Dr. K Explains How To Pull Young Men Out Of The Red Pill
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“My wife will give me kisses if I say I’m struggling today”. My heart can’t take it, that’s so sweet
Dr.K needs to go on fresh and fit. He’s the perfect guy to de radicalize their fanbase
They dont want it, they love the lie
Fnf will destroy dr.k he has no idea about current generation of men and a shallow mindset.
@@bibsp3556 I feel like this is a significant factor. It's probably making too much money, they probably have too many deranged fans that will feel difficult to detach from because that's a guaranteed resource of money, and if it's not really eating them up inside yet for their own mental health, happiness, and sanity, it's going to be hard for them to really allow themselves to just be normal humans and relax and stop spreading legitimately scary stuff to mentally ill men and women. who eat it all up because they're desperate for something.
To be fair, he’s too good for the sheer ideological stupidity that is Fresh & Fit. It’d be like deconstructing a cult, he’d need months.
@@Observetteyeah nobody wants 3 hours of “I don’t know, you tell me?“
“Bro I’m a degenerate. I’ve gone through a significant amount of self discovery over the past 3 years.” As a true degenerate I feel that. I went through the same thing over the past 3 years and holy fuck my life has improved beyond anything I believed was possible. I think the biggest reason for my life changing so drastically is that I stopped pushing people away and I tried to bring them closer. I got burned many times in the process but I learned from it and in my mind I accept that some people are shitty but it’s okay and it will be okay. I can genuinely say the people in my life, whether bad or good, are the reason I’m as successful as I am. Most of them don’t even know how much they did for me just by knowing them.
I love Dr.K, he always has the perfect video for me anytime I have mental issues in my life.
Papa you said whos offering a alternative to the red pill, truth is you are. You’ve helped me grow a ton as a young man
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Damn I got a ton out of this.
That's really good my guy. I speak for other guys when I say that we're happy for you.
Stay strong dude, and keep at it. You're not alone.
What a lovely thing. Incredible stuff.
@@Observetteand thats a beautiful thing
same for me too
Almost fell drep into the Red Pill/Incel rabbit hole as a young adult. It was easily the most miserable portion of my life. It took a lot of willpower and introspection to pull myself out of it
Two things helped me escape this hole:
*• Finding a strong hobby that engages my creativity*
Especially something within the arts. A hobby which allows yourself to be expressive, helps a lot of men escape this feeling of dread of the idea of bein vulnerable & emotional around others.
*• Understanding that I can healthily have friendships with women*
...And by extension, those I am attracted to. We don't grow up with the facilities to understand these complex social structures from the gate. We might flub a lot of otherwise good friendship and relationship opportunities because we haven't spent the time to learn. Gurus will try to supplant this idea of "how things really are" and once we grow to accept these things as gospel, we stop learning.
Hope this helps.
“Once we grow to accept those things as gospel, we stop learning”
THIS!
We perfectly summed up in this phrase what is so toxic about this community. They want you to question reality but not what they say. Bc that way they can keep you under their influence
True papa true. My best advice for men is listen to music that makes you love yourself or a hobby that makes you appreciate yourself. Thats what I do and my life hasn't had stress since.
im actually so glad you were the person who introduced this video to me because if it wasnt for you talking over it i wouldnt have touched it at all. i literally had the same thoughts as dr. K , i wanted to be a surgeon and become succesfull to help my family out and become someone when i was younger. now i dont have any kind of thoughts on what i want to do to enjoy life. i want to do things and my body wont listen to me or i just without knowing gave up and went back to playing games or sleeping. no one takes time out of their day to talk to me and neither do I because i was raised to deal with other peoples shit i had no one to handle mine. i was lucky at failing taking the easy way out because now my eyes are open and my mind is clear and im ready to push through my problems and make it through to see the other side.
“As a man, try to be a positive male role model to anybody that you can be because you don’t know who needs it”
Amazing statement and something that needs to be accepted by more people 🙌🙌🙌
I think we also need to acknowledge that not everyone needs a traditional life to be happy. Everything about my life is an anomaly yet I’m pretty happy. I’ve been single for nearly 15 years and I’m ok with that. Never married, no kids. I was a heroin addict for 8 years, been clean for 12 years. I love my family and I helped raise my nephew. My point is, you can be happy without having had that traditional path in life. I truly believe that once your basic needs are met, happiness is something that comes from within.
Your story actually highlights something we don't talk about enough which is the importance of non-romantic relationships. You are successful and fulfilled because you are in connection with other human beings. That's awesome. I think if you were single for that long with no deep human connections, your life would be much worse.
@@dahliaherrod4301fr. I was so hyper-focused about getting an SO because I thought it was the only way I’d stop feeling so lonely & depressed. But then I was able to develop some close friendships, & I no longer feel like I “need” a partner.
I really love this type of papagut content, I’m kinda tired of the internet brainrot
Dr.K would be the perfect guest on F&F to have the patience and understanding to help young men lost in the sauce
im very proud of you Papa. I want what you have. love ya man
“I never blamed other people for my problems. If it’s my fault I can control it.” at this point I’m starting to think me and papa gut are pretty much the same person 💀💀💀
Papa is the dad we all need
I really do enjoy this man and his content. Even when i dont agree with Dr. K. I try to take the time to see why i dont agree and go deeper.
I have no idea who you are or what your content is like, but your speech about your wife at the start made me pause and nod. I'm going to go ahead and throw my hat in with you and sub up. Don't let me down bearded stranger.
Love you papa gut
You should reach out and see if you can Have him on stream. you relate a lot to his work, are very open and could be a good convo for your audience.
We gotta get papa to talk to dr k
This may sound corny, but you’ve genuinely had a positive impact on helping me become an actual man, not some red pilled incel loser. Thank you sir Gut🙏🏽❤️
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maybe you could get a new brain if you were the scarecrow from the wizard of oz lol
IMO, Good women are like angel investors, but in the form of life instead of capital. They tens to seek out potential investments (quality men) to invest their capital in so that over time their investments are raking in the dough.
I think men are driven by some form of commitment that drives them to consistently work towards that goal. Usually something bigger than themself like, family, being a better partner to their sig other, raising their kids, improving in their career, or achieving something great. A good women can either: see this drive in a man and invest in that vision to help him achieve it, or develop it in a man to help him aspire to be better.
That’s why I think this modern day paradigm of “The Battle of The Sexes” is THE dumbest shit ever created. Cuz, (IMO) both sexes are complementary. We both need each other to live our best lives.
I kinda love this analogy. What a great way to look at female nature. What would you liken male drive to?
@@dahliaherrod4301Glad you liked it! For this analogy men would be the business creator, since often times businesses are built off of long term commitment goals and a type of service to the public. Working towards that gives the business meaning, just like men working towards a long-term commitment gives them meaning. And angel investors can come in and assist businesses on their long-term goals to make their investment more successful.
@@dahliaherrod4301 Glad you liked it! For this analogy men would be business creators, since businesses are created by focusing on a long-term commitment to some sort of service to the public. They come up with the business plan & model, the angel investor weighs the potential success of the model & invests capital in the business. Basically a relationship = an agreement between angel investor & business owner.
@@dahliaherrod4301 Glad you liked it! In this analogy, men are the business creators that are seeking out angel investor’s capital. The reasoning behind this is because businesses are ran by a commitment to a larger goal focused on service to the public. The business creates a model to run it’s operation, the angel investor reviews the model to see if it has potential in the market, and invest if they believe in the model. It’s a gamble, unless you know what you’re looking for. (Btw this is like my 3rd time replying to this comment cuz it seems as though my comment isn’t registering as sent)
@@HuKayers I'm totally stealing this analogy. I think you're spot on. I never heard of the female nature to fix and improve in such a positive manner.
You and Papa Guy totally made me relook at my perspective on male and female nature. I think the perversion of the angel investor is the Bob the Builder woman who seems to make a man in her image in a bid to feel better about herself.
I'm curious to know if you agree and if you can think of the male version of this perversion.
"it's so hard to be a good man without a good woman"....couldnt agree more mate.
2:31 league of legends call out. The less I play it the better my mental is
My mom always just threatened to hit me but never ever did. I also ended up crying and pouting my way out of every grounding. My mom has a lot in common with Eric Cartman (South Park)'s mom in that I refused to stop being a bad kid and my mom stopped trying to discipline me.
I came out great. Not an asshole in the slightest in mine or anyone else's opinion...ha ha....ha
He's indian, and they believe souls pass onto their next ones I guess.
I mean it’s a pretty beautiful thing to believe in.
All Indians don't believe this concept. Dr.K is Hindu so he does believe in reincarnation.
did Andrew Tate fell off or am i just out of the recommendation rabbit hole ?
he's balls deep into prison time, court time and charges. He's too busy to be on social media right now. And also, he has been blacklisted on a number of them.
He definitely isn’t as popular as he was a year ago.
IMO, just my opinon so don’t get mad but I feel women cause men to feel the way they do.i don’t see gay men going omg I feel so lonely and I’m deeply rejected from having intimacy with anyone. That’s something I specially see with straight men
Wasn't James Charles' excuse for entertaining underaged teens that he was lonely and had intimacy issues? I can also name several songs written by gay men that are about that experience of feeling lonely and afraid of rejection. "Something You Can't See" written by Jake Shears on the album "Desert Sessions 11 & 12" is one of them. Definitely not mad at your opinion I just feel you might be a bit isolated from other cultures in a way that causes your perspective to be a bit limited.
I used to think this way too until I came out of the closet. As a man who is queer, it doesn't change my guy- not one bit.
Men are ironically enough, victimized by _other_ *men* who hold up this strict gender hierarchy of being this macho, hyper-masc, sigma figure that's supposed to be stoic, strong and unfeeling.
You are taught to be these things- else be emasculated by _other_ *men.*
Women are too, very capable of doing this to men as well, but this extends past "woman bad", and requires a deeper, critical understanding of how Americans view gender, how it's evolved, and how others are treated because of it.
@@CCDaDon15I have never heard of these songs but I can think of the fact I don’t see gay incels or women becoming incels. Usually that comes from receiving no love from the sex u are attracted too. So to me that conveys that it’s mostly one sided to straight men in loneliness.but also I live in the worst dating city so who knows how my perspective is skewed
@@dabombvoyage2906Oh, let me tell you, female incels exist. They exist so much, that we have a name for them:
*_Femcels._*
@@MiaoNyadon’t you have a community that celebrates your sexuality excluding straight people? That’s affection my guy you have a community you can go to at any point. Straight men are excluded from that and women are welcomed also.
Why pull them from the red pill? Red pill is saving these men. Make no sense why people hate seeing men improvement.
Plenty of men aside from the "redpill" improve. The red pill alienates men and gives them a victim complex. It's like being woke in the other direction.
I used to be in that sphere, idk man… it’s kind of a bleak way to see the world
Because red pill guys are just incel men who hate women. You can improve on yourself and not care about women, that's what I do. But red pill people don't do that, they want women to care about them that's the difference.
Saving men by making them despise women? And being liberally sexual and using up women even though apparently being married is the end goal and 304s are bad and shouldn't exist.... But keep using them
@@rahilwiggs4877kind of is an understatement