Things I have leaned from you: 1. Give myself grace 2. Ditch what doesn't work for me 3. Its okay to do what I can 4. Family time is what is most important. You are truly a down to earth breath of fresh air. The only cleaning channel I watch.
The 10 minute timer is great to bring focus. Get up, start countdown, get on with it. Stop timer. Look at what you’ve achieved. I’m sure your little boy will be well. Hardest job, being a parent.Well done. Thanks Remi
Nu inteleg chestia cu cronometrul.Cred ca este o modă , o prostie inventată de o fraiera, pentru ca am mai vazut si la alte femei care posteaza ca tine.De fapt este o haituială inutilă.Ce rost are să îți dai sufletul ca sa te incadrezi in 10 minute și să fuserești treaba, cu cine te intreci? In loc sa faci treaba ca lumea, te grabesti si arunci mormanele de haine împrăștiate pe jos, acolo in coltul ăla! O casa asa dezordonată ca a ta nu poate fi curatata nici in 10×1000 minute!
Dear Remi, your videos are an inspiration to me and every messy person. Stop shaming yourself! Be proud of the outreach service you are performing! Hugs!!
Thanks, Remi for posting some of your TicTok here because I don't "do" TicTok😊 Love your 10 minute tidy ups and I am implementing some of those myself ❤
I absolutely love this type of cleaning. My own mental health (and neurodivergence) has been Big Nope lately, so I've pared it down to a two-minute tidy for the time being. The _real_ value for me is that once you get that ball rolling, it just gathers momentum and wants to keep on for ages sometimes. And if it doesn't, then you've still achieved your tidy goal. Can't lose either way. ♥ You've got this!
Remi I want to share something that helped me when we had health issues with our daughter. It can be so all consuming, and my sister used to remind me to "take baby steps"- to bring the big picture back closer and closer, smaller and smaller, to the moment I could manage. Sometimes that was the day ahead of me, sometimes it was the very minute I was in. It really helped and may be useful for you or someone else. I realize when I am overwhelmed I am thinking too far ahead, about too many possibilities, when actually I often need to only do what's right in front of me. Baby steps reminds me even now to pull in and in and in until life feels smaller and manageable... and then move forward from there. ❤❤❤ Best of luck with everything! I have three daughters and I once made a miniature book titled My Heart Goes Out in Three Directions. Once we have children our heart is no longer our own.
I’m 58 with severe adhd. I’ve only known for a few years. I kid you not.. Remi is a mini me! The stress and struggle is real and hard to handle some days.
Praying for Ike and the rest of you. It is hard being a parent. When my daughter was a month old the doctors thought she had cystic fibrous. I didn't even know what that was. When he told me I was like you i just froze up. After that shock I cried and prayed. After 10 days of tests in a childrens hospital the test came back negative! I thank God to this day and shes 35. About your video, you have done so much in 10 minutes! I love your videos. Your ideas are marvelous! I don't know you personally but I would love to! I really like your humor and your heart for people. Thank you for what you do!
I hope you have a beautiful relaxed day also! Saying a prayer for your son's blood test. Love your videos, you tell it like it is. Love just listening to your voice.
You are the most organized unorganized person & I am absolutely here for it. Love it all! ❤ I wish we lived in the same country because when you talked about your mental health I really felt it. We are two of the same!
I wish my mom had made me do chores. I think it would have helped me greatly in my adult life. I am a lot like you. My mother used to fuss with me to clean my room until she worked herself into a lather then she would just clean it up herself. That did not help me in the long run. Do not get me wrong, she did not clean very often. Our house was always messy - always. I guess that is why I am comfortable living in a disaster area. But, deep down, I want a presentable house. It has been a struggle n my entire adult life. I am 72 and still trying. In.my 50s, it was determined that I have ADD. So I have medicine that I take on days that I want to accomplish something. Otherwise, I am VERY easily distracted and do not get much accomplished. I really enjoy your channel. Do you ever watch the you tube channel Diane in Denmark. She is great. Take care.
Yes having a house full over for the holiday. On Wednesday, I over did it & haven’t felt like doing a single thing since. (i always clean the kitchen) I will do my best today for a few hours. That’s all anyone can do. Be blessed. 💖🐰🐣🌱🌿
I understand your health anxiety, being a special needs mom I have a lot of that myself.. I’ve had some really really down days, and I am going to try this 10 minute method for my house! My depression mess is real bad at this point, some days I just can’t get it done😢 thank you as always Remi! I adore you! ❤️ and will be praying for your sons blood test and your anxiety 🙏
That “screaming goat” analogy is both the funniest and most accurate thing I’ve ever heard, I’m glad I’m not the only one 😂 Still can’t get over how incredible that cupboard looks too!! Your videos are honestly such a big help, thank you from a fellow chaotic human 🤍
Lovely Remi I loved seeing Ike ( Aike?...the two year old) snuggle up in his chair under the blankey you just folded...repeatedly lol. And filling the fruit bowl. I love doing that after I go shopping. Today I got a mango and two kiwi's...but will go to the organic veggie store for the first time this week and hopefully find some in season fruit that's not too expensive. Early Autumn here now in Aus. Tired of getting fruit from my normal supermarket that looks nice but is inedible like those peaches last week. I digress I love the 10 minute per room idea...might give it a go
Remi I love your videos and you feel like a long lost sister or something I never had. I only have one kid. She is 5 now. Up until last year she was not sleeping much and her first few years I exclusively breastfed her and would be up all night, sleep deprivation was real. It made me so much more anxious, paranoid, etc. no capacity to deal with those emotions because my battery was empty constantly. Your babies are still little as well, so I applaud you for doing this monumental task of making a UA-cam channel. You've helped a lot of people while helping yourself! ❤❤❤
I so appreciate seeing another household of imperfection but with consistent effort. I’m a sahm, we homeschool, and we have other things that are major parts of our lives at home. It’s intense to try to keep up and make it a home. What a breath of fresh air to see someone else doing their best, by their own standards and not everyone else’s.
Remi you’re so not alone with the screaming goat inside , I have one two 🙈started after my 3rd baby ..... I’m sure many of us can understand how you feel , always nice to know we’re not alone . Sending a cuddly hug to Ike 🤗. Oh and his little hair cut looks super cute ☺️. Thanks again for talking and making those of us who struggle a whole lot better .💐💝💐
Love that you bring the videos to YT, I don't use any other social medias. I've watched them all at this point and they're very relatable and helpful to get me moving with some motivation. I love how real you and your channel are. Ignore the haters, obviously they're speaking out of turn. You're doing a great job. 🎉
Remi, TY for doing and saying what ya say. I suffer from mental health and chronic pain damage, it helps a lot. I don't have children, but I think ya doing great and I know you're worrying about your youngest rn but everything will be ok. ❤ Ya don't realize how many people ya are helping. Again TY love ❤
I just love you! As a mom of 4 and constantly overwhelmed and often unable to stay on top of the mess, so much resonated with me ❤. Going to use this 10 minute rule and give myself some grace.
Thank you Remi You are always on my mind I live on the other side of the world but it feels like I know you my whole life Thank you for sharing your life with us ♥️💐
I have a chronic illness with phases of extreme pain. I know the feeling when its just too much too "just pick up". Sometimes you are happy to just reach the bath or make yourself a coffee. What helped me was to declutter ruthlessly so there is no chance that the floor gets covered even if I have a very bad flare up. And I keep on decluttering so it stays that way and this way i wont exhaust myself clearning it all up once i feel better. Cleaning is so much easier as well with minimal stuff. For me, I have a rule: if its not managable, its too much stuff. I needed more than I few years to realize that this is whats best for me! I am happy that the clean up wont stress me out no more.
I think these might be my favourite types of videos at the moment! As someone working split shifts most days with very little usable time at home, it’s definitely super useful and motivating!! Lovely home and lovely family, thank you Remi 🥰
Thanks Remi, a counsellor suggested this too me years ago but forgotten all about it but she said 20 mins. I find 10 mins is so much better because if like me people struggle it's good to get started cleaning or if you're not feeling it 10 minutes isn't too long! Love you're posts, you've helped me get started. Thanks again ❤❤
Counsellor here! Yes, I often also chat with my clients about how making something "10 minutes better" might feel ❤ Go you, so pleased you found something from your therapy and adapted it into what works for you. X
You know, Remi, I just tried the 10 min clean of my living room and I’m surprised by how much you can get done in 10 minutes! I’m going to try this on my bathroom and bedroom now. Ten minutes just feels more manageable so thanks for this idea!
I am sorry you are struggling Remi. I pray your little boy’s lab work doesn’t show anything wrong. I, too, worried about my children excessively. I remember one year we traveled to the beach. It was long before seatbelts were required. My son slept on the back ledge of the car. When we got to the beach he was bright red, very hot to touch. I thought he had Scarlet Fever! He had sun burn. So I understand what you mean. I was not only a mother but a nurse so I was really bad at jumping to the worst possible conclusion. Anyway I loved your video as usual.
It IS amazing how much can get done in in just a few minutes. Often my boys & hubby would also join me in a 10 minute tidy. Four of us blitzing through the house. So much accomplished! When my boys were little I tried to treat the 10min tidy as a game. Took a little work in the setup and it's a silly little game, but the boys had fun with it. This is what I did... I had a collection of pictures of the rooms throughout the home in their "tidy" state. The boys would select a picture and in 10min they would do their best to restore the room to the condition shown in the picture. I also had bought little toy ducks that were "designated" to each room. I would hide the duck before the boys entered the room. I would ask- "Boys, where is MR Duck in the picture?" If they found the duck within the 10min. tidy and return it to the location shown in the picture they would earn points towards a special treat.
Feel you so much with the health anxiety😢 I've had a horrible set back recently and it just takes over everything. Just remember it will pass and everything will be ok❤
Thank you Remi ❤.. I was very organised and it came quite naturally to me but for me the cleaning and tidying was obsessive so, I had to find ways to keep it under control. Every time I got emotional or was going through a difficult time I would over clean and declutter. You remind me of my sister who was very similar to you. She really struggled to pick up as she went along. You have come along way. Well done! 🎉I remember watching your old videos. Take care
@@angelarothbauer8096 Same, I had to find a balance because I wasn't spending enough time with my family. Even now I have difficult days where I have to stop myself and have a word with myself because I can easily become obsessive to the point I am cleaning the same area multiple times a day.
Love the 10 minute timer. Sometimes I reset for another 10. One tip I've been focusing on in the kitchen is put things away as I prep/cook. That way it's not such a job to clean up in the end.
I’m 65 years old and my mom taught me this when I was very young.When I actually wash the dishes as I cook,I have hardly anything to wash after dinner except two plates,forks,glasses and the pan I cooked in. If the meal requires more of my attention,my mom always said,at least put everything in the sink with hot,soapy water because your tired,”after dinner cook” will thank you. She was so right,moms always are!
My college room mate was raised by a very tidy disciplined mother -- her mother had been an operating theatre nurse -- and she was the exact opposite. It was amazing how thoroughly she could wreck our dormitory room! She admitted freely that part of it was rebeling against her mother's strictness.
Happy Easter 🐣 Remi, hint for pots, once they’re empty squirt some washing up liquid into each and fill with hot water, leave for few hours or over night then rinse 🚿 it might help. Love the videos 😊
Great job Remi! I wish I could’ve had access to videos like this when I was a young working mom. I hope you and your family have a wonderful weekend! 🤗❤️🙏🏻
Oh how I wish I had a cupboard like yours. I want to create a quiet, cozy place where I can pray and read my Bible. Love how your cupboard looks now. I have chronic pain and am pretty badly sore most days. But I just cannot have peace if my house isn't tidy. It will bug the cr*p out of me and I won't be able to rest like I need to. If my home is not neat and tidy the anxiety shoots through the roof. I have been invited to go visit my mom who lives on the other end of the country and one of the major things that is making me so hesitant to visit her is that I may come home to a messy/dirty house. I never used to be this bad. Maybe I am trying to control the cleanliness of my house to make up for the fact that I cannot control the pain. I like your content. I pretty much clean every day so for motivation I like to watch and rewatch your videos while I am having breakfast or while I'm on a quick break. I love how real you are.
Honey im so proud of you, you are an amazing person, and the guilt shouldn't be messing your heart, you are an amazing mom, no matter how much time it takes to do the tidy cleaning, today i've spent 4 hours cleaning my doughters room, i was absolutly tired and pain was terrible in my back but i feel so pleased when she got home and said that she love it, and that i was the better mom in the world... I trully believe its not the form, it's not the time, it's not the mess, it's the heart we put on everything that we do, so for that i thank you for the love of sharing your mind and heart, i hope you can feel better soon, we love ya❤❤❤❤ ❤❤❤
Gosh, I am so intrigued by and proud of what you are accomplishing. You are making videos that are so relatable and reassuring for so many people, plus look how your channel is growing!! 150k subscribers!
Sometimes I set a timer like you. A definite amount of minutes to every room. In some occasions I set a timer for 30 minutes, for instance, and start cleaning and tidying up one room but if I have to walk out from it and I see that something should be done in another room I do it. Remi, I love very much your videos. Keep on filming and be as genuine as always. Happy Sunday!
As a child, teen, and young adult, I was a “messy,” and of course, even at 65 y/o, I still have bouts of those tendencies. Having to much stuff is also a problem, and I have read a multitude of books on organizing, housecleaning, and clutter, but like dieting, I lose it, then gain it back! My friend of almost 30 years has seen me have multiple yard sales, get my house in order, only to be in the same place a few months or years later. Like you, I do enjoy a deep cleaning, but the room can be in chaos around me, while I’m focused on scrubbing baseboards, doors, and moldings, or taking down curtains to wash, iron, and scrub the windows! I stumbled on your video and was delighted to watch and hear your struggles with these similar issues, finding them encouraging and helpful. Your 10 minute timing method would definitely be helpful if I use it first before deep cleaning. I also plan on watching your decluttering video. Thank you for your honesty and the courage to share!
Thank you for sharing this. It's so helpful. I want to try it tomorrow. I often get overwhelmed because I want to do things perfectly all the time, but boy was it an eye opener to see that small milestones can also be great at easing tension and getting things in better shape. I'll let you know how I get one. Much love from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼❤
Hysterical,screaming goat...Made me laugh out loud, brilliant! I'm sure Ike will be fine. My house used to be like yours, toys, laundry and pots everywhere and I too would find forks and spoon in the most odd places. Then the kids grew up and went off to University and I got a dog. The house is still messy... and yes, it's me!! This year I decided to be kinder to myself and NOT to apologise for the mess when friends came over. I do a bit of a clean and tidy each day depending on pain and energy levels and yeah I can see a difference. Thanks for all you do
Thanks for sharing that we are not all programmed to do it naturally. Might hit my bedroom with a 10-minute timer tomorrow. My prayers for your little ones' tests and your peace. God bless you x happy Easter x
I’ve used the timer method for years too. It really helps! I can identify with MH connection. Thank you for being real. You’re so wise. You’re a treasure. ❤🙏
I understand u Remi my house is in a state I suffer with depression and anxiety and just can not motivate myself to do anything my house is normally spotless not a thing out of place but I have really let it go this last week and dont know we’re to start 😢xx
You are not alone. You WILL overcome this!! Start with taking care of you first. It may be taking an extra long warm shower or bath. Put on your favorite show or audio book. Then move to washing one cup or one plate. If you want to do more cleaning, go for it. You've got this! I'll be praying for you.
I think you do a great job, when you have little ones all you can do is do what you can. I know when your house is clean it makes you feel better, but your little ones won’t be little long and they won’t remember if the house was tidy. Enjoy those babies now cause time flies. Great job. Thank you for sharing
@@remiclogThank you! It’s okay, it’s a chance to get rid of some things and then put in a pump so it hopefully doesn’t happen again. Have a wonderful Easter! ❤
Things I have leaned from you:
1. Give myself grace
2. Ditch what doesn't work for me
3. Its okay to do what I can
4. Family time is what is most important.
You are truly a down to earth breath of fresh air. The only cleaning channel I watch.
Couldn't be said better. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
The 10 minute timer is great to bring focus. Get up, start countdown, get on with it. Stop timer. Look at what you’ve achieved. I’m sure your little boy will be well. Hardest job, being a parent.Well done. Thanks Remi
Thank you ❤️
Nu inteleg chestia cu cronometrul.Cred ca este o modă , o prostie inventată de o fraiera, pentru ca am mai vazut si la alte femei care posteaza ca tine.De fapt este o haituială inutilă.Ce rost are să îți dai sufletul ca sa te incadrezi in 10 minute și să fuserești treaba, cu cine te intreci? In loc sa faci treaba ca lumea, te grabesti si arunci mormanele de haine împrăștiate pe jos, acolo in coltul ăla! O casa asa dezordonată ca a ta nu poate fi curatata nici in 10×1000 minute!
You are fabulous. You cheer me up so much thank you
@@remiclogwe I get my own house ido it
Dear Remi, your videos are an inspiration to me and every messy person. Stop shaming yourself! Be proud of the outreach service you are performing! Hugs!!
Thank you ☺️ although I don’t believe I am shaming myself! ❤️
@@remiclog Perhaps it was a poor choice of words. Maybe I felt you judging yourself because I judge myself. Thank you for all you do!
Thank you for your videos. I get great encouragement from them ❤. You're amazing!
Thanks, Remi for posting some of your TicTok here because I don't "do" TicTok😊
Love your 10 minute tidy ups and I am implementing some of those myself ❤
Finding you and learning about neurodivergence and 10 min timers changed my life. ❤
So so happy to hear it ❤️❤️❤️
I absolutely love this type of cleaning. My own mental health (and neurodivergence) has been Big Nope lately, so I've pared it down to a two-minute tidy for the time being. The _real_ value for me is that once you get that ball rolling, it just gathers momentum and wants to keep on for ages sometimes. And if it doesn't, then you've still achieved your tidy goal. Can't lose either way. ♥ You've got this!
Exactly!!! I often find the same, it spurs me on to finish the job even after the timer has gone off!
Remi I want to share something that helped me when we had health issues with our daughter. It can be so all consuming, and my sister used to remind me to "take baby steps"- to bring the big picture back closer and closer, smaller and smaller, to the moment I could manage. Sometimes that was the day ahead of me, sometimes it was the very minute I was in.
It really helped and may be useful for you or someone else. I realize when I am overwhelmed I am thinking too far ahead, about too many possibilities, when actually I often need to only do what's right in front of me. Baby steps reminds me even now to pull in and in and in until life feels smaller and manageable... and then move forward from there. ❤❤❤ Best of luck with everything! I have three daughters and I once made a miniature book titled My Heart Goes Out in Three Directions. Once we have children our heart is no longer our own.
I’m 58 female with adhd ....my age are just being diagnosed....found the last 5 yrs much easier in life ...thankyou for your handy hints
I’m 58 with severe adhd. I’ve only known for a few years. I kid you not.. Remi is a mini me! The stress and struggle is real and hard to handle some days.
I think I unconsciously do this, I always tell myself it’s not 100% perfect but it’s 100% better 🗣️
Yes!!! That’s the attitude to have! 😁
Absolutely!! Since I switched from "I have to do it perfectly" to simply "make it better" I've been finding it easier to keep my house in order!
Yes it’s ok to not have every single part of the room or house done. Instant pressure release 🎉
Praying for Ike and the rest of you. It is hard being a parent. When my daughter was a month old the doctors thought she had cystic fibrous. I didn't even know what that was. When he told me I was like you i just froze up. After that shock I cried and prayed. After 10 days of tests in a childrens hospital the test came back negative! I thank God to this day and shes 35. About your video, you have done so much in 10 minutes! I love your videos. Your ideas are marvelous! I don't know you personally but I would love to! I really like your humor and your heart for people. Thank you for what you do!
Eu pensei o mesmo, não conheço mas tenho certeza de que iria gostar muito da Remi…❤
I hope you have a beautiful relaxed day also! Saying a prayer for your son's blood test. Love your videos, you tell it like it is. Love just listening to your voice.
Watching this at 3am due to sleepless health anxiety ridden night. Love love love your content ❤ Hope all the tests come out ok and you can relax soon
❤ I want to say thank you for encouraging me I'm disabled but I keep trying
You are the most organized unorganized person & I am absolutely here for it. Love it all! ❤ I wish we lived in the same country because when you talked about your mental health I really felt it. We are two of the same!
becoming a mother unlocked the world of fears I could not imagine😅💖💖💖 it gets a little bit better with time...
Oh I so hope so! 🤞🏼❤️
You are doing a great job, don't ever think any different. You are inspiring so many people 💖 keep being you. That is all you need . X
I wish my mom had made me do chores. I think it would have helped me greatly in my adult life. I am a lot like you. My mother used to fuss with me to clean my room until she worked herself into a lather then she would just clean it up herself. That did not help me in the long run. Do not get me wrong, she did not clean very often. Our house was always messy - always. I guess that is why I am comfortable living in a disaster area. But, deep down, I want a presentable house. It has been a struggle n my entire adult life. I am 72 and still trying. In.my 50s, it was determined that I have ADD. So I have medicine that I take on days that I want to accomplish something. Otherwise, I am VERY easily distracted and do not get much accomplished. I really enjoy your channel. Do you ever watch the you tube channel Diane in Denmark. She is great. Take care.
I love how you forgive yourself and love yourself the way you are. This is what is the most important thing for me!!
Yes having a house full over for the holiday. On Wednesday, I over did it & haven’t felt like doing a single thing since.
(i always clean the kitchen)
I will do my best today for a few hours.
That’s all anyone can do.
Be blessed. 💖🐰🐣🌱🌿
You are so adorable! I love watching your videos & listening to your wisdom! I hope the results of your son's blood tests come out just fine. 😊
I understand your health anxiety, being a special needs mom I have a lot of that myself.. I’ve had some really really down days, and I am going to try this 10 minute method for my house! My depression mess is real bad at this point, some days I just can’t get it done😢 thank you as always Remi! I adore you! ❤️ and will be praying for your sons blood test and your anxiety 🙏
That “screaming goat” analogy is both the funniest and most accurate thing I’ve ever heard, I’m glad I’m not the only one 😂 Still can’t get over how incredible that cupboard looks too!! Your videos are honestly such a big help, thank you from a fellow chaotic human 🤍
OMG! That baby has grown so much since the last time we saw him in a video. Bless him. ❤️
I thought he seemed very much a big boy, too!
You give me so much inspiration. You have no idea. 😮
Lovely Remi
I loved seeing Ike ( Aike?...the two year old) snuggle up in his chair under the blankey you just folded...repeatedly lol.
And filling the fruit bowl. I love doing that after I go shopping. Today I got a mango and two kiwi's...but will go to the organic veggie store for the first time this week and hopefully find some in season fruit that's not too expensive. Early Autumn here now in Aus. Tired of getting fruit from my normal supermarket that looks nice but is inedible like those peaches last week. I digress
I love the 10 minute per room idea...might give it a go
I liked Ike & the blanket thing too! Typical 2 year old. So cute! 😂❤️
Omg I absolutely love that cosy cupboard x
Remi I love your videos and you feel like a long lost sister or something I never had. I only have one kid. She is 5 now. Up until last year she was not sleeping much and her first few years I exclusively breastfed her and would be up all night, sleep deprivation was real. It made me so much more anxious, paranoid, etc. no capacity to deal with those emotions because my battery was empty constantly. Your babies are still little as well, so I applaud you for doing this monumental task of making a UA-cam channel. You've helped a lot of people while helping yourself! ❤❤❤
Thank you so much!! Ike is still breastfed at night time and I am still soooo tired every day, it doesn’t help with the anxiety for sure! ❤️
I so appreciate seeing another household of imperfection but with consistent effort. I’m a sahm, we homeschool, and we have other things that are major parts of our lives at home. It’s intense to try to keep up and make it a home. What a breath of fresh air to see someone else doing their best, by their own standards and not everyone else’s.
Remi you’re so not alone with the screaming goat inside , I have one two 🙈started after my 3rd baby ..... I’m sure many of us can understand how you feel , always nice to know we’re not alone . Sending a cuddly hug to Ike 🤗. Oh and his little hair cut looks super cute ☺️. Thanks again for talking and making those of us who struggle a whole lot better .💐💝💐
Great job, Remi. Prayers for your little one.
Love that you bring the videos to YT, I don't use any other social medias. I've watched them all at this point and they're very relatable and helpful to get me moving with some motivation. I love how real you and your channel are. Ignore the haters, obviously they're speaking out of turn. You're doing a great job. 🎉
Remi, TY for doing and saying what ya say. I suffer from mental health and chronic pain damage, it helps a lot. I don't have children, but I think ya doing great and I know you're worrying about your youngest rn but everything will be ok. ❤ Ya don't realize how many people ya are helping. Again TY love ❤
I just love you! As a mom of 4 and constantly overwhelmed and often unable to stay on top of the mess, so much resonated with me ❤. Going to use this 10 minute rule and give myself some grace.
Thank you Remi
You are always on my mind
I live on the other side of the world but it feels like I know you my whole life
Thank you for sharing your life with us
♥️💐
I have a chronic illness with phases of extreme pain. I know the feeling when its just too much too "just pick up". Sometimes you are happy to just reach the bath or make yourself a coffee. What helped me was to declutter ruthlessly so there is no chance that the floor gets covered even if I have a very bad flare up. And I keep on decluttering so it stays that way and this way i wont exhaust myself clearning it all up once i feel better. Cleaning is so much easier as well with minimal stuff. For me, I have a rule: if its not managable, its too much stuff. I needed more than I few years to realize that this is whats best for me! I am happy that the clean up wont stress me out no more.
I so appreciate your cleans and the voiceovers! I find a feeling of comfort hearing that it’s not just me.
I think these might be my favourite types of videos at the moment! As someone working split shifts most days with very little usable time at home, it’s definitely super useful and motivating!! Lovely home and lovely family, thank you Remi 🥰
I've watched and listened to Remi ALL day and the minute I go to work a new vlog appears!!!...Saving it till tomorrow!!...Can't wait!!
Thank you for sharing your tik toks on YT! I don’t have any social media. Your videos are always so lovely to watch. ❤
Just when I thought no videos for like months on end u posted can’t wait thank you so much for providing us all with this video lyl xox
I love watching your videos! And I totally understand the anxiety with children. It’s a horrible feeling. You’re so inspiring.
I love watching your upbeat videos and listening to your common sense wisdom💖
Remi, I love the timer method!!! I actually learned it from you!❤ Prayers for little Ike, hopefully it's nothing serious
Thanks Remi, a counsellor suggested this too me years ago but forgotten all about it but she said 20 mins. I find 10 mins is so much better because if like me people struggle it's good to get started cleaning or if you're not feeling it 10 minutes isn't too long! Love you're posts, you've helped me get started. Thanks again ❤❤
Counsellor here! Yes, I often also chat with my clients about how making something "10 minutes better" might feel ❤ Go you, so pleased you found something from your therapy and adapted it into what works for you. X
You’re the trooper, Remi. Thanks so much.
You know, Remi, I just tried the 10 min clean of my living room and I’m surprised by how much you can get done in 10 minutes! I’m going to try this on my bathroom and bedroom now. Ten minutes just feels more manageable so thanks for this idea!
I am sorry you are struggling Remi. I pray your little boy’s lab work doesn’t show anything wrong. I, too, worried about my children excessively. I remember one year we traveled to the beach. It was long before seatbelts were required. My son slept on the back ledge of the car. When we got to the beach he was bright red, very hot to touch. I thought he had Scarlet Fever! He had sun burn. So I understand what you mean. I was not only a mother but a nurse so I was really bad at jumping to the worst possible conclusion. Anyway I loved your video as usual.
I hope Ike is ok. I’m excited to see what you do with your garden!
It IS amazing how much can get done in in just a few minutes. Often my boys & hubby would also join me in a 10 minute tidy. Four of us blitzing through the house. So much accomplished!
When my boys were little I tried to treat the 10min tidy as a game. Took a little work in the setup and it's a silly little game, but the boys had fun with it. This is what I did...
I had a collection of pictures of the rooms throughout the home in their "tidy" state. The boys would select a picture and in 10min they would do their best to restore the room to the condition shown in the picture. I also had bought little toy ducks that were "designated" to each room. I would hide the duck before the boys entered the room.
I would ask- "Boys, where is MR Duck in the picture?" If they found the duck within the 10min. tidy and return it to the location shown in the picture they would earn points towards a special treat.
Love this whole idea!🙌🏻
Feel you so much with the health anxiety😢 I've had a horrible set back recently and it just takes over everything. Just remember it will pass and everything will be ok❤
Thank you for sharing, you are always inspirational and lots of fun. I think your older son will be a big help to you with his chore chart. ❤
Thank you Remi ❤.. I was very organised and it came quite naturally to me but for me the cleaning and tidying was obsessive so, I had to find ways to keep it under control. Every time I got emotional or was going through a difficult time I would over clean and declutter. You remind me of my sister who was very similar to you. She really struggled to pick up as she went along. You have come along way. Well done! 🎉I remember watching your old videos. Take care
Yes I over cleaned and wasted so much of my life
@@angelarothbauer8096 Same, I had to find a balance because I wasn't spending enough time with my family. Even now I have difficult days where I have to stop myself and have a word with myself because I can easily become obsessive to the point I am cleaning the same area multiple times a day.
Man health anxiety is the worst. I got diagnosed with OCD over my health anxiety. It can be so debilitating. You’re doing an amazing job ❤
Glad to see you again
Love the 10 minute timer. Sometimes I reset for another 10. One tip I've been focusing on in the kitchen is put things away as I prep/cook. That way it's not such a job to clean up in the end.
I’m 65 years old and my mom taught me this when I was very young.When I actually wash the dishes as I cook,I have hardly anything to wash after dinner except two plates,forks,glasses and the pan I cooked in. If the meal requires more of my attention,my mom always said,at least put everything in the sink with hot,soapy water because your tired,”after dinner cook” will thank you. She was so right,moms always are!
My college room mate was raised by a very tidy disciplined mother -- her mother had been an operating theatre nurse -- and she was the exact opposite. It was amazing how thoroughly she could wreck our dormitory room! She admitted freely that part of it was rebeling against her mother's strictness.
Thank you for sharing I feel better knowing I’m not alone. Will give this a try❤
You powered through 🎉Great results
Happy Easter 🐣
Happy Easter 🐣 Remi, hint for pots, once they’re empty squirt some washing up liquid into each and fill with hot water, leave for few hours or over night then rinse 🚿 it might help. Love the videos 😊
Fantastic vlog ❤❤
I love your afghan on your bed, it is so lovely :)
Thank you! I love it too! It’s actually over 10 years old now!
You definitely have developed executive function❤AMAZING JOB
Great job Remi! I wish I could’ve had access to videos like this when I was a young working mom. I hope you and your family have a wonderful weekend! 🤗❤️🙏🏻
Just the inspiration I needed today! Thank you, Remi, for taking the time to share your TikToks over for us over here! I appreciate you!! 💕
I love what you do Remi, you're so lovely! Happy Easter to you!
Having toys with so many small pieces would drive me out of my mind. Glad those days are behind me. Now I can barely keep up with my own mess. Lol
Loved your video Remi,keep up the great work.
Thank you ☺️
Oh how I wish I had a cupboard like yours. I want to create a quiet, cozy place where I can pray and read my Bible. Love how your cupboard looks now.
I have chronic pain and am pretty badly sore most days. But I just cannot have peace if my house isn't tidy. It will bug the cr*p out of me and I won't be able to rest like I need to. If my home is not neat and tidy the anxiety shoots through the roof. I have been invited to go visit my mom who lives on the other end of the country and one of the major things that is making me so hesitant to visit her is that I may come home to a messy/dirty house. I never used to be this bad. Maybe I am trying to control the cleanliness of my house to make up for the fact that I cannot control the pain.
I like your content. I pretty much clean every day so for motivation I like to watch and rewatch your videos while I am having breakfast or while I'm on a quick break. I love how real you are.
Honey im so proud of you, you are an amazing person, and the guilt shouldn't be messing your heart, you are an amazing mom, no matter how much time it takes to do the tidy cleaning, today i've spent 4 hours cleaning my doughters room, i was absolutly tired and pain was terrible in my back but i feel so pleased when she got home and said that she love it, and that i was the better mom in the world... I trully believe its not the form, it's not the time, it's not the mess, it's the heart we put on everything that we do, so for that i thank you for the love of sharing your mind and heart, i hope you can feel better soon, we love ya❤❤❤❤ ❤❤❤
Gosh, I am so intrigued by and proud of what you are accomplishing. You are making videos that are so relatable and reassuring for so many people, plus look how your channel is growing!! 150k subscribers!
New ideas , helps to “Get the job done”
Awesome
Sometimes I set a timer like you. A definite amount of minutes to every room. In some occasions I set a timer for 30 minutes, for instance, and start cleaning and tidying up one room but if I have to walk out from it and I see that something should be done in another room I do it. Remi, I love very much your videos. Keep on filming and be as genuine as always. Happy Sunday!
Perfect way to start my Saturday! Thank you Remi
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Miss Remi, I don’t know how you get your laundry done without a dryer. Talk about stress. Bless you and your family. I adore your videos.
As a child, teen, and young adult, I was a “messy,” and of course, even at 65 y/o, I still have bouts of those tendencies. Having to much stuff is also a problem, and I have read a multitude of books on organizing, housecleaning, and clutter, but like dieting, I lose it, then gain it back! My friend of almost 30 years has seen me have multiple yard sales, get my house in order, only to be in the same place a few months or years later. Like you, I do enjoy a deep cleaning, but the room can be in chaos around me, while I’m focused on scrubbing baseboards, doors, and moldings, or taking down curtains to wash, iron, and scrub the windows! I stumbled on your video and was delighted to watch and hear your struggles with these similar issues, finding them encouraging and helpful. Your 10 minute timing method would definitely be helpful if I use it first before deep cleaning. I also plan on watching your decluttering video. Thank you for your honesty and the courage to share!
U r one of the strongest people I know. U truly r a blessing to so many.
Wonderful job 👏 ❤. Happy Easter to all that celebrate.
Thank you ☺️❤️
Good on you're you're boy for helping even you're little one trying too help. Bless them x
Hi Remi-sending prayers for you and your little one's test results. A very Happy Easter for your whole family!
Wow! 150 000 subs! ❤❤❤❤💪💪💪🤗
Happy Easter Remi!
I know!! Still can’t wrap my head round it!! 🤯❤️ Happy Easter!
Well done. You are a good mum and clean and you do well!
Thank you for sharing this. It's so helpful. I want to try it tomorrow.
I often get overwhelmed because I want to do things perfectly all the time, but boy was it an eye opener to see that small milestones can also be great at easing tension and getting things in better shape.
I'll let you know how I get one. Much love from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼❤
I can't believe there's a radiator in that tiny cupboard 😂. If it works it would probably be good for drying clothes!
Hysterical,screaming goat...Made me laugh out loud, brilliant! I'm sure Ike will be fine.
My house used to be like yours, toys, laundry and pots everywhere and I too would find forks and spoon in the most odd places. Then the kids grew up and went off to University and I got a dog. The house is still messy... and yes, it's me!!
This year I decided to be kinder to myself and NOT to apologise for the mess when friends came over. I do a bit of a clean and tidy each day depending on pain and energy levels and yeah I can see a difference. Thanks for all you do
Love you girl!!!! ❤
Ahh thank you so much!! 🥰❤️
Thanks for sharing that we are not all programmed to do it naturally. Might hit my bedroom with a 10-minute timer tomorrow.
My prayers for your little ones' tests and your peace. God bless you x happy Easter x
I’ve used the timer method for years too. It really helps! I can identify with MH connection. Thank you for being real. You’re so wise. You’re a treasure. ❤🙏
Great work!❤ Wishing you and your family a Happy Easter 🐤🐇🌷🐿 Cheers from Ontario Canada.
I understand u Remi my house is in a state I suffer with depression and anxiety and just can not motivate myself to do anything my house is normally spotless not a thing out of place but I have really let it go this last week and dont know we’re to start 😢xx
This too shall pass. Start with just one room. Your bedroom. So you wake and go to bed in a clean, calm atmosphere! Also ask for help!
You are not alone. You WILL overcome this!!
Start with taking care of you first. It may be taking an extra long warm shower or bath. Put on your favorite show or audio book. Then move to washing one cup or one plate. If you want to do more cleaning, go for it. You've got this! I'll be praying for you.
Screaming goat. Hilarious! Those boys of yours are just adorable. I hope little Ike will be ok. I think you are a great mom! Lotsa fun.
Well done love! House is stunning!!! 👍🏻👍🏻
As always Remi - thank you xx
🙌🙌🙌 needed this today!!! Happy Easter to you and your family!! ❤️🦋💐🐣💕
Needed this today! Ur videos really help calm my stress. Thank you! X
I think you do a great job, when you have little ones all you can do is do what you can. I know when your house is clean it makes you feel better, but your little ones won’t be little long and they won’t remember if the house was tidy. Enjoy those babies now cause time flies. Great job. Thank you for sharing
So true! 👍❤️
Your 10 min timer Methode was my Motivation today. Tried it today and my place is clean ❤ i love you❤
Hey remi! Amazing motivation as always 💛
So satisfying! Our basement flooded and all the things we saved are cluttering the rest of the house, so I’ll be trying out the timer strategy. ❤
Oh no!! I’m sorry about your basement! 😕 I so hope this works for you. Sending love ❤️
@@remiclogThank you! It’s okay, it’s a chance to get rid of some things and then put in a pump so it hopefully doesn’t happen again. Have a wonderful Easter! ❤
Praying for your little one. You are a good momma and I really enjoy your videos. Love from Ohio! Happy Easter and God bless you all!
Rumi I will keep you and your family in my prayers for healing and strength.