Toxic Friends & Family (Stay Away From Negative People)
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- Toxic Friends & Family (Stay Away From Negative People)
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"It is so much MORE than just the people you hang around… It’s the books you read… The TV you watch or don’t watch. It’s the people you listen to… The things you choose to believe…"
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Thank you guys
The only people I allow in my life are people who are able to lift others up.
So true
Plz, subtitle indonesian,🙏
OMG this is amazing you guys are getting better by the video , it is THE VIDEO I was looking for for such a long time, about toxic people.
it is literally THE BEST video I have seen about the subject, totally got me hooked for the whole length . keep up the Remarkable work you're doing !
@Team Fearless
*Better be alone, than in a wrong company.*
So true 💯
Better to be the lone wolf... and be the best person you can be. This will attract the right people. Or just enjoy your own company.
Facts💯
Yeah true better to be alone and spread love kindness and restore the faith In humanity for good things 👍💯
I do agreed with you on this as well!!👍💪
You are the CEO of your life
Hire, fire, and promote accordingly
God is the CEO of our life and I thank him for not being that way.
Nice!
Peggy Micsky God put you in the position to be the CEO of your life... thats why he judges us on judgement day
I did, thankyou.
Mind if I borrow this quote my guy
One fake friend is more dangerous than 100 enemies
True
Yesssssss
BIG FACTS FR FR 💯REAL SHIT
Sometimes I just gave them a fake smile and back to my popcorns looooll
@Marcel _4321 I used to elevate the name Jesus christ till i came into realization that it wasn't the correct name of our haMashiach.
I’m 48 years old and cut ties with my family in my early 20s it’s been a long lonely road but staying would’ve been worse
God will fill that loneliness
Im in my 20s now and i just did that...im scared but those same people who taught me core values of self love and respect as well as respect and care for others turned on me when i revealed i am trans and im hurting...thank God i have my own apt. Business and i still keep in touch with two family members...but the others i had to distance myself from....im hurting i fuckinf am...but im happy i can find solace in your comment thanks Bryan 💝💝💝🎅
bryan curtis , I cut ties with my family five years ago... I’m 54 and I know exactly how you feel. It has been the best decision of my life. I finally have peace in my heart. You’re not alone😉
@@kokojones9892 im finding out that now
Feel you so much Bryan...Right there with you
I'd rather be alone than be with people who don't actually care.
My 6th Grade Math teacher was one of these toxic people along with several others. She actually banged on my desk because she felt I wasn't finishing a test fast enough (I was completely focused and NOT goofing off in ANY way). I almost said (but thought better before I did), "Lady, how can I finish faster if you're barking at me and banging on my desk?"
Me to
boom
I am moving out far away from everybody that knows me, I am going to start a new life in a new country where nobody knows me.
you can do this buddy! ❤
Same here!!!
Good for you! This is my goal within the next year also
Good luck 😉
Good luck.
I notice some people are rushing around wanting a relationship. Sometimes being alone is the best time you will ever have. It is better to be alone then to bring in drama. Protect your peace. It is priceless.
Absolutely Correct ppl obsessed with dense wirdofL9ve are quite amusing Actually y have to pity them tho They will end up spending life chasing love and will never find it and end up never Living
Had to cut ties this holiday with my mother. All my life and I'm done. I'm almost 40 yrs old and she will never change
Krystal Wirth I lost my mother 10 years ago she died. I would give up everything to spend another 10 minutes with her just to ask her for her forgiveness for any bad I may have done to her and tell her I love her and miss her. You don’t know what u got till you lose it. Nothing can replace your mother. Turn to Allah (God) and beg him to improve your relationship with your mother. Don’t ever turn your back on the one who carried you and raised you. We owe our lives to god and our parents. I would give away all my wealth to spend an extra 10 mins with my mother. May Allah guide you.
So ,if you cut ties,how do you project the future?aren't you setting a bad precedence for your children?
I understand you
@@ajmanny7950 A parent can damage an entire life. That's facts. Most of the time, the parent herself was damaged by her own parent(s) during childhood. Narcissistic parents can be toxic for one child's life and sometimes, the best solution is to cut ties, for a moment at least. Sometimes a mother and son or daughter relationship is so destructive that the only way to keep your mental health stable is to cut ties. For a brighter future.
@@ajmanny7950 thank you I appreciate the advice. I'll Soo talk to her this is a pattern o block her and bring her back in my life only to be hurt again and again by her. What's the point.
I've been 3yrs no contact with toxic family...im now free..full of joy closer to christ .. Receiving blessings and PEACEFUL..THANK YOU LORD JESEUS CHRIST FOR SAVING ME!!!!😇
They'll call you cynical, weird, unfair. That is the sign you are on the right way.
I'd just add, learn to recognize who is inherently toxic and who maybe just needs a moment, who deserves your patience. But do not be fooled
Gaalification 🎯🎯
After spending much time alone it gets easier and easier when I meet people to know if I want to hang around with them. It doesn’t take long at all to see the toxicity!
Avoid egotistical , uncompassionate people too. They're also toxic.
Yes I know 1 that is exactly like that,I keep my distance
I’m spending my time with my present self, future me, my weakness, my strength and my biggest supporter myself
Show me your crew… and I’ll show you your future. I’ll show you your future… because your FUTURE is a reflection of what you allow in your life now. Thank you Team Fearless
Good day sir. U motivated me to be a better person. Thank you kind sir!
My family was always toxic with me but I promised myself never to take their decisions in my career path and life that is a promise from now that I will not sacrifice myself for others who make me feel inferior,its not about respect but self love
The less you respond to negative people, the more peaceful your life will become.
You can not spend the majority of your life with TOXIC people and expect to be HAPPY. WAKE UP.
Choose people who hold you to a higher standard. REAL people. HONEST people. GENUINE people. GOOD people.
CHOOSE your crew. Don’t settle like most people. CHOOSE. And choose wisely.
*It Is Your Choice*
David Goggins: Can't Hurt Me
Well, it was not my choice to be born in a toxic family but here I am!
Amen bro best comment
Behold the most genuine Man alive
Thanks for everything Mr Goggins Sir
Stay Hard Sissies 💪
@@AD-ir9jw
Create your own BETTER family.
Treat them in the opposite ways
To how you've been treated.
K9 1 easier said than done, I have tried so damn many ways to change their mentality. Their mentality is so bad that whenever I do gymnastics (the only thing that makes me forget about the environment) they say it's not good for health regardless of what they say I do it everyday though and about 'cut the fam' thing I am going to do that when the time comes like I am freakin' 15 now
Sometimes your toxic for each other - so true!
Some of my friends are there that thinks that they are perfect and just ignores me as I'm not so important and makes a group to just let me down. How rude!! Now I feel that I should avoid them. Thank you. This video is the best. I feel good now.
This video is absolutely true, id rather stay all alone than be in a lake of toxicity. Some people drag you down if you allow them.
The only people I allow in my life are the people who lift others up, are kind and always try their best. Dont need to mention theres not many, but quality comes first before quantity.
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Great point
TooCrankD SnipR well Said my friend 👍🙂
“He who is walking with wise people will become wise, but the one having dealings with the stupid ones will fare badly”.
-Proverbs 13:20
J V L I V S Photography Amen my Brother 💕
J V L I V S Photography Wow love that quote
AMEN BROTHER
@The ELECT Of The Most High God Angelo J. Iafelice That's why, sometimes, it's best to live alone!
@@thomasshort1784 if I get a chance I would I love and enjoy being alone with no distraction etc...
"I'd rather be hated for who i am, than loved for who i am not" - Kurt Cobain
It means it's better if they hate you for being your true self than if you fake being someone you're not just so they approve.
@@petitefleurici That's a dark turn on the quote...got something you want to get off your chest?
Amen to that 🙏
Sorry, he is no longer here.
Everything said here was perfect. The only problem is in finding these good, kind, positive people who want to improve and advance So as of now, I'm sitting at home with my wife praying to God to send these quality people my way.
I just try to avoid people with Drama, Life has never been better
That is why I avoid the staff room at supper break. TV blaring although no-one is listening to it people gossiping and complaining (not everyone but many). It literally grates on my soul so to speak.
Everyone around me was toxic. After spending time with one person I was spiritually sick for days. Ive have to hide for a while, to sort my head out.
Man,this spoke to me in volumes..I remember being with a toxic girlfriend and I had lost myself..I lost my voice..I lost my backbone..I lost my confidence and self esteem etc..
Sometimes, to be alone is the best option.
Smile.
But dont be attched deeply.
Say hello
But dont be involved too much
They are not necessary.
They are their shadows
Dont align yourself with Anything that
1.may hurt you
2.degrade you
3.humialiate you
4.gossip you
Or make you less of a person
SMILE . THEY ARE VERY FAR.
Amd they cannot do anything to destroy.
AVOID NEGATIVITY.
AVOID INFECTION !!!❤
I choose a balance life, I address the negatives and focus on the positives. You become what you focus on.
You hit the nail on the head. One must be a very good chooser when it comes to one's life.
Best comment on this ⭐
Words can be forgiven but not forgotten.
Thank you sir! ☺
The people we hang out with is the people we become and it's what our future becomes
It's better to be alone with yourself rather than to be around toxic people who make you feel alone.
CHOOSE THE PEOPLE WHO UPLIFT YOU HIGH ... NOT THE ONE WHO PULLS YOU DOWN.... CHOOSE PEOPLE WISELY AND BE THE ONE WHO CAN CHOOSE YOU ALSO
This got me start thinking about my relationship how toxic they were and how much i needed to get out because i wanted better for me amen .
Negative people don't get how blessed they are
My standards will win...every single time. They tried...they failed.💜🦅
Winners chase wining
Toxic chase winners
Royale Side .. Exactly
toxic chase winners...while becoming cancerous on the way 😆
I've chosen. It's actually amazing...all these people are yucky. I'm friendless but that's ok. I am my own best friend!
That's y I like staying by myself most of the time cuz some of these people are not real they are fake and they will drain ur positive energy for real ,nice video
I was people pleaser when i was younger. People keep saying to me that my priority should be getting married and be like all other average people. As i get older i know myself more and i know what i want from my life. My priority is improving myself. People doesn't like it, my parents doesn't like it.
If you find a person who will not toxicate your life.. then marry. Sometimes it's hard to know, pray to God to make things clear. If you have a good heart, you will know en eventually feel it. Some people don't see you as their lovely partner but rather an acceptable alternative for the one before you fitting their desires, could be the desire of an undemanding woman/man, an calm person, your wealth, your energy.. people can be demonic these times, as demons are energy absorbers, as the Holy Quran mentions: be aware of the devils in human shape! Keep your prayers and the link with the creator steady, don't sin, if you have problems, hold firm in belief and prayer, as the demon which leads you to sin will flee away from your body (brain). This will open your mind and let's you see clear and understand the movements of people. Avoid toothpaste and water with fluoride, as this calsifies your brain (pineal gland).
Your situation same as me. I'm was also people pleaser. My parents and other people on surrounding me always take advantage on me because they said that I so nice and I can't say no to them.When I stand up and speak up about they behavior towards me, they said I to sensitive and think so negative.
And right that moment I think I don't need them,and right now I just focus only on me and learning something that I don't know.
I don't wanna said sorry about my english writing because I 'm so confident in me even I made some mistake and i' m not native speakers.
@@lauramanaf6205 I see from your comment that you have grew up and starting to respect yourself. I see also that that you are a strong woman as well, because not all have courage to stand up for themself. I'm proud of you and i hope all best for your life.
I always have BIG respect for people who has courage to stand up for themself, and not following the crowd. That you have actually your own mind.
My friend got married because their parents forced to. He didn't have courage to say NO! now he looks much older and depressed and joy of life doesnt exists for him.
Most marriages even some good ones don't last, couples are better with some distance, you need independence first then time with your partner. If you even have one. It's not necessary for a happy life.
WOW SAME HERE
The future, your tomorrow, is dictated by your habits today
So true. I'm happier away from toxic people. 😃😃😃😃😃😃😃
It is necessary, and even vital, to set standards for your life and the people you allow in it, who is with me?????
True brother and I'm with you 😊
100% man! without setting boundaries our time will never truly be ours. it'll be taken by negative thoughts and others influence
@@LifeVersity True Talk
hahahah your wife lol
There's a book called Success by Michael Korda. The last chapter is about failure. When I read it, I was reminded of family members and past girlfriends. I promptly cut them all off.
sometimes negative people donot infect positive people with negativity
they rather make others wise
God Bless you for this video My mother my whole family I’m different I’m 59 just learning so much. Ex’s now yes physically sick ... still alive tho
Life is uncertain just focus on yourself.
Kick them out...
If you want to move forward.
😎👍
Smith yes kick them out like a football ⚽️ and block their phone numbers or change your number
We are an average of the 5 people that we surround ourselves with! This weighs heavily on me!
Man !!! I need change.
Yes u r right
pixiexyb nothing worthwhile is easy my friend. 😊
@@ThePositivityPrincess
Do what is hard and avoid what is easy
Absolutely you have to guard your heart and your mind from toxic people even if they our family 😪
By the definition you offer, everyone I know is toxic. I've known this for years. They are not the people I want in my life, but I seem to attract them, like a magnet.
I put people out of my life more than I am comfortable with, however necessary. It messes with my creativity.
The most they have accomplished is slowing me down. None has stopped me.
The people talked about in this video I'm hunting for you. Right people.
Well spoken Team Fearless.
We should always surround ourself with those who are hungry for success🦁🔥🔥🔥
They are empty. You wealthy when you have love to share. Poor is poor minded. Forgiveness is the greatest richness
I m feeling motivating more than ever 🖐️💪
I really love listening to this kind of messages 😍 God bless us all.
Thanks Fearless Motivation for waking me up from a long, miserable sleep.
I Made the decision at 10.years old and that was the greatest one ever. IAM so glad I caught on so early in life.
Thank you so much Sir..again I gain positive energy to move ahead..I have lost my way..few months ago..!!😭😭 Thank you So much..Today I will do something good..Thanks for your blessing Sir😘😇😘
"Whatever you consume, it will consume you"
I cut all the users, abusers and losers in my life in the summer of 2017. I also gave up the drink and drugs. I am experiencing a ‘serenity’ that I have never experienced in my life.
Congratulations!
Sometimes I just want to run , run , run and stop only when I feel that I'm Away from Negative people but sometimes you just need to heal yourself so that your High Vibration cut out These low Vibrational Negative People .
Needed this!!
I sit around my pops and he talks negativity everyday, non stop!!
I block it out sometimes but its energy draining
You want to know who your true friends are?
Screw up, and see whose still there! Know
your worth....then add tax!
It's so hard to keep positive and motivated around toxicity but I won't give up till death :)
Look at your PHONE. Who are the the first 5 people in your call history?
"Birds of a feather, flock together." Throw the dead weight overboard.
Don't be around bitter angry people who don't believe they can change their lives.... they'll turn you into them
Why do toxic people never recognise they're unwanted and keep off?
They don't know they are toxic unless someone tells them and when someone does tell them they won't accept it.
@@ChrisRoss2day I agree on that. So the best is to avoid them.
its really funny because your own family will try to break you. They are the main ones that want you down. They are not motivated to do anything and just want to feed off of your positivity and hard work
AMEN! ❤️ & THANK YOU! 👏. Wish you all the best for 2020 💫
It's true we cannot hang around with negative people be it family
Some actually get angry when you decide to raise the bar..on your own life. Its like..Why are you mad about what I'm doing for me?
I don’t have friends I can’t find good ones tried for decades they all changed to bad shit and took drugs
one of the best friend you could ever have is the present
moment b'cause it never says anything but counts what
you have done with it.
Just don’t assume that people are toxic. Some people, who do not share your views, actually make you think. They push you. They make you a better person. You don’t just want happy/“yes” people.
Vincent T. I’m sorry that you have a bad attitude around people who could actually teach you a thing or two. Your close mindedness and trolling are not my problem. I hope you have a nice day and a nice life. Please don’t end up surrounding yourself with people like yourself.
@@maryd1495
LOL LOL LOL
when I read your comment
" Just don't assume
that people are toxic.
Some people who do not
share your views, actually make you think. They push you.
They make you a better person.
You don't just want happy/"yes" people."
Toxic people is what
I been through 6 yrs.
This is an example
some people interpret
my heart trusting in the good heart I think and reason people have in them
than people wrongfully interpret and say of my heart trust
Iris is happy/"yes" people.
MD M
I'm the unhealthy toxic people
And Vincent says
" Shut up you're toxic "
Great Leaders are those who guide the worst people into best of possibility by Peace or by Force 🙏♥️🔥😎
Best video of December 2019. Thank you Fearless, Am fearless too.
What you do, always comes back to you...so do good!!!
Oh my God ,this is timely
Whenever you discovered that a friend envies you, stay away from him because a real friend doesn't envy you. Stay away also from friends who tries to cross your boundaries because they are people looking for a servant and not a friend.
Beware of your family members and/or relatives also, if they keep judging you like what they see is what they believe. For example they weren't there the moment you are cleaning the room but they suddenly appear and call you lazy because they saw you sitting without even realizing that you are resting. I pray that you may find a better job outside because my advice for you is to leave the house and go live an independent life but the key there is a better job whether part-time or full-time as long as you have no toxic workmates, no toxic boss, and a good salary.
Exactly I did that and I am advancing big time
This video make me cry because I am a good person and i choose people that i love that i thought was good for me. Now i realise that when i am in a shit everyone gone . Now am happy alone and i know what i want and i will achieve my goals that i didn't before.
Pietro scorpions , years ago I was affected by toxic people. I was bullied, made to doubt myself, made to feel weak. I avoided them. But after I left them I never trusted anybody and started to live alone and love myself and slowly I was turning into narcissist and I was starting to become toxic myself, and now im a full fledged narcissistic toxic person, all signs of of toxic mentality points to me. And it’s hard for me not to be toxic, I hurt the people I try to be friend with. The only hope for me now is to learn to live happily alone forever.
I’m just saying be carefull, u may end up being toxic, check urself from time to time if u re going on a path of toxic.
I wish some one said this to me years ago
What if your under 18 and controled by your toxic parents:( I feel like they aren't letting me grow as a person.
Read, meditate, be respectful, do your chores without been told, become a person of integrity, model successful people. You will be too busy learning and growing to let their negativity penetrate you. 🤗 and Enjoy and make the best of the positive moments with them.
I prayed for a way out and God gave me one! I pray for one for you too 😘! If you are almost 18 apply for scholarships, see if you can get into a Jr. College talk to a counselor there and see if you qualify for anything and everything! One girl I know got shelter vouchers and a free computer to do her homework on. Talk to your counselor where you go to school now. I did and even got free bus pass to school. You can always go to a shelter if you are 18. Some have job training programs with bus passes but you have to do footwork, call around, ask around, even some churchs have some programs. I'm praying for you 🙏😇 ♥️! Good luck and God bless you!!!
This is what happened to me and they destroyed me. I had to work my ass off to fix my self. This is what some parents do unfortunately
I joined the Army and 15 years later the benifits given back to me guaranteed my freedom. I'm done with the crap
Avere Mack I was & still are in some ways controlled by family. When I started to live on my own the got less but it's still there. Wish you all the best
I choose to hang around animals.
@REASON No
All this is already preached in the Bible. We have free will, and hability to choose to raise our standards.
This is power of words. Much respect. Am inspired love Y'all🥰🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤❤❤. Being around Negative people is like slow poison 😷😷😷🤮🤮🤮🤮
Ctrl+Alt+Del control your behavior alter your thinking delete negativity
Had To Hear This Twice
To Get it In My Soul....
Thank you,,,,So much
I Needed This,,,
I'm going play this to
it soak in my soul..
Energies are transferable if you are receptive to them as well as spending too much time but family is family. Always create new circles where you want to be, share common interest but do not forget.
Thank you. I needed to hear this❤️
This is the best vieo ever and most needed, add winners to your life and subtract the drainers equals a better life, what a bar 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
"Bad company RUINS good character" - 1 Corinthians 15:33
Classic line from the ancient literature
I have read almost all of Ur messages and everyone blaming others as toxic. Sometimes we become toxic to others and this is blinder for self first as we need to remove negativity and shall not demotivate others. I realise that myself being toxic to others and from now on will detoxify it.
Charged up with positivity 😊😊
There are those who will fit you in their free time and there are those who will create free time just for you.
Sometimes being toxic is either from experience or product of personal choices, you don’t need to get along with them instead learn from them and have a deeper understanding about their situation why they became like that, people are not perfect by nature but we can be happy despite of our imperfections
First, deal with yourself, alot of the time what you see in others is inside you, but you just dont see it. This is self reflection, look at what others think, say and do and then take a look at inside you, because there is only 1 person you are accountable for before the Lord your God ALMIGHTY is you. Don't judge, pray for one another and lift one another up. Let your yes be yes, and your no be no. Do good to those whom persecute you, love your enemy. We are in a SPIRITUAL WAR between good and evil and we ALL have the knowledge of good and evil. Be blessed SHALOM 🙏❤🕊 Jesus saves souls!
Maaaan, how can you dislike these words? i think only trolls can dislike these powerful words. Amazing content guys.
AMEN! HALLELUJAH! THANK YOU YESHUA! THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS VERY FIERCE MESSAGE! WOW! ITS A POWERHOUSE! I MOST DEFINITELY WAS NEEDING TO HEAR THIS TODAY! 🔥❤ PRAYERS AND BLESSINGS SENT YOUR WAY TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS!