the world accepts things in layers and we got here by layers of acceptance. This comes from acceptance of things that aren't directly related to trans. It does encompass other things that are not directly related.
5:17 if being in the women's bathroom makes you giddy with excitement, you are EXACTLY the kind of man that women fear having share their bathroom with
Exactly. Also you can wear whatever you want and still be the same gender... These are the same people, that want to destroy stereotypes about gender and at the same time they think they are non-binary or whatever, because they don't like feminine or masculine look (depending on their sex)....
I used to cry when I was a kid when my parents would put me in dresses and I watched cartoons/ played with toys geared more towards boys. Back then I was called a Tomboy and outside mild teasing from other girls, no one cared. Today? I would probably be pressured into transitioning or using non-binary pronouns. I'm still female/a woman but don't like traditionally feminine things, these two things can be true at once.
Yeah I'm a butch lesbian and despite presenting how I do (which society calls masculine) I am so glad I got out of my gender confusion phase and realized I can be a woman and as "masculine" presenting as I want. I don't even identify as a woman--I simply am one because I'm an adult and female (its not an identity one can jump in and out of). Nothing I do appearance or likewise will change that fact and I'm really at peace with myself after coming to these realizations. These woke gender ideology/trans right activist people are extremely regressive in their views and actively reinforce the binary.
I'm Gen X, in 1980 I had cropped bright pink hair, shaved off my eyebrows and I would chest bind. I knew I was female but I was a young punk who wanted to present masculine as a fuck you to the social norms. These kids have just attached themselves to the "gender movement" as a form of rebellion. I have a couple of dodgy tattoo's from this era, sadly for Gen Z there will been lots of double mastectomies instead. I remember when here in Australia, in the late 90s, they banned hormones for transexuals and how terrified my friends who needed those shots were. Finally transexuals have rights and visibility but it seems like a cruel joke that it's come with this absurd inclusion caveat. Thanks for being one of the few voices of reason TOT
You can't understand people's pattern of thought because you had a similar experience in the "past", and come back to the present where you're invalidating strangers because it makes you feel embarrassment and confusion, people who think they know all have parasites that harm themselves and others
@@theowlhouseseason3213 I am neither embarrassed or confused. Sex is binary, you can medically change the way you present but when your bones are dug up in 100 years you will be declared either male or female no matter how you lived your life. I am 57, I protested transexual rights long before they became "fashionable" and living in circles where people did not conform to gender stereotypes my whole adult life. Declare your none binary status, I will use your preferred pronouns but just like the massive de-transition rate in FtoM that is occurring (often after going down an irreversible medical path), get back to me in a decade and lets see how many of these people are still non binary.
@@theowlhouseseason3213 and just because this woman had this experience "in the past" doesn't invalidate what she's saying or mean it's not happening now.
Heyyya 👍🏼 same gen, same subculture, same country ( maybe we’ve met, Aus subcultures were very small and mixed a lot lol). Only I was and am still dysphoric. I know what you mean though. In a way, we crawled so this crew can dance. It’s still evolving, you could say society is… transitioning into a new paradigm. There will be fallout (lives), it’s natural, but the best we can do is support and be real with each other, and share our stories with the younger folk. 💜🌈 hope you’re doing well. (Omigosh we are the grown-ups now? Haha ok, then stop telling me I’ll grow out of it)
I think the reason I can't take NB and self ID seriously is that I remember too well the freedom of gender expression that was opening up in the 70s and 80s. If you were male you were a man, if you were female you were a woman, (gender dysphoria notwithstanding). But beyond that, the rest was up to you. Man and male or woman and female was merely what you were. Who you were was entirely your own business. How you were a man or a woman was up to you. Where's the lack of freedom there? It never went anywhere.
I absolutely agree with you, a lot of glam rock bands were male and identified as male but would choose to dress how they wanted and most of the time it was androgynous, David Bowie is a very good example of this. It was about expression of masculinity and femininity, but it didn't change your gender.
Self-ID is the most dangerous thing right now regarding culture and identity, if anyone can identify as anything then reinforce that by laws, we will see an endless conflict abundance in society.
@@ineffablemars if you’re a female who doesn’t want to be a woman, then you obviously experience gender dysphoria and need to see a professional who can help you with that. Now when it comes to wanting a penis but not wanting to be a man, many trans women still have their penis and are comfortable with keeping their penis. I just answered both of those questions without the NB label.
I'm someone that has identified as non-binary before and tbh, I think it's because of the pressure about fitting in and belonging to something. As an autistic person, particularly an autistic female, fitting in and making friends is incredibly hard for me. I still struggle with identity sometimes, but I think that's an overall personality thing, not gender.
@@Markivoryy I definitely agree with that. It's like being trans nowadays is the new emo or scene. Those who actually suffer with gender dysphoria have it even as a young child without society or family influencing them, usually their family will raise them as their biological sex, so no social pressure. In fact they are the ones who get bullied for it. This extreme trans ideology includes those who just feel different, or those who don't fit in as the typical feminine female or masucline male. These people want to erase gender roles but at the same time use gender roles to determine if you're a boy or girl. It's confusing.
You don’t need to identify as « non-binary » to feel comfortable with yourself. Just be you, acknowledge who and what you are (because aside from being humans, we’re also mere living beings like other animals).
@@xdranzer0004 I absolutely agree with this now. Those who try and push all these new pronouns and force you to change your language are not comfortable within themselves and want the validation from others. If you're comfortable and happy with yourself you wouldn't need to seek validation from external sources!
There are studies that link autism with the perception that one could be trans. And you can find quite a few people online that once they got help that they needed to navigate thru life with autism, they didn't felt trans anymore. I find that interesting . I just learned about that correlation a couple days ago and I keep seeing people from the spectrum mentioning similar experiences. If anything that leads us to see that trangenderism (or another more proper term) needs to be more deeply scientifically studied, without people calling the people involved as bigots.
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I'm gonna be real here. I identify as non-binary, but after seeing your videos here and your posts on IG I don't want to call myself that anymore. Funny how someone on social media can help me figure out the things I feel/do/want etc are rooted in my traumas, when none of my (previous) psychologists and therapists could do this. None of them have even said a word about why I wanted to call myself non-binary, why I had/have body dysmorphia and stuff like that. I know I'm not trans, so I always hated it when other non-binary people said that when you're non-binary you're also trans. Because I'm not. Yes, I do have the dysmorphia, but I now understand and realize that that's because of my traumas and not because of being trans or something similar. So thank you for this, for everything. I have a lot I can drop off my shoulders now, and I have a lot I need to work out. But at least I realized.
I wanted to be boy as a young teen. As a young woman I genuinely felt uncomfortable with my sex again. I wanted to be a man and privately considered myself non-binary. I also felt INCREDIBLY uncomfortable with the societal expectations of womanhood and women. Getting my life in order (like getting diagnosed with ADHD and thereby also dealing with what was probably depression, losing weight I gained in my search for dopamine, making new friends, finally- in my mid 20s- making *good* sexual experiences with men) helped a ton. I like being a woman. Actually *mostly* love it. But I sometimes still hate gender (how I was taught to always be polite, never hurt people's feeling at the expense of my own etc). And I sometimes even hate the physical differences between male and female. And I think that's okay. So... I don't know if this was helpful. BUT they way you go through life (whether that's as a feminine man, masculine woman, sort of androgynous, super masc man etc) is up to you. But one can be all of these and still dislike gender/gender roles. Even dislike physical aspects of being female and male and still learn to be comfortable and happy with ourselves. That's at least my experience. Uhm, yah. I hope my ramblings helped. Or (edit) at least didn't hurt. Please don't hesitate to get the help you need. You're worth it!
@@sunmi2539 lmao someone's video helping me when I was hella stuck with something I just couldn't not figure out myself nor with therapist. Weird right?!
The non-binary thing is actually so sad and an underrated worrying part of today’s radical TRAs. Unlike with actual trans people (who actually suffer gender dysphoria), these kids are going through what literally everyone goes through, that is: being uncomfortable with the stereotypes of their gender. And while trying to escape such stereotypes, they are just reinforcing them. 💔
@@-MaryPoppins- yes? They're uncomfortable with the way they are depicted in society (and physically) so they go out of their way to fit into the stereotypes of what they perceive to be what a woman is a man is etc. Even though it's false. For example there are many different type of women who wear different things and have flat chests big chests etc, but trans people try to fit into the most hyper feminine stereotypical box they find as well as socially act more feminine even though majority of women just act casually and normal. And that's what makes a woman, variety. Same goes with men.
Right, I struggled with stereotypes as well growing up, and if I was growing up today with woke parents I would definitely be calling myself "nonbinary."
They say that they hate gender roles so they want to be gender neutral but when they feel ''masculine' they dress up in baggy jeans, backwards cap and shorter hair and when they feel more 'feminine' they dress up in cute dresses and flowerily clothing... What the fuck. Also you might be correct on them just wanting to feel different and hating the idea of being a cis straight human, because they usually label themselves as Queer which basically means strange, odd, unusual, out of the ordinary. They want to be different, they want to be special and unique. I'm betting they got taught or told by social medias such as Tumblr and Tik Tok that straight/cis = bad. So now they're searching for a way out. Labeling yourself as NB is a easy ticket out.
Indeed. The whole thing reenforces negative gender stereotypes. If you don’t like the stereotypes, own being a man/woman in the way YOU want to define it. Don’t abandon the label
@@ej9258 i remember back in the 90s my friend (a girl) looked like steven seagal's lil brother, she had this big body, her face looked like steven seagal, dressed like steven seagal and hair like that aswell.. was fine and now she is married and have a son.. never needed to call herself non binary 🤷♀️
I stuck out like a sore thumb compared to the kids I went to school with… I was an alternative kid… back in my day… “Queer” was just another word used for those who were LGBT….. it wasn’t a separate category…. nowadays just being alternative makes you “Queer”… nowadays liking boy things makes a girl a trans-man… we used to just be called a Tomboy…!!! The modern day LGBTQIALMNOP2S + have lost the plot…….
when being emo/goth becomes old, this is what happens next stop is trans-species, which is already happening i’m scared what kind of craziness the next generation will come up with to be different, unique and special
@Stachenscarfen I don't think ppl do for the most part. It's some ppl on the Internet and ppl themselves making it harder to be themselves. Non B ppl specifically do this with all the labels and self identification. I believe what they do is stopping them from actually figuring out who they actually are and preventing other people from helping them. We as humans spend our whole lives trying to better ourselves and learn Who We Are. There's never an end to this. So labeling yourself in these specific categories is actually limiting you from expressing yourself and searching for who you are. Especially when you can switch groups or identifications at-will depending on your mood. Meaning that your mood can change day today but who you are does not change vary drastically throughout your life, it happens little by little. It does not mean that you cant make drastic changes to yourself or your identity it's just these changes don't happen very quickly.
@Stachenscarfen if you took nothing from that, then I'm very sorry. You apparently don't understand what I said, read what I said out of context, or you saw what you wanted to see from that, which, would be nothing based off your reply, it seems you don't even want to try and take anything from it. I was not being spiteful or crappy towards you about it.
@@intrigued16 no, what I saw was someone who doesn't understand any other side and wrote a misguided ramble. I read what you wrote a knew what you meant
As a woman, I don't know one woman who didn't struggle with her feminity during her teenage years and early adulthood. Almost all women struggle, to various degrees, with men looking at them with desire and making comments while they still felt like kids mentally and weren't ready for this at all. Physically speaking, periods are something harsh. Even if you're one of the lucky ones who don't get painful periods, you still have to accept that for now on you'll have to deal with blood stains, dirty tampons and pads every month. You get nasty remarks, people saying you are on your periods when you are legitimately pissed about something. It's also the progressive realisation that you have to be careful about contraception and that, in the worse case scenario, you are the one who will have to go through an abortion in case contraception doesn't work, while men won't suffer any consequences of said abortion. And also the realisation, as they years go buy, that if you want a child the natural way with your partner, you will be the one giving birth. Not all women struggle with that one but I know many who are deeply afraid of pregnancy and would gladly have children of their own only if their husbands were the ones to be pregnant, and not them. Pregnancy is terrifying for a lot of young women and teens, and there is that fear about contraception failing, having to get the morning after pill or an abortion, that I know many young women around me struggle with. The tomboyish ones and the ones who aren't family oriented struggle with people expecting them to want to get married and have children, and they get told often that they will regret it if they don't have children. We are also harassed constantly by horror stories about women getting raped and killed, and it's scary. It's normal for young women and teens to at some point feel like being a woman is just shitty and horrible. I went through this. My friends went through this. But most will grow to embrace their femininity later on. Trans men exist, but not all women who struggle with their womanhood are trans. Many will simply at some point change their mind and like their femininty
I agree with a lot of this, but embracing femininity is a reason why so many of these people identify out of womanhood. Some women were tomboys and continue to be masculine as adults (like me). They need to hear that being a woman has nothing to do with femininity and gender roles. It is simply being an adult who is female, and you can do that however you want.
As a human I dont know a human who didn't struggle with their high intelligence, but I dont know why they suffered, doesn't mean i get to speak for our species, not like anybody but ourselves will listen
I agree sometimes the things and societal pressure that comes with girl hood is pretty bad , it's the only life I ever known and I don't know any other way to go about life - it's a serious slap in the face how much shame and stigma that comes with it is right in your face and sometimes it just happens so often when men finally see it they don't understand when we don't fight it .. working male dominated fields it was completely normal, even the woman wouldn't allow you to carry tools in their house for fear you don't know what ypur doing .. but that doesn't change who I am in the slightest.. I don't want to be a man and I enjoy being a mom sometimes.. I will never get pregnant again -.- and I know alot of people implied I was a bad mother for hating pregnancy but I don't care .. I have a genuine fear of giving birth after that whole experience, after 30 hrs of labor I had to go to the hospital, with epidural and a c section.. the worst experience of my life is when I went into labor .
This hit way to close home. I was never a tomboy and I never had any gender dysphoria, nor did I ever NOT want to be a woman... But... "Men look at you with desire while you still feel like a child" that was what really made me hate being a girl in the past. You get to the point where you want to alter the world where feminity and masculinity are changed so that you don't feel so damn helpless...
Damn this is so true. In twenty years we’ll look back on this demographic, who was misled and butchered, as a deeply shameful period of our history. This is a horrifying tragedy happening in front of our eyes. It’s heartbreaking.
@@pricesymonej "transsexualism doesn't require dysphoria" is the same as saying the mental disorder isn't necessary to transition so essentially were just playing dress up
@@Simplyjeaniek yeah, makes sense, i agree. Let me ask your opinion. What would you say to all the trans “gender” ppl who say they really don’t have GD. Would you say they weren’t trans at all? Because i really do think most are just playing dress up, or really just trying to bust gender norms, which is a different thing than being trans. I believe you are only trans when you are a true trans sexual: someone trying to get gender reassignment surgery. Blaire White also talks about it.
I just want to say that gender-dysphoric patients were not necessarily born "this way" (ie. with gender dysphoria). Several profiles of people with gender dysphoria exist, and many factors influence its emergence, including trauma, body dysmorphia, repressed homosexuality, complicated family dynamics... Some of them will transition to alleviate their mental health problems, some of them will deal with them in other ways. None is wrong per say, but we should be clear on what we're talking about.
@@Mannequeer Ha, I thought there gotta be something in between emo and non-binary since emos had their time in the 2000s. But I had no idea what that would be. Now I know.
people need to really start monitoring social media because these people are corrupting the minds of venerable teens that are just going through what every teen in history dealt with... puberty is a rough time for both girl and boys more so for teens that suffer from gender dysphoria but people are more concerned with the rights of unborn fetuses than the health and safety of the children that are that are here.
@@LilyElkind I'm so glad someone else remembers. At least half of what people blame TikTok for "creating" I remember seeing on Tumblr like circa 2013. What I regret is seeing those posts back then and thinking "wow what a weird trend. This will never go mainstream..." present day here we are lmao
funny thing about the last person's tiktok is they get mad when you don't ask constantly what gender they are today but they also get mad if you ask too much... you can never win really
As a person in the genderfluid umbrella, I’m going to explain it to you, since you can’t relate to the situation because you’re not that gender: we’re not mad at you for not asking what gender we are at the moment, of course we REALLY appreciate it, but you don’t have to, we tell you once what pronouns we would like you to use in general and that’s it. I mean, with me it can be that when I have a day where I feel a lot of dysphoria, it can be that I may ask you to just not use she/her for me for that one day, but otherwise I’m cool with every pronoun, because my gender is fluid, meaning my gender can change over an unknown amount of time. What the creator of that tiktok meant was not that they were angry, it’s just very exhausting having a gender-crisis almost everyday, sometimes even during the day, because your mind just goes like “oh naww, we’re not a girl anymore, we’re a guy now” randomly, or you only know that you don’t really like your body at the moment, so you’re definitely not the gender you were born as, but otherwise you’re clueless, you could be a girl/guy,but also non binary or a demiboy/demigirl, moybe nothing at all. It can be VERY confusing.
I don't think non binary is a thing but I think the young women with the piercings may have gone though some horrible trauma and she doesn't want to be seen as a women .I think this is true for a lot of non binary people.
I really don't get it. I am here. A nonbinary person. Telling you I EXIST. And i really dont get, why it is such a big deal to you, that i am living as Myself.
@@TheLiranaGang these are just transphobes undercover lol none of these people have done any proper research on nonbinary people and the fact that its an umbrella term and not just one trendy singular thing/gender on tik tok. this really just seems like bullying and bigotry behind a mask of "im a constantly suffering transgender male" 💀 im nonbinary and the fact that all of these tik toks are old as hell and don't properly show what it is to be nonbinary says a lot on its own. it just seems like these were pulled up to be made fun of and not make a genuine point.
@@TheLiranaGang You exist but your fictitious identity doesn’t. Much like the city of London exists by JK Rowlings Harry Potter Magic does not. You can exist while living a lie. Many people do. Many people pretend to be things that do not exist. Dressing up like a fairy does not immediately mean that fairy’s are real creatures that scientists must treat as legitimate. It’s a costume. The same way that just because you say that you are non-binary doesn’t mean you are. There’s no evidence for that identity to exist outside of a new social trend. That doesn’t mean the person dressing up as the first doesn’t exist. They exist as a person but fairies don’t exist and you as a person exist but your fictitious identity does not. Make sense?
@Cat Kin yeah and as a female that would make myself look unappealing to protect myself from men that would/could hurt me. i understand why these people do this and i hope they get the help they need
Had to come back because of "Being trans is not a costume" SAY IT LOUDER AND OVER AND OVER!! this is literally a mockery of actual gender dysmorphia and I do not understand why the entire trans community isn't pissed! Also, I say dysmorphia instead of dysphoria because I truly believe that it is a form of BODY dysmorphia rather than just a sense of anxiety or unease with life. Anyone can experience dysphoria but only transgender people feel the need to "fix" their emotional wellbeing by altering their body.
Actually is being a man or Woman isn't a costume or a fashion statement. That's all the tπans narrative is, It's all about presenting as the opposite gender even with no actual dysphoria... It's a trend and a destructive one.
I absolutely love you, Marcus! You're one of the very few that give me hope for the future of our world! Like you, I get so frustrated with these people denying who they are biologically. They want to say "trans women are women" or that trans men are men" but no; trans women are trans women and trans men are trans men. What's so bad about being trans? I understand that gender dysphoria causes pain, but the one way to get past it is to own it. This is one of the very many topics that I love to listen to you speak about. Sorry for rambling, but thank you so much for the time you spend on trying to educate the rest of the world. If ignorance is bliss, I don't understand why everyone is so damn unhappy!
No trans person denied their biology, they're hyper aware of their sex, you earn for the feeling of being sane like the cishet normative people feel Humans have developed brains that also determines gender, all the unconscious people in the comment section finding home in the hateful environment is endearing but harmful, humans create way too many conflicts inside themselves about people who are also doing that
What’s so sad is they’re really hurting the community. The whole bathroom argument for example. If it were just trans people who have transitioned like you have I don’t think anyone would have a problem with those trans people using the bathroom that they transitioned to and identify with. But when you have a man, who looks like a man, but just puts some makeup on or puts a dress on well I know I’m not comfortable sending my 9 year into a bathroom with someone like that. How do we know that they’re not dressing like that just to get into a bathroom with little girls? I support people in the life that they choose to live to make them happy, I’m not in the least bit transphobic, it’s just hard to follow reasonings like I’m these tic talks you posted. They’re turning so many people off from the whole cause and that’s really sad.
It's not even about Trans people around this, even though what you described could happen. Where I work, I constantly watch 80 yr old women start into the 3 stall, formerly Women's bathroom and back out because a beer-chugging Cis-male is walking out. Why, right in the height of "Me Too', would anyone push for cis men and women to share bathroom? Makes no logical safety sense. let alone me having to deal with seat droplets. Same folks who looked up our skirts, when we were little. You can count the societies who did this, on one hand. If even. Fathers taking their little daughters into the Women's, because there's men in there! And the insanity is that there were two single-stall bathrooms, on the first floor that would guarantee safety to anyone...
@@diletante6800 that is insane! I would honestly do the same though. If I went into a bathroom that was filled with big cis men I would turn right back around as well. I wouldn’t be comfortable with that at all. I don’t understand why we can’t have “mens” “womens” and then a third “gender neutral” bathrooms. Why can’t we respect all peoples right to privacy?
All of this is so based on stereotypes! That hurt me so much. I never felt like a girly girl, but it never stoped me being a woman. I think it deconstruct all the progress we did in the past years.
YEP. oh my gosh. i finally feel like i have common sense when i watch you. the amount of friends that I have lost in these past few months because of my views changing on practically every level has been so freaking hard. i feel like there are no other right leaning transsexuals out there who are my age (17) and it is so. fucking. lonely. thank you marcus for making me feel seen and for making the content that you do.
If you can't feel good while alone, how the hell will you ever feel good, you seem to feel like you're better for having your views while being trans when all of it has no worth, that's a miserable way to live but a good thing your life is very short, if you won't find peace while alive you'll find peace when you leave your body Just because you have a different opinion doesn't make it okay to be asshole to your friends
5:17 both absolute CREEPS. Both men literally ballsy enough to wear dresses and scare women in their spaces but not brave enough to go to the mens bathroom.🤦🏻♀️
There's been global outrage about the overturning of Roe V Wade but self ID in over 20 countries which puts literally 100's of millions of women at risk from predatory men, nope we can't say anything about that, it would be transphobic!
Some pervs could freely walk in and out womens bathroom simply by saying 'i identify as" while they probably just wanna be in there for other reasons...
Yeah those aren't women. It's absolutely a sexual kink for them....so many autogynephalic males are being affirmed as trans women now and its honestly horrific.
if yall rlly find it a problem SPEAK UP?? cuz u can literally use this same logic for binary trans people.. like trans women can we start kickin them out of womens restrooms calling them creeps and entitled because theyre making cis women uncomfy? is that what yall want?
@@nsfwaep7556 the sad fact is due to both nurture and nature biological women are less likely to want to push into biological mens spaces, it’s usually the other way around. I’ll be honest, non binary makes no sense to me. By today’s political trans inclusive standards you could be talking about what I was doing and how l was living 30-40 years ago. The big difference is I was no demanding anything from society at large, l was just living my life.
I went through a small phase a couple years ago where I identified as non binary and wanted to use they/them pronouns. Then I woke up and realised I've always been a boyish or more masculine girl since I was little. Back when I was little I was known as a "Tom boy" but if I was born these days people would probably be labelling me as a trans kid. I'm so happy I realised its fine to be a bit masculine and still be empowered as a woman. I support trans people 100% but I do feel half this shit is made up and its so easy for people to get sucked into it. Thing is you can't say you think all these different pronouns and genders are made up without being called a transphobe and that isn't the case.
i just wonder who keeps track about all those new genders, identitys, pride flags... I think people that are deep into that rabbit hole sometimes themselfs doesn't know whats true and whats fake... You are right it's hard to not believe in most of that and not beiing called a basically LGBTfob or something like that. people made so big circle the freedom of being yourself and proud of it now is not as free anymore, and we can;t say anything without beig judged... tahts actually sad
I personally identify as non-binary. I have huge dysphoria whenever I look in the mirror. Born a female person I can’t stand looking at my boobs or private parts. I want to remove my uterus and my boobs. But I can’t imagine being a man either. I struggled since I was a child and this non confirming identity really helped me. I don’t consider myself as a trans person. I am just a neutral person. Sure I will always have XX chromosomes, but in my mind I am not a woman.
That's exactly how I feel. I'm new to this channel and I do agree with some points, but NB is valid to me, and always will be. I'm not NB to fit in or gain attention, it's just who I am. I understand where some people can come from, but denying our gender and saying it's for attention or because it's how we look is so uncalled for. Thanks for commenting this, I feel less alone, and stay strong! Don't change who you are!
As a trans woman I makes my skin crawl when people, who haven't faced the crippling pain of dysphoria, say that they are trans. ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY AREN'T TRANSITIONING LOL
Hi ! I have a question (not really related to the video tho lol) : I noticed that the more English is present in a country, the more it tends to adopt woke Anglo theories ; Sweden, the Netherlands, Germany... They all have their little woke scandals. In southern European countries I do not see that at all ; France is strongly against prostitution and porn, and in Spain there are massive protests against self-ID. In the East they are conservatives, the problem is solved :')) Another example : in Canada, there is only one province which doesn't speak English (Québec) and it is also the only one who have a global non-woke attitude, like secularism. When I was in my country's (France) TRA/woke community, I noticed the INSANE amount of English word used. All the time, sometimes entire sentences, even if equivalents in French exist. It looked absolutely ridiculous, but the wokes seemed to feel superior to everyone else when using them. They were also always speaking about French being an ugly, gendered colonizer language, and English is soooo much better and non-gendered and easier and everyone understands, and wow the UK is much better than France !! Implicitly, they were saying that among the thousands of way to organize a society, the only acceptable way is the Anglo one, and in their language. Sociolinguistic cannibalism disguised as progress (any other European language was perceived as a colonizer language ; as a bearer of a minority language this annoyed me a lot). English presented as the decolonialist language, what an joke !! Since Denmark is known for being one of the most anglicized country in Europe, as someone from there, what is your opinion about that ? IDK if your country has a lot of woke laws, but if yes do you think the English presence had an influence ?
To me it seems as if the only language you can really talk about woke things is English, as many of the words used don't exist in other languages, like gender for a start. So it makes sense that people who follow this ideology think English is somehow superior. When I noticed people doing that and bashing my mother tongue (German) and other languages I speak for not being "woke"-compatible enough, I realised just how much of an entitled cult this has become. I love English, but the beauty about languages is that they are all unique and that there's no superior one (easier to learn, yes. Easier to pronounce/spell, yes). As language is part of culture, they're also basically saying that Anglo-cultures are somehow superior... and not because of values or actions or something like that... just because of grammar basically
I love languages and find that interesting. Most of these terms are very English centric. I knew some woke Swedes and I felt like they were acting just like Americans and adopting very American ways. Also looking at Uganda the activists would talk exactly like a woke westerner while the other Ugandans would say there was no equivalent in their own language.
I so easily could have been one of those for 1. Being bisexual 2. being a woman with body dysmorphia 3. Growing up in an orphanage as a child, thus gaining mental disorders from that 4. Being neglected and not understanding who I am as a person 5. Not understanding gender roles and how it actually takes a biological part in gender/sex 6. Being sexually abused in said orphanage 7. Being adopted by a mother who had trouble accepting me for the things I like and don’t like and even my own culture and where I came from 8. Being bullied in school (and also started bullying) 9. “Neurodivergence”, because apparently having ADD qualifies as this and people use Neurodivergence as an argument to be non-binary and/or trans 10. I’m kind of a tomboy in some aspects 11. I like some anime 12. I like art 13. I like foraging (never done it but I want to) 14. I love culture and history 15. I’ve had short and long hairstyles And the list could go on… it’s really stupid. I mean, imagine using your traumas and your hobbies as an excuse to wear some gender costume and to lash out at people for being “bigots” and trying to control everyone’s bodily autonomy and opinions about themselves.
Having ADD/ADHD has nothing to with being non-binary or trans. Inhayw it when thw left uses that argument. As an adult women with ADHD, I find it rather insulting that these freak use ADHD as an excuse to ID as trans or non-binary.
So I think you’re absolutely correct I think where we have an issue here is that there’s going to be people that don’t want to look at their trauma because it’s too painful and they can’t look at it and work on it also there’s no such thing as Neuro divergent can you be neurologically different yes but I think putting our name to somebody who’s brain works a little bit differently and calling them Neuro divergent is in and of itself a fucked up label because you’re basically telling. That person that you’re not like everybody else but it’s fine to not be like everyone else you don’t have to have a name put upon you it’s OK to have a disability does it make you unique does it make you special fuck no it does not having autism or having any type of disability doesn’t make you fucking special there’s millions of people in the world who if you look hard enough have the same disability as you you may find that and you know what that’s cool.
This is pretty disgusting. I'm a trans man, I'm 29, and I forgot there are other trans people out there who don't think nonbinary people have dysphoria. You don't have to be one way to be trans. People don't have to have surgery, change their clothing or appearence, period to use a certain restroom. I understand there are some people that can take it too far, too fast without really figuring out if they are trans or not. But nonbinary can fall under the trans umbrella, if that's how they choose to identify. Transgender doesn't mean a transition from one end of the spectrum to the other. I have a nonbinary friend who is in their 40s, and they have known most of their life how they identify. They are very fluid, their feelings are valid, and they suffer bad dysphoria still. You also don't have to experience dysphoria to be trans. There are so many problems with this video, and this just furthers the idea in cis people's heads that people need to look a certain way to appease their idea of gender.
I like your opinion, transgenders who seek to be "normal" are fine, but when they when doing that harm others it's really bad, non-binary people are valid
you are a breath of fresh air. I've been going through a gender crisis for the past couple years, in a society where I can never get a straight answer. I've learned (or am learning) to accept myself as a femenine man, but LGBT folk would tell me im trans or nonbinary. neither of which were correct, and I knew that deep down. it so nice to hear someone being real about themselves and their opinions, because for me, I felt like it was "join the narrative" or get out.
That last one was so funny & insightful Rose of Dawn has been making the point that nonbinary people don't have to do anything to be nonbinary, They don't have to change anything. They just put she/they in their bios and continue life as a normal cis person But when you've told your friends "I'm nonbinary and you need to ask my gender and pronouns everyday or you're a bad person." NOOOOWW that nonbinary person has to commit to being nonbinary everyday and figuring out and expressing their gender and pronouns every day. And she basically says "It's hard for me to make up a new gender on the spot everyday!"
I'm sorry I'm about to offend at least one person right now but I absolutely hate the concept of gender being fluid. Women and men both have gender specific struggles and the concept of someone "feeling" like a different gender seems so demeaning to me. Women aren't a feeling. Men aren't a feeling. You can feel feminine and masculine but that doesn't determine your gender.
It is extremely concerning the amount of young "non binary" women having their breasts cut off. An actress who was in The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina on Netflix is "non binary" and I was shocked to see she had her breasts removed. She's only 21 years old!!! I am 24, but to me, 21 is a fucking baby! It's not just plastic surgery. Breast implants can be removed and nose jobs can be adjusted. You can't get your breasts back. This is sickening.
Vanity. Narcissism. That’s the core of this all. Side note-i wear “boys” clothes. I don’t like typical girly clothes. I’m a woman who likes guy stuff. That’s it. It’s what you might call a personality trait….
As someone who’s ID’d as non-binary for years, I’d realized that maybe I’m not non-binary, not because I feel as if I’m wrong, but I feel like I got the wrong idea of what it meant. I identified as non-binary because I was extremely uncomfortable and distressed with some of my gender defining body parts, but also not okay with the idea of transitioning. I always knew it was separate from trans, because it’s really not the same experience at all. I’ve settled with looking gnc since it relieves my discomfort for the most part. Some non-binary people experience something similar to dysphoria, but I don’t think we’d be considered non-binary by the Internet, given that it seems that the definition has either changed or lost its meaning. Now being non-binary is dressing up either like a clown, and alien, or fairly gnc, but absolutely no mention of real and relevant distress and discomfort with one’s bio sex, which leads me to the sound conclusion that it’s now just a quirky label so people can claim “trans” without actually being anything even close to trans. They don’t transition, they don’t change anything, they just add a label to be oppressed by and call it a day. To add onto this, I’m slowly but surely detaching from the non-binary label , because it’s clearly not what I thought it was. Also on the bathroom issue, anyone who is in my situation should just use the bathroom of their bio sex, and anyone claiming non-binary should go to either the bathroom of their bio sex or the sex they pass as if they actually made any effort by any chance, because believe it or not, the comfort of all those “cishets👹” is just as important as anyone else’s.
Hey, this is probably pointless but I’m really sorry you feel this way about the nonbinary label and while I do disagree I think it’s very sad that the internet has led you to believe you can’t use this label for yourself for whatever reason. Nonbinary individuals sometimes experience gender dysphoria, I myself experience it most days it is very uncomfortable and painful and exhausting and I absolutely hate it but I have other friends who fortunately don’t experience this and still identify as nonbinary they simply don’t feel like either a man or woman nothing more to it really. I know I am nonbinary mainly because I would feel this same kind of discomfort if I were in a male body because on certain days or moments I am very comfortable with who I am and a male body would make me uncomfortable as well. But again I’m sorry to hear you feel like you can’t use that label anymore but all in all what really matters is that you are comfortable with yourself in your identity so whether you choose to label yourself as nonbinary, gender on conforming, trans or just not really sure I hope you find an identity that resonates with you and allows you to be happy with who you are. ❤
@@lunchtimeiscrunchtime I don’t hate trans people or non-binary people, I never have, and I will use specific pronouns if someone asks me too, but I am not going to take the time “relearn” my speech and I don’t think it’s necessary for institutions to implement instruction on it. It’s hard for me to use “they” in the singular unless it’s under a specific circumstance. I just think all this reaffirming pronouns thing is getting out of hand. I’m just tired of feeling like an asshole by not caring about this shit. I treat everyone the same and if by mistake I call someone the “wrong” pronoun, I don’t want to be labeled a bigot for it. That was a bit of a rant, sorry about that 😆
@blue chimera I feel you. I know that most non-binary and trans people are chill, but the people at the front of the movement, who shout the loudest and with social media, do a bad job at showcasing good representation.
Every person I have met so far who identifies as 'non-binary' has been a gorgeous girl with short hair. With heaps of trauma attached. So bullseye on this one, Marcus.
there's some that are conventionally attractive for sure, but also a lot (I'd say more tbh) who are plain or conventionally unattractive and felt very 'other' from other girls growing up because they weren't pretty. Which is sad. I see people making fun of them for how they look now, for the dyed short hair and piercings and stuff, but that is pretty lacking in compassion and not helpful to those who felt very unattractive as women. Not the message they need. They probably felt a lot of relief when they stopped identifying as women and didn't have to hold themselves to conventional feminine beauty standards anymore. What they need to hear is that being a woman is not about looking pretty, or being feminine. They can present exactly how they are and be women, because being a woman is just being an adult who is female. That's it.
@@Ari-ih5un Maybe they aren't uncomfortable by feeling unattractive as women, maybe they felt uncomfortable as women. By making assumptions and commenting on their appearance, you do realize that you're perpetuating the negative stereotype of that, right? And you're completely ignoring the people born as men who identify with this.
I am a feminine tomboy. Girly stuff doesn't appeal to me unless it is a special occasion like my wedding and going to events or pictures. I will want to look my best. I much prefer to get my hands dirty, work out like a beast, and wear sneakers. Never understood why people think wearing girly stuff makes you feminine. I am feminine, just not into the pink shit.
I feel like anyone who's gone through a teenage phase or two (which is most people older than 19) knows a teenage phase when they see it, deep down. It shouldn't be controversial to say "nonbinary" is definitely one of them.
Freedom nowdays means " I dont want to take any resposybility for my actions. Every next day I will be someone else depending on what is convenient for me.
I struggle with the non-binary debate sometimes because my dear cousin identifies as non-binary and asks to be called by they/them pronouns. I love her (they?) a great deal and would like to make her (them?) feel as loved and accepted as possible, but I also do not subscribe to the idea that gender is some sort of fluid spectrum and using they/them pronouns for someone I’ve always known as my little girl cousin is strange and unsettling.
You can still love someone while also think they’re an absolute idiot or totally brainwashed. Look at people whose family member gets dragged into a cult (which this absolutely is). They will try everything to get them out of it.
okay? good for you i guess, bu clearly it's not that hard for you to respect your cousin because you put "they??? them????" after every time you misgendered THEM, you just want to disrespect them for fun, because you don't believe the same things as they do.
I hear you.... I don't understand why people don't understand the difference being transgender and non binary ...suffering from gender dysphoria means you did not connect with the female body you were born into and you went through life altering changes to your body to appear male to get relief from the dysphoria .... you don't have to make any changes at all to identify as non binary and I really don't understand why people even choose non binary because we live in a society now that you aren't defined by your sex ...it is okay to be a less feminine woman or less masculine man .... it seems odd to see someone like Addison Rose that appeared on the Dr. Phil show recently wearing women clothes, high heel shoes, wearing make up and false finger nails but had facial hair ... it is funny to me that even drag queens try harder to appear as a woman than some people claiming to be trans ... tbh if you are non binary and you still very much appear as a man I don't want to see you in a woman's public restroom ... Sorry ...not sorry
It’s so annoying. They just want a struggle. Black kids still have to fight against prejudice and racism, but these kids just want something to complain about.
I have 2 kids and if my daughter was that girl at 7:46, after I saw that video, I would have to go to her and say. Well, sweetheart, unfortunately, I am going to have to take your phone away. This is not a punishment, but I find your behavior worrying, bordering on disturbing and its time for you to spend your time doing something other than what you’re doing on Tik tok. We can go to the library, pick up some books from the times before tik tok or even the internet. You may use our home computer if you need to for homework, I am going to cover the camera lenses in unwashable ink.
It would be too late at that point, reason why I will not give my kid unrestricted internet access until they're at least in middle school. Most of these people stumble upon stuff while they are around 9-10, start chatting online with adults who slowly convince them what their gender identity should be using the kids insecurities in real life as fuel. Never heard of a nonbinary person who wasn't bullied before their "transition." That's probably where their sense of otherness stems from, being othered by their peers at a sensitive time in their life, the kid needed an adult to tell them they are OK the way they are but the internet will tell them it's something wrong with themselves, it's because they're nonbinary / trans and not because kids are mean asf. The kid doesn't get a chance to grow their own backbone so the gender identity becomes that. It's why they crumble so hard and fast when you question them about it. It takes more to reverse this than to prevent it by just being there as a parent and not handing over the iPad just because all their friends in 3rd grade have one already.
I’m a woman, and I’m very happy being a woman. And I have a pixie cut because I think it looks cute on me. And let me tell you, it is so incredibly upsetting to me when people ask what my pronouns are. Because I’m not wearing a dress and I don’t have long hair you can’t tell? Really?
I have a genuine question. If gender dysphoria is a mental disorder wouldnt that mean that they might find a way to make those feelings better without having to transition. If they did find a less harmful/ easier way to diminish those negative feelings without transitioning and it was safer of course how would you feel about it? These are all hypoctheticals of course but I thought it was an intresting question. Do you think transitioning would even be nessary at that point?
I think what you've hit on with the "they used to be gorgeous" thing is that these women (because they are women as a group) are being told that their lack of comfort (especially in more traditional landscapes/social settings) of being hypersexualized as women, or being told their worth is _only_ in their body and looks… are being told _that_ is sex/gender dysphoria when it's not. Which is also why the now outdated term of "sex dysphoria" is something I still use, because no woman I know under the age of 60 _remotely_ wants to be told they must 1950s housewife (or whatever stereotype) while also being a visual pleasing spectacle for people, and so of course those gender roles and stereotypes are uncomfortable. It helps that "primary sex dysphoria" describes my own medical hell (made more hell by fully unrelated scarring and medical problems that make it so being ftm is not a physically healthy thing for me) but I think within the English language and USA political system erasing the concept of physical sex/bio-sex to replace it with "only gender ever" is removing the nuance that allows for people who might have just wanted to be treated a little differently, or gone through a punk/goth/emo phase (or simply preformed masculinity/femininity less), to actually not make extreme changes to their bodies without knowing _why._ Yeah, for me, aspects of existing as a woman/female are "nails on a chalkboard" level of agonizing, but none of that has to do with what I was already doing/being: I was already "gender non-conforming" as a _very_ small child and I could look as butch/stag as I wanted and until my other medical problems that would allow for treatment of that primary sex dysphoria magically went away, being as butch/non-feminine as possible wouldn't fully solve my problem. (I'm using butch as short hand just because it's easily but I'm not a lesbian and don't feel a right to claim lesbian terms/culture when it's already under such heavy attack.)
Jordan Peterson explains it well. He discusses that gender is really just personality. Someone can be a male with feminine traits, but they are not non-binary. Also, “they/them” annoys me horribly because it’s a basic grammatical fallacy.
7:57 so in highschool I had a friend who had so many labels it was hard to keep track of one week she decided to be gender fluid and said she would put what gender she felt like on her wrist with blue, pink, or orange marker, and we had to call her a different name accordingly, well I wanted to be supportive so I would grab her wrist to look at it but deep down I was really confused on what any of it meant and by the third day it was just brown because she didnt wash it off at the end of the day. She moved away at the end of the year and we lost touch, but I saw on facebook shes no longer a lesbian (I assume) because she had a baby and is in a relationship with I can only assume is a guy looks like one. But that year in highschool was about 6 years ago we’re both going to be 21 this year, I honestly think at the time she just was really uncomfortable in her body and had some troubles at home not much but some and she wanted to have some sort of identity. And if it weren’t for my other friends in the friend group I probably would’ve made fun of her and told her it was dumb. I wasn’t the nicest in high school tbh Im still not I just have grown some sort of filter.
What u say is absolutely true, I'm old enough that when I was a teen being bisexual was only starting to be a thing, back then the average person was just 'normal' and I was teased for being eccentric due to having weird hobbies and such, but over the years I've seen things turn around to the point where 99% of ppl now has a quirky 'personality', they can't say a full sentence without constantly breaking into quirky little idioms and gestures, everything is forcedly over the top and I feel a lot of these teens are just the evolution of that race to be the most outrageous and special.
Gender isn't a social construct but gender roles (what men and women should do/think and how they should be/act) is a social construct. You can be a feminine man or a masculine women and still be a man or woman, this is where I think "non-binary" people get confused. I also agree with how 99% of "non-binary" people look the same, it's not trans, it's a trend.
This is the first time that I've ever felt inclined to be sad about how 'wide' the nonbinary label functions.... I simply don't identify with any gender. So labels like neutrois or agender apply, I guess. And that technically makes me nonbinary and THAT apparently technically makes me trans and it's this whole thing where I just feel stuck in other people's ideas of me. Gender as a prism DOES feel a bit prison like, because there is no way in this world to be a human without gender, just like there's no way really to be an object without colour. It just is. But for me it kind of sucks. And i feel for binary trans people who want to be gendered (correctly) by strangers, and I wish there was a way to simply NOT be gendered, I wish those were compatible goals.... for me it's not so much that male and female as distinct categories are restrictive but just that gender as a non-opt-out way of being, is restrictive. Expanding the gender spectrum to include androgynous or other gendered modes, won't help people like me. And this is just one person reconciling with the real state of being in a society. It just is. I get it. But isn't there room to sympathise with everyone's gendered experiences?
“Non-binary females used to be gorgeous” that’s something I’ve been thinking about too. Sometimes I think it’s cause it’s easier for them to get attention by doing that type of stuff
This reminds of ppl who come into the hospital and they are allergic to Everything, including Benadryl, the drug we give in case of an allergic reaction.
I am a 50+ woman. I was an “early bloomer” and in 6th grade I remember crying to my Mom & Dad about how much I hated my HUGE BOOBS and wanted to remove them if I could. I was the second tallest girl and had the biggest boobs. By 9th grade I was the shortest girl and was in the “itty bitty titty committee” - I just got everything early. I wonder if that happened now if someone would have thought I was trans and wanted to put me on drugs.
It seems to be narcissistic and all about them needing attention. Needing all that attention will wear people out that’s when you see your family and social circle get smaller and smaller. It’s not because they don’t love and support you it’s because they can’t take the drama 24/7.
Here's something I'm confused about: they say crimes don't happen in bathrooms, that people are just there to use it and leave. But then in the same breath, they say, "I have to use the women's bathroom because someone would commit a hate crime in the men's room"
You do not get to pick and choose which bathroom you use. If you are not a woman stay out of the womens bathroom! At least transwomen identify as women so its understandable why theyd want to be there and frankly as long as they dont look like full on men still, most women dont care. But if you are non binary that also means you are NOT a woman, not only are you not a biological woman in the case of males who identify as non binary but you are also not identifying as a woman so its not your space to be in. Either go to gender nuetral bathrooms or use the bathroom that is of your BIOLOGICAL sex. I swear if I saw someone like Ezra Miller in the womans room Id call the cops that is a man who identifies as neither man or woman therefore the womens room is not for them.
the first one... "freedom to be whatever" so are u telling me this person's gender, no, a letter on this person's license determined who they were? Lmao
I am nonbinary. I experience dysphoria. I want to change my body to be more masculine, but I don't identify as male. That's still trans and that's still nonbinary
@@C6Wolves trans is an umbrella term, anyone who doesn't identity with their assigned gender at birth is trans, trans people can be binary trans men/women or non-binary (agender/gendfluid etc...). Also dysphoria isn't a requirement for being trans gender euphoria is
@@sugarcrash4771 isn't gender dysphoria a part of being transgender? like being uncomfortable with having a male body and feeling like you were meant to be born a girl and vice versa.
Gender non-conformity shouldn't be considered a bad thing yet these enbies are literally saying "i like pants and tshirts so i can't be a girl" yet they also wear an obscene amount of makeup (in a way that is socially considered extremely feminine, and which emphasize their feminine features). Their cognitive dissonance would be a marvel to behold if it weren't the pipeline to transitions for no real reason
I’m really hoping that this non binary stuff is just a fad that might eventually fade.. kind of like the Emo phase in the early to mid 2000s. The only thing with Emo though is that it was a fun form of expression, and it was not harmful to anyone (not to my knowledge anyway) it was just a kind of artistic form of expressing yourself. This on the other hand ...this is something entirely different. I agree with your views on this.
True, but also not true as cutting was a huge part of emo culture. Thank god there wasn’t the body altering(removing healthy breast tissue), fertility ruining options like there is with the NB movement.
Did we forget that the emos also glorified mental illness though? Showing off their cuts and self-deletion thoughts like achievments and also idealizing eating disorders? Anyway, they were still quite mild compared to what we have now
Actually psychology studies underlines gender is both a social construct and determined by Biology, obviously Biology it's the more important factor, but the society too can count, and as we're seeing, it's interfering a lot nowadays. That's the manipulation: saying half- truths to make an ideology valid and make people accept the radicalization of it.
Believe it or not Marcus, but I met a non-binary person diagnosed with dysmorphia in an online goth group. What are your thoughts on being non-binary with gender dysmorphia?
Hey, nonbinary female here! So first off, I use she/they so I don’t care if people don’t use they/them for me (cuz I’m not self absorbed and I understand social norms) and not all of us are always “demanding stuff from people”. Second off, we do feel dysphoria but it’s kinda different from a transgender person’s dysphoria (not all nonbinary people say their trans). And lastly, not every biological female is nonbinary cuz of trauma (though yes that can happen), we can and do actually have dysphoria most of the time. Yes dysphoria is a disorder, but gender is mostly a neurological state of our brain structure that effects our psychological state and perception of self. Most of us are “aware of there being more than one way to be a man or woman (i.e. masculine women and feminine men)”, but nonbinary people also exist and that is caused by dysphoria (we’re not trans though obviously). So yeah, just wanted to help and put my two cents in haha, hope this helped in some way (not trying to be sarcastic or rude, I genuinely just thought I was being informative is all).
love your channel Marcus :) im a bi girl, im cis gender i guess. But i see myself as a tomboy. The world today is confusing. But im just a Bi girl who is a tomboy.
That means you're a human being. Not a ballerina but a construction worker? FINE. As human beings have been since the beginning of time. Of course you're cis gender that means you're a biological woman. Stop letting idiots confuse you.
There are plenty of non-binary people with gender dysphoria, including myself. It's dysphoria that either tells you you're in the middle, or like me, dysphoria that sort of switches on and off. Sometimes feeling regular, and comfortable in one's body, and other times experiencing extreme dysphoria, like there's a painful weight missing
I love how the same ppl say "clothes don't have gender" and then them being genderfluid means one day the feel like wearing a dress and the other like wearing masculine stuff like I'm a cis woman AND I CAN STILL DO BOTH. I also love the "support trans ppl" and "gender is a social construct" + "men and women are the same" like if they were the same being trans wouldn't be a thing. How could you be trans if gender didn't exist??? How could you feel that your gender doesn't align with your biological sex if they weren't any differences except for a penis?
Also I hate it. I hate ppl telling me men and women are the same. Not, we're not. It always implies that I can be like a man. Because apparently being a man or being masculine is better than femininity. It's about trying to prove women can be as good as men and kinda reach their level. I don't want to. I'm a woman. I don't want to be like a man.
1:08 how do you know that? Have you ever talked to Dylan personally? Also she’s been on HRT for almost half a year by now. Just because someone is seen as being “nondysphoric”, that doesn’t mean that they are. She’s getting laser hair removal and is planning on getting BA as well. Is she trans enough for you now? Don’t assume shit when you don’t know anything about someone.
Literally.. im transmed and nonbinary and this is so disgusting. I hate radical transmeds like this. He is blatantly ignoring the science which BACKS Nonbinary people.
@@Nerodotnet I’m guessing you’re probably young, so I’m just gonna give it to you straight. Transmedicalism is harmful to the trans community. I was like you when I was younger. I thought that you need dysphoria to be trans for quite a while. But when you think about it, being a transmed does nothing but harm others. I mean, your whole ideology is based around judging people and making fun of trans people based on their appearance, how is that a healthy mindset? But the worst thing of all is that you’re just supporting what transphobes already think about the community. Whenever a cis person sees a non-passing trans person, they’ll think that they’re a “nondysphoric” transtrender, or that theyre “not even trying to pass”, which btw, have all been things that random strangers on the internet have said about me. Like sure, you may SEE them as a trender, but that doesn’t make them one. What if they can’t medically transition? What if they live in an unsupportive household? What if they just don’t want to make the effort to try to pass everyday because it’s fucking draining? I’m sorry, but if you’re a transmed, you’re no better than Marcus here, y’all are under the same ideology. Please just grow up and realize that being a transmed isn’t gonna save you from having to pay for your transition because it won’t.
@@averyt23 what… im a transmed? NOT truscum? Who said i did any of those things? That would make me a radmed and radtruscum. I agree with everything you are saying, i just also think that the scientific validity of transness is important. What you are stating is a broad generalization of all transmeds based on the loud, hateful and toxic minority of us. Dont worry, i hate them too lmao.
@@averyt23 i dont see people as not cis, and “transtrenders” for being nondysphoric. They are trans. They just have an incorrect definition of Gender dysphoria, and i deem pushing that incorrect information harmful. NO ONE can dictate any other person’s identity, nor prove if it is the “correct” one or not.
@@Nerodotnet they are literally the same thing dude, I don’t understand how they are different when they believe the same exact things. Also, no one said that there’s nothing scientific about being trans, we just don’t know what “causes” transness, that’s like it dude. Anyways, that’s not the point, I’m just telling that these stupid labels of being a “transmed” or a “tucute” are just that: labels. It doesn’t matter if you think that you need dysphoria to be trans or not, transphobes will see us all as crazy people regardless of how we present or how we identify, so why does it matter in the whole scheme of things? It doesn’t.
5:02 people calling themselves nonbinary because of the stereotype that all females have to dress hyperfeminine makes me so mad. you can be a woman and dress masculine! you can also be a man and dress feminine. it does not mean you are a different gender 😭
@@4ngel_w1ngs7 a handful of his most recent videos include playing with feminine products Oh yeah he offered two free tampons to a couple of his female fans and they were so excited. I would have been disturbed. He did a roleplay of a 2000s girl sleepover And he and that non-binary Jeffrey Marsh individual talked about how inspirational girlhood is and how they both felt a connection toward the magical concept of girlhood
@@whosebuilderandmakerisgod what’s scary is Dylan has millions of followers on tik tok……. . That channel makes me so angry, wearing a dress and makeup doesn’t make you a woman.
@@melissa078 I agree. Tbh I think Dylan is pretty cute and funny on his own but what’s insufferable is he does all these things BECAUSE he thinks it’s what women do. It’s textbook male understanding of women
Do people even come out as gay anymore? It’s so trendy to be NB/trans right now. They don’t have any dysphoria, they just want to be a part of the current “thing.” Tiktok, Tumblr and Twitter are ruining a generation. They aren’t like Buck, Marcus, Blaire, Rose of Dawn, etc. I am a fan of all of them because they’re simply rational. I WANT to support them for that very reason. They’re good people.
im gonna be dead honest with you, the more accepting this world becomes the more extreme these people have to be to qualify as special
U hit the nail in the head.
So true!!
"And when everyone is special no one is"
- Syndrome (villain from The Incredibles)
the world accepts things in layers and we got here by layers of acceptance. This comes from acceptance of things that aren't directly related to trans. It does encompass other things that are not directly related.
Mic drop
5:17 if being in the women's bathroom makes you giddy with excitement, you are EXACTLY the kind of man that women fear having share their bathroom with
Also, that freakin deep creepy laugh after. I would be so fuckin uncomfortable. And I'm not even a woman!
He’s the reason why women should carry.
It was very creepy and cringy
That was so extreme, I wondered if it was sarcasm.
For real
“I want to look like a boy, but I don’t want to be a boy.”
So…. A tomboy, then?
Exactly. Also you can wear whatever you want and still be the same gender... These are the same people, that want to destroy stereotypes about gender and at the same time they think they are non-binary or whatever, because they don't like feminine or masculine look (depending on their sex)....
I can personally confirm it's possible to want to look like a boy without being one and it doesn't make you a special gender either. 😆
Was thinking the exact same thing!
I used to cry when I was a kid when my parents would put me in dresses and I watched cartoons/ played with toys geared more towards boys. Back then I was called a Tomboy and outside mild teasing from other girls, no one cared.
Today? I would probably be pressured into transitioning or using non-binary pronouns. I'm still female/a woman but don't like traditionally feminine things, these two things can be true at once.
Yeah I'm a butch lesbian and despite presenting how I do (which society calls masculine) I am so glad I got out of my gender confusion phase and realized I can be a woman and as "masculine" presenting as I want. I don't even identify as a woman--I simply am one because I'm an adult and female (its not an identity one can jump in and out of). Nothing I do appearance or likewise will change that fact and I'm really at peace with myself after coming to these realizations.
These woke gender ideology/trans right activist people are extremely regressive in their views and actively reinforce the binary.
I'm Gen X, in 1980 I had cropped bright pink hair, shaved off my eyebrows and I would chest bind. I knew I was female but I was a young punk who wanted to present masculine as a fuck you to the social norms. These kids have just attached themselves to the "gender movement" as a form of rebellion. I have a couple of dodgy tattoo's from this era, sadly for Gen Z there will been lots of double mastectomies instead. I remember when here in Australia, in the late 90s, they banned hormones for transexuals and how terrified my friends who needed those shots were. Finally transexuals have rights and visibility but it seems like a cruel joke that it's come with this absurd inclusion caveat. Thanks for being one of the few voices of reason TOT
You can't understand people's pattern of thought because you had a similar experience in the "past", and come back to the present where you're invalidating strangers because it makes you feel embarrassment and confusion, people who think they know all have parasites that harm themselves and others
@@theowlhouseseason3213 I am neither embarrassed or confused. Sex is binary, you can medically change the way you present but when your bones are dug up in 100 years you will be declared either male or female no matter how you lived your life. I am 57, I protested transexual rights long before they became "fashionable" and living in circles where people did not conform to gender stereotypes my whole adult life. Declare your none binary status, I will use your preferred pronouns but just like the massive de-transition rate in FtoM that is occurring (often after going down an irreversible medical path), get back to me in a decade and lets see how many of these people are still non binary.
@@theowlhouseseason3213 and just because this woman had this experience "in the past" doesn't invalidate what she's saying or mean it's not happening now.
Heyyya 👍🏼 same gen, same subculture, same country ( maybe we’ve met, Aus subcultures were very small and mixed a lot lol). Only I was and am still dysphoric. I know what you mean though. In a way, we crawled so this crew can dance. It’s still evolving, you could say society is… transitioning into a new paradigm. There will be fallout (lives), it’s natural, but the best we can do is support and be real with each other, and share our stories with the younger folk. 💜🌈 hope you’re doing well. (Omigosh we are the grown-ups now? Haha ok, then stop telling me I’ll grow out of it)
Are you pretty now or still like a boy?!❤
I think the reason I can't take NB and self ID seriously is that I remember too well the freedom of gender expression that was opening up in the 70s and 80s.
If you were male you were a man, if you were female you were a woman, (gender dysphoria notwithstanding). But beyond that, the rest was up to you. Man and male or woman and female was merely what you were. Who you were was entirely your own business. How you were a man or a woman was up to you.
Where's the lack of freedom there? It never went anywhere.
Exactly! You are who you are and all that matters is your own self-acceptance.
I absolutely agree with you, a lot of glam rock bands were male and identified as male but would choose to dress how they wanted and most of the time it was androgynous, David Bowie is a very good example of this. It was about expression of masculinity and femininity, but it didn't change your gender.
Self-ID is the most dangerous thing right now regarding culture and identity, if anyone can identify as anything then reinforce that by laws, we will see an endless conflict abundance in society.
What if you’re female and you don’t want to be a woman? What if you want a penis but don’t necessarily want to be a “man”?
@@ineffablemars if you’re a female who doesn’t want to be a woman, then you obviously experience gender dysphoria and need to see a professional who can help you with that. Now when it comes to wanting a penis but not wanting to be a man, many trans women still have their penis and are comfortable with keeping their penis. I just answered both of those questions without the NB label.
I'm someone that has identified as non-binary before and tbh, I think it's because of the pressure about fitting in and belonging to something. As an autistic person, particularly an autistic female, fitting in and making friends is incredibly hard for me. I still struggle with identity sometimes, but I think that's an overall personality thing, not gender.
There is a peer reviewed study on the rapid onset of gender dysphoria for young teens indicating that it is a social contagion.
@@Markivoryy I definitely agree with that. It's like being trans nowadays is the new emo or scene. Those who actually suffer with gender dysphoria have it even as a young child without society or family influencing them, usually their family will raise them as their biological sex, so no social pressure. In fact they are the ones who get bullied for it. This extreme trans ideology includes those who just feel different, or those who don't fit in as the typical feminine female or masucline male. These people want to erase gender roles but at the same time use gender roles to determine if you're a boy or girl. It's confusing.
You don’t need to identify as « non-binary » to feel comfortable with yourself. Just be you, acknowledge who and what you are (because aside from being humans, we’re also mere living beings like other animals).
@@xdranzer0004 I absolutely agree with this now. Those who try and push all these new pronouns and force you to change your language are not comfortable within themselves and want the validation from others. If you're comfortable and happy with yourself you wouldn't need to seek validation from external sources!
There are studies that link autism with the perception that one could be trans. And you can find quite a few people online that once they got help that they needed to navigate thru life with autism, they didn't felt trans anymore. I find that interesting . I just learned about that correlation a couple days ago and I keep seeing people from the spectrum mentioning similar experiences. If anything that leads us to see that trangenderism (or another more proper term) needs to be more deeply scientifically studied, without people calling the people involved as bigots.
Love your content🔥 trans isn’t a costume and neither is a woman. It’s so interesting how the world is right now🤭 grateful you speak out.
The warning are echoing around the world , yet still there be many ears that do not hear. Isn't that heartbreaking?
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Don't worry, we will leave and come back for 1000 years to live on this same earth once again, aging up to 1000, having 2nd and final chance to live rightly. Then, when both, heavens and earth is created anew, 144 000 stay in the HEAVEN and the meek shall inherit the new earth. Were lives last forever. No death , no tears, no sorrow, no departing. Life full of life forever and more.
What about all those who perish? - don`t also worry in here, for all they are also in the existence, none of them disappeared for good, they are in Hell - in regrets while waiting to be judged and moved into the lake of fire, for to pay of their unrepented sins. FOREVER AND MORE shall they be TORMENTED, day and night, without any rest. Without hope to cease to exist.
Between the truth and the lies, lays a thin ice, therefore be very careful as you take another step or stop and remaining still or turning around and start walking back.
Before we came to the truth, we were already deceived and falling back into the same trap is insanely easy.
@@theharshtruthoutthere no that isn't what is said in Revelations. Those who are initially saved have 3 chances to repent and if they don't they are thrown into a flaming pit. Once all have been judged, those in the pit are incinerated, their souls are incinerated and they cease to no longer exist. Also, there is no promise that those saved and those who repent and beg for mercy, ever enter the celestial realm of heaven. If you die prior to Revelations your soul is basically placed in suspended animation until once all have been judged, you will be placed back alive on the restored earth which is the Garden of Eden before the first sin.
Now the book of Revelations is a telling of God's version of what happens if he is triumphant. Of Course the book of Revelations is written in favour of him, but it is of events that have not happened.
But the Dragon knows the truth, after all she, the Godess of Freewill and Freechoice who willed herself into existence because of God's self-serving and selfish need to dominate. She, came to Lucifer and whispered the truth into his ear. And he realized the truth and spoke to the other Angels of which a 3rd choose to leave, 144 000 more or less.
When God, frustrated by his domination of the Angels had failed. He created a physical world with Beings who were naive and innocent and mortal.
The Dragon, who is a serpentine Dragon, not the medieval version, she planted in the garden, 2 seeds one the Tree of Knowledge and one the Tree of Life.
Once God was aware of what had happened he lied to Adam and Eve, but the Godess whisper into Eve's ear and told her about the lie and that to be free and her children to be free from domination could choose to eat of the fruit and they would have Freewill and Freechoice.
Lucifer and the 3rd walk the Earth to guide human being to the belief system will allow them to move into the next life the best suited place for their soul and spirit to continue on its journey free of the reign and never ending domination of a weak and bitter self-serving God.
When the Dragon comes in Revelations, God will be defeated, all of humanity souls that have died prior, have already moved on to their rightful place. Those alive during the great battle will ALL be saved and sent to where they are meant to go unless the insist upon being undercontrol of He who wishes to Take What is Not His. They are sacrificed after much truth is shown and they refuse to see this weak God for what he is.
He is destroyed by the Dragon.
The Celestial Heaven is restored, the
144 000 Angels that left on their own accord, they return to the restored Celestial Heaven. those Angels in heaven that had remained are freed finally from their enslavement and Lucifer and the Godess reside in the restored Heaven and ALL are freed.
This Is What Is To Be....The Dragon, The Godess is not bound or requires constant pray and praise to Exist. There is no need to dominate, to enslave any Beings: Human or Celestial.
Reread Revelations And Genesis with your eyes open.
And see the lies from the truth.
A uniform, unified, global domination under one ruler is not the heaven you think it will be, it is ultimate slavery of all of Mankind, every man, woman and child.
I know this as I am the Observer and the Truth. I am the reincarnation of the Dragon and my Son is the sign.
Time is short, choose wisely.
@@theharshtruthoutthere I don't know if this is the most effective way for you to be sharing the gospel.
I love you, I love bringing the gospel to people, but please really really pray and ask God for guidance on how to touch people's hearts.
If your words don't plant any seeds, or worse if your words cause an aversion and a hardening of the heart, have you really done God's work? Or have you done the devil's work?
There's a place for tough love and a place for gentle love. Most importantly, for someone who disbelieves, jumping into the prophecy of revelation is not a good place to start. Most, if not all, unbelievers will look at your comment and only have their unbelief reinforced, seeing it as myth and fairytale.
I love you, brother in Christ, but above all I love God and want to see every tongue profess His name and every knee bow to His authority, so in love I ask you to be mindful of how you share the word.
I'm gonna be real here.
I identify as non-binary, but after seeing your videos here and your posts on IG I don't want to call myself that anymore. Funny how someone on social media can help me figure out the things I feel/do/want etc are rooted in my traumas, when none of my (previous) psychologists and therapists could do this. None of them have even said a word about why I wanted to call myself non-binary, why I had/have body dysmorphia and stuff like that.
I know I'm not trans, so I always hated it when other non-binary people said that when you're non-binary you're also trans. Because I'm not. Yes, I do have the dysmorphia, but I now understand and realize that that's because of my traumas and not because of being trans or something similar.
So thank you for this, for everything. I have a lot I can drop off my shoulders now, and I have a lot I need to work out. But at least I realized.
I wanted to be boy as a young teen. As a young woman I genuinely felt uncomfortable with my sex again. I wanted to be a man and privately considered myself non-binary.
I also felt INCREDIBLY uncomfortable with the societal expectations of womanhood and women. Getting my life in order (like getting diagnosed with ADHD and thereby also dealing with what was probably depression, losing weight I gained in my search for dopamine, making new friends, finally- in my mid 20s- making *good* sexual experiences with men) helped a ton. I like being a woman. Actually *mostly* love it. But I sometimes still hate gender (how I was taught to always be polite, never hurt people's feeling at the expense of my own etc). And I sometimes even hate the physical differences between male and female. And I think that's okay.
So... I don't know if this was helpful. BUT they way you go through life (whether that's as a feminine man, masculine woman, sort of androgynous, super masc man etc) is up to you. But one can be all of these and still dislike gender/gender roles. Even dislike physical aspects of being female and male and still learn to be comfortable and happy with ourselves. That's at least my experience.
Uhm, yah. I hope my ramblings helped. Or (edit) at least didn't hurt. Please don't hesitate to get the help you need. You're worth it!
LMAO so man on the internet helped you ??? What has this world become
Congrats! I hope you feel better now
@@sunmi2539 lmao someone's video helping me when I was hella stuck with something I just couldn't not figure out myself nor with therapist. Weird right?!
Good for you, honey 👍 I hope you manage to work through your trauma to where you can be at peace with yourself.
The non-binary thing is actually so sad and an underrated worrying part of today’s radical TRAs. Unlike with actual trans people (who actually suffer gender dysphoria), these kids are going through what literally everyone goes through, that is: being uncomfortable with the stereotypes of their gender. And while trying to escape such stereotypes, they are just reinforcing them. 💔
I was emo in 2008 when I was 12 I was 100% gonna be non binary if I was 12 todat
Isn't that just the same thing with trans people??
@@Jane-ow7sr no.
@@-MaryPoppins- yes? They're uncomfortable with the way they are depicted in society (and physically) so they go out of their way to fit into the stereotypes of what they perceive to be what a woman is a man is etc. Even though it's false.
For example there are many different type of women who wear different things and have flat chests big chests etc, but trans people try to fit into the most hyper feminine stereotypical box they find as well as socially act more feminine even though majority of women just act casually and normal. And that's what makes a woman, variety.
Same goes with men.
Right, I struggled with stereotypes as well growing up, and if I was growing up today with woke parents I would definitely be calling myself "nonbinary."
They say that they hate gender roles so they want to be gender neutral but when they feel ''masculine' they dress up in baggy jeans, backwards cap and shorter hair and when they feel more 'feminine' they dress up in cute dresses and flowerily clothing... What the fuck. Also you might be correct on them just wanting to feel different and hating the idea of being a cis straight human, because they usually label themselves as Queer which basically means strange, odd, unusual, out of the ordinary. They want to be different, they want to be special and unique. I'm betting they got taught or told by social medias such as Tumblr and Tik Tok that straight/cis = bad. So now they're searching for a way out. Labeling yourself as NB is a easy ticket out.
Ikr.. now it's like they just wanna say "i'm not standard like everybody else, i'm special and need/deserve special attention."
Indeed. The whole thing reenforces negative gender stereotypes. If you don’t like the stereotypes, own being a man/woman in the way YOU want to define it. Don’t abandon the label
@@ej9258 i remember back in the 90s my friend (a girl) looked like steven seagal's lil brother, she had this big body, her face looked like steven seagal, dressed like steven seagal and hair like that aswell.. was fine and now she is married and have a son.. never needed to call herself non binary 🤷♀️
I stuck out like a sore thumb compared to the kids I went to school with… I was an alternative kid… back in my day… “Queer” was just another word used for those who were LGBT….. it wasn’t a separate category….
nowadays just being alternative makes you “Queer”…
nowadays liking boy things makes a girl a trans-man… we used to just be called a Tomboy…!!!
The modern day LGBTQIALMNOP2S + have lost the plot…….
when being emo/goth becomes old, this is what happens
next stop is trans-species, which is already happening
i’m scared what kind of craziness the next generation will come up with to be different, unique and special
we really went from "love the skin you're in" to "change everything about yourself" if you don't...
more so adapting so you can love yourself. people in this world make it hard for you to just live your own life.
@Stachenscarfen I don't think ppl do for the most part. It's some ppl on the Internet and ppl themselves making it harder to be themselves. Non B ppl specifically do this with all the labels and self identification. I believe what they do is stopping them from actually figuring out who they actually are and preventing other people from helping them. We as humans spend our whole lives trying to better ourselves and learn Who We Are. There's never an end to this. So labeling yourself in these specific categories is actually limiting you from expressing yourself and searching for who you are. Especially when you can switch groups or identifications at-will depending on your mood. Meaning that your mood can change day today but who you are does not change vary drastically throughout your life, it happens little by little. It does not mean that you cant make drastic changes to yourself or your identity it's just these changes don't happen very quickly.
@@intrigued16 that was a whole bunch of nothing
@Stachenscarfen if you took nothing from that, then I'm very sorry. You apparently don't understand what I said, read what I said out of context, or you saw what you wanted to see from that, which, would be nothing based off your reply, it seems you don't even want to try and take anything from it. I was not being spiteful or crappy towards you about it.
@@intrigued16 no, what I saw was someone who doesn't understand any other side and wrote a misguided ramble. I read what you wrote a knew what you meant
As a woman, I don't know one woman who didn't struggle with her feminity during her teenage years and early adulthood. Almost all women struggle, to various degrees, with men looking at them with desire and making comments while they still felt like kids mentally and weren't ready for this at all. Physically speaking, periods are something harsh. Even if you're one of the lucky ones who don't get painful periods, you still have to accept that for now on you'll have to deal with blood stains, dirty tampons and pads every month. You get nasty remarks, people saying you are on your periods when you are legitimately pissed about something. It's also the progressive realisation that you have to be careful about contraception and that, in the worse case scenario, you are the one who will have to go through an abortion in case contraception doesn't work, while men won't suffer any consequences of said abortion. And also the realisation, as they years go buy, that if you want a child the natural way with your partner, you will be the one giving birth. Not all women struggle with that one but I know many who are deeply afraid of pregnancy and would gladly have children of their own only if their husbands were the ones to be pregnant, and not them. Pregnancy is terrifying for a lot of young women and teens, and there is that fear about contraception failing, having to get the morning after pill or an abortion, that I know many young women around me struggle with. The tomboyish ones and the ones who aren't family oriented struggle with people expecting them to want to get married and have children, and they get told often that they will regret it if they don't have children. We are also harassed constantly by horror stories about women getting raped and killed, and it's scary. It's normal for young women and teens to at some point feel like being a woman is just shitty and horrible. I went through this. My friends went through this. But most will grow to embrace their femininity later on. Trans men exist, but not all women who struggle with their womanhood are trans. Many will simply at some point change their mind and like their femininty
I agree with a lot of this, but embracing femininity is a reason why so many of these people identify out of womanhood. Some women were tomboys and continue to be masculine as adults (like me). They need to hear that being a woman has nothing to do with femininity and gender roles. It is simply being an adult who is female, and you can do that however you want.
As a human I dont know a human who didn't struggle with their high intelligence, but I dont know why they suffered, doesn't mean i get to speak for our species, not like anybody but ourselves will listen
I agree sometimes the things and societal pressure that comes with girl hood is pretty bad , it's the only life I ever known and I don't know any other way to go about life - it's a serious slap in the face how much shame and stigma that comes with it is right in your face and sometimes it just happens so often when men finally see it they don't understand when we don't fight it .. working male dominated fields it was completely normal, even the woman wouldn't allow you to carry tools in their house for fear you don't know what ypur doing .. but that doesn't change who I am in the slightest.. I don't want to be a man and I enjoy being a mom sometimes.. I will never get pregnant again -.- and I know alot of people implied I was a bad mother for hating pregnancy but I don't care .. I have a genuine fear of giving birth after that whole experience, after 30 hrs of labor I had to go to the hospital, with epidural and a c section.. the worst experience of my life is when I went into labor .
This hit way to close home. I was never a tomboy and I never had any gender dysphoria, nor did I ever NOT want to be a woman... But... "Men look at you with desire while you still feel like a child" that was what really made me hate being a girl in the past. You get to the point where you want to alter the world where feminity and masculinity are changed so that you don't feel so damn helpless...
Damn this is so true. In twenty years we’ll look back on this demographic, who was misled and butchered, as a deeply shameful period of our history. This is a horrifying tragedy happening in front of our eyes. It’s heartbreaking.
Also, if we say trans people don't have dysphoria, we buy into the myth that we aren't born this way. And that justifies vile laws against us.
I think I agree, can you explain?
@@pricesymonej "transsexualism doesn't require dysphoria" is the same as saying the mental disorder isn't necessary to transition so essentially were just playing dress up
@@Simplyjeaniek yeah, makes sense, i agree. Let me ask your opinion. What would you say to all the trans “gender” ppl who say they really don’t have GD. Would you say they weren’t trans at all? Because i really do think most are just playing dress up, or really just trying to bust gender norms, which is a different thing than being trans. I believe you are only trans when you are a true trans sexual: someone trying to get gender reassignment surgery. Blaire White also talks about it.
I just want to say that gender-dysphoric patients were not necessarily born "this way" (ie. with gender dysphoria).
Several profiles of people with gender dysphoria exist, and many factors influence its emergence, including trauma, body dysmorphia, repressed homosexuality, complicated family dynamics...
Some of them will transition to alleviate their mental health problems, some of them will deal with them in other ways. None is wrong per say, but we should be clear on what we're talking about.
@pricesymonej I think the people calling themselves transgender without dysphoria are just hungry for oppression points.
I personally think all the non binary unlimited pronouns stuff is for attention and to try and be unique.
When I was a kid we called it Gothic.
When I was a kid, goths hated labels lol.
When I was a kiddo, they were called emos. Goths --> Emos --> Woke nonbinaries
@@eddyjohnson9683 you forgot scene lol, goth -> emo -> scene and then woke non-binary.
@@Mannequeer Ha, I thought there gotta be something in between emo and non-binary since emos had their time in the 2000s. But I had no idea what that would be. Now I know.
The difference is that those groups never tried the force everyone else by law to validate them, woke cultists are, that is what makes them dangerous.
My god Tik tok is the 7th pit of hell. Literal mental health dispensary
people need to really start monitoring social media because these people are corrupting the minds of venerable teens that are just going through what every teen in history dealt with... puberty is a rough time for both girl and boys more so for teens that suffer from gender dysphoria but people are more concerned with the rights of unborn fetuses than the health and safety of the children that are that are here.
nonbinary did not originate from tiktok. it dates all the way back and farther than native american tribes.
@@sloane1270 show proof
@@akinah3827 it originated from tumblr 😂
@@LilyElkind I'm so glad someone else remembers. At least half of what people blame TikTok for "creating" I remember seeing on Tumblr like circa 2013. What I regret is seeing those posts back then and thinking "wow what a weird trend. This will never go mainstream..." present day here we are lmao
funny thing about the last person's tiktok is they get mad when you don't ask constantly what gender they are today but they also get mad if you ask too much... you can never win really
sorry I worded that weirdly english is not my first language :p
@@MiguelAZerpa I think your point came across easily enough. I understood what you meant! I wouldn't have guessed it wasn't your first language.
@@scarlet12234 omg tysm I'm still learning !! :)
As a person in the genderfluid umbrella, I’m going to explain it to you, since you can’t relate to the situation because you’re not that gender: we’re not mad at you for not asking what gender we are at the moment, of course we REALLY appreciate it, but you don’t have to, we tell you once what pronouns we would like you to use in general and that’s it. I mean, with me it can be that when I have a day where I feel a lot of dysphoria, it can be that I may ask you to just not use she/her for me for that one day, but otherwise I’m cool with every pronoun, because my gender is fluid, meaning my gender can change over an unknown amount of time. What the creator of that tiktok meant was not that they were angry, it’s just very exhausting having a gender-crisis almost everyday, sometimes even during the day, because your mind just goes like “oh naww, we’re not a girl anymore, we’re a guy now” randomly, or you only know that you don’t really like your body at the moment, so you’re definitely not the gender you were born as, but otherwise you’re clueless, you could be a girl/guy,but also non binary or a demiboy/demigirl, moybe nothing at all. It can be VERY confusing.
I don't think non binary is a thing but I think the young women with the piercings may have gone though some horrible trauma and she doesn't want to be seen as a women .I think this is true for a lot of non binary people.
I really don't get it. I am here. A nonbinary person. Telling you I EXIST. And i really dont get, why it is such a big deal to you, that i am living as Myself.
@@TheLiranaGang these are just transphobes undercover lol none of these people have done any proper research on nonbinary people and the fact that its an umbrella term and not just one trendy singular thing/gender on tik tok. this really just seems like bullying and bigotry behind a mask of "im a constantly suffering transgender male" 💀 im nonbinary and the fact that all of these tik toks are old as hell and don't properly show what it is to be nonbinary says a lot on its own. it just seems like these were pulled up to be made fun of and not make a genuine point.
@@TheLiranaGang You exist but your fictitious identity doesn’t. Much like the city of London exists by JK Rowlings Harry Potter Magic does not. You can exist while living a lie. Many people do. Many people pretend to be things that do not exist. Dressing up like a fairy does not immediately mean that fairy’s are real creatures that scientists must treat as legitimate. It’s a costume. The same way that just because you say that you are non-binary doesn’t mean you are. There’s no evidence for that identity to exist outside of a new social trend. That doesn’t mean the person dressing up as the first doesn’t exist. They exist as a person but fairies don’t exist and you as a person exist but your fictitious identity does not.
Make sense?
@@TheLiranaGang your not "non binary" because that doesn't exist as a category. You are either a man or a woman.
@Cat Kin yeah and as a female that would make myself look unappealing to protect myself from men that would/could hurt me. i understand why these people do this and i hope they get the help they need
Had to come back because of "Being trans is not a costume" SAY IT LOUDER AND OVER AND OVER!! this is literally a mockery of actual gender dysmorphia and I do not understand why the entire trans community isn't pissed! Also, I say dysmorphia instead of dysphoria because I truly believe that it is a form of BODY dysmorphia rather than just a sense of anxiety or unease with life. Anyone can experience dysphoria but only transgender people feel the need to "fix" their emotional wellbeing by altering their body.
Actually is being a man or Woman isn't a costume or a fashion statement. That's all the tπans narrative is, It's all about presenting as the opposite gender even with no actual dysphoria... It's a trend and a destructive one.
you think non-binary people don't feel gender dysmorphia?
How about people getting aesthetic surgeries?
"My way of living changed." Wow the wisdom in this statement. I'm speechless...
I absolutely love you, Marcus! You're one of the very few that give me hope for the future of our world! Like you, I get so frustrated with these people denying who they are biologically. They want to say "trans women are women" or that trans men are men" but no; trans women are trans women and trans men are trans men. What's so bad about being trans? I understand that gender dysphoria causes pain, but the one way to get past it is to own it. This is one of the very many topics that I love to listen to you speak about. Sorry for rambling, but thank you so much for the time you spend on trying to educate the rest of the world. If ignorance is bliss, I don't understand why everyone is so damn unhappy!
No trans person denied their biology, they're hyper aware of their sex, you earn for the feeling of being sane like the cishet normative people feel
Humans have developed brains that also determines gender, all the unconscious people in the comment section finding home in the hateful environment is endearing but harmful, humans create way too many conflicts inside themselves about people who are also doing that
Damn it UA-cam! Why isn't there a "hug" button? This man deserves more than just a thumbs up.
What’s so sad is they’re really hurting the community. The whole bathroom argument for example. If it were just trans people who have transitioned like you have I don’t think anyone would have a problem with those trans people using the bathroom that they transitioned to and identify with. But when you have a man, who looks like a man, but just puts some makeup on or puts a dress on well I know I’m not comfortable sending my 9 year into a bathroom with someone like that. How do we know that they’re not dressing like that just to get into a bathroom with little girls? I support people in the life that they choose to live to make them happy, I’m not in the least bit transphobic, it’s just hard to follow reasonings like I’m these tic talks you posted. They’re turning so many people off from the whole cause and that’s really sad.
It's not even about Trans people around this, even though what you described could happen. Where I work, I constantly watch 80 yr old women start into the 3 stall, formerly Women's bathroom and back out because a beer-chugging Cis-male is walking out. Why, right in the height of "Me Too', would anyone push for cis men and women to share bathroom? Makes no logical safety sense. let alone me having to deal with seat droplets. Same folks who looked up our skirts, when we were little. You can count the societies who did this, on one hand. If even. Fathers taking their little daughters into the Women's, because there's men in there! And the insanity is that there were two single-stall bathrooms, on the first floor that would guarantee safety to anyone...
@@diletante6800 that is insane! I would honestly do the same though. If I went into a bathroom that was filled with big cis men I would turn right back around as well. I wouldn’t be comfortable with that at all. I don’t understand why we can’t have “mens” “womens” and then a third “gender neutral” bathrooms. Why can’t we respect all peoples right to privacy?
All of this is so based on stereotypes! That hurt me so much. I never felt like a girly girl, but it never stoped me being a woman. I think it deconstruct all the progress we did in the past years.
same here, I feel hella girly but I'm not gonna chop off body parts and claim I'm a woman just because I'm a femboy, a based one at that
YEP. oh my gosh. i finally feel like i have common sense when i watch you. the amount of friends that I have lost in these past few months because of my views changing on practically every level has been so freaking hard. i feel like there are no other right leaning transsexuals out there who are my age (17) and it is so. fucking. lonely. thank you marcus for making me feel seen and for making the content that you do.
If you can't feel good while alone, how the hell will you ever feel good, you seem to feel like you're better for having your views while being trans when all of it has no worth, that's a miserable way to live but a good thing your life is very short, if you won't find peace while alive you'll find peace when you leave your body
Just because you have a different opinion doesn't make it okay to be asshole to your friends
It's becoming more rare to find people like Marcus and yourself
5:17 these are the creeps perpetuating negative stereotypes on the trans community. LOL what a joke.
5:17 both absolute CREEPS. Both men literally ballsy enough to wear dresses and scare women in their spaces but not brave enough to go to the mens bathroom.🤦🏻♀️
There's been global outrage about the overturning of Roe V Wade but self ID in over 20 countries which puts literally 100's of millions of women at risk from predatory men, nope we can't say anything about that, it would be transphobic!
Some pervs could freely walk in and out womens bathroom simply by saying 'i identify as" while they probably just wanna be in there for other reasons...
Yeah those aren't women. It's absolutely a sexual kink for them....so many autogynephalic males are being affirmed as trans women now and its honestly horrific.
if yall rlly find it a problem SPEAK UP?? cuz u can literally use this same logic for binary trans people.. like trans women can we start kickin them out of womens restrooms calling them creeps and entitled because theyre making cis women uncomfy? is that what yall want?
@@nsfwaep7556 the sad fact is due to both nurture and nature biological women are less likely to want to push into biological mens spaces, it’s usually the other way around. I’ll be honest, non binary makes no sense to me. By today’s political trans inclusive standards you could be talking about what I was doing and how l was living 30-40 years ago. The big difference is I was no demanding anything from society at large, l was just living my life.
I went through a small phase a couple years ago where I identified as non binary and wanted to use they/them pronouns. Then I woke up and realised I've always been a boyish or more masculine girl since I was little. Back when I was little I was known as a "Tom boy" but if I was born these days people would probably be labelling me as a trans kid. I'm so happy I realised its fine to be a bit masculine and still be empowered as a woman. I support trans people 100% but I do feel half this shit is made up and its so easy for people to get sucked into it. Thing is you can't say you think all these different pronouns and genders are made up without being called a transphobe and that isn't the case.
i just wonder who keeps track about all those new genders, identitys, pride flags... I think people that are deep into that rabbit hole sometimes themselfs doesn't know whats true and whats fake... You are right it's hard to not believe in most of that and not beiing called a basically LGBTfob or something like that. people made so big circle the freedom of being yourself and proud of it now is not as free anymore, and we can;t say anything without beig judged... tahts actually sad
I personally identify as non-binary. I have huge dysphoria whenever I look in the mirror. Born a female person I can’t stand looking at my boobs or private parts. I want to remove my uterus and my boobs. But I can’t imagine being a man either. I struggled since I was a child and this non confirming identity really helped me. I don’t consider myself as a trans person. I am just a neutral person. Sure I will always have XX chromosomes, but in my mind I am not a woman.
That's exactly how I feel. I'm new to this channel and I do agree with some points, but NB is valid to me, and always will be. I'm not NB to fit in or gain attention, it's just who I am. I understand where some people can come from, but denying our gender and saying it's for attention or because it's how we look is so uncalled for. Thanks for commenting this, I feel less alone, and stay strong! Don't change who you are!
We went from fighting gender stereotypes to defining ourselves trought them.
thats boomer talk
@@stachenscarfen9636 saying something is "boomer talk" is not a valid point. I'm still right.
@@bobbysolosolo3025 you're being sensitive
And it is boomer talk
@@stachenscarfen9636 sure. No points were made. Again.
@@bobbysolosolo3025 I wasn't making any points. Y'all are too dense anyway
As a trans woman I makes my skin crawl when people, who haven't faced the crippling pain of dysphoria, say that they are trans. ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY AREN'T TRANSITIONING LOL
Hi ! I have a question (not really related to the video tho lol) :
I noticed that the more English is present in a country, the more it tends to adopt woke Anglo theories ; Sweden, the Netherlands, Germany... They all have their little woke scandals. In southern European countries I do not see that at all ; France is strongly against prostitution and porn, and in Spain there are massive protests against self-ID. In the East they are conservatives, the problem is solved :')) Another example : in Canada, there is only one province which doesn't speak English (Québec) and it is also the only one who have a global non-woke attitude, like secularism.
When I was in my country's (France) TRA/woke community, I noticed the INSANE amount of English word used. All the time, sometimes entire sentences, even if equivalents in French exist. It looked absolutely ridiculous, but the wokes seemed to feel superior to everyone else when using them. They were also always speaking about French being an ugly, gendered colonizer language, and English is soooo much better and non-gendered and easier and everyone understands, and wow the UK is much better than France !! Implicitly, they were saying that among the thousands of way to organize a society, the only acceptable way is the Anglo one, and in their language. Sociolinguistic cannibalism disguised as progress (any other European language was perceived as a colonizer language ; as a bearer of a minority language this annoyed me a lot). English presented as the decolonialist language, what an joke !!
Since Denmark is known for being one of the most anglicized country in Europe, as someone from there, what is your opinion about that ? IDK if your country has a lot of woke laws, but if yes do you think the English presence had an influence ?
To me it seems as if the only language you can really talk about woke things is English, as many of the words used don't exist in other languages, like gender for a start. So it makes sense that people who follow this ideology think English is somehow superior.
When I noticed people doing that and bashing my mother tongue (German) and other languages I speak for not being "woke"-compatible enough, I realised just how much of an entitled cult this has become. I love English, but the beauty about languages is that they are all unique and that there's no superior one (easier to learn, yes. Easier to pronounce/spell, yes). As language is part of culture, they're also basically saying that Anglo-cultures are somehow superior... and not because of values or actions or something like that... just because of grammar basically
I love languages and find that interesting. Most of these terms are very English centric. I knew some woke Swedes and I felt like they were acting just like Americans and adopting very American ways. Also looking at Uganda the activists would talk exactly like a woke westerner while the other Ugandans would say there was no equivalent in their own language.
I so easily could have been one of those for
1. Being bisexual
2. being a woman with body dysmorphia
3. Growing up in an orphanage as a child, thus gaining mental disorders from that
4. Being neglected and not understanding who I am as a person
5. Not understanding gender roles and how it actually takes a biological part in gender/sex
6. Being sexually abused in said orphanage
7. Being adopted by a mother who had trouble accepting me for the things I like and don’t like and even my own culture and where I came from
8. Being bullied in school (and also started bullying)
9. “Neurodivergence”, because apparently having ADD qualifies as this and people use Neurodivergence as an argument to be non-binary and/or trans
10. I’m kind of a tomboy in some aspects
11. I like some anime
12. I like art
13. I like foraging (never done it but I want to)
14. I love culture and history
15. I’ve had short and long hairstyles
And the list could go on… it’s really stupid. I mean, imagine using your traumas and your hobbies as an excuse to wear some gender costume and to lash out at people for being “bigots” and trying to control everyone’s bodily autonomy and opinions about themselves.
Wow the last ones from 10, we're pretty alike...we rock!
Having ADD/ADHD has nothing to with being non-binary or trans. Inhayw it when thw left uses that argument. As an adult women with ADHD, I find it rather insulting that these freak use ADHD as an excuse to ID as trans or non-binary.
So I think you’re absolutely correct I think where we have an issue here is that there’s going to be people that don’t want to look at their trauma because it’s too painful and they can’t look at it and work on it also there’s no such thing as Neuro divergent can you be neurologically different yes but I think putting our name to somebody who’s brain works a little bit differently and calling them Neuro divergent is in and of itself a fucked up label because you’re basically telling. That person that you’re not like everybody else but it’s fine to not be like everyone else you don’t have to have a name put upon you it’s OK to have a disability does it make you unique does it make you special fuck no it does not having autism or having any type of disability doesn’t make you fucking special there’s millions of people in the world who if you look hard enough have the same disability as you you may find that and you know what that’s cool.
This is pretty disgusting. I'm a trans man, I'm 29, and I forgot there are other trans people out there who don't think nonbinary people have dysphoria. You don't have to be one way to be trans. People don't have to have surgery, change their clothing or appearence, period to use a certain restroom. I understand there are some people that can take it too far, too fast without really figuring out if they are trans or not. But nonbinary can fall under the trans umbrella, if that's how they choose to identify. Transgender doesn't mean a transition from one end of the spectrum to the other. I have a nonbinary friend who is in their 40s, and they have known most of their life how they identify. They are very fluid, their feelings are valid, and they suffer bad dysphoria still. You also don't have to experience dysphoria to be trans. There are so many problems with this video, and this just furthers the idea in cis people's heads that people need to look a certain way to appease their idea of gender.
I like your opinion, transgenders who seek to be "normal" are fine, but when they when doing that harm others it's really bad, non-binary people are valid
you are a breath of fresh air. I've been going through a gender crisis for the past couple years, in a society where I can never get a straight answer. I've learned (or am learning) to accept myself as a femenine man, but LGBT folk would tell me im trans or nonbinary. neither of which were correct, and I knew that deep down. it so nice to hear someone being real about themselves and their opinions, because for me, I felt like it was "join the narrative" or get out.
That last one was so funny & insightful
Rose of Dawn has been making the point that nonbinary people don't have to do anything to be nonbinary, They don't have to change anything. They just put she/they in their bios and continue life as a normal cis person
But when you've told your friends "I'm nonbinary and you need to ask my gender and pronouns everyday or you're a bad person."
NOOOOWW that nonbinary person has to commit to being nonbinary everyday and figuring out and expressing their gender and pronouns every day.
And she basically says "It's hard for me to make up a new gender on the spot everyday!"
It's a "look how special I am" contest honestly. Being trans or nonbinary doesn't mean becoming a laughingstock!
I'm sorry I'm about to offend at least one person right now but I absolutely hate the concept of gender being fluid. Women and men both have gender specific struggles and the concept of someone "feeling" like a different gender seems so demeaning to me. Women aren't a feeling. Men aren't a feeling. You can feel feminine and masculine but that doesn't determine your gender.
It is extremely concerning the amount of young "non binary" women having their breasts cut off. An actress who was in The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina on Netflix is "non binary" and I was shocked to see she had her breasts removed. She's only 21 years old!!! I am 24, but to me, 21 is a fucking baby! It's not just plastic surgery. Breast implants can be removed and nose jobs can be adjusted. You can't get your breasts back. This is sickening.
Exactly. At 21 our brains aren't even fully developed
But if that same actress identifies as a transman, then the removal of healthy body parts is.....okay??,
She'll just be another example of this destructive fad in the coming years. Watch for her sad story when she snap's out of this lunacy.
I think with some of these surgeries it’s becoming somewhat of a body modification
@@heroncolby2842 .027% of people who transition detransition, calm down
Vanity. Narcissism. That’s the core of this all.
Side note-i wear “boys” clothes. I don’t like typical girly clothes. I’m a woman who likes guy stuff. That’s it. It’s what you might call a personality trait….
As someone who’s ID’d as non-binary for years, I’d realized that maybe I’m not non-binary, not because I feel as if I’m wrong, but I feel like I got the wrong idea of what it meant. I identified as non-binary because I was extremely uncomfortable and distressed with some of my gender defining body parts, but also not okay with the idea of transitioning. I always knew it was separate from trans, because it’s really not the same experience at all. I’ve settled with looking gnc since it relieves my discomfort for the most part. Some non-binary people experience something similar to dysphoria, but I don’t think we’d be considered non-binary by the Internet, given that it seems that the definition has either changed or lost its meaning. Now being non-binary is dressing up either like a clown, and alien, or fairly gnc, but absolutely no mention of real and relevant distress and discomfort with one’s bio sex, which leads me to the sound conclusion that it’s now just a quirky label so people can claim “trans” without actually being anything even close to trans. They don’t transition, they don’t change anything, they just add a label to be oppressed by and call it a day.
To add onto this, I’m slowly but surely detaching from the non-binary label , because it’s clearly not what I thought it was. Also on the bathroom issue, anyone who is in my situation should just use the bathroom of their bio sex, and anyone claiming non-binary should go to either the bathroom of their bio sex or the sex they pass as if they actually made any effort by any chance, because believe it or not, the comfort of all those “cishets👹” is just as important as anyone else’s.
Non binary is trans. You're changing genders.
You don't need to transition or change anything to be trans/non binary.
yes non binary is just transtrending, now we need the rest of them to realize this
@@antzooma No it isn't.
this. i agree with this 100%
Hey, this is probably pointless but I’m really sorry you feel this way about the nonbinary label and while I do disagree I think it’s very sad that the internet has led you to believe you can’t use this label for yourself for whatever reason. Nonbinary individuals sometimes experience gender dysphoria, I myself experience it most days it is very uncomfortable and painful and exhausting and I absolutely hate it but I have other friends who fortunately don’t experience this and still identify as nonbinary they simply don’t feel like either a man or woman nothing more to it really. I know I am nonbinary mainly because I would feel this same kind of discomfort if I were in a male body because on certain days or moments I am very comfortable with who I am and a male body would make me uncomfortable as well. But again I’m sorry to hear you feel like you can’t use that label anymore but all in all what really matters is that you are comfortable with yourself in your identity so whether you choose to label yourself as nonbinary, gender on conforming, trans or just not really sure I hope you find an identity that resonates with you and allows you to be happy with who you are. ❤
Is it bad that all of this gender-affirming nonsense is starting to make me less empathetic towards so many of these people ?
Nope, I completely agree. I’m a lesbian and these radical people make me want nothing to do with the so-called “community”.
@@lunchtimeiscrunchtime I don’t hate trans people or non-binary people, I never have, and I will use specific pronouns if someone asks me too, but I am not going to take the time “relearn” my speech and I don’t think it’s necessary for institutions to implement instruction on it. It’s hard for me to use “they” in the singular unless it’s under a specific circumstance. I just think all this reaffirming pronouns thing is getting out of hand. I’m just tired of feeling like an asshole by not caring about this shit. I treat everyone the same and if by mistake I call someone the “wrong” pronoun, I don’t want to be labeled a bigot for it. That was a bit of a rant, sorry about that 😆
nah. I used to be a huge supporter but now I'm a full blown terf lol.
@blue chimera I feel you. I know that most non-binary and trans people are chill, but the people at the front of the movement, who shout the loudest and with social media, do a bad job at showcasing good representation.
yes it is bad
Every person I have met so far who identifies as 'non-binary' has been a gorgeous girl with short hair. With heaps of trauma attached. So bullseye on this one, Marcus.
"gorgeous person"
@@malitamansell2357 thankyou
there's some that are conventionally attractive for sure, but also a lot (I'd say more tbh) who are plain or conventionally unattractive and felt very 'other' from other girls growing up because they weren't pretty. Which is sad. I see people making fun of them for how they look now, for the dyed short hair and piercings and stuff, but that is pretty lacking in compassion and not helpful to those who felt very unattractive as women. Not the message they need.
They probably felt a lot of relief when they stopped identifying as women and didn't have to hold themselves to conventional feminine beauty standards anymore. What they need to hear is that being a woman is not about looking pretty, or being feminine. They can present exactly how they are and be women, because being a woman is just being an adult who is female. That's it.
@@Ari-ih5un Maybe they aren't uncomfortable by feeling unattractive as women, maybe they felt uncomfortable as women. By making assumptions and commenting on their appearance, you do realize that you're perpetuating the negative stereotype of that, right?
And you're completely ignoring the people born as men who identify with this.
But are they Nonbinary because of the trauma, or are they traumatized from living in a way, that isn't true to them?
I am a feminine tomboy. Girly stuff doesn't appeal to me unless it is a special occasion like my wedding and going to events or pictures. I will want to look my best. I much prefer to get my hands dirty, work out like a beast, and wear sneakers. Never understood why people think wearing girly stuff makes you feminine. I am feminine, just not into the pink shit.
I feel like anyone who's gone through a teenage phase or two (which is most people older than 19) knows a teenage phase when they see it, deep down. It shouldn't be controversial to say "nonbinary" is definitely one of them.
I never felt like gender was a box. For me, it is a power. Learn to use the power, and things are good.
Freedom nowdays means " I dont want to take any resposybility for my actions. Every next day I will be someone else depending on what is convenient for me.
I struggle with the non-binary debate sometimes because my dear cousin identifies as non-binary and asks to be called by they/them pronouns. I love her (they?) a great deal and would like to make her (them?) feel as loved and accepted as possible, but I also do not subscribe to the idea that gender is some sort of fluid spectrum and using they/them pronouns for someone I’ve always known as my little girl cousin is strange and unsettling.
You can still love someone while also think they’re an absolute idiot or totally brainwashed. Look at people whose family member gets dragged into a cult (which this absolutely is). They will try everything to get them out of it.
okay? good for you i guess, bu clearly it's not that hard for you to respect your cousin because you put "they??? them????" after every time you misgendered THEM, you just want to disrespect them for fun, because you don't believe the same things as they do.
@@pumkitdrawz I’m choking on all those words you just put in my mouth
@@wanderingbelle7 " I love her (they?) a great deal and would like to make her (them?) feel" just respect their fucking pronouns not hat hard
I hear you.... I don't understand why people don't understand the difference being transgender and non binary ...suffering from gender dysphoria means you did not connect with the female body you were born into and you went through life altering changes to your body to appear male to get relief from the dysphoria .... you don't have to make any changes at all to identify as non binary and I really don't understand why people even choose non binary because we live in a society now that you aren't defined by your sex ...it is okay to be a less feminine woman or less masculine man .... it seems odd to see someone like Addison Rose that appeared on the Dr. Phil show recently wearing women clothes, high heel shoes, wearing make up and false finger nails but had facial hair ... it is funny to me that even drag queens try harder to appear as a woman than some people claiming to be trans ... tbh if you are non binary and you still very much appear as a man I don't want to see you in a woman's public restroom ... Sorry ...not sorry
Then I could say the same for non-binary woman I don’t want to see a non-binary woman in the men’s bathroom
It’s so annoying. They just want a struggle. Black kids still have to fight against prejudice and racism, but these kids just want something to complain about.
I love hearing what you have to say. Literally I could listen to you all day!
I have 2 kids and if my daughter was that girl at 7:46, after I saw that video, I would have to go to her and say. Well, sweetheart, unfortunately, I am going to have to take your phone away. This is not a punishment, but I find your behavior worrying, bordering on disturbing and its time for you to spend your time doing something other than what you’re doing on Tik tok. We can go to the library, pick up some books from the times before tik tok or even the internet. You may use our home computer if you need to for homework, I am going to cover the camera lenses in unwashable ink.
It would be too late at that point, reason why I will not give my kid unrestricted internet access until they're at least in middle school. Most of these people stumble upon stuff while they are around 9-10, start chatting online with adults who slowly convince them what their gender identity should be using the kids insecurities in real life as fuel. Never heard of a nonbinary person who wasn't bullied before their "transition." That's probably where their sense of otherness stems from, being othered by their peers at a sensitive time in their life, the kid needed an adult to tell them they are OK the way they are but the internet will tell them it's something wrong with themselves, it's because they're nonbinary / trans and not because kids are mean asf. The kid doesn't get a chance to grow their own backbone so the gender identity becomes that. It's why they crumble so hard and fast when you question them about it. It takes more to reverse this than to prevent it by just being there as a parent and not handing over the iPad just because all their friends in 3rd grade have one already.
I think most non binary people have been sexual abused and their brains reacted to the abuse by refusing to have a sexuality. Its heartbreaking.
It’s true. Instead of pray the gay away, it’s TikTok the straight away 😂🙈🤣
Just be straight up honest. These people need to HEAR THE TRUTH!!!!
I’m a woman, and I’m very happy being a woman. And I have a pixie cut because I think it looks cute on me. And let me tell you, it is so incredibly upsetting to me when people ask what my pronouns are. Because I’m not wearing a dress and I don’t have long hair you can’t tell? Really?
Non binary: X means freedom to be whatever I want to be
Options: 2
Loll well said
as a trans guy…you using the “guy in a dress in a woman’s restroom” line is so crazy😭😭😭
I have a genuine question. If gender dysphoria is a mental disorder wouldnt that mean that they might find a way to make those feelings better without having to transition. If they did find a less harmful/ easier way to diminish those negative feelings without transitioning and it was safer of course how would you feel about it? These are all hypoctheticals of course but I thought it was an intresting question. Do you think transitioning would even be nessary at that point?
I think what you've hit on with the "they used to be gorgeous" thing is that these women (because they are women as a group) are being told that their lack of comfort (especially in more traditional landscapes/social settings) of being hypersexualized as women, or being told their worth is _only_ in their body and looks… are being told _that_ is sex/gender dysphoria when it's not. Which is also why the now outdated term of "sex dysphoria" is something I still use, because no woman I know under the age of 60 _remotely_ wants to be told they must 1950s housewife (or whatever stereotype) while also being a visual pleasing spectacle for people, and so of course those gender roles and stereotypes are uncomfortable. It helps that "primary sex dysphoria" describes my own medical hell (made more hell by fully unrelated scarring and medical problems that make it so being ftm is not a physically healthy thing for me) but I think within the English language and USA political system erasing the concept of physical sex/bio-sex to replace it with "only gender ever" is removing the nuance that allows for people who might have just wanted to be treated a little differently, or gone through a punk/goth/emo phase (or simply preformed masculinity/femininity less), to actually not make extreme changes to their bodies without knowing _why._
Yeah, for me, aspects of existing as a woman/female are "nails on a chalkboard" level of agonizing, but none of that has to do with what I was already doing/being: I was already "gender non-conforming" as a _very_ small child and I could look as butch/stag as I wanted and until my other medical problems that would allow for treatment of that primary sex dysphoria magically went away, being as butch/non-feminine as possible wouldn't fully solve my problem. (I'm using butch as short hand just because it's easily but I'm not a lesbian and don't feel a right to claim lesbian terms/culture when it's already under such heavy attack.)
Jordan Peterson explains it well. He discusses that gender is really just personality. Someone can be a male with feminine traits, but they are not non-binary. Also, “they/them” annoys me horribly because it’s a basic grammatical fallacy.
7:57 so in highschool I had a friend who had so many labels it was hard to keep track of one week she decided to be gender fluid and said she would put what gender she felt like on her wrist with blue, pink, or orange marker, and we had to call her a different name accordingly, well I wanted to be supportive so I would grab her wrist to look at it but deep down I was really confused on what any of it meant and by the third day it was just brown because she didnt wash it off at the end of the day. She moved away at the end of the year and we lost touch, but I saw on facebook shes no longer a lesbian (I assume) because she had a baby and is in a relationship with I can only assume is a guy looks like one. But that year in highschool was about 6 years ago we’re both going to be 21 this year, I honestly think at the time she just was really uncomfortable in her body and had some troubles at home not much but some and she wanted to have some sort of identity. And if it weren’t for my other friends in the friend group I probably would’ve made fun of her and told her it was dumb. I wasn’t the nicest in high school tbh Im still not I just have grown some sort of filter.
That GIRL who said she hates her body and wants to look like a boy, but not be a boy... I'd say body dysmorphia, probably.
What u say is absolutely true, I'm old enough that when I was a teen being bisexual was only starting to be a thing, back then the average person was just 'normal' and I was teased for being eccentric due to having weird hobbies and such, but over the years I've seen things turn around to the point where 99% of ppl now has a quirky 'personality', they can't say a full sentence without constantly breaking into quirky little idioms and gestures, everything is forcedly over the top and I feel a lot of these teens are just the evolution of that race to be the most outrageous and special.
Driver's licenses should identify the driver's sex, not their so-called gender. It is for the police to be able to identify people.
Gender isn't a social construct but gender roles (what men and women should do/think and how they should be/act) is a social construct. You can be a feminine man or a masculine women and still be a man or woman, this is where I think "non-binary" people get confused. I also agree with how 99% of "non-binary" people look the same, it's not trans, it's a trend.
Totally agree
Thank you for speaking the truth that these idiots don’t wanna hear!!
This is the first time that I've ever felt inclined to be sad about how 'wide' the nonbinary label functions.... I simply don't identify with any gender. So labels like neutrois or agender apply, I guess. And that technically makes me nonbinary and THAT apparently technically makes me trans and it's this whole thing where I just feel stuck in other people's ideas of me. Gender as a prism DOES feel a bit prison like, because there is no way in this world to be a human without gender, just like there's no way really to be an object without colour. It just is. But for me it kind of sucks. And i feel for binary trans people who want to be gendered (correctly) by strangers, and I wish there was a way to simply NOT be gendered, I wish those were compatible goals.... for me it's not so much that male and female as distinct categories are restrictive but just that gender as a non-opt-out way of being, is restrictive. Expanding the gender spectrum to include androgynous or other gendered modes, won't help people like me. And this is just one person reconciling with the real state of being in a society. It just is. I get it. But isn't there room to sympathise with everyone's gendered experiences?
Do you think identifying as your sex would work? It’s really what most people do by default.
Marcus you are honestly one of the realest on youtube 👏 I love your perspective its a breath of sanity in this crazy world!!
“Non-binary females used to be gorgeous” that’s something I’ve been thinking about too. Sometimes I think it’s cause it’s easier for them to get attention by doing that type of stuff
This reminds of ppl who come into the hospital and they are allergic to Everything, including Benadryl, the drug we give in case of an allergic reaction.
Thank you for understanding that women's feelings/safety counts as well.
If I had to ask my friends pronouns every day.... we wouldn't be friends.
I have enough shit to deal with without managing that
These are the same nuts who say sex and gender aren’t the same yet get their sex marker changed on legal documents. Pick one 🙄
I am a 50+ woman. I was an “early bloomer” and in 6th grade I remember crying to my Mom & Dad about how much I hated my HUGE BOOBS and wanted to remove them if I could. I was the second tallest girl and had the biggest boobs. By 9th grade I was the shortest girl and was in the “itty bitty titty committee” - I just got everything early. I wonder if that happened now if someone would have thought I was trans and wanted to put me on drugs.
It seems to be narcissistic and all about them needing attention. Needing all that attention will wear people out that’s when you see your family and social circle get smaller and smaller. It’s not because they don’t love and support you it’s because they can’t take the drama 24/7.
Here's something I'm confused about: they say crimes don't happen in bathrooms, that people are just there to use it and leave. But then in the same breath, they say, "I have to use the women's bathroom because someone would commit a hate crime in the men's room"
Body dysmophia springs to mind when I see some of these people.
Remember a few years ago when the cool thing was to not adopt any labels.
You do not get to pick and choose which bathroom you use. If you are not a woman stay out of the womens bathroom! At least transwomen identify as women so its understandable why theyd want to be there and frankly as long as they dont look like full on men still, most women dont care. But if you are non binary that also means you are NOT a woman, not only are you not a biological woman in the case of males who identify as non binary but you are also not identifying as a woman so its not your space to be in. Either go to gender nuetral bathrooms or use the bathroom that is of your BIOLOGICAL sex. I swear if I saw someone like Ezra Miller in the womans room Id call the cops that is a man who identifies as neither man or woman therefore the womens room is not for them.
You keep putting your fingers up in the air “”
Lol 😂
Every thing is now “”
😂😂😂
I appreciate your perspective. Thank you!
"What gender are you today?" SERIOUSLY?
Oh boy, that Dylan person is definitely a grifter.
the first one... "freedom to be whatever" so are u telling me this person's gender, no, a letter on this person's license determined who they were? Lmao
I am nonbinary. I experience dysphoria. I want to change my body to be more masculine, but I don't identify as male. That's still trans and that's still nonbinary
You're right trans people aren't all the same and that should be accepted
Transgender and non binary aren't the same thing.What about none binary people who do not experience gender dysphoria?
@@C6Wolves trans is an umbrella term, anyone who doesn't identity with their assigned gender at birth is trans, trans people can be binary trans men/women or non-binary (agender/gendfluid etc...). Also dysphoria isn't a requirement for being trans gender euphoria is
@@sugarcrash4771 isn't gender dysphoria a part of being transgender? like being uncomfortable with having a male body and feeling like you were meant to be born a girl and vice versa.
Gender non-conformity shouldn't be considered a bad thing yet these enbies are literally saying "i like pants and tshirts so i can't be a girl" yet they also wear an obscene amount of makeup (in a way that is socially considered extremely feminine, and which emphasize their feminine features). Their cognitive dissonance would be a marvel to behold if it weren't the pipeline to transitions for no real reason
I’m really hoping that this non binary stuff is just a fad that might eventually fade.. kind of like the Emo phase in the early to mid 2000s. The only thing with Emo though is that it was a fun form of expression, and it was not harmful to anyone (not to my knowledge anyway) it was just a kind of artistic form of expressing yourself. This on the other hand ...this is something entirely different. I agree with your views on this.
True, but also not true as cutting was a huge part of emo culture. Thank god there wasn’t the body altering(removing healthy breast tissue), fertility ruining options like there is with the NB movement.
Did we forget that the emos also glorified mental illness though? Showing off their cuts and self-deletion thoughts like achievments and also idealizing eating disorders? Anyway, they were still quite mild compared to what we have now
Actually psychology studies underlines gender is both a social construct and determined by Biology, obviously Biology it's the more important factor, but the society too can count, and as we're seeing, it's interfering a lot nowadays. That's the manipulation: saying half- truths to make an ideology valid and make people accept the radicalization of it.
Believe it or not Marcus, but I met a non-binary person diagnosed with dysmorphia in an online goth group. What are your thoughts on being non-binary with gender dysmorphia?
Trust me, "X" person, NO ONE wants to steal your identity.
Too embarrassing.
This has aged so well
Can we have a normal pride month?
Marching is good exercise
Hey, nonbinary female here! So first off, I use she/they so I don’t care if people don’t use they/them for me (cuz I’m not self absorbed and I understand social norms) and not all of us are always “demanding stuff from people”. Second off, we do feel dysphoria but it’s kinda different from a transgender person’s dysphoria (not all nonbinary people say their trans). And lastly, not every biological female is nonbinary cuz of trauma (though yes that can happen), we can and do actually have dysphoria most of the time. Yes dysphoria is a disorder, but gender is mostly a neurological state of our brain structure that effects our psychological state and perception of self. Most of us are “aware of there being more than one way to be a man or woman (i.e. masculine women and feminine men)”, but nonbinary people also exist and that is caused by dysphoria (we’re not trans though obviously).
So yeah, just wanted to help and put my two cents in haha, hope this helped in some way (not trying to be sarcastic or rude, I genuinely just thought I was being informative is all).
love your channel Marcus :) im a bi girl, im cis gender i guess. But i see myself as a tomboy. The world today is confusing. But im just a Bi girl who is a tomboy.
I’m cis girl and I question my gender sometimes too
That means you're a human being. Not a ballerina but a construction worker? FINE. As human beings have been since the beginning of time. Of course you're cis gender that means you're a biological woman. Stop letting idiots confuse you.
“So basically it’s going from one box into another box” … EXACTLY! It’s still a label. You are not free.
There are plenty of non-binary people with gender dysphoria, including myself. It's dysphoria that either tells you you're in the middle, or like me, dysphoria that sort of switches on and off. Sometimes feeling regular, and comfortable in one's body, and other times experiencing extreme dysphoria, like there's a painful weight missing
I love how the same ppl say "clothes don't have gender" and then them being genderfluid means one day the feel like wearing a dress and the other like wearing masculine stuff like I'm a cis woman AND I CAN STILL DO BOTH. I also love the "support trans ppl" and "gender is a social construct" + "men and women are the same" like if they were the same being trans wouldn't be a thing. How could you be trans if gender didn't exist??? How could you feel that your gender doesn't align with your biological sex if they weren't any differences except for a penis?
Also I hate it. I hate ppl telling me men and women are the same. Not, we're not. It always implies that I can be like a man. Because apparently being a man or being masculine is better than femininity. It's about trying to prove women can be as good as men and kinda reach their level. I don't want to. I'm a woman. I don't want to be like a man.
1:08 how do you know that? Have you ever talked to Dylan personally? Also she’s been on HRT for almost half a year by now. Just because someone is seen as being “nondysphoric”, that doesn’t mean that they are. She’s getting laser hair removal and is planning on getting BA as well. Is she trans enough for you now? Don’t assume shit when you don’t know anything about someone.
Literally.. im transmed and nonbinary and this is so disgusting. I hate radical transmeds like this. He is blatantly ignoring the science which BACKS Nonbinary people.
@@Nerodotnet I’m guessing you’re probably young, so I’m just gonna give it to you straight. Transmedicalism is harmful to the trans community. I was like you when I was younger. I thought that you need dysphoria to be trans for quite a while. But when you think about it, being a transmed does nothing but harm others. I mean, your whole ideology is based around judging people and making fun of trans people based on their appearance, how is that a healthy mindset? But the worst thing of all is that you’re just supporting what transphobes already think about the community. Whenever a cis person sees a non-passing trans person, they’ll think that they’re a “nondysphoric” transtrender, or that theyre “not even trying to pass”, which btw, have all been things that random strangers on the internet have said about me. Like sure, you may SEE them as a trender, but that doesn’t make them one. What if they can’t medically transition? What if they live in an unsupportive household? What if they just don’t want to make the effort to try to pass everyday because it’s fucking draining? I’m sorry, but if you’re a transmed, you’re no better than Marcus here, y’all are under the same ideology. Please just grow up and realize that being a transmed isn’t gonna save you from having to pay for your transition because it won’t.
@@averyt23 what… im a transmed? NOT truscum? Who said i did any of those things? That would make me a radmed and radtruscum. I agree with everything you are saying, i just also think that the scientific validity of transness is important. What you are stating is a broad generalization of all transmeds based on the loud, hateful and toxic minority of us. Dont worry, i hate them too lmao.
@@averyt23 i dont see people as not cis, and “transtrenders” for being nondysphoric. They are trans. They just have an incorrect definition of Gender dysphoria, and i deem pushing that incorrect information harmful. NO ONE can dictate any other person’s identity, nor prove if it is the “correct” one or not.
@@Nerodotnet they are literally the same thing dude, I don’t understand how they are different when they believe the same exact things. Also, no one said that there’s nothing scientific about being trans, we just don’t know what “causes” transness, that’s like it dude. Anyways, that’s not the point, I’m just telling that these stupid labels of being a “transmed” or a “tucute” are just that: labels. It doesn’t matter if you think that you need dysphoria to be trans or not, transphobes will see us all as crazy people regardless of how we present or how we identify, so why does it matter in the whole scheme of things? It doesn’t.
5:02 people calling themselves nonbinary because of the stereotype that all females have to dress hyperfeminine makes me so mad. you can be a woman and dress masculine! you can also be a man and dress feminine. it does not mean you are a different gender 😭
1:00 spoiler, Dylan has now identified as a trans woman for 100+ days, maybe react to some of those too? They get worse and worse
You mean a tRaNs GiRl
Bah, that creep is still going strong?
@@4ngel_w1ngs7 a handful of his most recent videos include playing with feminine products
Oh yeah he offered two free tampons to a couple of his female fans and they were so excited. I would have been disturbed.
He did a roleplay of a 2000s girl sleepover
And he and that non-binary Jeffrey Marsh individual talked about how inspirational girlhood is and how they both felt a connection toward the magical concept of girlhood
@@whosebuilderandmakerisgod what’s scary is Dylan has millions of followers on tik tok……. . That channel makes me so angry, wearing a dress and makeup doesn’t make you a woman.
@@melissa078 I agree. Tbh I think Dylan is pretty cute and funny on his own but what’s insufferable is he does all these things BECAUSE he thinks it’s what women do. It’s textbook male understanding of women
Do people even come out as gay anymore? It’s so trendy to be NB/trans right now. They don’t have any dysphoria, they just want to be a part of the current “thing.” Tiktok, Tumblr and Twitter are ruining a generation.
They aren’t like Buck, Marcus, Blaire, Rose of Dawn, etc. I am a fan of all of them because they’re simply rational. I WANT to support them for that very reason. They’re good people.