I do not want children. Love them. Have no desire to have one. If I ever change my mind I will adopt. In the mean time I want to travel and help children that are already on the planet that need help. No need to have more when there are so many who need help.
Can I also say that people who choose to adopt children who are unfortunate and give them the opportunity to live a good life should definitely be awarded?
@@sreyosisen7146 convincing a inconvenient pregnant woman to spare the baby's life and give the baby to you and she gets paid Edit: sorry if you think child trafficking, that is not my intent
"What you are looking for is not a child. What you are looking for is involvement." Not all but so true to many who wanted kids. They wanted a mini-me, someone they can project their desires into, someone they can control.
That's biological dummy. There is a spiritual order above all this that dictates reproduction a primary mechanical function of this miracle of life. Sorry for calling you dummy but stop being one and have good smart loving children
Enlightening. I chose not to have kids 25 years ago, due to many reasons, among which overpopulation. This is the first time I feel validated. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
@Plamen Stoev The thing is it doesn't matter where people are being born - they'll still be included in the 8 billion people on the planet who have to survive on it and impact it. Which country the people come from is not as relevant as how many people there are in total. A lot of people use this argument but it's closed-minded. What we do affects us all, not just the borders or culture we live within. And the idea that we need to replace ourselves (2 children to replace 2 parents) and sustain the current population isn't really necessary. We don't need to replace a population of 8 billion people.
These were never "needs" in the first place. You can not make a functioning mirror(healthy specie) with broken pieces(individual living beings who suffer).
According to UNICEF, almost 10,000 children become orphans every day. According to internationally accepted figures, there are at least 140 million orphans in the world.
I can relate to this so much. Me and my girlfriend have decided to not have children. I'm indian. I think more Indians should follow this as we are so overpopulated.
No, you are so wrong. But if you cannot believe otherwise, then no, you don't deserve to have children but then what are you here for other than take oxygen? You're useless to God if you believe there can be too many of his children.
@@electrical58 let it be what ever their reaction. At the same time we must be careful not to have child . If possible not marriage only. Other wise we will be in ditch. No one in the whole universe will come to our rescue. Thus we have to help ourselves, ignoring their words.
@@God.sDaughter tell ya community where to shove it And/Or.... Do what YOU wanna do with your life. This is your choice not anyone else's. Its ur body, mind and decision.
"Most sensible person on earth." So the most sensible person on Earth say we should stop existing? That's not being sensible. That's the polar opposite.
Well we won't have much of a chance at that if we're all believing this lie and not having children. Only our leaders will and they'll have the last laugh.
@@Briselance he isn't saying that we shouldn't exist...he said that having children isn't must if one doesn't want them.. and the bit about tiger was a joke..
I love him! I’m 27 year old female and I just really don’t want to have kids... I just have other wants and goals in life and fhaving a child will ruin my life.. and at the same time Society cases anxiety in me because I feel like it’s not right. We need to accept women who don’t want kids! And men!
Society doesn't dictate your life. Think about all things you'll be able to do if you don't have a child that demands/needs all your time. There's so much more to life than getting married and producing offsprings. More power to you!!
@@obviouslyasockpuppet In that case,why are so many elderly people abandoned by their children?? Some are forced to leave their own house and some are thrown away in old age homes like unwanted furniture.
I actually enjoy the look my family gives me when i say that they will never be grandparents from my side. It's like they just took it for granted and it's fun crushing that. Sounds harsh yes, but it's my life and choice and not theirs. I love the children i don't have too much to let them live in this world.
@@shanubhogrohit9052 it is not only in this case or any situation, not only to our parents or it might be to whomsoever it might be. Explain your feelings, if they are ready to listen. However you too will come to know what is running in their mind, directly or in directly. Catch hold of it and analyze . How ever if they agree or not , you have to make your own decision and first of all you have to be independent financially, physically, emotionally and mentally . Till that you have to wait, some how or just drag the days. To be ready to stay independent , life long also. If they didn't agree. Ultimately it all depends on our past kamma / merits. Sincerely putting effort in any matter , which is right according to you - is okay. At the same time, it must be in the right path. Every one thinking, behaving differs . Due to their past track records. Every one is born due to their own kamma. Now it has to be nullified by doing good deeds. For that, time, energy, patience is needed. No one in this whole universe, can give time for us . We have to make time for it .Parents are only mediators to come to this world according to our past life kamma. Just you go through buddha's teachings ( natures law ) , once. Day by day you understand how we come to this life and how we have to get liberation (paticcasamuppada - dependentorigination AND paticcanirodha - how to nullify rebirth ) . You can search in net or Contact any Buddhist monk personally or refer to bikku bodhis , dhamma talks on net or according to your comfort zone . HAVE a nice future ahead.
@@synthiathapa4582 Thank you ( mind ) for your (mind's) concern synthia thapa . Wish also , not to have rebirth . How ever it is the wish of every one ( mind ) knowingly or unknowingly , not to suffer . Thus inevitably we ( mind ) have to cleanse our ( mind ) kamma . So that we don't have birth itself. Thus where is the question of marriage or children arises . Thank you (mind)once again for your ( mind) concern and well Wishes.
I'm 35 i am physically eligible to give birth but i choose not to. I want a child but don't want to give birth. By making this decision i went through lot of arguments in my family. At the end i won now i'm planning to adopt a child and i'm so happy with my decision ❤️
I just hope society would normalize women who don't want children. I have always known that motherhood is not for me and even at 24 I cannot picture myself with a child. Stop glorifying motherhood and giving birth is not the ultimate aim of a woman's life.
I just don't want a husband but I have always want to 1 or 2 kids but not more than that, but in India we need to get married and have kids so I am gonna be childless and single
Ma Parvati had said that without being a mother a woman's life isn't completed and if it comes on glorifying motherhood yes we will gloryify not only motherhood but also parenthood cause God and parents are the same and infact lord Shiva wished to have a mother also so today's modern so called "culture" is saying that we should not gloryify motherhood and parenthood without those parents you wouldn't be here.
No being a parent is a fantastic thing, if its not for you, well thats your choice but don't lower people who choose to because of your insecurities. We won't lower ourselves to prop you up ESPECIALLY if there's nothing special about you.
I don’t have an issue with glorification of Mother’s but I don’t think a women who is childfree should be shamed. I’m childfree and I’m happy I made That choice. Once you have a child you can’t give the child back. I would not want my child to be adopted or put into foster-care.
I feel proud to have chosen this decision of not having my own child. For me my plants and stray animals I care for are very much like my children. And they are best than humans
Actions what decides your worth, not your specie! You do not choose what you born as but you have FULL CONTROL on what person you will become! There are many amazing people out there who deserve the respect! Please judge people fairly!
People who choose to not make a BIOLOGICAL kid are the most selflessness in the world!!! Love you all and I'm glad to be part of that! Adopting is the next level! Hope I can do it one day!
@@weirdflex8158 I don't remember saying I'm selfless. Adoption is still adoption because I want to. At least it's gonna help a children who's already there.
It's 2022 and society still considers an adult woman who isn't a mother a failure, a weirdo, a reject, an old cat lady. How terrible that our value is still tied to whether we give men children or not.
like … to say my life is a waste simply because i don’t wanna mindlessly bring another actual human being onto this earth , through my actual body … major hurt piece
I disagree. We live in an increasingly more anti family society which probabpy started when women entered the workforce. Girls are encouraged to get an education and have a great career. No teacher at my school encouraged me to seek to start a family. It was all about finding your life purpose through career.
@vprez4925 or have you not thought why would your teachers be telling young kids such highly inappropriate stuff and saying to start a family when yall are just literal kids?
I have never found an explanation for having a child that was not rooted in the ego. "someone that will truly love me and vice versa", "so I can be fulfilled", "MY purpose", "I want to have a family", "I want someone to take care of me". It's always about "me", the ego.
There is nothing messed up about having children or a pet. If you continue twisting everything like that then human kind will never do acts of service because it will turn out we all do it to satisfy our own egos. The reasons for wanting to have children are not always the same for everyone so please stop generalizing :)
@@anleeeee5554 "acts of service" cannot be compared to any of what was listed above: egotiscal behavior when having kids; because putting more humans in this world is not an act of service and will never be.
Calssic 🤣, then why did he gave birth to a daughter her age is 30 at the time of her birth the world population closer to 6 billion, mr prediction guru should have corrected himself before giving adivce to others
I agree 100%. I can say as a Woman I am never having kids or getting married. I like my freedom way too much and I feel like having a child would just tie me down. I think a lot of people have kids because they think that's what they're meant to do. Get Married, have kids, buy a house etc.
Most of my friends have children and they keep nagging me with "it's now your turn" and that is so irritating..I keep it open that I don't want to have kids and I always get some crazy looks like I'm an alien but I don't care. I don't want to have kids. Final!
I'm not exception, all people around me said that I have to have at least a kid when I got married. But I don't care, my husband and I really happy at this moment.
I studied Sustainable Development, and every topic we researched or discussed (such as biodiversity, energy, city growth, ocean pollution, climate) a strong reduce of population growth is a solution.
That's brainwashing by the elite to keep you dumb and controlled. If you believe it, then good, don't breed another dumb human. I and others who know better will better populate this place. Fools
@@myhonorwasloyalty here comes jobless another loser frustrated with his life and having extreme amount of free time to comment negative every place where people are positive...go on..keep whining.
@@kaydiangel2445 We all have given by the Creator of babies the element of choice. This choice is executed by all loving parents too. After 1, 2, or 3 children or more. They do decide. NO MORE. But the Creator commanded to those who worship him, to be "Be Fruitful & MULTIPLY". But how many modern parents do faithfully multiply X ? Extremely few. They too exercize a choice of how many children to have. That too after having experienced loving and wonderful children in existence. Shouldn't it have been, MORE THE MERRIER? Just like them, I too choose to exercise my human right not to have even 1 child. I like kids. But I dont want to bring my own kids on this terrible planet, nothing wrong with earth itself but all is wrong with its non thinking inhabitants!!!! My non existing children are not sad or suffering anywhere according to science or spirituality.
@Kaydi Hale We all have given by the Creator of babies the element of choice. This choice is executed by all loving parents too. After 1, 2, or 3 children or more. They do decide. NO MORE. But the Creator commanded to those who worship him, to be "Be Fruitful & MULTIPLY". But how many modern parents do faithfully multiply X ? Extremely few. They too exercize a choice of how many children to have. That too after having experienced loving and wonderful children in existence. Shouldn't it have been, MORE THE MERRIER? Just like them, I too choose to exercise my human right not to have even 1 child. I like kids. But I dont want to bring my own kids on this terrible planet, nothing wrong with earth itself but all is wrong with its non thinking inhabitants!!!! My non existing children are not sad or suffering anywhere according to science or spirituality.
@@BruhBruh-pz2ww Not at all! I've never wanted kids and don't regret my decision. It's amazing when you don't have to attend parents meetings, go for soccer practice, or cancel tours because of a kid. You get to spend time socializing or building yourself up by engaging in a hobby or building your career.
Finally... !!!! I am a girl and I am not married yet.. and I don't want to have kids. Whenever I say this to this world, they react like am a monster or not fit to live..! This speech is kinda funny and aaawesome giving me a positive vibe😂😅😁
Exactly. Like how is it a crime not to bring someone into existence, someone that doesn't even exist nor has any intrest in coming here? If they tought about being a parent in a more philosophical way they would realise that they are the monsters. Don't let them force their stereotypes onto you! Much love and Keep it up girl😘👏
Do not have and will not have a child. If needed, I'll adopt. Wonder how many Indian women, families will follow this. They may agree but very few have the conviction & foresight to follow. Thank you Sadhguru ji for speaking my mind as well .❤️👃🏽
Many are fighting in the comment section.. Believe me I love kids but...they are also genuinely annoying to me. I can take care of them for few hours but not 24 hours. I have always have been alone on my own...this is impossible for me. I even hate being around people
My Son and Daughter in Law said right from the start they didn't want kid's and I admire them for it! They are both very happy with each other, and that's what matters.
they should be awarded for being so responsible. the parents who have children, but become finically, physically and mentally stable before thinking about children, should be rewarded too.
it's so nice to hear someone who respects those of us who chose not to bring children into the world. I wasn't going to have children just because society tries to pressure me into doing it because *they say* I should. There are far too many "baby daddy" seeking women out there who are more than making up for those of us who have chosen to remain childfree. I will be 86 years old in the year 2050. I'm sure if resources are already critically reduced, they will reserve them for the young, important and healthy people. They will probably have an "easy and painless" way to -dispose- of us old and unwanted.
My earliest memory as a child is sitting in my closet and thinking "I never want to be a mommy" and now at 27 I still don't want to have any kids, and am looking into getting a hysterectomy.
I also don't want to be a mommy lol. I was thinking, why do you want a hysterectomy? I also wanted one, but now I don't want it anymore. I'm not saying it won't be good for you, but for me it wasn't. I would love to talk to you if want to, so you can make sure your decision isn't something you will regret. There's other types of birth control, some irreversible as well, but not as invasive. We could talk about what I choose too.
Our parents must listen to this and respect and accept our decision to not to have a Child. Me and my husband decided long back that we don’t want children. Our parents they just keep pushing and they can’t accept that this is a choice. I love Mother Earth and the way humans are handling it, soon mother nature will show her way to recover from the damage we as human beings are doing . We should become conscious about our planet and at least try to save our home before it’s too late.
Sense 🤣, then why did he gave birth to a daughter her age is 30 at the time of her birth the world population is closer to 6 billion, mr prediction guru should have followed what he have told before giving adivce to others.
Unless we are endangered( even then, the universe doesn’t need humans nor the earth. It’ll be havoc for a while, and then nature will take over. Our extinction doesn’t sound bad to me.), it will never be a necessity.
@@buuzy252 is that why there are so many parents in nursing homes? Having kids won’t assure you are taken care of when older. Kids aren’t the only form of family. I consider my closest friends family. They can be there for me, my cousins can be there for me, or I can choose to be alone which isn’t bad in some people’s eyes. Not everybody is to be a parent. Why are you so triggered about their personal decisions?
@@alphascorpii3757 your closest friends were born just like you born and just like future kids deserve to born. You are lying, your family is more important than your friends no matter what happens this is a human thing you will never ever change it. If you mom dies you're extremely sad, same about your best friends but more than ever with your mom. Those childs won't stay kids, they'll grow and they'll be older than the person you are today and you'll need them. Ive never found something more important than my family.
Some people in this society treat differently, the ones who are not married and those who get married,as if it's an achievement..this mentality needs to be changed completely! It's a choice if u don't wanna get married...thinking that they might be having some past bad experiences,some health etc issues n many more is something which needs to be corrected..
I wanted to listen to this as I am Indian and married for 6 years now. We both don't want child but the society and people can't accept the fact. Few days back one sanyasi who is our relative called us and said if my husband doesn't have a child then he is not paying "pitririn". And said if my husband is not capable of being a father then he should appoint someone from his family to do the task with me. What a shame!!!In 2022 when there are so many ways to get a child how can some sadhu say this??? Thanks for the speech, I needed to hear this. As when most of the people continuously say the same thing, at one point it makes me think that I am not doing the right thing 🙏
Don't listen to dumb people who blindly live by old obsolete rules without touch with the ground realities of the present... You and your partner has every right to choose and live the life you guys want...
I don’t want kid but that doesn’t mean I hate kids, I love them . Earth is full of human this is very important to not have children , people always said to me that just giving birth a single child doesn’t harm environment. Oh my dear those people it is harmful, in present scenario everyone is a burden on our home we called it ‘THE EARTH’
@@weirdflex8158 you left so many comments, I can tell you would like to be childfree but you are not courageous enough to choose that so you are trying to prove to yourself that you are right by shitting in comments. You think you are the first one here like that? LOL
I’m 44 and since my childhood years seeing the vast number of humans scared me. I always thought ‘if only if I have a child, I have to give them the best of the best but how? Everybody wants the best’ the answer was simple, I simply can’t. I focused on abandoned young animals and their care; the love I feel is beyond words.
I agree with u, but why not focus on "abandoned" children rather than animals? We can make for a better world by stopping that loop of abandonment and misery
@@an0n7mo7s no,btw I'm vegan. I think humans should interact with humans,which are rrally more interesting(not about worth),also animals are meant to stay in Nature and left alome as they have been for millions of years
@@dominic6055 pets aren't wildlife. If they were all free, a lot of species would go extinct. Have you ever seen wild Akita Inu, German Sheperds and wild persian cats? I don't like children, I'd like to rescue animals, wild or pets.
I'm a woman too. I too don't want children of my own. I might adopt much later in life. Keep your head up. If someone asks you about children, smile and say it's private. Find a partner who supports your decision or thinks the same way. Never start a serious relationship with anyone before clarifying this. My parents want me to have kids too. But it's not their life. It's mine. And yours is only yours.
Get angry at them instead. What gives them the right to react negatively towards you for not having children? I love the look people give me when i say that i will never have children.
Same here. Im Indian and most of the women create their identity through marriage or kids. Im simply not like that. I have a career but it’s never enough.
I completely agree, even if at a later stage you feel like having one please adopt. There are millions of children who are waiting for that care and love. Use your productive years in building up yourselves and do something for the society.
yeah totaltly agree with the doing stuff for society.But you gotta realize some people are good and raisining children and that is what they do for society thats totally a good thing and your making it sound like its not
I agree with his statement and justification but my justification is different. I think we'll experience less problems in society and it's about time our population comes to an end for the sake of peace and many things.
i feel the same way about child baring and india's population, but whenever i bring up this topic the other person always say "there's something wrong with you, mentally or even sexually, for choosing that"
Problem is that American culture pushes the reproduction and marriage, hence high divorce rates. Younger generations are choosing not to have kids and honestly, I'm thankful for that
@Alex Chaudhari : Being replaced by whom? Studies show much of the world will be brown in 30 years. That is inevitable because white people are a minority all over the world. Stop having children so the world can survive. There will not be enough food for 10 billion people.
In India, there is more cultural pressure to marry, reproduce. But divorce is discouraged. People are socially encouraged to live together for tgeir family. Therefor lower divorce rates. No difference than America or any other country but more conservative.
Fantastic Sadhguru. No one from any walk of life has the courage, wisdom or clarity to say this. Very Very fortunate to have someone like YOU. Sadhguru is the only one on this planet who brings this awareness with utmost clarity. PRANAMS
@jujubigm1 legacy? Are you a king that needs to produce and heir to the throne? If not, there's absolutely no reason or "legacy" that someone has to leave behind 🤣
@jujubigm1 We have a celebrity here. Autograph please. While you are signing my autograph, can you enumerate your services to the benefit of humanity. I want to build a monument for your legacy.
I appreciate this being said as a childfree woman in my 30s who doesn’t want kids. Part of me feels something is wrong with me for not wanting kids and that I may miss out on something but I just don’t have the desire to raise children.
@@ss0498 your not doing good thing for the world at all by not having kids. your literly doing nothing in that department as a matter of fact. but I guess if your busy doing other stuff that is really helping society that would be good reason
I don't feel guilty about not wanting to have children. Some people called me egoistical while i think it's much more egoistical to give a life to a soul who had no choice but to come to this planet just because some human wanted them to
Before i saw this video, i was always wondering if any one is out there who doesn’t want to have a child, somehow I always felt, i am the only one. I am so much impressed with all the comments, it’s absolutely normal to either have a child or choose not to have a. Child. Parenthood should be a choice, not compulsion. My huge respect to all the people out there who have been able to speak out regarding their decision not to have a child.. it takes a lot of courage!!
YEEEEEEEEESSS! Thankyou! So much truth! As a childfree woman, this makes me really happy. ChildFree people are going to save the world from environmental disaster!
Thank you. It gave me chills to hear anyone, especially a man, say to give me an award for not making more humans. My own mother thinks im less of a person bc i dont want children.
This man needs to get a medal for his statement which is spot on. Overpopulation is one of the major reason I don't want children and support any women who choose this path too. I don't want any child to suffer in this world the way it is.
This man is speaking some amazing words, he is so wise we are overpupulated as is and driving other animals to extinction. prices getting higher everything is rising becasue it is getting hard to supply everyone. people who wanan be childfree must be awarded and people who adopt should be awarded even more
This is the best thing . If my family/friends asks me why I don’t want to have kids, I’ll just show them this video. I’m 23 now but I have made up my mind not to have kids and I will not regret it later because how can I regret something I never wanted!
lol at age of 15 I realised that I never wanted children ever-i dont hate children-your stuck with them all your life-here I have lived a happier life than people with children-i have not missed a life without a child-i have a fullfilled happy and content life
AAAAAAMEEEEEEEEEN to this whole video....I wish more people felt this way. this needs to go viral and more people need to be educated about the consequences of child bearing.....There are too many people starving and not getting basic necessities on this earth in general we have to stop this
Bang on. Exactly what I thought and trying to prove for last many years . But problem is when you express your view in public ,people like us are called mad , out of world etc. If you don't have a child people think you are not a part of society and women's are not invited in many social functions.
Dear we don't need such people who don't respect our feelings trust me ,they are not worth spending your valuable time ,I too don't want a child ,but I love all my relatives children and they too lv me ,just be close to God and feel you are enough for yourself and enjoy your life ,rest of the universe will come to you trust me.
It is society issue. Why you bother about society. First of all you get liberation moment to moment. One can't sortout your issue . You create a comfortable environment for your self. Society will be telling one or the other things. How ever you are . The mind which can be changed is ours own. Be cool and calm. Do what you feel is right.
my mom cannot understand why I dont want to have my own kids and instead want to adopt a child. ive explained and she still thinks it doesnt make sense and that I will change my mind
I totally agree that we are bringing our own child b/s we need involvement and we chose to involve with the people considered as "ours". I think the core task is to redefine "OURS" in a broader way "human beings as ONE".
Only couples who are committed and are mentally, physically and emotionally healthy individuals should have children. Rest all are better off without having any because they can't guarantee wholesome kids which is an injustice to the kids.
Motherhood is not for me. I know for a fact that I COULD NOT deal with being a mother. It’s just way too hard and too much to Deal with. I like peace and quiet. I’m a bit of an introvert
Being born in 1959 - I was born on the post-cusp of the baby boomerafter WWII generation- I was heading for the marriage have kids subsciption way - but I decided in the 1980's that I could NOT subject the world to another all consuming human/destructive life form nor could I subject my innocent child to the torment that the human constructed world would subject it to if it was fortunate to have a free mind....the kindest thing that you could ever do for your children would be not to have them.............
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I do not want children. Love them. Have no desire to have one. If I ever change my mind I will adopt. In the mean time I want to travel and help children that are already on the planet that need help. No need to have more when there are so many who need help.
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Yes great decision salute 🙏🙏
I love your decision I pray God to live with your decision
Very true same thought ✨
Yes . Same thought ❤️
Can I also say that people who choose to adopt children who are unfortunate and give them the opportunity to live a good life should definitely be awarded?
Just do it don't wait for any awards
Adoption is the best
@@sreyosisen7146 convincing a inconvenient pregnant woman to spare the baby's life and give the baby to you and she gets paid
Edit: sorry if you think child trafficking, that is not my intent
So true😭
Yes, they most definitely do need to be awarded. They're giving, not just consuming like many very large familial aggregates.
"What you are looking for is not a child. What you are looking for is involvement."
Not all but so true to many who wanted kids. They wanted a mini-me, someone they can project their desires into, someone they can control.
That's biological dummy. There is a spiritual order above all this that dictates reproduction a primary mechanical function of this miracle of life. Sorry for calling you dummy but stop being one and have good smart loving children
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@@juntjoonunya9216 you are here as well , what a pest.
@@ragnarbrodaty1963 right. "pest". People are such pests. Let's not have them right?
@@juntjoonunya9216 agree with you
What you’re looking for is not a child. What you’re looking for is involvement.
Absolutely spot on.
Exactly cause if you simply wanted a child you would adopt.
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Enlightening. I chose not to have kids 25 years ago, due to many reasons, among which overpopulation. This is the first time I feel validated. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
laura&kia thank you for your service and sacrifice for all humanity! Your choice is more than valid. It’s appreciated
@@MattHazeMusic Agreed!
Same, and good on you
@Plamen Stoev it is fine for you. It is also fine for others to choose not to have children.
@Plamen Stoev The thing is it doesn't matter where people are being born - they'll still be included in the 8 billion people on the planet who have to survive on it and impact it. Which country the people come from is not as relevant as how many people there are in total. A lot of people use this argument but it's closed-minded. What we do affects us all, not just the borders or culture we live within. And the idea that we need to replace ourselves (2 children to replace 2 parents) and sustain the current population isn't really necessary. We don't need to replace a population of 8 billion people.
"If your identity naturally shifts beyond your biological self, you will see these needs wil completely disappear."
wise words. its a choice if you want it to be
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These were never "needs" in the first place.
You can not make a functioning mirror(healthy specie) with broken pieces(individual living beings who suffer).
Then why didn't such a need just disappear for sadguru and his late wife?
According to UNICEF, almost 10,000 children become orphans every day. According to internationally accepted figures, there are at least 140 million orphans in the world.
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And if some couples want to adopt they should be encouraged to adopt
What about orphans with parents still alive
And people still wanted more children!
Thank you this information is valuable to me
I can relate to this so much. Me and my girlfriend have decided to not have children. I'm indian. I think more Indians should follow this as we are so overpopulated.
There is so much more to life than just having children!
Your thoughts are very well appreciated 🤗👍
No, you are so wrong. But if you cannot believe otherwise, then no, you don't deserve to have children but then what are you here for other than take oxygen? You're useless to God if you believe there can be too many of his children.
@@juntjoonunya9216 Kaun hain ye log. Kaha se aate hain ye log. 😳
@@Hanukkah360 repeat in English with courage
As a woman who has decided not to have a child, I applaud this man.
Sorry for your loss
Best decision you will ever make is not to have kids so you don't regret having them.
and I applaud you my dear.. i have made the same decision .. ill adopt
@@vincentcisa-pare7649loss ??? She said she "chose" not to have children
Have to show this to all my relatives!
what reaction of your relative after watching please reply ????
@@truthtruth8950 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
@@truthtruth8950 we dont know all that. we need a kid and make one soon... will be their reaction :D :D
@@electrical58 let it be what ever their reaction. At the same time we must be careful not to have child . If possible not marriage only. Other wise we will be in ditch. No one in the whole universe will come to our rescue. Thus we have to help ourselves, ignoring their words.
Haha 😜That’s a good one
Lots of kids on the street, too many in the system. We need to be a community of parents, looking out for these guys now.
But but... my community shuns me if I choose not to have children.
What should I do?
They already are awarded. They lived a happy and less stress life because of less responsibility. Isn't that a great award?
@@God.sDaughter tell ya community where to shove it
And/Or....
Do what YOU wanna do with your life.
This is your choice not anyone else's.
Its ur body, mind and decision.
@@greenleafyman1028 but can I just have some chocolate
@@alphascorpii3757 Yes sure, here it is!
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Most sensible person on earth. Wish we had many men like sadhguru around us.
Baby ke liye help chahiye
"Most sensible person on earth."
So the most sensible person on Earth say we should stop existing?
That's not being sensible. That's the polar opposite.
Well we won't have much of a chance at that if we're all believing this lie and not having children. Only our leaders will and they'll have the last laugh.
@@Briselance he isn't saying that we shouldn't exist...he said that having children isn't must if one doesn't want them.. and the bit about tiger was a joke..
@@Briselance u don't need to make a baby to exist
I love him! I’m 27 year old female and I just really don’t want to have kids... I just have other wants and goals in life and fhaving a child will ruin my life.. and at the same time Society cases anxiety in me because I feel like it’s not right.
We need to accept women who don’t want kids! And men!
Society doesn't dictate your life. Think about all things you'll be able to do if you don't have a child that demands/needs all your time. There's so much more to life than getting married and producing offsprings. More power to you!!
You'll then want the kids of those who had them to care for you in your old age
@@obviouslyasockpuppet In that case,why are so many elderly people abandoned by their children?? Some are forced to leave their own house and some are thrown away in old age homes like unwanted furniture.
women like you are really make me happy
Being Childfree is a proud thing to say
I wish you achieve your life goals
I actually enjoy the look my family gives me when i say that they will never be grandparents from my side. It's like they just took it for granted and it's fun crushing that. Sounds harsh yes, but it's my life and choice and not theirs. I love the children i don't have too much to let them live in this world.
It makes sence. But nobody is awarding these women!
@Jose Stickman ain’t that the truth
@Jose Stickman I do think they need the support. But they are valued over other people who suffer, and their needs are paid for excessively as well.
Right! Instead society is ostracizing them
@@AftermathNihil Exactly correct. It's so upsetting.
I knew from my very young age I did not want children, nor marriage, and I feel great with that decision
Good. You know what is good for you and was able to carry on further with your firm determination.
But how do you explain it to your parents
@@shanubhogrohit9052 it is not only in this case or any situation, not only to our parents or it might be to whomsoever it might be. Explain your feelings, if they are ready to listen. However you too will come to know what is running in their mind, directly or in directly. Catch hold of it and analyze . How ever if they agree or not , you have to make your own decision and first of all you have to be independent financially, physically, emotionally and mentally . Till that you have to wait, some how or just drag the days. To be ready to stay independent , life long also. If they didn't agree. Ultimately it all depends on our past kamma / merits. Sincerely putting effort in any matter , which is right according to you - is okay. At the same time, it must be in the right path. Every one thinking, behaving differs . Due to their past track records. Every one is born due to their own kamma. Now it has to be nullified by doing good deeds. For that, time, energy, patience is needed. No one in this whole universe, can give time for us . We have to make time for it .Parents are only mediators to come to this world according to our past life kamma. Just you go through buddha's teachings ( natures law ) , once. Day by day you understand how we come to this life and how we have to get liberation (paticcasamuppada - dependentorigination AND paticcanirodha - how to nullify rebirth ) . You can search in net or Contact any Buddhist monk personally or refer to bikku bodhis , dhamma talks on net or according to your comfort zone . HAVE a nice future ahead.
@@synthiathapa4582 Thank you ( mind ) for your (mind's) concern synthia thapa . Wish also , not to have rebirth . How ever it is the wish of every one ( mind ) knowingly or unknowingly , not to suffer . Thus inevitably we ( mind ) have to cleanse our ( mind ) kamma . So that we don't have birth itself. Thus where is the question of marriage or children arises . Thank you (mind)once again for your ( mind) concern and well Wishes.
Synthia Thapa
Why are you so angry at him/her?
Why are you so miserable?
I'm 35 i am physically eligible to give birth but i choose not to. I want a child but don't want to give birth. By making this decision i went through lot of arguments in my family. At the end i won now i'm planning to adopt a child and i'm so happy with my decision ❤️
So happy to hear this Dipika ..glad to hear that your family is supporting this...may god bless you to give a new life for adopted kid
You are a real hero!
More power to you love 🥺❤
Adopt 2 more lot of small children are there please god will bless u.
Wishing you all the best.
I just hope society would normalize women who don't want children. I have always known that motherhood is not for me and even at 24 I cannot picture myself with a child. Stop glorifying motherhood and giving birth is not the ultimate aim of a woman's life.
I just don't want a husband but I have always want to 1 or 2 kids but not more than that, but in India we need to get married and have kids so I am gonna be childless and single
You'll be glad being childfree with a husband in your 30s.
Ma Parvati had said that without being a mother a woman's life isn't completed and if it comes on glorifying motherhood yes we will gloryify not only motherhood but also parenthood cause God and parents are the same and infact lord Shiva wished to have a mother also so today's modern so called "culture" is saying that we should not gloryify motherhood and parenthood without those parents you wouldn't be here.
No being a parent is a fantastic thing, if its not for you, well thats your choice but don't lower people who choose to because of your insecurities. We won't lower ourselves to prop you up ESPECIALLY if there's nothing special about you.
I don’t have an issue with glorification of Mother’s but I don’t think a women who is childfree should be shamed. I’m childfree and I’m happy I made That choice. Once you have a child you can’t give the child back. I would not want my child to be adopted or put into foster-care.
So GLAD that I never reproduced. I am 40 now and still child free and I am glad that there are others like me.
I'm 19 but I would probably be childless too.
I'm 19 but i support you ❤
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I'm approaching 30. I will likely be childfree.
I, too, am childfree. Most people have children unthinkingly. Most have children because of programming. There are TOO MANY UNFIT parents out there.
After this video, I admire this man 100000000 times more!! Thanks for advocating for us childfree women!!!
Couldn’t agree more 😊
Yess
Yessss
@@elenachiritescu2681 nooooo
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We are not the endangered species , we are the danger species 😂🙏✌
Kya thought.. isko award do
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Sahi kha bhai.
So if had the choice between having your reproductive organs removed or a polar bear, you would choose yourself?
That is actually a good and true saying.
I feel proud to have chosen this decision of not having my own child. For me my plants and stray animals I care for are very much like my children. And they are best than humans
Hats off for your beautiful and compassionate thoughts.... 👍
Hai, what about marriage, do you believe in that concept?
This is so very beautiful 💗
I appreciate your will power ! Thank you
Actions what decides your worth, not your specie!
You do not choose what you born as but you have FULL CONTROL on what person you will become!
There are many amazing people out there who deserve the respect!
Please judge people fairly!
People who choose to not make a BIOLOGICAL kid are the most selflessness in the world!!! Love you all and I'm glad to be part of that!
Adopting is the next level! Hope I can do it one day!
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Your not selfless for not having a biological kid😂😂 you've got to be joking. Adopting is selfless though.
@@weirdflex8158 I don't remember saying I'm selfless. Adoption is still adoption because I want to. At least it's gonna help a children who's already there.
@@godnyx117 you said people who don't make biological children are automatically selfless😂 your not selfless for doing nothing
@@weirdflex8158 I exaggerated! But it doesn't matter, the point is the same. They are more selfless than the people who do choose to make kids.
It's 2022 and society still considers an adult woman who isn't a mother a failure, a weirdo, a reject, an old cat lady. How terrible that our value is still tied to whether we give men children or not.
i got called a waste of life by someone i was in a relationship with . i think that hurt me more than the other various ways in which she abused me
like … to say my life is a waste simply because i don’t wanna mindlessly bring another actual human being onto this earth , through my actual body … major hurt piece
All these just reaffirms my decision to not have kids
I disagree. We live in an increasingly more anti family society which probabpy started when women entered the workforce.
Girls are encouraged to get an education and have a great career. No teacher at my school encouraged me to seek to start a family. It was all about finding your life purpose through career.
@vprez4925 or have you not thought why would your teachers be telling young kids such highly inappropriate stuff and saying to start a family when yall are just literal kids?
"If we do not consciously contain our population, nature will do it to us in a very cruel way" - Sadhguru
I have never found an explanation for having a child that was not rooted in the ego.
"someone that will truly love me and vice versa", "so I can be fulfilled", "MY purpose", "I want to have a family", "I want someone to take care of me".
It's always about "me", the ego.
But so is having an animal and pet
@@fleuramolly6169 that's true. Pet ownership is messed up too.
True
There is nothing messed up about having children or a pet. If you continue twisting everything like that then human kind will never do acts of service because it will turn out we all do it to satisfy our own egos. The reasons for wanting to have children are not always the same for everyone so please stop generalizing :)
@@anleeeee5554 "acts of service" cannot be compared to any of what was listed above: egotiscal behavior when having kids; because putting more humans in this world is not an act of service and will never be.
He's 1000% bang on. He's a classic, articulate, & a clever individual. "Genius" 👌👊👏🙏
Um... Not at all. 100 wrong and deluded
Calssic 🤣, then why did he gave birth to a daughter her age is 30 at the time of her birth the world population closer to 6 billion, mr prediction guru should have corrected himself before giving adivce to others
@@josephjoseph3702 its his decision. So?
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I agree 100%. I can say as a Woman I am never having kids or getting married. I like my freedom way too much and I feel like having a child would just tie me down. I think a lot of people have kids because they think that's what they're meant to do. Get Married, have kids, buy a house etc.
Truee
Same here
Most of my friends have children and they keep nagging me with "it's now your turn" and that is so irritating..I keep it open that I don't want to have kids and I always get some crazy looks like I'm an alien but I don't care. I don't want to have kids. Final!
I understand you! People always want to judge others for not having kids.🤦🏿♀️ I’m ChildFree forever!🥳❤️
you're right
I'm not exception, all people around me said that I have to have at least a kid when I got married. But I don't care, my husband and I really happy at this moment.
They're toxic frnds with no boundaries
Well they are not friends at all.
I studied Sustainable Development, and every topic we researched or discussed (such as biodiversity, energy, city growth, ocean pollution, climate)
a strong reduce of population growth is a solution.
Yes only solution is population control bill as soon as possible
@@munirajc3575 Not in all countries just in over populated ones.
Exactly I agree with you
That's brainwashing by the elite to keep you dumb and controlled. If you believe it, then good, don't breed another dumb human. I and others who know better will better populate this place. Fools
@@munirajc3575 bill? As in bill gates? Yeah. He's got you covered
I'm 28. I do not want kids. I hope to find a love who feels the same way.
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You wont find. Buy a cat and wine instead
@@myhonorwasloyalty here comes jobless another loser frustrated with his life and having extreme amount of free time to comment negative every place where people are positive...go on..keep whining.
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Me and my girlfriend decided same to not have kids after marriage.
great you all
pankaj ... is your parent accept your decision ??
kudos to you guys
What a miserable pointless life you will have.
@@bluebelloftibet6678 at least they will have a life, bringing a new life to the world is simply ending your own life.
I loved my kids too much to bring them into this world.
Wow i will borrow your wise words
You don't have kids. You don't love them enough to give them life. That's not love. They would want to live
@@kaydiangel2445 We all have given by the Creator of babies the element of choice. This choice is executed by all loving parents too. After 1, 2, or 3 children or more. They do decide. NO MORE. But the Creator commanded to those who worship him, to be "Be Fruitful & MULTIPLY". But how many modern parents do faithfully multiply X ? Extremely few. They too exercize a choice of how many children to have. That too after having experienced loving and wonderful children in existence. Shouldn't it have been, MORE THE MERRIER? Just like them, I too choose to exercise my human right not to have even 1 child. I like kids. But I dont want to bring my own kids on this terrible planet, nothing wrong with earth itself but all is wrong with its non thinking inhabitants!!!! My non existing children are not sad or suffering anywhere according to science or spirituality.
@Kaydi Hale We all have given by the Creator of babies the element of choice. This choice is executed by all loving parents too. After 1, 2, or 3 children or more. They do decide. NO MORE. But the Creator commanded to those who worship him, to be "Be Fruitful & MULTIPLY". But how many modern parents do faithfully multiply X ? Extremely few. They too exercize a choice of how many children to have. That too after having experienced loving and wonderful children in existence. Shouldn't it have been, MORE THE MERRIER? Just like them, I too choose to exercise my human right not to have even 1 child. I like kids. But I dont want to bring my own kids on this terrible planet, nothing wrong with earth itself but all is wrong with its non thinking inhabitants!!!! My non existing children are not sad or suffering anywhere according to science or spirituality.
@@ccilsolero8364 no dummy. Not wise AT ALL
Never wanted children and so glad I never had any!!!
CarrieToo but doesn’t get lonely sometimes?
His argument makes sense for India or china not Europe or North America.
@@BruhBruh-pz2ww So we should brings kids into the world because we're bored?
@@BruhBruh-pz2ww Not at all! I've never wanted kids and don't regret my decision. It's amazing when you don't have to attend parents meetings, go for soccer practice, or cancel tours because of a kid. You get to spend time socializing or building yourself up by engaging in a hobby or building your career.
Awesome Sauce but what if reach ur old age and start to lose ur health nobody will be there for u ; that is what i fear the most
Finally... !!!! I am a girl and I am not married yet.. and I don't want to have kids. Whenever I say this to this world, they react like am a monster or not fit to live..!
This speech is kinda funny and aaawesome giving me a positive vibe😂😅😁
Carry on! Society is always forcing people to keep going with predefined roles and stereotypes... so sad.
Exactly. Like how is it a crime not to bring someone into existence, someone that doesn't even exist nor has any intrest in coming here? If they tought about being a parent in a more philosophical way they would realise that they are the monsters. Don't let them force their stereotypes onto you!
Much love and Keep it up girl😘👏
@@thiamath.. Thank you👍 And yes.. Indian society is so good when it comes to following culture dogmas!
@@O43 .Thank you so much 😁👍🔥
Me too! :D
I'm 46 years old and decided long ago I didn't want to have children
I am 31 years old and not a single day I have regreted not having any kids 😳 I feel free!!!
Do not have and will not have a child. If needed, I'll adopt. Wonder how many Indian women, families will follow this. They may agree but very few have the conviction & foresight to follow. Thank you Sadhguru ji for speaking my mind as well .❤️👃🏽
Same
Bruh facts
I can TOTALLY and FULLY LOVE a child or children who are not biologically mine. This talk is so refreshing.
@@runningbear6391 you think that doesnt happen with none adopted kids aswell?
Many are fighting in the comment section..
Believe me I love kids but...they are also genuinely annoying to me. I can take care of them for few hours but not 24 hours. I have always have been alone on my own...this is impossible for me. I even hate being around people
My Son and Daughter in Law said right from the start they didn't want kid's and I admire them for it! They are both very happy with each other, and that's what matters.
they should be awarded for being so responsible. the parents who have children, but become finically, physically and mentally stable before thinking about children, should be rewarded too.
"Nature will do it in a very cruel way" Watching this in 2021, yep he was so right about that.
Spot on indeed! Depopulation is happening by nature's law.
@@RatnaDewiWithinnature's law goofy mofo who belvies in that😂
But still people kept having children during COVID.
why would they not covid is not bad for young people mostly@@anurag.twentysix
This whole video was powerful
_"When we take death into our hands, should we not take birth into our hands?"_ -Sadhguru
We didn't have control of death . In fact , people want to live forever. Giving birth is choice but death is ultimate truth
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OK this guy is my new hero!
Me 47 no children and it’s the best decision I made. ❤️❤️❤️
Comment section is filled with my kind of people.. thanks to all for not extra populating this world
Bill gates also says the world is overpopulated. And he has 3 children😂
@@jesusismycity3202 😂😂
it's so nice to hear someone who respects those of us who chose not to bring children into the world.
I wasn't going to have children just because society tries to pressure me into doing it because *they say* I should.
There are far too many "baby daddy" seeking women out there who are more than making up for those of us who have chosen to remain childfree.
I will be 86 years old in the year 2050.
I'm sure if resources are already critically reduced, they will reserve them for the young, important and healthy people. They will probably have an "easy and painless" way to -dispose- of us old and unwanted.
Omg so true
You are NOT disposable and no other being can decide of your faith!
My earliest memory as a child is sitting in my closet and thinking "I never want to be a mommy" and now at 27 I still don't want to have any kids, and am looking into getting a hysterectomy.
I also don't want to be a mommy lol. I was thinking, why do you want a hysterectomy? I also wanted one, but now I don't want it anymore. I'm not saying it won't be good for you, but for me it wasn't. I would love to talk to you if want to, so you can make sure your decision isn't something you will regret. There's other types of birth control, some irreversible as well, but not as invasive. We could talk about what I choose too.
A hysterectomy messes up your hormones. Trust me, you dont want to go through immediate menopause.
Bringing a soul into this world, means bringing a soul into a world of suffering.
So true!
Its the other way around , you will suffer more financially if you bring a soul.
@@elelle726nothing true about it sounds like a cope to me😂
@@elelle726everyday struggle to stay alive? Do you live in a warzone?
@@christinamcdonald7308nothing true about it😂 you live in an imaginary negative world that exists only in your own head break free!
Our parents must listen to this and respect and accept our decision to not to have a Child. Me and my husband decided long back that we don’t want children. Our parents they just keep pushing and they can’t accept that this is a choice. I love Mother Earth and the way humans are handling it, soon mother nature will show her way to recover from the damage we as human beings are doing . We should become conscious about our planet and at least try to save our home before it’s too late.
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The world is not even close to collapsing your comment makes no sense😂
Full support from Finland to Sadhguru 👍
Hi from Sweden 👋🏼🇸🇪🇫🇮😃
Every word of sadguru makes sense.
An epitome of clarity.
Yes !!!
Sending love and the best energies your way ♡
Sense 🤣, then why did he gave birth to a daughter her age is 30 at the time of her birth the world population is closer to 6 billion, mr prediction guru should have followed what he have told before giving adivce to others.
@@josephjoseph3702 well he didn't say woman who gives birth should be punished..
Reproduction for me is not really a necessity.
Unless we are endangered( even then, the universe doesn’t need humans nor the earth. It’ll be havoc for a while, and then nature will take over. Our extinction doesn’t sound bad to me.), it will never be a necessity.
Miserable life for ever. wait when your turn 70 nobodys gonna stand for you
@@alphascorpii3757 yes that's right
@@buuzy252 is that why there are so many parents in nursing homes?
Having kids won’t assure you are taken care of when older.
Kids aren’t the only form of family. I consider my closest friends family. They can be there for me, my cousins can be there for me, or I can choose to be alone which isn’t bad in some people’s eyes.
Not everybody is to be a parent. Why are you so triggered about their personal decisions?
@@alphascorpii3757 your closest friends were born just like you born and just like future kids deserve to born. You are lying, your family is more important than your friends no matter what happens this is a human thing you will never ever change it. If you mom dies you're extremely sad, same about your best friends but more than ever with your mom. Those childs won't stay kids, they'll grow and they'll be older than the person you are today and you'll need them. Ive never found something more important than my family.
Felt so good after reading comments.I thought I'm the only one with this kind of thinking.🙂🙂🙂
Some people in this society treat differently, the ones who are not married and those who get married,as if it's an achievement..this mentality needs to be changed completely! It's a choice if u don't wanna get married...thinking that they might be having some past bad experiences,some health etc issues n many more is something which needs to be corrected..
I see only one solution and that is
" Nature will do it in a cruel way " .
Corona virus
And now it does
And then COVID 19 happened
I wanted to listen to this as I am Indian and married for 6 years now. We both don't want child but the society and people can't accept the fact. Few days back one sanyasi who is our relative called us and said if my husband doesn't have a child then he is not paying "pitririn". And said if my husband is not capable of being a father then he should appoint someone from his family to do the task with me. What a shame!!!In 2022 when there are so many ways to get a child how can some sadhu say this???
Thanks for the speech, I needed to hear this. As when most of the people continuously say the same thing, at one point it makes me think that I am not doing the right thing 🙏
Don't listen to dumb people who blindly live by old obsolete rules without touch with the ground realities of the present...
You and your partner has every right to choose and live the life you guys want...
They just want you to suffer! Believe yourself!
Stick to your guns! Only follow your heart ❤.
Next time take off show shoes and smash that sanyasi who talk rubbish like this
Hallelujah! Thank you 🙏 for saying this. There is so much pressure on us to conform and be just like everyone else.
Yes !!!
Sending love and the best energies your way ♡
I don’t want kid but that doesn’t mean I hate kids, I love them . Earth is full of human this is very important to not have children , people always said to me that just giving birth a single child doesn’t harm environment. Oh my dear those people it is harmful, in present scenario everyone is a burden on our home we called it ‘THE EARTH’
We need more speech like this. Every other day we get to hear news"This person blessed with baby boy ,that person blessed with baby girl " .
The office mailbox are bombarded with such emails
@@anandshekhar1749 which emails
yeah sounds like jealously tbh
@@weirdflex8158 you left so many comments, I can tell you would like to be childfree but you are not courageous enough to choose that so you are trying to prove to yourself that you are right by shitting in comments. You think you are the first one here like that? LOL
This wisdom won't sink into our country people, a law for population control is the need of the hour, Thank you Sadhguru ❤
I’m 44 and since my childhood years seeing the vast number of humans scared me. I always thought ‘if only if I have a child, I have to give them the best of the best but how? Everybody wants the best’ the answer was simple, I simply can’t. I focused on abandoned young animals and their care; the love I feel is beyond words.
I agree with u, but why not focus on "abandoned" children rather than animals? We can make for a better world by stopping that loop of abandonment and misery
@@an0n7mo7s no,btw I'm vegan. I think humans should interact with humans,which are rrally more interesting(not about worth),also animals are meant to stay in Nature and left alome as they have been for millions of years
@@an0n7mo7s that means population is too much and Nature finds a way to balance the whole ecosystem
@@dominic6055 pets aren't wildlife. If they were all free, a lot of species would go extinct. Have you ever seen wild Akita Inu, German Sheperds and wild persian cats? I don't like children, I'd like to rescue animals, wild or pets.
Me worrying about my future because my parents might react negatively on not having kids at all. Besides, I just want to be free to do what I like.
I'm a woman too. I too don't want children of my own. I might adopt much later in life.
Keep your head up. If someone asks you about children, smile and say it's private. Find a partner who supports your decision or thinks the same way. Never start a serious relationship with anyone before clarifying this.
My parents want me to have kids too. But it's not their life. It's mine. And yours is only yours.
Get angry at them instead. What gives them the right to react negatively towards you for not having children? I love the look people give me when i say that i will never have children.
Why do you care about what would they say?
@@alexxks5165 thats just how it is in many countrys
Same here. Im Indian and most of the women create their identity through marriage or kids. Im simply not like that. I have a career but it’s never enough.
This is the most sensible argument I have ever heard. I am not trapped by my own biology but this doesn't mean I don't have things to give
He officially just became my favorite. We need more people speaking these truths
“Nature will do it in a cruel way.” HELLO CORONAVIRUS
It only wiped out 1 million
didn't even make a dent in the fertile population
irrelevant, stop panicking
I.e: covid-19, and lot of natural disorders
@Audrey David not just teenage mothers, women who are in their 20's or 30's as well
I decided to not have children because of this virus. I lost all my strenght by fighting it, I wont torment myself by having children.
I will not even marry. Bringing a child into this kind of world is a sin towards that child.
Hope you would change your mind one day before its too late.
Especially if we are not rich
I completely agree, even if at a later stage you feel like having one please adopt. There are millions of children who are waiting for that care and love. Use your productive years in building up yourselves and do something for the society.
I will make sure to breed at least 50+ children with 4 wives hopefully I can do it
yeah totaltly agree with the doing stuff for society.But you gotta realize some people are good and raisining children and that is what they do for society thats totally a good thing and your making it sound like its not
I 100% agree with Sadhguru.
Sending love and the best energies your way ♡》
I agree with his statement and justification but my justification is different. I think we'll experience less problems in society and it's about time our population comes to an end for the sake of peace and many things.
i feel the same way about child baring and india's population, but whenever i bring up this topic the other person always say "there's something wrong with you, mentally or even sexually, for choosing that"
@@pavanbr8060 ya same about me family said me mad . your decision
@@pavanbr8060 most Indians don't think over population is a problem.
Problem is that American culture pushes the reproduction and marriage, hence high divorce rates.
Younger generations are choosing not to have kids and honestly, I'm thankful for that
Sure because being replaced and ending bloodlines is a better alternative right?
Come to India
Nothing matters
Everyone wants u to get married n have kids
@Alex Chaudhari : Being replaced by whom? Studies show much of the world will be brown in 30 years. That is inevitable because white people are a minority all over the world. Stop having children so the world can survive. There will not be enough food for 10 billion people.
In India, there is more cultural pressure to marry, reproduce. But divorce is discouraged. People are socially encouraged to live together for tgeir family. Therefor lower divorce rates. No difference than America or any other country but more conservative.
Fantastic Sadhguru. No one from any walk of life has the courage, wisdom or clarity to say this.
Very Very fortunate to have someone like YOU.
Sadhguru is the only one on this planet who brings this awareness with utmost clarity.
PRANAMS
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One of the most important videos I've come across🙏🙏🙏
Thanks for appreciation dear..I also want a girl who don't demand childs after marriage :)
@jujubigm1 You are the one being indoctrinated to just have kids. You don't have to have kids to be happy.
@Jose Stickman Exactly
@jujubigm1 legacy? Are you a king that needs to produce and heir to the throne? If not, there's absolutely no reason or "legacy" that someone has to leave behind 🤣
@jujubigm1 We have a celebrity here. Autograph please. While you are signing my autograph, can you enumerate your services to the benefit of humanity.
I want to build a monument for your legacy.
I appreciate this being said as a childfree woman in my 30s who doesn’t want kids. Part of me feels something is wrong with me for not wanting kids and that I may miss out on something but I just don’t have the desire to raise children.
Nothing is wrong with you and be proud that you are doing a great service for the planet. Engage in hobbies of your interest.
@@ss0498 your not doing good thing for the world at all by not having kids. your literly doing nothing in that department as a matter of fact. but I guess if your busy doing other stuff that is really helping society that would be good reason
@@weirdflex8158 And by having kids you would be doing more harm to the world than not having them 🥱.
"Being human beings, it'll be nice if we do it consciously, isn't it?" I don't want Mother Nature to do it to us.
We ARE from nature.
If we think before our actions then we support it because we are finally acting natural!
I want to have kids..not from self...but those who are abandoned and without parents..just waiting to be self sufficient financially...
I don't feel guilty about not wanting to have children. Some people called me egoistical while i think it's much more egoistical to give a life to a soul who had no choice but to come to this planet just because some human wanted them to
Before i saw this video, i was always wondering if any one is out there who doesn’t want to have a child, somehow I always felt, i am the only one. I am so much impressed with all the comments, it’s absolutely normal to either have a child or choose not to have a. Child. Parenthood should be a choice, not compulsion. My huge respect to all the people out there who have been able to speak out regarding their decision not to have a child.. it takes a lot of courage!!
We need thousand of Guru such Sadhguru , best regards from Jakarta Indonesia 🙏🏻
Question: Has Indonesia moved it's capital from Jakarta?
Mungkin Indonesia akan menjadi tempat yang lebih aman dan nyaman ya mas andai saja ada ribuan guru seperti beliau.
@@mikeharvey2629 no
Sadhguru is an amazing inspiration, don't you agree? Love from a small youtuber :)
Yes I agree..🤗🤗🤗by the way may Ur channel flourish...may god bless frm India 😊😊
🙏🙏🙏🙏🎉
Patrick Cogen you are 100 percent correct
"If you don't want to control it, Nature will do it in a very cruel way"... Amd it had came not sooner
YEEEEEEEEESSS! Thankyou! So much truth! As a childfree woman, this makes me really happy. ChildFree people are going to save the world from environmental disaster!
Thank you. It gave me chills to hear anyone, especially a man, say to give me an award for not making more humans. My own mother thinks im less of a person bc i dont want children.
Not only is it a wise choice, the fact that it becomes a choice rather than a biological obligation is incredibly empowering.
In biology it is not a duty as well.
They choice have always been yours!
It is just our current society is toxic!
This man needs to get a medal for his statement which is spot on. Overpopulation is one of the major reason I don't want children and support any women who choose this path too. I don't want any child to suffer in this world the way it is.
Super sir....🎉 U deserve an award really
Huge respect to those women's who are capable of produce child but choose not to make.
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@@feminitytospirituality9792 huge respect mam
Respect for what😂😂
@@weirdflex8158 omh you are triggered))) lol
@@viktoriiachepurna446 i am not lol
This man is speaking some amazing words, he is so wise
we are overpupulated as is and driving other animals to extinction. prices getting higher everything is rising becasue it is getting hard to supply everyone.
people who wanan be childfree must be awarded and people who adopt should be awarded even more
@Shapyra While I don't have children myself, I do agree that, sometimes, adoption is better than procreating.
This is the best thing . If my family/friends asks me why I don’t want to have kids, I’ll just show them this video.
I’m 23 now but I have made up my mind not to have kids and I will not regret it later because how can I regret something I never wanted!
even further , some people even become regretful AFTER having children because of the sacrifice they say they make in order to care for a child …
lol at age of 15 I realised that I never wanted children ever-i dont hate children-your stuck with them all your life-here I have lived a happier life than people with children-i have not missed a life without a child-i have a fullfilled happy and content life
AAAAAAMEEEEEEEEEN to this whole video....I wish more people felt this way. this needs to go viral and more people need to be educated about the consequences of child bearing.....There are too many people starving and not getting basic necessities on this earth in general we have to stop this
Bang on. Exactly what I thought and trying to prove for last many years . But problem is when you express your view in public ,people like us are called mad , out of world etc. If you don't have a child people think you are not a part of society and women's are not invited in many social functions.
We'll create our own social functions and won't invite them...
Why do u want to go in their functions? Ignore..enjoy yourselves..
@@ashasinghraizada2392 haha
Dear we don't need such people who don't respect our feelings trust me ,they are not worth spending your valuable time ,I too don't want a child ,but I love all my relatives children and they too lv me ,just be close to God and feel you are enough for yourself and enjoy your life ,rest of the universe will come to you trust me.
It is society issue. Why you bother about society. First of all you get liberation moment to moment. One can't sortout your issue . You create a comfortable environment for your self. Society will be telling one or the other things. How ever you are . The mind which can be changed is ours own. Be cool and calm. Do what you feel is right.
my mom cannot understand why I dont want to have my own kids and instead want to adopt a child. ive explained and she still thinks it doesnt make sense and that I will change my mind
this is the first common sense regarding human reproduction I have heard to date. Can we also reward women who abort their unwanted pregnancies?
I totally agree that we are bringing our own child b/s we need involvement and we chose to involve with the people considered as "ours". I think the core task is to redefine "OURS" in a broader way "human beings as ONE".
You don't think that. It was programmed into your soft mind so you wouldn't want to reproduce.
The whole world ,animate and inanimate as one. It's not just about humans. But also about animals, plants, soil, water...
Amazing, smart and wise woman in the world who become childfree.
Childfree is a way to get freedom life.
less from suffering.
True, unless a couple is rich and wants to have kids that too less than 3 for god's sake
Only couples who are committed and are mentally, physically and emotionally healthy individuals should have children. Rest all are better off without having any because they can't guarantee wholesome kids which is an injustice to the kids.
You forgot to mention financially strong.
Motherhood is not for me. I know for a fact that I COULD NOT deal with being a mother. It’s just way too hard and too much to Deal with. I like peace and quiet. I’m a bit of an introvert
Good you know that already, some find out after they're already a parent!
Same here!
Being born in 1959 - I was born on the post-cusp of the baby boomerafter WWII generation- I was heading for the marriage have kids subsciption way - but I decided in the 1980's that I could NOT subject the world to another all consuming human/destructive life form nor could I subject my innocent child to the torment that the human constructed world would subject it to if it was fortunate to have a free mind....the kindest thing that you could ever do for your children would be not to have them.............
Let us create community where we many parents can care for the children who are already here, and need us 💚
If you are happy after comming in this world
Then only have kids
I am sure 99% of us are suffering in this world and wishing if they don't exist
nop.........glad to have little suffering
She tried setting up a debate with Sadhguru. She was answered with knowledge.
Fact Factory because he has moon in purva ashadha. Us purva ashadha moon people are undefeated in debates. We don’t lose
It's so sad that so many people don't get this. Or even think about it. It's like they have no idea what's happening to this planet....😥
they don't care, all is family and work and devour the Planet cuz they think it's their right... covid-19 is the start of the rebalancing from Nature