Correct me if I’m wrong but didn’t Nico tell Schmitt that he already dealt with his own coming out and can’t deal with another one? Why are the writers suddenly forgetting their own plot points?
I mean, Nico IS out. Just not to his parents. I already knew something like this would happen. When Nico thought that Levi was afraid to tell his mom about him, his immediate thoughts were because he is 1 gay or 2 Asian. From what we’ve seen he always strives for perfection, can’t make errors, can’t extern his emotions. I guess he’s under a lot of pressure, and it’s sad to say it but we’ve to think about the fact that his parents are most likely Korean. It must be so difficult to tell them not only that you’re gay, but that you’re also in a relationship with an American Jewish? That’s a lot. I don’t envy him one bit. Also he was so impressed with Levi when he came out to his mom.
Andreil13 Being South Asian myself I understand what you’re saying. I know how judgmental and unaccepting our parents can be. Which makes me feel like Nico should’ve been more sensitive towards Levi. Him wanting Levi to come out and confront his mother was not my problem. My issue was with how he behaved with Levi for it. He literally told Levi that he couldn’t be with someone who couldn’t come to term with their sexuality openly whereas Nico himself had not done that fully. As someone who couldn’t come out to his own parents because of their scrutiny he should’ve treated Levi’s discomfort with coming out with respect instead of making him feel awful about it. I loved the part where he respectfully supported Levi leaving his mother’s house but the way he behaved in the initial stage of their relationship was terrible especially given his own struggles.
@@fareebafaruq3292 I think that the famous argument that led to Levi saying to Nico that he loved him came more from a place of "you're ashamed of being gay"; when Levi explained to him that it had nothing to do with his sexuality but more with the fact that his mom is neurotic (as he said), Nico was totally fine with it. Nico has come to term with his sexuality, by all means he is out, everybody knows that he's gay, but he knows that he'll lose his parents if he comes out to them. Or at least that's my take on what happened. I'm not Asian but I live in Japan so I can kinda understand the mentality, kinda. Obviously we can also all agree that Nico has never been the most sensitive person lol He's pretty straightforward
Sexxicapri I truly agree with you. I honesty was hoping that it was Amelia hormones talking lol that was pretty ridiculous if that’s how it’s going to play out! 🙄💔
@@christappen140 After her history with Owen? Yea he definitely has a right to know. Period. Yea love is love but Link's whole issue if the baby is Owen's is him getting pushed out of the picture because of course Owen would want to know his child and that whole Owen Teddy and Amelia situation JUST settled down. It's easy to say he shouldn't care when you ignore all the consequences and things that could go sideways. Also just because SHE is the one having the baby doesn't mean HE can't have feelings even if she doesn't agree with him. She can't just say "oh I'm not getting a paternity test because you should love my kid anyways" No as a dr a surgeon no less she should have gotten a check up way sooner and avoided this whole fiasco. I love Amelia and want her and Link to work out but she is being totally unfair to him.
@@christappen140 what? Link has right to know. It is not easy to raise a baby esp if the baby was not yours but belongs to the one who overshadowed you. Link is still good guy. I am a mother and I will say Amelia is unfair to Link. I hope it is only because her hormon. And if they break up official later I hope they will break up in good way, not like this.
@@novitabasaria7282 and what if the baby boy is Owen's would he stay with her or would he leave her and and raise the baby I understands she us scared and afraid but he should pressure her
I don't mind this regression of her character. It makes sense to who she is, but ugh. They better make up for this mess. Like the other characters know she is better than this and should force her to deal with her problems instead of running away and avoiding them like she did when she had a freaking tumor.
Amelia's character is exhausting. But isn't real life. I'm more concerned about the baby, hurt ppl hurt other ppl and when children are created in that environment toxicity is passed down to the next generation.
It sucks that Justin couldn’t finish out the season to give us a good ending and closure for his character...Absolutely loved his character and i don’t know how the writers are going to work out his exit
@@dorislacaze8475 i hope they dont break them up, i mean all that helping her heal and all the wedding/marriage stuff just to break them up is just wrong
Season 17 is gonna be the last.. so I think they're just gonna try to milk him being "away" but not kill him off, kinda just dragging his absence. I think that's why theres been so many station 19 crossovers too, somehow Greys will keep living on. Idk maybe I'm just crazy
"I'm going to be pushier next time you're sad, because you were raised an only child, but you are not one anymore. You are EVERYTHING I never knew I needed." ♥️ Can we start giving Maggie some credit here? She's amazing!
Nico being a closet case is just ridiculous. He dragged Schmidt out of the closet in a very judgy way. To have him be closeted makes no sense story-wise. NO ONE is that hypocritical.
I’m over them trying to dramatise their sexuality. Homosexual relationships don’t revolve around the fact of their sexuality - we have normal relationship issues too!
So Alex gets to just disappear with no word of any kind to his wife or his best friend??????? I think his departure from the show could’ve been written better
Maybe his phone got stolen or he was kidnapped. They could make him be presumed dead. That would give Justin a chance to return in the series finale, if he wants to.
@@delacruzjuan6972 They haven't killed him off yet, but they could still do that. Having him ghost Jo would be the worst way to write him out. At least death would be respectful to his growth and development.
I understand that Amelia wants to raise the baby with someone who will love it regardless of a test. But Owen and link deserve the truth because the real father deserves a relationship with their child and that child deserves to know their father. It’s selfish of Amelia to not give link and Owen the truth.
See if Amelia was having this conversation with Meredith she would make her get a paternity test. Owen is Meredith friend and she looks out for him too because of Christina and so when she hears about this Amelia will get that paternity test done. This is what happens when you sleep with two men and get pregnant and now you don't know who the father is
Faith Watkins Let’s not pretend it was that simple, she got with Link because she deserves a good man and Owen is toxic trash. Also her hormones, past addictions and years of trauma are making her doubt his love for her and she is protecting herself again but she will ultimately do the right thing. The baby isn’t even born yet so to put her through this kind of emotional turmoil when she has previously lost a child is slightly selfish.
One side of me really wants link and Amelia to be happy and let this ridiculous baby drama to end, but the other part of me doesn’t really care anymore because the writers are getting what they want a heart breaking Link and Jo come together have the whole 9 yards and Amelia running into Owens arm.. it whats going to happen. And I’m laughing at how Alex is ghosting both jo and Mer 🤣🤣
@@v__nikolaou8624 She can go back to Tom. In a perfect world, she and Amelia would drop kick Owen and leave him on the side of the road somewhere. Owen is a trash partner and these women deserve better
@@brieoliver I kind of like Tom, I really liked him when he was with Teddy but I doubt she would go back to him. I do think she loves Owen but I don't think Owen is actually capable of loving a woman for more than a year or so.
V__ Nikolaou I mean you never know with the show I could be wrong and Amelia said screw men for good and raise her baby as a single mom. Tho I really hope even for a small chance that link and Amelia works out! ❤️
@@brieoliver OMG YESSSS that would honestly be perfect.And I rlly want Teddy ti be with Tom...He always lived her while Owen went to her when Amelia dumped him...
Amelia has no legal leg to stand on all Link has to do is hire an attorney and petition the court for a paternity test. She doesn't have the legal right to just not get a paternity test especially if the potential father is aware of the situation.
This show became so boring but when link and Amelia got together the show had spice again..... Amelia need to get mature..... Owen broken that girl so much that she can't loved no one correctly and don't know what's real love look like.... Regardless of the test link would of stay with her he just needs to know n process it.... Its not about her feelings alone its also his... I just sick of this show everybody dumping each other
I think Amelia’s being selfish. What about what the child would want? How would Amelia feel if she grew up not knowing who her father was? Also, Owen and Link need to know who the father is. That baby didn’t just spontaneously grow in Amelia. It took one of those guys to get her pregnant and they have a right to know too.
Ikr everybody was talking about TEDDY she grew up Amelia UR TURN put ur big girl pants on but I guess in her mind shes trying to fix but isolating herself this is not helping that link and Owen both have a right to know it's not about just her anymore...
I loved Amelia's character since day 1, and I loved her even more when she and Link fell in love. And now this?! Oh please don't make me hate her, :( Link, Owen and the baby DESERVES to know!
Her husband died and she found out she was pregnant. She left the house he built for her and the bed she slept in with him. She disappeared on everyone lol totally not the same thing. Also she did answer him and told him she was fine and to leave her be.
Agree. But not for Jo. She's his wife now. And although Izzy did the same to him, you'd think that would be why he wouldn't pull this on Jo. I wish they could've written it differently.
to be fair.. meredith was going through a lot. if i just lost my husband and found out i was pregnant right after and was unable to sleep in my own home, i’d go ghost too for my own mental sake. she didn’t ghost them entirely and she came back after giving birth.
Amelia is being reckless again...i just hope link would push harder plzz for audience sake... and a strong character like alex can't just disappear like this why they make us suffer whyyy😠😠😨😨😭😭
Annie Masoom why should he push harder. She broke up with him. I honestly hope he goes to court to file for a genetic test if that possible. I’m sure there is some way using the legal system to find out whose child is that.
@@aashray9353 Futher indicating that he deserved to be dumped. Only a man that gives no fucks about Amelia and what she's going through would prioritize a legal battle over her and this child's well being. I hope Linc is smarter than that
@@brotherhoodpaladin2403 Which I would assume is her plan anyway. She's not keeping this secret forever. But right now? It shouldnt be a huge priority. Especially since she's on her own and now has to reconfigure all her plans with Linc stepping away. Distance is needed. Its not like either Owen or Linc can parent from the womb anyway lol.
Amelia isn’t understanding that just because Link wants to know if the baby is his or not doesn’t mean he doesn’t love her or wouldn’t love the baby. It could just mean that he doesn’t want to take that opportunity away from Owen to know he could possibly have another child. Because we know if it was Owens he wouldn’t want Link around. I get she’s hormonal and sensitive about being loved but she needs to deal with the consequences of her actions. Link was prepared to be a dad but not when he easily be pushed aside.
She doesn’t thinks he love her because he told her he wouldn’t want to be with her if the baby wasn’t his which in turns me he doesn’t actually love her
Vaishnavi Ramesh him saying he doesn’t know means the same thing in her eyes. Because if he loved her he would know that the paternity results wouldn’t change their relationship
@@courtneycarroll6361 If a paternity test wouldn't change their relationship, then why was Amelia so apprehensive about telling Linc the truth in the first place? Hmm?
Rebekah Segun ameila wasn’t apprehensive about telling him when she found out he might not be the father. She went to tell him the night she found out and she was interrupted by Owen and teddy so she didn’t say anything because she didn’t want to drop a bomb on Owen and teddy since they just had got engaged. She then told link the very next day
@@courtneycarroll6361 She might have told Linc rather quickly, but she was still terrified and nervous regardless. Why is that? Because she knew deep down that Linc probably wouldn't be a-okay with this news.
i’m gonna be honest with myself right now........ i’m a whole hypocrite 😂 I was so pissed with Teddy for keeping the baby (allison) a secret from Owen but I’m completely fine with Amelia never telling Owen that she might be having his baby. the only i thing i need is for link and amelia to be together and happy
If the baby turns out to be Link's, which I doubt, I hope Link decides to not be with HER. She is really showing what kind of person she is...selfish and childish. Link is a good guy and deserves somebody better.
@@raephaelemasirnille5794 Linc is not a good man if the only reason he's there is because he has to be. You're either all in or you're not. Amelia and this baby deserve unconditional love and support. You are not a good man if you cant provide that
I think every man grey's ever introduced us to was hypocritical and sexist in one way or other, they were selfish at times thinking they and their careers come first or that the woman and her wishes weren't just as important as them. Burke was an asshole who wanted cristina but on his own terms, derek was understanding at time but at others he was, manipulative and a complete jerk who didn't think Meredith and her career, or just about any other's were just as important and don't get me started at the way he treated amelia. Alex and mark treated women like sex objects, webber was a jealous bastard with so many one true loves of his life and he cheated or left behind almost all of them and the way he treated adele was aweful. George was a gentle jerk, he took all his crap and insecurities out on others, chasing after meredith, confessing his love to a drunk girl at the lowest of her emotional state and then cried when he didn't get what he wanted, he used callie to cope with his grief, let his friends insult her left and right, made her feel insecure a d told her to her face that 'izzie is like this gorgeous she can't fall in love with me' or something like that. And then cheated on her with izzie, divorced her for izzie and then broke up with izzie because they weren't having the same awesome sex they had the night they cheated. Deluca can not handle his girlfriend being better then him. I do not even want to talk about koracik and owen. After all that, they brought in link. A bit too flashy in the start but then he turned out to be the most understanding and caring yet so carefree and honest. He's not perfect, he has flaws and fears and he'd seen crap but still loveable. And then they kept screwing him over and over and over again. They made him look cute with meredith in beginning of season 15 and then had her running to the fifteen year old who can't handle himself and not to mention he was going through breakdown because 'the love of his life' left at the end of season 14. Then this crap. Seriously after how he handled her and her behaviours and the pregnancy, they do this?
@@brieoliver There is no such thing as romantic unconditional love. And thank goodness love has its limits. If love did not have limits nobody would ever break up or get divorced. We would remain in bad relationships and be unhappy. Amelia handled this whole situation wrong. If she had given the pregnancy 3 seconds of thought and realized from the beginning she was not sure who the father was Link would look at this from a different perspective. Being in love with someone is not always enough to keep people together. Most break ups are hurtful because the love is still there. But something has happened that someone can't get past. What Amelia did was reckless, irresponsible and unforgivable. Link is not wrong for his feelings or behavior.
@@raephaelemasirnille5794 How would she realize that??? She was sleeping with only one man consistently and misjudged her due date based on that fact. Now should she have been going in for consistent sonograms? Sure. But given her first pregnancy and her baby not having a brain, I understood her apprehension. She's done nothing wrong here and Linc is horrible for making her feel that way.
She is so selfish. I would sue her for a paternity test. He deserves a right to know. Forget even being with her. He deserves to know if he has a child. She is being a baby about this because she doesn’t want to know if the child is Owens. If she really wanted someone who didn’t care the dna of her child then she would get it because then it would prove that. Also, it doesn’t make you a bad person to not be able to raise someone else’s baby. Especially with her and Owens history. Honestly, she just does not want to deal with teddy and Owen. And that’s on her for not being able to handle things maturely. Link did the right thing and asked because it does matter. What if that baby has a life threatening condition only he had the ability to donate for? This is just selfish and so unrealistic. As a doctor, she knows the repercussions to act like this is anything but being afraid of having Owen of the father is childish
@@bronzebellezza7123 She did get the test though, she just didn't look at the results. Yes she is a bit wrong but I kinda understand what's she's saying, if the baby is link's then she'd let him be in its life or whatever but as far as the two of them go whether the baby is his or not it's over.
Nico projecting his own issues onto Schmitt in the beginning was an asshole move. But now that Schmitt is so okay with who he is, I think it’s time for Nico to face it and come out too.
While I understand where Amelia is coming from I don’t think Link was being unreasonable in his assessment with the situation with Amelia. Am I the only one?
Yeah link deserves to know if he’s the father but I get why Amelia was devastated to hear he didn’t know if he could be there anymore if it wasn’t his. Link said he was all in and she loves him so of course she’s upset now that it feels like he was only there for the baby and not her. Eventually she’s gonna have to get a dna test though.
He's not being unreasonable. Just an asshole lol. It's perfectly understandable to want to know the truth. But pretty shitty of him to use this truth as a justification for staying or going. He is the one obsessing over Owen's place here when Amelia has flat out told him she wants to raise their child with him. Biology doesn't matter to her but clearly it does for Linc and that's awful
@@brieoliver of course he's hurt he's not obligated if it's not his period and she's just saying that because she knows Owens dependable that's not fair to link he let Amelia meet his family and now if it's not his....
@@janderson947 Of course hes not obligated. Doesnt make him any less an asshole though. Owen is not going to be dependable here. He's got two other babies he's raising with Teddy. He's not going to be able to be as involved with Amelia's kid. If Linc could get his head out his ass for a second he could see that. Owen is not the big bad wolf he's making him out to be. He needs to deal with his insecurities and man up
@@brieoliver I've been reading most of tour responses and they're really funny. So you think because Owen has two kids already he won't want to be involved in this child's life? We see people that have kids with different people in the world and still make time to be in their kids life.
Just because a woman is the parent that carries the child doesn’t make the father less important or unworthy. A man has a right and responsibility to any life he helped to create. You can’t hold a child hostage. It’s unfair to the child and it’s shameful of the mother. Take her to court and get a DNA test and legally become a part of the baby’s life. If there is no threat of danger then why on earth would you rob your child of having a father? 😒
So is it just me or is Amelia being really selfish about this? Link has every right to a) want to know if he is the father of that baby and b) be upset if it's Owen's. Owen left her for Teddy because Teddy was having a baby, Owen loves kids and would want to be heavily involved in his child's life. Link has everyright to be worried and scared about that.
Keep it coming Grey's. There have been a lot of storylines that did not make sense over the years but we still watch because that's how life is. If you want perfection people make up your own story and see how boring it is without throwing in some twists and turns.
I feel like I’m about to stop watching this show because link and Amelia was my favorite couple they was the whole reason I was looking forward to this show and now they going through they should have just let them be happy🙌🏾
I actually understand both sides. It’s normal for link to know if the baby is his. But I also understand that amelia just want for her and her baby to be loved unconditionally. Because you just need to check amelia past. Addison took cared of her since she was something like 6 and she wasn’t even her real blood sister. But she was here. And now she has mer and Maggie and they didn’t even share blood. Her mother wasn’t here for her, like her sisters so for amelia blood is a big joke
@Sophie Hart she didn’t know who it was, and she was scared it took her time but she finally read the results and told the truth but still she is the one carrying the baby so she is the one who decides.
@Sophie Hart haha the no actually the man should have use protections. She does whatever she wants with her baby and she just canted to have link’s support which is something she didn’t have right away that’s why she was scare b
And once again, they throw away all the growth of Amelia's character in the last few seasons in the name of drama and more drama. And don't even get me started on the Merluca stuff and Alex disappearing and hurting the ones he loves after 16 years of great character development and been through so much. Seems like almost no one in this show can be happy, mature or have a healthy relationship.
I literally catch up with this show with these clips ! Greys is not the same ! I’m so frustrated with the Amelia and Link storyline ! It’s more important to know whose baby it is than to completely want him to be fully in without knowing whose baby it is !
She knows he has a right to know. She did the paternity test she just didn’t pick up the results because her so called boyfriend told her that he loved her and was all in after she told him the baby might not be his and sage wasn’t planning on getting the paternity results and then he turned around and told her that he didn’t think he could be with her if the baby wasn’t his which proved to her that he could not have possibly loved her. She is not upset that he wants to know if the baby is his she is upset at how he is acting
Wow Shmidt is the only character on the show right now that isn't annoying. SMH. How dare Nico. He gave him so much crap over not being out. And Shmidt is naive and in love with his first love and he's gonna let Nico manipulate him into doing whatever he wants. Also poor Link :(
Wow, I stopped watching after season 12 (I was already on the verge of leaving the Grey’s Fan train) and damn... after seeing this clip, I’m not mad I did. ☹️
the song playing in the first half is: Giants by Jackson Guthy. my sister and i went stir crazy trying to figure it out so i thought id spare yall the pain.
Amelia is a child!!!! Grow the hell up please! You can’t sleep around and have baby and don’t expect the one of the possible fathers (that you told) to want to know if it’s his baby lol 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ CHILDISH!
It takes a whole lot more than love to raise a child so link has every right in the world to know exactly what he is getting himself into. I honestly thinks she’s been unfair imagine your boyfriend brings a child home and ask you to love him and the child no matter what but refuses to tell you who the mother is 🙄
What do you need more of than love to raise any child? Linc has money. He also has a home. Does those things no longer exist if he's not the biological father? Just wondering what you meant there. Cause Linc was father material...up until he decided he couldnt love this kid unless it was his biologically.
Briana Oliver okay maybe for you love and money are the two most important things needed to raise a child but am a mum and I know first hand that’s not true you also have to mentally and physically stable and willing. That been said I think it’s double standard for we women to expect a man to accept a child without knowing the whole story how many women will accept their husband’s child without know who the real mum was. Link did not say he does not love her all he said was he wants to know who the dad is and in this particular case he is right because Owen is annoying and a bit crazy so link might not want all the drama that comes with Owen. He has every right to ask and honestly if Amelia is such a good parent she will take the test not for link but for her child.
Amelia is not wrong. She did the paternity test she just didn’t pick up the results because her so called boyfriend told her that he loved her and was all in after she told him the baby might not be his and sage wasn’t planning on getting the paternity results and then he turned around and told her that he didn’t think he could be with her if the baby wasn’t his which proved to her that he could not have possibly loved her. She is not upset that he wants to know if the baby is his she is upset at how he is acting
He deserve to know, period. She Is not the subject here, the baby Is. Link Just wanna know what his role Will be, that doesn't mean he doesn't love her. I looove Amelia, but what She doing Is not okay. Sorry for my english 🙊
- Stories OVER Bros - she is stating that if he can not love her and her child unconditionally he won’t have a role. And she know he has a right to know. Again it’s not about him wanting to know. For her is about that fact that he can’t be trusted
I love AmeLink. I hope their gonna figure this out. I hope no matter who the father is, AmeLink are gonna be together. They should be together. Link's a good guy, he would love the child anyway.. AmeLink's the reason why i still watch grey's anatomy.
So many moments of detachment in our lifes. And that s why we should love our every moments with our loving ones. People get scattered with too easy reason sometimes. Or maybe they hang on with too empty reason sometimes at same time.
This pisses me off. He has the right to know if he's the father. He also has the right to be upset about the whole situation. I hate when she does this. She did this with owen. She left him, doesn't give him the right to be upset and makes it all about her. I also don't like how they are writing off Alex. Do not do this to Jo
Holly Remillard she knows he has a right to know. She did the paternity test she just didn’t pick up the results because her so called boyfriend told her that he loved her and was all in after she told him the baby might not be his and sage wasn’t planning on getting the paternity results and then he turned around and told her that he didn’t think he could be with her if the baby wasn’t his which proved to her that he could not have possibly loved her. She is not upset that he wants to know if the baby is his she is upset at how he is acting
I wish Amelia could have the happy ending that she deserves. And pls stop giving owen all the good twists. I’m done with Owen. Huhu pls let Amelia and Link create a happy family
Honestly feel so bad for Link. The way I get it his argument wasn't that he might not want to be with amelia because the baby wasn't his but because then the baby would be Owen's. And that is a whole sticky mess. I think it is understandable to have some reservations about committing to a relationship in which the woman is pregnant with her ex-husbands child who she broke up with shortly before you started dating. It's a shitty situation all around but Amelia acting like Link is only willing to give conditional love is unfair to him. If she only wants to continue a relationship with someone willing to fully trust and love her enough that they are willing to ignore the Owen problem, that's up to her. But denying Link the right to know if the child is his is a horrible thing to do. The way the show frames it we are supposed to blame this decision making on "pregnancy hormones" if all the women in the Grey's universe have such impaired judgement when pregnant how are they allowed to continue working as surgeons? Don't you need unclouded judgement for that?
It also sucks because Amelia finally seemed to be making progress in the communicating about her feelings department. She took in the news Owen might be the father so well, processed it and then told Link calmly and gave him time to think before demanding anything. And now she is completely back to her old self. Hiding, not caring about the other people involved at all. Being pregnant doesn't mean she gets to be irrational.
Certainly, not the smartest move for a pregnate woman.... She had a point into either you are in a relationship or not regardless who the kid's might be. And she could tell him that she understand his initial reaction came out of shock and there was a beautiful opportunity for a wonderful monologue tell her he's sorry and he loves her no matter what and beautiful reconciliation might have happen... God forbid a drama shows teaches a healthy relationship... Maybe even a teaching opportunity for some but no that would be too boring... For Godsake, after that we wonder why the world is messed up...
M St-Pierre M his initial reaction was to tell her he loved her and he was all in. She did the paternity test she just didn’t pick up the results because her so called boyfriend told her that he loved her and was all in after she told him the baby might not be his and sage wasn’t planning on getting the paternity results and then he turned around and told her that he didn’t think he could be with her if the baby wasn’t his which proved to her that he could not have possibly loved her. She is not upset that he wants to know if the baby is his she is upset at how he is acting
i hate the fact that they make link seem like a bad guy bc if he “loved” amelia enough he wouldn’t care who the father is. amelia even said herself “idk if i want to be with him if the baby IS his bc love is more important than blood” when he wasn’t sure if he’d be around which is just as bad as him leaving bc it’s not his. no one seems to say anything about how she’s willing to leave him if he doesn’t accept the baby without the results when he has a right to know. amelia said she wasn’t sure about getting into a relationship with link so he waited for her until she wanted one and then announced she was pregnant and he was also there for her but as soon as he has second thoughts she tries to cut him off in a heartbeat bc he “doesn’t love her enough”?? wow. and her taking her time with getting the results was just selfish
The thing that kills me with these comments is Amelia NEVER said if the baby was Link's she'd keep him away from it. She said she wants to raise the baby "with" someone who will love the baby and her unconditionally. That's not link right now. If it's his, they'll be coparents, yes. But they won't be rasing it together. He has every right to know if the baby is his or not. And she has every right to want to know if he'd want to he with her if there was no baby. I think she was right to dump him.
I think Amelia has unrealistic expectations. Her and Link are in a relatively new relationship; less than 6 months I'm guessing. Asking him to raise another man's child this early in the relationship is asking a lot. If I were dating a man and only after a few months he asked me to help him raise a child he had with another woman that would be a hard no. Not everybody wants to raise other people's kids especially in the beginning of a relationship. Didn't Amelia back out of adopting Leo with Owen and decided to just be auntie Amelia? Bottom line it seems Link does not have that deep unconditional love for Amelia that she needs him to have. So it is good she ended the relationship.
@@raephaelemasirnille5794 you're absolutely right. But like I said if he was unsure about the relationship he really should have said that, it's totally ok for him to feel that way. But he acted like he was all in, which has to be more about just the baby. I get it's hard to raise someone else's child, but if you're unsure about the relationship... Just say that.
@@raephaelemasirnille5794 and Amelia backed out of adopting with Owen, partly because of Teddy and their baby. But I also think partly because her relationship with Owen was toxic, and she didn't wanna be dragged back in. Especially because that wasn't he'd situation from the beginning she only got involved when she was looking out for Betty. So it made sense for her to walk away
@@wbfanatic4eva You made some good points about why Amelia changed Her mind about Leo. Because of the circumstances you mentioned it was probably one of the smartest things she ever did because agreeing to be someone's parent should never be taken lightly. But in Link's case he stepped up when he thought the baby was his, as he should have. But if the baby is not his I can see his apprehension. His feelings could have been a mixture of both, baby and relationship. It was relatively new relationship.
@@raephaelemasirnille5794 I have no problem with stepping up when u think a baby is urs, but that has nothing to do with the relationship itself. If he was unsure about it, he shouldn't have been in it. Baby or not. That's why I think Amelia was right to end things. Because now, how will she ever know if it was TRULY her he wanted to be with, or if it was just because she got pregnant
My mom said that Amelia’s baby is Owens which makes him not want to be with her and that being said Alex is gonna leave Jo which caused jo and link to fall into each others arms
@@a_noelle8595 they would make a good match now that I think about it, I wouldn't be mad if they put them together tbh, even if I loved Jo and Alex together, it'd be unfair for her to have a love interest that never appears on screen
If you know Amelias history- you all know this is super difficult for her. As she has lost her first baby way back at Private Practice.... Owen could never get through to her,because he was too obsessed with having a baby(with her)... But i hoped for the best once I saw how Link was treating her and he kind of brought fresh air into Amelias life. I really hope Amelia will rethink and chooses to take a paternity test, because the child would want to know one day and deep down,she wants to know too. She is just too scared at the moment. But honesty is the best policy in life. Amelia has still a lot of work to do....She has come al ready far.... but right now it feels more like a step back..... Sorry but Meredith and Maggie,need to not only support her but set her straight. In particular Meredith,as she is the older sister...
Amelia is so unfair. Link truly deserves to know, and his answer to knowing is fair. You can’t expect someone to stay for a baby that isn’t theirs. It’s great, and it takes a strong willed person to stay. But link would know who the father was, he’d see the father every day. I couldn’t.
Season 6: Izzie leaves without anyone knowing where she went
Season 16: Alex leaves without anyone knowing where he went
Meredith left and no one knew where she went 🤷🏾♀️
@@a_noelle8595 and had a secret baby, I doubt Alex will pull a Meredith and bring back a baby
I like the coincidence.
@@v__nikolaou8624 well he could have a baby with Izzie because of her frozen eggs
@@v__nikolaou8624 He's not coming back so won't be bringing back anything unfortunately.
Correct me if I’m wrong but didn’t Nico tell Schmitt that he already dealt with his own coming out and can’t deal with another one? Why are the writers suddenly forgetting their own plot points?
They did
THATS FUCKED UP THAT HE LIED
I mean, Nico IS out. Just not to his parents.
I already knew something like this would happen. When Nico thought that Levi was afraid to tell his mom about him, his immediate thoughts were because he is 1 gay or 2 Asian. From what we’ve seen he always strives for perfection, can’t make errors, can’t extern his emotions.
I guess he’s under a lot of pressure, and it’s sad to say it but we’ve to think about the fact that his parents are most likely Korean. It must be so difficult to tell them not only that you’re gay, but that you’re also in a relationship with an American Jewish? That’s a lot. I don’t envy him one bit. Also he was so impressed with Levi when he came out to his mom.
Andreil13 Being South Asian myself I understand what you’re saying. I know how judgmental and unaccepting our parents can be. Which makes me feel like Nico should’ve been more sensitive towards Levi. Him wanting Levi to come out and confront his mother was not my problem. My issue was with how he behaved with Levi for it. He literally told Levi that he couldn’t be with someone who couldn’t come to term with their sexuality openly whereas Nico himself had not done that fully. As someone who couldn’t come out to his own parents because of their scrutiny he should’ve treated Levi’s discomfort with coming out with respect instead of making him feel awful about it. I loved the part where he respectfully supported Levi leaving his mother’s house but the way he behaved in the initial stage of their relationship was terrible especially given his own struggles.
@@fareebafaruq3292 I think that the famous argument that led to Levi saying to Nico that he loved him came more from a place of "you're ashamed of being gay"; when Levi explained to him that it had nothing to do with his sexuality but more with the fact that his mom is neurotic (as he said), Nico was totally fine with it.
Nico has come to term with his sexuality, by all means he is out, everybody knows that he's gay, but he knows that he'll lose his parents if he comes out to them.
Or at least that's my take on what happened. I'm not Asian but I live in Japan so I can kinda understand the mentality, kinda.
Obviously we can also all agree that Nico has never been the most sensitive person lol He's pretty straightforward
Amelia is being unfair to link no matter what she says and thinks. Link deserves to know if that baby is his
Sexxicapri I truly agree with you. I honesty was hoping that it was Amelia hormones talking lol that was pretty ridiculous if that’s how it’s going to play out! 🙄💔
Why she it matter if he love her he should love the child no matter what
@@christappen140 After her history with Owen? Yea he definitely has a right to know. Period. Yea love is love but Link's whole issue if the baby is Owen's is him getting pushed out of the picture because of course Owen would want to know his child and that whole Owen Teddy and Amelia situation JUST settled down. It's easy to say he shouldn't care when you ignore all the consequences and things that could go sideways. Also just because SHE is the one having the baby doesn't mean HE can't have feelings even if she doesn't agree with him. She can't just say "oh I'm not getting a paternity test because you should love my kid anyways" No as a dr a surgeon no less she should have gotten a check up way sooner and avoided this whole fiasco. I love Amelia and want her and Link to work out but she is being totally unfair to him.
@@christappen140 what? Link has right to know. It is not easy to raise a baby esp if the baby was not yours but belongs to the one who overshadowed you. Link is still good guy. I am a mother and I will say Amelia is unfair to Link. I hope it is only because her hormon. And if they break up official later I hope they will break up in good way, not like this.
@@novitabasaria7282 and what if the baby boy is Owen's would he stay with her or would he leave her and and raise the baby I understands she us scared and afraid but he should pressure her
The writers butchered this relationship and Amelia's character so much with this. What a waste of potential
The writers have butchered every thing lately. What are they doing?
@@a_noelle8595 Krista sucks, Shonda overly dramatic but it was much better executed than this crap.
@@Helen-me1vn agreed, I still enjoy the show but Krista is infuriating
I don't mind this regression of her character. It makes sense to who she is, but ugh. They better make up for this mess. Like the other characters know she is better than this and should force her to deal with her problems instead of running away and avoiding them like she did when she had a freaking tumor.
Amelia's character is exhausting. But isn't real life. I'm more concerned about the baby, hurt ppl hurt other ppl and when children are created in that environment toxicity is passed down to the next generation.
It sucks that Justin couldn’t finish out the season to give us a good ending and closure for his character...Absolutely loved his character and i don’t know how the writers are going to work out his exit
I hope he’s helping his mom and ask joe to come be with him
@@dorislacaze8475 i hope they dont break them up, i mean all that helping her heal and all the wedding/marriage stuff just to break them up is just wrong
Season 17 is gonna be the last.. so I think they're just gonna try to milk him being "away" but not kill him off, kinda just dragging his absence. I think that's why theres been so many station 19 crossovers too, somehow Greys will keep living on. Idk maybe I'm just crazy
dani I agree
@@dboomer9009 was it finally confirmed it's the last one?!
He’s really not in the wrong to want to know if it’s his kid.
It is most unfair to the baby, not knowing who its biological father is. It is just selfish.
"I'm going to be pushier next time you're sad, because you were raised an only child, but you are not one anymore. You are EVERYTHING I never knew I needed." ♥️ Can we start giving Maggie some credit here? She's amazing!
I love her and Maggie’s relationship ❤️
@@madisonjackson5065 my favorite! ♥️
Poor Link ... this is not fair... he loves her
She doesn’t want check the test because She is scared 😱 this isn’t over btw link and amelia
Laurene Adler I hope not Amelia needs a good guy to love her and her baby no matter who the father is
Doris LaCaze be realistic, no guy in the world is trying to raise a kid that isnt theirs without some consolation
@@dorislacaze8475 yes but Link has right to know.
She also just can’t refuse to give the results, the father has a right to be in the kids life
Amelia is at it again, fucking things up
Nico being a closet case is just ridiculous. He dragged Schmidt out of the closet in a very judgy way. To have him be closeted makes no sense story-wise. NO ONE is that hypocritical.
Donald Samuels thank u!!!
It's this trash writing lately!!!! None of this makes any sense!
EXACTLY
IT'S SO STUPID AND UNFAIR, he literally got mad at Levi for not being out to his mom🙄🙄
I’m over them trying to dramatise their sexuality. Homosexual relationships don’t revolve around the fact of their sexuality - we have normal relationship issues too!
The script writers are full of b.s this season.
Greys was complicated before but its definitely a mess now!!
Amen
Ruth Kurien Yeah. Tbh, unless Justin Chambers returns, whatever happens to the Alex character will be dissatisfying.
It’s down the shitter at this point
@@diegoprodriguez yes u r right.But its not just Alex, everything is kinda falling apart.
GA always been a mess, but now thanks to i dont know who, storylines arent as good as they used to be....
So Alex gets to just disappear with no word of any kind to his wife or his best friend??????? I think his departure from the show could’ve been written better
There's an article that says that his departure explanation is still a few episodes away. So you'll have to wait for it.
Maybe his phone got stolen or he was kidnapped. They could make him be presumed dead. That would give Justin a chance to return in the series finale, if he wants to.
at least they did not killed Alex... and the actor that is playing his characther, where is he by the way?
@@delacruzjuan6972 He wasn't kicked don't worry. His mother is very sick So he need to take care of her.
@@delacruzjuan6972 They haven't killed him off yet, but they could still do that. Having him ghost Jo would be the worst way to write him out. At least death would be respectful to his growth and development.
I know everyone cares more about Link and Amelia but all I can think right now is NICO SUCKS
He doesnt he just........neds help
EXACTLY!!!! Come on Glasses, you deserve better!!!!!
I understand that Amelia wants to raise the baby with someone who will love it regardless of a test. But Owen and link deserve the truth because the real father deserves a relationship with their child and that child deserves to know their father. It’s selfish of Amelia to not give link and Owen the truth.
See if Amelia was having this conversation with Meredith she would make her get a paternity test. Owen is Meredith friend and she looks out for him too because of Christina and so when she hears about this Amelia will get that paternity test done. This is what happens when you sleep with two men and get pregnant and now you don't know who the father is
Totally agree.
Faith Watkins Let’s not pretend it was that simple, she got with Link because she deserves a good man and Owen is toxic trash. Also her hormones, past addictions and years of trauma are making her doubt his love for her and she is protecting herself again but she will ultimately do the right thing. The baby isn’t even born yet so to put her through this kind of emotional turmoil when she has previously lost a child is slightly selfish.
cursed her out.
Did she sleep with Owen while being with Link?
@@faithwatkins7811 right I may not like Mer but she will help do the right thing. Maggie is a dumbass.
Lost all respect for amelia. Knowing who is the father matters!
I feel like Mer suddenly looks a lot older. Guess the ridiculous plot twists have been wearing her down
Signe I believe she’s 50 or so..
Mary Ellen Macioge Meredith is in her forty’s but yes Ellen is in her fifty’s
One side of me really wants link and Amelia to be happy and let this ridiculous baby drama to end, but the other part of me doesn’t really care anymore because the writers are getting what they want a heart breaking Link and Jo come together have the whole 9 yards and Amelia running into Owens arm.. it whats going to happen. And I’m laughing at how Alex is ghosting both jo and Mer 🤣🤣
What about Teddy though? If Amelia runs to Owen's arms, what's gonna happen with Teddy?
@@v__nikolaou8624 She can go back to Tom. In a perfect world, she and Amelia would drop kick Owen and leave him on the side of the road somewhere. Owen is a trash partner and these women deserve better
@@brieoliver I kind of like Tom, I really liked him when he was with Teddy but I doubt she would go back to him. I do think she loves Owen but I don't think Owen is actually capable of loving a woman for more than a year or so.
V__ Nikolaou I mean you never know with the show I could be wrong and Amelia said screw men for good and raise her baby as a single mom. Tho I really hope even for a small chance that link and Amelia works out! ❤️
@@brieoliver OMG YESSSS that would honestly be perfect.And I rlly want Teddy ti be with Tom...He always lived her while Owen went to her when Amelia dumped him...
Everyone complaining about Grey's Storyline:
Me: Isn't that Donna? Donna what are you doing here, does Harvey know?!😂
IKR HAHAHAHAHA was thinking it whole time!!
Was thinking the same exact thing 🤣🤣
lol
I came to the comments simply looking for this!
Amelia has no legal leg to stand on all Link has to do is hire an attorney and petition the court for a paternity test. She doesn't have the legal right to just not get a paternity test especially if the potential father is aware of the situation.
Exactly like in this situation i understand why link didn't do it but he totally should have especially since it turns out to be his.
I used to like Amelia she is just messed up. link deserves to know who the father is.
Honestly, Schmitt deserves so much better.
Get away as fast as you can Link.
This show became so boring but when link and Amelia got together the show had spice again..... Amelia need to get mature..... Owen broken that girl so much that she can't loved no one correctly and don't know what's real love look like.... Regardless of the test link would of stay with her he just needs to know n process it.... Its not about her feelings alone its also his... I just sick of this show everybody dumping each other
@@cascildarawlins5447 Tell me about it.
@@cascildarawlins5447 Oh please fuck off. Amelia is no innocent sheep, she was just as awful to Owen as he was to her.
@@JoaoVictor-rg9ck brain tumor, my ass! I hated Amelia before Link made her lovable.
I honestly think the writer's have all checked their brains at the door when it comes to these story lines lately.
I think Amelia’s being selfish. What about what the child would want? How would Amelia feel if she grew up not knowing who her father was? Also, Owen and Link need to know who the father is. That baby didn’t just spontaneously grow in Amelia. It took one of those guys to get her pregnant and they have a right to know too.
khfan4life365 I don’t think she plans on never finding out. She just doesn’t need to know now. She can deal with the custody arrangements after birth.
Donald Samuels I’m sure link can go after her in court to find out whose baby it is
velvet thunder Yeah after the baby is born and if she’s not making any effort to find out.
@@aashray9353 Which would further prove her point. Linc doesnt care about her.
Ikr everybody was talking about TEDDY she grew up Amelia UR TURN put ur big girl pants on but I guess in her mind shes trying to fix but isolating herself this is not helping that link and Owen both have a right to know it's not about just her anymore...
Omg Maggie and Amelia are sister goals you didn’t know you needed 🥰😍
Schmidt needs to leave nico he obviously not serious about this relationship
I loved Amelia's character since day 1, and I loved her even more when she and Link fell in love.
And now this?! Oh please don't make me hate her, :(
Link, Owen and the baby DESERVES to know!
They need to make Alex’s exit story believable I don’t want any bs.
Agreed it nit in keeping with the person and Dr that he has become I can’t see him just up and walking out on Jo that’s nit Alex
I see nothing wrong with Alex disappearing on mer she did it don’t be mad when he does it too
Her husband died and she found out she was pregnant. She left the house he built for her and the bed she slept in with him. She disappeared on everyone lol totally not the same thing. Also she did answer him and told him she was fine and to leave her be.
Agree. But not for Jo. She's his wife now.
And although Izzy did the same to him, you'd think that would be why he wouldn't pull this on Jo. I wish they could've written it differently.
He will come back with a baby just like Meredith
the kid justin isn’t on the show anymore. he won’t be bringing back anything
to be fair.. meredith was going through a lot. if i just lost my husband and found out i was pregnant right after and was unable to sleep in my own home, i’d go ghost too for my own mental sake. she didn’t ghost them entirely and she came back after giving birth.
Amelia is being reckless again...i just hope link would push harder plzz for audience sake... and a strong character like alex can't just disappear like this why they make us suffer whyyy😠😠😨😨😭😭
Annie Masoom why should he push harder. She broke up with him. I honestly hope he goes to court to file for a genetic test if that possible. I’m sure there is some way using the legal system to find out whose child is that.
@@aashray9353 Futher indicating that he deserved to be dumped. Only a man that gives no fucks about Amelia and what she's going through would prioritize a legal battle over her and this child's well being. I hope Linc is smarter than that
Briana Oliver i would wait until she gives birth to the baby then take her to court to see if the baby is mine
@@brotherhoodpaladin2403 Which I would assume is her plan anyway. She's not keeping this secret forever. But right now? It shouldnt be a huge priority. Especially since she's on her own and now has to reconfigure all her plans with Linc stepping away. Distance is needed. Its not like either Owen or Linc can parent from the womb anyway lol.
That’s ridiculous. The father should be in the childs life just as much as the mother
Amelia isn’t understanding that just because Link wants to know if the baby is his or not doesn’t mean he doesn’t love her or wouldn’t love the baby. It could just mean that he doesn’t want to take that opportunity away from Owen to know he could possibly have another child. Because we know if it was Owens he wouldn’t want Link around. I get she’s hormonal and sensitive about being loved but she needs to deal with the consequences of her actions. Link was prepared to be a dad but not when he easily be pushed aside.
She doesn’t thinks he love her because he told her he wouldn’t want to be with her if the baby wasn’t his which in turns me he doesn’t actually love her
Vaishnavi Ramesh him saying he doesn’t know means the same thing in her eyes. Because if he loved her he would know that the paternity results wouldn’t change their relationship
@@courtneycarroll6361 If a paternity test wouldn't change their relationship, then why was Amelia so apprehensive about telling Linc the truth in the first place? Hmm?
Rebekah Segun ameila wasn’t apprehensive about telling him when she found out he might not be the father. She went to tell him the night she found out and she was interrupted by Owen and teddy so she didn’t say anything because she didn’t want to drop a bomb on Owen and teddy since they just had got engaged. She then told link the very next day
@@courtneycarroll6361 She might have told Linc rather quickly, but she was still terrified and nervous regardless. Why is that? Because she knew deep down that Linc probably wouldn't be a-okay with this news.
i’m gonna be honest with myself right now........ i’m a whole hypocrite 😂 I was so pissed with Teddy for keeping the baby (allison) a secret from Owen but I’m completely fine with Amelia never telling Owen that she might be having his baby.
the only i thing i need is for link and amelia to be together and happy
If the baby turns out to be Link's, which I doubt, I hope Link decides to not be with HER. She is really showing what kind of person she is...selfish and childish. Link is a good guy and deserves somebody better.
@@raephaelemasirnille5794 Linc is not a good man if the only reason he's there is because he has to be. You're either all in or you're not. Amelia and this baby deserve unconditional love and support. You are not a good man if you cant provide that
I think every man grey's ever introduced us to was hypocritical and sexist in one way or other, they were selfish at times thinking they and their careers come first or that the woman and her wishes weren't just as important as them. Burke was an asshole who wanted cristina but on his own terms, derek was understanding at time but at others he was, manipulative and a complete jerk who didn't think Meredith and her career, or just about any other's were just as important and don't get me started at the way he treated amelia. Alex and mark treated women like sex objects, webber was a jealous bastard with so many one true loves of his life and he cheated or left behind almost all of them and the way he treated adele was aweful. George was a gentle jerk, he took all his crap and insecurities out on others, chasing after meredith, confessing his love to a drunk girl at the lowest of her emotional state and then cried when he didn't get what he wanted, he used callie to cope with his grief, let his friends insult her left and right, made her feel insecure a d told her to her face that 'izzie is like this gorgeous she can't fall in love with me' or something like that. And then cheated on her with izzie, divorced her for izzie and then broke up with izzie because they weren't having the same awesome sex they had the night they cheated. Deluca can not handle his girlfriend being better then him. I do not even want to talk about koracik and owen.
After all that, they brought in link. A bit too flashy in the start but then he turned out to be the most understanding and caring yet so carefree and honest. He's not perfect, he has flaws and fears and he'd seen crap but still loveable. And then they kept screwing him over and over and over again. They made him look cute with meredith in beginning of season 15 and then had her running to the fifteen year old who can't handle himself and not to mention he was going through breakdown because 'the love of his life' left at the end of season 14. Then this crap. Seriously after how he handled her and her behaviours and the pregnancy, they do this?
@@brieoliver There is no such thing as romantic unconditional love. And thank goodness love has its limits. If love did not have limits nobody would ever break up or get divorced. We would remain in bad relationships and be unhappy. Amelia handled this whole situation wrong. If she had given the pregnancy 3 seconds of thought and realized from the beginning she was not sure who the father was Link would look at this from a different perspective. Being in love with someone is not always enough to keep people together. Most break ups are hurtful because the love is still there. But something has happened that someone can't get past. What Amelia did was reckless, irresponsible and unforgivable. Link is not wrong for his feelings or behavior.
@@raephaelemasirnille5794 How would she realize that??? She was sleeping with only one man consistently and misjudged her due date based on that fact. Now should she have been going in for consistent sonograms? Sure. But given her first pregnancy and her baby not having a brain, I understood her apprehension. She's done nothing wrong here and Linc is horrible for making her feel that way.
So many people need to know if the baby is Owen's. It's not just a damn test, everyone's lives will be screwed if it is.
Drama drama drama...that’s why I watch Brooklyn Nine-Nine these days
Poor link he didn’t see it coming Owen got in to him but too late
She can’t refuse a guy a blood test. He can have a court order.
Amelia is soooo selfish... this is not her decision alone.
She is so selfish. I would sue her for a paternity test. He deserves a right to know. Forget even being with her. He deserves to know if he has a child. She is being a baby about this because she doesn’t want to know if the child is Owens. If she really wanted someone who didn’t care the dna of her child then she would get it because then it would prove that. Also, it doesn’t make you a bad person to not be able to raise someone else’s baby. Especially with her and Owens history. Honestly, she just does not want to deal with teddy and Owen. And that’s on her for not being able to handle things maturely. Link did the right thing and asked because it does matter. What if that baby has a life threatening condition only he had the ability to donate for? This is just selfish and so unrealistic. As a doctor, she knows the repercussions to act like this is anything but being afraid of having Owen of the father is childish
She's always been selfish. She makes everything about her and what she wants - has done since her Private Practice days.
I can understand her point of view and also I understand links point of view to
@@bronzebellezza7123 She did get the test though, she just didn't look at the results. Yes she is a bit wrong but I kinda understand what's she's saying, if the baby is link's then she'd let him be in its life or whatever but as far as the two of them go whether the baby is his or not it's over.
yes, i hope Link won't back down.
Every one was breaking up in this episode what the hell is going on she is throwing a perfectly good man away what the hell Amelia .
That’s it.!! I’m not watching anymore, this is getting ridiculous
Nico projecting his own issues onto Schmitt in the beginning was an asshole move. But now that Schmitt is so okay with who he is, I think it’s time for Nico to face it and come out too.
He is out. Just not to his parents.
@@dosway4185 wow that changes everything!!
I knew Nico and Schmitt weren't going to make it with the Station 19 and Grey's merge... They'll probably pair Schmitt up with Travis.
I knew that was gonna happen, I kept saying it. He broke her heart when he made it clear that if the baby is not his, their may not be an “us”.
I think Alex’s mom die and he’s dealing with that and he is grieving by himself... but what are they going to do with Jo ?
While I understand where Amelia is coming from I don’t think Link was being unreasonable in his assessment with the situation with Amelia. Am I the only one?
Yeah link deserves to know if he’s the father but I get why Amelia was devastated to hear he didn’t know if he could be there anymore if it wasn’t his. Link said he was all in and she loves him so of course she’s upset now that it feels like he was only there for the baby and not her. Eventually she’s gonna have to get a dna test though.
He's not being unreasonable. Just an asshole lol. It's perfectly understandable to want to know the truth. But pretty shitty of him to use this truth as a justification for staying or going. He is the one obsessing over Owen's place here when Amelia has flat out told him she wants to raise their child with him. Biology doesn't matter to her but clearly it does for Linc and that's awful
@@brieoliver of course he's hurt he's not obligated if it's not his period and she's just saying that because she knows Owens dependable that's not fair to link he let Amelia meet his family and now if it's not his....
@@janderson947 Of course hes not obligated. Doesnt make him any less an asshole though. Owen is not going to be dependable here. He's got two other babies he's raising with Teddy. He's not going to be able to be as involved with Amelia's kid. If Linc could get his head out his ass for a second he could see that. Owen is not the big bad wolf he's making him out to be. He needs to deal with his insecurities and man up
@@brieoliver I've been reading most of tour responses and they're really funny. So you think because Owen has two kids already he won't want to be involved in this child's life? We see people that have kids with different people in the world and still make time to be in their kids life.
i still haven’t watched this episode but am i the only one hella shook about the levi and nico thing woah
Amelia finally is having a good story line, and the writers are bringing her old self back. And what a riveting story line, alex ghosting them 🙄
Owen is going to find out he could possibly be the father I bet that!!! He’s going to force her to get that test Amelia is really trippin
Link is going to tell him 100%
Jo basically told him when they had that surgery together and she was asking him a hypothetical question saying what if the baby is his?
@@faithwatkins7811 I usually like Jo but that was soooooo out of line I wanted to slap her!
@@lisahuber9329 no it wasn't. Why so violent jeez.
@@sparklingdaisy3169 I agree with Lisa, might be Links call or Amelia but certainly not Jo's.
Just because a woman is the parent that carries the child doesn’t make the father less important or unworthy. A man has a right and responsibility to any life he helped to create. You can’t hold a child hostage. It’s unfair to the child and it’s shameful of the mother. Take her to court and get a DNA test and legally become a part of the baby’s life. If there is no threat of danger then why on earth would you rob your child of having a father? 😒
Me: April was the most annoying character on Grey’s
Amelia: Ummm, have you met me
#cuttheunnecessarydrama
Meredith is the most annoying tbh🤣
Thank you i cant with this show the only reason i watched it was coz of Avery and April ,i just watch the promos on youtube
Hmm have you forgotten maggie...duhh the worst
@@stephaniewanjiru1178 I loved April too idk why they had to get rid of her😭
So is it just me or is Amelia being really selfish about this? Link has every right to a) want to know if he is the father of that baby and b) be upset if it's Owen's. Owen left her for Teddy because Teddy was having a baby, Owen loves kids and would want to be heavily involved in his child's life. Link has everyright to be worried and scared about that.
4:00 oh Alex 😞
Oh no how bad! Him wanting to know if he is the father, how terrible.
Ok thats it!! Im done!! Link and Amelia was the only reason I was still watching....
Keep it coming Grey's. There have been a lot of storylines that did not make sense over the years but we still watch because that's how life is. If you want perfection people make up your own story and see how boring it is without throwing in some twists and turns.
I feel like this is all leading up to Jo and Link ending up together. Which by the way I do not agree with.
Link dodged a bullet with Amelia. She is immature and selfish.
I feel like I’m about to stop watching this show because link and Amelia was my favorite couple they was the whole reason I was looking forward to this show and now they going through they should have just let them be happy🙌🏾
I actually understand both sides. It’s normal for link to know if the baby is his. But I also understand that amelia just want for her and her baby to be loved unconditionally. Because you just need to check amelia past. Addison took cared of her since she was something like 6 and she wasn’t even her real blood sister. But she was here. And now she has mer and Maggie and they didn’t even share blood. Her mother wasn’t here for her, like her sisters so for amelia blood is a big joke
@Sophie Hart she didn’t know who it was, and she was scared it took her time but she finally read the results and told the truth but still she is the one carrying the baby so she is the one who decides.
@Sophie Hart haha the no actually the man should have use protections. She does whatever she wants with her baby and she just canted to have link’s support which is something she didn’t have right away that’s why she was scare b
And once again, they throw away all the growth of Amelia's character in the last few seasons in the name of drama and more drama. And don't even get me started on the Merluca stuff and Alex disappearing and hurting the ones he loves after 16 years of great character development and been through so much. Seems like almost no one in this show can be happy, mature or have a healthy relationship.
THIS.
Amelia has be toxic since she first appeared on the show . Link and Owen deserve better than that
I literally catch up with this show with these clips ! Greys is not the same ! I’m so frustrated with the Amelia and Link storyline ! It’s more important to know whose baby it is than to completely want him to be fully in without knowing whose baby it is !
She knows he has a right to know. She did the paternity test she just didn’t pick up the results because her so called boyfriend told her that he loved her and was all in after she told him the baby might not be his and sage wasn’t planning on getting the paternity results and then he turned around and told her that he didn’t think he could be with her if the baby wasn’t his which proved to her that he could not have possibly loved her. She is not upset that he wants to know if the baby is his she is upset at how he is acting
Wow Shmidt is the only character on the show right now that isn't annoying. SMH. How dare Nico. He gave him so much crap over not being out. And Shmidt is naive and in love with his first love and he's gonna let Nico manipulate him into doing whatever he wants. Also poor Link :(
Wow, I stopped watching after season 12 (I was already on the verge of leaving the Grey’s Fan train) and damn... after seeing this clip, I’m not mad I did. ☹️
the song playing in the first half is: Giants by Jackson Guthy. my sister and i went stir crazy trying to figure it out so i thought id spare yall the pain.
Amelia is a child!!!! Grow the hell up please! You can’t sleep around and have baby and don’t expect the one of the possible fathers (that you told) to want to know if it’s his baby lol 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ CHILDISH!
She is being selfish, disrespectful, immature
I wish Arizona was back. How she told Jackson that April was pregnant, she needs to tell Owen he may be the father to Amelia’s baby.
No. Arizona was wrong then. Anyone else would be wrong now.
Link should just tell him. It's not like Amelia will ever tell him.
We need alex back :(
Wolfzat Adaemus well he’s leaving the show
@@katherinemartinez8114 I know thats why i need he came back :(
What are the writers doing to this season ??? 🤷🏻♀️
man...I like link and Amelia together
It takes a whole lot more than love to raise a child so link has every right in the world to know exactly what he is getting himself into. I honestly thinks she’s been unfair imagine your boyfriend brings a child home and ask you to love him and the child no matter what but refuses to tell you who the mother is 🙄
What do you need more of than love to raise any child? Linc has money. He also has a home. Does those things no longer exist if he's not the biological father? Just wondering what you meant there. Cause Linc was father material...up until he decided he couldnt love this kid unless it was his biologically.
Briana Oliver okay maybe for you love and money are the two most important things needed to raise a child but am a mum and I know first hand that’s not true you also have to mentally and physically stable and willing. That been said I think it’s double standard for we women to expect a man to accept a child without knowing the whole story how many women will accept their husband’s child without know who the real mum was. Link did not say he does not love her all he said was he wants to know who the dad is and in this particular case he is right because Owen is annoying and a bit crazy so link might not want all the drama that comes with Owen. He has every right to ask and honestly if Amelia is such a good parent she will take the test not for link but for her child.
Amelia is not wrong. She did the paternity test she just didn’t pick up the results because her so called boyfriend told her that he loved her and was all in after she told him the baby might not be his and sage wasn’t planning on getting the paternity results and then he turned around and told her that he didn’t think he could be with her if the baby wasn’t his which proved to her that he could not have possibly loved her. She is not upset that he wants to know if the baby is his she is upset at how he is acting
He deserve to know, period. She Is not the subject here, the baby Is. Link Just wanna know what his role Will be, that doesn't mean he doesn't love her.
I looove Amelia, but what She doing Is not okay.
Sorry for my english 🙊
- Stories OVER Bros - she is stating that if he can not love her and her child unconditionally he won’t have a role. And she know he has a right to know. Again it’s not about him wanting to know. For her is about that fact that he can’t be trusted
I love AmeLink. I hope their gonna figure this out. I hope no matter who the father is, AmeLink are gonna be together. They should be together. Link's a good guy, he would love the child anyway.. AmeLink's the reason why i still watch grey's anatomy.
I miss Alex Karev, Mer needs him
So many moments of detachment in our lifes. And that s why we should love our every moments with our loving ones. People get scattered with too easy reason sometimes. Or maybe they hang on with too empty reason sometimes at same time.
Who did Nico come out to then? He surely said he had his coming out story.
SParkApCider everyone but his family?
Didn't Nico tell Levi at one point that he was at Christmas with his family and wished Levi could have come and Levi promised to come the next year?
I feel like this baby is going to be born with ginger hair to let the audience know it’s Owens baby
Malika Asia I hope not I hope it’s links baby and he and Amelia a can make a family an live happily ever after
nico is a hypocrite and im happy and mad at amelia @ the same time
Their relationship dint even last one season
Link and Owen deserve to know who is the father.
This story line makes me so sad. I finally found a couple that I love. The first after Mark/Lexie.
WHYYY? They were doing fine up until this point. I really hope that this is just because of Amelia’s hormones.
This pisses me off. He has the right to know if he's the father. He also has the right to be upset about the whole situation. I hate when she does this. She did this with owen. She left him, doesn't give him the right to be upset and makes it all about her. I also don't like how they are writing off Alex. Do not do this to Jo
Holly Remillard she knows he has a right to know. She did the paternity test she just didn’t pick up the results because her so called boyfriend told her that he loved her and was all in after she told him the baby might not be his and sage wasn’t planning on getting the paternity results and then he turned around and told her that he didn’t think he could be with her if the baby wasn’t his which proved to her that he could not have possibly loved her. She is not upset that he wants to know if the baby is his she is upset at how he is acting
@@courtneycarroll6361 good point 😊
Oooh my Jaggie heart 🥰
How to destroy the only good thing in your show *101*
I don't even watch the show anymore and I AM TIRED!
I wish Amelia could have the happy ending that she deserves. And pls stop giving owen all the good twists. I’m done with Owen. Huhu pls let Amelia and Link create a happy family
I know i‘m the only one but I don‘t like Vic I want that Jackson and Maggie get back together
Lisa Nguyen, you are not alone!
Yea I want jaggie back!!!
Me too.
Honestly feel so bad for Link. The way I get it his argument wasn't that he might not want to be with amelia because the baby wasn't his but because then the baby would be Owen's. And that is a whole sticky mess. I think it is understandable to have some reservations about committing to a relationship in which the woman is pregnant with her ex-husbands child who she broke up with shortly before you started dating. It's a shitty situation all around but Amelia acting like Link is only willing to give conditional love is unfair to him.
If she only wants to continue a relationship with someone willing to fully trust and love her enough that they are willing to ignore the Owen problem, that's up to her. But denying Link the right to know if the child is his is a horrible thing to do. The way the show frames it we are supposed to blame this decision making on "pregnancy hormones" if all the women in the Grey's universe have such impaired judgement when pregnant how are they allowed to continue working as surgeons? Don't you need unclouded judgement for that?
It also sucks because Amelia finally seemed to be making progress in the communicating about her feelings department. She took in the news Owen might be the father so well, processed it and then told Link calmly and gave him time to think before demanding anything. And now she is completely back to her old self. Hiding, not caring about the other people involved at all. Being pregnant doesn't mean she gets to be irrational.
Amelia just love to make things more difficult than It has to be.
She's doing to link the same f...drama she did w Owen
Wow
Certainly, not the smartest move for a pregnate woman.... She had a point into either you are in a relationship or not regardless who the kid's might be. And she could tell him that she understand his initial reaction came out of shock and there was a beautiful opportunity for a wonderful monologue tell her he's sorry and he loves her no matter what and beautiful reconciliation might have happen... God forbid a drama shows teaches a healthy relationship... Maybe even a teaching opportunity for some but no that would be too boring... For Godsake, after that we wonder why the world is messed up...
M St-Pierre M his initial reaction was to tell her he loved her and he was all in. She did the paternity test she just didn’t pick up the results because her so called boyfriend told her that he loved her and was all in after she told him the baby might not be his and sage wasn’t planning on getting the paternity results and then he turned around and told her that he didn’t think he could be with her if the baby wasn’t his which proved to her that he could not have possibly loved her. She is not upset that he wants to know if the baby is his she is upset at how he is acting
i hate the fact that they make link seem like a bad guy bc if he “loved” amelia enough he wouldn’t care who the father is. amelia even said herself “idk if i want to be with him if the baby IS his bc love is more important than blood” when he wasn’t sure if he’d be around which is just as bad as him leaving bc it’s not his. no one seems to say anything about how she’s willing to leave him if he doesn’t accept the baby without the results when he has a right to know. amelia said she wasn’t sure about getting into a relationship with link so he waited for her until she wanted one and then announced she was pregnant and he was also there for her but as soon as he has second thoughts she tries to cut him off in a heartbeat bc he “doesn’t love her enough”?? wow. and her taking her time with getting the results was just selfish
These Grey's writers need to exit... they are steering me towards the exit.
The thing that kills me with these comments is Amelia NEVER said if the baby was Link's she'd keep him away from it. She said she wants to raise the baby "with" someone who will love the baby and her unconditionally. That's not link right now. If it's his, they'll be coparents, yes. But they won't be rasing it together. He has every right to know if the baby is his or not. And she has every right to want to know if he'd want to he with her if there was no baby. I think she was right to dump him.
I think Amelia has unrealistic expectations. Her and Link are in a relatively new relationship; less than 6 months I'm guessing. Asking him to raise another man's child this early in the relationship is asking a lot. If I were dating a man and only after a few months he asked me to help him raise a child he had with another woman that would be a hard no. Not everybody wants to raise other people's kids especially in the beginning of a relationship. Didn't Amelia back out of adopting Leo with Owen and decided to just be auntie Amelia? Bottom line it seems Link does not have that deep unconditional love for Amelia that she needs him to have. So it is good she ended the relationship.
@@raephaelemasirnille5794 you're absolutely right. But like I said if he was unsure about the relationship he really should have said that, it's totally ok for him to feel that way. But he acted like he was all in, which has to be more about just the baby. I get it's hard to raise someone else's child, but if you're unsure about the relationship... Just say that.
@@raephaelemasirnille5794 and Amelia backed out of adopting with Owen, partly because of Teddy and their baby. But I also think partly because her relationship with Owen was toxic, and she didn't wanna be dragged back in. Especially because that wasn't he'd situation from the beginning she only got involved when she was looking out for Betty. So it made sense for her to walk away
@@wbfanatic4eva You made some good points about why Amelia changed Her mind about Leo. Because of the circumstances you mentioned it was probably one of the smartest things she ever did because agreeing to be someone's parent should never be taken lightly. But in Link's case he stepped up when he thought the baby was his, as he should have. But if the baby is not his I can see his apprehension. His feelings could have been a mixture of both, baby and relationship. It was relatively new relationship.
@@raephaelemasirnille5794 I have no problem with stepping up when u think a baby is urs, but that has nothing to do with the relationship itself. If he was unsure about it, he shouldn't have been in it. Baby or not. That's why I think Amelia was right to end things. Because now, how will she ever know if it was TRULY her he wanted to be with, or if it was just because she got pregnant
My mom said that Amelia’s baby is Owens which makes him not want to be with her and that being said Alex is gonna leave Jo which caused jo and link to fall into each others arms
I thought Jo and Linc would end up together the moment she recognized him on his first day at the hospital.
@@a_noelle8595 they would make a good match now that I think about it, I wouldn't be mad if they put them together tbh, even if I loved Jo and Alex together, it'd be unfair for her to have a love interest that never appears on screen
If you know Amelias history- you all know this is super difficult for her. As she has lost her first baby way back at Private Practice.... Owen could never get through to her,because he was too obsessed with having a baby(with her)...
But i hoped for the best once I saw how Link was treating her and he kind of brought fresh air into Amelias life. I really hope Amelia will rethink and chooses to take a paternity test, because the child would want to know one day and deep down,she wants to know too. She is just too scared at the moment. But honesty is the best policy in life. Amelia has still a lot of work to do....She has come al ready far.... but right now it feels more like a step back.....
Sorry but Meredith and Maggie,need to not only support her but set her straight. In particular Meredith,as she is the older sister...
I’m sorry but Amelia did this to herself. She shouldn’t have had unprotected sex with two guys within the same timespan.
didn't she take pills though? I remember that but I might be wrong, that's why there's a question mark
Sue this woman and get a paternity test.
Aand that was the final straw ✌
I feel like situation is actually somewhat realistic. Like with the way people are nowadays I could totally see this happen!
Who is the father????!!!!
Amelia is so unfair. Link truly deserves to know, and his answer to knowing is fair. You can’t expect someone to stay for a baby that isn’t theirs. It’s great, and it takes a strong willed person to stay. But link would know who the father was, he’d see the father every day. I couldn’t.