The bad news is that you’re on your own and the bad news is that everybody around you has something to say about what you’re doing wrong. To that I say: There is no path, so walk wherever you feel like going and improve on things YOU feel you should improve on.
I'm turning 20 in just over 8 months, and this video really helped. Starting this year, I'm prioritising my health and working out, my passion for music and the trombone (I'm applying for a year in the military band) and my growing passion for fashion and political science (the latter of which i would like to make a career in). Thanks for the video, Tim! I'm certain this won't be the last time I watch it
Dawg, im so glad you exist. This shit all genuinely made me feel better, i went through a really bad breakup a few days ago and i really needed to see this
Probably one of the most grounded "what I wish I knew" videos that I've seen personally. Love your style and editing touches in your vids too and this one was no exception. Good work man
A lot of creators will make videos about this kind of 20s life advice stuff, but this is probably one of the best distillations of it that I’ve seen. Never understood the attachment random internet people have to creators until my friend intro’d me to your channel, at first just for the fashion content. Thanks, Tim.
Been following you since I was in college and I especially agree that not caring about what others think is top 1 on my list that I regret. I enjoy life a lot better now that I am true to myself. I am in my mid 20s and married with child. A lot of responsibilities on my end but still managing to take A LOT OF RISKS. Things have been working out pretty good lately but I'm not stopping here and will do more not only for myself this time but for my family as well.
I was laid off and had plenty of bills to pay and I didn't know what to do. I was desperate to find a source of income. After getting laid off I invested the money I saved over the years and created a small business (keep in my mind that I had mouths to feed as I am a breadwinner). I, of course, found a better job with better pay. The small business has been readying me and my wife to open a new business. I had a lot of help along the way but it has changed the way my mind works. I don't want to get in deep with it but I hope this will help you. I'm still trying to build a better life so I can only speak for my experience.
I just graduated as an electrical engineer at the age of 22. I’m very into fashion and am gonna build a brand called asad alex (based off of my Arabic and American name). My goal is to flip the world upside down and change it for the better. I’ve noticed that everything seems to have become so degenerate and over the past few years I have become more religious and changed my ways. This video is proof that I will accomplish my goals and so everyone that sees this comment I want you to know that I will achieve my goals inshallah and you can achieve whatever you want in this world if you put in the work and dream big enough.
This video really helped me. As a 26 year old who still lives at home and has a ton of student debt, it’s really easy for me to feel like I’m falling behind and recently had a severe panic attack because of it. I now have the motivation to really try and change my circumstances. Thanks Tim :)
I appreciate this video Tim whenever I'm feeling lost and not knowing what to do, I always come back to this video to remind me on the path that I really want to take. I'm in my 20's and I'm kinda taking the long route towards my goal but this video always reminds me that I'm at the right place at the right time.
I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever,hoping to retire next year.. Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life.
Thanks for the advice! I'm new to financial planning and wasn't sure where to start. Any tips on finding a reliable financial adviser or resource to guide beginners?
As a beginner, it's essential for you to have a mentor that is verified by finra and SEC to keep you accountable. I'm guided by a widely known financial consultant Stacey Macken
Today is my 21st birthday and I do feel really lost. As someone who suffers from mental health problems and doesn’t really get along with family, I’m just blessed that God gave me another year in this cycle we all call “life.” I do wish I could celebrate like other people who do their 21st birthday but I’m not that rich. I am thankful though for another year.
I'll be 26 in a few months and I've been demotivated in life due to many factors affecting it (unemployment, lack of savings, weight gain etc) but thank you for this video Tim! I really needed that push to keep moving forward
Always enjoy a life advice video, Tim. I'd also say that although it's good to think of your future self, it's important not to end up sacrificing your present self to it; life's too short not to cut yourself some slack in the moment!
Thank You Tim I’m turning 21 in feb and life had started to take its toll on me thinking i am 21 and i have nothing together, hence , I had started running From problems . Harder choices are just harder to commit cause doing the right thing is often harder than doing the right thing
Your 20s is basically the same as your teen years. It's a formative time in your life. Learning about yourself. Figuring out what you value. Planting seeds for your future. The only difference is you have a bit more money and freedom compared to your teen years. Your 30s is when you actually begin that "stability" period in your life. Your 20s is for the most part an experimental period.
i'm 34 this year, and I agree with everything in this video. i also just started some of the things you shared, never too late. thanks for the good advice & affirmation.
I think there is a huge level of "survivor bias" here. The vast vast majority of people who try to quit a 9-5 job to follow a dream of freedom (such as a content creator) do not succeed. It is a combination of skill, luck and privilege.
Im 21, ive been feeling like a failure for over 2 years, i dropped out of my dream college without my choice, i failed alot of relationship, lost alot of people i really thought would stay forever, now im in another college, im trying to find meaning and purpose, i keep falling down but whats important is getting back up, i had issues with drugs and alcohol and i wasted alot of time doing them and getting in trouble, i dont regret partying, im glad i got to experience that part of life, anyway im ranting and its dumb, (if ur still reading u can say hi) i just passed the first term in my new college and im on top of my class, maybe ill get back up, stumble and fall again, but improve
I still struggle alot with Point 5, Nobody cares - because all my life they did care. I was the fat Kid back then in school, got bullied pretty much my entire school life. Even after school in the first two companys i worked at (which had ALOT of toxic coworkers) it continued. Now i'll be 33 in March. I still struggle with it, even though i lost most of my weight (almost 90 Pounds, i'm very close to a healthy weight now), take more care of myself and got a bit into fashion. But my past really did hurt me in this aspect. It will be really hard to get over it, if i'm even able to get over it. If somebody still goes through something like me: It will get better, if you start working on yourself. It's freaking hard but will be worth it. But some things may not change - like the way you handle specific situations. For me, it's realizing that nobody now cares how i look/what i do.
As someone in their mid 20s feeling really stuck at life, these are honestly great tips that i didn't expect from this channel. Some of these really confronted me with the way i think about myself and stuff. Thank you for this video!
Hey Tim, just want to say I appreciate your video! Question: do you use any supplements for your hair? Im not sure if you know anything about hair loss
Video like this help me a lot Thank you tim. Thank you so much, i lost my father at 20 years old and my mother at 26 years old. I'm 27 now is so hard lost both my parent at such young age. For me everytime i found someone video so helpful you guys just like my parent ❤
I think for the point about nobody cares i think its a matter of "yes and no" like on a spectrum because its naunced? Sometimes I've had people point of things with my fits to give their opinion (good or bad) or notice patterns or whatever. But I think a better way to go by this is reflecting to yourself whether you should care about others opinions so deeply. I would prioritize cultivating your own self esteem by validating yourself. Just my 2 cents. Other than that, great video!
27 with a college degree that I don't use with a job that I hate and currently so lost😢. I have no idea what I like or what my real calling is , wish y knew what I like just to put all my effort into it
When I was younger, I came to believe that figuring out what you don’t like is easier that figuring out what you like. To get to a point where you actually like what you do, I think you need to keep trying different things. I’m my case, after trying different jobs, I eventually ended up learning new skills online that I now use professionally. I don’t use my degree at all. The main idea though is that a lack of action won’t change your situation.
@@Spades340 Thanks a lot man I am thinking the same thing and try to learn skills online. But I spend so much time thinking what should I study or what do I like that I don't start. That last sentences really hit the nail
this video came at the perfect time, i was stuck in a spiral just yesterday about the position i am in my life right now, not knowing exactly what i am doing with my life and this helped me gain a huge perspective so thank you for this video :)
Totally agree, enhancing focus for a particular things is the simple advice to move further instead of doing so many things in a short of time, very inspiring! 🔥
I've watched a dozen self-improvement videos, and this video might not be about that but it was still easily the most helpful. Thank you so much Tim! God bless you.
Never followed the crowd. However in order to survive & flourish in such an environment you need to be able to sacrifice many things. They're cruel to whoever they can't blackmail into obedience. That's why powerful political leaders always focus on a room full of sheep that need a shepherd. In order to protect yourself from the flock, you may be heading towards loneliness and poverty because only those who don't have anything get to keep everything worth having.
The bad news is you're on your own, but the cool news is you're on your own
is that a Taylor Swift quote?
Yes once you get used to idea of being on your own, life gets clearer and your achievements feel bigger cause they’re truly your own
The bad news is that you’re on your own and the bad news is that everybody around you has something to say about what you’re doing wrong. To that I say: There is no path, so walk wherever you feel like going and improve on things YOU feel you should improve on.
Taylor 🥰🥰
Pretty much sums up my recent breakup after a long relationship lol
I'm turning 20 in just over 8 months, and this video really helped. Starting this year, I'm prioritising my health and working out, my passion for music and the trombone (I'm applying for a year in the military band) and my growing passion for fashion and political science (the latter of which i would like to make a career in). Thanks for the video, Tim! I'm certain this won't be the last time I watch it
So you just turned 19, and you are already thinking about turning 20
Dawg, im so glad you exist. This shit all genuinely made me feel better, i went through a really bad breakup a few days ago and i really needed to see this
Hope you are feeling a bit better already! The pain will go away, trust me :)
Probably one of the most grounded "what I wish I knew" videos that I've seen personally. Love your style and editing touches in your vids too and this one was no exception. Good work man
As someone who just recently turned 29 this past year thank you Tim for the advice! I really needed to hear the last one!
A lot of creators will make videos about this kind of 20s life advice stuff, but this is probably one of the best distillations of it that I’ve seen.
Never understood the attachment random internet people have to creators until my friend intro’d me to your channel, at first just for the fashion content. Thanks, Tim.
9:17 Wise words, Im defnetly going to rember that sentence
Been following you since I was in college and I especially agree that not caring about what others think is top 1 on my list that I regret. I enjoy life a lot better now that I am true to myself. I am in my mid 20s and married with child. A lot of responsibilities on my end but still managing to take A LOT OF RISKS. Things have been working out pretty good lately but I'm not stopping here and will do more not only for myself this time but for my family as well.
I'm in a similar position, I have a child under 1 so I'd love to hear the kind of risks you're taking as I'm feeling a little slumped!
I was laid off and had plenty of bills to pay and I didn't know what to do. I was desperate to find a source of income. After getting laid off I invested the money I saved over the years and created a small business (keep in my mind that I had mouths to feed as I am a breadwinner). I, of course, found a better job with better pay. The small business has been readying me and my wife to open a new business. I had a lot of help along the way but it has changed the way my mind works. I don't want to get in deep with it but I hope this will help you. I'm still trying to build a better life so I can only speak for my experience.
I just graduated as an electrical engineer at the age of 22. I’m very into fashion and am gonna build a brand called asad alex (based off of my Arabic and American name). My goal is to flip the world upside down and change it for the better. I’ve noticed that everything seems to have become so degenerate and over the past few years I have become more religious and changed my ways. This video is proof that I will accomplish my goals and so everyone that sees this comment I want you to know that I will achieve my goals inshallah and you can achieve whatever you want in this world if you put in the work and dream big enough.
Inshallah brother
Keep going bruh am rooting for you 💪✊
See you at the top
This video really helped me. As a 26 year old who still lives at home and has a ton of student debt, it’s really easy for me to feel like I’m falling behind and recently had a severe panic attack because of it. I now have the motivation to really try and change my circumstances. Thanks Tim :)
The videos are looking amazing, Tim. 🔥
I appreciate this video Tim whenever I'm feeling lost and not knowing what to do, I always come back to this video to remind me on the path that I really want to take. I'm in my 20's and I'm kinda taking the long route towards my goal but this video always reminds me that I'm at the right place at the right time.
As someone who's about to enter college, I love these life advice videos that you've made. Thank you Tim!
Do more of these every once in awhile, maybe do a list of book suggestions
That element of "you're right on time" hit in just the right way❤️
More content like this man pls, listening to u is a pleasure🙏
Thanks a lot, I'm 21 and I'm feeling lost most of the time, your video is treasurable to me. Thank you!
just finished the shuttle art of not givin' a f*ck ..mindset and life changing.
Oh man I’m in my 50s and I’m taking notes. Great vid!
Watching this in my 30s
looking at your pfp, I wouldn't say your 20's went that well
I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever,hoping to retire next year.. Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life.
Thanks for the advice! I'm new to financial planning and wasn't sure where to start. Any tips on finding a reliable financial adviser or resource to guide beginners?
As a beginner, it's essential for you to have a mentor that is verified by finra and SEC to keep you accountable. I'm guided by a widely known financial consultant Stacey Macken
This Woman has really change the life of many people from different countries and am a testimony of her trading platform
I met Stacey Macken at a conference in 2018 and we have been working together ever since.
Though I started with as low as $13,000 actually because it was my first time and it was successful, She's is a great personality in the state
Today is my 21st birthday and I do feel really lost. As someone who suffers from mental health problems and doesn’t really get along with family, I’m just blessed that God gave me another year in this cycle we all call “life.” I do wish I could celebrate like other people who do their 21st birthday but I’m not that rich. I am thankful though for another year.
I completely agree with the invest in yourself concept.
As per usual, phenomenal inspiring stuff!
Despite other UA-camrs, your video are getting better in quality and also more interesting week by week!
You are like a good Italian wine Tim 🍷😉
Such a legend. Aye, thank you for this 👌
Thank you very much for this share, for these insights.
Probably your best video ever, thank you tim ⭐️
needed this
This video is amazing, thank you
From Brazil! So good advices thank you so much
Tim, loved the video. Your style of content has always been super inspiring.
Thanks. I needed to hear this.
This video is a gem
loved this!
Definitely helped
I love this video. This calmed me tremendously.
thank you so much you save me life. I enjoy more present
Thank you so much, Tim. Help a lot
That smooth transition into an ad-read 😂 kudos bro
thank you so much tim
I'll be 26 in a few months and I've been demotivated in life due to many factors affecting it (unemployment, lack of savings, weight gain etc) but thank you for this video Tim! I really needed that push to keep moving forward
Always enjoy a life advice video, Tim. I'd also say that although it's good to think of your future self, it's important not to end up sacrificing your present self to it; life's too short not to cut yourself some slack in the moment!
Thank you Tim
A very awesome video, i like that format too!
Thankyou, sir!! Respect 🫡
love this ❤
Very dope video, Tim. Thank you very much!
Thank You Tim I’m turning 21 in feb and life had started to take its toll on me thinking i am 21 and i have nothing together, hence , I had started running From problems . Harder choices are just harder to commit cause doing the right thing is often harder than doing the right thing
Thank you!! i needed this!, 😢❤😊
i really love this video, thanks for sharing
I like this mindset.
Great video! Very helpful
Fresh into my 20s!!! Excited and scared! Thanks for the video mate! Super useful ❤
Well said
Awesome truths, awesome animations!
Your 20s is basically the same as your teen years. It's a formative time in your life. Learning about yourself. Figuring out what you value. Planting seeds for your future. The only difference is you have a bit more money and freedom compared to your teen years. Your 30s is when you actually begin that "stability" period in your life. Your 20s is for the most part an experimental period.
Thank you brother
Thanks for this 😊
Tim that watch is lit 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I've missed this type of UA-cam videos
Love it bro
thank you tim
i'm 34 this year, and I agree with everything in this video. i also just started some of the things you shared, never too late. thanks for the good advice & affirmation.
Yo idk what day it happened but happy birthday man!!
My favorite quote is "the only way to truly be comfortable is to be uncomfortable".
Very cool video bro, love it❤
Love this vid of yours, unique
I think there is a huge level of "survivor bias" here. The vast vast majority of people who try to quit a 9-5 job to follow a dream of freedom (such as a content creator) do not succeed. It is a combination of skill, luck and privilege.
Im 21, ive been feeling like a failure for over 2 years, i dropped out of my dream college without my choice, i failed alot of relationship, lost alot of people i really thought would stay forever, now im in another college, im trying to find meaning and purpose, i keep falling down but whats important is getting back up, i had issues with drugs and alcohol and i wasted alot of time doing them and getting in trouble, i dont regret partying, im glad i got to experience that part of life, anyway im ranting and its dumb, (if ur still reading u can say hi) i just passed the first term in my new college and im on top of my class, maybe ill get back up, stumble and fall again, but improve
keep going forward bro. u got this!
Keep going bro, you got this. If it makes you feel better I'm 21 and I haven't figured out my life too. We gonna make it
It's very helpful
Fantastic video
Amazing vid ! As the Rock says ..One day, or day one 💪
👍 nice thank you Tim
Very great Video brother! Love from Germany
I still struggle alot with Point 5, Nobody cares - because all my life they did care. I was the fat Kid back then in school, got bullied pretty much my entire school life. Even after school in the first two companys i worked at (which had ALOT of toxic coworkers) it continued.
Now i'll be 33 in March. I still struggle with it, even though i lost most of my weight (almost 90 Pounds, i'm very close to a healthy weight now), take more care of myself and got a bit into fashion. But my past really did hurt me in this aspect. It will be really hard to get over it, if i'm even able to get over it.
If somebody still goes through something like me: It will get better, if you start working on yourself. It's freaking hard but will be worth it. But some things may not change - like the way you handle specific situations. For me, it's realizing that nobody now cares how i look/what i do.
This is the best video in UA-cam to start 2024
As someone in their mid 20s feeling really stuck at life, these are honestly great tips that i didn't expect from this channel. Some of these really confronted me with the way i think about myself and stuff. Thank you for this video!
Hey Tim, just want to say I appreciate your video! Question: do you use any supplements for your hair? Im not sure if you know anything about hair loss
Video like this help me a lot Thank you tim. Thank you so much, i lost my father at 20 years old and my mother at 26 years old. I'm 27 now is so hard lost both my parent at such young age. For me everytime i found someone video so helpful you guys just like my parent ❤
Probably öne of the bestever videos on the internet👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍
By the way Tim did you just give some clues about your brand🧐
Thank you so much for sharing, Tim!
I think for the point about nobody cares i think its a matter of "yes and no" like on a spectrum because its naunced? Sometimes I've had people point of things with my fits to give their opinion (good or bad) or notice patterns or whatever. But I think a better way to go by this is reflecting to yourself whether you should care about others opinions so deeply. I would prioritize cultivating your own self esteem by validating yourself. Just my 2 cents. Other than that, great video!
I really enjoyed this video👍
27 with a college degree that I don't use with a job that I hate and currently so lost😢. I have no idea what I like or what my real calling is , wish y knew what I like just to put all my effort into it
When I was younger, I came to believe that figuring out what you don’t like is easier that figuring out what you like.
To get to a point where you actually like what you do, I think you need to keep trying different things. I’m my case, after trying different jobs, I eventually ended up learning new skills online that I now use professionally. I don’t use my degree at all.
The main idea though is that a lack of action won’t change your situation.
@@Spades340 Thanks a lot man I am thinking the same thing and try to learn skills online. But I spend so much time thinking what should I study or what do I like that I don't start. That last sentences really hit the nail
thank you
This year i'm turning 30 also !!! Lets embrace and celebrate it happily :)
this video came at the perfect time, i was stuck in a spiral just yesterday about the position i am in my life right now, not knowing exactly what i am doing with my life and this helped me gain a huge perspective so thank you for this video :)
I needed this so bad. Thanks a lot Tim ❤
THANK YOU VERY MUCH
Inspiring
Thank you very much for this little enlightment☺
Great video
Thank you.
Damn! I clicked on this video waiting to get a bit more of fashion content and got myself tearing up at the end.
Thanks a lot.
Totally agree, enhancing focus for a particular things is the simple advice to move further instead of doing so many things in a short of time, very inspiring! 🔥
I've watched a dozen self-improvement videos, and this video might not be about that but it was still easily the most helpful. Thank you so much Tim! God bless you.
Never followed the crowd. However in order to survive & flourish in such an environment you need to be able to sacrifice many things. They're cruel to whoever they can't blackmail into obedience. That's why powerful political leaders always focus on a room full of sheep that need a shepherd. In order to protect yourself from the flock, you may be heading towards loneliness and poverty because only those who don't have anything get to keep everything worth having.
I LOVE YOU TIM!!! I really needed this, your a great mentor for us