Keep it up:) we need more people like you, who can understand both sides, yet be logical. The woke community is ruining everything for everyone, everyone who just wants to live their life and be happy. Its impossible now because we have to cater to them and its ruined it for normal trans like yourself. Im sorry if i used any incorrect terms. Im just confused anymore and dont know what is okay and not okay anymore. But i support you and im subscribing:)
I nearly puked when that Dylan and the other bragged about their bulge and then proceeded to flaunt it. I’m old school having transitioned in ‘91, and I to this day wouldn’t ever pull that crap. I’m so disgusted at how these supposed trans activity are and assume they’re speaking for all trans people. They’re the very reason society still hates us and violently attacks us. Trans women like me just want to be left alone, let us live our lives and out of the drama
Hi, So I'm not sure how to say this and I don't want it to come across badly but you know what I really appreciate what you are doing.❤ There's another creator that I've been watching that I actually found before you and her name is Blair White and her videos made me find your videos and you guys have Really given me a different way of looking at things. That it's not just all these people on TikTok that are dressing up and pretending. I know there's gender desforia and you know I'm totally all with you guys the LGBT but that unfortunately for me It's about all I can support because you know what Gay men and lesbians have fought and they have fought hard to be able to marry and do the things that they want to do legally. Right, and you know, for transgendered people who are truly transgendered they have also had to do a lot to get where they are . But this whole new group is coming in they're adding letters on, that didn't have to fight at all. It really makes me quite angry.
You're awesome! And also, it might seem silly but, I didn't actually know you were trans at all until I heard you say it (I let videos autoplay while I paint)
I want you to know that you have truly helped me understand what being trans is. I'm a 68 year old, middle of the road conservative, biological woman that didn't understand what trans really was. I cannot stand having things crammed down my throat about how I should feel or act. The nonsense that I have come across on the web was really closing my mind and giving me a lot to be mad about. then I saw your videos. You have really opened my eyes to the reality of trans and what it means to be trans. I applaud you and wish you peace and happiness. Thank you.
i love this! i am a member of LGBTQ and 24, but i believe these types of people featured in the video are only making it harder for society to understand us & accept us. they are giving us a bad name! luckily people like this creator dispel this bad reputation and i love it.
The problem I have,with "the bulge", is I don't want to be involved in anyone's fetish with exhibition or their trashy fashion sense. When I'm walking thru the mall, don't want to see anyone's bulge. Likewise,I don't want to see anyone's camel toe. For me,whether the person is trans or not isn't the issue.
Honestly I don't mind, it's just your natural human body showing through clothes. I don't see it as exhibition, it's like seeing someone's elbow through a jacket. What's the matter ?
Yup. It’s really uncomfortable. Why is it MY duty to make you feel sexually aroused by letting you into my private spaces? It’s almost like these woke folks are moving society backwards.
There is a difference between having a subtle bulge, and wearing a form-fitting dress that flat-out accentuates the bulge (like the trans woman in the first video). I'm a cis man, and I would never go out in public with clothing that expressly highlighted my package to the masses -- it is just simple public decency and respect. There are tons of feminine, flowy, beautiful dresses (that can also be sexy if you want that look) that don't accentuate the bulge if you don't feel like tucking. Getting stared at for being a sleaze is not "transph0bia" .
In some situations you could even be asked to leave if you were a man with a very purposefully defined bulge. It can be considered sexual harassment if it’s clearly intentional… I’m all for trans women being comfortable with their genitals and not getting bottom surgery (sounds like many have severe complications from that), but that doesn’t mean showing off a very noticeable bulge is appropriate in all settings, just like it wouldn’t be for a cis man.
I agree. I was always my understanding that trans people were not particularly comfortable. With their body parts that advertise their birth gender. I know everyone’s different. But it seems to me, you wouldn’t want everyone starting at your budget. So wearing something to intentionally bring attention to it. Would be the last thing you would do!
The problem isn't even about trans women having bulges, it's about bulges themselves. Why the fuck are you showing your dick to people? It's some sort of fetish or what? It's simply inappropriate
Yeah this was my thought too. Cis men walking around without underwear on in clothes that barely obscure their nude body get judged as distasteful and weird too. Same goes for a cis woman wearing thin leggings with no underwear and walking around with her labia visible. Most people don't want to see other people's private bits. Trans people have lots of legitimate issues when it comes to discrimination, but a lot of the things people like this try to 'normalize' and consider transphobic are just basic common decency that apply to everyone. I consider this similar to 'free bleeding', where menstruating women will walk around without any kind of menstrual products and just be visibly bleeding through their clothes, because "periods are normal and shouldn't be stigmatized or considered gross". Periods ARE gross, any fluid coming out of a stranger's body is gross and a literal bio hazard. Something can be a perfectly fine fact of life, and still hold some level of social stigma, because frankly speaking some things just shouldn't have to be other people's business and its rude to make them deal with it.
How do these people not get, that the entire point of pronouns is for them to be assumed. It's a linguistic tool, that enables people to describe someone without knowing their name. Once you need to disclose your pronouns, they don't fulfill the purpose anymore.
I’d argue that once a pronoun is, um, stated, it’s no longer a pronoun. It’s a proper noun, like your name. And yes, that defeats the purpose of pronouns in the first place.
I get confused 😕 When I was young my Mother taught me that it was bad manners to use a pronoun that I should use someone's name. This was something that I heard many times "She's the cats mother". At the same time I was taught by others that pronouns can be used when the person is not in the room. People must be really obsessed with themselves if they are upset by what they may be called when they're not around!!! Very confused 😕
Your channel is called The Offensive Tranny but yet you're both respectful and level headed in your retorts and you're respected by the people who watch you regularly
I love how intelligent, secure and sensible you are. I have so much respect for your voice in such a complex time, tackling very challenging conversations.
@@gerarddearie I say this all the time. The word mankind is people in general, not only men. When people say things like, "omg they need to change the word freshman and upperclassman in schools to be more inclusive" I'm always like, "but the word 'man' means 'person'!" But people just need to cry about nonsense
well the world man does not being used as "person" (anymore), this goes back to a time where everything was exclusively for men and women were not seen as humans on the same level as men did, maybe rather as something nearly as svbhumen.
I’m a conservative libertarian and I have trans and gay friends that think like you and I love them and want them to get married and have families. These woke crazy people are only causing hesitancy and radicalizing people against the LGBT.
@@priscillaspets Sounds like a Conservative Libertarian is the equivalent of Center-Right, which is what I am. In my case, I see the LGBTQ people behind organizations such as Gays Against Groomers and Trans Against Groomers as the new face of the LGBTQ Community. The old one quite frankly, has been hijacked by Radical Leftists and Gender Ideologues.
I share your take on this crazy stuff. These idiots are setting gay rights back because now half the population thinks the LGBTQ community has lost it's mind. Ugh. Thank goodness there are channels like this one out there.
@@priscillaspetsi think centralism focuses power to a single government agency rather than to the states but I could be mistaken. I base my position off of the basic definition of both conservatism and libertarianism. I believe in limited state intervention in the free market and our lives and I believe there should be a societal standard of morals. I’m not religious but I see the value in some aspects of religion. As far as Liberal Democrats go, I can’t agree with much at this point because a lot of the ideology is based off emotion and not logic or reality.
@@jscho8674 absolutely! The fact that they don’t realize how much damage they’re doing to their own cause is crazy to me. So many gay and trans people worked so hard to be accepted and now these people want to piss on the path they paved.
“I’m not woke anymore and I’m not ugly anymore” OMG THIS IS SO RELATABLE. I have never felt as beautiful as I do now when I realised that I’m a feminine straight woman . I can’t even look at the photos from my woke phase
I had a woke phase too, I wore a shirt that said “we should all be feminists“ and had short, purple hair. I though I was an “activist“ and special haha
seeing all the comments from older conservative men and women sharing there views while maintaining respect and empathy for transgender people and there pronouns warms my heart so much, you are all incredible people and I believe you are the start of a big change and true equality, acceptance and understanding for the transgender community. I applaud you for sticking to your beliefs while keeping an open mind and not painting us all under the same brush 👏
For REAL. I don’t hate LGBT people. I just hate those woke mfs who try to control everyone, and calling you homophobic and transphobic if you don’t agree with everything they say.
I was really starting to hate the trans community, because I am persecuted by them pretty regularly. I don't even go on Grindr anymore because inevitably some trans man will call me a bigot and a genital fetishist for not wanting to hook up with them after I find out they are biological females. Your videos have made me realize that transsexual people aren't the problem, it's the people who think they're trans that are the ones making me feel so miserable all the time. Thank you! I was really starting to think that maybe I was a terrible person and bigoted, but now I know I'm not alone in the things I believe that are based entirely on reason and biology. You've really helped me feel so much less depressed and scared of trans people and their supporters lately.
I had the same dislike for the general LGBT community, cause all I saw was the woke side of it. I’ve become far more accepting now that I know they aren’t all crybabies, and a lot genuinely just wanna be accepted instead of wanting to control everyone else.
I'm a trans teen (ftm) and your videos are so refreshing, it's nice to see a trans guy on here who isn't insane and actually has rational views/opinions. I really look up to you.
I have a problem believing that someone is truly experiences gender dysphoria if they are a transgender woman that wants to normalize their bulge. I don't understand why people have to put themselves in a box now calling themselves non binary that no human is. This isn't the 1950s you can express your gender however you want. These people in my opinion are the only ones that are carrying on gender stereotypes. I am so fed up with all of the pronouns bs they/them was bad enough now we have I don't know how many that are constantly being make up. AMEN Marcus keep up the good work.
Pronoun people are self centred to the point of being utterly boring. Why are they spending time on this rubbish? Have they heard of the WEF? There's more to worry about.
This it’s not fucking 1950 I’m so so sick of seeing people say oh women like this and men like this I commented on someone else’s vid a few days ago saying something to the affect of trans people are uncomfortable in their bodies with primary and secondary sex characteristics if they aren’t they aren’t trans the end you can express yourself however you feel androgynous or not you can play whatever sports like whatever you want it doesn’t make you a goddamn different gender gender disphoria in my opinion is the only reason someone is trans it’s so freaking annoying to me to see this world be ripped apart by mentally ill people
I guarantee most of these young people, mostly young girls and women, are just gay tomboys. I thought I was trans at thirteen, turned out I’m bisexual and very masculine in some ways, doesn’t mean I have gender dysphoria and I’m trans.
@@kellysouter4381because they have narcissistic personalities, they’re entitled and think they deserve that title, it makes them feel special and part of a group. I refuse to use those pronouns, I’ll just use your fucking name. You can’t demand people to use “preferred” pronouns, cause I have all the right to deny that delusion.
So we can’t divorce the word “men” from its past exclusionary meaning, but we’re going to use the slur “queer” now, in spite of many older LGB people finding the word offensive? Ok.
I think to begin with LGBT people wanted to reclaim the word queer so that it wouldn't be a slur anymore but a word of empowerment in much the same way as black people reclaimed the 'N' word. I agree that it has gone way too far and has become a whole mess of inconsistancies.
when i thought i was nonbinary i was literally so mentally ill. i didnt want people to refer to me as she or he - hell sometimes not even they, i wanted them to call me it or xe?? i didnt want to be there mentally or physically i felt so detached from reality i didnt want to live and to be honest therapy and meds didnt help me at all, it made me feel even worse. just when i stoppped watching all this dumb woke stuff and took better care of myself like going to the gym and eating properly i started to feel better and like a woman again. i still struggle with depression and overthinking but im so much better now anyway. and i cant speak for everyone, but one thing we should all agree on is that yes - being 'nonbinary' is in fact a mental illness and one you can actually heal from.
If you don’t mind me asking, what made you feel non-binary? What led to you feeling a disconnect from your body and how you were identifying? Thanks for sharing your journey and I wish you the best.
@@friedman01 thank you! Well i guess it kinda started when i was eating close to nothing and just lay in bed all day, tho i don't really remember anything i did back there, but i remember it lead me to derealization and i used self harm as a coping mechanism to just feel anything + feeling tired all the time didn't help at all, and yeah at that time i discovered what non binary is and thought that it suits me, like what i felt like at the time so i just went with it I guess, sorry i wish i could tell you more, but i really don't remember much :( if i think of anything I'll let you know
@@friedman01 ah right the meds i was taking, they were supposed to help with anxiety and psychosis so i was really tired from them too and it just made me really bitter and unable to think/focus. And about the disconnect from my body it was also the how little i was eating and how much weight/fat i lost, like i remember being 34kg at my lowest weight so it was getting really dangerous + being on proana forums, because of that all i really thought about was my body (when i had the energy to think ofc, because that didn't happen too often and it made me almost fail my entire year at school) and how to have as little of it as possible which resulted in feeling even more discontented from it
I tried to grasp the concept of nonbinary for so long. Reading articles, watching videos on the topic. I even had favourite artists and composers who identified as nonbinary and had an influence on me. All of these people were either men with makeup and lipstick or classy women with short hair who just wanted to be themselves. All of them were emotionally unstable or mentally ill. The pattern is so obvious it cannot be ignored. So, instead of caring so much about labels, identities and pronouns, why won't we put more attention to our mental health and fighting gender stereotypes?
Dude, you look so much better as a guy! I feel like everyone is just constantly seeking attention now and there’s all this access to identify as whatever so it’s causing a lot of unnecessary confusion. My 4 year old told me a couple of times he wanted to be a girl; he also wanted to be a transformer, spiderman, a ghostbuster and sonic the hedgehog. If he feels this when he’s much older, I’ll address it then like a rational adult.
I definitely got ugly when I started being woke in like 2019. I'm trying to grow my hair out naturally now that I don't think I'm nonbinary and its difficult😭
I was woke until 2019 and I am now trying to grow out my hair too! May I give you some advice? Use nourishing shampoo and conditioner, don't dye your hair, avoid using straighteners and the like as much as you can, and try taking brewer's yeast pills, that way your hair will be stronger and more beautiful. :) Good luck!
Omg! Me too! My hair is currently upper lower back length (if that makes sense) and I got it that long through scalp massages, hair oiling (find a hair oil that won’t wear your hair down and massage it in at the roots and ends to avoid breakage and split ends), invest in a wet brush and brush your hair at the ends to the roots and make sure to brush it very gently to avoid split ends, don’t use heat (if you’re going to use heat, find a good quality heat protectant and don’t use heat daily), stop dying your hair with drug store brands, don’t bleach your hair, if you wish to have a different color hair, you can try henna- it’s so good for your hair, don’t wash it daily, make sure to leave your conditioner to set for 10 minutes, use a hair mask, don’t touch your hair unless you’re doing something to it, take a hair skin and nail supplement, don’t use drugstore hair products unless you read the labels (you’re gonna want natural products), make sure you clarify your hair no more than every few months.
Marcus you are such a great role model for young LGBT people. Slowly but surely you and the rest of the sane people will turn all this craziness around. I have great hope for the future. keep speaking the truth, I really enjoy all your content. Love from Australia.
@@2crisp63 The word woman means adult human female. Trans means going beyond/across of something. But since "trans women" are biological males, why wouldn't we call them as men?
As a conservative, religious, GenX American, I really appreciate your videos. I've learned so much. You've given me a bit of hope that we can all live on this planet together. Keep up the very good work.
I'm always shocked when I remember english is your second language. You could fool anyone into believing it was your first with how well spoken you are. You're a very impressive human
I swear one of my old friend told me that she was having "so much dysphoria due to this secretary calling me 'mam'!" She was, and is still wearing skirts and dresses everyday, does her makeup, has long hair, wear heels, etc. How can you say you experience dysphoria if you're clearly comfortable with looking like a feminine stereotype, and are getting mad at a minimum wage employee for not knowing how to use a neutral prounoun (that still isn't really a thing in my country, except in the left leaning spaces)? Long story short, she isn't my friend anymore.
I have a similar situation where I’m trying to understand how a long-term friend who is a biological female and has had three children and is still married to a biological man all of a sudden says she doesn’t really feel like a woman. Maybe Im non-binary, she says. You can have children and not really be a woman, she says.I just don’t think this makes any sense.
02:55 “I’m Rachel, they/them” what bothers me with the “I use they/them” pronouns is that they are third-person pronouns. So Rachel isn’t using them, but ‘they’ are dictating how other people refer to ‘them’ (while also at the same time just looking like a regular woman).
People who don't understand how grammar works using improper grammar? I'm shocked! A very large portion of this debate comes from people who very clearly have a misunderstanding of how the English language works trying to lecture everyone else how it works.
They/them has been used in the past, like from as far back as the 1400's, as a singular non-gendered pronoun. We haven't used them that way in a serious long time so now when someone refers to themself as 'they', it just sounds crazy. Like they're admitting they have a multiple personality disorder or something.
@@dustinmartin2369 Unfortunately, you’ll find plenty of people (writers, editors, etc.) in the publishing industry promoting this nonsense. There are lots of wokesters in that space. They’re the real grammar Nazis. They make up, enforce, and change grammatical rules, usage, and vocabulary to fit their agenda. They think the singular “they” is perfectly OK. Sure, it’s generally become a lot more accepted in modern colloquial English, even among sane, nonwoke people, but I highly suspect that simply jumping on the woke virtue signaling bandwagon is the reason why those wokesters and wannabe wokesters accept and promote the use of the singular “they.” I don’t care what people call themselves. They’re free to do whatever they want. They can refer to themselves as baseball bats or German shepherds (the latter is a nice little furry pronoun!), but when they force others to adopt their preferences and quirks, it becomes extremely problematic and narcissistic. That’s precisely what’s been happening.
@@amandak.4246 If it’s normal tell me the equivalent in all the other gendered languages like German or Arabic. If it really is normal every culture would’ve developed a concept of it just like with homosexuality.
I really like your channel. You’re respectful, balanced and overall just have really nuanced takes that are a breath of fresh air where it seems that everyone in the world has the exact same opinion/personality
@@villapulla for Demi, I hope (remember, when she was with Alok, that's when she ended up with the NB trainwreck). For Sam however.....he's a lost cause
Great video! I’m a trans person not a trans activist and I’m fortunate to be a frequent caller to talk radio to voice my displeasure with the trans activists
Go you! The TRA really fucked it up for you guys - and are doing it to everybody else, too. I always want to give a shout-out to transfolk that call this crap out for what it is.
actually, out of everything with this ''woke'' stuff, having a visible bulge is not a problema at all. However, a trans woman having a bulge will definitely draw attetion to them.
@@nunyabusiness2945 Seriously! I'm a middle aged woman who used to weigh almost 400lbs, have had 2 kiddos, etc, I wouldn't package my business and put it in people's face.
Idk I see men walking around with a “bulge” all the time. I mean not showcased or anything but it is just there… on a completely unrelated topic I love your name and picture ❤
I honestly can’t thank you enough for this video. I’ve been called a ‘phobe and an ‘ist because I questioned certain gender labels and pronouns - not from any genuine trans people (I actually have some great trans friends) but from non-trans “warriors” within the LGBTXYZ+++(!) community of which I’m a part. It’s a relief to know that, away from all the insane TikTok posts, there are sane, intelligent people like you around.
I used to be super open minded about Lgbt stuff and then I started learning about these people. I would probably be considered conservative by voting standards. So I can say you educating is doing a good job. People like you, Blaire White, and Buck Angel are the only reasons I’m still able to be open minded about LGBT stuff at all.
I have been very open minded all my life about LGBT issues, to the point I would fight with my parents about it & now I find myself fighting with my daughter who says to me "I always thought you were so opened minded until recently'. And it's all because of all the insane woke people, and I can't convince her to watch either Marcus, Blaire or Buck who are some of the most centered trans people around.
@@cariaus3758 well the thing is a lot of other creators seem very right wing which might be a turn off for her get her to watch the documentary that was produced in Sweden it’s 2 parts. Very information based.
I'm bi but was never in the "scene" and never defined myself by my sexuality. After a break up I thought I'd put myself out there as a bi person in the community but the more time I spent in the community the less I wanted to be a part of it. LGBT spaces are being taken over by very loud and defensive T, ESPECIALLY online. You join an online LGBT space its all very vocal T dominating the conversation and they are rabid when you push back against their ramblings and cultish behaviour
I totally agree. Trans people will never truly be able to become the other gender. I was a trans man for years myself before feeling I was genderfluid. I am no longer genderfluid either, but even while I was trans I knew I'd never stop being a biological woman and was very reluctant to get any hormones or surgery. I grew out of my dysphoria - it took about twelve or so years, but I got there. I love watching your videos. You speak the truth, and I pray you never stop. I subscribed to you a while ago, and I don't know how I haven't heard of you earlier!
I don‘t want to be mean - that being „trans“ isn‘t a decision. So how can you be trans and later not??? It like being homose*ual - you are or you aren‘t! Perhaps you didn‘t feel right in your body - but that can have several reasons…. Glad to hear that you seem to be fine with your body/sex/gender now. ☺️
The sheer hubris and self-important navel-gazing that these people demonstrate astounds me. They spend their days making videos "instructing" us on how to do all these mental/verbal gymnastics, smugly demanding that people bend over backwards to change the basic grammar of the English language, expecting us to contort our brains into all these ridiculous shapes simply because it will make them feel better. The entitlement is revolting.
The pronouns are getting ridiculous!!! I would see myself as a female but some days I feel more masculine or feminine. But not as non-binary like it does not make sense to me because there are two genders. Yes, there is a small percentage of people that are intersex but that is different. I love watching your videos and your reacting to all the craziness that is happening in the world.
The problem with "gender" is that it is a system derived from sex and is being used to forcibly override sex. Masculine and feminine are derived from association with the male and female sex respectively. This also leaves the potential for something to be neuter as it has no strong association with either. These people have basically taken that system and inverted it to try to determine what sex a person actually is and replaced neuter with "non-binary." It's like a system of measurement that knows that a foot is 12 inches but has no idea what an inch is beyond 1/12 of a foot.
Intersex is a real medical phenomenon, and non binary is a made up term for people who are simply gender non conforming, and they feel a strong desire to not associate with their sex.
I'm a tomboy, i like doing masculine things and dressing like a guy (Plus men got really cool badass shirts) but i'm still just a woman, not trans, supposedly, i break the gender stereotype, while those people enforce it (If you're a man that like feminine things, you're automatically trans by their logic) while those same people claiming to break it.
My boyfriend is.... well endowed.... so if I notice he's showing too much in more fitted pants or swimwear, im like "hey babe, let's not flash yo junk all over town" sometimes he just doesn't realize. So I think that should apply to anyone and all genitalia.
When I was in middle school I played d&d. We used to make up the most fantastical back stories for all our characters. This is incredibly reminiscent of that. Like you said, children playing games.
Yeh, your actually the first trans channel im going to & probably forever stand by as a semi-close minded cis female. I like the way you explain this :) if only more trans UA-camrs has a mindset like you it would be easier for people like me to become open minded & understand more instead of Shoving it down my throat & calling everyone a bigot. Thank you🥰
@@Draco19970125 gender dysphoria is a severe mental illness. So is body dysmorphia. Many people in the world get plastic surgery… this is not that different tbh. Do I agree with it? Not necessarily, but what can you do? Marcus is an adult. It’s his choice. At least he’s speaking out on important issues and bringing to light the toxicity within the lgbt community.
@@Annatomova7 I agree, gender dysphoria/body dysmorphia is a beast of a mental problem. It can be very difficult. Little difference that after plastic surgery, you do not say you are now the opposite sex, you do not create a new label for yourself. Can we cut off limbs if we identofy as a disabled person? If no, why? We are adults as you said yourself. Should we reduce woman/manhood into a cheap costume, as Marcus does?
2:46 “i’m not woke anymore and im not ugly anymore”… FINALLY someone said it☠️☠️ that’s the underlying theme i notice among nonbinary, queer, outspoken woke folk lmfao
Grounded? Blaire wears a female costume, Marcus wears a male one, both of them invade the opposite sex's bathtrooms and both of them want to be called as the oposite sex.
Some of these people...I just...🤦♀️😩 I'm so over it. Ugh. That Rachel person...I'm 😵💫🤯. Thank you for bringing all of this crap to light for people who don't get it. You are speaking THE TRUTH, not YOUR TRUTH. Clearly acceptance and respect only matter for people who agree with their agenda... anything different (like not a crazy liberal) and you don't get respect.
I am a 46 year old Conservative mother of 2 boys(15 & 24) and I'm happy that I've found your channel... along with Blair & Ariel's because otherwise I would've gone on believing everyone in LGBT community were like (for lack of a better term) these crazy woke leftists. Thankfully we live in a county in Ohio where we don't run into a lot of the problems conservative parents that live in California or Washington DC do, but because of people like you I now understand & have been able to explain to other people who might think the way I used to...as well as talk to my children. Especially with my youngest who's still in school & plans on going to college. I just wanted to thank u & lyk that you are making a difference.
Omg so true!!! I really don’t judge people based on who they want to be who they want to love, etc. what I have a problem is is with character that’s where the problem is… and this is making people look awful… thank you so much for your open mind and really trying to make a difference ❤
Hell I’ve been to gay pride festivals. My first one was when I was 13. And back then there was nothing but kind loving people. I don’t remember there being a single person that wasn’t kind…. And now we see this and I’m like where did all the actual love go? For real…
Rock on buddy! I like your thinking on these issues & wish logical people like you were in the forefront of these issues rather than those that are currently ruining the debate. ✌️
You are a breath of fresh air, a voice of reason, amidst all the insanity that is 'wokeness'. You accept reality as it is, because you accept yourself as you are. I love how you say that you know that you're a biological woman, but due to your dysphoria want to go through life as a man. That's it. That's all there is to it. You have your reasons to not go 'all the way' (have bottom surgery) and again, that's it. As you say, why do people overcomplicate things nowadays? So, thank you. I'm just getting sick and tired of all these horrible activists wanting to use MY safe spaces.
Nice to see the actual genuine community members who can have an intelligent debate and have so much to offer. The net needs more individuals of your caliber speaking up.
I have been watching your videos for a few weeks now and you are the sanest voice of reason! You have changed my mind and perspective on many things in the LGBTQ plus community and I want to thank you for the education. I love your low key humor...you can be savage!
@@marcusdibAbout the title of your video. "Trans man" - you are a woman. We do not need a new label for your sex. Why don't you call yourself as what you really are?
”Maybe theyll be less close-minded” ur absolutely right. Im a younger trans boy so theres alot of ”transphobic” boys in my class. Somehow with not forcing just saying that my name is max they have been understanding me and calling me by my prefered name
2:46 I feel so bad that I said "OH MY GOD" to your before and after photo 😭 Like dude you looked so different. Yeah you look a lot better now even though you kinda remind me of Harry Potter but in a good way
I agree, I’ve noticed they thems have a very specific aesthetic. Rarely do I see a they them who doesn’t have that “look”. You all know the type I’m talking about.
I transitioned back in 2010. Did FFS, BA, SRS and laser hair removal. I did all of this to blend in, to be stealth and It worked. With all of those surgeries, I changed my outside to reflect how I felt on the inside. With that said, BIOLOGICALLY, I will ALWAYS be male. As far as I am concerned, these "new" transgender people embarrass the hell out of me. Now I did get a job AS Kelly, worked there for six years and came out to my coworkers during National Coming Out Day after three and half years of working there. Some didn't really believe it, others were like your political views are conservative so how can you be like LGBT. Others had suspicions when they saw me throwing a football a few times and making some crazy catches - thanks to playing football in high school as well as being on the track team and diving team. After I came out, I also wasn't so keen on speaking like a woman and just started using my regular voice. This lead to a couple of instances of being misgendered, usually at the grocery check out line with the cashier looking at what they were ringing up, calling me sir, and then looking at me and saying, "Sorry, I mean ma'am." Never ever had a problem with that, never went into some crazy rant like you see on TikTok. And I've even told them, no biggy, I'm trans, shit happens. Several times I have been asked, "What are your preferred pronouns?" My reply has also been, "My preferred pronoun is Hey You!" Whatever! And no, if someone from the LGBTYUIOL%#$&ghyds community comes up to me and says, "My preferred pronouns are ze, zem, zim, rer." Our conversation is over. If you can't figure out what or who you are, don't drag me into your delusions! To old and tired to get involved with that lunacy. And no, NO ONE needs to recognize the "bulge" as a thing, just tuck the damn thing in already!! That and before I had my SRS, I would go to the local gym and work out. I get there, hit the woman's locker room, jam my gym bag into a locker, grab my water bottle, iPod or phone, my towel and my workout log and do my shit. Sometimes, I would see someone I knew and we'd talk, maybe talk to a trainer if I had questions. When I was done, I head back to the woman's locker room, take my sweaty top off and my sports bra, dry up with my clean towel, spray some deodorant on my pits and put on a zippered top, pack my gym bag up and head home. At NO time did I drop my sweat bottoms and panties and walk around showing my twigs and berries! I didn't do that out of respect for the other women that were in the locker room! They didn't need that crap and I didn't want any of the hassle that that would have caused. I mean, it was just COMMON SENSE! Now the LGBT and the trans community have labeled me a Nazi and have told me that there is no WAY you are trans and a Republican - and remember, these are the SAME people that will get in front of a camera and tell the world how loving, accepting and tolerant that the LGBT community is... so long as you follow their twisted political and "woke" beliefs. That and it's pretty telling that most of the hate that I receive comes from looney liberal democrats and NOT from Republicans. With that said, I hope Ron DeSantis - governor of the great state of Florida, where woke goes to die - and Nikki Haley or Kristi Noem team up and run for President and Vice President in 2024. You can bet that they'll have my vote!!!
If you know that your sex did not change then you know that you did not transition into anything. "How I feel inside" - reflect how you have problems accepting your sex? You can't "feel like" the opposite sex. When people calls you sir, they obviously do not misgender you as you are a biological male.
I used to consider myself a part of the community. I still believe I'm asexual and possibly aromantic too, but the community has disgusted me so much that I just don't want to be "asexual" anymore. Even though it's not really a choice - I just naturally don't find anyone immensely attractive (but I know an ugly person when I see one).
I don’t like to comment or put myself out there but, I think I’m asexual and idk how to deal with it, I know it’s weird to ask a random stranger but idk how to react, so is there a way to be sure???
@@psparkle9111I am lesbian so I don’t really know how it feels. I think if you feel like that and your over the age of 13-14 then maybe.. it’s a label, it can change if you do find a lover.
Why would you need a community if you are asexual? I'm gay and I don't particularly like gay guys, so I just hang out with people I like (regardless of sexuality). Problem solved.
Marcus is the clear bell in this storm of nonsensical static. I don't say that because I merely agree with him, but because he has shown me a common sense road through this tangle of emotion, ego, pain and posturing. He hasn't just aligned with me, but taught me as well, and done it in a humane way that doesn't sacrifice integrity. It's such a shame that people like this seem so rare these days.
The fact is that they try to change the reality in the heads of other people. Looking at you I simple wouldn't be able to address you as a lady or with she/her because my brain would break in this case as I clearly see a young man even after I knew you were a trans. Those people just won't get that if you want other people to adress you a certain way, then you have to act, behave and look the certain way. Gender IS based on sex, that's the point. Thank you a lot for the video!
You do an amazing job educating and showing people that not all trans people hold the same beliefs about certain things. You are a very good example 😊 thanks for speaking out!
Excellent examples of Wokeness with Sam Smith and Demi. Strange how when you are non-binary like part of that costume is trying to be as fugly as possible. When you’re true trans you look handsome/beautiful.
8:14 people like you, buck angel and blaire white are the only reason i dont think all trans people are crazy. Before you 3, I was skeptical of the whole thing bc of what i saw from other trans people. Now I know better but beforehand, I had only seen the insane ones. So thanks for being a voice of reason in this hellscape lol
I actually looked up the origin of the words “man” “woman” because I always thought it was weird that something had to be added to the male word to be female. I found out that the original word for males was “wereman” and the female was “woman” and the word “man” was for both. That’s were “human” comes from too. It was when they shortened “wereman” to “man” that the imbalance in the language started, and it is a big thing because it makes people think of male as default, when everywhere in nature it’s female because you don’t need many males to keep the species going but you must have lots of females. Funny how humans are the only animals that act like that doesn’t apply 😂
"Human" actually comes from the Latin "homo", but yeah the same thing happened in latin languages anyway: in Latin, "vir" used to mean "man", "femina" meant "woman" and "homo" meant "humans", but then "vir" kind of fell out of use and "homo" was used instead. That's where the French "homme" and Spanish "hombre", both meaning "man", come from.
You've done it again Marcus, thank you🥰🤗 NO ONE tells ME who/how I am or what I can or can NOT say, what I can wear, watch etc. Who the F do these people think they ARE?! I feel sorry for anyone who looks to them for "guidance", It would be too funny if there wasn't so many young people taking them seriously 🙄
At the start of this video, I felt so much pride for the woman who wants to feel proud in her body, and it made me feel sad that it can’t just stop there. Indeed, please feel pride and love for your trans body! Just don’t start telling me as a woman that we should normally a bulge in a woman’s body. No! That’s your body as a trans-woman, not mine as a woman. And the distinction isn’t a bad thing! Trans acceptance would be probably almost entirely across the board right now if everyone just stayed in their lane.
I'm conservative and was never for the transgender thing honestly, but him and Blaire white have shown me, some people really do feel this way and do this to feel better and... They aren't insane and pushing it onto children. You sir, have changed my perspective. I am still hesitant honestly, but... I appreciate what you do and who you are.
These tiktockers have lost the plot. You can't "use no pronouns" - pronouns are used by OTHER people based on their PERCEPTION of you. You have NO control over the perception of others. And NO, no one has to ask you for your pronouns. If someone is mugging you, and you're a transgender woman - if you look like a man to someone across the street, they will call the cops and tell them a man's being mugged across the street. You literally have NO control over that, nor can you audit what the general public refers to you. Your friends may refer to you that way out of mutual respect, but there's no expectation of one individual governing someone else's perception - you have NO control over this. If that hurts you, then it's not the fault of the general public, it's seeking therapy to not expect your emotional well being to be decided by external influences that have no bearing on your life.
Sadly these people clearly don't understand how language works which is inherent in their statement "I use * pronouns" or "my pronouns are" Forcing others to reference you by a specific pronoun is not YOU using that pronoun and you don't have a pronoun to reference you as that is technically just a reference to a word that describes you. It's obvious most of these folks have never spoken a truly gendered language and don't realize that English's reference to sex through grammatical gender isn't the norm.
I was slightly wary of trans, the same way older people were wary of Muslims after 9/11, but honestly, after watching yall and blaire white, my mind was opened, so thank you for being respectful to individuals who share your same ideals, but are slightly averse to a different life style
I once dated a trans man. He didn't choose to get surgery because of his health and the risks involved. BUT Bal(nickname) didn't get offended if a stranger referred to him as her. He was pretty chill and his identity didn't evolve around gender or pronouns.
Im really struggling in society these days.. I am accepting to anyone who is respectful but lately you have to respect and accept anyone who yells they deserve it even when they don’t because they treat others like sh*t
Thank you all for your Super Thanks!
You have no idea how much I appreciate it
Keep it up:) we need more people like you, who can understand both sides, yet be logical. The woke community is ruining everything for everyone, everyone who just wants to live their life and be happy. Its impossible now because we have to cater to them and its ruined it for normal trans like yourself. Im sorry if i used any incorrect terms. Im just confused anymore and dont know what is okay and not okay anymore. But i support you and im subscribing:)
I'm still confused about Demi Lovato not being...Demisexual(?)
I nearly puked when that Dylan and the other bragged about their bulge and then proceeded to flaunt it. I’m old school having transitioned in ‘91, and I to this day wouldn’t ever pull that crap. I’m so disgusted at how these supposed trans activity are and assume they’re speaking for all trans people. They’re the very reason society still hates us and violently attacks us. Trans women like me just want to be left alone, let us live our lives and out of the drama
Hi, So I'm not sure how to say this and I don't want it to come across badly but you know what I really appreciate what you are doing.❤ There's another creator that I've been watching that I actually found before you and her name is Blair White and her videos made me find your videos and you guys have Really given me a different way of looking at things. That it's not just all these people on TikTok that are dressing up and pretending. I know there's gender desforia and you know I'm totally all with you guys the LGBT but that unfortunately for me It's about all I can support because you know what Gay men and lesbians have fought and they have fought hard to be able to marry and do the things that they want to do legally. Right, and you know, for transgendered people who are truly transgendered they have also had to do a lot to get where they are . But this whole new group is coming in they're adding letters on, that didn't have to fight at all. It really makes me quite angry.
You're awesome! And also, it might seem silly but, I didn't actually know you were trans at all until I heard you say it (I let videos autoplay while I paint)
I want you to know that you have truly helped me understand what being trans is. I'm a 68 year old, middle of the road conservative, biological woman that didn't understand what trans really was. I cannot stand having things crammed down my throat about how I should feel or act. The nonsense that I have come across on the web was really closing my mind and giving me a lot to be mad about. then I saw your videos. You have really opened my eyes to the reality of trans and what it means to be trans. I applaud you and wish you peace and happiness. Thank you.
i love this! i am a member of LGBTQ and 24, but i believe these types of people featured in the video are only making it harder for society to understand us & accept us. they are giving us a bad name! luckily people like this creator dispel this bad reputation and i love it.
fingers crossed there's not much left for you :D
@@greynotchristian LMAO
What was difficult to understand? 'Trans' just means someone who pretends to be the opposite sex.
@@apebass2215 its not pretending its feeling like that so you decide to live as the oppositr sex and present as that
The problem I have,with "the bulge", is I don't want to be involved in anyone's fetish with exhibition or their trashy fashion sense. When I'm walking thru the mall, don't want to see anyone's bulge. Likewise,I don't want to see anyone's camel toe. For me,whether the person is trans or not isn't the issue.
Exactly. I would be really uncomfortable if a person near me in public had a visible bulge, regardless of how he may identify.
Honestly I don't mind, it's just your natural human body showing through clothes. I don't see it as exhibition, it's like seeing someone's elbow through a jacket. What's the matter ?
@@bertille701 That person in the video was basically showing off the bulge which is creepy.
Yup. It’s really uncomfortable. Why is it MY duty to make you feel sexually aroused by letting you into my private spaces? It’s almost like these woke folks are moving society backwards.
Completely agree , I don't want to see this via it be man or trans women!
There is a difference between having a subtle bulge, and wearing a form-fitting dress that flat-out accentuates the bulge (like the trans woman in the first video). I'm a cis man, and I would never go out in public with clothing that expressly highlighted my package to the masses -- it is just simple public decency and respect. There are tons of feminine, flowy, beautiful dresses (that can also be sexy if you want that look) that don't accentuate the bulge if you don't feel like tucking. Getting stared at for being a sleaze is not "transph0bia" .
In some situations you could even be asked to leave if you were a man with a very purposefully defined bulge. It can be considered sexual harassment if it’s clearly intentional… I’m all for trans women being comfortable with their genitals and not getting bottom surgery (sounds like many have severe complications from that), but that doesn’t mean showing off a very noticeable bulge is appropriate in all settings, just like it wouldn’t be for a cis man.
I agree. I was always my understanding that trans people were not particularly comfortable. With their body parts that advertise their birth gender. I know everyone’s different.
But it seems to me, you wouldn’t want everyone starting at your budget. So wearing something to intentionally bring attention to it.
Would be the last thing you would do!
Don't ever say you're cis. Hahahahahahahaha! You pathetic conformist...
The problem isn't even about trans women having bulges, it's about bulges themselves. Why the fuck are you showing your dick to people? It's some sort of fetish or what? It's simply inappropriate
Yeah this was my thought too. Cis men walking around without underwear on in clothes that barely obscure their nude body get judged as distasteful and weird too. Same goes for a cis woman wearing thin leggings with no underwear and walking around with her labia visible. Most people don't want to see other people's private bits.
Trans people have lots of legitimate issues when it comes to discrimination, but a lot of the things people like this try to 'normalize' and consider transphobic are just basic common decency that apply to everyone. I consider this similar to 'free bleeding', where menstruating women will walk around without any kind of menstrual products and just be visibly bleeding through their clothes, because "periods are normal and shouldn't be stigmatized or considered gross". Periods ARE gross, any fluid coming out of a stranger's body is gross and a literal bio hazard.
Something can be a perfectly fine fact of life, and still hold some level of social stigma, because frankly speaking some things just shouldn't have to be other people's business and its rude to make them deal with it.
“I’m not woke anymore and I’m not ugly anymore.” This needs to be a bumper sticker!!
Now I’m more curious about Marcus’ change in ideology, and how that came about!
The way it was shown like a drug psa LMAO.
I’ve noticed that within myself too. The moment I stopped being woke as well, I started to become prettier. I wonder how that is.
Bro if every trans person was sane like you, acceptance would be so much higher.
How do these people not get, that the entire point of pronouns is for them to be assumed. It's a linguistic tool, that enables people to describe someone without knowing their name. Once you need to disclose your pronouns, they don't fulfill the purpose anymore.
Thisssssssss
Plus they’re generally used in the absence of the person being described 🙈
I’d argue that once a pronoun is, um, stated, it’s no longer a pronoun. It’s a proper noun, like your name. And yes, that defeats the purpose of pronouns in the first place.
I get confused 😕 When I was young my Mother taught me that it was bad manners to use a pronoun that I should use someone's name. This was something that I heard many times "She's the cats mother". At the same time I was taught by others that pronouns can be used when the person is not in the room. People must be really obsessed with themselves if they are upset by what they may be called when they're not around!!! Very confused 😕
Literally, it becomes a nickname
Your channel is called The Offensive Tranny but yet you're both respectful and level headed in your retorts and you're respected by the people who watch you regularly
That’s WHY he’s offensive to the woke tyrants.
@@KristiLEvans1 That's exactly it. Not offensive to the majority, just the lunatic fringe.
I respect this trans man. I’ll call him a man because he’s very respectful.
I think he's the Offensive Tranny because he's offensive to the trans activists and SJW. Is that still a thing? 🥱
@@GmarineIraqVetthis. i will only respect respectable people. dylan? nuh uh, he/him. marcus, yuh huh, he/him
"I'm not WOKE anymore and I'm not UGLY anymore"
That quote belongs on a shirt
I love how intelligent, secure and sensible you are. I have so much respect for your voice in such a complex time, tackling very challenging conversations.
Them: "the word 'man' is rooted in exclusion"
Also them: "the word 'woman' can mean whatever you feel like it means!"
@@gerarddearie I say this all the time. The word mankind is people in general, not only men. When people say things like, "omg they need to change the word freshman and upperclassman in schools to be more inclusive" I'm always like, "but the word 'man' means 'person'!"
But people just need to cry about nonsense
hit them with the “man shut up” and watch them cry twice as hard
@@paprikaeaterthat’s so funny 🤣🤣🤣
THIIIIIIISSSSS!!! 👏🏼
well the world man does not being used as "person" (anymore), this goes back to a time where everything was exclusively for men and women were not seen as humans on the same level as men did, maybe rather as something nearly as svbhumen.
I’m a conservative libertarian and I have trans and gay friends that think like you and I love them and want them to get married and have families. These woke crazy people are only causing hesitancy and radicalizing people against the LGBT.
what’s the difference between a conservative libertarian vs a centralist? (: just genuinely wondering
@@priscillaspets Sounds like a Conservative Libertarian is the equivalent of Center-Right, which is what I am.
In my case, I see the LGBTQ people behind organizations such as Gays Against Groomers and Trans Against Groomers as the new face of the LGBTQ Community.
The old one quite frankly, has been hijacked by Radical Leftists and Gender Ideologues.
I share your take on this crazy stuff. These idiots are setting gay rights back because now half the population thinks the LGBTQ community has lost it's mind. Ugh. Thank goodness there are channels like this one out there.
@@priscillaspetsi think centralism focuses power to a single government agency rather than to the states but I could be mistaken. I base my position off of the basic definition of both conservatism and libertarianism. I believe in limited state intervention in the free market and our lives and I believe there should be a societal standard of morals. I’m not religious but I see the value in some aspects of religion. As far as Liberal Democrats go, I can’t agree with much at this point because a lot of the ideology is based off emotion and not logic or reality.
@@jscho8674 absolutely! The fact that they don’t realize how much damage they’re doing to their own cause is crazy to me. So many gay and trans people worked so hard to be accepted and now these people want to piss on the path they paved.
“I’m not woke anymore and I’m not ugly anymore” OMG THIS IS SO RELATABLE. I have never felt as beautiful as I do now when I realised that I’m a feminine straight woman . I can’t even look at the photos from my woke phase
Same!
Me too! It's great knowing that there are other people that relate
I had a woke phase too, I wore a shirt that said “we should all be feminists“ and had short, purple hair. I though I was an “activist“ and special haha
@@cherrysangrias i used to have the exact same shirt 🙈
Congratulations on leaving the cult
seeing all the comments from older conservative men and women sharing there views while maintaining respect and empathy for transgender people and there pronouns warms my heart so much, you are all incredible people and I believe you are the start of a big change and true equality, acceptance and understanding for the transgender community. I applaud you for sticking to your beliefs while keeping an open mind and not painting us all under the same brush 👏
Exactly, I'm glad to see conservatives similar to myself who are able to be respectful while still being able to state their honest opinions
Trans means going beyond/across of something. Now, unless you can switch between female/male sex chromosomes/organs, you are not trans.
For REAL. I don’t hate LGBT people. I just hate those woke mfs who try to control everyone, and calling you homophobic and transphobic if you don’t agree with everything they say.
Well of course we are respectful. Because the host is not bat-shit crazy like the weirdos he's discussing in his video.
I was really starting to hate the trans community, because I am persecuted by them pretty regularly. I don't even go on Grindr anymore because inevitably some trans man will call me a bigot and a genital fetishist for not wanting to hook up with them after I find out they are biological females. Your videos have made me realize that transsexual people aren't the problem, it's the people who think they're trans that are the ones making me feel so miserable all the time. Thank you! I was really starting to think that maybe I was a terrible person and bigoted, but now I know I'm not alone in the things I believe that are based entirely on reason and biology. You've really helped me feel so much less depressed and scared of trans people and their supporters lately.
I had the same dislike for the general LGBT community, cause all I saw was the woke side of it. I’ve become far more accepting now that I know they aren’t all crybabies, and a lot genuinely just wanna be accepted instead of wanting to control everyone else.
@@highspy4045 Same here. All this wokeism does is push many people away and make them more phobic
I'm a trans teen (ftm) and your videos are so refreshing, it's nice to see a trans guy on here who isn't insane and actually has rational views/opinions. I really look up to you.
You a free k
@@roberttams48 ???
@@roberttams48 A 'k' that's free? Hmm. Weird.
@@roberttams48 you spelled freak wrong. Which just shows how much YOU know.
Comments like these really warms my heart. It's so important to have people you can relate to, and people you can look up to.
I have a problem believing that someone is truly experiences gender dysphoria if they are a transgender woman that wants to normalize their bulge. I don't understand why people have to put themselves in a box now calling themselves non binary that no human is. This isn't the 1950s you can express your gender however you want. These people in my opinion are the only ones that are carrying on gender stereotypes. I am so fed up with all of the pronouns bs they/them was bad enough now we have I don't know how many that are constantly being make up. AMEN Marcus keep up the good work.
Pronoun people are self centred to the point of being utterly boring. Why are they spending time on this rubbish? Have they heard of the WEF? There's more to worry about.
These men have autogynephilia....
This it’s not fucking 1950 I’m so so sick of seeing people say oh women like this and men like this I commented on someone else’s vid a few days ago saying something to the affect of trans people are uncomfortable in their bodies with primary and secondary sex characteristics if they aren’t they aren’t trans the end you can express yourself however you feel androgynous or not you can play whatever sports like whatever you want it doesn’t make you a goddamn different gender gender disphoria in my opinion is the only reason someone is trans it’s so freaking annoying to me to see this world be ripped apart by mentally ill people
I guarantee most of these young people, mostly young girls and women, are just gay tomboys. I thought I was trans at thirteen, turned out I’m bisexual and very masculine in some ways, doesn’t mean I have gender dysphoria and I’m trans.
@@kellysouter4381because they have narcissistic personalities, they’re entitled and think they deserve that title, it makes them feel special and part of a group. I refuse to use those pronouns, I’ll just use your fucking name. You can’t demand people to use “preferred” pronouns, cause I have all the right to deny that delusion.
So we can’t divorce the word “men” from its past exclusionary meaning, but we’re going to use the slur “queer” now, in spite of many older LGB people finding the word offensive? Ok.
preach--literally thought that
I think to begin with LGBT people wanted to reclaim the word queer so that it wouldn't be a slur anymore but a word of empowerment in much the same way as black people reclaimed the 'N' word. I agree that it has gone way too far and has become a whole mess of inconsistancies.
Confusion is a feature, not a bug.
Yeah my sister who is bi hates this sudden embrace of the word queer
@@gothicgrandma4559 and just like N they claim it's empowering yet you can't use it otherwise it's a slur. Like what???
Your insight is invaluable. Thank you for your honesty and candor
"I'm not woke anymore and I'm not ugly anymore" 😂😂😂
when i thought i was nonbinary i was literally so mentally ill. i didnt want people to refer to me as she or he - hell sometimes not even they, i wanted them to call me it or xe?? i didnt want to be there mentally or physically i felt so detached from reality i didnt want to live and to be honest therapy and meds didnt help me at all, it made me feel even worse. just when i stoppped watching all this dumb woke stuff and took better care of myself like going to the gym and eating properly i started to feel better and like a woman again. i still struggle with depression and overthinking but im so much better now anyway. and i cant speak for everyone, but one thing we should all agree on is that yes - being 'nonbinary' is in fact a mental illness and one you can actually heal from.
forgot to add that at that time i was also starving myself and lost my period so it made me feel even more physically and mentally unavailable
If you don’t mind me asking, what made you feel non-binary? What led to you feeling a disconnect from your body and how you were identifying? Thanks for sharing your journey and I wish you the best.
@@friedman01 thank you! Well i guess it kinda started when i was eating close to nothing and just lay in bed all day, tho i don't really remember anything i did back there, but i remember it lead me to derealization and i used self harm as a coping mechanism to just feel anything + feeling tired all the time didn't help at all, and yeah at that time i discovered what non binary is and thought that it suits me, like what i felt like at the time so i just went with it I guess, sorry i wish i could tell you more, but i really don't remember much :( if i think of anything I'll let you know
@@friedman01 ah right the meds i was taking, they were supposed to help with anxiety and psychosis so i was really tired from them too and it just made me really bitter and unable to think/focus. And about the disconnect from my body it was also the how little i was eating and how much weight/fat i lost, like i remember being 34kg at my lowest weight so it was getting really dangerous + being on proana forums, because of that all i really thought about was my body (when i had the energy to think ofc, because that didn't happen too often and it made me almost fail my entire year at school) and how to have as little of it as possible which resulted in feeling even more discontented from it
I tried to grasp the concept of nonbinary for so long. Reading articles, watching videos on the topic. I even had favourite artists and composers who identified as nonbinary and had an influence on me. All of these people were either men with makeup and lipstick or classy women with short hair who just wanted to be themselves. All of them were emotionally unstable or mentally ill. The pattern is so obvious it cannot be ignored. So, instead of caring so much about labels, identities and pronouns, why won't we put more attention to our mental health and fighting gender stereotypes?
Dude, you look so much better as a guy! I feel like everyone is just constantly seeking attention now and there’s all this access to identify as whatever so it’s causing a lot of unnecessary confusion. My 4 year old told me a couple of times he wanted to be a girl; he also wanted to be a transformer, spiderman, a ghostbuster and sonic the hedgehog. If he feels this when he’s much older, I’ll address it then like a rational adult.
I definitely got ugly when I started being woke in like 2019. I'm trying to grow my hair out naturally now that I don't think I'm nonbinary and its difficult😭
I was woke until 2019 and I am now trying to grow out my hair too! May I give you some advice? Use nourishing shampoo and conditioner, don't dye your hair, avoid using straighteners and the like as much as you can, and try taking brewer's yeast pills, that way your hair will be stronger and more beautiful. :) Good luck!
Omg! Me too! My hair is currently upper lower back length (if that makes sense) and I got it that long through scalp massages, hair oiling (find a hair oil that won’t wear your hair down and massage it in at the roots and ends to avoid breakage and split ends), invest in a wet brush and brush your hair at the ends to the roots and make sure to brush it very gently to avoid split ends, don’t use heat (if you’re going to use heat, find a good quality heat protectant and don’t use heat daily), stop dying your hair with drug store brands, don’t bleach your hair, if you wish to have a different color hair, you can try henna- it’s so good for your hair, don’t wash it daily, make sure to leave your conditioner to set for 10 minutes, use a hair mask, don’t touch your hair unless you’re doing something to it, take a hair skin and nail supplement, don’t use drugstore hair products unless you read the labels (you’re gonna want natural products), make sure you clarify your hair no more than every few months.
You are so normal, down to earth, sober, I highly appreciate your videos, you appear to be totally non-hysterical - thank you ever so much!
Marcus you are such a great role model for young LGBT people. Slowly but surely you and the rest of the sane people will turn all this craziness around. I have great hope for the future. keep speaking the truth, I really enjoy all your content. Love from Australia.
Thank you so much Cari! It means a lot❤❤
@@marcusdib Thank you 🙏 What you do means a lot to so many people ❤
The T does not exist, unless Marcus managed to switch her female sex chromosomes/organs. Until that, she is a woman.
@@Draco19970125 hell nah. Trans women aren't the same as me, nor are they the same as women they can keep trans women as a title.
@@2crisp63 The word woman means adult human female. Trans means going beyond/across of something. But since "trans women" are biological males, why wouldn't we call them as men?
As a conservative, religious, GenX American, I really appreciate your videos. I've learned so much. You've given me a bit of hope that we can all live on this planet together. Keep up the very good work.
I love Gen X. I was born in 1983 and really feel bad I missed the cut off haha. Gen X peeps are my big brothers and sisters.
aaaw a conservative has found a favorite token aaaw
@@greynotchristian aaw an ideologist has found a place to play.
@@darkside_of_funghi7198 transphobia is an ideology, obtuse funghi :D
@@greynotchristian everything is transphobic today - most parts of this ideology is misogyn and homophobic.
I'm always shocked when I remember english is your second language. You could fool anyone into believing it was your first with how well spoken you are. You're a very impressive human
The part of 'no pronouns' got me with the 'shortened form of your name'. Ffs, non-binary people have 'discovered' nicknames. Jesus actual Christ.
Thanks for being a voice of sanity.
I swear one of my old friend told me that she was having "so much dysphoria due to this secretary calling me 'mam'!"
She was, and is still wearing skirts and dresses everyday, does her makeup, has long hair, wear heels, etc.
How can you say you experience dysphoria if you're clearly comfortable with looking like a feminine stereotype, and are getting mad at a minimum wage employee for not knowing how to use a neutral prounoun (that still isn't really a thing in my country, except in the left leaning spaces)?
Long story short, she isn't my friend anymore.
I have a similar situation where I’m trying to understand how a long-term friend who is a biological female and has had three children and is still married to a biological man all of a sudden says she doesn’t really feel like a woman. Maybe Im non-binary, she says. You can have children and not really be a woman, she says.I just don’t think this makes any sense.
02:55 “I’m Rachel, they/them” what bothers me with the “I use they/them” pronouns is that they are third-person pronouns. So Rachel isn’t using them, but ‘they’ are dictating how other people refer to ‘them’ (while also at the same time just looking like a regular woman).
People who don't understand how grammar works using improper grammar? I'm shocked! A very large portion of this debate comes from people who very clearly have a misunderstanding of how the English language works trying to lecture everyone else how it works.
They/them has been used in the past, like from as far back as the 1400's, as a singular non-gendered pronoun. We haven't used them that way in a serious long time so now when someone refers to themself as 'they', it just sounds crazy. Like they're admitting they have a multiple personality disorder or something.
@@dustinmartin2369 Unfortunately, you’ll find plenty of people (writers, editors, etc.) in the publishing industry promoting this nonsense. There are lots of wokesters in that space. They’re the real grammar Nazis. They make up, enforce, and change grammatical rules, usage, and vocabulary to fit their agenda. They think the singular “they” is perfectly OK. Sure, it’s generally become a lot more accepted in modern colloquial English, even among sane, nonwoke people, but I highly suspect that simply jumping on the woke virtue signaling bandwagon is the reason why those wokesters and wannabe wokesters accept and promote the use of the singular “they.” I don’t care what people call themselves. They’re free to do whatever they want. They can refer to themselves as baseball bats or German shepherds (the latter is a nice little furry pronoun!), but when they force others to adopt their preferences and quirks, it becomes extremely problematic and narcissistic. That’s precisely what’s been happening.
@@rahnesong Yep, just like the Legion in the Bible (in the books of Mark and Luke, specifically).
@@amandak.4246 If it’s normal tell me the equivalent in all the other gendered languages like German or Arabic. If it really is normal every culture would’ve developed a concept of it just like with homosexuality.
Lol…”I am not woke anymore, and I am not ugly anymore” that made me actually laugh out loud 🤗
I really like your channel. You’re respectful, balanced and overall just have really nuanced takes that are a breath of fresh air where it seems that everyone in the world has the exact same opinion/personality
I don't know who got it worse: Demi or Sam....A lesson about the effects of Woke Idelogy on mental & physical health
Demi has started to slowly backtrack, it's not too late for Sam either. Though I feel like he's more far gone
@@villapulla for Demi, I hope (remember, when she was with Alok, that's when she ended up with the NB trainwreck). For Sam however.....he's a lost cause
demi at least has the excuse of having actual brain damage.
Great video! I’m a trans person not a trans activist and I’m fortunate to be a frequent caller to talk radio to voice my displeasure with the trans activists
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I hate how voices like yours get shut out because a lot of people with their own agendas have taken over the trans community. Keep speaking! ✊🏾
@@denise_r thank you! I’m fortunate to be a regular caller on 50,000 watt radio stations
Go you! The TRA really fucked it up for you guys - and are doing it to everybody else, too. I always want to give a shout-out to transfolk that call this crap out for what it is.
Trans means going beyond/across of something. Now, how did you go "beyond" of the sex chromosomes/organs you were born with?
ok, but if a man walks around with an obvious bulge, the general public usually will have a problem with it
actually, out of everything with this ''woke'' stuff, having a visible bulge is not a problema at all. However, a trans woman having a bulge will definitely draw attetion to them.
Ooops, I commented the same thing before seeing this. There is something about outlining and poking out anyone's junk that bothers me too
@@nunyabusiness2945 i was just about to say it's like trying to normalize camel toe. no one wants to see that shit😂
@@nunyabusiness2945 Seriously! I'm a middle aged woman who used to weigh almost 400lbs, have had 2 kiddos, etc, I wouldn't package my business and put it in people's face.
Idk I see men walking around with a “bulge” all the time. I mean not showcased or anything but it is just there… on a completely unrelated topic I love your name and picture ❤
Regardless if trans or not I don't want to see anyone's anatomy
In public I feel really uncomfortable.
Exactly.
i identify as as 14th-century monarch and my pronouns are "your highnes" "my lord" and "your grace"
You’re so valid babe uwu uwu uwu
I honestly can’t thank you enough for this video. I’ve been called a ‘phobe and an ‘ist because I questioned certain gender labels and pronouns - not from any genuine trans people (I actually have some great trans friends) but from non-trans “warriors” within the LGBTXYZ+++(!) community of which I’m a part. It’s a relief to know that, away from all the insane TikTok posts, there are sane, intelligent people like you around.
I used to be super open minded about Lgbt stuff and then I started learning about these people. I would probably be considered conservative by voting standards. So I can say you educating is doing a good job. People like you, Blaire White, and Buck Angel are the only reasons I’m still able to be open minded about LGBT stuff at all.
I have been very open minded all my life about LGBT issues, to the point I would fight with my parents about it & now I find myself fighting with my daughter who says to me "I always thought you were so opened minded until recently'. And it's all because of all the insane woke people, and I can't convince her to watch either Marcus, Blaire or Buck who are some of the most centered trans people around.
There need to be healthy boundaries. That is what missing.
@@cariaus3758 well the thing is a lot of other creators seem very right wing which might be a turn off for her get her to watch the documentary that was produced in Sweden it’s 2 parts. Very information based.
I'm bi but was never in the "scene" and never defined myself by my sexuality. After a break up I thought I'd put myself out there as a bi person in the community but the more time I spent in the community the less I wanted to be a part of it. LGBT spaces are being taken over by very loud and defensive T, ESPECIALLY online. You join an online LGBT space its all very vocal T dominating the conversation and they are rabid when you push back against their ramblings and cultish behaviour
I totally agree. Trans people will never truly be able to become the other gender. I was a trans man for years myself before feeling I was genderfluid. I am no longer genderfluid either, but even while I was trans I knew I'd never stop being a biological woman and was very reluctant to get any hormones or surgery. I grew out of my dysphoria - it took about twelve or so years, but I got there. I love watching your videos. You speak the truth, and I pray you never stop. I subscribed to you a while ago, and I don't know how I haven't heard of you earlier!
Thank you for sharing. A lot of these people say no one changes their mind. Your a proof that you can change your mind about being trans
I am glad you found peace with yourself at long last 🙂
I don‘t want to be mean - that being „trans“ isn‘t a decision. So how can you be trans and later not??? It like being homose*ual - you are or you aren‘t!
Perhaps you didn‘t feel right in your body - but that can have several reasons….
Glad to hear that you seem to be fine with your body/sex/gender now. ☺️
The sheer hubris and self-important navel-gazing that these people demonstrate astounds me. They spend their days making videos "instructing" us on how to do all these mental/verbal gymnastics, smugly demanding that people bend over backwards to change the basic grammar of the English language, expecting us to contort our brains into all these ridiculous shapes simply because it will make them feel better. The entitlement is revolting.
"It's just a game"....THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT CAME ON MY MIND TOO
I am glad that when I was growing up, there was no internet, and I was not exposed to all this rubbish.
"I'm not woke anymore, and I'm not ugly anymore" Ha! Love that.
The pronouns are getting ridiculous!!! I would see myself as a female but some days I feel more masculine or feminine. But not as non-binary like it does not make sense to me because there are two genders. Yes, there is a small percentage of people that are intersex but that is different. I love watching your videos and your reacting to all the craziness that is happening in the world.
The problem with "gender" is that it is a system derived from sex and is being used to forcibly override sex. Masculine and feminine are derived from association with the male and female sex respectively. This also leaves the potential for something to be neuter as it has no strong association with either. These people have basically taken that system and inverted it to try to determine what sex a person actually is and replaced neuter with "non-binary." It's like a system of measurement that knows that a foot is 12 inches but has no idea what an inch is beyond 1/12 of a foot.
@A Passing Ship Yeah I understand what you are saying. I know some people bring that up as well.
Intersex is a real medical phenomenon, and non binary is a made up term for people who are simply gender non conforming, and they feel a strong desire to not associate with their sex.
I'm a tomboy, i like doing masculine things and dressing like a guy (Plus men got really cool badass shirts) but i'm still just a woman, not trans, supposedly, i break the gender stereotype, while those people enforce it (If you're a man that like feminine things, you're automatically trans by their logic) while those same people claiming to break it.
My boyfriend is.... well endowed.... so if I notice he's showing too much in more fitted pants or swimwear, im like "hey babe, let's not flash yo junk all over town" sometimes he just doesn't realize. So I think that should apply to anyone and all genitalia.
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When I was in middle school I played d&d. We used to make up the most fantastical back stories for all our characters. This is incredibly reminiscent of that. Like you said, children playing games.
I so love your honesty and your intelligence is very refreshing..
Yeh, your actually the first trans channel im going to & probably forever stand by as a semi-close minded cis female. I like the way you explain this :) if only more trans UA-camrs has a mindset like you it would be easier for people like me to become open minded & understand more instead of Shoving it down my throat & calling everyone a bigot. Thank you🥰
Check out Buck Angel, he also speaks great sense 🙂
We exist. We agree with what he and buck angel say..some of us don't use UA-cam to upload videos lol.
is this satire?
Check out Blair White. She speaks about trans issues as well! Great content!!
Check out Blair White, shes a transgender female who's conservative....she recently had Buck on her show also.
I mean I didn't think it was entirely appropriate for a man to walk around in public with an obvious bulge 😂
Btw you weren’t ugly before, you just looked uncomfortable in your body, but now you do look confident!
I agree he was pretty as a girl but I’m happy for him to be living how he feels. I love his content and honesty
I am sorry that she could not accept what she is. And now Marcus ended up with mutilating her own healthy body. This is not self acceptance.
@@Draco19970125 gender dysphoria is a severe mental illness. So is body dysmorphia. Many people in the world get plastic surgery… this is not that different tbh. Do I agree with it? Not necessarily, but what can you do? Marcus is an adult. It’s his choice. At least he’s speaking out on important issues and bringing to light the toxicity within the lgbt community.
@@Annatomova7 I agree, gender dysphoria/body dysmorphia is a beast of a mental problem. It can be very difficult.
Little difference that after plastic surgery, you do not say you are now the opposite sex, you do not create a new label for yourself.
Can we cut off limbs if we identofy as a disabled person? If no, why?
We are adults as you said yourself.
Should we reduce woman/manhood into a cheap costume, as Marcus does?
2:46 “i’m not woke anymore and im not ugly anymore”… FINALLY someone said it☠️☠️ that’s the underlying theme i notice among nonbinary, queer, outspoken woke folk lmfao
You and Blaire White keep me grounded when I start to become jaded with my views because of people like Dylan Mulvaney
Grounded? Blaire wears a female costume, Marcus wears a male one, both of them invade the opposite sex's bathtrooms and both of them want to be called as the oposite sex.
Some of these people...I just...🤦♀️😩 I'm so over it. Ugh. That Rachel person...I'm 😵💫🤯. Thank you for bringing all of this crap to light for people who don't get it. You are speaking THE TRUTH, not YOUR TRUTH. Clearly acceptance and respect only matter for people who agree with their agenda... anything different (like not a crazy liberal) and you don't get respect.
I am a 46 year old Conservative mother of 2 boys(15 & 24) and I'm happy that I've found your channel... along with Blair & Ariel's because otherwise I would've gone on believing everyone in LGBT community were like (for lack of a better term) these crazy woke leftists. Thankfully we live in a county in Ohio where we don't run into a lot of the problems conservative parents that live in California or Washington DC do, but because of people like you I now understand & have been able to explain to other people who might think the way I used to...as well as talk to my children. Especially with my youngest who's still in school & plans on going to college. I just wanted to thank u & lyk that you are making a difference.
sorry to your kids
4:58 I just about died when you shook your head and looked in the camera and said "No, no I don't understand." 🤣🤭😁😊
Omg so true!!! I really don’t judge people based on who they want to be who they want to love, etc. what I have a problem is is with character that’s where the problem is… and this is making people look awful… thank you so much for your open mind and really trying to make a difference ❤
Hell I’ve been to gay pride festivals. My first one was when I was 13. And back then there was nothing but kind loving people. I don’t remember there being a single person that wasn’t kind…. And now we see this and I’m like where did all the actual love go? For real…
You and Blair have opened my mind so much ❤ Keep making a difference because it is so important
Difference? Marcus and Blaire only wears a female/male costume and they invade the opposite sex's bathrooms too.
Finally, someone making sense about how language works.
Rock on buddy! I like your thinking on these issues & wish logical people like you were in the forefront of these issues rather than those that are currently ruining the debate. ✌️
Thank you for your work. Watching you has helped educate myself when dealing with my youngest child.
You are a breath of fresh air, a voice of reason, amidst all the insanity that is 'wokeness'. You accept reality as it is, because you accept yourself as you are. I love how you say that you know that you're a biological woman, but due to your dysphoria want to go through life as a man. That's it. That's all there is to it. You have your reasons to not go 'all the way' (have bottom surgery) and again, that's it. As you say, why do people overcomplicate things nowadays? So, thank you. I'm just getting sick and tired of all these horrible activists wanting to use MY safe spaces.
Nice to see the actual genuine community members who can have an intelligent debate and have so much to offer. The net needs more individuals of your caliber speaking up.
I have been watching your videos for a few weeks now and you are the sanest voice of reason! You have changed my mind and perspective on many things in the LGBTQ plus community and I want to thank you for the education. I love your low key humor...you can be savage!
Aww thank you!❤❤
@@marcusdibAbout the title of your video. "Trans man" - you are a woman. We do not need a new label for your sex. Why don't you call yourself as what you really are?
We went from people saying they don't want labels, to them making up labels.
”Maybe theyll be less close-minded” ur absolutely right. Im a younger trans boy so theres alot of ”transphobic” boys in my class. Somehow with not forcing just saying that my name is max they have been understanding me and calling me by my prefered name
Only get surgery when u 100 percent think u should... 90% of people grow out of that dysmorphia so give if time sam!
Oops I mean max
You are a girl. Boy means male child or adolescent, not a costume what any confused female like you can pick and wear.
2:46 I feel so bad that I said "OH MY GOD" to your before and after photo 😭
Like dude you looked so different.
Yeah you look a lot better now even though you kinda remind me of Harry Potter but in a good way
A line from Working Girl.
Sometimes, I dance around my apartment in my underwear... doesn't make me Madonna, never will.
I agree, I’ve noticed they thems have a very specific aesthetic. Rarely do I see a they them who doesn’t have that “look”. You all know the type I’m talking about.
I transitioned back in 2010. Did FFS, BA, SRS and laser hair removal. I did all of this to blend in, to be stealth and It worked. With all of those surgeries, I changed my outside to reflect how I felt on the inside. With that said, BIOLOGICALLY, I will ALWAYS be male. As far as I am concerned, these "new" transgender people embarrass the hell out of me. Now I did get a job AS Kelly, worked there for six years and came out to my coworkers during National Coming Out Day after three and half years of working there. Some didn't really believe it, others were like your political views are conservative so how can you be like LGBT. Others had suspicions when they saw me throwing a football a few times and making some crazy catches - thanks to playing football in high school as well as being on the track team and diving team. After I came out, I also wasn't so keen on speaking like a woman and just started using my regular voice. This lead to a couple of instances of being misgendered, usually at the grocery check out line with the cashier looking at what they were ringing up, calling me sir, and then looking at me and saying, "Sorry, I mean ma'am." Never ever had a problem with that, never went into some crazy rant like you see on TikTok. And I've even told them, no biggy, I'm trans, shit happens. Several times I have been asked, "What are your preferred pronouns?" My reply has also been, "My preferred pronoun is Hey You!" Whatever! And no, if someone from the LGBTYUIOL%#$&ghyds community comes up to me and says, "My preferred pronouns are ze, zem, zim, rer." Our conversation is over. If you can't figure out what or who you are, don't drag me into your delusions! To old and tired to get involved with that lunacy. And no, NO ONE needs to recognize the "bulge" as a thing, just tuck the damn thing in already!! That and before I had my SRS, I would go to the local gym and work out. I get there, hit the woman's locker room, jam my gym bag into a locker, grab my water bottle, iPod or phone, my towel and my workout log and do my shit. Sometimes, I would see someone I knew and we'd talk, maybe talk to a trainer if I had questions. When I was done, I head back to the woman's locker room, take my sweaty top off and my sports bra, dry up with my clean towel, spray some deodorant on my pits and put on a zippered top, pack my gym bag up and head home. At NO time did I drop my sweat bottoms and panties and walk around showing my twigs and berries! I didn't do that out of respect for the other women that were in the locker room! They didn't need that crap and I didn't want any of the hassle that that would have caused. I mean, it was just COMMON SENSE! Now the LGBT and the trans community have labeled me a Nazi and have told me that there is no WAY you are trans and a Republican - and remember, these are the SAME people that will get in front of a camera and tell the world how loving, accepting and tolerant that the LGBT community is... so long as you follow their twisted political and "woke" beliefs. That and it's pretty telling that most of the hate that I receive comes from looney liberal democrats and NOT from Republicans. With that said, I hope Ron DeSantis - governor of the great state of Florida, where woke goes to die - and Nikki Haley or Kristi Noem team up and run for President and Vice President in 2024. You can bet that they'll have my vote!!!
If you know that your sex did not change then you know that you did not transition into anything.
"How I feel inside" - reflect how you have problems accepting your sex?
You can't "feel like" the opposite sex.
When people calls you sir, they obviously do not misgender you as you are a biological male.
"Now I did get a job AS Kelly, worked there for six years and came out to my coworkers" you mean you lied to your coworkers
Stealth? How could you ever know? You don’t know what other people are thinking. Most of us are just polite or don’t want to embarrass you.
I used to consider myself a part of the community. I still believe I'm asexual and possibly aromantic too, but the community has disgusted me so much that I just don't want to be "asexual" anymore. Even though it's not really a choice - I just naturally don't find anyone immensely attractive (but I know an ugly person when I see one).
I don’t like to comment or put myself out there but, I think I’m asexual and idk how to deal with it, I know it’s weird to ask a random stranger but idk how to react, so is there a way to be sure???
@@psparkle9111I am lesbian so I don’t really know how it feels. I think if you feel like that and your over the age of 13-14 then maybe.. it’s a label, it can change if you do find a lover.
Why would you need a community if you are asexual? I'm gay and I don't particularly like gay guys, so I just hang out with people I like (regardless of sexuality). Problem solved.
I remember someone saying that simply saying asexuals aren't part of the LGBT community is discriminating against them
😂😂😂...but I know an ugly person when I see one!! 🤣🤣 Too funny after your self disclosure. Thanks.
Marcus is the clear bell in this storm of nonsensical static. I don't say that because I merely agree with him, but because he has shown me a common sense road through this tangle of emotion, ego, pain and posturing. He hasn't just aligned with me, but taught me as well, and done it in a humane way that doesn't sacrifice integrity. It's such a shame that people like this seem so rare these days.
The fact is that they try to change the reality in the heads of other people. Looking at you I simple wouldn't be able to address you as a lady or with she/her because my brain would break in this case as I clearly see a young man even after I knew you were a trans.
Those people just won't get that if you want other people to adress you a certain way, then you have to act, behave and look the certain way. Gender IS based on sex, that's the point.
Thank you a lot for the video!
You do an amazing job educating and showing people that not all trans people hold the same beliefs about certain things. You are a very good example 😊 thanks for speaking out!
No one is trans, unless they managed to switch between male/female chromosomes/organs.
Excellent examples of Wokeness with Sam Smith and Demi. Strange how when you are non-binary like part of that costume is trying to be as fugly as possible. When you’re true trans you look handsome/beautiful.
8:14 people like you, buck angel and blaire white are the only reason i dont think all trans people are crazy. Before you 3, I was skeptical of the whole thing bc of what i saw from other trans people. Now I know better but beforehand, I had only seen the insane ones. So thanks for being a voice of reason in this hellscape lol
They are not crazy? They mutulated and sterilized their healthy bodies just to appear as the opposite sex. This is not the sign of right mind.
Sam smith glow down is insane💀💀
I cant with the song
Your first 2 minutes are already to on point and well spoken! Your channel deserves so much more attention!
Great video!! Always a pleasure watching you
It was posted 2 mins ago and you're like "great video"
@@clownlung I'm trolling. When I commented it was posted 6s earlier
@@yooncrown so you said it was great without watching and then called it trolling, alright bro whatever
@@clownlung 💀 understand sarcasm pls. i hadn't watched the video yet (but I DID like it, if that's what you're worried about)
you’re both insufferable
I actually looked up the origin of the words “man” “woman” because I always thought it was weird that something had to be added to the male word to be female. I found out that the original word for males was “wereman” and the female was “woman” and the word “man” was for both. That’s were “human” comes from too.
It was when they shortened “wereman” to “man” that the imbalance in the language started, and it is a big thing because it makes people think of male as default, when everywhere in nature it’s female because you don’t need many males to keep the species going but you must have lots of females. Funny how humans are the only animals that act like that doesn’t apply 😂
"Human" actually comes from the Latin "homo", but yeah the same thing happened in latin languages anyway: in Latin, "vir" used to mean "man", "femina" meant "woman" and "homo" meant "humans", but then "vir" kind of fell out of use and "homo" was used instead. That's where the French "homme" and Spanish "hombre", both meaning "man", come from.
You've done it again Marcus, thank you🥰🤗
NO ONE tells ME who/how I am or what I can or can NOT say, what I can wear, watch etc. Who the F do these people think they ARE?! I feel sorry for anyone who looks to them for "guidance", It would be too funny if there wasn't so many young people taking them seriously 🙄
Im a young trans boy and i strongly agree with marcus
At the start of this video, I felt so much pride for the woman who wants to feel proud in her body, and it made me feel sad that it can’t just stop there. Indeed, please feel pride and love for your trans body! Just don’t start telling me as a woman that we should normally a bulge in a woman’s body. No! That’s your body as a trans-woman, not mine as a woman. And the distinction isn’t a bad thing! Trans acceptance would be probably almost entirely across the board right now if everyone just stayed in their lane.
1:53 the music combined with Sam Smith is just gold 😭😭
I'm conservative and was never for the transgender thing honestly, but him and Blaire white have shown me, some people really do feel this way and do this to feel better and... They aren't insane and pushing it onto children. You sir, have changed my perspective. I am still hesitant honestly, but... I appreciate what you do and who you are.
Him? Marcus is a woman. She/her.
Blaire is a man. He/him. Simple.
"I think she has a lot of time on her hands." YEP!!!!! Nailed it. All of them. I agree with your assessment of this all being childish too.
3:08 what would “gender affirming surgery” be for a non-binary person? I truly cannot keep up
7:24 ‘There’s a chance, tho if we behave right’ absolute legend.
You’re awesome! Thank you for this video! I think the world has gone insane and your message is badly needed!
You were never ugly, you just had to wait for you to see yourself be yourself. Thanks for the vid.
So, if sou drug your body with cross sex hormones/cut off healthy breasts...you see yourself as you are?
Mad respect for everything you said.
You are so convincing as a guy, that I can't even fathom you as a woman. Incredible
She wears a believable male costume. But she is still a biological female.
5:09 It is like children playing a game..its like children living in a make believe world and wanting everyone to go along with them or else..
I think you are the shining light on this issue.
Your last statement was spot on. Just act right and everyone will respect you.
These tiktockers have lost the plot. You can't "use no pronouns" - pronouns are used by OTHER people based on their PERCEPTION of you. You have NO control over the perception of others. And NO, no one has to ask you for your pronouns. If someone is mugging you, and you're a transgender woman - if you look like a man to someone across the street, they will call the cops and tell them a man's being mugged across the street. You literally have NO control over that, nor can you audit what the general public refers to you. Your friends may refer to you that way out of mutual respect, but there's no expectation of one individual governing someone else's perception - you have NO control over this. If that hurts you, then it's not the fault of the general public, it's seeking therapy to not expect your emotional well being to be decided by external influences that have no bearing on your life.
Sadly these people clearly don't understand how language works which is inherent in their statement "I use * pronouns" or "my pronouns are" Forcing others to reference you by a specific pronoun is not YOU using that pronoun and you don't have a pronoun to reference you as that is technically just a reference to a word that describes you. It's obvious most of these folks have never spoken a truly gendered language and don't realize that English's reference to sex through grammatical gender isn't the norm.
I was slightly wary of trans, the same way older people were wary of Muslims after 9/11, but honestly, after watching yall and blaire white, my mind was opened, so thank you for being respectful to individuals who share your same ideals, but are slightly averse to a different life style
No one is trans, unless they managed to switch between male/female chromosomes/organs.
I once dated a trans man. He didn't choose to get surgery because of his health and the risks involved. BUT Bal(nickname) didn't get offended if a stranger referred to him as her. He was pretty chill and his identity didn't evolve around gender or pronouns.
You Are making a difference. Keep it up! Your honesty, and not hateful ranting full of condensation, is what will get through to people. Thank you.
Im really struggling in society these days.. I am accepting to anyone who is respectful but lately you have to respect and accept anyone who yells they deserve it even when they don’t because they treat others like sh*t