Trans Man Reacts To "Anti-TERF" Tik Toks
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Them: clothes, toys and hobbies don't have a gender!!!!!Let kids like what they want!!
Also them: see!!! If your kid likes toys, clothes and hobbies different from their gender then it's proof that they're trans!!!!
How does this logic work??
You've found the essential flaw in it: There is no logic. 😁😁
The third one is sooo sexist and he doesn't even realise it. Misogyny at its best.
I believe that the reason they are so opposed to genuine discourse is that all they have is subjective opinions. for them to have a genuine discourse, they would need facts. Unfortunately, you are called a “tErF” if you point out objective facts like biology. They like to swing around a buzz words without actually checking what the words mean I have noticed.
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I wish I could like this more than once. ❤
Here's my story. I'm a guy and when I was younger I would play with Barbies and those baby dolls. I would wear my aunts heels and untuck my T-shirt from my pants and spin and dance like I was a Disney princess. A little later I would pretend I was Samus Aran. My brother used to watch Bratz babies. He and I grew out of those things, we did them as children because it was fun, it had nothing to do with gender, we were dumb kids having dumb fun. Don't understand how people these days don't get that.
My little cousin was this way as well. He would wear my aunts high heels, dress up in her clothes and play with my dolls. Him and his brother also loved the "girly" songs I liked and would dance to them while singing their heart out. They eventually grew out of that phase when they entered 8th grade.
yup your gender doesnt dictate with what you are playing... thats like saying woman wo play video games are just guys in a woman body... how dumb is that...
Same. I was in love with She-ra when I was 4.. and wanted to also be/dress as her. I had a dress up box, and would often put on a dress and cowboy boots and climb on the roof of my mom's Volvo and conduct surveillance from the high ground 🤣 fyi I'm a cis male who's straight af
Kids just play, we don't think about all gender deep thoughts and ideologies. Just play with what we think it's fun. Now if I was born in the US and had been my young self, I would probably had been drugged with T and made into an actual boy xD
Oh, same here. I hated everything pink, skirts, sparkles and so on. All my daycare friends were boys. My pretend play fantasy was being a prince. I also vividly remember regretting I was born a girl. As soon as I hit puberty all this went away. If I grew up around people like in this vid, I’d be majorly screwed. But it’s all anecdotes, am I right?
I'm so sick of JKR getting this unnecessary hate. It's especially annoying from people who were/are big fans of HP. The worst offenders are the idiots she made millions for, whom then became household names that decided to disavow her. They haven't had a good role since HP so the fact they're so ugly to her now is disgusting.
Absolutely
Cry about it
eww a racist sympathizer
@@carpsandcarnage7284 JK Rowling is incredible. TERF = race traitor. People are allowed to disagree with the pseudoscientific gender ideology cult. Cry about it.
The best part is, that they still can't detach themselves from HP. They read it without JKR's name on the cover, they overanalyze it on Twitter how it's okay to be a HP fan in 'secret'. Lmao. As a fellow adult HP fan I just can't take them seriously. If you want to boycott someone, at least do it properly. Being THIS emotionally attached to a fantasy world as an adult, while wishing the author to die is another level of a person without life. Please go outside sometimes.
2:10 Wait, I'm confused. A couple of years ago, these same people said "boys can wear dresses and it doesn't make them less masculine nor does it mean they're a girl" and "girls can play with toy cars and it doesn't make them less feminine nor does it mean they're a boy". And if people said otherwise, they said it was intolerance, bigotry and whatnots. How can they not realize that every single point in their whole narrative is contradicted by none other than themselves?
Someone replied to me, but youtube deleted the reply and I can't see it. Why is UA-cam always doing this lately?
@@Vi.luc5 I replied to you. Not sure why you can't see my comment. Essentially, I said that feminism taught us that girls can do anything and that humans don't have to fit into stereotypically gendered boxes. Nowadays, people are moving away from those messages and, instead, arguing that if a child plays with certain toys or likes clothes of the opposite gender that they must be trans. It's regressive and unhelpful.
Yes. And that approach was absolutely spot on. One has to wonder what the end game is for those who took a clearly winning formula and purposefully backtracked it.
@@ladycaticorn2950 And what a great message it was - I'm thankful I was brought up with those ideas (and still hold them) but I often wonder where those ideas went and why it's been turned on its head. You're right, it's incredibly regressive; society is heading on a backwards path, which both saddens and worries me.
@@Redrosewitch If I'm being charitable, then I think a lot of people feel guilt and shame for being opposed to same-sex marriage. As a result, they're going overboard with support for trans people and trans issues because they don't want to be on the wrong side of history. If I put on a tinfoil hat, I sometimes wonder if this obsession with medically transitioning children is a part of a larger eugenic sterilization conspiracy. And if I adopt a more moderate perspective, then I think that gender ideology is the new hot trend, and people are jumping on board because it's cool and sexy and revolutionary to do so. In the modern western world, most of us are not truly oppressed or face extreme, unrelenting hardships; therefore, we invent fake problems and latch on to meaningless causes in order to make our lives feel more meaningful or interesting. This is all speculation, but I am also curious why people are acting this way and accepting regressive beliefs about gender and sex.
It's just misogyny with extra steps
I don't use the word 'misogyny' lightly. Because I'm inclined to think it's over used, and for things that have nothing to do with hating us as women.
But this is one occasion where I think it's exactly the right word.
More like jealousy towards biological women, because they will never be one.
Seems so. Is there a male equivalent?
@@danaso2567 do you mean misandry or did I misunderstand your question
I identify as a feminist. Number one, feminism absolutely does not include hating or demoralizing men, nor does it include putting women on a pedestal. I only feel trans women should be excluded from women’s sports, and if she possesses a penis, have the obvious decency and maturity to be discrete in places like women’s bathrooms and locker rooms. Good grief, in my town, even biological women don’t parade around naked amongst each other. If a trans woman does that, “she’s” obviously trying to force some petty weird agenda cuz “she’s” a narcissist who cares nothing about women or the meaning behind the real LGBTQ inclusion movement.
Gay dude here. Deffo played with dresses and dolls as a kid. Today's gender climate woulda fucked me hard. Glad my Mom said it was cool to do those things, but that I was still a dude. Now Im a masculine-leaning gay dude who is very content with his gender and sexuality.
Same here!!
You're very fortunate , sadly today people like to put a label on everything.
Same here! ☝️
Same here. Lesbian who has always been gender non conforming. I would have likely transitioned as a teen if I grew up now. And I would have definitely regretted it. I had 2 biological kids and breast fed them both. I would have regretted not doing that.
Same
I was a tomboy as a kid. I'm a tom boy as an adult.
I'm still a woman because as confusing as my dress sense, humour and interests might seem to other people, that doesn't dictate my gender. Sure, I wouldn't go to work in a suit but nor would I go in a pencil skirt and heels. Still a woman 🤷♀yet WAY more feminine females than me think they're non-binary because they got a mullet 😂
This!!! This is me!
Then they think they're trans when they dye the mullet blue.
"Yet WAY more feminine females than me think they're non-binary because they got a mullet."
THIS. So much this. It's infuriating as much as it is ridiculous af.
@@DragonsOfSnow right? The internalised misogyny is so obvious to everyone except them. Either that or unresolved trauma but in places like Canada they're weaved into legal protection 🤦♀️ so glad the UK have common sense on this... for now.
And me!
I have memories of wanting to be a boy since the age of 2. I had dysphoria, and was VERY vocal about it. When I got older I came out as bi, and thought nonbinary for a couple years because of the push of "not feeling like a man /woman means you're nonbinary". After 25 I realized the feelings of wanting to be a boy/nonbinary were because of female stereotypes. I wanted to be strong, independent, and the hero. I didn't want to be the one who always needed to be saved. I don't need to follow stereotypes, and can still be a woman. The whole "I just feel like a human /person, so I must be nonbinary" being pushed on (younger) people is so cringey. It insinuates that men and women don't feel like humans/people, and can easily be confusing to young kids/vulnerable adults. I wish people would be more vocal about both sides of dysphoria. That in many cases it's normal, and that most of us grow out of it. Or it becomes manageable without needing meds/surgery. And if it doesn't go away after puberty, then transitioning might be the way to go.
Wow this is really good!! As someone who both wanted to be a princess and the hero I never thought about how conflicting that would be if I had to choose, or felt that I had to be something I didn’t want… I never grew up feeling like there wasn’t anything as a girl I couldn’t do, but I know that others grew up feeling like they had limits bc of their gender… I forget that not everyone either had the freedom or internalized their freedom like I did… psychologically wanting to be able to save yourself is human self preservation and not something we should be genderizing or stereotyping
You give a little hope. My little sister identifies as non binary. But only virtually, we speak in spanish and she still uses feminine adjectives and pronouns instead of "lenguaje inclusivo". She didnt come out yet, I found that she change her pronouns in Instagram and when I tried to talk to her about it she block me. Honestly, right know I'm going to give her space so she can discover herself, maybe one day she Will be like You and realise that the non binary thing it's just based in stereotypes, and its actually called "having a personality"
@@milagroslorenzo2138 relax one person realizing they're not non-,binary doesn't invalidate your sisters experience.
The language you're using is a little condescending which might be why your sister blocked you. You can have the exact same thought process but communicate it more respectfully
@@milagroslorenzo2138 non-binary isn’t based in stereotypes what… it’s a REAL thing. this is probably why your SIBLING blocked you.
@@milagroslorenzo2138 I feel you... My lil bro is transmen and it's the same. It hurts to not be able to talk to him without him being super offended...
Another very girly woman here who was an extreme tomboy until I was like 16; wore only my older brother's old clothes, was obsessed with TMNT and Transformers, etc. Thank God my parents let me enjoy being a child without mutilating me.
Same! I was obsessed with Thomas the train (showing my age here) lol. My parents bought me more boy toys than girls since they could only afford one. Never did they consider I'm a boy lmao
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What you’re saying is you’re the perfect girlfriend. Cowabunga, Dude! 🙌🏻
Same here. I grew up with a lot of boys and most of my girl friends who are now straight and unmistakably female adults were like that as well. We were just kids.
Although unlike them I grew up to be a lesbian haha. I must admit though, I noticed that do allow myself more freedom than they do looks and style wise. I guess not having a man expect things a certain way from me or imposed gender roles to limit me is a big reason why. I can be asked to be among the select few on either side of the bride or groom at a friends' wedding and I would be fitting right in either way (okay, if I had to choose I'd prefer the bride's side, unless she has crazy tastes and unflattering colors choices lol).
That's what being actually free from gender expectations is like, contrary to what the blue haired numbnuts preach. I'll do what I want and like, not what groupthink decides, tyvm. Idk how or when exactly it's become a controversial thing, but yes, I'm still a woman regardless or literally anything I wear, think, do, like or any personality trait I have. That's called being a human. Not having a gender. And I'm very happy about being a woman, personally.
@@nunyabusiness2945 Haha let's go rock tuxedos together then! Yeah looks are just... looks. Wtf.
You don't see people petitioning governments to have people identified as snakes because they got scales tattooed and got their tongues split. I mean, yet. Who knows these days 🙄
I don't care about how one wants to present, more power to them if they're aligned with how they feel. But don't gaslight and command the entire world because you're too much of a coward to be gender non conforming.
I've seen men wearing kilts be more manly and intimidating without even moving a finger or opening their mouths than any thug or "alpha bro" will ever be in their entire lives. Try and tell them they're "giiiirls UwU" and see how it goes lol.
Peace and love to you too ✌️
It's the self identification with no questions asked that most woman have the issue with.
Exactly! I'm not transphobic, and I refuse to take seriously anyone who says I am. I'm simply a woman who believes than womanhood and manhood should remain as objective categories. If a male is going to live officially as a woman or a female as a man, then there needs to be an objective reason for it.
For the longest time, that reason has been a medical diagnosis of gender dysphoria, and only the genuine (and usually proud to be such) TERFs have had a serious problem with it. Because it mean that the minority of male trans woman in women's spaces was positively microscopic. So most women barely noticed their presence. And I'd be more than happy to continue in that vein.
If people call me transphobic for that. Well, my conscience is clear.
I've been saying since day 1 that self ID is one of the most dangerous things to ever be invented.
@@trixiedeluxe Agreed. 👍👍👍 Because, if any man can just say he's a woman, without any solid reason, and everyone has to then treat him as one. What is there to stop predatory men from pretending, so that they will get into women's spaces?
And how do we tell the difference between those who really do 'feel' like women and the dangerous predators?
It’s also the presumption that we should be ok with it. Women always have to pay to make it ok for everyone else
Literally inviting in pedos, perverts and just plain trouble makers who want to distress and harass females. Yes, I also have a big issue with that. But how are they to be kept out of women's spaces? I do also have a problem with biological men competing in women's sports. It's not fair and it is simply indecent and wrong to have them in women's locker rooms.
Tomboys who grew up to be feminine give me a show of hands 👍🏻
Meeeeeee
Their constant need to label every. little. freakin. thing and person is so exhausting. I never heard so many dam labels and names to classify people. Sheesh.
I agree. It is really sad to me because as a kid, we were fighting to remove all the labels that divide. 😞
I don’t understand why everything needs to be labeled. I thought we were trying to BREAK labels as a society.
It's a combination of youth language, an attempt to seem more academic and a form of tribalism - by making up a new language that only people ''in the know'' know. They are trying to sound academic, not realising that academics, back in the day, actually researched and conferred with others, read their research etc before coining new terms. They didn't just make crap up in their bedroom and put it on TikTok, in an attempt to become the world expert on the thing they just invented.
I am an ex Nonbinary and used to identify as transmasc. i am now an adult woman and so glad my They didnt cut my breasts off… i even had a binder because i hated my body and my breast and wanted ppl to call me he/him…
What was your wake up call to leave behind the cult?
Why do females seem so more vulnerable to this stuff? Every teenage girl I see on social media is non-binary or a he/they
How was your peak trans? I'm glad you feel better now
exact same here, i even had 5k saved for top surgery !!!! i realized it was all wrong when my male friend came out as trans and kept going on about his girl brain and heart and how terfs deserve to get punched. hes literally just a normal suburban white boy with daddy issues.. someone else mirroring my behavior made me realize how dumb i was being.
It's very sad how easy the screening process is to get medication and surgery for being transgender. They don't dig more into your experiences and problems at all and try to figure out if you may be misreading your symptoms. So many people are being misdiagnosed. Also, I'm curious. How old were you when you found out you weren't non binary?
Why do they always zoom in on their own faces when they think they have a good point? (Especially creepy when they go all bug eyed.)
My sister grew up liking and still likes “typically masculine” sports or toys. Every day I’m thankful she has a personality and a few interests that kept her from questioning herself too much. She’s living a happy life as a girl liking motorcycling, car games and bodybuilding.
Why do they all look and act like Fifth Element extras?
And sound like the Wicked Witch of the West in the original Wizard of Oz...
I would consider myself a radfem but I ADORE you Marcus (as well as Blaire, Buck, Shape Shifter, and many more) because ya'll MAKE SENSE
Please recommend me more youtubers like marcus and blaire!! I also consider myself a radfem and I love to heart trans people talk about gender critical stuff. Very interesting.
@@_auridiaz I highly recommend watching a lot of Buck's videos and interviews as he brings in so many wonderful and sane transsexuals as well as gives a voice to those who went through detransitioning. Most of the people I follow are actually from his interviews!
@@CountesssBathory Thank you!
Exactly
Rofl, All of 1 person, omg I hate to break it to that guy, but before the internet back in the 80s going outside, riding bikes, skating, kickball, tag, swimming was actually a thing. I remember I build a bike I used to jump ramps, or raking bike trails using the leaves in the yard. And I'm a 100 percent all female
Do you want to know what you are?
Oh well then.
You are Marcus.
The voice of reason in todays ocean of madness.
Never give up bud.
So true
I'm a straight middle age female and as as child I hated anything considered "girly". my boyfriend as a child liked "girly" things. we had a conversation the other day that if we were children now, what could have happened to us. possibly made to transition by a crazy pediatrician or parent. still now I tend to not be all that feminine and he is not overly masculine. and that's totally fine!
A phobia is an irrational fear by definition. I am neither irrational nor afraid.
The thing you said about predatory men dressing as women to prey on other women is true. It happened to me. I am a live-and-let-live type of person. I met a person who was mtf through a friend and we would hang out sometimes. I didn't know that guys did this but I found out the hard way because he would try really hard to get into sexual situations with me to the point where I felt very scared and didn't know what to do. The last straw was when he went batshit bananas and tried to get me to let him move in with me. I said no so he tried to live in my parking lot in his car at my apartment 4 plex without asking. I confronted him and told him to get his crap out of the yard and that I've called the police but then my neighbor came out with a freakin pistol and ran him away. Never saw him again. It was very frightening.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I work with young women and many of these women are bi and lesbian. I couldn’t believe the stories I was told about how they are being pressured into sexual situations with MtF trans. I will not stop advocating for sex-segregated spaces because of it. It rankles me to no end how these males are using social justice as a guise to try and get access to women. It’s the most toxically masculine thing I’ve ever heard.
@@Blakmagic88 The experience made me desire very, very masculine men after that. Before that incident, I preferred men who were sensitive and girlish in appearance. I was all for everything trans activists wanted without question.
Now, I question everything, no matter who says what, because predators find a way into every community, not just the trans community. And because predators exist, we have to protect places like women's shelters where domestic violence is a factor. It's not at all because of trans people, it's the predators pretending to be trans, I agree. I think a rapist will put on any hat they can in order to claim a victim. These sick people hurt the trans community the most.
Thank you for your comment. :)
Since when is a tomboy some kind of unicorn? It’s not so unusual for girls, especially for those who grew up with brothers (like myself)
I get called a Terf all the time!! But I’m not. Adults are free to alter their bodies in whatever way they want to. Kids, on the other hand, should not be affirmed by their parents or society. The brain doesn’t fully develop until around age 25. I was a tomboy who felt awful during puberty. Had I been encouraged something was wrong with me and I was really a boy trapped in a girls body back then, I wouldn’t have had children. That’s huge!!! Becoming a mother is the best thing I’ve ever done in my life! This is being ripped from our girls right now. I won’t even get into all of the male predators that use being trans to invade womens spaces and sports. I’m worried for these young kids that don’t understand they will grow and change many times in their lives and will have regret over many things, one of them being sterilization is irreversible. Even Blaire White has regret, even though she is happy with her choice to transition. A few years ago she tried to harvest her sperm with the hopes of having a biological child of her own, only for it to fail. She had to be off hormones for at least a few months, I think, which can be torturous and she couldn’t get any viable swimmers. Informed consent, therapy and taking one’s time is needed when making such a huge decision. Thank you for being rational
Exactly! Wait. Are you "Emmy" from the video?
I don't relate to wanting kids as pregnancy and children make me feel extremely dysphoric and I don't think I'll ever have them, however I'm a tomboy that has dysphoria and I just want both sides to leave me alone. No I'm not trans, no I won't "grow out of it" I just want to be accepted for who I am.
My story is similar in someways and I agree with the sentiment almost entirely
Hey Marcus, on TIF and TIM... it's a way to designate males and females who are trans identifying, and shorter (for Twitter character limits) than spelling it out.
There are people who object to using the terms "trans man" and "trans woman" bc, I think, they object to using "man" to refer to a female and "woman" to refer to a male. In essence I think it's an objection also to the argument that trans is a type of woman (or man) in the sense of an adult human female (or male). i.e. saying "trans woman" feels like an agreement that a male is a kind of woman, like tall or short, or English, or young, etc.
That is a common line of "reasoning" in the "trans women are women" ... and using TiF or TiM is a disagreement to that fallacy.
Me personally... I would refer to someone I know, or someone i respect, as a trans man or trans woman. But, when I see male typical aggression in a TW, I also go with TIM instead.
Everyone has their own feelings i guess.
@@daroom9854 The whole point is that you really don't know how things will be in your future so don't be quick to assume things won't change.
If a 10 yo can't get married or have a baby, that same 10 yo shouldn't be able to transition, end of discussion
The calm, respectful nature Marcus has contrasted with these hyper, loud, cringe TikTokers is sooo jarring 😂
The fact that men don’t care who gets in the bathroom and women do says alot about what kind of experiences they have had collectively and the fact we just ignore them over trans rights is wow
Underrated comment.
Especially since there are more cis women than trans women, that’s just a fact. It’s unfortunate that some trans women might have to feel uncomfortable or dysphoric for a few minutes while they go to the bathroom, but that’s probably preferable to the dozens of cis women who will be in there and will feel uncomfortable.
@@cz1754 I guess it does depend on how transitioned the transgender woman is. If a transwoman generally looks like a woman and has had surgeries to look like a woman and is attempting to look like a woman then she shouldn't go to the men's room because she will probably get kicked out. The problem I have is when there are men acting as if they are transgender women who put no effort in appearing like a woman and they straight up look like a man, those people aren't trans to me though because they seem to not actually have dysphoria.
Men don't feel physically threatened by trans men the way women do with someone taller, stronger and heavier who is a trans woman. They can't understand that fear of being overpowered, or how so many of us have experienced threats and violence and feel triggered and unsafe by biological men in our spaces. I hear so many men say 'not me' and just not getting us saying ''but we don't know which ones by looking at you."
You give a rational and intelligent image of trans people, contrary to these activists who live in a narcissistic and deleterious delirium! Excellent video!
The second tiktok took me out… what the actual hell was that monstrosity
I had baby dolls as a kid. I also threw a tantrum at my mother because I wanted her to buy pink sandals for me in kindergarten 😂 I loved glossy pictures that you would glue on to paper.
Today I'm a happy masculine man. Actually so straight passing so many new people don't know I'm bi and with a guy 😂 I love to hang out with the guys and watch football.
TL;DR: Let kids be kids.
I was a tomboy! I played with frogs, went fishing and also played with barbies! I was a kid being a kid!
When I was 14 I got a very deep depression, I was also bullied in school. I noticed that besides boys I also liked girls and being in the golden era of tumblr where I would see all the gender posts that hinted it was cool to be different etc etc I fell into thinking that changing from a girl to a boy would make everything better. News flash of course it didn't. Changing yourself isn't going to solve your problems. I even went to a therapist and thank god they didn't let me take testosteron or have any surgery. Right now, years later I'm a femine woman that just learned to love her own body. Also dressing like a boy or liking "manly" stuff doesn't automaticly make you a man, people can just enjoy stuff without labels. We have to protect minors from that stuff, because they don't know who they are yet, they are figuring it out and they can make the biggest mistake of their lifes.
As a lesbian who had the word "queer" yelled at me daily as a teenager, who had my school bag yanked off my back whilst others held my down and someone wrote "Queer" across my bag in sharpie, and was often beat up, spat on then had "queer" shouted at me, I can say with 100% certainty that I will always say lesbian, not queer.
It's usually just an excuse to be misogynistic
I was a Tom boy growing up till high school now im girly
I was such a tom boy as a kid. God only knows what would happen to me now a days. It's really scary what's happening to these kids.
Ty for this channel, it is so informative.
Yes, former tomboy here. Never lost my interest in 'boys' games' just expanded the games to include boys. 😉
It's crazy how this world has gotten.
I have tourettes and ADHD and I KNOW that if I was a gen Z baby, I would have been diagnosed with autism.
I was also a tomboy who REFUSED to wear dresses as a toddler. I also at times while playing with my brother wanted to be called Joshua or Matthew. I KNEW I was a girl I was just PRETENDING for fun!! Would I also be trans? And that's NOT transphobic, it's people who don't want CHILDREN permanently messing up their genitalia and lives!! I love my transsexual friends to death but they AGREE WITH ME!!!
As a biological woman who has been a tomboy in her teen years. I have no problem with those like you Marcus and will respect your pronoun of he and him, because you are not pushing or acting like either I do or else or threaten me in any way. I can and will give respect to those in your shoes that also respect me. I been called a terf, trans phobic etc when I say something about biological sex/gender. I'm none of those and if we lived in the same country I go for a coffee or lunch with you Marcus. As for those like in the video you can stay away from me, I will never feel safe around your type, you threaten,bully and think you can force me to accept your behavior to biological woman as " normal" you refuse to have a honest discussion . Sex/ gender do go hand in hand. You try to erase biological sex/ gender, ironically your language trys to tell me as a biological female aka woman I don't exist while at the same time you try to tell me you exist. Which makes no sense because you are biological either a male or female even those who are legit trans individuals such as Marcus who is trans sexual aka trans gender.
Bro sex and gender are not the same thing 💀
@@smdfromthatbackshawty9787 , are you serious biological sex female,gender is female aka woman and you are telling me it's not the same thing, it's literally two words that literally describe the same thing. My biological sex female,my biological gender is female aka a woman.
@@smdfromthatbackshawty9787you literally called a biological woman a guy 🤣 bro is for males not female. I'm not a bro in any way shape or form. I'm biologically a damn woman aka a female, a male no no I will never be a biological male aka man . You apparently failed biological science in school and it shows. The very basic biological science facts. My biologically being a female will never be able to be a male. I'm just fine with I am a biological female aka woman. Thanks, I don't need you to tell me a lie when I know the facts and truth.i have always been a biological female aka woman and always will be one. BTW me being a tomboy had nothing to do with a sexual orientation or sexuality. It was a personality type and I still have some of those same interest, yet I can wear a dress on occasion,just prefer to dress comfortable. Also sex/ gender have nothing to do with my clothes stereotype. Tomboy was about breaking stereotype of female, it had nothing to do with sexuality. Sexual orientation or even transition ( trans). FYI, yes I was a tomboy didn't like to wear dress etc because I liked to play in the mud and do what most people consider males only interest or only males can get dirty, females are suppose to sit pretty stereotype. Technically I am still tomboys on some things and I am ok with that. I know who I am and what I am.
It's was called transexual,the later on trans gender ( relabeled to trans gender from transexual),those who had or have a legit case of sex/ gender dysphoria which is actually a rare ( less than 1 % of world population). My problem is not with trans individuals like Marcus, Blair,buck Angel. My problem is with radical extreme leftist progressive democracts who claim a biological male can become a biological female or vice versa. I am well aware of MTF or ftm transition, its the ones who insist that a biological male who now transition to female in outer appearance to pass in society( hell nowadays they don't even have to pass or actual look they can have a beard, wear make up ,dress and tell biological woman they as a biological male is now a biological female and can do everything a biological female aka woman can. It's a lie and a damn insult, to legit trans and biological woman aka biological female. I'm sick of the bs lies, degrade ,devalue, dehumanize biological woman aka female,just to satisfy a fucking fetishes of way to many biological males who pretend they are biological female and it's the same thing and if I disagree label me every hate filled label silence my voice from trans phobic etc. The damn ego on these social media trans "activists" biological male is really starting to piss me off. When they are nothing except bully's,who put on a pretend performance and insist I bow down to them or else, explain how they know what mother hood, woman hood and being a female aka woman is like than actual biological woman aka biological female . It's basically drag queen on steroids with those type of " trans". I said what I said and no I will not shut up or take it back, because the facts and truth are still the facts and truth, regardless.
@@chellechelle826 people usually use the word gender meaning the social construct of gender roles. Like "women like lipstick", "men are the family providers" - gender roles. That being different from the biological sex. Those words may, in the past, have meant the same, but now they're different
I’m really tired of a bunch of young people who haven’t been an adult for more than a decade, have no children, no sense of boundaries or empathy transplaining everything we (“duh”) should know….Baby child..there’s SO much YOU don’t know, including biology and psychology. How social contagion and emotional neglect work. How small of a timeline this actually is. How science actually works. How ethics work.
How permanently hormones and surgery will change you and forever medicalize your life. THAT is not being mentioned on tik tok or even by “gender experts” who either don’t actually know the impact, or have been gagged and can no longer inform patients.
The hypocrisy is constant. CONSTANT
I appreciate your viewpoint, and I agree. I am in general tired of the videos featuring me being talked down to by self proclaimed experts. As a middle aged woman who has dedicated my life to learning, I do not wish to be talked to in such a disrespectful, ego driven, way. I wish to engage in intellectual discourse, and the videos I see on tic Tok are more reminiscent of a child having a temper tantrum, than they are of an adult making a good debate point.
You can say a word over and over and over again until it loses all meaning… terf was never a word in the first place and has always been devoid of useful meaning in the dialogue.
Whatever, thanks Marcus once again as always for the dose of grounded thinking.
I'm really sick of seeing men with full on beards, long acrylic nails, and a screeching condescending voice tell us all that we are transphobes for not holding 100% of the same opinions as them. Even if we are trans ourselves.
I was a serious tomboy in elementary and middle school. High school became more feminine and now I'm quite feminine, almost 40 years old. I actually really like it. People change so much throughout their lives. I'm glad the only permanent thing I ever did to my body was get tattoos. And you have to be at least 18 to get tattoos....
I just started watching your videos. They are great videos. I am a transwoman, and would describe myself as liberal mostly, but conservative when it comes to gender issues. I'm so glad to find you and Buck out there. I'm so glad you are putting content out there. :)
I have that story… I thought I was a boy because I had (still do have actually) interests that were deemed masculine. I just thank f#*k I was born then and not now. Thanks for speaking truth ❤️
Love your channel, good on you!♥️ I've known a few people with body dysphoria and it's terrible, they were truly trans. These guys aren't, I've met people like them dying for attention. I stopped going to pride after there was children around half naked drag queens. It used to more adult, or they had days for kids to watch plays. Stepping on women. Calling us names and being a jerk sounds like a phobia to me?! It's hurtful my community acts like this, these aren't my people. Cheers ✌️♥️🇨🇦 yes tons of children may play with whatever doesn't defy a gender. If they were a woman, they'd know that.
When I went to pride over 10 yrs ago it felt more family friendly I have a 7 yr old and would’ve liked to have taken him to pride but I would never because it’s not like it used to be it’s disgusting now and I wouldn’t feel comfortable which is sad because it’s a celebration for people who are part of the lgbt it shouldn’t be a fetish fest when i went it kinda reminded me of an art show lgbt people selling art and food and there were games and singing and people dressed up in rainbows or bi lesbian gay flag colors it was nothing like I’ve seen online I haven’t been to a pride in over 10 yrs but the things I’ve heard make it not a place I’d want to be
@@tarynriver I hear you. I seen activities like you've said. Some have days for family friendly.
I've been to a few prides on my day, I'll tell you none were G rated. Toronto pride used to have street kink displays.
In my experience ( since the 90s) it wasn't meant to be kid friendly. Certainly doesn't stop people from people bringing children for some reason lol. Kink has been part of the rainbow for a long time. It's Not for kids.
I've know people who did storytime. It's not tipping and ass hanging out. They're covered, they read regular kid books.
Cheers ❤️
Maybe weird thing to say, but your channel and comment section helped me let go my "trans" phase. I was unsure about my identity because I really suffered from low self-esteem, and hated my female body. Time healed me, now I feel better, but it's still hard for me to accept this, cuz I feel like I was lying.
Tomboys, rise!
I was very much a tomboy in the 70s when I was a little girl. My mom couldn't get me in a dress for anything. I ran out in the woods with the other kids (I grew up in the country) and could climb trees with the best of the boys. That being said, I never considered myself to be a boy, my bedroom was pink with a canopy bed and I was very artistic..I would draw and make little animals from clay, I did macrame and crocheted (which I still do today). Now I am a very feminine woman who lives in dresses and skirts. Kids don't know what gender is and they should be allowed to play with whatever toys they like with no judgement. My friend's granddaughter wanted to be a vampire cat..which would actually be pretty cool...but I'm sure you get the point. :)
I think it's good to talk about lgb sometimes, because LGBT implies that trans is the same as same sex attraction. LGBT is a term for a community and LGB is a movement for sexualities, which kinda makes sense because trans is not a sexuality.
I was a tomboy growing up, my mom is one of the biggest lgbt supporter without being one herself lol.
She NEVER said anything, she told me when I was adult she was sure I was going to be a butch lesbian or trans because I would literally dress like a little sporty boy.
Turns out I was just a big tomboy… now I am a very feminine woman today.
We need to let kid be kids and go through their own phases.
I can’t imagine my mom and teachers trying to convince me I was a boy because I wore baggy boy clothes and loved sports. Idk how that would’ve affected me as a child because I was always a people pleaser, and I always listened to the adults in my life… can’t imagine them telling me I’m not a girl!
It looks more like sick comedy than actual protest.
But again tiktok is like a toilet.
Flush at sh1t comes
U are certainly not a terf...labels are for jars,not humans! Thanks for your content,always informative,intelligent and always very forward-thinking and honest
You’re the man bro. You always lay the law down.
I love you brother. You prove the point time and time again. The sad part is they will never listen to you because these people are sick and don’t have an open mind but yeah
People like that literally don’t even think of girls growing up rurally either. 90% of us were tomboys in some sense. I grew up ranching, working in men spaces, etc.. when I was 7 I cried for so long when my dad bought me a pink outfit during a work trip he took. I HATED pink and most “girl” things. I’d say i wanted to be a boy. My parents were amazing because instead of letting me grow to hate being a girl they taught me I could hate pink, and love boy things and have boy friends without BEING a boy.
Also i had so many grown women role models that showed how you could work in the dirt, be tough, love ranching and fishing and still be feminine. That’s how I grew up and now I’m one of those women myself to my own kids.
Thank you for talking out against these ideas that are just wrong! We do exist!
your parents did an amazing job, props to them
@@lovelymill thank you. They really did overall. We had our family issues like everyone else, but even after the divorce they tried their best to instill the best values and lessons they could.
I am Lesbian and I am part of LGBT not part of Lgbtqia2s.
As a girl I also had a Phase when I would have short hair, wearing baggy and boyish stuff and trying to be like a boy... a grew out of it
My wife was the same, coincidentally she's in all pink cosy clothing today, so it's fair to say she grew out of it. Although she can still outclimb me in any tree.
Same but somehow I never grew out of it and I was diagnosed with gender dysphoria
@@anna.luv3 so it is not the same ...
My sister's and I all grew up as tomboy. I still don't like girly things like the color pink, wearing dresses (unless they have pockets), painting my nails/getting them done, etc. I enjoy cars, riding motorcycles and doing "boy things" with my son. But guess what? I'm a straight, white woman! I am so glad I grew up in the 90's and not today because my sisters and I could have been fast tracked to medical transition.
I was a tomboy, and now I'm a happily married real woman and mother.
I'm a 40 year old woman, mother of 3 and now grandmother to 1. I had 3 older brothers and wanted so badly to be "one of the boys". I wasn't feminine in the least, I would have a meltdown when my mother tried putting me in a dress. While I'm still not very feminine in the way I dress or my hobbies, I'm very much a woman and comfortable in my body. It scares me to think that kids are being labeled trans for normal kid feelings. I most likely would have been labeled trans if I was born in the last decade and I most likely would never become a mother.
I still find queer extremely offensive and I hate it being used as an umbrella term!! it's a slur!! thank you for saying something about that
It's so weird that there is no term men, pushing back on this ideology 🙄
I know, weird right? It is almost like the actual terfs,(or hateful exclusionary), are the men who like dressing up female as a sexual fetish, and are being sexist against biological women. It is almost like there is this group who pretend to be ultra woke, yet they are promoting misdiagnosis of children, promoting harmful gender stereotypes, are being nastily competitive against cis women, are trying to promote lesbian women having no sexual choice of who they date, and are trying to erase lesbian women and gay men by making them more straight via transition. It is almost like there are multiple predators on tic Tok who are using this social trend as a way to get away with being a predator. It is almost like there are medical professionals wrongly pushing this narrative, and misdiagnosing children because it is a literal cash cow. 😊
My son breast-fed his baby dolls, and loved costumes as a kid. He's a very straight guy as an adult.
Toys are gender conforming? Cloths?
I flat out hated girly things as a child and still dislike a large amount of them. I do like a few girly things now. Still hate lace, frills, makeup and the colour pink. Only occasionally like skirts or dresses. Very much a straight woman and I do love baking child care and pretty art (both looking at it and making it). Sometimes I even like nail polish and my hate of makeup is now only because my skin is too sensitive to use it 🥲. I wear bright beautiful colors to make up for it.
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Im a cis woman who was/is also a tomboy and I know lots of women who feel this way... And it is terrifying to think where I would be now if this was 10 or 15 years ago. Im in my late 30s and I wish I was a man everytime I start my period ... My 11yo can't even pick a favorite color at his age, why would I ever let him make that kind of life changing decision.
Please don’t use the term “cis” as it plays into the vernacular that these angry people promote. Woman is sufficient.
@@yyclept cis was not made by trans people, cisgender is a medical term. It means you identify with your birth sex. There’s a clear difference between cis women and trans women
@Hairy Titties & The Moist Clitoria question. Why "cis" is Bad? It is an insult por something?
Cis is a term that was created and coined by a pedophile and "scientist "who wanted sex with children to become common place, considered "natural", and legalized.
Look it up and stop using such a disgusting term .
Wake up guys, new Kalvin Garrah just dropped!
I was a Boy Scout leader as a teenage girl in a co-Ed part of the BSA full of high-risk adventuring activities. I took NO shit, and I’d often outcompete my male classmates when doing certain sports, until they all grew their massive muscles and my biology had a hard time keeping up. I was a fencer, and a ruthless one at that, and someone who would go explore caves without hesitation with nothing but a map and lamp. The sky was the limit, but I still saw myself as a “kickass girl”.
I’m so glad I am not a teenager today. I was VERY tomboyish. But even today, I’ve had doctors ask me why I haven’t transitioned because my “mind is so masculine” based on my interest in science and math. It’s almost as if women can’t be intelligent and scientific without being turned into men. You have to be a bimbo to be a woman now?
Why.. would feminism, an exclusionary gender movement(fad), include... transgenderedism, an... inclusive gender movement(fad)
Because TRAS is nonsense and people to dumb to even question it.
I had a friend who was really feminine as a kid. It's not just the way he dresses but also they way he acts and talks. But guess what? Once puberty started hitting him like a truck he became this really tall masculine straight guy. Kids are just kids, we should never assume anything about them and just let them live their childhood peacefully.
I am a trans man as well and I am glad there are trans people out there who can be fully allowed to have their own views because I know so many who act like everybody in the LGBTQ community HAVE to think the same. I used to be a hardcore conservative as a trans person and I was told "I had to be a liberal as a trans person". Of course I didn't listen and changed to independent views on my own entirely as I've figured out I was trans on my OWN entirely to. Anything I've ever done was never influenced and I've found out for myself on my own entirely and that's how it should be. The thing is, I don't agree with some of the things J.K Rowling has said or have gone about it but the thing is, I don't think people should be afraid of biology but regardless we should still respect people and their pronouns. Give everyone the respect they deserve. I'm 50/50 with most things I do. I'm neither black nor white nor up nor down.
I hate the term "gender non-conforming" regarding toys. Toys are toys. Kids are going to play with what they want and adults should let them. Who cares.
Love your content sm (a radical feminist
I was a tomboy as a kid. A straight woman today. Love your common sense take on these issues 👏🏾 xx
I was a tomboy as a child and I'm so glad I was raised in a conservative, Christian household. My mom never tried to dissuade me, just encouraged me to be my best self. I'm now a mostly straight woman, married to a wonderful man!
mostly straight😆 love it💅💕
I just had to pause the video about 3:15 in to share this story that happened about 15-20 years ago. I was chatting with one of the moms in our home school group. She was taking a university course in psychology and studying for an upcoming exam. She was feeling frustrated because, to pass the exam, she had to give the "right" answers, rather than the true answers. Among the things being taught in the course was that children should never be allowed to play with toys meant for the opposite sex - girls should play with dolls and kitchen sets, etc, boy should play with trucks and do sports, and so on, UNLESS the child was gay. Then it was okay for the boy to play with dolls or the girl to play with trucks. She then told of friends of hers who were gay, but very unhappy about it. They had come to believe they were gay because, as children, they liked to do things, or play with toys, associated with the opposite gender. So they (and everyone around them) concluded they must be gay. All because of the things they liked at an age where sex and sexuality were completely foreign to them. She was convinced that most of these friends of hers weren't really gay. They had just been convinced they were, and this was the root of the pain they were feeling in their lives. But she shouldn't even suggest such a possibility in her classes, or she'd be failed.
Today, of course, these same friends of hers would have been told they were trans instead of gay.
I was confused about my sex as a child. My story was very innocent and confusing and I would love to share it. I am a straight woman but as a child I had confusing ideas…
I wanted to be a boy, because I thought that boys liked other boys… I didn’t know that boys liked girls, because none of them wanted to hang out with me (partly because I might have tried to kiss them) and they hung out with other boys so I thought that if I was a boy, the other boys would let me kiss them, because they wouldn’t be afraid of cooties.
It started when my mom would tell me that she was one day going to pass down her china to me, and showed me her china cabinet…
The first boy I liked told me he can’t hang out with me because I have a va#+%+% …
I got China, and Va%*%+ confused and told him that I didn’t have it, and that I wasn’t a girl because I don’t have a China. He wouldn’t buy it… dang.
From then I went through tomboy stages and would shave my head, change my name to Jazz and try dating a woman…nope. Not going to work. I’m just a girl who loves men so much, I want to know what they experience and am happy for them. There was a period of 5 years of me fantasizing myself with a penis and I still think about it sometimes, but that’s life… we think crazy sh%*%
That's really cute!!! 😻
I wanted to say that I appreciate your perspective. It made me think about how, ultimately, blanket statements and mass generalizations divide us. It's a better experience for all when we listen to each other with intent to understand, rather than expecting the worst and instantly hating someone based on assumptions and labels.
I cannot get over how rigid the trans movement's conception of what a women is. Also, the research around transgenderism is bonkers, or at least how it's reported on is. Anyone who is suggesting that something may be true isn't making a statement that should be concluded from a study. Unless there is a higher probability that your child is trans if they play with the toys of the opposite sex, which that tweet isn't saying, there is no reason to make a connection. It's pure propaganda, and that dude in the crown is to thick to get his own experience shows there is no connection.
Been called a terf for saying that men absolutely DO take advantage of the trans label to hurt women and children in every way possible because of the whole "if someone says they are trans they are trans and you have to believe them and let them do whatever they want."
I'm worried about bio women, children and TRANS WOMEN TOO! because this reflects BADLY ON TRANS WOMEN, and puts trans women in danger too! like this isn't just about bio women, creepy men are a danger to us all if we let them run rampant so if that makes me a terf then whatever. Like do they not understand that this is what the general public sees when they hear about trans people, that acceptance for the LGBT community has gone DOWN because of this shit? It puts the community in danger, specifically trans women in that context.
Proud Childhood Tomboy (from ages 5-17)... I never ever ever questioned if I was a girl...
But, I guarantee the teachers would have questioned me, today...
I have 2 daughters now...one of them on their way of being trans...already identify as NB...
I used to be tomboy, didn't like pink used to put my doll in mud and never used to wear skirts and now I'm 20 and I found myself loving vintage dresses and skirts.
When I was a kid I grew up with my boy cousins and was definitely a tomboy. I went through an emo phase and I’m so glad this wasn’t a thing, I know I would’ve thought I was nb or even trans. I hated my body and was depressed. I’m a bisexual woman who loves makeup and is very feminine presenting but I’m still pretty balanced with my feminine and masculine energy. These people need to fall back down to earth. So glad I’m a millennial 😝 lol
I find myself shaking my head yes and saying omg yes! out loud sooo much when watching your videos in agreement with you 🤣
I thought this was terf hangout by all the facts you keep spitting 💯.
Most people will never meet a trans person.
I just do my best to be considerate to all. Some people are very ill and it's best for everyone for me to step away and not participate in any drama.
I'm still a tomboy... I'm 36. Scares me to think of a world where girls like me are going to be told they aren't girls because they are like me.
New kalvin garrah dropped. It’s happenin again
As an autistic women already finding it hard to fit in with society and suppressing my needs and masking these people are making it so much harder to understand the world.
I was a Tom boy when I was a teen. I was uncomfortable with getting breast. I'm glad I didn't grew up in today's world I would be so fucked up.
I remember when we were all zygotes dividing in the womb.
When I was a teenager, early teenager, I knew I was gay. And I hated it. I knew how my family would be out and I didn't realize at the time I was dealing with undiagnosed PTSD from my early child. In high school. I grew my hair long down to the middle of my back. From the back side people thought I wasn't woman. Because I was slender. I had long red hair, and if I had had people giving me positive affirmation for that, I might have continued that. Bass solely on just wanting to be wanted. I am truly glad I did not. I didn't not really affirm that. I wanted to be male until I was like 19 or 20. Because I knew then that I like to being a guy. And when I was 21 I was diagnosed with C-PTSD. It's amazing what the human mind will convince you how to be, just because you think it'll get you what you want.
These people are ridiculous. These people are hateful.
That super high energy jerk guy with the black crown, wtf is up with his pupils? 😆
since you mentioned AFAB/AMAB, may I ask your opinion about using these? I'll casually use them cos it's easier to understand for many, but internally I always wanna scream cos no one's ASSIGNED a gender. it's their gender and it's being observed that they have m or f genitalia. maybe it's just me taking things to literally and seriously, but it's a bit annoying 😅
AS A MOTHER WHO RAISED TWO KIDS A SON AND A DAUGHTER. I CAN TELL YOU FOR SURE THAT MY SON PLAYED DRESS UP IN MY HEELS WHEN HE WAS A LITTLE BOY. BUT THAT DIDN'T MAKE HIM A TRANS CHILD. AND MY DAUGHTER PLAYED WITH TRUCKS WHEN SHE WAS LITTLE. BUT THAT DIDN'T MAKE HER A TRANS CHILD. IT WAS A NATURAL PHASE THAT KIDS GO THROUGH. SO SINCE YOU HAVEN'T RAISED ANY KIDS, DON'T TELL US WHAT IT'S LIKE TO RAISE KIDS OR WHAT KIDS ARE LIKE GROWING UP.
My female parts influenced my life experience, regardless of being a tom boy my whole life. They want to make everything simple but there are so many issues with all of this that it is like wacka mole. Just the topic of being "predatory" is easy to spin while they clearly act predatory out in the open. These people needs real mental health care.
Didn’t ask
I'm another one of those tomboys who is so, so glad my parents didn't believe gender ideology stuff. They say "your truth' matters until it's a hoarde of women with similar experiences and then they instantly invalidate it
Proud terf here ❤
I was and still am a tomboy. The only thing that changed was that I realized I was a lesbian. I nearly got pulled into this ideology, thought I was trans and was willing to start hormones. I'm so glad I was pulled out of it.
You gonna give credit to the creators of the vids giving you "content" or nah
If it's public it's free real estate.
Why is their anecdotal experience somehow more valid?
I think this just boils down to a lack of humility… people really STRUGGLE to admit when they’re wrong, when they’ve been irrational, ready to ignore facts because emotions are more powerful.
I love your attitude and sense of humor lol