In this video I show you the difference between my morning on a good day and my morning on a bad day. And why 10 minute timers keep me afloat as a busy mum!
@@remiclogwhat type of trash can/rubbish bin/waste basket thing do you have in your kitchen? What trash bags/bin bags do you use? Can you tell me exactly what they're called - or maybe just similar ones that I can find on Amazon? Weird, I know, but we don't have that style of trash bag in my area.
Girl, you managed to do a load of laundry, get your kids fed and dressed, get your oldest to school reasonably on time, do an outdoor activity with your youngest, AND exercise yourself??? That's a good day in my book any day! Great job
Dear Remi, I’m a mother of a 13 year old boy. Watching you run around like Mrs Speedy Gonzales just makes my heart melt but also takes me back to the time my son was around your boys age. The part where he put on his shoes without his socks just made laugh. Please continue to share your amazing family and how you run your household. You are our STAR 🌟 sending you all my best wishes ❤️❤️❤️🇹🇷
É terrível se a gente espera que um menininho de 2 anos lembre de colocar meias, mas é fantástico se a gente pensa que ele tem só 2 anos e colocou sapatos sozinho! Você tem uma família incrível, Remi!
I know this is gonna sound crazy, but when we were trying.....and trying lol, I started some reverse psychology on myself. I made myself think like, I cannot get pregnant...I cannot get pregnant. Kind of like it'd be a terrible thing or I'd get in trouble or something, lol idk. I didn't think of it that way, but lots of people get pregnant when they don't want to, so let's give it a go. I could swear it worked like a charm. I have twins now after a few losses, including another set of twins. I always hope it works for someone else. It can be a long and emotionally trying road, I know. Sending lots of love, hope, and luck your way. ❤
I absolutely love your videos. I'm 68, and now I have 3 children. Even at my age i really seem to struggle with exactly the same feelings as you. It helps to know I'm not the only one. I really struggle with motivation. Thanks for taking the time to do these videos . ❤
I don’t think you realise how much you help others. I’ve been going through a really rough patch with my mental health, and your videos have become my safety blanket. The way you talk about life and the tone of your voice is so helpful. Thank you 💜
I've lost my two dogs in the last 5 months. Back in October we lost our oldest, after months of us and himself fighting for his life. Then just when we were starting to breathe a little easier and gaining back some hope in life - I have a tiny UA-cam channel and even posted my first video after months of not posting - our 9 year old dog had a medical emergency and he passed away unexpectedly. It's been a nightmare. This is the lowest I've ever felt in my life, I feel heartbroken, depressed, hopeless, anxious, scared, angry and find it really hard to function. Simply showering has become a massive task and work is dreadful. Every day I want to quit. All this goes to say that your videos have been a blessing❤. You've been helping me so much maintaining some sort of normality in my home. Cleaning along with your videos has been feeling more helpful than therapy - which I'm doing as well. And your voiceovers are so precious and relatable, sometimes I genuinely feel like you're in my head, speaking out my thoughts. So I just wanted to say thank you, Remi. Thank you for being vulnerable, for genuinely wanting to help out other people. And thanks for sharing the reality of maintaining a home. Also, I know it's been a few months since you lost your precious dog, but if you're anything like me you're most likely still grieving, so I just wanted to say that I am so, so sorry for your loss. Know that you are not alone ❤🩹 (apologies for the long-ass comment)
@CatzMarina I've just read your lovely comments to Remi. We lost our working Cocker 1 year ago, I'm heartbroken, miss him so much. I've never been an organised person especially where the house is concerned, feel too sad atm to think about more than the very basics. I do hope you start to feel better soon. Xxx
@@barbarastevenson6900 I'm sorry for your loss ❤🩹 thank you for your words, I hope you feel better soon too. Sadness comes and sadness goes, we must remember that to be strong and have hope during these lowest points 🤍
You are one of the most amazing and keep-it-real women on UA-cam! As a single mother of one now adult son, I remember how hectic mornings could be. I have always been a night owl and did most of my cleaning and tidying up at night so I wouldn't go crazy in the morning. I truly believe you give a lot of inspiration to young struggling mothers out there by reminding them that you don't have to be perfect. Everyone has their own struggles and their own way of dealing with them. Your advice of not comparing yourself to others is one of the most valuable pieces of advice! You rock! Cheers to an amazing and fabulous Mom! ❤🎉👋
Thank you!! Finally I get to see a realistic morning routine that actually makes me feel less alone! Your pep talk... its just everything❤. Real motherhood❤
Love your honesty. I was always super impressed by mums that did school drop offs looking immaculate head to toe......and like you i'd be rushing around and put joggers on over PJs to get out the door.
“Looking like the love child of Kerry Mucklowe and Adam Sandler” made me howl 😂 I’m so appreciative for your realness and honesty. You’re an amazing parent too ❤
WOW !!! You are getting so much done, Remi dear. Well done you. One of the things I admire and love you the most for is the way you parent your two boys. You are the most wonderful mum. Just keep on doing what you're doing. You are an inspiration to mums, grandmothers and great-grandmothers. Bless the four of you. Love, Dorothy.
Love all of your videos, but had to comment today, everything that you said resonated. Thanks for showing a “good” and “bad” day, without judgement, you’re amazing 😊
I laughed at the staggering from the bedroom and the mouldy bread. I’ve so been there and done that 😂. And the clothes over the pjs on the school run! I loved this video
Oh how I relate to the bad days! I've only found your videos recently Remi but I've been binging them and even put them on while I clean because I love your voice overs and it feels like I have someone here motivating me to keep going. Don't ever change, I can't believe people leave nasty comments, just remember for every nasty person there's 100s of others cheering you on 😁
This might be one of my favourite videos - so real and so true! I have tried to forgive myself in the part of my cycle where I just have little or no energy. And I can totally relate to wanting to be clean and comfy 🙌🏼. Thank you for being honest, real and a great motivator! 😊
What a great video and I love your voice overs- they leave me feeling so loved and forgiving of myself no matter the day ❤ Never forget the self help industry makes money on you feeling like if you just give them money they’ll tell you the secrets to being more productive- you’re absolutely right that you’re okay no matter what version of yourself you are as long as you’re living in a way that’s safe for you and your family. This is the exact message everyone needs to hear. 🥰
I am HERE for this. Thank you for the gift of your authenticity! In a sea of social media highlight reels, I'd rather come to your channel for something I can relate to. Wishing you and your darling family all the best.
good morning, sweet girl! You are so real and so honest and so sweet that’s why I keep watching your videos. I look forward to seeing you here. Have a blessed day, my friend and stay safe🙏 love from Massachusetts❤me and Otis🐶
Remi you work incredibly hard !! Not just for your family but for all those beautiful Mums and Dads out there that with YOU they have the reassurance their not alone , and that the chaos in being a parent is the same road for most . It didn’t matter how organised I was , I was literally always on the last minute for the school run . As a 56 yr old Mum ( all children grown and flown the nest ) I can say to all you beautiful parents out there .....time passes way to fast 💨so as difficult as it is at times try to embrace the chaos and never be too hard on yourselves...... we all do the best we can with how we feel at the time . Sending love to all 💐
Wow! I didn't know I needed this video so bad. The mom guilt of not being productive is very real and very stressful. Thank you for this video! You said some things I definitely needed to hear 😊
You are a pleasure, Remi. You keep things real and not so high up that no one can reach there. Love your 10 minute tidy ups. I don't set an actual timer or alarm but I tell myself that I'm just going to start on something and work 10 minutes or so and it really does help. Something about just getting started, moving one thing, sort of restarts the brain and the body kind of follows along. Thanks for sharing a bit of your busy life and for the tips that help so much😊. You're an amazing lady and such a loving Mum! ❤️
Love this video. My child is long grown up, but getting out of the house to get to school frequently felt like being the jump captain for a planeload of highly reluctant paratroopers. Me in a long coat and boots to cover my pajamas, hat on head to hide crazy morning hair. It still makes me laugh.😂
Now I love that description! I always was impressed by the moms who were so put together in the morning, too. I did work some crazy hours when my kids were little, though, so I think I should have a few points for that. LOL
I wish I could get that much done in 10 min. I enjoy listening. Usually, I'm doing something else and listening to your happy, calming voice.
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Remi I just can’t watch another cleaning channel. The way you keep talking to us, is like I’m chatting with a friend. I love you and love your videos. Please! Never stop doing this 😊 you always motivate me to clean my house, although I can’t be as fast as you yet, I’ll get there. Thank you for sharing your real life with us. ❤
What a sweet & thoughtful Mothers Day basket you did! Mushroom is so beautiful. Well done re your steps. One tip (the sweet EN) for uniform is to put the complete outfit over the landing bannisters if you have stairs. This will be useful when littl’un is also at school. I’d be happy to get up at 5.45 am with you Mon-Fri so you know you have company xx ❤
I respect you so much! I think you are so impressive what you do and how you consistently try to work on yourself. I enjoy watching your videos every time you post.
I just discovered your channel and I LOVE it and subscribed. It’s so refreshing to watch a mom who is REAL! And down-to-earth, and kind to herself, no matter if it’s a good or bad day. I wish this would have been on 14 years ago when I first became a mom and was so hard on myself. ❤
I feel this so much, I'm working til' 5, home and dinner on the table by 6, games and bonding with family until 7, then bedtime routine until 8 and I'm so tired i'm often in bed at the same time. Up at 5:50AM the next day to be getting everyone ready and out the door by 6:40AM. I'm hoping decluttering over time will make me eventually feel like I've got enough hours in a day.
It is a wordl of diference when we get up in time, things go by themselves, but it's true, mornings start the night before. The night checklist is a best friend, and I only can do those tasks by remembering how awful it feels doing them in a hurry the next day. When I finally seat down, wow, what a light feeling. Thank you for this such real video. Many blessings 💗⚘
Your commentary on the downstairs loo clean made me cry. I'm much older than you and my girls are teenagers and preteen now. I wish someone like you had been around when I had my babies. I'm 41 now and only just getting on top of things and accepting I'm not a failure cos my brain works differently. I still need help but it's like a weight been lifted. So thank you ❤ it's refreshing to hear from someone who just gets it ❤
Just found this channel, and I've watched several of your videos in the last few days, and I have to say I'm really enjoying your videos. They are very realistic for busy people and are helping to change my thoughts. Everything doesn't need to be perfect every minute of every day. Which is something I struggle with. I always end up wearing myself out cleaning constantly. So, thank you for your videos. I'm going to continue watching them. Please keep posting! ❤
So normal! Honest of you to share the realities of motherhood. I remember those days well.... and treasure the memories. All 3 adult sons still living at home so some mornings still chaotic! Love family life! You are amazing xx
Remi I love this video. I’m a mum of 2 under 4 with another on the way. It’s so true, us women need to work with the strengths and challenges of our cycles. We perform so well and need to rest at certain times of our cycle - that’s just how we are built! I hope all women learn this so that we’re not so hard on ourselves❤
I started watching you just last week from the US. I just love you! Such a beautiful soul. I love to see when the boys are helping always have a smile on my face. ❤ You are so intelligent! Keep doing what you doing.
Babe iv just found u and ur a life changer.the 10min clean makes so much sense just to get started.i feel the same as u in the way we talk to ourselves in our heads and trying and failing to live up to everyone else's stuff and when i fail the way i beat myself up for it.luv ur work.thank u so much
You are so kind, to yourself and others. I so appreciate that and that you kindly compare different methods or ideologies but you are so nice about that. I'm a 45 yo of 9 kids and I'm struggling!! But I believe God is guiding me and showing me what my body needs and my spirit. I love your page and it inspires me!!
Love your honesty and realistic videos. Much more relatable than some other accounts doesn't make me feel like a complete failure at life when I watch you just normal so thanks ❤
Hello from Perth Western Australia…I’ve been watching you for about 3 months…I’m addicted…I’m always so excited when you post something new…you are so inspiring…keep up the good work 😊
Remi I recommend my 13 year old daughter to watch your videos. She had her bedroom redecorated last year and new bed and furniture ect but oh my word lately her room has just become like a bomb site 😫 I've tried to explain to her to put things away but she let's it build up and gets overwhelmed with it all then loses motivation. I think it's just a teenage phase shes going through 😂 anyways I put one of your videos on her tv and left her to it. She called me up around an hour later and wow her room was so tidy and everything in its place. She said watching you got her motivated so a big thankyou remi❤😊
I rarely comment on videos but just want to say what a great job your doing. Being a parent and giving people motivation and pep talks that actually make sense. I wish I had you to watch when my kid was little. Your more real life, than some UA-camrs staging a clean with me or day in the life. You defo make it feel OK to have bad days and then get it together and not all is lost. Thank you for being an inspiration to so many people xx
Love the message Remi! You are so right, every day is different and let’s follow our rhythm 👌🏻girl you are wise, far beyond your years! Love Ike in his orange jacket 🧡 and the basket for your mum turned out so lovely 👌🏻
Remi, thank you, feel so much better after watching this, it’s ok to be both versions 😍 that is so helpful xx kids grown up now, but have 3 sheep called Dot, 232 and Biggy, 25 chickens and Bill the cockerel. As long as I look after them it’s enough on a bad day, thanks for looking at it in a positive way xx
You are the most relatable mom I've seen on yt. Thank you for being absolutely real. As a mother of 7 my days are hectic even when 6 out of 7 are in school😂
I'm a mum of 6 and I love watching your videos makes me carm down a bit and just relax mine are 14 12 8 and 9 2 and 3 don't let any judge you my nan always says cleaning will still be their next day 😊 x
Absolutely love your videos! You have saved my life in ways you do not know! God bless you and your family and keep up the good work I’m sure you get a lot of people through the day I know I do because of you!
Recent subscriber. Just wanted to say I find your channel so uplifting and motivating. You get to the point, offer great advice are cherie and fun. Plus, I love that you present the realities and don’t sugar coat life like a lot you UA-camrs do. Your videos are fantastic to watch to get me moving and doing in my own home.
I found for me things change a lot dew to the weather or how well I slept and even that the day before was busy or slow. So it’s nice to hear you and others feeling and doing things. 👍💐💐
I was about to go to bed with my room a mess and I had the energy but no motivation! I put your video on, and got it done in 20 minutes! Thank you Remi! ❤
So part of why I became literally obsessed with your content, and relate to you so very much like deeply. I know that a lot of why that is, is the neurodivergence I have the most severe adhd that is charted here in Canada. I wasn’t diagnosed until 32 and then finally now properly medicated at 37 and have spent the past 5 years learning how to manage my adhd as best I can. On the “good days” anyway. But I truly am in awe of how much you understand not only about yourself but like others. Whether it be those who are like us, or those who are neurotypical. You are so very wise. Truly. I’ve loved your content. (found you here on UA-cam at first) I find my self growing my own knowledge and acceptance of various things but particularly myself, due to your content. I even made a TikTok and sometimes I will see some content over there too. I’m not very familiar with the App, which usually means that I don’t often open it lol But when I am in need of “Remi support”, as I like to think of you content as, I know right where to find your accounts. So yeah, Thank you so very much for sharing your knowledge, experience and understanding of how life just really is. I thank you so so so much for putting yourself out there to make sure those of us that need to hear you or really need your content. To be raw like that online is beyond brave, and to open yourself up to that possible scrutiny and criticism!!! Especially that because some people are genuinely cruel. I personally, have benefited immensely because of you sharing that reality. Which for a lot of us, is very real. And only those of us that have to live in such a mental state like ADHD or any neurodivergence, will ever understand how hard it really is just to simply live some days. Oh, also… I’m from the “facebook era” lol ‘ ..and I just want to say sorry, for all the rotten people who are stealing your content trying to profit, claiming to be you. It actually makes me sick. Because I absolutely know and understand how hard it would be for you to even make that content in the first place. When I was in high school, around 15 years old, I remember that there was a Student charged, or something to that effect, for plagiarism, due to use of another persons written words. (Granted it was a regular occurrence for the student as far as I understand) But like how was that huge of a deal, and stealing someone actually voice and their image like actual videos of the creator themselves talking, not. I mean I understand that is hard to enforce that kind of thing online but come on people it’s theft regardless and very wrong. 😑
So happy I found you not just because we struggle with the same things, have 2 boys the same age and do a lot of house cleaning, but also you said something I never heard anyone mention. That is about waking up a different person each day. Like some data I go to bed thinking I’m going to do xyz tomorrow, then wake up tomorrow and feel like I’ve just been replaced with a completely different person with different motivations. As well as feeling like I’m not m top of the world one day, then scrolling social media for 8 hours the next day.
You work sooo hard Remi, I do not know where you get the energy from? Thank you for showing us your real life, you are a breath of fresh air. You are so accepting of everyone, and have a heart of gold. We can all learn so much from you. Thank you for this bad and good video! Blessings and hugs, and I hope that you had a very happy Mother's Day tody, because boy, do you deserve it. From Jilly & Madge the rescue greyhound, from West Devon, England. xxx
Love you Remi, love your amazing honesty and so glad I found your channel from when you started. You make me feel normal. I went to work myself the other day with one sock on :)
Remi I adored this video and the commentary! You speak so well to yourself, without judgement. Encouraging yourself and others. And it’s very uplifting. ❤
Girl when you found out the bread was mouldy your reaction was so relatable 😅 of course it’s mouldy we’re late. Love how real this is lovely ❤ my little one also doesn’t eat her sandwich 😂
Oh Remi. This bought back so many memories. The bad mornings run to pace, the good ones not so much. You are a serious jewel to me. I am so excited when I see a new video. I feel like you are on the other end of the phone chatting to me. Thanks for taking the time to share with us.
I'm so proud of you. You do a great job with your boys and with your home. Nobody's perfect. We all have our good days and bad ones.. We can only do our best. Love your videos . Sending my love as always♥️.
I absolutely love your loving, down to earth way. ❤️ I always look forward to your uplifting & positive videos and your sweet family. OH! And Nate the Hoof Guy!!! LOL can't even tell you how many nights I've stayed up watching his addictive videos. 🤣 Be well & take care, Remi! Blessings 🥰💕
Remi, I relate to you so heavily 😆 I am also trying to do 10,000 steps a day right now, I'm on day 70, and have managed it every day, so at least if nothing else has gone right that day, and I feel like a failure, at least I've done something 😂 You absolutely don't look ridiculous, you look like a woman on a mission ❤ love to you, your videos make me feel normal x
I love watching your videos… usually while I’m ironing… it’s so good to know that I am not alone here!! I’m very much like you… fits and bursts… some days I want to do everything other days I just want to sit on sofa all day 😭… it’s a horrible feeling on the bad days but I just cannot get myself out of it sometimes. Thankyou for these videos … they inspire me 💪❤️
This video is exactly what I needed as a new mother, you have touched on so many points already (I havent finished watching) that I VERY slowly realised about myself and why motherhood was so difficult for me, and the fact that our cycles affect us so much across a month. That was an epiphany moment for me comparable to the first time I heard 'executive function' (it was you who said it). So many people comment that you are so much like them, and girl if i wasnt so introverted and lived half way across the world we'd be two peas in a pod. Ill be recommending this video to any new mum friends, cause sometimes you literally need someone to say it to you before it makes sense. Thank you for sharing you ❤
I love your expression "bad days". We are in the boat with you! Life is hard (normal), and more challenging with our sweet kiddos. The love you show your family and yourself is your secret weapon!! Later in life, we look back and find the bad days were often our best days. Hugs!
A very motivating video! I am 62 and I still have a daughter who moved in with us and also a 2yr old grandson. You are so encouraging and so down to earth. You are an awesome mum in the way you are there with your kids and you probably bust your buns on a regular basis, you have inspired me to get off my butt and start. I’m so overwhelmed by the mess and the anxiety and depression don’t help. But while watching I was tidying up my living room, and we only get 24 hrs in one day and it’s all how we choose to do with those hours. You are a wonderful lady and I simply love your accent. Thank you again for the encouragement that you put out in your videos. I send you hugs and a pat on the back. ☘️🦋☘️🦋☘️🦋☘️♥️♥️♥️♥️☘️🦋☘️🦋☘️🦋
I love the start of the “bad” morning with you “staggering” out of the room. That’s more like it, love the realism. That’s me EVERY morning😂
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Can not wait for the next one
Omg I couldn't stop laughing 😅❤
@@remiclogwhat type of trash can/rubbish bin/waste basket thing do you have in your kitchen? What trash bags/bin bags do you use? Can you tell me exactly what they're called - or maybe just similar ones that I can find on Amazon? Weird, I know, but we don't have that style of trash bag in my area.
I know that wake up stagger very well 😂
Girl, you managed to do a load of laundry, get your kids fed and dressed, get your oldest to school reasonably on time, do an outdoor activity with your youngest, AND exercise yourself??? That's a good day in my book any day! Great job
“You can be both versions of you” great advice. ❤
Same 24 hours in the day. But not the same mental/physical/emotional capacity & not the same demands.
I love this video.
100%!!! Thank you 😊❤️
@@remiclogRemi, I’ve never asked anyone this before but please read my post. 🩷 Tonya
So true!
Dear Remi, I’m a mother of a 13 year old boy. Watching you run around like Mrs Speedy Gonzales just makes my heart melt but also takes me back to the time my son was around your boys age. The part where he put on his shoes without his socks just made laugh. Please continue to share your amazing family and how you run your household. You are our STAR 🌟 sending you all my best wishes ❤️❤️❤️🇹🇷
É terrível se a gente espera que um menininho de 2 anos lembre de colocar meias, mas é fantástico se a gente pensa que ele tem só 2 anos e colocou sapatos sozinho! Você tem uma família incrível, Remi!
Where is your husband??? No help at all? That's how my ex was. Were divorced many years.
I’m not a mum (we’re trying) but I just love you! You’re so down to earth - honest & a great mum! it’s refreshing
happy Mother’s Day!
Thank you so much!! I really hope it happens for you soon! 🤞🏼✨❤️
Good luck 🍀 with becoming pregnant and don't stress, which isn't easy, but it'll happen when you least expect it. Best wishes from Northern Ireland.
I know this is gonna sound crazy, but when we were trying.....and trying lol, I started some reverse psychology on myself. I made myself think like, I cannot get pregnant...I cannot get pregnant. Kind of like it'd be a terrible thing or I'd get in trouble or something, lol idk. I didn't think of it that way, but lots of people get pregnant when they don't want to, so let's give it a go. I could swear it worked like a charm. I have twins now after a few losses, including another set of twins. I always hope it works for someone else. It can be a long and emotionally trying road, I know. Sending lots of love, hope, and luck your way. ❤
@@remiclog thank you so much, hope you had a good one! 😊
@@sarahneedom9661 thank you lol, I’ll give it a go, having IVF in a few months so 🤞🏼
I absolutely love your videos. I'm 68, and now I have 3 children. Even at my age i really seem to struggle with exactly the same feelings as you. It helps to know I'm not the only one. I really struggle with motivation. Thanks for taking the time to do these videos . ❤
I love the idea of having TWO routines. The top notch routine and the baseline routine
My dad died a week ago. My house is upside down. I love your videos because they remind me that it's okay when life happens.
My condolences. There are things that take precedence.
Sending lots of love your way ❤
I'm so sorry for your loss. Many comforting thoughts to you.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Be patient and loving to yourself at this difficult time.
So sorry for the loss of your Dad. It’s time to look after you - house can wait.
I don’t think you realise how much you help others. I’ve been going through a really rough patch with my mental health, and your videos have become my safety blanket. The way you talk about life and the tone of your voice is so helpful. Thank you 💜
I've lost my two dogs in the last 5 months. Back in October we lost our oldest, after months of us and himself fighting for his life. Then just when we were starting to breathe a little easier and gaining back some hope in life - I have a tiny UA-cam channel and even posted my first video after months of not posting - our 9 year old dog had a medical emergency and he passed away unexpectedly. It's been a nightmare. This is the lowest I've ever felt in my life, I feel heartbroken, depressed, hopeless, anxious, scared, angry and find it really hard to function. Simply showering has become a massive task and work is dreadful. Every day I want to quit.
All this goes to say that your videos have been a blessing❤. You've been helping me so much maintaining some sort of normality in my home. Cleaning along with your videos has been feeling more helpful than therapy - which I'm doing as well. And your voiceovers are so precious and relatable, sometimes I genuinely feel like you're in my head, speaking out my thoughts.
So I just wanted to say thank you, Remi. Thank you for being vulnerable, for genuinely wanting to help out other people. And thanks for sharing the reality of maintaining a home. Also, I know it's been a few months since you lost your precious dog, but if you're anything like me you're most likely still grieving, so I just wanted to say that I am so, so sorry for your loss. Know that you are not alone ❤🩹
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@CatzMarina I've just read your lovely comments to Remi. We lost our working Cocker 1 year ago, I'm heartbroken, miss him so much.
I've never been an organised person especially where the house is concerned, feel too sad atm to think about more than the very basics.
I do hope you start to feel better soon. Xxx
@@barbarastevenson6900 I'm sorry for your loss ❤🩹 thank you for your words, I hope you feel better soon too. Sadness comes and sadness goes, we must remember that to be strong and have hope during these lowest points 🤍
You are one of the most amazing and keep-it-real women on UA-cam! As a single mother of one now adult son, I remember how hectic mornings could be. I have always been a night owl and did most of my cleaning and tidying up at night so I wouldn't go crazy in the morning. I truly believe you give a lot of inspiration to young struggling mothers out there by reminding them that you don't have to be perfect. Everyone has their own struggles and their own way of dealing with them. Your advice of not comparing yourself to others is one of the most valuable pieces of advice! You rock! Cheers to an amazing and fabulous Mom! ❤🎉👋
Thank you!! Finally I get to see a realistic morning routine that actually makes me feel less alone! Your pep talk... its just everything❤. Real motherhood❤
Love your honesty. I was always super impressed by mums that did school drop offs looking immaculate head to toe......and like you i'd be rushing around and put joggers on over PJs to get out the door.
“Looking like the love child of Kerry Mucklowe and Adam Sandler” made me howl 😂 I’m so appreciative for your realness and honesty. You’re an amazing parent too ❤
WOW !!! You are getting so much done, Remi dear. Well done you. One of the things I admire and love you the most for is the way you parent your two boys. You are the most wonderful mum. Just keep on doing what you're doing. You are an inspiration to mums, grandmothers and great-grandmothers. Bless the four of you. Love, Dorothy.
Love all of your videos, but had to comment today, everything that you said resonated. Thanks for showing a “good” and “bad” day, without judgement, you’re amazing 😊
Ahh thank you so so much!! 🥰
I laughed at the staggering from the bedroom and the mouldy bread. I’ve so been there and done that 😂. And the clothes over the pjs on the school run! I loved this video
You always make my day brighter Remi. 🎉
Oh how I relate to the bad days! I've only found your videos recently Remi but I've been binging them and even put them on while I clean because I love your voice overs and it feels like I have someone here motivating me to keep going. Don't ever change, I can't believe people leave nasty comments, just remember for every nasty person there's 100s of others cheering you on 😁
This might be one of my favourite videos - so real and so true! I have tried to forgive myself in the part of my cycle where I just have little or no energy. And I can totally relate to wanting to be clean and comfy 🙌🏼. Thank you for being honest, real and a great motivator! 😊
Aww your boys are such helpers!! So sweet both of them! You're teaching them how picking up makes their home more comfy!
Remi, you are a gem. Your family and home are simply lovely. Thanks for sharing your life with us. 🥰
What a great video and I love your voice overs- they leave me feeling so loved and forgiving of myself no matter the day ❤ Never forget the self help industry makes money on you feeling like if you just give them money they’ll tell you the secrets to being more productive- you’re absolutely right that you’re okay no matter what version of yourself you are as long as you’re living in a way that’s safe for you and your family. This is the exact message everyone needs to hear. 🥰
Your videos are full of genuine realism and your humour which I believe we all love..x
I am HERE for this. Thank you for the gift of your authenticity! In a sea of social media highlight reels, I'd rather come to your channel for something I can relate to. Wishing you and your darling family all the best.
Thank you so so much ❤️
good morning, sweet girl! You are so real and so honest and so sweet that’s why I keep watching your videos. I look forward to seeing you here. Have a blessed day, my friend and stay safe🙏 love from Massachusetts❤me and Otis🐶
Remi you work incredibly hard !! Not just for your family but for all those beautiful Mums and Dads out there that with YOU they have the reassurance their not alone , and that the chaos in being a parent is the same road for most . It didn’t matter how organised I was , I was literally always on the last minute for the school run . As a 56 yr old Mum ( all children grown and flown the nest ) I can say to all you beautiful parents out there .....time passes way to fast 💨so as difficult as it is at times try to embrace the chaos and never be too hard on yourselves...... we all do the best we can with how we feel at the time . Sending love to all 💐
Wow! I didn't know I needed this video so bad. The mom guilt of not being productive is very real and very stressful. Thank you for this video! You said some things I definitely needed to hear 😊
You are a pleasure, Remi. You keep things real and not so high up that no one can reach there. Love your 10 minute tidy ups. I don't set an actual timer or alarm but I tell myself that I'm just going to start on something and work 10 minutes or so and it really does help. Something about just getting started, moving one thing, sort of restarts the brain and the body kind of follows along. Thanks for sharing a bit of your busy life and for the tips that help so much😊. You're an amazing lady and such a loving Mum! ❤️
Love this video. My child is long grown up, but getting out of the house to get to school frequently felt like being the jump captain for a planeload of highly reluctant paratroopers. Me in a long coat and boots to cover my pajamas, hat on head to hide crazy morning hair. It still makes me laugh.😂
Now I love that description! I always was impressed by the moms who were so put together in the morning, too. I did work some crazy hours when my kids were little, though, so I think I should have a few points for that. LOL
I wish I could get that much done in 10 min. I enjoy listening. Usually, I'm doing something else and listening to your happy, calming voice.
Remi I just can’t watch another cleaning channel. The way you keep talking to us, is like I’m chatting with a friend. I love you and love your videos. Please! Never stop doing this 😊 you always motivate me to clean my house, although I can’t be as fast as you yet, I’ll get there. Thank you for sharing your real life with us. ❤
What a sweet & thoughtful Mothers Day basket you did! Mushroom is so beautiful. Well done re your steps. One tip (the sweet EN) for uniform is to put the complete outfit over the landing bannisters if you have stairs. This will be useful when littl’un is also at school. I’d be happy to get up at 5.45 am with you Mon-Fri so you know you have company xx ❤
I respect you so much! I think you are so impressive what you do and how you consistently try to work on yourself. I enjoy watching your videos every time you post.
Thank you so much!! What a lovely thing to read ☺️
I love the way you talk about life. Thank you so much for your motivating words ❤
LOVE your mismatched socks, Remi! You are so REAL and truly represent us! ❤😅
I just discovered your channel and I LOVE it and subscribed. It’s so refreshing to watch a mom who is REAL! And down-to-earth, and kind to herself, no matter if it’s a good or bad day. I wish this would have been on 14 years ago when I first became a mom and was so hard on myself. ❤
I've always been the same. I need an hour or so to wind down in order to go to sleep. I love listening to you talk about life.
I feel this so much, I'm working til' 5, home and dinner on the table by 6, games and bonding with family until 7, then bedtime routine until 8 and I'm so tired i'm often in bed at the same time. Up at 5:50AM the next day to be getting everyone ready and out the door by 6:40AM. I'm hoping decluttering over time will make me eventually feel like I've got enough hours in a day.
Thank you for being soo real. Unedited and just so bloody normal. ❤
It is a wordl of diference when we get up in time, things go by themselves, but it's true, mornings start the night before. The night checklist is a best friend, and I only can do those tasks by remembering how awful it feels doing them in a hurry the next day. When I finally seat down, wow, what a light feeling. Thank you for this such real video. Many blessings 💗⚘
Your commentary on the downstairs loo clean made me cry. I'm much older than you and my girls are teenagers and preteen now. I wish someone like you had been around when I had my babies. I'm 41 now and only just getting on top of things and accepting I'm not a failure cos my brain works differently. I still need help but it's like a weight been lifted. So thank you ❤ it's refreshing to hear from someone who just gets it ❤
Just found this channel, and I've watched several of your videos in the last few days, and I have to say I'm really enjoying your videos. They are very realistic for busy people and are helping to change my thoughts. Everything doesn't need to be perfect every minute of every day. Which is something I struggle with. I always end up wearing myself out cleaning constantly. So, thank you for your videos. I'm going to continue watching them. Please keep posting! ❤
So normal! Honest of you to share the realities of motherhood. I remember those days well.... and treasure the memories. All 3 adult sons still living at home so some mornings still chaotic! Love family life! You are amazing xx
Remi I love this video. I’m a mum of 2 under 4 with another on the way. It’s so true, us women need to work with the strengths and challenges of our cycles. We perform so well and need to rest at certain times of our cycle - that’s just how we are built! I hope all women learn this so that we’re not so hard on ourselves❤
I started watching you just last week from the US.
I just love you! Such a beautiful soul. I love to see when the boys are helping always have a smile on my face. ❤
You are so intelligent! Keep doing what you doing.
Babe iv just found u and ur a life changer.the 10min clean makes so much sense just to get started.i feel the same as u in the way we talk to ourselves in our heads and trying and failing to live up to everyone else's stuff and when i fail the way i beat myself up for it.luv ur work.thank u so much
You must be hitting those steps and work out shows, you look Great! I love how supportive you are. You are the most genuine woman on UA-cam ❤
You are so kind, to yourself and others. I so appreciate that and that you kindly compare different methods or ideologies but you are so nice about that. I'm a 45 yo of 9 kids and I'm struggling!! But I believe God is guiding me and showing me what my body needs and my spirit. I love your page and it inspires me!!
I am so happy I find your UA-cam.....I would never get anything done since I am so tired all the time. Thank you so much for you being you
Love your honesty and realistic videos. Much more relatable than some other accounts doesn't make me feel like a complete failure at life when I watch you just normal so thanks ❤
Hello from Perth Western Australia…I’ve been watching you for about 3 months…I’m addicted…I’m always so excited when you post something new…you are so inspiring…keep up the good work 😊
Remi I recommend my 13 year old daughter to watch your videos. She had her bedroom redecorated last year and new bed and furniture ect but oh my word lately her room has just become like a bomb site 😫 I've tried to explain to her to put things away but she let's it build up and gets overwhelmed with it all then loses motivation. I think it's just a teenage phase shes going through 😂 anyways I put one of your videos on her tv and left her to it. She called me up around an hour later and wow her room was so tidy and everything in its place. She said watching you got her motivated so a big thankyou remi❤😊
I just have to say-I truly love the basket you've made!
I rarely comment on videos but just want to say what a great job your doing. Being a parent and giving people motivation and pep talks that actually make sense. I wish I had you to watch when my kid was little. Your more real life, than some UA-camrs staging a clean with me or day in the life. You defo make it feel OK to have bad days and then get it together and not all is lost. Thank you for being an inspiration to so many people xx
I do love how you came up with a system to make cleaning fun! Good on ya, Remi!
Love the message Remi! You are so right, every day is different and let’s follow our rhythm 👌🏻girl you are wise, far beyond your years! Love Ike in his orange jacket 🧡 and the basket for your mum turned out so lovely 👌🏻
You are awesome! So thankful for your words and your honesty ❤
The children helping is so precious!
What a wonderful treat this Sunday morning! Love your videos, your energy, and your positivity 💯 Thank you for sharing with us 💗
Remi, thank you, feel so much better after watching this, it’s ok to be both versions 😍 that is so helpful xx kids grown up now, but have 3 sheep called Dot, 232 and Biggy, 25 chickens and Bill the cockerel. As long as I look after them it’s enough on a bad day, thanks for looking at it in a positive way xx
You are the most relatable mom I've seen on yt. Thank you for being absolutely real. As a mother of 7 my days are hectic even when 6 out of 7 are in school😂
You are an inspiration to so many people. Thank you for sharing .
I'm a mum of 6 and I love watching your videos makes me carm down a bit and just relax mine are 14 12 8 and 9 2 and 3 don't let any judge you my nan always says cleaning will still be their next day 😊 x
You're wonderful, Remi! I can relate to so much! You are not alone! And you're doing great!
You're so good at verbalising thoughts and feelings that I'd never be able to put into words. You're amazing girl!
I found this so reassuring, thanks for sharing your experience, there is so much wisdom in your words ❤
Thank you Remi, I don’t feel so alone or despise myself quite as much ❤
I can't tell you enough how much I love your videos. They always get me motivated.
You make me smile!! I love your positive and motivational outlooks on life!
You are amazing and so real. So many of us can relate to your day to day routine xx
Happy Mother’s Day Remi I hope you have a good day and you’re an amazing mum and so real for everything you put online
Such good helpers!! Suxh a good cutie furbaby!! Keep them coming!🎉❤🎉 love , & God bless
Absolutely love your videos! You have saved my life in ways you do not know! God bless you and your family and keep up the good work I’m sure you get a lot of people through the day I know I do because of you!
Recent subscriber. Just wanted to say I find your channel so uplifting and motivating. You get to the point, offer great advice are cherie and fun. Plus, I love that you present the realities and don’t sugar coat life like a lot you UA-camrs do. Your videos are fantastic to watch to get me moving and doing in my own home.
Remi, thank you for another great video. I love your attitude and advice, I could listen to you all day.
I found for me things change a lot dew to the weather or how well I slept and even that the day before was busy or slow. So it’s nice to hear you and others feeling and doing things. 👍💐💐
I was about to go to bed with my room a mess and I had the energy but no motivation! I put your video on, and got it done in 20 minutes! Thank you Remi! ❤
So part of why I became literally obsessed with your content, and relate to you so very much like deeply. I know that a lot of why that is, is the neurodivergence I have the most severe adhd that is charted here in Canada. I wasn’t diagnosed until 32 and then finally now properly medicated at 37 and have spent the past 5 years learning how to manage my adhd as best I can. On the “good days” anyway.
But I truly am in awe of how much you understand not only about yourself but like others. Whether it be those who are like us, or those who are neurotypical. You are so very wise. Truly. I’ve loved your content. (found you here on UA-cam at first)
I find my self growing my own knowledge and acceptance of various things but particularly myself, due to your content. I even made a TikTok and sometimes I will see some content over there too. I’m not very familiar with the App, which usually means that I don’t often open it lol But when I am in need of “Remi support”, as I like to think of you content as, I know right where to find your accounts.
So yeah, Thank you so very much for sharing your knowledge, experience and understanding of how life just really is. I thank you so so so much for putting yourself out there to make sure those of us that need to hear you or really need your content. To be raw like that online is beyond brave, and to open yourself up to that possible scrutiny and criticism!!! Especially that because some people are genuinely cruel.
I personally, have benefited immensely because of you sharing that reality. Which for a lot of us, is very real. And only those of us that have to live in such a mental state like ADHD or any neurodivergence, will ever understand how hard it really is just to simply live some days.
Oh, also… I’m from the “facebook era” lol ‘ ..and I just want to say sorry, for all the rotten people who are stealing your content trying to profit, claiming to be you. It actually makes me sick. Because I absolutely know and understand how hard it would be for you to even make that content in the first place.
When I was in high school, around 15 years old, I remember that there was a
Student charged, or something to that effect, for plagiarism, due to use of another persons written words. (Granted it was a regular occurrence for the student as far as I understand)
But like how was that huge of a deal, and stealing someone actually voice and their image like actual videos of the creator themselves talking, not. I mean I understand that is hard to enforce that kind of thing online but come on people it’s theft regardless and very wrong. 😑
Bravo! I love how REAL you are. Keep being YOU!
So happy I found you not just because we struggle with the same things, have 2 boys the same age and do a lot of house cleaning, but also you said something I never heard anyone mention. That is about waking up a different person each day. Like some data I go to bed thinking I’m going to do xyz tomorrow, then wake up tomorrow and feel like I’ve just been replaced with a completely different person with different motivations. As well as feeling like I’m not m top of the world one day, then scrolling social media for 8 hours the next day.
You work sooo hard Remi, I do not know where you get the energy from? Thank you for showing us your real life, you are a breath of fresh air. You are so accepting of everyone, and have a heart of gold. We can all learn so much from you. Thank you for this bad and good video! Blessings and hugs, and I hope that you had a very happy Mother's Day tody, because boy, do you deserve it. From Jilly & Madge the rescue greyhound, from West Devon, England. xxx
Hallelujah I've come across someone real! U are nailing it momma! Happy Mother's Day ⚘ I'm enjoying ur videos so much thank u ❤
Love your videos you just hit right on what goes in many minds, at least mine. 🤣🤣
Love you Remi, love your amazing honesty and so glad I found your channel from when you started. You make me feel normal. I went to work myself the other day with one sock on :)
Thank you do much for your honest videos. I feel so overwhelmed somedays but you have helped me so much. Thank you 🙏
Remi I adored this video and the commentary! You speak so well to yourself, without judgement. Encouraging yourself and others. And it’s very uplifting. ❤
Girl when you found out the bread was mouldy your reaction was so relatable 😅 of course it’s mouldy we’re late. Love how real this is lovely ❤ my little one also doesn’t eat her sandwich 😂
Oh Remi. This bought back so many memories. The bad mornings run to pace, the good ones not so much. You are a serious jewel to me. I am so excited when I see a new video. I feel like you are on the other end of the phone chatting to me. Thanks for taking the time to share with us.
I'm so proud of you. You do a great job with your boys and with your home. Nobody's perfect. We all have our good days and bad ones.. We can only do our best. Love your videos . Sending my love as always♥️.
You are so precious! Thanks for being so human!🩷
Love your videos remi .I really get motivated when I watch you xx
I absolutely love your loving, down to earth way. ❤️ I always look forward to your uplifting & positive videos and your sweet family. OH! And Nate the Hoof Guy!!! LOL can't even tell you how many nights I've stayed up watching his addictive videos. 🤣 Be well & take care, Remi! Blessings 🥰💕
I always love listening to your voiceovers! ❤❤❤
Remi, I relate to you so heavily 😆 I am also trying to do 10,000 steps a day right now, I'm on day 70, and have managed it every day, so at least if nothing else has gone right that day, and I feel like a failure, at least I've done something 😂
You absolutely don't look ridiculous, you look like a woman on a mission ❤ love to you, your videos make me feel normal x
I love watching your videos… usually while I’m ironing… it’s so good to know that I am not alone here!! I’m very much like you… fits and bursts… some days I want to do everything other days I just want to sit on sofa all day 😭… it’s a horrible feeling on the bad days but I just cannot get myself out of it sometimes.
Thankyou for these videos … they inspire me 💪❤️
This video is exactly what I needed as a new mother, you have touched on so many points already (I havent finished watching) that I VERY slowly realised about myself and why motherhood was so difficult for me, and the fact that our cycles affect us so much across a month. That was an epiphany moment for me comparable to the first time I heard 'executive function' (it was you who said it). So many people comment that you are so much like them, and girl if i wasnt so introverted and lived half way across the world we'd be two peas in a pod. Ill be recommending this video to any new mum friends, cause sometimes you literally need someone to say it to you before it makes sense. Thank you for sharing you ❤
I love your expression "bad days". We are in the boat with you! Life is hard (normal), and more challenging with our sweet kiddos. The love you show your family and yourself is your secret weapon!! Later in life, we look back and find the bad days were often our best days. Hugs!
A very motivating video! I am 62 and I still have a daughter who moved in with us and also a 2yr old grandson. You are so encouraging and so down to earth. You are an awesome mum in the way you are there with your kids and you probably bust your buns on a regular basis, you have inspired me to get off my butt and start. I’m so overwhelmed by the mess and the anxiety and depression don’t help. But while watching I was tidying up my living room, and we only get 24 hrs in one day and it’s all how we choose to do with those hours. You are a wonderful lady and I simply love your accent. Thank you again for the encouragement that you put out in your videos. I send you hugs and a pat on the back. ☘️🦋☘️🦋☘️🦋☘️♥️♥️♥️♥️☘️🦋☘️🦋☘️🦋