What Men Consider Great Sex (10 Secrets Men Obsess Over)

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  • Опубліковано 19 січ 2024
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  • @MagnetizeYourMan
    @MagnetizeYourMan  5 місяців тому +26

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    • @rachelvanzile
      @rachelvanzile 9 днів тому

      Do you have any love making advice to help with men who have ED....it's from peripheral artery disease, stents and bypass surgery. He can't take meds for it.

  • @sandrabencic1819
    @sandrabencic1819 4 місяці тому +169

    This works BOTH ways, as these 10 things are EXACTLY what Women also want, not just Men(?)

    • @legaleagle4947
      @legaleagle4947 2 місяці тому +2

      There are many UA-cam videos that cater to such.

  • @mindynagel4251
    @mindynagel4251 23 дні тому +38

    What about the husbands who don't want sex regularly & the wife has a higher drive? It seems like the woman is always blamed for infrequent sex. That's not always the case.

    • @Jen_gh
      @Jen_gh 11 днів тому +1

      I’d be interested in hearing more about this too

    • @djlord9189
      @djlord9189 11 днів тому

      1 in a million

    • @debbielockhart7762
      @debbielockhart7762 6 днів тому +6

      It is just as often the man. I've had 2 relationships like that and it absolutely sucks as a woman to feel rejected.

    • @debbielockhart7762
      @debbielockhart7762 6 днів тому +3

      ​@djlord9189 Not true at all. It is a lot more comman than most people think. I've experienced this with a couple of men (and for the record, I'm a very good looking woman, not someone who has let myself go or anything).

    • @alanafromoc
      @alanafromoc 2 дні тому +1

      That's me 😂😂😂😂

  • @jliriza
    @jliriza 2 місяці тому +90

    if a man is connected, flirty, safe (both physically and emotionally) and makes you feel sexy all day outside of the bedroom, this wont ve a problem.

  • @sarahblasdell5261
    @sarahblasdell5261 4 місяці тому +166

    All this duh. A lot of this men need to reciprocate. We like to know you are enjoying it. Making noice and responding. You guys want us to go down on you go down on us too.

    • @2Sugarbears
      @2Sugarbears 9 днів тому

      As soon as he said blow job I though RECIPROCATE....but they don't.

  • @island661
    @island661 4 місяці тому +133

    If she's unresponsive, you're a lousy lover. Some men are frigid. They like the same thing every time in a robotic way.

  • @excellentcomment
    @excellentcomment 5 місяців тому +194

    Seems like a lotta know-it-alls here. I'm a woman of a certain age & this helped me. I value the content and the calm expertise of the delivery. Thank you!

    • @imonikamilah1635
      @imonikamilah1635 5 місяців тому +3

      Agreed .

    • @Liza-Loves-You
      @Liza-Loves-You 5 місяців тому +9

      Yess🎉
      It was very helpful for me too.
      I might share it with my Lover since we are newbies but very passionate.
      We'll definitely have fun talking about it 😊
      Sex is an Art and when taken seriously will get better every time. There is a difference between "mutual satisfaction" and Shared Bliss

    • @colettejaques2559
      @colettejaques2559 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@Liza-Loves-Youless talking 👄 kills the mood

    • @Ursula-dh4vk
      @Ursula-dh4vk 22 дні тому

      Don't let anyone make you think you don't deserve the best. You are a legend. I don't need to have met you to know that. Fuck any guy who makes you feel less than that. Seriously. Take it from the younger generation because we were privileged to grow up less afraid of men.

  • @donnalindsey7158
    @donnalindsey7158 4 місяці тому +134

    He is being honest and sincere. Please be kind.

    • @TheHuskySanctuary
      @TheHuskySanctuary Місяць тому +2

      His cheating defines him as a cheater. It does not define you as less than a great sexual partner.

  • @anneliesewright662
    @anneliesewright662 4 місяці тому +81

    Thank you for this advice! I've only had this kind of sex with one man. It was my second husband. I was totally in love with him & very attracted to him. Also, he showed excitement for me & made me feel sexy & desireable, so that hightened my excitement even more!

  • @TheDiamondEdge1
    @TheDiamondEdge1 5 місяців тому +323

    I ticked off all of these and he still cheated 🤷🏼‍♀️.

    • @helgaioannidis9365
      @helgaioannidis9365 5 місяців тому +67

      Cheating isn't about sex, it's about intimacy.

    • @Kkwv
      @Kkwv 5 місяців тому +11

      Because the energy of desperation and neediness is way too much it is suffocating. Time to RUN

    • @christinemaria77
      @christinemaria77 5 місяців тому +9

      That effin sucks

    • @MaxsMom-bv6hf
      @MaxsMom-bv6hf 5 місяців тому +93

      @@helgaioannidis9365Cheating is all about ego. Nothing more, nothing less!

    • @sanjuchaudhary9359
      @sanjuchaudhary9359 5 місяців тому

      Disgusting it's only sex for men

  • @carolblaser3789
    @carolblaser3789 2 місяці тому +36

    I’m surprised that what you say, whispering how much you love what he’s doing isn’t mentioned. My guy loves to hear me tell him how great I feel, what he’s doing to my body. What we say to each other while playing adds to the excitement.

  • @lori9826
    @lori9826 5 місяців тому +84

    Great sex starts with good communication. It is unrealistic & unfair to expect your partner (male or female) to know what your wants &/or needs are in bed. It must be communicated. It builds a deeper bond also.

    • @jdemille79
      @jdemille79 4 місяці тому +7

      This 100%!
      You cannot expect to have great sex, and a great sex life, if you do not communicate with your partner. Some of the best advice I ever received was from my grandma, of all people - she said "If you and your woman can't talk about sex comfortably with each other, you're not ready for sex and/or it's not gonna be very good." Sage advice from a woman who was married for over 60 years and had 5 kids and a very happy marriage by all accounts.

    • @lori9826
      @lori9826 4 місяці тому +3

      @@jdemille79 Thank you Josh. Your grandma was very wise. I’m 64 & it’s the best ever with a man who loves that we can talk about sex.

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 Місяць тому

      Agreed!!

  • @emilyw9818
    @emilyw9818 2 місяці тому +39

    Also in my experience, it’s the men that get into routine. I’ve noticed most guys have like 3-4 positions they prefer… not always the same positions from man to man… But they are def the ones that get boring and in their routine. Maybe you should teach this to men bc seems to be like they are the ones not getting it.

    • @AjoyLehmanfittro
      @AjoyLehmanfittro 13 днів тому

      If you have a part ner that is totally into taken your needs in to finding out what turns you on, your missing out and that's a very sad thing😊

  • @bethaminkhan4951
    @bethaminkhan4951 4 місяці тому +32

    Great to hear such candid information from a man's perspective. Great video and please keep posting new videos. I am taking notes.

  • @paintingjazz
    @paintingjazz 4 місяці тому +101

    Everything is spot on. Thank you
    Can you please tell men to do all of these things too? Be creative! Don't say "no" to woman's (easy and reasonable) request. I.e. if she says "flip me over!" in the heat of it while you're having fun and everything is going well... and you say "no" I want to connect... she's probably not going to ask you again. GIVE HER the position that she wants to feel good and GRIND into it! Then keep switching it up. Stop saying no and stop being boring!
    If you're wondering why she's quiet, it's because you're not doing it/her right. Yes, I know everyone is different, but just keep building and going harder until she does start making noise or needs to tell you it's too much or needs a break or to change it up, and follow that and don't EVER ignore it, and make sure that SHE is enjoying herself!
    Tell MEN to be more open to using toys and not be offended or feel emasculated because she wants to try something else besides just his c*ck, instead of saying "I'm all you need"
    Thank you!

    • @tfuentes6545
      @tfuentes6545 4 місяці тому

      That's really sad if I ever need a toy while with a man then he isn't doing something right or it's the wrong man .and I'm a super sexual girl and have never asked a man to bring in a toy girl they say you attract the opposite of what you are so maybe pretend like u don't like toys cause I never bring them up or give an inkling and I attract dudes who mention them or bring them up .and it's not always about emasculating it's more so ego or hurt because when a girl I was laying next to preferred her vibrator and vibrator only while I was attempting to use my hand well yeah that makes the other person disconnect and feel hurt too but she's weird already .so basically if they're saying no move on look for that kinky open minded man elsewhere don't settle .

    • @SimplyBeingTT
      @SimplyBeingTT 4 місяці тому +7

      ThiS! My man thinks me trying to communicate, is me being controlling.

    • @sherrilewis6910
      @sherrilewis6910 4 місяці тому +10

      Yes, well there's a cure for that. Get up, grab a toy and get back in bed... and take care of yourself. Hey, he can watch, participate or leave! He'll get the message very clearly. 😂😂😂

    • @pepsiwarren2957
      @pepsiwarren2957 4 місяці тому

      All man cheat and I no longer care about pleasing one in bed or out of bed. I wasted my adult life pleasing a man. Sick of them.

    • @jdogswifty4372
      @jdogswifty4372 4 місяці тому +4

      As a regular watcher on Kevin's channel, I can tell you he does tell men that too. Including your added points even. We both, in couples, need to be attuned to the other's desires.

  • @Mds_7868
    @Mds_7868 4 місяці тому +20

    This is great advice! You explained things that I have not heard put into words so accurately before. You make so much sense! Thanks!

  • @ashkisten3111
    @ashkisten3111 17 днів тому +15

    I really enjoyed this.... my husband is going to love it !!!❤ We are 62 and still enjoying each other.❤❤

  • @user-bp3mz4md1p
    @user-bp3mz4md1p 4 місяці тому +11

    Well said, thanks for the advice 🙏

  • @RavensFoodPorn
    @RavensFoodPorn 5 місяців тому +31

    Thank you for the clarification. I was wonderin why they always wanna come back for more 😂

  • @joanofarcxxi
    @joanofarcxxi 4 місяці тому +44

    I am done doing everything to please a man/ I got a scoreboard now above my bed. It's one for you, and one for me. You better please me.

    • @sherrilewis6910
      @sherrilewis6910 4 місяці тому +7

      Exactly! 😂

    • @ozzaM22
      @ozzaM22 4 місяці тому +5

      😂😂😂😂

    • @Gabby0770
      @Gabby0770 Місяць тому +2

      😂😂😂

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 Місяць тому +3

      I’d never be with a man that didn’t please me! That’s all my marriage had was decent a. E. X and we are divorced now.

  • @nunya6346
    @nunya6346 3 місяці тому +18

    Here I am 52 and watching this.. I should already know this lol

  • @sweetpea1577
    @sweetpea1577 4 місяці тому +65

    I didn’t hear anything about hygiene 😂😂😂

    • @LaraCameron05
      @LaraCameron05 3 місяці тому +12

      I think it's given. How can you have amazing sex if the hygiene is bad. 😂😅

    • @colettejaques2559
      @colettejaques2559 2 місяці тому

      Yes...alot of dirty birdies 😮Clean yourself.....get a pedicure!!!! Nasty Wolfman toe nails🤮 Also man scape....no caveman shrubs or carpet backs😮

    • @debbwebb94
      @debbwebb94 2 місяці тому +7

      I think that should be a given..

    • @maam-yj8ph
      @maam-yj8ph Місяць тому +5

      You would be amazed at how many men think hygiene is optional.

    • @Boudicaisback
      @Boudicaisback Місяць тому +3

      Scrub the hole with a rag

  • @user-dr6vj8ez9q
    @user-dr6vj8ez9q 5 місяців тому +44

    Appreciate the great tips & tricks! Communication is a great tool as well❤❤

  • @amberv4223
    @amberv4223 5 місяців тому +12

    So helpful. Thank you 😊❤

  • @motherof4540
    @motherof4540 5 днів тому +4

    I'VE HAD THE BEST LOVE AFFAIR WITH MY HUSBAND

  • @rosagoglia4649
    @rosagoglia4649 5 місяців тому +25

    This was good and logical, too.. thank you:)

  • @angelinevanheerden687
    @angelinevanheerden687 4 місяці тому +23

    The same points also count for men...
    Mix it up, don't let your partner get bored, more fore play, moan... Let us know you also enjoy it.

  • @northernstarseedtarot
    @northernstarseedtarot 5 місяців тому +34

    I think its easy to fall into a certain way of doing it when you know each other so well so its a great be reminded to be spontaneous and present.

  • @morganfalkdesigns
    @morganfalkdesigns 5 днів тому +2

    I need to be chased a little bit, and I am extremely confident and independent. Being pursued is a HUGE turn on!

  • @TheSexy1049
    @TheSexy1049 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for sharing 😊🙏

  • @OrjiVictorychioma-fu4gv
    @OrjiVictorychioma-fu4gv Місяць тому +2

    I love this 💚
    Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @jmca110
    @jmca110 4 місяці тому +75

    You should give men your advice about being responsive.

    • @tfuentes6545
      @tfuentes6545 4 місяці тому

      Yes and also just leave em if they're like that no need to suffer it's easy to walk away if you repeat if long enough

    • @jdogswifty4372
      @jdogswifty4372 4 місяці тому

      Kevin does exactly that on his UA-cam channel. He speaks to both men and women, together and separately also.

    • @recolcummings2833
      @recolcummings2833 Місяць тому

      Amen

  • @GenRN
    @GenRN 5 місяців тому +92

    This is why that guy still texts me every few months after I’ve been married to someone else for 5 years. He’s waiting in the wings. All my exes come back around.

    • @1channel341
      @1channel341 4 місяці тому +3

      😅

    • @debrarobey3749
      @debrarobey3749 3 місяці тому +11

      Shame on you

    • @GenRN
      @GenRN 3 місяці тому

      @@debrarobey3749 shame on yourself.

    • @Michellebellaa
      @Michellebellaa 2 місяці тому

      ​@@debrarobey3749exactly agreed.

    • @Michellebellaa
      @Michellebellaa 2 місяці тому +19

      Being married and ALLOWING exes to still message you is probably the biggest turn off to your husband NOT the biggest turn on.

  • @theguidedgem
    @theguidedgem 5 місяців тому +52

    I think you’re awesome. Question. Is possible that some partners have a powerful connection which possibly includes energy and emotions without having learned it. But rather it comes naturally? I am for the first time ever experiencing this and it is absolutely blissful. Sensational, temperamental and soo energetic. And this is from the very first encounter.

    • @KevinandCeline
      @KevinandCeline 5 місяців тому +12

      Thank you. Yes, that is definitely possible. There are many different systems that have been created to assess compatibility. I would guess that you are both very compatible. When you are with someone who you are very compatible with, things just flow and the connection feels powerful without much effort. Congratulations! Now just make sure as time goes by that you keep it up. It is normal over time for things to change a bit. However, with some attention and effort, there is no reason why you can't keep the relationship as alive and amazing as it it now.

    • @theguidedgem
      @theguidedgem 5 місяців тому +1

      @@KevinandCeline thank you for your reply. I hear what you are saying and I have some doubts that this kind of connection can last a long time. I feel this is going to be a brief story. I’m too afraid to get too committed simply for that reason. Once the passion subsides, won’t he be looking for a new story? I know those are my insecurities. Anyway we shall see what happens. Thank you for all that you do 🙏

    • @KevinandCeline
      @KevinandCeline 5 місяців тому +3

      @@theguidedgem It is possible, but it will take work and you have to believe it's possible. If he is really a good man, he won't be looking for something else.

    • @springaerium
      @springaerium 5 місяців тому

      This is what is going on with my partner and I, and it's only increasing over time as we communicate more and learn about each other. I am aware things may change as time goes by but I'm hopeful all the change will be positive.

    • @ammamaw
      @ammamaw 5 місяців тому +10

      Yes. It began within 10 minutes of meeting. Mind-blowing. And we’re in our 70s!🤩

  • @niloukashfi6096
    @niloukashfi6096 3 місяці тому

    Helpful thank you

  • @nosiphopakamile8972
    @nosiphopakamile8972 2 місяці тому +5

    This is so freeing. I was thinking it's one of those position videos and where to touch him and kiss him. But I found value in this. No pressure... just be you and let the intention and your bodies do the work. Thank you.

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare 2 місяці тому +5

    Well said. Being present is important and rare

  • @nandihlongwani6232
    @nandihlongwani6232 3 місяці тому +3

    Nice content 🎉😊

  • @heidijaramillo7350
    @heidijaramillo7350 4 місяці тому +22

    Edging is great it takes a little practice though

  • @Ziggimomspal68
    @Ziggimomspal68 5 місяців тому +4

    Nice reminders…

  • @felicidad2388
    @felicidad2388 4 місяці тому +21

    Sounds like I am the man in the relationship, as my man doesn’t really want to do any of those things 😞

  • @anneruthbarrett1930
    @anneruthbarrett1930 29 днів тому +1

    That was good...thank you

  • @eileenahern-ku9nx
    @eileenahern-ku9nx 3 місяці тому +1

    I love the video " push the button"❤

  • @23livelovemanifest
    @23livelovemanifest 3 місяці тому +24

    With my partner its so intense it becomes impossible to talk 😂😂😂 we go with the flow

  • @agnitagregoire8699
    @agnitagregoire8699 5 місяців тому +31

    Although nothing new. I enjoyed hearing it again and I'm sure some people don't know all the points. When I was thirty I didn't know all that.

  • @maranathahallejuiah8545
    @maranathahallejuiah8545 5 місяців тому +10

    Great information. So, what do you mean when you say the "energetic component" when you where speaking about the triad of emotional and physical and energetic components to love making?

    • @KevinandCeline
      @KevinandCeline 5 місяців тому +7

      Great question and a difficult one to explain in a comment. The energetic component is the energy you feel between each other. It's the magnetic attraction and connection you feel with the person. You feel drawn to them. You are able to circulate the sexual energy between each other. It's hard to explain, but you certainly know it when you feel it!

    • @maranathahallejuiah8545
      @maranathahallejuiah8545 5 місяців тому +2

      @@KevinandCeline Ah, I see. I understand now. Thank you for clarifying.

    • @Kkwv
      @Kkwv 5 місяців тому +1

      You actually care. The energy and emotions are your indicators. You are happy and care, you are connected. Otherwise, he is a pass.

  • @raecurran1212
    @raecurran1212 Місяць тому +8

    Be sure you marry a man who came from a loving family , if not it will effect his love giving , he will expect, expect. You can't give what you never received received.

    • @vicksta8875
      @vicksta8875 29 днів тому +2

      Makes total sense

    • @Ribas_darkkissa
      @Ribas_darkkissa 19 днів тому

      A man can heal those core wounds if she does the work and has a loving caring patient and listening partner.

  • @user-ng9df4qw9g
    @user-ng9df4qw9g 9 днів тому +1

    Yeees baby preach you are telling facts

  • @krystalgoethe8007
    @krystalgoethe8007 4 місяці тому +1

    This is a great video! ❤

  • @lscrane80
    @lscrane80 Місяць тому +4

    One thing you forgot is that a lot of times there is an attraction between the two that sparks and takes off.

  • @mirjaperezdecalleja4482
    @mirjaperezdecalleja4482 4 місяці тому +1

    Hey, thanks for the video! with respect, is it possible you have relationship problems and are in denial?

  • @cc1k435
    @cc1k435 4 місяці тому +17

    Just don't wake me up from a dead sleep or turn the lights on too bright, or no deal. 😂

    • @Avenray19
      @Avenray19 19 днів тому

      Dude, being woken up from a deep sleep with work the next day to your spouse trying to be intimate is worthy of anger management counseling.

  • @difernandez4899
    @difernandez4899 4 місяці тому

    Check, check, and check! This was informative...

  • @tracyclark2747
    @tracyclark2747 28 днів тому +1

    ❤ it!

  • @pains1956
    @pains1956 4 місяці тому +9

    I must be amazing we did all that with my husband(widowed now)

  • @sweetdaisy9918
    @sweetdaisy9918 5 місяців тому +16

    Great tips 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @paulinedolo31
    @paulinedolo31 29 днів тому

    Awesome

  • @user-bd1du3cy9c
    @user-bd1du3cy9c 4 місяці тому +14

    This should be a 2 way street. Sadly it is not!!

  • @BeckyJB
    @BeckyJB Місяць тому +7

    This man needs some education on hormonal fluctuations 😂. I’ll watch more videos after he listens to “beyond mars and Venus” by John Gray❤

  • @BernadetteMcGovern57
    @BernadetteMcGovern57 3 місяці тому +8

    I did all these things and he still cheated

  • @citygirl713
    @citygirl713 5 місяців тому +29

    #1. Have a “vaginuh” (purposely misspelled) THE END

    • @Kkwv
      @Kkwv 5 місяців тому +3

      That's the power 😂😂😂

    • @janeb6287
      @janeb6287 5 місяців тому +4

      NO! SEX DOESNT FEEL THE SAME WITH ALL PEOPLE.

    • @citygirl713
      @citygirl713 4 місяці тому

      @@janeb6287 I’m being dumb… most men will have sex with anything/anybody so 😹🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @dawnstonerock4253
      @dawnstonerock4253 4 місяці тому

      I think you’re right!😂

  • @Grey18887
    @Grey18887 2 місяці тому +1

    oh my getting warm here

  • @MsRocker961
    @MsRocker961 4 місяці тому +10

    Men need to learn more about number 8

  • @judycampbell4304
    @judycampbell4304 4 місяці тому +4

    I no all this and more . Dang I thought you were going to tell me something new

  • @teanna4569
    @teanna4569 4 місяці тому +8

    Yessss one thing I realize you have to tap into the actual emotional part of the sexual activity just being comfortable and being into with your body and the other person body and being vulnerable in all aspects of love making, I did notice men love affection they actually crave it, anytime I have sex wit a guy he says what are you trying to do to me lol

  • @iwonastaszewska9568
    @iwonastaszewska9568 4 місяці тому +6

    A Man must practise and know how harmless it is to be turned off, as Women have a great cultural load on them and MUSTN´T please men at all costs and always. If this was said right in the beginning, it WOULD be great fun to know what the title of the video suggests. Cheers from Cologne, Germany

  • @Tara-jt8yk
    @Tara-jt8yk Місяць тому +1

    Thanks Dr , how about some knowledge for men on what women like

  • @therealtifflen
    @therealtifflen Місяць тому +4

    Now I know why my husband is crazy about me. lol.

  • @AMWhy11
    @AMWhy11 4 місяці тому +2

    I think #8 is supposed to be in the 'what women want ' video.

  • @sarahkhan3627
    @sarahkhan3627 4 місяці тому +7

    Now we sleep in different room

  • @BrigitteBful
    @BrigitteBful 5 місяців тому +26

    One important thing to mention. Men and women, pay attention to your bodies as you age. Because you must attract the other sex.. always!

    • @motowngirl5891
      @motowngirl5891 5 місяців тому +19

      Stay in shape
      I’m almost 70 and I’m having the best sex of my life
      My boyfriend is a CANNIBAL and ANIMAL super strong and we try new fun stuff all the time
      He tells me he loves me and I tell him the same
      We have so much fun

    • @hiannahgus574
      @hiannahgus574 5 місяців тому

      This is so true! I see so many men and women who don’t eat well and exercise, or take care of themselves. They’re not attractive at all. It’s sad because both men AND women are visual creatures, not just men!

    • @labab1048
      @labab1048 4 місяці тому +3

      @@motowngirl5891 How old is the boy friend?

    • @melissap2957
      @melissap2957 4 місяці тому +3

      Yes, being fit and active is so important.

    • @syalalaputri1802
      @syalalaputri1802 22 дні тому

      Great advice

  • @denises.8203
    @denises.8203 4 місяці тому +11

    🤨🫴 don't put that thing in your mouth,he's not going to tell you who or what it's been camping out in.

    • @jennyl.5358
      @jennyl.5358 3 місяці тому

      😂😂😂

    • @animalicon3535
      @animalicon3535 27 днів тому

      Yeah I think if it’s someone you are married to or close… 😭💀 you would know unless he’s a absolute menace hitting every hole around
      Like the hellcats speeding around town hitting potholes 😂😭

  • @LulluNatic
    @LulluNatic 4 дні тому

    What is emotional connection for men?

  • @rainbowgirl777
    @rainbowgirl777 5 місяців тому +22

    Yep, I am the perfect girl to be with.

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 5 місяців тому +2

      Why do you think you’re perfect woman?

    • @rainbowgirl777
      @rainbowgirl777 5 місяців тому

      Lol... I have a very feminine energy. I am sensual, stimulating, playful, witty, intelligent, authentuc, confident, receptive... Kind. Elegant, charming... Attractive. I smile a lot, I am very happy and I radiate pleasure.... Want to know more? :-)

  • @dianakurland2500
    @dianakurland2500 4 місяці тому +3

    I want to have fun experimenting with a man that I proposed friends with benefits but because he felt embarrassed about his performance the first time he now says we should just be friends. How can I convince him to try again?

    • @LJSaurus13
      @LJSaurus13 Місяць тому +1

      You don't convince him.
      You respect that his answer is "no" and you move on to find another consenting person.

    • @animalicon3535
      @animalicon3535 27 днів тому

      *THAT MEANS HE REALLY CARES WHAT YOU THINK AND IS SHY/EMBARRASSED* or ya know!?!?
      You have to break him out of his shell… and be the most descriptive amazing “lover” you can be…

    • @Avenray19
      @Avenray19 19 днів тому

      Don't try to convince him. If he's into, he'll think about it. But I've been coerced before... I regret it. Respect his answer, please.

  • @NwajaguIrene
    @NwajaguIrene 2 місяці тому +1

    Please explain what you mean by energetic component

  • @anndiestephen7671
    @anndiestephen7671 5 місяців тому +2

    Great but repetitive points

    • @melissataylor7063
      @melissataylor7063 4 місяці тому

      Some of the women here are young and possibly haven’t seen these points before

  • @libertyischaos
    @libertyischaos Місяць тому +4

    Can you please do a video for seniors.

    • @echase416
      @echase416 6 днів тому

      HRT helps. So does learning to work around health and physical issues.

    • @thinkb4uspeak276
      @thinkb4uspeak276 5 днів тому

      @@echase416not when a history of cancer in family - which is actually more than humans imagine.

  • @corinnewiggins7893
    @corinnewiggins7893 5 місяців тому +156

    This isn't telling me anything I didn't already know 🤷‍♂️

    • @KevinandCeline
      @KevinandCeline 5 місяців тому +33

      Then you already know more than most people. 🙂

    • @shabreidavis7790
      @shabreidavis7790 5 місяців тому +7

      😂🤣😂🤣😂

    • @corinaluanavlad2417
      @corinaluanavlad2417 5 місяців тому +5

      I do agree with you. 😄

    • @rayva1
      @rayva1 5 місяців тому +4

      🤣😂🤣😂🤣🙏

    • @esroskesafos3533
      @esroskesafos3533 5 місяців тому +2

      Think that I know but could not use this knowkedge

  • @janicemyers5539
    @janicemyers5539 4 місяці тому +10

    What happens when your doing all 10 things but he totally wont have sex with me anymore. Its been 5 months since hes touched me other than giving me a kiss hello & good bye. He swears hes not cheating.

    • @user-hw2kx8fh5v
      @user-hw2kx8fh5v 3 місяці тому +1

      He may be having trouble getting it up and is ashamed. Get him to take Maca. Read up about it.

    • @lindarichards676
      @lindarichards676 3 місяці тому +7

      He's cheating or on the down low gay?

    • @janicemyers5539
      @janicemyers5539 3 місяці тому +2

      He was cheating he finally admitted it to me there have been two different women. I forgave him he swore he wouldnt again. Its been a week & all the same crap not coming home execpt to eat & change/get clean clothes. Also he still hasnt touched me. So its time for the talk of getting all his shit out of my place & find someone else to cheat on. The lying cheating son of a bytch!!!.

    • @morganfalkdesigns
      @morganfalkdesigns 2 місяці тому +4

      He’s cheating.

    • @janicemyers5539
      @janicemyers5539 2 місяці тому

      Thank you for your replies. Yes he admitted that he was very sorry that he did the one thing he promised that he would never do because every girlfriend he has ever had cheatec on him & he knows how much it hurts a person. I have been faithful to him when i could have cheated. I just couldnt do that to the man i am crazy i love with. I stayed with him when he was put in jail & did a year of dead time & all charges were dropped. Stayed & was faithful through it all. I really think what started it all was when i got chemical burns on my entire face my left ear both hands & arms up to my elbows. Which is no excuse. I know. I was in extreme pain, crying almost all the time from the pain. I am still dealing with some dry patches on my wrists & forearm. This has taken 6 months of healing so far. I have almost lost my love, almost lost my daughter & grandaughter & i almost lost my apt( which im still fighting my eviction) there were days during my healing that i would have to vacuum my bed 5-6 times a day from all my skin flaky off. I was completly grossed out by this. I looked like a monster not like my self, not even remotely like myself. So i dont blame him entirely. I know if he cant handle me at my worst he doesnt deseve me at my best. However when you know you love someone unconditionally you have to forgive. Its not just letting him walk all over me. Im not a weak woman, or a pushover. He knows there are 5 men waiting just waiting to see if ill kick him out & start dating again. 5 men that want the chance to show me how a woman should be treated. Time will tell. I know his tells now, only to clearly. I hope to never see them again, wish me/us luck.

  • @LisaFriday66
    @LisaFriday66 5 місяців тому +17

    No one should be bored in bed. If it’s boring usually there is no chemistry or attraction between the couple. And I think it’s the man that should know what his woman wants. This sounds more like you are telling us how to be in a bad boring pornomovie..

    • @Kkwv
      @Kkwv 5 місяців тому

      Right! All his sided. All what he begs his wife to do but she just rolls over. This guy looks like he can't get it right in praxis, thus he shares his fantasies.😂😂

    • @RachelsHighLevelInsights
      @RachelsHighLevelInsights 5 місяців тому

      It’s not just about the man needing to know what our needs are. Very selfish statement. None of this sounds like a “ bad boring porn “. It sounds like you’re more of a disappointment to your partner in bed.

    • @animalicon3535
      @animalicon3535 27 днів тому

      A man can’t just know what the woman wants😕😕😕 *in a BROAD kind of way* yeah but
      We are talking specifics here! But most are too shy or embarrassed *EVEN WITH THEIR HUSBAND/WIFE* to communicate *COMMUNICATE*
      or else it’s just mediocre 🤷‍♂️😕 and it’s sad most do settle for that.

  • @brittletip8191
    @brittletip8191 4 місяці тому +15

    I've tried all of this but all it led to was daunting sex sessions that became tiresome and stressful, let's face it if you really fancy someone you'll enjoy sex with them without all the rigmarole of ticking off a list of things to do. As for oral, I personally find it abusive and a real turn off.

    • @ShelleySGiacomini
      @ShelleySGiacomini 4 місяці тому

      Not all guys like oral sex, just sayin'...🤗

  • @marciamellow1211
    @marciamellow1211 5 місяців тому +22

    Mixing it up..makes the womans focus go away..
    It is such a spontaneous
    Thing, you can not really say what works.

    • @animalicon3535
      @animalicon3535 27 днів тому

      Not all woman are the same though!?!?

  • @lesegomajola2635
    @lesegomajola2635 3 місяці тому +1

    This was very informative thank u ❤❤

  • @tesspernin2412
    @tesspernin2412 2 місяці тому +1

    How would you suggest navigating having a very busy hubby who doesn’t prioritize sex?

    • @animalicon3535
      @animalicon3535 27 днів тому

      Seen this a lot couples who are go go go schedule sex so
      *On Saturday night 7PM-10PM can have a long romantic edging session to make up for all the lost time*
      You know!? Tht you miss out on or wake up early you will have to
      COMMUNICATE *COMMUNICATE* how you feel and want it prioritized more!
      Could get a vibrating watch alarm clock that wakes only you up.. and 30? 20? Mins before he normally wakes up.. maybe wake him early with some neck/stomach/thigh kisses???
      You get the idea tried the best I can let me know how everything works out
      like to receive affirmation on advice i give out to know whether it’s effective or not.

  • @saramitchell2066
    @saramitchell2066 11 днів тому

    Why did this make me crack the hell up😂🤣😂🤣. Damn edibles

  • @nancyhicksgribble9799
    @nancyhicksgribble9799 4 місяці тому +1

    We're both at 5 to 7 minutes lol

  • @elise9537
    @elise9537 3 місяці тому +7

    this looks like a Jared Leto situation here:)) Some day we are going to see a documentary on this guy.

  • @alsatbintimam539
    @alsatbintimam539 3 місяці тому +2

    How can I get him to try out other styles while doing it and how can I tell him that me and my body need more massages,touches than he gives... he's kinda boring sexually but I love him

    • @animalicon3535
      @animalicon3535 27 днів тому

      Write him a “love” left if you’re too shy?!
      You have to *COMMUNICATE* COMMUNICATE!!
      And be real… real descriptive! Good luck lmk how it goes and what you ended up doing.
      I like to take notes/get affirmations on stuff or advice I give out so I can mention it more often to others.
      So much more I could say but try that out. 🍀🍀🍀🍀

  • @absolute3112
    @absolute3112 5 місяців тому +42

    Now, I see why all my ex's turn into ... stalkers. lol

    • @africangirl189
      @africangirl189 5 місяців тому +4

      😂😂

    • @matti.972
      @matti.972 5 місяців тому +1

      Hahaha

    • @TNT31414
      @TNT31414 5 місяців тому +4

      This 😩 had to threaten one with court with my lawyer 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @tfuentes6545
      @tfuentes6545 4 місяці тому +1

      Same here lol

    • @sweetpea1577
      @sweetpea1577 4 місяці тому +3

      Lol…when you got it😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤you got it. Some people do not understand the importance of hygiene…that could be a huge deal breaker!!!!

  • @PixelatedReality80
    @PixelatedReality80 25 днів тому

    10:43 that’s edging 🥰

  • @HapillyMe
    @HapillyMe 4 місяці тому +1

    I think ALL men like 1,4,5

  • @cindithomas7440
    @cindithomas7440 9 днів тому

    I think its a little more personalized. Not all men or women like the same things. And i feel like some of these suggestions breed women who are just going through the motions to please their man. Or vice versa.

  • @thaliarodriguez91
    @thaliarodriguez91 4 місяці тому +1

    No wonder my ex keeps coming back 😅❤

  • @krisburke1712
    @krisburke1712 Місяць тому +1

    met my partner at the park.. told him that I wasn't wearing underwear.. short skirt.. but he was not game for sneaking off into the woods

  • @kandykissesco
    @kandykissesco 4 місяці тому +3

    Why can’t it be routine? He finishes anyway no need for him to complain

  • @mlbf4700
    @mlbf4700 5 місяців тому +21

    Definitely not hot when he stops in the middle and has to rub on himself to get it to go back up. Please get some blue pills and plan accordingly otherwise I'm all for chasing the younger ones who you may need to train, but at least they can keep up.

    • @RachelsHighLevelInsights
      @RachelsHighLevelInsights 5 місяців тому

      Why just give your body away for anyone - let alone “ young “ men in order for what? An orgasm ?! lol. You sound like you’re for the streets and that’s why you’re not married, seeking attention from whatever you can get. Yuk. As a mom to a 20 year old son, this comment grossed me out.

    • @tfuentes6545
      @tfuentes6545 4 місяці тому +2

      U can give some help too there just sayin.

    • @RachelsHighLevelInsights
      @RachelsHighLevelInsights 4 місяці тому +1

      Ohhh how funny! My comment was deleted 😂 guess the internet hates honesty from others.

    • @user-hw2kx8fh5v
      @user-hw2kx8fh5v 3 місяці тому

      Look up Maca. It helps mens libido. And it is awesome for women.

    • @carolblaser3789
      @carolblaser3789 2 місяці тому

      It’s so hard to suggest that he might need a blue pill…..

  • @imonlyhuman2381
    @imonlyhuman2381 Місяць тому +3

    Please make up a video about sex and hygiene. Sex is important, but hygiene is extremely important. Thanks

  • @beckyowen3573
    @beckyowen3573 5 місяців тому +4

    You say new things over an over, but tell us what new things, this your field of expertise?

  • @Empress1222
    @Empress1222 Місяць тому +2

    5 or 10 minutes try an hour and a day to recuperate