Heavenly Father, this is your daughter, those are Your babies. This is not Your plan. Take Your vengeance on this demon Jehovah. Let all the demons who abuse Your children know that this is Your world which You multiplied with Your children whom are fearfully and wonderfully made, in Your image. You are love, You are forgiveness. Thath'indawo yakho Nkosi! Amen.
I like the fact that she didn’t wait to be physically abused morethan one time 🙏 well done my sister. And big ups to your supportive family ❤️❤️❤️🩹 and the fact that you’re independent, that’s why you survived. You couldn’t stay just because you’re not financially stable. I’ve learned a lot from you ❤️❤️
MEN NOT ALL MEN, Mara how can you say that to a woman seeing her that she is in danger... Yoooo taxi driver,God please forgive him because it's obvious le yena taxi driver ke ABUSER, THANK GOD DINEO THAT YOU ARE ALIVE
More Strength to you Dineo, i left the first time it happened to me and it was the best decision i ever made for myself and my child ❤ i am also so grateful for the support of family
I am so proud of you Ms Dineo . You did justice to yourself and your kids . I feel that she should also change the kids school next year to protect them from him
45:12 this is powerful. The moment you put the children first, you have won. I know a lady who left a very long and abusive marriage because the kids were grown up enough to want to protect her. Girls waking up in the middle of the night to check up on their mother. Make sure she is still okay. And alive. That is when she got the strength to flee, file for a divorce and not look back.
It's actually a norm. They do leave you to be harmed. But not only them, even other random or community people. The mentality is of "it's your business" is plenty. I was failed by neighbours, then passing-by drivers, then taxi driver and passengers, while he was looking for me. It took desperate measures to get help... God bless their hearts.
Im so woried abt her more esp that 100% sure that he know where shes working .our police r really failing us 💔 may you find justice my sister .take heart
It is so unfortunate that what ever worse he can do, his lawyers can plead "temporal insanity". May the good Lord keep you & your loved ones in the shadow of HIS wings
Yooh Sisi Deneo, I have been through the same, same same situation. Its been two years now since i survived a narcissist and 2yrs celibate. Same as he was attending a case when i met him of his previous wife and another wife is no where to be found, who knows what happened?I am forever grateful to God and sending love and peace to you. Justice for Deneo
The common thing I see in our stories is that they usually ALREADY HAVE recorded GBV history. Either we ignore it during the honeymoon phase or we find out too late. Doing a criminal history check is important, it's a pity POPIA restricts us from such.
Earlier this year you commented on a tiktok video that you’re planning a way out, I can believe when you saying you’ve been planning the exit plan. I wish you healing and a peaceful life❤️
I'm so proud of you my dear it tooks me 15 years to leave my abusive baby daddy may the good Lord protects you and your little ones from this monster ❤
I'm happy that she survived ♥️.I've been there I know how it feels to live in fear ,always remember that God is with you and He will protect you always.
I'm so disappointed with the taxi driver that did not protect Dineo😢😢
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It's a pity it's not only Saps failing us, it's the Justice system as a whole. I remember I was attacked n strangled by someone I know but he was not aware that he is attacking someone who knows him, it was a hectic year for me as he had his gangster goons threatening me to drop the charges. I lived my life in a matchbox... I was shocked when I got to summon the Parole Board Director n the answers she gave me with her Board members. The guy is now free
Dineo dear, it's so painful to listen to your story. We thank God that you are still alive, despite the gravity of what you went through 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 What pains me more is the fact that your daughter is aware of the abuse you suffered from her father 😥😥😥 I'm glad that you and your kids. I did the same. It started with verbal abuse and the first strike of physical abuse, I opened a case and left him. It was during Women's month in August. I have since then been at peace. Years later I found someone who is God sent and I'm enjoying my relationship. Nine years later, I'm still happy. No insults, no beatings, but peace May God protect you from that man who is a danger to you and the kids, to himself and anyone who would dare challenge him. We love you Sis. Madame Speaker, kudos to your calm demeanor and allowing your guests to narrate their story with interrupting them. My prayer goes to you and many other women who suffer the hands of their partners. My Sisters, leave and make your story known to your family or someone for moral and extra support 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Ooh Dineo u deserve justice fight girl and get psychological help sesi the trauma it still Raw but sending you love and hugs but that mgulugudu must be arrested MARATO FELA DEAR
In cases like these SAPS must deviate from their processes, this guy must be kept away from the public. He is a danger to himself and everyone. There's evidence but he can't be put away bcoz of a docket, when someone dies is it fair to say we couldn't protect the victims bcoz of a docket. No one cares, at least someone should have driven to appel to pick up the docket in the 16 days of activism nogal. It is so disappointing, tbe system perpetuates this kind of behavior.
In his version of things, he does not resent her. Hence his mother would say "she'll come back when she's calm.". He gave his version of true love and affection. Which he believes IS a reality, the "demons" are making him do the harmful acts. So there's a chance he'll plead insanity.
I really wish women wouldnt bekezela.From the time someone doesnt treat you well just leave.The time he verbally abuses you leave.Thats not love.From the time she had the first baby she should not have stayed.Ladies the man disrespects his own mother, your family and you still want to say my hubby, aghh no man.Him taking her virginity is not an excuse And his medical condition is not an excuse either .Some men are jealous of women the more you put up with him the more he will do. Am so glad our beautiful sis survived and left.Thank you also for being brave enough to tell your story🙏🙏.You are a survivor. SAPS needs to do better.
I just want to advise women that they must also stop this thing of staying for too long in abusive marriages/relationships and also they must stop this thing of opening a case and later closing it bcs it also make police work difficult we can't always blame police as us women we have a role that we playing in not getting the justice we need
I believe that “a ke tswenyi batho” we went to the same high school ko Northern Academy and honestly speaking she was very shy,chilled, reserved and very respectful. She doest deserve to go through all this. JusticeforDineo
what humble person uzwa ngisho ekhuluma may the Lord give you strength if kwenzeka my sister just ask transfer from your work uye kwenye indawo coz he knows lapho osebenzela khona ngisabela ukuphepha kwakho
As women in SA, we are on our own bandla its very sad. I was ince in the situation and tried knocking on peoples doors people closed their doors right on my bleeding face
Dineo u are so beautiful. I don't trust that this guy will give up just like that. U are fighting with a sick person here. So long u need a body guard.
Dineo has to find a transfer if it is possible. She is not safe at all. If she can, leave the job and go hide in a whole different province, not Limpopo and not Gauteng.
Big up sister D, l stayed with the monster for 19years being abused, madam speaker how can l get hold of you l need help from you my story is a bit different l am not ready to talk bt l need help l lost myself throught the process bt l am happy this is the 24th month out of the relationship l sometimes breakdown l still need help before l find myself doing the same mistake
Sending love and prayers to you Dineo until you get your justice these police will see God turning the tables until Justice is served so broken 💔💔💔💔💔and you really are beautiful
Yho ke neng kere yhooo😥😥😥..am sorry u went through this Dineo and I truly hope u get all the help u need, and this guy also gets the help necessary for him also..
Thanks
Heavenly Father, this is your daughter, those are Your babies. This is not Your plan. Take Your vengeance on this demon Jehovah. Let all the demons who abuse Your children know that this is Your world which You multiplied with Your children whom are fearfully and wonderfully made, in Your image. You are love, You are forgiveness. Thath'indawo yakho Nkosi! Amen.
Amen🙌🙌
I like the fact that she didn’t wait to be physically abused morethan one time 🙏 well done my sister. And big ups to your supportive family ❤️❤️❤️🩹 and the fact that you’re independent, that’s why you survived. You couldn’t stay just because you’re not financially stable. I’ve learned a lot from you ❤️❤️
TRUE because if she could have stayed longer, for more then surely she wouldn't be here to tell this story
I went to high school with Dineo and she always had a strong character.... As I man myself I'm truly ashamed. I'm praying for you
Very true hey
I applaud you, my daughter. Some of us parents endured this in silence. This is the time, the time is now!
😢 Sorry
She's so beautiful ❤️🤗🙌🥰
Dineo you are so beautiful.I like your fighting spirit.Don't let this monster get away with what he did to you.
Imagine preserved yourself for a monster sending love ,protection and healing to you and your kids❤
MEN NOT ALL MEN, Mara how can you say that to a woman seeing her that she is in danger... Yoooo taxi driver,God please forgive him because it's obvious le yena taxi driver ke ABUSER, THANK GOD DINEO THAT YOU ARE ALIVE
Yoh.. That got my knees shaking.. ☹️☹️
The taxi driver is also an abuser ,that's how you see them
Justice for Dineo ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽
More Strength to you Dineo, i left the first time it happened to me and it was the best decision i ever made for myself and my child ❤ i am also so grateful for the support of family
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I am so proud of you Ms Dineo . You did justice to yourself and your kids .
I feel that she should also change the kids school next year to protect them from him
45:12 this is powerful. The moment you put the children first, you have won. I know a lady who left a very long and abusive marriage because the kids were grown up enough to want to protect her. Girls waking up in the middle of the night to check up on their mother. Make sure she is still okay. And alive. That is when she got the strength to flee, file for a divorce and not look back.
That taxi driver. Men always choose each other. Right or wrong yet they say we don’t hope each other accountable
True, how could the taxi driver not help, weird
He is a monster that one. Am sure he is also an abuser 😮
😮 I'm shocked... Even if I don't know the story I will separate the 2 parties cause this is seriously dangerous
He is probably an abuser himself
It's actually a norm. They do leave you to be harmed. But not only them, even other random or community people. The mentality is of "it's your business" is plenty. I was failed by neighbours, then passing-by drivers, then taxi driver and passengers, while he was looking for me. It took desperate measures to get help... God bless their hearts.
The way you calmly narrating the situation Neo!!! May God protect and guide you babe
Im so woried abt her more esp that 100% sure that he know where shes working .our police r really failing us 💔 may you find justice my sister .take heart
I pray God covers her and the kids hle🙏🏽🥺
That's the recent story. Big up to you for narrating it so calmly.
I agree she is effortlessly gorgeous
Am so proud of Dineo she took a step and was there to support him
It is so unfortunate that what ever worse he can do, his lawyers can plead "temporal insanity". May the good Lord keep you & your loved ones in the shadow of HIS wings
The family knows him.They were releaved you stayed with him.I know families like this
God saved you my dear he will continue protecting all of you, I'm sending love and hugs ❤️🙏
Yooh Sisi Deneo, I have been through the same, same same situation. Its been two years now since i survived a narcissist and 2yrs celibate. Same as he was attending a case when i met him of his previous wife and another wife is no where to be found, who knows what happened?I am forever grateful to God and sending love and peace to you. Justice for Deneo
The common thing I see in our stories is that they usually ALREADY HAVE recorded GBV history. Either we ignore it during the honeymoon phase or we find out too late. Doing a criminal history check is important, it's a pity POPIA restricts us from such.
Leaving after the first incident 👏🏽👏🏽I’m so proud of her, it’s very rare
True😢
The strength you get from your kids, it’s unmatched.
She is not safe, I am worried…what can be done? Yho😢
What a brave woman! Thank you for sharing your story. We are learning and developing
She is beautiful ❤️😍
I thank God that you have a very supportive family... We should really count our blessings
Oh beautiful lady may God protect you and the kids.
Earlier this year you commented on a tiktok video that you’re planning a way out, I can believe when you saying you’ve been planning the exit plan. I wish you healing and a peaceful life❤️
She is so Gorgeous, I am afraid if the monster isn't arrested n not find her, he might hurt her family member to get to her...😢😢😢
she's so beautiful, like Karabo Mokoena hle...Karabo was just lighter. May the Lord protect her and the kids
Dineo is beautiful, we pray for God's protection over your life.
What a beautiful woman.. so sorry she has to go through all that. Strength to you Dineo.
I'm so proud of you my dear it tooks me 15 years to leave my abusive baby daddy may the good Lord protects you and your little ones from this monster ❤
I'm happy that she survived ♥️.I've been there I know how it feels to live in fear ,always remember that God is with you and He will protect you always.
I'm so disappointed with the taxi driver that did not protect Dineo😢😢
It's a pity it's not only Saps failing us, it's the Justice system as a whole. I remember I was attacked n strangled by someone I know but he was not aware that he is attacking someone who knows him, it was a hectic year for me as he had his gangster goons threatening me to drop the charges. I lived my life in a matchbox... I was shocked when I got to summon the Parole Board Director n the answers she gave me with her Board members. The guy is now free
Dineo dear, it's so painful to listen to your story. We thank God that you are still alive, despite the gravity of what you went through 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 What pains me more is the fact that your daughter is aware of the abuse you suffered from her father 😥😥😥
I'm glad that you and your kids. I did the same. It started with verbal abuse and the first strike of physical abuse, I opened a case and left him. It was during Women's month in August. I have since then been at peace. Years later I found someone who is God sent and I'm enjoying my relationship. Nine years later, I'm still happy. No insults, no beatings, but peace
May God protect you from that man who is a danger to you and the kids, to himself and anyone who would dare challenge him. We love you Sis. Madame Speaker, kudos to your calm demeanor and allowing your guests to narrate their story with interrupting them.
My prayer goes to you and many other women who suffer the hands of their partners. My Sisters, leave and make your story known to your family or someone for moral and extra support 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yoooh cc you are beautiful ❤may you find healing and protection
That taxi driver should also be arrested coz wtf!
Taxi driver is another abuser….
Helek I took this emotionally so much that my BP started doing the prrrrr, I am so sorry Dineo for what you went through
Ooh Dineo u deserve justice fight girl and get psychological help sesi the trauma it still Raw but sending you love and hugs but that mgulugudu must be arrested MARATO FELA DEAR
In cases like these SAPS must deviate from their processes, this guy must be kept away from the public. He is a danger to himself and everyone. There's evidence but he can't be put away bcoz of a docket, when someone dies is it fair to say we couldn't protect the victims bcoz of a docket. No one cares, at least someone should have driven to appel to pick up the docket in the 16 days of activism nogal. It is so disappointing, tbe system perpetuates this kind of behavior.
The families can’t encourage arrest because they know many of themselves are abusers and would need to be arrested first
Hai hai if koloi is moving at high speed never pull HB bona etlawa koloi but in her case i get it but nje nje don't
I feel like you're telling my story 😮 but been out for a almost a year now sending hugs to you keep strong....
Rooting for you
Yoo Dineo you are soo beautiful ❤, you did not deserve it,not even a single women deserve it 😢😢😢That man is a monster 😢😢
There are many of us out there living that life,we are scared of walking away cos this monster will come after my kids n family
Love and light mtase.❤
May the Lord see you through the healing process.❤❤❤
Otherwise, I'm proud that you're standing up for yourself. 😊
An empowered women right there ❤
My heart is aching listening to your story. It hurts as if it happened to me. 💔😢😢. May God give you strength
Love and light to you my sweetheart. Stay strong for the sake of the kids. Xoxo❤
He really resented her 😢 he has low self esteem. So glad she managed to get out 🙏🏿
In his version of things, he does not resent her. Hence his mother would say "she'll come back when she's calm.". He gave his version of true love and affection. Which he believes IS a reality, the "demons" are making him do the harmful acts. So there's a chance he'll plead insanity.
This is making me Cry.
Dineo, I'm so sorry for what you are going through . Will keep you in my prayers .
I am proud of you Dineo for speaking up...❤.
Psychosis ndi tshipengo (for lack of better description in Tshivenda language). Ndi vhulwadze ha muhumbulo. Can't he get admitted at Weskoppies?
😅 true
Hai le wena😂😂
That’s true thou in English is a loss of contact with reality usually is a sign of major mental illness such as schizophrenia 😂
Yoooooo a Psychosis patient cannot drink alcohol, after drinking he or she will cause so much drama, ALCOHOL NOT ALLOWED
Love the fact we are exposing missing dockets sooner than later
I really wish women wouldnt bekezela.From the time someone doesnt treat you well just leave.The time he verbally abuses you leave.Thats not love.From the time she had the first baby she should not have stayed.Ladies the man disrespects his own mother, your family and you still want to say my hubby, aghh no man.Him taking her virginity is not an excuse
And his medical condition is not an excuse either .Some men are jealous of women the more you put up with him the more he will do.
Am so glad our beautiful sis survived and left.Thank you also for being brave enough to tell your story🙏🙏.You are a survivor.
SAPS needs to do better.
Justice for Dineo
Our justice system is very weak,terrible, usless mxm 🇿🇦🚮🚶♀️➡️🚶♀️➡️
Can the company perhaps transfere her to another town or province? Also, where is this man staying now?
Emotional abuse goes deeper......Words are a weapon
She’s stunning!😍
Justice for Dineo and other victims we a sick and tired SAPS do you dam job man thank you madam speaker we love and appreciate your podcast 🎉❤❤
That taxi driver is so evil
He probably abuses women too
He probably abuses women too
He probably abuses women too
Its so heartbreaking that you is going through this.....May God protect you 🙏
Dineo you are an amazing person ,you didn’t deserve this at all .I wish you light baby .
I just want to advise women that they must also stop this thing of staying for too long in abusive marriages/relationships and also they must stop this thing of opening a case and later closing it bcs it also make police work difficult we can't always blame police as us women we have a role that we playing in not getting the justice we need
I believe that “a ke tswenyi batho” we went to the same high school ko Northern Academy and honestly speaking she was very shy,chilled, reserved and very respectful. She doest deserve to go through all this. JusticeforDineo
Such a beautiful Lady yeah no banna ke masepa struu
It's really painful when a child of 5 yrs experience such a bad thing
Sorry my sister,run far away .God be with u.
This is so sad what a beautiful girl,I don't know what is happening with SA men
Ooh Lord help the lady and the kids, May God protect you and Viva you to stand up for other women. He needs to be locked up. He is dangerous to others
what humble person uzwa ngisho ekhuluma may the Lord give you strength if kwenzeka my sister just ask transfer from your work uye kwenye indawo coz he knows lapho osebenzela khona ngisabela ukuphepha kwakho
😢😢my home gal God loves you 💕 💗 sending light ✨️ 💖
May God keep you and your children safe.
As women in SA, we are on our own bandla its very sad. I was ince in the situation and tried knocking on peoples doors people closed their doors right on my bleeding face
True sis khanyi south Africa police service Der failing us big tym and it's very sad xem
What an unfortunate situation, your first ever, your baby daddy, Kanti he's a monster.
Dineo u are so beautiful. I don't trust that this guy will give up just like that. U are fighting with a sick person here. So long u need a body guard.
She's beautiful xem very beautiful
Yes medically he is no allowed to drive with his mental condition, that is the truth
Abantu abanje bafuna inkabi!🤞🏽
Honestly!!
Tjo Dineo ! 😢But she's powerful. All the best with the case girl .....That man must rot in jail
Dineo has to find a transfer if it is possible. She is not safe at all. If she can, leave the job and go hide in a whole different province, not Limpopo and not Gauteng.
Big up sister D, l stayed with the monster for 19years being abused, madam speaker how can l get hold of you l need help from you my story is a bit different l am not ready to talk bt l need help l lost myself throught the process bt l am happy this is the 24th month out of the relationship l sometimes breakdown l still need help before l find myself doing the same mistake
Wa bona when you pray gore please show me a sign. Modimo o tla go bontsha sign geh!
Lol true eii!!!
Sending love and prayers to you Dineo until you get your justice these police will see God turning the tables until Justice is served so broken 💔💔💔💔💔and you really are beautiful
Please get a protection order against that guy whilst u are back ton Jozj
Yho ke neng kere yhooo😥😥😥..am sorry u went through this Dineo and I truly hope u get all the help u need, and this guy also gets the help necessary for him also..
Praying for your safety Dineo
The fact that his stil outside scares me I scare for dineo s life
Kodwa SA
This is so scary , most men really hate us women hey, I hope this beutiful lady gets her justice
Narsssist yho thanks for choosing yourself wena dineo😢😢let’s love ourselves and put ourselves First Ladies
Name and shame cc. This man needs to be famous
Sorry Dineo...pls be safe.