You 100 percent spot on with this one. The key is to ruthlessly ignore them until they fade away. Work on you and get your money up. Other women are going to come that are 10 times better quality than the low hanging fruit you left behind.
Just remember guys. If they indifferent and you don’t hear a murmur there gone and respectfully. If you seing signs of hate, jealousy, wanting attention deep down they absolutely know they lost out. Stay strong team. Don’t break no contact. Everyone has a breaking point
My ex is doing that now lmaoo.. all she post is thirst traps.. she followed me on Ig and likes all my post and stories ( didn’t follow back ) she jus recently unfollowed me.. if they want your attention they can text you directly
Yea😂 ‘im so happy with my alcohol pictures’ Really nothing less attractive than that. U rly think a man will see you as a responsible mother for his kids?🤣🤡
My ex did all of the above. I got curious after a month of no contact and seen he’s been trashing me on Twitter. 😢 now I have to go back to not “checking in” ever again cause that low key hurt my feelings.
That's why they say go no contact and don't look on their social media because you will be triggered. They are obviously bitter about the break up and want everyone to know it.
Keep moving, honey. I had a lot of haters behind my end of my marriage. These people really thunk we were family, friends, and close. Bs! I know for sure what kind of people I never want around me again in my life.
if they’re flaunting the new relationship on social media and purposely trying to make me jealous in person as we are in the same group, trash talking me,etc. what does this mean, she was first hiding the relationship and ever since i unfollowed her she’s been posting her ex a lot, she seems to be rushing fast into the relationship with the guy which was one of my “friends” who’s an obvious downgrade
Tbh bro, or chick. It’s possible they are flaunting n tryin to get ur attention especially of said “downgrade” the chances are they prolly do miss you n just passing the time with whoever cuz they are immature. The other possibility you have to bring urself to terms with is its very possible they rlly like this person they are with rn. Put ur feelings aside for a moment n just think about it like that it’s hard for surely but we’ll nvr know n it’s honestly better for urself to say “ok they are with them they like them” n start moving on from there. Good luck to you my friend
This is the realist coach I've heard so far .my wife left me for another but all she does is post negative stuff about me on Facebook and she also started commenting on my positive post. Interesting 🤔
First point is spot on 😂. This girl wasn’t posting no sh*t when we were rolling. Now after we have parted ways, she posting a lot of herself on her stories which I know is obvious to get a reaction from me but I ain’t giving it to her. She also added me on Snapchat
Same with me added me on snap saying she sorry nd stuff nd when we was together she never posted on her story on snap nd she blocked me at one point then blocked me
Block unblocked and blocked. The only reason why I know because a memory popped in my Facebook and to the post said world's best boyfriend happy national boyfriends day. Direct to me. I feel this something that should've been deleted by her but wasn't.
Can't see anything...blocked,but the breakup is recent and heard she made a post,which I expected and i aint even worried about wbat she said.Took an ex back.....don't do it.I won't be broken again this time around....Will refocus on my purpose totally....and learn the lesson.
i’m wondering the same thing. i think it’s a mixture of things and feelings. at the end of the day you and your ex are both going through a breakup, if you do NC. but i think it’s a mixture of needing validation, attention, wanting to hurt you because maybe you did some things to hurt them in the relationship, and they probably mad at you because you aren’t reaching out if i’m being honest. i say if you see it a couple times, take it as it is and ignore them forever lol.
Going through divorce now. Yes I still have feelings for her and we have communicated in a civil way since yesterday after 2 years of toxic back and forth. A relative I am FB friend posted a meme about if u think I fucked up just know that your Ex is meeting someone that thinks they are special or some shit like that. I am blocked but I know she posted the meme. Should I respond. I have in the past but it makes me look weak and foolish…
Yesss he been posting every other day with the new girl and she haven’t posted him on her page not once 🤣🤣😒 I be laughing cause my Man you can’t even manage money you spend your money on Jordan’s and weed and always behind on your rent and bills that’s her problem now ‼️
So my ex started postingg so much and following alot of girls his page is private so I can’t see what he posts but he keeps posting and following random girls when he never used to do that when we used to be together
What does it means when your ex is posting announcing she is single? I’m the dumper I regretted my decision instantly genuinely apologized took accountability and responsibility. Asked for another chance and she ignored me completely. It was a impulsive rash decision on my part and it’s been a month since the breakup. I truly regret my decision but I’m ignoring her stories and social media because it’s gonna kill me but I saw on snap story I didn’t click on it but saw that she posted she’s single “yes ma’am”
Hello here again in the last comment i got some help from u guys but only yesterday my ex girlfriend reach saying we need to talk, she started asking how my life is going if a have a girlfriend which i dont but thats not her buisness right?, so she told that she wanted her shirt back, so i decided that since today is school i will bring back to her, she also ask if i wanted back my jacket and shirt i said no, so today im bringing back her shirt, but idont want mind, yes i still love her deeply but as u guys told she dosent, now coach once said said, if u so attractive, u so desirable, why tf u still in my face, u got ten dudes calling her beautiful, me i got away come on back, nah but i need help with this, Much love from barbados 🇧🇧❤
My ex blocked me for 2 months and i beged him 5 days ago to unblock me now 2 days ago he unblocked me. Now today he posted a meme on Instagram which says hateful things about breakup. Something related to (guy texting ex mentioning something and telling her to be safe or he will hate her) what does this mean. Will he think about me and come?
What if it’s pictures of their past they are posting? Pictures of who they dated back in the day? They made multiple accounts and everyone is a picture of them with someone they dated in the past?
😂I told his mom. They need to leave me out of it n F off. Him n his gf are crazy as hell. I don’t post things I’ve accomplished to rub it in their faces. I do it for me and to see how much success and how far I’ve come. He does it for different reasons trying to make me jealous 😂. Shoot I’m jealous of my other crush not paying attention to me. But I’m not jealous of him actually the next time he comes to me I’m getting a restraining order. Him and his gf.
My avoiding ex he's been doing some strange things first he started taking two of his ex and rearranging them on his friends list now he has now he has hid his friends list and also hit his self on their page why is that
Why would he do that to get my attention I don't even go to his friends list and to hide his friends list and then to hide himself on his friend's pages is strange he started doing this after I was on messenger for a very long time I saw him and the next day this is what he did change his friends list and hide it
My ex posted a song saying my “ex was getting on my nerve so I was quick to let em go” I ain’t even text her or nun I been doing no contact saw her two days ago we cross paths I ain’t say nun to her I just smiled and kept walking
So I don't know why, but maybe someone can help me. And I realize that this may not have anything to do with me. But my ex (who dumped me) recently made her profile public. This is someone who, for the whole time, I've known her, has always kept her profile private. What's everyone's take on that? I unfollowed her as soon as she broke up with me but I've always checked her profile to see her (i know, its gross).
This actually just happened to me. (Ik this comment is 5months old) but I take this as them trying to get our attention. Them trying to get us to look at their profile and the pics the new pics. Check out their following and followers to either get us jealous or to prove they aren’t talking to nobody. (My ex unfollowed a bunch of girls). It’s ridiculous tbh. It’s immature, childish and stupid tbh. Best to ignore and move on trying ur best to forget about the past.
My ex is on a dating sight she is long distance and knows im coming in august what do i do . Should i go i invited her to airport and my birthday Shoukd i still go to her country to see if she is there .
@@darrenrichards8941 She’s your ex. Do not go to her country or randomly show up places she’s at that’s called stalking. Do not contact her. If SHE wants YOU she will contact u. Do nothing. Trust me. When you have an ex begging to come back it pushes the other person away u gotta keep ur cool and stay away do not contact her. Just because ur coming up near her don’t mean anything if she wanted to see u she would have already reached out and made plans to meet up.
What if they blocked you, and then three days later unblock you, then, they heart one of your photos, and then unheart it, and then like one of your statuses that pertains to love and then unhearts it. I broke up with him a month ago and have been in no contact for three weeks and that’s what he’s been doing.
All then quotes come up , esp when u start dating somebody new and u post it on facebook, despite being blocked they know u can see it..Quotes like, ' Im so glad too be free.. ' Or ' I know got inner peace..' And , 'I will rise again and wear my crown again...' 😂 Made mistake of chasing her first 2 weeks, then backed off started dating somebody new , poated it on social nedia..Then boom them quotes. 😂
My ex dumped me recently to "focus on herself", she did me dirty in the beginning of knowing eachother but I forgave her... fast foward a few days ago she never posts on social media on Insta and I saw she posted. I looked and it was 2 selfies with another dude one of which the face was colored out
My ex seen me w a baddie in the grocery store we made eye contact a few days later she contacted me😂 I’m thinking of just running through her and ghosting 😈
So it’s been a year after me n her split and she’s started to make public stories on social media, when she’s engaged to someone else why? Nothing else is public other wise her guy would notice just her stories lol
If they are openly already showing they got somebody, there is no return. You want to come give me a big kiss after you did all that nasty s***with whoever? hell no
My ex girlfriend broke up with me on December 5th with no explanation at all. After the break up she refused to let me pick up any of my clothes or the engagement ring I got her. Also didn't want her things back. I noticed though she still has all of my pictures and the pictures we took together on her Facebook and all of the post about how I'm the best boyfriend ever and she's so lucky to have me. Now for the last week up until tonight she is posting alot of subliminal messages on her story about me. But why? Why is she trying to get my attention?
You 100 percent spot on with this one. The key is to ruthlessly ignore them until they fade away. Work on you and get your money up. Other women are going to come that are 10 times better quality than the low hanging fruit you left behind.
Deep down, they are really miserable. Most of the time they ain't found nothing. Just running up their body count.
Just remember guys. If they indifferent and you don’t hear a murmur there gone and respectfully. If you seing signs of hate, jealousy, wanting attention deep down they absolutely know they lost out. Stay strong team. Don’t break no contact. Everyone has a breaking point
You saved my sanity and my anxiety is down now
My favorites are the "I got a new makeover" thirst trap photos and the "hey look at me, I'm so independent and happy" posts.
My ex is doing that now lmaoo.. all she post is thirst traps.. she followed me on Ig and likes all my post and stories ( didn’t follow back ) she jus recently unfollowed me.. if they want your attention they can text you directly
Yea😂 ‘im so happy with my alcohol pictures’
Really nothing less attractive than that. U rly think a man will see you as a responsible mother for his kids?🤣🤡
@@michaelmich00alcoholic pictures... yes, yes. And in my case she was not even drinking before discard. #BPD
Point number 2 is so spot on lol
Wow thank you for explaining to me how people act, after broken a relationship.
Background music 🔥❄️
My ex did all of the above. I got curious after a month of no contact and seen he’s been trashing me on Twitter. 😢 now I have to go back to not “checking in” ever again cause that low key hurt my feelings.
That's why they say go no contact and don't look on their social media because you will be triggered. They are obviously bitter about the break up and want everyone to know it.
Same 🤣, started lurking after one month of no contact just to find out she's out there throwing shade about me on IG.
Keep moving, honey. I had a lot of haters behind my end of my marriage. These people really thunk we were family, friends, and close. Bs! I know for sure what kind of people I never want around me again in my life.
Loll🥴🤣 when I seen that, I logged in n cussed him out til he blocked me
@@Tatianarain 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 my was put likes and hearts to his “I’m doing me message” 🤣🤣😆 I won’t watch anything else from here on out
Right on the money.. you exactly right..going thru this right now.. and i ignore all the subliminal post
if they’re flaunting the new relationship on social media and purposely trying to make me jealous in person as we are in the same group, trash talking me,etc. what does this mean, she was first hiding the relationship and ever since i unfollowed her she’s been posting her ex a lot, she seems to be rushing fast into the relationship with the guy which was one of my “friends” who’s an obvious downgrade
Means stop being a bitch , and get at life and move on.
Tbh bro, or chick. It’s possible they are flaunting n tryin to get ur attention especially of said “downgrade” the chances are they prolly do miss you n just passing the time with whoever cuz they are immature. The other possibility you have to bring urself to terms with is its very possible they rlly like this person they are with rn. Put ur feelings aside for a moment n just think about it like that it’s hard for surely but we’ll nvr know n it’s honestly better for urself to say “ok they are with them they like them” n start moving on from there. Good luck to you my friend
@@deejay839 nah they broke up but now she’s with the ex she originally left me for😪 I still miss her so much
@@sandoc4640 sounds like a borderline, stay away
My ex started following a bunch of girls after I broke up with him and then after 3 weeks he unfollowed all of them ….
Exactly trying to get u jealous. It’s ridiculous. Manchild these men are
@@Ah62013 same here!! Any updates ?
I needed to hear this. Thanks for preaching the gospel
This is the realist coach I've heard so far .my wife left me for another but all she does is post negative stuff about me on Facebook and she also started commenting on my positive post. Interesting 🤔
Smear campaigns really suck.
She dumps you, you're like "OKAY" and never contacting her.
And then she POST SHIT ABOUT YOU.
Like WTF ?
First point is spot on 😂. This girl wasn’t posting no sh*t when we were rolling. Now after we have parted ways, she posting a lot of herself on her stories which I know is obvious to get a reaction from me but I ain’t giving it to her. She also added me on Snapchat
Same with me added me on snap saying she sorry nd stuff nd when we was together she never posted on her story on snap nd she blocked me at one point then blocked me
Block unblocked and blocked. The only reason why I know because a memory popped in my Facebook and to the post said world's best boyfriend happy national boyfriends day. Direct to me. I feel this something that should've been deleted by her but wasn't.
Like the intro gives that 90s vibe
Can't see anything...blocked,but the breakup is recent and heard she made a post,which I expected and i aint even worried about wbat she said.Took an ex back.....don't do it.I won't be broken again this time around....Will refocus on my purpose totally....and learn the lesson.
But what is the exact reason they will do this kinda shit? Is it because they still have feelings?
i’m wondering the same thing. i think it’s a mixture of things and feelings. at the end of the day you and your ex are both going through a breakup, if you do NC. but i think it’s a mixture of needing validation, attention, wanting to hurt you because maybe you did some things to hurt them in the relationship, and they probably mad at you because you aren’t reaching out if i’m being honest. i say if you see it a couple times, take it as it is and ignore them forever lol.
Going through divorce now. Yes I still have feelings for her and we have communicated in a civil way since yesterday after 2 years of toxic back and forth. A relative I am FB friend posted a meme about if u think I fucked up just know that your Ex is meeting someone that thinks they are special or some shit like that. I am blocked but I know she posted the meme. Should I respond. I have in the past but it makes me look weak and foolish…
Yesss he been posting every other day with the new girl and she haven’t posted him on her page not once 🤣🤣😒 I be laughing cause my Man you can’t even manage money you spend your money on Jordan’s and weed and always behind on your rent and bills that’s her problem now ‼️
So my ex started postingg so much and following alot of girls his page is private so I can’t see what he posts but he keeps posting and following random girls when he never used to do that when we used to be together
He's hurting my ex does the same
Mine did the same. Every day a new person. Any updates ??
@@amazingbestvideos2954 why do You Say they are hurting ?
Going on a cruise for bday..told my daughter..never liked his bday..lol..have fun
What does it means when your ex is posting announcing she is single? I’m the dumper I regretted my decision instantly genuinely apologized took accountability and responsibility. Asked for another chance and she ignored me completely. It was a impulsive rash decision on my part and it’s been a month since the breakup. I truly regret my decision but I’m ignoring her stories and social media because it’s gonna kill me but I saw on snap story I didn’t click on it but saw that she posted she’s single “yes ma’am”
I’m not fellowing my EX.
Hello here again in the last comment i got some help from u guys but only yesterday my ex girlfriend reach saying we need to talk, she started asking how my life is going if a have a girlfriend which i dont but thats not her buisness right?, so she told that she wanted her shirt back, so i decided that since today is school i will bring back to her, she also ask if i wanted back my jacket and shirt i said no, so today im bringing back her shirt, but idont want mind, yes i still love her deeply but as u guys told she dosent, now coach once said said, if u so attractive, u so desirable, why tf u still in my face, u got ten dudes calling her beautiful, me i got away come on back, nah but i need help with this,
Much love from barbados 🇧🇧❤
Thank you for this🙏
heartless than heartbroken! This person mimics by socials why??
Thanks for advice
Hello, where the instrumental from ?
Original is celly cel it’s going down tonight
Why would ex have his friends try to friend me when he has me blocked?
To spy
Shes just posted shes single and ready to pringle. 3 days after the breakup..is that a sign also to get my attention or just trying to hurt me? 😢
Yo your talk all happens to me thanks man appreciate
My ex blocked me for 2 months and i beged him 5 days ago to unblock me now 2 days ago he unblocked me. Now today he posted a meme on Instagram which says hateful things about breakup. Something related to (guy texting ex mentioning something and telling her to be safe or he will hate her) what does this mean. Will he think about me and come?
Great lessons and video by the way whats the name of the track playing in the intro
What if it’s pictures of their past they are posting? Pictures of who they dated back in the day? They made multiple accounts and everyone is a picture of them with someone they dated in the past?
Awesome! Thanks
😂I told his mom. They need to leave me out of it n F off. Him n his gf are crazy as hell. I don’t post things I’ve accomplished to rub it in their faces. I do it for me and to see how much success and how far I’ve come. He does it for different reasons trying to make me jealous 😂. Shoot I’m jealous of my other crush not paying attention to me. But I’m not jealous of him actually the next time he comes to me I’m getting a restraining order. Him and his gf.
My avoiding ex he's been doing some strange things first he started taking two of his ex and rearranging them on his friends list now he has now he has hid his friends list and also hit his self on their page why is that
Why would he do that to get my attention I don't even go to his friends list and to hide his friends list and then to hide himself on his friend's pages is strange he started doing this after I was on messenger for a very long time I saw him and the next day this is what he did change his friends list and hide it
My ex posted a song saying my “ex was getting on my nerve so I was quick to let em go” I ain’t even text her or nun I been doing no contact saw her two days ago we cross paths I ain’t say nun to her I just smiled and kept walking
So I don't know why, but maybe someone can help me. And I realize that this may not have anything to do with me.
But my ex (who dumped me) recently made her profile public. This is someone who, for the whole time, I've known her, has always kept her profile private.
What's everyone's take on that? I unfollowed her as soon as she broke up with me but I've always checked her profile to see her (i know, its gross).
This actually just happened to me. (Ik this comment is 5months old) but I take this as them trying to get our attention. Them trying to get us to look at their profile and the pics the new pics. Check out their following and followers to either get us jealous or to prove they aren’t talking to nobody. (My ex unfollowed a bunch of girls). It’s ridiculous tbh. It’s immature, childish and stupid tbh. Best to ignore and move on trying ur best to forget about the past.
What’s the background song
what do it mean when you can’t respond to your EX post. But you can’t comment on her post? Is she following me on Facebook?
What about if they added you on his other real account on Facebook
My ex is on a dating sight she is long distance and knows im coming in august what do i do .
Should i go i invited her to airport and my birthday
Shoukd i still go to her country to see if she is there .
@@darrenrichards8941 She’s your ex. Do not go to her country or randomly show up places she’s at that’s called stalking. Do not contact her. If SHE wants YOU she will contact u. Do nothing. Trust me. When you have an ex begging to come back it pushes the other person away u gotta keep ur cool and stay away do not contact her. Just because ur coming up near her don’t mean anything if she wanted to see u she would have already reached out and made plans to meet up.
What if they blocked you, and then three days later unblock you, then, they heart one of your photos, and then unheart it, and then like one of your statuses that pertains to love and then unhearts it. I broke up with him a month ago and have been in no contact for three weeks and that’s what he’s been doing.
He’s just trying to get your attention
All then quotes come up , esp when u start dating somebody new and u post it on facebook, despite being blocked they know u can see it..Quotes like, ' Im so glad too be free.. ' Or ' I know got inner peace..' And , 'I will rise again and wear my crown again...' 😂 Made mistake of chasing her first 2 weeks, then backed off started dating somebody new , poated it on social nedia..Then boom them quotes. 😂
Thanks bro
Just wanted to add that all my other social media is deactivated for now so WhatsApp is my only available platform FYI
What's the name of the song???
Who madd that beat.
My ex are not on any of my socials..delete them!
My ex dumped me recently to "focus on herself", she did me dirty in the beginning of knowing eachother but I forgave her... fast foward a few days ago she never posts on social media on Insta and I saw she posted. I looked and it was 2 selfies with another dude one of which the face was colored out
I blocked her
Kind of went off on her too but for someone to be done so wrong and that person is ignoring you to be with another dude
Wats the name of this song?
Coach I’m the girl from Nashville who used to stalk my ex. Can we make an appointment to chat just to talk?
You a narcissist.. if you stalk exes
@@Nightmare_-ix7dk ok. I wasn’t talking to you and it said used to. Go on
@j-tenn266 I'm here If he doesn't love u I do ok
My ex seen me w a baddie in the grocery store we made eye contact a few days later she contacted me😂 I’m thinking of just running through her and ghosting 😈
Hes blkd..so I'm not looking
Go on with yo bad self! Leave me alone! That part!
Ben blking new friends!!@@
So it’s been a year after me n her split and she’s started to make public stories on social media, when she’s engaged to someone else why? Nothing else is public other wise her guy would notice just her stories lol
If they are openly already showing they got somebody, there is no return.
You want to come give me a big kiss after you did all that nasty s***with whoever?
hell no
Dude, this intro is too long
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My ex girlfriend broke up with me on December 5th with no explanation at all. After the break up she refused to let me pick up any of my clothes or the engagement ring I got her. Also didn't want her things back. I noticed though she still has all of my pictures and the pictures we took together on her Facebook and all of the post about how I'm the best boyfriend ever and she's so lucky to have me. Now for the last week up until tonight she is posting alot of subliminal messages on her story about me. But why? Why is she trying to get my attention?
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What if she blocked me on Facebook(never added her)
But followed me on instagram 2
Months later after the breakup but kept me blocked on facebook
She probably just forgot she had you blocked on fb.