WHO THE TOP 1 % FALL IN LOVE WITH

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  • @sadiapsychology
    @sadiapsychology  2 місяці тому +5

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  • @hanooi7450
    @hanooi7450 2 місяці тому +470

    That type of 1% man Sadia describes is probably the Nouveau Riche; those types are the ones who flock to Dubai. Old rich cares about the women's other qualities since their marriage is about legacy.

    • @jonathandiazmayagoitia5909
      @jonathandiazmayagoitia5909 2 місяці тому +109

      100% agree, new money is not 1% money. The first mistake these "experts" make is considering flashy millionaires as a 1% man. Rappers, athletes, actors and social media tycoons are NOT 1% men (she uses Drake and Chris Brown as examples LMAO... the first one likes to strike A-Minor chords and the second likes to strike a woman´s face). The second mistake is that they think 1% men are in prostitution hubs like Miami or Dubai or London, because those are the only places where they have lived or travelled too. REAL 1% men actually look for legacy and WIVES with values so that they can build generational wealth that can provide them with power and influence, NOT fame or followers. In the real world, outside social media, these flashy self proclaimed "1% high value men" are frowned upon and are NOT trusted because they are not married nor have a family and are definitely laughed at if they marry gold-diggers or escorts.

    • @scottanos9981
      @scottanos9981 2 місяці тому +15

      ​@@jonathandiazmayagoitia5909The old money also makes up for the lack of carnal pleasure by bringing out rituals such as the Bohemian Club. The situation is much worse the higher up you go in the hierarchy of the West.

    • @MotoM0nk
      @MotoM0nk 2 місяці тому

      @@jonathandiazmayagoitia5909 Are you in 1% to know all this?

    • @JustBeingAwesome
      @JustBeingAwesome 2 місяці тому +60

      Fully agree. I'm surrounded by old money... they tend to go for women who look rather average, but have class, are very smart, highly-educated, have a well-rounded cultural baggage, speak several languages, and are just chill to hang out with and they can bring home to their parents. Yes looks do matter: dressed classy, not overweight, good features, good hair... but they tend to stear away from porn looks and influencer looks.

    • @billycosta3203
      @billycosta3203 2 місяці тому +5

      I agree with you. What would you do with your children? Show them an escort or a gold digger?

  • @JustBeingAwesome
    @JustBeingAwesome 2 місяці тому +195

    I'm surrounded by old money... they tend to go for women who look rather average, but have class, are very smart, highly-educated, have a well-rounded cultural baggage, speak several languages, and are just chill to hang out with and they can bring home to their parents. Yes looks do matter: dressed classy, not overweight, good features, good hair... but they tend to stear away from porn looks and influencer looks.

    • @rdkirk3834
      @rdkirk3834 2 місяці тому +19

      Bingo. That also goes for the more intelligent new money.

    • @JustBeingAwesome
      @JustBeingAwesome 2 місяці тому +7

      @@rdkirk3834 yep :) (I'm in tech)

    • @ratnaali8206
      @ratnaali8206 2 місяці тому

      Amin

    • @rdkirk3834
      @rdkirk3834 2 місяці тому +11

      Something those women can usually do for that man: Manage his social life. Old money men must usually maintain life in society that works to maintain their wealth. They have to meet and maintain social relationships with the right people and the right organizations. Those women come in to the marriage already comfortable and knowledgeable of those social circles and requirements...that's what they bring to the table...and they keep their husbands properly plugged in.

    • @JustBeingAwesome
      @JustBeingAwesome 2 місяці тому +4

      @@rdkirk3834 yep 😉 They play hockey, tennis, ski, go to balls. Don't underestimate religion either. Many are part of the Order of Malta.

  • @lilylife4426
    @lilylife4426 2 місяці тому +326

    Sadia's describing very shallow men, which is not the majority of the top 1%. I'm around uber rich on a daily basis (billionaires and centa-millionnaires) and they do not view women this way. First of all, they are all very different, just like other people. Many are happily married to very normal women and you couldn't tell their financial situation by looking at them. Some of them love to cook themselves, they can be very romantic and plan amazing dates, they definitely seek an emotional connection and loyalty. Sex is very easily obtainable for those men, many gorgeous women throw themselves at them, so they usually look for more than that.

    • @allovertheshopmum
      @allovertheshopmum 2 місяці тому +55

      Same and i agree with you. I live where Sadia lives though and here it is as she describes, but this is not the norm for all wealthy areas/or 1% in general -- She is 'jaded' as she says from her particular cross-section of clients. She probably only sees the shallow end of the 1% because the happily married, men who sought something deeper, have no reasons to go to her. Like you, i know a lot of the latter and many of them would die of boredom with a woman half their age, they need intellectual stimulation as much as sexual.

    • @ablemedia8763
      @ablemedia8763 2 місяці тому +6

      I think she is speaking what she knows fr. Why the porta potty princess started in Dubui? Sounds pretty bored n depraved.

    • @JustBeingAwesome
      @JustBeingAwesome 2 місяці тому +25

      thank you :) I said something similar: I'm surrounded by old money... they tend to go for women who look rather average, but have class, are very smart, highly-educated, have a well-rounded cultural baggage, speak several languages, and are just chill to hang out with and they can bring home to their parents. Yes looks do matter: dressed classy, not overweight, good features, good hair... but they tend to stear away from porn looks and influencer looks.

    • @lilylife4426
      @lilylife4426 2 місяці тому +1

      @@JustBeingAwesome 100%!!!

    • @napoleonfeanor
      @napoleonfeanor 2 місяці тому +7

      She talks about the nouveau riche, mainly celebs I think

  • @averithrower3274
    @averithrower3274 2 місяці тому +88

    I love how well she holds her ground even when being controversial. Her strength is inspiring.

    • @jackdeniston6150
      @jackdeniston6150 2 місяці тому +3

      Arrogance

    • @stevecooper7883
      @stevecooper7883 2 місяці тому

      She didn't go far enough! She KNOWS she's calling out the elite for illicitly sponsoring certain "industries" but refuses to bring the conversation to a high enough level to address it.

    • @marcelmarshall4240
      @marcelmarshall4240 2 місяці тому +7

      She used her beauty to switch into a field that she knows noting about because her acting career did not take off the way she wanted. How can a woman who is beautiful..around 1 percenters all day...every day..and is STILL not married..give ANYONE advice? Why do people listen to people who have not achieved what you are seeking? It's insanity.

    • @averithrower3274
      @averithrower3274 2 місяці тому

      @@marcelmarshall4240 🎣

    • @heatherheaney4060
      @heatherheaney4060 2 місяці тому +3

      @@marcelmarshall4240 i think she is married. She mentioned having a husband in another pod cast.

  • @vOnAm
    @vOnAm 2 місяці тому +52

    As a guy, I say the 1% is different depending on country and culture. I agree people who work to be the 1% will need more stress relief (especially sexual relief), but additional stress relief can come from women's traits like being sweet, always happy/positive/uplifting, nurturing. Although u can buy escorts for these, there is a big value for being finding long term companion, for stability.

  • @TonyTheTGR
    @TonyTheTGR 2 місяці тому +42

    That early part isn't jaded, it's observation. It's raw and honest. This is why when you get what you think you want, it's not what you actually want. There's always more stuff you're not seeing.

    • @Mcfunface
      @Mcfunface 2 місяці тому

      The conclusion she SHOULD'VE drawn is that our society is ruled by a pld0fllllc corporate elite. She didn't go far enough!

  • @lorrilewis2178
    @lorrilewis2178 2 місяці тому +106

    This doesn't apply to "old money" men who are looking for education, poise, and the ability to nurture a family and create a legacy. Rappers are a different breed.

    • @danielledemedeiros
      @danielledemedeiros Місяць тому +1

      Her expertise is men in Dubai, Old money doesn't go there😂😂😂

    • @lorrilewis2178
      @lorrilewis2178 Місяць тому

      @@danielledemedeiros Well, there you go.

    • @kaypandey7221
      @kaypandey7221 Місяць тому

      Breed?? 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @lorrilewis2178
      @lorrilewis2178 Місяць тому +1

      @@kaypandey7221 It's an old figure of speech. She is only familiar with a certain type of rich man and that's all she can speak about.

  • @ellerose94
    @ellerose94 2 місяці тому +71

    I believe this woman is exceptionally smart and skilled at marketing. She has chosen to become controversial, even appearing 'pro-men’, to confront their distorted desires. This approach serves as a wake-up call because society is resistant to hearing the truth, provoking a sense of rebellion as men dislike being diminished to so little…

    • @Kareena1988
      @Kareena1988 2 місяці тому +5

      And marketing herself by wearing these outfits..

    • @cjcowgirlify
      @cjcowgirlify 2 місяці тому

      True

    • @ellebelle222
      @ellebelle222 2 місяці тому

      You got it 🎉 ❤

    • @Norma00ful
      @Norma00ful Місяць тому +5

      @@Kareena1988 What?? She is covered up! Are you serious right now? She is more covered than most women nowadays. Whats wrong with her outfit??? JEALOUS much?

    • @nobe7745
      @nobe7745 Місяць тому

      Absolutely

  • @jeand9355
    @jeand9355 2 місяці тому +162

    Top 1% in terms of wealth, not quality.

  • @douglasolsson7768
    @douglasolsson7768 2 місяці тому +188

    I am very successful and retired at 48. If all a woman offers is sex, then I'm not interested.

    • @TheRougefish
      @TheRougefish 2 місяці тому +2

      Prove it

    • @n00bified
      @n00bified 2 місяці тому +8

      @@TheRougefish He's 48. Sex is hard at that age ;)

    • @douglasolsson7768
      @douglasolsson7768 2 місяці тому +7

      @@n00bified Lots older than that now. Yeah, it's plenty hard. Ha ha.

    • @billionare13
      @billionare13 2 місяці тому +21

      If all you can offer is money that’s not enough either ;)

    • @peke1822
      @peke1822 2 місяці тому +1

      According to you, where can one find this type of men?

  • @BCDelk
    @BCDelk 2 місяці тому +25

    The drive that these men have to become the top 1% often comes from a traumatic place, and they do not resolve this trauma because of all of the positive reinforcement they get to keep using it as rocket fuel.
    They don't look for the intrinsic values of women, because of this reinforcement that only extrinsic values are rewarded, in their own cases.
    Many of these men have sold their souls (figuratively), doing things that they hate (miserable job) or inherently know are evil (exploiting employees and customers).
    We are what we attract, and these men will attract women who are also willing to sell their souls and exploit people.
    The universe has a way of giving everyone what they deserve in the end.

  • @TruePathLiving
    @TruePathLiving Місяць тому +8

    She attracts men to her business with her beauty and soft-spoken voice, I hope she teaches them well, men these days don't care about us.

    • @millionaire9122
      @millionaire9122 Місяць тому

      Not really, she attracts with her knowledge. It only takes a moment to recognize how knowledgeable and intelligent she is. An unintelligent woman can be recognized in a second no matter how beautiful.

    • @millionaire9122
      @millionaire9122 Місяць тому

      Not really, she attracts with her knowledge. It only takes a moment to recognize how knowledgeable and intelligent she is. An unintelligent woman can be recognized in a second no matter how beautiful.

  • @therealsandraweise
    @therealsandraweise 2 місяці тому +22

    I have found sharing what I want from a partner with them... they will pretend to be that person to get laid and never intended to partner.
    Then the woman gets blamed for choosing wrong.

    • @MS-ns4ki
      @MS-ns4ki 2 місяці тому

      Yes !
      Her voice is always a trigger ~
      Mia Farrow

    • @HerefortheLove
      @HerefortheLove 2 місяці тому +5

      That’s why it’s best to observe and say little and give very little information about yourself. They will naturally either talk and/or show you WHO they are by their actions or lack of actions. We usually just don’t want to see it because we want love, affection, attention etc we tend to get caught up in our minds/fantasies too early on. Time to change the game. ✨

  • @ValsMind
    @ValsMind 2 місяці тому +18

    Sadia! I live in the west and I can say…I think you’re on to something. I like being the reserved type of woman or just exclusive to one partner. The MOST COMMON thing I’ve noticed in men (no matter the income level here) is the entitlement to women and their bodies. In my own experience, when sex was off of the table (after establishing a romantic bond) I noticed that most men become completely disinterested when they couldn’t access anymore. Even if they knew me for a long time, they become totally disinterested. I make it clear that if he wants intimacy sexually, I need it emotionally. They’ll meet the need, but it only lasts for a period of time. I have found some men will play the role for YEARS…but of course if it’s not natural to him eventually it’s not sustainable. Imperative for women to be careful as we are seen more as objects than people everyday now. Social media and general media have made this worse.

    • @SheenaRea
      @SheenaRea 2 місяці тому +9

      Totally agree. For some reason, a man in the 1% took a romantic interest in me, after we'd been friends for years. He said he wanted a "real relationship" after dating countless woman following his wife's death.... He's a bit older than me. We shared a romance, but he wanted me for sex only which became clear right away. I couldn't do it; I needed the emotional connection first. He scolded me that he would NEVER under any circumstance love me. "Don't EVER expect it!" And I realized he just wanted me as a sex toy. All the other women he had and then discarded *wanted love!!* I asked him, "Did you ever love any of the women you screwed?" And he said, "Hell NO."
      BTW, Sadia is right. If a woman does the cooking, cleaning, gardening, etc. for these 1% types, the 1% guys don't give a damn. My ex would scold me for that. "Leave it io Barbara! That's HER job!" (one of his maids) .... All the niceties that a woman can provide a man, along with her emotional gifts, femininity, etc. don't matter. The dude I was with was so jaded by his riches, so bored with his life, because he could buy ANYTHING, and he could BUY ANYONE. Our "dates" devolved into having a light dinner and then time for a make-out session, which he kept trying to turn into sex. 😞 I needed love.
      So I ditched him. And he's supposedly pining for me. I couldn't care less. I am not an object, not a sex toy. F*** his money.
      Cheers!! 🙂

    • @user-el2km1db2g
      @user-el2km1db2g 2 місяці тому +2

      Is it just me or are exclusive women needing love to be sexually satisfied the 1% theses days or just perceived that way through the media? I'm the one of very few I've met in my life. If I were to cheat I'd have a mental break down, literally.

    • @YasminMahnaz
      @YasminMahnaz 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@SheenaRea sex toy...m that's it! You're my sex toy or sex doll.. probably toy..I heard once and I got upset like wtf. ... I'm not a toy and that's all you think of me... kids play with toys, get bored and next one. but he excused it and I wouldn't lik it if they're is no love and I'm just a toy... if he said my sex toy.. still I wanted to hear love first..

    • @ValsMind
      @ValsMind 2 місяці тому +2

      @@SheenaReaomg I’m sorry this happened to you. I hope Sadie sees this and can give some guidance on communication with this generation of men. I swear I’m speaking English to them but they don’t seem to understand emotional intimacy😅

  • @sigmamind711
    @sigmamind711 2 місяці тому +6

    This is 1 woman who actually gets it! Men will deal with way more inconsistencies from a woman as long as he gets the sexual gratification he desires. The hardest part is finding this sexual compatibility with a woman who also offers real world impact. "In my opinion." Great video Dr. Sadia!👌🏾

  • @Future_looksbright
    @Future_looksbright 2 місяці тому +24

    Why would 99% of us care? Additionally, the less a person likes you and appreciates you the more transactional the relationship becomes. She’s describing secular godless narcissist basically

  • @ericgalen
    @ericgalen 2 місяці тому +10

    She's completely right about this, I can outsource most acts of service - intimacy and sex are essential in a relationship for me.

    • @ginamok8373
      @ginamok8373 28 днів тому

      Sadia says that intimacy is not important for the 1% because they are so busy they dont have time to talk about feelings. You can outsource sex too

  • @Lifeeewithsabrina
    @Lifeeewithsabrina 2 місяці тому +13

    The consistent available partner would not be attracted to someone unhealed😂

  • @BrNolife
    @BrNolife 26 днів тому +1

    I have expressed myself a lot of times, I loved him more than anything, I admired him, adored him, gave him kids, raised them, worked full time…… he left me anyway. I was told that he was a covert narcissist.

  • @NomadSupreme911
    @NomadSupreme911 2 місяці тому +33

    She must be talking about athlete/entertainer/crypto 1 percenters. Most 1 percent men who had to earn their money over time have good, smart wives.

    • @meadowgirl
      @meadowgirl 2 місяці тому +4

      And then they leave them like Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos.

    • @mrbadass8907
      @mrbadass8907 3 дні тому

      er...no. We don't want smart girl.

  • @michaelpilos
    @michaelpilos 2 місяці тому +4

    What You Give Is What You Get! Money = Exchange or Connection = Authenticity

  • @juliannatrure
    @juliannatrure 2 місяці тому +6

    Top 1-2% of wealthy men, i learned from Nadia are obsessed fall in love with narcissistic and manipulative women.

  • @violettaalexistarot
    @violettaalexistarot 2 місяці тому +62

    she is such a smart and beautiful woman. definitely someone to look up to.

    • @jessee7334
      @jessee7334 2 місяці тому +1

      Polar opposite to women like yourself! But the way she describes a good woman matches mine (description) as well 😊

    • @Animalignis
      @Animalignis 2 місяці тому +2

      If you think so, you didn't get her point.

    • @jnbovee
      @jnbovee 2 місяці тому

      Too bad she's so immature when it comes to Middle East politics.

    • @ellebelle222
      @ellebelle222 2 місяці тому

      She is amazing 🎉

  • @EnkiWesley
    @EnkiWesley 2 місяці тому +47

    😂😂😂
    She works with the 1%
    From what she's sounding like I find that very hard to believe

    • @jackdeniston6150
      @jackdeniston6150 2 місяці тому +2

      Money only

    • @whereisshaz
      @whereisshaz 2 місяці тому +1

      No but that’s how she knows it best.

    • @izzyfleur1149
      @izzyfleur1149 2 місяці тому +3

      She podcasts with top 1% men like A.Tate, so she does know...

    • @aeiou0123
      @aeiou0123 2 місяці тому +8

      She is lying. She doesnt seem like she works with old money. May b new money top 30%. Not top1%

    • @Haven5644
      @Haven5644 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@@aeiou0123Yes. Sounds like new money. Since Drake and Brown are her examples.

  • @winstonfaulkner537
    @winstonfaulkner537 2 місяці тому +5

    Stress relief yes but not primarily from sex. Less nagging and high blood pressure is what some of us are looking for.

  • @FGFGrateful
    @FGFGrateful 2 місяці тому +6

    I envy Mark for being able to meet and interview so many different personalities, perspectives and ideas. That must be a wealth of knowledge.

  • @GS-ex9sg
    @GS-ex9sg 2 місяці тому +11

    I actually am in the top 1% now
    It took forever. I am 44 now. What we want is a nice smart loyal women who will be a good wife and mother. We don’t want drama and non sense

    • @TravelingFoodBunny
      @TravelingFoodBunny 2 місяці тому +2

      The question is would the 1% be willing to put in valuable time and effort to get to know the nice smart loyal women? People claim that many of the 1% opt for escort because their time is so expensive that planning date and building connection over period of time is not worth their time anymore.

    • @meadowgirl
      @meadowgirl 2 місяці тому +1

      Then why didn’t you marry in your 30s like a normal person? Now you will be stuck marrying someone younger so you can have a baby with her. And it will lead to power issues in the relationship. You have designed your life for a sex toy partner.

    • @GS-ex9sg
      @GS-ex9sg 2 місяці тому +1

      @@meadowgirl I am married. Got marred way before. What I am saying is being the “1%” man that is what men want. I have that.

  • @katarinadep
    @katarinadep 2 місяці тому +6

    ah hello, that's most men. If you are hot, they will put up with almost anything. It's not just the 1%.

  • @RobynLynn07
    @RobynLynn07 2 місяці тому +3

    I’ve listened to her a lot but never in conversation with someone so far outside her line of practice. She has a way of really listening. No wonder she’s so sharp. ❤

  • @courtneykoc3050
    @courtneykoc3050 Місяць тому +2

    I think for the 1% the perfect relationship for them is a respectful open relationship, respectful meaning they use protection with other people and don't bring others into their marital bed/home and depending on their image expectations keep it private from others. Continue to keep in connection with each other as best friends so they maintain that bond with each other

  • @TokyoTaisu
    @TokyoTaisu 2 місяці тому +12

    I entered the top 1% at the age of 27. I was staying in a suite in the Palace Hotel Tokyo. HYA girls were waiting in the lobby for us to arrive. Then a few days later something surprising happened. One of the girls started handwashing my shirt and ironing it and hanging it on the balcony to dry. That was the moment I knew I was going to regard her for marriage. Seven years later, we are married and have two children, which she abducted and filed for divorce. The end.

    • @Transfa
      @Transfa 2 місяці тому

      You have llc’s locations in Tokio?

    • @TokyoTaisu
      @TokyoTaisu 2 місяці тому

      @@Transfa llc's?

    • @BMSCosmetic101
      @BMSCosmetic101 2 місяці тому +10

      Women don't cut off the relationship with their children's father for no reason. 7 years means she really tried. If it was just for money, it would have ended shortly after the 1st child.

    • @TokyoTaisu
      @TokyoTaisu 2 місяці тому +1

      @@BMSCosmetic101 her father has money, the youngest kid turned 4 so in her words "she doesn't need me anymore"

    • @Babyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
      @Babyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy Місяць тому +6

      What did you do to her?

  • @patreesemack8112
    @patreesemack8112 2 місяці тому +6

    Oh so true… missed her. She disappeared for a sec and now she’s back!! Glad to see her! ❤

  • @maxinewebster8273
    @maxinewebster8273 2 місяці тому +4

    She is so intelligent and it’s frustrating for her to chat with this guy… asking very basic boring questions and missing so much of what she’s saying!

  • @samsonsembeba
    @samsonsembeba 2 місяці тому +16

    Fueled by the wrong thing will always get you the wrong results. But if you are fueled by the right thing, you will always find what your are “truly” looking for. I enjoyed this video. 🙏

  • @arnelabih1845
    @arnelabih1845 2 місяці тому +24

    I am sick of what men wants I don't care. I care all about myself ❤.

    • @rdkirk3834
      @rdkirk3834 2 місяці тому +1

      You always did. We understand that.

  • @thetaxaccountant
    @thetaxaccountant Місяць тому +1

    My former boss is part of 1 % and his wife is a traditional classy non flashy lady. He loves her very much. Remember the people that comes to are the toxic ones needing rescue/help

  • @brooklyndellycat9866
    @brooklyndellycat9866 4 дні тому +1

    I’ve found the opposite. It only lasts if the man loves the woman more because as she said the woman needs to feel loved

  • @bricelegendnducho
    @bricelegendnducho 2 місяці тому +2

    This lady has become such an expert that she can tell what is going on with you just by looking, this is beautiful

  • @Alphawolf55131
    @Alphawolf55131 8 днів тому +1

    I am a handsome high value man and I appreciate very much acts of service by my woman. It’s nurturing and means so much more that she is caring for me and not a service. Appreciation and respect mixed with connection and communication leads to true intimacy , this is what completes a good man. Anything less and that man will not feel or be complete. Sex only matters or should be engaged in once all those things are in place.
    Anything less is just the devils playground and leads to decay.

  • @johnbradbury8610
    @johnbradbury8610 2 місяці тому +3

    It's amazing how many spouses believe counseling will save a marriage after cheating

  • @codingforkidsbymissb
    @codingforkidsbymissb Місяць тому +2

    This doesn't explain the life partners chosen by most tech ceos. Most choose highly intelligent wives.

  • @mysteriousme3006
    @mysteriousme3006 2 місяці тому +2

    This Woman is highly intelligent! As a woman myself, Thank You for existing 💖

  • @Vadderax
    @Vadderax 2 місяці тому +29

    This is why without the abstinence of religion. You lose your way of living and existing easily in this world. Religon gives meaning, purpose, idenity, belonging and other things to your life and others that money can never buy or do. People loose there identity, morals, reality, and motor funtions depending how involved they are in work and money only. It will mentally drained them and make them more open to temptations, sin, and bad decisons without some form of religon.

  • @CorbinB-Rax
    @CorbinB-Rax 2 місяці тому +15

    There is no way she doesn't know she's a 10. You can tell in how she sits. Even quietly.

    • @stevecooper7883
      @stevecooper7883 2 місяці тому +7

      Yes but she's making these controversial claims to draw more attention to her channel. She knows she's avoiding the elephant in the room with the very top 0.1%....human trafficking.

    • @salosegura711
      @salosegura711 2 місяці тому +2

      She's grifting and she is definitely not a 10. A 9 at most.

    • @napoleonfeanor
      @napoleonfeanor 2 місяці тому +1

      Wouldn't call her that but tastes differ

    • @MakinItHappenn
      @MakinItHappenn 2 місяці тому +2

      What does that have to do with the video? LOL. Quit simping

    • @The_Raging_Bull
      @The_Raging_Bull 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@salosegura711bro you talk like she is begging you to be with her she doesn't even know you exist so relax

  • @user-hb5lh6rk9x
    @user-hb5lh6rk9x 2 місяці тому +2

    A man could be in love but if that woman ain’t on point mentally it won’t work no matter how good she look

  • @jaytan915
    @jaytan915 2 місяці тому +20

    The top 1% described are only in terms of material resources.
    Serious men want to have a family and children. Even if these types are too busy elsewhere and have the bare minimum of attention to spare for relationships, they will treat their wife as the mother of their children. Serious and busy men tend not to mess with women.

    • @Aright231
      @Aright231 2 місяці тому

      Serious men want to have a family but serious and busy men aren’t interested in women? Please explain more.

    • @jaytan915
      @jaytan915 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Aright231 If you have a lot going on in your life, you won't have time to mess around. You commit a lot of time to your success, family, hobbies and what is important to you.

    • @Aright231
      @Aright231 2 місяці тому

      @@jaytan915 I have a lot but I’m still Hanh Ted by wanting extra women. That’s what my past is, a lot of messing around, before I got married.

    • @jaytan915
      @jaytan915 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@Aright231 If you are a serious man and you want a family and children, you might also want to be successful as a husband and father. Your wife needs a secure marriage, your children need a nurturing mother and responsible father to thrive and that is down to you. You mean the world to your children, you don't want to disappoint them and you become the better version of yourself who is responsible and dependable.
      Personally, I woke up when my children left home after 20 years, found that I had internalised that stature which was not the younger me and I had everything working out for me.

  • @jessicarogers4820
    @jessicarogers4820 Місяць тому +3

    I love your work. You are an inspirational women !

  • @ananya9135
    @ananya9135 2 місяці тому +6

    She is describing narcissistic men

  • @nataliam6173
    @nataliam6173 2 місяці тому +5

    Not 1% man who are very well educated, come from wealthy families with generational wealth. She talks probably about crypto, rapers and sports guys

  • @manpreetsinghkang9154
    @manpreetsinghkang9154 2 місяці тому +3

    All the men complaining ⬇️ are not the 1% she is talking about.

  • @stewartmuwangala2053
    @stewartmuwangala2053 2 місяці тому +5

    She’s talking about the rich in Dubai whilst passing them to be the rich in Monaco.

  • @dianamay9652
    @dianamay9652 2 місяці тому +2

    I do agree with her that women’s emotions take over so it’s important that they love the man. I also agree with her that having true love is better than any antidepressant in the entire world.

  • @MontanaBoyInJapan
    @MontanaBoyInJapan 2 місяці тому +3

    Sadie is right, I think that the sex comes first before the other acts of service can be valued. Also, the part about the 1% being able to outsource the other acts of service was a lightbulb moment for me, I had heard this said differently but this is the first time I understood it.

  • @meadowgirl
    @meadowgirl 2 місяці тому +1

    In the single community especially, she is actually somewhat correct. And it’s NOT just “new money.” Anyone can be sex addicted.

  • @ChiTheAesthete
    @ChiTheAesthete 2 місяці тому +34

    Sadia, is getting darkened by the work she does she should be careful how it affects her

    • @Aright231
      @Aright231 2 місяці тому

      Yes. She’s smart, and wonders if she would like to go through her own exploratory phase.

    • @veebee1482
      @veebee1482 2 місяці тому +1

      I totally agreed 💯 😢

    • @robertschiller5422
      @robertschiller5422 2 місяці тому

      good observation!

    • @mztwixed
      @mztwixed 2 місяці тому

      ​@@Aright231 like she isn't human. Lol OK. 👍

    • @Norma00ful
      @Norma00ful Місяць тому

      darken? what do you mean?

  • @Doesch
    @Doesch Місяць тому +1

    And this is why sometimes its best to not even be in a relationship, as true love between two people is harder to find than anything else

  • @kellysegerson1915
    @kellysegerson1915 Місяць тому +14

    A Godly relationship should be the goal. Not getting a “1% man”. Being wealthy doesn’t mean anything if you aren’t humble and serving God.

  • @guerrillanation1862
    @guerrillanation1862 2 місяці тому +3

    She is beautiful! Absolutely gorgeous!

  • @TheArchitect216
    @TheArchitect216 2 місяці тому +7

    shes very smart. I am not in the 1% but I can still understand the truth of what she says

  • @parikshamahabeer
    @parikshamahabeer 2 місяці тому +27

    She's 100% right but the interviewer is uncomfortable with her answers with men

    • @Mcfunface
      @Mcfunface 2 місяці тому +7

      Primarily because it ignored the other 99% of men actually living in reality. Especially when we get to topics of who is responsible for the trafficking of a certain trade...involving people...

  • @Gettingitreal
    @Gettingitreal 2 місяці тому +2

    I think she is famous not because she is insightful, but because she’s beautiful. Just saying.

  • @GermanTaffer
    @GermanTaffer 2 місяці тому +2

    Maybe because I have machiavellistic tendencies, but I would prefer always kindness and empathy instead of artistic capabilities.
    Men, we are easy manipulativable by the last one, and narcissists know it extremely well ,and have no pride to use it. I see so many top 0,001 percent of guys suffering under this sheme.
    Focus your life gentlemen.

  • @LadyCamilleE
    @LadyCamilleE 2 місяці тому +3

    Thanks for clarifying The Who loves who more myth. It’s best when there is a balance. Maybe loving each other for different reasons yet both parties willing to invest, commit and fight for the relationship.

  • @myra3266
    @myra3266 2 місяці тому +6

    It’s true. I’ve seen it. A lot of men don’t even want relationships anymore. They do outsource everything and sometimes prefer to buy

  • @PersonalNotPrivate-rl8dv
    @PersonalNotPrivate-rl8dv 2 місяці тому +3

    The 1% who are male are not necessarily traditional men. Most MBAs for example are liberal not conservative.

  • @darrenjeromemusic
    @darrenjeromemusic 2 місяці тому +1

    It is true, appreciation and desire is more important than empty sex.
    Swap the term sex with making love, far too much emphasis is put on men needing to be satisfied physically.
    If women perceive that this is what good men want you are far off it and he will feel disconnected from you and question if you feel the same deep emotional bond that he has for you.
    Sex is not simply another chore but is one of the many epitomes of connecting physically, emotionally and spiritually with one another to grow your oneness.

  • @mzekenamanjearistokasi6832
    @mzekenamanjearistokasi6832 2 місяці тому +2

    Sadia is so effortlessly gorgeous 🥰

  • @DavidLee-d2i
    @DavidLee-d2i 2 місяці тому +3

    There is an old saying that for men good sex is 5% of a good marriage, but bad sex is 95% of a bad marriage. This may be true for women as well and I would like to hear your comments below. I don't believe that we have fully studied and understood the male sexual drive and the need to find satisfying sexual release on a regular basis. Instead, we have shamed men in this space and told them they their sexual drive is wrong and unhealthy. What we need to do is accept that it is there and to help men to find healthy ways in the space of a committed relationship to find expression for that drive. We need to make it a loving part of a loving relationship. The point made here is that this is what is desired by wealthy men, but what they end up realizing is that they will have to settle for something suboptimum. As a wealthy individual I can hire people to do anything for me accept when I hire someone for sex it is seen as wrong. So first and foremost, my partner needs to help me with that need. It is the entry ticket to the game. I cannot make that drive and that desire go away, I just need a healthy space to express that need. But it is less than 5% of what I want overall. I want much more from a relationship. I want my best friend, a companion to share the ups and downs of life, someone I can support and to help them to meet their dreams and desires whatever those may be, someone with whom to start a family, etc. etc.

    • @jarkaszokolova4332
      @jarkaszokolova4332 2 місяці тому +1

      Every woman who has ever been “the other woman” can agree with your opinion, no big research projects are needed. The real-life stories of some married men and what they have/ have not experienced sexually in long-term marriages, while being excellent providers and absolutely devoted to their families, are sad… When it comes to female’s sexuality and her positive attitude to sex, I have noticed, that a healthy self-confidence, an active approach to life (both, physically and mentally) and a good dose of curiosity and passion for life,play an important role. Sexual life is a complex theme which can be explored and enjoyed from very many points of view, but it also requires a certain level of intelligence,empathy and compassion from both partners involved.

    • @melim7368
      @melim7368 Місяць тому

      " I want much more from a relationship. I want my best friend, a companion to share the ups and downs of life, someone I can support and to help them to meet their dreams and desires whatever those may be, someone with whom to start a family, etc. etc." thank you for sharing this, i've become so jaded from men using for sex only that I've started to believe only women want those things you listed. though, it seems to be the exception more than the norm these days sadly

  • @russ9921
    @russ9921 2 місяці тому +1

    One thing not addressed in this video or the other comments is that the unmarried man who has worked hard to get to the top these days fears the damage a divorce will do. Most of those quietly married top guys married the woman they now live quietly with years before they became successful. And many of the unmarried top guys won’t marry again because of their past divorces. And if you can buy everything you need, including housekeeping and sex, why bother marrying if you have a good social life anyway?

  • @araceli1010
    @araceli1010 2 місяці тому +4

    BRILLIANT SADIA, THANK YOU 🌼.

  • @onibakulive
    @onibakulive 2 місяці тому +2

    You look devine in this dress!

  • @deputysheriff5994
    @deputysheriff5994 2 місяці тому +2

    Speaking for myself as a man Sex is purely mechanical lust and not emotional!And loving a woman is all about emotion and not about lust and mechanical!Two purely different things!😂 So go figure!!!

  • @petermwale8019
    @petermwale8019 2 місяці тому +1

    Am 25 and here's the solid truth. Once had this girl who was very supportive and always stood by me regardless of the situation. Even helped me study during my college days... With big bums but she starved me sexually 😢 every time we try to she wouldn't get turned on always dry and I know she had no sexual attraction for me. Imagine 1 year 3 months no sex ... Eventually I lost all my love and stopped carrying for her neither do I make efforts

    • @HerefortheLove
      @HerefortheLove 2 місяці тому +1

      That’s not true love then, it’s lust. True love never fails.

  • @Teddybeloved
    @Teddybeloved 2 місяці тому +1

    I kinda wish he would let her speak without interrupting or bulldozing her. Her body language is telling too. I think she too is saying jaded as a defense mechanism but I don't think that's jaded at all. Its observation and fair to be honest. However I'm a firm believer that people should not speak for everyone but themselves and there are different tolerance and strokes to this.

  • @rebkaro4437
    @rebkaro4437 26 днів тому

    I totally agree with Sadia's controversial stance here.

  • @Unitehumanity786
    @Unitehumanity786 Місяць тому

    I think she categorizes people as wealthy or part of a select few, but that doesn't mean all wealthy individuals or anyone who is wealthy is the same. Everyone has their own uniqueness and each person, as she's experienced the people within herself, but it's not all 1 percent that she thinks. We define what we feel inside ourselves, and that's what she's experienced.

  • @gl8715
    @gl8715 2 місяці тому +4

    She nailed it 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @smetzgerful
    @smetzgerful Місяць тому +1

    Beauty is common. Beauty is not what puts a woman in top 1%.

  • @brooklyndellycat9866
    @brooklyndellycat9866 4 дні тому

    the 1% who’s parents are still together who had a good role model will not seek these shallow relationships

  • @aqua7635
    @aqua7635 2 місяці тому +2

    Yeah shallow attracts shallow .... 😊

  • @TianieMitchell
    @TianieMitchell 2 місяці тому +1

    It goes both ways care enough for each other you know your what you love about each other open communication is so important and when somebody does a kindness thank them for that kindness let them know that you are aware of it and that you do not take it for granted

  • @julianwright6417
    @julianwright6417 15 днів тому

    It’s not sex relief vs lovey dovey, it’s that men whom are successful, secure and confident aren’t looking for a “partner” in a wife. Any woman that steps into his life after they have become a 1%, had zero to do with his success and will not be treated as an equal. If a woman wants a partner for a husband, marry a young man with ambition.

  • @carabai5241
    @carabai5241 2 місяці тому +5

    This is really sad for humanity...

  • @annettereavis8423
    @annettereavis8423 2 місяці тому +1

    The more success someone has generally lowers their morality. We can see that in our society and definitely within the upper echelon..

  • @Christotheproducer
    @Christotheproducer 2 місяці тому +1

    This woman is so Beautiful and intelligent!

  • @HausOfAdonis
    @HausOfAdonis Місяць тому +1

    God she’s beautiful

  • @LionMentality1982
    @LionMentality1982 2 місяці тому +14

    The title speaks for itself, then Sadia comes in at 5:48 with her commercial drop; a "Program" for Successful men; is Sadia a Madam that runs a High End Service? lol, I'm just saying. Anyone else pick up on that? 🤣

    • @mztwixed
      @mztwixed 2 місяці тому +2

      Her "look" does not look like typical therapy gear neither...beautiful though she is.

    • @cruisefit1142
      @cruisefit1142 2 місяці тому +1

      I was thinking the same😂thing. I wish

    • @Norma00ful
      @Norma00ful Місяць тому

      Whats wrong with that??

  • @littyinthacity888
    @littyinthacity888 2 місяці тому +1

    Sex can be outsourced as well. Ladies don't be fooled in to becoming a sex worker for luxury that's not really luxury.

  • @LionMentality1982
    @LionMentality1982 2 місяці тому +4

    Fellas; Listen to Sadia. She's giving away the "Game" for FREE. Just because you're "PAID" doesn't mean that the 9's and 10's will "Love" you. These ladies are NOT loyal and WILL run you over if YOU allow them to. NEVER act so Interested and Giving into her every want. Once Women know they can Manipulate you, it's Checkmate; She won and she lost all RESPECT for you!

  • @marthacvd
    @marthacvd 2 місяці тому +3

    This explains Jeff bezos wife.

  • @harco1theotr869
    @harco1theotr869 2 місяці тому +1

    I beg to differ with because it's not about money it's about the being a man and the woman being a woman the need for emotional intimacy for both.

  • @Jessica-ko1eg
    @Jessica-ko1eg 2 місяці тому +1

    I think she’s attracting men like this which is being projected in this video. A broken man would see her out for help so that has to be weighed in as she describes the men she’s dealing with.

  • @julieterrell1973
    @julieterrell1973 2 місяці тому +9

    Is the interviewer the guy from soft white underbelly? He sounds so familiar!

  • @indoorphine
    @indoorphine 2 місяці тому +4

    all fine and good but this is extremely oversimplifying things. some women are manipulative and some are naive and easily manipulated. some men are easily manipulated and used for resources whilst some men are extremely manipulative and exploit women. being manipulative does not go hand in hand with beauty or being rich. sometimes it does sometimes it doesn’t. beyond all, talking stats and generalizations you miss the spiritual element. some call it love. sometimes you meet someone who isn’t perfectly attractive or rich but they hit you with a tone of brick and you cant live without them.

  • @quor2243
    @quor2243 2 місяці тому +1

    I would be curious how some of these modern woman would respond to this information. At least on social media women have been portrayed having these over the top standards in men, over 6' tall, 6 figure+ earnings, they want a top 1% man. But if shown that just means you're there for physical pleasure, he won't need you for much of anything else, how many woman would really want that?

  • @masianish
    @masianish 25 днів тому

    I love you, Sadia psychology because you truly really grasp the concept of like what it feels like to be like femininity under a system of oppression has been designed for masculinity and honestly whoever your interviewer was I’m not trying to be like that but next time I think you should find somebody else because the guy that was speaking did not sound like he was too enthused about the fact that there are high value women that value high value men And him using weapon Ing, the argument of these men having distorted realities when in all reality bees, men just work super hard and they don’t have the time or the energy to spend on regular normal healthy relationships, and him, perceiving that as inherently distorted, but if you were in that same situation, you would be acting the same way. I don’t understand why people, like Weaponized certain arguments as if they weren’t in those shoes they would be doing those exact same things

  • @bradnichol6166
    @bradnichol6166 Місяць тому +2

    I think she has a local bias by being in Dubai. I am a 1% earner, and this does not line up with my reality at all or with other people I know.
    I think she is just having this private interview to market herself to clientele, especially ones who are wealthy and want to be aligned with her pro-male stances.

  • @jameswray3218
    @jameswray3218 Місяць тому

    You’re right about people being juvenile getting triggered by general information

  • @chloethemessenger
    @chloethemessenger 2 місяці тому +1

    I found this to be the same from my experience as well. It comes down to lust but this is also a trap and a game they don’t know they are playing. Praying for our men ❤ Consistent Love ❤