“You get out there and no one approaches you” Older women should not use the same dating tactics they used in their 20s. Women in their 40s must put in actual effort in finding a man.
That’s dumb you can build your life and smash woman, @ the same time it’s not mutually exclusive , if he follows your advice he gonna be the 35 year old awkward virgin who gonna get taken for a ride because he don’t have no experience and do know how bitches operate, he ain’t gonna listen anyway because @ 22 the peak of his sexual prime he gonna want to bus nuts. Ppl be giving the dumbest advice on the internet
When you see a beautiful lady single in her 40s. It's so weird because you know you had an abundance of opportunities. There's definitely more to the story
There’s ALWAYS more to the story when dealing with women. Accountability is kryptonite to women. The guys she should have married was in her friend zone back in college. They checked up on her and were her designated drivers that she could call up anytime for a favor. Once her girl trips and hot girl summers were over, she turned around around and realized they weren’t there anymore. After she has given all her best years to the cock carousel and her career, she wants a “good man” to happily take what’s left of her. The only thing she has to offer is her career achievements, but unfortunately men don’t care about that stuff.
In her eyes she’s god’s gift to men…not hardly if she’s been with all the men she mentions she’s been with …guaranteed that that box is stretched out of shape
They don’t get told that they should grow up long before they fuck up enough to realize it. Even then, they pretend like they generic lifestyle is something to keep up with in the first place. 😂
Before leftist feminism these women were all being good wives and mothers and getting ready to be grandmothers. Now their all still getting ran thru and shouting “where all the good mans at” ?
Her husband-for-life was sitting behind her in class while she was in college. They were 'friends'. She didn't pick up his calls when she was on a jet to Bermuda, or Paris, or wherever her 32 year-old boyfriend took her for fabulous weekends. When she got back to school and he asked her what she was up to, she said, "BOY, that ain't your business." He's been married for 15 years, 2 kids.
@@8bitdragoninstall182 women love sexual Validation from high value men,but a woman can only take so many pump and dumps before she enters another phase of her life,where she will need emotional Validation. TO know that a man really cares for her and values her as a human being,but this stage only comes after she has been ran through, and overdosed on sexual Validation.....this is where women "settle" for the plan B nice guy......then once she secures him,it's back to the streets for sexual Validation.
I closed my eyes and actively listened to what she said. The majority of what she said are huge red flags. Addictions, materialism, selfishness, inflated ego, and self-importance are all things she said about herself. Those are not attractive traits. Now that she has aged, she cannot attract the same level of men as before. I can see why men avoid her, and she's only for recreational use. Great video & call outs!
I'm 40 years old, so from my perspective I find it ironic how even in this stage of her life, she's demanding all 5 love languages, yet won't say what she's willing to give a man. Years of seeing women make head scratching, idiotic, and self destructive decisions have made most women single, with kids, while posting redundant posts and videos about "their worth".... As you would say, "The foolishness".
Love languages is total and complete bullsheeyit. You hear a roundheel like this or any others say that then you know that they are recreational use only! Wh00000
We heard these women loud and clear when they said they were "strong and independent, and don't need a man." We left them to it, moved on, and didn't look back. It shouldn't surprise those same women when they aren't approached and are kept in the friend zone.
“I intimidate men” is pure cope. She turns them off, plain and simple. ALL men are attracted to young, beautiful, PURE, feminine vvomen. No man she wants gives a single F about her confidence, sTrEnGtH, career…blah blah. If a vvoman squanders ANY of these qualities, she longer has anything to offer the kind of man that SHE WANTS. She’ll have to settle for the kind of man she DOESN’T want. She should’ve committed to Mr Right before she wasted herself. This used to be common sense.
“I am 40 and independent and I don’t know why it’s harder for women like me to keep dating” Translation: “I am old and ran through. I’ve been having casual sex for two decades and I never saw the need to commit to one man. I always thought I could do better or I treated men like objects to be used until I got bored. Now I am old, damaged, ran through, infertile, and I am still single. I’ll keep pretending that I don’t know why I am where I am because that’s all I have left to cope with a lifetime of loneliness.”
That's a damn fact, and I ain't talking about just wahmen. Many people straight in denial these days. Once they've done it for so long it becomes habit and ingrained within them, unless they willing to put in the work, nothing changes
A woman who makes more money than a man can NEVER be a silent bread winner! She will ALWAYS make it known and talk about every single thing she buys or does and in fact make the man feel inferior at every opportunity she gets! This happens 9/10 times! Most women dont know how to handle positions of power or authority, it is most times abused!
After getting married, I feel like there's something special about feeling vulnerable enough to feel like you NEED someone. When the bond is strong you can develop the mindset that you cant be without that person even if you can.
This lady still hasn't realized that meeting that millionaire boyfriend was the inflection point in her dating history; an inflection point with a downward trajectory. Godspeed Miss.
I learned to never take what females say at face value. I *have* to be in the presence of the woman, in the conversation, and have the ability to ask questions. A womans monolouge about her past is surely embellished excessively. With that said...was this millionaire really her boyfriend fr...because from what I see women who experience consecutive wealthy men are simply stress relievers.
@@asdffdsa898bingo. She said dating millionaires came with infidelity. Meaning the dudes were just tossing all these chicks up, not taking them serious. But she thought they were in a whole relationship 😂
It's only semi delusional. We have to understand, these women were dating older successful dudes while they were in their teens and 20s. So, for them, they can't go back down to an average dude. 😅
- Over 40 and likely can't produce children - Negative/cranky - Entitled/selfish - Hates monogamy (aka "marriage stuff") - Only dated the Bad Boys and high value men in her 20s (and crapped on the good men.) - "Strong and Independent Woman" who still wants a man to spoil her with diamond rings so big, they can't fit in her purse. - A liar ("Sapiosexual") - Has learned NOTHING in her 20+ years of dating experience. "wHy wOn'T mEn aPpRoAcH mE?! tHeY jUsT iNtIMiDaTeD bY a sUcCeSsFuL wOmAn!"
they already know it,wimin mature ahead of us MEN,they just want to ruin their life until the end of rope and tryin to hide all those malice by wearing a sheeps clothing.
Nor does she care...she thinks she can dictate what men want....the more they scream, the less interested men are; the harder the sales pitch, the poorer the product quality.
Manosphere Highlights Daily - Hey there. I'm a white guy from the midwest; raised in the 60's and 70's. There was no such channel when I was a young man. I instinctively knew all the things you teach on your channel, but I was not able to articulate them as well as you do. I'm happily married (and like you, I took my talents overseas in the early 80's and stayed there) to a perfect woman. I like your channel and I think it's great that you produce this content for young men who need to hear this information. Keep doing it.
She wants a man with his sh*t together to come in and have his life revolve around her like those 2 things can co-exist. I swear these women can’t hear how illogical they’re expectations are. Video after video, it’s the same “I’m the prize” and “ it’s all about me” mindset from these women.
You are doing exactly what you should be doing!! Don’t change a thing, whatever you’re doing is giving off the vibes that are keeping good brothers away where they should stay. If your independence is that important STAY SINGLE!! Men are not intimidated by independent women, they don’t want you for whatever behaviors you want to cling to or attitudes you exude. Please don’t change, stay single!! if you’re in your 40’s there is No chance that you have not encountered a Few good men who were interested in you, you probably weren’t interested in them, or drove them away.
When a woman tells you she's strong and independent, believe her. Leave women like that alone and find a woman who WANTS you and isn't shy or shiesty about it! Wasting your time on such women is your fault. We have put in all this effort for you to get this info and learn! Strong and independent does NOT need you. She isn't even hiding it. Keep it simple and find someone who wants and needs YOU!
Nah she can still walk into a room say who wants to f and still get plenty of opportunities, there's very few men who can do that and they are primarily celebrities, athletes, and rich aka the 1%ers Shell never be man
Yeah there’s no point. She is on the verge of premenopause there’s no point of dating her if she can’t bear children that’s the whole point of dating and courting
I agree with her. I would have loved to have met a woman of substance, that didn't want to just talk about her nail polish or all those superficial things. I was disappointed to find that woman didn't exist anywhere around me.
This is amazing… Because there’s men in here saying that no one cares about her strength or her confidence which is honestly beyond sad. This woman in the video is proving to you that they exist… So you should find her! It’s awesome that you actually appreciate what she is saying
She’s 40 “strong and independent” and wonders why no one approaches her? LOL! Once they utter those words with the nastiness that comes with it automatically makes them radioactive!
@@nicolem889 I see you’re one of the resident trolls here. No matter what you say in the comment section, the facts remain the same for you, and many like you! You actually believe defending delusional women is some kind of badge of honor!
@@nicolem889 Looks like u seen a lot of 45yr old sacks lol. Sweetheart making fun of those guys still doesn’t take away from the fact that u are older and don’t have a ring. Perhaps u should settle with one of those grey haired sacks, so u don’t have to be up at 3am on a MANISOPHERE comment section LOL. Your SIGN(Shame,Insults,Guilt,Need to be right)language doesn’t work over here. Men are gonna continue to date younger women, and could care less what u say. Same way no man is up with u at 3am caring about u now
One thing I think women don't understand is that we want to experience life with you first, not just tag along later and not know about you or your past. We want to invest in you with healthy foundations and see the growth from the journey of our relationship.
_"I'm a strong and independent 40+ year old woman who has RBF, only dated the Bad Boys in my 20s, and don't need no man. ...Why won't any men approach me?!"_ You can't make this crap up. Sadly, due to simps, she'll never learn her lesson and they'll always be some spineless loser out there to emotionally validate her even if she doesn't deserve it.
@MarvinPowell1 I agree with you. There will always be a sex-starved "Captain-Save-a-Hoe" who will go and wife up this old hag and let the import of her cautionary tale be lost in the next generation.
Girl, you are strong and independent and we are proud of you. That doesn't mean we want to be with you. You may want one of us this week but maybe not next week. You think that we are plentiful and disposable. We are not interested in hearing you say "What have you done for me lately?" You don't need us so we don't need you. At least you can take care of yourself, so there is that. Enjoy your last 40 years alone.
She's not a sapiosexual she just means she needs a cheerleader or ego booster. Also she has male friends who have romantic interests in her. Sounds like a great catch. 😂
Support her in her career???? That rings a bell for me. That was one of the complaints that I got from my wife when we were going through divorce. I'm a banker! What the fuck do I know about interior decorating? Nothing. I looked at her projects and said "yeah, that looks great!" What else can I do to 'support' you? What did you ever do to 'support' my career as a banker? I'm certain the answer would've been something like "cleaned the house, raised our kids, blah, blah, blah". Those are all things she alway WANTED to do---be a wife and mother. It was what SHE wanted. It wasn't supporting my career. But as MHD says, women don't know what they want. They may THINK they do today, but it will definitely change tomorrow.
The thing with women is that it's always about something else, other than the actual thing. Everything they do is basically a proxy to be used to make her the centre of attention, all the time. Whatever mad, pointless scheme they are cooking up is always intended that you fawn over them and be emotionally involved, and thus prove that they are all that matters in the Universe. When you tell them that you think vanilla white is just as good as magnolia, then they are going to take it that you don't really care about them, then they will have a tantrum to make themselves the centre of attention, anyway.
@@carltonlambert7608 to justify her cheating, she was throwing everything she could imagine at me. Everything she had ever heard the sisterhood complain about men. Very little of it was true or logical. Lesson learned about women, no matter what their history, religious professions, etc. They can ALWAYS change their minds when they want to.
@@stephenkilpatrick807 At least they'll never be alone Schizophrenia is one big party where the guests are all a clone of them. Talk about small talk with multiples of themselves. Bleak house awaits if that's the case.
Put these two statements together: "I need you to feed me" and "You're going to love it here. You're not gonna leave." That's her mindset. She will drain you and expect you to be grateful for the experience.
This Woman speaks fluent hyeyanease! Trust me there are probably two or more hearts out there that she mercilessly crushed and forgot about. Hold the line Men!!!
Lived with a single mom 9 years, never proposed and we eventually broke up...OK I cheated lol. Met a single gorgeous woman. We were living together in six months, before the year was over I proposed, the following summer we got married and on our honeymoon learned we were going to be parents, seventeen years later we have two sons and still hold hands
Her self description would answer her own question. You make your personality about being independent, well you’ll probably end up alone-which is the best state for an independent queen to be in.
20 years too late. Good luck miss independent that's why we love you. She got her own thing That's why I love her Miss Independent Won't you come and spend a little time? She got her own thing That's why I love her Miss Independent Ooh the way we shine, Miss Independent, yeah Ooh there's somethin' about Kind of woman that can do for herself I look at her and it makes me proud There's somethin' about her There's somethin' oh so sexy about Kind of woman that don't even need my help She said she got it, she got it, no doubt There's something about her 🎵🎶
For those wondering her name is Krystal Haslett. She's been on several BET shows. She's as fine as it gets for wasted youth.If you've seen the roles she's played its like she has played herself. Similar to Taraji P.
She is definitely fine but again she has been around actors ballers name them and no takers that will take forever that should tell her she is just ok or average and that’s ok she wants a man to be a woman to her or be her BFF it’s not a man’s job to be a BFF
If they don't personally find you attractive then you might get humiliated online, catch a harassment charge or BOTH. Seeing how needlessly aggressive and hostile they are to people they personally don't find attractive is all you need to see that approaching women (in the west) isn't worth it nowadays
@@cliffg7459 Let women come to you. Put yourself out there. But, let them come to you. It doesn't mean never approach. It means you don't chase. As a man, your job is to let her know that she only has one chance with you. If she doesn't come correct, you'll move on. It's that mentality.
@thedevilsadvocate3710 Sorry, if you do that, you will never get the right girl. Women are raised as being the prize not the aggressor. I've been to many countries and the only place that could fly is some parts of Asia & Europe. Yea, I've put myself out there, way out there.
@@cliffg7459 I don't fully agree. I do fully support the passport bro movement. But, in the west, if your dating status is out there and you're not getting bites with your lifestyle/profile, you need better marketing or you need to level up in all aspects of the game. The number one attraction trait all women have is status. If women see you as a leader of men or the high potential for it, she will follow too.
I've had just as many women approach me as I've approached women. If you're still playing weird childish games and expect an 18th century courtship, you're going to be limited to a very few men , mostly players you should avoid. By 25 you should be mature enough to enter a relationship on equal grounds, not expect your fantasy to be catered to.
Her problem is that the guys she wants, are all dating younger women or have completely checked out of the whole mess. I quit dating in my early 50's, but during my 40's I never looked at a woman in her 40's. Why? Because the younger better looking women were all willing to date me. Of course, I also didn't care if those women were making a lot of money (some were) or had advanced degrees (some did) or were physically perfect (one or two were, most were just.....women). She's spitting cap when she talks about "they don't need to be on my level". No way in hell is she dating a bus driver or a retail manager. You're an electrician? She's not dating you. Not only is she lying to everyone watching this video....she's lying to herself. Never a good place to start.
Black women’s attraction triggers are best for short term relationships..they place a greater focus on a man’s physical appearance and less on his character, integrity, willingness to commit
So, a post-Wall woman wants to know why men aren't approaching her? I can only speak from my experience but, I NEVER approach women. Even if they are YOUNG and attractive. Funny thing is, the young women approach me. Women over 40 are too timid/old school to approach. They think staring at me will get me to approach them. Nope. Did I mention that I'm over 60?
LOL. Good for you mate, if that's what you want/like. I'm grateful i get zero attention from them (not that i put myself in environments where they lurk though), as i want a peaceful existence. Cheers.
Practice being single and get good at it. Independent literally means to stand alone. If you want to be in a relationship practice partnership and team work. Support and selflessness. At 40, focus on 55+ men.
I like how she's in her 40's and she still describes the type of things she wants from her dream man, but when men describe the type of things they want from a woman they get cancelled and judged.🙄
40 year old woman who claimed she don't need a man for 22 years... she'll be okay. 🤷🏽♂️
Yep. Once you're locked in, ain't no switchin up 👀 This is the Wall for older independent women
Facts
@@Brothapocalypsethey will THEN blame Men by saying, I WANTED to get married, but the MEN were just terrible. Just you watch
Only thing for a man to do with these 304s is to give them the YEET from our lives.
Yup the damage has been done a long time ago…but who gonna tell ‘em 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️…they probably wouldn’t listen anyway!
Beyonce told all these modern women to be independent, but got married and had children all in her prime.
😅😂😅🤣😂😅😆
Women thought they were Beyonce too!!!
Impressionable children they are 😅
She had kids while still making money 🙌🏻
Yep. Beyonce was their fake Pied Piper who led them into the trap of modern womanhood.
women are so easily fooled. Beyonce is making big bucks, singing lyrics about proud independent women....
304s: " I woke up like this....FLAWLESS!!" 🎶 🎵
Me: At being a 304 😆 🤣 😂
“You get out there and no one approaches you”
Older women should not use the same dating tactics they used in their 20s. Women in their 40s must put in actual effort in finding a man.
You mean "breathing oxygen" doesn't count? Sounds like my ex. Her idea of a relationship was... just showing up in person.
As Arnold Schwarzenegger's father told him: Always be useful.
Her hair alone shows how narcissistic she is, and why she is single at 40. She should just embrace her Spinster Winter for the rest of her life … 🐈
she will need to approach men, develop some game just like men have been told for years
That’s dumb you can build your life and smash woman, @ the same time it’s not mutually exclusive , if he follows your advice he gonna be the 35 year old awkward virgin who gonna get taken for a ride because he don’t have no experience and do know how bitches operate, he ain’t gonna listen anyway because @ 22 the peak of his sexual prime he gonna want to bus nuts. Ppl be giving the dumbest advice on the internet
When you see a beautiful lady single in her 40s. It's so weird because you know you had an abundance of opportunities. There's definitely more to the story
A lot of women never learn that dating isn't a baggage claim.
So true
She's delusional and continues to use the same BS
She's more likely to die single or date a pookie
I wonder if she has grandkids...
There’s ALWAYS more to the story when dealing with women. Accountability is kryptonite to women. The guys she should have married was in her friend zone back in college. They checked up on her and were her designated drivers that she could call up anytime for a favor. Once her girl trips and hot girl summers were over, she turned around around and realized they weren’t there anymore. After she has given all her best years to the cock carousel and her career, she wants a “good man” to happily take what’s left of her. The only thing she has to offer is her career achievements, but unfortunately men don’t care about that stuff.
Nobody ever gonna be good enough.
She’s not looking for a relationship. She’s looking for a lifestyle.
Aren’t they all?
Aren't we all.
- yes
- and little boys grow into little 'men'
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In her eyes she’s god’s gift to men…not hardly if she’s been with all the men she mentions she’s been with …guaranteed that that box is stretched out of shape
The embarrassing Part is being a 40 year old human talking about dating like you are still in high school.
They don’t get told that they should grow up long before they fuck up enough to realize it. Even then, they pretend like they generic lifestyle is something to keep up with in the first place. 😂
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Before leftist feminism these women were all being good wives and mothers and getting ready to be grandmothers. Now their all still getting ran thru and shouting “where all the good mans at” ?
EXACTLY
Her husband-for-life was sitting behind her in class while she was in college. They were 'friends'. She didn't pick up his calls when she was on a jet to Bermuda, or Paris, or wherever her 32 year-old boyfriend took her for fabulous weekends. When she got back to school and he asked her what she was up to, she said, "BOY, that ain't your business." He's been married for 15 years, 2 kids.
Wow
This. It happens every day. Women look past the men that are willing to turn them into wives, and turn to the men who are recruiting concubines.
Bruh...if truth and reality was a person, it be you my boy 🤣😂😅
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The more she talks, the more she exposes that she has no idea what being alone is actually like.....she's ran through.
Women think being used up sexually is the only type of loneliness. 😂
@@8bitdragoninstall182 women love sexual Validation from high value men,but a woman can only take so many pump and dumps before she enters another phase of her life,where she will need emotional Validation. TO know that a man really cares for her and values her as a human being,but this stage only comes after she has been ran through, and overdosed on sexual Validation.....this is where women "settle" for the plan B nice guy......then once she secures him,it's back to the streets for sexual Validation.
She is not and never will be a wife on this side of Heaven.
Please don't take advice from her.
And any man who thinks she's celibate, although she claims to be single, single is a fool. Women are NEVER alone. They don't know how to be still.
I closed my eyes and actively listened to what she said. The majority of what she said are huge red flags. Addictions, materialism, selfishness, inflated ego, and self-importance are all things she said about herself. Those are not attractive traits. Now that she has aged, she cannot attract the same level of men as before. I can see why men avoid her, and she's only for recreational use.
Great video & call outs!
Oooohhhh snap 💀💀
you forgot to add she is crass. Huge turn off
Self Sabotage Is Why Alot Of Women Are Losing. 💯
Chasing equality yet they have gender specific expectations.
"I need somebody to please approach me..."
As a woman that’s very true
Which is why they wouldn't last a week if the dating rules were reversed
Key word Validation ---- why men don't approach women or men creating a dating crisis bullsh "'''t that's what it is
@@nicolem889let's ensure we add women want the 10% of Chad/Tyrones to approach them. All other avg men are creeps if we do.
@@bplayerr1 Well yes if there’s no real reason to believe that she particularly wants your attention. That’s not creepy to you?
Nothing is stoping her from apprpaching the men she's interested in, but her ego wont ler her
AKA she KNOWS she will either be pumped and dumped, OR be REJECTED. Hahahah 🤣🤣🤣
It's not ego. Most women are absolutely clueless about how to cold approach someone and even though they won't admit it they are terrified.
@@David-xy9yo not our problem. they'll die alone & i won't lose a wink of sleep over it.
@@arturovoldir9818 This.
@David-xy9yo And this too.
That and fear of rejection...such queens🥴
I'm 40 years old, so from my perspective I find it ironic how even in this stage of her life, she's demanding all 5 love languages, yet won't say what she's willing to give a man. Years of seeing women make head scratching, idiotic, and self destructive decisions have made most women single, with kids, while posting redundant posts and videos about "their worth"....
As you would say, "The foolishness".
That's a woman for ya. It's always me me me, I demand or give me.
Love languages is total and complete bullsheeyit. You hear a roundheel like this or any others say that then you know that they are recreational use only! Wh00000
Boundless idiocy.... Now we all see why our ancestors had a very special place for women and their input.
But she did say what she brings; she’s the blessing from God! 😂😂. Can you get more arrogant than this!
@@vr4892 She brings headaches stress and drama
We heard these women loud and clear when they said they were "strong and independent, and don't need a man." We left them to it, moved on, and didn't look back. It shouldn't surprise those same women when they aren't approached and are kept in the friend zone.
“I intimidate men” is pure cope. She turns them off, plain and simple.
ALL men are attracted to young, beautiful, PURE, feminine vvomen. No man she wants gives a single F about her confidence, sTrEnGtH, career…blah blah.
If a vvoman squanders ANY of these qualities, she longer has anything to offer the kind of man that SHE WANTS. She’ll have to settle for the kind of man she DOESN’T want.
She should’ve committed to Mr Right before she wasted herself.
This used to be common sense.
“I am 40 and independent and I don’t know why it’s harder for women like me to keep dating”
Translation: “I am old and ran through. I’ve been having casual sex for two decades and I never saw the need to commit to one man. I always thought I could do better or I treated men like objects to be used until I got bored. Now I am old, damaged, ran through, infertile, and I am still single. I’ll keep pretending that I don’t know why I am where I am because that’s all I have left to cope with a lifetime of loneliness.”
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That is dead on accurate.
You beat me to it... She's basically a subway station..oops she's got money so she's an upscale subway station
100% Nothing left to say. Pure Gold.
Comment of the day!!!!! 😂
They live in denial and then act confused.. 😅
Never gets old. I’m only in my mid 30’s I’m already sick of it. I can’t imagine beyond that for you guys.
That's a damn fact, and I ain't talking about just wahmen. Many people straight in denial these days. Once they've done it for so long it becomes habit and ingrained within them, unless they willing to put in the work, nothing changes
A man of great status can love and prioritize a woman of "lesser value," but a high caliber woman can not because her priority will always be herself.
Never! And yet they say they dont.
W comment
Hypergamy
"high caliber"
A woman who makes more money than a man can NEVER be a silent bread winner! She will ALWAYS make it known and talk about every single thing she buys or does and in fact make the man feel inferior at every opportunity she gets! This happens 9/10 times! Most women dont know how to handle positions of power or authority, it is most times abused!
After getting married, I feel like there's something special about feeling vulnerable enough to feel like you NEED someone. When the bond is strong you can develop the mindset that you cant be without that person even if you can.
Speaking as a woman.
16:01 ngl…waiting a while year to ask someone “So what are we?” Is crazy!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Right
Hey what is that clip from???😂😂😂😂
@@BaseballKing44idk where the clip is from
This lady still hasn't realized that meeting that millionaire boyfriend was the inflection point in her dating history; an inflection point with a downward trajectory. Godspeed Miss.
I learned to never take what females say at face value. I *have* to be in the presence of the woman, in the conversation, and have the ability to ask questions.
A womans monolouge about her past is surely embellished excessively.
With that said...was this millionaire really her boyfriend fr...because from what I see women who experience consecutive wealthy men are simply stress relievers.
Faster than The Flash floppy DCU movie.
Lmao your post remind me of walk don’t run channel did a montage of joe Biden saying “this country has reached an inflection point “ over the years.
Is the inflection point that moment just before a person falls off a cliff and goes splat?
@@asdffdsa898bingo. She said dating millionaires came with infidelity. Meaning the dudes were just tossing all these chicks up, not taking them serious. But she thought they were in a whole relationship 😂
"I'm not getting approached by the men I want"
Fixed it. She's getting approached stop the cap
Correct she is getting approached, but on for sexual gratification.. Period
Men approach her, she don't want the bus driver or construction worker. She want the VP of Coca-Cola
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It's only semi delusional. We have to understand, these women were dating older successful dudes while they were in their teens and 20s. So, for them, they can't go back down to an average dude. 😅
she said that men don't have to make as much money.... but she wants a "big" ring.
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@@stephenc2481 Peep game lol
I credit Ms. Lady for being candid and honest.
Her market is men in their 50s looking for their 2nd marriage. I wish her the best of luck.
@jeremybstudentpilot5315
Ouch! That was harsh...but gratifying to hear :)
Insult to men in their 50s looking for 2nd marriage
In my experience, women like this have a problem being held accountable, because they are so "independent" that they can't be told nuthin.
Women: I don't know why men don't approach me
Also women: starts talking and nearly every reason why men don't approach them comes out 1 by 1
- Over 40 and likely can't produce children
- Negative/cranky
- Entitled/selfish
- Hates monogamy (aka "marriage stuff")
- Only dated the Bad Boys and high value men in her 20s (and crapped on the good men.)
- "Strong and Independent Woman" who still wants a man to spoil her with diamond rings so big, they can't fit in her purse.
- A liar ("Sapiosexual")
- Has learned NOTHING in her 20+ years of dating experience.
"wHy wOn'T mEn aPpRoAcH mE?! tHeY jUsT iNtIMiDaTeD bY a sUcCeSsFuL wOmAn!"
No one deserves anything, we all earn everything. She earned her fate.
Says she knocked back NBA players 😂😂😂
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That’s deep and true at the same time
Talk about a lost child. She will never marry. She has no idea what men want.
If she had an idea, she would have married as an 18-19 yr old virgin and had a tribe of kids. But nooooooo,
they already know it,wimin mature ahead of us MEN,they just want to ruin their life until the end of rope and tryin to hide all those malice by wearing a sheeps clothing.
And no idea what a "wife" is and should be...
Nor does she care...she thinks she can dictate what men want....the more they scream, the less interested men are; the harder the sales pitch, the poorer the product quality.
No man is going to hire her for the wife position. She's unqualified and has no skills or experience.
Big up to all the good hard working men y'all deserve a beautiful ,loyal,feminine and submissive woman
Courtney Michelle reacted to your video. Had some interesting takes.
Manosphere Highlights Daily - Hey there. I'm a white guy from the midwest; raised in the 60's and 70's. There was no such channel when I was a young man. I instinctively knew all the things you teach on your channel, but I was not able to articulate them as well as you do. I'm happily married (and like you, I took my talents overseas in the early 80's and stayed there) to a perfect woman. I like your channel and I think it's great that you produce this content for young men who need to hear this information. Keep doing it.
“I started to attract dudes with a lot of money.” NO….You were ATTRACTED to those guys. You didn’t get them. They got YOU! 😂
Absolutely!!!!!!
Spot on👌
Damn
She doesn't need to be simulated mentally; she wants to be the center of attention.
She wants a man with his sh*t together to come in and have his life revolve around her like those 2 things can co-exist.
I swear these women can’t hear how illogical they’re expectations are. Video after video, it’s the same “I’m the prize” and “ it’s all about me” mindset from these women.
You are doing exactly what you should be doing!! Don’t change a thing, whatever you’re doing is giving off the vibes that are keeping good brothers away where they should stay. If your independence is that important STAY SINGLE!! Men are not intimidated by independent women, they don’t want you for whatever behaviors you want to cling to or attitudes you exude. Please don’t change, stay single!! if you’re in your 40’s there is No chance that you have not encountered a Few good men who were interested in you, you probably weren’t interested in them, or drove them away.
@jayb.7985
She had met quality men who were interested in her...but she "friend-zoned" them.
She said she spent $200 on food and drinks for herself, that opening alone was all one needs to hear.
Ok cool. You caught that too. I’m like jeez lady; you’re hella expensive.
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Cheaper maintenance if you get a Harley. You will want to ride a Harley more than once too
@@Soloman_1800 😂😂😂
When a woman tells you she's strong and independent, believe her. Leave women like that alone and find a woman who WANTS you and isn't shy or shiesty about it! Wasting your time on such women is your fault. We have put in all this effort for you to get this info and learn! Strong and independent does NOT need you. She isn't even hiding it. Keep it simple and find someone who wants and needs YOU!
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As men we should be more accommodating, when these ladies hit 40 they're basically men at this point and should be welcomed into the brotherhood!😮
Nope. They'll never be men. No matter how hard they try.
Naw cause they'll still expect men to pay
Never!
Ice Cold 🥶❄️ 😅
Nah she can still walk into a room say who wants to f and still get plenty of opportunities, there's very few men who can do that and they are primarily celebrities, athletes, and rich aka the 1%ers
Shell never be man
She is a strong and independent woman! Stunning and brave! She's GOT THIS! You Go Girl Go! Girl POWER! 😂😂😂😂😂 So stunning, so brave!
Thank you for not attacking us.
Another women living her life like an R&B record
Ayooooo…lmaooo…all R&B singers are in broken relationships too lol
Man, damn you hit the nail on the head!! And so many of them do………especially BW.
more like a cheesy 90's 'gangsta' rap clip
@@mkf628 ....Ice Ice baby♫....
@@peposo7
There is no dating @ 40. Only recreational use.
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Yeah there’s no point. She is on the verge of premenopause there’s no point of dating her if she can’t bear children that’s the whole point of dating and courting
There are simps and average men.
The simps you will have with you always!
OneHunned
Because you're 40, independent, and can't be molded anymore-next question....
Simple as that.! She made a whole vid to find out Why.
Boom 💥
Ironically she is moldy…
She can be molded, if you make enough money
@airthrowDBTwow damn 😂
that outro was amazing dude
I agree with her. I would have loved to have met a woman of substance, that didn't want to just talk about her nail polish or all those superficial things. I was disappointed to find that woman didn't exist anywhere around me.
This is amazing… Because there’s men in here saying that no one cares about her strength or her confidence which is honestly beyond sad. This woman in the video is proving to you that they exist… So you should find her!
It’s awesome that you actually appreciate what she is saying
Accurate. Every time I see a woman with fancy stuff and travel pictures I DON'T "feel intimidated", I feel "exhaustion".
Yup
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She’s 40 “strong and independent” and wonders why no one approaches her? LOL! Once they utter those words with the nastiness that comes with it automatically makes them radioactive!
You’re one of those dudes who thinks your prime is 45 😂
@@nicolem889 I see you’re one of the resident trolls here. No matter what you say in the comment section, the facts remain the same for you, and many like you! You actually believe defending delusional women is some
kind of badge of honor!
@@nicolem889Your one of those older chicks that try to shame older men into dating them lol.
@@pattycakes1439 I don't know why you think grey hairs on their sack is a catch. 🤣 No, I don't want a man with arthritis.
@@nicolem889 Looks like u seen a lot of 45yr old sacks lol. Sweetheart making fun of those guys still doesn’t take away from the fact that u are older and don’t have a ring. Perhaps u should settle with one of those grey haired sacks, so u don’t have to be up at 3am on a MANISOPHERE comment section LOL. Your SIGN(Shame,Insults,Guilt,Need to be right)language doesn’t work over here. Men are gonna continue to date younger women, and could care less what u say. Same way no man is up with u at 3am caring about u now
This is why Kevin Samuels was such an asset to this space. He would have wanted to talk to this woman directly, and expose all of her BS.
So you want me to give out of prime menopausal 40-year-old woman 100, 000 to $500,000 wedding ring. She must be out of her goddamn mind😂
If she lived in NYC
She wouldn't be able
To take it 😂
One thing I think women don't understand is that we want to experience life with you first, not just tag along later and not know about you or your past. We want to invest in you with healthy foundations and see the growth from the journey of our relationship.
Well said 💯
Can't do that with a broken 40 year old woman. She is partially an amalgamation of all the men she has had before you.
_"I'm a strong and independent 40+ year old woman who has RBF, only dated the Bad Boys in my 20s, and don't need no man. ...Why won't any men approach me?!"_
You can't make this crap up. Sadly, due to simps, she'll never learn her lesson and they'll always be some spineless loser out there to emotionally validate her even if she doesn't deserve it.
If you really could make this up, You'd be a "Danielle Steel" novelist by now!
We need to also expose these simps for chopping off their own balls just to validate delusional women.
The delusional comes from all the trash they watch like real housewives, the beyonce/cardi b like musicians etc.
You said it best and I and many men do not feel sorry for women like this.
@MarvinPowell1
I agree with you. There will always be a sex-starved "Captain-Save-a-Hoe" who will go and wife up this old hag and let the import of her cautionary tale be lost in the next generation.
It’s not INTIMIDATION, it’s annoyance girl.
Definitely annoying, not a wife.
She never once mentioned what she can do for the man, only what she wants & needs from him.
In America, it's called casual dating for causal sex.
Dating use to be called courting for marriage.
Girl, you are strong and independent and we are proud of you. That doesn't mean we want to be with you. You may want one of us this week but maybe not next week. You think that we are plentiful and disposable. We are not interested in hearing you say "What have you done for me lately?" You don't need us so we don't need you. At least you can take care of yourself, so there is that. Enjoy your last 40 years alone.
Well said!!!
She's not a sapiosexual she just means she needs a cheerleader or ego booster. Also she has male friends who have romantic interests in her. Sounds like a great catch. 😂
Sapiosexual, like "bisexual," doesn't exist. Any woman who claims she's either is just an obnoxious attention whore who likes to lie a lot.
The smallest things can tell you about a woman, including the way they sit down while having a conversation.
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She’s super masculine and obviously doesn’t even realize it
God i listened to her for 10 seconds and just got so much masculine energy
people in general don’t understand the difference! There is a BIG difference between High Value Men and High Earning Men! They’re not the same!
For some reason alot of women believe that they gain dating/relationship value the older they get no matter how off the charts the mileage is
For a woman to say she doesn't need a man is self condemnation
"No Scrubs" , "Independant Woman" , "Who Runs The World?" , "Single Ladies" and "WAP" ruined two entire generations of women, lol.
The fact that this is a topic to talk about it telks u everything by itself.
40 year old dammmmnnnn good luck to her, it's too late to change now, stay strong and independant lady.
Support her in her career???? That rings a bell for me. That was one of the complaints that I got from my wife when we were going through divorce. I'm a banker! What the fuck do I know about interior decorating? Nothing. I looked at her projects and said "yeah, that looks great!" What else can I do to 'support' you? What did you ever do to 'support' my career as a banker? I'm certain the answer would've been something like "cleaned the house, raised our kids, blah, blah, blah". Those are all things she alway WANTED to do---be a wife and mother. It was what SHE wanted. It wasn't supporting my career. But as MHD says, women don't know what they want. They may THINK they do today, but it will definitely change tomorrow.
The thing with women is that it's always about something else, other than the actual thing. Everything they do is basically a proxy to be used to make her the centre of attention, all the time. Whatever mad, pointless scheme they are cooking up is always intended that you fawn over them and be emotionally involved, and thus prove that they are all that matters in the Universe. When you tell them that you think vanilla white is just as good as magnolia, then they are going to take it that you don't really care about them, then they will have a tantrum to make themselves the centre of attention, anyway.
@@scartissuefilms agree
Looks like you had that "daddy day look at me riding my bike" moment. Like a child calling for attention.
@@carltonlambert7608 to justify her cheating, she was throwing everything she could imagine at me. Everything she had ever heard the sisterhood complain about men. Very little of it was true or logical. Lesson learned about women, no matter what their history, religious professions, etc. They can ALWAYS change their minds when they want to.
@@stephenkilpatrick807 At least they'll never be alone Schizophrenia is one big party where the guests are all a clone of them. Talk about small talk with multiples of themselves. Bleak house awaits if that's the case.
Put these two statements together: "I need you to feed me" and "You're going to love it here. You're not gonna leave."
That's her mindset. She will drain you and expect you to be grateful for the experience.
This Woman speaks fluent hyeyanease! Trust me there are probably two or more hearts out there that she mercilessly crushed and forgot about. Hold the line Men!!!
Lived with a single mom 9 years, never proposed and we eventually broke up...OK I cheated lol. Met a single gorgeous woman. We were living together in six months, before the year was over I proposed, the following summer we got married and on our honeymoon learned we were going to be parents, seventeen years later we have two sons and still hold hands
"Collecting Data"😂😂😂😂😂
Her self description would answer her own question. You make your personality about being independent, well you’ll probably end up alone-which is the best state for an independent queen to be in.
Love seeing independent women struggle, inject their tears into my veins
Yes!!! YEEESSSSS!
Omg lol savage 😅
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Standing back, popcorn ready... watching them crash and burn...
The man she wants and the man she deserves bear no resemblance. Let's interview her EX. LOL
Ex! 😂😂😂
My Advice: head to petsmart, isle 3 for cat food, isle 5 for plastic _dog toys_ (extra large ribbed). Thats your future.
Damn. This is a textbook case of everything wrong with the modern woman.
Be independent.... stay independent... *DIE* independent!!! 🤣🤣🤣
20 years too late. Good luck miss independent that's why we love you.
She got her own thing
That's why I love her
Miss Independent
Won't you come and spend a little time?
She got her own thing
That's why I love her
Miss Independent
Ooh the way we shine, Miss Independent, yeah
Ooh there's somethin' about
Kind of woman that can do for herself
I look at her and it makes me proud
There's somethin' about her
There's somethin' oh so sexy about
Kind of woman that don't even need my help
She said she got it, she got it, no doubt
There's something about her
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Neyo 😂😂
Lol independent women are only attractive for casual situationships
@@eyemunchained8968 no shit?
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"YOU'RE A GREAT FRIEND." WHERE HAVE WE HEARD THAT BEFORE? 😅
I do commend her on her attitude and not blaming men for her singleness.
For those wondering her name is Krystal Haslett. She's been on several BET shows. She's as fine as it gets for wasted youth.If you've seen the roles she's played its like she has played herself. Similar to Taraji P.
Or Lala Anthony
Taraji P. Henson is exactly the vibe I am getting from this one 🤦🏾♂🤷🏾♂
She is definitely fine but again she has been around actors ballers name them and no takers that will take forever that should tell her she is just ok or average and that’s ok she wants a man to be a woman to her or be her BFF it’s not a man’s job to be a BFF
She aight
She has been dick dismantled, and destroyed by multiple men
Men should not be approaching women nowadays anyway. There's too much liability.
If they don't personally find you attractive then you might get humiliated online, catch a harassment charge or BOTH. Seeing how needlessly aggressive and hostile they are to people they personally don't find attractive is all you need to see that approaching women (in the west) isn't worth it nowadays
If you don't approach, what are you going to do? Don't say apps because that's a joke for like 60% of men.
@@cliffg7459 Let women come to you. Put yourself out there. But, let them come to you. It doesn't mean never approach. It means you don't chase. As a man, your job is to let her know that she only has one chance with you. If she doesn't come correct, you'll move on. It's that mentality.
@thedevilsadvocate3710 Sorry, if you do that, you will never get the right girl. Women are raised as being the prize not the aggressor. I've been to many countries and the only place that could fly is some parts of Asia & Europe. Yea, I've put myself out there, way out there.
@@cliffg7459 I don't fully agree. I do fully support the passport bro movement. But, in the west, if your dating status is out there and you're not getting bites with your lifestyle/profile, you need better marketing or you need to level up in all aspects of the game. The number one attraction trait all women have is status. If women see you as a leader of men or the high potential for it, she will follow too.
She had her chance! She could've had a husband by now. But she wanted her, "independence" and looking for perfection. She played herself
Dang, somehow Manosphere should incorporate Ice T's "you played yourself" line from one of his songs. That would be classic
Nice video bro ,, love it 🙌🏽
I've had just as many women approach me as I've approached women. If you're still playing weird childish games and expect an 18th century courtship, you're going to be limited to a very few men , mostly players you should avoid.
By 25 you should be mature enough to enter a relationship on equal grounds, not expect your fantasy to be catered to.
Every statement she makes is all about her "he has to do this for ME......if he wants ME...."
Women change the dating game and this 40yr old is the perfect example of the men she wants don't want her
5:41 what you said here is pure gold.
“A man needs to understand a woman’s past before deciding if he wants to be part of her future.”
Bars!
Her problem is that the guys she wants, are all dating younger women or have completely checked out of the whole mess. I quit dating in my early 50's, but during my 40's I never looked at a woman in her 40's. Why? Because the younger better looking women were all willing to date me. Of course, I also didn't care if those women were making a lot of money (some were) or had advanced degrees (some did) or were physically perfect (one or two were, most were just.....women). She's spitting cap when she talks about "they don't need to be on my level". No way in hell is she dating a bus driver or a retail manager. You're an electrician? She's not dating you. Not only is she lying to everyone watching this video....she's lying to herself. Never a good place to start.
Exactly, everything coming out of her mouth was pure bull sh*t
Faàaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaacts!!!!!
Exactly bc a bus driver can’t buy an 8carat ring
@@skinzwideawoke9293 Are you saying they are in it for the $$?
Who would have guessed lol
Body count higher than the Predator.😂😂Gold Jerry!!It's gold!!!😂😂
My advice..Lose the Adam's apple.
I'm not surprised why she is single. Its her mindset
She a child with big feet
Black women’s attraction triggers are best for short term relationships..they place a greater focus on a man’s physical appearance and less on his character, integrity, willingness to commit
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So, a post-Wall woman wants to know why men aren't approaching her?
I can only speak from my experience but, I NEVER approach women. Even if they are YOUNG and attractive.
Funny thing is, the young women approach me. Women over 40 are too timid/old school to approach. They think staring at me will get me to approach them. Nope.
Did I mention that I'm over 60?
LOL. Good for you mate, if that's what you want/like. I'm grateful i get zero attention from them (not that i put myself in environments where they lurk though), as i want a peaceful existence. Cheers.
"Want" is fickle - "Need" is vital
By the way, she's talking. She will be single for a very long time. Even if she does get married, she will be divorced in less than 5 years.
"being single and having a break from relationships for her just means that shes on the carousel", - some chad
Practice being single and get good at it. Independent literally means to stand alone. If you want to be in a relationship practice partnership and team work. Support and selflessness.
At 40, focus on 55+ men.
Can we please send a delegation to the strong independent kween faction with the simple message that they ARE NOT intimidating? 😂
Annoying, irritating, head wracking, screeching... All words I would use to describe them before intimidating.
I told one the other day, the correct word is repulsive.
Boy, the dating market is getting bleak. Sheeesh. Keep grinding fellas. It's strange season out here nowadays lol she is crazy lol
I hope she reads these comments..
I like how she's in her 40's and she still describes the type of things she wants from her dream man, but when men describe the type of things they want from a woman they get cancelled and judged.🙄