7 Things I Wish I Knew In My 20s

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  • Опубліковано 31 тра 2024
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    Your 20s are a crucial decade of your life, where a lot of the decisions you make, both good and bad, can impact and snowball into the rest of your life. As I’m about to turn 30, I wanted to share with you 7 things that I wish I knew earlier in my 20s, that can hopefully help some of you on your journey.
    Timestamps:
    0:00 - Intro
    1:02 - Everybody is lost
    2:22 - Do more things that give you imposter syndrome
    3:10 - Don’t follow the crowd
    4:30 - Invest in yourself
    6:25 - Skillshare
    7:45 - Nobody cares
    8:54 - Hard choices, easy life. Easy choices, hard life.
    9:40 - Your 20s are a tiny portion of life
    10:33 - Outro
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  • @thkhoa8805
    @thkhoa8805 4 місяці тому +551

    The bad news is you're on your own, but the cool news is you're on your own

    • @nataSweet129
      @nataSweet129 4 місяці тому +8

      is that a Taylor Swift quote?

    • @tdot415
      @tdot415 4 місяці тому +6

      Yes once you get used to idea of being on your own, life gets clearer and your achievements feel bigger cause they’re truly your own

    • @rod5943
      @rod5943 4 місяці тому +2

      The bad news is that you’re on your own and the bad news is that everybody around you has something to say about what you’re doing wrong. To that I say: There is no path, so walk wherever you feel like going and improve on things YOU feel you should improve on.

    • @audrey06lee05
      @audrey06lee05 3 місяці тому

      Taylor 🥰🥰

  • @joshuakim2341
    @joshuakim2341 4 місяці тому +13

    As someone who just recently turned 29 this past year thank you Tim for the advice! I really needed to hear the last one!

  • @Deciverse
    @Deciverse 4 місяці тому +4

    Probably one of the most grounded "what I wish I knew" videos that I've seen personally. Love your style and editing touches in your vids too and this one was no exception. Good work man

  • @prashantmalyala
    @prashantmalyala 4 місяці тому +1

    A lot of creators will make videos about this kind of 20s life advice stuff, but this is probably one of the best distillations of it that I’ve seen.
    Never understood the attachment random internet people have to creators until my friend intro’d me to your channel, at first just for the fashion content. Thanks, Tim.

  • @hecl0980
    @hecl0980 4 місяці тому +38

    I'm turning 20 in just over 8 months, and this video really helped. Starting this year, I'm prioritising my health and working out, my passion for music and the trombone (I'm applying for a year in the military band) and my growing passion for fashion and political science (the latter of which i would like to make a career in). Thanks for the video, Tim! I'm certain this won't be the last time I watch it

    • @user-ki4xw2rb8q
      @user-ki4xw2rb8q Місяць тому +1

      So you just turned 19, and you are already thinking about turning 20

  • @Zyw0o.o
    @Zyw0o.o 4 місяці тому

    More content like this man pls, listening to u is a pleasure🙏

  • @ianmoran8760
    @ianmoran8760 4 місяці тому +80

    As someone who's about to enter college, I love these life advice videos that you've made. Thank you Tim!

  • @Xo.trash.7
    @Xo.trash.7 3 місяці тому +7

    Dawg, im so glad you exist. This shit all genuinely made me feel better, i went through a really bad breakup a few days ago and i really needed to see this

    • @futureow6043
      @futureow6043 Місяць тому

      Hope you are feeling a bit better already! The pain will go away, trust me :)

  • @HarryHas
    @HarryHas 4 місяці тому +3

    The videos are looking amazing, Tim. 🔥

  • @hayden4279
    @hayden4279 4 місяці тому +1

    As per usual, phenomenal inspiring stuff!

  • @david3601bulls
    @david3601bulls 4 місяці тому

    Tim, loved the video. Your style of content has always been super inspiring.

  • @YenNguyen-gh1ov
    @YenNguyen-gh1ov 3 місяці тому

    Thanks a lot, I'm 21 and I'm feeling lost most of the time, your video is treasurable to me. Thank you!

  • @abdoundiaye8112
    @abdoundiaye8112 4 місяці тому

    Probably your best video ever, thank you tim ⭐️

  • @ronharrodjr
    @ronharrodjr 4 місяці тому

    I love this video. This calmed me tremendously.

  • @PoorlyUtilized
    @PoorlyUtilized 4 місяці тому +6

    Do more of these every once in awhile, maybe do a list of book suggestions

  • @nicollastessan
    @nicollastessan 26 днів тому

    I love It! Thanks Tim!

  • @charles2395
    @charles2395 Місяць тому +38

    I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever,hoping to retire next year.. Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life.

    • @wilsonrichard440
      @wilsonrichard440 Місяць тому

      Thanks for the advice! I'm new to financial planning and wasn't sure where to start. Any tips on finding a reliable financial adviser or resource to guide beginners?

    • @findingpath8362
      @findingpath8362 Місяць тому

      As a beginner, it's essential for you to have a mentor that is verified by finra and SEC to keep you accountable. I'm guided by a widely known financial consultant Stacey Macken

    • @AIIG-zd5dx
      @AIIG-zd5dx Місяць тому

      Wow, I'm supprised Stacey Macken is being mention here. I started off with 5K.... Now with massive portfolio highly recommended...

    • @robertgreg6009
      @robertgreg6009 Місяць тому

      This Woman has really change the life of many people from different countries and am a testimony of her trading platform

    • @nissan38p69
      @nissan38p69 Місяць тому

      I met Stacey Macken at a conference in 2018 and we have been working together ever since.

  • @yashieratiullaofficial6620
    @yashieratiullaofficial6620 4 місяці тому +1

    Such a legend. Aye, thank you for this 👌

  • @mistamop
    @mistamop 4 місяці тому +37

    This video really helped me. As a 26 year old who still lives at home and has a ton of student debt, it’s really easy for me to feel like I’m falling behind and recently had a severe panic attack because of it. I now have the motivation to really try and change my circumstances. Thanks Tim :)

  • @daniel_stupid
    @daniel_stupid 4 місяці тому +3

    thank you for this video!!!

  • @oohlala6636
    @oohlala6636 4 місяці тому

    From Brazil! So good advices thank you so much

  • @jonathanbennett8065
    @jonathanbennett8065 4 місяці тому

    Very dope video, Tim. Thank you very much!

  • @boldi365
    @boldi365 Місяць тому

    A very awesome video, i like that format too!

  • @zedd2133
    @zedd2133 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much, Tim. Help a lot

  • @jaydeegabrillo1840
    @jaydeegabrillo1840 4 місяці тому +20

    Been following you since I was in college and I especially agree that not caring about what others think is top 1 on my list that I regret. I enjoy life a lot better now that I am true to myself. I am in my mid 20s and married with child. A lot of responsibilities on my end but still managing to take A LOT OF RISKS. Things have been working out pretty good lately but I'm not stopping here and will do more not only for myself this time but for my family as well.

    • @JustMattyEntertainment
      @JustMattyEntertainment 4 місяці тому

      I'm in a similar position, I have a child under 1 so I'd love to hear the kind of risks you're taking as I'm feeling a little slumped!

    • @jaydeegabrillo1840
      @jaydeegabrillo1840 4 місяці тому +1

      I was laid off and had plenty of bills to pay and I didn't know what to do. I was desperate to find a source of income. After getting laid off I invested the money I saved over the years and created a small business (keep in my mind that I had mouths to feed as I am a breadwinner). I, of course, found a better job with better pay. The small business has been readying me and my wife to open a new business. I had a lot of help along the way but it has changed the way my mind works. I don't want to get in deep with it but I hope this will help you. I'm still trying to build a better life so I can only speak for my experience.

  • @Otijames
    @Otijames 4 місяці тому +1

    loved this!

  • @user-kg2tf4lg5r
    @user-kg2tf4lg5r 4 місяці тому

    I completely agree with the invest in yourself concept.

  • @vobang7161
    @vobang7161 4 місяці тому

    i really love this video, thanks for sharing

  • @seanmalroy
    @seanmalroy 4 місяці тому +1

    Oh man I’m in my 50s and I’m taking notes. Great vid!

  • @Arc4kEdits
    @Arc4kEdits 3 місяці тому +2

    9:17 Wise words, Im defnetly going to rember that sentence

  • @leehurst172
    @leehurst172 3 місяці тому

    That element of "you're right on time" hit in just the right way❤️

  • @bibosteinmuller3431
    @bibosteinmuller3431 Місяць тому

    Great video! Very helpful

  • @Training_NRFIT
    @Training_NRFIT 4 місяці тому

    Thanks for this 😊

  • @mjvlogstudio2632
    @mjvlogstudio2632 4 місяці тому

    Thank you!! i needed this!, 😢❤😊

  • @feline6623
    @feline6623 4 місяці тому

    Awesome truths, awesome animations!

  • @TheRockyge
    @TheRockyge 4 місяці тому

    Despite other UA-camrs, your video are getting better in quality and also more interesting week by week!
    You are like a good Italian wine Tim 🍷😉

  • @sahebalikhan
    @sahebalikhan 4 місяці тому

    Love it bro

  • @msl3940
    @msl3940 4 місяці тому +1

    love this ❤

  • @___Moody
    @___Moody 4 місяці тому

    Love this vid of yours, unique

  • @taranjeetsingh4587
    @taranjeetsingh4587 4 місяці тому

    Thankyou, sir!! Respect 🫡

  • @venzroiabella4259
    @venzroiabella4259 4 місяці тому

    Thank you Tim

  • @monkeyhigh6416
    @monkeyhigh6416 4 місяці тому

    I really enjoyed this video👍

  • @yoelmorales208
    @yoelmorales208 17 днів тому

    This video is a gem

  • @marcosebastianelli3903
    @marcosebastianelli3903 4 місяці тому

    Very cool video bro, love it❤

  • @wayveofficial
    @wayveofficial 4 місяці тому

    needed this

  • @jontaelincolne-lomax2884
    @jontaelincolne-lomax2884 4 місяці тому

    Fantastic video

  • @zakirkhatri2902
    @zakirkhatri2902 4 місяці тому

    thank you so much you save me life. I enjoy more present

  • @bartellacreative1968
    @bartellacreative1968 4 місяці тому

    Amazing vid ! As the Rock says ..One day, or day one 💪

  • @yjp4929
    @yjp4929 4 місяці тому

    Well said

  • @murarirajan1860
    @murarirajan1860 4 місяці тому +2

    Fresh into my 20s!!! Excited and scared! Thanks for the video mate! Super useful ❤

  • @tonypizza260
    @tonypizza260 4 місяці тому

    thank you tim

  • @IamnotJokic
    @IamnotJokic 4 місяці тому +2

    That smooth transition into an ad-read 😂 kudos bro

  • @naujoxx
    @naujoxx Місяць тому

    Very great Video brother! Love from Germany

  • @danielrocha8820
    @danielrocha8820 4 місяці тому

    Great video

  • @bbbbbbb303
    @bbbbbbb303 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing, Tim!

  • @tabaandy843
    @tabaandy843 4 місяці тому

    Thank you brother

  • @RymndDxtr
    @RymndDxtr 3 місяці тому

    👍 nice thank you Tim

  • @OCLex
    @OCLex 4 місяці тому +1

    just finished the shuttle art of not givin' a f*ck ..mindset and life changing.

  • @rzm17
    @rzm17 4 місяці тому

    I love you so much, Tim. Thank you for being a great role model!

  • @majgajsek7818
    @majgajsek7818 Місяць тому

    Thank you

  • @documentaireparade4542
    @documentaireparade4542 4 місяці тому

    Tim that watch is lit 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @tyhuynh1852
    @tyhuynh1852 3 місяці тому

    Yo idk what day it happened but happy birthday man!!

  • @BenjaminTJames
    @BenjaminTJames 4 місяці тому +2

    Always enjoy a life advice video, Tim. I'd also say that although it's good to think of your future self, it's important not to end up sacrificing your present self to it; life's too short not to cut yourself some slack in the moment!

  • @Epiphany1714
    @Epiphany1714 4 місяці тому

    I LOVE YOU TIM!!! I really needed this, your a great mentor for us

  • @mikeguci168
    @mikeguci168 2 місяці тому

    THANK YOU VERY MUCH

  • @KyawMingNaing
    @KyawMingNaing 4 місяці тому +1

    It's very helpful

  • @Joselitty
    @Joselitty 4 місяці тому

    Love this, thanks Tim 🙌🏽

  • @Addypro99
    @Addypro99 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank You Tim I’m turning 21 in feb and life had started to take its toll on me thinking i am 21 and i have nothing together, hence , I had started running From problems . Harder choices are just harder to commit cause doing the right thing is often harder than doing the right thing

  • @coviloku7104
    @coviloku7104 6 днів тому

    I like this mindset.

  • @jerikhowijaya8844
    @jerikhowijaya8844 4 місяці тому

    Inspiring

  • @romedelrosario4915
    @romedelrosario4915 4 місяці тому

    Thank you tim! this was very timely. I Hope you make more content like this

  • @Fasthebaker
    @Fasthebaker 4 місяці тому

    I've missed this type of UA-cam videos

  • @thisistotallyfine
    @thisistotallyfine 4 місяці тому +5

    Watching this in my 30s

    • @huismus111
      @huismus111 3 місяці тому

      looking at your pfp, I wouldn't say your 20's went that well

  • @kingj7003
    @kingj7003 4 місяці тому +1

    this video came at the perfect time, i was stuck in a spiral just yesterday about the position i am in my life right now, not knowing exactly what i am doing with my life and this helped me gain a huge perspective so thank you for this video :)

  • @wintheingioo4100
    @wintheingioo4100 4 місяці тому +1

    I needed this so bad. Thanks a lot Tim ❤

  • @Ghubby
    @Ghubby 4 місяці тому

    This is awesome and the editing is just perfect!

  • @kovlangovender3299
    @kovlangovender3299 4 місяці тому

    What an inspiring video. Thank you 😊

  • @alexvetkin5410
    @alexvetkin5410 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you very much for this little enlightment☺

  • @Stellsenbrown
    @Stellsenbrown 4 місяці тому

    Learned a lot in this 10min.
    Thank you❤

  • @mazinmusthafa3319
    @mazinmusthafa3319 4 місяці тому

    I saw you from canary wharf today…you looked great😍

  • @qrvt.
    @qrvt. 4 місяці тому

    Love this type of content, keep it up 🔥

  • @soumodeepmete5718
    @soumodeepmete5718 4 місяці тому

    thank you

  • @mahdiakbar7731
    @mahdiakbar7731 4 місяці тому

    I really enjoyed. Keep it up❤

  • @osariemenoriakhi
    @osariemenoriakhi 4 місяці тому

    Wow Tim you just gave me a reset, this video is indeed needed .

  • @RyuuOmaroGD
    @RyuuOmaroGD 4 місяці тому

    Thank you.

  • @zyoma_bestie
    @zyoma_bestie 2 місяці тому +1

    I would not understand the future me, just as the past me would not understand the present me. Only the present makes us happy. The most I would advise my past self is to have a good time, do what you like and don't worry about anything. Just be happy.

  • @benkelly-7625
    @benkelly-7625 4 місяці тому

    This was a really good video! I’ve seen some inspiration videos here and there, mostly just bs and went in one ear out the other, but this was actually really good!! It was more meaningful since you gave things another way to look at it!! Especially the mindset of how I want my future self to be proud of what I’ve done in my 20s. This is by far the most useful yt video I have seen in a LONG time!!

  • @maykraezen
    @maykraezen 4 місяці тому +3

    Totally agree, enhancing focus for a particular things is the simple advice to move further instead of doing so many things in a short of time, very inspiring! 🔥

  • @laurasantana233
    @laurasantana233 4 місяці тому

    I‘m feeling inspired, thank you ;)
    I would like to see more videos, like this on you channel 😊

  • @Slowzy4K
    @Slowzy4K 4 місяці тому +1

    Amazing video now somethings make sens.

  • @SRawsonH
    @SRawsonH 4 місяці тому +1

    Great video Tim 👌🏻 Could you do an update on your tattoos, loving the new pieces ☺️

  • @flamero6747
    @flamero6747 24 дні тому

    My favorite quote is "the only way to truly be comfortable is to be uncomfortable".

  • @ryanm.8328
    @ryanm.8328 4 місяці тому

    Today is my 21st birthday and I do feel really lost. As someone who suffers from mental health problems and doesn’t really get along with family, I’m just blessed that God gave me another year in this cycle we all call “life.” I do wish I could celebrate like other people who do their 21st birthday but I’m not that rich. I am thankful though for another year.

  • @_ockayl
    @_ockayl 3 місяці тому

    more content like this!

  • @somebody_55
    @somebody_55 4 місяці тому

    Appreciate it

  • @GonzaloGalvez-ub4dd
    @GonzaloGalvez-ub4dd 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks so much Tim for this video. You are a mayor source of inspiration for me and I am pretty sure for most of your followers, and this goes way beyond fashion. A good reminder like this is always appreciated, but most of all, needed. We should create some sort of support and experience sharing community among your followers, where we can take on challenges and other activities. If this has been already made, pls let me know. Would love to join

  • @marcusmarcus6271
    @marcusmarcus6271 4 місяці тому +2

    Let's go Tim/Team. This is what i really need right now. Thank you so much 🖤

  • @Jem07drie
    @Jem07drie 4 місяці тому

    Thanks for this video, I know a lot of people including me struggling with the comparing thing, and I needed this. I wish you a wonderful 30th birthday Tim!

  • @MuhammedElham-nr4cs
    @MuhammedElham-nr4cs 4 місяці тому +1

    Probably öne of the bestever videos on the internet👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍
    By the way Tim did you just give some clues about your brand🧐

  • @henniaabdelillah9513
    @henniaabdelillah9513 4 місяці тому

    I need this