My Dad told me when I was very young: “don’t worry about things you can’t control because you can’t change them, and don’t worry about things you can control because you can change them” I obviously ain’t perfect but I recite this like a mantra daily and it’s always helped me.
Caveman Dan Oh. My. God. Thank you for sharing this. I just discovered stoicism and I’m already very aware this is something I was intentionally seeking to help change my life, however I have to say you’re comment quoting your dad, felt like it changed my mindset and perspective the second I read it. Thank you so much for that. I never had my dad around to teach me these kind of things; so glad you did though and thanks for sharing with me. And thanks to your dad too! 💕
Fibro YOURalgia glad I could help my friend, I study stoicism and Buddhism a lot in a quest to fix my mental health. Sorry to hear you fathers wasn’t around, stay smiling 👍☸️⚛️☯️
My favorite byline is, "There are two things you should never complain about: The things you can't change, and the things you can change." I didn't realize when I adopted it how stoic it was, but the more I read, the more it seems like a perfect embodiment of ALL stoic philosophy.
It's "don't let them" part I trip over everytime to me with rage it doesn't feel like a choice it feels like it's happening to me as much as the people or surroundings I'm in when it happens
The Stoics would define emotions as "thoughts about thoughts." And if you can control a thought, you can control your emotions. But even when you seemingly can't control your emotions, you can most certainly choose not to act with those emotions being the primary driving force.
It is, and you must be almost zealous and dogmatic about it or else the world starts to suffocate you. Free yourself, only worry about the things in your direct control.
@@Concatenate Nothing is really in "your" control. Try to meditate and see how many involuntary thoughts pop up. You can speak of influence (on a continuum). Some are easier thwarted than others
@@fvkijay my parents certainly never taught me that. But would I have listened...! Certainly not as a teen. Maybe later. But they're both gone now, and I'm only just learning this now. Never too late!
I read this man's books while in prison, and they helped tremendously with my stay there. And there is no better place I can think of to practice stoicism than in prison.
“We should not trust the masses who say only the free can be educated, but rather the lovers of wisdom who say only the educated are free.” -Epictetus, Discourses, 2.1.21-23a
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I know right? He cracked me up several times, but audience stood suspiciously silent. Checked the screen couple of times just to make sure there were people there at all :))
@@bakhytgul4457 I disagree. I followed him since the days he was a little respectable as a philosopher of science. The guy became more and more radical and these days he will say any nonsense that is fashianable. The guy lost all credibility he once had.
@@BNK2442 yeah, I don't know his background honestly, but I found his speach so light and a bit entertaining, not radical at all, so it surprised me why people kept silent. Was this maybe a way to boycott him? ))
I started learning about Stoicism a few years ago. I talked to my 21-year-old son about it. I told him that in today's world, it's like having a superpower. He began to apply a more stoic approach to his life. He doesn't get rattled easily. He sees what he can do about a situation and does it. He's been around people getting emotional about an unpleasant outcome - asking him how he can be so calm. He says, "I'm trying to work through the problem. No point in getting worked up about it." Proud dad.
We need stoicism more than ever, a beacon from within the roots of our civilization that got lost in time somewhow. I think about any modern problem in the light of stoicism, and I'am amazed of how lost we are.
Literally amazed. Our technology has long surpassed our ability to comprehend what it fully entails & more so the effect it has on us, society and all of nature.
Mi bisabuelo decía: "Si tu problema tiene solución, pa' que te preocupas? Y si tu problema no tiene solucion... ¿Pa' que te preocupas?" Alguien puso un comentario similar en inglés, y es bonito saber que existe este modo de pensar a pesar de la distancia, y por supuesto, de los años:)
@@ofranzoficial para eso nos OCUPAMOS en la acción efectiva que resuelve el problema, preocuparse es innecesario, especialmente preocuparse como la mayoría del mundo hispanohablente percibe y transmite el concepto de “preocupación”. Un cálido saludo.
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@@andrejbatarilo2703 this one I don't understand. I thought the highest motivation as a stoic is to do things for humanity. So by caring and telling his opinion, what the school should teaching the commenter followed this rule. On the other hand you said, that this is out of your control so he doesn't have to worry about it. So where could be the sweetspot to combine these two things?
i'm sorry to hear that, and I can relate to this too, I lost many valuable years in bad life and depression caused by sheer ignorance of the mind. But remember, it's never too late and NOW you have control, so the best in life lies ahead 👍
I can certainly understand. I'm sort of guilty of thinking about how much different my life would be had I discovered Stoic wisdom earlier in my life. However, I have to stop myself and be thankful that I've recently discovered a philosophy for living that I can try to put into practice in order to have more stability and peace for the rest of my life. And yes, I literally have to say to myself, "STOP." The reality is that I cannot change the past and this moment is all that I have. Good luck to you on your journey!
Stoicism is an indifference to the outward circumstances and getting all your power from within... It actually frees you up to do more with your life 😍💖🕊️
Practicing Stoicism has helped me get through deaths, that I had zero control of, and things that did not work out or things I forgot and could not undo, and may etc. Things out of your control are just that, nothing you can do damn thing about!
To everyone saying you already do lots of this stuff - you're doing it because it's a part of your culture, which has been given Stoicism for hundreds of years. That's why you do it already. It's an ancient part of our culture
Westerners keep looking to other cultures for wisdom and denigrating our own when we already have that same wisdom in our own history. It may have been diluted and twisted by Christianity but it's always been with us.
I think I was journeying towards stoicism before I knew it was even a thing. When I first discovered it, it was like a pair of shoes that fit me perfectly. Now it's just a matter of if I want to commit to the road and walk all the way.
I think Stoicism is one of the things that can help people get a life that isn`t just ordinary. It increases peoples productivity and if you put in enough work you can achive anything.
Isn't he saying the opposite? Outcomes are beyond our control. You might not achieve what you aim for despite your best efforts. You should therefore put your sense of worth and value on your intentions and efforts, and not judge yourself by the outcomes.
Still my go to philosophy for living. Currently in my life, there is a family problem far way from where I live. I can control nothing, add or take away nothing from the problem. Yet, I listen to all sides and am present virtually so that problems are expressed. In this case I am exercising courage by getting involved and doing the right thing and justice by enabling all sides the space and time to exert their doubts and worries. It is truly enlightening to see a philosophy slot into your life like this. I feel empowered.
Massimo does it again! A lovely 20-minute presentation on Stoicism. If you want to do more than just survive in life and if you want to live a meaningful life watch this video and learn about Stoicism from Massimo. He is an expert!
LOL. Though, Marcus Aurelius had to deal with Antonine Plague, which killed 10million people from 150 to 180. Marcus Aurelius' command shined in all its brilliancy in how he fought with it. He, and the citizens, remained calm while he didn't run away from Rome. He stayed, and gave one of the biggest examples of the real good ruler the world needs.
I'm currently reading (well, listening, through Audible) The Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, and a lot of the things mentioned in the book, I find that I already do naturally. However, it gives added information and insight on the philosophy. Great read/listen!
When you read the book, of course you realize how crumpled and hurried this performance is. But Pillucci had to meet the allotted time, and he did it as worthily as possible. If you liked this video, get yourself a book by the author, "How to Be Stoic?" . It is definitely worth it. Very thanks!
How I love listening to powerful messages like this on a spiritual level. It changes everything! Now I know the bow and arrow 🏹 is in my hands, I’ll let God handle the wind. Now I will go out there and give life my best ❤🎯
Massimo is so good , I love listening to his lectures on stoicism and his Ted talk is fantastic , one of my guides into learning and applying stoicism , fantastic work Massimo!
Where has this been all my life. I'm been living like this since I can remember. Wow, this is beautiful! Everything seems to be flowing at the same time at the moment. Yeeehaaaa to life everyone ❤️
Pretty insightful. I think the hard part is being able to think logically when emotional. I don't think we should disregard emotion but learning how to process them first instead of acting on impulse can be tricky for me. So recently I've been trying to more firmly establish what my values/goals and act accordingly. Hopefully that helps make things easier. Really liked this.
this is why stoicism appeals to me; I find it hard to manage my emotions when I'm feeling them so intensely. With stoicism you don't deny their presence and intensity yet train yourself to think before you act on emotional impulses; pinpointing the reason behind our emotions and feelings is something I struggle with but once I rationalize them I gain back my power in a way. But totally agree and feel with you about thinking logically when emotional.
Rational thinking and emotional thinking are two different states. Emotional is the nest where most of our problems are found. Our fears, our misguided nonsensical beliefs.
A good place to start with learning how to control emotions, which is what I did at first, is to practice being the last to talk. Do not give into the impulse to share your idea or statement first. It is harder than it sounds, but once you master this you will be closer to your goal
"Blinded from anger" Anger, or any other emotion can take control of your actions if intensified, when you're in that moment it's not your conscious mind that is in control, but your primal instincts Stoicism for me is about maintaining control of yourself
To me, stoicism's key stone is this: There are two types of problems. A problem I can do something about, and a problem I can't do anything about. Problems that I can do something about fall into further two categories, one which is worth my risk and effort, and one which isn't.
On another note, this is also one of the core philosophies of karma yoga explained in the Bhagwad Gita. Interesting to see how great philosophies and thoughts conveyed the same truths of life, justifies the ‘truth’ remaining constant in all spheres of life!
Stoicism is also indifference to both pleasure and pain.....and while it is easy to be indifferent to pleasure it is extremely difficult to be indifferent to pain.
They admit pain is felt and that the body is not really under our control. But people often do things despite the prospects of pain or expectations about pleasure. That's where the courage comes in , and the integrity of a sense of justice. In the story the guy who abandoned his kid ,he caved in fear about his emotional pain, and the stoic view is that this is wrong. The philosophy is not magic or movie memes, and should not be expected to be. ( Such would be a straw man argument, that stoicism is BS because it does not render flesh into stone.) If one has ever done things they did not want to, or has ever endured , then one has validated the point in their own lives , that they can indeed assign a level of indifference to pleasures and pains. A hugely obese person may fail to control the desires of diet , being more indifferent to the creaking joints , diabetes symptoms and so forth. It is not so easy to forsake leisure and pleasures as one may think. So if you do exercise such control you should give yourself some credit, and a degree of forgiveness to yourself for being human, rather than superhuman. Imo
I found that with practice I was able to become quite indifferent to pain. I wanted to start a meditation practice, but I have frequent migraines, and they were always a hindrance to a meditative state(or so I thought). Anyway, one day I decided to try and make my migraine pain the object of my meditation. It's very difficult to verbalize how this works. It sounds counter intuitive, but it really works. I started focusing in on the pain, and just tried to experience it as just a sensation, but not labeling it as "pain". So every migraine I would just sit back and "sink" into the sensation. After a month of this I realized that although I didn't have less migraines, they didn't register as a painful thing.....merely only as a sensation. Anyway, I don't know if this us related to the topic, or if anyone else here has had a similar experience?
1. Many people learning stoicism don’t realize that stoicism is mostly involves journaling 2. Role of philosophy is greatly undermined in spreading knowledge
I first learned about Stoicism in 1963 in an introductory Philosophy course. I have put 3 of the cardinal virtues of Stoicism on my side of our tombstone (happily married 53+ years with kids and grandkids). The virtues are: pietas (moral duty), dignitas (honourable behaviour and self-worth), and gravitas (appropriate self-control). These are aspirations to live by. I have found that a pragmatic and modern contextual understanding of the Enchiridion works for me. Jordan Peterson's messages are in essence pragmatic Stoicism, I believe.
What about Logos? Pietas, Dignitas, and Gravitas are essentially nonexistent without Logos. I love that the stoic principles are on your grave marker. For those of us who enjoy a stroll through a graveyard and for the generations to come that might study us in the future, it's important for them to read such things in order to keep philosophy alive.
The part about "saving energy" and not wasting time and emotion on that which is not under our control speaks to me. The whole concept of stoicism reminds me of "existentialism" which Jean Paul Sartre held to in the main message of his writings.... do your best, what you feel is right and don't focus on the result. thanks for uploading!
@@jht3fougifh393 stoicism, as I understand, establishes that moral value is found only in one’s decision to act; the thing upon which the act is made has no moral value so it is not worth the stoic’s concern beyond simply knowing its practical impact and whether it may be a preferred indifferent.
My interest I'm Greek philosophy is recent. I find stoicism easy to understand and also practical . It reminds of some of the teachings of lord Buddha. And sir,you have explained it very well. Thank you very much
GREAT presentation, & topic. Q - Have there been any TED talks re: the AXIAL age, & history's 900 years of GRECO-Buddhism? Stoicism figures prominently.
Absolutely! Teaching kindness and the importance of doing your best shapes character and resilience. It’s so essential for personal growth. I explore similar themes on my channel, emphasizing positivity and self-improvement. Your approach is inspiring, and I’d love to share more uplifting content with you!
So am I, brother. We may not choose what happens to us in life - but it is in our power to try to understand our surroundings, the people closest to us, how and why we think the way we do - and ultimately become the best version of ourselves.
I came across "Stoicism" while studying Greek Philosophy and reading about Marcus Aurelius. This presentation highlights the origins and adds to the modern practical aspects of the philosophy. Thanks Tedx Athens..
Emotions are the best compass for understanding personhood: our trauma and unmet needs especially. Ignoring, rejecting or minimising emotions or believing they are unhelpful or unwanted are misding huge parts of what make us full beings having a human experience.
After having lived a significant part of my life through stoicism, I am starting to realise one needs both emotions and stoicism in different combinations at different times, depending on the individual. Neither one is enough.
13:36 this is where, in my opinion, Buddhism trumps all other ways because it tells you that *you do* have control over your emotions, and it has the best guide to controlling them IN ADDITION to having tons of philosophy covered by Stoicism and Taoism
John Wooden, the great NCAA basketball coach and author of the Pyramid of Success, summed it up this way: "Success is peace of mind, which is a direct result of self-satisfaction, in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming."
Don't feel bad, a speaker can't control whether or not his audience laughs at his jokes. As a stoic, he does not attach his self-esteem to the outcome, he only attaches it to what's under his control: his attempt. 😉
Thought this would be a pessimistic worldview that would trigger my existential paranoia…was pleasantly surprised by the calm optimism of the speaker. Thank you for a lovely talk, Mr. Pigliucci!
It seems like the saying of Bagavad Gita- you do your best work don't worry about the outcome.. and the other is middle path suggested by Budhha don't donthing in extreames choose middle path
Having a very Southern-US evangelical Christian upbringing, I can't resist the urge to say "amen!" or "Preach it" when I hear philosophy speak to my soul like this. It almost feels that we are brainwashed to overvalue extrinsic values (money, status, appearance, etc) instead of intrinsic values (time, enjoyment, and personal interests, etc). More people are learning the enormous value of philosophy as it becomes more relevant: We feel increasingly invisible. Many of us feel led to believe that, as individuals, we don't matter in this world and that life is pointless but that is wrong (if you think it). I hope for a day that we practically have "philosophy churches:" This stuff changes lives, hearts, and minds just as religions and it is needed today more than ever. The texts from the great philosophers are not put forth as "Divine truth" like holy books but their merit is self-evident: They can't receive tithes because philosophers are honest and would be repulsed by the idea lol. Also, Philosophy Rules.
Perform action, but do not be attached to the results. Treat victory and disaster as the same. Both are themes mentioned in the Bhagavat Gita, which is one is the principal texts of Advaita Vedanta
At that time (around 300 BC) there had been many cultural exchanges between indian and greek civilisations following the conquest of parts of India by Alexander the Great few decades earlier. They likely influenced each other.
Everytime i felt bad about something I cannot control. I always go back to stoicism quotes and to Stoic Philosophers. This video is a must to watch.Thank you for sharing this video
Voltaire: Les Représentans du peuple se rendront à leur destination, investis de la plus haute confiance et de pouvoirs illimités. Ils vont déployer un grand caractère. Ils doivent envisager qu’une grande responsabilité est la suite inséparable d’un grand pouvoir. Ce sera à leur énergie, à leur courage, et sur-tout à leur prudence, qu’ils devront leur succès et leur gloire. Here’s one possible translation into English: The people’s representatives will reach their destination, invested with the highest confidence and unlimited power. They will show great character. They must consider that great responsibility follows inseparably from great power. To their energy, to their courage, and above all to their prudence, they shall owe their success and their glory.
Luke 12:48. From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded; and from the one who has been entrusted with much, much more will be asked. For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required: and to whom men have committed much, of him they will ask the more.
I like stoicism, it’s very useful for every day things. Stoicism is very grounding. It reminds me of the techniques therapists teach to help people with anxiety
Then perhaps it is something that was never truly under your control to begin with. Applying essential stoic philosophy, I can't think of a single example of what you are talking about, to be honest.
you only have control over your reason and higher-thinking, until, of course, some virus doesn't take it that from you either. Probably everything else is not under your control.
@@friendli29 I have a potential example. I say potential as I'm unsure wether or not its fitting. I have my xmas tests in 3 days. I have 3 months worth of work in 7 subjects to have revised over in preperation for these tests. I haven't started yet. So even right now getting excellent results is impossible. But it was possible in the weeks leading up to it. So it went from under my control to the point where, If I went for good grades, its now out of my control. Maybe thats an example? Or another thing could be you started an unstoppable self destruct sequence.
@@Karl-pu5cn That means you should have worried about it while you could change it. In the moment you lost control than your stoic mind will clear it out of your head.
I often reflect on my life. The things that I have done and the people that I know. Who I thought I was and how I have been towards others. Then I find this talk and Eureka! This is me! Yes this is how I am. To finally settle at the end of the day with a nice thought given to me through Massimo’s talk that explains my philosophy and life. Yes, fundamentally, I am a stoic man. And am happy to know this is a good thing. Thank you 😊
To learn true stoicism watch a dog. I rescue dogs, and let me tell you, their calm and brute attitude is often learned from enduring hardship we can only vaguely imagine. Kindness is oft seen as weakness. Foes dominate and bludgeon the weak; strength can opine power. If you want to survive, show strength, whether you have it or not.
18:01 "We wear a number of masks, and we change them continuously." 18:16 "And the idea is that a happy life is, in fact, a life well balanced, where you play all these roles as the best actor you can possibly be." 🤝
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My Dad told me when I was very young:
“don’t worry about things you can’t control because you can’t change them, and don’t worry about things you can control because you can change them”
I obviously ain’t perfect but I recite this like a mantra daily and it’s always helped me.
Caveman Dan Oh. My. God. Thank you for sharing this. I just discovered stoicism and I’m already very aware this is something I was intentionally seeking to help change my life, however I have to say you’re comment quoting your dad, felt like it changed my mindset and perspective the second I read it. Thank you so much for that. I never had my dad around to teach me these kind of things; so glad you did though and thanks for sharing with me. And thanks to your dad too! 💕
Fibro YOURalgia glad I could help my friend, I study stoicism and Buddhism a lot in a quest to fix my mental health. Sorry to hear you fathers wasn’t around, stay smiling 👍☸️⚛️☯️
"I control nothing but manage everything."
My favorite byline is, "There are two things you should never complain about: The things you can't change, and the things you can change." I didn't realize when I adopted it how stoic it was, but the more I read, the more it seems like a perfect embodiment of ALL stoic philosophy.
good dad must be nice lol
"Emotions at the very basic level are the properties of the mind, don't let them dominate you. "
Emotions can't be control. This I don't know. Now I know better. 1% better than yesterday.
It's "don't let them" part I trip over everytime to me with rage it doesn't feel like a choice it feels like it's happening to me as much as the people or surroundings I'm in when it happens
On that route...
The Stoics would define emotions as "thoughts about thoughts." And if you can control a thought, you can control your emotions. But even when you seemingly can't control your emotions, you can most certainly choose not to act with those emotions being the primary driving force.
Emotions come from your physical state and self-talk. Positive affirmations and fitness help influence these but total control is an illusion.
"Worry about what's under your control." That's a liberating concept
I'm sure many parents have told their kids that for generations. They just didn't want to listen lol
It is, and you must be almost zealous and dogmatic about it or else the world starts to suffocate you. Free yourself, only worry about the things in your direct control.
@@Concatenate Nothing is really in "your" control. Try to meditate and see how many involuntary thoughts pop up. You can speak of influence (on a continuum). Some are easier thwarted than others
@@fvkijay my parents certainly never taught me that. But would I have listened...! Certainly not as a teen. Maybe later. But they're both gone now, and I'm only just learning this now. Never too late!
no need to worry about it because it's under your control
I read this man's books while in prison, and they helped tremendously with my stay there.
And there is no better place I can think of to practice stoicism than in prison.
I think this is a very underrated video and an underrated topic. This video deserves atleast a million views.
Maybe just a majority of that millions of viewers, that you are missing don't deserve to see this video yet. Who knows... 🤔
“We should not trust the masses who say only the free can be educated, but rather the lovers of wisdom who say only the educated are free.” -Epictetus, Discourses, 2.1.21-23a
We’ve got a million. Here’s to a million more.
Oh, man - we got a stoic zoo here - Cynical Fox, Lethal Owl.
It has over 1 million views
Stoicism is such a practical philosophy.
"Pragmatic" 🙃💯
Namaste 🙏
Well, the romans were a pragmatic people.
@@johnpijano4786 As were the Greeks. Zeno lived on Cyprus in 300 b.c. The Romans got it from the Greeks 👍.
Tht s Stoicism l mt trit l rt thc t, gip chng ta gi bnh tnh v tp trung vo nhng iu c th kim sot c. Bn c bao gi p dng nhng nguyn tc ny trong cuc sng hng ngy cha?
This audience didn’t deserve him. Excellent talk!
I know right? He cracked me up several times, but audience stood suspiciously silent. Checked the screen couple of times just to make sure there were people there at all :))
@@bakhytgul4457 I disagree. I followed him since the days he was a little respectable as a philosopher of science. The guy became more and more radical and these days he will say any nonsense that is fashianable. The guy lost all credibility he once had.
@@BNK2442 yeah, I don't know his background honestly, but I found his speach so light and a bit entertaining, not radical at all, so it surprised me why people kept silent. Was this maybe a way to boycott him? ))
Maybe they got the wrong idea with stoicism lol, maybe they just thought they were supposed to keep a straight face and be indifferent to emotions 😂🤣
stoic crowd....and people get disappointed
Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity. - Seneca
Pretty sure that was Thpmas Edison
@@probrickgamer Pretty sure he stole it like several other stuff.
Hoe about bad luck?
I started learning about Stoicism a few years ago. I talked to my 21-year-old son about it. I told him that in today's world, it's like having a superpower. He began to apply a more stoic approach to his life.
He doesn't get rattled easily. He sees what he can do about a situation and does it.
He's been around people getting emotional about an unpleasant outcome - asking him how he can be so calm. He says, "I'm trying to work through the problem. No point in getting worked up about it." Proud dad.
Stoicism is not just a philosophy, but it is a way of living well-balanced life.
That is what a philosophy is, a way of living.
So… a philosophy?
You can go to the gym eat healthily etc but you'll still die don't worry about death worry about lunch because you can do nothing about death
That's actually what philosophy is
I commented as compliment for Stoic philosophy. My comment shows I am highly inspired by Stoic Philosophy.
Stoicism changed my life
yungdadi same here
@@migueladrianvalevelazquez8703 Me TOO!
I'm only just researching it more now but agree
How can someone (me) learn more about stoicism and start practicing the teaching of it.
yungdadi it’s a good way to raise your vibration
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We need stoicism more than ever, a beacon from within the roots of our civilization that got lost in time somewhow. I think about any modern problem in the light of stoicism, and I'am amazed of how lost we are.
We maybe technologically advanced, but when it comes to us, we are truly lost.
Literally amazed. Our technology has long surpassed our ability to comprehend what it fully entails & more so the effect it has on us, society and all of nature.
@@jeffmiller3499 indeed
It's sad...
Mi bisabuelo decía: "Si tu problema tiene solución, pa' que te preocupas? Y si tu problema no tiene solucion... ¿Pa' que te preocupas?"
Alguien puso un comentario similar en inglés, y es bonito saber que existe este modo de pensar a pesar de la distancia, y por supuesto, de los años:)
Tu abuelo es sabio, esa frase es filosofía dicha por Dalai Lama .
Abuelo sabio
bueno, nos preocupamos para poder reflexionar y solucionarlo...
@@ofranzoficial para eso nos OCUPAMOS en la acción efectiva que resuelve el problema, preocuparse es innecesario, especialmente preocuparse como la mayoría del mundo hispanohablente percibe y transmite el concepto de “preocupación”. Un cálido saludo.
Stoicism is the most underrated philosophy. The one that actually helps humans deal with problems.
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if these things were taught in my school or college.. i would not have taken so much time to heal.
Not something you have control over now, so why dwell on it
@@andrejbatarilo2703 this one I don't understand. I thought the highest motivation as a stoic is to do things for humanity. So by caring and telling his opinion, what the school should teaching the commenter followed this rule.
On the other hand you said, that this is out of your control so he doesn't have to worry about it.
So where could be the sweetspot to combine these two things?
i'm sorry to hear that, and I can relate to this too, I lost many valuable years in bad life and depression caused by sheer ignorance of the mind. But remember, it's never too late and NOW you have control, so the best in life lies ahead 👍
If these things were taught before college, colleges wouldn’t exist.
I can certainly understand. I'm sort of guilty of thinking about how much different my life would be had I discovered Stoic wisdom earlier in my life. However, I have to stop myself and be thankful that I've recently discovered a philosophy for living that I can try to put into practice in order to have more stability and peace for the rest of my life. And yes, I literally have to say to myself, "STOP." The reality is that I cannot change the past and this moment is all that I have. Good luck to you on your journey!
Stoicism is an indifference to the outward circumstances and getting all your power from within... It actually frees you up to do more with your life 😍💖🕊️
"Unless a virus strikes you down"
I felt that. I think Stoicism could be really useful in our lives -especially today.
Practicing Stoicism has helped me get through deaths, that I had zero control of, and things that did not work out or things I forgot and could not undo, and may etc. Things out of your control are just that, nothing you can do damn thing about!
To everyone saying you already do lots of this stuff - you're doing it because it's a part of your culture, which has been given Stoicism for hundreds of years. That's why you do it already. It's an ancient part of our culture
Westerners keep looking to other cultures for wisdom and denigrating our own when we already have that same wisdom in our own history. It may have been diluted and twisted by Christianity but it's always been with us.
I think I was journeying towards stoicism before I knew it was even a thing. When I first discovered it, it was like a pair of shoes that fit me perfectly. Now it's just a matter of if I want to commit to the road and walk all the way.
I just discovered Stoicism in the last couple of weeks having come to similar conclusions around seven years ago. I understand exactly what you mean.
I think Stoicism is one of the things that can help people get a life that isn`t just ordinary. It increases peoples productivity and if you put in enough work you can achive anything.
If you put in enough work you can achieve anything
Isn't he saying the opposite? Outcomes are beyond our control. You might not achieve what you aim for despite your best efforts. You should therefore put your sense of worth and value on your intentions and efforts, and not judge yourself by the outcomes.
Still my go to philosophy for living. Currently in my life, there is a family problem far way from where I live. I can control nothing, add or take away nothing from the problem. Yet, I listen to all sides and am present virtually so that problems are expressed. In this case I am exercising courage by getting involved and doing the right thing and justice by enabling all sides the space and time to exert their doubts and worries. It is truly enlightening to see a philosophy slot into your life like this. I feel empowered.
did your problem come to a 'good' solution? I hope so!
Massimo does it again! A lovely 20-minute presentation on Stoicism. If you want to do more than just survive in life and if you want to live a meaningful life watch this video and learn about Stoicism from Massimo. He is an expert!
Walter J. Matweychuk, PhD I agree 👍🏼
Expert? I wouldn't take on trust the speaker's claim, without substantiation, that Nelson Mandela read Marcus Aurelius.
Completely correct.
I didn't know about stoicism until I stumble on this video. This guy deserves a credit!
Hello Crystal
How are you doing today?
"unless a virus strikes you down"
LOL. Though, Marcus Aurelius had to deal with Antonine Plague, which killed 10million people from 150 to 180. Marcus Aurelius' command shined in all its brilliancy in how he fought with it. He, and the citizens, remained calm while he didn't run away from Rome. He stayed, and gave one of the biggest examples of the real good ruler the world needs.
Laughs in 2020
Aged like fine wine
he knew
@@WillCasallas and he didn't even wanted to be an emperor!
I'm currently reading (well, listening, through Audible) The Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, and a lot of the things mentioned in the book, I find that I already do naturally. However, it gives added information and insight on the philosophy. Great read/listen!
Me, too, I have been stoic even before I discovered the term "stoicism". Truly a self discovery.
Most importantly it summarizes ur thoughts and gives powerfull mantras
I currently reading his book "HOW TO BE STOIC."
Like all philosophy, it is NOT a you should be listening to via audio book. It's meant to be contemplated line by line.
@@diogeneslantern18 Bad news for all blind people, apparently the only way a sentence can be contemplated is visually...
To whom stoicism seems like common sense hit like!
Is common sense common though?
Come what may.
@@aishwaryababu9352 Common sense in an uncommon degree is what the world calls wisdom.
@@shanehoustein Great quote.
Where does common sense come from?
When you read the book, of course you realize how crumpled and hurried this performance is. But Pillucci had to meet the allotted time, and he did it as worthily as possible.
If you liked this video, get yourself a book by the author, "How to Be Stoic?" . It is definitely worth it.
Very thanks!
Stoicism changed and saved my life I highly recommend people to check out the philosophy
I study stoicism for years, still this video is one of my favorite analysis on what stoicism is.
Stoicism is life!
Like your name.
Huge fan of Massimo….his Amazon Prime course on Stoicism is fantastic
I was reading his book: "How to be a stoic". Best book I've ever read!
Thanks for the suggestion!
How I love listening to powerful messages like this on a spiritual level. It changes everything!
Now I know the bow and arrow 🏹 is in my hands, I’ll let God handle the wind.
Now I will go out there and give life my best ❤🎯
Massimo is so good , I love listening to his lectures on stoicism and his Ted talk is fantastic , one of my guides into learning and applying stoicism , fantastic work Massimo!
After being shipwrecked he went to a bookstore
That’s what you do after being shipwrecked. Everyone knows that. Well, a bookshop or a Starbucks.
He was already a wise man.
I go to the library when i miss the train. PotatO potAto.
He couldn't find any bookstores on the ocean...
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Where has this been all my life. I'm been living like this since I can remember. Wow, this is beautiful! Everything seems to be flowing at the same time at the moment. Yeeehaaaa to life everyone ❤️
Perfect speech thank you. RIP philosopher emperor Aurelius and other great guys
Pretty insightful. I think the hard part is being able to think logically when emotional. I don't think we should disregard emotion but learning how to process them first instead of acting on impulse can be tricky for me. So recently I've been trying to more firmly establish what my values/goals and act accordingly. Hopefully that helps make things easier. Really liked this.
this is why stoicism appeals to me; I find it hard to manage my emotions when I'm feeling them so intensely. With stoicism you don't deny their presence and intensity yet train yourself to think before you act on emotional impulses; pinpointing the reason behind our emotions and feelings is something I struggle with but once I rationalize them I gain back my power in a way. But totally agree and feel with you about thinking logically when emotional.
Rational thinking and emotional thinking are two different states. Emotional is the nest where most of our problems are found. Our fears, our misguided nonsensical beliefs.
A good place to start with learning how to control emotions, which is what I did at first, is to practice being the last to talk. Do not give into the impulse to share your idea or statement first. It is harder than it sounds, but once you master this you will be closer to your goal
"Blinded from anger"
Anger, or any other emotion can take control of your actions if intensified, when you're in that moment it's not your conscious mind that is in control, but your primal instincts
Stoicism for me is about maintaining control of yourself
How do you go about it @Raquel L ?? Did it helped keeping aside emotional part and being more logical in the first place ??
To me, stoicism's key stone is this:
There are two types of problems. A problem I can do something about, and a problem I can't do anything about. Problems that I can do something about fall into further two categories, one which is worth my risk and effort, and one which isn't.
Somehow I’ve been practicing this for years without knowing
On another note, this is also one of the core philosophies of karma yoga explained in the Bhagwad Gita. Interesting to see how great philosophies and thoughts conveyed the same truths of life, justifies the ‘truth’ remaining constant in all spheres of life!
Stoicism is also indifference to both pleasure and pain.....and while it is easy to be indifferent to pleasure it is extremely difficult to be indifferent to pain.
They admit pain is felt and that the body is not really under our control.
But people often do things despite the prospects of pain or expectations about pleasure. That's where the courage comes in , and the integrity of a sense of justice.
In the story the guy who abandoned his kid ,he caved in fear about his emotional pain, and the stoic view is that this is wrong.
The philosophy is not magic or movie memes, and should not be expected to be. ( Such would be a straw man argument, that stoicism is BS because it does not render flesh into stone.)
If one has ever done things they did not want to, or has ever endured , then one has validated the point in their own lives , that they can indeed assign a level of indifference to pleasures and pains.
A hugely obese person may fail to control the desires of diet , being more indifferent to the creaking joints , diabetes symptoms and so forth.
It is not so easy to forsake leisure and pleasures as one may think.
So if you do exercise such control you should give yourself some credit, and a degree of forgiveness to yourself for being human, rather than superhuman.
Imo
I found that with practice I was able to become quite indifferent to pain.
I wanted to start a meditation practice, but I have frequent migraines, and they were always a hindrance to a meditative state(or so I thought).
Anyway, one day I decided to try and make my migraine pain the object of my meditation.
It's very difficult to verbalize how this works. It sounds counter intuitive, but it really works. I started focusing in on the pain, and just tried to experience it as just a sensation, but not labeling it as "pain".
So every migraine I would just sit back and "sink" into the sensation. After a month of this I realized that although I didn't have less migraines, they didn't register as a painful thing.....merely only as a sensation.
Anyway, I don't know if this us related to the topic, or if anyone else here has had a similar experience?
1. Many people learning stoicism don’t realize that stoicism is mostly involves journaling
2. Role of philosophy is greatly undermined in spreading knowledge
I first learned about Stoicism in 1963 in an introductory Philosophy course. I have put 3 of the cardinal virtues of Stoicism on my side of our tombstone (happily married 53+ years with kids and grandkids). The virtues are: pietas (moral duty), dignitas (honourable behaviour and self-worth), and gravitas (appropriate self-control). These are aspirations to live by. I have found that a pragmatic and modern contextual understanding of the Enchiridion works for me. Jordan Peterson's messages are in essence pragmatic Stoicism, I believe.
What about Logos? Pietas, Dignitas, and Gravitas are essentially nonexistent without Logos.
I love that the stoic principles are on your grave marker. For those of us who enjoy a stroll through a graveyard and for the generations to come that might study us in the future, it's important for them to read such things in order to keep philosophy alive.
Patrick G. Hi
There are several philosophic approaches that in fact I practice and here Stoicism is explained beautifully. Thanks TEDx ❤
The part about "saving energy" and not wasting time and emotion on that which is not under our control speaks to me. The
whole concept of stoicism reminds me of "existentialism" which Jean Paul Sartre held to in the main message of his
writings.... do your best, what you feel is right and don't focus on the result.
thanks for uploading!
Its Bhagavad Gita.
@@manukrishnasadhak1320 true ! Same kind of thing there too .
Existentialism is my favorite philosophy stoicism is my very close second
Yikes, don't think about results? Sounds kind of the opposite of Stoicism! Am I misunderstanding...?
@@jht3fougifh393 stoicism, as I understand, establishes that moral value is found only in one’s decision to act; the thing upon which the act is made has no moral value so it is not worth the stoic’s concern beyond simply knowing its practical impact and whether it may be a preferred indifferent.
This speaker literally put the audience into a state of stoicism.
My interest I'm Greek philosophy is recent. I find stoicism easy to understand and also practical . It reminds of some of the teachings of lord Buddha.
And sir,you have explained it very well. Thank you very much
"You don't attach your self-esteem to the outcome. You only attach it to what's under your control, your attempt.”
This is under rated
Indifferent of the rating it got.
This is amazing
I'm a practicing stoic. Saved my life🙂
one of the rare TED lecture that i find good
GREAT presentation, & topic. Q - Have there been any TED talks re: the AXIAL age, & history's 900 years of GRECO-Buddhism? Stoicism figures prominently.
makes for a stress free life to live and think this way
I love this. I often say to my daughter, all I expect of you in life is to try your best and be kind/nice.
Absolutely! Teaching kindness and the importance of doing your best shapes character and resilience. It’s so essential for personal growth. I explore similar themes on my channel, emphasizing positivity and self-improvement. Your approach is inspiring, and I’d love to share more uplifting content with you!
I am very greatfull to all the hardship i faced,it introduce me to stoicism philosphy.
So am I, brother. We may not choose what happens to us in life - but it is in our power to try to understand our surroundings, the people closest to us, how and why we think the way we do - and ultimately become the best version of ourselves.
One of the underrated talks I guess. He told so many things but, as said, it our choice whether we take/apply it or not.
I came across "Stoicism" while studying Greek Philosophy and reading about Marcus Aurelius. This presentation highlights the origins and adds to the modern practical aspects of the philosophy. Thanks Tedx Athens..
I appreciate how straightforward your tutorials are.
I am thoroughly enjoying his book "How to be a Stoic." I am very drawn to Stoicism and Taoism.
Emotions are the best compass for understanding personhood: our trauma and unmet needs especially. Ignoring, rejecting or minimising emotions or believing they are unhelpful or unwanted are misding huge parts of what make us full beings having a human experience.
After having lived a significant part of my life through stoicism, I am starting to realise one needs both emotions and stoicism in different combinations at different times, depending on the individual.
Neither one is enough.
Excellent talk - I love MP's approach and his way of explaining stoicism - really superb.
Prof. Pigliucci I'm Brazilian and I thought your talk was great. Congratulations!!!
6:15 got real interesting. "If I die later, I'll take a lunch now."
13:36 this is where, in my opinion, Buddhism trumps all other ways because it tells you that *you do* have control over your emotions, and it has the best guide to controlling them IN ADDITION to having tons of philosophy covered by Stoicism and Taoism
John Wooden, the great NCAA basketball coach and author of the Pyramid of Success, summed it up this way: "Success is peace of mind, which is a direct result of self-satisfaction, in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming."
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Simply live a life of conscience. Be happy, live, and love. Remember, always do your best,you can do no more
Super nice break down of stoicism. It's a nice video to start like my morning. You cant control life, but when you give up that is your fault.
I felt bad when they didnt laugh at his jokes
Don't feel bad, a speaker can't control whether or not his audience laughs at his jokes. As a stoic, he does not attach his self-esteem to the outcome, he only attaches it to what's under his control: his attempt. 😉
It’s because the microphone is not recording the audience
I'm sure it couldn't have bothered him haha
He's a stoic he doesn't care
Lucky Luke yeah but u hear them clap at the end
💚How much I love Philosophy. 💚 I hope to cross paths with so many philosophers across the world. 💚
Over the last few years I've come to some of this on my own, and it has been quite effective. I'm looking forward to delving more into Stoicism.
Stoicism helps attain a clarity of thought, through the darkest times that one will endure through life.
Pain is inevitable suffering is choice
Thought this would be a pessimistic worldview that would trigger my existential paranoia…was pleasantly surprised by the calm optimism of the speaker. Thank you for a lovely talk, Mr. Pigliucci!
It seems like the saying of Bagavad Gita- you do your best work don't worry about the outcome.. and the other is middle path suggested by Budhha don't donthing in extreames choose middle path
WOW...one of the best TED Talks ever....
Having a very Southern-US evangelical Christian upbringing, I can't resist the urge to say "amen!" or "Preach it" when I hear philosophy speak to my soul like this. It almost feels that we are brainwashed to overvalue extrinsic values (money, status, appearance, etc) instead of intrinsic values (time, enjoyment, and personal interests, etc). More people are learning the enormous value of philosophy as it becomes more relevant: We feel increasingly invisible. Many of us feel led to believe that, as individuals, we don't matter in this world and that life is pointless but that is wrong (if you think it). I hope for a day that we practically have "philosophy churches:" This stuff changes lives, hearts, and minds just as religions and it is needed today more than ever. The texts from the great philosophers are not put forth as "Divine truth" like holy books but their merit is self-evident: They can't receive tithes because philosophers are honest and would be repulsed by the idea lol. Also, Philosophy Rules.
Thank you Massimo for this great presentation and what a great presentation it is. Absolutely one step at a time.
Stoicism has been taught in Hindu Vedanta. I am surprised at the striking resemblance.
Anurag Adhikari Could you please list out a few resemblances. I don’t know much about Hinduism in general.
Perform action, but do not be attached to the results.
Treat victory and disaster as the same.
Both are themes mentioned in the Bhagavat Gita, which is one is the principal texts of Advaita Vedanta
At that time (around 300 BC) there had been many cultural exchanges between indian and greek civilisations following the conquest of parts of India by Alexander the Great few decades earlier. They likely influenced each other.
Everytime i felt bad about something I cannot control. I always go back to stoicism quotes and to Stoic Philosophers. This video is a must to watch.Thank you for sharing this video
Correction: Spider-man didn’t say “With great power comes great responsibility” ; It was Uncle Ben & Aunt May.
Voltaire: Les Représentans du peuple se rendront à leur destination, investis de la plus haute confiance et de pouvoirs illimités. Ils vont déployer un grand caractère. Ils doivent envisager qu’une grande responsabilité est la suite inséparable d’un grand pouvoir. Ce sera à leur énergie, à leur courage, et sur-tout à leur prudence, qu’ils devront leur succès et leur gloire.
Here’s one possible translation into English:
The people’s representatives will reach their destination, invested with the highest confidence and unlimited power. They will show great character. They must consider that great responsibility follows inseparably from great power. To their energy, to their courage, and above all to their prudence, they shall owe their success and their glory.
Luke 12:48.
From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded; and from the one who has been entrusted with much, much more will be asked.
For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required: and to whom men have committed much, of him they will ask the more.
It was Marcus araliuse
Said that
I think I totally got the point from this talk, so what equipment/gear should I buy first for being Spider Man?
I like stoicism, it’s very useful for every day things. Stoicism is very grounding. It reminds me of the techniques therapists teach to help people with anxiety
This video changed my life.
Modern stoicism owes Dr Piglucci so much. This was a very good talk. I advise you to read his large scholarship on stoicism
I think the hard thing is when you look at something no longer under your control, that was, and is out of your control due to your actions.
Then perhaps it is something that was never truly under your control to begin with. Applying essential stoic philosophy, I can't think of a single example of what you are talking about, to be honest.
you only have control over your reason and higher-thinking, until, of course, some virus doesn't take it that from you either. Probably everything else is not under your control.
@@friendli29 I have a potential example. I say potential as I'm unsure wether or not its fitting. I have my xmas tests in 3 days. I have 3 months worth of work in 7 subjects to have revised over in preperation for these tests. I haven't started yet. So even right now getting excellent results is impossible. But it was possible in the weeks leading up to it. So it went from under my control to the point where, If I went for good grades, its now out of my control. Maybe thats an example? Or another thing could be you started an unstoppable self destruct sequence.
@@Karl-pu5cn That means you should have worried about it while you could change it. In the moment you lost control than your stoic mind will clear it out of your head.
He is talking abt pussies
I feel like everything I have ever experienced and intuitively learned throughout my life in 30 years have been summed up in this video
Learned Stoicism, how it's pronounced, and all, in less than 20 mins.. thanks😀
Stoicism requires learning, logic and intelligence! And discipline.....
Brilliant lecture: succinct and superbly delivered! Thank you very much, Massimo.
I often reflect on my life. The things that I have done and the people that I know. Who I thought I was and how I have been towards others. Then I find this talk and Eureka! This is me! Yes this is how I am. To finally settle at the end of the day with a nice thought given to me through Massimo’s talk that explains my philosophy and life. Yes, fundamentally, I am a stoic man. And am happy to know this is a good thing. Thank you 😊
It's been a long time since I died, but fate still makes me talk.
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Best talk ever on the Stoa
To learn true stoicism watch a dog. I rescue dogs, and let me tell you, their calm and brute attitude is often learned from enduring hardship we can only vaguely imagine. Kindness is oft seen as weakness. Foes dominate and bludgeon the weak; strength can opine power. If you want to survive, show strength, whether you have it or not.
I love how you present information in an engaging way!
18:01 "We wear a number of masks, and we change them continuously."
18:16 "And the idea is that a happy life is, in fact, a life well balanced, where you play all these roles as the best actor you can possibly be."
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Great. Clear explanation of Stoicism