Julien & Owen Talk About Facing Knee-Weakening Adversity And How To Come Out Stronger Than Ever!

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  • Julien Blanc & Owen Cook open up about the extreme challenges they've faced... And what they did to come out stronger!
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    Julien & Owen Talk About Facing Knee-Weakening Adversity And How To Come Out Stronger Than Ever!
    In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) & Owen Cook (Owen Cook Free Tour & Owen Cook High Status Communication & Owen Cook Success & Owen Cook Motivation) reveal their best tools & mindsets when it comes to facing adversity (Julien Blanc scandal), dealing with adversity (Julien Blanc cnn), building resilience and overcoming adversity.
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  • @JulienHimself
    @JulienHimself  3 роки тому +3

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  • @HiNinqi
    @HiNinqi 8 років тому +119

    "You cant fuck up this life... No matter what you do... it doesn't matter. Either you take the risk, and.. it goes well-,or even if it doesn't-that's the lesson here- you'll learn from it. It's what you needed. No matter what you do, no matter what you choose: it's the right choice. Even if it goes down its leading you back to where you should be anyway. It leads back to that universal question, "am i doing it right?" Yeah you are. You're doing it right" - Julien Blanc

    • @wysowe
      @wysowe 6 років тому +1

      Woahhhh

    • @beseke7981
      @beseke7981 6 років тому +4

      I just screenshoted your comment and made it my lock screen and wallpaper after some cropping that quote is crazy

    • @nikonxxx
      @nikonxxx 6 років тому +1

      I can't believe this guy is my age, he has seen a
      lot.

    • @kacakci5870
      @kacakci5870 2 роки тому +1

      You're free to chose your pain

  • @KrisRenfrow
    @KrisRenfrow 4 роки тому +88

    Professional hockey career was put on hold. My business was put on hold. Lost 4 sources of income. Lost my girlfriend who has been my best friend for 4 years. I’m sitting here going through old PUA content to make sense of it all. Thanks for keeping this one up Julien. Time to get after it.

    • @KrisRenfrow
      @KrisRenfrow 4 роки тому +3

      joh nypotapov friends before dating

    • @jonathonharbeck7287
      @jonathonharbeck7287 4 роки тому +7

      Sounds like you are a winner bro and if you don’t end up thriving Ill be shocked

    • @KrisRenfrow
      @KrisRenfrow 4 роки тому +10

      Jonathon Harbeck thank you bro! Things have gotten a lot better. Shit happens but you just gotta dust yourself off and grind 💪🏻

    • @cfh0611
      @cfh0611 3 роки тому +8

      Hey Kris
      I had a similar experience around this time last year. Every single area of my life collapsed right under me. My first love that I was with for 4.5 years left me, I was having visa troubles so I was going to get deported, I dropped out of my masters program, and all of my friends left me. It was one of the most shocking experiences of my entire life. The pain was crippling and I almost didn’t make it out. A year later, I’m finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. I hope you’re doing better and I hope you took the time to get to know yourself and experience a rebirth like I did.
      We’ll come out of this mentally bulletproof.
      Hang in there bro.

    • @KrisRenfrow
      @KrisRenfrow 3 роки тому +12

      @@cfh0611 Thank you for telling me your story man. I’m in a new fulfilling relationship, started hockey back up, and have exponentially expanded my business. I’m earning about 3x what I did prior to COVID. I think the biggest thing to keep in mind when going thru BS is just working harder. You just have to use that negative energy to fuel you. Keep grinding bro. Maybe we’ll cross paths 💪🏻

  • @JulienHimself
    @JulienHimself  8 років тому +81

    Happy Holidays!!! Been editing all day trying to get this out for you in time, so I hope you enjoy it! ;)
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    • @lotwfan1
      @lotwfan1 8 років тому +1

      +JulienHimself i wanna be your intern

    • @chandlerbing7269
      @chandlerbing7269 8 років тому

      +JulienHimself NICEEEE 4K!!!!

    • @harrymatadeen
      @harrymatadeen 8 років тому

      +lotwfan1 stepupgame! step the fuck up!!!

    • @OptimizeYourJourney
      @OptimizeYourJourney 8 років тому +2

      +JulienHimself truly amazing speech , thank you .

    • @Gladovich
      @Gladovich 8 років тому +7

      +JulienHimself You guys together put out best material in the whole wide world! This video, breakup video and tylers video with luke about love are the best things ever put out on internet! These videos are life fucking changing!!! THANK YOU GUYS!!!

  • @jmshadrach9338
    @jmshadrach9338 8 років тому +27

    Dude, that was incredible. "You can't fuck up this life" gave me the chills

  • @e.wt.d2393
    @e.wt.d2393 5 років тому +15

    If you’re going through a break up right now read this.
    I went though a break up. I’ve had a week of complete panic and stress, no sleep didn’t eat, I was puking from stress and anxiety, everything was hopeless, I needed her back, everything would be different.
    Watching this I knew everything they were saying was right, but for ME I’m going to be different. High school sweethearts, I was set on everything I was thinking. How I would change and live happily ever after. And if not I just wanted to die.
    It hits me harder than most people but I guess it doesn’t last as long. It’s been like a week and I see the future of myself. I’m going to make money, get out, fuck girls (prob still out of pain). The world has opened up.
    If you’re in the lowest place right now and you watch these videos you’re definitely someone who thrives after it. Feel as shit as you want, don’t fight it, it LITERALLY is only time that will heal you, and you’ll bounce back better than ever. I’m not there yet but it’s what I see for myself. Just ride the wave lying on the board, and when possible, stand up and do some fucking backflips and shit.
    You’ll get there. People love you and you will love again.

    • @zachs652
      @zachs652 4 роки тому +2

      E.W T.D Thanks man dealing with a really tough breakup right now

    • @futurerush2560
      @futurerush2560 4 роки тому

      Any update?
      I'm having breakup discussions with my girlfriend of 6 years.
      I had mad chemistry with another girl and it spun me out. Would I regret not pursuing it for the rest of my life?
      I don't know whether to break up. My girlfriend would always be there for me. I see single life as growth, but surely I could keep growing with my gf... Headfuck!
      Anyway, how are you doing now?

    • @e.wt.d2393
      @e.wt.d2393 4 роки тому +1

      Daily Stillness hey man sorry to hear that.
      For the first month I was doing horrible, but it was like “I’m doing bad right now but I’m gonna stick it out”. After 2 weeks I banged 2 girls... it really didn’t make me feel any better. After the month I decided to start working out, still in pain didn’t work out too well but it definitely got my back on my feet feeling like I’m making progress.
      The next couple of months I was able to focus on my studies and had my best semester ever. All these little wins accumulated and I regained the confidence I had lost.
      Talking to girls again was a bit strange because it’s like I had unlearned my game. Must have been 4 or 5 months before I even bothered with girls, I literally just put it out of my mind.
      I started talking to one, then 2, and now it’s 5 or 6. I haven’t had a real crush since I was 13 but there’s this girl that has just amazed me for months now, and I’ve recently started seeing her too.
      I literally feel like the king of the world right now. Not because of the external things like success and girls, but the mental perseverance to fall to the bottom and come back stronger than I ever had.
      The uncertainty of losing a girl you have this connection and comfort with really throws you in the deep end, but the risks you take to come out better than ever is worth it a hundred times over.
      I rarely have bad days now. It’s funny I crashed and fucked up my car yesterday and yeah it’s fucking shit and I was pissed off, but I didn’t fret, just immediately got to work on finding parts to fix it, and I love every second of it.
      It’s hard to explain but the mental strength I have accumulated the past 8 months of just taking that plunge and coming out on top makes me feel like nothing can stop me. Maybe it’s a bubble waiting to pop, but for now I’ve honestly never felt even close to this good in my life.
      And my ex is now obsessed with me. Funny how that happens.
      For you I think like, the grass is always greener, do you really want to throw what you have with your girlfriend away? You gotta understand that everything will change. You have to understand that it’ll probably be unbearable, and I feel like jumping ship to another girl isn’t the greatest of decisions, but then again I’ve never done it so who knows?
      But look, if you have the hunger to grow, throwing away the security of a relationship for the uncertainty of single life and truly trusting yourself that you’ll be okay is the best thing you can do. Keeping one foot in the door is way worse than staying in a bad relationship or going full single. You really have to make a solid decision.
      Maybe in 6 months time you’ll reply back to this and you can tell me about the amazing experiences you’ve had since.
      Good luck my man!

  • @StanislavKozlovsk
    @StanislavKozlovsk 8 років тому +52

    These kind of videos where Owen speaks are my only source of hope atm

    • @AlbertKingboss
      @AlbertKingboss 4 роки тому +1

      Hope you're doing good man

    • @StanislavKozlovsk
      @StanislavKozlovsk 4 роки тому +9

      @@AlbertKingboss I'm doing amazing, thanks for checking in. Depression is definitely a thing of the past for me :)
      How are you holding up, Albert?

    • @AlbertKingboss
      @AlbertKingboss 4 роки тому +1

      @@StanislavKozlovsk I'm glad! Doing good man, thanks for asking :)

  • @mav6232
    @mav6232 6 років тому +39

    0:00 owen- intro on the importance of adversity
    4:00 juliens experience with scandal
    ur narrative vs theirs
    8:50 core values
    11:00 media scandal- clips of julien in his defence
    17:00 EKHART TOLLE- pain body
    27:00 owen on his experience with the book 'the game'
    (really positive segment)
    33:20 some of the best guys owen knows come through pick up
    35:10 continue reminding yourself why u got intothis
    + owen re-finding his love for the game after his breakup
    owen watched his own vids to put his mind back to mentalities that he had which he forgot
    38:00 owen being rally unhappy growing up
    41:30 some of owens view of women
    45:00 how to get through adversity
    46:20 julien get the mic, talks about risk exactly when I need to hear it
    'u cant fuck up this life'.
    thank you owen

    • @jpmking9635
      @jpmking9635 4 роки тому

      IDK about that not fucking up this life. all my neighbors have done exactly that. they are just losers. we have a society of losers. if you are not a loser you will get shamed by the MSM loser ass official narrative of the cia cocktail of ignorance and willful obedience.....

    • @petzzz5900
      @petzzz5900 4 роки тому

      @@jpmking9635 you senseless bitch

    • @amantin
      @amantin 4 роки тому +1

      my guy ! thanks

    • @hardstyle3196
      @hardstyle3196 Рік тому +1

      🔥

    • @christiansantia6o511
      @christiansantia6o511 6 місяців тому

      You’re a G 💯 thanks

  • @deadalusdx5637
    @deadalusdx5637 8 років тому +21

    This is the first video where I was more interested in hearing what Julian was saying than what Tyler was saying. Julian had a sick, out of the world , charismatic aura around him.

    • @oh7041
      @oh7041 8 років тому +1

      +Brian N lol

  • @GSPV33
    @GSPV33 8 років тому +15

    You're a hero of mine Julien. Thank you for not giving in to the darkness after everything that happened. Thank you for showing us you can come out of it stronger.

  • @michaelbaucum6787
    @michaelbaucum6787 5 років тому +6

    I think it's amazing how terrified people are of each other in general. And yet how INDISPENSABLE we are to each other's growth and self-realization. Julien and Tyler emphasize putting yourself "out there" as probably the main key for growing. I like that. I LOVE that. It's so right and so pure. People are the most important thing we have in our lives.

  • @venorm3715
    @venorm3715 8 років тому +34

    Holly shit Julien looks so out of this world in this video...everything flows perfectly...his sick clothes, his haircut and beard.

    • @JazzHagen
      @JazzHagen 8 років тому +2

      +Venor Maddox He is a handsome male

    • @cciid
      @cciid 8 років тому +3

      +Venor Maddox I felt that too. I'm sure things like aura have something to do with it.

    • @xBlindFerretx
      @xBlindFerretx 8 років тому +1

      +‡ cciid Wow.. come on now. It's all very simple, you're talking like it's out of reach to buy a pair of jeans and a plain black long sleeve shirt. Or to get your hair cut, or to trim your beard.

    • @cciid
      @cciid 8 років тому +2

      xBlindFerretx ahh...it seems you don't know what we're referring to.

    • @xBlindFerretx
      @xBlindFerretx 8 років тому +1

      ‡ cciid It would seem that way, but hey, this is an open forum, context is usually lost for those not involved.

  • @iamnatekea
    @iamnatekea 2 роки тому +12

    I love you guys. Thank you for helping me and so many others through hard times. You guys were put here to do this. Definitely a divine calling on your lives.

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  2 роки тому +8

      Glad our teachings have helped you so much! That's why we do what we do! 🙏

  • @InReality33
    @InReality33 2 роки тому +2

    Julien and Owen are SO respectful to each other! I would kill to have a friendship like this.

  • @beseke7981
    @beseke7981 6 років тому +3

    This video legit just saved me from my mindset I swear to God I'm in awe right now completely different view right now love u both from the true true true bottom of my heart I pray we meet one day

  • @diggitydoo3502
    @diggitydoo3502 8 років тому +21

    24:39 "If you're clowning to generate its good, if you're clowning to take its bad"

  • @christam24
    @christam24 8 років тому +27

    46:27 julien goes on the most inspirational romp i've ever heard !!

  • @Danygotaworldtosee
    @Danygotaworldtosee 8 років тому +17

    one of the best video, julien in his prime

  • @iiexplore1
    @iiexplore1 3 роки тому +4

    One of the best RSD videos ever created. Everything in this vid I've been through, and owen and Julien are 100% correct

  • @yourtub8705
    @yourtub8705 8 років тому +17

    From the ashes we rise, born anew.

  • @yang5843
    @yang5843 8 років тому +6

    Great video man.
    Here's the transcribed summary of what Julien said at the end of his video, for those that want it:
    Keep putting yourself out there. Keep expanding. What you think is discomfort, what you think is bad. In reality, that's where you feel good, that's where you are expanding. If you cut that off, you go back to stagnating. Because you cut off, that source of say, fulfillment. The only place you'll find joy and happiness is in the taking. You're in your comfort zone, you're not expanding. The only way you can feel good is those dirty highs, of dopamine hit, of just taking. Get off that. Decondition yourself from that. Get out of your comfort zone. Start taking the risks. You may not like it at first and it may not sound very pleasant. Like you know, go where it's "uncomfortable". Like again, if you're used to the highs, it's not going to be as intense. But once you're hooked on that. You're hooked on the internal fulfillment. You'll never go back. You'll never want to go back. There's no finish line. This is the whole saying, you know, life is a journey, not a destination. It's about growth and the internal fulfillment you get from putting yourself out there, day after day after day after day.

    • @michaelsmith8401
      @michaelsmith8401 7 років тому

      dopamine highs and then shocking risks. what are examples of highs and risks? in your opinion, what's the wrong way and what's the right way?

  • @AlomongerPete
    @AlomongerPete 8 років тому +3

    I really love the direction RSD has been heading in. Linking pickup to pragmatic spirituality is awesome. Can't believe you started talking about Power VS Force.

    • @jpmking9635
      @jpmking9635 4 роки тому

      the thing is the have basically become castrated in what they can actually post. if the media was dominated by snowflakes that get offended by reality, what they post would be way different.

  • @jabara83
    @jabara83 6 років тому +2

    I'm so glad I found this! I feel a bit late to this, but here's my situation; my dad died 13 months, and this summer of 2017 was absolute hell. I remember the maturity and the grit that I had coming out of that. I'm only 23 but I feel like I aged at least 10 years over that one summer. I almost think of it as a blessing, although I couldn't see it back then. It's almost more of a curse not to have to deal with these hellish situations.

  • @joclavet
    @joclavet 8 років тому +4

    went through something similar on a small scale in my town... I connected so much to this video, brought tears to my eyes

  • @XtremeTheElite
    @XtremeTheElite 8 років тому +7

    I've been watching yours as well as everyone in RSD's videos for almost going on a year now and man they really changed my life. Just started 1st year of college in September and all these videos really help motivate me to get shit done and improve as much as possible. Thanks for you all the videos ! Merry Christmas to everyone!

  • @ROCEMPOWERMENT
    @ROCEMPOWERMENT 5 років тому +1

    so many gems here...especially for those who are going through a break up....listen closely boys

  • @VakmanCA
    @VakmanCA 8 років тому +3

    Probably the best video from RSD. Simple but yet powerful. Congrats guys.

  • @PlayaBoss96
    @PlayaBoss96 8 років тому +9

    This is the most profound video you guys have made, I resonate so much with this going through a traumatic experience earlier this year. Keep on going Julien! You are the shit

  • @duranjerome
    @duranjerome 2 роки тому +3

    Losing a woman you love will rip your soul away. I understand what you mean when you say you feel a part of you died

  • @Mkgin22
    @Mkgin22 8 років тому +4

    Yea this vid is insane, thankyou Julien & Tyler. It's like viewing it from the bigger picture, like you said on the end we need the ups and downs.

  • @JoseMartinez-fw7ex
    @JoseMartinez-fw7ex 4 роки тому +1

    Rsd has actually in some weird way changed my life. I took a self help seminar from these guys and there I realized these guys do care about people and want them to prosper, who in their right minds would go through the hardships these guys went through just help people out.

  • @buklau9598
    @buklau9598 8 років тому +9

    Dude! Your closing statement hit me right in the feels... I love you man! keep it up!

  • @brucelee9941
    @brucelee9941 8 років тому +4

    Absolutely the best video made for our growth, we all been through hell of an experience let's all embrace this lesson of growth!

  • @jonathonharbeck7287
    @jonathonharbeck7287 4 роки тому +1

    Just started reading 7 habits by Covey. The first story about his son reminds me of what Owen is talking about. If we treat ourselves like we are capable of strength we somehow find that strength and a new identity. This is beautiful stuff.

  • @ThomasArnoldFilms
    @ThomasArnoldFilms 8 років тому +1

    This is so real. I'm almost entranced by what Tyler and Julien are saying. Thank you for such unbelievable content

  • @stilnessspeaks8104
    @stilnessspeaks8104 8 років тому +8

    DUDE THIS VIDEO JUST CAME AT THE PERFECT TIME FOR ME! I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL JULIEN. LOVE.

  • @aaronthomas2598
    @aaronthomas2598 5 років тому +4

    Drop the self image paradigm. Move to action paradigm.

  • @MagnumOpusYT
    @MagnumOpusYT 6 років тому +1

    Can I just say this is absolute wisdom. It reminds me of a quote I once heard and also really similarly linked to what JBP discusses. "As you expose yourself to annihilation, you find what is indestructible"

  • @poeticanswers
    @poeticanswers 8 років тому +5

    Another way to view putting yourself out there is the more you give, the
    more you receive. Afraid to take risks because we fear emotional pain when
    people choose not to receive us. We’ve been condition to believe that it is “okay”
    to freak out when things out of your control doesn’t go the way we want them
    to. Truth is, we can only control how the energy flows through us (our
    attitude), not how it flows through others.

  • @Sammysouris
    @Sammysouris 8 років тому +1

    Damn it man - it is so powerful listening to those stuff from warriors and not "monks"... I would never listen to the soft palms kind of guys - but I listen to you and those things resonate so deeply! Thank you for sharing. It motivates me to continue my journey and add value to the world like you do...

  • @unicorngirl0369
    @unicorngirl0369 11 місяців тому

    I know exactly what Owen is referring to with the spinning feeling in the head / brain or even moreso the entire nervous system. I also know what you are saying Julien about provoking for a reaction versus sharing for the sake of an offering to the divine. I needed ro hear this right now. I genuinely love and appreciate you both so much for being so vulnerable and sharing your incredible journey with the world. 🙏🏻🤍✨

  • @eivindskandsen622
    @eivindskandsen622 8 років тому +1

    Vrily good video! It is vrily noticeable to see precense/concious in both Julien and Tyler, and to see how good their game or lifesituation has become. It is joyfull! Thanks for sharing!

  • @alessandrogracietti5281
    @alessandrogracietti5281 8 років тому +1

    Words cannot describe how much you guys have been changing my life. Thank you for everything.

  • @DuckODuckProductions
    @DuckODuckProductions 4 роки тому +2

    Great talk. Really needed to re-watch this one right now. Thanks again for everything you guys have done.

  • @Jacoozzi
    @Jacoozzi 7 років тому +1

    Thanks for sharing. Really helped me out to structure my head in a right way. I even wrote down Julien's quote which seemed eye-opening: "You can’t fuck up this life. No matter what you do or no matter what you choose - it’s a right choice. Even if it goes down, it’s leading you back to where you should go anyway. There is no fucking up."

  • @Cwatson124055
    @Cwatson124055 8 років тому +1

    Thank you for reinforcing this idea home guys. The idea that we are moulded by our tribulations is something I've been thinking about after reading Social Intelligence by Goleman. He talks about how children develop into either being avoidant, anxiety prone, or comfortable and its all shaped by stress being introduced early on and learning to cope with it. It's strange to think the prevailing thought right now is to limit yourself from negative feedback from the world and to do all these "affirmations" highlighting how wonderful we think we are. It seems backwards when linking this to actual progress though. How could we ever grow if we think were we are is perfect?

  • @frankiepiciullo9033
    @frankiepiciullo9033 8 років тому +1

    rsd changed my life , seriously i can walk into any set and just let go and literally not care if i hook the girl or not. when you get to the point i'm at its fascinating seeing the girls chase you.

  • @clairekamm2861
    @clairekamm2861 7 років тому +1

    Waking up from a dream. As you evolve u look at previous years as a dream

  • @karan.5597
    @karan.5597 2 роки тому

    Had a dark night in my business as I didn't thought an year ago that I need to assume a leader's role.
    Faced betrayals, heartbreaks, burn out, tons of childhood friends getting married and my world is going 180.
    Glad I came across this one

  • @phoenixxalan
    @phoenixxalan 8 років тому +1

    Thanks a lot Tyler and Julien for all the videos this year. I wish you a great 2016!

  • @mezouaryoussef1990
    @mezouaryoussef1990 8 років тому +2

    Mind blowing video, perfect timing for me ! You guys are awesome ;)

  • @JMTUNES96
    @JMTUNES96 6 років тому +10

    Be indifferent to negative and positive circumstances, the ability to walk away from a negative situation takes strength, but the ability to walk away from something pleasurable is freedom. Everyone is a complete entity which needs nothing external to be complete... You are animated by the same energy that flows the river or grows the tree. There are no mistakes, quit believing in concepts that limit your experience. Live to express, not to impress. Detatch from the outcome and let go of your view of how things "should" be. Let life suprise you. Discipline yourself and always learn. Life will be painful and uncomfortable so you may as well use it to grow. Time will pass regardless so you may as well take action. There is nothing to figure out or try and understand, the problems you have are caused by overthinking. Just take action

    • @FictionSourceX
      @FictionSourceX 6 років тому

      Opey Beats beautiful. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @robichard
      @robichard 6 років тому

      Opey Beats - brilliantly articulated !

    • @robichard
      @robichard 6 років тому

      Please send me a copy of your comment. It was so powerful!

  • @NicolasWaldvogel
    @NicolasWaldvogel 8 років тому +1

    Awesome video guys! I think key to all this is HUMILITY. I think both Julien and Tyler seem much more humble and therefore more in touch with reality here than ever before. Being humble whilst knowing your own values and identity is KEY in my opinion. Maybe not just because we are human but also, because there might be a higher instance? Think about it! Happy Christmas everyone!

  • @50kT
    @50kT 8 років тому +3

    At 36:20 Tyler talks about something I've been thinking a lot about - that theres a next level of game where instead of just attracting girls in general (who randomly have an effect on your mind and personality); that after you've realized how relationships affect you, you can begin to see that there are SOME women who actually bring out the best of your core values. And you have to be smart and wise enough to realize it and not blow her off as just some average chick.

  • @SturL
    @SturL 8 років тому

    Thank you so much for this video Julien and Owen. I've been through a very similar experience the last few months. I hosted you in both Prague and Bucharest this fall Julien, and your seminar was amazing.
    What happened in Bucharest though, actually the same day as the seminar, was that I woke up to a panic attack. When the most intense, reality shattering fear wore off I was left with jittery, paranoid, nervous anxiety. I haven't had one for 4 years, and the first one I had was 7 years ago - coincidentally in the same period I discovered Owen and pick-up as a whole. The first time it left me incapacitated for for around 6 months and the second time for 3-4 weeks. This time however, I decided it would not limit me anymore. That shit took so much from me when I was younger, and I made a commitment to myself that I would never again let fear hold me back. Now, 12 weeks later, I feel stronger, happier and more peaceful than ever - but I really think that I needed that experience, even though it ironically came at a time I was feeling really well and immersing myself in only good stuff like not drinking or smoking, meditating, working out, doing PU every day and night, working on projects etc. It re-centered me and made me again realize what is really important to me.
    2016 looks like it's going to be the greatest year ever for me and a lot of my friends, and I'm confident that I'll meet it head on with more prowess and mental fortitude than ever before. Thank you so much for everything you've shared the last year, and I hope to see you both either in the coming year or the next. Much love. -Stu

  • @ShoaibKhan-bz5qm
    @ShoaibKhan-bz5qm 4 роки тому +2

    You guys have definitely made the impact; I can guarantee on at least my life - holy shit without these videos I would have probably given up to be honest with you

  • @GuilhermeUlguim
    @GuilhermeUlguim 8 років тому +69

    There were two times that I went solo to a club. I approached the entire club and I guess I kissed three girls. On the first night a guy threw a beer in my face. The guy got aggressive because I ran and jumped on a step and tapped a girl on the shoulder, when she turned back and came close to hear what I said I kissed her on the head and she giggled: that's how I opened. When the guy got aggressive I just smiled, took shirt off and put it on my shoulder. The beer had spilled on the people near me and they supported me when the bouncers came. Afterwards I walked to get a taxi but got robbed, because where I live it is very dangerous (the city), and have a lot of feminists.
    On the second night I went back to the club by foot because I was short of money. I kissed two girls. I talked with one of the girls to try to pull but failed, though I did get her number on paper. I don't have a car, so I try to pull straight to the house. I tried to say that we would go to McDonalds first but didn't work. The girl is virgin and i got her naked in bed (I live with my parents) but her mother called her and literally cock-blocked me by distance. So any tips for me to pull?
    I'm 21 years old, I'm from Brazil and I also do day game, and now I'm starting to do twenty minutes of meditation eyes open, eat good food, I will definitely run like a maniac saying I'm free with my shirt ripped off in the front of the whole club one night.

    • @xBlindFerretx
      @xBlindFerretx 8 років тому +6

      +Guilherme Ferreira Ulguim You sound like you'd be annoying as hell to be around, especially in a club.

    • @derekkase7884
      @derekkase7884 8 років тому +20

      +xBlindFerretx he has balls I'll give him that, thats what it takes to succeed in anything.

    • @LisaM-mi8lk
      @LisaM-mi8lk 8 років тому +10

      Inspirational bro!

    • @garofiespinoza3503
      @garofiespinoza3503 8 років тому +10

      u have balls mate :)

    • @vittorioborro4241
      @vittorioborro4241 7 років тому +4

      respect

  • @vastjayk6976
    @vastjayk6976 2 роки тому +1

    I need to watch this on repeat. Heavily applies to my life situation.

  • @CameronhillTv
    @CameronhillTv 8 років тому +1

    I really appreciate you guys so much for putting yourselves out there like this. It's exactly like you said, just expand, and inspire others to do the same, and you've really led by example here. I think this video tops the breakup video in its authenticity, rawness, and impact. Thank you so much for this Julien and Tyler. I feel like I've raised my level of consciousness slightly just from watching this video. Thanks again. I love you guys.

  • @crazylazy1212
    @crazylazy1212 8 років тому +1

    Awesome Vid! Thanks for clarifying the notion of "Being Awake". I'm feeling like that suddenly it feels weird. I simply view others around me as "Sleeping", which makes me feel an alien or something. Nice to know I'm making progress.

  • @lbridge9015
    @lbridge9015 7 років тому +2

    Julien love the vids! self improvement is something I'm always working on and I get a lot out of rsd contact u put out! Keep up the depth thought of what really matters. it's really helping me looking that things in a different shift and I'm sure others thing that same way!

    • @mystertman8573
      @mystertman8573 7 років тому

      Lbridge90 Lava Look at some Eckhart tolle videos. there you have some next level self improvement

  • @spencercharlotte297
    @spencercharlotte297 5 років тому +2

    I would say this is one of the best vids ya'll have got

  • @loudborker63
    @loudborker63 8 років тому +1

    These videos always help me out during tough times. Thanks a lot!

  • @iminmedia4669
    @iminmedia4669 8 років тому +7

    the spaceship analogy is fucking on point ! !

  • @nacerjamil7351
    @nacerjamil7351 8 років тому

    I keep coming back to rewatch the video every day. I think this is the 30 times I Watch it . it's just amazing.

  • @louisnathan1831
    @louisnathan1831 7 років тому

    3:14 Whenever I think about who I'd be if I never found this channel, I get fucking scared, and then I start to feel really good about my life and incredibly thankful

  • @Mrfoo2002
    @Mrfoo2002 8 років тому +1

    love this video. excellent vulnerability and honesty. a testament to the maturation of rsd. bravo#

  • @harveyspecter3361
    @harveyspecter3361 8 років тому

    Holy Fucking Shit.
    This is one of the realest and deepest videos ever!
    I did not know all your prior history Julien and Tyler, much respect, now your new channel and persona make sense (I like your new persona ;)).
    Don't forget to still take action, just let your ego be exposed to unknown situation so it feels threatened and rewires itself.
    I had a big crush on a chick from work, and on her party (and after asking her out for many times with getting mixed yes and no answers) I couldn't let go and asked her why she did not want to hang out while her father and best friend were the only ones left on the party plus I was kinda drunk.
    This was such an awkward ego CRUSHING moment about me I felt fucking shit.
    However, now I learned crushes are mental manipulation of neediness plus I can do stupid shit, feel bad, but after some time 'healing' you see in the end it is all experience and lessons.
    Experience and learn fast!
    Amen for this video!

  • @elmikatv
    @elmikatv 8 років тому +2

    Huge inspiration thank you for sharing!

  • @koilk
    @koilk 8 років тому +9

    RSDTyler and Julien should both start their own Vlog channel.

    • @dodont9679
      @dodont9679 8 років тому +15

      +koilk plz no ,thats just annoying

  • @arjenrobbben
    @arjenrobbben 8 років тому +1

    Thank you so much, great content guys :)

  • @kolos4650
    @kolos4650 6 років тому

    No words. This is one of the most important videos on UA-cam.

  • @bdizz19
    @bdizz19 4 роки тому

    Unstoppable
    That's you. Even the toughest issues are no match!

  • @brucedaspruce1545
    @brucedaspruce1545 6 років тому

    I realize how old this video is now, but I just wanted to say dang, man, I'm really glad Tyler survived this crazy car crash. Maybe a lesson in not taking things too seriously and not taking anything for granted. Notice the blessings every single day and remember how beautiful life is.

  • @JWOlson-bt2ch
    @JWOlson-bt2ch 8 років тому

    julien is such a captivating speaker. so authentic

  • @guitarabe92
    @guitarabe92 8 років тому +2

    One of the best videos I've seen, thank you Julien and Owen

  • @nineteeneightyfour843
    @nineteeneightyfour843 8 років тому +1

    Thanks guys for this awsome video. i'm watching your stuff and it inspire me to start new motivation channel

  • @RedShipsofSpainAgain
    @RedShipsofSpainAgain 5 років тому +1

    5:25 exactly. Who remembers that film about Mark Zuckerberg, Social Network? The whole motivation behind Mark's making of Facebook was that breakup with his girlfriend. The pain sat with him and transformed him to build something. Granted FB is pseudo spyware, but no one can deny his company has had on the world in the last decade.
    Point is, to grow, you have to embrace the pain and let it mold you. I think the hands down most underrated scene from that film is when he finds out his ex gf is seeing some new guy. He's talking to his friend Edwardo and you can just see how hurt he is by the interaction with the girl, and how well he channels that pain to his actions. He says, "We have to expand." Sit in the pain and disappointment and hurt for awhile. Not indefinitely, but enough to let you reflect and learn and GROW from it. Anyway, that was long.

  • @VishalChomal
    @VishalChomal 8 років тому +1

    Julien n Tyler - u guys Rock. As always great thoughts and views. Keep inspiring.

  • @mischifischi
    @mischifischi 5 років тому +1

    This is pure gold!
    Thank you so much Julien!

  • @garofiespinoza3503
    @garofiespinoza3503 8 років тому +3

    julien is on another level here

  • @maxroy5246
    @maxroy5246 5 років тому +2

    In my experience, congruency is the most important part of all the rsd stuff. They talk a LOT, and its amazing but at the same time dont forget they know most of their viewers are suckers, and they cater to you. But if nothing else, practice presence and congruence to your personality. Believe in your heart that your interests are cool. Believe your dreams can be manifested. Believe people are inherently relatable. Believe you can talk to anyone about anything. I think they have a video called be a legend in your own mind. Paradoxically, be incredibly humble, but let that be a huge part of what makes you so legendary. Take some shrooms with your friends, go skydiving, take a hike deep in some wilderness, travel to another country, fuck some beautiful women, be creative and promote yourself. Never talk negatively, but if you do, do it with good humor. Run around on all fours like an animal and beat your chest and let out some barbarian yells. You’ll figure it out(:

  • @ThirdWorldPastries
    @ThirdWorldPastries 2 роки тому +1

    This old content is so fucking helpful

  • @balconcitos
    @balconcitos 6 років тому

    “You can’t fuck this life up.” Most profound thing I’ve ever heard

  • @MEfi619
    @MEfi619 7 років тому

    Extreme!
    I'm really glad that you guys are connecting all these pickup stuff with deeper things.
    Pickup is just a tool!

  • @shento2edgy183
    @shento2edgy183 7 років тому +3

    what are some core values? One of mine has to be integrity/honesty. But this can sometimes hurt people.

  • @nicolasl9331
    @nicolasl9331 7 років тому

    Another awesome video! This is gold guys.
    Thanks for the sharing!
    Keep the hustle going!!

  • @boodang8161
    @boodang8161 2 роки тому

    'Knee weakening adversity' very powerful words

  • @kemuelaraujo6846
    @kemuelaraujo6846 8 років тому

    One of the best videos i've seen. Thanks RSD, you guys change lives.

  • @svenjensen600
    @svenjensen600 8 років тому +19

    I think I have something in both my eyes

  • @danielstb8819
    @danielstb8819 8 років тому

    amazing video, great conversation, great value, it rezonates alot with me, these videos stimulates my thinking so much. Thank you!

  • @harrymatadeen
    @harrymatadeen 8 років тому

    wow Julien's taking his shit to a whole new level!!

  • @bensteph8755
    @bensteph8755 8 років тому

    Amizing vidioe!!!! one of your best!!!! I loved that you talked in on deep things. and you really impact me on the deep levels

  • @brestmoor
    @brestmoor 8 років тому

    This video is incredible. Opened my eyes. At least for the time of listening to it. Thanks a lot!

  • @Adam-bq6ic
    @Adam-bq6ic 6 років тому +1

    Thank you guys for this video.

  • @bi2u4787
    @bi2u4787 8 років тому

    Some real solid stuff, excellent perception towards Adversity. Awesome talk guys!

  • @harrisonlaible6923
    @harrisonlaible6923 4 роки тому +2

    29:00: "drop self image... I live life more out here than in here"

  • @LouStoriale
    @LouStoriale 8 років тому

    Great analogy with the Candida example creating hunger to feed itself. Great!! 19:00

  • @shitmandood
    @shitmandood 8 років тому

    Interesting to hear about that update on The Game. Yeah, Owen is sort of looked at as a villain & one time I believed that. But now I see him as a person. It's like finding yourself on the wrong side of history, at least for a moment. Learning how to get through that is very inspirational...

  • @harolddiaz1097
    @harolddiaz1097 7 років тому

    I can't say which member of rsd I learn more from this humans or individuals are a value to the male society in this era of how women are today