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Do you have any love making advice to help with men who have ED....it's from peripheral artery disease, stents and bypass surgery. He can't take meds for it.
What about the husbands who don't want sex regularly & the wife has a higher drive? It seems like the woman is always blamed for infrequent sex. That's not always the case.
@djlord9189 Not true at all. It is a lot more comman than most people think. I've experienced this with a couple of men (and for the record, I'm a very good looking woman, not someone who has let myself go or anything).
Be sure you marry a man who came from a loving family , if not it will effect his love giving , he will expect, expect. You can't give what you never received received.
Reaction to crisis is individually particular, you have a challenge (“bad situation”) and can react positive (constructive) or negative (destructive)… you know what I mean .
Love to hear this. I'm almost 53 and have been single and out of the dating scene for over 7 years. I often feel like my chances are fading away. Your comment is evidence there is a lot of time left to find a good connection ♥
Seems like a lotta know-it-alls here. I'm a woman of a certain age & this helped me. I value the content and the calm expertise of the delivery. Thank you!
Yess🎉 It was very helpful for me too. I might share it with my Lover since we are newbies but very passionate. We'll definitely have fun talking about it 😊 Sex is an Art and when taken seriously will get better every time. There is a difference between "mutual satisfaction" and Shared Bliss ❤
Don't let anyone make you think you don't deserve the best. You are a legend. I don't need to have met you to know that. Fuck any guy who makes you feel less than that. Seriously. Take it from the younger generation because we were privileged to grow up less afraid of men.
When I married my 2nd husband (20 years young than me) I made 2 rules, which shocked him at first, but which he came to love. 1. Sex could only be every other day (I told him if I fed him a steak dinner each day, pretty soon he's looking to eat pork, fish, salads in fact anything but steak etc, we kept sex special) 2. I created a rail of outfits in a spare room ie doctor, diver, riding instructor, hotel manager, waiter, gigolo, policeman, army, female underwear, scientist, arab, cowboy. He would spend his day planning what he would wear, plan the scenario, what he would need ie drink tray with drinks for the waiter, music to set the mood etc), so when he got home from work he was in charge, and I was always surprized by his ideas and what he had in store for me. Sex was always before dinner, as who the hell can perform on a full stomach? It was a rampant and passionate relationship.
@@cher4all he was 30 I was 50. I made the rule as no way could I keep up with his libido, and I dislike being propositioned when I'm busy doing something else. We kept it v special and magical. He was a dive master and already head of his family, so no baby. I knew he wanted children and I was too old, so I let him go free, much against his wishes. It was great fun, and we were v happy.
@anotherblonde That's way too much work to dress in costume. We keep it fresh without the mascarade. We shop fantasy store together. Exotic soaps, body Paints, adult toys, movies etc. Yes Whip cream & cherries. Yet thoroughly enjoy foreplay. Keep on going great exercise & burns a lot of calories. Lol
Everything is spot on. Thank you Can you please tell men to do all of these things too? Be creative! Don't say "no" to woman's (easy and reasonable) request. I.e. if she says "flip me over!" in the heat of it while you're having fun and everything is going well... and you say "no" I want to connect... she's probably not going to ask you again. GIVE HER the position that she wants to feel good and GRIND into it! Then keep switching it up. Stop saying no and stop being boring! If you're wondering why she's quiet, it's because you're not doing it/her right. Yes, I know everyone is different, but just keep building and going harder until she does start making noise or needs to tell you it's too much or needs a break or to change it up, and follow that and don't EVER ignore it, and make sure that SHE is enjoying herself! Tell MEN to be more open to using toys and not be offended or feel emasculated because she wants to try something else besides just his c*ck, instead of saying "I'm all you need" Thank you!
That's really sad if I ever need a toy while with a man then he isn't doing something right or it's the wrong man .and I'm a super sexual girl and have never asked a man to bring in a toy girl they say you attract the opposite of what you are so maybe pretend like u don't like toys cause I never bring them up or give an inkling and I attract dudes who mention them or bring them up .and it's not always about emasculating it's more so ego or hurt because when a girl I was laying next to preferred her vibrator and vibrator only while I was attempting to use my hand well yeah that makes the other person disconnect and feel hurt too but she's weird already .so basically if they're saying no move on look for that kinky open minded man elsewhere don't settle .
Yes, well there's a cure for that. Get up, grab a toy and get back in bed... and take care of yourself. Hey, he can watch, participate or leave! He'll get the message very clearly. 😂😂😂
As a regular watcher on Kevin's channel, I can tell you he does tell men that too. Including your added points even. We both, in couples, need to be attuned to the other's desires.
Great sex starts with good communication. It is unrealistic & unfair to expect your partner (male or female) to know what your wants &/or needs are in bed. It must be communicated. It builds a deeper bond also.
This 100%! You cannot expect to have great sex, and a great sex life, if you do not communicate with your partner. Some of the best advice I ever received was from my grandma, of all people - she said "If you and your woman can't talk about sex comfortably with each other, you're not ready for sex and/or it's not gonna be very good." Sage advice from a woman who was married for over 60 years and had 5 kids and a very happy marriage by all accounts.
Thank you for this advice! I've only had this kind of sex with one man. It was my second husband. I was totally in love with him & very attracted to him. Also, he showed excitement for me & made me feel sexy & desireable, so that hightened my excitement even more!
B.S. I wanted regular sex; he didn't. I am so tired of the attitude and mindset that men want more sex than women do. I've also known other women whose husbands wanted sex far less than they did. I've done all the things advised in this video; still he cheated, I divorced him and never looked back.
You were not connecting sexually. From that point, everything sexual will go downhill. Hope you found your match... when everyone matches, everyone will want more.
Its true. Its such a boring stereotype. If a woman is not wanting sex with their partner, they either aren't getting their emotional needs met or they are not finishing. A lot of men are selfish and don't understand female anatomy. Also, if men want blow jobs, they need to practice some hygiene down there. I hear a lot of men won't even wipe their own butts because they are afraid its too feminine. Why would a woman want to down down there in that situation.
I dated a guy who was less sexual than I am. We all have a different balance of hormones. I've worked with animals all my life, too. There are females whose heat is INSANE. Female rabbits come into heat monthly, and man, are they aggressive. I've known mares who go nuts and are impossible to handle.
Also in my experience, it’s the men that get into routine. I’ve noticed most guys have like 3-4 positions they prefer… not always the same positions from man to man… But they are def the ones that get boring and in their routine. Maybe you should teach this to men bc seems to be like they are the ones not getting it.
I’m surprised that what you say, whispering how much you love what he’s doing isn’t mentioned. My guy loves to hear me tell him how great I feel, what he’s doing to my body. What we say to each other while playing adds to the excitement.
I think you’re awesome. Question. Is possible that some partners have a powerful connection which possibly includes energy and emotions without having learned it. But rather it comes naturally? I am for the first time ever experiencing this and it is absolutely blissful. Sensational, temperamental and soo energetic. And this is from the very first encounter.
Thank you. Yes, that is definitely possible. There are many different systems that have been created to assess compatibility. I would guess that you are both very compatible. When you are with someone who you are very compatible with, things just flow and the connection feels powerful without much effort. Congratulations! Now just make sure as time goes by that you keep it up. It is normal over time for things to change a bit. However, with some attention and effort, there is no reason why you can't keep the relationship as alive and amazing as it it now.
@@KevinandCeline thank you for your reply. I hear what you are saying and I have some doubts that this kind of connection can last a long time. I feel this is going to be a brief story. I’m too afraid to get too committed simply for that reason. Once the passion subsides, won’t he be looking for a new story? I know those are my insecurities. Anyway we shall see what happens. Thank you for all that you do 🙏
@@theguidedgem It is possible, but it will take work and you have to believe it's possible. If he is really a good man, he won't be looking for something else.
This is what is going on with my partner and I, and it's only increasing over time as we communicate more and learn about each other. I am aware things may change as time goes by but I'm hopeful all the change will be positive.
Advise from my step dad "you got to give a little to get a little !!! "Men you want regular sex Stop being lazy !! It is not on your wife to make an income, raise the kids and clean the house. Do your part !!
Women work average 16 hrs daily between real job and house / family “job” and then appear at 10 pm or 4 am like a “professional” (you know what I mean)… For how many years you think the delicate and fragile hormonal balances can withstand only 3 or 4 hrs of (trying to have deep) sleep, without ruining her beauty (premature aging).. ( not to say every pregnancy increases like 10 years in appearance to her face and body)… Men, we are built different, you were made to be running in the wild chasing some animal to eat and women were born to be in a protected shelter doing the small labors and caring for kids, that’s the biological role of each.. Remember, we are basically animals, part of this natural setting called nature, that we are almost to loose, as 70% of animal species have disappeared, and humans don’t simply care for our beautiful planet (men only thinking about having sex, and teaching women how to make sex to them)… that’s so selfish.. We all need to remember the principles that make us human, and at the same time, we need to remember that the clock is ticking in order to transform our humanity in an interplanetary species…
All this duh. A lot of this men need to reciprocate. We like to know you are enjoying it. Making noice and responding. You guys want us to go down on you go down on us too.
I figured out that some men don't want "better", they just want "different".. my husband cheated on me too, but eventually a much better lover found me. My husband knows he made the worst mistake of his life
Yep. I had a BF who was the greatest guy. Attentive, caring, loyal, generous. But in bed, he was completely silent. I'm very vocal and open, and just couldn't get him to say anything or even moan a little. He only wanted one position. If I suggested a change, he'd sort of grunt and keep going. I got creeped out. The day I fell asleep DURING SEX, I broke up with him.
I think the most important thing I have learned about sex is that the man must like women. He must not have any aggressive or negative emotions towards women,; otherwise she will sense it and not be able to trust (the key to being completely open to his advances). He must love the female body and crave it. The men I have had the best sex with are the ones I can be completely open to. Why? Because I trust them. . If a man allows any woman to be herself in safety, he will have the wild, passionate partner he dreams of. But without this, it will be all about technique, etc. The energy of acceptance is the best aphrodisiac because we feel free to express ourselves. Men need to focus on a woman's needs because she is the source.
This is why that guy still texts me every few months after I’ve been married to someone else for 5 years. He’s waiting in the wings. All my exes come back around.
I thought I was going to learn something new… all of this “advice” just comes natural (no pun intended 😂). What he’s describing is about 60% of what I did (before choosing celibacy). No one could keep up with me. It was all 100% genuine and fun. Really enjoying it is the key. Loving everything about it makes it it worth it. Don’t hold back, just get lost in it, 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Now I’m living the celibate life for God. If I ever get married again, my husband’s going to be one very EXHAUSTED, HAPPY, WELL LOVED, lucky man… 🎉😂😊
I want to have fun experimenting with a man that I proposed friends with benefits but because he felt embarrassed about his performance the first time he now says we should just be friends. How can I convince him to try again?
*THAT MEANS HE REALLY CARES WHAT YOU THINK AND IS SHY/EMBARRASSED* or ya know!?!? You have to break him out of his shell… and be the most descriptive amazing “lover” you can be…
Great information. So, what do you mean when you say the "energetic component" when you where speaking about the triad of emotional and physical and energetic components to love making?
Great question and a difficult one to explain in a comment. The energetic component is the energy you feel between each other. It's the magnetic attraction and connection you feel with the person. You feel drawn to them. You are able to circulate the sexual energy between each other. It's hard to explain, but you certainly know it when you feel it!
When you talk about a man being in an emotional state please give more examples. It's easy for for a woman to be in her emotional state but we don't know when a man is in his emotional state and what he's thinking or doing? How do you know when he's in his emotional state
This is so freeing. I was thinking it's one of those position videos and where to touch him and kiss him. But I found value in this. No pressure... just be you and let the intention and your bodies do the work. Thank you.
Yessss one thing I realize you have to tap into the actual emotional part of the sexual activity just being comfortable and being into with your body and the other person body and being vulnerable in all aspects of love making, I did notice men love affection they actually crave it, anytime I have sex wit a guy he says what are you trying to do to me lol
I think its a little more personalized. Not all men or women like the same things. And i feel like some of these suggestions breed women who are just going through the motions to please their man. Or vice versa.
I have issues because I have arthritis and certain positions are painful because they put pressure on my joints. Also sometimes I feel depressed afterwards.
Stay in shape I’m almost 70 and I’m having the best sex of my life My boyfriend is a CANNIBAL and ANIMAL super strong and we try new fun stuff all the time He tells me he loves me and I tell him the same We have so much fun
This is so true! I see so many men and women who don’t eat well and exercise, or take care of themselves. They’re not attractive at all. It’s sad because both men AND women are visual creatures, not just men!
Making noises and being responsive will happen only if you evoke that response by taking the time to figure her out … women who fake it and make noises just for the sake of his ego do a disservice to themselves in the future and also to their partners… because it’s way better when it’s real.
Yes with the right man I'm willing to try almost anything. But finding the man the fits with me in all ways is very hard. But I have plenty of sexual experience and would like to find the right one to share that with. I've had sex with men that have lasted longer, because they have trained themselves to control it and that has been the best that I've had.
I've tried all of this but all it led to was daunting sex sessions that became tiresome and stressful, let's face it if you really fancy someone you'll enjoy sex with them without all the rigmarole of ticking off a list of things to do. As for oral, I personally find it abusive and a real turn off.
Ever see The Stepford Wives? Remember hearing the wife yelling :Oh, Oh, you're the King".Just admire them compliment them, tell them how WNDEFUL they are. That's all they need .Now go look up Narcissism.
I can 2nd HRT! Been on bioidenitcal HT for a year and it has totally energized my libido! We have so much sex in such variety that my husband asks to take a day off! by the way…not all HRT is alike. After some research my fears of breast cancer were alleviated. Never going back!
@@thinkb4uspeak276 yes, synthetic HRT causes cancer. I use wild yam cream from a compounding pharmacy, and soy. In fact, I had to cut way back on soy because I was over estrogenated. Synthetic HRT comes from mares who are tortured for their urine, and their babies slaughtered: PREgnantMAResurIN.
Lol... I have a very feminine energy. I am sensual, stimulating, playful, witty, intelligent, authentuc, confident, receptive... Kind. Elegant, charming... Attractive. I smile a lot, I am very happy and I radiate pleasure.... Want to know more? :-)
A male friend of mine, strictly platonic, told me that if I did more than "just lay there" I would be better in bed than 90% of women. That's just sad! That being said, many of these things apply to men too.
Oooh this was super helpful in terms of the discussion about matching energies and riding energetic waves. I never thought about it in that way but it makes perfect sense!! Thank you!
What happens when your doing all 10 things but he totally wont have sex with me anymore. Its been 5 months since hes touched me other than giving me a kiss hello & good bye. He swears hes not cheating.
He was cheating he finally admitted it to me there have been two different women. I forgave him he swore he wouldnt again. Its been a week & all the same crap not coming home execpt to eat & change/get clean clothes. Also he still hasnt touched me. So its time for the talk of getting all his shit out of my place & find someone else to cheat on. The lying cheating son of a bytch!!!.
Thank you for your replies. Yes he admitted that he was very sorry that he did the one thing he promised that he would never do because every girlfriend he has ever had cheatec on him & he knows how much it hurts a person. I have been faithful to him when i could have cheated. I just couldnt do that to the man i am crazy i love with. I stayed with him when he was put in jail & did a year of dead time & all charges were dropped. Stayed & was faithful through it all. I really think what started it all was when i got chemical burns on my entire face my left ear both hands & arms up to my elbows. Which is no excuse. I know. I was in extreme pain, crying almost all the time from the pain. I am still dealing with some dry patches on my wrists & forearm. This has taken 6 months of healing so far. I have almost lost my love, almost lost my daughter & grandaughter & i almost lost my apt( which im still fighting my eviction) there were days during my healing that i would have to vacuum my bed 5-6 times a day from all my skin flaky off. I was completly grossed out by this. I looked like a monster not like my self, not even remotely like myself. So i dont blame him entirely. I know if he cant handle me at my worst he doesnt deseve me at my best. However when you know you love someone unconditionally you have to forgive. Its not just letting him walk all over me. Im not a weak woman, or a pushover. He knows there are 5 men waiting just waiting to see if ill kick him out & start dating again. 5 men that want the chance to show me how a woman should be treated. Time will tell. I know his tells now, only to clearly. I hope to never see them again, wish me/us luck.
No one should be bored in bed. If it’s boring usually there is no chemistry or attraction between the couple. And I think it’s the man that should know what his woman wants. This sounds more like you are telling us how to be in a bad boring pornomovie..
It’s not just about the man needing to know what our needs are. Very selfish statement. None of this sounds like a “ bad boring porn “. It sounds like you’re more of a disappointment to your partner in bed.
A man can’t just know what the woman wants😕😕😕 *in a BROAD kind of way* yeah but We are talking specifics here! But most are too shy or embarrassed *EVEN WITH THEIR HUSBAND/WIFE* to communicate *COMMUNICATE* or else it’s just mediocre 🤷♂️😕 and it’s sad most do settle for that.
These videos are him assuming all men are this way because it’s what HE wants haha. My husband isn’t open to a lot of these things or has me avoid them 🤷♀️
He may have a lower sex drive, as many engineer/IT/accountant-type men do, be asexual, be using porn instead of intimacy with you, not be attracted to you , or have an ED issue he doesn’t want to face. Sex is an indicator of the health of the relationship.
My guy doesn't like any of these things, it's like he's been traumatized about sex somehow. I've asked him about it and he said there's nothing, so it's really hurting our relationship.
Never had that issue but you can communicate with him & try to help him last longer. He needs to understand that you might take longer to be in ecstasy. Remember some men haven't been fortunate to have had good sexual partners so what can they know. There's young guys that are extremely good lovers & there's older men who had a lot of lovers & suppose to be good experienced lovers NOT!!! Sometimes you have to train the older "experienced" men. If you 2 love & care for each other you 2 can work it out. He needs to know your body & you his. Good luck.
You have a lot of great advice as to what men want for sex from their women. Do you have any advice on what women want from sex from their man? Thank you for the advice about the energy level. A woman backing down and making it last longer is a great idea. It does seem like all of your videos have to deal only with him and not the her. What does a woman need? Especially when a woman in their menopause state?
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Do you have any love making advice to help with men who have ED....it's from peripheral artery disease, stents and bypass surgery. He can't take meds for it.
Ikr
What about the husbands who don't want sex regularly & the wife has a higher drive? It seems like the woman is always blamed for infrequent sex. That's not always the case.
I’d be interested in hearing more about this too
1 in a million
It is just as often the man. I've had 2 relationships like that and it absolutely sucks as a woman to feel rejected.
@djlord9189 Not true at all. It is a lot more comman than most people think. I've experienced this with a couple of men (and for the record, I'm a very good looking woman, not someone who has let myself go or anything).
That's me 😂😂😂😂
Be sure you marry a man who came from a loving family , if not it will effect his love giving , he will expect, expect. You can't give what you never received received.
Makes total sense
A man can heal those core wounds if she does the work and has a loving caring patient and listening partner.
Reaction to crisis is individually particular, you have a challenge (“bad situation”) and can react positive (constructive) or negative (destructive)… you know what I mean .
! So underrated
im 71 and dateing a 74 yr. old..HOT HOT HOT..BOTH WAYS....WE HAVE SUCH A GREAT TIME....
Ah man❤
I love this 🤩❤️
Love to hear this. I'm almost 53 and have been single and out of the dating scene for over 7 years. I often feel like my chances are fading away. Your comment is evidence there is a lot of time left to find a good connection ♥
You are lucky, my hubby has ED and I’m not getting any.
I love hearing this, it gives me hope
I need to be chased a little bit, and I am extremely confident and independent. Being pursued is a HUGE turn on!
Seems like a lotta know-it-alls here. I'm a woman of a certain age & this helped me. I value the content and the calm expertise of the delivery. Thank you!
Agreed .
Yess🎉
It was very helpful for me too.
I might share it with my Lover since we are newbies but very passionate.
We'll definitely have fun talking about it 😊
Sex is an Art and when taken seriously will get better every time. There is a difference between "mutual satisfaction" and Shared Bliss
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@@Liza-Loves-Youless talking 👄 kills the mood
Don't let anyone make you think you don't deserve the best. You are a legend. I don't need to have met you to know that. Fuck any guy who makes you feel less than that. Seriously. Take it from the younger generation because we were privileged to grow up less afraid of men.
Agreed
When I married my 2nd husband (20 years young than me) I made 2 rules, which shocked him at first, but which he came to love. 1. Sex could only be every other day (I told him if I fed him a steak dinner each day, pretty soon he's looking to eat pork, fish, salads in fact anything but steak etc, we kept sex special) 2. I created a rail of outfits in a spare room ie doctor, diver, riding instructor, hotel manager, waiter, gigolo, policeman, army, female underwear, scientist, arab, cowboy. He would spend his day planning what he would wear, plan the scenario, what he would need ie drink tray with drinks for the waiter, music to set the mood etc), so when he got home from work he was in charge, and I was always surprized by his ideas and what he had in store for me. Sex was always before dinner, as who the hell can perform on a full stomach? It was a rampant and passionate relationship.
Are you still married to this young man? I'm dating and I'm interested in a much younger man but I'm struggling with it
@@cher4all he was 30 I was 50. I made the rule as no way could I keep up with his libido, and I dislike being propositioned when I'm busy doing something else. We kept it v special and magical. He was a dive master and already head of his family, so no baby. I knew he wanted children and I was too old, so I let him go free, much against his wishes. It was great fun, and we were v happy.
Love that for you!
This is the best!
@anotherblonde That's way too much work to dress in costume. We keep it fresh without the mascarade. We shop fantasy store together. Exotic soaps, body Paints, adult toys, movies etc. Yes Whip cream & cherries. Yet thoroughly enjoy foreplay. Keep on going great exercise & burns a lot of calories. Lol
Women are a gift from God..not a toy or a Car you test drive.
Everything is spot on. Thank you
Can you please tell men to do all of these things too? Be creative! Don't say "no" to woman's (easy and reasonable) request. I.e. if she says "flip me over!" in the heat of it while you're having fun and everything is going well... and you say "no" I want to connect... she's probably not going to ask you again. GIVE HER the position that she wants to feel good and GRIND into it! Then keep switching it up. Stop saying no and stop being boring!
If you're wondering why she's quiet, it's because you're not doing it/her right. Yes, I know everyone is different, but just keep building and going harder until she does start making noise or needs to tell you it's too much or needs a break or to change it up, and follow that and don't EVER ignore it, and make sure that SHE is enjoying herself!
Tell MEN to be more open to using toys and not be offended or feel emasculated because she wants to try something else besides just his c*ck, instead of saying "I'm all you need"
Thank you!
That's really sad if I ever need a toy while with a man then he isn't doing something right or it's the wrong man .and I'm a super sexual girl and have never asked a man to bring in a toy girl they say you attract the opposite of what you are so maybe pretend like u don't like toys cause I never bring them up or give an inkling and I attract dudes who mention them or bring them up .and it's not always about emasculating it's more so ego or hurt because when a girl I was laying next to preferred her vibrator and vibrator only while I was attempting to use my hand well yeah that makes the other person disconnect and feel hurt too but she's weird already .so basically if they're saying no move on look for that kinky open minded man elsewhere don't settle .
ThiS! My man thinks me trying to communicate, is me being controlling.
Yes, well there's a cure for that. Get up, grab a toy and get back in bed... and take care of yourself. Hey, he can watch, participate or leave! He'll get the message very clearly. 😂😂😂
All man cheat and I no longer care about pleasing one in bed or out of bed. I wasted my adult life pleasing a man. Sick of them.
As a regular watcher on Kevin's channel, I can tell you he does tell men that too. Including your added points even. We both, in couples, need to be attuned to the other's desires.
Great sex starts with good communication. It is unrealistic & unfair to expect your partner (male or female) to know what your wants &/or needs are in bed. It must be communicated. It builds a deeper bond also.
This 100%!
You cannot expect to have great sex, and a great sex life, if you do not communicate with your partner. Some of the best advice I ever received was from my grandma, of all people - she said "If you and your woman can't talk about sex comfortably with each other, you're not ready for sex and/or it's not gonna be very good." Sage advice from a woman who was married for over 60 years and had 5 kids and a very happy marriage by all accounts.
@@jdemille79 Thank you Josh. Your grandma was very wise. I’m 64 & it’s the best ever with a man who loves that we can talk about sex.
Agreed!!
He is being honest and sincere. Please be kind.
His cheating defines him as a cheater. It does not define you as less than a great sexual partner.
Indeed
Thank you for this advice! I've only had this kind of sex with one man. It was my second husband. I was totally in love with him & very attracted to him. Also, he showed excitement for me & made me feel sexy & desireable, so that hightened my excitement even more!
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This works BOTH ways, as these 10 things are EXACTLY what Women also want, not just Men(?)
There are many UA-cam videos that cater to such.
I was thinking the same thing!
Certainly men focussed but it is the main focus of his "talk". Does seem like the woman has lots of jobs to do though!! Lol😂
Agreed , sound like woman-need to be the givers and men are the takers
B.S. I wanted regular sex; he didn't. I am so tired of the attitude and mindset that men want more sex than women do. I've also known other women whose husbands wanted sex far less than they did. I've done all the things advised in this video; still he cheated, I divorced him and never looked back.
You were not connecting sexually. From that point, everything sexual will go downhill. Hope you found your match... when everyone matches, everyone will want more.
Its true. Its such a boring stereotype. If a woman is not wanting sex with their partner, they either aren't getting their emotional needs met or they are not finishing. A lot of men are selfish and don't understand female anatomy. Also, if men want blow jobs, they need to practice some hygiene down there. I hear a lot of men won't even wipe their own butts because they are afraid its too feminine. Why would a woman want to down down there in that situation.
I dated a guy who was less sexual than I am. We all have a different balance of hormones. I've worked with animals all my life, too. There are females whose heat is INSANE. Female rabbits come into heat monthly, and man, are they aggressive. I've known mares who go nuts and are impossible to handle.
Also in my experience, it’s the men that get into routine. I’ve noticed most guys have like 3-4 positions they prefer… not always the same positions from man to man… But they are def the ones that get boring and in their routine. Maybe you should teach this to men bc seems to be like they are the ones not getting it.
If you have a part ner that is totally into taken your needs in to finding out what turns you on, your missing out and that's a very sad thing😊
This comment makes me feel like I'm very boring in bed 😂 I'm completely fine and satisfied with 3-4 positions
for real, I have asked my husband to try new things and he won't
I really enjoyed this.... my husband is going to love it !!!❤ We are 62 and still enjoying each other.❤❤
This gives me hope! 😍
I’m surprised that what you say, whispering how much you love what he’s doing isn’t mentioned. My guy loves to hear me tell him how great I feel, what he’s doing to my body. What we say to each other while playing adds to the excitement.
On the other hand, too much talking kills the mood.
When you know what your man likes is a good thing. So, keep enjoying!
I think you’re awesome. Question. Is possible that some partners have a powerful connection which possibly includes energy and emotions without having learned it. But rather it comes naturally? I am for the first time ever experiencing this and it is absolutely blissful. Sensational, temperamental and soo energetic. And this is from the very first encounter.
Thank you. Yes, that is definitely possible. There are many different systems that have been created to assess compatibility. I would guess that you are both very compatible. When you are with someone who you are very compatible with, things just flow and the connection feels powerful without much effort. Congratulations! Now just make sure as time goes by that you keep it up. It is normal over time for things to change a bit. However, with some attention and effort, there is no reason why you can't keep the relationship as alive and amazing as it it now.
@@KevinandCeline thank you for your reply. I hear what you are saying and I have some doubts that this kind of connection can last a long time. I feel this is going to be a brief story. I’m too afraid to get too committed simply for that reason. Once the passion subsides, won’t he be looking for a new story? I know those are my insecurities. Anyway we shall see what happens. Thank you for all that you do 🙏
@@theguidedgem It is possible, but it will take work and you have to believe it's possible. If he is really a good man, he won't be looking for something else.
This is what is going on with my partner and I, and it's only increasing over time as we communicate more and learn about each other. I am aware things may change as time goes by but I'm hopeful all the change will be positive.
Yes. It began within 10 minutes of meeting. Mind-blowing. And we’re in our 70s!🤩
I'VE HAD THE BEST LOVE AFFAIR WITH MY HUSBAND
Advise from
my step dad "you got to give a little to get a little !!! "Men you want regular sex Stop being lazy !! It is not on your wife to make an income, raise the kids and clean the house. Do your part !!
Wise, insightful man!
Women work average 16 hrs daily between real job and house / family “job” and then appear at 10 pm or 4 am like a “professional” (you know what I mean)… For how many years you think the delicate and fragile hormonal balances can withstand only 3 or 4 hrs of (trying to have deep) sleep, without ruining her beauty (premature aging).. ( not to say every pregnancy increases like 10 years in appearance to her face and body)… Men, we are built different, you were made to be running in the wild chasing some animal to eat and women were born to be in a protected shelter doing the small labors and caring for kids, that’s the biological role of each.. Remember, we are basically animals, part of this natural setting called nature, that we are almost to loose, as 70% of animal species have disappeared, and humans don’t simply care for our beautiful planet (men only thinking about having sex, and teaching women how to make sex to them)… that’s so selfish.. We all need to remember the principles that make us human, and at the same time, we need to remember that the clock is ticking in order to transform our humanity in an interplanetary species…
All this duh. A lot of this men need to reciprocate. We like to know you are enjoying it. Making noice and responding. You guys want us to go down on you go down on us too.
As soon as he said blow job I though RECIPROCATE....but they don't.
Exactly!
This is the same thing I wrote.
Women are turned on when they feel appreciated and have a loyal partner
I am done doing everything to please a man/ I got a scoreboard now above my bed. It's one for you, and one for me. You better please me.
Exactly! 😂
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I’d never be with a man that didn’t please me! That’s all my marriage had was decent a. E. X and we are divorced now.
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I ticked off all of these and he still cheated 🤷🏼♀️.
Cheating isn't about sex, it's about intimacy.
That effin sucks
@@helgaioannidis9365Cheating is all about ego. Nothing more, nothing less!
Disgusting it's only sex for men
I figured out that some men don't want "better", they just want "different".. my husband cheated on me too, but eventually a much better lover found me. My husband knows he made the worst mistake of his life
if a man is connected, flirty, safe (both physically and emotionally) and makes you feel sexy all day outside of the bedroom, this wont ve a problem.
I concur with your sentiment 100%♡.
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True
You said it!100%
Great to hear such candid information from a man's perspective. Great video and please keep posting new videos. I am taking notes.
Absolutely
It takes 2. If you have chemistry than things will follow, bc both people are into one another!
I think its easy to fall into a certain way of doing it when you know each other so well so its a great be reminded to be spontaneous and present.
You should give men your advice about being responsive.
Yes and also just leave em if they're like that no need to suffer it's easy to walk away if you repeat if long enough
Kevin does exactly that on his UA-cam channel. He speaks to both men and women, together and separately also.
Amen
Yep. I had a BF who was the greatest guy. Attentive, caring, loyal, generous. But in bed, he was completely silent. I'm very vocal and open, and just couldn't get him to say anything or even moan a little. He only wanted one position. If I suggested a change, he'd sort of grunt and keep going. I got creeped out. The day I fell asleep DURING SEX, I broke up with him.
If she's unresponsive, you're a lousy lover. Some men are frigid. They like the same thing every time in a robotic way.
So true
Yep.
THIS
Agreed 😂
Maybe there just isn’t chemistry. Gotta have that
This is great advice! You explained things that I have not heard put into words so accurately before. You make so much sense! Thanks!
I didn’t hear anything about hygiene 😂😂😂
I think it's given. How can you have amazing sex if the hygiene is bad. 😂😅
Yes...alot of dirty birdies 😮Clean yourself.....get a pedicure!!!! Nasty Wolfman toe nails🤮 Also man scape....no caveman shrubs or carpet backs😮
I think that should be a given..
You would be amazed at how many men think hygiene is optional.
Scrub the hole with a rag
The same points also count for men...
Mix it up, don't let your partner get bored, more fore play, moan... Let us know you also enjoy it.
Yeah I hate it when the guy is all quiet, especially when they climax. If you're comfortable enough to be intimate with someone, why?
Love this. I've always thought of sex as a grown-up playtime. Let's exhaust ourselves like we did as kids on a playground.
Tell the men what we want. Thanks ❤
I think the most important thing I have learned about sex is that the man must like women. He must not have any aggressive or negative emotions towards women,; otherwise she will sense it and not be able to trust (the key to being completely open to his advances). He must love the female body and crave it. The men I have had the best sex with are the ones I can be completely open to. Why? Because I trust them. . If a man allows any woman to be herself in safety, he will have the wild, passionate partner he dreams of. But without this, it will be all about technique, etc. The energy of acceptance is the best aphrodisiac because we feel free to express ourselves. Men need to focus on a woman's needs because she is the source.
Sounds like I am the man in the relationship, as my man doesn’t really want to do any of those things 😞
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Appreciate the great tips & tricks! Communication is a great tool as well❤❤
With my partner its so intense it becomes impossible to talk 😂😂😂 we go with the flow
I must be amazing we did all that with my husband(widowed now)
One thing you forgot is that a lot of times there is an attraction between the two that sparks and takes off.
This is why that guy still texts me every few months after I’ve been married to someone else for 5 years. He’s waiting in the wings. All my exes come back around.
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Shame on you
@@debrarobey3749 shame on yourself.
@@debrarobey3749exactly agreed.
Being married and ALLOWING exes to still message you is probably the biggest turn off to your husband NOT the biggest turn on.
I thought I was going to learn something new… all of this “advice” just comes natural (no pun intended 😂). What he’s describing is about 60% of what I did (before choosing celibacy). No one could keep up with me. It was all 100% genuine and fun.
Really enjoying it is the key. Loving everything about it makes it it worth it. Don’t hold back, just get lost in it, 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Now I’m living the celibate life for God. If I ever get married again, my husband’s going to be one very EXHAUSTED, HAPPY, WELL LOVED, lucky man… 🎉😂😊
New things could be a new partner. Surprising how well that can work.
Although nothing new. I enjoyed hearing it again and I'm sure some people don't know all the points. When I was thirty I didn't know all that.
It is always ALL about what men want & need!!!! What about what WOMEN want & need????? 🤷♂️🤷♂️
My God, there are plenty of channels about what women want and need… quit whining and just go find one.
You are watching the wrong video.
Different video! Lol
Here I am 52 and watching this.. I should already know this lol
I'm 70 & watching this!
This was good and logical, too.. thank you:)
Please make up a video about sex and hygiene. Sex is important, but hygiene is extremely important. Thanks
It's a given. Goodness!
Now I know why my husband is crazy about me. lol.
Just don't wake me up from a dead sleep or turn the lights on too bright, or no deal. 😂
Dude, being woken up from a deep sleep with work the next day to your spouse trying to be intimate is worthy of anger management counseling.
I want to have fun experimenting with a man that I proposed friends with benefits but because he felt embarrassed about his performance the first time he now says we should just be friends. How can I convince him to try again?
You don't convince him.
You respect that his answer is "no" and you move on to find another consenting person.
*THAT MEANS HE REALLY CARES WHAT YOU THINK AND IS SHY/EMBARRASSED* or ya know!?!?
You have to break him out of his shell… and be the most descriptive amazing “lover” you can be…
Don't try to convince him. If he's into, he'll think about it. But I've been coerced before... I regret it. Respect his answer, please.
Sorry honey, he doesn't want you. Move on.
Great information. So, what do you mean when you say the "energetic component" when you where speaking about the triad of emotional and physical and energetic components to love making?
Great question and a difficult one to explain in a comment. The energetic component is the energy you feel between each other. It's the magnetic attraction and connection you feel with the person. You feel drawn to them. You are able to circulate the sexual energy between each other. It's hard to explain, but you certainly know it when you feel it!
@@KevinandCeline Ah, I see. I understand now. Thank you for clarifying.
What is emotional connection for men?
When you talk about a man being in an emotional state please give more examples. It's easy for for a woman to be in her emotional state but we don't know when a man is in his emotional state and what he's thinking or doing? How do you know when he's in his emotional state
Well said. Being present is important and rare
This is so freeing. I was thinking it's one of those position videos and where to touch him and kiss him. But I found value in this. No pressure... just be you and let the intention and your bodies do the work. Thank you.
And trusting that person really really enhances it to the next level
Yessss one thing I realize you have to tap into the actual emotional part of the sexual activity just being comfortable and being into with your body and the other person body and being vulnerable in all aspects of love making, I did notice men love affection they actually crave it, anytime I have sex wit a guy he says what are you trying to do to me lol
I did all these things and he still cheated
They all do
@@melanieboccinfuso5619no they don’t
Only the insecure ones
I think its a little more personalized. Not all men or women like the same things. And i feel like some of these suggestions breed women who are just going through the motions to please their man. Or vice versa.
This man needs some education on hormonal fluctuations 😂. I’ll watch more videos after he listens to “beyond mars and Venus” by John Gray❤
I have issues because I have arthritis and certain positions are painful because they put pressure on my joints.
Also sometimes I feel depressed afterwards.
One important thing to mention. Men and women, pay attention to your bodies as you age. Because you must attract the other sex.. always!
Stay in shape
I’m almost 70 and I’m having the best sex of my life
My boyfriend is a CANNIBAL and ANIMAL super strong and we try new fun stuff all the time
He tells me he loves me and I tell him the same
We have so much fun
This is so true! I see so many men and women who don’t eat well and exercise, or take care of themselves. They’re not attractive at all. It’s sad because both men AND women are visual creatures, not just men!
@@motowngirl5891 How old is the boy friend?
Yes, being fit and active is so important.
Great advice
Making noises and being responsive will happen only if you evoke that response by taking the time to figure her out … women who fake it and make noises just for the sake of his ego do a disservice to themselves in the future and also to their partners… because it’s way better when it’s real.
I totally agree when your looking in there eyes anything can happen
Thank you! I have learned more about sex with my Man. I haven't understood our sex till now. Smile.🥰
Edging is so useful for both
I no all this and more . Dang I thought you were going to tell me something new
I love this 💚
Thank you for sharing ❤
This isn't telling me anything I didn't already know 🤷♂️
Then you already know more than most people. 🙂
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I do agree with you. 😄
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Think that I know but could not use this knowkedge
Yes with the right man I'm willing to try almost anything. But finding the man the fits with me in all ways is very hard. But I have plenty of sexual experience and would like to find the right one to share that with. I've had sex with men that have lasted longer, because they have trained themselves to control it and that has been the best that I've had.
Now we sleep in different room
Fabulous post, Love it !! BIG tick for every point. Very well said. ❤️🙏🏼😋
Nice reminders…
Nice content 🎉😊
I think #8 is supposed to be in the 'what women want ' video.
I've tried all of this but all it led to was daunting sex sessions that became tiresome and stressful, let's face it if you really fancy someone you'll enjoy sex with them without all the rigmarole of ticking off a list of things to do. As for oral, I personally find it abusive and a real turn off.
Not all guys like oral sex, just sayin'...🤗
Edging is great it takes a little practice though
What the hell is that?
@@carolynnoce5097 it’s bringing someone close to orgasm, then backing off. Bringing close, backing off. The hard part is backing off.
@@carolynnoce5097, 😅😅😅
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Ever see The Stepford Wives? Remember hearing the wife yelling :Oh, Oh, you're the King".Just admire them compliment them, tell them how WNDEFUL they are. That's all they need .Now go look up Narcissism.
Can you please do a video for seniors.
HRT helps. So does learning to work around health and physical issues.
@@echase416not when a history of cancer in family - which is actually more than humans imagine.
@@thinkb4uspeak276bio identical hormones don't carry the cancer risk when monitored with and by your naturapathic doctor
I can 2nd HRT! Been on bioidenitcal HT for a year and it has totally energized my libido! We have so much sex in such variety that my husband asks to take a day off! by the way…not all HRT is alike. After some research my fears of breast cancer were alleviated. Never going back!
@@thinkb4uspeak276 yes, synthetic HRT causes cancer. I use wild yam cream from a compounding pharmacy, and soy. In fact, I had to cut way back on soy because I was over estrogenated. Synthetic HRT comes from mares who are tortured for their urine, and their babies slaughtered: PREgnantMAResurIN.
Thanks Dr , how about some knowledge for men on what women like
Yep, I am the perfect girl to be with.
Why do you think you’re perfect woman?
Lol... I have a very feminine energy. I am sensual, stimulating, playful, witty, intelligent, authentuc, confident, receptive... Kind. Elegant, charming... Attractive. I smile a lot, I am very happy and I radiate pleasure.... Want to know more? :-)
Just another man telling us what to do and what we're doing wrong. This guy is sharing his opinion, nothing more.
A male friend of mine, strictly platonic, told me that if I did more than "just lay there" I would be better in bed than 90% of women. That's just sad! That being said, many of these things apply to men too.
Oooh this was super helpful in terms of the discussion about matching energies and riding energetic waves. I never thought about it in that way but it makes perfect sense!! Thank you!
You're so welcome!
Mixing it up..makes the womans focus go away..
It is such a spontaneous
Thing, you can not really say what works.
Not all woman are the same though!?!?
What happens when your doing all 10 things but he totally wont have sex with me anymore. Its been 5 months since hes touched me other than giving me a kiss hello & good bye. He swears hes not cheating.
He may be having trouble getting it up and is ashamed. Get him to take Maca. Read up about it.
He's cheating or on the down low gay?
He was cheating he finally admitted it to me there have been two different women. I forgave him he swore he wouldnt again. Its been a week & all the same crap not coming home execpt to eat & change/get clean clothes. Also he still hasnt touched me. So its time for the talk of getting all his shit out of my place & find someone else to cheat on. The lying cheating son of a bytch!!!.
He’s cheating.
Thank you for your replies. Yes he admitted that he was very sorry that he did the one thing he promised that he would never do because every girlfriend he has ever had cheatec on him & he knows how much it hurts a person. I have been faithful to him when i could have cheated. I just couldnt do that to the man i am crazy i love with. I stayed with him when he was put in jail & did a year of dead time & all charges were dropped. Stayed & was faithful through it all. I really think what started it all was when i got chemical burns on my entire face my left ear both hands & arms up to my elbows. Which is no excuse. I know. I was in extreme pain, crying almost all the time from the pain. I am still dealing with some dry patches on my wrists & forearm. This has taken 6 months of healing so far. I have almost lost my love, almost lost my daughter & grandaughter & i almost lost my apt( which im still fighting my eviction) there were days during my healing that i would have to vacuum my bed 5-6 times a day from all my skin flaky off. I was completly grossed out by this. I looked like a monster not like my self, not even remotely like myself. So i dont blame him entirely. I know if he cant handle me at my worst he doesnt deseve me at my best. However when you know you love someone unconditionally you have to forgive. Its not just letting him walk all over me. Im not a weak woman, or a pushover. He knows there are 5 men waiting just waiting to see if ill kick him out & start dating again. 5 men that want the chance to show me how a woman should be treated. Time will tell. I know his tells now, only to clearly. I hope to never see them again, wish me/us luck.
No one should be bored in bed. If it’s boring usually there is no chemistry or attraction between the couple. And I think it’s the man that should know what his woman wants. This sounds more like you are telling us how to be in a bad boring pornomovie..
It’s not just about the man needing to know what our needs are. Very selfish statement. None of this sounds like a “ bad boring porn “. It sounds like you’re more of a disappointment to your partner in bed.
A man can’t just know what the woman wants😕😕😕 *in a BROAD kind of way* yeah but
We are talking specifics here! But most are too shy or embarrassed *EVEN WITH THEIR HUSBAND/WIFE* to communicate *COMMUNICATE*
or else it’s just mediocre 🤷♂️😕 and it’s sad most do settle for that.
Thanks for your tips on great sex. I learned something today!
I love the video " push the button"❤
These videos are him assuming all men are this way because it’s what HE wants haha. My husband isn’t open to a lot of these things or has me avoid them 🤷♀️
we have been living together for 9months and no sex,we sleep in the same bed. I don't understand why
He could be a narcissist . Sex is a huge issue with narcs. Otherwise run. He’s showing you something is WAY off
He may have a very low sex drive, be getting it elsewhere, or be m@sterbating to porn instead of having sexual relations with you.
He may have a very low sex drive, be getting it elsewhere, or be m@sterbating to porn instead of having sexual relations with you.
He may have a lower sex drive, as many engineer/IT/accountant-type men do, be asexual, be using porn instead of intimacy with you, not be attracted to you , or have an ED issue he doesn’t want to face. Sex is an indicator of the health of the relationship.
Are you communicating?
My guy doesn't like any of these things, it's like he's been traumatized about sex somehow. I've asked him about it and he said there's nothing, so it's really hurting our relationship.
Great but repetitive points
Some of the women here are young and possibly haven’t seen these points before
Helpful thank you
That was good...thank you
Welcome!
It doesn't last long enough to mix it up. Less than 5 minutes.
Never had that issue but you can communicate with him & try to help him last longer. He needs to understand that you might take longer to be in ecstasy. Remember some men haven't been fortunate to have had good sexual partners so what can they know. There's young guys that are extremely good lovers & there's older men who had a lot of lovers & suppose to be good experienced lovers NOT!!! Sometimes you have to train the older "experienced" men. If you 2 love & care for each other you 2 can work it out. He needs to know your body & you his. Good luck.
Yeees baby preach you are telling facts
This is a great video! ❤
You have a lot of great advice as to what men want for sex from their women. Do you have any advice on what women want from sex from their man? Thank you for the advice about the energy level. A woman backing down and making it last longer is a great idea. It does seem like all of your videos have to deal only with him and not the her. What does a woman need? Especially when a woman in their menopause state?