alsooo i wanna make a disclaimer that you shouldn't idolize the idea of a relationship or marriage! at the end of the day everything is all in God's timing and ultimately you have to leave it up to Him. do your best to date well and keep praying that He sends you that special someone
The main issue I find is that many catholics (or Christians in general) aren't willing to wait until marriage. Especially in Spain where this concept is unheard of. But I'll pray and trust God's plan🙏
That’s why is very important communication matters, in my case I live in the USA and I’m waiting until marriage and the majority of my friends are waiting until marriage as well. It depends on the person
Good luck with finding a man that’s going to wait for marriage. Not sure if yall realize this but men are checking out of the marriage deal, there’s just no benefit to it anymore for us men.
Thank you so much Isabella! Just a little question: What about women’s preferences between short men and tall men? Is that really important? 🥲 I’m short 🤣.
Some women don’t like it, some women don’t mind. Everyone has preferences and that’s ok. Don’t let it hold you back, you have plenty of others reasons a lady will like you. And don’t listen to the majority, it’s just about finding 1, out of billions, that accepts you
I will answer very frankly, as a woman, I think we can all agree that masculinity, both physical, emotional, and spiritual, is everything and it doesn't matter if you are short or not... (I've felt more safe and attracted to one short men in particular because he made me feel safe and secure, because he is a very masculine men, and I've also been on the situation that a tall men doesn't make me feel safe, he doesn't make me feel like I can put my mind on plane mode for a long time, because he is immature and not masculine.... ) NOTE: please be patient with me, English isn't my first language
I do have a preference for tall men, but not that serious. I’d say really depends on each lady. I find tall men attractive but back then when I dated my ex who was almost the same height as me (I’m not even that tall, just a typical Asian lady), I was surprised by how our compatibility and his kindness and other characters outweigh the height most of the time. I did pay attention to that sometimes, but 98% of the time I didn’t even think about it. We broke up bc of the circumstances and I thought it wasn’t God’s timing, but it clearly was a respectful relationship and height didn’t matter Apart from that, I’ve seen so many tall women together with shorter men in Western countries (my experience im Middle East & Germany) - I’d say it’s much more common than in Asia
i would say that height shouldn't matter as much as personality does! it's okay to have preferences but it becomes harmful if women decide not to date a man solely because of his height. we should be willing to give people a chance and focus on that person's virtue and personality rather than physical traits that are out of their control :)
alsooo i wanna make a disclaimer that you shouldn't idolize the idea of a relationship or marriage! at the end of the day everything is all in God's timing and ultimately you have to leave it up to Him. do your best to date well and keep praying that He sends you that special someone
Yes love this
thank you queen
The main issue I find is that many catholics (or Christians in general) aren't willing to wait until marriage. Especially in Spain where this concept is unheard of. But I'll pray and trust God's plan🙏
Same in France, Germany etc.. except in traditional parishes!
That’s why is very important communication matters, in my case I live in the USA and I’m waiting until marriage and the majority of my friends are waiting until marriage as well. It depends on the person
I'm from Spain too. It's very hard to find commitment.
it may feel like it's hard to find, but i promise there are good christians out there who are waiting! all in God's timing 🙏
Yay you posted! I love your channel it’s super helpful ❤
Interesting video! Would be nice if we had male catholic dating advice 😂
soon !!
Good luck with finding a man that’s going to wait for marriage. Not sure if yall realize this but men are checking out of the marriage deal, there’s just no benefit to it anymore for us men.
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Thank you so much Isabella! Just a little question: What about women’s preferences between short men and tall men? Is that really important? 🥲
I’m short 🤣.
Some women don’t like it, some women don’t mind. Everyone has preferences and that’s ok. Don’t let it hold you back, you have plenty of others reasons a lady will like you. And don’t listen to the majority, it’s just about finding 1, out of billions, that accepts you
I will answer very frankly, as a woman, I think we can all agree that masculinity, both physical, emotional, and spiritual, is everything and it doesn't matter if you are short or not... (I've felt more safe and attracted to one short men in particular because he made me feel safe and secure, because he is a very masculine men, and I've also been on the situation that a tall men doesn't make me feel safe, he doesn't make me feel like I can put my mind on plane mode for a long time, because he is immature and not masculine.... )
NOTE: please be patient with me, English isn't my first language
I do have a preference for tall men, but not that serious. I’d say really depends on each lady.
I find tall men attractive but back then when I dated my ex who was almost the same height as me (I’m not even that tall, just a typical Asian lady), I was surprised by how our compatibility and his kindness and other characters outweigh the height most of the time. I did pay attention to that sometimes, but 98% of the time I didn’t even think about it. We broke up bc of the circumstances and I thought it wasn’t God’s timing, but it clearly was a respectful relationship and height didn’t matter
Apart from that, I’ve seen so many tall women together with shorter men in Western countries (my experience im Middle East & Germany) - I’d say it’s much more common than in Asia
i would say that height shouldn't matter as much as personality does! it's okay to have preferences but it becomes harmful if women decide not to date a man solely because of his height. we should be willing to give people a chance and focus on that person's virtue and personality rather than physical traits that are out of their control :)