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  • @StoicLegend_Official
    @StoicLegend_Official  9 місяців тому +142

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    • @Mary_QQQ
      @Mary_QQQ 9 місяців тому +1

      Beware of misogyny. We women can do likewise to unworthy and dishonourable men. What's sauce for the goose is sauce 🫕 for the gander 🪿

    • @TimothyBudbill-j4v
      @TimothyBudbill-j4v 8 місяців тому +5

      Ok

    • @TimothyBudbill-j4v
      @TimothyBudbill-j4v 8 місяців тому +2

      Is there a way to have a one on one in arizona or do I have to come there 5

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +4

      We do not compare women or men, in all articles, we always hope you develop yourself, focus on being yourself, all good things will come to you!

    • @StoicMan111
      @StoicMan111 8 місяців тому +2

      Good luck👏👏

  • @Ziggle-ky9kv
    @Ziggle-ky9kv 2 місяці тому +683

    There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

    • @trietlytritueconhan
      @trietlytritueconhan День тому

      I totally agree with you! There’s a lot to learn about the art of communication and understanding what makes connections genuine. The book you mentioned sounds fascinating-especially the part about body language and conversation starters. It’s interesting how such small details can have a huge impact. What’s one piece of advice from the book that really stood out to you?

  • @CCRadio-qd8xy
    @CCRadio-qd8xy 8 місяців тому +418

    1.Don't reshape your life to fit others
    2. Number two: Don't ruin your life by being too obsessed with someone
    3. Number three: Don't let anything harm your mental health or happiness
    4. Don't push friends or family away for someone else
    5. Don't invest too much time in them
    6. Don't reveal everything about your past, especially the tough times
    7. Don't agree simply to satisfy them
    Thank you!

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +16

      Thank you for the value of your comment, a very meaningful summary!

    • @atgc2310
      @atgc2310 7 місяців тому +5

      @CCRadio-qd8xy Thanks for saving our time.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +3

      @@atgc2310 Thank you for watching!

    • @khosrovtavitian
      @khosrovtavitian 7 місяців тому +14

      8)Don't be afraid of solitude.
      9)Don't forget to celebrate even small wins.

    • @geetakoesal
      @geetakoesal 7 місяців тому +1

  • @foresttaniguchi3168
    @foresttaniguchi3168 8 місяців тому +1247

    I begged her and it didn’t work. The only thing that worked was when I told her I had another girlfriend

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +134

      As said in the video, don't beg, live better, find better things and the one who will regret will be her, try your best! Thank you for watching and supporting our videos!

    • @bssuhi2304
      @bssuhi2304 8 місяців тому +35

      😂

    • @yungierichofficial8256
      @yungierichofficial8256 8 місяців тому +18

      Nice one!

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +11

      Thank you for watching and supporting our videos, please continue!

    • @andre1987eph
      @andre1987eph 8 місяців тому +1

      dont talk to us about women until you have 4 or 5 hobbies you care more about than ladies

  • @Daniel-hs8fz
    @Daniel-hs8fz 8 місяців тому +252

    when you too good to her, it's dangerous. give all what they need. you will lose her. sad but its true, its difficult to control emotions when truly love someone. big challenge for me right now.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +16

      You seem like an experienced person, what you say is true. However, as the video shared, let's live as ourselves!

    • @gladystagapan5753
      @gladystagapan5753 8 місяців тому +17

      if u felt that way to your partner, she's not for u.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +14

      Be yourself, true love will come to you!

    • @yungierichofficial8256
      @yungierichofficial8256 8 місяців тому +3

      How do I do this??? It's difficult

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +9

      Yes, it's very difficult but when you do it, you will master everything, including your emotions!

  • @hardtruth63americanpatriot66
    @hardtruth63americanpatriot66 7 місяців тому +127

    The best thing I learned from Stoicism is that now I enjoy and cherish my times alone when I do things that are dear to me.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +7

      That's a beautiful insight! Stoicism indeed emphasizes finding contentment within oneself and deriving joy from simple pleasures and personal pursuits. Embracing solitude and using it to engage in activities that resonate with you can lead to a deep sense of fulfillment and inner peace. Keep cherishing those moments! - From *Stoic Legend

    • @mikep.473
      @mikep.473 6 місяців тому +1

      I need to find this

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  6 місяців тому +1

      @@mikep.473 Thank you!

    • @kulwantchandel1070
      @kulwantchandel1070 4 місяці тому +1

      @@StoicLegend_Official Your are absolutely right what you have ardently opined here. If you do take care of yourself as priority, you will transform yourself to become personality of stability, guts and gumption that any individual would invest to love you and be part of your life, especially your partner in this mundane world !!

    • @WilliaminOz
      @WilliaminOz 4 місяці тому +2

      'Aloneness' and 'loneliness' are so far apart. I laugh when a woman tells me 'You're lonely'. They know NOTHING about my path!

  • @John-gj9db
    @John-gj9db 8 місяців тому +30

    I wish I had watched this 3 months ago. I did everything mentioned here that I shouldn’t had and she left me. I was left feeling massively used and hurt. NEVER. again. Thanks for the great information.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +3

      I'm sorry to hear about your experience, and it's understandable that you're feeling hurt and used. Breakups can be incredibly challenging, but it's also a time for reflection and growth. Learning from past experiences, like the insights shared in the video, can help you navigate future relationships more effectively. Remember to be kind to yourself during this time and focus on personal growth and healing. That's what I learned from Stoicism. It's okay to take things at your own pace and to prioritize your well-being. Wishing you strength and resilience as you move forward.

    • @sugipulaboule9
      @sugipulaboule9 7 місяців тому

      Hahahahahahah hahahahaha,,,, don't worry, remember, things happen for a reason.

  • @BaBoneStoic
    @BaBoneStoic 4 місяці тому +62

    Don't beg, live better, seek better things and the one who will regret will not be you!

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  4 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for your insightful comment! Absolutely, focusing on self-improvement and pursuing meaningful experiences can lead to a more fulfilling life. It's about valuing ourselves and our journey. The right path often brings the right people into our lives. Keep striving for the best!

  • @JB-yn4cs
    @JB-yn4cs 6 місяців тому +64

    I went for a bike ride in the sun today, it brought me far more joy than pursuing someone who demands all I have and then more than I have. I'm choosing peace and happiness, she has not nurtured those.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  6 місяців тому +2

      It sounds like you had a wonderful and liberating experience on your bike ride! Choosing peace and happiness is a powerful decision, especially when faced with demands that drain you. Nurturing your own well-being is essential, and it seems like you're prioritizing that beautifully. Keep embracing those moments of joy and freedom!
      Thank you for sharing, please continue supporting us!

    • @letsmakemoney8027
      @letsmakemoney8027 3 місяці тому +1

      I took my dog for a walk and enjoy that more then being with my girlfriend

  • @edwardclarkson-ph1kl
    @edwardclarkson-ph1kl 5 місяців тому +446

    Interesting video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @linamoon-mi7wd
      @linamoon-mi7wd 5 місяців тому +8

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

    • @edwardclarkson-ph1kl
      @edwardclarkson-ph1kl 5 місяців тому +2

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @linamoon-mi7wd
      @linamoon-mi7wd 5 місяців тому +5

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @edwardclarkson-ph1kl
      @edwardclarkson-ph1kl 5 місяців тому +2

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  5 місяців тому +9

      I'm sorry you're going through this. Breakups are tough, especially after a long relationship. It's okay to miss her and feel frustrated. Give yourself time to heal and consider talking to friends or a professional for support. Focus on self-care and doing things that bring you joy. It will get easier with time.

  • @evarudmik2910
    @evarudmik2910 8 місяців тому +71

    People that are troubled, unhappy, desperate, try to trick you… how the grass is greener on their side until you discover eventually the ugly weeds that were deeply hiding under that unforeseen toxic soil
    Thank you for the great reminder the importance of staying stoic

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +4

      You have a very profound thought, I like your maturity! Thank you for watching and supporting our videos!

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +2

      Are you a good person who keeps calm?
      You can check out our Keep Calm video in the videos section! Thank you!

  • @dawinalexander9433
    @dawinalexander9433 6 місяців тому +34

    "stay present, stay resilient and embrace a stoic mindset"

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  6 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely! Staying present, resilient, and adopting a stoic mindset can be powerful tools for navigating life's challenges. Embracing these principles can help us maintain clarity, strength, and peace of mind, even in the face of adversity. Thank you for sharing, keep enjoying our content!

  • @StoicLegend_Official
    @StoicLegend_Official  9 місяців тому +33

    Please leave your thoughts on these, thank you!
    🎯 Key Moments:
    00:00 - Intro
    01:11 - 1. Don't reshape your life to fit others'
    02:12 - 2. Don’t ruin your life by being too obsessed with someone
    03:23 - 3. Don't let anything harm your mental health or happiness
    04:36 - 4. Don't push friends or family away for someone else
    05:46 - 5. Don’t invest too much time in them
    07:00 - 6. Don't reveal everything about your past, especially the tough times
    08:12 - 7. Don't agree simply to satisfy them
    09:35 - 8. Don't be controlled by the fear of solitude
    11:06 - 9. Don't forget to celebrate even small wins
    13:35 - Conclusion

    • @YesmeNah
      @YesmeNah 8 місяців тому

      Hey I am doing all of the above things you mentioned just to fit in my boyfriends life and make him happy. Right now he's giving me a cold shoulder just because I refuse to send my nudes to him 🙂🙂

  • @coolguy8681
    @coolguy8681 8 місяців тому +376

    I swear the internet has been a better father than mine

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +4

      You will find a lot of useful things from the internet, keep exploring!

    • @professorwoland3181
      @professorwoland3181 8 місяців тому

      Same here

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +1

      Actually, the Internet has brought us so many interesting things, let's use it well!

    • @josephticuswar4008
      @josephticuswar4008 8 місяців тому +7

      To be honest mate ,I think the internet has become more better of a teacher/mentor/ parent then most human beings in the last decade or so!..

    • @chamberlain323
      @chamberlain323 8 місяців тому +6

      Dad did his best, but he didn’t know any of this either. Most men don’t.

  • @Creepy_Stories131
    @Creepy_Stories131 8 місяців тому +63

    I lose my self respect only because I am having fear of losing her but I am very thankful to you sir for this motivation video 😊

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +11

      It's great that you found motivation in the video! Remember, your self-respect should never be tied to someone else. It's important to value yourself independently of any relationship. Focus on building your confidence and self-worth, and everything else will fall into place. Keep pushing forward! 😊💪

    • @riasb
      @riasb 8 місяців тому +4

      Having fear of losing someone just means that you care-life is fragile. Please do not lose that. Instead frame it like this-what is meant for you is simply for you. Put in effort but also, breathe easy. We are all human. As far as self-respect goes, ensure you are rooted in God. He gives clarity. Confusion, fear, doubt is from Satan-not you. You are worthy of what you want.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +5

      Yes, fear of losing someone represents love and awareness of the fragility of life. Let's see it as a reminder to appreciate what we have. Believe that what you deserve will come to you and stick with your faith and self-respect.
      From *Stoic Legend*

  • @sheriffhaidara7232
    @sheriffhaidara7232 3 місяці тому +3

    Watching at the same time crying 😭. “I love you” sounds to me as the sweetest lie we have ever told to ourselves. Thanks for this video 🙏🙏🙏

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  3 місяці тому +1

      I'm truly touched by your words. It's amazing how deeply we connect with certain truths, even when they stir our emotions. Remember, the journey of self-discovery is filled with moments like these, where we challenge our own beliefs and grow stronger. I'm glad this video resonated with you. Stay strong and keep moving forward. 🙏❤️

  • @TheDailySpark360
    @TheDailySpark360 6 місяців тому +38

    My fiancé of 4 years which we were about to get married in about 6 months, quarrelled with me and blocked me on all social media except for her direct line which she doesn't pickup or answer my messages. I loved her so much and obsessed for quite a while but finally realize that I don't need anyone to lead a happy life specially women of such kind.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  6 місяців тому +6

      I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It sounds like a difficult and painful experience. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness, even if it means letting go of relationships that aren't healthy or fulfilling. Remember that you deserve love and respect, and there are people out there who will appreciate you for who you are. Take care of yourself and focus on finding joy and fulfillment in other aspects of your life. Thank you for watching!

    • @DSILVAjeiy
      @DSILVAjeiy 6 місяців тому +5

      Sorry for your loss!😮‍💨
      I know the feeling since my gf throws those jabs of female $#it tests. I must have failed a lot of them, while she tries to treat me like chopped liver. I silently walked away without a fight.

    • @marshallvilakazi7516
      @marshallvilakazi7516 6 місяців тому +2

      I understand your pain just ended a 4 yr relationship with my girlfriend, its funny how social media can corrupt purity, giving up ur relationship at the expense of followers, and then they ask where are all the gentlemen

    • @David-wr7bs
      @David-wr7bs 4 місяці тому +3

      Sorry to hear this. I know it's difficult, but you need to move on. The two of you were just not meant to be, and the lady who is "for you," is out there waiting.

    • @TheDailySpark360
      @TheDailySpark360 4 місяці тому +1

      @@David-wr7bs Thank you so much for the supportive and kind words. At first I thought that I can easily get out of it and move on but it was not as easy as I thought it would be. It jas hurt me to a great extent and am still on the processbof healing and still haven't achived it yet.

  • @SaulMashele
    @SaulMashele 7 місяців тому +24

    I'm in the same situation of chasing a woman, but after watching this motivational video. I have learned to be myself. Thank you very much

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +1

      That's awesome to hear! Staying true to yourself is always the best approach. Keep up the positivity, and best of luck!

  • @tanujk3766
    @tanujk3766 7 місяців тому +18

    One-sided love where your self respect always loses..but love always win,win, always win🙂🖤 moment

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +2

      Great! It sounds like you've captured a complex and bittersweet aspect of love. Thanks so much for sharing your thought!

  • @hirosena-n1n
    @hirosena-n1n 2 місяці тому +6

    If she don't like you , move on and chase dreams, ..Life is too short for wasting time. We are men tired of being rejected, treated like a bullshit .. Just chase money and become successful and see who truly wants you

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  2 місяці тому +1

      Absolutely! Focusing on personal growth and pursuing your dreams is a fantastic way to channel energy positively. Life really is too short to dwell on rejection or negative treatment. Success isn't just about wealth; it’s about becoming the best version of ourselves. Those who appreciate and support us through our journey are the ones who truly matter. Keep pushing forward, and thanks for sharing your thoughts!

  • @ZweliBruceNdzo
    @ZweliBruceNdzo 7 місяців тому +9

    Waaoooo ;;;; today as the Sun sets I feel very strong after opening the Video . Thankyou Tonic Legend

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +1

      It's nice to hear this from you, I always wish to convey knowledge and positive energy to everyone, thank you for watching and supporting us!

  • @dwaynebronk
    @dwaynebronk 8 місяців тому +35

    Very thought provoking. Never be a doormat to anyone

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +2

      Absolutely, you're spot on! It's crucial to maintain self-respect and set healthy boundaries in all aspects of life. Standing up for yourself doesn't mean being aggressive; it means valuing your worth and ensuring others do too. Keep embracing your strength and authenticity! 💪🌟

  • @ildikovisolit2014
    @ildikovisolit2014 7 місяців тому +9

    I agree with almost everything in this video. Thank you for the reminder to put myself first because so far no one else has done so. I’m always putting myself out to help others and it’s hardly ever reciprocated ❤❤❤😢

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +2

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. It's truly important to prioritize self-care and self-love, especially when you're naturally inclined to help others. Remember, taking care of yourself isn't selfish; it's necessary. Your wellbeing matters just as much as anyone else's. Keep embracing your kind heart, but don't forget to nurture it as well. Sending you positive vibes and support! ❤️
      From *Stoic Legend*

  • @jose-jn3zf
    @jose-jn3zf 9 місяців тому +147

    It's crazy that this video was in my suggestions at a time in my life when I really needed to hear this. Thank you.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  9 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for watching the video, please continue to explore our channel, there will be many useful things for you!

    • @WalkerronnieRonald
      @WalkerronnieRonald 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@StoicLegend_Official I tried ask out for valatines she ended up saying she is held up somewhere else I felt so depressied and lonely after one month later I found her out with a bunch of boys and one boy holding her up like punching 👜 bag

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +2

      Ignore such girls, focus on developing yourself, all good things will come to you!@@WalkerronnieRonald

    • @bechtholdillustrator9378
      @bechtholdillustrator9378 8 місяців тому +3

      It's called algorithm

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +1

      Yes, that's true, UA-cam always delivers videos to the right users. Thank you for watching and supporting us!

  • @mattcole6292
    @mattcole6292 8 місяців тому +27

    People are like dirt; they can either nourish you, and help you grow as a person, or they can stunt your growth and make you wilt and die." ~ Plato

  • @bingchilling495
    @bingchilling495 8 місяців тому +43

    the difference between love and obsession is that obsession is temporary love is eternal

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +2

      I agree with you!
      Love is long-term care and respect, while obsession is often temporary and controlling. Love opens the door to freedom and growth, while obsession tends to bind and limit. It is important to recognize and nurture a healthy and balanced love.

    • @daveyvane
      @daveyvane 7 місяців тому +1

      Wow, you should write poetry for Love magazine

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +2

      @@daveyvane Thank you for the compliment! Writing poetry for Love magazine sounds like an exciting opportunity. If you have any connections or if Love magazine is interested, feel free to let me know-I'd be happy to explore it further

  • @howtoimpresagirl
    @howtoimpresagirl 16 днів тому +1

    Insightful video! Stoicism can really guide interactions by focusing on respect, patience, and self-awareness. Great reminders here

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  15 днів тому +1

      Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment! 🙏 I’m glad you found value in the video. Stoicism truly does provide powerful tools for building respect, patience, and self-awareness in our interactions. It’s always rewarding to know that these reminders resonate. Feel free to share the video if you think it could help others, and I'd love to hear which part you found most useful!

    • @howtoimpresagirl
      @howtoimpresagirl 15 днів тому

      @@StoicLegend_Official Appreciate your kind words! Stoicism indeed has timeless lessons. Curious to know-what part of the video resonated most with you?

  • @passportninja2994
    @passportninja2994 6 місяців тому +15

    No contact is so hard but once you get over the hump, you'll be fine. I'm working out, putting in more hours at work, supporting my son's track and field meets and I'm painting the inside of my home as well as buying all new furniture. My ex calls me and stalks My page after not reaching out to her. I've met so many women that are just falling from the sky.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  6 місяців тому +1

      It sounds like you're really making strides in focusing on yourself and your own well-being! No contact can indeed be challenging, but it's heartening to hear how you're channeling that energy into positive outlets. Your dedication to personal growth, your son's activities, and even revamping your living space is truly inspiring. Keep prioritizing your own happiness, you're on the right track! Thank you so much for supporting us!
      From *Stoic Legend*

    • @omarova1935
      @omarova1935 6 місяців тому +2

      I'm stuck on the hump part right now its so frustrating

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  6 місяців тому +1

      @@omarova1935 I hear you. Getting stuck in the "hump" part of a process can be incredibly frustrating. It might help to break down the task into smaller, more manageable steps, focusing on one thing at a time. Sometimes taking a step back, gaining some perspective, or seeking advice from others can also provide clarity and help you overcome the obstacle. Remember, it's okay to feel frustrated, but don't let it deter you from moving forward. You've got this! Wishing you the best?

    • @DatBoyJames
      @DatBoyJames 6 місяців тому +3

      I cracked twice in my phase but now I think I’m nailing it. 2 weeks of no contact! I deleted social media, work 60 hour weeks now and go straight the gym afterwards! Just staying busy!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  6 місяців тому +1

      @@DatBoyJames Thank you for sharing!

  • @sangramkesharinayak5791
    @sangramkesharinayak5791 7 місяців тому +9

    I somehow came across this video at the point where i needed it the most. The words kept resonating with me throughout. I felt a divine power that the cosmos needed me to hear this out and it was indeed a moment of truth for me through this video. Thanks @Stoic Legend for crafting such a content, i will help millions for sure.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +1

      I'm so grateful that the video reached you at just the right moment. It's truly inspiring to hear how the words resonated with you. If there's any particular insight or moment that stood out as especially meaningful, I’d love to hear about it. Thank you for your encouraging words and for being a part of our community!
      From *Stoic Legend*

  • @cephusbrooks5291
    @cephusbrooks5291 8 місяців тому +23

    This has made me taken a step back from a lady who I really cared for and love. I reached to the extent that I said to myself that I have done all I can to show how really I love her, though not big stuffs, but those little kind that I did to show how I truly love her, but the lack reciprocation was too much from her. So here I’m, my feelings are all gone and i don’t want to pretend to her that I’m still in just in case she sees reasons, which I hope not.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +11

      I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through. It's incredibly difficult when feelings are not reciprocated, especially when you've put in a lot of effort to show your love and care. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and emotional health in situations like these. Taking a step back to reassess and protect your own feelings is a brave decision. Remember that it's okay to prioritize yourself and your happiness. Wishing you strength and healing as you navigate through this challenging time.

    • @raugust3376
      @raugust3376 7 місяців тому +1

      I am in the exact same situation right now bro i tried everything to fix things between me and her but she wasn't reciprocating cos she is already emotionally invested in her "male friend" which hurts me the most

  • @2602rg
    @2602rg 8 місяців тому +12

    I'm in transit walking out of only needed relationship ( external). It is my friend who understand and stand by me. Thanks 😊

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +2

      Be stronger and become better, I firmly believe that then you are the center of the universe!

  • @ctgeorgia
    @ctgeorgia 2 місяці тому +5

    54 years old...never married.
    Truly believed i finally found the one. 4 years into our relationship and she told me she was leaving a few hours ago. Just sitting here numb. It feels surreal. All i can do is wait on God and believe he has someone better for me. May God bless anyone here struggling through the pain like i feel.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  2 місяці тому +2

      I’m so sorry to hear about what you’re going through. It’s incredibly tough to face such a sudden change, especially after investing so much in a relationship. Your strength and faith are truly admirable. Trust that there is a reason for everything, and sometimes life's challenges lead us to the most unexpected and wonderful places. Wishing you peace and healing as you navigate this difficult time. May you find comfort and clarity in your journey ahead. Thank you for watching!

    • @ctgeorgia
      @ctgeorgia 2 місяці тому

      @@chadbaker3207 Thank you, Chad.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  2 місяці тому +1

      @@chadbaker3207 Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement! Your message truly resonates, and it's a beautiful reminder to stay hopeful and trust in the path ahead. Blessings to you!

    • @salomenewsome4188
      @salomenewsome4188 2 місяці тому +3

      So sorry love yourself enjoy your own company. I learnt that and am good

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  2 місяці тому +2

      @@salomenewsome4188 Absolutely, finding joy in your own company is a wonderful step toward self-love and contentment. It's great to hear you've embraced this journey. Keep cherishing and discovering more about yourself! Thank you for watching, keep enjoying our channel!

  • @hearty2545
    @hearty2545 4 місяці тому +1

    Reading about stoicism is the best decision I've ever made. It made me stronger and better.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  4 місяці тому +1

      That’s wonderful to hear! Stoicism has such a profound impact on personal growth and resilience. It’s great that you’ve found strength and improvement through it. Thanks for sharing your experience! Keep enjoying our video!

  • @AnaS-dd5xm
    @AnaS-dd5xm 8 місяців тому +35

    This not only applies to dating but to all sort of relationships, friends and family
    Thank you for sharing

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +2

      You have very deep thoughts, it's great that you realized that, thank you!

    • @Arwaa.M.Jarrin
      @Arwaa.M.Jarrin 8 місяців тому

      Some men were created to be celibate. Celibacy is their test in the world. Because they're sensitive and emotional and because they are dependent on people and human emotions of feelings of love and loyalty, celibacy is their test and celibacy is their answer. Celibacy is their blessing and celibacy they think is their curse. And whenever an intelligent and wise man goes into a relationship and seeks love and happiness in this world from a woman, he ends up suffering so much through other reasons that he ends up emotionally and mentally breaking down and becoming depressed and dependent upon a man emotionally physically and eventually sexually.
      And many of them end up falling in love with younger boys after sexually being involved with an intelligent and emotional man who feels dishonoured and humiliated by the sexually serving their boyfriends and husbands.
      The answer is very simple. Celibacy...
      Purity. Piety. Chastity.
      Although for a person who is mentally and emotionally depressed and spends all his life crying weeping and wailing and being sad, the greatest nightmare of that person is to be single and chaste. But if they could suffer that pain of celibacy for 3 to 5 years, then they would find such happiness and such fulfilment in their lives and they would never ever have to go through the long part of seeking sexual pleasure from a woman and then falling in love with a man and then becoming a criminal to keep that man and then becoming a murderer and a monster and a weak person who is dependent on another person's love and has to destroy the universe and every religion and every law just to justify themselves and they're sick sexual sexuality.
      Although celibacy and Chastity is a word of fear and terror to men. These two words hold every honour, every friendship, every happiness, every power, every fulfilment, health happiness honour respect true friendships ultimate happiness and ultimate success in this world and the next for every single emotional and intelligent man.
      No man in the world suffered because of celibacy. No man in the world ever suffered because of chastity. No man was ever famed because he was celibate. No man was ever tortured because he was chaste. No man was ever tortured and humiliated and assaulted because he was pious. No man was ever killed murdered or framed for being celibate and chaste and pure

  • @stoicsecrets-101
    @stoicsecrets-101 3 місяці тому +1

    This video reminded me of a time when I learned the hard way that being overly critical can really harm a relationship. I once criticized my girlfriend for something small, and it caused a big rift between us. It taught me the importance of patience and understanding.✨✨

  • @K.I.R.B.
    @K.I.R.B. 7 місяців тому +3

    As someone who’s currently going through this, this helps a lot thank you so much! I’ve studied philosophy for over a year now and I’ve been trying to reshape my mind to stoicism, although I struggle with mental disorders, I am aware that this mindset really does help with inner peace. It’s a process but with time it will help. Thank you for this 🙏🏻

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +2

      I'm really glad to hear that you found the video helpful! It's wonderful to see you taking steps towards reshaping your mindset and finding inner peace, especially while dealing with mental disorders. Remember, it's okay to struggle along the way - progress takes time and patience. Keep nurturing that Stoic mindset, and I'm sure you'll continue to see positive changes in your life. Stay strong, and keep moving forward! 🙏🏻
      From *Stoic Legend*

    • @K.I.R.B.
      @K.I.R.B. 7 місяців тому +1

      @@StoicLegend_Official Thank you so much I appreciate that🙏🏻🙏🏻Truly it means a lot to me!

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you!

  • @NamuyimbaPatrick
    @NamuyimbaPatrick 5 місяців тому +2

    Have just broken up with my school girl friend of seven years. We have a child. But through out all these years she has had no return love for me. She now has a better job than mine but I chased and felt exhausted. So we broke up. Am adapting to life with out her. Ts so painful. These words have added to my strength. I now priotise my self. Thanks

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  5 місяців тому +2

      I'm sorry to hear about your breakup and the challenges you're facing. It's understandable to feel hurt and exhausted after investing so much time and effort into a relationship. It sounds like you've made a tough but necessary decision for your well-being and priorities. Taking care of yourself and focusing on your own happiness is crucial. It's okay to feel pain during this adjustment period, but remember that prioritizing yourself is a step towards healing and finding happiness again. Stay strong, and take each day at a time. You're not alone in this journey. Thank you for watching!

  • @Jonnydriller
    @Jonnydriller 8 місяців тому +14

    I ain’t trying to be perfect. I’m just trying to be better and I continue to strive to make it there day by day.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +4

      Yes, thoughts are great, focus on yourself, everything will come to you!

  • @MusaDladla-p1o
    @MusaDladla-p1o 7 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for helping me grow. Let's choose to embrace ourselves. We don't need approval from no one.Danko.❤

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +1

      You're welcome! Embracing ourselves and finding our own validation is key to personal growth and happiness. Keep believing in yourself and your journey. Danko! ❤️ *Stoic Legend*

  • @debclark6026
    @debclark6026 8 місяців тому +16

    I love this video!! It is timeless wisdom and exactly the type of healthy message for anyone who attracts it. I will watch this video over and over again, regardless of whether I need support in getting back on track or when I am counting my blessings and giving thanks. Thank you so much!! ❤❤❤🙏

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! It's wonderful to hear that you found value and inspiration in this video. It's true that timeless wisdom can be a source of guidance and positivity in various aspects of our lives. Whether we need motivation to get back on track or reminders to be grateful, these messages can resonate deeply. Wishing you continued blessings, growth, and gratitude on your journey! ❤️🙏

  • @Hmongboi228
    @Hmongboi228 8 місяців тому +9

    It's March the 31st, 2024 Easter Sunday and this vid is not a lot about what a man should NOT do with women but some damn good life philosophy in general when it's needed at this time in the journey of my life.. 🤝

    • @KitesRs-ev7fx
      @KitesRs-ev7fx 8 місяців тому +2

      Here I am five min later in the comment after finishing same vid

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +2

      Absolutely! Sometimes, life lessons come to us in unexpected ways, and it's great that you were able to find some valuable philosophy in this video. Easter Sunday is indeed a special time for reflection and growth. Keep embracing those lessons and applying them positively in your journey. 🙏🏼✨

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +2

      What do you want to search for?@@KitesRs-ev7fx

  • @tayzarmaung3185
    @tayzarmaung3185 8 місяців тому +3

    I did all the opposite facts when I am in love with her. Now, I have to love my self. Thank you so much.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +1

      It sounds like you've been through quite a journey. Loving yourself is incredibly important, and it's great to hear that you're prioritizing self-love. Remember, your relationship with yourself sets the foundation for all other relationships. Wishing you all the best on this path of self-discovery and self-care!
      From *Stoic Legend*

  • @Erik-u1u8v
    @Erik-u1u8v 8 місяців тому +6

    I started listening to this video this morning and I felt very inspired because I had a tossing and turning night last night. When I was tossing and turning I know something was not right. Then this video came out and inspired me as I was listening to it saying never give your flashlight to somebody in the dark.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +1

      You are a very thoughtful person, the example you give is also great! Advice too!
      Have you encountered anything difficult to think about?

    • @Erik-u1u8v
      @Erik-u1u8v 8 місяців тому +1

      @@StoicLegend_Official a new lady who came into my life

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +2

      Use all your experience to treat her well!

  • @Subcritical96
    @Subcritical96 8 місяців тому +7

    I learned these principle's of what not to do early in my life. What taught me was I dated a woman for about a two years. We broke up. I was deeply sadden for awhile until I started dating again. As expected (the ex) kept calling me and filling up my messaged machine. Finally I broke down and called her. As expected she was begging me back. I told her no way that the train wreck has long gone. Then she said, "What shall I tell my daughter?". I told her I don't care and don't ever call me again and by the way she should get a couple of cats and get use to them😃. The power I felt was overwhelming. I am now with the woman that replaced her for almost 20 years and very happy.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +2

      It sounds like you went through a challenging experience but ultimately learned valuable lessons about boundaries and self-worth. It's important to prioritize your own happiness and well-being, and it seems like you've found a fulfilling relationship as a result. Setting boundaries and sticking to them can be difficult but ultimately rewarding. Wishing you continued happiness in your current relationship! 😊

    • @Subcritical96
      @Subcritical96 8 місяців тому +1

      @@StoicLegend_Official keep up the great content. Absolutely! I have learned to apply the stoic ways to control my emotions. Stoicism is the way. Stoicism is powerful once understood and applied correctly.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you, please always support us!@@Subcritical96

    • @Subcritical96
      @Subcritical96 8 місяців тому +1

      @@StoicLegend_Official subscribed

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you!

  • @ciudadkarma
    @ciudadkarma 6 місяців тому +2

    I recommend stoicism for anyone looking to improve their emotional intelligence. This video is a must-watch!

  • @johnzouein5191
    @johnzouein5191 8 місяців тому +3

    I was about to do all those mistakes, thanks god that I watched that video...
    Man has a heart of a child

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +1

      It's great that you found the video helpful and were able to gain valuable insights from it. Recognizing and learning from past mistakes is part of growth, and having a compassionate heart is indeed a wonderful trait. Keep striving for self-improvement and authenticity in your interactions!

  • @gergemall
    @gergemall 7 місяців тому +2

    This is EXCELLENT. I’ve been trying to help my wife for over a decade with learned helplessness. Thank you. Perfect ❤

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +1

      I'm glad you found the content helpful! Learned helplessness can be challenging, but with patience and support, progress is absolutely possible. Keep up the great work in supporting your wife, and remember, small steps forward lead to significant changes over time. Wishing you both continued success and growth! ❤️

    • @Pintubro-wy9vp
      @Pintubro-wy9vp 6 місяців тому

      😅​@@StoicLegend_Official
      How to heal from a bad break up..bro..I need some advice..plzzzz share a word

  • @juanmontelongo7314
    @juanmontelongo7314 8 місяців тому +25

    I very much needed this today. I will try to use this advise moving forward. Thank you.

  • @Hyanlemspotlight
    @Hyanlemspotlight 7 місяців тому +12

    I'm rejected one . Please pray and help the broken hearted and rejected like me..

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +7

      I'm truly sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult time. Rejection can be incredibly tough, but please know that you're not alone. You are valued and deserving of love and acceptance. Take the time you need to heal, and remember that brighter days are ahead. You're in my thoughts, and I'm here to support you in any way I can. Focus on developing yourself, intelligence, health, virtue, appearance, all good things will come to you!

    • @Hyanlemspotlight
      @Hyanlemspotlight 7 місяців тому +1

      @@StoicLegend_Official I hope in the End..

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +3

      I wish all the best to you!

    • @delfinflores3595
      @delfinflores3595 7 місяців тому +3

      All the thoughts in this video happened to me.. after 16 years of time with her. Now I am left alone.. but hearing this need to stand up again.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +1

      @@delfinflores3595 I'm sorry to hear about what you've been through. It's never easy to navigate the aftermath of such experiences, but it's inspiring to see your resilience and determination to stand up again. Remember, you're not alone, and there's always hope for brighter days ahead. Keep moving forward, one step at a time. You've got this! - From *Stoic Legend*

  • @RandallMarkovics
    @RandallMarkovics 7 місяців тому +3

    A very profound analysis for anyone's being! Follow your bliss, while also staying empathetic to others!

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely! Following your bliss is crucial for personal fulfillment, but it's equally important to remain empathetic and considerate towards others' journeys and experiences. Balancing our own happiness with empathy creates a harmonious existence for all. Thanks for sharing your insight!

  • @StoicSpirit68
    @StoicSpirit68 17 днів тому +1

    Absolutely enlightening! Each piece of advice resonated deeply, especially the reminder to take control of our own stories. This video has given me a fresh perspective on maintaining balance and resilience in my relationships

  • @Ferdouse
    @Ferdouse 7 місяців тому +3

    Its a massive uphill battle to get past a lost love. The video clearly tells you what you must do, you should be the one dictating your path. Be thankful for the emotions you have experienced, there could be even bigger pastures ahead.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely, moving on from a lost love can indeed feel like an uphill battle, and it's a journey that takes time and patience. You're right that it's crucial to take control of your own path and make choices that are best for your own growth and happiness. While it's natural to feel the pain of a lost love, it's also important to be grateful for the emotions and experiences you've had, as they contribute to your personal growth and understanding of yourself. And as you rightly pointed out, there may indeed be even bigger and brighter opportunities waiting for you in the future. Keep focusing on your own well-being and growth, and trust that you're moving towards those bigger pastures ahead. - From *Stoic Legend*

  • @johnnydodgecountry9508
    @johnnydodgecountry9508 7 місяців тому +9

    EVERY TIME ...I ever went above and beyond to please a woman , I got F'd...and NOT in the way I'd have preferred. ONLY , when I switched it up and started " Doing ME " , did I finally find the RIGHT girl and can tell you this much , It's good to be good , but NOT when you're too good for your own good.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +2

      It sounds like you've had quite the journey in finding the right balance in relationships! Remember it's important to prioritize your own happiness and well-being. Thank you for tuning in!

  • @Dodgeramlover
    @Dodgeramlover 7 місяців тому +3

    Wow thank you!! I was entangled in someone else’s world and yes it did disrupt my balance. ..

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +1

      I'm glad this resonated with you! It's all too easy to get caught up in someone else's world and lose sight of our own balance. Remember to prioritize your own well-being and journey. You deserve to thrive in your own unique way. From *Stoic Legend*

  • @Dano.book-em24
    @Dano.book-em24 6 місяців тому +1

    Truer words were never spoken. Thank you, Stoic Legend. This is both empowering and uplifting. Personal growth and enhancement are up to each one of us. Don't give away your gold.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  6 місяців тому +2

      Thank you! If there's anything else you need, just let me know. keep enjoying our video!

    • @Dano.book-em24
      @Dano.book-em24 6 місяців тому +1

      @@StoicLegend_Official Much appreciated!

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you! I'm so happy to hear this, I hope you can share it with many people!

  • @panyuanlim774
    @panyuanlim774 4 місяці тому +9

    If she didn’t respect you no matter how beautiful she is just walk away and close the door .

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  4 місяці тому +1

      Absolutely! Respect is crucial in any relationship. If someone doesn't show you the respect you deserve, it's often best to move on and focus on finding someone who values you. Thanks for sharing your perspective!

  • @FabulousIdea-xe8gt
    @FabulousIdea-xe8gt 7 місяців тому +8

    Women love money, as much money as love, that's generally the case with most women. There is no money, there is no love, and as soon as the money runs out, she will find someone else.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +1

      That's right, every person and every relationship is different. It's impossible to make such generalizations about women and money.

    • @marietteestabrook4098
      @marietteestabrook4098 4 місяці тому

      You are hanging out with the wrong kind of women.

    • @letsmakemoney8027
      @letsmakemoney8027 3 місяці тому

      Women are experts in emptying a man's wallet

    • @SSS4-p7j
      @SSS4-p7j Місяць тому

      😂😂😂😂👌👌👌

  • @manjunathmanu1934
    @manjunathmanu1934 8 місяців тому +7

    I was very depressed because of girl rejecting me every point of this video are very provoking now i think i wasted most of time with wrong person for wrong things from now onwards should use it wisely

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +3

      Develop yourself and live as yourself, then you will attract better quality and truly worthwhile relationships!

  • @lawsonasampana9404
    @lawsonasampana9404 5 місяців тому +1

    MORE THAN WISDOM AND LIFE SHALL NEVER BE UGLY

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  5 місяців тому +1

      That’s a profound statement! Embracing wisdom and living life with intention can indeed make life more beautiful and meaningful. When we focus on gaining wisdom and applying it, life's challenges become opportunities for growth, and the world seems less daunting and more vibrant. This perspective can transform everyday experiences, turning them into moments of learning and beauty. Keep cherishing wisdom and life, and you'll find that beauty continues to unfold in unexpected ways. Thank you for sharing!

  • @LeeBlackwell-kt5fo
    @LeeBlackwell-kt5fo 8 місяців тому +7

    Never put the responsibility of your mental wellbeing in the hands of another...hard lesson.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +2

      You're absolutely right; it's a hard but crucial lesson to learn. Our mental well-being is ultimately our own responsibility, and relying on others to fulfill that can lead to disappointment and frustration. It's important to prioritize self-care, set boundaries, and develop healthy coping mechanisms. Seeking support and companionship is valuable, but relying solely on others for our mental well-being can be risky. Learning to nurture our own mental health is a journey that requires self-awareness and self-compassion. Keep taking care of yourself and finding what works best for your well-being

  • @dondiablo5583
    @dondiablo5583 4 місяці тому +2

    I literally get goosebumps when I listen

  • @bruce7021
    @bruce7021 7 місяців тому +3

    🙏 No Disrespect " but I got to put it out that everybody's family is different" and I myself have always been on my own and doing just fine without my family " again everybody's family are different" and situations. All in all 🙏 thank you for sharing the wisdom that you are putting out.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely, everyone's family dynamics and personal circumstances vary greatly. It's commendable that you've found your own path and thrived independently. Your resilience and self-reliance are strengths to be celebrated. Thank you for appreciating the insights shared, and may you continue to navigate life with grace and strength, regardless of familial ties or lack thereof. 🙏 - From *StoicLegend*

  • @JOHNBOSCO-wh6vd
    @JOHNBOSCO-wh6vd Місяць тому +1

    Happy to listen.I have learnt that not good to share own past life with people anyhow.

  • @StoicWisdomyt5
    @StoicWisdomyt5 7 місяців тому +7

    "The Stoic idea of 'the dichotomy of control' has completely shifted my perspective on life."

  • @kevinfradiue8976
    @kevinfradiue8976 Місяць тому +2

    The way of relationships and marrage is not what it used to be. Cant just give up your life from an untransparent partner. They will wreck your soul if you let them. 😢

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts! You're absolutely right that relationships and marriage have changed a lot over time. It's important to stay aware and protect yourself from any situation that feels dishonest or unclear. Nobody should have their peace of mind taken away by a lack of transparency. I truly appreciate you taking the time to watch and engage with this video. If you found something helpful here, please consider sharing it, and I’d love for you to continue supporting the channel. Let's keep these meaningful conversations going! 🙏

  • @anZarxxvll
    @anZarxxvll 6 місяців тому +11

    the more we learn the more silent we become :)

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  6 місяців тому +2

      Indeed, learning often leads to deeper understanding, which can sometimes leave us speechless. Keep seeking knowledge in the silence! Thank you for watching, please continue supporting us!

    • @WilliaminOz
      @WilliaminOz 4 місяці тому +1

      Travel light travel fast. like a ghost on the wind.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  4 місяці тому +2

      @@WilliaminOz Absolutely, traveling light and fast, like a ghost on the wind, is the essence of freedom and agility. It’s a wonderful reminder to keep things simple and embrace the journey with ease. Thanks for sharing this inspiring thought!

  • @stevennongkhlaw7019
    @stevennongkhlaw7019 7 місяців тому +2

    Same here I've been alone for so long now i never beg or call at first it hard but now as days pass by i start forgetting her and i feel more happy now and a live thanks to this quote ,

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +1

      It sounds like you've found solace and strength in your solitude, which is a commendable feat. Remember, embracing your own company and finding happiness within yourself are powerful steps towards personal growth and fulfillment. Thank you for watching and supporting us!

    • @stevennongkhlaw7019
      @stevennongkhlaw7019 7 місяців тому +1

      @@StoicLegend_Official thanks to you too , for sharing this and inspired me 👍🏻

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you, please continue supporting us!

  • @SohaQuotes
    @SohaQuotes 8 місяців тому +6

    These 9 things are meaningful and true in real life. Thanks for sharing this video. 😘

  • @JayTheStoic
    @JayTheStoic Місяць тому +2

    As the Stoics said: "Happiness comes from wanting less, not more." - Contentment comes from within, by aligning your desires with what you already have.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  Місяць тому +1

      I’m really grateful for your support! What part of the message inspired you the most?

  • @Anil-hc9mv
    @Anil-hc9mv 8 місяців тому +3

    The power of inspiration and personality.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for highlighting the importance of inspiration and personality! These qualities have a profound impact on our lives and the lives of those around us. Let's continue to celebrate and learn from these inspiring individuals who light up our paths with their unique qualities! 💪😊🌟

  • @arrenmutambanshiku9263
    @arrenmutambanshiku9263 6 місяців тому +2

    Excellent rediscovery of life's self-touch. Great community indeed!

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for your wonderful comment! It's always a pleasure to reconnect with the deeper aspects of life and share it with such an amazing community. Your support means a lot! Keep enjoying our video!

  • @akahpiusodey4777
    @akahpiusodey4777 8 місяців тому +5

    This is timely. Truly an unexamined life is not worth living.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +1

      That's right, let's continue to experience, thereby drawing conclusions for ourselves!

  • @ChristopherLaw-qv4ou
    @ChristopherLaw-qv4ou День тому +1

    What is preached is essential and important but in practice it is extremely difficult as only a handful of disciplined driven and focused men are able to do this

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  День тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your perspective! You're absolutely right, what's discussed in the video requires a high level of discipline and focus, which can be challenging to maintain. The key is to take it step by step and remind yourself that progress, not perfection, is what matters. Even small, consistent efforts can lead to significant growth over time.

  • @JonDingle
    @JonDingle 8 місяців тому +6

    The messages in this video apply to all aspects and relationships in life, not just women.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +1

      I'm glad to hear that, just be yourself. What do you like most about the video?

  • @manishawritesforyou
    @manishawritesforyou 7 місяців тому +2

    "I used to listen lots of motivational video like this one." When we love someone a lot and that person also treat at first like we are precious to him.our profound love starts to grow that time. Unfortunately,When that person discovers our deep love for him.He starts take us granted."that's why we have to choices only, Either we could hide our love for him which is so hard to do, Or get ready to be treated like u dervalued. Once human understand that the other loves him he focus on others thinks and ignore us." At one point we feel like no one can love you more then your yourself.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +1

      Your experience highlights the ups and downs of love. Initially feeling cherished, only to later feel taken for granted, is a common challenge. Your insight about the shift in focus once love is known is astute. Ultimately, recognizing the importance of self-love becomes paramount. Thanks for sharing.

  • @Prabhu-f4u
    @Prabhu-f4u 8 місяців тому +5

    Thank you so much❤
    These rules are going to change my life

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +1

      You're welcome! I'm so glad to hear that these rules are making a positive impact on your life. Keep up the great work, and remember that consistency is key. You've got this! 💪😊

  • @owususamuel543
    @owususamuel543 7 місяців тому +2

    A new me today thanks to stoic teachings

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for watching! ! If you have any questions or suggestions, please let us know! 😊

  • @sparrowoclock7127
    @sparrowoclock7127 8 місяців тому +17

    This isn’t only about boyfriend girlfriend issues… Family can’t put u in this type of situations too … and that’s even worse

  • @viveknandan3619
    @viveknandan3619 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank you, universe, for these life insights. It's really important to know all these things.

  • @NC-un7tr
    @NC-un7tr 8 місяців тому +3

    Thank you. This is so timely. I cannot do all things at once so my focus now is mainly for my kids

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +3

      You're welcome! Focusing on your kids and their well-being is a wonderful priority. Taking things step by step and prioritizing what matters most in the moment is a great way to ensure you're giving your best where it's needed most. Wishing you all the best on your parenting journey!

  • @shaunmurray7398
    @shaunmurray7398 6 місяців тому +2

    Important lesson I learned!
    One of my early girlfriends wanted an open relationship!
    Thinking this was what the new modern man was about, I agreed!
    She subsequently dumped me,when I asked why she said she really didn’t want an open relationship after all!!
    It was the one and only time I got the elbow!
    I love and respect women but guys, don’t believe everything they say, be true to yourself self🤞

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  6 місяців тому +1

      It sounds like you went through a challenging experience. It's essential to stay true to yourself and your values, even if it means not conforming to societal expectations. Relationships require honesty and communication from both sides, and it's crucial to ensure that both partners are on the same page. Thank you for sharing your lesson learned! Thank you for sharing, please continue supporting us!

    • @shaunmurray7398
      @shaunmurray7398 6 місяців тому +1

      Appreciate your reply!
      I wouldn’t call it challenging though, just surely part of the learning experience we all go through.
      Regards Shaun

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for sharing, please continue supporting us!

  • @edwin2963
    @edwin2963 8 місяців тому +7

    So much insightful wisdom..wish i got this guidance years ago as women caused so much mess in my life

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +1

      It's never too late, focus on yourself, thank you for watching and supporting us!

    • @bartvankampen1161
      @bartvankampen1161 8 місяців тому +1

      Didn't you let these women do that?

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +2

      Absolutely, women can also apply these things to men. And let's focus on developing our intelligence and soul deep inside, all good things will come to us!

  • @f18_
    @f18_ 8 місяців тому +3

    I forgot to celebrate my milestones. Thank you for reminding me! Thank you!

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +2

      Congratulations on your milestones! It's great that you're taking the time to acknowledge and celebrate your achievements. Keep up the fantastic work!
      Celebrating will bring us many emotions and continue to strive to reach the next milestone! Try your best!

  • @patriciagonzalez6903
    @patriciagonzalez6903 8 місяців тому +2

    Wow! So spot on! I needed to listen to these pieces of advice. I was doing exactly the opposite of what you said one should do to stand up for themselves and shine with their own light. Thank you!

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +1

      I'm glad to hear that the advice resonated with you! It's never too late to start standing up for yourself and embracing your unique light. Keep shining bright and staying true to yourself! If you have any more questions or need further guidance, feel free to ask.
      From *Stoic Legend*

  • @samsonchikopa4208
    @samsonchikopa4208 8 місяців тому +9

    Attachment is the root of all suffering

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +1

      So I believe it's important for us to live authentically as ourselves!

  • @hoangdongnguyen-b7i
    @hoangdongnguyen-b7i 4 місяці тому +1

    This was incredibly helpful! 👍 Thanks a million for sharing your expertise with us.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m glad you found the video helpful. Your support means a lot!

  • @NapkinEdStern
    @NapkinEdStern 8 місяців тому +4

    Very great and wise video right here.

  • @sangeetanair3643
    @sangeetanair3643 6 місяців тому +2

    Sometimes we have to beg so much to be in a relationship that inturn we our devaluing ourselves....Why don't we realise immediately that we are being ignored and pushed away ...We still dream we still expect things will change but it doesn't...A person who doesn't respect or value you will never value you ever in this life ... People who have pushed you away will always push you away... Sometimes we think through our heart not through our brain...Love cannot be one way traffic..it has to be 2 ways orelse it will be called obsession or possessiveness....But these are negative qualities...love is very pure..love is freedom

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  6 місяців тому +1

      You've articulated a powerful insight into the dynamics of relationships. It's true that sometimes, in the hope of being loved or accepted, we may find ourselves persisting in situations where we're undervalued or ignored. Recognizing our own worth and understanding when to walk away from such situations is crucial for our well-being.
      You're absolutely right that love should never be one-sided. It's about mutual respect, understanding, and support, where both parties contribute equally to the relationship's growth and happiness. When love becomes possessive or obsessive, it loses its purity and can even become toxic.
      Trusting our instincts and thinking with both our hearts and minds can help us navigate relationships more wisely. It's essential to prioritize our own emotional health and seek relationships where love is freely given and received, fostering a sense of freedom and mutual respect.
      Thank you for sharing, please continue supporting us!

  • @ESHaoranile2531
    @ESHaoranile2531 9 місяців тому +13

    Very powerful thoughts. Thank U

  • @sports_comics5593
    @sports_comics5593 Місяць тому +1

    After 24 hours she said” I’ll leave you alone but I’m here if you need to talk”
    Now 3 days later she said “can you tell me what I did”
    What do I do now? I really like her

  • @Angellisable
    @Angellisable 8 місяців тому +3

    So grateful for this channel

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +1

      I'm glad to hear that you're enjoying the channel! What specifically do you find most helpful or interesting about it? Your feedback can help us continue to create content you love.

  • @merleking4683
    @merleking4683 7 місяців тому +1

    I think there is a message to everyone. Sometimes it is best to throw in the towel and walk away if there is that much toxicity, especially if the other party is not aware of it/or level.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely, knowing when to walk away from toxicity is crucial for maintaining your well-being. It's not always easy, but recognizing when a situation is harmful and choosing to prioritize your own mental and emotional health is a powerful act of self-care. Sometimes, the other party may not be aware of the toxicity or may not be willing to change, and in those cases, stepping away may be the best option for your own growth and happiness. Trust your instincts and prioritize your own peace of mind. - From *Stoic Legend*

  • @ticiao
    @ticiao 8 місяців тому +9

    It’s funny they have the same video for women so if no one is reaching out or trying to contact. Who is? Guess we all are staying single.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +3

      It's true that sometimes it can feel like there's a disconnect or lack of initiative in dating and relationships. However, it's important to remember that finding a connection takes time and effort from both sides. Just because it may seem quiet on the surface doesn't mean opportunities aren't out there. Keep an open mind, continue meeting new people, and focus on personal growth. Sometimes the right person comes into our lives when we least expect it. Stay positive and keep putting yourself out there!
      Thank you for watching!

  • @sarthakyadav690
    @sarthakyadav690 3 місяці тому +3

    👉It has been a year now I just lefted her so i can focus on my studies but now after accomplishing it she blocked me 😭 when i said sorry to her and she forgived me for that i think she's still obsessed with me 😞 I don't know what to do now 😭 now I'm regretting myself for losing a gem 💎😭

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  3 місяці тому +2

      It sounds like you're going through a challenging time with mixed emotions. Remember, growth often comes from difficult experiences. It's important to respect her space and focus on continuing to build your own path. You both have the opportunity to grow and learn from this situation. Stay positive, and keep moving forward!

    • @sarthakyadav690
      @sarthakyadav690 3 місяці тому +1

      @@StoicLegend_Official thanks 🙏 buddy ❤️🥺

  • @thulasiram6803
    @thulasiram6803 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank You For Sharing Sir. ❤

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  2 місяці тому

      Thank you for your time and support! What part of the video did you connect with the most? Let’s continue to spread these positive ideas by sharing it!

  • @Left-is-right-8192
    @Left-is-right-8192 8 місяців тому +3

    When I hear this kind of thing, I know instantly the person understands nothing about relationships at all.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for watching our video, check out another video and let us know what you think!

  • @stevencormier6628
    @stevencormier6628 7 місяців тому +2

    THIS IS...... POWERFUL... AMAZING.
    and AWESOME..... Truly Grabbed Me
    And Made Me RE --- THINK so many things...... Thank You....

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  7 місяців тому +1

      We're absolutely thrilled to hear that the video had such a profound impact on you! It's always our goal to inspire and provoke thought. Thank you for your enthusiastic support and for taking the time to share your experience. 🌟

  • @9pmKingGo2sleep
    @9pmKingGo2sleep 6 місяців тому +3

    If she expects me to always come out of my pockets to keep her near then she was never mine to begin with

  • @kevinfradiue8976
    @kevinfradiue8976 Місяць тому +2

    Social media like fakebook is another cause for breakup. It can create a relationship and destroy it, leaving your partner more vulnerable to seek validation elsewhere easily just by posting her body.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts! Social media can indeed have a significant impact on relationships, both positively and negatively, depending on how it's used. It's important to maintain open communication and mutual trust in any relationship to avoid the potential pitfalls. I'm glad you brought this up, and I hope the video offered some useful insights on how to navigate these challenges. Thank you so much for watching, and I appreciate your support! Feel free to share what you found helpful in the video and continue following for more content like this!

  • @Yellaveliii88
    @Yellaveliii88 8 місяців тому +4

    I’ve been going through a lot since last year with my ex it’s a lot to discuss so I’ll just say this I wish I would’ve heard this last yr and the biggest mistake I made went my ex left me the first time and had me depressed and suicidal long story short I got back strong move on excepted it and 5 months later she came back wanting to work things out and wen i think about it I responded back to fast so we was 2 and half months in but I started seeing red flags again now she walk out of my life again now she wit another man but from here on out I gotta start listening to more of these contents for sure.

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +3

      I'm sorry to hear about your tough experience with your ex, but I admire your strength in moving forward. It's important to learn from past mistakes and prioritize your well-being. Keep seeking positive content and surround yourself with support. You deserve happiness and a healthy relationship in the future. Stay strong! 💪🏼🌟

    • @Yellaveliii88
      @Yellaveliii88 8 місяців тому +2

      @@StoicLegend_Official thank u so much I will most definitely take these videos advice for now on thank u and god bless

    • @StoicLegend_Official
      @StoicLegend_Official  8 місяців тому +2

      Thank you and God bless you!