She's A Lesbian, He's Gay, And Their Marriage Defies All Stereotypes
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My mom always said "Never marry someone for the things that will fade away"
Excellent advice. 💜🌹
monster9392
If you marry a soulmate or Twinflame the love never fades, if you marry out of codependence which this story represents & id guess 99% of marriages then you will never experience love only codependence
Your mom's smart
Your mom is cool, the "best" advice I ever got from my mom was "don't have sex" not even wait till you're married, just don't have sex, and she wonders why all her children had such awkward transitions into adulthood! 🤦♀️
Everything fades away though
Say what you will, but marrying your best friend seems like a highly logical idea.
I know someone who is gay and he married his best friend who knows he's gay. They are really good friends and have two kids together who also knows he's gay. It's not publicly known though, that he's gay.
月映 I'm trying to understand this, so one of the friends is not gay but married his gay friend?
@@coralMITOCHONDRIA I think what they mean is that a woman married a gay man, not a man married a gay man.
@@user-hw7dz7mg5n the kids know, but what do the kids think? 🤔
(Not the being gay part, the fact that their parents aren't attracted to each other... not in _that_ way, I mean like kids see their dad going on dates with other people and the mom is at home like 🤷🏽♀️👌
Charlet Bahr Oh, that makes more sense
So they're platonic soulmates.
That sounds pretty fantastic to me💛
like dan and phil?? In a way
@@VacunaVenom I dated mine too. We're closer now than we ever were.
@Rob S So true. Sex is a part of marriage. Not the whole thing, but most certainly an important part.
@Rob S They're married. It's a marriage. Just because it's not what YOU think one is. Doesn't mean it's the same to others.
Fun fact: marrying your best friend reduces chances of divorce by 70%
Edit: thnx 4 the likes
Did you get dumped?
Well good thing I married my best friend.
I love fun facts.
It definitely wasn't true for my sister :(
that explains why I do not have a best friend
A marriage is a partnership, a friendship focused on caring for the other person, usually that will entail sex, but not always and if it makes both people in the relationship happy it’s beautiful.
Definitely! My cousin at age 27 married his girlfriend 25 but because they had sex before marriage and she got pregnant, but.....even with a coupla years going steady, it seems they really didn't know each other well, because like a brat she after 2 years trying to keep house, care for their baby boy and finish her law degree, she called it quits, asked for a divorce, he complied, 2 years later she asked my cousin if they could remarry?!! I'm not fit to judge but it seems both were immature and a bit narcissistic.
Offsprings are confused they grow up bisexual.
Nefarious Cookie what?
No, a marriage is a legal agreement.
hepsabaptron00 It is a legal agreement but it should be a happy partnership. People who get married without that are getting married for the wrong reasons.
Most married couples aren’t even friends lol
hi :)
Yeah, I don't think people marry for true companionship.
I once had the weirdest conversation with a girl who was having marriage issues and her main thing was that they felt like friends rather than husband and wife, I was gobsmacked and my reply was that that’s what it should be like in my eyes. They’ve stayed together but I couldn’t believe it!
Sydney Stroud I believe the majority marry for love at first and then fall into the trap of security and routine when the love is gone they still stay. Anyways, marriage is an outdated social construct.
I think that that’s the reason why so many people get divorced
Marrying someone that asks you questions like: "Are you okay today?" "How are you feeling?" "Do you feel up to doing this?" "What do you need?" etc. 😩😩
If you only have the one that appreciate it.
Perfect
Just beautiful. I can only hope for a wedding/ marriage like this.
Sweet 😄
@@Retrosenescent a similar thought went through my mind. To me, it would depend on how it is said. Obviously, that's not your "love language".
"If you're gonna marry someone, marry your best friend."
That's actually not a bad idea.
i 6tir My dad has always said he married his best friend. He and my mom have been married for 28 years:) It's something that's always stuck with me.
My best friend be like no not you stupid 😟😟😟😟
@M Ponkhi once you find the guy for you, he will become your bf. When you're young, your best friend will be the same sex as you. That's normal. But once you meet the guy you will marry, he becomes your bff. You can still have your woman bf, but it's not the same as your spouse bff. If he isn't your best friend, don't marry him. I've been married to my bff for 22 years. :-) Oh and my best friend from childhood, my o.g.bff (lol) is still my friend too, but my husband takes precedence over my friend because he is both best friend and husband. He comes first as I do for him as well.
I always believed that! So I did marry my best friend 12 years ago. :) We have 5 kids together!
Stop glorifying this the only reason stuff like this happens is homophobia there's nothing wholesome about homophobia its sad
Eventually every couple will get too old/sick for sex so you better be able to have something besides the physical holding you together
So many young people don't know this. I'm just learning to accept this truth myself. Thank you for sharing a valuable life lesson with us all.
Y e s s s
You may become too sick for sex, but you are never too old for it.
@@lionessprowess3581 I'm young and I felt it and now I'm finding the words to say it.
@@christinecervantes3722 uh yeah you are. That's why there's such thing as menopause. Sure you could still technically have sex but it's natural to lose interest when you become less fertile
"Taking care of her is taking care of me". I love this loving sentence💙💛💜
That sentence made me cry lol such a wonderful couple.
And that describes marriage in the most beautiful way ever! Two bodies joined as one 💕
This is a Quote that will only be liked by Selfish girls.
Jukke Boxx . Then this quote went completely over your head.
@@OP-1000 Wait, i thought women wanted equality? Am i missing something?
This actually changed my whole perception on marriage.
Diamond Soul are you?
Diamond Soul it’s okay, me too
Mine too.
Nope.
I see a girl marrying a boy and that's completely normal.
Marry your bestest friend
Modern society has given a false image of what love is. It has been mistaken for lust. This is love.
Anthony DeRosa True! But I am super curious can a marriage last on love alone without lust?
No, Western society has. The rest of the world still understands marriage as something much bigger than mere lust.
@@aureliusmarcus1817 fair enough. Im speaking from the states lol
@@bwyyc2886 Of course. Marriage is family. It can survive most things, when it's solid.
Preach
Romantic attraction and sexual attraction are not synonymous. This makes sense.
I think them getting labeled as gay is what's causing the confusion since being gay is often in reference to someone who is romantically gay as well.
Magdalena Sacco ???
Not Funny there are all sorts of different types of attraction. You could be a man who likes having sex with men and women but only fall in love with women, and then you’d be bisexual but hereto-romantic. We could call these people homosexual but bi-romantic (just a guess and example Idk who else they’ve been in love with)
I never understood why i was sexually attracted to both genders but can only be seriously romantically attracted to men this helped me understand
madabouthollyoaks411, sounds like bullshit. That's just bisexual. Why do you want to create new labels.
This story is not about sexual orientation. It's about love! Heartwarming story! Crying here.
DianeBoylan it is a huge part of it. Don’t contribute to LGBTQIAP+ erasure...
Jacob Lancostellard youre ignorant
Jacob Lancostellard what's that supposed to mean
@@jakeminkus3958 alphabet community is mad. Keep crying, they're both happy
@@bybybythewaywayway2006
Alphabet community? Damn are we soup now? I like soup! :D
Their home looks so cozy. The art work is lovely.
It looks like a nice place to nap 💤
I know right ! I want to go an have a cup of tea and it by the fire with them hearing stories for the past !
I think it a cluttered mess
@@sunflowers730 agree. It's more hoarder than cozy.
Too cluttered, i prefer empty spaces. Imagine trying to clean it!
Adopted daughter : Mom, Im lesbain
Mom : That's okay, me too!
Adopted daughter : Wait-
*lesbian
sam ok lesbean* if you’re gonna correct someone at least do it right
Chris H not funny. didnt laugh.
@u like coffee?
Incomplete joke.
There's a manga called Love My Life where this happens in the first chapter. Lesbian comes out to her parents and her dad tells her they're both gay and married so they could have a child (it's hard for Japanese same-sex couples to adopt).
the kind of relationship asexuals dream of
Lee ACCURATE THOUGH. IM A LESBIAN ACE. AND I JUST WANT TO LOVE A GIRL WITHOUT IT BEING SEXUAL
Also. IM LEE TOO
Exactly. But I dont really see how it'd work out for anybody else.. Unless it was an open relationship.
@@basicpenguin3844 unless they were both ace
@@basicpenguin3844 unless they were both ace
Seriously though
You can tell that when the husband is talking he’s frequently smiling. That’s very sweet
Can you imagine the germs in that beard and moustache. The hair is so near to mouth it would be impossible to not get food smeared in there.EWW
bubu joo Estes Lord & he’s not going to be around for long with all that weight on his stomach, she may very well outlive him.
Laura B Negativity & truth are not the same! It’s very true that men who carry that much weight around their midsection are at a greater risk for heart disease, facts. It has nothing to do with being “ negative “
This just hit me LIKE A FREAKING TON OF BRICKS!! I am a straight woman who met a beautiful tall, blond female Deputy 20 years past. We became friends then 2 years later she told me she was in love with me, I knew I wasn't attracted to women, but my love for her was beyond sexual. 20 years into the future, we now have a GORGEOUS HALF DANISH BOY which I carried. My Grandparents got to know her before they passed and my Grandmother said to me once, " Honey, love comes in all shapes, colors, and sizes, but one thing for sure is that Kata's love is pure dont let it get away". I'm glad I listened to her advice, I wish I had listened to it earlier though.
Thats amazing lol
Wowwww!!! That is so interesting!! 🤔🤯
this is amazing
You didn’t miss sex with men?
Sin Bin well I wasn’t trying to be disrespectful or anything - I just really want to know. I have other straight women who say they had the same experience and while I can see how I could fall in love with a woman I just don’t know how one decide they will never have sex with a man every again when you like the whole Normal sex thing . Plastic is fun but I’d need a real thing experience every once in awhile ...
They literally became legal best friends. That's really sweet.
You can love someone without being attracted to their body.
It’s all about the heart/soul/and mind of a person.
The physical attraction is just a bonus.
The connection
The friendship
Everything.
This is great
Well said 😍😍
noo
I don t agree . if a man marries a woman and can t have sex with her the woman has all the right to demand divorce .
A lot of women don't enjoy the sexual part of marriage with a husband, so this situation would be perfect for a lot of women.
but very woman wants to be kissed hugged and believe me without attraction even this can be hard with time
So...they're like best friends? So cute!
no, I believe that they love each other romantically, not sexually.
They’re literally just good friends. It’s sad their sexuality isn’t accepted and they can’t do what they truly want to do
@@eastia7518 And also... romance does not have to mean sexual intercourse either.
Virg o they do what they want. They chose to stay committed to each other and realize that love and marriage is deeper than sexuality. You have two people who probably could have chose to be with same sex partners that checked every box so to speak and they could have still been unhappy because they weren’t with each other. Sometimes it happens like that. Just two people who love each other despite labels. Love only knows love.
They are best friends. And thats enough for them appearently. Thats great.
The whole “lesbians & gays don’t mix well” argument just shattered on the floor
I’m looking at you Modern Family!
honestly, i hate that trope. some of my best friends are/have been lesbians
I'm lesbian.. married to a gay man and all my best friends are gay....
I've never watched modern family or know anything about but I'm a lesbian and one of my best friends is a gay guy, so it's very wrong that little liar
@@cuuntrisma993 i hope these questions aren't too personal but can you please answer this burning question for me? is sex between you 2 straight or something else? if you feel offended or uncomfortable in anyway no big deal but in just super duper curious
When i saw it in modern family the first time I was like what??!! I love my lesbian friends
"All the money we have been saving hoping to buy a house, start a family, live a wonderful life, pursue our art... got eaten up by hospital bills."
^^ this is in my opinion the saddest thing about their story... :"(
Teddy hospital bills ate lives
I could not agree with you more! It is so sad to me that the richest country in the world, the poorest (most of the bottom 95%) go broke simply because they get sick. It disgusts me to no end.
I believe being best friends is the secret to lasting marriage.
Love can exist without having sex in marriage, they are proving it right here❤
Marriage without sex???
I agree. For these two, they're just happy.
I suppose they had have sex with other partners, with their both agreement... I don't know :/
Eni Anggraini Yes, I was a gay man, when I met my wife, and she was my friend who was a girl. She got pregnant by a guy. It didn’t work out and she moved in with me temporarily, I learned to love her and guessed I was bi, and we got married. Turns out I wasn’t really bi. Years later I found out I was really a transgender woman. We’ve been together 31 happy, sexless years. Now we are both battling autoimmune disease.
@@freyjasvansdottir9904 don't know if this is a real experience or sarcasm/satire
I like how they redefined what it means to be married. It's more than sex and passion, it's commitment and a life long friendship. Just because marriage is an old institution doesn't mean you can't bend the rules.
Justine Rose Marriage belongs to one man and one woman
@@zaidkhan6296 in fairness this is one man & one woman. Both living and sharing a happy committed life together.
@@zaidkhan6296 wrong, ya filthy breeder 😙
Back then marriage was about a deep partner/friendship though. I think you might have confused it with the modern institution.
But, only between a man and a woman, back then.
She was a lesbian
And he was gay
Could that make it any more obvious?
She drew a punk,
he watched ballet,
What more can I say?
She wanted him
He'd never tell
secretly he wanted her as well
she was a lesbian but she found out she's intersex. Does that mean she's a guy? Sorry but I missed out, I'm with the gay man now. sorry mom you couldn't see the person I wish I had been. I'm more than meets the eye, I don't know what I despise.
*singing this in Skat8r boi tune*
I love that this thread exists.
They married the person inside, not the outside!
Exactly!!
Stop glorifying this the only reason stuff like this happens is homophobia there's nothing wholesome about homophobia its sad
Came in feeling skeptical, left feeling heartwarmed
“Taking care of her IS taking care of me” my gay heart is exploding.
My straight heart is too- it’s precious.
Lool😂 I’m dead
Im gay. And this reminds me of my bestfriend and I. I can't see myself doing the sexual thing with him. But I can imagine spending the rest of my life with him. Doing the same thing as what they are doing. Painting, music, books, going in a cafe etc.
That's true, I had such a hard time with my sexuality because I thought I was in love with girls romantically, but I just cared alot about them. I realized that I am actually gay recently, and I want to tell my ex that I always loved her, but I had mistaken the love for a romantic love, and not a friendship love.
I had a best friend just like this, we're a perfect couple, definetly soulmates, but he's straight and it made me not understand that I was lesbian for a time, eventually he confessed to me and I got confused and tried to date him for a while but I couldn't do the romantic or sexual stuff, it was all platonic for me, I can imagine spending rest of my life with him but I cannot imagine doing any relationship-y stuff
Hey frnds
30 years Marathi Gay guy from pune here
Need lesbian for marriage
We can b a frnd 4vr
Just need a life partner
Only serious girls approach
@@scorpionking4014 😆😆😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣 abey saale
Marry a man and have fun with his manhood.
Their relationship is based on respect and love. How could anyone think this is wrong ? Who cares if they are having sex.
They’re relationship is very right. But it isn’t a marriage. Not in the traditional sense. However it is a beautiful relationship that a lot of married people should envy.
@@alansjf33 it is marriage dummy
@@bybybythewaywayway2006 thanks for the positive response and feedback. 🤦🏾♂️
Hey frnds
30 years Marathi Gay guy from pune here
Need lesbian for marriage
We can b a frnd 4vr
Just need a life partner
Only serious girls approach
@Colorful Animations So marriage. It's more married then y'all baby mamas and baby daddy's.
Most married couples end up best friends and phase out sex over time. These two just did it quicker.
I thought most end up hating each other, as well as not sexually attracted to each other, and dont split for worry of money, and being alone.
Justice that’s so true
@@LittleRainGames Those are the ones that shouldn't have gotten married in the first place, as it seems the entire relationship was based on sexual attraction.
Most phase out sex over time? I don’t believe that to be true at all. Having a good sex life with your husband or wife that you love is wonderful and should be celebrated. It is necessary if you want to be faithful to one another. How can you be sexually faithful and committed to someone you aren’t sexually attracted to? This is nonsense.
Justice yeah no they don’t 😒 there should always be passion in a marriage.
Friendship goals.
Art bff goals.
Relationship goals.
Marriage goals.
Love goals.
Goals. ❤️🙌🏾
In the end, love really is loving someone just as Christ loves us
The inner peace goal
I was gonna like ur comment but then u have 666 likes and i didn’t want to ruin that because its so perfect.
NO SOMEONE RUINED IT
Just not sex goals. (I think theyre beautiful-no shade)
Whether you're straight, gay or bi: marriage is about PARTNERSHIP not sex! Friendship is an integral part of a long lasting partnership. This video just illuminates that fact 🤷🏾♀️
@classyt20f7 people were getting married long before your faith came around
@Ruth Tounkam No, the idea of marriage is.
You got what I need. I got what you need. We can tolerate each other and I want you for myself.
Your best friend might be somebody else's best friend, and they may not consider you their best friend in the first place.
@Ruth Tounkam I dunno. That's their business whomever they choose to marry.
Nowadays, marriage is a privilege to those who choose to take part.
@Ruth Tounkam You'd be surprised dear. People just don't admit it because it's mean to outright say "I married him for the help." Or "I married her because my mom wrote it in her will."
There are tonnes are reasons why people get married, other than for love.
@Ruth Tounkam Then you don't understand the real world, dear.
What do you want then, the Victorian definition of marriage?
Parents prepare a dowry for their daughters and basically sell their girls to the man who they approve of. She is expected to love her husband, even of she has never seen his face.
She must be with her husband and have sex according to his own desires, even if she ends up giving birth to 40 kids. If he divorces her, she has no say. Depending on the time period, if he abuses her, she still has no say.
There! Traditional marriage.
Marriage is a transaction dear. Always has been, always will be. There is benefit to being with a partner, and people decide to marry depending on what those benefits are.
They’re basically roommates who had a wedding
That's how I feel
Having any roommate, is very different than living with your very best friend.
But with romantic attraction and love.
The way he loves her and speaks of her is admirable...
Her voice is very relaxing! She's such a great narrator.
If it wasn’t so raspy it would be perfect.
Cross OveR the raspiness is the best part
Okaylah To each their own I guess.
Nope the raspiness is terrible
It was about to put me to sleep lol I thought her voice was really soothing
I'm curious if they have lover's outside of marriage or if they're celibate
Addie Meier oddly me to
Me three. That was my first thought.
I doubt it, they’re probably celibate. Although I suppose it’s not really any of our business either way
I don't think they're celibate. They probably had sex. AND THEY CAN HAVE SEX. The sexual attraction just wasn't there. Sex isn't just about sexual attraction yknow. it is also an expression of love or romantic attraction.
@@callaliaevergreen1364 How can you have sex with someone if you're not sexually attracted to your partner? I'd be grossed out to have sex with someone I don't feel sexually/romantically attracted to, and being gay by definition is NOT being romantically/sexually attracted to the opposite sex.
I love that. “I am a person inhabiting a body that has my disease.”
What an endearing couple. These are true soulmates.
HuffPost got this documentary right. I thought the video was going to be focused about their sexuality, but it's absolutely not about that. It's about life and love and it understands something that people in our generation doesn't quite understand -- or at least not fully, not like this. This is beautiful. Thank you.
Alex Lischak 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💛💛💛💛
Crying r n omg
Stop glorifying this the only reason stuff like this happens is homophobia there's nothing wholesome about homophobia its sad
@@memethingz6004 They literally loved each other so much they thought they were bi. They have a really deep and beautiful friendship and you're trivializing it
6:42 “Eventually I’ll be painting on pieces of rice” that was the funniest comment heard all week 🤣
i hope to marry someone who i’m physically attracted to and is also my best friend. i believe it is extremely possible
Aisha Sosa you are right, it’s extremely possible!! You’ll find someone your soul connects with & it will make you so physically attracted to them, it’ll blow your mind! I hope you keep your positive attitude & take care! I know I’m a complete stranger Aisha, but you’re important, intelligent, unique, beautiful, wanted, needed and loved! You matter & I can’t wait to hear about your soulmate!! 😊
Kim Wolford wow i can’t believe i just saw this 4 months later! but honestly i needed to hear that at this exact moment. thank you so much kim ❤️ u have such a kind soul. i really appreciate it!! i hope ur doing well and are safe. im sending u lots of love!
S.K. Munday so happy for u!
"One day age and gravity will conspire against you" that definitely got me thinking.
That got you thinking? Are you serious?
Just means you're getting old...
Seriously me too. I have to contemplate the metaphorical line and then, realised she means death
Na yall get smaller as you adg
Listen to “Time” by Pink Floyd. You’ll be doing more than just thinking
It's so refreshing to hear both spouses speak so kindly of each other. It's really beautiful.
"Taking care of her is taking care of me" is something I'm going to live by. I love that!
I'm so glad to see so many people seeing this as someone normal, instead of outlandish. Because this is what happy partnerships are made of -- you can't bank on sex forever. True happiness comes from a real connection with the person you care about.
When she was playing Over The Rainbow on a harp, spoke about the rainbow being the Aurora Borealis and his face came up, I started sobbing.
I do get moody at 3am but this combination tugged so hard at my heartstrings that my eyes started stinging with tears.
Syaz A.B I was completely fine until that moment also! The way his face lit up as her voice was lighting up describing the ultimate ethereal light. Ah! Swoon💓💓💓
And it’s just 6:33 pm
When his face came up then smiling ... 😢 tears
I also teared up at that part... 😢
"you will become like me"
i know she meant this in a different context, but i hope that I can become like her, with such grace, poise, and wisdom
Me too, I know what she meant. That as you get older there are less things that your physical body can do. Now in our mind we can do it all, lol. But, the reality is that our physical selves will become weak, tired, exhausted, etc..😑♥️. But, I am like you I aspire to be like her. With all the joy, love, and compassion that is pouring through her.
Marrying someone that lifts you up at your lows and towards whom you could do the same to, is definitely the most beautiful thing❤
"When all things are darkest, there is still the promise of hope."
More beautiful words have I never heard. Especially now during a pandemic. Gorgeous story.
Love from Oz. Be safe everyone.
They look like Santa and Ms. Clause
*Mrs.
Omfg im adopting this as the new story of how they ended up together
Lol yeah
They better watch out for Heat Miser and Cold Miser, I hear they are fighting still
Lmfao
XD
so i guess you could say that before they got married they were... engayged?
😂😂😂😂
People threw skittles instead of rice at thr wedding 😁
**Badum tsss** 🥁
Leila that is so funny...
No...
"and that was our rainbow, at night, when all things are darkest" this sounds so beautiful
This is one of the best examples of “love is love”.
This is what genuine love looks like, marrying someone because their your best friend, and even going so far as to cut their meat for them if need be. A beautiful story from a beautiful couple of human beings.
Marriage is not a synonym to a sexual relationship. It’s a promise to always be there for each other.
Edit: Marriage is a full on commitment, while friendship is just a connection, one that can be simply broke in seconds.
What you’re talking about is called a friendship. Marriage is something different.
Amy B No, it’s really not.
@Altoid Bazingá You can't speak for everyone. You know this.
Altoid Bazingá marriage is the agreement between two people who love each other. Love =/= sex. Sex=/= love.
If you want to get technical, marriage is a financial contract between two independent parties.
Ain’t divorce grand?
She has a very calming voice. Even talking about things that arnt easy to hear they sound easy on my ears cuz of her voice
It's crazy she never wondered why she didn't have periods till after being married ( do adult ,)
Right
"One day, Age and Gravity will conspire against you"
So true.
After 2 marriages, I've only succeeded in being cheated on and left. Good on them, sex is.such a tiny part.
It's a pretty big part though
Sex is a very important part of a relationship. It’s literally what we’re born to do.
@@kiakaha110 except most asexual people
I'm so sorry for what you've been through. Looks like you have two beautiful kids. A blessing ❤️
Marriage is about commitment not about sex,when sex fade it’s left with commitment.
when i saw the title i was like "what the hell that makes no sense" but this is actually so sweet
Your only going to live for 83 more years
Literally no one:
What I've noticed about successful marriages is that there is a priority in respect and patience over love. Romance and sex are important elements in marriage but it can't thrive on these things alone. I've seen couples who have had wild romances but get divorced after a few years because they cant cooperate during hard times or just get bored once the thrill of romance is over.
So true
📢YES
Marriage is a Partnership to survive a World Together.
Love is a Kinship the defines all odds
Family is a bond thicker then time.
And Sex....meh that's just a bonus.
I totally agree! and sex is not half as important as true love. But sex (making love) is another form of well... making love! :) sex creates very strong feelings and emotions and can be very important . That's why many people are so affected by it. 💖
Relationship build on sex only is called friends with benefits or sex buddies not married couple. People who base their relationship on sex only will make it last a about a year and then these people want a divorce because they got bored or sex isn't as good. Even something as intimate is without any feeling.
😆😂
secks is good doe
Wow, so many life lessons from this couple. ❤️
1. Have a sense of humor.
2. Be honest.
3. Express yourself.
4. Embrace change and yourself.
They are lovely people aren’t they? I have a chronic illness- Lupus. I wish my husband treated me as Dennis treats her. Mine gets mad at me for not being up and able to do things and acts like a toddler. When I’m up- he is the sweetest thing around. I was told it’s because he gets scared so he overcompensates to prove he’s a strong male. Poop on that! I totally understand the concept for wanting to be seen for yourself not just for being your disease. I hate that part of having an autoimmune disease. What a good show this is, so many lessons in it. God bless these two.
@@kelligray1848 I hope you get the kindness you deserve.
He takes such good care of her... love this story of their love. Its beautiful!
Honestly this is the type of love I’ve been imagining ever since I was a child: no matter your sexual orientation/gender if you find THAT person, you’ll be happy regardless if they meet some standards or not.
I admire them
ツNiky Neko marry me. I understood perfectly.
I want a relationship as strong as theirs.
"In the middle of the night was the arborist... our rainbow. At night when all things are dark, there is still a promise of hope."
Aurora Borealis
This has changed my perspective on marriage and life. ❤
Stop glorifying this the only reason stuff like this happens is homophobia there's nothing wholesome about homophobia its sad
@@memethingz6004 WTF u Everywhere
@@memethingz6004 such a slow minded thing to say
I would like to meet them and others like them. They are genuine people that deserves all the happiness there is 😢😭
I strongly agree 🤗
@@thetruthchannel349 .....why are you comparing Hitler to elderlys painting and antiqueing?
Its called HYPERBOLE. Maybe youve heard of it. Its when you use an EXAGGERATED medium to communicate a very simple point. Sincerity, a sense of being genuine, emotion, NONE of these are inherent to good people. They are not inherent to people who are CORRECT or RIGHT. They are inherent to ALL HUMAN BEINGS. Regardless of their quantitative morality, these qualities are indigenous to ALL humans.
I used Hitler to show an extreme example of a SINCERE, GENUINE human being who was SINCERELY, GENUINELY WRONG.
@@thetruthchannel349 yeah and people don't tend to react or appreciate hyperbole....especially when you are clearly a dumbass troll
@@thetruthchannel349 they don't deserve happiness because they're sincere, they deserve it because they're humans that, to our knowledge harmed no one.
Finally, UA-cam is doing my recommends some justice, not the usual rubbish.
Truth.
My thoughts exactly. 👍🏾
hell yeah, same thought
Yep! Mine too. 😄
Madison Stites Exactly
These are two exceptional human beings.
Wow. This story is so profoundly beautiful. As someone who is newly married, I hope we can grow in this type of dedication and perseverance. It really comes down to being best friends!
Its not beautiful its sad stop glorifying this the only reason stuff like this happens is homophobia there's nothing wholesome about oppression
Here I am, hoping i can be loved like this
You can.
SAME!!
Keep an open heart and mind and it will come. If you are not hang up on what society says it should be,it will happen for you in the most beautiful way.
Sure dear
Same ❤
This touched me in a really special way. I've been in love with my gay boy friend for years (I'm a lesbian). I've always wanted to marry him and spend my time just being happy in each others company. I often like to think about marrying him if we lived in a time where it was dangerous to be out of the closet and by being married no one would suspect a thing. I'm only 15 so the chances of us ever getting married are low but that doesn't change the fact I've loved him in a way that I've never loved anyone else before.
You could be biromantic! Of course I'm not pushing any labels on you, but it's possible to be romantically attracted to people of different genders while only being sexually attracted to one :)
An Unmerciful Kiwi honey your still a kid. You’re going to love a lot in your lifetime and every time it’s going to seem that’s the one , you couldn’t possibly love any stronger just get ready. Going to have a lot of heart ache as well. I’ve never believed in couples marrying young . I believe you should have fun live life to the fullest go everywhere you can and experience as much as possible before anyone settles down. That relationship usually last not the ones barley out of high school getting married and pregnant.
You've got a long road ahead of you dear. Friends come and go. The real ones stay in touch, even if distances are far. You could go separate ways only to find each other again another time -- or not, there's billions of people in this world to meet and fall in love or lust or both with. Enjoy your life, meet people and explore! Take care of yourself and listen to your intuition.
You're young. Give it a few years. It's wonderful you have such a dear friend, cherish him 💖
Damn guys don’t try to kill her hopes like-
This is absolutely one of the most beautiful and heartwarming stories ever ❤️
Ur hetero huh
@@memethingz6004 no actually, but I don't know why that's important?
They actually sound asexual, but they sound happy 🤷🏻♀️ More power to them ❤️
It’s not about the sex. Stop.
Asexual ppl don't normally have sex or none
Stop glorifying this the only reason stuff like this happens is homophobia there's nothing wholesome about homophobia its sad
@@memethingz6004 What does asexuality have to do with homophobia?
I'm in love with their home, utensils, plates and art.
In life when all things are darkest, there's always a promise of hope.
5:10 "If you gonna get married, marry your best friend."
“Taking care or her is taking care of me” wow that is deep and true love ♥️♥️
How many years? Just curious. My beloved and I were Wed 36 years before he passed with me in our bed quite peacefully 10 years ago. I love him every moment still and dream of him too.
💟🌠🌈💟🌠🌈💟🌠🌈
This was published in 2015 and she said 32 years
@@robingagan6288
thank you💫
So, sorry for your loss. Read the pain in your post. Memories are Forever. He's always with you🙂 When you hear the darling nickname he gave you...you know, he's near🤗
Kathleen M. Higgins some people never go threw life ever feel that love god bless you .. you will be reunited again
This is so bittersweet, I’m sure one day you’ll be together again 💜
I'm surprised her parents never mentioned to her that her genitals were different bc my first concern would've been I'd my child could have kids, this is very interesting. I love their bond it's quite wholesome.
I was watching a documentary about intersex. The approach was to carry out surgery to 'normalise' the appearance of the baby. The default was female. They would tell the mother to reinforce the gender, but not to tell the child. The GP would know. Paternalistic medicine.
@@orlaoto5794 oh that's interesting I think I heard about a case like that, they decided for the child but it wasn't correct or something like that, it's probably hard for the parents but I think I would tell em
Back in the day doctors would conduct the surgery immediately after birth without the parent's knowledge but this was semi-rare. As someone else stated, it became standard that most parents knew before the surgery and were advised to keep hush hush about it because of very outdated ideas around what it means to be intersex and what gender/sex is. There's a lot of intersex activists who are fighting to get the immediate surgery banned because it requires so many follow up surgeries and invasive exams throughout the kid's entire childhood. The goals for the surgery are more concerned with aesthetic than the well being and can lead to extensive nerve damage in some cases. The infamous goal of the procedure for creating a vagina is just "can a penis fit inside" instead of preserving nerves or making the clitoris functional.
There are also some conditions where people don't know that they're intersex until they have fertility problems or health issues that require certain tests. Those intersex conditions are either mostly internal anatomical differences, the presentation of the outside anatomy is very subtle, the parents couldn't afford the surgery, or at birth the doctor never checked the baby for it. So it's definitely not uncommon for intersex individuals to be in that woman's situation.
@@mousy3873 Yeah, there was a paternalistic attitude; if there wasn't a 'normal' penis than female was assigned irrespective of whether the predominant internal structures were male. The doc I watched was UK based, and surgeries would have been free with nearly all health services in Europe. Change came slowly with the pushback against the 'doctor is always right' ethos.
@@mousy3873 oh wow that's interesting....so they can look perfectly normal on the outside and have a different anatomy internally?....hope I interpreted that part right.
I could listen to this lady all day. Her voice is so soothing and her spirit is so calm nice and peaceful she seems so nice.
This is an amazing story!!! So few find that comfortable person that they can call thier own. What a blessing despite thier trials!!!
I can totally understand no I'm not lesbian I'm straight but I did marry gay man and I loved him deeply and it was what the preachers called it pure love because it had nothing to do with sex it had to do with two people that were truly madly in love with each other's and wanted to spend their lives together.
r u still with him?
gim zack ... he passed away no it wasn't from the any gay so-called disease or anything like that he died of cancer and I love him very much and I always will
gim zack actually I would have stayed with him forever and I guess in a sense we did Til death do us part. unlike the story we kissed all the time not like a man and a woman kisses but as far as affection we always showed affection to each other we never held back our feelings we just respected what each of us worse he was gay and I was straight. Some of my friends would say why don't you try to change him maybe he'll change why would I want to change what I love that was my feeling... oh I wish so much that we had more time but the time we did have was the best time of my life the best moments the best everything
Moonglow The Gypsy did you guys had children and now have grand children?
All of my children was from a previous marriage. Our marriage was not based on sex at all but just a very deep love for one another. To some people but it's strange but to us it was just perfect. One thing I learned from our marriage is that marriage it's not a physical act but any motional act.
It would have been nice for intersex visibility if that had made it into the title. Was pleasantly surprised to see another intersex person being highlighted positively.
I'm a black man that's bi my wife is intersex and everyday is just a blessing cause I found the one to truly complete me so I dig for sure what your saying.
@@kimkane9388 damn, that's great, dude
Hell, I’d marry my best friend too. That’s a really good idea.
Awww that true love there!! So what if their sexuality isn't traditional. The love and care they have for each other.
This happens more than you may know or realize
Quetta Power Yeah. That’s crazy now that you made me think about it
The intersex thing or gay man + lesbian woman as a couple ?
@@sann5146 Both lmao
It does, the mtual faux marriage partnership between a gay gay and a lesbian. I think its now in countries where its taboo or criminal and in bigored religious groups mostly. But yeah, that is lakely what becomes of sucha marriage in good terms.
it's called lavender marriage
The real title should be "Beautiful Plutonic Couple Lives Life to the Fullest"
cloudburst I love your sentiment and title. It is, however, Platonic, not Plutonic.
Yes, but I doubt it would receive as many views. 👍🏽
...because they're from Pluto? Sorry, I think you're meaning to say "platonic" which comes from Plato who's philosophy included the non-sexual or purely spiritual.
"While you're caring for others, you're caring for yourself." Just one of the many philosophical and poetic life-tenets spoken in this lovely, lovely docu-short. ❤🌈❤
This is the most beautiful couple, friendship, marriage I have ever seen 💚 I love both of you Dennis and Linda!
This is why it's important to marry your best friend. Your spouse has gotta be your best friend, they're your other half. That friendship is so special.
This was kinda ASMR, good to watch before sleeping
@@Aliena92 I jizz on my diapers
@@corlosakmartinez9118 lOoK aT mE iM eDgY
true so relaxing
very relaxing
XD
I think this is the sweetest damn thing I have ever watched 😭
"Over the Rainbow" on Welsh harp. How beautiful.