Ben Affleck Opens Up About Getting Sober

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  • Опубліковано 15 гру 2021
  • Ben Affleck reflects on being an alcoholic and tells Howard Stern the one “cure” he’s found for addiction.
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  • @howardstern
    @howardstern  5 місяців тому +6

    Stream the FULL interview now on SiriusXM: sxm.app.link/HSBenAffleck

    • @user-uv9yu6pf8s
      @user-uv9yu6pf8s 2 місяці тому

      I now you not sober ewryday thaths not too beeing sober!!😅

  • @to819
    @to819 2 роки тому +2556

    You almost never see a celebrity being this genuine.

    • @trhoades2063
      @trhoades2063 2 роки тому +28

      Absolutely it's nice to see

    • @Bevzthejcs
      @Bevzthejcs 2 роки тому +12

      I was just thinking the same thing. Quite surprising but very cool to see.

    • @MrWOLF-bb3kt
      @MrWOLF-bb3kt 2 роки тому +53

      Its called acting

    • @imthegrk
      @imthegrk 2 роки тому +8

      @@MrWOLF-bb3kt exactly.

    • @christianb8228
      @christianb8228 2 роки тому +5

      They are many, but the puppet masters try their hardest to not let them be seen or heard

  • @priapushk996
    @priapushk996 2 роки тому +369

    1:54 "The cure for addiction is suffering" Bang, nailed it. You don't know til you know.

  • @jdmadonna206
    @jdmadonna206 2 роки тому +1831

    Never knew Ben was an alcoholic! I’m 2 weeks clean from heroin today! I think he’s right, I don’t wanna use again cause I’m tired of suffering!

    • @gordonagress4112
      @gordonagress4112 2 роки тому +54

      Good on you. You hang in there, boss.

    • @jdmadonna206
      @jdmadonna206 2 роки тому +31

      @@gordonagress4112 yes doing well! Thanks

    • @goosepelican2512
      @goosepelican2512 2 роки тому +24

      Hope you're 2 weeks 4 days clean now. Congrats!🤜🤛

    • @DR-om9ce
      @DR-om9ce 2 роки тому +7

      Congratulations on your clean time

    • @lvrm6
      @lvrm6 2 роки тому +4

      Congrats! Hope you are still doing well!

  • @_garebear
    @_garebear 10 місяців тому +62

    Watching this interview got me sober. I was done suffering.

    • @adods9824
      @adods9824 8 місяців тому +10

      Sweet! It's ALL worth it, trust me! 4 years sober just now, Nov 23.

  • @rockd7684
    @rockd7684 2 роки тому +321

    I’m a year sober ! Peace and love ✌🏼

    • @nybriag7663
      @nybriag7663 2 роки тому +6

      Congratulations!!❤️❤️❤️

    • @heathernegaard7521
      @heathernegaard7521 2 роки тому +5

      How awesome of you!!! Keep it going, you're doing fantastic!

    • @Smoke1386
      @Smoke1386 2 роки тому +4

      Quitter

    • @jordanhal2814
      @jordanhal2814 2 роки тому +1

      That’s awesome! So happy for you!

    • @rockd7684
      @rockd7684 2 роки тому

      @@jordanhal2814 Thanks!

  • @rtothec1234
    @rtothec1234 5 місяців тому +4

    Ben is looking good here. I wish him success. I really liked him as Batman.
    I’m an overeater. It is hard.

  • @emmanuelwolf6568
    @emmanuelwolf6568 2 роки тому +315

    Finally,a celebrity being genuine and honest.

    • @raulcitraro
      @raulcitraro 2 роки тому +11

      We all got to stop looking for heroes in celebrities. People develop ethics from suffering & self-discipline, not getting their asses kissed 24/7.

    • @TheSigma008
      @TheSigma008 2 роки тому +1

      Not the first one

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 Рік тому +1

      Finally?

    • @johnhoneck2973
      @johnhoneck2973 11 місяців тому +1

      Remember, he is a professional ACTOR.

  • @donniep90
    @donniep90 2 роки тому +293

    I respect him for being so honest without worry of judgement.

  • @jordanweller7485
    @jordanweller7485 2 роки тому +374

    Almost 9 years sober myself. I hope he finds peace. Would love to see him write and direct a movie about this.

    • @Rtboh
      @Rtboh 2 роки тому +39

      He did, it’s called The Way Back

    • @laemert09
      @laemert09 2 роки тому +11

      You should see the way back absolutely loved it

    • @nostalgiaman6816
      @nostalgiaman6816 2 роки тому +2

      9 years on Xanax 😞

    • @Big_Wee_Bey_Gaming
      @Big_Wee_Bey_Gaming Рік тому +8

      I got 136 days sober after battling alcoholism for 9 years

    • @adods9824
      @adods9824 8 місяців тому +2

      4 years sober now. After 31 drinking. It can be done!

  • @johnmanor5236
    @johnmanor5236 2 роки тому +1471

    Dude is intense. I can only imagine living with him would be the absolute best and the absolute worst... no in between.

    • @dalesutaria8559
      @dalesutaria8559 2 роки тому +153

      Well said. Exhausting.

    • @bitchyeyebrows
      @bitchyeyebrows 2 роки тому +71

      Whiplash. It's too much.

    • @bev_buntu4674
      @bev_buntu4674 2 роки тому +48

      he reminds me of a younger Baldwin

    • @AtomicMushroomz
      @AtomicMushroomz 2 роки тому +5

      @@ChangingTides777 Yes, you are self-centered.

    • @elijahgavin6706
      @elijahgavin6706 2 роки тому +87

      Him flying into a drunken rage is probably Oscar-worthy every time

  • @brettsutter5254
    @brettsutter5254 2 роки тому +371

    I completely agree! You nailed it Ben. Remembering the suffering keeps me sober.13 years +

  • @joshkolchins7753
    @joshkolchins7753 2 роки тому +305

    This is precisely how I got sober. I’m 2 years and one month into my sobriety and I can absolutely relate to what brought Ben to his decision. Happy for him.

  • @thecrystalshipful
    @thecrystalshipful 2 роки тому +71

    14 years, 5 months sober. Good fortunes, happiness and health to everyone as they end their suffering. You can do it!!

    • @girl123interrupted
      @girl123interrupted 2 роки тому +1

      Do you ever think about or crave it anymore

    • @rgb2284
      @rgb2284 2 роки тому

      sober of cheetos?

    • @adods9824
      @adods9824 8 місяців тому

      Coming up 4 years. Life is good / better !!

  • @jamesrichardson469
    @jamesrichardson469 2 роки тому +52

    5 years sober this month!

    • @jordanhal2814
      @jordanhal2814 2 роки тому +1

      Congratulations! Keep the faith.

    • @jackrigueiro6943
      @jackrigueiro6943 2 роки тому

      Congratulations! That’s amazing!

    • @condohatesme
      @condohatesme 2 роки тому

      Nice! I hope you are proud of yourself.👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

    • @codybarrier6295
      @codybarrier6295 2 роки тому

      Congratulations!

    • @MarCapa-ed5uv
      @MarCapa-ed5uv Місяць тому

      Good for you James, and I really mean that.
      Sobriety is the best you can do for yourself.

  • @MG-yp1zw
    @MG-yp1zw 2 місяці тому +2

    He’s a natural storyteller wow!

  • @cmgordon12345
    @cmgordon12345 2 роки тому +135

    He's always rubbed me the wrong way and this is incredible. Principals over personality.. and great to hear someone with success in AA give a nod to the greater recovery community as a whole. We all have different paths

  • @maribelnieves6530
    @maribelnieves6530 11 місяців тому +7

    Sobriety is my BIGGEST accomplishment of my life going on 17 years of Sobriety this year. By God's good grace 🙏🙂

  • @anthonyarcanumsanctumregnu9551
    @anthonyarcanumsanctumregnu9551 2 роки тому +226

    I love How honest he is.

    • @bobabooey4537
      @bobabooey4537 2 роки тому +2

      Ya me too..... on a popular radio show with a cam and mic. Ya... lol

    • @lordfogg9728
      @lordfogg9728 2 роки тому

      H.O.W.

    • @stephenryan9131
      @stephenryan9131 2 роки тому

      Hahaha

    • @jscribblescom
      @jscribblescom 2 роки тому +2

      I love it too! I’m appalled that people are saying he’s blaming Jennifer Garner

  • @oliverthegreat201
    @oliverthegreat201 8 місяців тому +5

    15 years sober today

  • @hbk42581
    @hbk42581 2 роки тому +26

    His honesty is so refreshing. I'll always be a Ben fan.

  • @leigh7507
    @leigh7507 8 місяців тому +8

    The cause of alcoholism is nearly always trauma and/or depression

  • @jameshurd4815
    @jameshurd4815 2 роки тому +32

    After 35 years of sobriety I totally agree 👍 thx for being so honest Ben.

  • @Jenny-Secondlife
    @Jenny-Secondlife 2 роки тому +136

    Love how he opens up and is honest. Life is full of shadows, it's nice to shine a light on them to let everyone know we all have problems.

  • @AdamDylanFoley
    @AdamDylanFoley 2 роки тому +65

    FACTS, I know the struggle, anyone out there struggling, don't give up, took me 25 years to surrender but its the best thing I ever did, throw in the towel, hangs up the gloves, by accepting defeat the irony is that you win, you win by surrendering, let the illness win, that's fine, swallow your pride, stop fighting it, surrender, ACCEPT the fight is over and the reward is that you can break the shackles, your no longer a prisoner to the bottle... walk the earth a free man, it's not about money, big houses, etc.. just be happy to be living sober....

    • @louiedangelo3843
      @louiedangelo3843 2 роки тому

      Stay blessed adam good to hear.

    • @jordanhal2814
      @jordanhal2814 2 роки тому +1

      Amen. Very well-said. Coming up on 7 years myself.

    • @midsummersnight3848
      @midsummersnight3848 2 роки тому +1

      This is so inspiring and beautiful.
      I'm trying.

    • @joebill663
      @joebill663 2 роки тому

      Ya I surrendered too 5 years ago. Takes what it takes. Addicts have a lot of fight so it's a 12 rounder for sure.

    • @gitbusylivin
      @gitbusylivin 6 місяців тому +1

      Wow. Very well put.

  • @rhcpfan1981
    @rhcpfan1981 2 роки тому +31

    How he went off on the old-timers reminds me of his character in Dazed and Confused LOL!

  • @MultiKalmer
    @MultiKalmer 2 роки тому +51

    Selfreflection is one of the most underrated skills. This is the result how Ben is staying with his opinions after doing some research about himself while getting sober.

  • @dronegolf
    @dronegolf 2 роки тому +75

    Big props for his honesty

  • @JayDaPeace
    @JayDaPeace 7 місяців тому +3

    For me, the breaking point was when the truth of sobriety became more enticing than the lie of drinking. And when I stopped looking at it for what (I *thought*) I was giving up, but for what I was GAINING, what I was GETTING BACK.

    • @vasyldoroshenko1417
      @vasyldoroshenko1417 6 місяців тому

      " truth of sobriety became more enticing than the lie of drinking - great words👍

  • @joestaples8834
    @joestaples8834 2 роки тому +14

    Wow, he really opened up. Huge respect for being so honest 👏

  • @exzisd
    @exzisd 2 роки тому +339

    Never knew he had a problem but this randomly popped on my recommendations and I'm glad to hear it. Keep fighting the good fight Ben.

    • @VictorLopez-ql2bk
      @VictorLopez-ql2bk 2 роки тому +27

      Where have you been the past 20 years?

    • @dorothygamble9144
      @dorothygamble9144 2 роки тому +2

      @@VictorLopez-ql2bk I was thinking the same thing.

    • @mantis10_surf85
      @mantis10_surf85 2 роки тому

      What fight? He’s worth over 100 million buckeroos.

    • @VictorLopez-ql2bk
      @VictorLopez-ql2bk 2 роки тому +4

      @@mantis10_surf85 money isn’t everything. Actually, money is worthless.

    • @mantis10_surf85
      @mantis10_surf85 2 роки тому +4

      @@VictorLopez-ql2bk, Money isn’t everything. It’s the only thing!!!

  • @davemis40
    @davemis40 2 роки тому +3

    Wow .. pure unadulterated honesty .. refreshing

  • @ShogunateDaimyo
    @ShogunateDaimyo 9 місяців тому +4

    The Gift of Desperation and the Willingness to do something different. Nothing changes if nothing changes.

  • @KainedbutAble123
    @KainedbutAble123 2 роки тому +59

    Wow a very raw interview. Wasn’t expecting this depth.

  • @Razzles819
    @Razzles819 2 роки тому +169

    Very important and insightful advice. It has to come from within. Your brain and heart need to be onboard in order to truly break the viscious cycle. It's very very difficult. Thanks, Ben! Also, Howard is becoming one of my favorite interviewers in the past few years. He goes in deep and gets people to open up.

    • @adods9824
      @adods9824 8 місяців тому

      True! And True!

  • @HireMichaelEverson
    @HireMichaelEverson 2 роки тому +61

    He nailed it. You have to learn to suffer. It hurts as long as it has to.

  • @BigfootBrass
    @BigfootBrass 2 роки тому +20

    I'm at 95 days today. It's finally "easy" to not drink...…but it wasn't always easy. At first, it was the hardest thing I've ever done.

    • @musique1o1
      @musique1o1 2 роки тому

      Congratulations! Keep up the fight, you're doing great!

  • @Danjoker.
    @Danjoker. 2 роки тому +43

    This interview is on another level

  • @luvbearbut
    @luvbearbut 2 роки тому +24

    I love Ben..I've always been a fan..he's real and honest and is helping a lot of people thru his own struggles.. More then he knows.

  • @kenlo6688
    @kenlo6688 2 роки тому +49

    Ben gets a lot of unnecessary hate and idk why, this guy has gone through so much and he literally gets dragged bc he spoke his truth. Like damn, y’all really hate that guy

  • @Sebs209
    @Sebs209 2 роки тому +53

    Great interview and insight from Ben. He really can help folks with this interview.

  • @roberthall573
    @roberthall573 Рік тому +6

    "Win a thousand times, you only have to give in once"...
    Thank you Ben Affleck

  • @orbansz1
    @orbansz1 2 роки тому +165

    I just love this guy and hope he knows there are a ton of people out there, who respect him as a human being and value his work.
    He is real, honest, raw, genuine, courageous, intelligent, funny, sensitive and talented, a rarity, really. With flaws? Yeah, like EVERYONE else. A really good soul. And, despite of what Twitter thinks, he is f-ing strong, actually.

  • @sharonbarton5464
    @sharonbarton5464 2 роки тому +114

    Great interview! Love Ben's honesty about his journey!

  • @jamescotner2459
    @jamescotner2459 2 роки тому +26

    I'm right there with you Ben. The loss or near loss of someone you need in your life. Also no chaos is the key.

  • @rainbow5190
    @rainbow5190 2 роки тому +29

    I obviously don't personally know Ben but I really want him to know how proud I am of him. My uncle would be the same age as Ben today, unfortunately he passed away 3 years ago due to alcoholism. Although they're two complete strangers from different parts of the world, I feel so happy seeing Ben achieve what my uncle failed to.

  • @AH19700
    @AH19700 8 місяців тому +2

    Awesome Ben🔥

  • @gerryfromthevoid8986
    @gerryfromthevoid8986 2 роки тому +93

    He's completely right about the suffering. Whether it's to do with kids, or whether you've just hallucinated too many times and seen too dark of a world, it tends to be a lot easier when you have a lot of painful memories to go along with your vice of choice

  • @19Jetta
    @19Jetta 2 роки тому +6

    Really appreciate him being willing to show his anger. This felt very real

  • @angelisa368
    @angelisa368 12 днів тому +1

    He sure does have his flaws, but really appreciate that he is down to earth and vulnerable. ❤

  • @zlinky1113
    @zlinky1113 4 місяці тому +2

    Very Wise words Ben. You are 100% correct. Big love from the U.K. ❤😊

  • @karlwiebe7191
    @karlwiebe7191 Рік тому +3

    When the suffering of continuing doing what you allways done is larger than the pain of changing - you change, you surrender. Then you keep the spiritual awekening alive. Keep on keepin on🙏

  • @tedthacker3312
    @tedthacker3312 2 роки тому +51

    He super buzzed during that interview

    • @808Fee
      @808Fee 2 роки тому +22

      This is EXACTLY what I thought.

    • @kencarson3451
      @kencarson3451 2 роки тому +4

      I thought the same thing too,he’s usually way duller than this

    • @Toby458
      @Toby458 2 роки тому

      He has a lighter in his hand. Maybe weed?

  • @brendapokorny326
    @brendapokorny326 2 роки тому +9

    Good on him. I’m grateful he spoke his truth. I think it will help people.

  • @paulapurser
    @paulapurser 2 роки тому +2

    He found his 'WHY?' love his honesty and authenticity

  • @toya1108
    @toya1108 2 роки тому +54

    Wow...I'm damn near in tears. Bravo Sir👏

  • @realmofcamping
    @realmofcamping 7 місяців тому +3

    Love conquers all ❤ his love for his kids easily helped him crush his drinking . Mad respects

  • @jujubees711
    @jujubees711 4 місяці тому +1

    Wow, love his honesty. This is the kind of honesty that helps other people overcome their addictions. To know they are not alone and that others have made it, maybe they can make it too. That's why AA or a support system is so hugely important. So happy for him.

  • @skoolie_life3261
    @skoolie_life3261 8 місяців тому +1

    “You can win 1,000 times, but you only have to give up once.” That’s powerful.

  • @parisryan5684
    @parisryan5684 2 роки тому +53

    An incredibly hard and honourable thing to do.

  • @46foryounger
    @46foryounger 2 роки тому +89

    He paid the price for being so honest and outspoken but it will be worth it if sharing his truth helps someone. I hope it does.

  • @briansullivan1621
    @briansullivan1621 Рік тому +2

    I relate
    AA. 7/23/94
    You sharing this interview helps me & will help countless others

  • @ActionFigureGrader
    @ActionFigureGrader 2 місяці тому +1

    Dealing with life on life's terms and trudging that road. Good stuff. The GIFT of desperation.

  • @actionjacksondan
    @actionjacksondan 2 роки тому +4

    He looks so much better, awesome job Ben, thank you for the courage to share your story.

  • @pinkchilldivestmentor
    @pinkchilldivestmentor 11 місяців тому +4

    If Ben Affleck is sober, my name is Howard Stern

  • @eleanorhernandez4144
    @eleanorhernandez4144 6 місяців тому +2

    Ben, God bless you. Can't imagine your pain/suffering. I applaud your drive and most of all your honesty. I wish you the very BEST! Thank you for your candor!

  • @jeremyclark74
    @jeremyclark74 6 місяців тому +1

    great interview. I needed to hear this.

  • @Vikinguy
    @Vikinguy 2 роки тому +7

    Kudos to him for speaking from the heart. I have a REAL hard time believing he's never wanted a drink since. REAL hard. But hey. I wish him well.

  • @tenthirtythreeco
    @tenthirtythreeco 2 роки тому +11

    Respect to Ben for being real and congrats on his sobriety ❤️‍🩹

  • @mikeprem4152
    @mikeprem4152 2 роки тому +27

    Great actor and always keeps it real on interviews

  • @AJKing-vc8mp
    @AJKing-vc8mp 2 роки тому +2

    One of the realest people ever!

  • @joeblow1186
    @joeblow1186 2 роки тому +2

    Thumbs up bro, honesty wins always

  • @stevek2967
    @stevek2967 2 роки тому +25

    I listened to the whole interview. He might not drink anymore but he was amped up on something.

  • @hdmartyh
    @hdmartyh 2 роки тому +8

    So wild seeing someone of his statue talk like this. I wish more celebs were this open about their struggles.

    • @riadlo1
      @riadlo1 11 місяців тому +2

      Bravo! It does not get any more real or honest than this…

  • @ronankelly1854
    @ronankelly1854 11 місяців тому +1

    As someone said in a meeting “I was given the gift of desperation”. So true

  • @ThommyKane
    @ThommyKane 2 роки тому +1

    one of the best interviews Howard ever did.

  • @staciaseven
    @staciaseven 2 роки тому +3

    ♥️ Thank you Ben for sharing your honesty and truth

  • @lc2296
    @lc2296 2 роки тому +20

    Good interview..... ...love the authenticity

  • @mattluoma-fi6bt
    @mattluoma-fi6bt 3 місяці тому +1

    16 months Tomorrow. Great words by Ben

  • @Eric345
    @Eric345 2 роки тому +2

    I started smoking because of boredom. I play games & smoke.

  • @neil12011
    @neil12011 2 роки тому +11

    This is accurate. Best of luck and much love to those battling their demons. 💪❤️

  • @johnmontag
    @johnmontag 2 роки тому +4

    I love how real he is here

  • @Look4TheGood9
    @Look4TheGood9 8 місяців тому +1

    This is the most helpful thing I've seen. It could save the world if he stars in a movie and says these very words. His honesty is stunning and beautiful. 🙏🥰💕💪🙏 grateful for his courage, hardwork, and powerful, genius storytelling. ❤

  • @Whiskey04
    @Whiskey04 8 місяців тому +1

    Very raw. Very real

  • @David_10157
    @David_10157 2 роки тому +3

    Recently saw him in “The Tender Bar”. Outstanding performance.

  • @PeterZeeke
    @PeterZeeke 2 роки тому +81

    Been way too invested in this interview. Can’t believe ppl are hating on the guy putting it out there

  • @jasmineshae9334
    @jasmineshae9334 9 місяців тому +1

    That by far is the Greatest Emotional Truth of Sobriety.. and its Cure I have ever heard !! Xo Ben

  • @expeditedclaimsolutions2579
    @expeditedclaimsolutions2579 2 роки тому +2

    God Bless Ben, he is helping others see the light.

  • @TheUnDisputedDoc.G
    @TheUnDisputedDoc.G 2 роки тому +3

    Ben you just saved my life for real

  • @Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_
    @Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_ 2 роки тому +7

    Congrats on your sobriety Ben! ♥️
    I can’t believe I’m still a fan after 19 years!!
    I am 31 now been loving him since I was 12 lol!

  • @jonathantopp1918
    @jonathantopp1918 11 місяців тому +1

    So down to earth and honest.

  • @LushiTV
    @LushiTV 9 місяців тому +1

    It really is the easiest thing ever how he explains it I had a wake up call the exact same way. You put it out of your mind completely.

  • @missapprayerspeacelove
    @missapprayerspeacelove 2 роки тому +30

    Ben Affleck looks good. Praying for him and his family. 🙏🏽✌🏽❤️

  • @therichmiester
    @therichmiester 2 роки тому +7

    He’s my hero, so happy for him

  • @IdealX-fr4eg
    @IdealX-fr4eg 4 місяці тому +2

    30 days sober so done with the suffering and hurting my family

  • @benderoverify
    @benderoverify 11 місяців тому

    I had his exact experience. I saw how it affected the people I loved, I owned it, made amends the best I could, and haven’t wanted to since. AA is a great organization too

  • @FallenSun210
    @FallenSun210 2 роки тому +33

    Great honesty and grit here Ben. Keep up the good fight! Pain vs Pleasure - Anthony Robbins talked about this many years ago in his book - Awaken the Giant Within. “if we link massive pain to any behavior or emotional pattern, we will avoid indulging in it at all costs. We can use this understanding to harness the force of pain and pleasure to change virtually anything in our lives.”

  • @ashish_sunny
    @ashish_sunny 2 роки тому +5

    Affleck is a legend. In person and profession!

  • @michaeldonovan3959
    @michaeldonovan3959 10 місяців тому

    Howard is an amazing interviewer and host. He gets people to open up.

  • @cynthiasmith4130
    @cynthiasmith4130 11 місяців тому +1

    You did a great lovely jesture, for your family!!!! Thank You!!! ❤️❤️❤️...