7 Things I Wish I Knew In My 20s

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  • @thkhoa8805
    @thkhoa8805 10 місяців тому +625

    The bad news is you're on your own, but the cool news is you're on your own

    • @nataSweet129
      @nataSweet129 10 місяців тому +8

      is that a Taylor Swift quote?

    • @tdot415
      @tdot415 10 місяців тому +8

      Yes once you get used to idea of being on your own, life gets clearer and your achievements feel bigger cause they’re truly your own

    • @rod5943
      @rod5943 10 місяців тому +2

      The bad news is that you’re on your own and the bad news is that everybody around you has something to say about what you’re doing wrong. To that I say: There is no path, so walk wherever you feel like going and improve on things YOU feel you should improve on.

    • @audrey06lee05
      @audrey06lee05 8 місяців тому

      Taylor 🥰🥰

    • @mfucek_
      @mfucek_ 2 місяці тому

      Pretty much sums up my recent breakup after a long relationship lol

  • @hecl0980
    @hecl0980 10 місяців тому +58

    I'm turning 20 in just over 8 months, and this video really helped. Starting this year, I'm prioritising my health and working out, my passion for music and the trombone (I'm applying for a year in the military band) and my growing passion for fashion and political science (the latter of which i would like to make a career in). Thanks for the video, Tim! I'm certain this won't be the last time I watch it

    • @user-ki4xw2rb8q
      @user-ki4xw2rb8q 7 місяців тому +1

      So you just turned 19, and you are already thinking about turning 20

  • @Xo.trash.7
    @Xo.trash.7 9 місяців тому +19

    Dawg, im so glad you exist. This shit all genuinely made me feel better, i went through a really bad breakup a few days ago and i really needed to see this

    • @futureow6043
      @futureow6043 7 місяців тому

      Hope you are feeling a bit better already! The pain will go away, trust me :)

  • @Deciverse
    @Deciverse 10 місяців тому +13

    Probably one of the most grounded "what I wish I knew" videos that I've seen personally. Love your style and editing touches in your vids too and this one was no exception. Good work man

  • @Isagiyochi395
    @Isagiyochi395 10 місяців тому +11

    I just graduated as an electrical engineer at the age of 22. I’m very into fashion and am gonna build a brand called asad alex (based off of my Arabic and American name). My goal is to flip the world upside down and change it for the better. I’ve noticed that everything seems to have become so degenerate and over the past few years I have become more religious and changed my ways. This video is proof that I will accomplish my goals and so everyone that sees this comment I want you to know that I will achieve my goals inshallah and you can achieve whatever you want in this world if you put in the work and dream big enough.

  • @ianmoran8760
    @ianmoran8760 10 місяців тому +82

    As someone who's about to enter college, I love these life advice videos that you've made. Thank you Tim!

  • @joshuakim2341
    @joshuakim2341 10 місяців тому +16

    As someone who just recently turned 29 this past year thank you Tim for the advice! I really needed to hear the last one!

  • @jaydeegabrillo1840
    @jaydeegabrillo1840 10 місяців тому +22

    Been following you since I was in college and I especially agree that not caring about what others think is top 1 on my list that I regret. I enjoy life a lot better now that I am true to myself. I am in my mid 20s and married with child. A lot of responsibilities on my end but still managing to take A LOT OF RISKS. Things have been working out pretty good lately but I'm not stopping here and will do more not only for myself this time but for my family as well.

    • @JustMattyEntertainment
      @JustMattyEntertainment 10 місяців тому

      I'm in a similar position, I have a child under 1 so I'd love to hear the kind of risks you're taking as I'm feeling a little slumped!

    • @jaydeegabrillo1840
      @jaydeegabrillo1840 10 місяців тому +1

      I was laid off and had plenty of bills to pay and I didn't know what to do. I was desperate to find a source of income. After getting laid off I invested the money I saved over the years and created a small business (keep in my mind that I had mouths to feed as I am a breadwinner). I, of course, found a better job with better pay. The small business has been readying me and my wife to open a new business. I had a lot of help along the way but it has changed the way my mind works. I don't want to get in deep with it but I hope this will help you. I'm still trying to build a better life so I can only speak for my experience.

  • @mistamop
    @mistamop 10 місяців тому +45

    This video really helped me. As a 26 year old who still lives at home and has a ton of student debt, it’s really easy for me to feel like I’m falling behind and recently had a severe panic attack because of it. I now have the motivation to really try and change my circumstances. Thanks Tim :)

  • @PoorlyUtilized
    @PoorlyUtilized 10 місяців тому +6

    Do more of these every once in awhile, maybe do a list of book suggestions

  • @prashantmalyala
    @prashantmalyala 10 місяців тому +4

    A lot of creators will make videos about this kind of 20s life advice stuff, but this is probably one of the best distillations of it that I’ve seen.
    Never understood the attachment random internet people have to creators until my friend intro’d me to your channel, at first just for the fashion content. Thanks, Tim.

  • @Arc4kEdits
    @Arc4kEdits 9 місяців тому +2

    9:17 Wise words, Im defnetly going to rember that sentence

  • @thisistotallyfine
    @thisistotallyfine 10 місяців тому +7

    Watching this in my 30s

    • @huismus111
      @huismus111 9 місяців тому

      looking at your pfp, I wouldn't say your 20's went that well

  • @HarryHas
    @HarryHas 10 місяців тому +4

    The videos are looking amazing, Tim. 🔥

  • @KevinnPOV
    @KevinnPOV 10 місяців тому +1

    just finished the shuttle art of not givin' a f*ck ..mindset and life changing.

  • @leehurst172
    @leehurst172 8 місяців тому

    That element of "you're right on time" hit in just the right way❤️

  • @diamond-zanexyxeroswaldale3116
    @diamond-zanexyxeroswaldale3116 Місяць тому

    I appreciate this video Tim whenever I'm feeling lost and not knowing what to do, I always come back to this video to remind me on the path that I really want to take. I'm in my 20's and I'm kinda taking the long route towards my goal but this video always reminds me that I'm at the right place at the right time.

  • @IamnotJokic
    @IamnotJokic 10 місяців тому +3

    That smooth transition into an ad-read 😂 kudos bro

  • @Zyw0o.o
    @Zyw0o.o 9 місяців тому +1

    More content like this man pls, listening to u is a pleasure🙏

  • @ryan.8328
    @ryan.8328 10 місяців тому +1

    Today is my 21st birthday and I do feel really lost. As someone who suffers from mental health problems and doesn’t really get along with family, I’m just blessed that God gave me another year in this cycle we all call “life.” I do wish I could celebrate like other people who do their 21st birthday but I’m not that rich. I am thankful though for another year.

  • @seanmalroy
    @seanmalroy 10 місяців тому +1

    Oh man I’m in my 50s and I’m taking notes. Great vid!

  • @hayden4279
    @hayden4279 9 місяців тому +1

    As per usual, phenomenal inspiring stuff!

  • @JohnnyJoker-s9d
    @JohnnyJoker-s9d 10 місяців тому

    I completely agree with the invest in yourself concept.

  • @joshmiller7777
    @joshmiller7777 10 місяців тому +14

    I think there is a huge level of "survivor bias" here. The vast vast majority of people who try to quit a 9-5 job to follow a dream of freedom (such as a content creator) do not succeed. It is a combination of skill, luck and privilege.

  • @yashieratiullaofficial6620
    @yashieratiullaofficial6620 10 місяців тому +1

    Such a legend. Aye, thank you for this 👌

  • @mufeedjoshua4331
    @mufeedjoshua4331 5 місяців тому +1

    Definitely helped

  • @charles2395
    @charles2395 7 місяців тому +42

    I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever,hoping to retire next year.. Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life.

    • @wilsonrichard440
      @wilsonrichard440 7 місяців тому

      Thanks for the advice! I'm new to financial planning and wasn't sure where to start. Any tips on finding a reliable financial adviser or resource to guide beginners?

    • @findingpath8362
      @findingpath8362 7 місяців тому

      As a beginner, it's essential for you to have a mentor that is verified by finra and SEC to keep you accountable. I'm guided by a widely known financial consultant Stacey Macken

    • @AIIG-zd5dx
      @AIIG-zd5dx 7 місяців тому

      Wow, I'm supprised Stacey Macken is being mention here. I started off with 5K.... Now with massive portfolio highly recommended...

    • @robertgreg6009
      @robertgreg6009 7 місяців тому

      This Woman has really change the life of many people from different countries and am a testimony of her trading platform

    • @nissan38p69
      @nissan38p69 7 місяців тому

      I met Stacey Macken at a conference in 2018 and we have been working together ever since.

  • @YenNguyen-gh1ov
    @YenNguyen-gh1ov 9 місяців тому

    Thanks a lot, I'm 21 and I'm feeling lost most of the time, your video is treasurable to me. Thank you!

  • @TheRockyge
    @TheRockyge 9 місяців тому

    Despite other UA-camrs, your video are getting better in quality and also more interesting week by week!
    You are like a good Italian wine Tim 🍷😉

  • @victorymaaa
    @victorymaaa 2 місяці тому

    This video is amazing, thank you

  • @randomcommenterhaha7889
    @randomcommenterhaha7889 Місяць тому

    Thanks. I needed to hear this.

  • @david3601bulls
    @david3601bulls 9 місяців тому

    Tim, loved the video. Your style of content has always been super inspiring.

  • @abdoundiaye8112
    @abdoundiaye8112 9 місяців тому

    Probably your best video ever, thank you tim ⭐️

  • @boldi365
    @boldi365 7 місяців тому

    A very awesome video, i like that format too!

  • @zakirkhatri2902
    @zakirkhatri2902 10 місяців тому

    thank you so much you save me life. I enjoy more present

  • @Otijames
    @Otijames 10 місяців тому +1

    loved this!

  • @oohlala6636
    @oohlala6636 10 місяців тому

    From Brazil! So good advices thank you so much

  • @ronharrodjr
    @ronharrodjr 10 місяців тому

    I love this video. This calmed me tremendously.

  • @jonathanbennett8065
    @jonathanbennett8065 10 місяців тому

    Very dope video, Tim. Thank you very much!

  • @LLBlossom21
    @LLBlossom21 7 місяців тому

    Thank you so much, Tim. Help a lot

  • @yoelmorales208
    @yoelmorales208 6 місяців тому

    This video is a gem

  • @taranjeetsingh4587
    @taranjeetsingh4587 9 місяців тому

    Thankyou, sir!! Respect 🫡

  • @dasnurmeins
    @dasnurmeins 4 місяці тому

    thank you so much tim

  • @Fasthebaker
    @Fasthebaker 10 місяців тому

    I've missed this type of UA-cam videos

  • @coviloku7104
    @coviloku7104 5 місяців тому

    I like this mindset.

  • @vobang7161
    @vobang7161 10 місяців тому

    i really love this video, thanks for sharing

  • @venzroiabella4259
    @venzroiabella4259 10 місяців тому

    Thank you Tim

  • @bibosteinmuller3431
    @bibosteinmuller3431 7 місяців тому

    Great video! Very helpful

  • @sisig_vids
    @sisig_vids 10 місяців тому +9

    I'll be 26 in a few months and I've been demotivated in life due to many factors affecting it (unemployment, lack of savings, weight gain etc) but thank you for this video Tim! I really needed that push to keep moving forward

  • @marcosebastianelli3903
    @marcosebastianelli3903 10 місяців тому

    Very cool video bro, love it❤

  • @msl3940
    @msl3940 10 місяців тому +1

    love this ❤

  • @mjvlogstudio2632
    @mjvlogstudio2632 10 місяців тому

    Thank you!! i needed this!, 😢❤😊

  • @tyhuynh1852
    @tyhuynh1852 9 місяців тому

    Yo idk what day it happened but happy birthday man!!

  • @feline6623
    @feline6623 10 місяців тому

    Awesome truths, awesome animations!

  • @KyawMingNaing
    @KyawMingNaing 10 місяців тому +1

    It's very helpful

  • @sahebalikhan
    @sahebalikhan 10 місяців тому

    Love it bro

  • @tabaandy843
    @tabaandy843 9 місяців тому

    Thank you brother

  • @bellodoesseo
    @bellodoesseo 10 місяців тому

    Tim that watch is lit 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @roselinetsen4538
    @roselinetsen4538 8 місяців тому

    I wish this video existed when I was starting out my twenties

  • @jontaelincolne-lomax2884
    @jontaelincolne-lomax2884 10 місяців тому

    Fantastic video

  • @fadhlibgs
    @fadhlibgs 10 місяців тому

    This year i'm turning 30 also !!! Lets embrace and celebrate it happily :)

  • @BenjaminTJames
    @BenjaminTJames 10 місяців тому +3

    Always enjoy a life advice video, Tim. I'd also say that although it's good to think of your future self, it's important not to end up sacrificing your present self to it; life's too short not to cut yourself some slack in the moment!

  • @flamero6747
    @flamero6747 6 місяців тому

    My favorite quote is "the only way to truly be comfortable is to be uncomfortable".

  • @typicalwarlord
    @typicalwarlord 10 місяців тому +1

    Amazing video now somethings make sens.

  • @yjp4929
    @yjp4929 10 місяців тому

    Well said

  • @Nico.Rabeee
    @Nico.Rabeee 10 місяців тому

    Thanks for this 😊

  • @tonypizza260
    @tonypizza260 10 місяців тому

    thank you tim

  • @98newyork98
    @98newyork98 7 місяців тому

    Very great Video brother! Love from Germany

  • @rhettnorsworthy
    @rhettnorsworthy 9 місяців тому

    You need to review different brands of jeans

  • @MBBarron
    @MBBarron 10 місяців тому

    Love this vid of yours, unique

  • @wayveofficial
    @wayveofficial 10 місяців тому

    needed this

  • @Chrisanith
    @Chrisanith 10 місяців тому

    We need another tattoo tour video!!

  • @iTeostra
    @iTeostra 2 місяці тому

    Damn! I clicked on this video waiting to get a bit more of fashion content and got myself tearing up at the end.

  • @bartellacreative1968
    @bartellacreative1968 10 місяців тому

    Amazing vid ! As the Rock says ..One day, or day one 💪

  • @murarirajan1860
    @murarirajan1860 10 місяців тому +2

    Fresh into my 20s!!! Excited and scared! Thanks for the video mate! Super useful ❤

  • @monkeyhigh6416
    @monkeyhigh6416 10 місяців тому

    I really enjoyed this video👍

  • @Millerdelo
    @Millerdelo 10 місяців тому +62

    I’m 26, $300K net worth. Been saving 50% of my salary, investing in stocks & living below my means. My goal this year is to be more serious and consistent with my investments for long term. I’m worried with the numerous bank failures as of late, am I better off reinvesting my savings in the stock market or do I wait?

    • @jaidenSalinas
      @jaidenSalinas 10 місяців тому +2

      Exactly what I’m doing again this week. The smartest thing I’ve ever done was having 30% in cash to buy on the way down in 2021. It hurt watching 30-40% discounts drop to 50, but grabbing Google, NVDIA, Apple, and others near the bottom has paid off

    • @Edgardo477
      @Edgardo477 10 місяців тому

      Excellent info. My problem is when it starts dropping I think it's going to keep dropping for awhile and I wait so I can get the best deal. Next thing I know, it's back up again

    • @Millerdelo
      @Millerdelo 10 місяців тому

      Amazing speaking with Martha on the phone, I really Appreciate 🙏

    • @cosmicentity1520
      @cosmicentity1520 4 місяці тому

      How tf did you get a 300k net worth at 26 yrs old? Lol

  • @mikeguci168
    @mikeguci168 8 місяців тому

    THANK YOU VERY MUCH

  • @danielrocha8820
    @danielrocha8820 10 місяців тому

    Great video

  • @Addypro99
    @Addypro99 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank You Tim I’m turning 21 in feb and life had started to take its toll on me thinking i am 21 and i have nothing together, hence , I had started running From problems . Harder choices are just harder to commit cause doing the right thing is often harder than doing the right thing

  • @RymndDxtr
    @RymndDxtr 9 місяців тому

    👍 nice thank you Tim

  • @mazinmusthafa3319
    @mazinmusthafa3319 10 місяців тому

    I saw you from canary wharf today…you looked great😍

  • @soumodeepmete5718
    @soumodeepmete5718 10 місяців тому

    thank you

  • @zora4717
    @zora4717 10 місяців тому

    yo tim really random but can you make outfits inspired by the sakamoto days manga its a pretty cool series but the way the characters dress there is awesome

  • @maykraezen
    @maykraezen 10 місяців тому +3

    Totally agree, enhancing focus for a particular things is the simple advice to move further instead of doing so many things in a short of time, very inspiring! 🔥

  • @empaie
    @empaie 10 місяців тому

    I still struggle alot with Point 5, Nobody cares - because all my life they did care. I was the fat Kid back then in school, got bullied pretty much my entire school life. Even after school in the first two companys i worked at (which had ALOT of toxic coworkers) it continued.
    Now i'll be 33 in March. I still struggle with it, even though i lost most of my weight (almost 90 Pounds, i'm very close to a healthy weight now), take more care of myself and got a bit into fashion. But my past really did hurt me in this aspect. It will be really hard to get over it, if i'm even able to get over it.
    If somebody still goes through something like me: It will get better, if you start working on yourself. It's freaking hard but will be worth it. But some things may not change - like the way you handle specific situations. For me, it's realizing that nobody now cares how i look/what i do.

  • @MuhammedElham-nr4cs
    @MuhammedElham-nr4cs 10 місяців тому +1

    Probably öne of the bestever videos on the internet👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍
    By the way Tim did you just give some clues about your brand🧐

  • @jonathanpuerta4
    @jonathanpuerta4 10 місяців тому

    This is the best video in UA-cam to start 2024

  • @5meterdeleter
    @5meterdeleter 10 місяців тому

    Good wake up call video for me

  • @liveahappylife1
    @liveahappylife1 9 місяців тому

    Hey Tim, just want to say I appreciate your video! Question: do you use any supplements for your hair? Im not sure if you know anything about hair loss

  • @williamjeffs7404
    @williamjeffs7404 10 місяців тому +5

    27 with a college degree that I don't use with a job that I hate and currently so lost😢. I have no idea what I like or what my real calling is , wish y knew what I like just to put all my effort into it

    • @Spades340
      @Spades340 10 місяців тому +1

      When I was younger, I came to believe that figuring out what you don’t like is easier that figuring out what you like.
      To get to a point where you actually like what you do, I think you need to keep trying different things. I’m my case, after trying different jobs, I eventually ended up learning new skills online that I now use professionally. I don’t use my degree at all.
      The main idea though is that a lack of action won’t change your situation.

    • @williamjeffs7404
      @williamjeffs7404 10 місяців тому

      @@Spades340 Thanks a lot man I am thinking the same thing and try to learn skills online. But I spend so much time thinking what should I study or what do I like that I don't start. That last sentences really hit the nail

  • @bbbbbbb303
    @bbbbbbb303 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing, Tim!

  • @ganchunk
    @ganchunk 10 місяців тому +9

    i'm 34 this year, and I agree with everything in this video. i also just started some of the things you shared, never too late. thanks for the good advice & affirmation.

  • @GyjuKomaro
    @GyjuKomaro 10 місяців тому

    Thank you.

  • @reynabdelazim6423
    @reynabdelazim6423 10 місяців тому +4

    Im 21, ive been feeling like a failure for over 2 years, i dropped out of my dream college without my choice, i failed alot of relationship, lost alot of people i really thought would stay forever, now im in another college, im trying to find meaning and purpose, i keep falling down but whats important is getting back up, i had issues with drugs and alcohol and i wasted alot of time doing them and getting in trouble, i dont regret partying, im glad i got to experience that part of life, anyway im ranting and its dumb, (if ur still reading u can say hi) i just passed the first term in my new college and im on top of my class, maybe ill get back up, stumble and fall again, but improve

    • @Niimerium
      @Niimerium 10 місяців тому

      keep going forward bro. u got this!

    • @andy_maverick1
      @andy_maverick1 20 днів тому

      Keep going bro, you got this. If it makes you feel better I'm 21 and I haven't figured out my life too. We gonna make it

  • @Alex-Estilo
    @Alex-Estilo 10 місяців тому

    Thanks a lot.

  • @jerikhowijaya8844
    @jerikhowijaya8844 10 місяців тому

    Inspiring

  • @qupid69
    @qupid69 10 місяців тому

    Where're fashion trends? Love u bro 😎

  • @alexvetkin5410
    @alexvetkin5410 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you very much for this little enlightment☺

  • @knucklehoagies
    @knucklehoagies 9 місяців тому

    Your 20s is basically the same as your teen years. It's a formative time in your life. Learning about yourself. Figuring out what you value. Planting seeds for your future. The only difference is you have a bit more money and freedom compared to your teen years. Your 30s is when you actually begin that "stability" period in your life. Your 20s is for the most part an experimental period.