reading your assumptions about me | my life, my job, and when i'm leaving korea
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- Опубліковано 29 січ 2021
- Hello hello, bringing back a trend from two years ago - assumptions about me! Thank you guys for being really kind with your assumptions lol I hope this is fun to watch because it was fun for me to film :) Sending you love from snowy Seoul as always and see you next time~
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reading your assumptions about me | my life, my job, and when i'm leaving korea
It was brought to my attention that I cut out a question that is in my thumbnail lol so if you're curious about whether kurt and my relationship is fake...bahaha we could have both picked much easier people to "marry" if all we needed was a visa. we are slowly driving each other insane
😂😂😂i love my little wikipedia addict.
(and if you really want the tea, we actually got married right when we were about to LEAVE korea, not for me to stay^^)
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You just married an "opposite" ... neither of you might be "difficult(not easy)" with an "equal", but a night owl with a morning person... that must be challenging...😱😱😱 but this is just going by what you tell us about you guys... so what do we know 😅
THANK YOU FOR THAT SHAMPOO REC!!! OMMMGGG!!!!
He is a full on Virgo..ofc he isn't easy. But as long as you love and respect each other that's all that matters
@@nalaa9618 As an archetypal Cancerian, I have often wondered how I would get along with a "full on Virgo".
Cry, probably, and sulk whenever corrected by the pedantic Virgo LOL
I’ve literally been digging through your content to find an apartment tour of your current apartment and I’m almost certain you haven’t done one 😂 it looks so nice from the clips you can see in some videos though. That link to the one you’ve put in was 5 years ago. I just watched a video from 4 years ago where you said you found it but would do a tour soon and one from 3 years ago where you said you were looking for apartments but decided to stay in the current but no your 😂 I promise I’m not a stalker I just love apartment tours and yours looks so cool
I can vouch for you actually being the nicest ever in person 🙋🏻♀️
You two are too cute for words. 🌼🌼
Same to you 🥺
My two faves supporting each other .... my heart 😍😍😍
“i’m pretty much on the verge of tears at all times” LMAO ME
we need to start an 'about to cry club' hahaha
Literally same LOL
When she said that I was like LITERALLY she gets me
Man I thought I was the only one who cried at like people dancing together and fet so dumbbb, so glad I'm not alne ;_;
Title: “reading your assumptions about me”
My only assumption about you: “you enjoy living in books more than this world”
often yes hahahha
This was a fun alternative to a Q&A video! Might do it as well when I’m in the mood for a cozy video~✨
OMG!!! My 2 favorite UA-camr!!!! Are you kidding me?????????
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Omg the crossover i needed!!
@@missrandomreads Right?! I don't know why I was surprised. Lol. Makes me so happy tho.
You being an INFJ makes so much sense as to why I LOVE your content lol. And by going through these comments, I see I am not alone! Hello fellow INFJs ☺️
its funny because we're supposed to be rare but i feel like everyone here is infj hahah
Me toooo!! :)
Hi INFJ! Us INFJs have a rare talent for seeking out other INFJs ❤️
Infj here 🎉
I was sooo shocked when I found out cari, who is my favorite UA-camr, is the same MBTI as mee!!!! Hiii fellow INFJ!!!
My sister taught me the word "collective effervescence" which is like... When a bunch of people are all celebrating the same thing, feeling the same good vibes, etc. And that ALWAYS makes me cry. Crying at flash mobs. You're the cutest. ❤️ My step-mom cries at parades. 😂
Omg i love this hahah and parades get me so bad 😂
SAME! It's like the "team spirit" that gets me
For any curious subscribers:
- Cari is nice in person lol. She has a dry sense or humor and is super super funny
- She is tall. Lies. Fibs. FAIRYTALES lady just doesn't know numbers
- She's high level in korean but it's just not on film. Especially listening
Ah, Keiko my skyscraper of a friend!! How’s the weather up there at that altitude?
@@caricakes i WILL be bringing my measuring tape the next time i see you
INFJs unite! I had a feeling you were. Plus, I’m also a Capricorn. And a redhead. Lol. We’d vibe. 😂
omg its like meeting a long lost twin hahahha
Omg INFJ gang 💜
Yesss INFJ too 🙋♀️
INFJ Cancerian here, ayyyyy
INFJ Scorpio 🙋🏻♀️
“I’m pretty much on the verge of tears at all times” 😔🤚 hahaha so relatable. I’m excited, I get teary. I’m shocked, get teary, Sad, teary.
Hahaha glad we’re not alone!
This nook of your home has become like a comfort corner to me :)) Every time you upload, it's like a treat after studying
i love the little nook too^^
You are legit, what you are doing is legit, and I really believe we are getting the real you on your channel. This takes much more talent than people think, so congrats and thank you for all you do.
i feel like you're happier lately and it makes me want to be happier too !!
YAS we are ready for this 🙌🏻
😍😍😍
I love your sit down videos so much Cari, it feels like having a chat with a friend at home staying cosy. Have fun in the snow, I know I did last weekend 🥰
🥰🙏 that makes me so happy!!
Omg you’re channel is just a vibe 🥰
wahhh thank you!
hey cari! cant wait to watch ive actually read two of your book recommendations and currently on human acts. thanks for making my days better! stay safe!
omg YAY!!! stay safe too~
YESSSS, I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL, you inspired me to read more this year and I loved almost all of your book recs!! ❤️
THANK YOU and ahhh yessss!!
love ending January with a Cari video!
🥰🙏
i love that you call your grandma "grammy" - I call my grandma that as well and i don't hear it as often so it made me happy to hear it from you!
Yesss grammys are the best!
I cry at flash mobs too! Anything that has large groups moving or singing or expressing joy together, I’m a river of tears.
THANK YOU FOR THAT SHAMPOO REC!!!! Omg!!!
I was saying “affinity!” Out loud, trying to help you out during the book wrap up vid!😂
gahhhhh i hate when i lose my words hahah thank you for the help ;)
I found your channel just a few weeks ago and I absolutely love It! Your content is so interesting and catchy, I am going through a sort of marathon of your videos! Keep up the great work, much love from Italy ❤️
thank you so much!!!
You are naturally hilarious. Love your channel.
Before I watch this video can I just say how much I love you as a person (for the little that I get to know you through this channel of course) and how I appreciate your channel? Like I'm so thankful for it! Okay now let me go watch the actual vid!
thank you so much ahhhh :''')
Please do a book stack tour 🥺 I love the stacks in the back!
I completely agree with you when you say it’s hard to re-meet up with friends. I have 3 friends who I’ve known for forever, who I keep in contact with regularly, but other than that, I just chat with ppl on and off. Mostly because I feel like they are busier than me, and might think I’m clingy 😂
Ps. I am an INFP, so I overthink things toooo much 😬😂
💯😭🙏
Me too.. and I am also an INFP..
Speaking as a fellow INFJ here, this is so relatable! I love meeting new people, but I'm so bad at following up! And if I remember, I'm like well they're probably busy...
Same here!😁 You're not alone with this :) I find it really hard to, kind of "forge" a brand new friendship from scratch lol when you still trying to find the right rythm, balance and flow with that new person, often with practical things like (as you were saying) meeting up again, who should initiate(?), are they busy(?) etc. Once you find the flow, it's fine😄
Being a Capricorn and a INFJ too, some of these assumptions hits me too! That "you're not too friendly in person / yes and no because I'm nervous is relatable 😭🧡
definitely! quiet does not equal being mean hahah just suuuper nervous haha
After reading the thumbnail, all I can remember is a lady sincerely asking my mom who dyed my hair when I was three. I’m also a redhead, and that’s when I learned that some people are insane
LOL yes!! definitely had people asking my mom that (my mom, who has the same color hair as me...) when i was tiny lol
As a natural redhead I've also had bizarre questions like that (since I was teeny tiny) I'll never understand some people...
I'm natural red too and i love it 😅. As a child i got some stupid nicknames like 'Pumuckl' (a little guy in a german film for kids) or something like that 🤣 So what 🤣
Yay so excited for this video 🥰 and your outfit is so cute in this omg 😍
bahaha thanks! just my cozy house clothes 🥰
This is a reminder to everyone that you don’t know people you watch on the internet 😘 Great video Cari 💕
hoooooooo the wanting to meet someone again after having a good time but fearing being a burden is speaking to me on a spiritual level I FEEL YOU
Ugh yes 🥺🥺🥺
"Dripping in Virgo" sounds like the name of a punk/emo album or a writing prompt. "He was dripping in Virgo, that much was true, but on occasion, another star sign would nose its way into the spotlight. It made his behavior unpredictable once a month and I never knew what he would order, so I couldn't have it ready-made when he walked into the door." ^J^
bahahah omg i LOVE IT
that was so well-written! love it 😍
I understand your desire to live elsewhere, but I will SO miss your Korea travel and Seoul area videos. They are so calming.
omg cari!! i'm a capricorn infj too - probably why i rly love watching your videos
The lighting is perfect!! Don’t know what you’re talking about 😂 I was even gonna ask what kind of lighting you are using. I love the video!! 😘
it's honestly crazy how many things i can relate to. i'm an infp but sometimes i feel like i'm listening to myself when i listen to you Cari 😂i feel exactly the same way with almost everything you talk about, much love and thank you for your company through these videos ❤
p.s. this is a good thing, thank you for making me feel less weird (11:48 plus everything else)😂
Random but the carbonation of soda hurts my tongue too, so I don’t drink it. When I’m out and I reject an offer for soda, people ask why like if I’m on a diet or something. And when I explain that the carbonation hurts me, literally no one can understand like absolutely not a soul has said that they experience the same thing. AND NOW HERE YOU ARE MAKING ME FEEL SEEN. Thanks love you ❤️ Also, when you explained in your previous video that you hold back a lot of your personality and that you want to try and be more free with yourself, it definitely seems like you’re having more fun explaining things now. Like when you spoke about Thomas your personality came through a lot and I loved it.
It's a balance I think: Satisfaction and striving.
I guess you can be satisfied with where you are at the moment and want to be in a different position in the future.
Love your channel😄 Always rooting for you🥰
🥰 thank you!
I was so surprised when you mentioned Hungarian! Hi, I'm one of your Hungarian subscribers, thank you for calling our language beautiful, it is really hard, indeed, haha
Such a nice and fun video ! I understand why I relate to you : same hobbies + similar personality : morning person, sensitive, not into parties, infp (so very close to infj) ! Thank you for your 2 amazing channels ❤️ love from France
Thank YOU!!
Thank you for sharing yourself. You're such a charming person.
Ah yes chatty time with Cari and learning more about her a good ending to the first week of school. Hello Cari lots of love. I hope you're doing well.
hope you're doing amazing too!
As a fellow Virgo, I can relate to Kurt on his ways of traveling 😂😂 I love spontaneous, unplanned strolls so much when traveling hahaha
!! I'm so excited to hear about this shampoo! I feel like lots of companies do not make anything for us redheads. How interesting! I'm definitely going to try it.
I'm early! Thanks for your videos, you're my favorite. 💜
thank you so much!
im also an INFJ! i heard we are pretty rare🧐
we're supposed to be but i think everyone involved with this channel is an infj hahaha
@@caricakes i think so too...
When you said you are an infj, i immediately thought "aww that makes a lot of sense"
I finally am on a break from work when you uploaded! So excited I can enjoy your video right now~
yay!! and same to you!!
@@caricakes Definitely trying, it's -38 degrees Celsius (-36.4 Fahrenheit) where I live currently.
I love your vlog videos so much!!! I was a bit down while spending lots of my free time at home for less interactions with people. your vlog videos inspire me in many ways :) And It is interesting🤩 to watch my citiy in a different viewpoint. Thank you for awesome videos!!!!!
Omg I get teased so much for not drinking sodas/carbonated drinks because it hurts my tongue/mouth. All throughout my childhood kids called me weird for preferring water/juice over coke or sprite... You're the only other person I've heard where it also bothers them, I actually got kinda excited I wasn't alone haha
I felt so many of these answers were very relatable
I need a video of Cari explaining her and Kurt's love story TBH :D Do we have it somewhere? Hahahaha I just started watching Cari's vlogs mid last year so I was not able to go waaaaaaaay back and watch her old videos. Or maybe that is a good new vlog suggestion? A whole video dedicated to Kurt and all of the stories and fun facts about the marriage, the love story, doing all things Kurt in a day, etc 😍😍😍
omg i love uuuu ❤️and this video made my day ❤️
Hi Cari :)
Great learning more about you !
Lots of interesting information I was curious about !!!😀
An only child, a kindred soul! Love to see it, woohoo
nice video, Cari! 💜
That thing you said about not following up after meeting new people and being terrible at making new friends.... SAAAAAME!! There are countless numbers in my phone and several people on my FB that I've added after meeting them once at a party/concert/whatever and it's weird reaching out and the longer you take, the weirder it is... ugh. Glad I'm not the only one
exactly ughhhhhh!!!
omg I`m a huge fan of yours and I can`t believe we have the same mbti!! I love you videos
“Im pretty much on the verge of tears at all times” thats me too 😭😂
its a lifestyle ahaha
"I'm pretty much on the verge of tears at all times." Oof, I've been attacked
:''')
I cannot get over that BEAUTIFUL pink shirt 🥲
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18:43 I can relate to that SO much! It's one of the reasons why I am so terrified of surgeries as well. Really loved this video, twas' so cozy
The music 🥰 I always study to the „caricakes“ playlist on Spotify !! Love it
hehe im glad!!!
sameeee :>
I recognize myself in you so much haha even if I'm an extrovert I can be nervous and I'm soooo bad at sending messages and stuff. I'm so open I can tell deep stuff about me to strangers but I don't have many friends... I don't really go out and spend a looot of time alone! Great video as always ❤️ you are so kind and genuine
Also smart and loud teachers pet here! 😂
I've followed your videos for a while now and somehow I always assumed that you were a few years younger than me. I don't know why. But hearing that we're the same age just made me so happy for no reason haha.
Yay!!!!
time flies with your videos! 😏 by the way very relatable topics, I also dont like to drive because its so stressful 😅
thank you! and i agree, if i could drive on empty roads always i'd be fine but when other cars are around i get so tense!
@@caricakes same! 💯
For me the things with arts is that it's a process; it comes in flows of passion and interest, and a project never ends, which reminds me of how a Qin player names their instrument, building a relationship with it.
Awwww Cari!!! 😆☺️💖 this just makes me love you more!!! and this just shows how much of a lovely natured person you are!! 💕 also MCR are amazing!!! Ha!! I met them when they came on tour with TBS! Wish I kept my signed magazine by them coz I would’ve sent you it! Ha
Fellow redhead Californian living in SK lol. Thank you so much for the shampoo rec I’m dying to try it now 😍
Wow, INFJ, 5'4", Hungarian heritage, from California... makes sense why your content really resonates with me, we're of the same clan
I love you and your channel for nice videos like this. 😍
This was such a fun video! I just realised we have so many similarities. Virtual High five ✋🏼 on that one. (INFJ, cry very easily, don’t like to party as much (or at all) and don’t like drinking, and don’t think they would live in the country they are in currently for long time).
OMGGGG You just described me when making friends!!! I am exactly like that! That´s why I´m soooo grateful for those people I met and kind of figure I´m bad a following steps of friendship and still stay with me :)
Omg I never knew we‘re the same age, great to know! ☺️
omg cari this was so sweet and relaxing, looking forward to the next videos!!!
Wow hearing you talk about yourself reminds of me myself. Glad to hear I am not the only one really good at meeting once and then having a bad follow up.
Also I can vouch for the surface level niceness reputation as well. You said Del Mar that means you are from SD country like me! Yeah San Diegans can be nice but for the most part we tend to keep to ourselves unless you are friends or family and then they are really nice and friendly and personable.
Oh man that bit about crying at seeing humans all doing things together got me 😂 whenever I see things like speeches or even live singing I just get overwhelmed by all the good that people can do and I want to burst into tears and laugh like a maniac at the same time?? 🤣
I don't care about what people say ... but subscribing to Cari's channel is one of the best decisions I have ever made XD
Omg that thing about making friends...i can't believe someone finally said it, i thought i was the only one with that problem
When I was dying my hair auburn I always used a shampoo and conditioner that had a bit of red depositing colour in it. Really helped enhance the colour longer!
You are so friendly to me even when you being silent 😊
Once again ,watching this at 2 am 😍
omg haha!!!
I have the same birth chart! Also being a Capricorn sun, Scorpio moon and Sagittarius rising. Could be one of the reasons I like your channel that much haha!
I wouldn’t say star signs are a gospel either, but it makes so much sense why I feel like I bind with you so much, I’m a Capricorn sun and sag rising too!!
infj queens only!!
👏👏👏
I never realized your name is Carolyn! That’s beautiful! My name is Karolina (Karo-lee-na) and I’ve always wanted to be called Kari by my friends but nobody ever stuck with it 🥺
ohhhh so pretty too!!!
Cari, I'm enjoying to watch your videos. It is really refreshing to see Korea through your eyes.. I leave a comment as I want to recommend a cafe in 대구(Dae-gu, perhaps?); on the rail. The mini trains serve the coffe, and it's cute.
No wonder I recognize myself in you so much!! I am also multilingual, 1 m 63, a capricorn and an INFJ! Anyway, like this video as an alternative to a normal q&a :))
23 minutes of a Capricorn explaining her Capricorn personality and slightly mention my ABSOLUTE NIGHTMARE: A full on Virgo 😟😅👏🏼 Love from a double Sagittarius
To be fair he doesnt know his time of birth so i only know his sun sign but he’s just very very virgo in his actions haha
I'm also a 5'4 ginger INFJ capricorn who is slightly allergic to cats so that explains why I love your videos so much
About the crying thing - i feel you. In LotR when everyone bows for the hobbits? FULL ON SOBBING. But yes, close to tears (happy/compassionate mostly) at all times is a mood.
finally! i can relate with someone who doesn't like carbonated drinks! my group of friends found it weird that i didn't like soft drinks but i couldn't help it because of how it felt on my tongue QwQ
OMG!!!! The sharks and the pool thing it's totally ME! lol
Oh! I'm the same way with alcohol & drugs etc - I don't like losing control of my body LOL. I can count on one hand how many times I've had a drink - it's just not for me and that's okay! I've often felt like the weird one for it too - there's a stigma around 'having a drink' when you're out and if you don't, you're the loser. It's so strange!
I feel you - i dont even take pain meds 😂😂😂
aww, you seem like the nicest girl - a great neighbor that you can hang with
Wow I´m an INFJ type too and also I cry very easily lol. Honestly I love your channel and your vibe Cari, greetings from Mexico :)
i think infj are all cry babies but thats what makes us feelers hahaha
Pink is such a great color on you!
thank you ^^
I will definitely watch this video but I just saw one of your insta story . In France we use the « moka » pot to make coffee all the time. It’s a well-known coffee pot. My Mom has one and it’s very practical and it’s used a lot when we go camping. I guess you don’t have it in the US ? I think your reaction was really cute. Just read the comment upon your relationship with Kurt. Still in awe about people’s assumptions ! take care