The Painful Consequences Of Not Vetting Your Women Properly

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  • @KiraWabisukeFTW
    @KiraWabisukeFTW 2 роки тому +152

    Best thing I ever did was leaving my toxic ex. If she’s for the streets, she’ll always be an anchor and not a teammate. Walk away and never look back. 🤙

    • @paintopurpose
      @paintopurpose 2 роки тому +3

      Well said

    • @KiraWabisukeFTW
      @KiraWabisukeFTW 2 роки тому

      @@VoiceOfThe nope, who’s/what’s that?

    • @rjskum688
      @rjskum688 2 роки тому +2

      @@VoiceOfThe that dude is full of himself lmao.

    • @KiraWabisukeFTW
      @KiraWabisukeFTW 2 роки тому +2

      @@lonevvolfbatallion4684great work bud, keep it going! 💪

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 2 роки тому +2

      You said it right. An anchor will stall the most driven man and start ruining his works.

  • @creamycanoli201
    @creamycanoli201 2 роки тому +132

    The book is to filter women, not a fixer of them.

  • @Bonfire5th
    @Bonfire5th 2 роки тому +75

    I've read the book 33x but even then still make mistakes once my emotions are engaged with a girl, still working on emotional self control

    • @vickythakur8259
      @vickythakur8259 2 роки тому +24

      Happens all the time. End of the day u r human.

    • @LocPham-kw5ut
      @LocPham-kw5ut 2 роки тому +4

      @@vickythakur8259 Yep, I have to keep going back at least once a year. Strong mind do need regular maintenances.

    • @ferhan.c
      @ferhan.c 2 роки тому +5

      Nothing wrong with Emotions. Its the other Part, thats why its Not working. Hands on the Table, we Always Oversee the Red Flaggs.

    • @kareembrown1673
      @kareembrown1673 2 роки тому +8

      24 time reader myself man… nothing wrong with making mistakes. Those are simply opportunities to learn and learn again.

    • @LukezyM
      @LukezyM 7 місяців тому +6

      Men get weak for beautiful women. It’s just a reality.
      Small increments, getting better with every step.

  • @shortingthetrend
    @shortingthetrend 2 роки тому +29

    17:03 greatest movie ever is gone with the wind. This woman puts him through so much crap and by the end he tells her "frankly my dear, I don't give a damn" and he walks away! The strongest negotiation is willing to walk away and mean it!

  • @SelfieStickAdventures
    @SelfieStickAdventures 2 роки тому +35

    New premium video idea. Vet a story and invite them to the studio for an in person recorded coaching session. I'd love to see their reactions to the no BS responses from coach. Pipe dream. Probably unrealistic. But never say never! Thanks for your hard work and dedication coach.

  • @avenue.central
    @avenue.central 2 роки тому +77

    Not reading the book 10-15 times is like being a starting Quarterback and you've only went through the playbook twice in my opinion.

  • @living_in_revelation
    @living_in_revelation 8 місяців тому +3

    So many of these email videos are addictively entertaining. Makes me want to email you about a ridiculous neighbor chick Who gave me her number 4 times over the course of 3 years when i kept deleting it after getting ghosted then unghosted. From now on I'm not breaking my rule against interest in neighbors/coworkers

  • @rkelly4528
    @rkelly4528 2 роки тому +18

    "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert Glover and "How women test men" by Bruce Bryans are must-reads for students of Corey. But dont get me wrong, 3% Man will always be the foundation.

  • @adamroma2000
    @adamroma2000 2 роки тому +4

    This newsletter sums up why you can’t let your emotions control you and what happens if they do.one of your best newsletters coach!

  • @pigbingo
    @pigbingo 2 роки тому +17

    "Captain Save a Ho to the rescue! " - Classic

  • @heman801
    @heman801 Рік тому +2

    Thanks!

  • @elsquibbs
    @elsquibbs 2 роки тому +13

    He's making that box so dry that her crabs carry canteens.

  • @davidj5425
    @davidj5425 2 роки тому +21

    Having a girl hanging off my arm kissing my neck while out for a casual drink was a nice moment of realization that absorbing Corey's information to where it's nearly automatic has truly paid off. Its important to understand that you can't make any girl act that way, only some will find you attractive but at least from committing to it, you won't talk the next girl that really digs you out of liking you because you'll say and do the right things, which are so often counter intuitive to those that haven't learned (including myself once). Do it.. and hopefully you'll one day have that same moment that I had where living what you like feels natural and easy.

    • @oahts5906
      @oahts5906 2 роки тому +3

      I had the same experience, it was a co worker and she couldn’t keep herself off me, everyone else basically knew we were seeing each other. I did fuck up and it hurts but it is what it is, obviously I haven’t cemented the knowledge as much as I thought and that was a big wake up call. Great experience though, it felt great. No one talks about the haters though lol

    • @davidj5425
      @davidj5425 2 роки тому +2

      @@oahts5906 For sure. I think a lot of guys stop with the pickup/dating knowledge and don't cement the relationship knowledge needed to keep the girl. Also it definitely takes a few years of reading, listening and practicing to override your old programming. There are definitely some humbling moments of slipping up along the way to getting it right.

  • @steveenczi8967
    @steveenczi8967 2 роки тому +3

    I’m finally buying the book I’m excited it will be good to dive into a book

  • @sugag2870
    @sugag2870 11 місяців тому

    "Seeing all the ways I went from the mean in control of the relationship to the woman who was always trying to please her "
    That one hit home for me. Thinking it was the right thing to do

  • @jasoncanon7311
    @jasoncanon7311 2 роки тому +17

    Your phone sessions should be called "when you don't read the book 10 to 15 times help line"

  • @EmileMac-fy5mh
    @EmileMac-fy5mh 7 місяців тому +1

    Corey your humor is too good, one of the reason I come back over and over! XDD

  • @Majorhavoktv
    @Majorhavoktv 25 днів тому +1

    I love Corey Wayne and have read hia book 11 times. My feeling is that I will stay single. I don't want a girlfriend anymore or want to be married again.

  • @stumpymcstumpstump3503
    @stumpymcstumpstump3503 2 роки тому +10

    You can’t make good wine with bad grapes. That one’s gonna stick with me.

  • @sgsuper1150
    @sgsuper1150 5 місяців тому +1

    I like this video. In my case the girlfriend wont make definate plans yet says im not stopping u seeing me. Walking away is the only option.

  • @Siameezkattwo
    @Siameezkattwo 2 роки тому

    The number one mistake I believe man or women make! Nice to talk Coach!

  • @oahts5906
    @oahts5906 2 роки тому +1

    Corey Wayne, you’re badass! You’ve taught me a lot, and you mention real pressing topics a la the matrix, you have my respect!

  • @jamestacular
    @jamestacular 2 роки тому +7

    Here's what I've recently learned. Do not react to your emotions. Listen to them and react objectively. You should not ignore your emotions because what they're telling you is the truth. You can become emotional over both good and toxic women. But you have to be able to understand where your emotions are coming from and what they're really telling you before you react. Do not stay with a manipulative narcissist because you love her. Do not become jealous over a high quality girl attracting competition. These are examples of objectively reacting to what you feel.

  • @AnthonySmith-w3t
    @AnthonySmith-w3t 17 днів тому +1

    YOU'RE THE FUCKING MAN, COACH! It's okay! I'm Italian (from Brooklyn), and I curse every sentence! Works for me! :)

  • @DorkonaRope
    @DorkonaRope 2 роки тому +1

    Coach Corey! Great to see you back again in my feed!! Ive looked forward to your content!

  • @anthonyjacksonjr4812
    @anthonyjacksonjr4812 2 роки тому +2

    Words of wisdom Coach. 💪🏾

  • @VinnieTheCarGuru
    @VinnieTheCarGuru 2 роки тому +6

    You’re awesome thank you for everything

  • @D3ltaFreedom
    @D3ltaFreedom Рік тому

    great video Corey. Very helpful!

  • @nunolopes8926
    @nunolopes8926 10 місяців тому +2

    That gama bulls%^& , bro... 😂

  • @xXR3DSP1R1TXxX
    @xXR3DSP1R1TXxX 2 роки тому

    fire 🔥 video corey!

  • @JRD-wi1bh
    @JRD-wi1bh Рік тому +2

    "You wanna come up with your own pronouns go ahead " 😂

  • @MegaDylancool
    @MegaDylancool 2 роки тому +5

    After you read the book 10-15 times, I suggest reading it again every month to refresh your memory and continue to apply the principles

  • @miryanski
    @miryanski 8 місяців тому +2

    Coach, now thanks to the Red Pill Einsteins there are 100 varieties of "something" male, Alpha and Beta is old school 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @TheMustangGuy
    @TheMustangGuy 2 роки тому +1

    That problem the third guy can't solve would be a lot easier if he wasn't married already!

  • @kvs7876
    @kvs7876 2 роки тому +13

    When you get complacent, that’s when she will look for other adventures with other men..
    Treat every day like it’s an Indiana Jones adventure, and she will never leave you.

    • @Iwillroastthesocksoffyoass
      @Iwillroastthesocksoffyoass 2 роки тому +1

      If it's already in her nothing you do will make a difference.

    • @IwillEndureToTheEnd
      @IwillEndureToTheEnd 2 роки тому +4

      What about her? What would YOU do if SHE is the one that becomes complaceant?

    • @IwillEndureToTheEnd
      @IwillEndureToTheEnd 6 місяців тому

      ​@WorldRunner444 Sure is a good question. By the way, I have left this field of "relationsship science" because it's a bunch of nonsense.
      Look at the comment above from kvs7876. He has read the book 15 times and is now completely brainwashed and thinks it is his DUTY to alone entertain a relationsship - otherwise her entitlement will be activated and she will cheat. So the message is - She MUST be entertained otherwise YOU are the one who will suffer the consequences and this will give you the perspective that you must be a £u$$y worshipper to maintain a relationsship.
      And That is such a big pile of S!! A relationsship is a two way street. You give, you take and you communicate. That's it.

  • @gabrielrod1253
    @gabrielrod1253 2 роки тому +6

    Corey's book 3 per cent men is not designed to work with fruitloops. If wanting to be captain saviour get a degree in psychoterapy first. 3 per cent men isn"t a psychoterapy guide. Also , it's a book desgned for men , not for women to apply these strategies on men. Finally , the instructions in the book are not designed to be used as lines, or to reveal the strategies to your dates.

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  2 роки тому +23

      It’s designed to repel fruit loops

    • @gabrielrod1253
      @gabrielrod1253 2 роки тому

      @@CoachCoreyWayneCorey , but with your years of experience , won't you agree with me that 97 percent of wonen are fruit loops as well 97 percent of men are pushovers , and your book is intended to work with 3 percenr of emotionally healthy women ? This has been my experience. I'm 47 yrs old. You d be a 10 in Argentina. Welcome to come for visit if you wish , I could show you around.

  • @jupitersstone
    @jupitersstone 2 роки тому +5

    You must unlearn what you have learned....

  • @legrandfromage6450
    @legrandfromage6450 10 місяців тому +2

    "The Painful Consequences Of Not Vetting Your Women Properly": A public service announcement from Corey Wayne.

  • @tjbohmier46
    @tjbohmier46 2 роки тому +1

    The last dude ignored the rage and depression issues from the woman he married. He didn't mention it, however you can bet her communication skills were suffering as well. If you can't communicate, you cannot have any healthy relationship in life...especially a happy, healthy marriage! Just my opinion.

  • @TrevorEllison-lh5yo
    @TrevorEllison-lh5yo 2 роки тому +5

    A question for the 3% men of this community. Would you consider it a dealbreaker for a nice, shy, and very feminine girl, who has been very submissive and all around a great girl, to tell you that before she fell for you that she was interested in up to 10 guys at once and found herself in many love triangles? I’ve been wrestling with it, because she doesn’t seem interested in anyone else at all, but this just doesn’t leave the back of my mind. I know that Corey always says that if they’re once a cheater they’re always a cheater, but she has never cheated on anyone. She does have guy friends but she’s not interested in them at all, and has even told me she wants new friends but is too scared to venture alone.
    For those 3% men that leave an answer and made the time to read this, thank you.

    • @1gregmoreira
      @1gregmoreira 2 роки тому +16

      Nice and shy doesn’t compute here.
      Nice and shy girls don’t have a bunch of overlapping partners and love triangles.
      Insecure girls do. The fear of making friends definitely seems to fall in line with that as well
      Sounds like you’re projecting a bit of a fantasy onto her.
      Six or twelve months down the road when the newness has worn off and you occasionally have bad days… that’s when you need to be concerned whether or not she’ll need another hit of the attention in order to make herself feel better

    • @TrevorEllison-lh5yo
      @TrevorEllison-lh5yo 2 роки тому +1

      @@1gregmoreira I did pick up on insecurity, and she’s even talked to me about it a bit. I’ve been trying to check myself to make sure I’m not projecting too much, but it kinda does seem like I’ve done a shit job of that. What would be your advice for this situation? She as of right now is at an attraction of probably 7 to 8 on Corey’s scale as she never blows me off, doesn’t really test, says she loves me and all but that story comes back to haunt me when I’m up thinking late at night? Should I continue on with a wary eye or do you think it isn’t worth the potential time loss? When she’s comfortable and around me she’s a great girl all around, but she seems to be really hard on herself and a bit insecure about her intelligence.
      Thanks for your response, as every little bit helps inform my decision with this situation.

    • @aga5037
      @aga5037 2 роки тому +5

      Trust your intuition and inner voice.

    • @TrevorEllison-lh5yo
      @TrevorEllison-lh5yo 2 роки тому +2

      @@aga5037 Ok. I mean, it hasn’t been wrong so far. I’ve also been following Corey for years and read and listened to his book at least 10 times so I kind of know what to do, but I just wanted a second opinion as I’m human and I make mistakes and all
      Thanks for your advice

    • @brianbutterworth8186
      @brianbutterworth8186 2 роки тому +8

      The quote Corey uses from Ronald Reagan “Trust but verify” comes to
      mind in this situation

  • @DukeFavre
    @DukeFavre 2 роки тому +2

    6 months and you get married... oh boi. Never.

  • @brianbutterworth8186
    @brianbutterworth8186 2 роки тому

    Excellent video. Getting demonetized was worth it on this video.

  • @markusschaffer9712
    @markusschaffer9712 12 днів тому

    Guys,when she starts showing you red flags and who she really is, you have two choices…. Leave or leave. Otherwise,you chose to stay in that situation and choices have consequences.

  • @patrickmichael2760
    @patrickmichael2760 2 роки тому +2

    Visibility filtering (VF) lol

  • @vickythakur8259
    @vickythakur8259 2 роки тому +4

    So this girl I am into confessed she is developing feelings for this guy. I am going by the book. Being busy, and not bringing anything serious. I could clearly sense she was into me. this guy shows up unannounced all the time, bombard her with flowers and gifts and propose and ask her to get in relationship everytime they talk, doesn't give her space she initially hated this behaviour, I don't know if she is like a low self esteem person or she has anuptaphobia coz she is liking the attention now and said she is getting fomo.

    • @mw5451
      @mw5451 2 роки тому

      How many times have you hanged out, had fun, and hooked up? Being busy is going out on dates and being busy with someone who shares that romantic interest in you and who is into you. I had girls in my life who were in to me, but the friendzone is real. I don't know everything about you, your situation, or her, but I can tell you the good news; it doesn't sound like your competing against a 3% man. Just someone who is being a little pushier about his interest. Ask her out, have a fun night, be cool, hook-up. If she says no, don't look back. She has to come to you.
      Corey knows what he is talking about. Even people who read the book 10-15 times screw up. Don't be a robot about everything. You have to be confident and natural from what you learned from Corey. Don't think about it, just do it. You have one life to live. Don't be scared of failure and rejection.

    • @vickythakur8259
      @vickythakur8259 2 роки тому

      @@mw5451 yes I think something went wrong coz she had been into me but I hadn't taken the hint at the right time. Probably now sinking towards friendzone. Corey s material had worked for me in the past but with this girl it's going counter intuitive. The other guy is literally creepy does everything opposite hovering all the time

    • @vickythakur8259
      @vickythakur8259 2 роки тому

      @@mw5451 yes you are right I am kinda scared of rejection with this particular girl as I thing I am invested too deeply. I don't want to mess up. I don't know how to handle going forward. Probably I am also not 3 percent yet

    • @mw5451
      @mw5451 2 роки тому +2

      @@vickythakur8259 There is nothing to mess up. You aren't dating. You are in her orbit playing it safe. Life is far too short to wait until something happens. Nothing just happens. You need to make the situation happen. Don't do what the other guy is doing by the way. She admires the attention. Don't be shitty with her either. You need to bring it to the point of finding out whether she is in or out. Plan out something fun that takes up an evening. Watch her eyes. Gauge her interest level. Also meet other women and date them. You are stuck in neutral and just need a shove to switch gears. I've been there. The leap isn't so bad. You will look back and be glad that you cleared the air. If you platonically like her, you are going to run the risk of losing her because if you are rejected, you have to move on. You want her romantically. That much is clear. Your vibe is platonic. She senses it. They have freaky senses. They know.

    • @vickythakur8259
      @vickythakur8259 2 роки тому

      @@mw5451 yes thanks. I will try to make it happen I have a trip planned with her in next couple of days. I will play it cool till then.

  • @1Bena_SL
    @1Bena_SL 25 днів тому +1

    Bro said Gamma Male lmaooo

  • @2clau
    @2clau 2 роки тому +5

    You don't "pass" tests with a nutcase. That's just being delusional.

  • @youknighted0420
    @youknighted0420 2 роки тому +4

    No such thing as alpha and beta though it comes from wolves and the guy who put it out there tried to rescind what he said but no one paid attention. It's all just confidence, IMO. Since so many guys and women know the terms though I get it's easy to keep pushing that narrative because people understand what it means. Confidence is the key to life though.

  • @princestafford5747
    @princestafford5747 2 роки тому

    How do I get the book to read and is the book free to read

  • @themisfitsman77
    @themisfitsman77 2 роки тому +1

    Coach I had a question. I’m on my second read through and was wondering… when you give references in your book when would be Considered a good time to pause and look up those videos after the first few read through’s? Or right then in there?

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  2 роки тому +8

      They’re extra credit if that particular topic interests you

    • @alexanderwells783
      @alexanderwells783 2 роки тому

      What I do is I set up a play or watch list on you tube, then when i visit the videos related to the book,i save them on the play list then i watch them as i read the book or watch them separately.

  • @danielpilipenko8556
    @danielpilipenko8556 2 роки тому

    Can anyone tell me the books covers which Corey also finds useful? Thanks!

  • @evankolar8957
    @evankolar8957 2 роки тому +6

    Hey CCW. In the book it states that when you first meet women you get the know them and usually if everything is done right it should be about 8 weeks until she’s in love with you. My question to you is if you’ve known a girl for years and you already know a lot about her. And this particular girl has chased you for years since high school. If she’s always wanting to see me and making dates. How long should that take? She’s chased me for 5 years since she left high school and I didn’t date her because of the long distance from home to her college and I didn’t feel it was right in that moment. I was also figuring out life for myself and what path I wanted to take. Any advise would be great. The book is great for pickup for girls you just met but what about girls you’ve known for years?

    • @com3ta453
      @com3ta453 2 роки тому +5

      How she felt in high school and 5 years after, only applied at that moment. I suggest you keep dating other women and learning if she still feels something for you she'll reach out. Take it from there apply whats in the book.

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  2 роки тому +18

      Create an opportunity for sex to happen. Hangout, have fun and hook up. Read the book 10-15 times and stop acting like a robot.

    • @evankolar8957
      @evankolar8957 2 роки тому +1

      @@com3ta453 thank you for your feedback! Greatly appreciated

    • @evankolar8957
      @evankolar8957 2 роки тому +1

      @@CoachCoreyWayne thanks Corey for the feedback! Much appreciated!

  • @jonathanskube4365
    @jonathanskube4365 2 роки тому

    19:15: what the fuck? This is the most painful CW session ever

  • @legrandfromage6450
    @legrandfromage6450 10 місяців тому

    Based Giga-Chad seems pretty straightforward - but wtf is a sigma male or a gamma male?

  • @whoareacts
    @whoareacts Рік тому

    29:54 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @S8BASTIAN
    @S8BASTIAN Рік тому

    18:57 😂😂😂

  • @jonathanbryant148
    @jonathanbryant148 2 роки тому

    What's the science behind reading something 10-15 times? Does it not stick after 5 times?

    • @OPCollector
      @OPCollector Рік тому +1

      Repetition is the mother all skills.

  • @spacemanfunk
    @spacemanfunk 2 роки тому

    These guys... jesus... they need to get it together.

  • @linc131313
    @linc131313 2 роки тому +1

    You should check out 'The Critical Drinker', if you haven't already, but you probably already have. He talks about all of this woke crap in movies and in the media.

  • @youknighted0420
    @youknighted0420 2 роки тому +1

    Some of these girls are nuts and want a relationship right from the jump. that's something you build together. Reading is a lost art today it's the TLDR generation. Hence you tube shorts.

  • @Beb-f24
    @Beb-f24 Рік тому

    Hilarious when you said the F word

  • @Mr.SP78
    @Mr.SP78 2 роки тому +1

    Gamma male? Smh Corey.

  • @joannetruffle
    @joannetruffle 10 місяців тому

    Nobody can do the stuff Indiana Jones can do. It's not like male action heroes are realistic.

  • @stephengallagher2209
    @stephengallagher2209 9 місяців тому

    Coach Corey evidently unfamiliar with the Greek alphabet. Alpha, Beta, Gamma, Delta... US education is atrocious.

  • @sirbantzalot
    @sirbantzalot 2 роки тому +1

    Coach, you did'nt name the 57 genders, and say "gay unicorns lives matter" Demonitzed!!!! LOL SMFH

  • @Mysteri0usMem0
    @Mysteri0usMem0 2 роки тому +3

    First!!!

  • @Mecanrich
    @Mecanrich 2 роки тому +1

    Too much politics weaved in there bro

  • @paulpazsak3665
    @paulpazsak3665 2 роки тому +2

    What the hell is gamma male?! 😂🤣Im gonna identity as a lizard today