The Power of Embracing Rejection | Farrah Smith | TEDxGainesville

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  • @Timefairyjina
    @Timefairyjina 3 роки тому +37

    Algorithm recommended this somehow, and I am grateful.

  • @chrisegnatz3668
    @chrisegnatz3668 2 роки тому +6

    Best Ted x I've seen.Sounds like she had a great dad.

  • @DasMoose9001
    @DasMoose9001 2 роки тому +9

    It’s like I needed to hear this.
    “Obviously, I’m not 20”
    You don’t look far off, you like happy and healthy in fact.
    Tells me I’ve been doing this ALL wrong and need to change some things, thank you for sharing this.
    The Moth and TED Talks have been a center point of my positivity lately.

  • @ReverendBrown.
    @ReverendBrown. 2 роки тому +1

    Thongs change scent from one end to the other.
    Knowledge is power.
    God bless

  • @brandahmessenger433
    @brandahmessenger433 3 роки тому +4

    I really needed this today. Thank you so much. I did not know details of Emmy lous romantic love, her music still blessed my life. I will be music. And stop depending on what become the painful immediate love betrayals in my life - for validation to go on. God is puting breath in me, there must still be a reason he sees. But to my credit, it’s hard find purpose when love is missing and your bucket (receiving) at older ages, is still empty from being kicked over. Thank you for these words.

  • @ironmurs6903
    @ironmurs6903 Рік тому +5

    She had an amazing father 💗

  • @outlaw565
    @outlaw565 3 роки тому +5

    Thanks for sharing your story, and I appreciate your work with Sea Shepherd !

    • @farrahesmith
      @farrahesmith 2 роки тому

      Thank you! I am glad you liked it. I appreciate your passion for Sea Shepherd too!

  • @shelleytheman2215
    @shelleytheman2215 9 місяців тому

    Great talk! Thank you!

  • @jamienease6024
    @jamienease6024 2 роки тому +6

    Love this message!! Thank you for sharing!

    • @farrahesmith
      @farrahesmith 2 роки тому

      Thank you, Jamie! I am glad you liked it.

  • @Pebblesmas
    @Pebblesmas 3 роки тому +9

    Wow, amazing! Your story of your dadmade me cry, but i really hope i would say that to my son too, besp proud if yourself, u'm sure your dad is enormous proud

    • @farrahesmith
      @farrahesmith 3 роки тому

      Thank you so much!!

    • @shelleytheman2215
      @shelleytheman2215 9 місяців тому

      @@farrahesmithyour talk made me cry! You’re an amazing speaker!

  • @jenniferstrickler3944
    @jenniferstrickler3944 3 роки тому +3

    I love your work and story! Great message and thank you for sharing!

    • @farrahesmith
      @farrahesmith 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you, Jennifer. I am glad you liked it!

    • @DrizzyDre2324
      @DrizzyDre2324 2 роки тому

      @@farrahesmiththank you for this.. wow I needed this. I been so down on my self for similar reasons. ❤thank you soooo much .

  • @francesbernard2445
    @francesbernard2445 3 роки тому +6

    I never thought of this strategy to adopt except for going to counselling. I would rather practice radical acceptance on what others think of me right now. That is how I define embracing rejection for myself. Which is not to say that I would reject someone for rejecting me altogether when they in turn instead need me the most. Sure helped save time while I was doing door to door selling too. Helped me avoid getting hurt in a few confrontations too.

  • @patriciac.1546
    @patriciac.1546 2 роки тому +2

    Choosing courage, passion and determination over fear, doubt and insecurity. Stop attaching self worth to the outcome of events. Struggle with mental health and you need professional help along the way don’t ever feel bad about that. Change your relationship with rejection. Excellent message Farrah, thank you. P.S. if you can do a video with a similar message for kids it could be life changing.

  • @rodgeraarons8997
    @rodgeraarons8997 3 роки тому +3

    Great story.

  • @amadelia77
    @amadelia77 3 роки тому +2

    So good Farrah

    • @tedxtaiks2899
      @tedxtaiks2899 3 роки тому

      *Message me on WhatsApp*
      *dial Area code 4106354182* ❤️

    • @farrahesmith
      @farrahesmith 3 роки тому

      Thank you!

  • @r.p.8906
    @r.p.8906 2 роки тому +1

    I didn't understand the part about Amsterdam background check. What was that about?

  • @Bronsluv
    @Bronsluv 2 роки тому +3

    Her timeline is bonkers. Riding in a car with Bobby Kennedy and her boss? She would have to be in her 70s.

  • @kenthomas1535
    @kenthomas1535 2 роки тому +3

    Eight minutes into it and finally she gets to the point...

    • @ironmurs6903
      @ironmurs6903 Рік тому +1

      It’s called build up…kinda how good stories tend to go.

  • @ashmeadali
    @ashmeadali Рік тому

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  • @jackcastro7259
    @jackcastro7259 3 роки тому +1

    Thats powerful

  • @robert767
    @robert767 2 роки тому +3

    This is a very beautiful lady and smart and strong

  • @annamaegold
    @annamaegold 3 роки тому +1

    Amsterdam! 🤪😻 I probably ran into you.

  • @JaysonT1
    @JaysonT1 2 роки тому +6

    I'm sure she's had a lot of rejection 😕

  • @ProvenHueMan
    @ProvenHueMan 7 місяців тому

    Inherently i have always realize the power of harnessing the fuel that comes with rejection just never really labeled it. I think sometime I subconsciously seek it , damn im so twisted. But, im n that state now n ima kinda glad because i know it fuels me. Im mad but im not stressed. Lol 😈

  • @evolution686us
    @evolution686us 3 роки тому +2

    Well, ain’t work for me with ADHD raised by covet narcissists mother. And I was the scapegoat in the house. 😑

    • @2DayOnly-k1c
      @2DayOnly-k1c 3 роки тому +2

      We all have those “was was” stories from our past. Many of us could write at least one book. Leave those wases in the past. Seek therapy if you must. Find your purpose then give it away. God Bless PS Don’t let anyone take your purpose away from you.

  • @ghostsofwargow2511
    @ghostsofwargow2511 2 роки тому +14

    There is no power in “embracing rejection”. It’s just depressing overall and shows how unwanted you are by women or men, wether it’s because of your looks, money, or social status. Some people have it all, and some have nothing at all no matter what they do.

    • @WD-zk6fg
      @WD-zk6fg 2 роки тому +4

      Yep, sounds like a buzzfeed title attempting to use Mr. Miyaga/Steven Stegall martial arts mental gymnastics to change your outlook on life from one tedxtalk. I would recommend reading The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch. You might also just look up the actual lecture as I believe it is on UA-cam.

    • @alexlarkins4218
      @alexlarkins4218 2 роки тому

      You are obviously a leftist. Materialism and determinism?? Is that your religion?

    • @102ghostbuster
      @102ghostbuster Рік тому +3

      I feel bad for you

    • @thejessifar4619
      @thejessifar4619 Рік тому +5

      That attitude is not going to take you far.

    • @ghostsofwargow2511
      @ghostsofwargow2511 Рік тому +1

      @@thejessifar4619 Doesn’t matter, SHTF will happen soon anyway, hope you’ve been preparing for what’s to come soon 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @Bronsluv
    @Bronsluv 2 роки тому +3

    Talk about rejection, I reject your whole story.

  • @rogerbeaird3320
    @rogerbeaird3320 3 роки тому +1

    Drinking problem we ran.out lol

  • @zuluboy4056
    @zuluboy4056 Рік тому

    What’s up with women not taking showers…? I don’t even do that and I’m a man

  • @jumakhanrahyab6666
    @jumakhanrahyab6666 Рік тому

    How selfish and cruel one could be to sell the story of abandoning her father at the time of need as “inspirational” story? And it is so sad most of comments found it inspirational.
    Don’t normalize such stupidity!

  • @ishlight3772
    @ishlight3772 2 роки тому +4

    Yeah…..
    Sorry but men suffer usually WAY worse.

  • @rocketta.chique5761
    @rocketta.chique5761 Рік тому

    Ngl this entire Ted talk feels like a passive aggressive flex instead of actual useful info and advice

  • @johnr5252
    @johnr5252 Рік тому

    Rejection? Her looks alone would open a lot of doors.

  • @chrisskinner6291
    @chrisskinner6291 2 роки тому

    And

  • @bibletriviaUSA
    @bibletriviaUSA 6 місяців тому

    Tedx rejection

  • @calebchristopher9283
    @calebchristopher9283 2 роки тому

    This girl has never experienced true rejection or abuse 😅

    • @thejessifar4619
      @thejessifar4619 Рік тому +2

      Getting rejected by people, colleges and jobs count. She never claimed that she experienced abuse. Rejection and abuse are different things.

  • @petercsigo3314
    @petercsigo3314 2 роки тому +4

    Embrace this 👎

    • @thejessifar4619
      @thejessifar4619 Рік тому +1

      She probably will because she knows your opinion of her doesn’t really matter.

  • @mikishwagg
    @mikishwagg 3 роки тому +1

    Second, I guess!

    • @tedxtaiks2899
      @tedxtaiks2899 3 роки тому

      *Message me on WhatsApp*
      *dial Area code 4106354182* ❤️

  • @Dr.TJ1
    @Dr.TJ1 2 роки тому +2

    Everybody has a story to tell and I don’t think hers is all that special. Also, Bobby Kennedy Jr. went from doing fantastic and important environment saving work to being an anti-vax crack pot and conspiracy theorist. He writes crazy stuff on a subject on which he has zero expertise, which is always sad to see. I wouldn’t count chauffeuring him around as a great moment in anyone’s career.

  • @MichaelBrown-zp1sf
    @MichaelBrown-zp1sf 2 роки тому +5

    poor little rich girl problems.

    • @thejessifar4619
      @thejessifar4619 Рік тому

      Problems are problems, no matter who you are. Rejection and loss (especially of her dad) are still worth grieving.

  • @nomuddywater5978
    @nomuddywater5978 2 роки тому

    That voice& message is the new green of pestilence,,,,who needs round up when she could just talk to weeds terrorists, or anything else that lives ,/,,barbie plastic is more human

  • @rogerbeaird3320
    @rogerbeaird3320 3 роки тому

    Oooo

  • @DREDIRECTS
    @DREDIRECTS 3 роки тому

    Third, i guess%

    • @tedxtaiks2899
      @tedxtaiks2899 3 роки тому

      *Message me on WhatsApp*
      *dial Area code 4106354182* ❤️

  • @jarnoboumaa
    @jarnoboumaa 3 роки тому +2

    First? I guess

    • @tedxtaiks2899
      @tedxtaiks2899 3 роки тому

      *Message me on WhatsApp*
      *dial Area code 4106354182* ❤️

  • @damianosalaris6080
    @damianosalaris6080 3 роки тому +2

    Fourth

    • @tedxtaiks2899
      @tedxtaiks2899 3 роки тому

      *Message me on WhatsApp*
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  • @yohannesnurga4887
    @yohannesnurga4887 3 роки тому +1

    5th

    • @tedxtaiks2899
      @tedxtaiks2899 3 роки тому

      *Message me on WhatsApp*
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