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But what's the line of overdoing, though? I've had so many rejections that now I don't even feel sexual or emotional attraction towards women! I can appreciate beauty or gestures of kindness or liking, but I can't imagine myself getting in bed with that person. It sometimes scares me because I feel like this is sociopathic behaviour!
Tripp, this was happening to me in 2019. It traumatized me, it was a single event but was a total shock to me. I never contacted her again after, practically ghosted her( best decision ever). I am not yet fully healed, still in therapy, but lot better today. Still have massive trust issues. Different girls show interest but I panic thinking I never want that happen to me again.
That's good i like people like you.I'm the same.But my friend Steve unfortunately is letting a woman to do whatever she wants with him and he just can't get rid of her.
Totally feel you on that. What I would do is keep your heart open because you only have one life, just like there is (technically speaking) one person that is your “soul mate”. My question has been, even if they don’t treat you right, when do you quit when you both keep trying to make it better (but it doesn’t seem to happen)?
I purged my inner circle and I realized that even though having a bunch of "friends" is cool, it doesn't even compare to having two or three really good ones.
Great advice! I just ghosted a woman who dumped me for the second time. You always think they're going to change but deep down I know she couldn't....or wouldn't. .
I ghosted my ex best friend some years ago. He was totally stepping over me. It was the bravest thing I've ever done, it's been almost 6 years now and I can't feel better.
I ghosted someone who was a good friend for years. We had a dispute recently, and not only did I realize they've become more toxic lately, but they also never really support me. It's all about promoting them, and their self-promotion. Not dealing with that anymore
Won't get knocked down. Again. I didn't loose her, she lost me. Your videos have been tremendous to my recovery of self-esteem and confidence with trying to date again.
A girl and I had a mutual crush on each other for over a year. Months ago, offered to come over and help me pick up pieces after a bad breakup, denied her for obvious reasons. Fastforward, now I'm moving out of state. She stated that she wants to see me before I leave. She volunteers phone number and agrees to meet up on a Tuesday for a quick meet over coffee or a drink. No contact for three days, until she texts and advises she is actually back with an ex and she doesn't think it's right to him. He is not an exemplary individual, so there's a lot going on there. This was actually one of two best case scenarios. Advise "I didn't know." and ghosted her. Thank you Tripp.
When you ghost people you create stalkers I have so many stalkers from ghosting so now I’m going to try to let people know what I don’t like from people in the beginning just lay it all out and if they decide to still do it then ima ghost they ass
Great advice. I did what you said to do nearly 20 years ago to both of my parents by ghosting them. Both of my parents were such assholes, they were pure poison to me. Now my life since then has been pure joy.
Has happened to me a lot of time. There is this one time where i was getting criticize and being look down and the one thing that hurts the most about this is they are the one who i considered real friends. Unfriended them once we graduated in college. Lesson Learned in this life. I Will Never Get Knocked down again!
If this is someone who is a long time friend, or someome you care about, and he does something bad to you, I wouldn't ghost them right away. I'd warn them first. if they do it again, I might give them a last chance, and in the third time I'd cut them off from my life
Thanks, before watching this I thought I am a weird jerk. I normally do the same thing that you said. I do ghost people who treated me badly. I feel more confident and valuable when I did it. In return, others respect me more. Strange people get and want to approach me which makes me special. Fun fact, it has never helped me with girls that I want🤷♂️
So question about the most practical way to ghost someone who disrespects you: How would you go about ghosting your wife that you're living in the same house with and have kids with? Asking for a friend.
Absolutely 💯 correct. Easier said than done. But, it is great advice. What if you have high self esteem, yet you don’t want to leave your “significant other”? And when you already have a “peer group”, even people that tell you to leave your significant, how do you ghost when you still love them? Good advice. Thanks a lot. For real.
I hope someone will read this and reply....uhm I'm in a situation where I feel I'm treated badly and it kinds sucks , but I'm feeling if I let go of this lady she's gonna fall, and fall big-time, ...in such situations, should i let go?
I just block them I guess that's ghosting. I had a girlfriend for about 4 months and one day we where chatting and asked her what she was doing and she said she was waiting for some guy to pick her up. I blocked her right away. I was really upset and had so many emotions mainly anger. I tried to think maybe I was over reacting and maybe it was just a friend. It didnt feel right and I didn't like the way she told me. I thought it was her tring to make me jealous. She should of just communicated with me another way if she was wanting to end our relationship. She had mental Issues so I was not sure how to take it or understand what just happened because I was shocked.
But what to do? When you still have feelings for them??? He treats me so badly, Gaslights me, manipulates me, ignored me and always runs away then comes back i always accept him because of feelings. Whenever he treats me badly I still think that maybe having a bad day maybe going through with some stuffs or don't know. But this behaviour eats me day by day. When i cry he is not giving damn , he says don't do drama and don't laugh, don't try when you can't cry. I'm in dilema. Can't find a way to come out of this rattrap kinda thing. I can't even stop thinking about him, it's like i crave to listen to his voice even. What to do ? I can't even block him. What should I do in this?
2 months ago i ghosted my ex. We were toghether, we broke up but somehow we remained friends and she invited me at her birthay party after a while. At the time, honestly, i still was hoping to get her hooked again(bad mentality i admit it, that's how it is when you're young🤣). So i went to her party and there she hooked up with my best friend. I wouldn't have had any problem if it would have been any other guy, but not my best friend! Then the next day in the morning she textes me: "I'm so sorry about last night for making you feel bad, i drinked too much and i wasn't ok" I didn't even reply to her. i ghosted her just like you said în the video. And i will never talk to her ever again. I feel great about it!
@@johndoe-xy2cr well, we are still friends today. I ghosted him 2 months (period in wich he tried to reach and talk to me) at the time, but then i realised it was not his fault. The guy was drunk and she was the one who reached him and kissed him spontaneously. After the ghosting period we meet and he said he's sorry about what happened and that he didn't expected her to do that. In present he also doesn't speak to her anymore at all(we were in the same friend group at the time) and i'm happy with the woman i have now:)
This happened to me in 2016/2017. My girlfriend dumped me in 2015 and I was trying to make new friends in college, meet new girls. I became interested in a girl from my class , we were good friends and we texted for some time but after a while she became upset with me because I "texted her a lot". I tried to talk to her for a few times. She didn't want to talk to me and I respected it. The problem was that she started to talk s*** about me behind my back and in front of me saying that I was a stalker, sometimes humiliating me in front of my friends sometimes just for looking at her. I lost all my confidence... Today we are ok but at that time my confidence was at 0. I still have problems in making friends (girls) because of it. I used to be a guy with charisma and I didn't ahve any problems of talking or making new friends but after that I really can't say anything, I prefer not talking at all than being ghosted. I know that's not how I should solve the problem but I don't have friends to talk to about this things anymore, I put myself on this black hole and I can't get out
@@isakmustafa9704 When I say "meet new girls" is for dating, not to be friends with. The only girls I'm friends with are people that I know for ages. This girl in particular I was interested in her
That's excellent and important advice, Tripp. How do you apply this if third persons are involved? For example if you're member of a band or a sports team and just one of the others treats you poorly but the rest are really good people. Do you have any take on this? Ghosting would be fairly difficult in that kind of situation without ghosting the whole group.
He was a friend of mine since childhood.For 2 years he was my employer and I found out that he was lying to me about almost everything work related.I had blind trust to him and he took advantage of that like a prick.I just resigned with one month notice,as professionally as possible and right after that I ghosted him for life.Lesson learned.I'll never get knocked down again!
A ghosted a friend of mine recently who would always make backhanded compliments and be gas lightin me all the time, I called him out and told him to get fucked. I rather have hardly any friends than a bunch of friends that treat you like dirt.
Yesterday I was at work and there is a colleague who stand right in front of me and we'll talk with members of the group but won't see me I feel like I'm being treated as though I'm invisible and I don't understand it I would love some advice on what to do in a situation such as this.
It's not that I lack said esteem, when my partner treats me like crap, I call her out on it. I can't ignore and injustice like that when I don't do anything wrong and she gets very angry and has a superior look to her. It's not just me she's told me many stories of people who she's been really horrible to and they're now scared of her. At least I'm not scared of her and tell it to her straight. 85% of the time, she's lovely. But occasionally, she gets really angry for incredibly minor things by other people around her. Before we got engaged, her father just warned me that she can lash she's a sharp tongue. But, years later, he also said that he was proud that he trained her to lash. And he seems to have no empathy. And he wants to kill all dogs.
I already started few years ago ghosting those kind of people. And I have been doing it a lot. 99% of people are selfish a-holes having soul ugly as hell.
Ghosting is immature. Have the conversations that need to be had unless they themselves are to immature to converse. Put down a boundary, explain there is no reason to continue the acquaintance, friendship, relationship etc. Then exit that environment forever. Obviously block if they do not honor the boundary you set.
The link you posted (the confidence one) isn’t allowed by my ISP (and many others) because it does something screwy in terms of security. Please clean that up so people can get what you’re offering.
Thank you man! I have brain damage since I was 8 suicide attempt, this lady always uses my brain damage against me, bro I really want to have a one on one with you, can we do this???
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When a woman or man is treating you badly , get rid of that person at once !!
I know I'm kinda randomly asking but do anybody know of a good site to watch newly released series online?
@Hayes Jamie I watch on flixzone. You can find it on google =)
@Franco Jonas Yea, have been using flixzone for years myself =)
@Franco Jonas thanks, signed up and it seems to work :) I really appreciate it!
Leaving people who do not treat you well is the first step to self-love.
well said
Learn to walk away and keep walking, your worth and value will be appreciated by someone else, it's okay to be single and not desperate..
But what's the line of overdoing, though? I've had so many rejections that now I don't even feel sexual or emotional attraction towards women! I can appreciate beauty or gestures of kindness or liking, but I can't imagine myself getting in bed with that person. It sometimes scares me because I feel like this is sociopathic behaviour!
True and thank you
And what if we have walked away so far and bitter that we start to resent and reject that someone claimed who will "appreciate" us someday?
Yup, the best way to command more respect is to respect yourself first. -Nick
This, this right here.
Tripp, this was happening to me in 2019. It traumatized me, it was a single event but was a total shock to me. I never contacted her again after, practically ghosted her( best decision ever). I am not yet fully healed, still in therapy, but lot better today. Still have massive trust issues. Different girls show interest but I panic thinking I never want that happen to me again.
Guess I should do the same. Get therapy, I mean.
That's good i like people like you.I'm the same.But my friend Steve unfortunately is letting a woman to do whatever she wants with him and he just can't get rid of her.
Man sorry to hear you suffering you live and learn all we can do hopefully don’t repeat the same mistake
You'll get throught it bro
Totally feel you on that. What I would do is keep your heart open because you only have one life, just like there is (technically speaking) one person that is your “soul mate”. My question has been, even if they don’t treat you right, when do you quit when you both keep trying to make it better (but it doesn’t seem to happen)?
I purged my inner circle and I realized that even though having a bunch of "friends" is cool, it doesn't even compare to having two or three really good ones.
Great advice! I just ghosted a woman who dumped me for the second time. You always think they're going to change but deep down I know she couldn't....or wouldn't. .
Bro you give her second change to break your trust
@@DreamTrack_MyJourney Indeed. Never again.
@@michaelmoran2122 Good for you bro 😁❤
To be considered ghosted it needs to pass certain amount of time of you making an act of disappearing. You don't just ghosted someone, is impossible.
Did u block her? And did she came chasing u after that ?
Thanks a lot Tripp. I did it 3 months ago. Now I am feeling so good.
I won't get knocked down again.💪🏻
I will never again get knocked down !!!
👍 👍 👍
Thank you Coach !
I ghosted my ex best friend some years ago. He was totally stepping over me. It was the bravest thing I've ever done, it's been almost 6 years now and I can't feel better.
You don’t feel better or you feel better than ever?
@@mscara00 better than better 😁
@@mscara00 I'm pleased that you two worked it out so amicably.
I ghosted someone who was a good friend for years. We had a dispute recently, and not only did I realize they've become more toxic lately, but they also never really support me. It's all about promoting them, and their self-promotion. Not dealing with that anymore
Won't get knocked down. Again. I didn't loose her, she lost me.
Your videos have been tremendous to my recovery of self-esteem and confidence with trying to date again.
Great content. Far too many people hold onto to stale and sour relationships for WAY too long.
A girl and I had a mutual crush on each other for over a year. Months ago, offered to come over and help me pick up pieces after a bad breakup, denied her for obvious reasons. Fastforward, now I'm moving out of state. She stated that she wants to see me before I leave. She volunteers phone number and agrees to meet up on a Tuesday for a quick meet over coffee or a drink. No contact for three days, until she texts and advises she is actually back with an ex and she doesn't think it's right to him. He is not an exemplary individual, so there's a lot going on there. This was actually one of two best case scenarios. Advise "I didn't know." and ghosted her. Thank you Tripp.
I wouldn’t quite straight up ghost them. I would tell them “I don’t like how I’m being spoken to, goodbye.” THEN vanish.
Sitting down with a cup of coffee and watching this episode, a perfect Sunday😌
Good info. You're right, some people just can't be reasoned with.
The most impotant is to be confidance, and have self respect
When you ghost people you create stalkers I have so many stalkers from ghosting so now I’m going to try to let people know what I don’t like from people in the beginning just lay it all out and if they decide to still do it then ima ghost they ass
Great advice. I did what you said to do nearly 20 years ago to both of my parents by ghosting them. Both of my parents were such assholes, they were pure poison to me. Now my life since then has been pure joy.
Has happened to me a lot of time. There is this one time where i was getting criticize and being look down and the one thing that hurts the most about this is they are the one who i considered real friends. Unfriended them once we graduated in college. Lesson Learned in this life. I Will Never Get Knocked down again!
If anyone just wants to treat you like your a floor mat will always get there slap in the face....Karma rotates and it teaches you a lesson
Thanks Tripp for covering this topic, it means a lot for those who are going through rough patches of life during these times
I would have needed these advices much earlier in my life. Nice positioning of the ghosting behaviour.
If this is someone who is a long time friend, or someome you care about, and he does something bad to you, I wouldn't ghost them right away. I'd warn them first. if they do it again, I might give them a last chance, and in the third time I'd cut them off from my life
Great content bro! I ghosted 3 sisters who are.very toxic, and I go my own way! I won't get knocked down ever again!!!!!!!!!!
Nice. Lol. You kept saying ghost them and it was cracking me up the more you said it. In a good way. Good video.
Thanks mate, i needed this... Some people broke me down these days...
Everything you say is true 17 year old boy big fan sir
Thanks, before watching this I thought I am a weird jerk. I normally do the same thing that you said. I do ghost people who treated me badly. I feel more confident and valuable when I did it. In return, others respect me more. Strange people get and want to approach me which makes me special. Fun fact, it has never helped me with girls that I want🤷♂️
Silence is how you punish women.
So question about the most practical way to ghost someone who disrespects you: How would you go about ghosting your wife that you're living in the same house with and have kids with? Asking for a friend.
Hey..!
I am from India and learn from you so much things. Thanks a lot 🌹
Absolutely 💯 correct. Easier said than done. But, it is great advice.
What if you have high self esteem, yet you don’t want to leave your “significant other”?
And when you already have a “peer group”, even people that tell you to leave your significant, how do you ghost when you still love them?
Good advice. Thanks a lot. For real.
Needed this man, thank you!
One of the best videos sooo far
I won't get knocked down again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I won’t be knocked down!
thanks for the advice trip
I hope someone will read this and reply....uhm I'm in a situation where I feel I'm treated badly and it kinds sucks , but I'm feeling if I let go of this lady she's gonna fall, and fall big-time, ...in such situations, should i let go?
I love Tripp. Thank you I exactly needed this video.
Great video..
I WONT GET KNOCKED DOWN.
Thanks Tripp.
I won't get knocked down !!!!!!!!!!
Another great video Tripp !!
I won’t get knocked down!!!
Never again!!!
I will never again get knocked out!!!
I just block them I guess that's ghosting. I had a girlfriend for about 4 months and one day we where chatting and asked her what she was doing and she said she was waiting for some guy to pick her up. I blocked her right away. I was really upset and had so many emotions mainly anger. I tried to think maybe I was over reacting and maybe it was just a friend. It didnt feel right and I didn't like the way she told me. I thought it was her tring to make me jealous. She should of just communicated with me another way if she was wanting to end our relationship. She had mental Issues so I was not sure how to take it or understand what just happened because I was shocked.
"people... and maybe even women" Oh, Tripp, you naughty boy! :P
Great video and for sure I need to follow your advice regarding a particular lady I'm fond of, but I don't know where that life of abundance is.
Amen. I won't get knocked down!!!
Not first here but at least, I am the first to comment. Great content, bro.
But what to do? When you still have feelings for them??? He treats me so badly, Gaslights me, manipulates me, ignored me and always runs away then comes back i always accept him because of feelings. Whenever he treats me badly I still think that maybe having a bad day maybe going through with some stuffs or don't know. But this behaviour eats me day by day. When i cry he is not giving damn , he says don't do drama and don't laugh, don't try when you can't cry. I'm in dilema. Can't find a way to come out of this rattrap kinda thing.
I can't even stop thinking about him, it's like i crave to listen to his voice even. What to do ? I can't even block him.
What should I do in this?
2 months ago i ghosted my ex.
We were toghether, we broke up but somehow we remained friends and she invited me at her birthay party after a while.
At the time, honestly, i still was hoping to get her hooked again(bad mentality i admit it, that's how it is when you're young🤣). So i went to her party and there she hooked up with my best friend. I wouldn't have had any problem if it would have been any other guy, but not my best friend!
Then the next day in the morning she textes me: "I'm so sorry about last night for making you feel bad, i drinked too much and i wasn't ok"
I didn't even reply to her. i ghosted her just like you said în the video. And i will never talk to her ever again. I feel great about it!
I hope you did the same to the best friend ...no real friend would hook up with someone they know you care about.
@@johndoe-xy2cr well, we are still friends today. I ghosted him 2 months (period in wich he tried to reach and talk to me) at the time, but then i realised it was not his fault. The guy was drunk and she was the one who reached him and kissed him spontaneously. After the ghosting period we meet and he said he's sorry about what happened and that he didn't expected her to do that. In present he also doesn't speak to her anymore at all(we were in the same friend group at the time) and i'm happy with the woman i have now:)
This happened to me in 2016/2017. My girlfriend dumped me in 2015 and I was trying to make new friends in college, meet new girls. I became interested in a girl from my class , we were good friends and we texted for some time but after a while she became upset with me because I "texted her a lot". I tried to talk to her for a few times. She didn't want to talk to me and I respected it.
The problem was that she started to talk s*** about me behind my back and in front of me saying that I was a stalker, sometimes humiliating me in front of my friends sometimes just for looking at her. I lost all my confidence... Today we are ok but at that time my confidence was at 0. I still have problems in making friends (girls) because of it. I used to be a guy with charisma and I didn't ahve any problems of talking or making new friends but after that I really can't say anything, I prefer not talking at all than being ghosted. I know that's not how I should solve the problem but I don't have friends to talk to about this things anymore, I put myself on this black hole and I can't get out
First of all No man needs a Girl as a friend and also now that u guys are OK is the best time to remind her .
Some other coaches have mentioned this too, that you should only really have guy friends. It makes things a lot easier.
@@isakmustafa9704 When I say "meet new girls" is for dating, not to be friends with. The only girls I'm friends with are people that I know for ages. This girl in particular I was interested in her
@@sp610 I mean, I have girl friends but like 2 or 3 that i known for ages, when I meet girls is for dating
@@hanc2w then good for you bro.
That's excellent and important advice, Tripp. How do you apply this if third persons are involved? For example if you're member of a band or a sports team and just one of the others treats you poorly but the rest are really good people. Do you have any take on this? Ghosting would be fairly difficult in that kind of situation without ghosting the whole group.
Man Up and say it to their face .
@@isakmustafa9704 thx, bro
How to ghost a coworker/coworkers?
He's right.
Confidence is huge
I won't get knocked down again from now on !!!!!!!!!!
I wont get knocked down !!!!!
Thanks bro
Thank you bro 🙏🏽
What if she is in my classroom?
Great video
He was a friend of mine since childhood.For 2 years he was my employer and I found out that he was lying to me about almost everything work related.I had blind trust to him and he took advantage of that like a prick.I just resigned with one month notice,as professionally as possible and right after that I ghosted him for life.Lesson learned.I'll never get knocked down again!
I did that today !!
Where do I find good people to surround myself with?
I won't get knocked down. I empower myself.
Terrific advice !!!!!!!!!!
A ghosted a friend of mine recently who would always make backhanded compliments and be gas lightin me all the time, I called him out and told him to get fucked. I rather have hardly any friends than a bunch of friends that treat you like dirt.
You always motivate me, like a elder bro, thanks man ❤️
I WON'T GET KNOCKED DOWN.
I know you’re advice is not for women but I love you’re videos. Keep up the good work. You’re so cute
"I won't get knocked down"!!
Does this apply to family members? 🤔
How about relatives? Which you can't avoid sooner or later?
Heck yea I will not get knocked down!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Great video man.
I will not get knocked down.
I won’t get knocked down!!!!! 💪💪💪
Yesterday I was at work and there is a colleague who stand right in front of me and we'll talk with members of the group but won't see me I feel like I'm being treated as though I'm invisible and I don't understand it I would love some advice on what to do in a situation such as this.
I will not be knocked down.
It's not that I lack said esteem, when my partner treats me like crap, I call her out on it.
I can't ignore and injustice like that when I don't do anything wrong and she gets very angry and has a superior look to her.
It's not just me she's told me many stories of people who she's been really horrible to and they're now scared of her. At least I'm not scared of her and tell it to her straight.
85% of the time, she's lovely. But occasionally, she gets really angry for incredibly minor things by other people around her.
Before we got engaged, her father just warned me that she can lash she's a sharp tongue.
But, years later, he also said that he was proud that he trained her to lash.
And he seems to have no empathy.
And he wants to kill all dogs.
I already started few years ago ghosting those kind of people. And I have been doing it a lot. 99% of people are selfish a-holes having soul ugly as hell.
Thanks Tripp love from india
Ghosting is immature. Have the conversations that need to be had unless they themselves are to immature to converse. Put down a boundary, explain there is no reason to continue the acquaintance, friendship, relationship etc. Then exit that environment forever. Obviously block if they do not honor the boundary you set.
I won't get knocked down!!!!!!!! And an extra one because why not !
I will never get knocked down! 😁
I won't get knocked down again !! Ever !!!!!!!!!!!!!
I won’t get knocked down!!!!!!!
What if that person is someone whom you work with and see each other everyday.
How to approach this?
Any advice on this
Say it to their face to Not fuck whith u .
What if you said something to get her mad and she tells you. You aren’t a man or a provider but you’ve been with them 9 years
The link you posted (the confidence one) isn’t allowed by my ISP (and many others) because it does something screwy in terms of security. Please clean that up so people can get what you’re offering.
Thank you man! I have brain damage since I was 8 suicide attempt, this lady always uses my brain damage against me, bro I really want to have a one on one with you, can we do this???
I won't get knocked down.
I will not get knocked down !!!
Ghost 👻 ING is the best move!
I won't get knocked down!!!
Good video.
I will not get knocked down.!!!!!!!!
Buh we need to know more Abt this
Ghosting = No Contact