9 signs she's emotionally cheating on you

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  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  6 місяців тому +1

    Catch a cheating partner by checking out this secret recorder: Link to the KT1000 secret recorder: knightsecurity.io/products/mini-voice-recorder-and-mp3-player?rs_ref=d3qtY4gZ

  • @NeyCD83
    @NeyCD83 2 роки тому +188

    Guys we are done chasing women we are chasing money( dollar ), education, and peace of mind.

  • @atem1446
    @atem1446 Рік тому +496

    This is the most comprehensive, understandable, well-presented historical spy site overview I have heard from any online agency. I have subscribed to and shared your channel with friends around the world. Whoever created *Brian Hacks Online* that particular spy site deserves the highest of journalistic accolades. Bravo!

  • @ericwren2507
    @ericwren2507 Рік тому +18

    If a woman is gonna go, she gonna go. You can't stop her. Just let her go and do you

  • @olakunle8393
    @olakunle8393 3 роки тому +26

    💯. I agree with you.. But if a woman want to cheat, they would and never look back.

  • @at6851
    @at6851 3 роки тому +130

    A person who has decided to cheat will find a way to cheat. U can't police ur partner 24/7. If u have reasons to doubt ur partner's faithfulness, talk about it with them. When u feel u can't trust them, leave the relationship.
    Trust is key in a relationship.

    • @jawansherrod4581
      @jawansherrod4581 2 роки тому +3

      True

    • @dfn19
      @dfn19 2 роки тому

      Trust seems to be everything and why lie about these connections and what you are doing with these people?! I'm supposed to believe she took a shower and did above and beyond soft stuff like that to a friend? Spending time away from me like I was just as toxic as Covid is. And then she had a moment that she gave her affection and attention to another person and I felt that when I started noticing the shit she put up the biggest wall ever labeled, "memory problems" or even "depression" to get me to subdue to her will which is to bow to her or even let her go. Oh yeah, I proposed to her and she said "your clearly not ready for a commitment, instead of saying she wasn't ready or that she was afraid, true enough, this came during (covid season) and at the beginning nonetheless. I just felt as if my questions led her to being with someone else. Too smart or nieve I guess.

    • @at6851
      @at6851 2 роки тому +2

      @@dfn19 that’s unfortunate

    • @lonelypigeon7562
      @lonelypigeon7562 2 роки тому +4

      also....depend on her coworkers....what you dont know if she has "interest" in someone at work. Im about to get ready for work and will see IF she parks her car in front....OR she is again, parked parallel NEXT to her caucasian coworker.....she does this quite often. (btw...she is asian). the walk to the entrance is way closer in front than where she parks next to the guy....

    • @dennistang3822
      @dennistang3822 Рік тому +5

      That is so true, I have gone thru a marriage and divorce cause of trust issue. Recently we got back together and again I almost going crazy due to certain things that made me so difficult in trusting her, so I decided to end it for my own shake. I don’t want to feel that way and take care of myself seek a different relationship.

  • @gregorycarlson6632
    @gregorycarlson6632 3 місяці тому +3

    I’ve been dealing with this kind of thing professionally for over 30 years. As always, Jess’s advice is spot on. But I think some of her points are indicative of the fact that it has already crossed the line and has become physical. Guys, pay serious attention to point number 1 regarding appearance. When she is going to be around this person she goes that “extra mile” with hair, makeup, clothing, perfume, etc. I liken it to getting ready for a first date. If you see this before she’s in the presence of this person, friend, you’ve got a problem on your hands. You best get on it! A word to the wise.

  • @LuisRivera-vv4qy
    @LuisRivera-vv4qy Рік тому +6

    I went through this for years and this is completely true

  • @michaelmcclanahan1991
    @michaelmcclanahan1991 2 роки тому +4

    You are so smart lady I've filled in alot of blanks that I have thought was happening with my old relationship and I was gaslighted so badly that I believed the nonsense that she told me. I'm still shaking the poison by saying thought. It's facts not thought

  • @marvellousmeki608
    @marvellousmeki608 3 роки тому +13

    This was eye opening, thank you so much 🙏🙏

  • @meddo411
    @meddo411 3 роки тому +98

    Don't know how you do it Jessica but you are good at what you do and this time around, you hit the nail on the head.
    Every single point raised from 1 to 9 has just made me replay the last 4 years of my former relationship. It's just like you studied my ex and decided to give a summary of your observations 👌. The most intriguing thing I noticed is how she would continue to lie to herself about what she was doing and thinking that this would make her actions pardonable. At some point, I started to think that I was the problem but I eventually realized it wasn't me but her.

    • @marlonmonsegue5999
      @marlonmonsegue5999 2 роки тому

      I am totally feeling you there my brother had alot of experiences and Jessica was on point full hundred and because of those experiences I started to learn who I love or who I'm just into and I did this in a very discreet way.

    • @ugochukwumunachisoiwunze2597
      @ugochukwumunachisoiwunze2597 2 роки тому +4

      Some women can be terrible and manipulative

    • @kloserlook
      @kloserlook 2 роки тому

      @@ugochukwumunachisoiwunze2597 evil creatures

    • @Lordinfamous91
      @Lordinfamous91 2 роки тому

      Sad

    • @abvikela2370
      @abvikela2370 2 роки тому

      Hi Jess could my girl b cheating if I can't reach her when she claims to be with her friends am confused bt I do want her to have fun, just that when I call she doesn't pick up.

  • @henrylovinson6121
    @henrylovinson6121 3 роки тому +7

    That is indeed an eye opener, thanks for the tips Jessica.

  • @favourdem
    @favourdem 3 роки тому +49

    Heavenly Father please bless anyone that’s reading this prayer 🙏
    He or she will never lack,or surfer
    He or she will prosper and be blessed 🙏
    Amen 🙏

  • @robertvondeusche6245
    @robertvondeusche6245 2 роки тому +3

    Liked and subscribed. Listened to the entire video, I agree with a lot of the things you were saying but I can certainly admit that I sat here with a bubble in my stomach from start to finish.

  • @mujabderrick3731
    @mujabderrick3731 3 роки тому +19

    Really sister I wish you told me this 1 year ago coz before she finally went to the next level with another guy I was seeing all those signs but I think I was so deep in love to suspect her

  • @birodshrestha3336
    @birodshrestha3336 Рік тому +1

    Many people needs to hear this.
    As for me, each and every point has happened recently.
    Thank you so much, for the insight.

  • @chidinmablessing7641
    @chidinmablessing7641 2 роки тому +2

    Omg Jessica your voice is so refreshing....I already subscribed

  • @goodluckchukwuemekasolomon7830

    Just my past relationship, nothing missing. That's where I drew the line about this love thing.

  • @Lovedrug96
    @Lovedrug96 Рік тому +16

    Emotionally cheating is worse than physical cheating

    • @RenaHomer-n2f
      @RenaHomer-n2f 3 місяці тому +2

      No. Catching your partner with another man getting physical that is the worst

    • @zoomed66
      @zoomed66 3 місяці тому

      Catching your lady getting railed in your bed calling out another man's name would be quite emotionally charging 😂

  • @xolanivanda185
    @xolanivanda185 3 роки тому +67

    Cheating is cheating. Women are more emotionally connected. So if she emotionally connects to another guy or person, she has been gone from you for a while and it has little to do with the other guy.
    Basically, you have been relegated from "main dude" to "side dude" status. You have lost her and she might even start blaming you for not even trying to save your relationship even though she has already left you emotionally. Everything else in your relationship is likely her going through the motions.
    Chances are there have been signs you missed in the process. Just as much as you are not supposed to get too comfortable at work or your profession, the same is true with relationships.
    Once you stop working at it, something better always comes along replaces you.
    Nurture your garden.

    • @simbarashetakundaben6421
      @simbarashetakundaben6421 3 роки тому +6

      Thank you man that happend to me

    • @KevinSmith-xt8xr
      @KevinSmith-xt8xr 2 роки тому +5

      Everyone is better than the past headache they're just doing you a favor, Didn't lose women it's just their turn.

    • @AVRALLC
      @AVRALLC 2 роки тому +1

      #nurtureYourGarden

  • @Raincity1
    @Raincity1 2 роки тому +5

    Shiii. I been going through this a couple times already.... And I agree...u need to keep it 100 as to what the boundaries are.....if she still ain't listening then withdraw , move on ..... your withdrawal will suddenly make you look more attractive.... Cuz ultimately... Women want what they can't have

  • @georgefagan3804
    @georgefagan3804 3 роки тому +76

    Good morning Jessica. My name is George from Jamaica just wanted to say thank you for educating me in so many ways please keep up the good work that you are doing. May God continue to bless you in every aspect of your life.

  • @dreamchaser4928
    @dreamchaser4928 3 роки тому +5

    Wow amazing Good morning Queen this is absolutely positively true 100%. Thank you for the great content 🔥🔥🔥

  • @vicdupuism4059
    @vicdupuism4059 2 роки тому +1

    this one hurts t o watch... but needed to. everything was spot on and now i feel better and can move on in peace.

  • @sekyondwajohn1301
    @sekyondwajohn1301 2 роки тому +2

    Hi Jess am from Uganda love alot thax for yo positive direction

  • @ozemsadventureofrandomstuf252
    @ozemsadventureofrandomstuf252 3 роки тому +2

    Best videos all the time! But still no biking🥺😔either way forever grateful

  • @thyeocroft205
    @thyeocroft205 3 роки тому +64

    A lot of women are not friends with their husbands or boyfriends. Hence they start emotional affairs through tight friendship with the listening avaiable person.

    • @V21IC
      @V21IC 2 роки тому +7

      That's why I prefer to be best friends first!
      You can't be my girl until you're my best friend.
      I can't be your man unless I'm your best friend.

    • @EpicMarauder
      @EpicMarauder 2 роки тому +9

      @@V21IC she Will still cheat spare yourself the time

    • @humanjewel9312
      @humanjewel9312 Рік тому +1

      That’s not a woman thing, it’s a people thing. The very reason I don’t like relationships moving passed the talking stage. Once the relationship changes to bf/gf the dynamics change. I’m no longer the friend and now I’m the gf and he’s talking to his female friend the way he used to talk to me and that’s where I’m out. I’d rather just be his friend.

  • @cadeau5459
    @cadeau5459 2 роки тому +11

    As a girl who is being cheated this signs applies for everyone😪the most painful one is the defending💔

    • @andersonharry6318
      @andersonharry6318 2 роки тому

      Dm Josepdrap on instagram he can help you with that he helped with my ex his the best he can also spy he can help you with that

  • @ronaldooliveira6636
    @ronaldooliveira6636 3 роки тому +3

    Hello Jessica, my name is Ronaldo de Oliveira, Mozambican, it honor to be on UA-cam just seeing your contents, I feel blessed to hear you giving us advise .

  • @danielo8569
    @danielo8569 11 місяців тому +1

    I experienced this once, what you said here is true, painfully true. I had a relationship some time ago, and we used to hang out with her sister and her boyfriend. But things began to go wrong when ex began to show interest in her sister´s boyfriend . Every segment of your video seems to me like different stages of the end of that relationship. As I'm listening to you, those bad memories cone to my mind. One day she dumped me, but by the time she did that, I was fully aware of the situation. So, I leave and never looked back since then. For one year and a half, she had been trying to contact me but I decided to apply the no contact rule to her, in order to heal myself. Now my mind is clear, and I'm fine.
    Thanks for your good work, it's really helpful!

    • @kiddytube3915
      @kiddytube3915 11 місяців тому +2

      It really does trigger trauma response for anyone who’s been cheated on 😢.. it’s so painful. I don’t think anyone can get over the hurt that these POS cheats cause to their loved ones.

  • @mbonisimoyo3919
    @mbonisimoyo3919 3 роки тому +6

    Wow this is powerful thank you sister Jess

  • @hidrolikpistoncu
    @hidrolikpistoncu Рік тому +17

    It’s so crazy how my husband & I feel like we’re 1 of few that understand these principles in life as a unit & as individuals. It’s a rarity to find other ppl to have these conversations with especially with the ppl we know. Thanks to *BRIAN HACKS* for this powerful remote convo access. This will reach so many & we as ppl will become better. Thanks y’all!

  • @dipakkapadia9341
    @dipakkapadia9341 2 роки тому +3

    I loved that background music 🎶 🎵 isn't it so soothing, gives some happy feeling and peace☮

  • @georgetitus-glover6228
    @georgetitus-glover6228 2 роки тому +1

    You look so amazing, Jessica!!🥂

  • @nexusSix_237
    @nexusSix_237 3 місяці тому

    Great advice! Thank you for all your videos

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 місяці тому

      Glad you like them!

  • @dn1535
    @dn1535 2 роки тому +1

    Your always on point jess...👍👍..love these advise you to into perspective

  • @kamogelomokgatle3863
    @kamogelomokgatle3863 3 роки тому +5

    Sometimes things aren't as they seem.

  • @jeremyjohn1726
    @jeremyjohn1726 2 роки тому +19

    Sigh my ex did every single one of these. In a matter of days after the breakup she was with the same guy she displayed all these traits for.

  • @mateuszmazurek7991
    @mateuszmazurek7991 Рік тому

    Wow, such a legit channel, glad I found it today!

  • @rahimjokoturay3199
    @rahimjokoturay3199 3 роки тому +4

    You said nothing else but truth Jess

  • @kwakuagyapong5074
    @kwakuagyapong5074 3 роки тому +2

    Wow jess . Thank you and this is an eye opener. Blessed bless

  • @Manuel-xx2yu
    @Manuel-xx2yu 3 роки тому +22

    1. Be Discerning
    2. Be Intuitive
    3. Be Perceptive
    Wahala for men who are not doing the above lol..

  • @mbonisimoyo3919
    @mbonisimoyo3919 3 роки тому +1

    Watching everyday from South Africa

  • @czwenqolobe6707
    @czwenqolobe6707 2 роки тому +1

    I hv watched & listened to this video attentively i mst say it nearly threw me off my stance as i thot (with confidence) my knowledge along with experiences are on par with th other gender🤔... Im super gr8full for ths education, lookin forward to check out more of what u hv to offer. Jessica u are truly blessed to possess an in-depth knowledge&understanding abt matters of her heart & u willing to share with th rest of us God bless you🙏🙏🙏

  • @dhanrajmohan701
    @dhanrajmohan701 Рік тому

    ❤ you are bless Ms Jessica. Thank you so much.

  • @lelandcline6809
    @lelandcline6809 3 роки тому +16

    Jess, this is so spot on. This should be heard and heeded by anyone in any relationship including married. My x slipped into this continually for 20 plus years and eventually it led to divorce. Thank you so much. Many people dont ever want to admit this think about it or believe the subject is even real.

  • @kumb-di6cg
    @kumb-di6cg 3 роки тому

    Wish i had known about you way back 2002 to 2004 when i was studying in Regional Maritime University Accra Ghana. However, you're the next reason for my impromptu visit to Ghana just to see you. Remain focus.

  • @ernestmalonkane8668
    @ernestmalonkane8668 2 роки тому +31

    SOLUTION: Challenge her emotional cheats by telling her how you feel about what you're observing and if she is DEFENSIVE and UNWILLING TO ADJUST FOR YOU; it's a big red flag 🚩! Walk away!

    • @100pyatt
      @100pyatt 2 роки тому +4

      If she is concerned, you're golden //// If she gets defensive she's trash !! It's so simple and so common with these stupid ass games they play 👍

  • @Mancunian__
    @Mancunian__ 3 роки тому +1

    Many facts on this again. Brilliant Jess!

  • @nattiemania
    @nattiemania 3 роки тому +14

    Pure Wisdom. She has never gone off point since I started paying attention. Unfortunately most ladies cheat easily today thanks to social media abuse.
    Guy get your body, finances and mind together. Money and womanising don't get along.
    Don't commit to any modern day woman, just focus on making money and a better life. Girls are additional benefits that come with this. Just keep 4 or 5 on a rotation later but don't ever make the mistake of committing to any. You are the prize because you bring way too much to the table

  • @joachimisoje3188
    @joachimisoje3188 2 роки тому

    You are so spot on on this Jessica....

  • @altimansmall8028
    @altimansmall8028 2 роки тому +1

    Darn, I think I'm guilty of emotional cheating,thank you for the knowledge.. I learn so much from u

    • @andersonharry6318
      @andersonharry6318 2 роки тому

      Dm Josepdrap on instagram he can help you with that he helped with my ex his the best he can also spy he can help you with that

  • @wizarh
    @wizarh 3 роки тому +3

    Nice content Jessica ❤️
    Pls do a video relating to besties in relationships 🙏

  • @thaminkosi7300
    @thaminkosi7300 3 роки тому +9

    Hi Jessica thank you so much for the insight you are sharing I've just bumped into your vidios and I want to confirm that I'm motivated and I've experienced some of the experiences you are sharing in most of your vidios. I've subscribed and I've decided to follow you and you are the best.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much for the support

    • @thaminkosi7300
      @thaminkosi7300 3 роки тому

      @@JessicaOS much appreciated 🙌

    • @thaminkosi7300
      @thaminkosi7300 3 роки тому +1

      May God keep you for this error.

  • @Tapemanjfunny2
    @Tapemanjfunny2 3 роки тому +3

    Ok…I hear you on this topic but however, what about if she’s a single mother and your noticing some of the signs?

  • @uzoukwuchinemerem4889
    @uzoukwuchinemerem4889 3 роки тому

    I missed your videos... Just came back online today and I can't wait to see the videos I missed from your channel.

  • @stevenhaughton8429
    @stevenhaughton8429 2 роки тому +2

    You have teach me a lot since these pass few weeks since subscribed to your channel

  • @proondemo
    @proondemo 2 роки тому +65

    Shiii being single ain’t that bad😂

  • @franklinreticent241
    @franklinreticent241 2 роки тому

    Thanks ..,good job my dear

  • @johnvue21
    @johnvue21 Рік тому +1

    True facts...sad it's a true story I'm my life right now

  • @weismannn
    @weismannn 2 роки тому +2

    😢😢😢 thank you Jess...wish i had seen this earlier 😢😢😢

  • @mohammedhamid7669
    @mohammedhamid7669 3 роки тому

    Nice one big sis... it's really helpful, thanks for your effort..

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 роки тому +1

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @georgekumidanquah3338
    @georgekumidanquah3338 3 роки тому +5

    Great content, Great presentation and fantastic connection with we the audience

  • @princelebbi7590
    @princelebbi7590 2 роки тому

    Hi Jessica, I'm my name is Prince. I wanna say thanks for the education u are providing here, I wanna know what you think of a married couple. A wife behavior that raise a red flag of not wanting the relationship, but buying time. What are sign to watch for?

  • @osikanitv
    @osikanitv 3 роки тому +1

    I'm here to learn about relationship 🙏
    300k ✌️😍
    Congratulations 🥳

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 роки тому

      you're the first to wish me in advance

    • @osikanitv
      @osikanitv 3 роки тому

      @@JessicaOS Great 🙌 🙌 🙌
      Excited to do that.

  • @kalonjeebless
    @kalonjeebless 3 роки тому +1

    Waw 👏👏👏. Jessica you are top notch

  • @conradcappwell5652
    @conradcappwell5652 Рік тому

    I've experienced all these signs with an ex-girlfriend but the real kicker was what she did to my business number. I went on vacation and I told her I don't want to hear a ring on my vacation. She asked if she could use my phone while I was gone to talk to a girlfriend of hers. I said yes, sure why not. Huge mistake on my part! She gave my number out to every one of her friends. When I came back from my vacation my business phone was ringing off the hook with her friends calling to talk to her. I'd be talking to clients, and it was her friends calling on the other line. I had to change to a new number and let her have my old number and left her never looking back.

  • @tony_gordon
    @tony_gordon Рік тому +1

    Jessica am really stressed up... My gf has a male best friend am not comfortable for real 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

  • @corydavis5636
    @corydavis5636 2 роки тому +4

    My girl been cheating for sure cheers!

  • @styv.
    @styv. 3 роки тому +6

    With women you can never get it 100% but you need to have your own rules which she has to follow and have zero tolerance policy to bullshit behaviour, when she is at your place, she must never be on her phone, send her back if she does that.When you notice funny behaviour, just leave her, don't even ask her to explain, good thing you will still remain with God, never waste your time with someone who is not cooperative

  • @chyrilllastrollo874
    @chyrilllastrollo874 9 місяців тому

    It's the same with men too! Even though they are in a committed relationship. Sad but true!

  • @SanaullahGh
    @SanaullahGh 3 роки тому +1

    I just came to listen to your voice after realizing you are the one who did Mtn Voices. 😄😄😄

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 роки тому

      Lol

    • @SanaullahGh
      @SanaullahGh 3 роки тому +1

      @@JessicaOS wow, God Has really Gifted You with An Amazing Voice And Your programs here are very important too. I'm gonna tell my village people that you are one of my closest friends. 😄

  • @smokingjazz5067
    @smokingjazz5067 3 роки тому

    Im here for Jessica's Voice

  • @mbappe4394
    @mbappe4394 Рік тому +4

    Even for the recognition *Brian Hacks* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.

  • @doedoewski1939
    @doedoewski1939 2 роки тому +3

    she texted another guy and deleted messages, lied when I confronted her but admitted eventually

    • @andersonharry6318
      @andersonharry6318 2 роки тому

      Dm Josepdrap on instagram he can help you with that he helped with my ex his the best he can also spy he can help you with that

    • @sammybarce9101
      @sammybarce9101 Рік тому

      Dude this happened to me

  • @italis2542
    @italis2542 2 роки тому +1

    You're a rare GEM!

  • @songezolindani1134
    @songezolindani1134 23 дні тому

    I would like to know how to bridge a gab me and my partner, and I leave me with question mark

  • @simbarashetakundaben6421
    @simbarashetakundaben6421 3 роки тому +4

    This is the absolute truth Jessica ...thank you so much ..
    This video deserves 3m likes

  • @edwardtaylor5411
    @edwardtaylor5411 2 роки тому +2

    I feel if I’m watching this it’s either I’m insecure or she really does these things.she is always getting alerts saying it’s her business

  • @uhurugodfrey3082
    @uhurugodfrey3082 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you siz Jessica,lots of wisdom in you

  • @dinsewo4real
    @dinsewo4real 3 роки тому

    Thank you Jessica. May I request for the link to the channel you made mention of

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/users/jessicaosvlogs

  • @ikechukwupaul2481
    @ikechukwupaul2481 2 роки тому +8

    Some women are just confuse, they don't know what they want.

  • @debojeetpalit7824
    @debojeetpalit7824 2 роки тому +2

    All of this seems relatable with my current status of romantic life

  • @seiraymond9741
    @seiraymond9741 3 роки тому +1

    Jessica I learnt you are the one behind MTN voice alert "you have 1 minute remaining"😄😄😆😆

  • @olayinkaadedeji3901
    @olayinkaadedeji3901 3 роки тому +2

    Very apt. Could have been ‘9 signs your partner is emotionally cheating on you’. Thanks for sharing your thoughts

  • @javanoflagos1439
    @javanoflagos1439 3 роки тому +9

    My girlfriend is doing this type of rubbish and it makes me angry

  • @djblack7079
    @djblack7079 3 роки тому

    I agree with you saying it takes two make a thing go right

  • @shinemuzammil4270
    @shinemuzammil4270 5 місяців тому

    100% Correct what she said all points exactly matching. my ex cheated me the same way. Now she wants to come back after dumped by other guy and I am not taking her back anymore.
    Guys Never ever date emotionally damaged women. They'll just ruin your life in a single day that you cant even imagine how it all happened.
    stay out of weaker emotionally damaged women.

  • @yahayaalphonse2558
    @yahayaalphonse2558 3 роки тому +3

    I always love your thoughts!

  • @nokizzysushii2802
    @nokizzysushii2802 2 роки тому

    The fact I'm looking at this video right now is enough for me 😭

  • @hilose503barker6
    @hilose503barker6 3 роки тому

    Great video thanks 🙏

  • @peoplesambassadordm8279
    @peoplesambassadordm8279 3 роки тому +9

    Africans are a different culture.. the vibe over there is just different... so for a woman who is emotionally cheating it means it was never meant to last.. it was not supposed to be ... u can't force someone to stay with u.. anytime u are dictating affection and love and comfort these three are supposed to be natural... if a woman values her man she will stay but if he lost value then means she will move on and u cant stop that... women are attracted to good values among other things... it also depends on her upbringing... so u cant force a woman to stay with her partner... it becomes toxic ... it's not healthy... let a woman go if she wants to...simple... .

    • @andym6256
      @andym6256 2 роки тому +2

      I think you'll find that things Jessica is saying here are regrettably pretty universal behaviours - and not just specific to Africa. And guys we are also sometimes guilty of it (the only difference being that women - especially the pretty ones - get a lot of attention heaped on them all the time. The men have to be more actively engaged in emotionally cheating).

  • @utuluemmanuelgozim8261
    @utuluemmanuelgozim8261 3 роки тому +14

    As a survivor of 8:30 and 8:41 situations, I say you're a 100% correct on this one. And It doesn't stop there; coz they proceed to then make you think & feel insecure as a human. Lessons learnt though.

  • @V21IC
    @V21IC 2 роки тому +2

    I have been texting this young girl for a couple of weeks. I have never text no one else like that. Once, we started 05:30 until 21:00!
    The thing is she has her boyfriend.
    When I met her she was leaving with him. Now, she's back home with her parents.
    She won't tell me what went down.
    Anyway, we would be meeting this weekend and to go the movies next door.
    Well, I don't expect anything romantic. However, women like that usually end up one place!

    • @V21IC
      @V21IC 2 роки тому +2

      I can't trust a woman who has her boyfriend or husband and flirts with me!
      That's my litmus test!

  • @DerbyMods
    @DerbyMods Рік тому +4

    My girlfriend recently shaved downstairs and I found that odd because she knows I don’t care and she’s communicated that she doesn’t like shaving, shortly after she started staying out late with coworkers and being difficult to communicate with or make plans with. We just signed a year long lease so I’m trapped regardless, as we say “living the dream”.

    • @DerbyMods
      @DerbyMods Рік тому

      Found out she basically started a relationship with one of those coworkers and I’m trapped here, acting like it’s ok but secretly just waiting for the lease to run out so I can break things off.

    • @davidtaaru3588
      @davidtaaru3588 Рік тому +1

      Bother I’ll say she’s cheating trust me so keep an eye don’t say anything but one day confront her in a calm way and say you think something is off and your spirit tells you something is off , if she says nah your paranoid say ok no problem , let me have your phone so I can download a software to recover deleted text etc if she gives you that phone with no fight yes she’s got nothing to hide if she refuse and says your controlling and paranoid run my brother just run 😅good luck

    • @DerbyMods
      @DerbyMods Рік тому

      @@davidtaaru3588 appreciate it my man

  • @mosesgozo6723
    @mosesgozo6723 3 роки тому

    Hello dear Jessica
    Please what do you have to when you notice some of these signs???

  • @henryoffor1276
    @henryoffor1276 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you very much

  • @javountrail4044
    @javountrail4044 2 роки тому +1

    I’m a over thinker and I did the phone thing with her and she started to get protective of her phone she even changed her password which we had an open password thing for the both of us to know our password even though we won’t take the other phone without permission but she started acting funny and keeping secrets and I eventually found out and got the truth out of her right we share a daughter together and I’m telling you trusting her like I used to before is very difficult ,what you guys think

  • @henrykintu4600
    @henrykintu4600 2 роки тому +1

    Much appreciated 🙏

  • @notimederick4693
    @notimederick4693 2 роки тому +1

    My own girlfriend hidding of phone chat is my problem and that,s what will break our relashonchip