ❤
@apurwasp @vickitatrivedi … this comment kills me cause I probably have 5-8 years on her … but where’s the lie? I’m here, ain’t I? 😅 My Saturn Return has been a decade delayed. Thanks for your voice, Vickita. ❤
Yes! You are completely right. Then I was in a high emotional state, I just booked a ticket to Istanbul and go there, also I go to different places in my country. I just forgot for a time how good it is to have emotional intelligence.
Dear Vickita, you are such an inteligent woman! I am always surprised how many things you know at a young age; obviously, you don't waste any day 🙂 There are always so many things to learn from you! Thank you for giving out so much, I truely appreciate and admire you! Thank you ❤💐
I have been watching your videos for about a week now. I am currently going through my healing journey all while living in a toxic environment. All your videos are amazing life tips. Thank you Vickita 💕
Ok I‘m like 2 minutes in & besides the fact that you always deliver.. can we please talk about your red top + your lipstick combo? Just wow 😍 I‘m mesmerized
I’ve love watching you for a year now. You have helped me a lot! Your maybe mindset has changed my life. Now to hear you talk about Joe Dispenza. Wow! My synchronicity for the day for sure!
I was the one who commented but so cute of you to correct yourself in the middle of the video hahaha 😂💛 also,, i love how even though your videos could be about something simple/popular, you still manage to bring a certain kind of added depth and newness to such common topics! You're really good at this! Thank you for being here and making these videos 💌 Much love!
It was so funny because I was in the middle of saying it in the wrong order again and immediately thought of you 😂 and thank you so much wow! That is exactly my intention and glad it’s being received ❤️
Why do we not learn this in school? My parents did not teach me how to DEAL with emotions. They just told me which I should and shouldn't show. It kept me from getting into trouble when I was a kid, but it causes so many problems now I'm a grown up. I loved biologie, it taught me a bit about how a human body should function... But why not learn about the mind in for example secondary school? Or am I just supposed to know how to maintain a healthy mindset by myself because I'm an adult? Thank you for sharing your knowledge, it's invaluable to me❤
This must be your juiciest video yet in terms of the knowledge that you spread 💎 Absolute gem and perfectly accompanies my "after reading thoughts" of Master Key System (by Haanel) Most people won't be aware of the value you are echoing into this world. Powerful 🔥
Im honestly so glad to hear that, I wanna be dropping as much value as possible 👏🏼 and omg I’m starting that book tonight, how is it? I’ve heard amazing things! That last comment 🥹 glad you’re picking up on my thought process and inner workings. Very powerful stuff
Hi @vickita, thank you so much for yr vid! Ilove yr channel! How about if I'm an empath? I'm a full on empath... I can feel anything and everything... its very difficult sometimes.
Amazing video thank you! As i was lisyrning to this I had to think on the video of Healthygamers named Discipline is an Emotion. Gonna surely watch that one too❤
For some reason I can't get this video to convert to full screen which makes it very difficult (on my phone) to see some of the words. Is there any way you could change the settings on your end for the video to adapt to full screen? If possible, it would be greatly appreciated. This is a video worth watching repeatedly.
Vickita! I have a question related to this. What do you think about a/your man raising his voice at you? Is it okay, a red flag, and at what extent? I'm asking this because at first I was like "he'll nah, he'll never see me again", but then I thought if there could be an exception. Like, we're human after all.
Backhanded compliments aren’t compliments lol. This is my full time income so yeah I share things I personally use on my journey that will help you and in exchange I get paid. Nothing inauthentic about that, it’s the game of life
@@VickitaTrivedi This wasn’t a back handed compliment but a simple constructive feedback. I don’t really get anything from being passive aggressive to you. When you incorporate ads like that, it’s hard to differentiate whether you actually use these products or just plugging them in because you get paid for it. Surprisingly, it’s less like this when content creators mention their sponsors in the beginning or end of the video.
What if I often feel drained to be always the one working on regulating and peace while people that surround you always "just who they are"? How to shift that thought into a less harmful one?
Yeah that’s frustrating and I’ve been there but remember that their path is different. Not everyone is here to heal and evolve, but lucky for you, you are!❤️ Consider distancing yourself if you feel like they’re impacting your growth
I reacted so bad at few weeks ago and I was like oh my god are people going to call the police on me like this is so bad I saw hook up my sourdough situation where I thought I made friends everyone with a sex trafficker and I was like what and nobody was on my side it was horrible
@@VickitaTrivedi Feeling emotions is normal. If you feel an emotion, you react to it. You laugh when you have fun, you smile when you feel genuine happiness, you cry when you're sad, you yell when you're in pain. Right? Human beings are not supposed to wear a mask all the time. They do it when it's socially conventional OR inappropriate to react. At work for example, or if you feel rage & anger. On the other side, it is not normal if you can't react. It's all a matter of balance, between learning self control and the fact that we are human beings. To associate emotions with madness is kind of sad.
Vikita … this video was so real! Even your “can i speak today” girl even with the lil Bloopers….this video GAVE & DELIVERED. Grateful for you sis and this amazing platform ❤
“Seek peace over justice.” So simple yet so profound 😮
My justice driven mind excused a lott of my reactions. Because logically I know this person did wrong but that doesnt justify my own reaction to it
Without justice, there will be no peace
A man ending things with me bc he wasn’t ready to emotionally commit. My reaction: “cool”, and let him leave. Felt so good, like I can conquer anything.
Proud of you cause we all know it isn’t easy ❤
"Emotional intelligence in the most simplest way is defined as having an open relationship with your emotions. When you don't speak to them, when you don't talk to them, when you don't have these open conversations with them, they will just take control."
"choose peace over justice" it's very a advice for me ❤
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Advice
Love The Four Agreements! I had read many spiritual self-help books before this one but The Four Agreements truly gave me a higher perspective on things. It's definitely the kind of book that you want to reread once a year. A few months ago I finally read The Fifth Agreement. It's the same but with an additional agreement which is: observe, don't absorb. Basically, this fifth agreement is about keeping your mind clear from other people's beliefs and social conditionning so you don't lose yourself and get confused by other people's messages that may or may not be true for you.
Thankyou for this comment
I love that your parents are your life. I feel the same way about mine.
I love that we share the same values on that!
Girl I’ve got chills. This is the perfect video that popped up.
I’ve been talking a lot about emotional intelligence, self awareness, and me being dismissive avoidant. And wanting to share on social media about these topics.
It’s like I manifested this video lol. Thanks for sharing ❤
I REALLY THINK THE SAME!!! 🫣
were aligned, baby! 💖I love having like-minded people stumble upon my videos!
Mother is Mothering.
Hi childdddd 👏🏼
@apurwasp @vickitatrivedi … this comment kills me cause I probably have 5-8 years on her … but where’s the lie? I’m here, ain’t I? 😅 My Saturn Return has been a decade delayed. Thanks for your voice, Vickita. ❤
Responsibility: ability to respond. This is crucial indeed.
I am really enjoying your videos!! Sidenote: your eyes are breathtaking! I can't help but stare into them as you speak
There are some UA-camrs that UA-cam is lucky to have and one of them is you ❤
Yes! You are completely right.
Then I was in a high emotional state, I just booked a ticket to Istanbul and go there, also I go to different places in my country.
I just forgot for a time how good it is to have emotional intelligence.
This is your reminder!
I get so excited when I see a new vid from you. Thanks queen 💖
You a real one 🥹
My triggers have always led me to isolate , but I can’t isolate because then I get more triggered in the little interactions I do have 😅
You are going to have millions of subscribers 💯
Dear Vickita, you are such an inteligent woman! I am always surprised how many things you know at a young age; obviously, you don't waste any day 🙂 There are always so many things to learn from you! Thank you for giving out so much, I truely appreciate and admire you! Thank you ❤💐
I have been watching your videos for about a week now. I am currently going through my healing journey all while living in a toxic environment. All your videos are amazing life tips. Thank you Vickita 💕
Ok I‘m like 2 minutes in & besides the fact that you always deliver.. can we please talk about your red top + your lipstick combo? Just wow 😍 I‘m mesmerized
This is the best explanation for the brain and heart coherence 😂a date so they can talk to each other
Thank you for sharing the amazing work of Dr Joe Dispenza 👏🏼👏🏼 you can also use his formula & meditations to heal the body from chronic illness
Thanks for the video, really needed it right now, great timing❤
You're so welcome!
mindset is everything .....nothing can shake ....
You are so good at explaining what to do and how to do it when it comes to self development, thank you so much !
I love hearing that! Thanks so much!
Focus on peace..not justice!
amennn!
I’ve love watching you for a year now. You have helped me a lot! Your maybe mindset has changed my life. Now to hear you talk about Joe Dispenza. Wow! My synchronicity for the day for sure!
thats incredible to hear my love! We're aligned for sure 💖
I was the one who commented but so cute of you to correct yourself in the middle of the video hahaha 😂💛 also,, i love how even though your videos could be about something simple/popular, you still manage to bring a certain kind of added depth and newness to such common topics! You're really good at this! Thank you for being here and making these videos 💌 Much love!
It was so funny because I was in the middle of saying it in the wrong order again and immediately thought of you 😂 and thank you so much wow! That is exactly my intention and glad it’s being received ❤️
I liked this one!
The part about what I CAN control about the situation gives me some ease, as well as the bit about time and place.
Love this video! Also lol at the captions, "life is not supposed to be human glue". I agree. 😂
Hahahhahaha capcut has solid wisdom
❤❤❤❤ I can not tell you how I got to you BUT Baybeeeee I’m glad I found this conversation
Terrific video. Choose Peace over Justice-life changing concept. Thanks!
of course!
your videos are just the right vibe!
I start to feel so energized and motivated, every single time!
Thank you so much💖
ahhhh this is what we want! Go seize the day with that high vibe ⚡
The authority all mine🔥
I am the Officer🔥
I choose peace🔥
Thanks for sharing gorgeous, FYI i love the red on you 🙏🏻❤
Love the video! Mastering our emotions is so empowering! I love Joe Dispenza and this awareness of coherent heart coherent brain is amazing! ❤
Why do we not learn this in school?
My parents did not teach me how to DEAL with emotions.
They just told me which I should and shouldn't show.
It kept me from getting into trouble when I was a kid, but it causes so many problems now I'm a grown up.
I loved biologie, it taught me a bit about how a human body should function...
But why not learn about the mind in for example secondary school?
Or am I just supposed to know how to maintain a healthy mindset by myself because I'm an adult?
Thank you for sharing your knowledge, it's invaluable to me❤
Thank you for your beautiful and insightful content Vickita!! You're AMAZING, we LOVE YOU so much!! 🤍💯🙏
I LOVE YOU BACK!
@@VickitaTrivedi 🙈🥰💕💕💕
Spectacular video!!! Thank you so much!❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thank you, needed to hear this today
Glad it was helpful!
This must be your juiciest video yet in terms of the knowledge that you spread 💎 Absolute gem and perfectly accompanies my "after reading thoughts" of Master Key System (by Haanel)
Most people won't be aware of the value you are echoing into this world. Powerful 🔥
Im honestly so glad to hear that, I wanna be dropping as much value as possible 👏🏼 and omg I’m starting that book tonight, how is it? I’ve heard amazing things!
That last comment 🥹 glad you’re picking up on my thought process and inner workings. Very powerful stuff
I love love love youtr these kind of videos... Much love 💕
That was much needed thank you 💖
this colour suit you so well
Your content is just Amazing, everything is in order with actual steps❤
Focus on Peace ☮️ rather than Justice!⚖️ #Powerful💥
I truly love your content. Can’t believe i just found your channel…foos shit! 🥀🥀🥀
Great video and amazing advices 🤩❤💫
💯 breaks it down. Thank u!
Glad it was helpful!
Amazing video, Excellent work, Perfectly said! Blessings to you
i really needed to hear this video today. thank you ❤
Hi @vickita, thank you so much for yr vid! Ilove yr channel! How about if I'm an empath? I'm a full on empath... I can feel anything and everything... its very difficult sometimes.
Oh Vikita, god bless you darling ❤
Amazing video thank you! As i was lisyrning to this I had to think on the video of Healthygamers named Discipline is an Emotion. Gonna surely watch that one too❤
Yes this was so empowering i felt the testimony
Amaaazing book and awesome job as always 😎🥰
I love this, thank you
I love how you include video notes!
thank you! 😃
You're welcome 😊
What a nice video. God job 👏🏼
looking royyyyyyyyyal! so beautiful
Love your channel ❤
Thank you so much!!
Excited for your vdeos❤
Awesome ❤
For some reason I can't get this video to convert to full screen which makes it very difficult (on my phone) to see some of the words. Is there any way you could change the settings on your end for the video to adapt to full screen? If possible, it would be greatly appreciated. This is a video worth watching repeatedly.
Firstt omgggg ❤
Hiii ❤️
Thank you
Love your videos! Did want to mention Demi lovato to does have bipolar disorder which could be part of what triggered her..
Ahhh gotcha, the point still remains though!
I AM THE OFFICER.
Vickita! I have a question related to this. What do you think about a/your man raising his voice at you? Is it okay, a red flag, and at what extent?
I'm asking this because at first I was like "he'll nah, he'll never see me again", but then I thought if there could be an exception. Like, we're human after all.
I feel like you do ads in every video and mix them in your message and for some reason, it just feels inauthentic but love your videos overall
Backhanded compliments aren’t compliments lol. This is my full time income so yeah I share things I personally use on my journey that will help you and in exchange I get paid. Nothing inauthentic about that, it’s the game of life
@@VickitaTrivedi This wasn’t a back handed compliment but a simple constructive feedback. I don’t really get anything from being passive aggressive to you. When you incorporate ads like that, it’s hard to differentiate whether you actually use these products or just plugging them in because you get paid for it. Surprisingly, it’s less like this when content creators mention their sponsors in the beginning or end of the video.
Teach‼️📕
You so cute ❤️ i love your red top, unfortunately read dont look good on me ahaha
What if I often feel drained to be always the one working on regulating and peace while people that surround you always "just who they are"? How to shift that thought into a less harmful one?
Yeah that’s frustrating and I’ve been there but remember that their path is different. Not everyone is here to heal and evolve, but lucky for you, you are!❤️ Consider distancing yourself if you feel like they’re impacting your growth
@@VickitaTrivedi Thank you for the kind response, really❤️
Love your videos so much 🩵
If someone has made up lies about you and made comments on your sons body is my reaction still the problem?
I reacted so bad at few weeks ago and I was like oh my god are people going to call the police on me like this is so bad I saw hook up my sourdough situation where I thought I made friends everyone with a sex trafficker and I was like what and nobody was on my side it was horrible
Vickita: doom and gloom
Captions: human glue
😂😂😂
One of the best 😂
You are so gorgeous! I have a girl crush ❤
(Me looking for time stamps or notes in comments 👀😅)
It's so hard not to get triggered 😤
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Albert Einstein who? You🫵🏻
Got me dying 🤣😭
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Second omggg❤😂😂
Hi ❤️
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You don't react because you basically don't care enough.
Emotional outburst shouldn’t correlate to one’s level of care. It’s become too normalized to go mental as soon as emotions enter the chat
@@VickitaTrivedi Feeling emotions is normal. If you feel an emotion, you react to it. You laugh when you have fun, you smile when you feel genuine happiness, you cry when you're sad, you yell when you're in pain. Right? Human beings are not supposed to wear a mask all the time. They do it when it's socially conventional OR inappropriate to react. At work for example, or if you feel rage & anger. On the other side, it is not normal if you can't react. It's all a matter of balance, between learning self control and the fact that we are human beings. To associate emotions with madness is kind of sad.
@@tobe-you-tube6612 did you watch the video or just comment?
As a quadruple cancer - 😰🫠 🙏🏾
Vikita … this video was so real! Even your “can i speak today” girl even with the lil
Bloopers….this video GAVE & DELIVERED. Grateful for you sis and this amazing platform ❤
So what about blocked emotions im over body
somatic shaking is great for releasing trapped emotions