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Some have a problem with my mindset.The purpose of dating was to meet and get to know people before committing. Therefore one can't cheat where there's no commitment!And having sex has nothing to do with commitment.
I've been married for over 30 year's to the same women. Raised 5 wonderful children together. She all of the sudden said she needed space. Went to visit a girl friend came back packed her bags and off she went with another man. I will never take her back. People that commit Adultery can never be trusted again.
She's wrong about one thing. The girl I was with for almost 7 years wasn't the most attractive girl in the world in my eyes, but as I got to know her, a sort of light was shined on her and she really did become the most beautiful woman in the world to me. Genuinely gorgeous and I never saw her the same again. Unfortunately she passed away, but I'll never find another one like her. Women can absolutely have "compensatory" features, if that's what she wants to call it
People cheat on their partners because they don’t care about them, ultimately. People do whatever they want with little interest in the consequences for other people.
PS - thank you for posting longer content! As many of your followers likely will agree, it’s much better than short 3 minute clips… it’s appreciated! :)
Women are insecure the day they are born , when a man is happy with his partner and life is good with one or two crying, eating little shitting machines she will find a way to leave you and phoque k up your life and that makes her feel secure
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
Remember this there an ex for a reason, why do we put women especially ones that end a relationship on a pedestal ? They are not worthy of your time,effort, and attention unfortunately the more you want them the less they will want you. Trust me I know how difficult it is been there many times, stay busy stay away from dating sites you stand more chance picking a chick up in the supermarket. Only one person can make you happy that is YOURSELF watch your demeanor no one wants a misery guts. Steer well clear of any woman that resembles your ex they will never compete or compair. Gost the ex it drives them crazy not knowing what you are doing or if you're with someone, this won't work overnight but time is precious ask yourself this ,,,,,would you have treated her like she has treated you? If the answer is no move on.
A woman is never yours… she is only yours right now. Find a new one, there are many more out there if that’s what you want. I’ve been in your shoes, as most men have. My advice is to focus on yourself. Don’t answer her calls, texts, emails, anything. Get your shi* together and make her regret her decision. Best choice I ever made.
She is so right when she says a cheating woman will turn to berating her husband. It happened to someone I know. He had a successful business, clearing $300-400k in his pocket a year after overhead. His ex wanted $500 jeans. A Lexus. A country club membership. A personal trainer. He denied her nothing. Now there's nothing wrong with people enjoying what they worked hard for. But even if one has money there has to be limits. My guess is she grew to believe he was weak and a pushover and grew to resent him for it. That personal trainer she had to have. Well she had him. Their son saw his mom and dude going in and out of the master bedroom. After it all came to light my friend cried and said he will forgive her. She ripped into him, calling him the most pathetic man she's ever known. Amongst other things. My friend just could not let go. He loved her too much and didn't seem to care that she crapped all over him. He wrecked his life, his relationship with his son, everything because he would not allow himself to see what she really was.
I'm 60. when I was young, I wanted to create a nice family. Unfortunately, I was naive, and could not find the right person. What I have learned from my past relationships? Women wanted me for as a sex toy, not for a long-term relationship. While they are lookng for the rich husbands. I learned to stay single.
I love your content Sadia. I am getting to understand why some of my past relationships failed especially when one is dating someone with abandonment issues. That one is really a hard one to deal with.
I'd say if you want to get a high value partner make sure to become a high value person yourself first. Any person who accepts a certain level of insecurity and call him/herself to be a psycho on certain circumstances, must be a very honest and sincere and secure person. Loved it. What a stunning psychologist.
If a girl threatens to leave me, I will say to her, that is not acceptable behavior and if you threaten again, then it is no longer a threat but a reality. I will not accept that behavior. I will boot her if she willingly breaks my boundaries after she knows what those boundaries are.
Well I was dating this girl and she usually start fighting for no reason, I gave in most of the time and there came a time when she started doing it more often as if it was her right to do so and always expected an apology for me....I mean, she literally said it that I should apologise...Sorry, one thing I learned, the more you get submissive, the more they exploit you
I had only one woman cheat on me when I was 30. I found out the next day from a friend of mine. She didn't know I knew. That same day I grabbed all her stuff from my place and dumped it outside the building in the street, told reception not to let her in. Front desk guy called her at work and told her come get her stuff or they will throw it away. She said I was not around enough (im a surgeon, worked trauma ER back then).
I can't believe this is still the topic. I have been having random conversations like these and it has gotten to the point ppl are reciting the lines, which is good but it also means they get it. I get it. But Sadia has the ability to dive deeper. I know she doesn't want to lose followers but what if she tested it with the thumbnail caption. Writting something like, "fix chilhood trauma" "what happens when dads not around" "step parents vs real parents" "i hate my moms new boyfriend", idk, maybe I'm old. But my belief is this new wave of relationship content has a graduation date with each content creator. My start was Kevin Samuals, he showed me the type of relationship i should be looking for, and the right vetting questions. Then Kevin died. Next Fresh n fit, showed me who to stay far away from, how to protect myself from gold diggers and finessers, and a few tips on financial freedom. Fresh n Fit got canceled. Then was introduced to Andrew Tate, he said (what i hear around the sound bites) have a list of ideals, principles and goals, stay focused on them, if you truly want to accomplish something beyond the standard, follower the course. Andrew is fighting the matrix. Next it was Stirling Cooper, who showed me practical tools to use in bed which i have to say I've tried, applied and that works. Stirling was demonetized on UA-cam. Next it was Kezia Noble, great advice on the female mind but too focused on creating one kind of male playboy. Kezia actually came out 7, 8 yrs ago, before her time. Now Sadia Khan, Sadia ask us to take a deeper look inside, pin point the trauma, build productive habits that counter the negative habits caused by the trauma. But Sadia is holding back, not sure why, is it a business decision, is it fear of negative feed back??? Idk, i just know for selfish reasons i want her to go harder by trashing crap like, why do we cheat content and get heavy into creating new seeds to plant in the mind.
So the difference between men cheating is "their needs are not met" and when women cheat is because "men accept the unacceptable"?..... Your character and values come in ques as a 'PERSON' regardless gender when you decide to cheat because it happens slowly.. the act is selfish-impulsive-deceitful, unless there is an element of a very abusive partner.
My parents were divorced and I did not cheat. Same holds true for friends I have. I think this is an unfair generalization as cheating is more about values and how one feels about themselves in my experience. I think women from divorced homes are more likely to find themselves in unhealthy relationships as they may not have had a consistent or healthy male role model growing up; as a result of the lack of a healthy male role model, some may cheat if/when they meet someone who they feel validates them in a way they did not receiving growing up. That said, that is when values factor in as one may meet someone who validates them in the way they long for but to then cheat requires taking that experience of feeling validated to the next level. I feel the decision to cheat, or more specifucally to not cheat, is way more layered than she has described.
My , now ex wife found herself a bad boy for 2 y. 4 y after I got info abut this and divorced her with court robbery certainly. 25y of marriage gone. I have two sons. You can only imagine what I say them about marriage, women. They know about mothers betreyal. She is from divorced "family" and I think this played significant role with this. Lack of father. Meedtings with father and lover once a month or 2 weeks with all of love she was giving to a father before. etc. And the most important thing. She was living in the "broken" family. The divorce was normal to her and not for me. She has advantage of this kind. I strongly advise my boys to never marry. Do not give anyone multiimensinal safety at your cost.
I think you obsereved right but unfair in thinking she should not have generalised. in hypothesis, any practices that has over 60-70% same/similar outcome is considered the norm=general rule. Generalisation does not mean 100% outcome of the test. So she is very right. 70% of persons with CHIDLHOOD family ISSUES have relationship problmes. She is not the first to sate this fact. That is why single parenting is broken down important social values in humans today. ✌
Why? I’ve seen this in myself and it’s because I’ve already invested so much time and energy on that woman. We’re getting older… and we don’t want the stress of a divorce or breaking up. Maybe men are more tolerant… but… idk if we should be
Why women like getting married but NOT being married Why women lose sexual desire for their husbands and what women really do want sexually Why women are more likely than men to become addicted to affair sex Why marriage and fidelity can actually be MORE difficult for women than it is for men
@@u-kneequeread at least the online article by the author, it makes lots of sense. Especially as 35% of kids are raised not by their biological fathers, and fathers are not informed about it. Laws in Europe restrict DNA testing in ordered to keep the families intact. Jordan Peterson has multiple interview references, with the same message.
Interesting video, childhood experience does affect relationships; open dialogue and transparency with a partner helps I guess, both need to be supportive of each other in down times.
"I can't comment on things I don't know enough about." My Lord, such wisdom, maturity, and humility is too rare these days. And, might I dare say, a massive turn on.
What would make Sadi very attractive to me is not beauty nor publicity or intelligence. Commiting her publicly to be insecure is what her makes super-sexy. Bravo Sadi! Be yourself. May God bless you.
Sadia is honestly the reinvigoration I needed after 2 years of manosphere, “sigma”, self help content. that form of content woke me up to my neediness, and gave me tips and techniques to stop rewarding bad behavior and never standing up for myself with women. Sadia doesn’t take any of that away- but opens the door to refining those techniques. Almost reminding you to “chill the f-k out, dude”. very welcoming.
Astrology is A Sacred Science, not in the way that the west and religion interprets it. If you use the minute , second , hour, day, week , month and year you are using Atrology. If you use the seasons, the equator, sun rise sun set, Birthday, etc. 😊
At 2:00min in, Sadia explains why women start fights, and abandon first to avoid fear of being abandoned. Then explains there is now way to "pass" this test. What are we supposed to do with this information? If there's no way to win in this situation what's the outcome, just failed relationships?
I think she’s making excuses for woman’s behavior. If you are doing wrong, it shouldn’t be predicated on what a person excepts or don’t accept. So another words she’s basically saying she will only be good in relationship because the person that she’s with will not except any bad behaviors. It has to be a collective effort. Society dictates what’s acceptable and what’s not. A lot of times females get old and worn out and then they wanna settle at that point. And they are so evil that they don’t even warn younger woman these days, misery wants company.
The women who cheat on their husbands are usually bored with life in general frustrations that over time builds up but when a guy says just a word or a smile it ignites her emotionally and she gets a hit in her mind that excitement gives a rush and she feels good the sensation at times maybe overwhelming. When wives cheat if the guy she is cheating with is good in the sack and allows her to be her true self she will do things with that guy she doesn't do with her husband at all. And in order for that to happen is because one thing sex is in-between a woman's ears once that adrenaline is complete and fully then her body will do what ever it wants to do. Its a communication between her body and her mind we all do it except most don't realize it especially females and they usually don't understand as to why. Even though they love there husband or what he does for her only. Giving permission to her mind and letting her body go to receive everything for that sensation of pleasures
You are putting the cart before the horse. You can't say a wife cheats because the guy is good in the sack. She won't know how good he is until she cheats. She cheats because she has no morals.
Yeah can't commit to someone who gives minimum but expects maximum. Nothing will ever be enough. They'll always want more, and they'll accept different even if it ain't better
The worst mistake i ever did was date a woman whom i knew was dating someone. I had a rule from the word go. No asking out a girl who is dating someone. I thought i found someone worth breaking that rule for. Bad mistake. Broke the rule. Horrible mistake. That also contributes to how easily you accept bs.
LOL... back in 1990s, a lady was looking for several dates (I found out through dating sites) while cheating her husband, but she was telling me she loved me. I never took it seriously.
For the life of me I can’t wrap my head around two things: 1) Why any man would tolerate a woman who runs around / cheats / steals / manipulates … and, 2) Sadia is insecure??? Of what exactly?? Mind blown on that one …
She seems insecure, she exhibits a lot of behaviour telling you that. She is constantly obsessing over beauty and that leads to insecurities in women, because looks are fleeting. She also is used to being very attractive making her a target for people. She’s insecure about not being smart enough, pretty enough. Normal stuff, she’s just a human.
@@GlacierSound Yeah I suppose she’s entitled to have human feelings too lol… it just always comes as a bit unexpected from someone who seems so well put together
@@GlacierSound She talks a lot of sense but it’s wrapped around by her Muslim background and traditional views, which have validity but are a pipe dream for so many in the West. A guy who wants a girl who will be there with a meal or clean shirt has to contend with the majority of today’s women who want equality in the sense of sitting on their asses while still expecting the guy to do a full time job, pay for everything and do loads of the housework, including his own laundry and cooking. I get the impression there’s a lot of that too in Sadia, and that she will keep close tabs on the guy she marries while bossing him around.
14:00 that it’s not right you can be attracted from the kindness you have inside of you and purity to see and want good for anything and anyone, and that mood we all can have it some time of the day we have to teach ourselves how to stay in that state and then you will be likeable even if you are not attractive at all !!!!!!
Horrible. Why someone cheats? Why does someone commit murder? Why does somebody rob a bank? There is no excuse. There is no rationale. The only difference is that cheating is not illegal. And that’s why people do it with reckless abandon.
Hey! Sadia enjoying your content especially the part where you understand your Deen very important please keep it up.one more thing in Islam male friends are prohibited.
Men do have a responsibility to put boundaries and stay true to them. But it's ridiculous that she totally ignores how much the game is rigged against putting boundaries today. At least acknowledge it. It's so blatant. The entire media literally tried to cancel Jonah Hill and describe him as "abusive" for breaking up with a girlfriend who broke his boundaries.
He’s not too bright. He definitely left too many opportunities on the table and he interrupted her on more than one occasion, while she was communicating.
Quit my factory job 4 years ago. Seen at home as I was doing nothing when in reality I was becoming a God. Money is the only thing that made God's and Godessess status. 7 year statues of limitations WILL BE THROWN OUT for overall accountability of the population
(Aug 6) SP Word of the Day: Palpitate (of the heart) to beat rapidly and/or in an irregular way, especially because of fear or excitement. From Oxford-Dictionary
I cheated to get revenge on my partner of 8 years who I found out was cheating on me the entire time. I don’t give a single shit how it affected him. He can rot in hell for all I care.
Doesn't met my needs. Had pain during Sex because I couldn't stand him. He did not stand up for me. I got really sick. I couldn't end the relationship couldn't say no. Totally my fault. I met someone he gave me all I missed. I didn't love him. I wanted to leave the relationshi.
Following the religion we are advised to fast on the 13 14th And 15 of each lunar month, because on these days, people are easily triggered, emotional etc. So yes moon cycles and how they affect our behavior and definaltely have a basis In islam
That's due to the influence of shayateen being strong on those days as stated in Islam Astrology (prediction by movement of stars etc) however is something else and is impermissible and haram .
why porn makes you a simp as a man with no boundaries that is afraid to walk away and accept their girl to cheat on them, go out to parties 3:30 - 9:05 also it's better to be authentic and have lesser connections but more sincere
My ex, her friends and her family all called me a narcissist because i called her out on her bullshit and unacceptable behaviour 😂 She cheated with many men whilst with her baby dad before me and she didnt like that i had some self respect and wouldnt put up with her nonsense. She belongs to the streets.
Why can't woman accept the man on right time who has done the same mistake which was done by her father(still her mother accepted him at right time for marriage) when he was youth provided the man who got rejected had good character in past and present except few mistakes done over the particular period of time. (Oct 2011- April 2013)
the fact you speak about your insecurities, it's show some good self awareness. Many women who on the higher range of attractiveness naturally more primal in their cognition. Mostly genetics, and I ve seen this many times. Great lovers, very passionate in sex, and please their men. On the other hand, instinctively look for any sign of abandonment and flip the switch, being combative etc. Usually the woman want reassurance not to be abandoned. Usually when se see she is wrong and its coming from the paranoia, overtime it can develop the correct judgement of situations. However some can never correct it, it's too strong part of the self identity (or lack of). Man who experienced, can teach this type of woman to learn a process of attachment and detach based on the nature of the interaction. With that, the trigger becomes irrelevant
That's nothing, been married for 12 years in the starte she isolate me from my friends and family because I trust her. Then find out she was lying then all the abuse I had to face from her and then she left me I was so dumb try to get her back but she humliate me make false alegation against me and now found out she was cheating on me and had other guy in her life wtf. Never going to trust a women in my life again
My type is 15-20 years younger, look like Sadia there, have a PhD. And I run for the hills when i meet them, because of what they are. And outside that type theres like death valley...no response. So what is perceived the hardest, is the easiest, and outside that not much at all.
Carl Jung: "The puzzling thing is that there is really a curious coincidence between astrological and psychological facts, so that one can isolate time from the characteristics of an individual, and also, one can deduce characteristics from a certain time..."
Union marriage rates @ 31% What is has been occurring is a discrimination against my chasing of the money and monetary. My stability my foundation is not a relationship but funds in a balance.
13:07 In my opinion this comment is naive and untrue. At least in the short term. Probably in the long term too. The holding the door open experiment proves that. Smile and hold a door open for a woman if you’re a good looking man, you’ll more often than not be seen as a gentlemen. If you’re ugly, they’ll tell their friends you’re creepy. You won’t get a chance to be funny.
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Never accept cheating, disrespect or any games from women. Self respect is everything.
Some have a problem with my mindset.The purpose of dating was to meet and get to know people before committing. Therefore one can't cheat where there's no commitment!And having sex has nothing to do with commitment.
Women should stop accepting all that from men too
This should be obvious but most men have lost their balls. It’s just sad.
More women cheat than Men.
DNA evidence indicates they always have.
Men need to learn about true female nature.
@@divertiti I wish every woman on earth would not have sex before marriage. The world would be a better place.
Cheating is not a mistake in a relationship.
Cheating is the end of the relationship.
I've been married for over 30 year's to the same women. Raised 5 wonderful children together. She all of the sudden said she needed space. Went to visit a girl friend came back packed her bags and off she went with another man. I will never take her back. People that commit Adultery can never be trusted again.
@@elguapo8751 Thanks elguapo totally cool 😎
She's wrong about one thing. The girl I was with for almost 7 years wasn't the most attractive girl in the world in my eyes, but as I got to know her, a sort of light was shined on her and she really did become the most beautiful woman in the world to me.
Genuinely gorgeous and I never saw her the same again. Unfortunately she passed away, but I'll never find another one like her.
Women can absolutely have "compensatory" features, if that's what she wants to call it
Its simple, because they can. Then they blame men for their actions
People cheat on their partners because they don’t care about them, ultimately. People do whatever they want with little interest in the consequences for other people.
PS - thank you for posting longer content! As many of your followers likely will agree, it’s much better than short 3 minute clips… it’s appreciated! :)
She’s actually so confident that she can admit being insecure!!
Women are insecure the day they are born , when a man is happy with his partner and life is good with one or two crying, eating little shitting machines she will find a way to leave you and phoque k up your life and that makes her feel secure
I think being authentic is genuinely attractive.
Naive
One of the most attractive trait a woman can have is being feminine, caring , empathic etc, ..GOOD authentic PERSONALITY trumps looks.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Honest truth…..it hurts like hell right now…..re calibrate yourself…….6 months from now you’ll be a fresh new you and that bitch won’t matter
Remember this there an ex for a reason, why do we put women especially ones that end a relationship on a pedestal ? They are not worthy of your time,effort, and attention unfortunately the more you want them the less they will want you. Trust me I know how difficult it is been there many times, stay busy stay away from dating sites you stand more chance picking a chick up in the supermarket. Only one person can make you happy that is YOURSELF watch your demeanor no one wants a misery guts. Steer well clear of any woman that resembles your ex they will never compete or compair. Gost the ex it drives them crazy not knowing what you are doing or if you're with someone, this won't work overnight but time is precious ask yourself this ,,,,,would you have treated her like she has treated you? If the answer is no move on.
A woman is never yours… she is only yours right now. Find a new one, there are many more out there if that’s what you want. I’ve been in your shoes, as most men have. My advice is to focus on yourself. Don’t answer her calls, texts, emails, anything. Get your shi* together and make her regret her decision. Best choice I ever made.
She is so right when she says a cheating woman will turn to berating her husband. It happened to someone I know. He had a successful business, clearing $300-400k in his pocket a year after overhead. His ex wanted $500 jeans. A Lexus. A country club membership. A personal trainer. He denied her nothing. Now there's nothing wrong with people enjoying what they worked hard for. But even if one has money there has to be limits. My guess is she grew to believe he was weak and a pushover and grew to resent him for it. That personal trainer she had to have. Well she had him. Their son saw his mom and dude going in and out of the master bedroom. After it all came to light my friend cried and said he will forgive her. She ripped into him, calling him the most pathetic man she's ever known. Amongst other things. My friend just could not let go. He loved her too much and didn't seem to care that she crapped all over him. He wrecked his life, his relationship with his son, everything because he would not allow himself to see what she really was.
So he,s still with her?
@@tedlivermore6955 No
I'm 60. when I was young, I wanted to create a nice family. Unfortunately, I was naive, and could not find the right person. What I have learned from my past relationships? Women wanted me for as a sex toy, not for a long-term relationship. While they are lookng for the rich husbands. I learned to stay single.
Don’t accept the unacceptable no matter how hard you think it’s going to be . You deserve better !
I love your content Sadia. I am getting to understand why some of my past relationships failed especially when one is dating someone with abandonment issues.
That one is really a hard one to deal with.
This is such a high level woman. Truly noble.
Just started watching Sadia today. She speaks lot's of facts and is level headed.
I like the moral character of this woman! she is a good role model.
This life is very simple. Fear God(build your spirit), Know thyself, Be true to self, Be true to others. Thank you Sadia for preaching healing(Truth)
I'd say if you want to get a high value partner make sure to become a high value person yourself first. Any person who accepts a certain level of insecurity and call him/herself to be a psycho on certain circumstances, must be a very honest and sincere and secure person. Loved it. What a stunning psychologist.
If a girl threatens to leave me, I will say to her, that is not acceptable behavior and if you threaten again, then it is no longer a threat but a reality. I will not accept that behavior. I will boot her if she willingly breaks my boundaries after she knows what those boundaries are.
Well I was dating this girl and she usually start fighting for no reason, I gave in most of the time and there came a time when she started doing it more often as if it was her right to do so and always expected an apology for me....I mean, she literally said it that I should apologise...Sorry, one thing I learned, the more you get submissive, the more they exploit you
I had only one woman cheat on me when I was 30. I found out the next day from a friend of mine. She didn't know I knew. That same day I grabbed all her stuff from my place and dumped it outside the building in the street, told reception not to let her in. Front desk guy called her at work and told her come get her stuff or they will throw it away. She said I was not around enough (im a surgeon, worked trauma ER back then).
Much respekt for admitting the insecurity 🤝👌 Great content in general. Thank you for your work.
I can't believe this is still the topic. I have been having random conversations like these and it has gotten to the point ppl are reciting the lines, which is good but it also means they get it. I get it. But Sadia has the ability to dive deeper. I know she doesn't want to lose followers but what if she tested it with the thumbnail caption. Writting something like, "fix chilhood trauma" "what happens when dads not around" "step parents vs real parents" "i hate my moms new boyfriend", idk, maybe I'm old. But my belief is this new wave of relationship content has a graduation date with each content creator.
My start was Kevin Samuals, he showed me the type of relationship i should be looking for, and the right vetting questions. Then Kevin died. Next Fresh n fit, showed me who to stay far away from, how to protect myself from gold diggers and finessers, and a few tips on financial freedom. Fresh n Fit got canceled. Then was introduced to Andrew Tate, he said (what i hear around the sound bites) have a list of ideals, principles and goals, stay focused on them, if you truly want to accomplish something beyond the standard, follower the course. Andrew is fighting the matrix. Next it was Stirling Cooper, who showed me practical tools to use in bed which i have to say I've tried, applied and that works. Stirling was demonetized on UA-cam. Next it was Kezia Noble, great advice on the female mind but too focused on creating one kind of male playboy. Kezia actually came out 7, 8 yrs ago, before her time. Now Sadia Khan, Sadia ask us to take a deeper look inside, pin point the trauma, build productive habits that counter the negative habits caused by the trauma. But Sadia is holding back, not sure why, is it a business decision, is it fear of negative feed back??? Idk, i just know for selfish reasons i want her to go harder by trashing crap like, why do we cheat content and get heavy into creating new seeds to plant in the mind.
So the difference between men cheating is "their needs are not met" and when women cheat is because "men accept the unacceptable"?..... Your character and values come in ques as a 'PERSON' regardless gender when you decide to cheat because it happens slowly.. the act is selfish-impulsive-deceitful, unless there is an element of a very abusive partner.
My parents were divorced and I did not cheat. Same holds true for friends I have. I think this is an unfair generalization as cheating is more about values and how one feels about themselves in my experience. I think women from divorced homes are more likely to find themselves in unhealthy relationships as they may not have had a consistent or healthy male role model growing up; as a result of the lack of a healthy male role model, some may cheat if/when they meet someone who they feel validates them in a way they did not receiving growing up. That said, that is when values factor in as one may meet someone who validates them in the way they long for but to then cheat requires taking that experience of feeling validated to the next level. I feel the decision to cheat, or more specifucally to not cheat, is way more layered than she has described.
She generalises so much and almost seems that she wants it to be like this its the only message she conveys about cheating in women
My , now ex wife found herself a bad boy for 2 y. 4 y after I got info abut this and divorced her with court robbery certainly. 25y of marriage gone. I have two sons. You can only imagine what I say them about marriage, women. They know about mothers betreyal.
She is from divorced "family" and I think this played significant role with this.
Lack of father. Meedtings with father and lover once a month or 2 weeks with all of love she was giving to a father before. etc.
And the most important thing. She was living in the "broken" family. The divorce was normal to her and not for me. She has advantage of this kind.
I strongly advise my boys to never marry. Do not give anyone multiimensinal safety at your cost.
I think you obsereved right but unfair in thinking she should not have generalised. in hypothesis, any practices that has over 60-70% same/similar outcome is considered the norm=general rule. Generalisation does not mean 100% outcome of the test. So she is very right. 70% of persons with CHIDLHOOD family ISSUES have relationship problmes. She is not the first to sate this fact. That is why single parenting is broken down important social values in humans today. ✌
Why? I’ve seen this in myself and it’s because I’ve already invested so much time and energy on that woman. We’re getting older… and we don’t want the stress of a divorce or breaking up. Maybe men are more tolerant… but… idk if we should be
"For Betrayed Husbands & Women In Limbo" great 20 years long study done by Michelle Langley, she published few articles and books, highly recommend.
Why women like getting married but NOT being married
Why women lose sexual desire for their husbands and what women really do want sexually
Why women are more likely than men to become addicted to affair sex
Why marriage and fidelity can actually be MORE difficult for women than it is for men
Thanks for the book reference
@@u-kneequeread at least the online article by the author, it makes lots of sense. Especially as 35% of kids are raised not by their biological fathers, and fathers are not informed about it. Laws in Europe restrict DNA testing in ordered to keep the families intact. Jordan Peterson has multiple interview references, with the same message.
@@2by3 wow you’re forced to kuckeour
@@AryanHomeland?
i like this woman she’s very intelligent , she’s the kind of woman i’d definitely date or marry
She’s gorgeous and feminine, isn’t she?
She’s very intelligent too.
Interesting video, childhood experience does affect relationships; open dialogue and transparency with a partner helps I guess, both need to be supportive of each other in down times.
CHEATING IS SO COMMON THAT IT IS EXPECTED.
DON'T WORRY BE HAPPY.
STAY UNTIL YOU GOT TO GO.
Just love your content. to the point, without running around the bush
"I can't comment on things I don't know enough about."
My Lord, such wisdom, maturity, and humility is too rare these days. And, might I dare say, a massive turn on.
What would make Sadi very attractive to me is not beauty nor publicity or intelligence. Commiting her publicly to be insecure is what her makes super-sexy. Bravo Sadi! Be yourself. May God bless you.
When people test you, that is a sign of toxicity.
On the men......for all responsibility. Are women accountable for anything?
I keep listening to Sadia and I know that women talk in code and Sadia keeps describing this in women please provide the code breaking book.
She’s probably chasing some dude who isn’t interested
Women DO have a compensatory strategy for bad looks. It’s called makeup. 😂😂😂😂
Alhamdulilah I’m glad i find your channel sis❤️ such benefits video jasakallahu Khayr 👏🏾
Sadia is honestly the reinvigoration I needed after 2 years of manosphere, “sigma”, self help content.
that form of content woke me up to my neediness, and gave me tips and techniques to stop rewarding bad behavior and never standing up for myself with women. Sadia doesn’t take any of that away- but opens the door to refining those techniques. Almost reminding you to “chill the f-k out, dude”. very welcoming.
Astrology is A Sacred Science, not in the way that the west and religion interprets it. If you use the minute , second , hour, day, week , month and year you are using Atrology. If you use the seasons, the equator, sun rise sun set, Birthday, etc. 😊
At 2:00min in, Sadia explains why women start fights, and abandon first to avoid fear of being abandoned. Then explains there is now way to "pass" this test. What are we supposed to do with this information? If there's no way to win in this situation what's the outcome, just failed relationships?
So many lessons in one video.
Thank you very much. It appears you love the young man much though, ....
I think she’s making excuses for woman’s behavior. If you are doing wrong, it shouldn’t be predicated on what a person excepts or don’t accept. So another words she’s basically saying she will only be good in relationship because the person that she’s with will not except any bad behaviors. It has to be a collective effort. Society dictates what’s acceptable and what’s not. A lot of times females get old and worn out and then they wanna settle at that point. And they are so evil that they don’t even warn younger woman these days, misery wants company.
Sadia is very right! Change your type! I sure did and now im addicted to what i lke which is vuluptuous busty and short.
IF ANYONE CHEATS IS BECAUSE SOMETHING IS LACKING IN THAT RELATIONSHIP, PERIOD.
Yes its called self discipline
@@michaelkuhn3488 NO ITS NOT
Yeah I'm hooked on your authenticity and content.
The women who cheat on their husbands are usually bored with life in general frustrations that over time builds up but when a guy says just a word or a smile it ignites her emotionally and she gets a hit in her mind that excitement gives a rush and she feels good the sensation at times maybe overwhelming.
When wives cheat if the guy she is cheating with is good in the sack and allows her to be her true self she will do things with that guy she doesn't do with her husband at all.
And in order for that to happen is because one thing sex is in-between a woman's ears once that adrenaline is complete and fully then her body will do what ever it wants to do.
Its a communication between her body and her mind we all do it except most don't realize it especially females and they usually don't understand as to why.
Even though they love there husband or what he does for her only.
Giving permission to her mind and letting her body go to receive everything for that sensation of pleasures
You are putting the cart before the horse. You can't say a wife cheats because the guy is good in the sack. She won't know how good he is until she cheats. She cheats because she has no morals.
Prostitution is legal in most places. This gives them the right to do what they want and go were ever they want when they want to.
I would love a long-term relationship with this woman!
*She can’t be trusted, look at the religion she subscribes to. According to her 9year olds can give birth ,’. You can always use the victim card*
Why??
She’s a Muslim
You’re not so No
Yeah can't commit to someone who gives minimum but expects maximum. Nothing will ever be enough. They'll always want more, and they'll accept different even if it ain't better
The worst mistake i ever did was date a woman whom i knew was dating someone. I had a rule from the word go. No asking out a girl who is dating someone. I thought i found someone worth breaking that rule for. Bad mistake. Broke the rule. Horrible mistake. That also contributes to how easily you accept bs.
LOL... back in 1990s, a lady was looking for several dates (I found out through dating sites) while cheating her husband, but she was telling me she loved me. I never took it seriously.
For the life of me I can’t wrap my head around two things:
1) Why any man would tolerate a woman who runs around / cheats / steals / manipulates … and,
2) Sadia is insecure??? Of what exactly?? Mind blown on that one …
If you married her she’d be checking your phone constantly.
She seems insecure, she exhibits a lot of behaviour telling you that.
She is constantly obsessing over beauty and that leads to insecurities in women, because looks are fleeting.
She also is used to being very attractive making her a target for people. She’s insecure about not being smart enough, pretty enough. Normal stuff, she’s just a human.
@@GlacierSound Yeah I suppose she’s entitled to have human feelings too lol… it just always comes as a bit unexpected from someone who seems so well put together
@@GlacierSound She talks a lot of sense but it’s wrapped around by her Muslim background and traditional views, which have validity but are a pipe dream for so many in the West. A guy who wants a girl who will be there with a meal or clean shirt has to contend with the majority of today’s women who want equality in the sense of sitting on their asses while still expecting the guy to do a full time job, pay for everything and do loads of the housework, including his own laundry and cooking. I get the impression there’s a lot of that too in Sadia, and that she will keep close tabs on the guy she marries while bossing him around.
Glacier, that's a good point about her being insecure about her intelligence. How did you gather that?
14:00 that it’s not right you can be attracted from the kindness you have inside of you and purity to see and want good for anything and anyone, and that mood we all can have it some time of the day we have to teach ourselves how to stay in that state and then you will be likeable even if you are not attractive at all !!!!!!
Women start fights to get away from their partner usually to visit someone else or to do drugs there is a motive behind a woman starting a fight.
Horrible. Why someone cheats? Why does someone commit murder? Why does somebody rob a bank? There is no excuse. There is no rationale. The only difference is that cheating is not illegal. And that’s why people do it with reckless abandon.
Hey! Sadia enjoying your content especially the part where you understand your Deen very important please keep it up.one more thing in Islam male friends are prohibited.
If she fights to test me, I’m not bending the knee and if she wants to leave out of misplaced fear then so be it she’s not worth it
This women is rare. Such honesty not just to other people but to herself. Additionally she's knowledgeable.
that cut out too soon, great insight and discussion.
Spot on Sadia. God bless you in abundance ❤
Thaaaaaaaaanks to the universe, there are still sane people around!!!!
Men do have a responsibility to put boundaries and stay true to them. But it's ridiculous that she totally ignores how much the game is rigged against putting boundaries today. At least acknowledge it. It's so blatant. The entire media literally tried to cancel Jonah Hill and describe him as "abusive" for breaking up with a girlfriend who broke his boundaries.
Thank you so much for your channel content!!!
He’s not too bright. He definitely left too many opportunities on the table and he interrupted her on more than one occasion, while she was communicating.
Quit my factory job 4 years ago. Seen at home as I was doing nothing when in reality I was becoming a God. Money is the only thing that made God's and Godessess status. 7 year statues of limitations WILL BE THROWN OUT for overall accountability of the population
(Aug 6) SP
Word of the Day: Palpitate
(of the heart) to beat rapidly and/or in an irregular way, especially because of fear or excitement.
From Oxford-Dictionary
I cheated to get revenge on my partner of 8 years who I found out was cheating on me the entire time. I don’t give a single shit how it affected him. He can rot in hell for all I care.
Cheating is not a mistake it is a choice.
This advice was actuality perfect. Considering she is a woman
Spo on. Genius analysis 👏 👌
Doesn't met my needs. Had pain during Sex because I couldn't stand him. He did not stand up for me. I got really sick. I couldn't end the relationship couldn't say no. Totally my fault. I met someone he gave me all I missed. I didn't love him. I wanted to leave the relationshi.
For her to be open and decline to engage on a topic she doesnt know about? Speaks volumes #OkthenSadiaP
Following the religion we are advised to fast on the 13 14th And 15 of each lunar month, because on these days, people are easily triggered, emotional etc. So yes moon cycles and how they affect our behavior and definaltely have a basis In islam
That's due to the influence of shayateen being strong on those days as stated in Islam
Astrology (prediction by movement of stars etc) however is something else and is impermissible and haram .
why porn makes you a simp as a man with no boundaries that is afraid to walk away and accept their girl to cheat on them, go out to parties
3:30 - 9:05
also it's better to be authentic and have lesser connections but more sincere
Because they can and they know they will be reward for it in the family court.
My ex, her friends and her family all called me a narcissist because i called her out on her bullshit and unacceptable behaviour 😂 She cheated with many men whilst with her baby dad before me and she didnt like that i had some self respect and wouldnt put up with her nonsense. She belongs to the streets.
Why can't woman accept the man on right time who has done the same mistake which was done by her father(still her mother accepted him at right time for marriage) when he was youth provided the man who got rejected had good character in past and present except few mistakes done over the particular period of time. (Oct 2011- April 2013)
Win Win either a crazy check pay days or recognition pay days with assuming Presidential responsibility the Options
the fact you speak about your insecurities, it's show some good self awareness. Many women who on the higher range of attractiveness naturally more primal in their cognition. Mostly genetics, and I ve seen this many times. Great lovers, very passionate in sex, and please their men. On the other hand, instinctively look for any sign of abandonment and flip the switch, being combative etc.
Usually the woman want reassurance not to be abandoned. Usually when se see she is wrong and its coming from the paranoia, overtime it can develop the correct judgement of situations. However some can never correct it, it's too strong part of the self identity (or lack of). Man who experienced, can teach this type of woman to learn a process of attachment and detach based on the nature of the interaction. With that, the trigger becomes irrelevant
Oi fellas… she’s good! She’s very good! This women gets it 😮
That's nothing, been married for 12 years in the starte she isolate me from my friends and family because I trust her. Then find out she was lying then all the abuse I had to face from her and then she left me I was so dumb try to get her back but she humliate me make false alegation against me and now found out she was cheating on me and had other guy in her life wtf. Never going to trust a women in my life again
Even the hint of disrespect from woman I’m with is dealt with
My type is 15-20 years younger, look like Sadia there, have a PhD. And I run for the hills when i meet them, because of what they are. And outside that type theres like death valley...no response. So what is perceived the hardest, is the easiest, and outside that not much at all.
she should record long content,she is so good
If u accept it, it becomes a norm/normal
Carl Jung: "The puzzling thing is that there is really a curious coincidence between astrological and psychological facts, so that one can isolate time from the characteristics of an individual, and also, one can deduce characteristics from a certain time..."
Goes hand in hand with wants of a relationship to providing the funds assets of foundations stability.
Union marriage rates @ 31% What is has been occurring is a discrimination against my chasing of the money and monetary. My stability my foundation is not a relationship but funds in a balance.
If you are feeling insecure you can't bring something new to life, all life is about experiences
If they want to leave let them go. Whats the big deal. You can not make anyone love you or want to be with you. It has to be natrual.
Isnt super toxic to have to test your partner through a fight?
Regarding women seeing attractiveness in men, find the Julia Roberts interview where she goes on and on about how handsome Lyle Lovett is.
there for you wont see me getting married in this lifetime
This lady is bloody brilliant...
I like the way she laid back on her seat on astrology moon's question, it's seems that she doesn't want get involved in any shirk billah
13:07 In my opinion this comment is naive and untrue. At least in the short term. Probably in the long term too. The holding the door open experiment proves that. Smile and hold a door open for a woman if you’re a good looking man, you’ll more often than not be seen as a gentlemen. If you’re ugly, they’ll tell their friends you’re creepy. You won’t get a chance to be funny.
She’s interested in him, whether it’s subconscious or not she’s definitely interested in him. Just an observation 😊👍