Our Surrogacy Birth Story
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- Опубліковано 3 сер 2022
- At 38+6 we went into our routine OB visit and we ended up meeting surro babe later that day! Dan and I talk through how labor was for me and what it was like delivery little belly bud. Thanks so much for watching and enjoy. Birth vlog coming soon :)
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Hey there, I'm Sam. My husband Dan and I have two kids, Canyon and Ember. In 2018 we felt led to pursue surrogacy and we are now starting our second journey. We hope to encourage and inspire you with all we do. Thanks for being here!
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What a FUN birth story for that precious baby to have! My youngest is almost 21, and she was born very rapidly like your Belly Bud, almost without a doctor in the room! Nurse says, “Let’s try a test push,” so I did, and I see this look of panic on her face and she says, “No! Don’t push! Don’t laugh! Don’t talk! Don’t even fart!” and throws the door wide open yelling for my Doctor. Room was swarmed by doc and nurses and half a push later, my little peanut was here! 😂 May God bless you for the amazing gift you gave the IPs, and for sharing your life with the world. ❤
From someone who struggled with fertility this just put me in tears thank you for doing this for the parents
You guys did such a beautiful, selfless act of kindness and love. What amazing humans you are!
God bless you both for the selfless act of helping another couple become parents that couldn’t have done it with out y’all. Y’all are amazing. I pray So many blessings are poured over y’all and your precious family. ❤
So happy for you both! You are such an inspiration to all women! Your strength is amazing! I hope your healing well, relaxing and taking time away from social media! I pray that all the drama leaves quickly!
Congratulations, you’re an amazing woman and have an amazing husband, soulmate, and partner so beautiful how he supports you and has been by your side the whole Surrogucy process. I just past my medical clearance and waiting on contracts. This just gave me so much motivation to keep going and hope that I’ll help create a beautiful baby or babies for a family one day!!
- Thanks Sam and Dan can’t wait to see what’s in store for the future with your whole family 💓🥹🥹
Yay so excited! I’ve been waiting on this to drop!!!❤ we love you guys so much and are so so proud of you. 🎉
Completely amazing, what a gift you gave to to those people 💕💕I hope postpartum an all that goes with it isn’t to hard for you. You just gave so much love out to that family, now you deserve all the love !!
You guys rock! Who would have known back when you were a teen dancing with my daughter Ari at church, that this would be your future! You were a special girl then turned amazing woman! It’s simply breathtaking to see where God leads each heart of his in life!
Sorry, not sure why my last reply attached to this comment? It was to the one you left a couple months ago, defending their compensation (which nobody should have to do) you're wonderful doing that. But the people making the hateful comments don't deserve the explanations, IMO. LOL!!
What an amazing journey! The most selfless people and the gift you gave these people, I know you were compensated but it's very obvious to me it's not all about the money. Your amazing people and I hope you both know how touching your story is!!
Congrats!!! So happy for everyone involved and that it was a smooth delivery 🙌 Cannot wait to welcome our 3rd little one in the next few weeks 😁
You are such a gift for what you did! This is so amazing! 🥰🥰 Congratulations on your first surrogate journey!
What a blessing. Great job Sam. You’re an amazing woman
CONGRATULATIONS! You guys are angels on earth! I hope Intended parents will share and let us continue to follow the journey with the baby. Such a beautiful story!
Me too!!
@@_pandacecelya_ Me three!!!!
This is such an amazing story and selfless thing that you have done. I admire you so much. ❤️
So excited for this video. Y'all are such a blessing. Just think, right now a couple is holding that precious little miracle that you helped them bring into this world.
I’ve loved following your story, it’s so beautiful!
I can’t put into words how beautiful, wonderful this is. I know someone’s dreams have come true, thanks to both of you. May God forever watch over you & all your dreams come true.
I’ve been waiting for this video!! This was wonderful!! All day all week I would check to see if you uploaded……
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Congratulations to everyone!! Your an amazing woman!!
Yay congratulations mama your so amazing you did it so happy. Your a rock star. So happy everything went well. I have been waiting for this so impatiently . Super incredible and inspirational journey. I watched each video at least 2 times
This made me cry!! You guys are amazing! I love your videos and podcast!
Oh my gosh your delivery experience with the baby coming when trying to get an epidural is very very similar to mine with my second baby! I was in the middle of getting the epi and I was like baby is coming NOW! They told me I had to wait but I had no control ❤️
Love from Kansas City, Missouri. You two are so amazing. Thank you for doing what you do! 💙
This is so amazing!! God bless y'all & the ip's!! ❤️
I feel like people don't talk about the wonderful gift of a child to another couple very often, whether it's through surrogacy or through adoption. It is the most precious gift in the world by giving someone a child, congratulations and I'm so happy for the parents ❤️ you both did such an amazing thing
Congratulations 🎉 you guys are so amazing 🥰and I love watching your journey it really helps and gets me excited for My own surrogacy journey thank you for sharing all the amazing tips🙏🏼💖
Just wanted to send love and support to you both. You did an amazing job. Hope you're doing ok. ❤
You are an Angel! My first was stillborn, and my husband and I didn’t know if we were going to be able to have children. I had a friend step forward and offer to carry for us, should we need a surrogate. Women like you and surrogacy is such a blessing to women who aren’t able to carry their own babies. Knowing I had that option gave me some hope when there were so many unknowns for us. I had 2 subsequent healthy (high risk) pregnancies after. My babies are 4 and 2 now and they are my entire world.
Also, random, can you link your bunny ear, bandana headbands? They are SO cute!
Such a beautiful story I'm so happy baby boy is healthy
Sweet little peanut was born on my husband's birthday the 27th 😊 congratulations to the IP's what a beautiful gift!! 💙
This is so sweet! Thanks for Sharing
Absolutely beautiful. Thanks for sharing
😭 I love hearing birth story's. Congratulations. I'm a first time surrgo hoping for transfer next week.
4th yayyy! I've been waiting. Congrats girl, you are amazing for doing this!!!💕💕
Awww! That’s awesome that it happened so fast and you only had to push once! I need a birth like that!
We lost our son at 39 weeks so when we got pregnant with our rainbow, we had to do a BPP weekly from 20 weeks till 38 weeks when i delivered. It was absolutely amazing the technology they have to keep our babies safe and monitored.
Thank you for sharing!! 💙💙💙
the way he looks at you is so cute I only fond that you guys a few weeks ago on facebook and know fond your youtube love you guys
I knew it!! I had boy vibes this whole time! Congrats to the IPS
Pitocin made my first born sons Heart Rate drop super low and even though it came back up My Dr did not want to wait so I ended up with and emergency c section. Sam you are an amazing woman for blessing the intended parents by carrying their baby .
Wow I commend you both so much ❤your amazing human beings and I just can’t imagine going through that journey and then not even seeing it holding the baby!!!!! I truly think that is one of the strongest things in life a person can do …. Grow another little life for a total stranger❤wow all I can say!!! And thank you for being so open truly amazing ❤❤
Third! And congrats 🎉
New subscriber here! Love your channel and everything about you guys! I am so curious and have watched a lot of your videos so far… but I am genuinely curious if you got to hold the baby for a minute or 2 (that is, if you wanted to) after the parents got to hold him for a while first?
Y’all are some of the strongest and kindest people I’ve seen so far on this platform and very inspiring!
Since I discovered you a few days ago, I've been binge watching all of your videos! I've been not so patiently waiting for this one! Congratulations on y'all's journey, so proud of you! 🖤🖤🖤
I so enjoyed hearing about this. I've been waiting to hear all about. I've followed your journey and have enjoyed being part of it. Thank you for sharing
I’ve been waiting for this! Congratulations on completing your journey! How exciting! 🖤
Clicked so fast! Love that you are sharing this incredible journey!
Totally feel this sister! My fourth baby I went from five cm and 90% effaced to baby out in 15 minutes. It was crazy for sure!
The hills where their heart rate go up are called accelerations. Just like if you jump, kick, or move around your heart "reacts" and increases for a sec. The NST just makes sure baby does also. :) The docs are usually itching to induce at 39 weeks anyhow. 😬 lol. They like things "on schedule"
First of all let me start off by saying congratulations! I've enjoyed watching your story, your journey I should say.Thank you for sharing it with all of us! Now I had two natural labors also and then on the third I was like you when I hit a certain point laying there they said if you want to do an epidural you have to do it right now you're at 6 cm this is the window. I was like okay let's do it, while they're putting the epidural in my back I started yelling at the baby was coming the doctors like no way there's no way the baby's coming. I kept saying it so they looked down I had gone from 6:00 to 10:00 in the matter of minutes! I was delivering for the epidural ever kicked in LOL
sam's so pretty 💗
Ahh thank you!!
@@WeAreDanandSam :))))
I new to your channel and your doing and amazing thing
Carrying a child and the whole process of birth is amazing in itself, but to do it for someone else is just amazing! What a blessing!💝
Congratulations to the Ip's and good job y'all! My daughter had her sweet little girl on the 17th after an ecv to flip baby from breach and an induction. 62 hours of labor and 2.5 hours of pushing, no pain medicine or epidural. Doctor and nurses called her a Rockstar! Her first!! Hope the second comes quicker 😘 @
Amazing you guys
Great job
I needed that Dan impression in my day * impression scream * "hey babe" oh man, I needed that laugh. Happy for all y'all. How did your kids respond? I mean, I know that knew baby wasn't their sibling. But like, knowing theoretically and understanding are different, in a little kids head specifically.
She did a video on this topic as well
@@alisharichard8925 that was before it actually happened though. And although she knows her kids really well, sometimes could be more attached then us adults think they are.
The same thing happened with me with the anesthesiologist getting in there right when I was ready to push. I tried to sit on the edge of the bed but couldn’t. I couldn’t even sign anything lol. I had asked for the epidural when it first was available and there was an emergency they had to go to. So this time around I’m getting my epidural asap. I already have it written down to get the epidural before they break my water because with my daughter they broke my water when I was at 4cm and I had her within an hour and a half. The whole time waiting for the anesthesiologist.
That’s what happened to me I was induced 17 days early because he failed his last NST so I know how that is
This is almost exactly how my labor went with my 3rd baby!
I have no word’s 🥰🥰
I’m so damn proud of you!
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Sounds like my story except I was a gestational surrogate 20 years ago in September. 😁
My maternal grandmother was a Mathews.
Its been an amazing journey to follow I'm kind of sad it's over 😭 I feel incomplete without a happy picture of everyone (Y'all and IP) together with baby :(
Unfortunately I don’t think there will be a happy picture with all of them…. The IM has said some extremely hurtful things to/about Sam… check out some of the follow up stories and posts. It’s really sad because this was so beautiful & selfless of Dan & Sam, for it to end this way is heartbreaking.
Where did they post this? That is sad and I hate that they did this bc Sam and Dan are great hearted people
What was said? That's awful :(
@@evelynrose3374 what did she say about Sam? Why would they be saying bad things when this woman helped them become a family ? What have I missed ?
@@evelynrose3374where did you see this? Just wondering, because I thought all was well.
You guys are beautiful
Maybe I missed this,but do you guys plan on keeping in contact with the parents?
What agency did you use for your surrogacy? I’m interested in being a surrogate :)
Pitosen is so painful. I’ve had it with two deliveries and it makes the contraction so much worse/ more painful imo.
I’d rather labor naturally any-day over having to have pitosen.
Hello!
Thank you so much sharing!
So the reason they were worried about fluid is that the epidural can drop your BP so they try to get one bag of fluid in before doing one.
Absolutely gorgeous and beautiful… Hopefully the IP retracted their stores … :(
What did they say?
They deleted everything
@@alisharichard8925 hopefully they had a change of heart
What did they say?
@@michellebetman7276 it was several stories posted .. There’s screen shots on Instagram if you are on there….
There are many ways for induction and you don’t always need pitocin. I was induced twice and didn’t need it. In the video you say you need it for induction but wanted to clarify that it’s not the case for everyone. Every induction is different depending on baby and mamas needs :)
I had one baby with only cervadil. Guess it depends on cervix, how far along, and how your body reacts to stuff.
They tried everything to induce me with my third baby and finally I begged for the pitocin which lets be honest it hurt but it was needed for me for sure
I had guessed 7:27 !!! I THINK I won!!!!!
Was wondering what happened with the contest?
Did IPs have a say in whether you got induced or was that your call? Is there some thing in the contract about these situations?
It was her doctor that said she was getting induced
As an IP, it is in our contract (through an agency) that the doctor makes 100% of medical decisions. The surrogate is also bound by some rules from the agency regarding what hospital she can deliver at, rules around when/how far she can travel during different phases of the pregnancy, etc. The IPs can ask for additional things (such as organic food, etc.) in the contract, but most don’t do that. We’re pretty much just along for the ride!
how did u explain this to u kids
She has videos on this topic
This made me cry!!!!!!! So beautiful. I’m pregnant with our 3rd right now.
Congratulations 🎉
Thank you so much!!!! It’s hard to grasp that this is our last but we are done after this one. We have a son and a daughter and this is another girl 👧
I just had our 4th 🥰 A boy, on 6/30/22, 6 pounds 2 ounces 18 inches long 💙. I found Sam at the beginning of my pregnancy & have followed since. 💙❤️
@@missiecombs4807 congratulations 🎊
@@Thisnthatwitholivia This was our last too. I had natural births with our older kids, I was rushed into an emergency C-section with baby boy. My water broke at 34 weeks & he was breach. Between the early water breaking & the C-section, I feel like I missed out. I got shorted on my last pregnancy/labor/delivery. Our kids are so far apart in age, (19, 11, 8 & newborn) that I keep telling my husband we'll give it a few years & revisit the subject 😂. But, in reality, I just turned 39, so we're done making babies 😭.