30 & 40 Year Old Women Explain Why Dating SUCKS in Their 30's & 40's | Ready To Love | Highlights

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  • Ready to love highlights the Dating struggles of women in their 30's and 40's. Dating only gets harder for women after 25. Modern Dating is confusing for men and women. Our videos are made for educational purposes.
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  • @whiskey_tango_foxtrot__
    @whiskey_tango_foxtrot__ Рік тому +418

    Women in their 30s+ HATE being treated like the way they treated dudes in their 20s.

    • @atrckr-bf7de
      @atrckr-bf7de Рік тому +43

      Yo Thats a good point

    • @KNGDDDE
      @KNGDDDE Рік тому +1

      Ion know wtf these bxtches were thinking, or how this was supposed to work out in they're favor.
      Yea let's throw ourselves to rich dudes while we're young, these niggas will pick us up after we made our attempts, theyll do anything for some puss...
      Yea the shxt sound goofy af lmao. Nice try but we called ur bluff. I'd die single and childless before saving a struggle bandit from herself.

    • @greatestsawes9712
      @greatestsawes9712 Рік тому +36

      Cold & nicely stated 👌🏾

    • @tetedur377
      @tetedur377 Рік тому +27

      Yes! A 1,000 times yes!

    • @soloman_svd
      @soloman_svd Рік тому +28

      If facts was a person 💯💯💯

  • @shapikai6431
    @shapikai6431 Рік тому +303

    You can ignore reality but you can't ignore the consequences of reality.

  • @kuunami
    @kuunami Рік тому +453

    When you're in your 40s but still try to date like a 20 year old, you absolutely will struggle.

    • @soloman_svd
      @soloman_svd Рік тому +18

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @davidreyes3030
      @davidreyes3030 Рік тому +24

      Especially when you consider people in their 20s are already struggling as it is.

    • @motownbaby6146
      @motownbaby6146 Рік тому +27

      Lashes, weave, and tatted 40yr Olds. No way in Hell 😂

    • @GBU61
      @GBU61 Рік тому +21

      She can absolutely find a man who will accept her. But she needs to understand what her true value is and adjust her standards.

    • @michaelwillis5814
      @michaelwillis5814 Рік тому +2

      You are right thts a sad sight to see it shows no growth as a person again very sad.

  • @carlleonidas7242
    @carlleonidas7242 Рік тому +110

    A friend of mine recently went out with this lady who was in fifties. Everything went well until she started bombarding him with the "where do you work" "what's your job title" "why are you working out so much" and the best one yet" why do you work so much" mind you this lady has kids and grandchildren she told him that she wanted to spend the night with him. The minute he asked for a health exam showing that she has no STDS she ghisted him. Fifty years old and still running the streets and did i mention that she wears a wig.

    • @marcusplenty1153
      @marcusplenty1153 Рік тому +11

      Dammn that’s wild

    • @carlleonidas7242
      @carlleonidas7242 Рік тому +8

      @@marcusplenty1153 that's an understatement because at fifty and still playing games. Just shows how careful one must be

    • @marcusplenty1153
      @marcusplenty1153 Рік тому +9

      @@carlleonidas7242 Granted I guess the stds explain why she still single

    • @carlleonidas7242
      @carlleonidas7242 Рік тому +4

      @@marcusplenty1153 you see i don't think that she's single because he told me every time he called her she wouldn't answer but would arm a scandal if he didn't anwer his phone. Sounds like she was dealing with someone else

    • @marcusplenty1153
      @marcusplenty1153 Рік тому

      @@carlleonidas7242 Jesus so not only does she have stds but she out here cheating. 😯😯😯

  • @lilboybluenotes7042
    @lilboybluenotes7042 Рік тому +511

    What sucks about dating in your 40’s is you shouldn’t BE dating in your 40’s. You sat on your chips and keep letting it ride instead of cashing in when you was in your prime.
    The house ALWAYS wins.

    • @jonthomson9262
      @jonthomson9262 Рік тому +36

      Father Time is undefeated.

    • @ptolemeeselenion1542
      @ptolemeeselenion1542 Рік тому +7

      Hm.

    • @blackhawk6695
      @blackhawk6695 Рік тому +13

      Truth!!

    • @jamescheaye927
      @jamescheaye927 Рік тому +26

      @@psychoticepisode1268know when to walk, and know when to run and get to the choppa

    • @mell6481
      @mell6481 Рік тому +17

      @@jamescheaye927 You better count your money, before you leave the table lol

  • @michelleyoung731
    @michelleyoung731 Рік тому +140

    They should make it a rule that nobody can wear any makeup during the show. That would be hilarious !!

    • @gameboyfila
      @gameboyfila Рік тому +21

      Don't forget the Weaves Bruh' 😂🤣😂

    • @stonefacedninja
      @stonefacedninja Рік тому +21

      They would literally be making a horror film

    • @stifler5062
      @stifler5062 11 місяців тому +3

      Yeeshhh

    • @conscientiousobserver7444
      @conscientiousobserver7444 11 місяців тому +11

      And the waist trainers that feel like a bullet proof vest when you hug them 🥴🥴🥴😂😂

    • @Battlered713
      @Battlered713 11 місяців тому +1

      @@conscientiousobserver7444lmaooooo

  • @cenationofjnu
    @cenationofjnu Рік тому +91

    In the age of raising babies and dreaming about their children's education, marriage, grandchildren, retirement, these 304s are complaining about dating. 😂

  • @nnekemnsh
    @nnekemnsh Рік тому +294

    KS: "ladies, over 27 - time to sell, over 30 - 50% off, over 35 - clearance, over 40 - Goodwill/Salvation Army"....do y'all agree or disagree with KS 👀👀

    • @kevinroark5815
      @kevinroark5815 Рік тому +11

      Lol 😂 apt analogy

    • @hrrspaul4
      @hrrspaul4 Рік тому +9

      I love it😂

    • @robertlunderwood
      @robertlunderwood Рік тому +22

      40 is outlet. 50 is Salvation Army/Goodwill

    • @Neddie2k
      @Neddie2k Рік тому +16

      In China, over 25, leftovers.
      Those guys are kings.

    • @yessir8805
      @yessir8805 Рік тому +8

      Well said. My white Playas say 18-25. Black men even bending the rules a little bit. We both agree, date women with no kids

  • @SirYeetus
    @SirYeetus Рік тому +39

    The wall remains undefeated!
    I feel bad for the young boys dealing with their single mother. 👀

    • @Bane35755
      @Bane35755 Рік тому +4

      You hit the nail on the head.

  • @alannurse7453
    @alannurse7453 Рік тому +51

    2 boys and still expecting the best? Women must learn that if you are a single mother, especially with more than 1 kid, u are in no position to make demands.

    • @glevando
      @glevando Рік тому +10

      I agree but society tells men that they need to "man up" and be "real men" and gladly accept a horrible deal where they take on loads of responsibility and have no authority. Just say "no" to that kind of deal.

  • @dolphus32
    @dolphus32 Рік тому +78

    Older men in their 50’s can date younger women with no problem. I doubt that this will ever be like that for women in their 50’s.

    • @sarahnovella4971
      @sarahnovella4971 Рік тому

      older men in their 50s *with* complete packages can date younger women.
      you think young women are gonna date old wrinkly men who're not in shape, broke, homeless, can't read, borderline dementia 😂 etc?
      if you think that you're delulu lol
      and you're serving feel good cool aid just like those women lolol😂

    • @Ninety2boss
      @Ninety2boss Рік тому +10

      Ye if they have money.

    • @marcusplenty1153
      @marcusplenty1153 Рік тому +1

      @@Ninety2bossit’s the one advantage men have, it’s way harder but you can play for far longer

    • @Ninety2boss
      @Ninety2boss Рік тому +2

      @@marcusplenty1153 true but who wants to be 50 & fk b***** because of your money not cause of who you are. I’m 30 & I don’t even kno that last time I talked with a female under 25. All the woman I been with been 30+.

    • @themosthighvaluemaninthega9048
      @themosthighvaluemaninthega9048 Рік тому

      @@Ninety2boss It's your mindset. You sound black pill af. If you're physically in good shape, look good (most important part), and have your shit together (you don't need to be insanely rich), you can get young bitches easily. Women have always loved older men. Literally since biblical times. I'm about to be 31 and was recently dating a 19 year old that I met at work.
      You don't even sound like a real person when you instantly assume ish like this: 'Who wants to be be 50 & fk b*** because of your money not cause of who you are.' Simple. If you don't flash cash, then obviously they're initially attracted to you for you. If you make it to 30 and you don't know how to recognise a gold digger then you're lost anyway.

  • @jonthomson9262
    @jonthomson9262 Рік тому +47

    30 = ran through damaged goods.......40 = ran through expired leftovers.

  • @raytheking2504
    @raytheking2504 Рік тому +50

    She want to be courted at the age of 40 with two kids 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @NickM_FirstofHisName
      @NickM_FirstofHisName Рік тому +1

      Dalrock said XX want unlimited courtship

    • @p382742937423y4
      @p382742937423y4 11 місяців тому +1

      I cant believe they still think of themselves as a price of sorts.

  • @thecatattheend2250
    @thecatattheend2250 Рік тому +314

    "I'm 40+ with two kids, but he better be cute."

    • @Bane35755
      @Bane35755 Рік тому +62

      She got her nerves to say that. The Wall is Undefeated.

    • @nomadic8000
      @nomadic8000 Рік тому +65

      You better be happy you can find a man with a pulse. KS

    • @ConservativeSatanist666
      @ConservativeSatanist666 Рік тому +11

      Lol

    • @ptolemeeselenion1542
      @ptolemeeselenion1542 Рік тому +10

      😂😂😂

    • @kevinshockey1836
      @kevinshockey1836 Рік тому +29

      No good man wants to help you raise your two kids because he probably wants children of his own. I've been a stepdad, and it kind of sucks. At least till they get grown and realize you were just doing the best you could do.

  • @Larry-qz3es
    @Larry-qz3es Рік тому +65

    These women are NOT seeking love, they are seeking a man who is 2 to 3 times financially above their level.
    Secondly, those men see how they operate and know they are nothing more than a "smash and dash."

    • @artfrancis7456
      @artfrancis7456 11 місяців тому

      Most of them not worth the time to fuck!!!

  • @PositiveBrothaHakeem
    @PositiveBrothaHakeem Рік тому +21

    '... First of all, if a woman is over 35 years old and she ain't married, then she must be nutty as squirrel shit!'
    --Uncle Ruckus, 'The Boondocks' 😆

  • @tetedur377
    @tetedur377 Рік тому +21

    They all lying. They're looking for a sugar-daddy/retirement plan, not love or a meaningful relationship.

  • @stonefacedninja
    @stonefacedninja Рік тому +151

    They make sure you are lonely in your 20's. Return the favor and make sure they are lonely in their 30's and 40's. Don't let the sexual starve out system make you desperate enough to take a bad deal.

    • @gtharo
      @gtharo Рік тому +24

      BOOM! 👍🏾👊🏾🙌🏾

    • @mandlasikhondo502
      @mandlasikhondo502 Рік тому +10

      I like it when you emphasize "many many many men" always.

    • @Enoch000
      @Enoch000 Рік тому +19

      @@gtharo they us rot on the dating market in our 20s so do the same to them .

    • @jonthomson9262
      @jonthomson9262 Рік тому +16

      And 50s,60s and 70s......let those women have all the decades of loneliness they have coming to them. Do not rescue them.

    • @blackhawk6695
      @blackhawk6695 Рік тому +6

      Truth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @raheemgaines3518
    @raheemgaines3518 Рік тому +40

    A post wall woman’s tears warms my heart.

    • @glevando
      @glevando Рік тому +3

      Exactly, I couldn't say it any better.

    • @kashawnbynum3129
      @kashawnbynum3129 11 місяців тому

      Satisfying to see it it's more going it be like her winter coming
      😂😂. RIP KS

  • @vernonhowell4485
    @vernonhowell4485 Рік тому +23

    The OWN network should be called the CL"OWN" network!

    • @4tonmike
      @4tonmike Рік тому +2

      The men on that channel know that Oprah is watching. Feel good Kool aid is what they sell and they all know it.

    • @MrShehateme12288
      @MrShehateme12288 10 місяців тому

      Big facts

  • @PhantomFilmAustralia
    @PhantomFilmAustralia Рік тому +62

    Ladies, there is a vast difference between problems and drama. Men will take on problems because they can rationally be solved. Men don't like drama because it's an irrational problem that can't be solved.

    • @kenyattathompson6685
      @kenyattathompson6685 11 місяців тому +3

      Facts

    • @Antisatan7771
      @Antisatan7771 11 місяців тому +1

      Woooww underrated comment!💯… In all honesty idk where tf these women get these informations that men likes drama?!🥴🙄

  • @rogerm3708
    @rogerm3708 Рік тому +80

    Ready to love in their 30's and 40's but not ready to love in their 20's?

  • @drsingingeagle
    @drsingingeagle Рік тому +111

    After watching many, many, many, _many_ manosphere type UA-cam videos, several of which are bitter, cruel, or downright ridiculous, I can conclude that MHD provides the most honest, eloquent, and intelligent discussions of what's happening with the relationship world. Thanks! 💜

    • @Bootyeater999
      @Bootyeater999 Рік тому +13

      So the truth hurts 😂

    • @EriPages
      @EriPages Рік тому +14

      Why are you using a pink heart, dude?

    • @NickM_FirstofHisName
      @NickM_FirstofHisName Рік тому +4

      Think Before You Sleep is also moderate in his commentary.

    • @drsingingeagle
      @drsingingeagle Рік тому +3

      @@EriPages - Maybe our phones don't jibe. On mine it's _purple_ in honour of my fellow veterans.

    • @jimmycees4042
      @jimmycees4042 Рік тому +1

      yep, i agree. this is the best channel for men.

  • @OldSchoolJules
    @OldSchoolJules Рік тому +38

    “Tell them what they want to hear”. Yep! Easiest way to keep someone in denial.

    • @4tonmike
      @4tonmike Рік тому

      Emotional porn for women

    • @jonthomson9262
      @jonthomson9262 Рік тому +7

      And to get her to the bedroom. Lol 😂

    • @1230mkelly
      @1230mkelly Рік тому +4

      Like a wicked Pastor, they believe that they are "showing them love" with this passive aggressive approach to getting laid without marriage.

  • @jai-one2691
    @jai-one2691 Рік тому +28

    Women believe Men are blind.
    They had fun in their 20s, rejected average, and chased Chads and Tyrones. But they didn't think other Men were aware of what they did.
    10 years later Chad and Tyrone went younger, and that prize mare is now a nightmare, wanting to slow down.
    Sorry about your damn luck.

    • @ARLimon74
      @ARLimon74 Рік тому +2

      Oh,men are aware! They are posting it where anyone can see them!

  • @oversol5469
    @oversol5469 Рік тому +192

    Dating has always been a young woman's game. By the time a woman is in her late 30s she should be in the role of teach the younger women how to find a suitable partner and not waste time. While older men give younger men advice like getting on a purpose the older women are telling younger women to ride the cc

    • @soloman_svd
      @soloman_svd Рік тому +30

      Thats the problem older women are competing with younger women instead of teaching them

    • @garawa1987
      @garawa1987 Рік тому +20

      Problem is most women never mature menattslly past 16yrs of age that's why there's so many of them never are held accountable

    • @cookncrook6902
      @cookncrook6902 Рік тому

      Women are younger women as competition so they intentionally give them bad advice. Men see a younger version of themselves in younger men and give them life advice based on their experience.

    • @Kofiemalcolm_20
      @Kofiemalcolm_20 Рік тому +6

      Yep their purpose is to nurture the new newborns and match make in a loving environment. they envy mens role which is full of sometimes purposeless struggle whiles their biology is constantly sounding the alarm.U see how the idea of fairytale love never disappears even when they are growing……

    • @PhantomFilmAustralia
      @PhantomFilmAustralia Рік тому

      @@soloman_svd It's the one aspect where men are the nurturers and women are the saboteurs. This is because men don't consider this a competition. In competition, men strive to win by elevating themselves to be better than the competition. Women tend to tear down competition to make themselves appear better by making the others worse.

  • @ButHearMeOutTho
    @ButHearMeOutTho Рік тому +8

    40yr Olds should be aiming for 60yr old men. 😂 my cousin almost cuss me out when I gave her this advice. 😂

    • @apomegranatelove6881
      @apomegranatelove6881 11 місяців тому +2

      You told her the truth. She really thinks her lovers will one day marry her. And, they told her .. point blank .. “ It is what it is “ “ Chillin “ Now they want to bring no standards, to the ones with high ones.

  • @stevec3526
    @stevec3526 Рік тому +48

    The problem is they expect men to conform to their expectations. This is backwards.

  • @whiskey_tango_foxtrot__
    @whiskey_tango_foxtrot__ Рік тому +20

    I am looking for love now...at age 40...with two kids...
    Must be cute, tall, muscles, confidence, good job...

    • @Enoch000
      @Enoch000 Рік тому +6

      forgot he must have a big glizzy too.

  • @Century2008
    @Century2008 Рік тому +25

    She said she felt played! She just admitted putting on a front herself. And got that hung just to feel a man she could not have. Yet, when people like the late Kevin Samuels tell them the truth, no it's not what they want to hear. If every judge who listens to Defendant and let believe they had the right to breaks laws, the public would go down in flames.

  • @bigwill9421
    @bigwill9421 Рік тому +7

    "Older Men See Themselves IN Younger Men, Older Women See Themselves AS Younger Women."
    -Fresh & Fit

  • @itsgreat7150
    @itsgreat7150 Рік тому +24

    Now ladies if you take those wigs off, take those fake eyelashes off, take that makeup off💄 and you guys will look completely different.

    • @jrfreeagent3179
      @jrfreeagent3179 Рік тому +7

      Agreed. No one stood out. Cookie cutter women. Same uniform and Dave C would say.

  • @Dweeble233
    @Dweeble233 Рік тому +5

    In my 30's i dated only ONE 30yr old woman and she was exceptional. But her clock was ticking and she wanted more than i did. So i dumped her and went back to my 20 somethings...

  • @robchurch881
    @robchurch881 Рік тому +31

    She is a 43 year old very overweight woman with 2 kids and she isn't very attractive but the man better be cute? Gee, I wonder why she is having a problem with dating. Women are supposed to be the better looking of the gender. If she isn't attractive in any way, physically or emotionally, how can she expect to actually get a man? Because she has woman parts? All women have those, especially the ones without children who are younger.
    This shows what happens in real life. You have multiple women going after the same man, who do you think he will pick? The truth is, in real life, he doesn't have to choose any of them. He can say none of them deserve him. He can easily wait until he finds a woman who has everything he wants. Do any of you think this man is ever lonely? He isn't. He is not in any rush.

    • @Bane35755
      @Bane35755 Рік тому +2

      You hit the nail on the head.

    • @Conservative_carnivore
      @Conservative_carnivore Рік тому +3

      A woman over 40 is useless for a long term, monogamous relationship

    • @robchurch881
      @robchurch881 Рік тому +1

      @@Conservative_carnivore actually, it would be way more fair to say a modern feminist type woman over 40 is useless in a long term relationship. A good traditional woman isn't to some men. For example, if a woman values having a man and values the relationship, if she values taking care of a man and knows how to show him appreciation and how to love him, she can be very useful in a relationship. My woman is 56 but she looks like she is in her 30's. She keeps herself fit and she shows me appreciation every single day. She takes care of all the housework and provides peace in my life. She asks nothing from me and only wants to give. She actually enjoys doing things for me and feels hurt if I even try to help her around the house. She truly takes care of me emotionally, physically and every way a person could imagine. Because of her giving nature, I love doing things for her, I love providing for her, I love surprising her with things just because. We never argue or fight in any way. My ex wife on the other hand was your typical modern woman. All she did was take. She never wanted to lift a finger for me in any way. This was once we were married of course. The first couple of years she was at least fun to be around. Once we got married I started seeing her true nature. In return, I never wanted to do anything for my ex wife and would only do things just so she would shut up and leave me alone. If women knew how much power they would have just by being feminine and treating a man with respect, they would never do this feminist crap again.

    • @Conservative_carnivore
      @Conservative_carnivore Рік тому

      @robchurch881 I was inferring that they're useless to men with money, that want a family, or are good looking. They're essentially only good for companionship because they don't provide the prime biological desires men seek in women which is youth, beauty and fertility.

  • @obtryce7070
    @obtryce7070 Рік тому +8

    They will never get it. Funny how they wait until in their 30s and 40s, hot girl’s summer and want a guy that looks good. Nothing about love ❤️ it’s all about looks.

  • @jrfreeagent3179
    @jrfreeagent3179 Рік тому +8

    They all looked the same. No one stood out. Same hair, nails, tatoos, weight range for some and same lashes and attitude. Hard Pass. The 49 y/o did herself no justice being so completely made up.

  • @victorblackman
    @victorblackman Рік тому +22

    Western Women from ages 29 to 55 who are single are truly Done, it's Over buy a Pet, because sorry Sisters it's Over With!!!

    • @user-wx8tb8vd2k
      @user-wx8tb8vd2k Рік тому +3

      Judge not lest ye be judged. Don't spend your life spewing hatred. God is above age and race. If a woman is in her 40s, God can bless her to marry. Please think with more compassion before you put out these statements. God bless you.

    • @jwhvel
      @jwhvel Рік тому

      This itself is poor advice even in Bible terms. True, the Bible says not to judge.
      It also says, in very many instances, to be careful who you associate with, to avoid people exhibiting ungodly behavior, and many other similar phrasings.
      To do so requires a certain ability to understand the difference between good and bad as God describes in the Bible, thus a form of judging.
      The Bible cannot contradict itself. So what does it mean. Well, there are different types of judging. We are allowed to, in fact compelled to, judge others on their behavior, which can only be by using what limited knowledge we have of them.
      We are not supposed to pass judgment on people in a way that puts ourselves in a position above another sinner, as we are sinners as well.
      Please stop acting sanctimonious on UA-cam comment sections. People must be wise and make excellent judgments in these awful days. To give advice from the Bible, please understand it more deeply.

  • @chefdave6596
    @chefdave6596 Рік тому +12

    This "I'm gonna work on myself" routine is becoming a lifelong career. How long can you really "work" on yourself

    • @e84fresh
      @e84fresh 11 місяців тому

      Brag about all the degrees and accomplishments but can’t accomplish to keep a good man.

  • @kratoscraken5614
    @kratoscraken5614 Рік тому +19

    Chicks: 40+, divorced, ran through, multiple kids, lots of baggage, trauma, drama and soggier than a bowl of corn flakes but I want cream of the crop men🤔.....good luck with that👈🤔👈

    • @blackhawk6695
      @blackhawk6695 Рік тому +1

      Its alot of old chicks out here just like that!!!

    • @kratoscraken5614
      @kratoscraken5614 Рік тому +1

      @@blackhawk6695 sadly I, as well as alot of men, are well aware of that 😕

    • @ohmynester
      @ohmynester Рік тому +2

      @@kratoscraken5614at least men are more honest.

    • @blackhawk6695
      @blackhawk6695 Рік тому +1

      @@kratoscraken5614 wow!! Sorry I commented!!!

    • @kratoscraken5614
      @kratoscraken5614 Рік тому +1

      @@blackhawk6695 its ok mate it is what it is but not the way it has to be

  • @Blktxdom2004
    @Blktxdom2004 Рік тому +10

    7:11 - Twice in a day you did the “waaah waaah waaah waaaaaaaaahhhhh” sound…and then followed it with the “Feel-Good Kool-Aid” quip.
    As you said in previous posts: PURE GOOLLLD!

  • @grg242
    @grg242 Рік тому +9

    “What you are is the oldest person on that show”. Lmfao Rasta gawd.

  • @darnellrhodes6174
    @darnellrhodes6174 Рік тому +52

    Its been proven since the dawn of time and memorial men ALWAYS valued a woman’s youth, beauty, purity, fertility, attitude, character traits and clean past!! Those things are the true POWER of ALL women worldwide!!

    • @sarahnovella4971
      @sarahnovella4971 Рік тому +1

      lol

    • @StockCarGuy
      @StockCarGuy Рік тому +3

      they have control over all of those things, there’s no excuse

    • @Ozzie_Mandias
      @Ozzie_Mandias Рік тому

      I don't think you know history at all... historically this has not been the case. For example, a lot of ancient Spartans were gay and a lot of ancient men were willing cuckholds. Strict monogamy was always a Persian and Jewish cultural aspect... it was found rarely outside these groups back then.
      Heck in ancient Asia or Africa... women who wanted to be married had to have had more than 20 tokens around their neck... each from a man who they had slept with. Heck men would pimp out their wives while they worked in the corn fields because a strange man sleeping with his wife meant it was a favour of the gods and harvest and profits would be plentiful that week...
      In ancient Bengal... women who were virgin women were seen as extremely undesirable and freaks of nature.
      Read a book on ancient histories...

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 11 місяців тому

      ​@@StockCarGuyAs a woman I would love to see a man's clean past too. Just to ensure the cleanliness of the deal. Since past history predicts future outcomes. Don't you think that's fair?

    • @StockCarGuy
      @StockCarGuy 11 місяців тому +1

      @@Erica-cf1xb we’re not the same, you’re not getting with a man who isn’t superior to you long term… what exactly are you looking for in a man as far as “cleanliness” cause a man’s value increases the more women he smashes.

  • @DressCode2005
    @DressCode2005 Рік тому +11

    A woman dating after 30 is like a day trader holding on to a losing stocking HOPING it will go up off a sheer LUCK!

    • @user-wx8tb8vd2k
      @user-wx8tb8vd2k Рік тому +1

      Now is this a nice statement?? Why would you want to curse a group of people with negative words. Wish them the best and move on. Your words will come back to haunt you. Don't you think?

  • @andrewpinkham9904
    @andrewpinkham9904 Рік тому +5

    In a startling first woman in her 30s says she needs to think more about herself or shes now aware of her worth. I hear those and i get a mental picture of a rising red MHD flag along with the siren

  • @asolaris6470
    @asolaris6470 Рік тому +14

    "Doing my best." DEFINE "my best" because if you keep FAILING in every relationship, doesn't that indicate the opposite of best, which means worst, or mediocre at best (with pun intended here)? At this stage, even the words, "DO BETTER" for many of these women have fallen on deaf ears. A sad reality that caught up to their choices.

  • @rayreid358
    @rayreid358 Рік тому +6

    43 yr old woman,overweight,with 2 kids:”I’m the prize!”😂

  • @Avarice-Zero
    @Avarice-Zero Рік тому +4

    Yo, I think that dude told her what she wanted to hear because he didn't want to sit there in awkward position while she was crying!! Bruh wanted to "Run Away, get to the Chopper!!".

  • @TheSpanishSnake
    @TheSpanishSnake Рік тому +4

    "Feel Good Kool-Aid" needs to be on a t-shirt 😂.

  • @soyafuera
    @soyafuera Рік тому +29

    Let's just say I see this situation up close, much closer than I'd like. Women that KNOW you're a good catch will bank on you not knowing you are. Hell, the fact that he's even ON the show entertaining these bms is proof enough. If you're really a 7, but aren't aware and act like you're a 5.5, to women you're a 5.5

    • @KNGDDDE
      @KNGDDDE Рік тому +8

      Bro I'm not putting up acts/fronts for women. I'm smart, lighthearted, and a bit goofy. If that disqualifies me from dating bw then so be it.

    • @ohmynester
      @ohmynester Рік тому +3

      Perfect comment.

    • @williamspear7803
      @williamspear7803 11 місяців тому

      It over!! They thru!!!

  • @camels9654
    @camels9654 Рік тому +12

    Ya she's dating in her 30s-40s because she cheated on all her previous boyfriends and didn't want anything serious in her 20s. Then they turn around and complain once no one wants them that none of the guys want anything serious. The hypocrisy is unbelievable with western women. I was dating a girl and she was always accusing me of cheating on her, which I was not, then she turns around and is cheating on me. I give up, these women are nuts!

    • @user-wx8tb8vd2k
      @user-wx8tb8vd2k Рік тому +1

      No, women are telling their stories now and working to improve themselves. You are entirely wrong.
      Why don't men like to uplift other men positively and focus on their own issues??

    • @NickM_FirstofHisName
      @NickM_FirstofHisName Рік тому +1

      Projection

  • @koffee3336
    @koffee3336 Рік тому +104

    Great content! Men! if she's over 30 and single her poor behavior and the cyclical arguments will only reaffirm why she's single. lets not forget that these women would've been dimes in their prime meaning HIGHLY LIKELY they flaked on, ghosted or abused "nice guys" and 100% it was entitlement and not paying attention to how fast their value fades that has led them here.

  • @raggydoll0189
    @raggydoll0189 Рік тому +9

    I don't think any well accomplished man is mad enough to date a woman their 30s or 40s

  • @quentin6233
    @quentin6233 Рік тому +4

    The sound effects at 7:30 and 7:54 😂😂😂😂😂. He telling her what she wants to hear. He don't give AF....lol

  • @KingRahiem
    @KingRahiem Рік тому +37

    Men over 35, it’s our time!! Don’t bend fold or break for these Bichs that didn’t want to give you the time of day before we are who we are now🫡

    • @BxBL85
      @BxBL85 Рік тому +3

      lmao my gf is 27 and she absolutely respect me, apologize when she says dumb sht and actually listen to what I have to say.

    • @izzywaysart6597
      @izzywaysart6597 Рік тому +4

      ​@@BxBL85that's good. You got yourself a good woman. Very rare to hear in today's society

    • @BxBL85
      @BxBL85 Рік тому +4

      @@izzywaysart6597 she is Japanese. I left America ;)
      Japanese women are on their best behavior when they want to get married and have kids.

    • @ma3stro681
      @ma3stro681 Рік тому +3

      @@BxBL85The “best behavior” ends once there’s a ring on their finger and a bun in the oven … 😅

    • @izzywaysart6597
      @izzywaysart6597 Рік тому +3

      @@BxBL85 I hear you. Live your best life. That's all we want in this world

  • @WongGamSingLegacy
    @WongGamSingLegacy Рік тому +10

    2nd
    life hit them when it is too late history repeats itself.

  • @dangeroustoman
    @dangeroustoman Рік тому +9

    My rule on a first date is no makeup.
    When they ask why i tell them i want to see who I'm going to wake up to. 😊

    • @1230mkelly
      @1230mkelly Рік тому +1

      "potentially" wake up to..... remain humble during the process at all times.

  • @freudianslip2192
    @freudianslip2192 Рік тому +14

    5:26
    The funny thing about this is Leiann was definitely the best looking woman of all the women when she was younger.
    She ran out the clock (most likely being too picky) and is suffering the consequences.
    Congratulations you played yourself!

  • @jasonconley64
    @jasonconley64 Рік тому +10

    "What I've learned about men is they don't like the nice girls."
    WHAT?!
    Enjoy the forever single life, lady.

    • @karlosfandango5705
      @karlosfandango5705 11 місяців тому +4

      100% projection

    • @jasonconley64
      @jasonconley64 11 місяців тому

      @@karlosfandango5705 100% you just spouting buzz words and thinking you're cool for saying random dumb stuff on the internet.
      I'm guessing you took the short bus to school.

    • @southpaw2k1
      @southpaw2k1 11 місяців тому +1

      Stop the cap, lady. What you meant to say, that us "nice girls" don't want nice guys, because we're in competition with the 304s, fighting to get smashed by the thugs. Fixed it.

    • @MrShehateme12288
      @MrShehateme12288 10 місяців тому

      I called projection as soon as I heard it.

  • @gregorylagrange
    @gregorylagrange Рік тому +5

    All of them had those "bout to blow up" triceps and shoulders.
    And can't get anymore clueless than saying so confidently that men like women bringing drama into their lives.

    • @apomegranatelove6881
      @apomegranatelove6881 11 місяців тому

      Some men loooove that, tho. They look at that, same as others look at … slim athletic build or small and petite.
      Challenge is when all ladies, thank ALL like it thick. All do not. And, we tell you so. ? But, they don’t believe it. One of us is the purchaser. Customer always right.

  • @Monk_Mode_Master
    @Monk_Mode_Master Рік тому +4

    How come they never make black dating shows with women from 18-28. It's always these middle aged, divorcees, single mother groups

    • @apomegranatelove6881
      @apomegranatelove6881 11 місяців тому

      They busy convincing Tupac, to wear a suit. Then once he does, they leave him. “ Too Boring “

  • @leonarddillon256
    @leonarddillon256 Рік тому +6

    Nothing is a bigger turn-off than a 40 year old Independent woman with kids looking for a husband. Turn-off is prevention better than the cure spewed by these contagious beings.

  • @Bane35755
    @Bane35755 Рік тому +12

    Theses women are selfish and delusional. These dating shows are damaging towards these women. It's like promising a child that they are going Disneyland and they tell all their friends and then once they get to Florida. You take them to 6 Flags, it's a fun place to be, but it isn't Disneyland. There isn't a Donald Duck, Mickey Mouse ...ect but the child is trying to keep hope alive, that he or she will still go to Disneyland. That can be very stressful and difficult for children to swallow. Smfh 9:18

  • @xLeo-ee4gc
    @xLeo-ee4gc Рік тому +7

    Sorry there was limited time, for what you showed, KS rings true,they prove his points. 😮

  • @Eliyah-EliyahuYahudah-tr2om
    @Eliyah-EliyahuYahudah-tr2om Рік тому +4

    I'm tired of the lace-front wigs and weaves, makeup 💄, fake eyelashes, BBL's, and fake breast among other cosmetic alterations on women 😒 🙄 😑 😤.

    • @apomegranatelove6881
      @apomegranatelove6881 11 місяців тому

      When did black women start needing something that is suppose to be genetic. Grew up in time, when other races was trying to look like us. Now we trying to look like us. And, for the 2 out of 10 men … that even want it. Plus, not the marrying or wife ing up type. Thousands $ for a hit it and quite it.

  • @jth_printed_designs
    @jth_printed_designs Рік тому +9

    “I came from a time when men would court you…”
    You also came from a time when men would court SINGLE women, not women with children.
    There is no such thing as a single mother. It’s an oxymoron. If she has two kids, how is three people “single”?

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 11 місяців тому

      In today's society, the package deals get treated like the best thing ever and the ones who have no attachments get done the worst. They not exciting enough. They don't have orgies. That single mom gonna get wicked during her one night free from captivity. She gonna do whatever and these men Prefer these women to be the proxy over their health. It's just sex. It don't matter. Its just compartmentalize. Her don't mean anything. This is the shit they feed to others. Straight bs

  • @undisputedtruth4954
    @undisputedtruth4954 11 місяців тому +1

    Ready to love in their 30's & 40's? WTF???
    What happened to the 12yrs prior to 30?
    No one hunts for damaged goods at premium prices.😂😂😂

  • @tomstarwalker
    @tomstarwalker Рік тому +3

    "You dirty old man! how dare you be such a child predator!" "You're too old to conceive and she's a grown woman."

  • @g-town1014
    @g-town1014 Рік тому +2

    That woman is 49 and still trying to work on herself..😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jimjohnson394
    @jimjohnson394 Рік тому +8

    I remember going to an auction when I forgot my wallet. Yeah it sucks when you see something you want but can only bid pocket change.

  • @jamesmiltenbergerjr2250
    @jamesmiltenbergerjr2250 Рік тому +3

    The oldest chick that, "I want people to see her as she really is" . She says that with fake hair, fake nails and a ton of makeup! You can't make this shytle up!

  • @user-tm2uc1pf4i
    @user-tm2uc1pf4i Рік тому +3

    A single mother really has no options 😅😅😅😅

  • @TBT-GoldProfessor
    @TBT-GoldProfessor Рік тому +2

    Tequila 😅! Who da'h3ll thought of that name!
    😅! GoldProfessor

  • @troystephens5735
    @troystephens5735 Рік тому +6

    Older women should date older men, she’ll always be young enough for him

    • @Bootyeater999
      @Bootyeater999 Рік тому +3

      Older men want younger women 2. Small % of Older man looking for actual relationships. 🤷‍♂️. Feminism for you

    • @kreativeforce532
      @kreativeforce532 Рік тому

      older women f*ked up by not getting in when older men were young. Now those guys have primo resources and don't want used up prom queens.

  • @oliverbenis
    @oliverbenis Рік тому +8

    Wow all the women want Chad and Tyrone. I am shocked, shocked well not that shocked.

  • @DRoyale1
    @DRoyale1 Рік тому +3

    After the many years they spent shooing away potential good men for them…😂😂😂…zero sympathy. Just take those Ls, like the ones you dished out to those men when you were younger.

  • @kingjardani7267
    @kingjardani7267 Рік тому +5

    To even think that men working their asses of their entire lives and just wanting to settle with the leftovers is beyond me..

    • @apomegranatelove6881
      @apomegranatelove6881 11 місяців тому +1

      They believe dating and marriage market are same. Even when told. Continuing to force no standards, on the the SIDE, with everything to loose.

  • @mongooseman6717
    @mongooseman6717 11 місяців тому +3

    The sad truth is there are men and women that nobody wants, it can be because of their looks, their personality, demeanor, expectations etc. Sometimes for people in their 30s and 40s it’s their kids sabotaging their chances of a relationship.

  • @mauricehamilton4025
    @mauricehamilton4025 11 місяців тому +1

    Patrice O'Neal said something along the lines of if your gonna offer me a box of stale cracker jacks im not gonna work hard or wait for it im gonna eat that shit right now why would I waste time trying to court a 40+ year old woman

  • @Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer
    @Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer Рік тому +5

    I messed up my life in my youth.
    Now while I'm fixing up my life, and want someone to be with me, I also realize I'm almost 40 and most women don't want that. So I'm just gonna focus on making life easier for my friends and family.

    • @freeindeed8416
      @freeindeed8416 11 місяців тому +2

      Just keep improving 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Battlered713
    @Battlered713 11 місяців тому +2

    Funny how they reach 40-50 and all of a sudden they’re “dating with a purpose”😂

  • @thegrandargus
    @thegrandargus 11 місяців тому +3

    I dont know who needs to hear this, if you're a woman in your 20s thinking you should prioritize your career and build yourself then just do that, forever. Only men have the latitude to build throughout our 20s, 30s and 40s before we decide to settle down with a 20-year-old to have babies with. As a woman, if you decide to pursue dating in your 40s just understand you will now be practice or recreation for these men before they find that 20-year-old they choose to settle with.

  • @timjones9962
    @timjones9962 Рік тому +2

    You know how long it takes for these older women to get ready to go out?
    Days.
    Forget that, life's too short

    • @apomegranatelove6881
      @apomegranatelove6881 11 місяців тому

      Facts. Natural beauty. And, all the fake hair and makeup; destroys natural oils and actual hair. Natural lashes and brows is the make up. Never understood the shaving of actual brow to then “pencil” them in ?

  • @theexteriorminister6786
    @theexteriorminister6786 Рік тому +2

    The WALL 🧱 is undefeated 😨.

  • @bigwill9421
    @bigwill9421 Рік тому +1

    Taquilla..???!! Is her Dad named Don Julio..???😂😂😂😂

  • @krookrock
    @krookrock Рік тому +5

    Its almost like she think her father aint shit because her mom was with him since 15 and she thinks it was a suffering for her mom and not a blessing.

    • @rooseveltdarbey9493
      @rooseveltdarbey9493 Рік тому +2

      Exactly 💯 her mother did it the way she was supposed to do it, getting married young and locking in your husband in your prime. Instead of her now being 34 and still looking for what her mother had at 15.

  • @alanmartin6436
    @alanmartin6436 11 місяців тому +1

    "I don't lead with my looks." Good thing.

  • @moleahy6880
    @moleahy6880 Рік тому +3

    When they get older, women always claim to want a "partner". But the male partner is the one who's expected to contribute virtually 100% of everything. How is that a partnership? I wouldn't form a business partnership with anyone who'd expect me to contribute everything. That other person wouldn't be a partner. At best, he'd be my employee.

  • @traindawg21
    @traindawg21 Рік тому +2

    Nat dating sucks in their 40s cause men don't want middle aged and old women who are way past their prime and have a ton of baggage with them. And they know this.

  • @MrJfortheElohim
    @MrJfortheElohim 11 місяців тому +1

    7:49 super simp came through with the cape

  • @danemedussa
    @danemedussa Рік тому +1

    That "feel good kool-aid".. Can't say I didn't see that coming 😅

  • @Girlgonewise
    @Girlgonewise Рік тому +4

    Women are not supposed to be dating in their 40’s. At that age, you should have been married for at least 20 years. I’m 37 been married for 17 years.

  • @pdarau3337
    @pdarau3337 11 місяців тому +1

    I remember that before I married with my husband, everytime I have problems and cried in front of him, he would asked me specific question why I end up to those problems then give me some tough but helpful advice and I really appreciate man like my husband.

  • @thePraddagee
    @thePraddagee Рік тому +3

    I’ll be damned if I gotta be “cute”. Bih that’s YOUR job. Wth is WRONG with these females these days?!

  • @tigernotwoods914
    @tigernotwoods914 Рік тому +1

    The sound effects on your videos crack me up every time these videos are gold

  • @kevingeorges1160
    @kevingeorges1160 11 місяців тому +1

    She was doomed once she was named “Taquilla”..tf wrong with people.

  • @dubMittelJ
    @dubMittelJ Рік тому +4

    You're not suppose to be dating after your 20's. You're suppose to be married, hopefully with kids, and one spouse is the breadwinner, and the other takes care of the home (I don't care which does what).

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 11 місяців тому

      Who makes up these rules? Where does it say it needs to be exactly like that or it's curtains?

  • @mindelo23
    @mindelo23 Рік тому +2

    Why would anybody be out here in their 40s still expecting the same treatment they received in their 20s? I tell you, Men live in reality and like to visit fantasy. Women live in fantasy but hate having to confront reality.

  • @Semiam1
    @Semiam1 Рік тому +1

    They should call this show “Delusion”

  • @haunzdugdeep2156
    @haunzdugdeep2156 Рік тому +6

    It's their attitude and sense of entitlement that keeps them single also the type of guy they choose to want

    • @apomegranatelove6881
      @apomegranatelove6881 11 місяців тому

      Believe they have a right to want what they want. The challenge is, not considering or wanting to consider what qualities market needs. When did this except me as I am … but give me your best ? Thing began ?? Said what most want. They say No. But, want us to say Yes. No.

  • @binarioochentaycinco4791
    @binarioochentaycinco4791 Рік тому +1

    7:30 he just gave gallons and gallons of "feel-good kool-aid"