And don't permit yourself to be a person you are not. A healthy relationship is not difficult. Know how to disagree. Know how to solve the root of a problem, not a symptom.
It’s true men. Don’t waste your time on someone who doesn’t appreciate you. All we got is time, we don’t get it back. Use it to become the best version of yourself. Not on a flaky woman.
@@robertgurney7277 no you hafe to let it go man I just got shattered because wel felt like I wasted my time I felt so good but this actually was able to open my eyes and that's right no time for relationship or girls because nowadays it's all a waste of energy focus on yourself and may the lord and queen of the stars guides you on your path
My ex told me she didn’t love me anymore, didn’t see a future and showed really narcissistic behaviour after a 13 month relationship. You’ve helped me lots. Not with the no contact stuff, but helping me identify the toxic memories and building a better mentality.
If your ex tells you she doesn’t love you anymore I think her move is remarkable. Some will stay anyway for the purpose of benefits and that’s what I see as being toxic. So if she says she doesn’t love you anymore and you find it hard to let her go and keep begging for her love, you’re the problem.
Bullshit. Work on yourself and just keep it pushing. You may reach every goal you set for yourself and still never find anyone. A lot of us are probably gonna die alone but if you work on yourself you won't die a loser.
Time Stamps: Sign #1: She does not know what she wants 1:05 Sign #2: She continues to tell you she's dating other men 1:21 Sign #3: She does not plan dates or ideas with you (or ask to see you) 1:43 Sign #4: She messages you when she wants something only 2:15 Sign #5: She just wants to see "what happens" 2:45 Sign #6: She ask for help way to often and you give it to her 3:39 Sign #7: She's still in a relationship or marriage 4:00 Sign #8: She always CONSISTENTLY cancels on you 5:39 Sign #9: She always brings her friends around 6:00 Sign#10: Her words actions don't align 6:15
This is pretty spot on! KNOW your worth. Set YOUR standards. BE impeccable with your word and NEVER take anything personal. If a girl shows signs she doesn't care, believe her. It's NOT you!
10 signs of women wasting your time: 1. Does not what she wants 2. she is dating other men 3. She has no idea and plans no dates 4. She messages you when she wants something 5. She wants to see what happens 6. She asks for help way to often 7. She is still in a relationship or marriage. 8. Always consistently cancels on you 9. Always bring her friends with her 10. Her words and her actions do not match.
I really needed this today chick is 100% wasting my time. No alone time, never responds to texts, says she doesn’t want a relationship and wants to stay single yet continues to flirt with me.
@ArticLight My friend you need to walk away. The only reason why she is flirting with you is because she is playing with you. She wants your attention, if you give her your attention, you are playing into her hands, you are doing exactly what she wants you to do. Best option to do is to "WALK AWAY" "KEEP YOUR SANITY AND DIGNITY" She does not know what she wants.
It literally feels like I'm gonna be alone for a long time if not forever, because too many women play games and they have too many options. That's one of the reasons there are so many single mothers out there. Men are getting fed up with women's head games
I'm a single female. I also feel like I'm going to be alone forever. I'm lonely and want to find my soul mate. I don't feel like I get out enough. Sometimes I meet guys who assume I have a boyfriend because I'm pretty. It sucks dating nowadays. Online dating apps suck. I hired a match making service but everybody was fat. How is it that I'm pretty, have my own money, smart etc but I'm single!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭
@@kw9568 I'm a good looking guy, workout, good career, lots of hobbies... And still these women are like trying to defuse a bomb one wrong move it explodes
Lack of faith, modesty and traditional values are a massive factor too. We are in the days of sin, lust and evil taking over the world. Be yourself, spread your own light in whatever you do and you’ll soon get what you deserve. I know it’s hard out there but we can’t be desperate, foolish and deceiving....just leads to misery and disappointment. Peace, god bless.
Met a woman who blocked me after a few weeks, then came back, told me she didn’t want to date and even went so far as to say we weren’t even friends. Then asked me why I was ignoring her!
Wth!! Emotionally damaged and games just reject lunatics like that & hopefully one day they’ll realize they will have to change lol or not be romantically involved with someone who’s high value
Not if you're up for a bit of fun. And understand that's this is only fun. For 2-3 months at best. Then it will fade off and she'll love her current relationship even more...And throw you around on an emotional rolercoaster. It's the same with women with kids. You'll never be a priority for her and she has an unbreakable bond with the father of her children. I like the message of this channel though, it's SO important to be clear on your mission as a man and basically improve. 3 pillars in live - Health, Money and Relationships. You have to keep it balanced and be clear it's your life and everything. Basically It comes down to what you are willing to accept. Thank you Apolonia
Lol I’ll make this simple, if a girl won’t set a date for WHATEVER reason or gives you anything other than “yes”. Just cut contact and talk to someone else. If she is truly interested she will call you back. If she doesn’t then you have your answer
i realized a lot of crap I wouldn't put up with again after my divorce.. unfortunately, I'm seeing myself revert.. thank goodness these women are here to help us out
I needed to hear this. I’be been dating a woman for over a year that lives with her ex and claims that it’s for the kids yet claims she loves me and will move out I need to value myself more for that
Oh wow, I'm in a similar boat 😅 He's already moved out and she's stuck waiting for the remortgage to happen before she can afford to move, then she tells me she's not ready to be in a relationship and mentions how she didn't get to work on herself after the breakup and she's hurting because he's found someone else (when she has/had me 😅), so on the one hand she's still dealing with her past and on the other that made her feel that our relationship wasn't enough to make her feel better about the situation and that she's making the same progress as him (which is fair because she shouldn't validate herself through her partner and that's why she can't/shouldn't be with someone right now)
Why would you date a woman with kids?! You fall into low value beta male category by doing that. Now watch some videos on what this type of a man should expect from women in general as well as society. You can do better.
I'm here today because the woman I like and going hard for is doing that. Dating other men without considering my feelings. I am here today because it time I wake up. I gotta wake up
She told me she had someone and I cut off communication, just in a week's time she was killing me with phones calls and texts like "Am now ready let's fix the issue"🤣🤣🤣🤣
the "I want you when you are gone" mentality is pure evil, it's seriously low key abuse being so back and forth it's psychologically manipulative and damaging
You are fr one of the best dating coaches I've seen. You have helped me learn to value myself more and value my own time. I also really appreciate how you don't bash us men like how alot of other people do. Thanks allot
Wow, I look back and see all of this, I didn't see the RED flags till after she ghosted me.. She was not what my heart truly desired. I know I am the prize and if she didn't... Her loss
I was talking to a few girls and they never really hit me up I used to do it all and they never really participated fully.. I met a girl 2 months ago and she call me text me everyday ask to see me and I like her too but these vids has helped me not do anything stupid! I’m grateful
This channel is a life saver. It really opens your eyes. This is amazing and really start enjoying your life. There are plenty of great women but it wont matter unless you really enjoy yourself. Thank you again
This girl at work gave me her number out of the blue, things went cool for about 2 weeks. Then shortly after said she didn't want anything and didn't want to just ghost me. So I just let her be and moved on. Thats about the only sign I needed to leave 💯 ✌
Thank you for your words....I can't even begin to express how much you have helped me every since my life and relationship just became turned upside down...I feel like I'm losing my best friend.....it hurts god it hurts so bad...i feel like a part of myself is dying...I feel like I'm literally dying and nothing could have prepared me for this...I truly love her...my soul is just crying out for hers...but these videos help...18 years and even if it doesn't work i would rather love and lost than to have never loved at all
I can say you was on point with what I was just going through and luckily, it only lasted about a month and I cut her off completely I saved myself from my heartbreak. 💔
I can def relate to what you said in this video. I cant waste time on a woman who's not gonna value me I can put in a effort to be sweet and kind. but when it dont come back its no good.
Excellent video, time is precious and putting lots of effort and emotion into a relationship that is wasting your time will slow you down in life amongst your peers.
Look at it like this - remove emotions. Every business investment (your time/money/mindspace into her) requires an initial capital investment at the start. If that depletes and your return on your investment is negative every month, and the business loses money and continually sinks deeper into the red, would you continue to invest month after month thinking it will work out? If that's the scenario, it won't she's wasting your time and you're enabling her and/or her ego. Thats all resources, from experience, you'll never get it back that you'll regret and wished you'd invested it to improve yourself or elsewhere.
I stay away from married women but those in a relationship are some of the easiest ones to get (speaking from experience). Those that reciprocate towards my advances are generally in a failing relationship and they are lining up a replacement. All you need to do is give them the space/time to choose you.
I’ve never turned away so many 9s and 10s as when I conceded to myself how valuable I am and what quality attributes I bring to the table. The mindset thing is real af
Hi Apolonia. Thank you for this video! I’m in my early thirties and just exited a toxic situation. I definitely noticed several of the signs and even wrote them down to check off which ones were present: 1) Yes, she says she doesn’t know what she wants. 2) Yes, she tells me she’s seeing other men, in the form of still having a boyfriend and responding to messages from men who obviously want her. 3) No, she actually did reach out and plan date ideas from time to time, but usually involved things only she wanted to do. 4) Yes, she tended to only reach out when she needed something, but sometimes called just to hangout. 5) Yes, she totally just wanted to “see what happens”. 6) Big Yes-she never really asked for money (sugar bf took care of that) but would often ask for transportation, business ideas, help with her business, house work, etc. 7) Yep. She was technically single when we reconnected but they got back together and haven’t broken up after several weeks of what was effectively an affair. 8) She never really canceled on me except during this short period of a few days when we were fighting but she was also house sitting and had a little more freedom and anonymity. 9) She never brought friends around but towards the end preferred to hangout where her roommates can see us. 10) This was inconsistent. Sometimes her words and actions aligned, but not always. She’d blame her anxiety when they didn’t align.
Thank you. Some ladies end up cursing their entire private lives by wasting time. There is time for everything and time to get settled and start family.
Im in love and in a secret relationship with a married woman. Now I know im wasting my time ..thanks for the advice appollonia..I really appreciate it 🙏
Thank you for the video. This process is just starting for me, I feel like I will never be able to let her go. But hearing you talk I have hope that I can get through this . Thank you
Ouch. Appolonia, your insights and the insights of other channels have helped me tremendously in these last months. Of first understanding the cycle, recognizing it, and finding the self worth to break it. This has been the hardest thing I've ever done, but investing in my own value where others saw none is changing my life, and leveling the playing field Thank you.
Swear if there was super like I would of loved to click it ! You’re absolutely right !!! Happened to realize so many of your points after wasting 2 years of my life!!
I made this mistake. Felt like I had nothing better to do during quarantine. Should have put my foot down. She was dating around with other guys and then asking to spend time with me several times a week. Addressed the issue how I felt and that was end. Time to move on.
Thank you for taking the time to bring us these gems of high value advice. Thank you for not putting us down and approaching these subjects with respect and care. Thank you and much success 🙏
I’ve realise life is short and right now time is short. Ready for the best advice free of charge? Don’t listen, don’t answer the phone - block the number, activate your brain reset and start tomorrow with a smile on your face. If you or your partner doesn’t feel right - bye bye and look for your next high x
Just checked the number of subscribers on Appolonia in which I believe majority are men, you have emancipated so many men. You have Empowered men, empowered us in a scientific perspective.
Yes!! Your right.I feel like it a wild goose chase.Times she want see me and counsel out of the blue.I throwing this phone out the window..I can't.Stories, and I need and I want???and disappeares for weeks at a time..I pray I meet someone else..really..
She made it seem like I had a chance with her, relationship wise.. We were friends for 3 years, became best friends, and got so close, we started cuddling, kissing and even sex. I’d ask, what are we doing, she said, I don’t know. I asked her to be with me and she said “I can’t” apparently she’s not in the right place to have a relationship and she doesn’t want one. I felt used, she asked me to go and stay with her for awhile.. I must of been there for two months, being there for her, doing things people in relationships do.. two days ago, she said she needed to be alone, so I came home. We talked, and she said “I think you should move on instead of waiting, I think you’re just going to continue to hurt yourself by waiting for someone who doesn’t want anything” (meaning herself) so, I choked up. I stopped texting her, and so she texts me, and said “howcome you’re not texting me, you usually do” and I said “hey, sorry, you said you wanted to be alone and you seemed bothered by me so I thought that would just be the most respectful thing to do” and she told me “I don’t want you to leave me alone completely, I feel like you’re being weird after I told you I needed to be alone or what I said” and she said “but if you want your space that’s fine” and I said, “thank you, that would be great” and she said “sorry for being a bother then.” I replied “no apologies, this is best for both us” and she said “whatever bye” and she deleted me on all social media.. and here I am.. hurt.. like.. all this makes me want to see other women lol.. and leave her behind… what do you think?
Bro, sounds like she was then being vindictive because you had the courage to call her bluff. She indicated that she wasn't ready to move forward WITH YOU. Find someone whose goals (and values) are more aligned with your goals and values. Yeah, go see/date other women. Best of luck, bro!
I finaly give up in trying to find new love .my wife past away last year and i have been out of the dating game for 15 years .needless to say i got lonely and realy wanted a comitted relationship. But instead got hurt time after time frendzoned and used for a free meal twice att expensive restaurants. The last tinder date i was on went so bad that i spended 2days in my room crying because of the humiliation and loneliness that came crashing on me. So i excepted the fact that i am going to grow old alone cause im not up for all this bs anymore
This past weekend I broke it off with her. I tried to end it by simply telling her what I didn’t like about the situation and what she’s doing but her survival instincts kicked in and suddenly she was fighting to save it. I made the mistake of getting into a back and forth with her and I really let her have it and called her out directly. I should’ve just left it alone after the first exchange but oh well
If she does not take action in supporting your goals / purpose in life and continues to play games or “tests” for her own superficial benefit…trust. She does not deserve you and is a complete waste of your time. You are not losing her, you are GAINING your own self respect which eventually, a woman with high value as well will see.
Thank you so much coach..thats excactly what i needed to hear. My ex broke up with me by text after a 3 year relationship and until now i was suffering like a dog. Now i'm sure the last 2 years were just a waste of time..doesn't make it better but now i see the signs..thanks for that
Thank You Apollonia, like what I’ve been hearing and subscribed. A married woman who I’m highly attracted to keeps flirting but she’s married. I’ve had to put on the brakes and ur advice is helpful.
When you are an ultra high quality man like myself.... Those kind of women just avoid... Those types don't usually interact with me because they know they will fail
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She's not wasting my time. I'm wasting my own time giving her undeserved attention. The power is completely in your hands guys.
Facts
True
Exactly!
Yeap buddy
Finally stopped wasting my time and will ignore and give Her space.
Don't settle for a relationship that won't let you be yourself.
100000%
Indeed. Find someone who worth your time
Don't settle for a relationship that won't let you be yourself. Shout it again.
Not everything about oneself is worth sticking to. There are things that very but are now habits... those are worth changing
And don't permit yourself to be a person you are not. A healthy relationship is not difficult. Know how to disagree. Know how to solve the root of a problem, not a symptom.
It’s true men. Don’t waste your time on someone who doesn’t appreciate you. All we got is time, we don’t get it back. Use it to become the best version of yourself. Not on a flaky woman.
Thank you so much for the real talk man, I needed that. I deserve so much better than this indecisive woman in my life
@@wesley6442 True me too👊🏾👍🏾💪🏾
What if I can't let go,I'm finding it hard to stop thinking about her all the time
The most valuable asset you have.
@@robertgurney7277 no you hafe to let it go man I just got shattered because wel felt like I wasted my time I felt so good but this actually was able to open my eyes and that's right no time for relationship or girls because nowadays it's all a waste of energy focus on yourself and may the lord and queen of the stars guides you on your path
*Relationships should be mutual, and knowing when to walk away from someone who’s not serious is key to finding real connections.*
My ex told me she didn’t love me anymore, didn’t see a future and showed really narcissistic behaviour after a 13 month relationship. You’ve helped me lots. Not with the no contact stuff, but helping me identify the toxic memories and building a better mentality.
If your ex tells you she doesn’t love you anymore I think her move is remarkable. Some will stay anyway for the purpose of benefits and that’s what I see as being toxic. So if she says she doesn’t love you anymore and you find it hard to let her go and keep begging for her love, you’re the problem.
@@speedoflight3395 LOL Ridiculous
Go through a 11 year marriage and that happens buddy. Most women don't know what they want ever and keeping them happy? Forget it.
Work on yourself, you'll get a partner who will assist you to be yourself
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Inshalah
Bullshit. Work on yourself and just keep it pushing. You may reach every goal you set for yourself and still never find anyone. A lot of us are probably gonna die alone but if you work on yourself you won't die a loser.
True Dat...
But how long will this take ?
AP we all know that you are not a waste of time. We super appreciate u
Thank you so much. These reminders are gems xo
Great advice
Sign #4 and #6 is where I'm at right now but she's going to find out I'm getting tired and it's a waste of my time. Stay on your grind fellas
Time Stamps:
Sign #1: She does not know what she wants 1:05
Sign #2: She continues to tell you she's dating other men 1:21
Sign #3: She does not plan dates or ideas with you (or ask to see you) 1:43
Sign #4: She messages you when she wants something only 2:15
Sign #5: She just wants to see "what happens" 2:45
Sign #6: She ask for help way to often and you give it to her 3:39
Sign #7: She's still in a relationship or marriage 4:00
Sign #8: She always CONSISTENTLY cancels on you 5:39
Sign #9: She always brings her friends around 6:00
Sign#10: Her words actions don't align 6:15
We can watch the video
Do you work as a filer in the Filing Dept.?
I know this is insane but base on my experiences even 1 of these is more than enough of a red flag to dump someone.
@@tkleo2006 u are right..
Exactly what's that mean
Pls tell me
No is a powerful word. It shows what you're will to put up with.
Yes. The word 'no' is also a complete sentence.
This is pretty spot on! KNOW your worth. Set YOUR standards. BE impeccable with your word and NEVER take anything personal. If a girl shows signs she doesn't care, believe her. It's NOT you!
10 signs of women wasting your time:
1. Does not what she wants
2. she is dating other men
3. She has no idea and plans no dates
4. She messages you when she wants something
5. She wants to see what happens
6. She asks for help way to often
7. She is still in a relationship or marriage.
8. Always consistently cancels on you
9. Always bring her friends with her
10. Her words and her actions do not match.
Hugging and or holding hands with the person you love has been proven to reduce stress almost instantly.
I really needed this today chick is 100% wasting my time. No alone time, never responds to texts, says she doesn’t want a relationship and wants to stay single yet continues to flirt with me.
@ArticLight My friend you need to walk away. The only reason why she is flirting with you is because she is playing with you. She wants your attention, if you give her your attention, you are playing into her hands, you are doing exactly what she wants you to do. Best option to do is to "WALK AWAY" "KEEP YOUR SANITY AND DIGNITY" She does not know what she wants.
It literally feels like I'm gonna be alone for a long time if not forever, because too many women play games and they have too many options. That's one of the reasons there are so many single mothers out there. Men are getting fed up with women's head games
I'm a single female. I also feel like I'm going to be alone forever. I'm lonely and want to find my soul mate. I don't feel like I get out enough. Sometimes I meet guys who assume I have a boyfriend because I'm pretty. It sucks dating nowadays. Online dating apps suck. I hired a match making service but everybody was fat. How is it that I'm pretty, have my own money, smart etc but I'm single!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭
@@kw9568 I'm a good looking guy, workout, good career, lots of hobbies... And still these women are like trying to defuse a bomb one wrong move it explodes
Women have too many options. It’s true. One solution might be: remove yourself as being an option for her
Amen to that
Lack of faith, modesty and traditional values are a massive factor too. We are in the days of sin, lust and evil taking over the world. Be yourself, spread your own light in whatever you do and you’ll soon get what you deserve. I know it’s hard out there but we can’t be desperate, foolish and deceiving....just leads to misery and disappointment. Peace, god bless.
Actions speak much louder than words.
Any person can be manipulative wirh conversation and flirting.
adding further to number 8- not just cancels but also doesn't reschedule
forgot "always an excuse why she can't go out or meet you"
Met a woman who blocked me after a few weeks, then came back, told me she didn’t want to date and even went so far as to say we weren’t even friends. Then asked me why I was ignoring her!
Wth!! Emotionally damaged and games just reject lunatics like that & hopefully one day they’ll realize they will have to change lol or not be romantically involved with someone who’s high value
Lol 🤣...I've experienced something similar, the only difference she didn't blocked me but stopped communication from her side.
Great lesson...Very important to understand that men should never try to date women who are already in relationships...this is a big waste of time.
Not if you're up for a bit of fun. And understand that's this is only fun. For 2-3 months at best. Then it will fade off and she'll love her current relationship even more...And throw you around on an emotional rolercoaster. It's the same with women with kids. You'll never be a priority for her and she has an unbreakable bond with the father of her children. I like the message of this channel though, it's SO important to be clear on your mission as a man and basically improve. 3 pillars in live - Health, Money and Relationships. You have to keep it balanced and be clear it's your life and everything. Basically It comes down to what you are willing to accept. Thank you Apolonia
NOW you tell me....😕
what if she is in a relationship and she is chasing you ?
Spot on but unfortunately some women like to cheat to on their partners
@@braulioshaka It's still an obvious waste of time. Who's to say she won't do the same to you and try to cheat?
Lol I’ll make this simple, if a girl won’t set a date for WHATEVER reason or gives you anything other than “yes”. Just cut contact and talk to someone else. If she is truly interested she will call you back. If she doesn’t then you have your answer
Facts
Did that, she came back, wanted me to re-approach her. But I gave her the boot and left her for good.
Let this powerful intelligence save you from million traps by the women who not meant to you. Thanks the atom 55.
Yep
But most of the time they do say "yes" and then they mysteriously vanish for several weeks
i realized a lot of crap I wouldn't put up with again after my divorce.. unfortunately, I'm seeing myself revert.. thank goodness these women are here to help us out
I needed to hear this. I’be been dating a woman for over a year that lives with her ex and claims that it’s for the kids yet claims she loves me and will move out I need to value myself more for that
Oh wow, I'm in a similar boat 😅
He's already moved out and she's stuck waiting for the remortgage to happen before she can afford to move, then she tells me she's not ready to be in a relationship and mentions how she didn't get to work on herself after the breakup and she's hurting because he's found someone else (when she has/had me 😅), so on the one hand she's still dealing with her past and on the other that made her feel that our relationship wasn't enough to make her feel better about the situation and that she's making the same progress as him (which is fair because she shouldn't validate herself through her partner and that's why she can't/shouldn't be with someone right now)
WHAAAAAAT?????? You went for that?? Cmon son. 🤦🏿♂️
@@NoName718. I cannot imagine dating a woman with kids. Never done it and never will. The very thought makes me shudder with revulsion.
Why would you date a woman with kids?! You fall into low value beta male category by doing that. Now watch some videos on what this type of a man should expect from women in general as well as society. You can do better.
If she tells you she is dating other men, why are you even talking to her?
I'm here today because the woman I like and going hard for is doing that. Dating other men without considering my feelings. I am here today because it time I wake up. I gotta wake up
dude, how did it go?@@allhailzamasu69
@@allhailzamasu69 other coaches say they do that when they secretly like you but dont want to tell.. 🤷♂
Okay!
So Sign no. 1, 2, 4, 7, & 10 are absolutely relatable to my situation.
Time to walk away from her.
Thank you so much Apollonia❣️
She told me she had someone and I cut off communication, just in a week's time she was killing me with phones calls and texts like "Am now ready let's fix the issue"🤣🤣🤣🤣
What was the age of this woman?
the "I want you when you are gone" mentality is pure evil, it's seriously low key abuse being so back and forth it's psychologically manipulative and damaging
I've had this happen to me. They do this because they want to continue to get free validation from you.
You are fr one of the best dating coaches I've seen. You have helped me learn to value myself more and value my own time. I also really appreciate how you don't bash us men like how alot of other people do. Thanks allot
Time is precious your so right
Absolutely actions speak louder than words
That last one ....DEEP FACT , love your channel
Whats sad is that most men already knew this but they've ignored it.
Wow, I look back and see all of this,
I didn't see the RED flags till after she ghosted me..
She was not what my heart truly desired.
I know I am the prize and if she didn't...
Her loss
I was talking to a few girls and they never really hit me up I used to do it all and they never really participated fully.. I met a girl 2 months ago and she call me text me everyday ask to see me and I like her too but these vids has helped me not do anything stupid! I’m grateful
Good video AP! I cut off a girl and blocked her due to constant flakiness last year. 3 strikes and you're out
Shoulda done the first time but glad you did!!
I did the same! And it felt really good after a few days
¡Hola amigo! ¿Estás también aqui? Yo soy tu fan 😁
@@ChicoLatino098 si
1-2 striks you’re out. You get more cooperative women.
This channel is a life saver. It really opens your eyes. This is amazing and really start enjoying your life. There are plenty of great women but it wont matter unless you really enjoy yourself. Thank you again
This girl at work gave me her number out of the blue, things went cool for about 2 weeks. Then shortly after said she didn't want anything and didn't want to just ghost me. So I just let her be and moved on. Thats about the only sign I needed to leave 💯 ✌
Your not supposed to date co-workers
@@christianalexander579 true
Thank you for your words....I can't even begin to express how much you have helped me every since my life and relationship just became turned upside down...I feel like I'm losing my best friend.....it hurts god it hurts so bad...i feel like a part of myself is dying...I feel like I'm literally dying and nothing could have prepared me for this...I truly love her...my soul is just crying out for hers...but these videos help...18 years and even if it doesn't work i would rather love and lost than to have never loved at all
I can say you was on point with what I was just going through and luckily, it only lasted about a month and I cut her off completely I saved myself from my heartbreak. 💔
Thanks for the video. She's not wasting my time.
...so true. I needed more than 2 months to come to this conclusion. I should have watched this video before...
I can def relate to what you said in this video. I cant waste time on a woman who's not gonna value me I can put in a effort to be sweet and kind. but when it dont come back its no good.
Excellent video, time is precious and putting lots of effort and emotion into a relationship that is wasting your time will slow you down in life amongst your peers.
Look at it like this - remove emotions. Every business investment (your time/money/mindspace into her) requires an initial capital investment at the start. If that depletes and your return on your investment is negative every month, and the business loses money and continually sinks deeper into the red, would you continue to invest month after month thinking it will work out? If that's the scenario, it won't she's wasting your time and you're enabling her and/or her ego. Thats all resources, from experience, you'll never get it back that you'll regret and wished you'd invested it to improve yourself or elsewhere.
wow talk about signs never realized that moving on from the relationship i am in now she was several signs thanks for helping me
AP you don't know how much help your words can be to many of us when we feel like crap! Thank you.
Sign # 7 sucks!!! But I think it stems from a scarcity mindset. Knowing your worth and value is important. Thank you Apollonia! 🙏❤️
Your pose for the thumbnail though... On point✌️
I stay away from married women but those in a relationship are some of the easiest ones to get (speaking from experience). Those that reciprocate towards my advances are generally in a failing relationship and they are lining up a replacement. All you need to do is give them the space/time to choose you.
Call her out as needed. So many men just sit there and take it-- just to keep her happy. She will never respect you as a man!
I’ve never turned away so many 9s and 10s as when I conceded to myself how valuable I am and what quality attributes I bring to the table. The mindset thing is real af
Good for you man, stick to your ideals and standards you and all us high quality good men are worth so much more
Same here bro.
True that 👍.
Thank you. I really needed this exact video. To understand others, women in particular, and myself and self-worth.
Preach. This lady is the best coach online.
Hi Apolonia. Thank you for this video! I’m in my early thirties and just exited a toxic situation. I definitely noticed several of the signs and even wrote them down to check off which ones were present:
1) Yes, she says she doesn’t know what she wants.
2) Yes, she tells me she’s seeing other men, in the form of still having a boyfriend and responding to messages from men who obviously want her.
3) No, she actually did reach out and plan date ideas from time to time, but usually involved things only she wanted to do.
4) Yes, she tended to only reach out when she needed something, but sometimes called just to hangout.
5) Yes, she totally just wanted to “see what happens”.
6) Big Yes-she never really asked for money (sugar bf took care of that) but would often ask for transportation, business ideas, help with her business, house work, etc.
7) Yep. She was technically single when we reconnected but they got back together and haven’t broken up after several weeks of what was effectively an affair.
8) She never really canceled on me except during this short period of a few days when we were fighting but she was also house sitting and had a little more freedom and anonymity.
9) She never brought friends around but towards the end preferred to hangout where her roommates can see us.
10) This was inconsistent. Sometimes her words and actions aligned, but not always. She’d blame her anxiety when they didn’t align.
Thank you. Some ladies end up cursing their entire private lives by wasting time. There is time for everything and time to get settled and start family.
I feel like im gonna be single forever everything she says is right thats ok because I know im a diamond in the rough
Awww man this is crazy but true I truly have to let this woman go😱💯
I needed this video!!!...I had experienced at least 7 out of the 10-time wasters.
Im in love and in a secret relationship with a married woman. Now I know im wasting my time ..thanks for the advice appollonia..I really appreciate it 🙏
😧😧😧 Im glad you finally got out of it 😅
Thank you for the video. This process is just starting for me, I feel like I will never be able to let her go. But hearing you talk I have hope that I can get through this . Thank you
I feel like coach Apollonia knows exactly what I'm going through right now. Thank you for this video💯💯
Thank you for being here with me. :)
You're welcome🙏
Thanks for waking me up!!! That's exactly what's going on with me. 🙄🤦♂️
Nr.10 hit home. Real eye opener. Thx Apollonia.
Ouch. Appolonia, your insights and the insights of other channels have helped me tremendously in these last months. Of first understanding the cycle, recognizing it, and finding the self worth to break it.
This has been the hardest thing I've ever done, but investing in my own value where others saw none is changing my life, and leveling the playing field
Thank you.
Swear if there was super like I would of loved to click it ! You’re absolutely right !!! Happened to realize so many of your points after wasting 2 years of my life!!
Apollonia is my coach guys. I always learn deep stuff here
I'll give you a heads up. I have found all girls on dating sites will waste your time. Doesn't matter how interested they might seam.
I made this mistake. Felt like I had nothing better to do during quarantine. Should have put my foot down. She was dating around with other guys and then asking to spend time with me several times a week. Addressed the issue how I felt and that was end. Time to move on.
Action always speak louder than words. Period.
You are an extraordinary woman, sincerely, from a Frenchman.
Thank you for taking the time to bring us these gems of high value advice. Thank you for not putting us down and approaching these subjects with respect and care. Thank you and much success 🙏
Every second you waste on a time waster is a second stolen from the life and love you deserve
Finally, Apollonia realizes the RED PILL!
Your so right we do let women waste our time then we blame ourselves why stuff don’t work out smh.. watching you ms. Ponti has helped extremely
So glad you are here!
Just here and that notification.. Happy new year Apollonia and to you all 💕
I’ve realise life is short and right now time is short. Ready for the best advice free of charge? Don’t listen, don’t answer the phone - block the number, activate your brain reset and start tomorrow with a smile on your face. If you or your partner doesn’t feel right - bye bye and look for your next high x
I forced myself to watch this but glad I did cuz I find it enlightening and educational too. Your channel rocks
Thanks Apollonia - lots of love from the UK 🇬🇧
xo
Thank you very much AP, hopefully once I express that I feel like I'm wasting my time things change for good 😌😬
Just checked the number of subscribers on Appolonia in which I believe majority are men, you have emancipated so many men. You have Empowered men, empowered us in a scientific perspective.
Your channel was the best thing to happen to me this year.
True.Its time to stop that relationship.Let it go.
I have seen all these signs and I can see how relationship coach is right!
im glad i found your channel wish i seen this video 4 years ago!!!!
Actions speak louder than words
Yes!! Your right.I feel like it a wild goose chase.Times she want see me and counsel out of the blue.I throwing this phone out the window..I can't.Stories, and I need and I want???and disappeares for weeks at a time..I pray I meet someone else..really..
Finally you answer my question! She keeps getting mad when I date other women when she’s been with her boyfriend for 3 years 😂
Selfish
She made it seem like I had a chance with her, relationship wise.. We were friends for 3 years, became best friends, and got so close, we started cuddling, kissing and even sex. I’d ask, what are we doing, she said, I don’t know. I asked her to be with me and she said “I can’t” apparently she’s not in the right place to have a relationship and she doesn’t want one. I felt used, she asked me to go and stay with her for awhile.. I must of been there for two months, being there for her, doing things people in relationships do.. two days ago, she said she needed to be alone, so I came home. We talked, and she said “I think you should move on instead of waiting, I think you’re just going to continue to hurt yourself by waiting for someone who doesn’t want anything” (meaning herself) so, I choked up. I stopped texting her, and so she texts me, and said “howcome you’re not texting me, you usually do” and I said “hey, sorry, you said you wanted to be alone and you seemed bothered by me so I thought that would just be the most respectful thing to do” and she told me “I don’t want you to leave me alone completely, I feel like you’re being weird after I told you I needed to be alone or what I said” and she said “but if you want your space that’s fine” and I said, “thank you, that would be great” and she said “sorry for being a bother then.” I replied “no apologies, this is best for both us” and she said “whatever bye” and she deleted me on all social media.. and here I am.. hurt.. like.. all this makes me want to see other women lol.. and leave her behind… what do you think?
Bro, sounds like she was then being vindictive because you had the courage to call her bluff. She indicated that she wasn't ready to move forward WITH YOU. Find someone whose goals (and values) are more aligned with your goals and values. Yeah, go see/date other women. Best of luck, bro!
She is an narcissistic person. She just used you. Been there.
What she is saying is correct men needs to pay close attention to their women friends
I finaly give up in trying to find new love .my wife past away last year and i have been out of the dating game for 15 years .needless to say i got lonely and realy wanted a comitted relationship. But instead got hurt time after time frendzoned and used for a free meal twice att expensive restaurants. The last tinder date i was on went so bad that i spended 2days in my room crying because of the humiliation and loneliness that came crashing on me. So i excepted the fact that i am going to grow old alone cause im not up for all this bs anymore
Apollonia, You are amazing, can’t wait to start working with you in February 🥰
Daniel!! I'm so excited to meet you! So happy you invested in the Algorithm of Attraction program! SO EXCITED! LOL
It's so true , and you have absolutely gorgeous hair it looks great 👍
Such great points and a great video. I wish I would have seen these videos in my past. I was blind or ignored these signs
Glad it was helpful!
Yep. I'm seeing numbers 1, 3, 5 and 10. And I'll add a number 11. Seeing visiting opportunities are few and far in-between.
This past weekend I broke it off with her. I tried to end it by simply telling her what I didn’t like about the situation and what she’s doing but her survival instincts kicked in and suddenly she was fighting to save it. I made the mistake of getting into a back and forth with her and I really let her have it and called her out directly. I should’ve just left it alone after the first exchange but oh well
If she does not take action in supporting your goals / purpose in life and continues to play games or “tests” for her own superficial benefit…trust. She does not deserve you and is a complete waste of your time. You are not losing her, you are GAINING your own self respect which eventually, a woman with high value as well will see.
Thank you so much coach..thats excactly what i needed to hear. My ex broke up with me by text after a 3 year relationship and until now i was suffering like a dog. Now i'm sure the last 2 years were just a waste of time..doesn't make it better but now i see the signs..thanks for that
I'm so sorry this happened Zaijnt. I know how much this can hurt but you will get through this.
Thank You Apollonia, like what I’ve been hearing and subscribed. A married woman who I’m highly attracted to keeps flirting but she’s married. I’ve had to put on the brakes and ur advice is helpful.
If you have to work for a partner forget it!
everyone messages everyone....when they want something.
Thank you for being on our side I've been told several times I'm a Good man
And still no women wants to stay
When you are an ultra high quality man like myself.... Those kind of women just avoid... Those types don't usually interact with me because they know they will fail