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  • Her husband won't help clean the house! Who is in the wrong in this hoarding horror home?
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  • @jackiem9460
    @jackiem9460 12 днів тому +94

    To those with low motivation/energy, I'd suggest having as few possessions as possible. The less you have, the less you have to pick up. I can relate. Depression is a beast.

  • @ar5624
    @ar5624 20 днів тому +265

    Misleading title, he’s not her husband he’s her partner and he doesn’t even live there so is not obligated to clean it 🙄

    • @patparker4964
      @patparker4964 17 днів тому +24

      Exactly what I thought-really not fair to him

    • @annavicary8530
      @annavicary8530 16 днів тому +37

      Pretty sure that title was aimed at the second couple, where the husband never cleans

    • @Elwene2fr
      @Elwene2fr 12 днів тому +12

      Maybe watch the full video before you comment 🙄

    • @monicacollins8289
      @monicacollins8289 10 днів тому +11

      Couple #2 shows the unhelpful, slobby husband. He's got a bad attitude

    • @AngelStormee
      @AngelStormee 10 днів тому +12

      I'm so tired of the misuse of this word. He's not a "partner" if he doesn't help his "partner." "Partners" share each others' loads as a team. He helps her and she helps him = "partner." He's basically just someone she's dating, not a "partner.".

  • @hwezda
    @hwezda 10 днів тому +25

    What about her sons? They can do dishes, be taught to do their own laundry, and run a vacuum.

    • @RatedArggg
      @RatedArggg 2 дні тому +1

      Ever deal with a hoarder? My mother always said I "cleaned it wrong." If I tried to get her to throw something out, she "needed it for later."

  • @rachelhele7827
    @rachelhele7827 18 днів тому +147

    Animals are never to be blamed for the mess. We chose to have them and it’s our responsibility to clean our houses

    • @maggysday
      @maggysday 15 днів тому +3

      Yup it just makes it harder or take longer but definitely our responsibility to stay on top of it….

    • @nurtenkocaman1699
      @nurtenkocaman1699 14 днів тому +3

      Totally agree we got a cat always make his litter tray is clean has fresh water etc

    • @kooral6959
      @kooral6959 12 днів тому +2

      Yeah exactly the same as children.

    • @user-mc2dt4qh6e
      @user-mc2dt4qh6e 12 днів тому +2

      100% y yo lo hago con todo mi amor xq los amo ...

    • @DarkbutNotsinister
      @DarkbutNotsinister 8 днів тому +2

      @@rachelhele7827 Not only are we responsible for picking up after them, we need to keep things clean FOR them!🐾

  • @Swayspirit
    @Swayspirit 19 днів тому +72

    For the first couple he should wait a while to make sure it doesnt get bad again

    • @DebbiePotter-xh7kv
      @DebbiePotter-xh7kv 9 днів тому

      Exactly bc over 90% return to their filthy hoarding ways. Idk what the ‘experts’ are experts in bc it very very rarely are successful.

  • @telasims233
    @telasims233 21 день тому +65

    She wonders why her partner doesn't want to move in? Really??? She has no room for herself.. She lives in a health HAZARD!! I wouldn't knock on the door WITHOUT A MASK😪

    • @worldsworstneighbours
      @worldsworstneighbours  20 днів тому +2

      Yep...

    • @telasims233
      @telasims233 20 днів тому +2

      @@worldsworstneighbours I really like this channel, it kinda makes me get up and run the vacuum 🤣😅 living in the US it's fun getting a peek in UK households.. their so small compared to ours, and our refrigerators are massive compared to the UK ones.. id LOVE cleaning one those.. it's actually just enough space, easy to keep clean..

  • @chasingcities1
    @chasingcities1 20 днів тому +101

    This woman’s issue is not “not having time to clean". It’s a psychological issue, and she desperately needs to seek professional help. Unless she gets to the core reason for why she is living in these conditions, when her house is cleaned out and put in order, it will be no time at all until it goes right back to the way it was. Such a shame that her children had to live in these filthy conditions. Worrying about getting married should be last on her list of priorities!

    • @hestererlank8354
      @hestererlank8354 18 днів тому +7

      The kids can help.

    • @riseevolution
      @riseevolution 17 днів тому +3

      maybe they helped to mind transformation😅

    • @freyas2483
      @freyas2483 15 днів тому

      Lazy Kids do not help​@@hestererlank8354

    • @Edith.G.G.
      @Edith.G.G. 13 днів тому +7

      She looks really depressed.

    • @monicacollins8289
      @monicacollins8289 10 днів тому +6

      She reached out.
      She's trying.

  • @maggiewalshkahlout6364
    @maggiewalshkahlout6364 19 днів тому +54

    Im sorry but who in the world would think the washing would dry - just piled up on the clothes rack !!! 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

  • @tasteofcountryllc737
    @tasteofcountryllc737 19 днів тому +73

    I wud no longer be in a relationship if I found out they lived like this

    • @tanial694
      @tanial694 12 днів тому +7

      Wouldn’t you try to help them by encouraging counselling at least.? Or support them by hiring a team of hoarding professionals? No? Well any partner of yours is better off without you anyway.

  • @Xflosiv
    @Xflosiv 13 днів тому +29

    Her house is a reflection of how she feels inside. When you're that "heavy" inside you can't do much & just adjust to the environment. She needs to change her comfortable routine. Very sad.

  • @hestererlank8354
    @hestererlank8354 18 днів тому +62

    I like that she is taught how to clean. A lot of people never had the training.

    • @tanial694
      @tanial694 12 днів тому +4

      That’s a nice positive comment. Shows that you are a nice person to say it. Cheers.

    • @AniGstring
      @AniGstring 12 днів тому +5

      You don't need to be trained how to clean. Come on!

    • @monicacollins8289
      @monicacollins8289 10 днів тому +3

      ​@@AniGstring l respectfully disagree.

    • @TH-eb5ro
      @TH-eb5ro 10 днів тому +1

      I agree, many parents are just barely able to raise children due to work, health, attitude and don't always pass on those skills. Even as we go on we need to check what we've learned as time, options change. Or as an example we learn that products we thought were tried and true are found to not be safe. US brand Tide on EWG comes to mind.

    • @gwendolynross1674
      @gwendolynross1674 9 днів тому +2

      Exactly what I was thinking. I was taught how to get things clean and keep things clean. I have battled with depression my whole life. It's true that minimizing your belongings, helps to maintain the cleanliness of your home. Bless those who ask for help and those who are willing to help. 😊💗

  • @karensandovalflacaa7858
    @karensandovalflacaa7858 19 днів тому +131

    The fact that she doesn't mind cooking in a NASTY electric grill just shows that she doesn't care.

    • @tanial694
      @tanial694 12 днів тому +14

      She obviously has grief, the poor lady. Hoarding usually is the outcome of grief and people can’t cope. She will be ok and Counselling will support her journey. Be kind, you never know if you will step into her shoes due to grief in your own life.

    • @Blueythebutterfly
      @Blueythebutterfly 7 днів тому +3

      She’s not a hoarder, she can let go. She just doesn’t like cleaning. Maybe she would enjoy cleaning if someone is doing it with her.

    • @Betsy-R
      @Betsy-R 6 днів тому +1

      I would just have to throw away that grill. (Did they swab that grill? 😂)

  • @tasteofcountryllc737
    @tasteofcountryllc737 19 днів тому +14

    Why didn't they just buy another small grill for $20 ???

  • @assassinspoiler3488
    @assassinspoiler3488 19 днів тому +41

    Can't stand smell of vinegar but can stand smell of nasty house really

  • @mysweetroux5449
    @mysweetroux5449 19 днів тому +34

    When they started cleaning with no gloves on, especially the bathroom it was hard not to be grossed out.

  • @wendyeskelin8765
    @wendyeskelin8765 10 днів тому +8

    I like that she is involved in testing, cleaning, and sorting, so she has more of an idea how bad it really is, and also how to keep it from being like that again.

  • @heatherrowell3008
    @heatherrowell3008 15 днів тому +25

    So easy to become overwhelmed. Wonderful job

  • @heidipenn4499
    @heidipenn4499 20 днів тому +39

    This episode makes me want go home and clean!

  • @colinchick2692
    @colinchick2692 21 день тому +43

    The problem with drying clothes inside when it is raining is that in the UK the humidity outside is often so high that opening windows and doors does not help if you have 90 - 95% humidity outside then an open window is not going to get rid of damp inside. The only way I solved it was a dehumidifier. Cheaper than a dryer and turning the heating way up. I know this is the least of this ladies problems - I think she needs counselling.

    • @suewilkinson910
      @suewilkinson910 21 день тому +7

      Air movement is good though, even if the humidity level is high. I don't know about yours, but my dehumidifier has a laundry drying setting. It's really good. That washing blows on the airer like it's on the line. 😀

    • @worldsworstneighbours
      @worldsworstneighbours  20 днів тому +1

      Good point!

    • @whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607
      @whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607 19 днів тому +1

      @@suewilkinson910 hi would you mind sharing make and model please .

    • @MsSmalone
      @MsSmalone 19 днів тому +1

      I point a fan at mine too.

    • @MargaretUK
      @MargaretUK 18 днів тому +1

      I did have a damp house but invested in three dehumidifiers, two downstairs and one upstairs, they have been a game changer. They are all Meaco's, I can recommend 👌

  • @KathyCook-rc3ne
    @KathyCook-rc3ne 21 день тому +50

    she acts like she did not know how to clean,, all a surprise to her,,come on,,

    • @worldsworstneighbours
      @worldsworstneighbours  21 день тому +11

      Maybe she doesn't!

    • @rachelhele7827
      @rachelhele7827 18 днів тому +7

      @@worldsworstneighboursA woman should know how to clean.

    • @tanial694
      @tanial694 12 днів тому +5

      @@rachelhele7827 and you should know how to show compassion for those struggling with depression.

    • @lesley-annbanda5406
      @lesley-annbanda5406 8 днів тому +1

      ​@tanial694 Everything is depression these days.

    • @sharonchandler6245
      @sharonchandler6245 8 днів тому +1

      Cleaning is not just something you are born knowing how to do. Some people really don’t know how.

  • @grotemuis4889
    @grotemuis4889 15 днів тому +14

    Nice to see Haley again. But my anxiety level goes up when I see her cleaning with her hair hanging loose.
    Haley, put your hair up/ponytail/braid it anything to not have it flap around into the toilet bowl or greasy oven or in the dust! And Bill? He's just lazy.

  • @Joans20thCentury
    @Joans20thCentury 22 дні тому +69

    That would turn my stomach, that grill should have been binned 🤢

    • @worldsworstneighbours
      @worldsworstneighbours  21 день тому +2

      Yep...

    • @Propfaqs
      @Propfaqs 20 днів тому +2

      @@Joans20thCentury what does a grill cost? Foolish to rehab something that far gone. I hate to do it. It wastes 5 minutes but I wipe down the waffle iron with a paper towel because I LOVE WAFFLES!

    • @angelawood9853
      @angelawood9853 20 днів тому +1

      I agree

  • @saffyparkinson8113
    @saffyparkinson8113 18 днів тому +38

    If downstairs is that bad, upstairs must be horrendous too..

    • @johanneabelsen1644
      @johanneabelsen1644 15 днів тому +1

      Tell me about it..
      THAT place probably needs an exorcist!!😂

  • @elisafuentez8531
    @elisafuentez8531 9 днів тому +7

    There is an amazing woman from Finland who helps people with absolutely filthy homes. I mean bad n she does it for free. It’s a good watch

  • @lesleyhubble2976
    @lesleyhubble2976 22 дні тому +138

    Why waste an hour cleaning a grill pan, it would have been better to buy a new one

    • @vivianblack2951
      @vivianblack2951 22 дні тому +19

      Right, and some grill surfaces can be carcinogenic if particles are ingested, namely non-stick ones.

    • @TarquinTheTall
      @TarquinTheTall 21 день тому +18

      Maybe they just wanted to explain how to clean them 🤷 but that thing sent my ocd into overdrive! 😂

    • @worldsworstneighbours
      @worldsworstneighbours  21 день тому +36

      Could be a money issue?

    • @sharynsherwood4652
      @sharynsherwood4652 21 день тому +15

      And maybe mow the back lawns

    • @aussiemouth747
      @aussiemouth747 21 день тому

      More junk waste for the planet because people are lazy.🤔🤷‍♀️🦘

  • @user-rg4xz4wf4c
    @user-rg4xz4wf4c 20 днів тому +20

    If she has older kids why aren't they helping ther mom?

    • @leahpope8672
      @leahpope8672 18 днів тому +3

      Hoarders usually won't allow their children to help. They end up arguing and guilt tripping them to get them to stop and it strains the relationship.

  • @theicequeen4076
    @theicequeen4076 19 днів тому +20

    It's hard to understand how someone's house gets this bad. Many ppl think it's just laziness and sometimes it is but, often women are expected to keep everything in the house up despite working full time themselves. This lady is stretched too far with no help from her husband. I'm sure she's not feeling very supported or loved. I'm sure she is too embarrassed to ask from help from ppl she knows. It's hard to find ppl who will be compassionate and non-judgemental, while keeping things private and opinions to themselves. I'm glad she was able to get some help.

    • @theicequeen4076
      @theicequeen4076 19 днів тому +5

      Correction: This is not her husband. She has a long term boyfriend whom does not live in the home. I cannot imagine why he hasn't married and isn't living with her. Still, she has too much to do on her own.

    • @rachelhele7827
      @rachelhele7827 18 днів тому +3

      Not his house not his responsibility. Her house her kids they should clean it up.

    • @schnetzelschwester
      @schnetzelschwester 16 днів тому +1

      @@theicequeen4076 I can imagine why he didn't marry her. He had seen this home.

    • @tanial694
      @tanial694 12 днів тому

      Good love you for your beautiful comment. At last someone that thinks of others instead of judging.

    • @jenniferlloyd9574
      @jenniferlloyd9574 11 днів тому

      ​@@theicequeen4076 If she were clean and tidy, he'd likely already have moved in.

  • @yvonneescobosa1438
    @yvonneescobosa1438 5 днів тому +2

    I am a single mom who works full time and my house has never been this neglected. Hope she can keep up with it now that it is clean.

  • @mysweetroux5449
    @mysweetroux5449 19 днів тому +11

    Shaving cream as a cleaner is ridiculous for that bathroom. Needs a proper mildew killer and disinfectant. All those tiles are disintegrated and really need replacing if she can. Same with her carpet on the stairs…there’s no saving that.

  • @angelawood9853
    @angelawood9853 20 днів тому +51

    I have severe arthritis and am 69 my house is cleaned never any excuse

    • @pondlifefreezone
      @pondlifefreezone 18 днів тому +10

      Get off your high horse, some people have waaay more health issues than arthritis.just cos you can doesn't mean everyone can judgey 🐄 and no my house isn't like this

    • @angelawood9853
      @angelawood9853 17 днів тому +7

      @@pondlifefreezone no one should live like that it is a health hazard I'm in agony with spinal arthritis and have to have injections also depression I'm not on a high horse if you want to clean you find a way if you don't and are lazy you make excuses and aren't you judging me

    • @pondlifefreezone
      @pondlifefreezone 17 днів тому +7

      @@angelawood9853 no some people can't, I was a clean freak and since becoming seriously ill with numerous health conditions including cancer and arthritis ME/cfs fibromyalgia ankylising spongylitis (prob spelt that wrong) and depression because of this most days can barely do a thing but I keep trying. I'm not necessarily speaking up for this woman I just know there isn't one size fits all and what one person can do really doesn't mean other people are lazy that's all! I should have omitted the word 🐄 but no I'm not judging you but think before you assume others are just lazy.

    • @pondlifefreezone
      @pondlifefreezone 17 днів тому +2

      Oh and I have a spinal cord injury too

    • @angelawood9853
      @angelawood9853 17 днів тому +3

      And you Judged me I don't care what other people's houses are like if u knew me you would know in not judgmental but watch the blo9dy video and read the other comments

  • @lisanetgark415
    @lisanetgark415 16 днів тому +32

    I do not understand why Britain doesn’t have a proper laundry room. Flithy clothes should not be intermingled in the kitchen.

    • @presterjohn71
      @presterjohn71 13 днів тому +15

      A lot of British homes have utility rooms, however the UK is a population dense country so houses tend to be smaller than say in the USA.

    • @kerryhinson1032
      @kerryhinson1032 12 днів тому +4

      I wish I’ve never had any utility pantry laundry rooms we just don’t have houses big enough here unfortunately 😢

    • @famprima
      @famprima 10 днів тому +3

      Sweetie, get over your problems. In Europe, especially in urban areas, space is not as easy a commodity as in the States. We all have our washing machine in the kitchen or bathroom and we all survive. My cousin has a lovely antique closet in her livingroom... guess what´s in there. Exactly. Her washing machine and dryer. We make do.

    • @user-tk1xd9js1z
      @user-tk1xd9js1z 10 днів тому

      Britain is overpopulated.

    • @cherylwatkins588
      @cherylwatkins588 9 днів тому +1

      Unfortunately council properties don't allow for separate laundry room. I would love one but in social housing which I am so grateful for so I'm not complaining. It's just a bit...😊

  • @ashleeb8518
    @ashleeb8518 10 днів тому +5

    Tony and Rich's case: Orange oil on that sticky living room floor. Leave it set 20 min. Scrape off. Oven cleaner on the grill, cover with saran wrap, leave overnight or as long as possible. Wipes right off. ✨️😅 love that she was given instruction. Hopefully she gets psychological help as well. Great job!

  • @pamelahunter8659
    @pamelahunter8659 22 дні тому +57

    What I love about this cleaning programme is there’s no judgement. They just crack on.

  • @genwhite1175
    @genwhite1175 20 днів тому +30

    He's been with her for 10 years?! Why has he never pitched in and lent a hand? Or if he can't handle it, why hasn't he hired a cleaner to help her out? She's working and studying and has a couple of kids. Does he have all that going on? Why can't he at least mow her lawn??!
    Having said all that though, it's obvious she is very disorganised and doesn't seem to even know the basics. If the kids are old enough, they need to help! Set aside Saturdays to tackle it. Who would pull clean wash out onto a filthy floor?!! And pile it in a big, stinking pile on that rack? Or not use cleaner on the bathroom sink?!
    When he said he would "make sure it gets cleaned" instead of "I'll help and make sure it stays clean", my blood boiled. I hope I'm wrong, but I can't see them as a couple living together. She's besotted; him I'm not so sure. Sorry. Best of luck though.

    • @MarianneMcVeigh-xz2yv
      @MarianneMcVeigh-xz2yv 19 днів тому +8

      He isn't going to move in, I think that was obvious. Why would she want him to anyway as he doesn't seem the type to lift a hand to help.

    • @shojinryori
      @shojinryori 12 днів тому +1

      Maybe she’s *not* besotted? She keeps not cleaning up so he doesn’t move in? 😅

    • @tanial694
      @tanial694 12 днів тому +6

      The lovely lady has mental health issues. Please be kind enough to understand with a compassionate heart. Whatever happens in the relationship of the first couple is no one’s business.

    • @florence1395
      @florence1395 2 дні тому

      I think after 10 years he could have helped! Lazy bloke!

  • @lynnp9943
    @lynnp9943 8 днів тому +2

    My mom told me long ago, touch things only once, meaning don’t just move it around. When you pick it up, put it where it belongs right away. I’m not perfect at it but It helps me break through my depression at times.

  • @user-br1tw8yu6v
    @user-br1tw8yu6v 10 днів тому +3

    I would be in a constant state of isolation, anxiety, and self criticism if I lived in such a state. Here's hoping she gets the help she needs.

  • @bronzehair451
    @bronzehair451 21 день тому +12

    Bill and Antonette feel entitled to be untidy. Regardless of your upbringing you be capable of cleaning up behind yourself. They just needed someone to clean up their filthy house. I don’t believe they will keep it clean.

  • @the.magic.catbus9459
    @the.magic.catbus9459 21 день тому +10

    Hoarding is a mental illness. It is extremely complex. My childhood home ended up becoming a hoarding situation after I moved out and my mom left the relationship. It’s really sad. You also can’t just clean the house. The person who lives there needs therapy and supports to help the, learn life skills.

  • @AnnetteMacAULAY
    @AnnetteMacAULAY 19 днів тому +8

    i think buying a new grill would have saved a lot of time. Then showed how to keep it clean.

  • @librarynan4610
    @librarynan4610 22 дні тому +21

    Wonder what the bedroom looks like.

  • @logothaironsides2942
    @logothaironsides2942 21 день тому +11

    I have t say that if this man has been with her 10 years, he could pitch in too at least with the garden. She is in that big house alone by the looks of things.. The way he said ONE of the biggest issues is the mess ,made me wonder whether that was his get out of jail free statement .. a sort of, right ,now that little problem is addressed we'll look at the next one. The thing is, if he were to move in with her (I only watched half the video) , is he then going to still treat it as her problem and her home ,he is living in ,or is he going to be fair and help keep it tidy?

    • @worldsworstneighbours
      @worldsworstneighbours  20 днів тому +2

      Good point!

    • @Hellsbells888
      @Hellsbells888 20 днів тому +3

      I'm wondering if they are still together. I get this nagging feeling that he will constantly judge her.

    • @annwhite8333
      @annwhite8333 20 днів тому

      We're is the cleaning crew she bought in what happened to them😅😅😅😅😅

    • @ellbow7287
      @ellbow7287 13 днів тому +1

      He most likely also has a full time job he may work more than 40hours a week, we don't know. His own place looked very clean and tidy, that's probably he hasn't been helping clean her place, he's cleaning his own place in his home time.

  • @annetunstall967
    @annetunstall967 9 днів тому +2

    I suffered from depression and a breakdown but my house never looked anything like that at any time. I find it so hard to understand even a modicum of mess being left especially in the bathroom.

  • @ChaosLoveHub
    @ChaosLoveHub 3 дні тому +2

    I once scrubbed a guy's kitchen, and he was just a fling. He didn't ask me to, I just lent a hand cuz he was expecting guests. I cannot imagine having a partner for 10 years and them just letting me struggle instead of helping, at least from time to time. Understandable if he doesn't want to live there and that it isn't his responsibility but he should still support a little bit. And tbh, between work, kids and night school, when is this woman even living? Isn't there anything he could do, at all?

  • @AlishaPurkis
    @AlishaPurkis 12 днів тому +4

    The weird part is her partner won't help make it a nice toxic free place to live for their health that matters so much.

    • @laurawalsh2829
      @laurawalsh2829 10 днів тому +2

      Possibly the partner has commitment issues. If he doesn’t want to enable, that’s one thing. If he thinks that only she should keep the house clean once he is there, that is a big red flag!!!
      Not having her guy move in could be like dodging a bullet.

  • @NaomiBrady-im4yi
    @NaomiBrady-im4yi 21 день тому +36

    You can tell a lot by a person on how clean their kitchen and bathroom is.Absalutley no excuse for this.

    • @worldsworstneighbours
      @worldsworstneighbours  21 день тому

      Absolutely!

    • @ZenDragoonYT
      @ZenDragoonYT 20 днів тому +14

      it's normally has to do with a mental illness or trauma. please be kind.

    • @NaomiBrady-im4yi
      @NaomiBrady-im4yi 20 днів тому

      ​@@ZenDragoonYT
      Be kind to your self 💚

    • @rachelhele7827
      @rachelhele7827 18 днів тому +3

      @@ZenDragoonYTI suffer from depression and I force myself to do housework. My cats are not going to live in squalor.

  • @ArtyAntics
    @ArtyAntics 19 днів тому +5

    If he made a paste out of the bicarb, put cling film over it, and left it over night he would have got that clean with way less effort. White vinegar spray would also help at the end.

  • @tanial694
    @tanial694 12 днів тому +3

    Viewers please understand hoarding is more than likely a mental health issue, not just laziness. Be kind to others before commenting. Mental health disorders can affect anyone at any given time, people don’t choose it.

  • @Tammyjean
    @Tammyjean 13 днів тому +3

    He can stay right where he is cause if he can’t help the situation then he can’t enjoy the aftermath of the situation!!

    • @sallyal5266
      @sallyal5266 9 днів тому +2

      My sentiments exactly, the way he didn't even reach out to give her a hug when she was crying until after the cleaner did, speaks volumes!!

    • @Tammyjean
      @Tammyjean 9 днів тому

      @@sallyal5266 exactly!

  • @michelleaththas659
    @michelleaththas659 18 днів тому +43

    This woman has a big problem…… Laziness I had 3 children under 6 and was working full time on night shift as a nurse in Emergency department . Looking after the kids during the day, taking the eldest ones to school and back, doing the shopping, and ironing and washing etc…I used to do all the housework and would go back to work the next night with only 4 hours sleep. And my house had never been in that state, it was always totally cleaned. If you do it as it comes and do not wait, then your house should be always in order. She is lazy…….

    • @LecheVitrineUK
      @LecheVitrineUK 15 днів тому +9

      Well good for you but humans are all different and some people have mental health issues, ADHD and other health issues. Labelling someone as ' lazy' is very judgemental, it's not kind of useful. Where is your empathy and compassion, if you are a nurse I would hope that you would have buckets of both.

    • @gerdacoetzer3615
      @gerdacoetzer3615 13 днів тому +4

      I thought it was her head but I agree it is nothing but LAZYNESS.

  • @verityowens9638
    @verityowens9638 21 день тому +10

    Too much clutter.I would guess her mum was a harder so it was learned behaviour
    Will be hard to keep it clean. Using that filthy grill was not something most people would do . Lovely lady I hope she can manage it now it's clean.❤❤

  • @patriciakelly2714
    @patriciakelly2714 13 днів тому +5

    I don’t blame him for not wanting to move in that mess.

  • @EdsCanineAcademy
    @EdsCanineAcademy 17 днів тому +6

    How clean is your house with Kim and Aggie was far better!

  • @_DROM_
    @_DROM_ 19 днів тому +10

    She might need a diagnosis and treatment, From what I heard in the beginning, she's totally and completely overwhelmed. She has no idea what to do home. Her house is a representation of her mind. Getting her house cleaned up is great, but without proper care for her mind, when the home comes back to this, and it will, she's gonna take it a lot harder, making her condition worsen 😢

  • @MargaretSmith-kl7mq
    @MargaretSmith-kl7mq 20 днів тому +6

    Is she really going to keep it clean ? I'm sorry but there's no excuse for this filth

  • @malekahamilton6881
    @malekahamilton6881 22 дні тому +27

    She will take that behaviour into the marriage!

    • @worldsworstneighbours
      @worldsworstneighbours  21 день тому +13

      Shouldn't he help?

    • @talex1625
      @talex1625 20 днів тому +7

      If she's prepared to live like this, and raise her children in this environment, it tells you everything you need to know about her as a person. Whether her partner helps or not is irrelevant, she won't change. I wouldn't choose to live with her either.

    • @genwhite1175
      @genwhite1175 20 днів тому +1

      @@worldsworstneighbours yes!!!!

    • @RC_17
      @RC_17 20 днів тому +7

      @@worldsworstneighboursFor the first couple - I don’t think her partner should have to help her clean if he isn’t currently living in the house with her. It’s all her mess and dirt no?

    • @rachelhele7827
      @rachelhele7827 18 днів тому +1

      @@worldsworstneighboursnot his house not his responsibility

  • @sallypanda1014
    @sallypanda1014 21 день тому +10

    This sad cause that means her kids grew up in this situation and now that they’re older they will have issues with it.

    • @worldsworstneighbours
      @worldsworstneighbours  21 день тому +2

      100%

    • @cw2830
      @cw2830 20 днів тому +8

      I grew up in a mess and I've been a cleaner from toddler age. I always kept my bedroom clean and tried to contain as much as my little self could. My home is clean as an adult. The problem I have is everyone being overdependent on me and making messes and hoarding then expecting me to constantly clean up.

    • @laurawalsh2829
      @laurawalsh2829 10 днів тому +1

      Stand your ground please refrain from letting them take advantage of you

  • @jasminebambury5841
    @jasminebambury5841 13 днів тому +2

    Antoinette has a lovely house and hope she gets to enjoy that.

  • @user-fp1ti1mw9n
    @user-fp1ti1mw9n 19 днів тому +6

    I like to listen to this while cleaning for motivation.

    • @leahpope8672
      @leahpope8672 18 днів тому +1

      Hoarding shows have changed my life.

  • @naomifourie9016
    @naomifourie9016 18 днів тому +4

    Okay the grill, you make a paste with caustic soda, be very careful of the fumes and dont get it on your skin, protect eyes. Paste it all over, put cling wrap over it. Go sleep. Next day wipe it clean and scrub a little with soft plastic brush, and it will be clean in minutes.

  • @DianaStuckert
    @DianaStuckert 7 днів тому

    The kitchen bacteria check got me to jump up and spray bleach my sink 😂

  • @laurahaleot
    @laurahaleot 21 день тому +21

    don't over commit!!! You chose a partner, you two produced kids? Drop school and work as few hours as you can afford and take care of your kids and the home. Find a partner who wants to share equally and can move forward with you.

    • @worldsworstneighbours
      @worldsworstneighbours  21 день тому +7

      100%

    • @rachelhele7827
      @rachelhele7827 18 днів тому +4

      I personally wouldn’t want a relationship with anyone who lives like this. I’ll live by myself

  • @kristinefletcherwode4640
    @kristinefletcherwode4640 21 день тому +14

    Nope. Disgusting. Bring shame back - she should feel ashamed to have her children living in that pigsty, it is just plain lazy & not cleaning up after you use something. Unless her children are under 10yo they should be helping with learning about chores. I know many single parent families, who work full time & some also study, yet manage to maintain a clean/tidy house. She's been there for 19 years; it is her place, I wouldn't move into it either.

    • @worldsworstneighbours
      @worldsworstneighbours  21 день тому

      Fair enough!

    • @genwhite1175
      @genwhite1175 20 днів тому +3

      To me it seemed she was trying hard to better herself by working and studying, not sitting on her bum on a benefit. She may never have been taught how to keep a house clean and tidy. I think she is probably overwhelmed too. But she at least asked for help, and even agreed to go on camera which is pretty darned brave. I can't see what shaming her would achieve at all.

    • @ZenDragoonYT
      @ZenDragoonYT 20 днів тому

      situations like this normally originate from mental illness or trauma. please develop compassion. nobody WANTS to live in squallor. and it's wonderful that the homeowner is seeking help. that takes courage to open up your home and show your struggles to others.

  • @tasteofcountryllc737
    @tasteofcountryllc737 19 днів тому +5

    Old man wants a maid like whwn he was younger. He donr want a wife. He expects her to clean up after him.

    • @rachelhele7827
      @rachelhele7827 18 днів тому +3

      He didn’t make the mess it’s her house her responsibility. He has his own house.

    • @sophiamac9100
      @sophiamac9100 11 днів тому +2

      Did you not watch the video? HE DOESN'T LIVE THERE!

  • @nikkipoohw
    @nikkipoohw 18 днів тому +5

    Its good to help out. So if you're in a relationship help out

  • @Betsy-R
    @Betsy-R 6 днів тому

    “Marginally less than super clean” wow. I’m not a neat freak…but I might be now!😂

  • @dcg590
    @dcg590 10 днів тому +2

    This is result of mental illness. They need some help. Getting the home cleaned up is a start

  • @MarianneMcVeigh-xz2yv
    @MarianneMcVeigh-xz2yv 19 днів тому +5

    Great cleaning Hayley and team. Both homes look much better now. The second home is really nice cleaned up, showcasing the antiques. All those books are superfluous! You can read books online or loan them from a library. What's the point in having all those dust collectors other than giving an image of being well-read. Most people only read a book once so they should go after that.

    • @ellbow7287
      @ellbow7287 13 днів тому +2

      Your obviously not a reader. Some of those books maybe worth quite a bit of money, as well not being available commercially any longer or reference books.

  • @TarquinTheTall
    @TarquinTheTall 21 день тому +11

    The yard is full of debris too 😢

    • @worldsworstneighbours
      @worldsworstneighbours  21 день тому

      Yep...

    • @angelawood9853
      @angelawood9853 20 днів тому +1

      If she didn't clean she's not going to do the garden lol

    • @craftyhobbit7623
      @craftyhobbit7623 14 днів тому +2

      She could hire a gardener or her partner could do it. He's as bad as she is about cleaning the house and if you are in a relationship with someone, you should help.

  • @dcg590
    @dcg590 10 днів тому +1

    We know both households will go right back to the way it was.

  • @angelwings2968
    @angelwings2968 20 днів тому +5

    Thats no excuse your tired cause u have 2 children and work i have 4 children and work 2 jobs abd still clean my home

  • @gillianbrookwell1678
    @gillianbrookwell1678 20 днів тому +3

    You have to change, not something; just start cleaning your home by picking up rubbish, binning it and get cleaning. It's not rocket science.

  • @gracielacharles5529
    @gracielacharles5529 14 днів тому +2

    I am so happy that she got the help it looks amazing.❤

  • @kalindakelly3417
    @kalindakelly3417 13 днів тому +2

    But, the mildew. Black mold is no joke. I wonder if it’s all behind those tiles and wall board?
    Nice job cleaning tho.

  • @lormor460
    @lormor460 11 днів тому +1

    The house is so cute. ❤. I love all the colors.

  • @ericavilanova13
    @ericavilanova13 20 днів тому +3

    The title of this is sooooo off 😂 her partner, not husband, doesn’t even live with her.

  • @amandaparry9469
    @amandaparry9469 18 днів тому +1

    Never thought I would see Hayley put hand down toilet like that. She has always been a lovely person ❤

    • @shojinryori
      @shojinryori 12 днів тому

      Right? I was surprised to see that scene!

  • @maryannanderson2213
    @maryannanderson2213 13 днів тому +1

    I'm glad the homeowner is taught how to clean and is expected to help in the actual cleaning. I am always a bit concerned when I see someone come in and clean a home like this while the homeowner is absent because I can't help but wonder how many weeks it will take for her to get it right back in this same condition. MAYBE if she cleans it herself she will be able to maintain it a bit better. I think the BF should wait a while to move in so he can see if this is a one time thing with her or if she actually keeps her house relatively clean.

  • @sehhelfer2554
    @sehhelfer2554 18 днів тому +4

    Why is only the woman cleaning?

  • @lia-liz2012
    @lia-liz2012 13 днів тому +1

    Bill...God love him...he needs to do something about that toofy😅

  • @Propfaqs
    @Propfaqs 21 день тому +3

    I don’t feel hopeful about maintain this deep clean with this couple.

    • @worldsworstneighbours
      @worldsworstneighbours  20 днів тому +1

      😬

    • @ZenDragoonYT
      @ZenDragoonYT 20 днів тому +3

      sometimes its about just giving a push in the right direction. a nice reset. similar to people dealing with rehabilitation. just because a relapse can happen doesnt mean it isnt good to start somewhere. take wins.

    • @Propfaqs
      @Propfaqs 20 днів тому +3

      @@ZenDragoonYT ok. But both couples lived in unacceptable filth for so long they probably won’t even notice the slide back. Without ever lifting a finger, the place will still look clean to them and they will let everything go. Get back to their ‘passions’…

  • @kylieryan3523
    @kylieryan3523 21 день тому +7

    Glossed over the black mold problem in the bathroom

  • @TheKayc136
    @TheKayc136 22 дні тому +4

    What a lovely couple! I hope Toni and Richard do move forward with their relationship now the house is cleaner and more organised.

    • @worldsworstneighbours
      @worldsworstneighbours  21 день тому +1

      We do too!

    • @suewilkinson910
      @suewilkinson910 21 день тому +2

      @@worldsworstneighbours If I were him I'd want to give it at least 6 months to see what she does to a) the rest of the house and b) how she keeps it.

    • @genwhite1175
      @genwhite1175 20 днів тому +2

      @@suewilkinson910 If I were her I'd want to see if he's going to be more supportive in practical, hands-on ways too.

    • @laurawalsh2829
      @laurawalsh2829 10 днів тому

      THIS!!!! He better not expect her to do it all. That’s not a partner.

  • @lynnettawilliams2138
    @lynnettawilliams2138 18 годин тому

    Great job guys loved enjoyed watching keep up the hard work may God bless u

  • @Betsy-R
    @Betsy-R 6 днів тому

    Was Haley (the cleaner) on another cleaning show where she showed how she was obsessed with cleaning her own house? I think she wore heels 👠 while cleaning? If it is her, I’m so proud of her for helping someone else instead of over cleaning her place.

  • @eveeAndO
    @eveeAndO 17 днів тому +1

    I've just started watching this and l really feel for this person, because I've been there. She probably has a mental health issue that needs to be resolved as well as starting to recognizebad habits and change the behavior, which is really difficult. It's not that you don't see the mess and clutter, you do, but every time you see it you go, Oh l need to do that...l must remember to do that but then you don't have the motivation to do it and it just gets worse and worse and you get less and less motivated. You feel guilty about living like that and probably just lay in bed all day so you don't have to see the mess. Wishing her all the best going forward

  • @jodielorraine4653
    @jodielorraine4653 17 днів тому

    Love how she sets the food out at the " cat station" but i know full well if i had the food out on display my boys would eat the lot 😂

  • @naomifourie9016
    @naomifourie9016 18 днів тому +2

    With the cost of shaving foam, lol thats not a good alternative cleaning product. Use the vinegar pls.

  • @GrannyJo12
    @GrannyJo12 7 днів тому

    He’s giving off so many red flags, I hope that she gets help she needs

  • @melaniehellum1281
    @melaniehellum1281 15 днів тому +1

    Some grills have removable cooking plates that can be soaked in the sink .

  • @birgitschwaika4761
    @birgitschwaika4761 17 днів тому +3

    Why dont you call Aurikatarina?

    • @user-to4xx3rj1m
      @user-to4xx3rj1m 14 днів тому

      I loove that girl ❤❤
      From 🇰🇪 kenya ❤❤

  • @Georgiaonmymind862
    @Georgiaonmymind862 8 днів тому +2

    I’d have bought a new grill!

  • @AngelStormee
    @AngelStormee 10 днів тому +1

    Her husband is NOT a "partner." He is another son since he lives there and refuses to help clean. LBH

  • @mctdones
    @mctdones 15 днів тому +1

    I'm honestly so surprised they don't have long term physical illnesses.. like infections, food poisoning, skin disease, respiratory digestive something, anything environmental factor. Unless it wasn't discussed during filming...

    • @DelDallimore-th3hg
      @DelDallimore-th3hg 13 днів тому

      I was thinking that. If the sink was five thousand times over health precautions how come they weren't ill

  • @rubberdc
    @rubberdc 22 дні тому +7

    she needs educating .

    • @sanart9513
      @sanart9513 21 день тому +1

      The title is f wrong

    • @worldsworstneighbours
      @worldsworstneighbours  21 день тому +1

      Why?

    • @rubberdc
      @rubberdc 21 день тому +1

      @@worldsworstneighbours perhaps you need educating too ?

    • @davidhookway514
      @davidhookway514 20 днів тому +1

      All people like that seem to have plenty of possessions, and forget where the waste bin is. - Psychological!

  • @monicacollins8289
    @monicacollins8289 10 днів тому +1

    Home #1: well done, Team! Haley dear, please wear your hair up and back; it was touching filthy surfaces whenever your leaned forward.
    Home #2: Bill looks like he has sketchy personal hygiene. He and Antoinette hoarders, and they'll continue to be so after the cleaning.

  • @ZenDragoonYT
    @ZenDragoonYT 20 днів тому

    did NOT expect to see a ddlc reference on the fridge xD

  • @gracielacharles5529
    @gracielacharles5529 14 днів тому

    Great job again. Hope they keep up with it.❤

  • @naomifourie9016
    @naomifourie9016 18 днів тому +1

    For the toilet thats like that, put one cup of pool acid in it, leave it overnight, next day use a normal toilet brush.

  • @lidiapolomskatomes5888
    @lidiapolomskatomes5888 19 днів тому +2

    Jeżeli nie potrafią sprzątać niech zamówią serwis sprzątający co dwa tygodnie .

  • @lindastrickland5771
    @lindastrickland5771 5 днів тому

    Someone needs to address the head high weeds in her backyard!!! How can you hang clothes out there? Plus the clothesline was waist high once they hung clothes on it, blankets & sheets would be dragging on the ground! Anybody could’ve at least kept things picked up. Amazing!!!