These 5 Attractive Things Drive Men CRAZY!
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- THESE 5 ATTRACTIVE THINGS DRIVE MEN CRAZY! 💗 How To Attract A Man For A Long-Term Commitment Fast 👉 MagnetizeYourMan.com/YT
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I'm from Namibia - Africa 🇳🇦
Watching from PHILIPPINES 🥰
I'm from Louisiana
I have tried the smile n he loved it.
I'm ready
As a man, I find kindness and authenticity VERY attractive. These cannot be faked !
Michigan
5. Being a queen
4. Femininity
3. Making him feel masculine
2. Confidence
1. Radiant smile
Bonus: being vulnerable and open
Being a queen, vulnerable, open or smiling and being feminine... As a lady walking in your journey of womanhood, you do it to complement Oneself, and not necessarily for anyone. If they are attracted to it good for them, but this actually helps you to be your highest best self...
I agree. I have lost my husband to his mistress who has these attractive traits in his head and not in reality. May death do they part!
Why doesn't all why does it always have to be the woman that has to be all these many things to a man wear a man doesn't have to do anything but be a slug and not have to do anything and not have to present themselves in a nice manner
@@suzanwahlquist3258 It's too much work for me. No man is worth so much of my time and energy.
I know all those by heart and did them perfectly. Lol I really did
I've been married 33 years...plus 7 years dating plus 2 years engagement...so..if it's meant to be...it's meant to be...no matter what!💋♥️
Just be your self, take it or leave it, this is the best way to do it. No rules be natural.
Exactly. Relax, if you like this guy show it, in a simple pure way.
Don't "work it", when you do that you try to hard.
I am old and have watched the mistakes people make.
One thing I can say to men is this "do not lay down the law" when you do this you destroy the woman you want, she will bloom in your life like a flower if you tend that flower, that flower is fragile, easily crushed, do you want to harm the beautiful flower? Or nurture it?
B.I.T.C.H. Being in total control of herself......nothing wrong with that ❤
C.U.N.T. can't understand normal thinking
I opened my heart and got ghosted. That opened my eyes.
Other attractive traits are to be witty, silly, playful, mysterious, ornery, creative, compassionate, seductive, empathetic, caring, kind, and having emotional intelligence.. I am sure that there are more, but they aren’t coming to me right now.
Im sure thats me 🙂
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yes thats absolutely right.. i have all of those😜🤣
I’m from Philippines 🇵🇭😍👍
Live to listen to your tips
I met this guy and the way He smiles at me when we meet just floods my brain with happiness and joy!
They told me... my eyes and my kind smile drives men crazy.
I have done all 5 to my masculine man. The results are we are getting married February 14
He Likes how I Dress!!! He says I'm BEAUTIFUL!!!
I've tried sharing everything in my past, and it's all been used against me every argument / disagreement after 6 years, we are now getting divorced. 😢
He said the smile is what got him first.
My man calls me his queen ❤
Seriously Brody !! I always thought that i was stupid to start jumping and acting like a child........ Infact that's what is femininity ! Great to know that it comes naturally to me.🤣
I have an infectious and contagious smile. Everything I tried..
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That is soooo true. I am in a new relantionship and he loves my smile and my laugh. He said that that was one of the things attracted him. Also my confidence and my lady like manners. I do not know why women nowadays want to be so manly
Femininity, radiant smile, confidence ♥️♥️
What I have been doing, is asking questions, sharing a bit of information about myself, and I would smile while asking questions and sharing a bit of information about myself. I also noticed by doing so, he does seem more open around me.
radiant smile, being vulnerable and open and being a queen this is mostly what I use
You're absolutely right! So happy! that my man does everything for me...
Love all your advice! I am currently in a relationship and have learned that those "things" are truly a key in keeping him close to me. Thank you.
I live in New Orleans !! I have not seen your videos before today but have enjoyed them as I watched some of them. I was interested in the one about how you know he really loves you and wants a long term relationship. All that you said is present in my relationship so I am very happy !!
I have been very vulnerable and open. It has brought closeness back
I LOVED HEAR YOU MAKE THE COMMENT ABOUT "QUEEN" IVE HEARD THAT MANY TIMES AND YOUVE MADE ME SMILE
I love hearing tips like this and realize that I actually do what is being suggested and that's why is it working thank you from the Northwest Oregon
So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊
Following from Kenya..I used the Queen and it was and still is amazing!!❤️❤️
Thanks so much
Listening from Phoenix Arizona
Can’t wait to hear this. I just subscribed.
Hi, from Oz here and really enjoyed your video. I have just reconnected with a guy I met before covid. He contacted me and I am so glad. I have no idea what is in the future, he is 20 years younger but I just like him a lot. I am somewhat afraid of being hurt! I have raised two sons, he is divorced and sharing raising his boys aged 16 and 14 with his ex. He has his boys every second weekend so I don't see him a lot but at this stage, I have to respect and understand that his sons are his priority at the moment. I am a feminine, positive and very independent women.
The guy I had been dating told me that when I smile it light's up my face. I also complimented him on his masculinity and he started texting me a little more after not texting me for a while.
I'm watching this educational video from Oklahoma. This young man is the best relationship expert I have ever seen especially with him being so young!!!!!!
Awesome information
I am using some points like Feminine, Confidence and Smile. Like everything that was shared
Oh love your content always
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Everything you’re saying is very true And I have recently experienced it every single point you’ve mentioned is dead on. Thank you for sharing!
Thanks, I and from the Phil. Informative.
Love the matching shirt and eyes. Does all of this work for older generations as well?
I like your content, i am from the Philippines and presently working here in oman. I agree to these 5 traits that can drive men crazy.
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From Philippines... watching from UAE .....
God Blessed you and give you more wisdom thoughts to help other people specially in relationships....
Fantastic tips
I love this video... I'm a rare unique individual woman... I'm very bold and blunt and out there until it like it is... I've always worked hard in financially supporting myself and I've never been married... I have one of the most biggest giving passionate hearts There ever was... But men are often threatened by a woman like me.. because I do speak my mind and I do take care of myself financially.... But this time in my life I want to be with someone that totally appreciates me that loves me and that I can love back... And this is helping your videos Rock big time
Very enriching 💯🙌🏾
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@@MagnetizeYourMan thanks
I have definitely tried to let him know he is my hero and I have been told my smile is engaging-but I’d shared things and I think that men think I’m too much.
Hi, I am coming from Switzerland, discovering your videos and enjoying them. Thanks a lot.
love how Brody explains things!!
Watching from Southern California. I’m seeing someone for 9 months. He is a gentleman, kind and caring. I’ve mentioned to him to few times that I’d like to see each other more than few hours a week. I mentioned to him I’m interested in going out to explore and have day trips. He agrees with everything I say but, nothing happens. He sticks to go out to eat or he makes me dinner and we cuddle up.
He wants the booty n too cheap to pay for dates get rid of him
Watching From Manilla Philippines
Thank You For Sharing Your Wonderful Ideas.KUDOS!!!!
Watching your great show from Phoenix, Arizona 🌷
Hi, this is Sylvia khisa watching from Nairobi Kenya, am really enjoying your video's God bless you abundantly
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I am all these( not perfect but i do these) but they dont work with him...after exactly two years...now i am running out the door....he is either a "tinman" narcissist, attachment avoidance, BPD or all four. Done....i need a Godly man! A man who Loves God first....then his significant other....only way it will work. Because RESPECT IS TRUE CONNECTION...The Key....💔
Love your Feedback here...#5 is the part I realize to improve.... definitely a Great Tip!
Here from Pensacola,Fl.
Thanks 🥰
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Thanks for sharing this
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All of them and its perfect! I had 2 relationships, first to the father of my 4 kids which we parted in 1991 because I had to leave the country for financial reasons.Then I married the second one in 1996 and just died 3 yrs. ago! I never experienced a man betraying me for another women.I thought all the while that because I am a strong willed woman because of those characters. At present at 62 an old family friend who is a Company CEO here in Japan is courting me since I lost my husband, now after watching this video I finally understand why!Aside from him there are still another two Company owners who are my suitors.By the way aged from 68,67 and the latest one is 57 yrs. old who just proposed about 2 weeks ago. It doesnt mean that I like them,I just discovered myself more deeply from listening to your wisdom! Thank you! By the way I met the 57 yrs.old at the place where I sing at least three times a week.An entertainment restaurant which is very common here in Japan. Thank you!
You are blessed ❤️
More.encouragement...help.. .enlighten.people..to..know..the..right..things..in.life.....keep..uo..the..good.works...god..bless..you.😊
From Singapore. Good information! Thank you Brody!
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First time watching. Love It
Watching from the Philippines always thankful Sir for sharing everything about men.
Greetings from Vegas
Tess here from the Philippines. Thank you for the tips. I guess my radiant smile is my asset. On vulnerability, yes, am scared also if he finds out of my anxiety disorder but overall, it's my age that I am worried about.
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Eh am watching this video from East AFRICA-UGANDA , my smile is a killer smile that has done wonders
Can’t wait
Wtf, if I have to change completely what I am for a man , better be alone. And if they need someone to make them feel masculine is means there is something wrong with them...
Absolutely!
most men have MOMMY ISSUES!!! they all project their inner child wound on the woman in their life because they never want or can get to the root issue of the problem. they all struggle with deep rooted abandonment issues. its not women's job too be mommies to their spouse. this is why most men cheat, the man has the issue with himself and projects his toxic behavior onto the woman never taking accountability of their own actions.
You just get to the point where you're over trying to find, interest, please, fix up for, lose weight for...A man. I have not ever met the right sort of man because my parents were the worst role models for a marriage. So I attracted what I was used to.
no need all these anyway unless ur partner does the same. so??
Just dress like Whore and be kinky!! 😅❤🎉 Sorry guys!
Be a good Pal and a cleaning Lady
and care and give nice advise! 😚
Otherwise it's Game over! 🤞
I have used the radiant smile I have used my femininity I have used calling him my hero
Ny - subscribed!!!
I subscribed ! Thanks
I really enjoyed listening to your wisdom, thank you. Do you have any books available?
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Sorry,I haven't tried any of these things as you have described me to a T. This is who I am and have always been. The problem is that men have been treated so badly by other women that they have become untrusting and think you're putting on a show to entrap them. There has been an occasion that the man wanted to take out vengeance on you for what his former partner has done. Openness and honesty leaves you very vulnerable but is the best way to be even though you get terribly hurt. Eventually the man sees his mistake but is usually too late to repair the mistrust that he has put between you.
I'm in a new relationship and this is great!
You are among the best Brody
making him feel masculine always works. But then again, all the men I have loved in my life have been very masculine and share a lot of humor. I actually have a lot of confidence ...maybe to much and if I don't tone it down a bit I think men feel they cant be my equal and we both lose interest. I cant be with a man that cant deal with my confidence though so , I don't hide it. Not cocky confidence but I have no reason to NEED a man other than for sex, which I don't have with men I don't love.
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Loved it ❤
Join you from Texas
I really enjoy your videos 😊
Let's get a UA-cam channel up with a video on "These 5 Things Drive Women Crazy!" Note to all women: Men can be wonderful in your life, but they aren't the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.
I'm not saying that men are not drawn to these things but...THIS IS SUPER LIMITING!
WOMEN - NUMBER ONE SHOULD BE THAT YOU DRAW THE RIGHT MAN IN BY BEING YOURSELF, OWNING YOURSELF AND KNOWING YOURSELF - PLAYING GAMES IS NOT THE WAY FORWARD!
FIRST AND FOREMOST - BE YOURSELF. AND IF YOU ARE STILL FINDING OUT ABOUT YOURSELF, DISCOVERING YOURSELF - THAT IS FINE TOO. DO THAT BEFORE OR ALONGSIDE DATING. BUT WHAT WE ALL WANT *AS HUMAN BEINGS* IS SOMEONE AUTHENTIC - IT IS VERY, VERY EASY TO READ WHEN SOMONE IS ACTING OR NOT BEING THEMSELVES - AND EXTREMELY OFP PUTTING. THINK ABOUT IT? WH3N YOU COULD READ IT IN SOMEONE THAT THEY WERE 'PUTTING ON AN ACT'
REMEMBER - IT IS NOT ABOUT FINDING A MAN - IT'S ABOUT FINDING THE RIGHT MAN - AND TO DO THAT YOU HAVE TO BE YOURSELF, KNOW YOURSELF, OWN YOURSELF!
Hello friend, I recommend this great woman who fixed my relationship in 24 hours, now my partner is back and more committed after many years of separation and breakup, she can also help you
My friend after so many failed attempts my partner finally came back with the help of this great woman I can testify to her good work She really saved me from a broken heart
I'll leave you her number, get in touch immediately on WhtsApp to get help now👇
Thanks.great info..
Thank you so much l am watching from capetown
Hello, thank you for these short, clear explanations abot how to atract a men for longtime comittment. I have good experience with using soft, gentele smile, being feminine, being compassion, volnarablr. Lately I have been using also behaving of queen and I notice that it also works.
Polonca from Slovenia, a small county on the sunny side of the Alps near Adriatic coast
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Lets put it this way...I can try and APPRECIATE what you offer. Why does it always have to be US as the women always have to cater to a man's ego? WE have to be the "Queen" to make him feel like the "King"! We have to be "open and honest" but they get to keep secrets! They always want to know where WE are but they get to go wherever they want and do whatever they want WITHOUT US! If I as a woman have to follow all these "steps', techniques, secrets" to attract a man and will "lose" him if I DON'T or slip up and wind up being my REAL self...sorry but it's just not worth it to me. I strive to be a better person EVERY day. I stay on my personal growth path and know that Jesus is my "King" not jumping through hoops for the man. I have portrayed being Feminine , Open, Vulnerable, I am a very Confident woman and have Boundaries. What I have found is... a great deal of men do NOT like this! They are looking for a Nurse or a Purse and sometimes BOTH! They look for the "doormat type" and avoid the REAL woman such as myself. I am who God made me and as I continue to stay on the trajectory of being the BEST ME I can be, well...it's GOD I ultimately want to please. I
Agree totally
Absolutely 💯
Yes I so agree with you on that .it looks to me on the surface the old Adige men what it all ways. A tart in bed a lady in public and a strong opinion on things a great cook a sympothic listener .oh come on .I tired just writing this please .I asked my mate once why she left a date .she said I'm not his therapist and I'm not his substitute mummy .they say oh I love a strong independent women who knows her own mind .well that got to be the biggest lie ever in datin history .it actually scares most to death .we as women can't be all things to all people I'm not wonder women and I sure ain't god.
I am what I am .as the song goes. I pander to no man. But apparently that's sexy. Funny how I'm single .
I deserve a real man not a mummies boy and that's all I ever got.
Phoenix, AZ
All of The Above - Working On Me and Valuing Me Is Key! Learning To Bring Back My Feminine to The Forefront Has Been A Game Changer. I Had Confidence In Many Other Areas of My Life And Brought Forth The Confidence In Me! Super Excited With My New Journey!
Great tips , love from Australia ❤
Watching from Québec, Canada
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Watching from New York. Thanks for these points; they're sensible, useful and taps into our evolutionary drive to subconsciously want certain things from the opposite sex. I'm a woman.
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im so happy you are teaching these truths 💓 thank you.
So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊
I subscribed!
California.. i have found that the only men ive encountered who mention being "Kings" happen to have traits of Covert Narcissism & are abusive. Small, weak men talk about being Kings.. so i worry that being a "Queen" might continue to attract those men..
Though i do see that you emphasize setting boundaries which should ward off those types.. ive been everything you've talked about, but i was too forgiving & willing to give chances beyond my boundaries, but its hard not to try to work on something you are invested in & was going so well previously to a stark contrast suddenly, feels like a trick, cause it IS ONE. & Im honest, vulnerable, & open in a way that feels appropriate as the relationship builds, but that also has been used against me with those types of men.
Its tricky.. i feel like its easier to see now, but they have decent masks for quite some time that is hard to see past.
I soooo want to find a wonderful partner to grow with, who respects himself/herself & me, is responsible, has a strong moral compass, & that wants the same kind of future i want.. but i keep meeting people with a lot of unresolved childhood wounding that they mask very well until THEY DON'T. & then im invested & in love & trapped in some way it feels or i AM ACTUALLY TRAPPED by threats or physical intimidation.. & i dont want any more 'Energetic Vampires'/'blackholes' manifesting as human, taking my life away. & I dont want to give up on dating because i want a beautiful life shared with another & i want to create something new from that most powerful LOVE, a family, more than anything else. But I feel like ive done the right things, i just keep falling for the wrong people. & i know im making my own mistakes too, but nothing looking at my own actions as deal breakers or something intentionally hurtful or selfish within the relationship.
I think of my relationship as being a part of a team as the central part of that life, but then having plenty of personal experiences to bring back in to help add to the relationship. Im always wanting to learn the passions of my partner & if they want to involve me, id love that, & would like the same energy back, but i also know people need time to themselves & with their friends & that the trust of that & knowing you want the other to be happy & feel free, can bring new fire/juice into your partnership.
Im attracted to the people who march to the beat of their own drums, the Misfits, the Passionate, the Wildly exciting. & so far its made it hard to find husband/wife material but probably cause i was in my 20s still. But now i feel like TIME is weighing heavily because im 32 & want kids & been recovering for the last year in the desert from a very verryy abusive relationship & met a guy out here at the grocery store & he ended up being not physically abusive but everything else as well.
So im a little shaken & trying to figure out what it is im doing wrong or maybe not right to attract & be attracted to quality men who treat me right & that i could work towards have a family with.
Any help or direction would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
My question to you, my dear is… What belief systems do you have running around in your amygdala that are showing up in your reality? Trust me, I’m working on my own. From my learnings and perspective, I look for possibility, instead of viewing my world from a place of fear(I am not condoning any form of abuse.). The trauma that you’ve experienced has created an imprint in your brain, and it appears to be recycling itself into your reality. I’m not sure what your religious or spiritual beliefs are, or if you have any? There is are a few books that I would like to recommend to you, if you so choose to utilize them? The Untethered Soul, By Michael Singer, The Hoffman Process, by Tim Laurence, and Getting The Love You Want, By Harvel Hendrix and Helen Hunt. Basically, what I’ve learned from Brené Brown, is to pay attention to the stories that you tell yourself. Get curious, rather than assume or judge. Something that I’ve learned from my career as a Special Ed Instructional Assistant(for 22 years), is that anger is a secondary emotion, stemming from disappointment, frustration, unmet needs, embarrassment, lack of safety, shame, conditioning from upbringing/an what we expose ourselves to along the way, and trauma(I’m sure that there are more, I just can’t think of them at the moment.). I’ve learned this from Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. Narcissists and/or abusers have the lowest self-esteem/self-love(in a non-egotistical way) and they use control and manipulation to make themselves feel better. When a person gets curious about the underlying causes of another’s behavior, it is easier to take the situation less personally(We are all human and still have our moments.). From my perspective, we are here to learn from the past, heal it, and to love on ourselves more. I hope that this is helpful? My intentions come from love and wisdom. I wish the very best to you on your journey! If you desire any further assistance, I would recommend getting in touch with Antia or Brody, to get more tools for the love life or life in general of your dreams. They have more insight and experience in their program than I do 🤩. I’m sure it will be worth it 🥳!
Hello friend, I recommend this great woman who fixed my relationship in 24 hours, now my partner is back and more committed after many years of separation and breakup, she can also help you
My friend after so many failed attempts my partner finally came back with the help of this great woman I can testify to her good work She really saved me from a broken heart
I'll leave you her number, get in touch immediately on WhtsApp to get help now👇
@@erinhappy-go-lucky5040 Erin i am soooo sorry i missed this long, very thought out & caring message from you.. it means THE WORLD that you read & really thought about what i wrote & offered such sage advice to me.. wow.. really helps me believe in the great levels of kindness of strangers in the world when i was beginning to believe it was a dying breed of humanity..
Thank you.. it is definitely going to be something i use to really deep dive into myself with.. you have a lot of good questions for me that arent easy to answer rn.. which tells me i really should have a better grasp on their answers.. what belief systems AM I running? Im not religious but am highly mediated & American media is very christan at its roots so my morals are highly close to that system mixed with the bushido code. I have high expectations of others ability for self-control. Which i know is a problem to a degree. Expectations dont usually help things go smoothly.. & I know for a while i was not loving myself enough was an internal script/belief i had in the past. I thought id changed it, but i think i started not feeling very much self-love for a while during the abuse & never quite got to a better place in me from previous unresolved issues where i shut down my voice out of fear of reaction, or non-reaction (no one standing up for me or being supportive or caring at all..).
I really want to read more Brene Brown & will check out the other books you suggested!! Thank you!! I will try to pay attention to the stories i tell myself.. its tricky awareness like this, cause i thought i was done with this treatment but clearly i have some need within me to fix/the savior complex that im not breaking for some reason.
I do know that about anger & definitely felt like i did have trouble listening properly to my abuser, they made it verryy hard to hear their true feelings but i got there sometimes. I feel like i usually understand mine but sometimes it is just anger too that they could be so disrespectful or selfish or manipulative.. im hurt as well but im more amgry that they cant just rise up & be at the level we should be at the basics, follow the golden rule.. sigh..
My curiosity got me trapped longer thinking i could find a solution to their clear inward pain they directed at me but people have to change themselves.. :/
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Thank you again, very very helpful.. :) i hope you have the happiest of holidays! Take care!!
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