Girl, you managed to do a load of laundry, get your kids fed and dressed, get your oldest to school reasonably on time, do an outdoor activity with your youngest, AND exercise yourself??? That's a good day in my book any day! Great job
@@remiclogwhat type of trash can/rubbish bin/waste basket thing do you have in your kitchen? What trash bags/bin bags do you use? Can you tell me exactly what they're called - or maybe just similar ones that I can find on Amazon? Weird, I know, but we don't have that style of trash bag in my area.
Dear Remi, I’m a mother of a 13 year old boy. Watching you run around like Mrs Speedy Gonzales just makes my heart melt but also takes me back to the time my son was around your boys age. The part where he put on his shoes without his socks just made laugh. Please continue to share your amazing family and how you run your household. You are our STAR 🌟 sending you all my best wishes ❤️❤️❤️🇹🇷
É terrível se a gente espera que um menininho de 2 anos lembre de colocar meias, mas é fantástico se a gente pensa que ele tem só 2 anos e colocou sapatos sozinho! Você tem uma família incrível, Remi!
I know this is gonna sound crazy, but when we were trying.....and trying lol, I started some reverse psychology on myself. I made myself think like, I cannot get pregnant...I cannot get pregnant. Kind of like it'd be a terrible thing or I'd get in trouble or something, lol idk. I didn't think of it that way, but lots of people get pregnant when they don't want to, so let's give it a go. I could swear it worked like a charm. I have twins now after a few losses, including another set of twins. I always hope it works for someone else. It can be a long and emotionally trying road, I know. Sending lots of love, hope, and luck your way. ❤
I don’t think you realise how much you help others. I’ve been going through a really rough patch with my mental health, and your videos have become my safety blanket. The way you talk about life and the tone of your voice is so helpful. Thank you 💜
I absolutely love your videos. I'm 68, and now I have 3 children. Even at my age i really seem to struggle with exactly the same feelings as you. It helps to know I'm not the only one. I really struggle with motivation. Thanks for taking the time to do these videos . ❤
Thank you!! Finally I get to see a realistic morning routine that actually makes me feel less alone! Your pep talk... its just everything❤. Real motherhood❤
Love your honesty. I was always super impressed by mums that did school drop offs looking immaculate head to toe......and like you i'd be rushing around and put joggers on over PJs to get out the door.
I've lost my two dogs in the last 5 months. Back in October we lost our oldest, after months of us and himself fighting for his life. Then just when we were starting to breathe a little easier and gaining back some hope in life - I have a tiny UA-cam channel and even posted my first video after months of not posting - our 9 year old dog had a medical emergency and he passed away unexpectedly. It's been a nightmare. This is the lowest I've ever felt in my life, I feel heartbroken, depressed, hopeless, anxious, scared, angry and find it really hard to function. Simply showering has become a massive task and work is dreadful. Every day I want to quit. All this goes to say that your videos have been a blessing❤. You've been helping me so much maintaining some sort of normality in my home. Cleaning along with your videos has been feeling more helpful than therapy - which I'm doing as well. And your voiceovers are so precious and relatable, sometimes I genuinely feel like you're in my head, speaking out my thoughts. So I just wanted to say thank you, Remi. Thank you for being vulnerable, for genuinely wanting to help out other people. And thanks for sharing the reality of maintaining a home. Also, I know it's been a few months since you lost your precious dog, but if you're anything like me you're most likely still grieving, so I just wanted to say that I am so, so sorry for your loss. Know that you are not alone ❤🩹 (apologies for the long-ass comment)
@CatzMarina I've just read your lovely comments to Remi. We lost our working Cocker 1 year ago, I'm heartbroken, miss him so much. I've never been an organised person especially where the house is concerned, feel too sad atm to think about more than the very basics. I do hope you start to feel better soon. Xxx
@@barbarastevenson6900 I'm sorry for your loss ❤🩹 thank you for your words, I hope you feel better soon too. Sadness comes and sadness goes, we must remember that to be strong and have hope during these lowest points 🤍
WOW !!! You are getting so much done, Remi dear. Well done you. One of the things I admire and love you the most for is the way you parent your two boys. You are the most wonderful mum. Just keep on doing what you're doing. You are an inspiration to mums, grandmothers and great-grandmothers. Bless the four of you. Love, Dorothy.
“Looking like the love child of Kerry Mucklowe and Adam Sandler” made me howl 😂 I’m so appreciative for your realness and honesty. You’re an amazing parent too ❤
What a great video and I love your voice overs- they leave me feeling so loved and forgiving of myself no matter the day ❤ Never forget the self help industry makes money on you feeling like if you just give them money they’ll tell you the secrets to being more productive- you’re absolutely right that you’re okay no matter what version of yourself you are as long as you’re living in a way that’s safe for you and your family. This is the exact message everyone needs to hear. 🥰
This might be one of my favourite videos - so real and so true! I have tried to forgive myself in the part of my cycle where I just have little or no energy. And I can totally relate to wanting to be clean and comfy 🙌🏼. Thank you for being honest, real and a great motivator! 😊
Love all of your videos, but had to comment today, everything that you said resonated. Thanks for showing a “good” and “bad” day, without judgement, you’re amazing 😊
good morning, sweet girl! You are so real and so honest and so sweet that’s why I keep watching your videos. I look forward to seeing you here. Have a blessed day, my friend and stay safe🙏 love from Massachusetts❤me and Otis🐶
You are one of the most amazing and keep-it-real women on UA-cam! As a single mother of one now adult son, I remember how hectic mornings could be. I have always been a night owl and did most of my cleaning and tidying up at night so I wouldn't go crazy in the morning. I truly believe you give a lot of inspiration to young struggling mothers out there by reminding them that you don't have to be perfect. Everyone has their own struggles and their own way of dealing with them. Your advice of not comparing yourself to others is one of the most valuable pieces of advice! You rock! Cheers to an amazing and fabulous Mom! ❤🎉👋
You are a pleasure, Remi. You keep things real and not so high up that no one can reach there. Love your 10 minute tidy ups. I don't set an actual timer or alarm but I tell myself that I'm just going to start on something and work 10 minutes or so and it really does help. Something about just getting started, moving one thing, sort of restarts the brain and the body kind of follows along. Thanks for sharing a bit of your busy life and for the tips that help so much😊. You're an amazing lady and such a loving Mum! ❤️
Remi you work incredibly hard !! Not just for your family but for all those beautiful Mums and Dads out there that with YOU they have the reassurance their not alone , and that the chaos in being a parent is the same road for most . It didn’t matter how organised I was , I was literally always on the last minute for the school run . As a 56 yr old Mum ( all children grown and flown the nest ) I can say to all you beautiful parents out there .....time passes way to fast 💨so as difficult as it is at times try to embrace the chaos and never be too hard on yourselves...... we all do the best we can with how we feel at the time . Sending love to all 💐
I am HERE for this. Thank you for the gift of your authenticity! In a sea of social media highlight reels, I'd rather come to your channel for something I can relate to. Wishing you and your darling family all the best.
I laughed at the staggering from the bedroom and the mouldy bread. I’ve so been there and done that 😂. And the clothes over the pjs on the school run! I loved this video
What a sweet & thoughtful Mothers Day basket you did! Mushroom is so beautiful. Well done re your steps. One tip (the sweet EN) for uniform is to put the complete outfit over the landing bannisters if you have stairs. This will be useful when littl’un is also at school. I’d be happy to get up at 5.45 am with you Mon-Fri so you know you have company xx ❤
Wow! I didn't know I needed this video so bad. The mom guilt of not being productive is very real and very stressful. Thank you for this video! You said some things I definitely needed to hear 😊
Oh how I relate to the bad days! I've only found your videos recently Remi but I've been binging them and even put them on while I clean because I love your voice overs and it feels like I have someone here motivating me to keep going. Don't ever change, I can't believe people leave nasty comments, just remember for every nasty person there's 100s of others cheering you on 😁
I rarely comment on videos but just want to say what a great job your doing. Being a parent and giving people motivation and pep talks that actually make sense. I wish I had you to watch when my kid was little. Your more real life, than some UA-camrs staging a clean with me or day in the life. You defo make it feel OK to have bad days and then get it together and not all is lost. Thank you for being an inspiration to so many people xx
I respect you so much! I think you are so impressive what you do and how you consistently try to work on yourself. I enjoy watching your videos every time you post.
I started watching you just last week from the US. I just love you! Such a beautiful soul. I love to see when the boys are helping always have a smile on my face. ❤ You are so intelligent! Keep doing what you doing.
I absolutely LOVE that you're real and approachable, Remi. Your videos feel like time spent with a good friend. My son is 26 and has his own place, but my mornings can still get all jacked up and I only have myself to take care of.
Love the message Remi! You are so right, every day is different and let’s follow our rhythm 👌🏻girl you are wise, far beyond your years! Love Ike in his orange jacket 🧡 and the basket for your mum turned out so lovely 👌🏻
A very motivating video! I am 62 and I still have a daughter who moved in with us and also a 2yr old grandson. You are so encouraging and so down to earth. You are an awesome mum in the way you are there with your kids and you probably bust your buns on a regular basis, you have inspired me to get off my butt and start. I’m so overwhelmed by the mess and the anxiety and depression don’t help. But while watching I was tidying up my living room, and we only get 24 hrs in one day and it’s all how we choose to do with those hours. You are a wonderful lady and I simply love your accent. Thank you again for the encouragement that you put out in your videos. I send you hugs and a pat on the back. ☘️🦋☘️🦋☘️🦋☘️♥️♥️♥️♥️☘️🦋☘️🦋☘️🦋
I like watching your videos. I am 76, I have four grandchildren. I looked after my two children and their children by teaching them to put their toys back in the box/basket when they finished playing, before lunch and at bedtime. They soon learn that they must tidy up. A valuable lesson in life.
Truly appreciate your videos and your talk overs. You have no idea how it’s impacting my mental state right now thank you for being honest and sharing this. It’s actually calming, relaxing and reassuring to watch a normal day life with no exaggeration whatsoever. Truly appreciate it. Thank you for this.
You are SUCH an inspiration, Remi. I have no children and no financial issues, but I have chronic pain and anxiety issues that make each day a struggle...just in a different way. I was a widow at age 38 and trauma from the past has settled in my body, causing physical issues. I share that because I like to tell people that we never know what another person is going through. We all have something. I really appreciate you sharing what a good day vs. a bad day looks like and the grace you give yourself. I SO love a good day that I want them all to be like that. But, as you would say, that's just not realistic so why beat myself up about it. Wishing you and your family many blessings.
I only came across your video yesterday and its amazing how ive been hooked to watching all your videos back to back. Thanks for helpjng me to finally get to declutering and tidying my wardrobes and my rooms. I really appreciate your 'ramblings'. You are definitely affecting lives and shedding a lot of light to people's behavioral abnormalities. Keep it up
Remi, both versions of you are excellent even on a bad day you really do alot . The most important thing is that your giving your children a loving home and providing a good example for them to follow. ❤
You are the most relatable mom I've seen on yt. Thank you for being absolutely real. As a mother of 7 my days are hectic even when 6 out of 7 are in school😂
Another awesome video. Love real people that aren’t all fake pretending to be someone they’re not. Love that the little ones are helping their mumma tidy up.
I just discovered your channel and I LOVE it and subscribed. It’s so refreshing to watch a mom who is REAL! And down-to-earth, and kind to herself, no matter if it’s a good or bad day. I wish this would have been on 14 years ago when I first became a mom and was so hard on myself. ❤
Oh Remi. This bought back so many memories. The bad mornings run to pace, the good ones not so much. You are a serious jewel to me. I am so excited when I see a new video. I feel like you are on the other end of the phone chatting to me. Thanks for taking the time to share with us.
I love your expression "bad days". We are in the boat with you! Life is hard (normal), and more challenging with our sweet kiddos. The love you show your family and yourself is your secret weapon!! Later in life, we look back and find the bad days were often our best days. Hugs!
Remi, I'd like to offer that anything you do 1x per week may not be "rare". I only offer this bc it is worth celebrating! YOU did that. You got to a point where about once a week you get up early and even if it isn't as often as you want it to eventually be, it counts as one of your triumphs. You're constantly affirming us and I hope this sentiment sounds familiar to the way you encourage others bc I couldn't wait to reflect back to you a little of the good energy you put out into the world.
You are such a down to earth inspiration. I have an ok executive function but struggle hard with loads of things to do at home in the end of the day and i'm already brain drained. Thanks a million for sharing compassion on living ❤❤❤
You work sooo hard Remi, I do not know where you get the energy from? Thank you for showing us your real life, you are a breath of fresh air. You are so accepting of everyone, and have a heart of gold. We can all learn so much from you. Thank you for this bad and good video! Blessings and hugs, and I hope that you had a very happy Mother's Day tody, because boy, do you deserve it. From Jilly & Madge the rescue greyhound, from West Devon, England. xxx
Thank you so much for this video, I love that you are so honest about the realities of being a mum of young children and your videos really help me to acknowledge the little wins.
You're so good at verbalising thoughts and feelings that I'd never be able to put into words. You're amazing girl!
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Remi I just can’t watch another cleaning channel. The way you keep talking to us, is like I’m chatting with a friend. I love you and love your videos. Please! Never stop doing this 😊 you always motivate me to clean my house, although I can’t be as fast as you yet, I’ll get there. Thank you for sharing your real life with us. ❤
So part of why I became literally obsessed with your content, and relate to you so very much like deeply. I know that a lot of why that is, is the neurodivergence I have the most severe adhd that is charted here in Canada. I wasn’t diagnosed until 32 and then finally now properly medicated at 37 and have spent the past 5 years learning how to manage my adhd as best I can. On the “good days” anyway. But I truly am in awe of how much you understand not only about yourself but like others. Whether it be those who are like us, or those who are neurotypical. You are so very wise. Truly. I’ve loved your content. (found you here on UA-cam at first) I find my self growing my own knowledge and acceptance of various things but particularly myself, due to your content. I even made a TikTok and sometimes I will see some content over there too. I’m not very familiar with the App, which usually means that I don’t often open it lol But when I am in need of “Remi support”, as I like to think of you content as, I know right where to find your accounts. So yeah, Thank you so very much for sharing your knowledge, experience and understanding of how life just really is. I thank you so so so much for putting yourself out there to make sure those of us that need to hear you or really need your content. To be raw like that online is beyond brave, and to open yourself up to that possible scrutiny and criticism!!! Especially that because some people are genuinely cruel. I personally, have benefited immensely because of you sharing that reality. Which for a lot of us, is very real. And only those of us that have to live in such a mental state like ADHD or any neurodivergence, will ever understand how hard it really is just to simply live some days. Oh, also… I’m from the “facebook era” lol ‘ ..and I just want to say sorry, for all the rotten people who are stealing your content trying to profit, claiming to be you. It actually makes me sick. Because I absolutely know and understand how hard it would be for you to even make that content in the first place. When I was in high school, around 15 years old, I remember that there was a Student charged, or something to that effect, for plagiarism, due to use of another persons written words. (Granted it was a regular occurrence for the student as far as I understand) But like how was that huge of a deal, and stealing someone actually voice and their image like actual videos of the creator themselves talking, not. I mean I understand that is hard to enforce that kind of thing online but come on people it’s theft regardless and very wrong. 😑
You are so kind, to yourself and others. I so appreciate that and that you kindly compare different methods or ideologies but you are so nice about that. I'm a 45 yo of 9 kids and I'm struggling!! But I believe God is guiding me and showing me what my body needs and my spirit. I love your page and it inspires me!!
Remi I adored this video and the commentary! You speak so well to yourself, without judgement. Encouraging yourself and others. And it’s very uplifting. ❤
Remi I love this video. I’m a mum of 2 under 4 with another on the way. It’s so true, us women need to work with the strengths and challenges of our cycles. We perform so well and need to rest at certain times of our cycle - that’s just how we are built! I hope all women learn this so that we’re not so hard on ourselves❤
Recent subscriber. Just wanted to say I find your channel so uplifting and motivating. You get to the point, offer great advice are cherie and fun. Plus, I love that you present the realities and don’t sugar coat life like a lot you UA-camrs do. Your videos are fantastic to watch to get me moving and doing in my own home.
So normal! Honest of you to share the realities of motherhood. I remember those days well.... and treasure the memories. All 3 adult sons still living at home so some mornings still chaotic! Love family life! You are amazing xx
This video is exactly what I needed as a new mother, you have touched on so many points already (I havent finished watching) that I VERY slowly realised about myself and why motherhood was so difficult for me, and the fact that our cycles affect us so much across a month. That was an epiphany moment for me comparable to the first time I heard 'executive function' (it was you who said it). So many people comment that you are so much like them, and girl if i wasnt so introverted and lived half way across the world we'd be two peas in a pod. Ill be recommending this video to any new mum friends, cause sometimes you literally need someone to say it to you before it makes sense. Thank you for sharing you ❤
Just found you and am working my way through your videos. Love how you honestly show what real life with kids actually looks like! My kids are adults now and I wish I could have been watching you 30 years ago when my life was like this!
I overslept today and it always turns to a bad day.because I’m playing catch up I love your videos your like a breath of fresh air.have a wonderful Mother’s Day ❤
You are so refreshing in a world full of unrealistic rubbish. I love how you do you girl. Don’t worry about anyone questioning anything in your comments about why your kids don’t clean up after themselves, we are all guilty of picking up after our kids no matter their age.
Hi Remi just sent this video to my 18yr old granddaughter she has ADHD and is messy always trying to get organised hopefully she will start doing the 10min cleans such a good idea. Keep up the good work really enjoying your videos. Happy mother's day 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Babe iv just found u and ur a life changer.the 10min clean makes so much sense just to get started.i feel the same as u in the way we talk to ourselves in our heads and trying and failing to live up to everyone else's stuff and when i fail the way i beat myself up for it.luv ur work.thank u so much
Your commentary on the downstairs loo clean made me cry. I'm much older than you and my girls are teenagers and preteen now. I wish someone like you had been around when I had my babies. I'm 41 now and only just getting on top of things and accepting I'm not a failure cos my brain works differently. I still need help but it's like a weight been lifted. So thank you ❤ it's refreshing to hear from someone who just gets it ❤
It is a wordl of diference when we get up in time, things go by themselves, but it's true, mornings start the night before. The night checklist is a best friend, and I only can do those tasks by remembering how awful it feels doing them in a hurry the next day. When I finally seat down, wow, what a light feeling. Thank you for this such real video. Many blessings 💗⚘
Just found this channel, and I've watched several of your videos in the last few days, and I have to say I'm really enjoying your videos. They are very realistic for busy people and are helping to change my thoughts. Everything doesn't need to be perfect every minute of every day. Which is something I struggle with. I always end up wearing myself out cleaning constantly. So, thank you for your videos. I'm going to continue watching them. Please keep posting! ❤
On your bad day, you said something negative about the way you look when you were getting in your 10k steps. I thought you looked wonderful and I was so happy that you were disciplined enough to do it! Super proud of you!
I absolutely love your loving, down to earth way. ❤️ I always look forward to your uplifting & positive videos and your sweet family. OH! And Nate the Hoof Guy!!! LOL can't even tell you how many nights I've stayed up watching his addictive videos. 🤣 Be well & take care, Remi! Blessings 🥰💕
Hi 👋Remi. You're doing great!!! I get the whole thing, totally. Being there for kids feeding, dressing and getting where when they need to be IS the most important thing you do. This is how kids know they're loved.
You are great to always keep it real. It takes the pressure off to be perfect. Thank you so much. Hope you had a Happy Mother’s Day. The gift set you made your mam was lovely. Have a great week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇♀️👏💪👍🙏💐🐕🦺
I think you’re doing amazing. I have ADHD I can’t clean every day I don’t even clean every week or month. So you’re doing absolutely fantastic. You’re also brave for sharing. Those people who say how did your place get in such a mess, should understand our brains don’t work like theirs.
Oh Remi the face says it all. I swear every bad mother day looks the same..do not beat yourself up. Despite how you felt you still did your best. And that is the most important. A bsd day doesnt mean everythibg for tje day is ruined. You proofed it. Everyone is dealing with these guilt.
Love your honesty and realistic videos. Much more relatable than some other accounts doesn't make me feel like a complete failure at life when I watch you just normal so thanks ❤
You’re just incredible! I appreciate your honesty because we all think we’re perfect but we’re not. Life always step in the way . Plus, you’re allowed to have time for your self. You’re an amazing Mom and person:) 😊🤩👏💟😇 You’re a super star!🌟💝.
Remi I recommend my 13 year old daughter to watch your videos. She had her bedroom redecorated last year and new bed and furniture ect but oh my word lately her room has just become like a bomb site 😫 I've tried to explain to her to put things away but she let's it build up and gets overwhelmed with it all then loses motivation. I think it's just a teenage phase shes going through 😂 anyways I put one of your videos on her tv and left her to it. She called me up around an hour later and wow her room was so tidy and everything in its place. She said watching you got her motivated so a big thankyou remi❤😊
I do Get Fit With Rick too. They’re great videos - easy to fit in a busy day. In theory my days are organised, but in practice it’s more like two or three organised days, three chaotic ones, and one frantic catch up day!
I'm so proud of you. You do a great job with your boys and with your home. Nobody's perfect. We all have our good days and bad ones.. We can only do our best. Love your videos . Sending my love as always♥️.
Girl, you managed to do a load of laundry, get your kids fed and dressed, get your oldest to school reasonably on time, do an outdoor activity with your youngest, AND exercise yourself??? That's a good day in my book any day! Great job
I love the start of the “bad” morning with you “staggering” out of the room. That’s more like it, love the realism. That’s me EVERY morning😂
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Can not wait for the next one
Omg I couldn't stop laughing 😅❤
@@remiclogwhat type of trash can/rubbish bin/waste basket thing do you have in your kitchen? What trash bags/bin bags do you use? Can you tell me exactly what they're called - or maybe just similar ones that I can find on Amazon? Weird, I know, but we don't have that style of trash bag in my area.
I know that wake up stagger very well 😂
Same 24 hours in the day. But not the same mental/physical/emotional capacity & not the same demands.
I love this video.
100%!!! Thank you 😊❤️
@@remiclogRemi, I’ve never asked anyone this before but please read my post. 🩷 Tonya
Dear Remi, I’m a mother of a 13 year old boy. Watching you run around like Mrs Speedy Gonzales just makes my heart melt but also takes me back to the time my son was around your boys age. The part where he put on his shoes without his socks just made laugh. Please continue to share your amazing family and how you run your household. You are our STAR 🌟 sending you all my best wishes ❤️❤️❤️🇹🇷
É terrível se a gente espera que um menininho de 2 anos lembre de colocar meias, mas é fantástico se a gente pensa que ele tem só 2 anos e colocou sapatos sozinho! Você tem uma família incrível, Remi!
Where is your husband??? No help at all? That's how my ex was. Were divorced many years.
“You can be both versions of you” great advice. ❤
I’m not a mum (we’re trying) but I just love you! You’re so down to earth - honest & a great mum! it’s refreshing
happy Mother’s Day!
Thank you so much!! I really hope it happens for you soon! 🤞🏼✨❤️
Good luck 🍀 with becoming pregnant and don't stress, which isn't easy, but it'll happen when you least expect it. Best wishes from Northern Ireland.
I know this is gonna sound crazy, but when we were trying.....and trying lol, I started some reverse psychology on myself. I made myself think like, I cannot get pregnant...I cannot get pregnant. Kind of like it'd be a terrible thing or I'd get in trouble or something, lol idk. I didn't think of it that way, but lots of people get pregnant when they don't want to, so let's give it a go. I could swear it worked like a charm. I have twins now after a few losses, including another set of twins. I always hope it works for someone else. It can be a long and emotionally trying road, I know. Sending lots of love, hope, and luck your way. ❤
@@remiclog thank you so much, hope you had a good one! 😊
@@sarahneedom9661 thank you lol, I’ll give it a go, having IVF in a few months so 🤞🏼
I don’t think you realise how much you help others. I’ve been going through a really rough patch with my mental health, and your videos have become my safety blanket. The way you talk about life and the tone of your voice is so helpful. Thank you 💜
Sorry you're going through a tough time. Sending you a hug. ♥
My dad died a week ago. My house is upside down. I love your videos because they remind me that it's okay when life happens.
My condolences. There are things that take precedence.
Sending lots of love your way ❤
I'm so sorry for your loss. Many comforting thoughts to you.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Be patient and loving to yourself at this difficult time.
So sorry for the loss of your Dad. It’s time to look after you - house can wait.
I absolutely love your videos. I'm 68, and now I have 3 children. Even at my age i really seem to struggle with exactly the same feelings as you. It helps to know I'm not the only one. I really struggle with motivation. Thanks for taking the time to do these videos . ❤
Thank you!! Finally I get to see a realistic morning routine that actually makes me feel less alone! Your pep talk... its just everything❤. Real motherhood❤
I love the idea of having TWO routines. The top notch routine and the baseline routine
Love your honesty. I was always super impressed by mums that did school drop offs looking immaculate head to toe......and like you i'd be rushing around and put joggers on over PJs to get out the door.
I've lost my two dogs in the last 5 months. Back in October we lost our oldest, after months of us and himself fighting for his life. Then just when we were starting to breathe a little easier and gaining back some hope in life - I have a tiny UA-cam channel and even posted my first video after months of not posting - our 9 year old dog had a medical emergency and he passed away unexpectedly. It's been a nightmare. This is the lowest I've ever felt in my life, I feel heartbroken, depressed, hopeless, anxious, scared, angry and find it really hard to function. Simply showering has become a massive task and work is dreadful. Every day I want to quit.
All this goes to say that your videos have been a blessing❤. You've been helping me so much maintaining some sort of normality in my home. Cleaning along with your videos has been feeling more helpful than therapy - which I'm doing as well. And your voiceovers are so precious and relatable, sometimes I genuinely feel like you're in my head, speaking out my thoughts.
So I just wanted to say thank you, Remi. Thank you for being vulnerable, for genuinely wanting to help out other people. And thanks for sharing the reality of maintaining a home. Also, I know it's been a few months since you lost your precious dog, but if you're anything like me you're most likely still grieving, so I just wanted to say that I am so, so sorry for your loss. Know that you are not alone ❤🩹
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@CatzMarina I've just read your lovely comments to Remi. We lost our working Cocker 1 year ago, I'm heartbroken, miss him so much.
I've never been an organised person especially where the house is concerned, feel too sad atm to think about more than the very basics.
I do hope you start to feel better soon. Xxx
@@barbarastevenson6900 I'm sorry for your loss ❤🩹 thank you for your words, I hope you feel better soon too. Sadness comes and sadness goes, we must remember that to be strong and have hope during these lowest points 🤍
WOW !!! You are getting so much done, Remi dear. Well done you. One of the things I admire and love you the most for is the way you parent your two boys. You are the most wonderful mum. Just keep on doing what you're doing. You are an inspiration to mums, grandmothers and great-grandmothers. Bless the four of you. Love, Dorothy.
Aww your boys are such helpers!! So sweet both of them! You're teaching them how picking up makes their home more comfy!
“Looking like the love child of Kerry Mucklowe and Adam Sandler” made me howl 😂 I’m so appreciative for your realness and honesty. You’re an amazing parent too ❤
What a great video and I love your voice overs- they leave me feeling so loved and forgiving of myself no matter the day ❤ Never forget the self help industry makes money on you feeling like if you just give them money they’ll tell you the secrets to being more productive- you’re absolutely right that you’re okay no matter what version of yourself you are as long as you’re living in a way that’s safe for you and your family. This is the exact message everyone needs to hear. 🥰
This might be one of my favourite videos - so real and so true! I have tried to forgive myself in the part of my cycle where I just have little or no energy. And I can totally relate to wanting to be clean and comfy 🙌🏼. Thank you for being honest, real and a great motivator! 😊
Love all of your videos, but had to comment today, everything that you said resonated. Thanks for showing a “good” and “bad” day, without judgement, you’re amazing 😊
Ahh thank you so so much!! 🥰
good morning, sweet girl! You are so real and so honest and so sweet that’s why I keep watching your videos. I look forward to seeing you here. Have a blessed day, my friend and stay safe🙏 love from Massachusetts❤me and Otis🐶
You are one of the most amazing and keep-it-real women on UA-cam! As a single mother of one now adult son, I remember how hectic mornings could be. I have always been a night owl and did most of my cleaning and tidying up at night so I wouldn't go crazy in the morning. I truly believe you give a lot of inspiration to young struggling mothers out there by reminding them that you don't have to be perfect. Everyone has their own struggles and their own way of dealing with them. Your advice of not comparing yourself to others is one of the most valuable pieces of advice! You rock! Cheers to an amazing and fabulous Mom! ❤🎉👋
Your videos are full of genuine realism and your humour which I believe we all love..x
Remi, you are a gem. Your family and home are simply lovely. Thanks for sharing your life with us. 🥰
You are a pleasure, Remi. You keep things real and not so high up that no one can reach there. Love your 10 minute tidy ups. I don't set an actual timer or alarm but I tell myself that I'm just going to start on something and work 10 minutes or so and it really does help. Something about just getting started, moving one thing, sort of restarts the brain and the body kind of follows along. Thanks for sharing a bit of your busy life and for the tips that help so much😊. You're an amazing lady and such a loving Mum! ❤️
Remi you work incredibly hard !! Not just for your family but for all those beautiful Mums and Dads out there that with YOU they have the reassurance their not alone , and that the chaos in being a parent is the same road for most . It didn’t matter how organised I was , I was literally always on the last minute for the school run . As a 56 yr old Mum ( all children grown and flown the nest ) I can say to all you beautiful parents out there .....time passes way to fast 💨so as difficult as it is at times try to embrace the chaos and never be too hard on yourselves...... we all do the best we can with how we feel at the time . Sending love to all 💐
I am HERE for this. Thank you for the gift of your authenticity! In a sea of social media highlight reels, I'd rather come to your channel for something I can relate to. Wishing you and your darling family all the best.
Thank you so so much ❤️
I laughed at the staggering from the bedroom and the mouldy bread. I’ve so been there and done that 😂. And the clothes over the pjs on the school run! I loved this video
What a sweet & thoughtful Mothers Day basket you did! Mushroom is so beautiful. Well done re your steps. One tip (the sweet EN) for uniform is to put the complete outfit over the landing bannisters if you have stairs. This will be useful when littl’un is also at school. I’d be happy to get up at 5.45 am with you Mon-Fri so you know you have company xx ❤
Grandmother here. You are not ranting you are inspiring telling your story and your experience hoping to encourage others. That is a life well lived.
Wow! I didn't know I needed this video so bad. The mom guilt of not being productive is very real and very stressful. Thank you for this video! You said some things I definitely needed to hear 😊
Oh how I relate to the bad days! I've only found your videos recently Remi but I've been binging them and even put them on while I clean because I love your voice overs and it feels like I have someone here motivating me to keep going. Don't ever change, I can't believe people leave nasty comments, just remember for every nasty person there's 100s of others cheering you on 😁
You always make my day brighter Remi. 🎉
I rarely comment on videos but just want to say what a great job your doing. Being a parent and giving people motivation and pep talks that actually make sense. I wish I had you to watch when my kid was little. Your more real life, than some UA-camrs staging a clean with me or day in the life. You defo make it feel OK to have bad days and then get it together and not all is lost. Thank you for being an inspiration to so many people xx
I respect you so much! I think you are so impressive what you do and how you consistently try to work on yourself. I enjoy watching your videos every time you post.
Thank you so much!! What a lovely thing to read ☺️
I started watching you just last week from the US.
I just love you! Such a beautiful soul. I love to see when the boys are helping always have a smile on my face. ❤
You are so intelligent! Keep doing what you doing.
What a wonderful treat this Sunday morning! Love your videos, your energy, and your positivity 💯 Thank you for sharing with us 💗
I absolutely LOVE that you're real and approachable, Remi. Your videos feel like time spent with a good friend. My son is 26 and has his own place, but my mornings can still get all jacked up and I only have myself to take care of.
You must be hitting those steps and work out shows, you look Great! I love how supportive you are. You are the most genuine woman on UA-cam ❤
I love how you prioritize your kids and family first ❤️. I totally agree. Everyone is different. I suffer from migraines, and I just do my best.
That’s all any of us can do ❤️
Love the message Remi! You are so right, every day is different and let’s follow our rhythm 👌🏻girl you are wise, far beyond your years! Love Ike in his orange jacket 🧡 and the basket for your mum turned out so lovely 👌🏻
A very motivating video! I am 62 and I still have a daughter who moved in with us and also a 2yr old grandson. You are so encouraging and so down to earth. You are an awesome mum in the way you are there with your kids and you probably bust your buns on a regular basis, you have inspired me to get off my butt and start. I’m so overwhelmed by the mess and the anxiety and depression don’t help. But while watching I was tidying up my living room, and we only get 24 hrs in one day and it’s all how we choose to do with those hours. You are a wonderful lady and I simply love your accent. Thank you again for the encouragement that you put out in your videos. I send you hugs and a pat on the back. ☘️🦋☘️🦋☘️🦋☘️♥️♥️♥️♥️☘️🦋☘️🦋☘️🦋
LOVE your mismatched socks, Remi! You are so REAL and truly represent us! ❤😅
I like watching your videos. I am 76, I have four grandchildren. I looked after my two children and their children by teaching them to put their toys back in the box/basket when they finished playing, before lunch and at bedtime. They soon learn that they must tidy up. A valuable lesson in life.
I do love how you came up with a system to make cleaning fun! Good on ya, Remi!
You are an inspiration to so many people. Thank you for sharing .
Truly appreciate your videos and your talk overs. You have no idea how it’s impacting my mental state right now thank you for being honest and sharing this. It’s actually calming, relaxing and reassuring to watch a normal day life with no exaggeration whatsoever. Truly appreciate it. Thank you for this.
You are SUCH an inspiration, Remi. I have no children and no financial issues, but I have chronic pain and anxiety issues that make each day a struggle...just in a different way. I was a widow at age 38 and trauma from the past has settled in my body, causing physical issues. I share that because I like to tell people that we never know what another person is going through. We all have something. I really appreciate you sharing what a good day vs. a bad day looks like and the grace you give yourself. I SO love a good day that I want them all to be like that. But, as you would say, that's just not realistic so why beat myself up about it. Wishing you and your family many blessings.
I only came across your video yesterday and its amazing how ive been hooked to watching all your videos back to back. Thanks for helpjng me to finally get to declutering and tidying my wardrobes and my rooms. I really appreciate your 'ramblings'. You are definitely affecting lives and shedding a lot of light to people's behavioral abnormalities. Keep it up
Remi, both versions of you are excellent even on a bad day you really do alot . The most important thing is that your giving your children a loving home and providing a good example for them to follow. ❤
You are the most relatable mom I've seen on yt. Thank you for being absolutely real. As a mother of 7 my days are hectic even when 6 out of 7 are in school😂
Another awesome video. Love real people that aren’t all fake pretending to be someone they’re not. Love that the little ones are helping their mumma tidy up.
I just discovered your channel and I LOVE it and subscribed. It’s so refreshing to watch a mom who is REAL! And down-to-earth, and kind to herself, no matter if it’s a good or bad day. I wish this would have been on 14 years ago when I first became a mom and was so hard on myself. ❤
Oh Remi. This bought back so many memories. The bad mornings run to pace, the good ones not so much. You are a serious jewel to me. I am so excited when I see a new video. I feel like you are on the other end of the phone chatting to me. Thanks for taking the time to share with us.
I love your expression "bad days". We are in the boat with you! Life is hard (normal), and more challenging with our sweet kiddos. The love you show your family and yourself is your secret weapon!! Later in life, we look back and find the bad days were often our best days. Hugs!
Remi, I'd like to offer that anything you do 1x per week may not be "rare". I only offer this bc it is worth celebrating! YOU did that. You got to a point where about once a week you get up early and even if it isn't as often as you want it to eventually be, it counts as one of your triumphs. You're constantly affirming us and I hope this sentiment sounds familiar to the way you encourage others bc I couldn't wait to reflect back to you a little of the good energy you put out into the world.
You are such a down to earth inspiration. I have an ok executive function but struggle hard with loads of things to do at home in the end of the day and i'm already brain drained. Thanks a million for sharing compassion on living ❤❤❤
Love your videos remi .I really get motivated when I watch you xx
You work sooo hard Remi, I do not know where you get the energy from? Thank you for showing us your real life, you are a breath of fresh air. You are so accepting of everyone, and have a heart of gold. We can all learn so much from you. Thank you for this bad and good video! Blessings and hugs, and I hope that you had a very happy Mother's Day tody, because boy, do you deserve it. From Jilly & Madge the rescue greyhound, from West Devon, England. xxx
Thank you so much for this video, I love that you are so honest about the realities of being a mum of young children and your videos really help me to acknowledge the little wins.
I love the way you talk about life. Thank you so much for your motivating words ❤
You're so good at verbalising thoughts and feelings that I'd never be able to put into words. You're amazing girl!
Remi I just can’t watch another cleaning channel. The way you keep talking to us, is like I’m chatting with a friend. I love you and love your videos. Please! Never stop doing this 😊 you always motivate me to clean my house, although I can’t be as fast as you yet, I’ll get there. Thank you for sharing your real life with us. ❤
So part of why I became literally obsessed with your content, and relate to you so very much like deeply. I know that a lot of why that is, is the neurodivergence I have the most severe adhd that is charted here in Canada. I wasn’t diagnosed until 32 and then finally now properly medicated at 37 and have spent the past 5 years learning how to manage my adhd as best I can. On the “good days” anyway.
But I truly am in awe of how much you understand not only about yourself but like others. Whether it be those who are like us, or those who are neurotypical. You are so very wise. Truly. I’ve loved your content. (found you here on UA-cam at first)
I find my self growing my own knowledge and acceptance of various things but particularly myself, due to your content. I even made a TikTok and sometimes I will see some content over there too. I’m not very familiar with the App, which usually means that I don’t often open it lol But when I am in need of “Remi support”, as I like to think of you content as, I know right where to find your accounts.
So yeah, Thank you so very much for sharing your knowledge, experience and understanding of how life just really is. I thank you so so so much for putting yourself out there to make sure those of us that need to hear you or really need your content. To be raw like that online is beyond brave, and to open yourself up to that possible scrutiny and criticism!!! Especially that because some people are genuinely cruel.
I personally, have benefited immensely because of you sharing that reality. Which for a lot of us, is very real. And only those of us that have to live in such a mental state like ADHD or any neurodivergence, will ever understand how hard it really is just to simply live some days.
Oh, also… I’m from the “facebook era” lol ‘ ..and I just want to say sorry, for all the rotten people who are stealing your content trying to profit, claiming to be you. It actually makes me sick. Because I absolutely know and understand how hard it would be for you to even make that content in the first place.
When I was in high school, around 15 years old, I remember that there was a
Student charged, or something to that effect, for plagiarism, due to use of another persons written words. (Granted it was a regular occurrence for the student as far as I understand)
But like how was that huge of a deal, and stealing someone actually voice and their image like actual videos of the creator themselves talking, not. I mean I understand that is hard to enforce that kind of thing online but come on people it’s theft regardless and very wrong. 😑
You are so kind, to yourself and others. I so appreciate that and that you kindly compare different methods or ideologies but you are so nice about that. I'm a 45 yo of 9 kids and I'm struggling!! But I believe God is guiding me and showing me what my body needs and my spirit. I love your page and it inspires me!!
Remi I adored this video and the commentary! You speak so well to yourself, without judgement. Encouraging yourself and others. And it’s very uplifting. ❤
I've always been the same. I need an hour or so to wind down in order to go to sleep. I love listening to you talk about life.
Remi I love this video. I’m a mum of 2 under 4 with another on the way. It’s so true, us women need to work with the strengths and challenges of our cycles. We perform so well and need to rest at certain times of our cycle - that’s just how we are built! I hope all women learn this so that we’re not so hard on ourselves❤
Recent subscriber. Just wanted to say I find your channel so uplifting and motivating. You get to the point, offer great advice are cherie and fun. Plus, I love that you present the realities and don’t sugar coat life like a lot you UA-camrs do. Your videos are fantastic to watch to get me moving and doing in my own home.
You are so precious! Thanks for being so human!🩷
So normal! Honest of you to share the realities of motherhood. I remember those days well.... and treasure the memories. All 3 adult sons still living at home so some mornings still chaotic! Love family life! You are amazing xx
This video is exactly what I needed as a new mother, you have touched on so many points already (I havent finished watching) that I VERY slowly realised about myself and why motherhood was so difficult for me, and the fact that our cycles affect us so much across a month. That was an epiphany moment for me comparable to the first time I heard 'executive function' (it was you who said it). So many people comment that you are so much like them, and girl if i wasnt so introverted and lived half way across the world we'd be two peas in a pod. Ill be recommending this video to any new mum friends, cause sometimes you literally need someone to say it to you before it makes sense. Thank you for sharing you ❤
Just found you and am working my way through your videos. Love how you honestly show what real life with kids actually looks like! My kids are adults now and I wish I could have been watching you 30 years ago when my life was like this!
I overslept today and it always turns to a bad day.because I’m playing catch up I love your videos your like a breath of fresh air.have a wonderful Mother’s Day ❤
Thank God for honest and down to earth women like you. Thank you so much for sharing with us sister. God bless you and your family.
You are so refreshing in a world full of unrealistic rubbish. I love how you do you girl. Don’t worry about anyone questioning anything in your comments about why your kids don’t clean up after themselves, we are all guilty of picking up after our kids no matter their age.
Hi Remi just sent this video to my 18yr old granddaughter she has ADHD and is messy always trying to get organised hopefully she will start doing the 10min cleans such a good idea. Keep up the good work really enjoying your videos. Happy mother's day 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Babe iv just found u and ur a life changer.the 10min clean makes so much sense just to get started.i feel the same as u in the way we talk to ourselves in our heads and trying and failing to live up to everyone else's stuff and when i fail the way i beat myself up for it.luv ur work.thank u so much
Your commentary on the downstairs loo clean made me cry. I'm much older than you and my girls are teenagers and preteen now. I wish someone like you had been around when I had my babies. I'm 41 now and only just getting on top of things and accepting I'm not a failure cos my brain works differently. I still need help but it's like a weight been lifted. So thank you ❤ it's refreshing to hear from someone who just gets it ❤
It is a wordl of diference when we get up in time, things go by themselves, but it's true, mornings start the night before. The night checklist is a best friend, and I only can do those tasks by remembering how awful it feels doing them in a hurry the next day. When I finally seat down, wow, what a light feeling. Thank you for this such real video. Many blessings 💗⚘
I wish I could get that much done in 10 min. I enjoy listening. Usually, I'm doing something else and listening to your happy, calming voice.
Wow this was refreshing. I don’t have children but I loved watching this video because of how realistic it felt :)
Love your videos you just hit right on what goes in many minds, at least mine. 🤣🤣
Just found this channel, and I've watched several of your videos in the last few days, and I have to say I'm really enjoying your videos. They are very realistic for busy people and are helping to change my thoughts. Everything doesn't need to be perfect every minute of every day. Which is something I struggle with. I always end up wearing myself out cleaning constantly. So, thank you for your videos. I'm going to continue watching them. Please keep posting! ❤
On your bad day, you said something negative about the way you look when you were getting in your 10k steps. I thought you looked wonderful and I was so happy that you were disciplined enough to do it! Super proud of you!
Happy Mother’s Day Remi I hope you have a good day and you’re an amazing mum and so real for everything you put online
I absolutely love your loving, down to earth way. ❤️ I always look forward to your uplifting & positive videos and your sweet family. OH! And Nate the Hoof Guy!!! LOL can't even tell you how many nights I've stayed up watching his addictive videos. 🤣 Be well & take care, Remi! Blessings 🥰💕
Hi 👋Remi. You're doing great!!! I get the whole thing, totally. Being there for kids feeding, dressing and getting where when they need to be IS the most important thing you do. This is how kids know they're loved.
You are great to always keep it real. It takes the pressure off to be perfect. Thank you so much. Hope you had a Happy Mother’s Day. The gift set you made your mam was lovely. Have a great week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇♀️👏💪👍🙏💐🐕🦺
I think you’re doing amazing. I have ADHD I can’t clean every day I don’t even clean every week or month. So you’re doing absolutely fantastic. You’re also brave for sharing. Those people who say how did your place get in such a mess, should understand our brains don’t work like theirs.
Oh Remi the face says it all. I swear every bad mother day looks the same..do not beat yourself up. Despite how you felt you still did your best. And that is the most important. A bsd day doesnt mean everythibg for tje day is ruined. You proofed it. Everyone is dealing with these guilt.
Love your honesty and realistic videos. Much more relatable than some other accounts doesn't make me feel like a complete failure at life when I watch you just normal so thanks ❤
You’re just incredible! I appreciate your honesty because we all think we’re perfect but we’re not. Life always step in the way .
Plus, you’re allowed to have time for your self.
You’re an amazing Mom and person:) 😊🤩👏💟😇 You’re a super star!🌟💝.
Remi I recommend my 13 year old daughter to watch your videos. She had her bedroom redecorated last year and new bed and furniture ect but oh my word lately her room has just become like a bomb site 😫 I've tried to explain to her to put things away but she let's it build up and gets overwhelmed with it all then loses motivation. I think it's just a teenage phase shes going through 😂 anyways I put one of your videos on her tv and left her to it. She called me up around an hour later and wow her room was so tidy and everything in its place. She said watching you got her motivated so a big thankyou remi❤😊
The children helping is so precious!
You're wonderful, Remi! I can relate to so much! You are not alone! And you're doing great!
I do Get Fit With Rick too. They’re great videos - easy to fit in a busy day.
In theory my days are organised, but in practice it’s more like two or three organised days, three chaotic ones, and one frantic catch up day!
I am so happy I find your UA-cam.....I would never get anything done since I am so tired all the time. Thank you so much for you being you
I just have to say-I truly love the basket you've made!
I'm so proud of you. You do a great job with your boys and with your home. Nobody's perfect. We all have our good days and bad ones.. We can only do our best. Love your videos . Sending my love as always♥️.
I can't tell you enough how much I love your videos. They always get me motivated.