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    Discover the top things men should never do with women, inspired by stoicism. This video outlines nine essential behaviors to avoid for a fulfilling and authentic life. Learn how not to lose yourself in relationships, protect your mental health, and value your time and achievements. Embrace wisdom from Stoic philosophers and gain insights into maintaining your individuality and integrity in any relationship. A must-watch for those seeking a balanced and self-respectful approach to personal interactions."🌿🧘‍♂️📜🔍.
    9 Thing Man Should Not Do with Women:
    00:00 - Intro
    01:11 - 1. Don't reshape your life to fit others'
    02:12 - 2. Don’t ruin your life by being too obsessed with someone
    03:23 - 3. Don't let anything harm your mental health or happiness
    04:36 - 4. Don't push friends or family away for someone else
    05:46 - 5. Don’t invest too much time in them
    07:00 - 6. Don't reveal everything about your past, especially the tough times
    08:12 - 7. Don't agree simply to satisfy them
    09:35 - 8. Don't be controlled by the fear of solitude
    11:06 - 9. Don't forget to celebrate even small wins
    13:35 - Conclusion
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  • @StoicLegend_
    @StoicLegend_  4 місяці тому +97

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    • @Mary_QQQ
      @Mary_QQQ 4 місяці тому +1

      Beware of misogyny. We women can do likewise to unworthy and dishonourable men. What's sauce for the goose is sauce 🫕 for the gander 🪿

    • @user-me6ep5zq9h
      @user-me6ep5zq9h 3 місяці тому +2

      Ok

    • @user-me6ep5zq9h
      @user-me6ep5zq9h 3 місяці тому +1

      Is there a way to have a one on one in arizona or do I have to come there 5

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +3

      We do not compare women or men, in all articles, we always hope you develop yourself, focus on being yourself, all good things will come to you!

    • @StoicMan111
      @StoicMan111 3 місяці тому +2

      Good luck👏👏

  • @edwardclarkson-ph1kl
    @edwardclarkson-ph1kl 3 дні тому +212

    Interesting video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @linamoon-mi7wd
      @linamoon-mi7wd 3 дні тому +2

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

    • @edwardclarkson-ph1kl
      @edwardclarkson-ph1kl 3 дні тому +1

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @linamoon-mi7wd
      @linamoon-mi7wd 3 дні тому +3

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @edwardclarkson-ph1kl
      @edwardclarkson-ph1kl 3 дні тому +1

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 дні тому +1

      I'm sorry you're going through this. Breakups are tough, especially after a long relationship. It's okay to miss her and feel frustrated. Give yourself time to heal and consider talking to friends or a professional for support. Focus on self-care and doing things that bring you joy. It will get easier with time.

  • @foresttaniguchi3168
    @foresttaniguchi3168 3 місяці тому +953

    I begged her and it didn’t work. The only thing that worked was when I told her I had another girlfriend

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +109

      As said in the video, don't beg, live better, find better things and the one who will regret will be her, try your best! Thank you for watching and supporting our videos!

    • @bssuhi2304
      @bssuhi2304 3 місяці тому +29

      😂

    • @yungierichofficial8256
      @yungierichofficial8256 3 місяці тому +17

      Nice one!

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +10

      Thank you for watching and supporting our videos, please continue!

    • @andre1987eph
      @andre1987eph 3 місяці тому +1

      dont talk to us about women until you have 4 or 5 hobbies you care more about than ladies

  • @CCRadio-qd8xy
    @CCRadio-qd8xy 2 місяці тому +260

    1.Don't reshape your life to fit others
    2. Number two: Don't ruin your life by being too obsessed with someone
    3. Number three: Don't let anything harm your mental health or happiness
    4. Don't push friends or family away for someone else
    5. Don't invest too much time in them
    6. Don't reveal everything about your past, especially the tough times
    7. Don't agree simply to satisfy them
    Thank you!

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +14

      Thank you for the value of your comment, a very meaningful summary!

    • @atgc2370
      @atgc2370 2 місяці тому +4

      @CCRadio-qd8xy Thanks for saving our time.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +2

      @@atgc2370 Thank you for watching!

    • @khosrovtavitian
      @khosrovtavitian 2 місяці тому +11

      8)Don't be afraid of solitude.
      9)Don't forget to celebrate even small wins.

    • @geetakoesal
      @geetakoesal 2 місяці тому +1

  • @hardtruth63americanpatriot66
    @hardtruth63americanpatriot66 2 місяці тому +90

    The best thing I learned from Stoicism is that now I enjoy and cherish my times alone when I do things that are dear to me.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +5

      That's a beautiful insight! Stoicism indeed emphasizes finding contentment within oneself and deriving joy from simple pleasures and personal pursuits. Embracing solitude and using it to engage in activities that resonate with you can lead to a deep sense of fulfillment and inner peace. Keep cherishing those moments! - From *Stoic Legend

    • @mikep.473
      @mikep.473 Місяць тому +1

      I need to find this

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  Місяць тому +1

      @@mikep.473 Thank you!

  • @JB-yn4cs
    @JB-yn4cs Місяць тому +34

    I went for a bike ride in the sun today, it brought me far more joy than pursuing someone who demands all I have and then more than I have. I'm choosing peace and happiness, she has not nurtured those.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  Місяць тому +1

      It sounds like you had a wonderful and liberating experience on your bike ride! Choosing peace and happiness is a powerful decision, especially when faced with demands that drain you. Nurturing your own well-being is essential, and it seems like you're prioritizing that beautifully. Keep embracing those moments of joy and freedom!
      Thank you for sharing, please continue supporting us!

  • @dawinalexander9433
    @dawinalexander9433 Місяць тому +19

    "stay present, stay resilient and embrace a stoic mindset"

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  Місяць тому +1

      Absolutely! Staying present, resilient, and adopting a stoic mindset can be powerful tools for navigating life's challenges. Embracing these principles can help us maintain clarity, strength, and peace of mind, even in the face of adversity. Thank you for sharing, keep enjoying our content!

  • @Daniel-hs8fz
    @Daniel-hs8fz 3 місяці тому +213

    when you too good to her, it's dangerous. give all what they need. you will lose her. sad but its true, its difficult to control emotions when truly love someone. big challenge for me right now.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +13

      You seem like an experienced person, what you say is true. However, as the video shared, let's live as ourselves!

    • @gladystagapan5753
      @gladystagapan5753 3 місяці тому +15

      if u felt that way to your partner, she's not for u.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +11

      Be yourself, true love will come to you!

    • @yungierichofficial8256
      @yungierichofficial8256 3 місяці тому +2

      How do I do this??? It's difficult

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +8

      Yes, it's very difficult but when you do it, you will master everything, including your emotions!

  • @TheDailySpark360
    @TheDailySpark360 Місяць тому +17

    My fiancé of 4 years which we were about to get married in about 6 months, quarrelled with me and blocked me on all social media except for her direct line which she doesn't pickup or answer my messages. I loved her so much and obsessed for quite a while but finally realize that I don't need anyone to lead a happy life specially women of such kind.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  Місяць тому +4

      I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It sounds like a difficult and painful experience. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness, even if it means letting go of relationships that aren't healthy or fulfilling. Remember that you deserve love and respect, and there are people out there who will appreciate you for who you are. Take care of yourself and focus on finding joy and fulfillment in other aspects of your life. Thank you for watching!

    • @DSILVAjeiy
      @DSILVAjeiy 26 днів тому

      Sorry for your loss!😮‍💨
      I know the feeling since my gf throws those jabs of female $#it tests. I must have failed a lot of them, while she tries to treat me like chopped liver. I silently walked away without a fight.

    • @marshallvilakazi7516
      @marshallvilakazi7516 23 дні тому

      I understand your pain just ended a 4 yr relationship with my girlfriend, its funny how social media can corrupt purity, giving up ur relationship at the expense of followers, and then they ask where are all the gentlemen

  • @coolguy8681
    @coolguy8681 3 місяці тому +337

    I swear the internet has been a better father than mine

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      You will find a lot of useful things from the internet, keep exploring!

    • @professorwoland3181
      @professorwoland3181 3 місяці тому

      Same here

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому

      Actually, the Internet has brought us so many interesting things, let's use it well!

    • @josephticuswar4008
      @josephticuswar4008 3 місяці тому +6

      To be honest mate ,I think the internet has become more better of a teacher/mentor/ parent then most human beings in the last decade or so!..

    • @chamberlain323
      @chamberlain323 3 місяці тому +5

      Dad did his best, but he didn’t know any of this either. Most men don’t.

  • @evarudmik2910
    @evarudmik2910 3 місяці тому +56

    People that are troubled, unhappy, desperate, try to trick you… how the grass is greener on their side until you discover eventually the ugly weeds that were deeply hiding under that unforeseen toxic soil
    Thank you for the great reminder the importance of staying stoic

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +3

      You have a very profound thought, I like your maturity! Thank you for watching and supporting our videos!

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +2

      Are you a good person who keeps calm?
      You can check out our Keep Calm video in the videos section! Thank you!

  • @Gaming_zone131
    @Gaming_zone131 2 місяці тому +49

    I lose my self respect only because I am having fear of losing her but I am very thankful to you sir for this motivation video 😊

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +9

      It's great that you found motivation in the video! Remember, your self-respect should never be tied to someone else. It's important to value yourself independently of any relationship. Focus on building your confidence and self-worth, and everything else will fall into place. Keep pushing forward! 😊💪

    • @riasb
      @riasb 2 місяці тому +4

      Having fear of losing someone just means that you care-life is fragile. Please do not lose that. Instead frame it like this-what is meant for you is simply for you. Put in effort but also, breathe easy. We are all human. As far as self-respect goes, ensure you are rooted in God. He gives clarity. Confusion, fear, doubt is from Satan-not you. You are worthy of what you want.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +4

      Yes, fear of losing someone represents love and awareness of the fragility of life. Let's see it as a reminder to appreciate what we have. Believe that what you deserve will come to you and stick with your faith and self-respect.
      From *Stoic Legend*

  • @John-gj9db
    @John-gj9db 2 місяці тому +21

    I wish I had watched this 3 months ago. I did everything mentioned here that I shouldn’t had and she left me. I was left feeling massively used and hurt. NEVER. again. Thanks for the great information.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +3

      I'm sorry to hear about your experience, and it's understandable that you're feeling hurt and used. Breakups can be incredibly challenging, but it's also a time for reflection and growth. Learning from past experiences, like the insights shared in the video, can help you navigate future relationships more effectively. Remember to be kind to yourself during this time and focus on personal growth and healing. That's what I learned from Stoicism. It's okay to take things at your own pace and to prioritize your well-being. Wishing you strength and resilience as you move forward.

    • @sugipulaboule9
      @sugipulaboule9 2 місяці тому

      Hahahahahahah hahahahaha,,,, don't worry, remember, things happen for a reason.

  • @SaulMashele
    @SaulMashele Місяць тому +15

    I'm in the same situation of chasing a woman, but after watching this motivational video. I have learned to be myself. Thank you very much

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  Місяць тому +1

      That's awesome to hear! Staying true to yourself is always the best approach. Keep up the positivity, and best of luck!

  • @jose-jn3zf
    @jose-jn3zf 4 місяці тому +141

    It's crazy that this video was in my suggestions at a time in my life when I really needed to hear this. Thank you.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for watching the video, please continue to explore our channel, there will be many useful things for you!

    • @WalkerronnieRonald
      @WalkerronnieRonald 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@StoicLegend_ I tried ask out for valatines she ended up saying she is held up somewhere else I felt so depressied and lonely after one month later I found her out with a bunch of boys and one boy holding her up like punching 👜 bag

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +2

      Ignore such girls, focus on developing yourself, all good things will come to you!@@WalkerronnieRonald

    • @bechtholdillustrator9378
      @bechtholdillustrator9378 3 місяці тому +3

      It's called algorithm

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      Yes, that's true, UA-cam always delivers videos to the right users. Thank you for watching and supporting us!

  • @johnnydodgecountry9508
    @johnnydodgecountry9508 Місяць тому +7

    EVERY TIME ...I ever went above and beyond to please a woman , I got F'd...and NOT in the way I'd have preferred. ONLY , when I switched it up and started " Doing ME " , did I finally find the RIGHT girl and can tell you this much , It's good to be good , but NOT when you're too good for your own good.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  Місяць тому +2

      It sounds like you've had quite the journey in finding the right balance in relationships! Remember it's important to prioritize your own happiness and well-being. Thank you for tuning in!

  • @sangramkesharinayak5791
    @sangramkesharinayak5791 2 місяці тому +7

    I somehow came across this video at the point where i needed it the most. The words kept resonating with me throughout. I felt a divine power that the cosmos needed me to hear this out and it was indeed a moment of truth for me through this video. Thanks @Stoic Legend for crafting such a content, i will help millions for sure.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +1

      I'm so grateful that the video reached you at just the right moment. It's truly inspiring to hear how the words resonated with you. If there's any particular insight or moment that stood out as especially meaningful, I’d love to hear about it. Thank you for your encouraging words and for being a part of our community!
      From *Stoic Legend*

  • @tanujk3766
    @tanujk3766 2 місяці тому +14

    One-sided love where your self respect always loses..but love always win,win, always win🙂🖤 moment

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +2

      Great! It sounds like you've captured a complex and bittersweet aspect of love. Thanks so much for sharing your thought!

  • @debclark6026
    @debclark6026 3 місяці тому +15

    I love this video!! It is timeless wisdom and exactly the type of healthy message for anyone who attracts it. I will watch this video over and over again, regardless of whether I need support in getting back on track or when I am counting my blessings and giving thanks. Thank you so much!! ❤❤❤🙏

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! It's wonderful to hear that you found value and inspiration in this video. It's true that timeless wisdom can be a source of guidance and positivity in various aspects of our lives. Whether we need motivation to get back on track or reminders to be grateful, these messages can resonate deeply. Wishing you continued blessings, growth, and gratitude on your journey! ❤️🙏

  • @user-en2gf8oy2m
    @user-en2gf8oy2m 5 днів тому +1

    Have just broken up with my school girl friend of seven years. We have a child. But through out all these years she has had no return love for me. She now has a better job than mine but I chased and felt exhausted. So we broke up. Am adapting to life with out her. Ts so painful. These words have added to my strength. I now priotise my self. Thanks

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  5 днів тому +2

      I'm sorry to hear about your breakup and the challenges you're facing. It's understandable to feel hurt and exhausted after investing so much time and effort into a relationship. It sounds like you've made a tough but necessary decision for your well-being and priorities. Taking care of yourself and focusing on your own happiness is crucial. It's okay to feel pain during this adjustment period, but remember that prioritizing yourself is a step towards healing and finding happiness again. Stay strong, and take each day at a time. You're not alone in this journey. Thank you for watching!

  • @passportninja2994
    @passportninja2994 Місяць тому +8

    No contact is so hard but once you get over the hump, you'll be fine. I'm working out, putting in more hours at work, supporting my son's track and field meets and I'm painting the inside of my home as well as buying all new furniture. My ex calls me and stalks My page after not reaching out to her. I've met so many women that are just falling from the sky.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  Місяць тому +1

      It sounds like you're really making strides in focusing on yourself and your own well-being! No contact can indeed be challenging, but it's heartening to hear how you're channeling that energy into positive outlets. Your dedication to personal growth, your son's activities, and even revamping your living space is truly inspiring. Keep prioritizing your own happiness, you're on the right track! Thank you so much for supporting us!
      From *Stoic Legend*

    • @omarova1935
      @omarova1935 Місяць тому +1

      I'm stuck on the hump part right now its so frustrating

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  Місяць тому +1

      @@omarova1935 I hear you. Getting stuck in the "hump" part of a process can be incredibly frustrating. It might help to break down the task into smaller, more manageable steps, focusing on one thing at a time. Sometimes taking a step back, gaining some perspective, or seeking advice from others can also provide clarity and help you overcome the obstacle. Remember, it's okay to feel frustrated, but don't let it deter you from moving forward. You've got this! Wishing you the best?

    • @DatBoyJames
      @DatBoyJames 25 днів тому +1

      I cracked twice in my phase but now I think I’m nailing it. 2 weeks of no contact! I deleted social media, work 60 hour weeks now and go straight the gym afterwards! Just staying busy!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  25 днів тому +1

      @@DatBoyJames Thank you for sharing!

  • @bingchilling495
    @bingchilling495 3 місяці тому +42

    the difference between love and obsession is that obsession is temporary love is eternal

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +2

      I agree with you!
      Love is long-term care and respect, while obsession is often temporary and controlling. Love opens the door to freedom and growth, while obsession tends to bind and limit. It is important to recognize and nurture a healthy and balanced love.

    • @daveyvane9431
      @daveyvane9431 2 місяці тому +1

      Wow, you should write poetry for Love magazine

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +1

      @@daveyvane9431 Thank you for the compliment! Writing poetry for Love magazine sounds like an exciting opportunity. If you have any connections or if Love magazine is interested, feel free to let me know-I'd be happy to explore it further

  • @2602rg
    @2602rg 3 місяці тому +12

    I'm in transit walking out of only needed relationship ( external). It is my friend who understand and stand by me. Thanks 😊

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +2

      Be stronger and become better, I firmly believe that then you are the center of the universe!

  • @mattcole6292
    @mattcole6292 3 місяці тому +26

    People are like dirt; they can either nourish you, and help you grow as a person, or they can stunt your growth and make you wilt and die." ~ Plato

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +2

      Exactly!

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      What impresses you at 14:37?

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      Do you feel regretful about that?

    • @maksman.maurice
      @maksman.maurice 2 місяці тому

      But be wary of this video in today's world we need to connect where nec

  • @juanmontelongo7314
    @juanmontelongo7314 3 місяці тому +25

    I very much needed this today. I will try to use this advise moving forward. Thank you.

  • @Hyanlemspotlight
    @Hyanlemspotlight 2 місяці тому +9

    I'm rejected one . Please pray and help the broken hearted and rejected like me..

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +5

      I'm truly sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult time. Rejection can be incredibly tough, but please know that you're not alone. You are valued and deserving of love and acceptance. Take the time you need to heal, and remember that brighter days are ahead. You're in my thoughts, and I'm here to support you in any way I can. Focus on developing yourself, intelligence, health, virtue, appearance, all good things will come to you!

    • @Hyanlemspotlight
      @Hyanlemspotlight 2 місяці тому +1

      @@StoicLegend_ I hope in the End..

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +3

      I wish all the best to you!

    • @delfinflores3595
      @delfinflores3595 2 місяці тому +3

      All the thoughts in this video happened to me.. after 16 years of time with her. Now I am left alone.. but hearing this need to stand up again.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +1

      @@delfinflores3595 I'm sorry to hear about what you've been through. It's never easy to navigate the aftermath of such experiences, but it's inspiring to see your resilience and determination to stand up again. Remember, you're not alone, and there's always hope for brighter days ahead. Keep moving forward, one step at a time. You've got this! - From *Stoic Legend*

  • @dwaynebronk
    @dwaynebronk 3 місяці тому +31

    Very thought provoking. Never be a doormat to anyone

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +2

      Absolutely, you're spot on! It's crucial to maintain self-respect and set healthy boundaries in all aspects of life. Standing up for yourself doesn't mean being aggressive; it means valuing your worth and ensuring others do too. Keep embracing your strength and authenticity! 💪🌟

  • @AnaS-dd5xm
    @AnaS-dd5xm 3 місяці тому +34

    This not only applies to dating but to all sort of relationships, friends and family
    Thank you for sharing

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +2

      You have very deep thoughts, it's great that you realized that, thank you!

    • @Arwaa.M.Jarrin
      @Arwaa.M.Jarrin 2 місяці тому

      Some men were created to be celibate. Celibacy is their test in the world. Because they're sensitive and emotional and because they are dependent on people and human emotions of feelings of love and loyalty, celibacy is their test and celibacy is their answer. Celibacy is their blessing and celibacy they think is their curse. And whenever an intelligent and wise man goes into a relationship and seeks love and happiness in this world from a woman, he ends up suffering so much through other reasons that he ends up emotionally and mentally breaking down and becoming depressed and dependent upon a man emotionally physically and eventually sexually.
      And many of them end up falling in love with younger boys after sexually being involved with an intelligent and emotional man who feels dishonoured and humiliated by the sexually serving their boyfriends and husbands.
      The answer is very simple. Celibacy...
      Purity. Piety. Chastity.
      Although for a person who is mentally and emotionally depressed and spends all his life crying weeping and wailing and being sad, the greatest nightmare of that person is to be single and chaste. But if they could suffer that pain of celibacy for 3 to 5 years, then they would find such happiness and such fulfilment in their lives and they would never ever have to go through the long part of seeking sexual pleasure from a woman and then falling in love with a man and then becoming a criminal to keep that man and then becoming a murderer and a monster and a weak person who is dependent on another person's love and has to destroy the universe and every religion and every law just to justify themselves and they're sick sexual sexuality.
      Although celibacy and Chastity is a word of fear and terror to men. These two words hold every honour, every friendship, every happiness, every power, every fulfilment, health happiness honour respect true friendships ultimate happiness and ultimate success in this world and the next for every single emotional and intelligent man.
      No man in the world suffered because of celibacy. No man in the world ever suffered because of chastity. No man was ever famed because he was celibate. No man was ever tortured because he was chaste. No man was ever tortured and humiliated and assaulted because he was pious. No man was ever killed murdered or framed for being celibate and chaste and pure

  • @ildikovisolit2014
    @ildikovisolit2014 2 місяці тому +8

    I agree with almost everything in this video. Thank you for the reminder to put myself first because so far no one else has done so. I’m always putting myself out to help others and it’s hardly ever reciprocated ❤❤❤😢

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. It's truly important to prioritize self-care and self-love, especially when you're naturally inclined to help others. Remember, taking care of yourself isn't selfish; it's necessary. Your wellbeing matters just as much as anyone else's. Keep embracing your kind heart, but don't forget to nurture it as well. Sending you positive vibes and support! ❤️
      From *Stoic Legend*

  • @user-nm6bs9ru6x
    @user-nm6bs9ru6x 3 місяці тому +25

    Men and women should follow this advice.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +3

      Thanks for sharing your thought! Indeed, gender doesn't define the need for growth and resilience, and this knowledge resonates with everyone!!

    • @johnc1280
      @johnc1280 3 місяці тому

      Only problem created is if neither makes any effort; it’s then a stalemate and no progress or advancement forward. ‘No I want him to chase me’ meets ‘no I want her to chase me’
      Do the math there

  • @patriciagonzalez6903
    @patriciagonzalez6903 2 місяці тому +2

    Wow! So spot on! I needed to listen to these pieces of advice. I was doing exactly the opposite of what you said one should do to stand up for themselves and shine with their own light. Thank you!

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +1

      I'm glad to hear that the advice resonated with you! It's never too late to start standing up for yourself and embracing your unique light. Keep shining bright and staying true to yourself! If you have any more questions or need further guidance, feel free to ask.
      From *Stoic Legend*

  • @StoicLegend_
    @StoicLegend_  4 місяці тому +2

    What makes you think the most in today's video? 🧐🧐

  • @ZweliBruceNdzo
    @ZweliBruceNdzo 2 місяці тому +7

    Waaoooo ;;;; today as the Sun sets I feel very strong after opening the Video . Thankyou Tonic Legend

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +1

      It's nice to hear this from you, I always wish to convey knowledge and positive energy to everyone, thank you for watching and supporting us!

  • @StoicLegend_
    @StoicLegend_  4 місяці тому +31

    Please leave your thoughts on these, thank you!
    🎯 Key Moments:
    00:00 - Intro
    01:11 - 1. Don't reshape your life to fit others'
    02:12 - 2. Don’t ruin your life by being too obsessed with someone
    03:23 - 3. Don't let anything harm your mental health or happiness
    04:36 - 4. Don't push friends or family away for someone else
    05:46 - 5. Don’t invest too much time in them
    07:00 - 6. Don't reveal everything about your past, especially the tough times
    08:12 - 7. Don't agree simply to satisfy them
    09:35 - 8. Don't be controlled by the fear of solitude
    11:06 - 9. Don't forget to celebrate even small wins
    13:35 - Conclusion

    • @YesmeNah
      @YesmeNah 3 місяці тому

      Hey I am doing all of the above things you mentioned just to fit in my boyfriends life and make him happy. Right now he's giving me a cold shoulder just because I refuse to send my nudes to him 🙂🙂

  • @anZar._xxvll
    @anZar._xxvll Місяць тому +7

    the more we learn the more silent we become :)

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  Місяць тому +2

      Indeed, learning often leads to deeper understanding, which can sometimes leave us speechless. Keep seeking knowledge in the silence! Thank you for watching, please continue supporting us!

  • @ESHaoranile2531
    @ESHaoranile2531 4 місяці тому +13

    Very powerful thoughts. Thank U

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you. What impressed you the most about this video?

  • @user-yg8he7ot6u
    @user-yg8he7ot6u 3 місяці тому +5

    I started listening to this video this morning and I felt very inspired because I had a tossing and turning night last night. When I was tossing and turning I know something was not right. Then this video came out and inspired me as I was listening to it saying never give your flashlight to somebody in the dark.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      You are a very thoughtful person, the example you give is also great! Advice too!
      Have you encountered anything difficult to think about?

    • @user-yg8he7ot6u
      @user-yg8he7ot6u 3 місяці тому +1

      @@StoicLegend_ a new lady who came into my life

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +2

      Use all your experience to treat her well!

  • @K.I.R.B.
    @K.I.R.B. 2 місяці тому +3

    As someone who’s currently going through this, this helps a lot thank you so much! I’ve studied philosophy for over a year now and I’ve been trying to reshape my mind to stoicism, although I struggle with mental disorders, I am aware that this mindset really does help with inner peace. It’s a process but with time it will help. Thank you for this 🙏🏻

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +2

      I'm really glad to hear that you found the video helpful! It's wonderful to see you taking steps towards reshaping your mindset and finding inner peace, especially while dealing with mental disorders. Remember, it's okay to struggle along the way - progress takes time and patience. Keep nurturing that Stoic mindset, and I'm sure you'll continue to see positive changes in your life. Stay strong, and keep moving forward! 🙏🏻
      From *Stoic Legend*

    • @K.I.R.B.
      @K.I.R.B. 2 місяці тому +1

      @@StoicLegend_ Thank you so much I appreciate that🙏🏻🙏🏻Truly it means a lot to me!

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you!

  • @user-tz2ts3rs7q
    @user-tz2ts3rs7q 3 місяці тому +5

    Thank you so much❤
    These rules are going to change my life

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      You're welcome! I'm so glad to hear that these rules are making a positive impact on your life. Keep up the great work, and remember that consistency is key. You've got this! 💪😊

  • @user-co8mr4ng4x
    @user-co8mr4ng4x 2 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for helping me grow. Let's choose to embrace ourselves. We don't need approval from no one.Danko.❤

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +1

      You're welcome! Embracing ourselves and finding our own validation is key to personal growth and happiness. Keep believing in yourself and your journey. Danko! ❤️ *Stoic Legend*

  • @user-bz7uw2bf1l
    @user-bz7uw2bf1l 2 місяці тому +3

    A very profound analysis for anyone's being! Follow your bliss, while also staying empathetic to others!

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +1

      Absolutely! Following your bliss is crucial for personal fulfillment, but it's equally important to remain empathetic and considerate towards others' journeys and experiences. Balancing our own happiness with empathy creates a harmonious existence for all. Thanks for sharing your insight!

  • @johnzouein5191
    @johnzouein5191 3 місяці тому +3

    I was about to do all those mistakes, thanks god that I watched that video...
    Man has a heart of a child

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      It's great that you found the video helpful and were able to gain valuable insights from it. Recognizing and learning from past mistakes is part of growth, and having a compassionate heart is indeed a wonderful trait. Keep striving for self-improvement and authenticity in your interactions!

  • @cephusbrooks5291
    @cephusbrooks5291 3 місяці тому +21

    This has made me taken a step back from a lady who I really cared for and love. I reached to the extent that I said to myself that I have done all I can to show how really I love her, though not big stuffs, but those little kind that I did to show how I truly love her, but the lack reciprocation was too much from her. So here I’m, my feelings are all gone and i don’t want to pretend to her that I’m still in just in case she sees reasons, which I hope not.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +11

      I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through. It's incredibly difficult when feelings are not reciprocated, especially when you've put in a lot of effort to show your love and care. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and emotional health in situations like these. Taking a step back to reassess and protect your own feelings is a brave decision. Remember that it's okay to prioritize yourself and your happiness. Wishing you strength and healing as you navigate through this challenging time.

    • @raugust3376
      @raugust3376 Місяць тому +1

      I am in the exact same situation right now bro i tried everything to fix things between me and her but she wasn't reciprocating cos she is already emotionally invested in her "male friend" which hurts me the most

  • @gratefulmarie
    @gratefulmarie 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing❤

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      What did you find in the video, thank you for watching and supporting us!

  • @LeeBlackwell-kt5fo
    @LeeBlackwell-kt5fo 2 місяці тому +6

    Never put the responsibility of your mental wellbeing in the hands of another...hard lesson.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +2

      You're absolutely right; it's a hard but crucial lesson to learn. Our mental well-being is ultimately our own responsibility, and relying on others to fulfill that can lead to disappointment and frustration. It's important to prioritize self-care, set boundaries, and develop healthy coping mechanisms. Seeking support and companionship is valuable, but relying solely on others for our mental well-being can be risky. Learning to nurture our own mental health is a journey that requires self-awareness and self-compassion. Keep taking care of yourself and finding what works best for your well-being

  • @mindmaxus
    @mindmaxus Місяць тому +2

    I recommend stoicism for anyone looking to improve their emotional intelligence. This video is a must-watch!

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much for your support!!

  • @StoicWisdomyt5
    @StoicWisdomyt5 2 місяці тому +2

    "The Stoic idea of 'the dichotomy of control' has completely shifted my perspective on life."

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for sharing and supporting us!

  • @SohaQuotes
    @SohaQuotes 3 місяці тому +6

    These 9 things are meaningful and true in real life. Thanks for sharing this video. 😘

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you, which do you think is the most important?

  • @NC-un7tr
    @NC-un7tr 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank you. This is so timely. I cannot do all things at once so my focus now is mainly for my kids

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +3

      You're welcome! Focusing on your kids and their well-being is a wonderful priority. Taking things step by step and prioritizing what matters most in the moment is a great way to ensure you're giving your best where it's needed most. Wishing you all the best on your parenting journey!

  • @shrutiagokhale258
    @shrutiagokhale258 Місяць тому +2

    "I used to listen lots of motivational video like this one." When we love someone a lot and that person also treat at first like we are precious to him.our profound love starts to grow that time. Unfortunately,When that person discovers our deep love for him.He starts take us granted."that's why we have to choices only, Either we could hide our love for him which is so hard to do, Or get ready to be treated like u dervalued. Once human understand that the other loves him he focus on others thinks and ignore us." At one point we feel like no one can love you more then your yourself.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  Місяць тому +1

      Your experience highlights the ups and downs of love. Initially feeling cherished, only to later feel taken for granted, is a common challenge. Your insight about the shift in focus once love is known is astute. Ultimately, recognizing the importance of self-love becomes paramount. Thanks for sharing.

  • @Fed01languages
    @Fed01languages 2 місяці тому +2

    I needed that, thank you Sir!

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +1

      please continue supporting us!

  • @user-rr3fl3sw5w
    @user-rr3fl3sw5w Місяць тому +3

    Wow thank you!! I was entangled in someone else’s world and yes it did disrupt my balance. ..

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  Місяць тому +1

      I'm glad this resonated with you! It's all too easy to get caught up in someone else's world and lose sight of our own balance. Remember to prioritize your own well-being and journey. You deserve to thrive in your own unique way. From *Stoic Legend*

  • @Subcritical96
    @Subcritical96 3 місяці тому +6

    I learned these principle's of what not to do early in my life. What taught me was I dated a woman for about a two years. We broke up. I was deeply sadden for awhile until I started dating again. As expected (the ex) kept calling me and filling up my messaged machine. Finally I broke down and called her. As expected she was begging me back. I told her no way that the train wreck has long gone. Then she said, "What shall I tell my daughter?". I told her I don't care and don't ever call me again and by the way she should get a couple of cats and get use to them😃. The power I felt was overwhelming. I am now with the woman that replaced her for almost 20 years and very happy.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +2

      It sounds like you went through a challenging experience but ultimately learned valuable lessons about boundaries and self-worth. It's important to prioritize your own happiness and well-being, and it seems like you've found a fulfilling relationship as a result. Setting boundaries and sticking to them can be difficult but ultimately rewarding. Wishing you continued happiness in your current relationship! 😊

    • @Subcritical96
      @Subcritical96 3 місяці тому +1

      @@StoicLegend_ keep up the great content. Absolutely! I have learned to apply the stoic ways to control my emotions. Stoicism is the way. Stoicism is powerful once understood and applied correctly.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you, please always support us!@@Subcritical96

    • @Subcritical96
      @Subcritical96 3 місяці тому +1

      @@StoicLegend_ subscribed

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you!

  • @Dano.book-em24
    @Dano.book-em24 Місяць тому +1

    Truer words were never spoken. Thank you, Stoic Legend. This is both empowering and uplifting. Personal growth and enhancement are up to each one of us. Don't give away your gold.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  Місяць тому +2

      Thank you! If there's anything else you need, just let me know. keep enjoying our video!

    • @Dano.book-em24
      @Dano.book-em24 Місяць тому +1

      @@StoicLegend_ Much appreciated!

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  15 днів тому +1

      Thank you! I'm so happy to hear this, I hope you can share it with many people!

  • @patriciapeters8232
    @patriciapeters8232 3 місяці тому +2

    I really enjoyed this .thank you.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for watching and supporting our video, what do you like most in this video?

  • @Angellisable
    @Angellisable 3 місяці тому +3

    So grateful for this channel

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      I'm glad to hear that you're enjoying the channel! What specifically do you find most helpful or interesting about it? Your feedback can help us continue to create content you love.

  • @Hmongboi228
    @Hmongboi228 2 місяці тому +8

    It's March the 31st, 2024 Easter Sunday and this vid is not a lot about what a man should NOT do with women but some damn good life philosophy in general when it's needed at this time in the journey of my life.. 🤝

    • @KitesRs-ev7fx
      @KitesRs-ev7fx 2 місяці тому +2

      Here I am five min later in the comment after finishing same vid

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +2

      Absolutely! Sometimes, life lessons come to us in unexpected ways, and it's great that you were able to find some valuable philosophy in this video. Easter Sunday is indeed a special time for reflection and growth. Keep embracing those lessons and applying them positively in your journey. 🙏🏼✨

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +2

      What do you want to search for?@@KitesRs-ev7fx

  • @gergemall
    @gergemall 2 місяці тому +2

    This is EXCELLENT. I’ve been trying to help my wife for over a decade with learned helplessness. Thank you. Perfect ❤

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +1

      I'm glad you found the content helpful! Learned helplessness can be challenging, but with patience and support, progress is absolutely possible. Keep up the great work in supporting your wife, and remember, small steps forward lead to significant changes over time. Wishing you both continued success and growth! ❤️

    • @amitkumar-wy9vp
      @amitkumar-wy9vp Місяць тому

      😅​@@StoicLegend_
      How to heal from a bad break up..bro..I need some advice..plzzzz share a word

  • @tashoguyo5583
    @tashoguyo5583 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you so much for the lesson you teach us may God give more experience &live long bro

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      Which lesson do you find most true in the video?

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for watching and supporting us, God will bless you with blessings, health, and joy!

  • @318DoubleE
    @318DoubleE 3 місяці тому +3

    Some people will go to great lengths to do harm your mental health. That’s why faith is needed and remembering who you are.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +2

      Absolutely, maintaining a strong sense of self and having faith can be crucial in navigating challenges to mental health. It's important to remember our worth and identity, especially in the face of negativity or harmful behavior from others. Building resilience and seeking support from trusted sources can also help in protecting and nurturing our mental well-being.

  • @Jonnydriller
    @Jonnydriller 3 місяці тому +14

    I ain’t trying to be perfect. I’m just trying to be better and I continue to strive to make it there day by day.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +4

      Yes, thoughts are great, focus on yourself, everything will come to you!

  • @pankychampya
    @pankychampya 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for the video. Thank you🙏🙏🙏

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +1

      Nice to hear this, if you have any questions or suggestions, please let us know!

  • @arrenmutambanshiku9263
    @arrenmutambanshiku9263 29 днів тому +2

    Excellent rediscovery of life's self-touch. Great community indeed!

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  29 днів тому +1

      Thank you for your wonderful comment! It's always a pleasure to reconnect with the deeper aspects of life and share it with such an amazing community. Your support means a lot! Keep enjoying our video!

  • @bruce7021
    @bruce7021 2 місяці тому +3

    🙏 No Disrespect " but I got to put it out that everybody's family is different" and I myself have always been on my own and doing just fine without my family " again everybody's family are different" and situations. All in all 🙏 thank you for sharing the wisdom that you are putting out.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  Місяць тому +1

      Absolutely, everyone's family dynamics and personal circumstances vary greatly. It's commendable that you've found your own path and thrived independently. Your resilience and self-reliance are strengths to be celebrated. Thank you for appreciating the insights shared, and may you continue to navigate life with grace and strength, regardless of familial ties or lack thereof. 🙏 - From *StoicLegend*

  • @Anil-hc9mv
    @Anil-hc9mv 3 місяці тому +3

    The power of inspiration and personality.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for highlighting the importance of inspiration and personality! These qualities have a profound impact on our lives and the lives of those around us. Let's continue to celebrate and learn from these inspiring individuals who light up our paths with their unique qualities! 💪😊🌟

  • @trevorfry452
    @trevorfry452 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for your words of wisdom

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +1

      Please continue to watch and support us!

  • @JWReichert
    @JWReichert 2 місяці тому +2

    I have dreams of my future 2nd wife. Her name is Lauren. Our tough times actually makes us who we are, a it's an important part of us both. We will share that, but for the purpose of joimt healing, and we do that for our benefit and for nobody else. And also, Lauren and I are a TEAM. We each have something the other person needs.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +2

      It sounds like you have a vivid vision of your future and the kind of relationship you aspire to have with Lauren. Sharing tough times and overcoming challenges together can indeed strengthen a bond, forming a deep connection between partners. Viewing yourselves as a team, where each person brings something valuable to the table, is a powerful perspective. Remembering that your relationship is primarily for your mutual benefit and growth is key to nurturing a strong and enduring connection. Wishing you all the best on your journey towards finding and building that partnership with Lauren.
      Thank you for sharing!

  • @Ferdouse
    @Ferdouse 2 місяці тому +3

    Its a massive uphill battle to get past a lost love. The video clearly tells you what you must do, you should be the one dictating your path. Be thankful for the emotions you have experienced, there could be even bigger pastures ahead.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +1

      Absolutely, moving on from a lost love can indeed feel like an uphill battle, and it's a journey that takes time and patience. You're right that it's crucial to take control of your own path and make choices that are best for your own growth and happiness. While it's natural to feel the pain of a lost love, it's also important to be grateful for the emotions and experiences you've had, as they contribute to your personal growth and understanding of yourself. And as you rightly pointed out, there may indeed be even bigger and brighter opportunities waiting for you in the future. Keep focusing on your own well-being and growth, and trust that you're moving towards those bigger pastures ahead. - From *Stoic Legend*

  • @veluganesan5068
    @veluganesan5068 3 місяці тому +4

    Thank you universe

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for watching and supporting our video, keep watching other videos and let us know what you think about it!

  • @viveknandan3619
    @viveknandan3619 24 дні тому +2

    Thank you, universe, for these life insights. It's really important to know all these things.

  • @farminglittlepeople9623
    @farminglittlepeople9623 2 місяці тому +2

    Wow, that was so helpful! Thank you for posting this!🙏

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +2

      I'm thrilled to hear that you found the content helpful! Your appreciation motivates me to keep sharing valuable information. Thank you for watching and for your kind words! 🙏

    • @farminglittlepeople9623
      @farminglittlepeople9623 2 місяці тому +1

      @@StoicLegend_ Awesome! I look forward to your content

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you, please look forward to our new videos!

  • @dalepeter1870
    @dalepeter1870 3 місяці тому +10

    Always an enlightenment listening to those phylosophy . Great and powerful scripts . Thanks for sharing

  • @akahpiusodey4777
    @akahpiusodey4777 3 місяці тому +5

    This is timely. Truly an unexamined life is not worth living.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      That's right, let's continue to experience, thereby drawing conclusions for ourselves!

  • @animetv2228
    @animetv2228 3 місяці тому +1

    Thankss you i really need this😊

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for watching and supporting us, what do you like most about this video?

  • @stoicdna101
    @stoicdna101 16 днів тому +2

    Thank You For Daily Stoic Videos

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  16 днів тому +1

      Glad you like them! Keep enjoying our video!

  • @manjunathmanu1934
    @manjunathmanu1934 3 місяці тому +6

    I was very depressed because of girl rejecting me every point of this video are very provoking now i think i wasted most of time with wrong person for wrong things from now onwards should use it wisely

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +3

      Develop yourself and live as yourself, then you will attract better quality and truly worthwhile relationships!

  • @edwin2963
    @edwin2963 3 місяці тому +7

    So much insightful wisdom..wish i got this guidance years ago as women caused so much mess in my life

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      It's never too late, focus on yourself, thank you for watching and supporting us!

    • @bartvankampen1161
      @bartvankampen1161 3 місяці тому +1

      Didn't you let these women do that?

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +2

      Absolutely, women can also apply these things to men. And let's focus on developing our intelligence and soul deep inside, all good things will come to us!

  • @kalejaiyemichael9300
    @kalejaiyemichael9300 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for this wonderful lecture very Educative.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for watching and supporting us, we have many more videos like this, please watch and let us know what you think about it!

  • @sabyasachideb5417
    @sabyasachideb5417 2 місяці тому +1

    Such wise thoughts n advises.. loved them.. v.true

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +1

      I'm glad you found the response helpful! If you ever need more advice or insights, feel free to ask.

  • @NapkinEdStern
    @NapkinEdStern 2 місяці тому +4

    Very great and wise video right here.

  • @MsJW4ever
    @MsJW4ever 4 місяці тому +6

    Lots of food for thought 👍🏾💜

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  4 місяці тому +1

      What made you ponder the most in the video?

    • @MsJW4ever
      @MsJW4ever 4 місяці тому +1

      09:35 - 8. Don't be controlled by the fear of solitude
      Sometimes a person will make allowances or compromise out of fear of being alone 😢

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  4 місяці тому +1

      I also think so, there will be people who accept things that do not belong to them because they are afraid of being alone, thank you for giving such a great perspective!

  • @teclis4527
    @teclis4527 29 днів тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  29 днів тому +1

      You're welcome! I'm glad you found the conversation valuable. If you have any more questions or need further insights, feel free to reach out. Enjoy your day!

  • @batmongol3083
    @batmongol3083 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you you saved my life 💚🙏🏼

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for watching and supporting the video, what do you find best in this video?

  • @f18_
    @f18_ 3 місяці тому +3

    I forgot to celebrate my milestones. Thank you for reminding me! Thank you!

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +2

      Congratulations on your milestones! It's great that you're taking the time to acknowledge and celebrate your achievements. Keep up the fantastic work!
      Celebrating will bring us many emotions and continue to strive to reach the next milestone! Try your best!

  • @georgenganga1255
    @georgenganga1255 3 місяці тому +3

    Too powerful ❤

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you, what do you like most about this video?

  • @dwaynegarfield1551
    @dwaynegarfield1551 Місяць тому +1

    Absolutely great video!💕🙏👊

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed the video! 💕🙏 Your support means a lot!

  • @hectorborrero5443
    @hectorborrero5443 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for the advice.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  Місяць тому +1

      You're very welcome! If you have any more questions or need further advice, feel free to ask. I'm here to help! Please continue supporting us!

  • @9pmKingGo2sleep
    @9pmKingGo2sleep 26 днів тому +3

    If she expects me to always come out of my pockets to keep her near then she was never mine to begin with

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  26 днів тому +1

      Thank you for sharing! Please continue supporting us!

  • @sparrowoclock7127
    @sparrowoclock7127 3 місяці тому +18

    This isn’t only about boyfriend girlfriend issues… Family can’t put u in this type of situations too … and that’s even worse

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      You have great insight, which can be applied to many relationships!

    • @amanthatthinks
      @amanthatthinks 3 місяці тому +1

      And workplaces

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому

      thank you@@amanthatthinks

  • @rolandsales5489
    @rolandsales5489 2 місяці тому +1

    Amazing and powerful reflections to ponder.💪💪💪👍👍👍👍👍

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! We're thrilled that you found the reflections powerful and thought-provoking. Your support means a lot to us! 💪💪💪 What impresses you the most?

  • @ht7832
    @ht7832 2 місяці тому +2

    I had to subscribe , for this outstanding video. Good content keep it comjng.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you so much for subscribing and for your kind words! I'm thrilled to hear that you found the video outstanding and the content valuable. Your support means a lot, and I'll definitely keep creating and sharing more content. If you have any topics or suggestions you'd like to see covered in future videos, feel free to let me know. Thanks again for being part of the community!
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  • @JonDingle
    @JonDingle 3 місяці тому +6

    The messages in this video apply to all aspects and relationships in life, not just women.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      I'm glad to hear that, just be yourself. What do you like most about the video?

  • @csdavid-go7wh
    @csdavid-go7wh 3 місяці тому +4

    Wise to love oneself

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      Great, can you share more about this?

  • @ericeckstrom5839
    @ericeckstrom5839 3 місяці тому +2

    This is one of the best

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for watching and supporting our videos! Let's continue that!

  • @harshaprasad9636
    @harshaprasad9636 Місяць тому +1

    Really appreciate this..❤

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  Місяць тому +1

      You're very welcome! I'm here to help anytime you need it. If there's anything else on your mind or if you have any other questions, just let me know. ❤️ *Stoic Legend*

  • @samsonchikopa4208
    @samsonchikopa4208 3 місяці тому +7

    Attachment is the root of all suffering

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

      So I believe it's important for us to live authentically as ourselves!

  • @jamesmorris3003
    @jamesmorris3003 3 місяці тому +4

    I’ve been going through a lot since last year with my ex it’s a lot to discuss so I’ll just say this I wish I would’ve heard this last yr and the biggest mistake I made went my ex left me the first time and had me depressed and suicidal long story short I got back strong move on excepted it and 5 months later she came back wanting to work things out and wen i think about it I responded back to fast so we was 2 and half months in but I started seeing red flags again now she walk out of my life again now she wit another man but from here on out I gotta start listening to more of these contents for sure.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +3

      I'm sorry to hear about your tough experience with your ex, but I admire your strength in moving forward. It's important to learn from past mistakes and prioritize your well-being. Keep seeking positive content and surround yourself with support. You deserve happiness and a healthy relationship in the future. Stay strong! 💪🏼🌟

    • @jamesmorris3003
      @jamesmorris3003 3 місяці тому +2

      @@StoicLegend_ thank u so much I will most definitely take these videos advice for now on thank u and god bless

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +2

      Thank you and God bless you!

  • @yungnguyen2770
    @yungnguyen2770 3 місяці тому +1

    Well said 🎉! Thanks 🙏

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +1

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    • @yungnguyen2770
      @yungnguyen2770 3 місяці тому +1

      I enjoyed your advices ! Thank you, I will invests more my golden health, value and happiness. Everything else is dusty…and no value.

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      @StoicLegend_  3 місяці тому +2

      Thank you, please support us to receive more meaningful videos!

  • @owususamuel543
    @owususamuel543 2 місяці тому +2

    A new me today thanks to stoic teachings

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for watching! ! If you have any questions or suggestions, please let us know! 😊

  • @ticiao
    @ticiao 2 місяці тому +6

    It’s funny they have the same video for women so if no one is reaching out or trying to contact. Who is? Guess we all are staying single.

    • @StoicLegend_
      @StoicLegend_  2 місяці тому +3

      It's true that sometimes it can feel like there's a disconnect or lack of initiative in dating and relationships. However, it's important to remember that finding a connection takes time and effort from both sides. Just because it may seem quiet on the surface doesn't mean opportunities aren't out there. Keep an open mind, continue meeting new people, and focus on personal growth. Sometimes the right person comes into our lives when we least expect it. Stay positive and keep putting yourself out there!
      Thank you for watching!