I loved him and I left. His world crumbled and he ended up passing away. I've always felt partially responsible because I left him. How do we overcome that??
We all have an expiration date and is not up to us to decide when our life ends. And we are not responsible for anybody happiness but ourselves. God called him and he is omnipotent omniscient omnipresent. It's not your fault. ❤
@@theraven2974 let that go Precious death and life is not in your hand . God set you free so enjoy that until God show you your worth and you can choose wisely. Love and Peace Queen
A woman will not get revenge not bc she still loves him but because: 1- REVENGE WILL NOT SATISFY HER 2- SHE'S BEEN RAISED BETTER 3- SHE BELIEVES IN KARMA 4- SHE DON'T GIVE AF I know bc I'm her 😊
Glad to know I’m not the only woman. This is validating.. I love him so much and I can still hear his laugh but I can only love him from afar since he kept hurting me. I pray for him everyday and that he heals from his childhood trauma.
Still love him but he’s got no access to me. He is blocked. I’m starting my selfish season and deep wound healing. Thank you, Jesus, for helping me through this.
Facts, I love my ex fiancee and called off my wedding in December 2023 I truly loved him from the bottom of my heart but I know marrying him was going to be my biggest regret. 💯✌️
The amount of people I have loved so very much but had to walk away is horrible, it broke my heart more than I could have ever hurt them, but it's self worth, self respect, and for my sanity, I refuse to be abused and disrespected, everything u said is true, thanku for still being here despite people judging u, regardless of how imperfectly human we are, u bring an extremely important message hun, it takes courage to do what u do, and Im proud of u, just know that
I love him and made every effort to work with him, chance after chance, but his anxious avoidant attachment style, refusal to work through issues, constantly giving the silent treatment, broken promises, waiting and hoping, etc....last time he discarded me I no longer made myself available.
Most women I know would rather be single forever than be taken for granted or neglected or abused while being in a relationship. Half the women I know gave up on men already. And My grandma stayed in her marriage while her husband was a child rapist and she had to stay because she had nowhere to go, no family who could take her in, and women with 5 children as a working single mom was not as possible in the 40's and 50's
Amen to this. Love is all around us. Not just with somebody to be with. Love is a way of life. Heal, transform and upgrade. All in the name of love because we are God’s children. God bless.
@laupepasisters9012 “Love is all around us. Not just with somebody to be with. Love is a way of life.” … Thank you for that, requires one to ponder and view Love from a different lens.
This is exactly what I'm going through right now. Ironically, he has the same name as you. I could no longer do that to myself. It was destroying me. I love him, but I have placed it in God's hands. A few miracles would have to take place for us to be together. Your videos are helping me get through this. Thank you.
He'll yeah I'm out! I told him he had one time to try me. I don't play games. My word is bond to myself! I don't back to the past either so ain't no spinning the block here. Next.. 😅😅
How do you know?? Every video I have seen so far of yours is so spot on. I have left a few very loving relationships, all for the same reason, I knew ultimately it won't work. Some men don't let know where they want relationships to go, and you realize he is going North but you are going True North (two different places), and once you know your heart is no longer safe. I was heartbroken and moved to a different state, twice I did this to myself. Not easy at all.
Same, I loved and lossed. I moved to a different state twice to get away from them. One did me the worst but, the other hurt me the most because I really loved him and cared about him 😔
I just didn't like what I saw growing up with the decades long marriages I grew up seeing. I can't be miserable. Life is too short. Thank you for speaking 🙏🏿 on this 😊
Hello, big brother. I feel that i can call you that because you are so passionate about giving us the game of these dating streets. I thank you so much. Thanks bro you are a gem. Your delivery is just the way it needs to be delivered. THANK YOU ❤
You continue to tell me exactly what I don't want to hear! But you know I need to hear it!! Never stop keeping it real... I'm listening 😟 I'm listening
You are so right about that and to add more to it I don’t care if his sex would make me jump up and start barking like a seal. Once I’m done I’m done !!!!
Also we male or female have to understand when you meet someone if they are not looking for a relationship. Then you should limit them to breakfast date at a restaurant or lunch. Dinner dates should only be for relationships.
Hardest thing I ever had to do.. Long time ago now ... what your saying is so on point ! Thank you 👏👏👏😊 Ps. I spared .. not just for love ... for my standards.
When God woke me up to see the truth about my 14yr marriage Every thing you’ve said is speaking into my life I’ve experienced my Husband is this person today My Marriage Has Ended 😢 with 3 kids
The love and loyalty he has to his friends other men is disturbing to say the least.. These men get the world for him while I have to borrow from family 😪
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I loved him and I left. His world crumbled and he ended up passing away. I've always felt partially responsible because I left him. How do we overcome that??
We all have an expiration date and is not up to us to decide when our life ends. And we are not responsible for anybody happiness but ourselves. God called him and he is omnipotent omniscient omnipresent. It's not your fault. ❤
@@theraven2974 let that go Precious death and life is not in your hand .
God set you free so enjoy that until God show you your worth and you can choose wisely. Love and Peace Queen
You telling all facts on this one 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Facts , big brother
A woman will not get revenge not bc she still loves him but because:
1- REVENGE WILL NOT SATISFY HER
2- SHE'S BEEN RAISED BETTER
3- SHE BELIEVES IN KARMA
4- SHE DON'T GIVE AF
I know bc I'm her 😊
Facts. We love ourselves.
Definitely not afraid of being single life is too short for continuous non sense
A toxic personality will make u sick
Raise your blood pressure too! I left when I woke up three days in a row with high blood pressure dealing with his games!
I physically got ill
I love him from a distance and pray for him daily
Yes love him from a distance like any dangerous predator
Same
Glad to know I’m not the only woman. This is validating.. I love him so much and I can still hear his laugh but I can only love him from afar since he kept hurting me. I pray for him everyday and that he heals from his childhood trauma.
Still love him but he’s got no access to me. He is blocked. I’m starting my selfish season and deep wound healing. Thank you, Jesus, for helping me through this.
I so.....get your statement.....In my "Selfish Season". The Healing myself Season!
Facts, I love my ex fiancee and called off my wedding in December 2023 I truly loved him from the bottom of my heart but I know marrying him was going to be my biggest regret. 💯✌️
Mmmmm, I love the courage.
I pray you find boundless peace & happiness ♥️
Wow ,couraeous woman
Same sis❤
Me too. Also in December too. I would have been in a toxic marriage. Rather be single.
Same happened to me but still had to leave him coz it will get worse after marriage
The amount of people I have loved so very much but had to walk away is horrible, it broke my heart more than I could have ever hurt them, but it's self worth, self respect, and for my sanity, I refuse to be abused and disrespected, everything u said is true, thanku for still being here despite people judging u, regardless of how imperfectly human we are, u bring an extremely important message hun, it takes courage to do what u do, and Im proud of u, just know that
100%% this.. well said!!!
@@jeannethelen3604 thx hun
Yes, his message and delivery is on point❤️
Don't ever doubt yourself Derrick, u are doing gods work, we need u out here, thanku so much ❤
Def need him ❤️
Big Bro,
You deep!!! How can anyone get mad when you Tell the truth.
I left left. Brought another home and living in PEACE.
You have to love urself before u can love others
I’d rather be empty 😢than be mistreated!!!💪
Not only did I walk away, but all communication stopped, I cut off my gps and kept it moving.
I love him and made every effort to work with him, chance after chance, but his anxious avoidant attachment style, refusal to work through issues, constantly giving the silent treatment, broken promises, waiting and hoping, etc....last time he discarded me I no longer made myself available.
A relationship is an investment. Either for the good of both of u or the bad for one❤️
Yes 💯
Most women I know would rather be single forever than be taken for granted or neglected or abused while being in a relationship. Half the women I know gave up on men already.
And My grandma stayed in her marriage while her husband was a child rapist and she had to stay because she had nowhere to go, no family who could take her in, and women with 5 children as a working single mom was not as possible in the 40's and 50's
Your messages are so on point! Today's women especially good solid women. Will not tolerate being mishandled
Amen to this. Love is all around us. Not just with somebody to be with. Love is a way of life. Heal, transform and upgrade. All in the name of love because we are God’s children. God bless.
@laupepasisters9012
“Love is all around us. Not just with somebody to be with. Love is a way of life.”
… Thank you for that, requires one to ponder and view Love from a different lens.
IAM OUT Just getting pass the Emotional part
Staying in prayer everyday 🙏 GOD IS WITH ME 😇
This is exactly what I'm going through right now. Ironically, he has the same name as you. I could no longer do that to myself. It was destroying me. I love him, but I have placed it in God's hands. A few miracles would have to take place for us to be together. Your videos are helping me get through this. Thank you.
Peace, mental health, well-being. Exactly.
I chose me and I will continue to choose me, moving forward. My peace is priceless… Thank you for your message! ❤
“Not worthy or deserving of your Love” ‼️
My grandmother was a force to be reckoned with.
Yes, still love him but had to walk away
Certainly will and I did ! Life is actually easier, single and drama free.
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Absolutely!!!
The older ones be the worst ones 💯
I love him so much that it hurts but i love and respect myself much more. I pray for him daily
He'll yeah I'm out! I told him he had one time to try me. I don't play games. My word is bond to myself! I don't back to the past either so ain't no spinning the block here. Next.. 😅😅
How do you know?? Every video I have seen so far of yours is so spot on.
I have left a few very loving relationships, all for the same reason, I knew ultimately it won't work. Some men don't let know where they want relationships to go, and you realize he is going North but you are going True North (two different places), and once you know your heart is no longer safe. I was heartbroken and moved to a different state, twice I did this to myself. Not easy at all.
Same, I loved and lossed. I moved to a different state twice to get away from them. One did me the worst but, the other hurt me the most because I really loved him and cared about him 😔
Same here got to do what we have to do God bless
I just didn't like what I saw growing up with the decades long marriages I grew up seeing. I can't be miserable. Life is too short. Thank you for speaking 🙏🏿 on this 😊
I LOVE YOU…BUT I LOVE ME MORE. ❤
I love myself enough to be single it gives me a peace of mind 🌹
You are completely speaking facts!!
Im ready to say goodbye. Its not what. Iwant , but I deserve more than what he can give. I have options
Hello, big brother. I feel that i can call you that because you are so passionate about giving us the game of these dating streets. I thank you so much. Thanks bro you are a gem. Your delivery is just the way it needs to be delivered. THANK YOU ❤
Sure can because I have done it
I agree with you 💯 I'm one of the lady. I love him but can't tolerate his silence treatment pattern mode on.
"I" & FACTS!❤
You continue to tell me exactly what I don't want to hear! But you know I need to hear it!! Never stop keeping it real... I'm listening 😟
I'm listening
❤Thank you Derrick!❤
You have to let it go. If it is meant to be, he will come back, correct ! It is OK to be alone until the right one comes around
You are so right about that and to add more to it I don’t care if his sex would make me jump up and start barking like a seal. Once I’m done I’m done !!!!
😂 I can get my self off and be happy being by myself than u have a 2 min brother. I love it when u get raw! All you said is on point.
You’re speaking truth and facts Derrick🔥
Dropping the MIC!!!! I AM That woman!!!!
I have and will walk out regardless of how much it hurts
Yes after 34 years of marriage. I am done!
U on point I don't want no headache I love my PEACE
I 🙌 Thank you so much for speaking the truth every single time big brother ❤
Also we male or female have to understand when you meet someone if they are not looking for a relationship. Then you should limit them to breakfast date at a restaurant or lunch. Dinner dates should only be for relationships.
Hardest thing I ever had to do..
Long time ago now ... what your saying is so on point ! Thank you 👏👏👏😊
Ps. I spared .. not just for love ... for my standards.
Yesss
FACTS FACTS FACTS!!!
You have spoken all the way facts!❤
This is spot On ❤
You didn’t miss a beep on this one speaking nothing but the truth!❤
Thank you Derrick. So.....True!!
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MY GOODNESS...THE TRUTH ✅
THIS IS THE ABSOLUTELY THE
HONEST GODLY 🌟 TRUTH.
AMEN 💫
If telling the truth is Trippin' 🙌🏿💯 Gone ahead and Vacation on 'em
exactly it builds character and self confidence!
Nothing but facts!!! 👋🏿 🙌🏿
True statement
I so appreciate your messages, your honesty.
I understand and know exactly what you mean I’m dealing either way this right now but I had to Go🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Sure Can.... No Hesitation..None..❤
Amen soooo spot on!!!
Speaking the truth.
Ha, ha! Love it! Right on!
Been there did it 6 yrs and I put him out.....love yourself first period
Not only that, a woman could leave you because she loves you.
1000000% FACTS!!! TRUTH BE TOLD!!!!!
100% spot on
Yes, more than once.
Interesting topic
They are calling this the mating crisis…woman today are saying no thanks…
You are spot on
Every word you say true true true
You are absolutely right
You are doing it again so right
Facts, facts, and more facts !!!!!❤❤
Yes I have but not before telling them about themselves
True spill, I will love you and leave you cuz I'm D sure I don't need you. Learned that a long time ago.
Actually, I have about five that are lurking right now and they can’t handle that. I’m glowing up.
Thanx 4 da truth ✊🏿
Amen🔥🔥🔥
You are so raw you is on time
Yes.. left my husband and I still love him
Absolutely 💯. Thankyou Big Brother.
Went radio silent. I’m enjoying the peace and quiet. That toxic energy was making sick.
That was the greatest show
Truth.
It disgusting when I hear some men saying I like them young!!!🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮
Damn he spoke all facts 💯
I did and I don't regret my decision even if we had kids together and I did this to benefit me and our kids
When God woke me up to see the truth about my 14yr marriage Every thing you’ve said is speaking into my life I’ve experienced my Husband is this person today My Marriage Has Ended 😢 with 3 kids
The love and loyalty he has to his friends other men is disturbing to say the least.. These men get the world for him while I have to borrow from family 😪
Your speaking FACTS!!!
You making sence right now im going thru it