Right, and guys need to realize that the sexual relationship is going to come to an end at some point. Just messing around with a woman is fine as long as you know she's going to end the hook ups eventually. This guy seems to be dumbfounded as to why the woman backed off.
I've had this happen with my ex girlfriend, she got pissed and butt hurt I didn't contact her. Only it was 3 hours, not 3 weeks. Thats the other extreme...
As a women I see it like that : you treated her as a peace of meat, you ghosted her on your holiday, you didn't reach out after meaning you didn't care. I think she really liked you and wanted more but gave up and good for her 👌
Thank you for your work, Coach! Me and my squeeze are going over The Book each time she comes for her oil change and she always ask for more rounds of Indoor olympics.
He needs to develop some intuition! You have to be really obtuse to not see that she was trying to have the relationship talk. A couple of years ago, I had a FWB situation, but the woman started liking me and I could tell she was getting frustrated by me not moving forward with a relationship; she never directly asked me to become her boyfriend, but I could still tell she wanted me to be hers. I could see that she was becoming more distant, and we eventually stopped contacting each other. The difference is the email writer seemed to genuinely want a relationship with this woman, but was too inept at sealing the deal. It sounds like he was playing games, or he took to the extreme the idea that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear.
Literally, as soon as coach mentioned, the launch date, I said out loud come on man! BTW, “What do you mean?” Is such a powerful question. I use that all the time with my GF and it helps with having deep conversations.
when she mentioned the relationship what would the best response have been after she said she needed more time? Your book states to always let her mention this side of things but when he let her you say he made a mistake. Not following, can someone explain. thanks.
Because all he said was you have to me what you want, instead of probing her and listening to her and getting it out of her that maybe she wants a relationship. You can tell neither of them are very good communicators
I am a woman going through this with a guy I met on a dating app, and coach you are spot on about everything you said. You have confirmed that I’m justified in feeling the way I do. He messaged me recently. As you put it, I just don’t know an artful way to go about it to him without fearing he might get mad or hurt his feelings.
I made a huge mistake with a girl that I was crazy about in my last year of college. I got the where is this going question and I had no clue where this question was going. after which she started dropping off and shortly therafter no longer wanted to see me. however I was not ready for the relationship being in college and she had broken up with her fiance to start dating me so I knew she wasn't so loyal. however it just goes to show how predictable and timeless your work is as this took place in 1986. when you loose one that you really enjoy it stings for a long time.
It's cool that you noticed it as a red flag rather than some sort of romantic gesture. If someone in your boots had been more needy they might have seen her leaving someone for you as some sort of validation.
Hey Coach! What are your thoughts on vulnerability? I have been with this girl but she slept with another girl, she said she always wanted to experience it and since we were not exclusive she asked me about it vaguely and I said it would be no issue… She did it with a friend that was coming over to her place for vacation and drifted apart from me emotionally and physically. After this we had the talk, she claimed that I was not being affectionate and vulnerable enough around her and that she had to look for it on someone else, she claimed that me being not affectionate enough made her feel used by me. I managed to take control of the situation and made myself vulnerable with her, let her know that I cared about her but was pulling back my feelings until it felt right, she said it was all or nothing, implying that she wants a loving and affectionate relationship, to which I obliged, allowing for us to be together again (with labels this time around), how can I proceed since she is claiming to want me to behave in a way that made me get rejected several times before (the real me as she claims), what is the thin line between being warm and affectionate and a needy weakling? It is hard to stay in between being too warm and too cold. She asked me for the courage to be vulnerable.
Bro be more of a man than her whatever she did is past focus on having fun with her and make her laugh and to increase attraction, if she does not reciprocate ,take a step back and let her chase you back
@@rickylumo8666 hear hear. I'm glad to have found someone who comes closer when I allow myself to be vulnerable. So many times recently I had been experiencing girls pulling back when I show vulnerability to the point that i thought that 'all women' are not actually attracted to men who show their soft side and instead were attracted to toxic masculinity. But yeah, those girls just weren't the right one for me. I'm not sure if those girls I met would have ever been happy due to them having an unrealistic expectation of their partner, but anyway, it's no longer my problem.
Wouldn’t your first book beMastering yourself? I see you bash people for not reading 3% man but maybe they have read your other books and just now getting into 3% man?
(1) give her time miss you and let her do 99 of talking pursuing. While do little interest to her (2) (have a life with abundance mind set) go work while she worrying about you, do not worry about her. (3) Be a leader of your own decision (4) let know you like hangout
This is "hang out, have fun, and hook up" taken to an absurd extreme lol. At some point you must take or leave the commitment to her.
Right, and guys need to realize that the sexual relationship is going to come to an end at some point. Just messing around with a woman is fine as long as you know she's going to end the hook ups eventually. This guy seems to be dumbfounded as to why the woman backed off.
I've had this happen with my ex girlfriend, she got pissed and butt hurt I didn't contact her. Only it was 3 hours, not 3 weeks. Thats the other extreme...
As a women I see it like that : you treated her as a peace of meat, you ghosted her on your holiday, you didn't reach out after meaning you didn't care. I think she really liked you and wanted more but gave up and good for her 👌
Treating a woman like shit and she stays around for 6 months. As someone who struggles with women, this hits hard.
I think this is a simple way to think about it - she needs to feel that you don't need her but do want her. This guy was making her feel unwanted
So she can be as disrespectful as she wants but I can’t react at all wtf
Don’t react, respond (w/ your actions)
Thank you for your work, Coach!
Me and my squeeze are going over The Book each time she comes for her oil change and she always ask for more rounds of Indoor olympics.
Indoor Olympics I love it 😄💕😄
Corey was excellent in this one. Totally agree with him!
He needs to develop some intuition! You have to be really obtuse to not see that she was trying to have the relationship talk.
A couple of years ago, I had a FWB situation, but the woman started liking me and I could tell she was getting frustrated by me not moving forward with a relationship; she never directly asked me to become her boyfriend, but I could still tell she wanted me to be hers. I could see that she was becoming more distant, and we eventually stopped contacting each other.
The difference is the email writer seemed to genuinely want a relationship with this woman, but was too inept at sealing the deal. It sounds like he was playing games, or he took to the extreme the idea that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear.
Literally, as soon as coach mentioned, the launch date, I said out loud come on man!
BTW, “What do you mean?” Is such a powerful question. I use that all the time with my GF and it helps with having deep conversations.
Read the book 10-15 times!
Thank you Coach. I wish I have found your work earlier.
Love ya Coach! Mastering yourself if amazing!
when she mentioned the relationship what would the best response have been after she said she needed more time? Your book states to always let her mention this side of things but when he let her you say he made a mistake. Not following, can someone explain. thanks.
Because all he said was you have to me what you want, instead of probing her and listening to her and getting it out of her that maybe she wants a relationship. You can tell neither of them are very good communicators
If you wanna keep your girl you gotta court her as the coach says. 💯
Good morning coach!
I am a woman going through this with a guy I met on a dating app, and coach you are spot on about everything you said. You have confirmed that I’m justified in feeling the way I do. He messaged me recently. As you put it, I just don’t know an artful way to go about it to him without fearing he might get mad or hurt his feelings.
Bad way to go dude
Coach!!!
This guy thinks he knows what his doing but clearly he doesn’t. Read her subliminal messages!! And actually read the book
Women LOVE playing games. It's all about POWER and CONTROL!!
I made a huge mistake with a girl that I was crazy about in my last year of college. I got the where is this going question and I had no clue where this question was going. after which she started dropping off and shortly therafter no longer wanted to see me. however I was not ready for the relationship being in college and she had broken up with her fiance to start dating me so I knew she wasn't so loyal. however it just goes to show how predictable and timeless your work is as this took place in 1986. when you loose one that you really enjoy it stings for a long time.
It's cool that you noticed it as a red flag rather than some sort of romantic gesture. If someone in your boots had been more needy they might have seen her leaving someone for you as some sort of validation.
Stay safe from the hurricane coach!
Hey Coach! What are your thoughts on vulnerability? I have been with this girl but she slept with another girl, she said she always wanted to experience it and since we were not exclusive she asked me about it vaguely and I said it would be no issue… She did it with a friend that was coming over to her place for vacation and drifted apart from me emotionally and physically.
After this we had the talk, she claimed that I was not being affectionate and vulnerable enough around her and that she had to look for it on someone else, she claimed that me being not affectionate enough made her feel used by me. I managed to take control of the situation and made myself vulnerable with her, let her know that I cared about her but was pulling back my feelings until it felt right, she said it was all or nothing, implying that she wants a loving and affectionate relationship, to which I obliged, allowing for us to be together again (with labels this time around), how can I proceed since she is claiming to want me to behave in a way that made me get rejected several times before (the real me as she claims), what is the thin line between being warm and affectionate and a needy weakling? It is hard to stay in between being too warm and too cold. She asked me for the courage to be vulnerable.
Bro be more of a man than her whatever she did is past focus on having fun with her and make her laugh and to increase attraction, if she does not reciprocate ,take a step back and let her chase you back
@@rickylumo8666 hear hear. I'm glad to have found someone who comes closer when I allow myself to be vulnerable. So many times recently I had been experiencing girls pulling back when I show vulnerability to the point that i thought that 'all women' are not actually attracted to men who show their soft side and instead were attracted to toxic masculinity. But yeah, those girls just weren't the right one for me. I'm not sure if those girls I met would have ever been happy due to them having an unrealistic expectation of their partner, but anyway, it's no longer my problem.
Sounds to me like she put up the white flag lol!
This guy only cherry picked your videos. Maybe he skimmed it. He is not a 3% man.
Coach how can I contact you? I'm interested in translating your book
Wouldn’t your first book beMastering yourself? I see you bash people for not reading 3% man but maybe they have read your other books and just now getting into 3% man?
Too mony options bro too mony options!!!
Ha ha! He got called OUT! I pulled away fully from a man as.....He Was Not Interested. Simple.
Sounds like you literally never read the book dude. Common man!
Goatttt
(1) give her time miss you and let her do 99 of talking pursuing. While do little interest to her
(2) (have a life with abundance mind set) go work while she worrying about you, do not worry about her.
(3) Be a leader of your own decision
(4) let know you like hangout