Shuuu,this left me in tears. Karabo may the Lord give you strength and guide you Ausi. Madam Speaker, your love and compassion are heartwarming. May the Lord continue to shine His light upon you and all the best with your book 💝💝💝
Madam Speaker thanks alot for this PODCAST. Great job. Keep going. My love goes out to your guest and all the young abused innocent kids and their families.
Karabo, you are strong and beautiful. You have survived and will get stronger from this point. Thank you for speaking out. May your courage to speak give others the courage too. May there be justice for these precious girls. May he face the consequences for his actions. And can someone please warn the churches in Zimbabwe. 😢 😭 💔
Great interview, she honestly had no capacity to help anyone after the discovery. Madam Speaker I want to comment you on your growth in this space of podcasting but also as a child of God. There was a time you used to speak on your TikTok videos and I could tell that like myself you have fallen off the grace. Whatever that experience was, it edified the calling embedded in you. I can tell you're back in his ways but not as a religious being. May God increase your territory in Jesus Christ name.
Karabo keep on praying, God is bigger than all problems and never give up on anyone, He always answers prayers, it may be delayed but surely the answer will come. Thank you for sharing.
Yaz this lady didn't do anything she's also a victim here but she keeps on apologising for lomgulukudu ozenza umfundisi. I pray that God restores you my sister ❤
Karabo God Loves you so sooo much. Rise up my and pick up the broken pieces. You are a woman of God rise up Karabo rise up dont listen to the enemies voice. The devil comes to kill steal and destroy. Dont give the enemy a chance my sister
Thank you for this interview. But as I grow up I have learnt something, NO ONE CHOOSES HIS/HER PARENTS. It does matter what he did but let the children know the truth. He is still their father. The earlier they get to know then they will make a choice. Truth will set us free.
Pray for him wherever he is let God meet with him through your prayers as a born again Christian sone tests and trials are beyond what we can handle. But Jesus is in the boat with us.
Blessed evening my sister in the Lord the Bible not all who says Lord Lord shall enter the Kingdom of God but only those who are doing the will of God, wolf in the sheep skin Amen Hallelujah Period. Greatestevangelistever Of The People Of The Word Outreach Ministries Mgidi Gaurapelwi Msebenzi Nkosi Dhlamini uJama KaStshadu Zizi Sibalukhulu Malandela.
My God. This was so powerful. Your words Madam speaker they speak to every single woman . And Karabo, you are so brave, beautiful and humble. I believe you have dealt with this situation well.
God? Clown. You christians will always be sacrifical lambs. Africa must wake up. These Pastors, Sheiks or Imams are all criminals and religion is a tool used to exploit the gullible
Hi Madam Speaker I watched your show with Sis Karabo if possible may you please provide me with Karabo numbers because if think I might know this person I think he was married to my sister in law in Zimbabwe and he did the same with her.
Wow ! what a true and strong statement from a man himself . But some I think like you are okay though one cannot identify them since no-one has a mark on his forehead that says “ BE CAREFUL “ or “RUN AWAY” May we really seek God more as women especially to have a discerning spirit , kudlaliwe ngathi in the name of LOVE and our being kind-hearted and easy believing
Mama i hope you healed my heart is broken how woman got abused Realy beautiful lady like you are May God deliver this country .Im so sorry mama May God give you strength to raise the kids . I thank You to rise up a nd stand for the truth .
The poor children who have not had justice… The police who refused to simply extradite someone from a neighbouring country to serve time for a crime he committed… It’s stories like these that freighter me the most about being a South African. Karabo and madam speaker, I hope you can find it in your heart to stand up for these children. To push the police to at least arrest this serial rapist. For all we know there are more recent victims. Our children truly are not safe in this country!
The advice at the end of this interview is phenomenal. She certainly cannot have people crucifying her for what she too was a victim of. She deserves even more compassion, this man was her husband for God's sake.
I'm sorry karabo and all the girls involved 😢... May we kindly know the guy's name please maybe he has opened another church in Zimbabwe and his behavior is still continuing our justice system this side is $hit and nothing will done. So may we please get to know his name
As women, we need to do better. Can't turn a blind eye to children being sexually assaulted right under your noses, then hiding behind "putting myself first." No ma'am. "The ultimate tragedy is not the oppression and cruelty by the bad people, but the silence over that by the good people" It's not about taking responsibility for another person's actions but speaking up against evil and doing everything possible to bring justice. Not so long ago, a woman was talking about how her husband was sentenced to life in prison, under similar circumstances. She fought until justice was served
Hi Karabo I’m so touched by your story, but I want to say to you is that what you went through is a ministry on its own. You need to help pastors wives who are going through what you went through. To be honest there’s few I know women married to these narcissists but it’s not easy for me to approach them. I trust that God will help them 😢
Guys 😊i was.a Domestic workers for the pass.40 years my children grown up with no father but thy are ok now 2024,work on your self and children and move on with your life girl ,Well Educated Lady's are so scare to moved on thy own, You never born with this Men, you born alone ,you will die alone,do things on your own, sometimes in life, we can't all get merried happyly ever after some will have that 💙, All Lady's lets face this word with preparation 💙 😅😅😅
I can agree with you on the fact that we are so desperate to be called a “ MRS “ to a point that we are easily deceived and ready to sacrifice much of our life’s joy because of men who careless about us but use us for their own benefits . Men have studied us and now are playing tricks on us . Women , let’s love ourselves more and believe God for our joy because it’s not that you can’t have joy without a man , you can , God is the giver of everything in our lives as He is the one who created us . Let’s not depend on men , our joy and happiness are with God not men . Satan strongly use them to destroy us
I can agree with you on the fact that we are so desperate to be called a “ MRS “ to a point that we are easily deceived and ready to sacrifice much of our life’s joy because of men who careless about us but use us for their own benefits . Men have studied us and now are playing tricks on us . Women , let’s love ourselves more and believe God for our joy because it’s not that you can’t have joy without a man , you can , God is the giver of everything in our lives as He is the one who created us . Let’s not depend on men , our joy and happiness are with God not men . Satan strongly use them to destroy us
I believe God is moved by our feelings but is not change by them. He sees us and sees our plans before him to help us accomplish the desires of our hearts.
If an under age girl is telling me my husband slept with her(Rape) I'm calling the cops immediately. I would not ask or ever talk to him again. I would not even look at him.
The thing about life is that often times we don't encounter struggles that we're prepared for. When trouble comes our it's always a shocks , shames and paralysis us. It's only through hind sight than we see the options that are better than the one we opted for. Also, its easier to see a solution to a problem when you're not the one experiencing the problem . Madam speaker you certainly, graciously closed this episode well. I pray for total healing and deliverance for all the victims including the children who came out of the marriage. Imagine their own trauma when the time comes for them to understand the full scale of their parents separation. Jehovah help all Your childrenin Jesus Christ Merciful Name Amen.🙏🙏🙏
Nokuthula you are saying that because you are not in that situation. This lady suffered but tried to remain sane, hence she's able to narrate her ordeal. This is not about you.
@@nomondembambisa2485 I know it's not about me but I'm sure she knows people will have opinions after sharing her story and mine is that if I were in her shoes I would call the cops immediately. I don't even understand how she chose to turn a blind eye when the guy was kicked out of the first church because of such accusations. Should have ran sooner, where there's smoke there's always fire especially in such situations.
You need to post his picture when you talk about him, warning the people who are currently around him. He is still abusing young girls. That is why he ran away. He needs to be in jail.
I think madam Karabo still need counselling together with her children. I could see pain behind her laugh/smile. She was in dillema and probably did not know what to do, she is equally a victim. My prayer goes to all the victims and their family. Hope the culprit will be brought to book.
The truth will set her free , the act of hiding his whereabouts , even alerting the perpetrator of the police visit as well as packing for him oh no let her free her conscience about all her contribution which ended up freeing the culprit . Don’t hear me wrong I fully pity her for what happened to her but now God trusts her to take a good stand in order to stop this bad habit . May she find strength from God to do the right thinking as a Christian .
True dear I agree fully. I pray for Kara o her children and Family. The victims their Family also may God heal them. And I pray that they keep on loving and believing in God and not loose their faith.
Yah, the lady failed the girls indeed because she kept on warning this husband that police are looking for him. She even packed his bags for him, knowing very well that he wanted to flee the country, to avoid her own embarrassment. Everything is me, me, me.. Nothing about those poor girls. She should inform the police where he works in necsa. Necsa is a key national point and as soon as he goes there to claim pension, the police should be alerted. There's security personnel there that works with the National intelligence. Then the pension can go to the kids, this is easy. But the lady need to work with the police on this one. Im disappointed in her, she aided and abeited this paedophile for her own selfish needs. Even now, she still feels she's the victim. She did nothing to help those girls. This guy was going to do it to his own kids. Go to necsa sesi, its in Phelindaba, the pension fund works differently. This is a crime against children, so it's a state case. I have no sympathy for this lady shem. I'm angry.
Please... reconsider. The man is a deceiver. He is 17 years older than Karabo. That on its own was a red flag. Nonetheless, Karabo and her family saw the spirit and the power of God. Which was true, but he took advantage and manipulated the whole thing. He misused his mentor's teachings. So, Karabo was deceived just as much as these young girls. She speaks the truth, and she failed no one. Myself, suffered hate, constant rebukes without Christ love from that man. Little did I realise that everyday when he would ill-treat me or tell me that I am not good enough, that God would see my tears every night and He would consider the meditations of my heart. The man looked down on many of us because we were not blessed like him, we were not wise enough or spiritual. I guess the heart, his heart was wicked. And I am not enjoying his punishment, what he is going through. God who is the judge, not me or you, has purpose for each and everyone of us. The same purpose/ role that Judas Iscariot played for Christ crucifixion, and all the others in the Bible. So, he just needs to repent, face the music, and come back to God because God is love. Even though yena was unable to treat us with love. But God's love covers multitude of sins.
Please... reconsider. The man is a deceiver. He is 17 years older than Karabo. That on its own was a red flag. Nonetheless, Karabo and her family saw the spirit and the power of God. Which was true, but he took advantage and manipulated the whole thing. He misused his mentor's teachings. So, Karabo was deceived just as much as these young girls. She speaks the truth, and she failed no one. Myself, suffered hate, constant rebukes without Christ love from that man. Little did I realise that everyday when he would ill-treat me or tell me that I am not good enough, that God would see my tears every night and He would consider the meditations of my heart. The man looked down on many of us because we were not blessed like him, we were not wise enough or spiritual. I guess the heart, his heart was wicked. And I am not enjoying his punishment, what he is going through. God who is the judge, not me or you, has purpose for each and everyone of us. The same purpose/ role that Judas Iscariot played for Christ crucifixion, and all the others in the Bible. So, he just needs to repent, face the music, and come back to God because God is love. Even though yena was unable to treat us with love. But God's love covers multitude of sins.
Im furious too She act as a victim she failed this girls dismissal. Blaming our justice system. When she is mother herself im so disappointed on this mother
Honestly most of our sisters, usually they are quick to discover who are they married too or dating but they choose to stay and hoping for change. Woman are gifted to study men easily.
For all that women go through, they do not end anybody's life, we soldier on with the trauma healing one day at at a time. Our children, the community we built around ourselves help us see tomorrow.
After listening to this story , she was supposed to work with the police and locate him and hand him over to the police. She is not helping the situation…That guy is a monster and you are helping to hide him
I think this guy was involved in a cult and darkness. I think his home can tell us more about this charlatans from Zimbabwe who come hear to feed their lust and snakes for ukuthwala. May God be with you
It is not too late to find justice for those kids. That is why there is Interpol. To redeem herself, from a parent that once failed the child under similar situation, I would advise that she approach the families of the children whom she knows had wanted justice. I do have a network of National GBVF which is hands on deck on such matters. Pedos don't heal, they don't stop until they die, they would violate children on their death bed. I want to state that he is a loose cannon that is violating more kids where he is. Even those kids deserve to be protected even if they are in foreign country. It is the least Karabo could do to try and find justice for those kids. For all we know he may have changed his identity and be back in the country at a different place violating more kids.
I am so sorry you had to go through what you did with your girls. I for one understand where she has been because she was groomed. You can shoot me if I am to openly say I failed my own child for 8 yrs. I am just glad that she openly admit what she did but I also feel her admission is not enough if not accompanied by actions. She is out of the grooming process now, she has a civic duty to so right starting by telling the police every detail of his possible whereabouts. His relatives, his possible village he want to and every other little detail needed. Any information she may give, may make a difference in the advancement of the case. Talking on Tiktok and Podcast is great but actions are needed to do right by those kids.
My sister you must put a photo up of this perpetrator and put his name on so that people will know. If he come to South africa 🇿🇦 again we will know who he is
What a traumatising story, Cc Karabo is also a victim just caught up in the devil's web but we are just glad she is stronger now for her kids. Just wish the mothers of the victim could understand she is affected too
We need the name of this guy, in Zim he can be tracked and be bought to justice this can't be imagine how many girls he is destroying. Name please we will look for him.
The saddest part about this is the police stating their inability to act until the alleged perpetrator returns to SA. South Africa has extradition treaties with numerous countries worldwide and is a member of Interpol, SADC, and the AU. Surely, securing the return of an individual to face trial for the alleged rape of young children should be a feasible endeavour.
@@nthabisengdlamini4971 if you never put yourself in the shoes of others you will always think you are righteous. How do u say that...how? Doesn't God alone know all things. Why would this woman lie,as young as she is, never having ever thought she would be in this predicament. Anyway ❤
Sorry iam not God, but the biggest lesson is loving and getting married to a person because he is a pastor. God is teaching us that a human being is calpable of doing anything eregardless of his role in society. Nobody is righteous on earth, we are all evil untill proven otherwise by God on Judgement day.
Im puzzled by the Black Cat you kept seeing..That He was so defensive of I wonder if this is deeper than we think..Some kind of Intwalo of some sort..If that is the case, Then those girls needs Deliverance
May God protect this lovely woman and her children for what she's gone through by the so called pervert of a pastor and thank you Madam Speaker and God bless you and keep up the good work.
Pastors. Pastors, I hope you all read these stories. It's bad, very bad, to use God a scapegoat to fulfil your dirty feelings. Stay strong, lady. God is with you all the step of the way. Try your best to reach out to the girls and families. I filly understand where you were in your life. Hence, you didn't reach out to them. You were deeply wounded and confused. All was like a film, or you were dreaming . God bless you and your family.
Sis Karabo , am sorry for what you went through , though you clearly stated to that witch who pretended to be a pastor wearing a sheep skin but being the greatest hyena inside , what type of life you wished for when you first met him , taking from how you were raised and the good picture of marriage painted by your parents WOW MEN ! But I do also feel that you need to play a role in exposing him as one has also commented . God will protect you , culprits should not go free of charge . What I’m scared of is that he’ll continue where he is . Let’s protect others through your wise and courageous move and input on this matter . I know you didn’t send him to do all this evil acts and also you yourself are hurt but for those parent’s victims sake and the danger he may cause to others where he is , in my opinion I feel you need to stand out for the truth and expose his whereabouts so that he’ll get what he deserves and be in a place where he won’t continue destroying our innocent little girls . Trusting God you’ll be safe , He protects us . Don’t fear evil , fear God who wants us to stand on truth side . Since this is a habit to him , am sure nothing will stop him to continue where he is . We’ll be with you in our prayers . Once again , sorry about what you went through . As Madam speaker wisely said it , don’t be angry on God but do approach Him and ask where things could have gone wrong that things ended up the way they did having given your life to him at your tender age . Sometimes we just take things at face value without asking God if we are doing the right thing or rather taking the right step . When God says : “ Don’t lean on your own understanding “ He really means it , our thoughts are constantly interfered by the devil who has not been glad that you decided not to choose him during your earlier age and now wants to pay back and cause you harm . We are at war in this world , we really need to be strong in our prayer life for God to intervene in our decisions . Thanks Madam speaker , I like your intellect 👌. I once listened to your story as well and I felt for you too , men are so cool to play us and in return find it easy to put a blame on us for their shortcomings . I’d love to buy your book when it’s out . God be with you as you continue interviewing people on your podcast ❤
This is truely sad 1 person can cause so much pain to so many people. This is so extremely complex amd to blame this lady for anything will be truely wrong...even right now she is still healing from this problem. This men are turning those who run to God to turn away from God. The devil hates us so much amd the devil will use a man to the far extent of dragging many to hell with him. This is such a painful story. A living horror.
Pray for the children ask God to forget about the father God is able to do when my husband left our home to stay with another woman l pray to God to remove the pain it was removed imedeatly prayer will bring peace to you and children they are not supose to blame you
Don't blame God the devil is the one who destroy your marriage in Jeremiah,29v11God said the plan l have for you is to prosper you not to harm you if you keep on blaming God you will remain struggling STOP Repent that is why they blame you blame God wrongly STOP
@@mandotsoai2911Makwerekwere le bona ke batho.Not everyone who is a foreigner is a bad person. Babang ba hantle ha holo. Bad people are found everyone. Le rona re nale banna ba seng right,who do extremely bad things so much that we get embarrassed when it's mentioned that he is one of us😢😢
Please guys let's put ourselves in her shoes then we will realize how difficult it is for her. However the question that was ommited is that did she knows that this guy is a foreigner. Please guys let's read a book that written by Proff_ex. He is taking them on " the dark world of benin ". I'm not promoting his book but It can open your eyes.
Madam Speaker, please remember you have an audience that doesn't understand your language and it ruins the narrative when guests like this dip between English and vernacular. She's fluent enough in English so could have told her story in a way we can follow.
Ask protection from God read psalm91and35 and54 and 140 the word of God is alive and active Hebrew4v12 God is good He will never hurt us don't blame God
What really caught me is the way the presenter wrapped up the session. You did a great job, madam speaker may the lord continue to bless you.
Shuuu,this left me in tears. Karabo may the Lord give you strength and guide you Ausi. Madam Speaker, your love and compassion are heartwarming. May the Lord continue to shine His light upon you and all the best with your book 💝💝💝
Madam speaker your words are very powerful😭😭😭thank you for the words of wisdom ❤
Madam Speaker thanks alot for this PODCAST. Great job. Keep going. My love goes out to your guest and all the young abused innocent kids and their families.
Karabo, you are strong and beautiful. You have survived and will get stronger from this point. Thank you for speaking out.
May your courage to speak give others the courage too.
May there be justice for these precious girls. May he face the consequences for his actions. And can someone please warn the churches in Zimbabwe. 😢 😭 💔
Whose this lady presenter shez so well articulated
Thanks ladies your stories gives us hope.people are going through the most let us learn to be grateful.thanks madam speaker n ur lovely guest
Great interview, she honestly had no capacity to help anyone after the discovery. Madam Speaker I want to comment you on your growth in this space of podcasting but also as a child of God. There was a time you used to speak on your TikTok videos and I could tell that like myself you have fallen off the grace. Whatever that experience was, it edified the calling embedded in you. I can tell you're back in his ways but not as a religious being. May God increase your territory in Jesus Christ name.
It is called the journey of life.
Karabo keep on praying, God is bigger than all problems and never give up on anyone, He always answers prayers, it may be delayed but surely the answer will come. Thank you for sharing.
Madam speaker thanx so much for helping people and give them a positive words may God Bless You and protect you all the time❤
First time watch the podcast Madam Speaker ❤find my self in tears
This story is too touching and it made me emotional😢. May the Almighty God keep you and protect you.🙏
Yaz this lady didn't do anything she's also a victim here but she keeps on apologising for lomgulukudu ozenza umfundisi. I pray that God restores you my sister ❤
God bless both of you .your story is very touching my sister be healed in Jesus name.
Karabo God Loves you so sooo much. Rise up my and pick up the broken pieces. You are a woman of God rise up Karabo rise up dont listen to the enemies voice. The devil comes to kill steal and destroy. Dont give the enemy a chance my sister
I like the way you interview the lady you show wisdom
Thank you for this interview. But as I grow up I have learnt something, NO ONE CHOOSES HIS/HER PARENTS. It does matter what he did but let the children know the truth. He is still their father. The earlier they get to know then they will make a choice. Truth will set us free.
Pray for him wherever he is let God meet with him through your prayers as a born again Christian sone tests and trials are beyond what we can handle. But Jesus is in the boat with us.
Blessed evening my sister in the Lord the Bible not all who says Lord Lord shall enter the Kingdom of God but only those who are doing the will of God, wolf in the sheep skin Amen Hallelujah Period. Greatestevangelistever Of The People Of The Word Outreach Ministries Mgidi Gaurapelwi Msebenzi Nkosi Dhlamini uJama KaStshadu Zizi Sibalukhulu Malandela.
I still warn our sisters and parents about the foreign pastors that they see them as God in their eyes. 😢
My God. This was so powerful. Your words Madam speaker they speak to every single woman . And Karabo, you are so brave, beautiful and humble. I believe you have dealt with this situation well.
Hi, Karabo. What does not kill you only makes you stronger. Hold on and hold out. God wants to use you to strengthen others. Continue to trust him.
God? Clown. You christians will always be sacrifical lambs. Africa must wake up. These Pastors, Sheiks or Imams are all criminals and religion is a tool used to exploit the gullible
Hi Madam Speaker
I watched your show with Sis Karabo if possible may you please provide me with Karabo numbers because if think I might know this person I think he was married to my sister in law in Zimbabwe and he did the same with her.
I respect you Karabo you're strong mom good example to other woman. As man we are animals pretending to be humans
Wow ! what a true and strong statement from a man himself . But some I think like you are okay though one cannot identify them since no-one has a mark on his forehead that says “ BE CAREFUL “ or “RUN AWAY” May we really seek God more as women especially to have a discerning spirit , kudlaliwe ngathi in the name of LOVE and our being kind-hearted and easy believing
Indoda yakho ithwele sisi wami
Isithwalo sisebenza ngama virgin girls.
Look at Ps.Timothy Omotoso
Usathane uyakwazi ukukhava ububi bakhe,look at the Muslim they give food to the people & clothes etc.
May God give you strength and many more blessed days, for you raise your beautiful children ❤
Beware of foreign nationals, it's easy for them to just pack up and go, think about your children
Hi ladies ❤❤I really loved this show you growing us thanks God about this platform
Mama i hope you healed my heart is broken how woman got abused Realy beautiful lady like you are May God deliver this country .Im so sorry mama May God give you strength to raise the kids . I thank You to rise up a nd stand for the truth .
The poor children who have not had justice… The police who refused to simply extradite someone from a neighbouring country to serve time for a crime he committed… It’s stories like these that freighter me the most about being a South African. Karabo and madam speaker, I hope you can find it in your heart to stand up for these children. To push the police to at least arrest this serial rapist. For all we know there are more recent victims. Our children truly are not safe in this country!
The advice at the end of this interview is phenomenal. She certainly cannot have people crucifying her for what she too was a victim of. She deserves even more compassion, this man was her husband for God's sake.
I'm sorry karabo and all the girls involved 😢... May we kindly know the guy's name please maybe he has opened another church in Zimbabwe and his behavior is still continuing our justice system this side is $hit and nothing will done. So may we please get to know his name
Am watching this video for the second time and wooooooow Madam Speaker you were brought here for this sisi😢😢 enkosi. Oh what a powerful interview❤
Same
May the good God grant you strength as for the kids continue praying for them i know that my God will never fail you Amen 🙏
As women, we need to do better. Can't turn a blind eye to children being sexually assaulted right under your noses, then hiding behind "putting myself first." No ma'am. "The ultimate tragedy is not the oppression and cruelty by the bad people, but the silence over that by the good people"
It's not about taking responsibility for another person's actions but speaking up against evil and doing everything possible to bring justice. Not so long ago, a woman was talking about how her husband was sentenced to life in prison, under similar circumstances. She fought until justice was served
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Love yr voices...beautiful
What a lovely lady you are cc. Devil always chose best of the best. You will overcome all this sthandwa sami. You did no wrong. 😢
Hi Karabo
I’m so touched by your story, but I want to say to you is that what you went through is a ministry on its own. You need to help pastors wives who are going through what you went through. To be honest there’s few I know women married to these narcissists but it’s not easy for me to approach them. I trust that God will help them 😢
Tebogo ❤❤❤❤ excellent point. God bless you 🙏
Guys 😊i was.a Domestic workers for the pass.40 years my children grown up with no father but thy are ok now 2024,work on your self and children and move on with your life girl ,Well Educated Lady's are so scare to moved on thy own, You never born with this Men, you born alone ,you will die alone,do things on your own, sometimes in life, we can't all get merried happyly ever after some will have that 💙, All Lady's lets face this word with preparation 💙 😅😅😅
I can agree with you on the fact that we are so desperate to be called a “ MRS “ to a point that we are easily deceived and ready to sacrifice much of our life’s joy because of men who careless about us but use us for their own benefits . Men have studied us and now are playing tricks on us . Women , let’s love ourselves more and believe God for our joy because it’s not that you can’t have joy without a man , you can , God is the giver of everything in our lives as He is the one who created us . Let’s not depend on men , our joy and happiness are with God not men . Satan strongly use them to destroy us
I can agree with you on the fact that we are so desperate to be called a “ MRS “ to a point that we are easily deceived and ready to sacrifice much of our life’s joy because of men who careless about us but use us for their own benefits . Men have studied us and now are playing tricks on us . Women , let’s love ourselves more and believe God for our joy because it’s not that you can’t have joy without a man , you can , God is the giver of everything in our lives as He is the one who created us . Let’s not depend on men , our joy and happiness are with God not men . Satan strongly use them to destroy us
I believe God is moved by our feelings but is not change by them. He sees us and sees our plans before him to help us accomplish the desires of our hearts.
You will keep being used
If an under age girl is telling me my husband slept with her(Rape) I'm calling the cops immediately. I would not ask or ever talk to him again. I would not even look at him.
The thing about life is that often times we don't encounter struggles that we're prepared for. When trouble comes our it's always a shocks , shames and paralysis us. It's only through hind sight than we see the options that are better than the one we opted for. Also, its easier to see a solution to a problem when you're not the one experiencing the problem . Madam speaker you certainly, graciously closed this episode well. I pray for total healing and deliverance for all the victims including the children who came out of the marriage. Imagine their own trauma when the time comes for them to understand the full scale of their parents separation. Jehovah help all Your childrenin Jesus Christ Merciful Name Amen.🙏🙏🙏
Nokuthula you are saying that because you are not in that situation. This lady suffered but tried to remain sane, hence she's able to narrate her ordeal. This is not about you.
@@nomondembambisa2485 I know it's not about me but I'm sure she knows people will have opinions after sharing her story and mine is that if I were in her shoes I would call the cops immediately. I don't even understand how she chose to turn a blind eye when the guy was kicked out of the first church because of such accusations. Should have ran sooner, where there's smoke there's always fire especially in such situations.
@@nokuthulasimelane545 some people it takes them time to process things
I wouldn't pack his bag either
You need to post his picture when you talk about him, warning the people who are currently around him. He is still abusing young girls. That is why he ran away. He needs to be in jail.
So he never got arrested, iyhooo
I think madam Karabo still need counselling together with her children. I could see pain behind her laugh/smile. She was in dillema and probably did not know what to do, she is equally a victim. My prayer goes to all the victims and their family. Hope the culprit will be brought to book.
True
The truth will set her free , the act of hiding his whereabouts , even alerting the perpetrator of the police visit as well as packing for him oh no let her free her conscience about all her contribution which ended up freeing the culprit . Don’t hear me wrong I fully pity her for what happened to her but now God trusts her to take a good stand in order to stop this bad habit . May she find strength from God to do the right thinking as a Christian .
True dear I agree fully. I pray for Kara o her children and Family. The victims their Family also may God heal them. And I pray that they keep on loving and believing in God and not loose their faith.
We are here for it.
Hi anonymous thank you for sharing your story.
Praying for healing in Jesus name. Amen.
Yah, the lady failed the girls indeed because she kept on warning this husband that police are looking for him. She even packed his bags for him, knowing very well that he wanted to flee the country, to avoid her own embarrassment. Everything is me, me, me.. Nothing about those poor girls. She should inform the police where he works in necsa. Necsa is a key national point and as soon as he goes there to claim pension, the police should be alerted. There's security personnel there that works with the National intelligence. Then the pension can go to the kids, this is easy. But the lady need to work with the police on this one. Im disappointed in her, she aided and abeited this paedophile for her own selfish needs. Even now, she still feels she's the victim. She did nothing to help those girls. This guy was going to do it to his own kids.
Go to necsa sesi, its in Phelindaba, the pension fund works differently.
This is a crime against children, so it's a state case. I have no sympathy for this lady shem. I'm angry.
Please... reconsider. The man is a deceiver. He is 17 years older than Karabo. That on its own was a red flag. Nonetheless, Karabo and her family saw the spirit and the power of God. Which was true, but he took advantage and manipulated the whole thing. He misused his mentor's teachings. So, Karabo was deceived just as much as these young girls. She speaks the truth, and she failed no one.
Myself, suffered hate, constant rebukes without Christ love from that man. Little did I realise that everyday when he would ill-treat me or tell me that I am not good enough, that God would see my tears every night and He would consider the meditations of my heart. The man looked down on many of us because we were not blessed like him, we were not wise enough or spiritual. I guess the heart, his heart was wicked. And I am not enjoying his punishment, what he is going through. God who is the judge, not me or you, has purpose for each and everyone of us. The same purpose/ role that Judas Iscariot played for Christ crucifixion, and all the others in the Bible.
So, he just needs to repent, face the music, and come back to God because God is love. Even though yena was unable to treat us with love. But God's love covers multitude of sins.
Please... reconsider. The man is a deceiver. He is 17 years older than Karabo. That on its own was a red flag. Nonetheless, Karabo and her family saw the spirit and the power of God. Which was true, but he took advantage and manipulated the whole thing. He misused his mentor's teachings. So, Karabo was deceived just as much as these young girls. She speaks the truth, and she failed no one.
Myself, suffered hate, constant rebukes without Christ love from that man. Little did I realise that everyday when he would ill-treat me or tell me that I am not good enough, that God would see my tears every night and He would consider the meditations of my heart. The man looked down on many of us because we were not blessed like him, we were not wise enough or spiritual. I guess the heart, his heart was wicked. And I am not enjoying his punishment, what he is going through. God who is the judge, not me or you, has purpose for each and everyone of us. The same purpose/ role that Judas Iscariot played for Christ crucifixion, and all the others in the Bible.
So, he just needs to repent, face the music, and come back to God because God is love. Even though yena was unable to treat us with love. But God's love covers multitude of sins.
You are angry at the wrong people. Your anger should be directed to the perpetrator, who abused those girls and also his wife
Exactly my thots ....this one was and still is so selfish man!.......🚮
Im furious too
She act as a victim she failed this girls dismissal.
Blaming our justice system.
When she is mother herself im so disappointed on this mother
Honestly most of our sisters, usually they are quick to discover who are they married too or dating but they choose to stay and hoping for change. Woman are gifted to study men easily.
Most within one month but we drag it for years
For all that women go through, they do not end anybody's life, we soldier on with the trauma healing one day at at a time. Our children, the community we built around ourselves help us see tomorrow.
Klijouodyrteuyetejeyegejwyeeyueu😊
After listening to this story , she was supposed to work with the police and locate him and hand him over to the police. She is not helping the situation…That guy is a monster and you are helping to hide him
ngipheni inamba kadadewethu ngifuna sikhuleke kanye naye. she is a good woman that one.
I'm motivated by Madam speaker that God has a purpose for us that I live no matter what we going through
I think this guy was involved in a cult and darkness. I think his home can tell us more about this charlatans from Zimbabwe who come hear to feed their lust and snakes for ukuthwala. May God be with you
I still broken about this because those girls were my choir and I feel like I failed them 💔 😪 😢 but we need your help karabo you were not there for us
It is not too late to find justice for those kids. That is why there is Interpol.
To redeem herself, from a parent that once failed the child under similar situation, I would advise that she approach the families of the children whom she knows had wanted justice. I do have a network of National GBVF which is hands on deck on such matters.
Pedos don't heal, they don't stop until they die, they would violate children on their death bed. I want to state that he is a loose cannon that is violating more kids where he is. Even those kids deserve to be protected even if they are in foreign country.
It is the least Karabo could do to try and find justice for those kids.
For all we know he may have changed his identity and be back in the country at a different place violating more kids.
I am so sorry you had to go through what you did with your girls.
I for one understand where she has been because she was groomed. You can shoot me if I am to openly say I failed my own child for 8 yrs. I am just glad that she openly admit what she did but I also feel her admission is not enough if not accompanied by actions.
She is out of the grooming process now, she has a civic duty to so right starting by telling the police every detail of his possible whereabouts. His relatives, his possible village he want to and every other little detail needed. Any information she may give, may make a difference in the advancement of the case.
Talking on Tiktok and Podcast is great but actions are needed to do right by those kids.
I have been avoiding to watch this episode just from the heading, it is very triggering to me.
Im so sorry babe i hope and pray this girls get justice sooner
@@cyliamotsoenengzengelewe expect so much from her maybe she is not mentally ok people deal with situations differently.
My sister you must put a photo up of this perpetrator and put his name on so that people will know.
If he come to South africa 🇿🇦 again we will know who he is
Because he's moved somewhere else to do the same to new victims
I just love how cool Karabo is ❤🧡
Karabo ausi sending you all the love♥♥ Hope the girls get all the help they need. Madam Speaker, you the best ausi.♥♥♥
What a traumatising story, Cc Karabo is also a victim just caught up in the devil's web but we are just glad she is stronger now for her kids. Just wish the mothers of the victim could understand she is affected too
Yooo yaa nee .we are going through a lot as women..Im shocked by the man of God's doing 💔💔💔
We need the name of this guy, in Zim he can be tracked and be bought to justice this can't be imagine how many girls he is destroying. Name please we will look for him.
The saddest part about this is the police stating their inability to act until the alleged perpetrator returns to SA. South Africa has extradition treaties with numerous countries worldwide and is a member of Interpol, SADC, and the AU. Surely, securing the return of an individual to face trial for the alleged rape of young children should be a feasible endeavour.
I hope this lady heals and forgives herself.
She's a victim .
You are strong and with your courage and willingness. Healing will be possible😊
Had you not called him telling him the cops are looking for him,he could have been arrested. My thinking.
And she knows very well where he is
@@nthabisengdlamini4971 if you never put yourself in the shoes of others you will always think you are righteous.
How do u say that...how?
Doesn't God alone know all things.
Why would this woman lie,as young as she is, never having ever thought she would be in this predicament.
Anyway ❤
Sorry iam not God, but the biggest lesson is loving and getting married to a person because he is a pastor. God is teaching us that a human being is calpable of doing anything eregardless of his role in society. Nobody is righteous on earth, we are all evil untill proven otherwise by God on Judgement day.
Im puzzled by the Black Cat you kept seeing..That He was so defensive of
I wonder if this is deeper than we think..Some kind of Intwalo of some sort..If that is the case, Then those girls needs Deliverance
May God protect this lovely woman and her children for what she's gone through by the so called pervert of a pastor and thank you Madam Speaker and God bless you and keep up the good work.
Lomfundisi bekathwele
Good advise God be wirh your my sistwrl
I don't think she wanted him to be arrested.
Me too
Why did she warn him about the case
I hate that some men mess up and society expects women to clean up after them. This lady is also a victim; she did what she could at the time.
Pastors. Pastors, I hope you all read these stories. It's bad, very bad, to use God a scapegoat to fulfil your dirty feelings. Stay strong, lady. God is with you all the step of the way. Try your best to reach out to the girls and families. I filly understand where you were in your life. Hence, you didn't reach out to them. You were deeply wounded and confused. All was like a film, or you were dreaming . God bless you and your family.
Madam speaker 😢did you make me regret what I was thinking about this lady. Sorry my dear sister
❤i am so sorry to the victims and their families. Karabo, i am very sorry Ausi.
Tjoo sad story people are going through a lot hlena
Madam Speaker thank you for your encouragement to us as women of Faith and Believe
How about requesting a court order to extradite him from wherever he’s been hiding.
For all you know,he is still in SA😭😭😭
It's not ur fault cc stop blaming urself I would have done the same thing.
The Lord is close to the broken hearted and you are more than a conqueror God didn't let you commit suicide
I think u made a good decision to devoce him ,as much as God kept u until this far,he will continue save u and your kids in Jesus name.
Amen ❤🙏
Sis Karabo , am sorry for what you went through , though you clearly stated to that witch who pretended to be a pastor wearing a sheep skin but being the greatest hyena inside , what type of life you wished for when you first met him , taking from how you were raised and the good picture of marriage painted by your parents WOW MEN ! But I do also feel that you need to play a role in exposing him as one has also commented . God will protect you , culprits should not go free of charge . What I’m scared of is that he’ll continue where he is . Let’s protect others through your wise and courageous move and input on this matter . I know you didn’t send him to do all this evil acts and also you yourself are hurt but for those parent’s victims sake and the danger he may cause to others where he is , in my opinion I feel you need to stand out for the truth and expose his whereabouts so that he’ll get what he deserves and be in a place where he won’t continue destroying our innocent little girls . Trusting God you’ll be safe , He protects us . Don’t fear evil , fear God who wants us to stand on truth side . Since this is a habit to him , am sure nothing will stop him to continue where he is . We’ll be with you in our prayers . Once again , sorry about what you went through . As Madam speaker wisely said it , don’t be angry on God but do approach Him and ask where things could have gone wrong that things ended up the way they did having given your life to him at your tender age . Sometimes we just take things at face value without asking God if we are doing the right thing or rather taking the right step . When God says : “ Don’t lean on your own understanding “ He really means it , our thoughts are constantly interfered by the devil who has not been glad that you decided not to choose him during your earlier age and now wants to pay back and cause you harm . We are at war in this world , we really need to be strong in our prayer life for God to intervene in our decisions . Thanks Madam speaker , I like your intellect 👌. I once listened to your story as well and I felt for you too , men are so cool to play us and in return find it easy to put a blame on us for their shortcomings . I’d love to buy your book when it’s out . God be with you as you continue interviewing people on your podcast ❤
Even the girls were supposed to act early with the cops. Do not blame ur self because u played a big role in this ❤
What is his name!! The name must not be protected, he must know that we know him now
Sorry but who is this Pastor ?
You are strong, carrying you are just the best
This is painful as we look up to these wolves as spiritual parents yet they destroy such innocent kids.
This is truely sad 1 person can cause so much pain to so many people. This is so extremely complex amd to blame this lady for anything will be truely wrong...even right now she is still healing from this problem.
This men are turning those who run to God to turn away from God.
The devil hates us so much amd the devil will use a man to the far extent of dragging many to hell with him.
This is such a painful story.
A living horror.
Pray for the children ask God to forget about the father God is able to do when my husband left our home to stay with another woman l pray to God to remove the pain it was removed imedeatly prayer will bring peace to you and children they are not supose to blame you
Don't blame God the devil is the one who destroy your marriage in Jeremiah,29v11God said the plan l have for you is to prosper you not to harm you if you keep on blaming God you will remain struggling STOP Repent that is why they blame you blame God wrongly STOP
Amen , prayer is the answer to everything
You are also the victim mama your story is soo touching 😢😢😢
This woman is really smart and demure. Dare may I say the kind of woman I want to marry
Madam speaker you are on the right chair at the right time and seoson 🌹🌹🌹
He is still in south africa I tell you but changed province
Danger to the society mmmm such people are walking ghosts , how can you to girls under 14 years oh no
Yes,he is still rpng more children'😭😭😭
This is why we need to know his name and face 😢 😭 The children of South Africa need us to fight for them
Ur fail those girls because of ur loving ur Zimbabweans man bt God is waiting for to answer
Moputso wa go ratana le makwerekwere
@@mandotsoai2911Makwerekwere le bona ke batho.Not everyone who is a foreigner is a bad person.
Babang ba hantle ha holo.
Bad people are found everyone.
Le rona re nale banna ba seng right,who do extremely bad things so much that we get embarrassed when it's mentioned that he is one of us😢😢
Please guys let's put ourselves in her shoes then we will realize how difficult it is for her. However the question that was ommited is that did she knows that this guy is a foreigner. Please guys let's read a book that written by Proff_ex. He is taking them on " the dark world of benin ". I'm not promoting his book but It can open your eyes.
Thanks bhuti...its easy to judge a shoe you're not wearing...i honestly feel she's a victim too.heal mama❤
Tjo, this is traumatizing, if the pastor was legal, we must go and fetch him, sis man, 12 years old girls, parents please trust God not a pastor.
Madam Speaker, please remember you have an audience that doesn't understand your language and it ruins the narrative when guests like this dip between English and vernacular. She's fluent enough in English so could have told her story in a way we can follow.
This wife is a collaborator because she only thinks of benefits she got frm her hubby. She is a sweet traitor nd cn easily twist truth.......
Exactly and I think she knew what the husband was doing because no ways
Apologies the book is titled " the dark lords of benin " but still on a digital format
She didn't do enough and still isn't doing enough to protect these girls
And the A and Bs where hd took the little ones?????
They need to be questioned !
Ask protection from God read psalm91and35 and54 and 140 the word of God is alive and active Hebrew4v12 God is good He will never hurt us don't blame God
our country is gone, thanks to you our sisters.
God never told you you won't have problem. He will take you out. In everything thank God because it could have been worst
Oh Maam running away was your coping mechanism and please dont blame yourself
A pedophile all in the name of God
That is sick beyond measure.
God help us as women😢😢
It is important to pray and ask God who is this man in you
Where's your ex husband to tell his side of the story too?