BarakAllahu feek for this beautiful video. I had a question Lamaa, how to keep a positive mindset when I feel like every profile I have an interest in, shows no interest back. It’s always the people that I don’t really want who show interest. I feel like it happens all the time and I’m truly trying to figure this out. Part of me believe that Allah will give me the person that I want. But there are moments I feel like it’s harder as a black woman especially on these apps - to match with the profile that I’m interested in. I don’t want to get into the victim mentality. I am confident in myself but I don’t understand why it keeps happening. What’s your advice on that please?
To answer this question, I would ask yourself why you think the guys you are interested in don’t find you interesting. List out the fears that caused you to feel this way. Once you list out those fears, you can rewrite them into positive thoughts (i.e. Allah will have someone for me that will find me attractive and I will find them attractive). If the positive thoughts don’t sound convincing, then ask yourself why and break down what causing you that blockage before rewriting them into positive thoughts. Hope that helps!
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BarakAllahu feek for this beautiful video. I had a question Lamaa, how to keep a positive mindset when I feel like every profile I have an interest in, shows no interest back. It’s always the people that I don’t really want who show interest. I feel like it happens all the time and I’m truly trying to figure this out. Part of me believe that Allah will give me the person that I want. But there are moments I feel like it’s harder as a black woman especially on these apps - to match with the profile that I’m interested in. I don’t want to get into the victim mentality. I am confident in myself but I don’t understand why it keeps happening. What’s your advice on that please?
Even I feel the same . The profile that I am interested for some reason it doesnt work out
@ oh really? I thought I was the only one struggling with that! I’d like it if she could enlighten us on this
@@diarrandiaye3983 yeah waiting for her reply too
@@diarrandiaye3983 yes dear waiting for Lama to comment on this
To answer this question, I would ask yourself why you think the guys you are interested in don’t find you interesting. List out the fears that caused you to feel this way. Once you list out those fears, you can rewrite them into positive thoughts (i.e. Allah will have someone for me that will find me attractive and I will find them attractive). If the positive thoughts don’t sound convincing, then ask yourself why and break down what causing you that blockage before rewriting them into positive thoughts. Hope that helps!
MashaAllah Aleeki
I’m 44 😢 not married maybe Allah is saving me from being hurt from being married
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