Yesssss. I have lost soooo many friends because I refuse to shrink myself to “fit in” around my insecure friends. The smaller my circle, the happier I am!!!!
Wow thank you so much for making me see things clearly....like i was also imnsecure but always wanted to be confident but never realized it was my own self insecurities projecting on others sometimes.... i get it now... i will work on that
girl i love ur energy. i'm so grateful ur video showed up on my fyp. i literally wanna be like you as a UA-camr. this was so real, raw, and natural. love to see it.
I'm sorry but I disagree I was a very shy girl at school who gained confidence in college so yes you are true I used to try to be friends with confidend girls at my school and admired them a bit too much but it was never my intention to harm them in fact I wanted to have fun as much as they were having fun... But they never included me they even mistreated me so much I broke any contact with them and treated them coldly thus it might look like as you said but it's thier fault for hurting me.... Anyways now I'm confident and I do understand why they didn't wanted to be woth my boring self so I only seek genuine people now irrespective of the fact that they are introverted or extroverted because now I consider genuinity as the best personality trait instead of confidence/ charisma
Thanks for your comment hun! I’m glad to see your growth✨. There’s a common misconception in the world that confidence = loud & charismatic and shyness = not confident, however they’re not mutually exclusive. You being shy did not make you an insecure person as there are many shy people who are confident as confidence doesn’t always translate to extroverted-ness. Happy & confident people make others feel good as well and they don’t feel the need to tear them down/ make them feel excluded...food for thought 💭 🌟
Maryam thank you so much for being a content creator, your feminine energy is truly what I aspire to become and I got myself an ebook from synfla to help me with it!
This is just my thought: It’s not wrong to feel insecure-it's a natural human emotion. Insecurities often arise from things we care about or situations that make us feel vulnerable. However, it’s important to address them constructively. Insecurities become problematic if they control your actions or lead to negative thoughts. To deal with them: Acknowledge them without judgment. Separate feelings from reality-question if they’re based on facts or fears. Focus on self-growth-work on building your confidence and addressing any areas of insecurity for yourself. Communicate if the insecurity relates to a relationship to foster trust and clarity. Insecurity doesn’t define you-it’s how you manage it that counts. 🌟 PS: Please learn to differentiate the difference between insecurity and girlfriend/boyfriend instinct. Insecurity is more about internal fear and self-doubt, whereas girlfriend/boyfriend instinct is an external sense of something feeling off or not right in your environment. Insecurity might lead to self-criticism or overanalyzing situations, while girlfriend/boyfriend instinct is more about listening to your feelings and gut reactions to protect your boundaries and relationship.
HHEYYY THIS CAME UP AT SUCHA POSSIBLY PERFECT TIME I LOVE YOUR ENERGY UR RADIATING so i have a friend and i went to a dinner party with a bunch of people and one of my friends who wasnt able to make it asked for photos of me and she said i looked stunning but then she started saying there was to muhc focus on certain parts of my body and it looks way to much, overboard and to much of a focus and to put into persective i am a curvy girl and she has a slim frame and idk it just made me so uncomfortable if anyone has any adivce what should i do also this isnt the first time shes said these types of thinsg about a specifc part of my body
Thanks for your comment hun! That can honestly be quite uncomfortable, if I were you I would probably have a candid convo with the friend about it and also try and place a boundary there 🤍 hope this helps!
@@maryam_couture HONESTLY THANK YOU SMMMMMM AGAIN FOR UR ADVICE IT FELT SO GOOD TO BRING IT UP AND TALK ABOUT IT AND TELL HER IT WAS MAKING ME UNCOMFORTABLE🤍🤍
I also realized sometimes a friend that is jealous will say things to try to test if you’ll be jealous too and when you don’t react in the way they want they still project your lack of jealousy as jealousy because you weren’t over the moon happy when they were just telling you the information to try to make you jealous so they tell other people you were the one jealous of them 😭🫠
Yesssss. I have lost soooo many friends because I refuse to shrink myself to “fit in” around my insecure friends. The smaller my circle, the happier I am!!!!
You go girl!! Don't listen to those insecure people and just thrive in your life.
I’m proud of you 🥹💓 women like you inspire others!
@@maryam_coutureaww thank you!!
Wow thank you so much for making me see things clearly....like i was also imnsecure but always wanted to be confident but never realized it was my own self insecurities projecting on others sometimes.... i get it now... i will work on that
Thanks for your comment! I’m super proud of your self awareness 🫰🏽✨
girl i love ur energy. i'm so grateful ur video showed up on my fyp. i literally wanna be like you as a UA-camr. this was so real, raw, and natural. love to see it.
Your comment honestly felt like a warm hug 🥹 thank you, and your channel is so cute!!
I'm sorry but I disagree I was a very shy girl at school who gained confidence in college so yes you are true I used to try to be friends with confidend girls at my school and admired them a bit too much but it was never my intention to harm them in fact I wanted to have fun as much as they were having fun... But they never included me they even mistreated me so much I broke any contact with them and treated them coldly thus it might look like as you said but it's thier fault for hurting me.... Anyways now I'm confident and I do understand why they didn't wanted to be woth my boring self so I only seek genuine people now irrespective of the fact that they are introverted or extroverted because now I consider genuinity as the best personality trait instead of confidence/ charisma
Thanks for your comment hun! I’m glad to see your growth✨. There’s a common misconception in the world that confidence = loud & charismatic and shyness = not confident, however they’re not mutually exclusive. You being shy did not make you an insecure person as there are many shy people who are confident as confidence doesn’t always translate to extroverted-ness.
Happy & confident people make others feel good as well and they don’t feel the need to tear them down/ make them feel excluded...food for thought 💭 🌟
I am 14 yr old girl from south India ( Tamil Nadu ). You videos helped me a lot ! :) thank you sister !
Aww I’m so glad!! Welcome to your safe space 💘
Maryam thank you so much for being a content creator, your feminine energy is truly what I aspire to become and I got myself an ebook from synfla to help me with it!
Awww thank you my love
The necklace is giving 🌟✨
This is just my thought:
It’s not wrong to feel insecure-it's a natural human emotion. Insecurities often arise from things we care about or situations that make us feel vulnerable. However, it’s important to address them constructively.
Insecurities become problematic if they control your actions or lead to negative thoughts. To deal with them:
Acknowledge them without judgment.
Separate feelings from reality-question if they’re based on facts or fears.
Focus on self-growth-work on building your confidence and addressing any areas of insecurity for yourself.
Communicate if the insecurity relates to a relationship to foster trust and clarity.
Insecurity doesn’t define you-it’s how you manage it that counts. 🌟
PS: Please learn to differentiate the difference between insecurity and girlfriend/boyfriend instinct.
Insecurity is more about internal fear and self-doubt, whereas girlfriend/boyfriend instinct is an external sense of something feeling off or not right in your environment.
Insecurity might lead to self-criticism or overanalyzing situations, while girlfriend/boyfriend instinct is more about listening to your feelings and gut reactions to protect your boundaries and relationship.
Girl you are so eloquent & everything you said is spot on! 👏🏽
Please post more videos like this 😭
Aww of course 💗
bruh just stumbled upon this channel..i actually liked your content! love from India>>
I’m so glad it found you❣️
Don't be people pleaser 😊
Yess 😌🫰🏽✨
HHEYYY THIS CAME UP AT SUCHA POSSIBLY PERFECT TIME I LOVE YOUR ENERGY UR RADIATING so i have a friend and i went to a dinner party with a bunch of people and one of my friends who wasnt able to make it asked for photos of me and she said i looked stunning but then she started saying there was to muhc focus on certain parts of my body and it looks way to much, overboard and to much of a focus and to put into persective i am a curvy girl and she has a slim frame and idk it just made me so uncomfortable if anyone has any adivce what should i do also this isnt the first time shes said these types of thinsg about a specifc part of my body
Thanks for your comment hun! That can honestly be quite uncomfortable, if I were you I would probably have a candid convo with the friend about it and also try and place a boundary there 🤍 hope this helps!
@@maryam_couture HONESTLY THANK YOU SMMMMMM AGAIN FOR UR ADVICE IT FELT SO GOOD TO BRING IT UP AND TALK ABOUT IT AND TELL HER IT WAS MAKING ME UNCOMFORTABLE🤍🤍
love your channel.🩷
thank you baby 💘
Hey girl can you make a video on "the great shift " dk what's happening and it's insane
I’ve been getting quite a few requests to do this! I’ll look into it ⚡️
@maryam_couture thanks 🩷 love your content
@ 🥹💓 thank you
@@maryam_couture 🥰🫶🏻
@@maryam_couture 🥰🫶🏻
I can’t stand insecure women 🙄
insecure women who put others down 👎🏽👎🏽
I also realized sometimes a friend that is jealous will say things to try to test if you’ll be jealous too and when you don’t react in the way they want they still project your lack of jealousy as jealousy because you weren’t over the moon happy when they were just telling you the information to try to make you jealous so they tell other people you were the one jealous of them 😭🫠
Omg somehow I completely understand 🤣😭 the mental gymnastics some people can go through is insane