How dare you get me existential about time passing because you said the episode was last week when it was months ago? Great episode, by the way! I have noticed cis gay men joking about "basically being trans" about all kinds of topics in a way that sort of shocked me and it's very interesting to hear from someone who is more in the community.
The cupboard door is closed!!! 🥳 Yes to the business cards merch. That would be so fun and if the other person knows the pod it would be the perfect icebreaker!
I'm here Ashley sorry I missed you in the UK my health would not allow me to come was heartbroken maybe next time ? Love you from your old lady friend Liz xx
Suggesting Mattea Roach as a guest. She is a lesbian podcaster who is the youngest top female jeopardy winner of all time and is currently appearing on the Jeopardy Masters series. She is known for being super funny on the show (to the point of annoying the die hard serious jeopardy fans) and lost her father a year ago just as she had to compete. No idea if she’d be up for it but I know she’d be great.
Not impressed by your tour list until I see you are coming to Anchorage, Alaska. All 7 of your listeners here will BE THERE. 😂 (YES I AM ON THE TEXT LIST)
😋 Waiting for the venue announcement for the Irvine '25 dates! I missed the last one because I'm in a wheelchair and I need a companion. My autistic sister agreed to take me this time and I am sooooo excited! 🎉
Ooo, I so wanted to chime in on the rude German dinner date story. Likely a classical example of a lack of awareness of how different cultures like to communicate. That lack of awareness is maybe not the only, but probably the biggest reason for the stereotypes of the 'rude German' and the 'superficial American'.
I know I've left a hicky a couple times on accident. It was the beginning of a new relationship and ya know how intense that can be. I felt bad when i realized afterwards. I don't think she was too worried about it. Damn i miss her still. 😢
😋 (intro smiley) ashley like i feel bad for gen z they're so depressed and i'm watching this while packing my bag for the fucking psych ward 💀 at least i'm allowed to keep my phone in the adult unit so i can keep watching the pod bc priorities 🥰
I feel like with the hickey convo it’s more based on experience. If you don’t know what you’re doing it’s very easy to leave one on accident. But if you’re very experienced it would definitely be on purpose
loved the energy Gus and Maddie brought on the pod. On the topic of labels... Lesbians shouldn't need to sacrifice this powerful identifiable label for the inclusion of all genders. Of course everyone should feel included in their community but this thought that women need to change their labels for the sake of others really irritates me. It either isn't your community to claim or, in reference to trans visibility especially, is forever being refined. The label stays while the definition shifts. Just like gay, queer...etc.
Yes about the 8 month wait and it will be epic..till she cancels on you right before, contacts you a few days later, then blocks you for no reason 😞It was one thing to be cancelled on. I was devastated that day, but was starting to pick myself back up. Funny, not funny, I unexpectedly ran into her last week after 5 years! She was nice, but it was awkward af for me (she has a wife now.) I was bawling as soon as I got in my car. I felt punched in the gut and like stitches ripped out of my heart. Sometimes I hate being a woman because we connect so strongly, feel so hard. I often joke I wish i didn't have any feelings.
😋 (why is this one: 🤪 the most obnoxious emoji ever? Anybody else have emojis they hate for no real reason?) Got my new bottom nation t-shirt on today, feeling extra cool 😎
To go from no he lives near Hamburg to maybe give him tickets to munich instead of berlin had me bursting out laughing... so dumb, literaly no need to shame you for not knowing german geography. Also, that weird judgy vibe from the second german might have been cultural differences on top of a slight negging. People are less polite and blunt here
The end of the Mr. Rogers riff is clearly...."Will you be my, will you be my, will... you... be.... my BOTTOM," LOL
Omg i was literally about to post the same exact thing! 😂
I failed
@@ashgavs Nah, the bite mark threw you off, haha
Yeah. I was late to the game, but it was right there.
Mondays are my days off and you always help me from not ruminating the bullshit of life. Been watching for years. Thanks for the pod
Thanks for sticking around
gus as cohost??? we are blessed
Waiting for this to come out I started rewatching your special for the first time in a while. Hits so hard every time.
another Monday morning routine, another pod, god I love it here
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Gus is absolutely hilarious! He had amazing riffs the whole time, & that glare during the text alert rant 😂
Not Ashley basically describing Mak as her gen z twin. 😝
😛 I respect the intro and appreciate solo Ashley time 😛
loved this episode!! hope maddie's better
i honestly loved the ‘pop culture moment’, keep that energy on the pod it was so fun
😜 I am listening ashley 😌💅
love and appreciate u and ur pods
hope you're doing well!! take care
Gus is one of my favourite guests ever. I love seeing him as co-host!
I always listen to the solo Ashley intro 😛 also yes the Nico episode was hilarious
PLEASE MAKE THE BUSINESS CARDS. PLEASE THEY'RE SUCH A GREAT IDEA
So many hilarious one-liners by Gus this entire episode had me LOL-ing!
How dare you get me existential about time passing because you said the episode was last week when it was months ago? Great episode, by the way! I have noticed cis gay men joking about "basically being trans" about all kinds of topics in a way that sort of shocked me and it's very interesting to hear from someone who is more in the community.
The cupboard door is closed!!! 🥳
Yes to the business cards merch. That would be so fun and if the other person knows the pod it would be the perfect icebreaker!
Closet
Gus is great! He could guest any time. ❤️
I'm here Ashley sorry I missed you in the UK my health would not allow me to come was heartbroken maybe next time ? Love you from your old lady friend Liz xx
If I'm not mistaken I've heard her say she'll be back this summer already!
that gay thought bit at the end made me LOSE it soooooo bad. you were absolutely on fire 😂
Suggesting Mattea Roach as a guest. She is a lesbian podcaster who is the youngest top female jeopardy winner of all time and is currently appearing on the Jeopardy Masters series. She is known for being super funny on the show (to the point of annoying the die hard serious jeopardy fans) and lost her father a year ago just as she had to compete. No idea if she’d be up for it but I know she’d be great.
😛 I listen for moments like the voice break on the last line in this bit
Not impressed by your tour list until I see you are coming to Anchorage, Alaska. All 7 of your listeners here will BE THERE. 😂 (YES I AM ON THE TEXT LIST)
OprahGus just nailed it 😂
1:07:37 Ashley please come to New Mexico 🌵🌵
48:58 real. Thank you for acknowledging the struggle lol
🤪I consider the ads part of the pod! Sometimes you lose your shit and it's hilarious 😂
PS BRING GUS BACK SOON, PLEASE
Here from the beginning to the end!!
The way Drag Race has become the NFL for Queer men 😂😂
Definitely would use the cards!!
Girl every time someone TOUCHES my neck I get a hickey
YES! I will use the card 😭😭
Mr Rogers lol! 'It's a lovely day in the gayborhood!'
"You only need like 10 because you are all going to uhaul anyway" 😂😂😂
Please do an all ages show in Syracuse! I love your comedy and podcasts so much!
“ the 7th heaven finale could never!!” 😂😂😂
I would absolutely buy am "I'm gay, you're cute, here's my number" card 😍😍
😋 Waiting for the venue announcement for the Irvine '25 dates! I missed the last one because I'm in a wheelchair and I need a companion. My autistic sister agreed to take me this time and I am sooooo excited! 🎉
I would 100% use those business cards 😅
ummm yes to the cards!
I even listened to the smalls add despite having a dog and not a cat. 😝
Ashley you should do the I've had it podcast when you're in oklahoma city!!!!!!!!!!
Y'all should have your own spin off pod.
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I love the intros and gay thoughts.
I do skip the adds tho 😂
Ooo, I so wanted to chime in on the rude German dinner date story. Likely a classical example of a lack of awareness of how different cultures like to communicate. That lack of awareness is maybe not the only, but probably the biggest reason for the stereotypes of the 'rude German' and the 'superficial American'.
I know I've left a hicky a couple times on accident. It was the beginning of a new relationship and ya know how intense that can be. I felt bad when i realized afterwards. I don't think she was too worried about it. Damn i miss her still. 😢
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Definitely should make those cards. Im gonna be needing them.😅
But using them?
Fun group today 🎉
9:51 will you be my gaybor....yall were slacking 😊
Gus def making sure Ashley doesn't get cancelled on his watch
always listening to you, 😋😛😜🤪😝😘😘😘😘😍😍😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰💋💋💋💋💋💋💋
🤪🤪 hey ashley
😋😛😝😜🤪 👅 Wasn’t sure exactly which tongue emoji so I used them all.
I looooove Gus
:P here, even though I am on the text list already ;P
😋 (intro smiley) ashley like i feel bad for gen z they're so depressed and i'm watching this while packing my bag for the fucking psych ward 💀 at least i'm allowed to keep my phone in the adult unit so i can keep watching the pod bc priorities 🥰
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Would you be mine, could you be mine? Won't you be my Bottom?
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I feel like with the hickey convo it’s more based on experience. If you don’t know what you’re doing it’s very easy to leave one on accident. But if you’re very experienced it would definitely be on purpose
😋 gotta comment this since i was listening lol
😋 I listen! I also can't seem to update my location for the text line. How do I fix it?! I moved across the country!
😋 (ALWAYS listen to in- and outros!)
PLEAAAAAAAASSSSSSEEE make the fucking cardssse!! :P
Come to Salt Lake City :)
Was there in January!
Yes sell me your cards please...!!!
loved the energy Gus and Maddie brought on the pod.
On the topic of labels... Lesbians shouldn't need to sacrifice this powerful identifiable label for the inclusion of all genders. Of course everyone should feel included in their community but this thought that women need to change their labels for the sake of others really irritates me. It either isn't your community to claim or, in reference to trans visibility especially, is forever being refined. The label stays while the definition shifts. Just like gay, queer...etc.
"will you be my gaybor?"
😜 I'm listening.
End of the " Wont you be my..." riff is GAYBOR/GEIGHBOR. It felt obvious
the worlds truest gay thought
😜 I feel special lol
Yes about the 8 month wait and it will be epic..till she cancels on you right before, contacts you a few days later, then blocks you for no reason 😞It was one thing to be cancelled on. I was devastated that day, but was starting to pick myself back up. Funny, not funny, I unexpectedly ran into her last week after 5 years! She was nice, but it was awkward af for me (she has a wife now.) I was bawling as soon as I got in my car. I felt punched in the gut and like stitches ripped out of my heart. Sometimes I hate being a woman because we connect so strongly, feel so hard. I often joke I wish i didn't have any feelings.
😛 I was going to make a gaslighting joke but Idk
tongue smiley face
😛😛😛😋😋😋😋😋😜😜😜😜🤪🤪🤪🤪😝😝😝😝👅👅👅👅👅 Which tongue emoji? I was listening
😋 secret message, iykyk
Wait
This😝
Or this😋 ?!
Or am I totally off?
😜 here!
"Won't you be my gaybor"
"I feel for Gen Z" - So millenial of you Ashley.
WILL U BE MY GAYBOUR!!!!!
😜 im here
😜for you ashley😛
🤪 I’m here
😋 (why is this one: 🤪 the most obnoxious emoji ever? Anybody else have emojis they hate for no real reason?)
Got my new bottom nation t-shirt on today, feeling extra cool 😎
Parasocial comment for thé algorithme 😋
Will
You be my GAYborrrr!!!
:p I’m here
Maddie I hope you feel better!
😜
😝 1:50
The gay thought was epic negging
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To go from no he lives near Hamburg to maybe give him tickets to munich instead of berlin had me bursting out laughing... so dumb, literaly no need to shame you for not knowing german geography.
Also, that weird judgy vibe from the second german might have been cultural differences on top of a slight negging. People are less polite and blunt here
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I think a lesbians forearm is the same as the gay man's armpit, attraction wise
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😛 < -- iykyk
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