It is a smart choice, especially when they took you for granted. Let the sleeping dogs lie.. You don't need reminders of ppl who are not worthy of you. Let them go, forgive them, cut ties.. It is part of moving on! Whoever wants to stay in your life, will make sure that they don't risk losing you.
I have deleted her on my social media, feels better, thank you. Your words are smart: “Do the right thing, not the easiest thing” This can be applied to any other thing else
todays the day i removed everything that i had of her on my phone, including social media, we didnt have kids or anything like that, we had a break from eachother and i genuinely couldnt handle it, I love this girl so much but i just cant go through the mental battle of her being fine without me, it weighed on my mind way too much, so when i sat and had a think to myself, i made the decision to remove her from everything, i know it really really hurts right now but im sure in the long run, I will heal from this and carry on with my life. if we cross paths again maybe we'll give it another shot but until then, im just gonna focus on me.
I 1000% agrée. My ex was upset because I said we couldn’t be friends . I tried and it’s painful , I put up with the pain so he wouldn’t feel abandoned .. but you’re not ready for a relationship. I matter too . Goodbye. Deleted , blocked . Over and done with .
Hmm… I mean I never thought deleting my ex’s photos would be one of the hardest things I needed to do… by hanging on to those photos it makes moving on 100xs harder. She blocked me… why should I keep,her around my life?
She left me for another guy but keeps contacting me after I was trying to not contact her so I what I did is deactivated all of my social media accounts for a wile just need no distractions
I request it to delete the picture of her ex, but he said he wouldn't, and there's a communication between the two of them, her ex help him to finance the education their daughter that is here reason. And its not okay for me.
I got myself in the most stupid situation, I known this lass for 20 odd years, we met again last year.. slowly built a friendship, she was msging me every day sending pics what she’s Upto, then she told me she had no feelings, the pics continued so I figured she was playing hard to get, I hung on an on to the idea there was somthing olnly to find out she’s been seeing this guy for like 5 months.. feel so stupid - I’ve been questioning myself if I was right deleting her. I shouldn’t have got so connected.
I moved on, so I'm ready to delete him. For people who think we can be friends after break up and can contact, just do that. May you guys broke up peacefully like me. But one day, you realized that you are not relevant with this person anymore, so you can decided to delete them out of your life lightly, deleting so that you can give yourself and your old partner another chance
My fiancee left our six year relationship by ghosting me and letting his family tell me it was over. I had just started healing when he suddenly started following my social media and now I've gone into a tailspin hurting all over again. I'm not sure what to do.
I’m afraid if I delete my ex off social media it’ll make me look like I care. Like I care so much that I have to remove him because I can’t stop looking at him. We broken up before and and when he removed me after seeing a snap story of mine I automatically thought “he can’t get over me he saw a story of me and it hurt him so he deleted me.” I also think if I don’t remove him he will think I can’t remove him or that I can’t move on. Idk what to do
We broke up nearly 3 years ago. I have had him muted ever since. But he watches every story i post. Is it too late to unfollow him? Will i look weird for waiting so long. Will he know it took me years to move on?
@@itsRichiebitch hey richie from a guys perspective if he was the one that ended the relationship, I haven’t contacted him or anything he was overall good to me but he broke it off should I still keep him on my socials?
Will girls with whom there is a mutual romantic interest (e.g girls met in clubs / bars etc.) get put off if they see stories / pics of my ex on Instagram?
It is a smart choice, especially when they took you for granted. Let the sleeping dogs lie.. You don't need reminders of ppl who are not worthy of you. Let them go, forgive them, cut ties.. It is part of moving on! Whoever wants to stay in your life, will make sure that they don't risk losing you.
Yea right! 😂
I have deleted her on my social media, feels better, thank you.
Your words are smart: “Do the right thing, not the easiest thing”
This can be applied to any other thing else
Jake you are the best ! Great mindset ..the subtle art of not giving a F**k
thankyou so much :)
Deleting is the best way, why constant reminder? Feels better to just move on and we will never be friends
todays the day i removed everything that i had of her on my phone, including social media, we didnt have kids or anything like that, we had a break from eachother and i genuinely couldnt handle it, I love this girl so much but i just cant go through the mental battle of her being fine without me, it weighed on my mind way too much, so when i sat and had a think to myself, i made the decision to remove her from everything, i know it really really hurts right now but im sure in the long run, I will heal from this and carry on with my life. if we cross paths again maybe we'll give it another shot but until then, im just gonna focus on me.
I 1000% agrée. My ex was upset because I said we couldn’t be friends . I tried and it’s painful , I put up with the pain so he wouldn’t feel abandoned .. but you’re not ready for a relationship. I matter too . Goodbye. Deleted , blocked . Over and done with .
True same here he added me n started ignoring me it hurts
You’ve explained this the BEST!!!
Unfriended him
Hmm… I mean I never thought deleting my ex’s photos would be one of the hardest things I needed to do… by hanging on to those photos it makes moving on 100xs harder. She blocked me… why should I keep,her around my life?
Treating people as a commodity is not a good trait.
Dating this guy but wouldn’t delete ex wife from social media
She left me for another guy but keeps contacting me after I was trying to not contact her so I what I did is deactivated all of my social media accounts for a wile just need no distractions
I did the same thing, bro… it’s like you disappear like a ghost. The only thing I have on her is her phone number that’s next.
Smart. Very few can let go though.
Thanks a lot for your crucial advice precisely in this time
Am I wrong for asking my partner to delete her exes off social media? Am I being controlling
Nope you are being normal
I request it to delete the picture of her ex, but he said he wouldn't, and there's a communication between the two of them, her ex help him to finance the education their daughter that is here reason. And its not okay for me.
I got myself in the most stupid situation, I known this lass for 20 odd years, we met again last year.. slowly built a friendship, she was msging me every day sending pics what she’s Upto, then she told me she had no feelings, the pics continued so I figured she was playing hard to get, I hung on an on to the idea there was somthing olnly to find out she’s been seeing this guy for like 5 months.. feel so stupid - I’ve been questioning myself if I was right deleting her. I shouldn’t have got so connected.
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I moved on, so I'm ready to delete him. For people who think we can be friends after break up and can contact, just do that. May you guys broke up peacefully like me. But one day, you realized that you are not relevant with this person anymore, so you can decided to delete them out of your life lightly, deleting so that you can give yourself and your old partner another chance
My fiancee left our six year relationship by ghosting me and letting his family tell me it was over. I had just started healing when he suddenly started following my social media and now I've gone into a tailspin hurting all over again. I'm not sure what to do.
I’m afraid if I delete my ex off social media it’ll make me look like I care. Like I care so much that I have to remove him because I can’t stop looking at him. We broken up before and and when he removed me after seeing a snap story of mine I automatically thought “he can’t get over me he saw a story of me and it hurt him so he deleted me.” I also think if I don’t remove him he will think I can’t remove him or that I can’t move on. Idk what to do
What's the actual problem if the other person actually thinks that? There isn't any, so let it be.. if you think it will help you move on, just do it.
Your ex is an ex for a reason!
Well explained! 💯
What about when you meet someone and they talk about their ex a lot. How does one deal with that?
It 's most likely because they aren't over them, my ex did this to me and I learnt the hard way. I wouldn't pursue a relationship with them.
Red flag
You're about to get your heart broken. They havent moved on
I feel sad that I deleted someone on social media who is now "heavily involved" with a "model." God bless and good luck!
We broke up nearly 3 years ago. I have had him muted ever since. But he watches every story i post. Is it too late to unfollow him? Will i look weird for waiting so long. Will he know it took me years to move on?
No I did the same. I liked that they still watched my stories bc of the attention but it just makes it harder. Just do it. You’ll feel so liberated.
@@itsRichiebitch hey richie from a guys perspective if he was the one that ended the relationship, I haven’t contacted him or anything he was overall good to me but he broke it off should I still keep him on my socials?
@@Sunkissbabe2 Pretty much my same question lol.
@@Sunkissbabe2 if seeing his posts online disrupts your peace, yes.
Will girls with whom there is a mutual romantic interest (e.g girls met in clubs / bars etc.) get put off if they see stories / pics of my ex on Instagram?
I'm debating should I delete or blocked? 😅
When you should delete her number if you're dating them?
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I was so stupid
Yes darling......l m understanding
What about if you live together for the mean time
Thank you 🙏
Agreed