5 Signs She’s Wasting Your Time
Вставка
- Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
- 1-on-1 Coaching - coachedbytripp...
To make the most out of your time here, keep your self-respect, and find the right girl for you sooner rather than later, you must never allow any girl to waste your time. To make sure this doesn't happen to you, let's cover 5 big signs that the girl you're seeing isn't worth it.
Help us translate our videos into your language: buff.ly/2nunleZ. - Навчання та стиль
To learn more about getting 1-1 coaching with me where we can work together on your specific challenges and personal situation and take your game to the next level, apply today so we can get started soon ► coachedbytripp.com
Tripp this always happen to me in the start of me actually taking the girls number and we texting and talking on the phone but, couple weeks later we don't text like we use too and I text her back couple times and no reply so, I'm saying to myself she's not interested in me anymore so I delete her number , then one day she text back saying hey!
This is so true, a girl who just got out of a relationship and started showing strong interest in me. Long story short - she flaked on me twice. I guess she just wanted some attention to distract herself from the breakup. Waste of my time.
Feel like I'm going thru this now
@@mosely25 Any update?
Fantastic video Tripp. That core concept of basically, "Is she investing in me?" is so crucial for men to learn.
I talk to so many guys who chase emotionally unavailable women. Then they ask, "What can I do to win her over?" I love flipping the script with something like, "Why is she worth your time?"
Of course their response is usually, "Well...she's attractive."
Then I start asking similar questions to your mindsets. I try to show them how they should focus on their standards, boundaries, and self-respect. Because that's how they'll end up building real self-confidence and becoming more attractive to the right partners.
I grew so much more by walking away from the wrong connections than chasing the approval of beautiful yet incompatible women.
- Nick Notas
It's interesting that in so many romantic movies, the guy keeps pursuing the girl who keeps turning him down. But in the movie he keeps chasing her. She keeps saying "No". Finally he wears her, they kiss, she falls in love with him. What Hollywood Hogwash! Thanks Tripp! Great video!
If she Deny’s your kiss, take a step back, joke and have fun, then try to kiss her again. If she ain’t kissing u at end of first date that’s wasting ur time.
If shes denied your kiss the first time, why would you think she'd want to kiss you the second time you tried? That's sending off some creepy vibes, man.
@@velenvskaelhas nope, it’s situational. The girl I tried to kiss, I had already slept with. I was trying to initiate sex within the first hour of us hanging out. She laughed, turned her head to the side and said “slow down boy” then I chilled out and tried to kiss her again. If you try to kiss her and she rejects it but doesn’t leave the date, it’s 100% fine to try again.
@@districtagenda5695 I dunno man, but each to their own.
Another sign: How willing is she investing time, energy and money in you? Does she offer to pay on dates? Is she willing to travel across town to meet you? If she’s offering to pay and she’s showing other signs like bumping into you, touching you, then she’s interested.
Love this brother!! I 100% agree with all categories mentioned!
There can never be enough signs. The importance of being able to filter out time wasters cannot be overstated.
some be simpin for “someone special” when there are lots of special women out there
Time is the most valuable currency we as people have. So don't waste it on worrying about whether or not someone likes you. Instead, be making sure they're doing right by you.
Date 3?! If I don't get a kiss by date 2, it's done. My philosophy has always been to go for it on date 1
Well, the quality of your prior dates is important. You are not to expect a kiss in your third date if you haven't done anything to escalate in the first two. She is not going to do it for you.
This rule applies to non romantic encounters. Someone who flakes such as promising to meet you then bailing without saying anything is blatantly disrespectful and has an integrity issue.
I always go for the kiss on date #1. If she's into you, she will kiss you, period.
I have always been adamant about number 4, definitely a huge waste of time. You say 3 months , I SAY even 6 months or more for me. Those girls won't even sleep with you, they will just ramble on about their ex all the time.
Your content is solid BTW 👌🏾
If she tells that her last breakup was brutal and there was betrayal involved, 3 months is too little time. In those cases it could take a year or more for a person to get over the breakup and be ready to date again for real.
Using a majority of your time connecting with un-interested people diminishes your own image and you will not be attractive to others. In the converse if you connected with a couple of people with intense and seriously high attention, this will be your norm and others will be able to see you as an attractive male.
Yeah, I just let one go that was texting days later. I finally said “I flexible over the next couple of weeks, reach out when you have time.” I didn’t hear back and didn’t expect to. But I wasn’t going to keep playing this game.
I would add that I prefer to clearly disengage with a reason rather than ghosting. I think it's the right thing to do.
Class
Fuck that woman do that all the time modern women don’t give a shit about men but you do screw that get your balls back
If you're going to break things off, do it face to face with the person....not a text or over the phone, and about only an hour before you were supposed to go out on a date. A girl did that to me once years ago. Very poor taste.
Wow if only I saw this 3 months ago
I’m a time waster but I’m honest,I’m not looking for anything at all right now so I might be really flake or loose interest. I get a proached but that doesn’t mean I want you ,I don’t want to bruise no one ego anymore
Not trying to blow my own horn, but many times, as a man in his 40’s, I feel women are talking to me wasting their time . (Man).
When I was in my 20’s or 30’s I needed clues but after 40, I know what I like, now when I like a woman I make it known, you’ll know.
Even with religious situations, a vast majority engrain sexual shame against us or else we're "sinning" for feeling attracted to the opposite gender, and expect us to magically reveal our desires after marriage.
not going to lie the girl i liked just recent told me she cant get over her ex from 3 years ago just sucks because she is a really good person.
i can introduce you to a man who can bring your ex back permanently without delay
+1 (213)5 8 7-4 45 3
Message him on WhatsApp
@@alrightmichael3950 You sound like you're offering a necromancy service.
@@velenvskaelhas he really helped me get back my ex permanently
I like this information!! Hey Tripp why do I feel like I am the only one who starts the conversation first when starting to talk to a woman??
I feel you bro.
I did number 5 when younger and stuck around, before I knew the girl was just sleeping around. Never do this trust me.
Very good video. I actually realized of many of them years ago. Sometimes it's fun to take all her excuses and make the date happen but yes its a waste of time so I only do it if I'm already "moving" with 2 or more other girls.
I had one recently, where it took 3 messages before she replied. She said she was still interested but I didn't feel I could continue messaging or meet up. The enthusiasm had gone by that point,so I moved on.
I should add that this took a week before I got a reply.
Move on!
Ignore her forevermore!
Have standards
I don’t understand men that keep pursuing modern western women. You guys do understand that these women have multiple men after them why are you guys doing the same thing? Fuck those women why do you pursue something that doesn’t give two shits about you?
Number 5 is very important.happened with me tonight.after 2 long years she said her senior proposed me. And now she is dating...lolz
My girlfriend dumped me and after 20 days she was already with another guy and they knew each other for about 1/2months. This happened in 2015 and they are still together
i can introduce you to a man who can bring your ex back permanently without delay
+1 (213)5 8 7-4 4 5 3
Message him on WhatsApp
Good for them
Great material Tripp 👏🏻
5 Signs She’s Wasting Your Time:
1 - She's with you
2 - She's with you
3 - She's with you
4 - She's with you
5 - She's with you
Tripp is right on time though
Do you do the hooked programme from what I understand it's a comprehensive programme which includes how to escalate etc
damn needed this
You know what’s funny once you flip it on these modern women you will see how desperate and clingy they are. I have a woman right now that I have been trying to get rid of for months I hardly ever text her back. I never ask her out I never initiate conversation and she just won’t get it, I’m just not that into her she’s super annoying I’ve known her for a while we’ve been intimate a couple times but it hasn’t been that great so I lost interest but literally she’ll text me at least once a week with your normal bullshit. What are you doing? I’m thinking about you blah blah blah I don’t respondand she’ll do it again the following week it’s hilarious
#4 has happened to me and as long as you know you're in that situation you can get them in bed on date one but it isn't worth it unless you know the status and you don't let her keep you from a woman that has long-term potential. If all you want is sex #4 type women are quick movers.
So whats wrong with ghosting them? Just move on!
it's heartless
If they don't respect your time especially with flaking and does it more than once, they deserve to be ghosted
There's a girl I've been seeing for the past month or so. She says one thing but her voice or actions say another for this example she says we're just friends (which whatever) I was with her at a local bands show we were having a couple drinks. I showed her a couple memes on my phone and another girl called me she looked at me and said who's (Then the girls name) in kind of an upset tone then she said "I don't care." But at the same time she always wants to hangout is always messaging me not asking for any favors (or anything like that and we've even had sex.(not drunk) But if I go to make any kind of move outside of that she always has something to say as to why not. Needless to say I'm very confused Is this someone I should stop seeing/talking to?
We are friends means i am not interested in you
Hey tripp!! I need a little bit of advice
I met a girl and she acts interested in me...she sometimes feels jealous...she also engages text message conversation every single night... and she is always kind of waiting to receive a text message from me... and we talk over phone almost every single day....and I asked her if she would like to be my girlfriend...and she told me that it wasn't the right time..she doesn't wanna envolve in any kind of relationship now and she told me that she wanted to enjoy the single life
And she also asked me if I could wait 2/3 years for her... Because she would like to envolve in a relationship after 2/3 years!! But she's not sure about me though...every time I ask for a clear answer if she would go on a relationship with me after 2/3 years or not...she tells me "We'll see after 2 years...but for now let us enjoy our time together" so... should I wait for her just as she asked? Or should I put her on the clear friendzone and move on? Is she wasting my time?? Plz reply!!
Have some self respect my dude. That's not what YOU want, which is most important. Move on she is wasting your time.
Bro.. clearly I can see you're in the Friend zone..she see you as a friend..there will be no guarantee after 2years she will be your girlfriend..she just don't want to hurt you emotionally that's why she's lying..I hate this kind of girl's who wasting time and makes you confused.. it's better you move on.. approach new girls..there are lots of single women who're more interested in you.. All the best
It sounds like you may have messed this up by asking her to be your girlfriend. She may have been into you at the beginning and possibly wanting a friends with benefits relationship with you, but when you asked her to be your girlfriend it took her by surprise and turned her off. She’s telling you to wait 2-3 years because in actuality she isn’t interested anymore and doesn’t have the balls to tell you the truth. She probably just likes the attention that you give her and is only keeping you around for those attention dopamine spikes. Your best bet is to tell her you’re not interested in pursuing her anymore and look elsewhere. If you can let at least a couple months go by maybe like 6 months and then try to find a way to “coincidentally” bump into that girl again, you can then attempt to reattract her all over again, and act more like a fuck boy and don’t rush into a relationship. But this is not a guarantee so don’t dwell on it. She’s most likely just a waste of time from what it sounds like.
dude if you beg, you’re showing her that she is better than you. Respect yourself more than ANY woman. Focus on your passion, workout, and take care of yourself. If you do those 3 things, she might swallow her words. Never chase women because you ain’t a dog, my brother. Stop texting her and don’t ever text her when she is not texting you. And also if she texts you, reply for at least 5 hours or more. And also watch Darius M, also a great dating coach like Tripp but he focuses more about what you should do about certain situations just like your situation.
Tripp’s channel focuses more about what you need to do on a date (conversations, flirting, etc.)
Darius M’s channel focuses more about what you need to do on how to get more women (mostly what you need to do to be appealing to women)
Hey I’m in a similar situation but she’s 13 and I’m 16 and she keep saying she’s too young to be in a relationship, what should I do?
A like for the relationship and EX point. 🔥👍
Getting the kiss at date 1 is a problem?
What if they willing to meetup but won’t let you escalate even after 3 dates
Ask her why in a funny way.
@@isakmustafa9704 no
If she's not responding to escalations after 3 dates (2 more dates than needed), she won't respond after 100 dates, maybe not even after marriage (except when she cheats on you, which is usually the outcome).
Sod that I'm outttt by 3 dates
Won't work for country like India I guess 😂
Kiss on date 3 😳
That's a clear harrasment case
No mate, That is just not true. I have friends who have took a girl home 20 minutes after meeting up. I, personally have banged some on the first date.
Where can I ask?
seriously man.. experienced this first hand... Girls not willing to meet up for a long time... finally agreed after 2 months of texting & calls, given these Corona times are at hand.
After 1st date, conversed for 2 weeks... she's kinda ghosted me now saying that I have depression issues, that I need to work upon at my end...
Conclusion.. waste of time.. need to drop her now... even though I like her intense, but cant afford to waste my time, right ?
Can someone tell me the 5? I don't have time
definitely
ive actual have my fam and friends and their a waste of time i'm actual in a new friendship my old friends and i are done and i had to move on same with my brother from cananda and now i have a ton of dirty besties who i can share my life with Lol were all (bff's) Lol defe friends i should be dating totally worth it omg
of cousre we started hanging since 2020 year learning new things together getting to know each other hanging out at work it's just who we are us being us)
hey guys it's us fason, fersha, and fimmy, we starting hanging too like u guys hanging together like a family Lol
hey guys what's up we would love to hang with u 3
i can introduce you to a man who can bring your ex back permanently without delay
+1 (213)5 8 7-4 45 3
Message him on WhatsApp
My ex wants to “fight for me”. But when we are together she wants me to be her Beta guy
She is an Ex Just forget about her bro.
i can introduce you to a man who can bring your ex back permanently without delay
+1 (213)5 8 7-4 45 3
Message him on WhatsApp
I really need to hear this!!! 🙄
Hello Tripp, before the relationship begins women text me first saying "hello my love". I calmly respond "hello how are you". Is this normal? How should i respond? and after talking with with them, I find out that they are emotionally broken. should i be a friend or what? Most of them are out of state.
i can introduce you to a man who can bring your ex back permanently without delay
+1 (213)5 8 7-4 45 3
Message him on WhatsApp
@@alrightmichael3950 The thing is that i don't know these women personally until after we started talking. the women was strangers. i was just being polite and friendly. Now i am in a triangle with two women from different states that don't want to be hurt(heart broken) by any more men. At this point i consider us friends or close friends until we meet in person. i am trying to heal their wounds. i know this wont be easy.
@@samhobbs2746 message him on WhatsApp for help now
Don't date women that don't drink alcohol. You will find they are uptight and not any fun, you will never get anywhere with them.